Can A Woman Search Her Man’s Phone? HEATED Debate!
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In this episode of the Fresh Fit Podcast, we have 8 lovely ladies on the show. We talk about the holidays, the holidays are over, and we are back in the swing of things. We also talk about some of the craziest things that have happened to us in the past week and how we are dealing with it. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for more episodes in the future. Fresh Fit is the home base for all things Fresh Fit, and this is the place to be if you are a fan of the show and want to know what is going on behind the scenes and what we are up to. If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts and leave us a rating and review! We appreciate all the support and look forward to seeing you in the next episode! Cheers! - The Fresh Fit Crew CHEERS! - Cheers, Chris and the crew! XOXOXO - The Fit Fit Crew. - Aaron C. Parkson and the team! Check us out on insta: . . . and . and we hope you guys like the show! Thank you so much for all the love, support, support and support! Love ya, Cheers. Cheers - Chris and The Fit Crew! xoxOz and the gang! - TheFitCastleClub Podcast. Chris & The Fit Podcast - & the crew. The Fitcast - EJ & The crew! - Chris & the team ( ) Shout out to the crew at The FitCastle Club Podcast! and the rest of the Crew at The FreshFit Podcast! - CHEER! CHOOT CHOODO! (featuring: , , RYAN AND THE PODCAST AND THE BOOTY, - RYNN ( ) - RACY ( ) AND THE BABY BOY ( AND THE CHEODO ( ) - CHEEOTHELLO, RYO ( ) & THE KUCH ( ) and THE FUTURE ( ) , CHEOT AND THE KIDS ( ) ( )! , AND THE WEEKS ( ) ! , JUICY AND THE DOG ( )!! WELL DADDY (
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You're recording yourself committing a crime speeding.
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Other than that, Aaron C. Parkson on IG. My IG is up.
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Ladies, send me a DM. Please don't send me along.
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I had one girl last week threaten me that if she don't come on to the show, she'll catch me another time.
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Yeah, bro, I get threatened if girls don't come on the show.
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So you said if you don't let me on, I'm gonna hurt you?
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Well, Chris, to be fair, she can't hurt you, bro.
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Girls are threatening you if they don't come on?
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Yeah, it's like, if I don't come on the show, I'm trying to get it for the fourth time!
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Because if I apply to them, they're gonna screenshot it, and they're gonna post that shit up.
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Maybe inside the house, like, oh my god, I'm so scared.
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If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, if you want to, of course.
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Yes, I'm wearing my own, you know, 200% density, if you look on a shirt.
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Alright, so you got your green card, I'm assuming, probably at this point?
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And she's British, so it's like, eh, she probably did get married for love.
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At first, I'm going to be honest, I didn't get married for love.
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It was just purely business between the both of us.
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And then eventually we grew, we went out on dates.
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And then we eventually fell in love with each other.
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I purely wanted to just move to the U.S. Like, I was tired of London.
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I done my GCSEs and I didn't exactly complete college.
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Okay, probably a functional equivalent to a GED or high school diploma in England, right?
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And you guys have been married for two years, you said?
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So they were both friends and we came down for Thanksgiving and that's how we met.
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When they go in, he goes into the market for a short period of time, makes some things, and then comes right out.
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He goes in real quick and boom and then makes a trade and then gets the hell out.
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They're in a little bit longer when they're a swing trader.
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But yeah, scalpers, they're in there for literally minutes or some shit, or less than a day, or some wild shit like that.
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Is that your real, like, your government name is Icy?
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No, no, my real name is Yanina, but everybody calls me Icy.
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I do different kind of photo shootings for brands.
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Well, I studied sports before, so that's not the only shit I did.
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The breakfast is pretty hard, so I stopped at one point.
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What's the question you always ask about models?
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Wait, so did you come on a visa to be a model here, or are you just here on a visitor?
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You foreigners, I'm just trying to figure out how I don't get in.
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Yeah, because girls in Miami are nasty as fuck, so I don't like to...
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I'm going to give you a down to Marco because when we met you, you had like 30 or some shit.
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Chris out here was doing work the past three years.
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Germany, do you believe Chris, by the way, on his number?
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You didn't like being in EMT? I kind of wanted, like, to build, like, I didn't want to do, like, the 12-hour shifts.
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I wanted to be more, like, with my kids, my family, and just kind of, like, be my own boss, like, entrepreneur.
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You set your time with your clients, and you figure it out with them.
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It's different than EMT. You're, like, working all the time on the go, like, long hours.
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Like, I'm thinking long-term-wise, I think real estate was better for me than EMT. Okay.
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If I asked him, he'd probably be like, I'm single.
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I think I'm probably going to be the youngest here, I think.
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All right, can you tell us how to say hello in Chinese, please?
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Because this nigga Chris does that every time I'm Asian here.
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You're pursuing your bachelor's degree, I'm just guessing?
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Yeah, that's like the most preferred race is white dudes, but...
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Well, statistically speaking, white men are the most desired.
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I mean, some girls like black dudes too, but white dudes...
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If you lined up 100 girls, most women want a white dude.
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But yeah, of course you got your girls that like black dudes.
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I mean, assuming you're a Knight Rider by your comments.
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There's a distinct difference between white men and white women.
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If you talk to a white man and you talk to a white woman, there's a very different vibe that you get.
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I'm just trying to figure out what white dudes did to her.
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That's why she kind of cringed a little bit when you said Hong Kong, China.
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I was going to say leader, but he's more like a dictator.
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She's going to say something about Li Jinping, and the next thing you know, Chinese assassin's going to be a leader.
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Alright, so you're like a secretary or something?
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University of Central Florida, right, if I'm not mistaken?
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Name one thing you did wrong and one thing he did wrong.
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So you fucked up, I stayed with him for too long.
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You know that mask y'all wear in the beginning.
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Yeah, so, yeah, like, what, I mean, like, what did he do that made you say, all right, this is it, I'm done?
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It's funny, she stood up and the height didn't really change.
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And the reason is because Mexico doesn't regulate the ingredients like America.
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So that's why the Mexican meth is the strongest.
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I'm just saying it because, bro, I meant thousands of realtors are women.
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But rentals are big here, so that's what you do, usually.
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Okay, so you're a full-time real estate agent, right?
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All right, and then are your parents still together?
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Yeah, but you're still a kid when they tell you.
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We'll start compiling nationalities of girls, too.
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Well, yeah, I bought myself a DNA test for Christmas.
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A certain individual with a certain mustache would have loved you.
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My grandpa and grandma are kind of like Vietnamese.
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Chinese and Japanese are kind of like elitists.
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There's this whole racial war with the Asian countries.
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Southeast Asia, they look at them like, we don't mix with them.
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People in the chat know, in the Asian world, they're super racist towards each other.
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Guys, I think FNF Super Chat is still down right now.
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And it's actually Streamlabs, not us, by the way.
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Yeah, Streamlabs is, yeah, we didn't get canceled.
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We thought it was us getting canceled, but no, it's Streamlabs just being lame.
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Rumble.com slash FreshFit and also Castle Club.
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To the Queen, just know if you get this look from Myron Craig, just know Frank Castle's coming out.
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Bro, she's trying to keep that social square, nigga.
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Does Hong Kong have, like, its own laws that aren't, like, at all...
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Not completely different, but, like, a bit different.
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Or prime minister, or leader, or supreme leader.
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Chinese intelligence watching this podcast right now.
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They're going to kidnap her and take her ass back.
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Fresh looks like a lost foot race against a light switch.
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Ladies, how does it feel to be an agent of the Matrix?
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California and Washington, D.C. Name two states.
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It's actually kind of funny that a Chinese girl said San Francisco.
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They got a lot of Chinatowns over there, though.
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You can't name a state that they already named?
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Don't worry, there's still like 40-something left.
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I have the German joker, so I can say Texas and California.
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Everyone's already said in the majority of what I was going to say.
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Bunch of other girls fucked up, so there's still like 40 left.
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Hopefully when we do three countries, they'll do better.
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We're going to reverse it real quick, all right?
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I don't want no excuses from the foreign girls now.
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You can't name the United States, Mexico, or Canada.
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Well, I mean, you can say that, but you gotta add the second part.
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Well, y'all about to invade Taiwan, but it won't be its own country much longer.
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She didn't think we were going to get into geopolitical shit on our own country.
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I'm asking a bunch of questions about China and Hong Kong.
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Who do you watch mainly when you watch TV? I don't really watch TV. I would say my role model is...
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I'm about to say my mom as well, but I remember my manager is watching, so maybe my manager.
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I would say my mom too because I never had somebody I was looking up to because I think to compare yourself to somebody which is rich as fuck or has their life together, is born rich, is in the media, whatever, gives so much pressure on you.
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That's why I never had a role model or a person I was looking up to or was like, oh, I want to be like her or whatever.
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So I would say my mom because she has her shit together.
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She's just so loving and nurturing and graceful, even despite everything she's been through.
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Okay, I'm going to write that down because she's a shit.
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Beyonce watching the pod right now, punching air.
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Besides your mom, we all know you love your moms, ladies.
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Having to put things before other people just for me.
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That alone, sacrificing herself for me was enough for me to put her...
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But he came back in my life when I was around nine, ten years old.
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Did he want to be involved and your mom didn't let him?
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He wanted to go out, cheat, do whatever he wanted to do.
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For example, in a religion, when you're a Christian, you put things first.
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You have a certain responsibility when it comes to your religion.
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So the difference between the both of them was that he just didn't want her going to church.
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So they basically ended up breaking apart because they didn't have the same mindsets, basically.
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I didn't really have a mother figure growing up.
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I had my stepmom, but my aunts really raised me, honestly.
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But really, honestly, I don't idolize anybody, but my mom would be a great role model.
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She's come a long way, accomplished all the things that she needed to do, and raised good children.
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Do you think her keeping a marriage together for 30 years is also a big reason why you look up to her?
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We went ahead and we got the girls' questions beforehand, okay?
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As you guys know, whenever we start turning cameras on, girls get all, oh, shit!
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So we made sure to have some of their stuff here.
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If I see a name on here, I'm not going to say who the name is.
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If you want to go ahead and raise your hand and ask my question, that's fine.
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But I'm not going to put you on blast and say this is your question.
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So I'll go ahead and read the first one right now.
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And if you want to, you can say who wrote it, if you want to bring it up.
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Let's ask them first, and then see what they think, and then we'll give ours.
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I think it's possible if you guys have been friends from childhood.
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As adults, I don't really think that most men and women could be platonic friends without any type of attraction.
00:48:09.000
So there's got to be a childhood attached to it?
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Yeah, I think it has to be childhood, something from a while back.
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Uh, I do think that sometimes there are feelings underneath.
00:48:38.000
You don't think, you said to a degree, so do you think all your guy best friends just want to be friends with you and not have sex?
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I think the majority of them are genuinely my friends.
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Let's call them on the phone and see if they're really your friends.
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I have one that will answer, but he might act a fool though.
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Go with them and they'll get you in the back and they'll get you set up and tell you what to say and everything.
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So we will go ahead and put this to a test about guy best friends.
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I just don't think there can possibly be a friendship like that between a male and a female.
00:49:49.000
I feel like where it is, eventually over time, feelings grow.
00:49:58.000
Honestly, I just feel like my point is just you can't, it just can't work.
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Like it can't be possible because men and women are designed to fall in love with one another and designed to make love to one another.
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So it's just, it doesn't make sense to me for them to just stay friends.
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There has to be a connection between the both of them.
00:50:56.000
I have like one or two friends which I have like since 15 years when I grew up.
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But I think also if I would put like a lot of energy in our kind of relationship or our kind of friendship, it would grow more from my side.
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So you don't think if you call them right now, they wouldn't want to hook up with you?
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When I was younger, I slept right next to my friends when we were all at a house party or whatever and nothing happened.
00:51:44.000
That doesn't mean that they don't want to do it though.
00:52:01.000
Alright, we're going to have you call them as well.
00:52:17.000
So we're going to have two girls call that think that it's possible.
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I think it's hard because I feel like somebody always follows eventually.
00:52:24.000
And I feel like a guy's not going to reject pussy.
00:52:27.000
But I feel like if a guy can sleep with a female, he's going to take the opportunity.
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Especially if the girl's beautiful and she has an amazing personality and you've known her for a while, you're like, shit, why not?
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You can be acquaintances, hi and bye, but the everyday talking where you share your stuff, it's very unlikely, I think.
00:52:50.000
Yeah, I agree with you because I feel like, like, for me, because most of my friends are girls, because it's just the things that you do, like, A guy's gonna go shopping with you, how are you gonna go thrifting together, do your nails, you know?
00:53:07.000
If he does that, he straight up likes you, cause no guy's gonna do those things with the female.
00:53:11.000
So when they go to thrift shops, buy clothes that are really low value.
00:53:15.000
Sorry, for example, cheaper priced clothes, but they're really nice.
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To sell for, like, resell or just to get really good deals.
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So you don't think no just because interests don't align?
00:53:50.000
I think a woman can be friends with a guy just because we benefit the most from it, you know?
00:53:56.000
But I don't think a man can be friends with a woman genuinely.
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Okay, so you, you, alright, so you think the woman could, obviously, and we agree that, yeah, you could friends on her, or she could friends on him, but he has ulterior motives.
00:54:10.000
Yeah, he's like a boyfriend that you don't have to have sex with.
00:54:15.000
And she even said that you get all the benefits.
00:54:18.000
I've been trying to say, so I also think, like, it depends on, like, where you come from, because I know in America they date differently versus, like, Europe and Asia and stuff like that, so sometimes that takes into account how people...
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I think they're even more so not into having female friends.
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I think it depends on what she's saying, though, because she's saying, like, different cultures.
00:54:38.000
Like, people maybe in America, like you're saying, they're more, like, straightforward, and other places they're more reserved?
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I think in America it's, like, more sex-driven versus, like, let's say Europe.
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You got somebody from Europe right there, she's saying it's cap too.
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It could be Africa, Antarctica, it don't matter.
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Not to say that they don't want sex, but it's just different.
00:55:02.000
You mentioned that a girl gets a lot of benefits from having a guy friend, but the guy doesn't really have to, and you don't have to give sex or anything else like that.
00:55:09.000
If you were a man, would you let a girlfriend zone you?
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No, I just always, because I've said that a million times, you're like the first girl to actually admit it, that you get a lot of benefits from having guy friends.
00:55:31.000
So it's like a big W. Yeah, it's literally, you get all the attention that you want, you get the, you know.
00:55:44.000
They're her friend for a little bit and then she catches on to what they're trying to do.
00:56:01.000
That we as girls we can be friends with guys but the guy will always be waiting for his chance.
00:56:08.000
So if you offer it he will immediately go for it.
00:56:17.000
No, because I've never given the option, but you can just tell that if given the option, he would take it and run with it.
00:56:33.000
So we're going to have the girls call their friends.
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One of them is on German time, so he might or might not pick up, but we'll try.
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And then we will have Miss Upstate New York, aka Kingston, Call her guy right now.
00:56:47.000
Icy already told her what to say and everything else like that.
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So everyone else on the panel, please be quiet.
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She's going to take the phone and put the speaker right to the microphone, which Icy will show you.
00:57:03.000
And then, yeah, just be quiet because we don't want him to know.
00:58:14.000
But there's two that she said that wouldn't smash her.
00:58:38.000
I was really just wondering why you and I were never a thing.
00:58:47.000
And I was wondering why we never were anything.
00:58:53.000
Um, do you want to talk to me when you're sober?
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Also, I'm just, I'm also just not in the, like, financially, mentally, emotionally, all that.
00:59:42.000
I'm just not ready to be in a relationship right now.
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He didn't want to validate the call because she said she was drunk.
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You got to say you're drunk, but you're actually thinking about it seriously.
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No, but I only ever call them drunk crying when I'm serious about shit.
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Because they even said you're with other guys, so like, yeah, see?
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But like, on some real shit, like, I don't call them when I'm drunk unless I'm drunk and crying over some real shit.
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That's exactly why he didn't take you seriously.
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All right, so you got to give him the better instructions, man.
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You've told that before, and then they already know.
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I've never called him about having sex with him before.
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Yeah, when I call drunk, it's because it's some real shit that I'm calling about.
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And they're probably annoyed by that at this point.
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This conversation is probably going to be in German.
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And to him, he's like, oh my god, not again, bro.
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No, but I've never called about having sex with him.
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No, but you've got to say it in an unbelievable way.
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I've been thinking for a long time, I'm out of the light, you're an awesome guy.
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If I told him that he was an awesome guy, he would have been like, What?
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And he didn't seem like pressed to fuck her, to be honest.
01:03:51.000
If he wasn't annoyed, would it seem more violent?
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Because if you call them sober and you said, hey...
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You know, why don't we ever become a thing or whatever, and you're dead sober and you're serious about it, he'll probably give you a serious answer.
01:04:04.000
But he was already, you could tell, he was like, bro, she called me drunk.
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Even so, you know your friends, so you call them drunk all the time.
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The only time that I call them drunk is when it's some serious shit, is what I was saying.
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I want to get the instructions that Icy gave them, because I don't know what she told them specifically.
01:04:38.000
Did you tell them to say that you're drinking a little bit or drunk or what?
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No, no, but usually, though, that's how it would go, in a way.
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Because you know you're a friend, you gotta be like, obviously.
01:05:03.000
You know what gave it away when he said, oh, you're with other guys?
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Anyways, facts is that guys usually trying to hook up on you if you are trying to be friends with them and they starting, you know, acting weird, be like, hey, let me come over.
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You even know that's why you have gay friends, not straight guy friends.
01:05:29.000
I'm saying, when you have a friend back from childhood, as she said, maybe it's possible.
01:05:33.000
I mean, it's always possible, but is it probable?
01:05:39.000
How do you feel if your wife slash husband doesn't allow you to access their phone?
01:05:47.000
I see a name here, but I'm not going to say it unless they want to take credit for it.
01:05:51.000
So how do you feel if your wife or husband allows you to access their phone?
01:05:59.000
How do you feel about if your husband or boyfriend or whatever doesn't let you access his phone?
01:06:03.000
Like, if I asked you and they said no, I would probably be like, Freaking out.
01:06:13.000
It's not like I would want their pascas and stuff like that.
01:06:25.000
Alright, so you wouldn't like it if there was no allowing.
01:06:32.000
And if I have a valid reason, you should let me.
01:06:34.000
The person that asked this, if you want to clarify, do you mean of being asked or in general?
01:06:53.000
So I wouldn't genuinely, like, ask unless I have something in mind.
01:06:59.000
But if I'm continuously asking for it, then I can understand you're not going to let me.
01:07:17.000
If you're seeing my phone, then I have the right to see your phone.
01:07:30.000
I want to sleep good at night and be delusional in peace.
01:07:57.000
You're not asking, but they already kind of put their foot down.
01:08:01.000
They already kind of put their foot down like, you're never going to look at my phone.
01:08:06.000
It's kind of been whether he explicated it or not.
01:08:14.000
I think never go through a guy's throne if you're not ready to leave the relationship.
01:08:25.000
One shall not look at phone until ready to walk away.
01:08:35.000
Alright, but what would you think about it in general?
01:08:38.000
Like, there's a presumption that you can't look at the phone.
01:08:42.000
Um, I mean, if I ask for it and he, like, just...
01:08:49.000
Okay, so you're okay with you not having access to it unless you ask?
01:08:53.000
And again, what if he wants to see your phone, but you can't see his?
01:08:59.000
No, I would let him see it, but I would like, why you want to see mine suddenly?
01:09:21.000
Alright, we'll pull it up here in a little bit.
01:09:26.000
I feel like if you want to go through the person's phone, you can't have a bad feeling.
01:09:30.000
Because as a woman, I feel like you have that feeling, intuition.
01:09:36.000
If I feel like I have to go through your phone and constantly on top of you, I don't want to be with you.
01:09:40.000
Because I feel like we don't have to be on top of each other.
01:09:43.000
But I am open to my phone and I feel like my partner should be as well.
01:09:49.000
If we're together, then I feel like we should be able to check each other's phone.
01:09:54.000
But, I don't think it should be like a constant toxicity where it's like, oh my god, I need to see your phone all the time.
01:10:00.000
No, if it's like you genuinely feel like your man's on some shit, then you should be able to go through it.
01:10:08.000
So I learned out of my past relationship, the more you're trying to control a person or find out, the more worse is the relationship getting to.
01:10:22.000
If it's already on the point that you got the feeling that somebody's going on in his phone and you need to ask him what the fuck is going on in your phone, let me see that.
01:10:31.000
I think that because you should have the feeling that you are safe with the person.
01:10:35.000
And on the other hand, you're going to ask me that.
01:10:38.000
I would not show him my phone if I'm not allowed to see his phone.
01:10:42.000
But anyways, it's toxic on both sides if you are about to check on the other person's phone because it's still privacy and everybody should know why they are in a relationship with somebody.
01:10:51.000
And if you have the feeling that you need to check on that, it's already too late for me.
01:10:55.000
You said before it's like, you know, whenever you're in a situation like that where it's controlling, it's too late.
01:11:00.000
In your past relationship, did you try to check his phone or did you try to check yours?
01:11:04.000
I checked his phone because he cheated on me and I found out because...
01:11:15.000
The person came up to me and since she came up to me and it was official that he cheated on me, I was like, let me see what happened and everything.
01:11:23.000
He didn't know that you looked through it then?
01:11:29.000
And I was like, yo, bro, what the fuck is going on?
01:11:39.000
So she came into this situation and took her man.
01:11:47.000
I was with him for like three and a half years.
01:12:10.000
Okay, so you're with him and she just walks right up to you and says he cheated on you and then you took his phone right there and then?
01:12:19.000
And he was like, he was trying to, you know, be like, no, it's wrong.
01:12:28.000
And that's why he showed me the messages at one point because I was like, either you're going to show me right now, but...
01:12:33.000
That's not, like, I would not even, like, if I would go back to in the past, I would never check on his phone because I've seen it in her chat already and I would be like, motherfucker, I'm out of that because I don't need no proof.
01:12:45.000
But I took him back after that because I was so in love and everything.
01:12:49.000
But that's, like, you learn out of past situations.
01:13:07.000
Dating a rapper, you gotta know he's gonna smash other girls.
01:13:15.000
Does that mean that I fuck on crazy guys out here?
01:13:18.000
No, everybody assumes that, but that's not right.
01:13:20.000
Everybody thinks I go crazy on all these things.
01:13:28.000
Even if you're a rapper, you can't control your dick.
01:13:32.000
When he goes on tours, he goes on different shows when you're not there.
01:13:35.000
Mostly I'm with him, and even if I'm not with him, I should not get the feeling that he's just because he's a rapper that he's cheating on me or that he's fucking mad bitches out there.
01:13:52.000
I mean, in the moment, you were the main one, so why are you worried?
01:13:56.000
Yes, I was worried when the bitch came after me.
01:14:03.000
So basically, she came into the situation, made you have doubt, and took your man, basically.
01:14:10.000
How can she take my man if I had him after her?
01:14:31.000
So you said, like, if you're dating a rapper, you should kind of expect to be cheated on, right?
01:14:37.000
You would expect that he has many more options to exercise.
01:14:41.000
But, like, don't you think that as a man, like, there's a way that you do certain things?
01:14:46.000
Like, if you know you have, like, a girlfriend or wife or whatever...
01:14:51.000
The fact that she came up to him and her together?
01:15:00.000
Right, so he messed up in this situation because he didn't even...
01:15:14.000
You can be in an office and you can cheat every day on your wife and nobody finds out.
01:15:18.000
You can be a rapper, you can be outside, you can travel the world and don't cheat on anybody.
01:15:22.000
So just because you get a lot of attention doesn't mean that you fuck mad people.
01:15:27.000
If you know who you are and if you've got enough self-confidence, you don't need to get all the attention from their girls and let it go to your head.
01:15:37.000
Okay, so you're thinking like a woman right now.
01:15:40.000
Yeah, so then men should learn a little bit from the woman, I guess.
01:15:42.000
I think you guys are a little different because I feel like for a guy, it's just so like...
01:15:47.000
I can't speak for all men, but in general, I feel like you men just get so horny.
01:15:51.000
Like, they see ass and titty and they don't know how to act.
01:15:53.000
Like, those women just have more composure, you know what I mean?
01:15:57.000
I think it's that too, but also it's the fact that we as girls have it harder out here.
01:16:08.000
So many options, and women don't have each other's backs.
01:16:11.000
Well, but also there's gorgeous girls everywhere.
01:16:18.000
So when you get more limited, it's more limited.
01:16:23.000
I actually want this conversation to play out, and audience, please pay attention to what they're talking about.
01:16:33.000
Can you clarify, when you say women don't have a lot of options?
01:16:37.000
I think that us women, we have less option because guys that are good looking and handsome are kind of hard to come by.
01:16:47.000
As opposed to you guys, you guys have a room full of gorgeous women all the time.
01:16:53.000
And us girls, it's kind of hard to come by good looking guys that are actually good.
01:16:59.000
You're saying, okay, so it's hard to find these guys?
01:17:01.000
It's hard to find good looking men that are also good men.
01:17:07.000
I know a lot of men that are physically attractive, but mentally...
01:17:10.000
Do all of you agree that it's really hard to find a guy that checks off all the boxes?
01:17:16.000
Raise of hands if it's hard to find a guy that's good looking and have all the things that you want.
01:17:29.000
Well, didn't you just say a second ago men have more options?
01:17:36.000
We just sit back and we get the attention because you guys are chasing us, right?
01:17:40.000
So as a woman, we're getting more constant attention and you guys are doing the pursuing.
01:17:43.000
So if my man is cheating on me, he's doing the pursuing to the other female.
01:17:47.000
So now I'm more mad because you're doing the pursuing.
01:17:53.000
And if he's not pursuing and the woman comes up to him and he doesn't deny her, then that's even worse.
01:18:01.000
I just feel like, as a person, you gotta be honest.
01:18:10.000
But if you're not ready for a relationship, then don't.
01:18:17.000
I feel like Miami is a very toxic, plastic city.
01:18:19.000
We live in a fake world where everybody's just trying to, like...
01:18:23.000
It's just, no, it's just that people are focused on a lot of materialistic things and things that don't really matter.
01:18:32.000
Just other things, like family and myself and friends and God and everything.
01:18:40.000
I think there's a lot of good women out here too, a lot of good men.
01:18:50.000
We should let them just talk amongst each other a little bit more.
01:18:53.000
Very, very interesting takes from all of you guys.
01:18:55.000
So on one hand, you guys are saying that men have more options than women.
01:18:59.000
On the other hand, you're saying a good and attractive guy is very hard to come by.
01:19:03.000
A lot of you guys believe that if you're going to go ahead and...
01:19:08.000
You think that you should have access to his phone, and it goes both ways?
01:19:15.000
Alright, you asked the question, so do you want to...
01:19:17.000
Let me have the other girls go, and then we can...
01:19:21.000
How do you feel if your wife or husband doesn't allow you to access the phone?
01:19:26.000
Well, I think it's suspicious, because why is it not allowed?
01:19:34.000
Like, I respect your privacy, but if you're flat out blatantly telling me that you cannot, like that I cannot touch your phone, then I'm feeling like something's wrong.
01:19:47.000
So for like a boyfriend, I guess, not necessarily, but like for my husband, I should have access to your stuff.
01:19:56.000
Okay, let me ask the second question here just to, well, did you have something you want to add before I ask this next question?
01:20:04.000
I just feel like, well, I do have a little bit to say actually.
01:20:10.000
What it is, is I would see things and my intuition would basically just kick in because of past things that have happened to me.
01:20:19.000
So it's like, when I've viewed that in that way and I've seen it happen with previous men, my instincts automatically just go, I need to check your phone.
01:20:35.000
Can you tell us an example of what you've seen that makes you want to...
01:20:39.000
Okay, so there was this time we went out to like a party, a Jamaican party, and I don't mind him.
01:20:49.000
It's a difference when, alright, you see when you're looking at a female for over, let's say over 15 seconds, you're both making eye contact with one another and your wife is right beside you, right?
01:21:02.000
Like, okay, imagine if you have your wife, right?
01:21:06.000
And she's looking at another guy, basically, and staring in his eyes.
01:21:13.000
But you guys are looking into each other's eyes.
01:21:20.000
Because the difference with me, if a guy is making eye contact with me, I automatically look away.
01:21:32.000
I'm not going to look at other female, I mean other guys, and find interest in that.
01:21:37.000
So it's a thing where if I'm in that position and I see that you're doing that, that makes me uncomfortable.
01:21:42.000
So when I react, it's like it's a thing where, oh, this is why you're not going to have access to my phone.
01:21:47.000
I'm changing all my passcodes on my phone, on my phones and on my laptop.
01:21:51.000
So it's like, why would you do something like that when I'm genuinely feeling away about something?
01:21:57.000
And then now I'm going to say, I want to check your phone because that's just made me want to check your phone.
01:22:04.000
So you look too long and you're saying because of that he might be cheating.
01:22:19.000
I think you can see, as a man, you're going to look, right?
01:22:22.000
Let's just say you can look, but now there's a look, a disrespectful look.
01:22:28.000
You're like, why are you looking at her like that?
01:22:30.000
You said earlier, most men will smash anything, right?
01:22:37.000
But why do you guys have so huge problems with us girls doing that shit?
01:22:46.000
When she's with a man she loves, she don't look nowhere else.
01:22:48.000
So if you're looking somewhere else, it means you're not really...
01:22:50.000
You would freak out if she would do that right in front of him.
01:22:53.000
When she's with a man, all eyes are on him only.
01:22:56.000
So if you're looking at another man with a boyfriend, what are you really doing?
01:23:02.000
Yeah, it would be so easy if, like, everybody would just stop doing shit they don't want to get done by themselves.
01:23:08.000
Like, if I don't want her to do shit to me, I don't do that shit to her.
01:23:16.000
And I get what you're saying because it should be a compromise for both people to have an understanding.
01:24:06.000
I remember one time I was in the car and I had to push his head.
01:24:12.000
It's like the third time I've seen him do that shit.
01:24:14.000
And just because I've been calm and I haven't done or reacted to anything, that's when they feel like they can take the piss out of you.
01:24:20.000
So that's when I had to draw a line basically and say, you can't do that no more.
01:24:24.000
Did you tell him that you felt uncomfortable about it?
01:24:33.000
Yeah, like he tried to be manipulative basically.
01:24:39.000
Let's say he just looked at her just because she's hot, but he can never touch her at all.
01:24:44.000
I mean, you know, that's not an issue to me, but the point I'm trying to make is the lustful eyes.
01:24:50.000
That's just, I feel uncomfortable because if other people are around you, I'm your wife.
01:24:56.000
Like, to have somebody who represents you and they're preeing other people, like they're preeing other females.
01:25:03.000
I want somebody who's loyal to me only and only gives a fuck about me.
01:25:07.000
I've realized with girls especially, when it's embarrassing, it has to be brought up.
01:25:16.000
But if it's ever going to embarrass you in public, it's always an issue.
01:25:18.000
I don't know what it is, but it's always an issue.
01:25:22.000
Because we girls know how we girls are in the knee.
01:25:26.000
I talk to her about that guy talking to me and laughing about- You're not dating girls, you're dating your boyfriend.
01:25:34.000
I just think it hurts seeing that from your partner.
01:25:44.000
So when they desire other women to the point where it's like, damn, now you're out here.
01:26:07.000
If it was like, okay, a little glance, for example, like if I was, for example, look at her and then turn my face.
01:26:37.000
So I'm not going to put myself in a low standard to please him.
01:26:42.000
I'm not going to say I accept this and I accept that just because we're married and I trust him.
01:26:48.000
If we're out in public and I see you doing something, I'm going to tell you straight up.
01:26:52.000
I'm not going to sit behind a bush and be like, oh yeah, that's fine.
01:26:55.000
No, if I see bullshit, I'm going to say straight up to your face how I feel.
01:27:08.000
Can we do one thing before we actually get into the breakdown?
01:27:20.000
If you guys have issues with erections or whatever it may be and not being able to get a hard-on for your girl, get some goddamn Blue Chew, man, so you guys can perform in the bedroom and not have some issues where your girl don't want to take you seriously or be with you.
01:27:31.000
And look, guys, if you want to have your girlfriend and a girl that you're looking at lustfully and smash her too...
01:27:37.000
You want a hard-on to be a wreck for both girls, bro.
01:27:46.000
You don't got to go into a doctor's office or have any of these awkward-ass conversations, man.
01:27:52.000
Get in there because a lot of y'all suffer from erectile dysfunction, man.
01:27:56.000
If you jerk off normally, guys, get Blue Chew before the date or actually when you get to your room, take the Blue Chew so you can smash all night long.
01:28:07.000
So we got into the conversation about should you feel a certain way if your man doesn't let you search his phone?
01:28:18.000
You think if he should be able to show his phone, you know, should go both ways.
01:28:21.000
If he asked me to use to see my phone, I should be able to see his, etc.
01:28:28.000
And I don't know if you guys are going to like what I have to say, but let me just keep it very real with y'all.
01:28:38.000
Yeah, this is where we, I guess, start the debate time.
01:28:43.000
Guys, we're going to kill the YouTube stream here.
01:28:44.000
Come on over, because I do have some questions I've wrote down listening to you guys speak, which is very, very interesting.
01:28:58.000
Yeah, link is in the description and everything else.
01:29:26.000
So you're gonna see the rumble numbers shoot up crazy now.
01:29:44.000
I don't mean as in human value, I mean as in like their roles and their responsibilities, etc.
01:30:09.000
You didn't realize my definition of you saying that they have different roles, that means they're not equal.
01:30:27.000
I feel like in today's society and era, they're more equal than they were in my parents' generation.
01:30:37.000
Would you be okay with you going to work and him being stay-at-home?
01:30:43.000
If that was the agreement that we both agreed upon, yeah.
01:30:46.000
But you would want that, but would you actually want that?
01:30:49.000
Yes, because I would not want to stay at home all the time.
01:30:51.000
So he's playing Xbox, you're coming home, back from work.
01:30:55.000
He's cooking and cleaning and you're going to work every day.
01:30:57.000
If you're sitting on the game all day on your ass and you're not doing shit while I'm at work all day, that's a problem.
01:31:07.000
A stay-at-home dad, a stay-at-home mom still has a responsibility.
01:31:10.000
She's still gotta clean, she's still gotta cook, she's still gotta maintain.
01:31:15.000
If someone breaks in, who's responsible for dealing with it?
01:31:19.000
Would you be okay with him saying, hey babe, it's Wednesday, it's your turn to deal with the intruders?
01:31:27.000
I would prefer him to deal with it, but I would not be opposed to dealing with it.
01:31:46.000
So, are men and women equal, yes or no, in your opinion?
01:31:54.000
Your answer, you said yes, but then your answer was different.
01:32:13.000
Do you want a masculine dominant man that is a leader?
01:32:44.000
I feel like you can be dominant and also a little feminine.
01:32:58.000
Whose cheating is more likely to end a relationship, a man or a woman's?
01:33:03.000
If a woman cheats on a man versus a man cheating on a woman, what's more likely to actually destroy the relationship?
01:33:21.000
But if you had to pick one, what's more detrimental to the relationship?
01:33:27.000
Ladies, when I'm asking these questions, I'm asking in general, I want you to step outside of your own purview for two seconds and speak objectively from a societal standpoint.
01:33:35.000
If you lined up 100 couples, what do you think would fuck the relationship up more if the woman cheated or the man cheated?
01:33:47.000
Yeah, the female because female work out of heart.
01:33:52.000
I think the man will not be able to take the cheating, especially for society and the ego and all that stuff.
01:34:23.000
So, in reality speaking, you should be indebted to him until you die.
01:34:30.000
I should be loyal and put my 110% into our relationship and he only took 50%?
01:34:37.000
Him sleeping with another female who could possibly have an STD and he comes back and sleeps with me and ruins my life?
01:34:51.000
To be fair, would you be in America without him?
01:35:04.000
Like, if I want out and I dress sexy as fuck, I will get a nigga.
01:35:10.000
So then, why is that nigga looking at other girls lustfully?
01:35:16.000
That's completely opposite to what I'm talking about.
01:35:18.000
But how many of them would be viable candidates to be a good man to you?
01:35:24.000
I don't put that into any type of consideration when it comes to...
01:35:28.000
If I bragged and I said, yo, man, I could whack off 10 times a day, man.
01:35:41.000
But when women say that, that I can get any guy that I want, that's like me saying, well, I can watch porn and whack off 10 times a day.
01:35:55.000
No, what my point is I'm trying to make is that if I feel a way about something and you feel like you can just go out there and cheat and go with any female you want, what makes you think I can't go out and cheat and go with any nigga I want?
01:36:07.000
We're going to talk about that here in a second.
01:36:09.000
You keep saying your feelings, but we'll get to that later on.
01:36:16.000
The question was, oh, which cheating is more likely to end the relationship?
01:36:20.000
You said the woman cheating because you mentioned ego and some other stuff.
01:36:38.000
So if a girl does it, it's just not that common.
01:36:46.000
Yeah, it really hurts a lot when a woman cheat.
01:36:59.000
Does a woman have to get to a certain emotional state to be able to do it?
01:37:15.000
I understand that, but doesn't it take a woman a little bit more...
01:37:22.000
I think you may feel like the person isn't making you feel beautiful or other things, and that's why you may do it.
01:37:30.000
But if we're talking about an emotional standpoint, then yeah.
01:37:46.000
You planned out the murder and you executed them in a certain way.
01:37:49.000
Versus you were drinking and driving and you hit them and you killed them.
01:37:59.000
Would you guys agree that when a woman cheats it's worse because she has to get to a certain emotional state and she has to have a certain type of...
01:38:07.000
She has to basically fall out of love with the man that she's with to hook up with another guy?
01:38:17.000
When you're with a man that you actually like and you admire and you love, do you even see other men?
01:38:41.000
I mean, you're not blind, but you just don't like.
01:38:53.000
Now, all of you guys also said earlier that good guys are hard to come by.
01:38:57.000
Would you agree that finding a guy that's actually masculine, dominant, attractive, and assertive has these traits is hard to come by, has money together, etc.?
01:39:15.000
You mentioned earlier that it was rare because when they were talking about men have more options you were saying before it was rare you agreed with them to find a guy that has a shit together that's attractive No, I mean as in for if he ticks all the boxes, if he's loyal, if he does the things that is right,
01:39:33.000
What I'm saying is, basically regarding what you just spoke about, was that...
01:39:46.000
Okay, my mind be going like, you know, sometimes blurry.
01:39:49.000
But what was the question that you asked again?
01:39:57.000
Yeah, finding a guy that meets all your requirements.
01:40:00.000
Alright, what I'm trying to say is my requirements are different to other people.
01:40:07.000
My requirements, I don't require a guy to have a 50k income coming in or 500k income coming in monthly.
01:40:15.000
My mindset is basically, as long as you abide by my standards, as in loyalty and respect me, and if I say I don't like something, don't do it, things like that.
01:40:27.000
But as long as you have a stable income to basically uphold yourself, so that if you have, for example, if you're working a 9-to-5, I don't have an issue with that.
01:40:37.000
Nowadays in this generation, people expect you to be like, To have VVS chains, to have a VVS watch, that's not my mindset, you feel me?
01:40:56.000
So, I just find it very interesting that all of you guys want a dominant, assertive man who's a leader, but you think that you're equal to him and you can check his phone.
01:41:08.000
So, all of you said you want an assertive, dominant man that's a leader, but at the same time, you're trying to say that you're equal and you deserve to be able to check his phone.
01:41:21.000
If it comes down to the situation that you have to check the phone, it's already too late.
01:41:27.000
But what I'm trying to say here is that you guys can see how it doesn't make sense.
01:41:32.000
That's like me saying, okay, at your job, you can go up to your boss and be like, yo, let me read your emails and read your text messages because I want to see what's going on in the company too.
01:41:41.000
Or I want to see what's going on in this company that we work for.
01:41:44.000
The reality is if you want a guy that's like, A top dog has these attractive traits, a leader, etc.
01:41:50.000
Do you really think you have the ability to dictate to him that you need to see his phone too?
01:41:54.000
Especially when we know that female infidelity, by all of your admission, by the way, is more likely to destroy a relationship versus male infidelity?
01:42:01.000
No, no, no, because I'm calling y'all out right now, because on one hand, and I want you guys to really pay attention to this, you want an assertive, dominant, strong man, that's a leader, But then, you think you're equal to him.
01:42:16.000
And then, not on top of that, you think you could check his phone.
01:42:19.000
But we know that if he goes out and fucks another girl, he'll probably still come back to you.
01:42:25.000
In your situation, he came back to you even though he fucked that other chick.
01:42:28.000
In some of your situations where you've been cheated on, you're probably still the main girl.
01:42:31.000
So, men are capable of having sex with other women.
01:42:34.000
You guys are not capable of having sex with another guy.
01:42:36.000
I asked you, are other men invisible to you when you're in a relationship?
01:42:41.000
Chicks aren't invisible to us when we're in a relationship because men are different.
01:42:51.000
Okay, look, look, look, and I want to be a trillionaire, but the problem is this.
01:42:58.000
If you want a successful man that's assertive, dominant, and masculine, he's not going to answer to you.
01:43:05.000
But you wouldn't need to check his phone if you have that.
01:43:10.000
You cannot sit there and say, I want a dominant, assertive man, and then think he's going to comply with your demands.
01:43:15.000
Do you guys not see how that doesn't make sense?
01:43:20.000
This is what I mean when I say a lot of times women are retarded about what they want.
01:43:22.000
Because you want a guy that can put you in your place, but at the same time, you want to be able to tell him and check him, oh, I need to check your phone.
01:43:28.000
You know, a guy that has his shit together that's masculine and dominant, he's going to look at you, laugh, and say, go make me a fucking sandwich.
01:43:41.000
That's just how it goes with guys that have their shit together.
01:43:44.000
You want a guy that's dominant, assertive, good-looking, etc., other women want him, all of you guys just fucking admitted he's hard to come by.
01:43:51.000
If the guy's in the top 1%, and all the women are chasing him, how much leverage do you really have to tell him, let me check your phone?
01:43:58.000
Does that have to do with dominance and assertiveness or more of an emotional maturity level that doesn't exist?
01:44:05.000
It's that this guy hasn't taken shit his entire life and that's where he's at.
01:44:08.000
Why do you think he's going to let his woman dictate anything?
01:44:19.000
Certain guys understand that there's a pecking order and your woman doesn't tell you what to do.
01:44:29.000
If there's a female in a relationship with a guy and she's more, how would I say, dominant and makes more income and makes more money than him, does that still give her access to go through his phone even though he's still dominant?
01:44:42.000
Well, this is where my take, and a lot of guys don't like me saying this, I think that women shouldn't work.
01:44:52.000
If she wants to work on the side or whatever, that's fine.
01:44:56.000
But in general, I don't think women should work and I don't think a guy should be in a relationship unless he can support his girl.
01:45:00.000
But my thing is, I'm not one of these guys that's like, you support your girl and be a blind sucker.
01:45:05.000
I think that responsibility comes with authority.
01:45:07.000
I can check your phone, but you can't check mine.
01:45:09.000
I tell you what to do, but you don't tell me what to do.
01:45:12.000
I'm the man, you're the woman, that's how this goes.
01:45:20.000
So you're saying because you're maintaining a woman?
01:45:28.000
Throughout the course of this conversation, a lot of you guys have made arguments based on emotion.
01:45:34.000
And the problem is that emotions fluctuate and they change all the time.
01:45:37.000
And then you add in your period, you add in outside circumstances, how you feel, day to day, all this other stuff.
01:45:41.000
You can make some really bad decisions based on your emotions.
01:45:44.000
Men, we're pretty stagnant in how we feel throughout the year.
01:45:51.000
Men are better at controlling their emotions a lot of times than women are.
01:45:57.000
The reason why I don't show is because of society.
01:46:09.000
The point I'm trying to make is that men are more logically and rationally sound than women are in general.
01:46:16.000
So I think that needs to be the person that's the decision maker and the leader in the relationship.
01:46:22.000
So rationally thinking, if I get a man that checks all the box and I don't have to go to work and he does everything and he's the leader and he's all this and he's that, Then he can do whatever he wants, but don't let me find out.
01:46:38.000
I'm saying you need to understand that when you're with a certain caliber of man, you have no leverage.
01:46:47.000
That's like saying, I want to be with a lion, but the lion's not going to bite me.
01:46:52.000
You got to understand, that's what comes with the territory.
01:46:53.000
You want a strong, assertive, dominant man that takes care of you, etc.
01:46:56.000
He's going to do what he does, and then you just got to deal with it.
01:47:00.000
And this is why Muslims are single, by the way.
01:47:08.000
The man shows loyalty by willing to die and protect you.
01:47:11.000
You show loyalty by not having sex with other people.
01:47:19.000
I show my loyalty by not being a whore with my resources.
01:47:27.000
All I ask in exchange is you don't fuck other people.
01:47:30.000
But we don't show our loyalty the same because men and women bring different things to the table.
01:47:33.000
So it's ridiculous for you to think, oh, what I bring to the table, you also need to bring to the table, because let's be honest here, y'all require way more of us than we require of you.
01:47:42.000
You want a man that's tall, assertive, dominant, money, character, all this shit.
01:47:48.000
So you think if you really find it, he's going to sit there and negotiate with you when he's the prize?
01:48:14.000
You're the man, you be the prize because you provide a girl I can provide myself.
01:48:37.000
You guys just admitted that the man is harder to find than the woman.
01:48:50.000
So by definition, most guys are invisible to you.
01:48:53.000
The only reason why that is is because you guys are lazy and disloyal.
01:49:06.000
I'm not going to sit here and argue for men and say, no, that's not true.
01:49:16.000
Since most guys are losers, if you find a winner, he's hard to come by, and you and 20 other girls are chasing him.
01:49:23.000
So a winner man wanna have a winner woman, so we both the prize or I don't get into a relationship.
01:49:31.000
I feel like if your relationship is complete, you shouldn't be chasing other pussy because you already got a good pussy at home.
01:49:38.000
Do you think that women can provide the same way that men can?
01:49:43.000
No, they could provide for themselves, but here's the problem.
01:49:46.000
See, when women make money, what's the first thing they say?
01:49:57.000
First thing when girls make money, right out their fucking mouth, I'm independent, I don't need no man.
01:50:02.000
What's the first thing a guy does when he makes money?
01:50:06.000
I can provide for not just one girl, maybe two girls.
01:50:15.000
Women are not okay with sharing their resources.
01:50:16.000
That's why I always say when a woman is in a breadwinner position with a guy, it typically doesn't work.
01:50:22.000
The man needs to be in the breadwinner position.
01:50:44.000
Yeah, so I just find it ridiculous that, like...
01:50:49.000
Because you're making the argument that men aren't the prize.
01:50:52.000
I would argue men are the prize because the guy that you want is harder to come by.
01:50:55.000
There's plenty of beautiful women, but there's not as many attractive men.
01:51:00.000
What's more common, an attractive man or an attractive woman?
01:51:07.000
I just don't agree with the fact that a man is a prize.
01:51:10.000
But by definition, if the man is rarer, that means he's the prize.
01:51:28.000
In a relationship, let me ask you a better question.
01:51:31.000
Who needs to like the other more for the relationship to work?
01:51:34.000
Does the woman need to like the man more than he likes her?
01:51:36.000
Or does the man need to like the girl more than she likes him for the relationship to work?
01:51:42.000
I need you guys all to be quiet for two seconds.
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Ask yourself, what is more likely for the relationship to last?
01:52:00.000
I want y'all to say, okay, what's going to make the relationship last more?
01:52:04.000
If I like the man, or the man likes the woman more?
01:52:14.000
I think it goes both ways, but I think primarily...
01:52:27.000
The man, because the woman eventually likes him more.
01:52:33.000
I think the man, because women by nature, we always put up with stuff and we are fighters.
01:52:50.000
I think in terms of longevity, the woman probably needs to like the man more.
01:53:03.000
Women put up with a lot more shit, but for a relationship to be healthy, I think the man needs to like the woman a little bit more than she likes him.
01:53:13.000
Who initiates most breakups in a relationship, men or women?
01:53:33.000
Okay, who gets born in relationships faster, men or women?
01:53:43.000
I feel like once you get the prize, you're on to the next.
01:53:46.000
Who gets born in relationships faster, men or women?
01:53:57.000
It's women that get bored in relationships way faster than men do.
01:54:00.000
There's studies that show this, that women lose interest in relationships faster.
01:54:03.000
And on top of that, women overwhelmingly initiate most breakups, like 80-90% of breakups women initiate.
01:54:08.000
So now that you guys know the stats, right, that women are far more likely to get bored in relationships and they initiate most of breakups, who has to like each other, who has to like the other party more?
01:54:23.000
Because if it's 90% ratio in the whole world, then...
01:54:28.000
I mean, I'm looking at the US. US? Alright, then.
01:54:32.000
If we know that women are more likely to get bored in relationships, and we know women are more likely to end relationships, then that means that the girl needs to like the guy more for the relationship to last.
01:54:47.000
See how all those lead back to what I'm telling y'all?
01:54:50.000
It doesn't work when the woman is with a man that she doesn't respect, admire, and want to be with and adore.
01:54:55.000
The woman needs to adore the man more than the man adores the woman.
01:55:00.000
We talked about this with a psychiatrist, actually.
01:55:04.000
The person that adores the other individual more gets more emotionally invested.
01:55:09.000
Who needs emotional stimuli more in a relationship?
01:55:19.000
You've alluded to your feelings several times during the course of this podcast about how things made you feel.
01:55:24.000
Reassurance is also emotional things because I'm in a relationship myself so it's like you can't really tell me.
01:55:31.000
But men don't need emotional stimuli the same way women do.
01:55:36.000
Men, you do have to show affection and comfort to you like a mother to their child because you're true.
01:55:40.000
What you're missing here is that men don't need emotional stimulation like women do.
01:55:52.000
But the thing is that women need it more than men do.
01:55:56.000
In terms of keeping a successful relationship, women need more emotional stimuli than men do.
01:56:00.000
Women need to feel in love more than the man does.
01:56:02.000
So what I'm saying is that that means that since we know...
01:56:07.000
Women are more likely to get bored in relationships.
01:56:12.000
So that means that we need to put the woman in an emotional state and be the adoree.
01:56:19.000
The woman adores the man more than he adores her.
01:56:21.000
That's how the relationship goes because women are more likely to end the relationship.
01:56:24.000
So that means they need to be more satisfied in the relationship.
01:56:27.000
But if you're working to do that to me, then I'm the price.
01:56:44.000
It's a woman's job to get the guy to take her seriously.
01:56:46.000
Yeah, but what I'm saying is you're still putting in the double leg and working harder to keep me.
01:56:57.000
Because you're working harder to keep me around.
01:56:59.000
Because otherwise I'd break up with you because you bored me.
01:57:04.000
No, because the man has to be attractive before he even meets you.
01:57:10.000
We can't even get a chance to take you on a date unless we become that guy in the first place.
01:57:35.000
So whether it's true or not doesn't change the fact that the bottom line is that he needs to show that he's successful, correct?
01:57:41.000
He needs to show that he's crossed the finish line for you to even give him a chance.
01:57:44.000
So not only have to have attention and everything else that we're looking for.
01:57:49.000
But I think they put a good mask on in the beginning.
01:57:56.000
Only a few passed the test to go on a date with you.
01:57:59.000
So what he's saying basically in a nutshell is those guys that passed the test had to become successful either in a way from game, status, or even looks.
01:58:12.000
Everyone else failed the test, but that guy passed the test.
01:58:30.000
If you was to meet a guy at a club, let's be so for real, you're going to be like, I'm not interested in you.
01:58:39.000
And if he came and spoke to you and spoke to you as any other guy would speak to you, you're not going to be interested.
01:58:49.000
If it's the right guy, I will admit, location doesn't matter a little bit, but it doesn't matter.
01:58:56.000
But I think it's more like chemistry and connection and the way they approach you.
01:58:59.000
Because I feel like if it's basic approach, you're like, all right, I've heard this shit before.
01:59:07.000
But I feel like if you're in a race and you're working hard to get to the finish line, then you're getting to the prize.
01:59:12.000
So if we have all these suitors and you're working towards the finish line, then who's the prize?
01:59:19.000
Because we're the ones that have the ultimate say to...
01:59:30.000
The reason why the man is the prize is because the man needs to be superior to the woman for the woman to be interested in him.
01:59:37.000
I don't think that women lose their interest just because he's not the price no more.
01:59:42.000
Because a woman starts getting emotionally attached to a person as long as they...
01:59:46.000
But you're not going to get emotionally attached to him unless he's attractive in the first place, right?
02:00:13.000
Yeah, because in general, I'm going to say in general.
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Females don't necessarily look at looks majority of the time.
02:00:18.000
If you have a good personality and you're funny and you make me laugh and you make me feel good, I'm going to be with you regardless.
02:00:28.000
But regardless, he still has to work on himself is my point.
02:00:39.000
To be honest, if you're naturally gifted with that, it's not going to be an issue for you.
02:00:44.000
My point is, when it comes to looks, if I fall in love with you previously before you even have any looks or you get yourself better or boost yourself better, regardless, I'm going to still be with you.
02:00:54.000
With you fixing up yourself, that's a bonus for me.
02:01:08.000
But women really lack critical thinking skills.
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I'm telling you that there's a race that was miles before this thing even got here.
02:01:24.000
Through a journey to get the money, to get the status, to get the charm, to get the charisma, to get the confidence.
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When you see a man and you meet him, that's our manifestation of his experiences, his trials and tribulations, him becoming the individual that you see in front of you.
02:01:39.000
We have to build ourselves up to get to that point where we're even seen by women.
02:01:44.000
So you guys are saying, well, if this and if that, blah, blah, blah.
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What I'm saying is that that if that you guys conveniently like to make minuscule, it's a big if because the man needs to become that if.
02:01:54.000
So you're saying because guys have to work harder to stand out?
02:02:00.000
You're saying that just because you guys have to do that, that makes you the prize?
02:02:13.000
Yeah, you don't have to work for it, so therefore it is not respected to the same level.
02:02:43.000
How about you and your man make money together?
02:02:57.000
You think because a man has to work harder to be seen, that makes him a prize?
02:03:09.000
So therefore, your accomplishments are not respected.
02:03:17.000
The trust fund baby that got his money from his parents or the entrepreneur that worked his whole life to be successful?
02:03:42.000
You guys don't understand the basic concept of supply and demand?
02:03:45.000
Like, if the supply is low, the demand goes up, which means it increases value.
02:03:51.000
So you're only valuable because you're rare and because there's more whack-ass men.
02:03:58.000
You do realize that scarcity and value are intimately tied.
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The more scarce something is, typically the higher the value goes.
02:04:11.000
Gold has value because it's a rare resource, correct?
02:04:15.000
Because women, we're so much more common to be absolutely gorgeous.
02:04:22.000
And because great men are so rare, and most of you guys are losers and pathetic, then the men that are not, you're prized.
02:04:31.000
Then the men that do, you get looked at, then you're the prized.
02:04:41.000
Most guys are losers, so if you're not a loser, you're a prize.
02:04:44.000
Your standards are way too high, that's why you're single, okay?
02:04:51.000
So, until you're 31 or whatever, you're going to lower your standards.
02:05:02.000
Do you think that, as women, we should lower our standards if we can't find a guy to meet all of them?
02:05:10.000
I'm saying that for the girl, a lot of women have an over-inflated sense of self-worth.
02:05:14.000
During the course of this conversation, I think that's pretty much been established that you guys want a top-tier guy, but you're not willing to deal with top-tier problems.
02:05:21.000
You really think that you have the ability to tell a man, I want to look at your phone because you could look at my phone?
02:05:28.000
No, I'm still critically thinking it's a good issue.
02:05:31.000
Do you not think that that's an ego problem and not anything to do with anything?
02:05:40.000
You wouldn't tell your boss, let me look at your phone, right?
02:05:52.000
But if you guys are a thing, and you guys are, like, serious, then...
02:06:00.000
I think to have a healthy relationship, there needs to be a level of emotional maturity on both ends of the spectrum to have...
02:06:06.000
Maybe other women will put up with that, and shit, go find out.
02:06:08.000
There's a time and place for logic and reason, and there's a time and place for emotion.
02:06:13.000
If you can't have both in a relationship, it's not going to work.
02:06:22.000
Because you understand that if you don't pay the bills, the lights will turn off.
02:06:28.000
Your emotions are cute, but they don't really help much.
02:06:30.000
Okay, so if a man financially takes care of you and he meets all the boxes, he can do whatever he pleases as long as I don't mind out.
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I'm cheating for the rest of my life in this conversation.
02:06:41.000
If I don't mind out, can you check all the boxes?
02:06:52.000
You guys want a strong, dominant, masculine man, but then you guys don't want to listen to him.
02:06:57.000
I don't think dominance and masculinity goes hand in hand.
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As a woman, as a feminine woman, you can also be dominant.
02:07:08.000
Because the cornerstone of being feminine is being submissive, which is the opposite of dominance.
02:07:21.000
Like, Western girls, whether it's the United States, Western Europe, whatever it is, any first world...
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English speaking country or westernized civilization, like women don't understand that we are not equal.
02:07:37.000
What I say goes, I'm the leader, I'm running the ship, you can give me suggestions and stuff like that, but I'm not gonna necessarily always listen to you because I'm the leader, I'm the decision maker.
02:07:48.000
If I'm responsible for protecting you and keeping you from danger, that means I have authority over you as well.
02:07:53.000
And the problem is that girls want, they want authority without responsibility.
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And my thing is like, if I'm gonna have the authority, I'm gonna have the responsibility, I'm gonna tell you what it is.
02:08:03.000
Because in every relationship there's a hierarchy.
02:08:10.000
Anything of substance that actually gets done correctly, it's done with one final decision maker.
02:08:15.000
That's why American relationships and Western relationships are fucked up because men aren't men anymore and we don't tell women sometimes that, yo, this is what it is.
02:08:26.000
Women want to go ahead and do men's jobs and then you guys end up becoming miserable for doing men's jobs because it masculinizes you, it makes you irritable, makes you angry.
02:08:33.000
Women don't want to be men even though you guys try to be men.
02:08:37.000
Women should be the part of the family which keeps the family together.
02:08:42.000
Men should be the provider which makes sure the family is good, that they have everything.
02:08:48.000
Or that doesn't allow him to do every stupid ass shit like cheating or hurting the family.
02:08:54.000
The woman should be the female part, the soft part, the part where he can come to.
02:09:01.000
I'm not sitting here advocating for men to cheat.
02:09:04.000
What I am saying is that If you're with a certain caliber of man, he probably will cheat.
02:09:11.000
So you're not going to meet a guy that's a millionaire, a guy that has money, and he's not going to have sex with other women.
02:09:17.000
Dudes that are millionaires, guys that have status, whatever, they're always going to want other women.
02:09:24.000
If it's in your face, it should be hidden away from you.
02:09:28.000
I should not even have a slight clue that you're that type of man.
02:09:33.000
And the reason why you must turn over your phone to him and he doesn't turn his phone over to you is because it's simple.
02:09:45.000
You all admitted it earlier, except for you, that if a girl cheats, it's worse.
02:09:50.000
By your own admission, if you know that a woman's infidelity is more detrimental to the relationship, that means a man needs to have the authority and the ability to go through her phone, but not the other way around.
02:10:02.000
You know, on the female side, if I'm over here spending a bunch of money and resources on other women when I'm not taking care of the family, then that's me cheating.
02:10:10.000
If I'm with you, and I can't give you a fucking home or provide for you, but I'm over here providing a random hose, that's fucked up.
02:10:20.000
But I'm arguing, because you guys are trying to argue that what a man provides is what a woman's supposed to provide.
02:10:28.000
I'm supposed to provide giving you a stable environment so that you can thrive in your feminine energy.
02:10:34.000
Women get masculine when they don't have shit taken care of.
02:10:37.000
But what I'm saying is that that comes at a cost.
02:10:50.000
That's an American thing because girls out here, they grow up so masculine because they have to.
02:10:58.000
That's why these girls out in America are like that.
02:11:06.000
Yes, I am because my past relationship teach me how to be because men don't act like they should act and they don't be the leader and I had to be the leader.
02:11:16.000
As a man, you should bring the girl in her female, in her feminine era by taking her...
02:11:22.000
Wait, so in your last relationship with the rapper, you were the leader?
02:11:25.000
No, I was not the leader, but I was like pushed to be in the heart.
02:11:30.000
Maybe from my past, maybe because my mom and my dad broke up and everything.
02:11:33.000
You know, I have to grow up a little hard and I have to do things by my own.
02:11:44.000
So we all have a past, but a relationship should not be, like, it's so much fight, y'all.
02:11:52.000
Nowadays, what's happening, girls make more money than guys, and they become more dominant, so to speak, and then they take over as a leader.
02:11:59.000
But they don't want to be in that position at all, so, I mean...
02:12:11.000
Well, let me ask, before I answer this, what is the purpose of that question?
02:12:16.000
I wanted to know if you base your relationships off of statistics.
02:12:20.000
Like, basically everything that you've told me, you have to base it off of something.
02:12:28.000
Well, not credible, because I know you're pulling this from somewhere.
02:12:32.000
If you're saying that it's based on statistics and facts, then what does our personal relationship have to do with facts?
02:12:37.000
Do I have to be a mathematician to tell you that two times two is four?
02:12:44.000
But if I'm telling you a fact is a fact, why does it matter who the messenger is?
02:12:54.000
I just wanted to test you and see if you would be honest about it.
02:12:58.000
I just don't feel like under this line of thinking, a relationship could...
02:13:11.000
How many of you said you wanted a strong, dominant man?
02:13:20.000
So there's the proof right there that women want that.
02:13:36.000
Hypothetically, if the man checks off all the boxes, most common men don't.
02:13:41.000
Yeah, they might not, but that's what you want.
02:13:43.000
So do you guys cheat on your women as men that are successful?
02:13:52.000
So now you're changing your question, would we cheat?
02:13:56.000
Based off of what you're saying, as successful men, you cheat on your women.
02:14:04.000
Well, my girl's monogamous to me, but I would not be monogamous to her.
02:14:08.000
Do you require her to be monogamous to you, and you just can do whatever?
02:14:14.000
I think yes, based off of what you've been saying.
02:14:25.000
Does she know what's happening behind the scenes?
02:14:29.000
This whole question here is because they're butthurt.
02:14:41.000
So, in reality speaking, you want a dominant leader?
02:14:53.000
You're dancing around it, but I know why you asked it.
02:14:55.000
Women always do that whenever we tell y'all how it really works between men and women because you guys want to say, oh, well, are you even credible to say this?
02:15:36.000
So then you don't fuck every guy that you talk to?
02:15:50.000
Are you somewhat selective on the men that you hook up with?
02:16:00.000
Okay, so if you're selective on who you have sex with, well, guess what?
02:16:06.000
Because we're the ones that give out the relationships.
02:16:08.000
So for you to ask me that question of are you in a relationship, it's kind of a nonsensical question because I'm the one that gives out the relationship.
02:16:20.000
Yeah, but for you to even be in that position, you have to be a valuable man.
02:16:35.000
You base your value off of success and money and dominance.
02:16:40.000
That's how men base their value on what they create.
02:16:45.000
Men's value is based on the value they create for the world.
02:16:47.000
A woman's value is based on the caliber of man she can attract.
02:16:56.000
When two women meet each other, or when women meet each other, what do they do?
02:17:07.000
Like, men are based on their hierarchy and status.
02:17:10.000
Women are based on the caliber of man that they're with and where they stand in their hierarchy and status.
02:17:15.000
That's why we laugh when women say, oh, I have a career, blah, blah.
02:17:23.000
A man will go ahead and get with a girl that's a fucking waitress.
02:17:27.000
And he's a multi-millionaire because men are different.
02:17:30.000
Do you know how much money I make as a waitress?
02:17:36.000
If you made 50k or 100k or 200k, men don't care.
02:17:40.000
You're not going to lose dates off of how much money you make.
02:17:51.000
Because I already know what's coming out of it.
02:18:11.000
Yeah, but that's why men and women aren't equal.
02:18:14.000
And I don't think a man should ever give his phone to his girl, but I think a woman needs to submit her phone to her man anytime he asks for it.
02:18:29.000
But I think if he has all those boxes checked, he's earned the ability, or privilege in this case, to be able to do that because he's become that guy.
02:18:42.000
So if he's not valuable and he doesn't check all those boxes, then that means we're equal?
02:18:46.000
Well, as a woman, you're an idiot if you get with a guy that's equal to you.
02:18:49.000
In my opinion, in my take, if you're a female and you get with a guy that's on your level, you're a fucking retard.
02:18:54.000
And you deserve to have this guy cheat on you or treat you bad or not provide for you, whatever, because as a female, you need to hold yourself to a higher regard and get a guy that's higher status than yourself.
02:19:05.000
But at the same time, you need to understand where you stand.
02:19:06.000
If you're a fucking five, you probably can't do that much better than a six or a seven.
02:19:12.000
The problem is that girls that are fives think they deserve nines.
02:19:20.000
But we're saying hypothetically speaking, just like hypothetically speaking, we were to find a millionaire that checks all the boxes hypothetically because we know how rare it is.
02:19:27.000
You cook and you shut up and you don't argue with him.
02:19:29.000
Okay, but hypothetically speaking, you're not that man.
02:19:39.000
I have the right over you just like you do with me.
02:19:42.000
I mean, you could go ahead and get with that guy, but are you going to really respect the man that gives you his phone?
02:19:51.000
So you want us to tell you that you're equal to that guy that's average, basically.
02:19:55.000
But the funny part is, you don't even want that guy.
02:20:05.000
I'm saying, hypothetically speaking, I'm not that girl.
02:20:12.000
Welcome to the real world where average girls don't want average men.
02:20:17.000
There's a reason why one in three guys right now is a virgin and hasn't had sex in a year.
02:20:23.000
Because you want a man of these standards, but you don't want to submit these standards.
02:20:26.000
I'm just telling y'all how rich niggas think, bro.
02:20:30.000
You wouldn't make all this money to fuck one girl?
02:20:34.000
Why would a man kill himself to make money, become successful, go up the ranks in the hierarchy to not enjoy the fruits of his labor?
02:20:41.000
And unfortunately, a lot of times that comes down to wanting other girls and variety.
02:20:58.000
It's not about not respecting women's feelings.
02:21:00.000
It's about doing what you want to do unapologetically and women either can accept it or not.
02:21:06.000
My thing is I think a lot of guys tiptoe and creep around it and lie to girls and sell them a dream, but the reality is they want to be with other girls, whether it's their old baby mama, maybe they're looking at other women.
02:21:15.000
A lot of guys don't have the balls to tell their girl what it really is.
02:21:18.000
I'm just saying men need to be more honest and do what they want to do unapologetically.
02:21:24.000
I think by being honest, you're actually being more respectful.
02:21:28.000
So what do you mean by when you said, I think if anything, I'm humanizing them even more by being honest.
02:21:33.000
I just feel like in this generation, it's just so different compared to the olden days.
02:21:37.000
I feel like nowadays, people have literally put, well, not people, but in general, men have put this persona where they think that because they're more dominant, we should just bow down to you guys and listen to everything you're saying.
02:21:57.000
Because in a relationship, there has to be communication.
02:22:00.000
In my grandma's relationship, grandma and grandpa, in their relationship, they had communication between one another.
02:22:08.000
Obviously, sometimes he stands his foot down and says this and that.
02:22:20.000
I'm not saying there's an issue with that, but I feel like nowadays, females don't feel respected.
02:22:26.000
We don't feel like we have a say-so in anything.
02:22:36.000
If we have an issue with something, we can say something.
02:22:41.000
I said your opinion should be taken into account, but you're not the final decision maker.
02:22:49.000
Because in my marriage, I'm going to just put this out there as an opinion.
02:23:07.000
We both, we say, if we have an issue with something, or I have a say-so in something, and I'm like, alright, babe, this and that.
02:23:16.000
He's like, okay, what do you not feel comfortable about?
02:23:19.000
Because it sounds to me like you wear the pants.
02:23:21.000
No, but he says to me, he's like, I don't give a fuck about none of that.
02:23:27.000
Okay, but it seems to me that that happens every now and then, but the reality is you...
02:23:35.000
We don't just sit there and be like, one-sided, this and that.
02:23:41.000
Let's say you want to go out to maybe Cancun for a girl's trip, right?
02:23:53.000
Like, that's how I feel it should be in a marriage.
02:23:58.000
I'm not really gonna put a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship into a marriage, because that's completely different.
02:24:03.000
But in our marriage, I feel like there should be a say-so.
02:24:07.000
I'm not saying you don't get to say, I'm just saying he's the final decision maker, not you.
02:24:12.000
But my point is, if I don't feel comfortable with something, the marriage isn't going to work.
02:24:17.000
Because if there's no 50-50, or there's no at least...
02:24:24.000
Let me take into consideration what she's saying.
02:24:31.000
Yeah, because it's not always 50-50 in a marriage.
02:24:38.000
But my point is, what I'm trying to say is that it should never be one-sided in a relationship fully.
02:24:45.000
If you want your marriage to work, It can't be like that.
02:24:49.000
It can't just be, I don't care what you have to say, this is how it goes.
02:24:53.000
Because then eventually, as a female, you're going to lose feelings.
02:24:56.000
You're going to be like, I don't feel like I'm being heard.
02:25:10.000
No, but food and human beings is two different things.
02:25:15.000
Just like you get bored and you don't want to eat the same food every day, men are just like that.
02:25:24.000
It's just male biology where men want different women.
02:25:30.000
Just like you want a guy that's tall and has money and successful and you're picky with that, men, we're picky as far as we want other women most of the time.
02:25:39.000
Why do you find it hard to commit to one person?
02:25:50.000
Because I didn't bust my ass to get to a certain level to have sex with one girl.
02:25:59.000
No, the difference is that I created the value, and then the girls became attracted from the value that I created.
02:26:04.000
So I'm not going to sit here and only have sex with one girl because if I wasn't where I was at, I wouldn't even be able to get one.
02:26:09.000
So I look at it like, I'm going to enjoy the fruits of my labor.
02:26:23.000
You just said that you didn't bust your ass to just get one woman.
02:26:31.000
You literally just said I didn't get all the success to just have one woman.
02:26:35.000
Yeah, but the point I'm trying to make is that a man's value isn't tied with necessarily, it's a component if he's attracted to other women, but it's about what value do you add to the world, and then the women come after the fact.
02:26:46.000
For example, Drake makes a bunch of music, right?
02:26:50.000
Does Drake get his value from the girls he has sex with?
02:26:53.000
He gets it from the Grammys, the music he's made, the amount of impact he's been able to create in the world, and then women are a byproduct of the impact he's created in the world.
02:27:01.000
So men must create value, then women come after.
02:27:09.000
So, a man's value is not based on how many girls he can get.
02:27:11.000
That's a component of it, but that stems from their status and what they've been able to build and achieve.
02:27:16.000
The success is determined by the amount of women that you end up pulling at the end.
02:27:45.000
So the attention you get from women by your success is just a byproduct.
02:27:50.000
So before the success, did you have that mentality?
02:27:57.000
Like when you didn't have the money that you have now, for example, did you think that same way or no?
02:28:01.000
Yeah, I've always thought monogamy was bullshit.
02:28:07.000
I mean, I've always thought like it just, this doesn't, you know what I mean?
02:28:09.000
Like it didn't feel right to you to be little to one.
02:28:15.000
And also I grew up in a Muslim family where I seen guys with like multiple wives and shit.
02:28:22.000
It was normalized to you from a young age, probably.
02:28:28.000
Like, it doesn't work when there's a woman with multiple dudes, but it works when a man has multiple women.
02:28:34.000
It's been that way since the beginning of time.
02:28:38.000
I've seen multiple men who've come and bowed down and given all of their money to get a female that they cheated on and can never get back.
02:28:44.000
And they say they regret every single day of it.
02:29:04.000
I mean, if a girl leaves a guy that's a provider and takes care of her because he cheated on her, she's an idiot if I'm going to be a thousand with you.
02:29:14.000
Most guys can't provide for a woman by themselves.
02:29:16.000
If you find one and he checks off all your boxes but he goes and fucks another girl every now and then, you're an absolute moron if you leave him.
02:29:27.000
Because if he's doing what he's supposed to do, it's not that big of a deal if he goes and fucks another girl.
02:29:31.000
Fuck no, because I tell you, hella other niggas who would do the same thing.
02:29:34.000
No, no, but are they going to love you the same way?
02:29:37.000
In my opinion, it's like, this podcast is making loyal men look bad.
02:29:43.000
I'm telling you that loyal men, there's very little loyal...
02:29:47.000
What I'm trying to explain to you is that very few men are actually loyal sexually like you think.
02:29:51.000
If you find one, kudos to you, but good luck with that.
02:30:03.000
Yo, if you're over here mad at him from looking at chicks, come on, man.
02:30:13.000
I have seen his phone and I've seen his messages.
02:30:26.000
So, what's the ring have to do anything about it, man?
02:30:31.000
Until I know that he's cheated and he's actually put his dick inside another female, that's when I'll leave.
02:30:35.000
What I'm trying to tell you is that men are not naturally sexually monogamous or loyal.
02:30:42.000
But the reality is, most guys are monogamous out of necessity.
02:30:47.000
He loves you, but he wants to fuck other girls.
02:30:49.000
Like, if he could fuck another girl tomorrow, he would do it.
02:30:51.000
But you, he probably doesn't want to listen to your nagging or anything, so he's like, fuck this shit, it's not worth the headaches.
02:31:05.000
I feel like, I feel like if I'm in a situation...
02:31:11.000
There's only one time I've ever put my hand on him.
02:31:13.000
And that's because it got to a point where I was frustrated.
02:31:17.000
So you was nagging first, and then you pushed him.
02:31:19.000
I didn't like him because I just retaliated to something that I've seen over and over.
02:31:25.000
Me reacting to something I've seen over and over.
02:31:27.000
There's never an excuse to put your hand on somebody.
02:31:35.000
He's put his hands on me before he's pushed me.
02:31:43.000
You lot are making it seem like you ain't got beatings growing up.
02:31:50.000
If somebody pushed you like that, is that something to you?
02:31:53.000
Hey, we don't condone putting hands on women, by the way.
02:31:57.000
I don't like being touched in general if I don't know you.
02:32:02.000
I mean, as in, it's your partner that you're in a relationship with.
02:32:07.000
If you push me with intention, I'm jacking you back.
02:32:12.000
Alright, does anyone else have anything before we go to the next, go back to chats?
02:32:46.000
So then that high standard guy is going to have other girls.
02:33:05.000
I don't really care what any of them are saying.
02:33:15.000
Okay, hoy Karina, vete envolviendo porque te quiero de regalo.
02:33:27.000
It says, um, start wrapping yourself up because I want you for Christmas.
02:33:37.000
Christmas has come and gone, but the big homie has still got a lot of lovin' to give during the holidays.
02:33:48.000
Kinda messed up of you guys for having these special women on and not provide them with some helmets for their safety.
02:33:55.000
Myra, why don't you keep all your wives in one house?
02:34:02.000
There's this Chinese comedian chef that made a joke about the social score shit and got warned to not go back to China, Uncle Roger.
02:34:08.000
Many of these women will still become single mothers just like their own mothers whom they admired.
02:34:19.000
Two hours ago I had her handcuffed and looked at her phone.
02:34:21.000
She was sending nudes on Snapchat to four other guys.
02:34:23.000
I fucked her, let her get dressed, told her I knew what she was doing and get the fuck out.
02:34:40.000
For something that you do wrong, vice versa, if there's time, they'll be fresh fit pod.
02:34:48.000
How about if you had discipline, you would still be a virgin?
02:35:05.000
Just finished watching an interview with the Striking Big Podcast.
02:35:11.000
I went into detail about my former career working for Homeland.
02:35:14.000
So if you guys want to see a different side, definitely go check out that interview.
02:35:17.000
I talked about one time where we almost kind of shooting, man.
02:35:21.000
Miss Shaniqua, next to Fresh, please say Regina backwards.
02:35:26.000
To the whore who called that white nigga bitch, he probably watching the show, you dumb bitch.
02:35:32.000
W Rumble, Castle Club, Frosh and Fittler, Henny Chris, Bills, Icy and even Melissa's rancid ass, but especially big shout out to my nigga medium mo.
02:35:46.000
Alright, these three or fours talk on diseases for a man that gets laid.
02:35:50.000
What about the risk of diseases of you not being a virgin online and having STD? No.
02:35:55.000
Maybe the ladies need a calculator to check their cat...
02:36:01.000
I think a couple girls here are gonna break the calculator, bro.
02:36:05.000
I know some of these girls here are super picky.
02:36:09.000
Okay, all the single ladies, what in the hell are you waiting for?
02:36:15.000
Real quick, how many of you are wife material here at the table?
02:36:24.000
You don't think you're wife material, Miss Hong Kong?
02:36:36.000
I don't have, like, an official established career.
02:36:39.000
Like, I feel like there's certain things that I want to have in my life for myself, but also for somebody else before I become a wife.
02:37:04.000
I'm curious that she's not pissed off because you pissed me off already.
02:37:09.000
Germany, I'm just repeating what you said earlier.
02:37:33.000
It's more of a I haven't found the right person not to bring in worth, but I haven't found somebody that I want to be with and be like, I don't believe in marriage.
02:37:47.000
I don't do you think not that I don't believe in committed relationships, but I don't believe in marriage.
02:37:52.000
Do you think a promiscuous girl can be wife material?
02:38:00.000
So then by, wouldn't you be fair to say that you're not wife material then?
02:38:15.000
Like, having an OnlyFans and fucking a bunch of dudes disqualifies you from being wife material, yeah.
02:38:26.000
So you think, so because right in this moment now, because of where I am, in the future, never.
02:38:37.000
I'll never be life material because of what I'm doing currently.
02:38:45.000
Are you familiar with the term or the phrase, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife?
02:38:55.000
Yo, can you pull up that study about women and body count and then marriages?
02:39:08.000
I said that I... I mean, statistically speaking, hold on, this is a fact.
02:39:12.000
Statistically speaking, they found that once a woman hits a certain number of partners, her ability to be in a long-term relationship and a marriage drops off precipitously.
02:39:22.000
And we've seen many examples of people changing a housewife to, sorry, a whole to housewife and what happens?
02:39:27.000
So it's a fact that promiscuous women are not wife material, statistically speaking, factually speaking.
02:39:33.000
If you've ever seen What's Your Number, definitely watch it.
02:39:36.000
But I think that the movie, but anyway, I think we turn whole men into husband material all the time.
02:39:49.000
No, no, but you're comparing a promiscuous man to a promiscuous woman.
02:39:54.000
But you can turn that into a husband, so why can't you turn a...
02:40:09.000
If you're sleeping with multiple people, what's the term of being a whore?
02:40:19.000
I'll just use an analogy that I use all the time.
02:40:50.000
Like, Yeah, you can fuck 10 girls and you're not a hoe, but a girl can fuck 10 guys and she's a hoe.
02:41:08.000
Okay, how many kids can you have per year, Miss Germany?
02:41:17.000
That's important because it all starts with the biology.
02:41:19.000
So if you can only have one kid per year, do you have to be selective on who you allow to impregnate you?
02:41:26.000
But since I can have as many kids as I want indiscriminately, do I have to be as discerning on who I have sex with?
02:41:38.000
Obviously, that's a component, right, of you being able to do it and have multiple wives.
02:41:42.000
That's why religions that allow polygamy, they typically say, hey, you need to be able to provide for each woman to check some balances.
02:41:47.000
What I'm saying, from a strictly biology perspective, women are pickier than men, right?
02:41:54.000
Okay, so since women are pickier than men, If a girl has sex with a bunch of dudes, that shows that she's not picky, right?
02:42:04.000
Why can't I be picky with the men that I do have sex with?
02:42:08.000
Why can't I have sex with a lot of men but not be picky about the men that I have sex with?
02:42:19.000
I'm obviously picking the men that I'm fucking.
02:42:22.000
Why can't I be picky about the men that I'm fucking?
02:42:30.000
So you're not as picky as, I guess, other girls.
02:42:34.000
I can have sex with a different guy every month.
02:42:35.000
That doesn't mean that I'm not picky about how I choose him.
02:42:40.000
See, the thing is, how you pick them and the amount of men you have sex with is different.
02:42:46.000
So, how you filter them is one thing, but how many you have sex with is another.
02:42:59.000
I'm saying a component of being a wifey material is not being promiscuous.
02:43:06.000
So that disqualifies you from being wifey material.
02:43:12.000
You said that you could be a wifey material in the future.
02:43:14.000
You said you could be a wifey material in the future.
02:43:15.000
And I made the argument that actually, technically, you can't.
02:43:18.000
So you don't think that promiscuous women don't ever, like, stop being promiscuous?
02:43:25.000
And they're more likely to end relationships and initiate divorce.
02:43:47.000
You really think a guy having sex with ten girls and a woman having sex with ten dudes is the same?
02:43:52.000
Okay, what's your body count then, since you think it's the same?
02:44:16.000
I'm just saying, like, because you're saying it doesn't matter.
02:44:22.000
I just don't understand why it's the difference.
02:44:26.000
Hold on, hold on, because I fucking knew you were going to do that.
02:44:29.000
The reason why you don't want to answer the question is because you know deep down, as a woman, your body count does matter.
02:44:38.000
Why is it for you a difference when a guy fucks 10 girls or when a girl fucks 10 guys?
02:44:42.000
Because no girl's gonna disqualify me and say, oh, you've had sex with too many girls in your past.
02:44:50.000
Because men have an interest in making sure that their girl's not a whore.
02:44:55.000
But we want to have a whore who fucked on every girl.
02:44:58.000
But we also don't want to have a guy who fucked on every...
02:45:02.000
I don't want to have a guy who fucked on all the bitches.
02:45:13.000
But how would you know that she's a hoe if she's not telling you?
02:45:17.000
A man can be, even though he used to be a hoe or whatever, he can change for the right one.
02:45:25.000
I'm going to be honest with you because when they find that right female, they can change everything about them.
02:45:31.000
They'll fix up, they'll do everything for them just to keep them.
02:45:35.000
I think you guys are missing the big point here.
02:45:37.000
Women don't give a fuck about a man's sexual history.
02:45:44.000
Look, in human beings, right, in homo sapiens, they've done this with chimpanzees.
02:45:49.000
Chimp is by himself, show him female chimps, chimps don't want him.
02:45:52.000
And chimpanzees are the closest to humans, by the way.
02:45:53.000
He has female chimps with him, then they want him.
02:45:56.000
Women are attracted to men that have other girls.
02:45:59.000
You look at a nightclub, you go in there, we're all the women concentrated with the dudes that have the table.
02:46:06.000
You guys can sit here and say, I don't want a hoe.
02:46:30.000
You just said a minute ago that it does matter for a guy's pals, right?
02:46:36.000
For me, I don't understand why you say it's for you a difference when you fuck 10 girls and you not a hoe and she fuck 10 guys and she's a hoe.
02:46:52.000
A man that got sex with a bunch of girls is respected.
02:47:04.000
Since you're a high volume man, will we all ladies get dinner from you tonight?
02:47:23.000
You don't want to answer the question because you know that the number matters for you as a female, but my number don't matter.
02:47:30.000
It doesn't matter because I don't need to tell anybody about my private life if I don't want to tell.
02:48:08.000
You're triggered because I don't want to tell you the number.
02:48:15.000
But you can't say you bought a cap because you're triggered.
02:48:22.000
You're missing the point that we're saying that it clearly matters because you feel some type of way about telling it, which is fine.
02:48:30.000
I don't need to tell you nothing if I don't want to.
02:48:44.000
All these hand gestures, all the other stuff, I've been extremely respectful with you.
02:48:49.000
No, no, no, because I'm proving the point here and I asked you a question because you said body count is the same, blah, blah, blah.
02:48:54.000
Then I asked you a simple question, well, tell us yours.
02:48:57.000
It establishes my point that women feel some type of way.
02:49:00.000
But what we're not going to do, because you've been fairly disrespectful, swearing at the host and everything else.
02:49:04.000
Disrespectful, and you work in the bitch, the shit you talk to her, you're the disrespectful.
02:49:09.000
He's the disrespectful, laughing at me and saying, I'm triggered.
02:49:26.000
But I'm checking you right now, letting you know that I'm not going to sit here and be disrespectful on my own podcast by the guest.
02:49:36.000
With some attitude and everything else like that.
02:49:43.000
Also, you may, oh, you're fucking pissing me off right now.
02:49:46.000
Because I think it's super disrespectful to talk girls like that.
02:49:52.000
So if I don't have an opinion, it's my opinion.
02:50:01.000
I'm just saying that I don't get the point that you guys can fuck 10 girls.
02:50:10.000
I explained it to you and I asked you the question.
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I explained biology, but you refused to listen.
02:50:40.000
Ladies, why do y'all focus more on men cheating when there have been studies that have women cheating at a high rate?
02:50:52.000
I mean, there's a bunch of reasons why women cheat more.
02:51:01.000
No, but you said why we focus more on men cheating.
02:51:05.000
He said, he asked, why are we more focused on men cheating?
02:51:09.000
We're not dating women, so we're going to focus on what the men are doing.
02:52:12.000
Ladies, please state how many drinks it would take you to sleep more fresh.
02:52:15.000
She has a Lambo Q dog and a BBC. What the fuck, man?
02:52:20.000
Support Dad goes, WDiscordGang, LRoadhog, Myron, every time I play Overwatch, comp is a support.
02:52:27.000
I'd always have to be a DPS healer because one of the DPS is trash.
02:52:30.000
What is the most annoying thing about Overwatch?
02:52:37.000
I guess I never thought about her like that because she was pushing three bills.
02:52:45.000
Every other girl stopped being my friend because I either smashed or tried to smash.
02:53:35.000
A girl next to Mara just stood up like Tory Lanez in an interview or a podcast.
02:53:38.000
I'm dead, but she low-key looks like Jenna Ortega.
02:53:43.000
Molar Roccos, have you guys seen the new Owen Cook video?
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He has a Val Critiques of Dating Podcast and a High Value Man you have to check out.
02:53:57.000
Follow for years now, WFNF. We don't have problem with Owen Cook at all, man.
02:54:01.000
But, I mean, bro, we don't watch other people's shit like that.
02:54:12.000
For all of you guys, would you say it's sex or even talking to another girl?
02:54:17.000
Whatever you can't do in front of your partner.
02:54:23.000
Whatever you can't do in front of your partner.
02:54:27.000
Do you think it's cheating if a girl has a provocative Instagram?
02:54:37.000
Well, we just said anything that you can't do in front of your partner is cheating.
02:54:47.000
I cannot hide my big boobs no matter what I do.
02:54:55.000
I'm going to have a private Instagram because I can't help that I have big boobs.
02:55:06.000
You do understand a component of wifey material is being able to dress modestly and preserve yourself?
02:55:18.000
Understandable, but if you've got a man, I mean...
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There's no way to dress modestly when you have big boobs in a small frame.
02:55:40.000
You said that you will be in the future, and I'm saying that your actions now will dictate whether you're a wife in the future.
02:55:47.000
I actually said that I don't believe in marriage.
02:55:55.000
If a guy finds out that you used to be promiscuous in the past, you go, like, what the fuck?
02:55:59.000
You say men generally, like, there's not exceptions to that rule.
02:56:20.000
Any guy that would tolerate that, you would not be attracted to.
02:56:28.000
Every time a girl makes the whole argument, you already knew they outside already.
02:56:33.000
Starwads goes, UK, if he is not physically cheating, looking is the least of your worries.
02:56:36.000
As long as the looking isn't escalating, I would let it go.
02:56:38.000
Or don't go to places where he has things to look at.
02:56:43.000
I think y'all missed the biggest point here is that she didn't like him in the first place like that.
02:57:15.000
Bravo said, these bitches are so dumb, I can name two different states for every girl on the panel, and I'm Canadian.
02:57:24.000
Ladies, what band comes to mind when you think of an attractive, dominant, strong band?
02:57:45.000
I mean, the strong dominant men, I guess, that I've witnessed have been in my family, but I'm not attracted to them.
02:58:46.000
I just feel like someone who's a leader and selfless.
02:59:16.000
The guy that plays in this one TV show on Netflix but I can't remember it so I won't say his name.
02:59:21.000
You know it's actually kind of shocking that none other girls were able to name anybody because they haven't had one.
02:59:32.000
I mean, that tells me that you might have had one and he just didn't want to take you seriously.
02:59:37.000
Or maybe you just haven't made yourself available to one.
02:59:40.000
What's more scary is that they don't know how to keep that man.
02:59:45.000
But we just talked about how random, I mean, how rare you guys are.
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But the hundreds of men that have approached you or talked to you, I guarantee one of them maybe was.
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Do they stay long enough to work and put in the effort?
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Women don't understand that it's their job to keep the man.
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If you guys have been paying attention during this pod, we're actually giving you guys the sauce on how to keep a guy around and how men really think, but you guys are so on your emotions and shit.
03:01:00.000
I said, if there's a guy that checks all the boxes and that does all that, then he can do whatever he wants as long as he doesn't do it in front of my face.
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None of the things that you're telling me today are things that I haven't heard before.
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And I like having conversation about why I disagree and I like to hear people's opinions.
03:01:18.000
If I tell you that the sky is blue and you disagreed with the sky is blue...
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I would say that would make you a moron if I told you the sky was blue and then you said I disagree with the sky being blue.
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I'm telling you a majority of men think this way and this is how we think and this is how we vet women and this is how we look at women from the purview of a relationship and our standards.
03:01:58.000
But yeah, I go into detail as to why feminism, how it's indoctrinated a lot of women, how it's fucked them up and they don't really understand how the world really works and how they are delusional.
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Literally, the fact that you can sit there and say, I disagree with biology and reality is crazy to me.
03:02:13.000
I didn't say I disagreed with biology or reality.
03:02:16.000
But what I'm telling you is anchored in biology and statistics and reality.
03:02:28.000
If you told me, right, hey, women want men that are tall, athletic, handsome, and have money.
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Because I am an idiot if I don't agree with fact.
03:03:00.000
No, because I'm not going to go in circles with you.
03:03:11.000
Marco says, are those two black ladies for sale?
03:03:47.000
Yo, Them Boys Got Them Coins says, Shalom Myronstein.
03:03:59.000
Icycy2 says, ladies, for our Myron Fittler, he's not with the games tonight.
03:04:04.000
You've been gassed up all your lives, but he's got all six chambers locked and loaded for your delusions.
03:04:13.000
Bro, y'all think he's gonna get us canceled, bro.
03:04:15.000
Women want no future have the chance to meet future while you have to make a future to compete with future.
03:04:43.000
You know, we brought girls on the podcast that have fucked Future before and they're absolute losers.
03:04:52.000
A girl with no future can fuck Future while you as a man have to compete with Future.
03:05:30.000
And y'all be speaking in general, but it's like everybody doesn't feel that same way.
03:05:45.000
They had to be prescribed with my prescription.
03:05:52.000
There's a little thing for your nose and then two things to sit on your ears, right?
03:05:57.000
Okay, we can take your glasses and put them on every single person here.
03:06:01.000
Because in general, we all have a nose and two ears.
03:06:05.000
But they won't be able to see because my prescription is in there.
03:06:10.000
So they took something small about your glasses and made it personified for you.
03:06:14.000
But the reality is that the frame itself is designed to fit everyone.
03:06:19.000
And then they simplified a small part of it for you.
03:06:30.000
Everybody's brain does not function the same way.
03:06:32.000
If I had missing one ear, I would have been able to wear your glasses.
03:06:36.000
We don't walk around with lenses that only have one...
03:06:38.000
So why is everybody's comprehension level not at the same...
03:06:40.000
Why is everybody's comprehension level not at the same pace?
03:06:43.000
Well, there is an average IQ for a reason, right?
03:06:46.000
There's a reason why school is standardized to a certain level.
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We do it because in general, most people fall along here, so we are going to do things for people in general.
03:06:55.000
Why do we have signs where it's written in English and not Braille?
03:06:59.000
Because most people have eyes and can see, right?
03:07:01.000
We don't have Braille all over the place because most people aren't blind.
03:07:04.000
We have lenses designed a certain way because most people have two ears and a nose.
03:07:17.000
Durag Myron says, this is for showing the Fittler dono.
03:07:20.000
W Chris WMO. Jason Todd says, a promiscuous woman is respected because it is easier for the average woman to get sex versus the average man.
03:08:01.000
Did you already know this information from before?
03:08:20.000
Did you just refer to yourself as Vintage Coosie?
03:08:35.000
Who was more right in the conversation, us or the girls?
03:08:54.000
She's trying to avoid the PRC. She's trying to avoid beef with them.
03:08:58.000
She just gave her all the politically correct answers.
03:09:02.000
She just don't want to get kidnapped by some Chinese agents.
03:09:10.000
Not much, but I had fun talking shit with y'all.
03:09:21.000
I mean, I feel like you guys already know because all the girls were talking all our shit and we were saying everything.
03:09:39.000
Miss Germany, take us home so we can get some food.
03:09:45.000
I'm just trying to bring a little spice into your show.
03:09:52.000
But for real, I don't feel triggered, to be honest.
03:09:57.000
I just don't agree with everything you see the world.
03:10:09.000
Wanted to be like that, you know, I wish it would be different.
03:10:28.000
I mean, you just move on with it and take ends.
03:10:33.000
After this, well, since the show ended, how do you feel now?
03:10:36.000
Because you were high energy before, now you're kind of like quiet, like shit.
03:10:42.000
To me, I just feel like my point wasn't really heard.
03:10:57.000
Him looking at other girls isn't that big of a deal.
03:10:59.000
And I think for you, you should be lucky and happy that you're in a relationship with a guy that takes you seriously because most guys aren't shit.
03:11:07.000
And the fact that he makes more money than you and is able to provide for you, like if you lost your job tomorrow, he can take care of you.
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That's a blessing in itself because most girls can't say that.
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Also, do not look for it because you will find it.
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Also, I think you should just let him have sex with the girls, man.
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And he won't do it anyways because he's so scared to lose me.
03:11:58.000
If he wants my location, I'm going to ask him for my location.
03:12:11.000
This ain't the UK. Niggas got hit her with the...
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I have heard everything that you've said a million times.
03:12:42.000
No, he wasn't mad because of what you think he was mad about.
03:12:45.000
He was more mad because when I was living with him...
03:12:52.000
I was making money and he felt like I portrayed myself to make less money than I make.
03:12:59.000
So he was more like, that's the issue that he expressed to me about that.
03:13:03.000
Oh, you deceived him about how much money you make.
03:13:09.000
He assumed because I had an OnlyFans, I had made a lot of money.
03:13:15.000
So the amount of money that I actually made was not as much as they assumed that I made.
03:13:21.000
Yeah, he thought I made a lot more than I actually did.
03:13:23.000
So he was mad because he thought I was lying to him about how much I was actually making.
03:13:34.000
I don't even do things with other people on my OnlyFans.
03:13:49.000
Well, listen, you were a good support, so thank you for coming.
03:13:52.000
My black queen, I don't know what you did at the end of the show, but hey, tell us how you feel about it.
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I think everybody participated, answered questions truthfully.
03:14:06.000
I don't think it's clicking for everybody, but...
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Whether or not I agree with what's clicking, it's clicking.
03:14:23.000
She's trying to say it's a fucking C-line if it quacks.
03:14:33.000
That crows just don't like the truth of reality, bro.
03:14:38.000
And this all started with just asking about a phone.
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We're gonna see if we're gonna do an in-studio show or outside.
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But yeah, guys, we'll be back on Friday with a call-in show.
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Sorry FNF Super Chat didn't work, but we got y'all, man.