Are BBL's and Plastic Surgery Going Out of Style?
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1 hour and 33 minutes
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Summary
In this episode we discuss if BBLs are out of style in the 21st century. We have Dom Looker, an independent journalist, Alex Wolf, a model, dancer, and author, and Jayne Levine, a porn star.
Transcript
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We got with us Dom Looker, independent journalist.
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So, guys, today's topic is going to be something pretty ongoing right now.
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And the topic is basically, are BBLs out of style?
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And it's crazy because in Miami, it's an epidemic because everybody I know has a BBL or two.
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But, Dom, in your opinion, bro, we'll start with you.
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I like a little—I mean, I like the BBL, but I don't like when it's too, too thick.
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And I think the natural style is coming back in, especially with, like, the younger generation.
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You'll only see, really, BBLs with millennials is what I'm saying.
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Like, people that's their 30s and 40s, et cetera, bro.
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These younger bitches, like 20s and under, they're not really going with BBL.
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That's what they said about the Cardi B and Stephon Diggs.
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didn't see it you know what i mean i thought it was the good pussy juice you know sometimes got a little this nigga wild bro what sometimes you just push through i mean i haven't experienced it okay what about you baby's is it a thing is it going out of style what do you think i i wouldn't say they're going out of style but i would agree that like maybe younger people are not getting them as aggressively as they were maybe five or ten years ago they just show that Gen Z is like drinking less than any adult generation in American like human history.
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They understand that, but they ass in the house taking pills and all type of other shit.
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But yeah, I mean, drinking was always like a bad thing.
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Nigga, it takes about seven years to stack it up, but we're going to stack it.
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Because you are seeing it's a little bit off a little bit.
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And when I saw them in person for the first time when I got back to Miami, I was like, I can see why they're going out of style.
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But in your industry, is that like a thing where it makes you get more views, get more people to you?
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You definitely get like more, like, you look more like a porn star if you have your boobs done and your ass done.
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But that means I have like my own niche, I feel like, almost.
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So it looks like I'm with the trend right now that's out of style.
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Listen, you got to look at it like this, right?
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Because all the famous women who started the BBL trend is getting the BBLs taken out.
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When poor people could do something, it's out of style.
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Listen, listen, all the stars have been getting the BBL reductions like three, four years ago.
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So when the poor people and all regular people get it, it's out of style.
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Of course, BBL is going to save some lives, but as far as just thinking, I done got many BBLs ever women.
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Unless they're talking about right after it happened, last residue or something healing or something.
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It might be that action, but not when it's fully healed and you're enjoying the pleasures.
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We can't act like BBL ain't saved some women's lives.
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If they do it the right way, they got their mental in order, their physical match.
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I don't know anyone that's experienced that now.
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I think people just trolling on the internet, which is, you know, that happens sometimes.
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But at the same time, I'm happy that it is a trend of it going back natural because that promotes health.
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That promotes mental health too, you know, physical and mentally.
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Yo, for niggas in the chat saying it stinks, please give me an actual example where you've been in a situation where it smells because I have not been and I've been through quite a few.
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Okay, share the mic with Dom if you don't put that one down, Dom.
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So listen, we got a video to play here, but a doctor that's saying that there is something to do with smell and BBLs.
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Now, whether it's true or not, we're going to find out from the doctor.
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He's verified, and honestly speaking, man, he knows more than us.
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He's describing in a nutshell how scientifically and medically BBLs can stink.
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So this took us a while to dig through some videos.
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So this took us a while to dig through some videos on TikTok and Instagram.
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The lady said her BBL stinks and that her sit-down air smells.
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You ever had broccoli sitting up for like two days and you'd be like, like, that's the perfect way I can explain it.
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So if you get your butt overfilled with fat during a BBL, the body can only supply so much fat with blood.
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So in order to survive and have that fat survive forever, the body needs to supply it with a blood supply.
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So when there's too much fat for the body to give it blood, then that fat will die.
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This could even result in a huge infection that would require antibiotics or even hospitalization.
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So what I'm confused about, why is the two references two bitches that's never been around a BBL in their life?
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Like they had this big, huge, behemoth white dude.
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Who here has set up broccoli for two days straight?
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Are going to take this one and put that one down?
00:25:53.000
So, so, so, Dom, from your experience, right, bro?
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Quite frankly, bro, I don't know if you said, it depends on the girl, but like, bro, I've never.
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the two people that were the references were two bitches that's never been around a BBL in their life.
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Like, look at the white woman and a black woman, bro.
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There's no way they've been around that lifestyle, bro.
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That's the people, like you said, that's the people hating on the shit.
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So I have a question for young leader right here.
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Why would you get a BBL if you were to get one?
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I think that a lot of women, depending on what route they're going in life, they see a BBL, they see cosmetic augmentations as a way to secure some kind of financial backing.
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And I don't think they're wrong or crazy to believe that.
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Like we were saying earlier, like porn star strippers, they find that they actually make more money if they invest in those types of augmentations.
00:27:13.000
So I know a girl that came to Miami, but no BBL.
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She's gotten trips, rent paid for, and as well, a new Mercedes.
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So sometimes I'm kind of like, BBLs are dangerous, but if you survive, it's worth the risk for some of these girls.
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Especially if you combine selling pussy with it.
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If you're just getting a BBL and you keeping it cold, you're working that goddamn Publix bags of groceries, it ain't going to benefit you.
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Now I can go ahead and get, you know, return on this investment by selling it.
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Then of course you'll get Mercedes and drips and all that shit for sure.
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You invest in yourself, you're going to get results.
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You're not going to act like if a woman with a long back walked in front of you, got a BBL, you're going to talk to her before you ain't going to talk to her.
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So we can't act like, and I'm an ass man myself.
00:28:21.000
Listen, you could have had a prettiest face, but if you ain't got no ass, it's going to be like, it's going to be hard to get me going.
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So you're not going to sit up here acting like it don't matter to you.
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So we can't be mad at it because we know what you're doing.
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As long as they do it with the right intentions and they know to maintain it and maintain themselves.
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Bitches got to count their micros and all that.
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So I was kind of curious myself about, okay, let's say I do get wiped up, right, with somebody that I care about.
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And I weighed the pros and the cons, the good and the bad.
00:29:09.000
Because the attention that she gets, just going outside, the offers she's going to get, bro, I mean, she might get it anyway without BBL, but like, it's even more so.
00:29:21.000
It's kind of like, all right, bro, I had this shit.
00:29:29.000
So first, like, how bad would you want your wife to be, though?
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Like, would you still be attracted to BBLs if you have your wife not to get one?
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You go to the gym, someone got a BBL, would you be like, damn, I wish I would have got mine.
00:29:43.000
You rent it for a little bit and then take it back.
00:29:49.000
Yeah, especially, once again, they got to be attached to the right person.
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Because the right person got that motherfucker.
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They're a beautiful soul and they put their shit on the right way.
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Because some women, they could go to the gym all day.
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Especially like, you know, one of my favorite women is Asian women.
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They got a lineage of goddamn know how to take care of men.
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So where she's raised and how she's culturally integrated helps with the ass deficit.
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You never know how a woman gonna act till she gets turned up.
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You think she's right, but she ain't never had no ass before.
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So you taking the risk of ruining this good woman.
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You said they got many BPLs, so they don't switch.
00:31:13.000
So we did a show, me, you, and Dom, like on Tuesday about how women's loyalty is for rent.
00:31:20.000
Basically, like, it's for a period of time, like, for lease.
00:31:25.000
Go in with your intentions up and understand what you're getting out of it.
00:31:28.000
Don't go in there trying to give all your love and thank you, goddamn Prince Charming and shit.
00:31:32.000
She's gonna turn a cinderella that's gonna be a bit more.
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She probably put that shit down with her woods.
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Give me your first impression when you see a girl with a BBL.
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First impression when I see a woman with a BBL?
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But if it looks good, she's working out, then you know what?
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You know, I ain't going to knock her just because she got it.
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She's probably, like, similar to me, I feel like.
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First thing I think is, I'll be like insecure, mental problems.
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So if it's a white girl with a BBL, you already know it.
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She's white with a BBL, got her ass blew up for a nigga to look at it.
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And then, of course, you know, I could be wrong, but that's my initial.
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What about your first impression when you meet somebody with BBL?
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I mean, when I think of women, when I see that, especially Miami, I just feel like, I don't know, she's probably a cool girl.
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If you were a guy, just put yourself in a guy's shoes for me one hour.
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If I was a guy, I would think that I want to have sex with this girl.
00:33:40.000
The first thing I think that she has an investor, because I've never really met a woman that got the BBL done herself.
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It does happen, you know, OnlyFans, mainly, you know, foreign stars, they can do their own BBLs and strippers, but most of the time someone has paid for it.
00:33:52.000
And then so I'm very careful with my words because I know that she's used to the lifestyle, used to niggas like that, and can pillow talk and tell my business to other people.
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I'm not going to, like, the red flags don't mean shit.
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Like, a woman without a BBL, they got a natural body, they can catch me slipping a whole lot easier because I probably got my guard down a little bit more because I think they mindset different.
00:34:23.000
So to your point, Dom, so when I see BBL, I see someone that wants attention first.
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But secondly, they want to have a better lifestyle.
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So if I'm not going to be able to provide that as a guy, I'm like, all right, well, shit, if I can smash, great, but it's not going to be long term anyway.
00:34:38.000
So to me, it's kind of like a sign of, okay, she wants better in her life, way better, and she's willing to change her body for it.
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But if you're willing to do that, what are you willing to do to become better in life?
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Because not only did you, you know what I'm saying, you did that to better your life, but you risked your life.
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And you went through the most diverse surgery for this shit.
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You put to sleep and you got to not lay on your ass for goddamn weeks and all that shit.
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Any cosmetic surgery, but that is one of the most evasive ones is BBLs and tummy tucks and shit like that.
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The other bitch that got them bullet hole ass belly buttons and shit like that shit.
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So it's very dangerous, but once again, that's what I'm saying.
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Like, this bitch almost died for a fat ass, so I can look at it so I can fuck her.
00:35:31.000
Wouldn't you, don't guys risk their life all the time to improve their lives?
00:35:35.000
Like, we all agreed here that women do that to, you know, try to advance financially or in their lifestyle.
00:35:45.000
Yeah, give me a way that you think a guy risking his life.
00:35:47.000
Yeah, well, isn't it the whole premise of like men, you know, trying to like elevate or become better versions of themselves is risking it all, being willing to put anything on the lot?
00:36:07.000
Yeah, you're just adding meat to your shithole.
00:36:14.000
Most women just doing it check the fat out they sell.
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I mean, whatever your assumption is, you can continue going.
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But there's a reason why you didn't do it, right?
00:36:38.000
No, it's not that I want to do it, but I understand why women do it.
00:36:47.000
I feel like women have tremendous pressure to look a certain way.
00:36:51.000
Like, the thing is, men and women tend to have different agendas.
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Not all women are looking to be wiped up, just like you said.
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And through six of y'all, we're able to attain.
00:37:12.000
The point is, it depends on what game you're playing.
00:37:14.000
And I understand it's a controversial chess piece, but it's a chess piece nonetheless.
00:37:26.000
Let's say a guy wants to find a girl that's going to be good for him and his family.
00:37:36.000
I don't think that makes a difference in whether she's going to be a good mother or wife.
00:37:41.000
Your BBL friends are girls that you know, are they happy?
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Are they actually like genuinely with a guy they care about that loves them and wants to have kids with them?
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Or is it kind of like you have fun, they thought around and like being happy and having a guy who wants to have kids with them are two different things.
00:37:56.000
Okay, so and again, some of them are happy, some of them are not, but I don't think what makes the difference is whether or not they have the BBL.
00:38:04.000
I mean, overall though, like overall your friends with BBLs, are they happy in a real relationship?
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In the long term, they're thinking about it damaged.
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Because obviously, you know, people in the industry that are kind of like in that world.
00:38:27.000
Well, I feel like, honestly, a girl who gets, since I, I don't have a BBL, but I feel like, I do want my boobs done.
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And I feel like I want it for like the similar reasons.
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Like, I don't see how it would hurt a marriage if like I'm making a man feel like more attracted to me because I'm getting something done.
00:38:44.000
Right, because the issue is the women who don't get the BBL often deal with men looking at women who have had those cosmetic augmentations.
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So that's the type of pressure where it's like, okay, if I'm a woman and I want to keep my family unit intact and I see that my guy is looking at women who have had these cosmetic augmentations, maybe the way I seal this unit is by being that visual aesthetic for him so he doesn't look outside.
00:39:10.000
It doesn't always work, but that's part of this pressure.
00:39:13.000
It's not all vanity, some of it is to protect your financial and family security.
00:39:18.000
Again, I get what you're saying, but they're looking at them to smash.
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You said earlier, hey, if you're a guy, you saw her, what would you do?
00:39:24.000
But that still creates a liability in your family.
00:39:26.000
If there's a husband and a wife and he's smashing women, that creates a liability for her and the children, correct?
00:39:38.000
But she most likely didn't walk into the marriage under the agreement that he would be smashing the children.
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Which I think is fine as long as it's all communicated and consensual.
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But what I see is that like wives who've walked into marriages thinking like my guy is not going to smash other women outside the marriage, you know, they get disappointed when that happens.
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If you get to the situation and you tell that woman, I'm going to be faithful to just you, then you should honor your commitment.
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And if she gets upset, she has every right to do something.
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That's why she's going to a situation doing that.
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If you love bumming a bitch and all that shit, and you gashing her up and doing all this, and you playing with her heart, whatever she gives, you deserve, nigga.
00:40:58.000
As men, they fighting against their nature, though, bro.
00:41:00.000
It wasn't really until Europe that we start marrying one woman, especially for melanated niggas.
00:41:04.000
Like, there's not one system where you have one wife, bro, except Europe, when we got dominated and they controlled us through colonization.
00:41:13.000
You can't find anywhere in the animal kingdom when the king of the jungle, that nigga get every bitch.
00:41:18.000
If you're a top-level predator, apex predator-like nigga, like beast.
00:41:24.000
So my great-great-great-grandpa had to be a cold motherfucker still, right?
00:41:27.000
That DNA travels still to this nigga today, six, six, and easy and all this shit.
00:41:34.000
Now, if you was that bred of nigga, they took you to a house of all the bitches, you fucked them all.
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If you was a tall, good-looking, strong motherfucker, oh, we get to fuck you tonight.
00:41:59.000
But in America, if you was that motherfucking top-level nigga, you fucked all the bitches to make all the kids.
00:42:07.000
I'm not supposed to get it out of my system now.
00:42:10.000
And I agree that women were the ones to select the ones that could provide for the community and said, okay, we will procreate with you because you proved yourself as a provider to create some stability in our lifestyles.
00:42:23.000
My thing is people are saying, God don't make mistakes, but why does he have the woman to where she can only get pregnant once throughout nine months?
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And we are able to impregnate 100 women in that same amount of time.
00:42:36.000
I mean, we can force ourselves, but I can't really fall in.
00:42:39.000
It's just that it's the, I think the issue is, like you said, if communication.
00:42:43.000
Make sure when she's walking into that, she knows that.
00:42:53.000
We tell you the truth, we're going to leave anyway.
00:42:54.000
So it's kind of like, just keep it to ourselves.
00:43:00.000
It is, because if we stop doing what you want us to do, you're gone.
00:43:04.000
So honestly, it's on how you feel about us as men.
00:43:14.000
There's no reason to leave because you eating your cake.
00:43:30.000
I had to beat these white men and all this shit.
00:43:45.000
So, biggest turnoff and why you're still single.
00:43:51.000
Well, at this point, it's just like, you know, the same shit.
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Gold digging and people that's looking for clout.
00:43:55.000
It's a lot of women, either if they're influencers, like Myron say, you don't really want to talk to influencers, but you run into a lot of women that might not even be what they own, but they get inspired by you.
00:44:03.000
Because a woman, their job is if they don't really have shit emotion, they're going to imitate their man.
00:44:10.000
They're trying to make money, how you make money.
00:44:11.000
And once they get to that influencer mindset, the Hollywood mindset, it just don't work.
00:44:15.000
So I'm just really trying to find a balance of, do I want a model?
00:44:21.000
It's like, I don't really know what's perfect, bro, at this point.
00:44:38.000
Turnoffs of like why I'm choosing to be single.
00:44:44.000
I think that social media has created this environment where we're all afraid of having a real connection.
00:44:50.000
And so we're just using these transactional chess pieces.
00:44:57.000
And what's missing is the emotional vulnerability.
00:44:59.000
And that's actually what creates the connection.
00:45:01.000
So for me, it's like, yeah, you know, you can meet people, but I don't feel like people are really equipped to actually have a heart-to-heart connection with each other.
00:45:22.000
I filter and vet my bitches out thoroughly before I ever put them in that predicament.
00:45:28.000
I mean, it was straight under it was understanding for one.
00:45:33.000
Of course, submissiveness, having her own situation, giving me full respect, loyalty, battle-tested, And also, let me be free, let me be me.
00:45:43.000
I need to be free, do whatever the fuck I want when I won't, say what I want.
00:45:47.000
Don't worry about nothing, but you're signing up for that.
00:45:52.000
Let's say you meet someone like Mr. Organic, six foot six, in shape, got everything, cars, jewelry, licensure with a girl.
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Because I don't like to get that off the plate.
00:46:19.000
And he says to you, listen, I fuck with you, heavy.
00:46:23.000
But every now and then, I'm going to do my thing.
00:46:31.000
First of all, first of all, what is your thing?
00:46:37.000
Because in the first place, You know what you're laughing?
00:46:42.000
Because in the first place, you didn't want to do that anyway.
00:47:00.000
When you're a boyfriend, boyfriend, husband, let's say that's your guy.
00:47:08.000
If I'm in a monogamous relationship where both of us are monogamous, no.
00:47:12.000
No, no, by the way, naturally speaking, from you just being with him, do you want other men?
00:47:30.000
And let me sprinkle this on there because I love when women say that, right?
00:47:34.000
And we got guys here, we got women here, so we want to get some understanding.
00:47:45.000
Women, you're not going to nut with every guy you fuck.
00:47:52.000
Listen, you don't know what type of dick he got.
00:47:53.000
You don't know how he's like, eat that pussy, talk to you while he's in it, the positions you like.
00:47:58.000
You're playing Russian roulette with your pussy every single time.
00:48:03.000
So that's why we could be like, I ain't going to fuck her.
00:48:06.000
You don't be out there playing around and trying to test some shit out.
00:48:10.000
You ruined your whole fucking life trying to fuck this goo ball.
00:48:13.000
When I know I'm getting my rocks off and come home.
00:48:15.000
And on top of that, that's why y'all need a connection to even try to get off.
00:48:30.000
You got to do this to me because you turn me to the side.
00:48:38.000
So you're telling me you got a boyfriend or a man.
00:48:44.000
If I have a boyfriend and we have agreed to be monogamous, I will not.
00:48:51.000
Let's say he didn't talk to you about being monogamous.
00:49:14.000
I agree that women have to work a little harder to find pleasure.
00:49:28.000
Like, you don't want to do that because you don't know.
00:49:34.000
But I think one of the issues that men don't understand about women's pleasure and women's sexuality is that it's not always about this climax.
00:49:43.000
There's a lot of satisfaction that can happen without necessarily having the climax.
00:49:56.000
So, well, men come, like, men could turn dawn and fuck because of what they see.
00:50:14.000
Unless all my needs are met, I would not be monogamous.
00:50:17.000
Yeah, if your knees would be fuck what I want, right?
00:50:23.000
I asked, it's historianic, someone in your stature, would you want to go out in front of other men?
00:50:47.000
There's a lot of women who are in monogamous relationships who are not sexually satisfied.
00:51:35.000
It's a very common phenomenon for women to feel like that the man is not in tune with her body in that environment.
00:51:44.000
So, you know, we tried to work on it and, you know, it just didn't work.
00:51:52.000
If a woman can't give me good head, I'll still be shy.
00:52:05.000
It's not true because it depends on the maturity of the man, right?
00:52:11.000
It wasn't like, it wasn't like, it wasn't like, it wasn't like I was like, okay, I'm unsatisfied.
00:52:17.000
And he was like, well, I'm not willing to do anything about that.
00:52:37.000
This is her man, and he still couldn't get her off.
00:52:39.000
So imagine a random nigga you trying to fucking keep up with me because I can fuck anyone.
00:52:46.000
You don't want to be able to be out here and let a nigga play with your pussy like that.
00:52:52.000
So the issue is, in my opinion, he was too insecure and immature to be, you know, to be like, all right, let's work on it.
00:52:58.000
Because I think if you're in a relationship and someone, if he had communicated to me, hey, I like this and I want this.
00:53:11.000
If you, okay, you know, you know, mom is a very loyal.
00:53:16.000
If you're worth the squeeze, I'm going to figure it out.
00:53:29.000
You know, I think another thing that a lot of women are trained to do is kind of like fake it.
00:53:34.000
So in the beginning, it was like, all right, well, you know, he was a good provider.
00:53:55.000
It's just that, you know, over time, over time, it's just like, okay.
00:53:59.000
It's not, again, I was willing to make it work.
00:54:08.000
He just called it four years, and because he wouldn't go slower, you let that nigga?
00:54:14.000
He walked away because I said I, you know, I would want to get it.
00:54:34.000
I've been independent since I was 18 years old.
00:54:47.000
Yeah, I don't think you want to ask that them niggas.
00:54:51.000
The point is that, you know, like, it was, I thought that I was one of those girls that was like, oh, well, I'm just grateful that, you know, he's such a great provider.
00:55:10.000
Well, people don't realize it or they don't want to admit it, but sex matters the most in a relationship.
00:55:14.000
It's the only thing that differentiates a friendship from a relationship.
00:55:18.000
And I do have a theory that if women acted like, if all women acted like porn stars, we wouldn't need porn stars.
00:55:26.000
I feel like if it's true, if everyone acted like a porn star, like you had that great, like, you know, porn sex, you wouldn't seek it out.
00:55:40.000
Are you breaking some of that OnlyFans money off with your man?
00:56:06.000
Because she tried to do the provider shit, but she's too old to accept this nigga with Jack Rapping her and shit.
00:56:19.000
And she realized, you know what I'm saying, over time, like I really want something I really like for real.
00:56:30.000
Well, I said that because most women go through that in their earlier ages.
00:56:33.000
And when they get older, we're like, damn, that shit don't work.
00:56:35.000
It would have succeeded had I kept abandoning my sexual needs.
00:56:54.000
When a woman really likes you, she gonna do whatever.
00:57:05.000
All right, at this point, if you're not doing this, nigga, I'm out of here.
00:57:11.000
I tried to like, you know, do what I tried to please my partner.
00:57:16.000
And I felt like the effort was not reciprocated because the entitlement of like, oh, I didn't like him enough.
00:57:30.000
But whoever your superstar man is, you the villain man.
00:57:51.000
Sound like he was standing on some shit, bitch.
00:57:53.000
Niggas said he ain't gonna stop jack rapping that pussy.
00:57:57.000
I'm jack rapping that shit in two seconds, bitch.
00:58:02.000
When a woman really like you, she gonna overlook small problems.
00:58:05.000
That would have been a small problem to a woman.
00:58:08.000
If your woman came to you and was like, baby, you know, I love our relationship.
00:58:14.000
But, you know, just in the bedroom, I would like to, you know, just slow things down a little bit.
00:58:21.000
So you're okay with her being not sexually satisfied?
00:58:24.000
She's always sexually satisfied because she really came to you telling you that.
00:58:29.000
If she really liked me, she's going to get turned off by me just touching her.
00:58:32.000
If I'm inside of her, if she really, really like me, she's going to get off.
00:58:56.000
So she left with the wall, and that's how she got into it.
00:59:13.000
It was the actual energy behind a point of what I was making earlier is that we turn shit into transactions.
00:59:20.000
Like, you know, we turn shit into what can you do for me?
00:59:28.000
From my experience, connection has to be there.
00:59:31.000
Once connection is there, money is like going to be the obviously amplifier.
00:59:35.000
And then, of course, the course of that relationship.
00:59:37.000
But if the connection is not there, it doesn't matter how much you spend, what you do for her.
00:59:43.000
Unless you just a real just robot staffer wife that don't give a fuck.
01:00:01.000
Also, let's break it down for them the connection.
01:00:04.000
All it means is that like she's willing to do for you what she won't do for others.
01:00:23.000
Versus having like, oh, I'm going to provide with you.
01:00:32.000
At least you got some integrity and realize, you know, I tried that out.
01:00:35.000
I realize I got to like somebody for real and really get a full compatible situation.
01:00:41.000
So when women sign up for a guy to be the provider, what did you leave with?
01:00:44.000
Did you come out with anything like your own business or something that you like, damn, this is what a provider does?
01:00:59.000
Yeah, no, he spent at least a quarter million on me.
01:01:05.000
I have my things that I could sell if I wanted to, liquidate.
01:01:09.000
But yeah, there were years of rent paid and all those things.
01:01:15.000
To be fair, I was an entrepreneur prior to him.
01:01:19.000
So again, it wasn't even my idea to trick the nigga out.
01:01:35.000
Like, I think that the wom, I think that the woman you guys are looking for are not necessarily the type of woman I am.
01:01:53.000
Even if you're taking care of everything monetarily, if I'm not, you know, fulfilled emotionally and sexually, that's, you know, the money is not enough.
01:02:05.000
Last show, we said, listen, women's loyalty is for rent and for lease.
01:02:08.000
Because if you stop doing something that she doesn't like and she ain't fucking with you like that, nigga, she's gone.
01:02:16.000
So if a guy is providing for you doing all that, what are you doing for him?
01:02:20.000
That's so special that providing for you is just not enough.
01:02:32.000
We did the thing where like, you know, I stopped working.
01:02:40.000
You guys to this day, the nigga will still say that.
01:02:42.000
But it's still, he wasn't willing to put, you know, my sexual needs first.
01:02:50.000
Bro, that means he, it was a fucking mad bitch anyway.
01:03:17.000
I mean, that's a funny way to look at the situation.
01:03:33.000
Yes, he left, but he left because he wasn't willing to make those changes in that dynamic.
01:03:38.000
And he would have stayed had I just been quiet about my needs.
01:03:42.000
Well, I think that men in general are supposed to be dominant.
01:03:48.000
So in the bedroom, I just get turned on just pleasing a man.
01:03:54.000
I just like, I get off just on making like them happy, as weird as that sounds.
01:04:00.000
And I mean that in like all aspects of my life.
01:04:02.000
So honestly, that's like what I think as, I think that's kind of how we were trained.
01:04:12.000
No, but I still, but I think that's the first time.
01:04:15.000
But I think that we are supposed to be this way as women.
01:04:19.000
But she's putting the man first in that moment.
01:04:21.000
I mean, your profession makes it kind of cooked.
01:04:30.000
And I think feminists and people like that make them think that we, like, girls deserve to come first or girls deserve everything first.
01:04:36.000
But actually, it's a man's world and men deserve everything first.
01:04:43.000
So biggest turn off, you covered that you got a girl already, so you're good?
01:04:47.000
Biggest turn off, in your opinion, that you've seen why you're single.
01:04:54.000
Well, I honestly get turned off by men because I feel like a lot of them get intimidated by me.
01:05:06.000
But they don't realize that I'm actually really submissive.
01:05:09.000
So I think people think I'm more alpha because of what I do and who I am.
01:05:14.000
But I'm actually really submissive and I listen.
01:05:17.000
But they actually intimidated because you do porn.
01:05:23.000
Yeah, yeah, that's hard for most guys, yeah, for sure.
01:05:26.000
But that's like not, it's like not me, the gospel.
01:05:33.000
I would just say they kind of like using kind of common sense.
01:05:39.000
You have to avoid, you were typically told to avoid women with high body counts, and like all of yours are on camera.
01:05:43.000
So it's like they're naturally going to have like a red flag come up.
01:05:47.000
Well, I have a high body count, but that means I have a lot of experience, which means I really know how to please a man.
01:06:01.000
Would you rather a good girl who can't do anything to please you, or would you rather a hard girl?
01:06:04.000
I'd rather a good girl that's willing to learn.
01:06:09.000
We're going to give some more organic facts about this fucking shit.
01:06:12.000
Once again, a man do majority of the fucking around this motherfucker, man.
01:06:17.000
If I got to bend you this way, stand up, get over there, I'm doing all the shit.
01:06:20.000
So you ain't doing, you suck a dick or something pretty good, but all the fucking part.
01:06:25.000
I got a not nothing two seconds like this nigga, her nigga was.
01:06:28.000
I got to maintain this stroke, do all these positions.
01:06:32.000
Round two and three when y'all just got to lay there and it's already honey potted up.
01:06:36.000
I got to wake this motherfucker back up, go to work again.
01:06:42.000
You're not the goddamn specialist in fucking weeds.
01:06:53.000
Like, you ain't had you bent up like motherfucking goddamn contortionist in this motherfucker, man.
01:07:06.000
Also, at a certain level where we're at, let's say you fuck a trick, right?
01:07:16.000
So the point is that fucking with us, you get benefit.
01:07:23.000
Isn't the whole point of y'all like working hard to make money to bust that nut?
01:07:33.000
First of all, first of all, you first of all, I'm getting a nut.
01:07:42.000
I'm trying to find me a good one, but y'all hoes everywhere, man.
01:07:46.000
Like I said, I think, you know, we're dealing with a generational issue right now with social media.
01:07:54.000
Like, everything you're saying, like, yes, okay, sure.
01:07:57.000
You want to say you're looking for a family, but at the same time, you're smashing bitches with the BBLs, six of them, or whatever you said.
01:08:05.000
But to say that a man's climax is nothing, like maybe one of them, but collectively, they obviously mean something because men are working hard to get them.
01:08:13.000
In the long scheme of things, for a man, where we're at, we can bust nuts all day.
01:08:19.000
But at the same time, for most men watching, it means a lot for them.
01:08:23.000
But the majority of men only have like four partners in their life.
01:08:26.000
So we got to factor in the normal human beings in this world.
01:08:35.000
But women ain't going for them, so we don't give a fuck about them niggas because women want these type of niggas who have the whole battlefield to feast them.
01:08:45.000
Do what you want until you can't do it no more.
01:08:47.000
The goal is really to be a king in your own world, man.
01:08:50.000
We all see the agency of being a king on this planet.
01:09:04.000
So the thing is, women also have, you know, our own needs and agendas.
01:09:09.000
So it's like, okay, you guys want to be kings of your world or whatever that means.
01:09:14.000
And so we have our own lives and our own needs and things that we need to take care of.
01:09:20.000
You're putting your needs as the same level as a man.
01:09:30.000
But at the same time, here's our dilemma, right?
01:09:36.000
We have a girl that's good, amazing, amazing wife, a mom, great.
01:09:47.000
You want a man with everything, but emotional intelligence, fucks you good, tall, successful, provider.
01:09:56.000
So it's kind of like we want two things at the same time, and you do as well.
01:10:01.000
However, to get that all in one person is almost impossible.
01:10:03.000
So that's the dilemma we have as men and women.
01:10:06.000
So why is it so crazy if a woman isn't trying to find all of that in one person and she's trying to find that in multiple?
01:10:20.000
So, yeah, that's the dilemma we have right now as men and women.
01:10:29.000
Or is it about actually feeling an intimate human connection with another human being?
01:10:35.000
Once again, the women choose the type of guy that deserve all of the above.
01:10:47.000
You want me because I have all these top level 1% of 1% attributes.
01:10:51.000
And I'm going to indulge in what I want to indulge in.
01:10:54.000
If I can't have my cake, I'm just going to eat it too.
01:10:58.000
So women put us in that position of understanding we had the power the whole time and we was playing with it.
01:11:10.000
At the same time, I want to devour these women over here.
01:11:13.000
If you want these type of guys, it will come with it.
01:11:15.000
Most of them was doing behind closed doors, hiding.
01:11:21.000
Any one of them is doing that right now, still to this day.
01:11:23.000
It's just being spoken on podcasts and shit and it's shocking to women, but it always been going on.
01:11:29.000
Also, the more money a man has, the more he'll always want in all parts of his life.
01:11:33.000
So any woman that wants to be with that man, like be his wife, they have to be willing to turn a blind eye, in my opinion.
01:11:42.000
And the reason I believe this is because it's just in our human nature.
01:11:45.000
If you see a woman and she's with a dude that isn't really secure, she starts to become more masculine.
01:11:49.000
So what happens to a dude when he has everything a man supposed to have?
01:11:55.000
That leads to you being what people consider promiscuous.
01:11:58.000
It's impossible because once a man truly becomes a king, he's going to recognize and reawaken and become everything he's supposed to be.
01:12:08.000
So when women want to try to be a queen, they say, they end up looking like Oprah, fat and lonely and looking weird.
01:12:14.000
Like, show me, these women ain't happy when they get all the money and I ain't want my success.
01:12:22.000
I'm going to be a queen like he's a king, bitch, where?
01:12:25.000
Show me a responsible woman that's doing that and living life and happy without cats and goddamn, you know what I mean?
01:12:33.000
Unless they sign up for the glory, unless you sign up for Jay-Z Beyonce.
01:12:36.000
That's some understanding that's going to be taking place because he's still the A-side.
01:12:45.000
You the prize because you just can sit around and be my little trophy.
01:12:48.000
No, no, I'm the prize because I'm winning in all attributes above you.
01:12:54.000
Man, number one, right, she don't like me enough.
01:12:57.000
You know, all the problems she talked about in her last relationship, she may not understand what I'm saying.
01:13:02.000
So if a woman don't like me a lot, that's a turnoff.
01:13:05.000
I can't get into a woman if she don't like me a lot.
01:13:08.000
If she's not cooperative, if she doesn't have a pleasing personality, if she's not teachable, you know, if she's not polite, not feminine, these are my turnoffs.
01:13:16.000
If she got tattoos on her face, if she smokes cigarettes, these are all red flags to me.
01:13:27.000
What's the biggest thing you've seen where women think they deserve a man, but they actually don't because of their actions?
01:13:34.000
You know, these OnlyFans women, they think they should have, but don't none of them got one.
01:13:38.000
They all want a man, think they deserve a man, don't none of them got ones.
01:13:41.000
They think that the dude should be loyal to them while they get online and show all it is to the man.
01:13:45.000
And then they don't even want to break none of that bread off to the man they dealing with.
01:14:01.000
Kind of describes in a nutshell how women have high standards.
01:14:20.000
Man, but you know, listen, these dudes could watch these podcasts all day.
01:14:42.000
And that's what they should be selling for instead of trying to come for super niggas and trying to tell them to stop jack rapping.
01:14:55.000
You want to this guy if you want to be, you know, you need some help.
01:15:04.000
And I hear a lot of people telling you all this.
01:15:06.000
If a man can't come in and help, if a man can't come in and take care of me, I don't want him.
01:15:27.000
And just say he makes $65,000, $75,000 a year, okay?
01:15:33.000
What makes you think that he could just fully take care of you?
01:15:39.000
What makes you think that he can pay all of his bills, whether it's a house note, car note, insurance, his necessities, take care of himself, and then come take care of you too?
01:15:56.000
This is what I'm trying to tell you about the people on this internet telling y'all this crap.
01:16:08.000
You guys come together and you make magic happen.
01:16:19.000
It's no such thing that a man who just has a nine to five, okay, can literally fully take care of you like that.
01:16:30.000
But what's the beauty about coming together as a couple?
01:16:49.000
If this man is not a millionaire or making six figures a year, it is impossible for him to do that for you.
01:17:06.000
And again, listening to these people on this internet telling y'all this stupidity.
01:17:21.000
And then you look a few years later, five years later, you look and you see where you guys have come from and it's like, wow, look, honey, we did this.
01:17:42.000
So I guess for you, you've done things your way for 35 years and you're still going.
01:17:52.000
Will you ever concede and make a change and say, you know what?
01:17:56.000
Maybe I should lower my standards and not get pleased in the bedroom.
01:18:05.000
Or find you a man that is not going to take care of all the bills or something.
01:18:09.000
You got to build together, grow together, and build a real regular foundation of life.
01:18:17.000
Are you going to chase a guy around and not get pleased?
01:18:19.000
Because if you want a top spender, millionaire type nigger, you're going to need to have an actual value add to him.
01:18:34.000
Number two, this is all under the paradigm that I'm looking for a nigga, right?
01:18:56.000
No one's with the guys that you're looking for.
01:18:59.000
So you're telling me right now, in your phone, niggas don't want you?
01:19:07.000
And I guarantee you there's like two to five guys in there that you're talking to, right?
01:19:17.000
So, so I'm just saying, like, okay, I get your standards and what you want.
01:19:24.000
What I was saying earlier was that a lot of women are sexually unsatisfied.
01:19:30.000
And we have a decision just like you have a decision of if you want to be with someone that you're not sexually satisfied with.
01:19:53.000
Are you willing to deal with a guy that's a normal nine-to-five guy or a regular occupation?
01:20:16.000
I like niggas who are funny and interesting, intellectual.
01:20:36.000
That's all like the first nigga that you was a double.
01:20:47.000
Okay, so you're looking for just a cool, funny guy.
01:21:08.000
That's what it is, because you can't just say the point.
01:21:20.000
Check where it's not the financial situation, it's the financial mindset.
01:21:25.000
Because as an entrepreneur, yes, I've been an entrepreneur since I was 18 years old.
01:21:30.000
So if we have similar financial mindsets, then that's, I think that's good.
01:21:37.000
Ambitious and has like a track record of attempting or got it done.
01:22:15.000
I just, to be honest, I, again, I'm thinking about where we are culturally, and I just don't think we're all set up for like genuine connections.
01:22:24.000
So, yes, if I wanted to like get a nigga who had money and in exchange, I give him my loyalty and sex and blah, blah, blah.
01:22:33.000
But that arrangement is not, I'm looking for something a little bit more emotionally deeper than that.
01:22:44.000
There's 99% of people ain't on no social media.
01:22:46.000
Bro, at the end of the day, emotional connection...
01:23:03.000
Again, it means, have you ever had a connection with a human being before?
01:23:10.000
No, but put it into words for the audience for us.
01:23:14.000
So I believe that as human beings, we're meant to have emotional vulnerability with other human beings, like maybe two to three bonds.
01:23:24.000
And it requires an emotional vulnerability, but that type of connection is priceless.
01:23:30.000
Like, at the end of the day, if you were to get locked up or if you were to be fucked up, who are you going to call?
01:23:39.000
Or the person you have a genuine emotional connection with?
01:23:45.000
Like, I could find a nigga who could pay for shit, but does he care if I'm alive or dead?
01:23:50.000
So is there a chance that you have some people in your phone that do actually care, but they are lacking some other aspect?
01:23:59.000
And like I said, like, I'm just, I'm chilling right now.
01:24:05.000
I'm not trying to jump into another one in this moment.
01:24:08.000
I'm trying to like improve myself, improve my financials, improve my mental, my spiritual before I jump into another relationship.
01:24:14.000
So I have more to offer in a relationship, should I choose to be one in one.
01:24:24.000
Y'all should ask the chat, a woman like this, is she likable?
01:24:29.000
A lot of women don't recognize that they're not really lovable.
01:24:33.000
I don't know one man who has watched this podcast and say, oh my goodness, that's the love of my life.
01:24:45.000
You're just putting your personality out there, though.
01:24:51.000
No, I think that, you know, I believe in God, and I think that we are all God's children.
01:24:58.000
I don't think any human being has the agency to tell me if I'm lovable or not.
01:25:22.000
So wait, if I was a stripper, it wouldn't be worth the conversation.
01:25:41.000
Any case, we'll move forward because I think you are still cooked no matter what.
01:25:52.000
By the way, we're going to cut, guys, in like 10 minutes to Rumble and Kick only.
01:26:04.000
Before you jump in my inbox, my rent is $2,771.
01:26:09.000
I got two boys underage that need new J's and school clothes.
01:26:32.000
I like the house professionally clean once a week.
01:26:35.000
That looks like you, but I don't know if you got to ask like that.
01:26:55.000
No, man, I look right, but I didn't look this time.
01:27:02.000
I mean, obviously speaking, like, she's had these for the requirements, but what man is going to say yes to that?
01:27:17.000
But listen, I respect the prostitute who up front with how much it costs.
01:27:22.000
Hey, if that's the cost, you know, don't string me along.
01:27:31.000
Yeah, no, we deliver on this hole, but I mean, being realistic, that's kind of hard to.
01:27:39.000
She might be cold, but at the same time, she playing the risk of not getting the things she wanting back.
01:27:44.000
Like, she's tried for four years of being locked down just with a provider and then get sexually, you know, taken care of and just dismissed, shut up.
01:27:52.000
So if she's just built for, she don't care, she just wants her bills paid, then God bless her.
01:27:59.000
But I've had girls that like dated legit billionaires had everything that they wanted.
01:28:02.000
Car, lifestyle, but they didn't have the sex they wanted.
01:28:05.000
Or they didn't have the EI, emotional intelligence.
01:28:16.000
But the point that, like, they still got broken up in.
01:28:17.000
So even that whole facade, man, it don't last long.
01:28:28.000
She was trying to get the guy before she got to him.
01:28:59.000
All right, so let's see what it says here in the headlines.
01:29:02.000
So basically, what's happening here is that he files for a divorce from his wife one week after she knows her pregnancy with him.
01:29:11.000
I mean, the postal ex, he didn't want a kid with her.
01:29:13.000
But I'm kind of like, okay, at this point, if she's going to have his actual kid and he's going to divorce her, child support.
01:29:33.000
It probably was a situation where he was telling her he wasn't ready for a kid right now and he got trapped up.
01:29:38.000
But I don't really get how he didn't even have no understanding to have her own birth control or anything like that.
01:29:43.000
Like, if a bitch fucked with me after the first week, she got to be on birth control.
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I mean, too, right here when he didn't kiss her.
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Because you could have had your fun and not have her.
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As a nigga myself, responsibly, of course, you should do these things.
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So the question is, like, okay, if this is the case here, is he going to get fucked up at this point?
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Because I mean, they said it was divorced too, huh?
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Because that's why women always say, like, when you get a pre-nup, people fight against pre-months.
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It'd be a million dollars in goddamn court fees just to go over your prenup you already went over the prenup with.
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But how do we know that that's his kid, though?
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Listen, man, I'm not gonna expose anybody, but, like, I've heard stories between his big mama from before, her, other girls, other niggas.
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That's always, that can save them you know what I'm saying so you better go with that and that's probably why he had some you know hang-ups about the marriage you're probably when something came up you know i mean now you're like fuck all this yeah why it comes so abrupt in the day He's still a fucking fool for going that far anyway, regardless.
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this is the industry's mop like bro what are you doing have fun but you put season it if you just oh hell bro you know what i'm saying then it's okay if you're just playing for the glam and the glamour you know i mean get the sparkle on the sparkle but you really put a scene that man damn you do a on it And bro, like, okay.
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She cool, whatever, but we fucking with it like that.
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A lot of goofball Jamal's out here that don't know how to ball.
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I know, but he don't know how to ball for real.
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He probably went there and went rampant in the goddamn NBA.
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If he's moving like this, it's off a little one song, motherfucker.
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But I'm saying if he had $200 million like goddamn LaMelo, $100 million like the...
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I just think, like, this situation here, bro, man, it's tough.
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They were just on Kaiser Night's stream, two off three of them.
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He's going down the history of being one of the ones for sure.
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So we're going to give them all the love in the world, but this still was a dummy move.