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00:05:19.000Ladies, don't further ado, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, if you want to, of course.
00:12:56.000So then years later, I broke up with my...
00:13:02.000And then he got divorced and then he saw me out in the club one night for our cousin's birthday and he came up to me and he's like, hey, are you single now?
00:13:18.000So you guys, you guys been together for two years and engaged all, I'm sure you guys dated for a period of time before you got engaged, right?
00:14:07.000Tell us about it, because I would have been the same.
00:14:14.000I was taken from my parents at a very young age and emancipated when I was 16.
00:14:26.000So before that I was just kind of like Kinda like foster care from home to home to home, and then I was made a legal adult at 16, so I've been on my own since then.
00:24:02.000It's what the fuck is going on nowadays.
00:24:06.000A lot of Hispanic bitches talk about, oh, well, I keep fucking Hispanic parents, but their Hispanic parents don't let them know what the fuck they want to do.
00:24:15.000She was not like this when I first met her today.
00:28:25.000What I will say is that the girls that knew me before noticed their improvement, but as far as, like, girls noticing it now, not as, you know, not really.
00:28:32.000But the girls that I knew before when I had the balling, they knew.
00:28:35.000So you don't feel like you've been getting, like, more attention since you've got it?
00:30:29.000There's always exceptions to the rule.
00:30:30.000But what I am saying is that it tends to be in the black community that we champion that type of behavior from women, and that's not the way to go to be attractive to a majority of men.
00:31:56.000A woman, a black woman, women, we know how to be humble and how to submit, but we're in the presence of someone that's strong and that's a leader.
00:32:04.000So would you take self-accountability and maybe say you weren't a leader or you didn't know how to lead?
00:32:13.000But most women, most women, and I'm just asking him a question respectfully, would you feel like maybe you lack something when you were dating those type of women?
00:33:37.000No, they absolutely do because men have to be masculine at all times.
00:33:40.000If a guy shows some type of weakness or he shows some type of inadequacy of being able to be a leader or whatever it may be, please let me finish my point.
00:35:27.000So my thing is, at the end of the day, every human has a masculine and a feminine side.
00:35:32.000When you are born a male, you are naturally supposed to be more in your masculine, but you also can tap into your femininity, which is healthy for each person to do the same woman.
00:35:41.000I mean, the same reason a woman should be tapped into her femininity, but she also needs masculine.
00:35:46.000It's the yin and the yang of the universe.
00:36:32.000There is a time and a place to do certain things.
00:36:34.000So I feel like if you just think about like a woman, you're supposed to be feminine, but there are some aspects like if I have to protect myself, I step into my masculinity.
00:36:43.000I do know that protection, like it's a fight or flight mode.
00:36:47.000It's not that masculine and feminine, it's also just being human.
00:36:51.000And at the end of the day, men have been raised to think like, oh, showing emotions is soft or bad or this and that.
00:37:53.000The reason why I don't date them a lot of the times isn't necessarily because of the way that they look.
00:37:57.000It's because a lot of the behaviors is championed in that community.
00:38:01.000Now, with that said, I've dated plenty of black girls before that were feminine and submissive and weren't a headache, but I've dated a lot, I've dealt with a lot that were headaches, and I've come to realize in that culture, unfortunately, It's champion to be strong and independent and not respect male authority in the black community, because a lot of them are fatherless.
00:38:17.000And since they're fatherless, they don't have that masculine authority to let them know, hey, you need to follow a man's lead.
00:38:22.000Women, a lot of the times from black communities, unfortunately, grew up in a single mother household where she tells them niggas ain't shit.
00:38:27.000Then she has a sister that says niggas ain't shit.
00:38:29.000The music perpetuate niggas ain't shit.
00:38:31.000And then what ends up happening is they grow up and then they don't have a general respect for men and then they meet you and then you get a lot of those toxic traits coming into you because they weren't naturally taught how to be a lady.
00:38:41.000They were very masculinized since birth because they didn't have a man figure.
00:39:08.000It is part of trauma because when you grow up like that in that community and you deal with that, trauma do come in place and then you have to unlearn what you've learned, how you said what you learned in your household.
00:41:29.000I want to say the reason why I asked that question is because a lot of your fans and a lot of people that are replying on this chat that I noticed previously, I'm not going to lie to you.
00:41:40.000It's not even like, okay, I'm talking shit about the female.
00:41:43.000I'm talking shit about her and she's black, so let me throw some salt on top of it.
00:43:00.000And there are people that will take a mile.
00:43:03.000I asked that question about black women because I'm not just getting all of these comments because I'm a woman and I got tattoos and I'm from Chicago.
00:43:10.000I'm getting it because I'm a black ass bitch.
00:43:13.000And I'm trying to figure out why, like I said, how do you feel about it?
00:43:17.000And then, I'm not going to lie to you.
00:43:19.000I asked the question twice because I need to know how you feel about black women, too, from the last podcast.
00:45:15.000Because I'm like, that's not how you do your black women.
00:45:16.000I'm not saying that you gotta keep agreeing with everything that I'm saying, but I'm also saying that you don't down us when it's an opportunity.
00:51:04.000I just wanted to say, I know it's the internet and people gonna talk shit, but I think she was just offended by you agreeing with it and then carrying it on.
00:51:13.000Like, it's what we didn't say at one time.
00:52:30.000This is your show, so you get to do it how you want to, but we do say, like, okay, listen, if you fuck with black women, listen to how black women want to be loved.
00:52:38.000Don't say you loving on your queens, but you don't even know the first thing about loving us.
00:53:15.000When I make fun of other races, they don't cry and complain about it to the same degree that the black community does.
00:53:20.000Unfortunately, the black community is one of the most sensitive communities where if you make jokes on them, especially black women, they get offended, etc.
00:53:25.000But when we say, love you a long time, and you break you by, which we did last show because I think we had an Asian girl in here.
00:56:18.000Ladies, you think that judging people or things by the cover slash way they present is an overall net positive or negative for society at large?
00:56:27.000Not just for yourself, but for society at large.
00:56:53.000Yeah, and that's my argument from before is that women judge a book-wise cover more than men do.
00:56:57.000And it's like, a girl can reject a guy and no one says anything, but if I see a girl and she's super masculine, why am I supposed to give her the benefit of the doubt?
00:57:21.000Yeah, but why am I going to chase a masculine woman?
00:57:24.000My argument is, why would I chase a masculine woman?
00:57:27.000I'm not saying you're going to chase a masculine woman, but at the end of the day, a woman in her femininity, and she's divine and connected to God, she's not just going to fuck you on the first date.
00:58:22.000Okay, so if you are going to say that feminine men are a problem, then you must look at the other side of the coin and say masculine women are also a problem.
00:58:44.000Why is it that women always want us to give y'all the benefit of the doubt, listen to your explanation, listen to your sob story, but you guys would never give a fuck about my story if I was a prokey.
01:01:44.000It's, it sounds, it's always just like, it sounds like a double standard.
01:01:47.000Like you want a man to do this and this and this, but then you're masculine, but then you don't want a man that's shorter than you, but they can't not like you because you're masculine.
01:02:39.000It's a bunch of different traits that go into leadership.
01:02:42.000And what I'm saying is that the man needs to be in the leadership role.
01:02:44.000So it's like women sit there and say, I want an equal partner, but you really don't.
01:02:47.000You want a guy who's better than you in every regard.
01:02:49.000What they want in this day and age is they want a man to do what they say, but they don't want to do what their man says, which is why they're single.
01:04:45.000My father was a provider, but the things that I needed to learn from my dating life, which could play a role in why I'm single, is I didn't learn what I needed to learn from my father.
01:11:05.000I think it's the complete opposite because men literally just want like honesty, respect, and loyalty, and fucking, you know, just to be taken care of, but not as much as women.
01:11:14.000Women want their nails, their hair, their da-da-da-da-da, their rent, da-da-da-da-da.
01:11:18.000Men are just like, cook for me, fuck me, love me, and I'm happy.
01:11:34.000Like, you can definitely make a man come before a woman comes.
01:11:38.000I believe that men are very easy to fucking take care of and cater to, versus a woman, she wants a million different things until she's happy, and then even when you have those million things, she's still finding something to complain about.
01:11:58.000Like, kind of what she said, like, men just want, you know, to do the cooking, the cleaning, that's all they want you to do is take care of them and cater to them.
01:12:05.000What the problem is, I think, the women nowadays, they don't want to do that.
01:12:08.000They want to be like, oh, well, you want me to cook and clean for you?
01:13:21.000What I said was, is a woman wants a man that's taller than her, makes a lot of money, all of this, but they don't want to do their part to earn that.
01:13:28.000He gotta be taller than her, and I agree with her.
01:13:30.000I'm 5'3", but I do not want to be the man that was shorter than that.
01:13:35.000No, listen to me listening to this conversation.
01:13:38.000I do not want to be the man that's shorter than me and tell me what the fuck to do.
01:16:18.000And then I'll turn it to the other girls.
01:16:19.000Literally from 100% of what she said, I just feel like, like you said, when I first came on, I did say that I felt like women and men were equal.
01:16:28.000But I've experienced life just a little bit more.
01:16:31.000And I realized that men and women are not equal.
01:18:06.000Well, from my experience with my first boyfriend, if you let men disrespect you like that, they're more likely to do it again, from my experience.
01:18:15.000A man wants the woman that says, no, I'm not dealing with that shit.
01:19:58.000Marrying the person that you're even talking to is so far under fucking 5% that you have to shut the fuck up and cook and clean and suck that motherfucking dick when you want to.
01:20:12.000The chances of any girl in here which is the 1% of getting married is so fucking low you're gonna have to accept your man for a little bit of cheating and maybe not cheating.
01:21:09.000So you would try to work it out if you guys were married, but it would be contingent upon how young you were and how quickly you could get back out there.
01:21:15.000Alright, so you would stick with them assuming your age is at a certain age.
01:21:19.000One, I want to just say, I feel like it's a thing of respect.
01:21:22.000Like, if he comes to me and he's like, yo, I just fucked another bitch, da-da-da-da-da, or I'm about to fuck another bitch, whatever, cool.
01:21:27.000I respect that, but if you over here sitting lying, acting like you loyal, that's what I can't fuck with.
01:21:32.000Yeah, but realistically, would you stay with him if he told you I want to have sex with other women?
01:28:33.000But there is a portion, a significant portion that has certain, I wouldn't even say majority, but I would say there's a significant portion that has traits and behaviors that men don't find attractive and align with stereotypes, unfortunately.
01:30:48.000You guys exploit men yet that more and didn't know that half the people he named that helped men from Sartain Psychax, even Peterson's daughter, have been on the show.
01:30:54.000I guess they're part of the same exploitation as well.
01:30:56.000Don't even mention the thousands of receipts.
01:34:57.000Jeremy Pruitt goes, everyone has preferences and black man's preference is for you to shut your face, be loyal, be respectful, be appreciative and honor your man at all times.
01:35:06.000And then the last two here, Rito City, it's crazy how black women think they're incapable of being racist themselves as if they deserve a pass for being ignorant AF. Black people can't be racist.
01:40:44.000Now, we got Fannie Willis, who's the district attorney down in Georgia, and she indicted a former president of the United States, who was a white man, by the way, who was a billionaire.
01:41:33.000I gave you two clear examples where we have a district attorney that literally indicted a former president of the United States who's a billionaire white male, by the way, okay, that says that people keep saying oppress us, and we had a former president of the United States who was African American.
01:41:46.000Now, you might say, well, who really controls the country?
01:44:18.000All I'm saying ain't that, you should have been saying that, but if a black person starts calling a white person cracker, trail trash, trail trash, whatever the fuck, They not wrong.
01:44:26.000How is that putting you 10 steps behind, though, calling you trailer trash?
01:44:30.000Then you calling me a fucking nigga, and we done bad motherfuckers.
01:46:09.000They have some of the highest incomes in the United States.
01:46:12.000It's not like a police officer is going to pull them over and be like, oh, your name is Dikembe, so I'm going to treat you differently than Jamal over here.
01:46:38.000Systemic racism that you're making the argument is not the reason why black people are not ahead.
01:46:44.000They have more opportunities than 99% of human beings in the world being born here, knowing the English language and having an American passport.
01:46:51.000It's just that people here a lot of times are lazy and don't want to go ahead and strive for more.
01:46:55.000But you made a very good point when you said the people from Nigeria come in because their upbringings are not from the United States, which is where they're leading the system.
01:47:03.000So then it's a cultural problem, not a racial problem.
01:48:31.000I don't think it's to be right to be like that towards anybody.
01:48:34.000So I'm not one of them people who think like, oh, well, you need to treat them like this because they're this evident to their race that's fucked up all the way around the border.
01:48:53.000Literally, when I was growing up as a kid, I got bullied the most by black women just because I had different hair and my skin color was lighter.
01:49:00.000Yeah, I would go over to white people and they would accept me openly.
01:49:03.000But every black girl in my elementary school was bullying me, saying I'm not black, saying I'm too white to hang with them.
01:49:09.000Every person I really got bullied by was fucking black.
01:49:12.000And I'm not mad at that thing, but I'm just saying the most hate and racism I've ever And it's because no one tells black people they're racist.
01:49:22.000But we deal with colorism within our community because I also went through that as well, right?
01:51:23.000And you think if I went into a black community and tried to get a job, they wouldn't hire me because I'm Arab, but they'd hire a black person because they're black.
01:52:13.000Fresh is G. Black women do this to black men who don't tolerate their bullshit.
01:52:17.000They call us black men, not black and all other BS. Black women need to try following the example of good Latino women and act right and follow your men.
01:52:58.000Okay, and then Deej Boy goes, Compare the black woman to young lady that is engaged.
01:53:03.000She was a foster child and probably has the most trauma from her childhood compared to the other ladies on the panel, but she is the most feminine WFNF gang.
01:53:10.000Because you made the argument that it's trauma, but she probably arguably went through some of the most trauma, yet she's the most tempered.
01:53:16.000I believe you go through trauma, but it's your responsibility to heal it.
01:53:19.000So some people like to sit in the victim mindset for 30 fucking years and just keep saying, oh, this happened to me, this happened to me.
01:53:25.000But what are you going to do about how it happened to you and how are you going to heal it and move forward and become a better person?
01:53:29.000Some people want to sit in their 40s and keep complaining about something that happened to them when they was five.
01:53:33.000Then she probably took whatever happened to her when she was younger and grew and fucking learned a lesson and then turned it into something else.
01:54:37.000Yo, Chirac, the fiance getting mad respect from the chat because she's speaking like a normal citizen and displaying sophisticated lady features.
01:54:44.000Also, the hooker next to Myron needs to get domestically abused back to South America.
01:56:47.000If a woman is over here fucking a different man every week filming on OnlyFans, that's one thing.
01:56:53.000But if a woman's out here doing solo content and she's making bread just to provide and fucking get to the next point in life, it's a different level of respect for me.
01:57:46.000So, in person, when you're with somebody, you can be a completely different person.
01:57:49.000At the end of the day, people on my OnlyFans don't know that I fucking pray to God and fucking meditate and do all this other healthy, positive shit.
01:58:37.000I'm just saying that You judge a book by its cover, and I'm saying that men are probably gonna judge a book by its cover too, it's just that they might not tell you about it that they have you in a certain light in their mind.
01:58:47.000People look at me and think, oh, she's a slut, but at the end of the day, I've only fucked three people on OnlyFans, and I've done it for four years.
01:58:55.000Like, it's bitches out here that fuck a different man every fucking week.
01:58:57.000Wait, you have three people on OnlyFans?
01:59:58.000We literally had a girl, right, that was a porn star for a very long time, and she pretty much quit, and she regrets it, and it's, like, really affected her ability to find a guy down the road in the future to take her seriously because...
02:00:10.000Let's say you only had sex with three guys and they were all on camera on OnlyFans.
02:00:14.000Guys are always going to still assume the worst regardless.
02:00:16.000They're going to assume, oh damn, she probably does this with everybody.
02:00:19.000So that's kind of the thing is that once you get into that work, it kind of hurts your ability to find a guy that's going to take you seriously that you would probably want.
02:00:25.000The only guys that I've seen take girls seriously that do that type of work are men that women don't typically desire.
02:00:29.000And the worst case scenario is, as well, let's say you delete your OnlyFans.
02:01:43.000Men don't desire to be married as much.
02:01:46.000A 60 year old man could easily marry a 21 year old but no old man is gonna want somebody that's like 40 because new girls turn 21 every day.
02:01:59.000Let me just say I'm the youngest bitch here so I should be the last one to be married.
02:04:24.000Bender Defender says, to the woman who said blacks can't be racist, do you realize white people right now are actively being shamed for being their race and is the only race that is uncomfortable in their own skin?
02:07:14.000Alright, there are many good black people out there, but these two black queens are the reason why black people have the bad rep they have.
02:07:20.000You guys are trash and have never been oppressed.
02:07:22.000Don't try to compare yourself to your ancestors.
02:07:23.000You need to take your weaves off and let your brain cells operate properly.
02:10:04.000You could be anywhere else in the world, but you're here with us.
02:10:06.000I had the girls write down their questions because you guys know they always hit blanks whenever we ask on the show, so we got to write them down before.
02:10:11.000What are the top five things you look into a woman before you wife them?
02:12:28.000Hey Next question is, since women these days tend to be toxic and superficial, as well as influence their friends to be that way too, is it better okay if your girl prefers having a male best friend?
02:12:53.000Are you asking me this in general or like just in general or you personally?
02:12:57.000Either way, you can answer either one.
02:12:59.000I think a girl should be really close with her brother and have these types of conversations for sure.
02:13:04.000And if you don't, hopefully a dad or an uncle or a cousin, someone that you can trust that isn't trying to have sex with you that's in the family.
02:13:09.000Because I think that's the only way that you're going to get the most honest male feedback that is in your best self-interest and not in his interest to get laid.
02:13:53.000Like with men, you don't have to worry about drama and weird stuff.
02:13:56.000And a lot of the times when you tell a guy a problem, they're going to have a solution versus just sitting there listening to your problems.
02:14:00.000And they know what it's like to be a man.
02:14:01.000So when I ask questions about my relationship too, they can help me.
02:15:44.000Why would he wait like seven years to do that thing?
02:15:48.000Because he knew he didn't have a chance.
02:15:50.000First off, guys that are friends with girls, some of them will wait until the end of earth to get a chance with you.
02:15:57.000I would say it depends on what your man is comfortable with but I tell girls in general you should probably get rid of all your male friends and most guys would prefer you did that even though they might not explicitly say it.
02:16:07.000Even if you've known them for like let's say if you're in a relationship and you got married and there's this guy who you've been friends with for 10 years You can't be friends with him, I'm sorry.
02:16:17.000I think it can work if there's boundaries.
02:16:18.000Like, no, you can't sleep over, sleep in the same bed.
02:16:54.000So, do you prefer if your girlfriend has, like, a messy friend that's always trying to have her do whole shit, or she's got a male friend that's real and genuine, and she's always in check?
02:17:03.000If it were to me, I would make her give up both of them.
02:17:07.000Is he real and genuine because he wants you more than a firstborn?
02:17:11.000I understand, and some men might not know this, but I understand as a man it's my duty to come in and save my girl from herself.
02:17:18.000A lot of modern day women have extremely bad habits that put their relationship at risk that they're not even aware of.
02:17:22.000Going to the club, keeping their whole friends around, keeping guy friends around.
02:17:27.000All of these things that are very problematic.
02:17:29.000And I tell women, I don't commit to girls that have these things in place.
02:17:31.000If you do, then you're not getting a relationship.
02:17:34.000That's the price that you have to pay to get a relationship with me.
02:17:36.000You're not going to be able to behave like you're single while having me on the side.
02:17:39.000And I'm very stern with these boundaries.
02:17:41.000Because I think you have to demand excellence from women.
02:17:44.000Women demand excellence from men, but men typically don't demand anything back.
02:17:47.000Guys need to be able to demand that back.
02:18:46.000I like girls that don't cause a scene.
02:18:47.000I like girls that, like, I could bring them in with my...
02:18:49.000Like, I could bring them to a situation, and they don't really speak unless spoken to, and I don't think, like, enough women understand that, like...
02:18:55.000So you don't like girls who don't stand up for themselves, or you just like when they only stand up for themselves?
02:19:37.000I don't think it's necessarily that we bring girls on the podcast to hear their opinions as much as to get the mindset of many modern women and how they think and behave.
02:19:46.000We talk about the podcast on female nature in the United States and in the West in general, and people don't believe me when I say, hey, a lot of girls have this mindset.
02:19:54.000I'm like, okay, we'll come on and we'll bring women on the show, and you guys are going to see right in 4K how a lot of women think.
02:20:00.000But what I'm saying is that obviously in this situation, this podcast, it's a platform where we're having a discussion.
02:20:06.000But what I'm saying is that in general, when men are talking to women or trying to find an attractive woman or whatever, her opinion is not at the pinnacle of his interests of what he wants.
02:20:44.000Like, the male experience versus the female experience is drastically different.
02:20:48.000You take a 21-year-old woman and a 21-year-old guy, that woman has so many more opportunities than that guy, and that guy isn't going to get those opportunities if he's lucky unless he works really hard and 20 years later.
02:20:58.000Well, it's easier to be a woman than it is to be a man.
02:21:54.000I don't give it a number because I can say, you can look younger and be 30 and look like 24, but the main thing would probably be past your childbearing years.
02:22:14.000I feel like for a man, when they look at these things, they look at Okay, once you hit 30, why would they go, no offense, why would a man go for a 30-year-old when he can have a fresh 21-year-old that men look at it as,
02:22:32.000oh, she's 30, which means she's older, she's been ran through, she's tarnished, she's hardened by all the relationships, so she's lost her femininity because she's masculine.
02:23:55.000But the thing is that you can always turn back the clock a little bit with going to the gym and everything else like that, but at the end of the day, As you get older, you're gonna have more experiences, you're gonna have more partners, you're gonna have more things that kind of mold you into the person that you are.
02:24:14.000I always kind of look at women, not to sound like an asshole, women are kind of like clay, right?
02:24:18.000And there's only a certain amount of time where the clay is warm enough where you can mold it.
02:24:22.000Once a woman reaches a certain age, she sent her away, she ain't gonna change, You get what you get.
02:24:26.000You can't really mold her and turn her into the woman that you want.
02:24:28.000And I think any guy that's a competent leader that's successful needs to get a girl and turn her into the best girlfriend and wife for him.
02:24:35.000But if you get with an older girl that's center ways and I have my schedule and then my routine, that's not someone that you really want by your side because she's gonna be center ways and her ways might not necessarily align with your belief system.
02:24:46.000And that's why I said it hardens the woman.
02:24:51.000Once you've gone through so much trauma with men, you lose your femininity and then you become hard.
02:24:57.000And that's when you become like how you guys were saying earlier about, oh, well, you have to earn me to be feminine.
02:25:02.000No, because a 21 year old, they're not damaged emotionally.
02:25:05.000They're automatically going to see you and be like, oh, hi, opposed to a 30 year old that's been through so much is going to be like, oh, what are you doing?
02:25:13.000No, you want my high, you have to earn it.
02:25:24.000Shit, let me just say what I'm trying to say.
02:25:27.000I just heard a belief that was kind of funny, where it's basically like, if you haven't found your husband by the age of 24, it's because you're not living a righteous life in a way.
02:25:37.000And I know I do OnlyFans and shit, but...
02:25:40.000I just wanted to say that, and I strongly believe in that my parents got married when they was 19 years old, and they was fucking married for damn near 30 years or whatever.
02:25:49.000So I just feel like that is fucking true.
02:25:52.000Like, if you're living a moral- But what if you found your person and then you got a divorce?
02:26:00.000And I think the other thing too is that women are very quick to divorce and women initiate like 70-80% of divorces because women think my happiness overrides everything when in reality you're supposed to stay in a marriage for duty not because you know of your happiness and that's another thing that my mom warned me about she said as soon as things like don't if your girl's not happy she's gonna leave you like Western women tend to have this ideal where I'm not happy I'm gonna do what's right for me I'm gonna just leave whereas like Women from other cultures are like,
02:26:27.000I'm gonna stick through you through thick and thin because it is what it is.
02:27:04.000I'm not going to give it up for him just wanting something different.
02:27:08.000They call it a change-up is what they want.
02:27:10.000It has nothing to do with their feelings.
02:27:12.000They probably won't even remember who the girl is, you know?
02:27:17.000If more girls took your mindset on, they would be a lot happier and be able to keep a guy long-term because a lot of girls go with their feelings.
02:27:54.000Yeah, but even beside the show, I've been like this.
02:27:57.000I didn't start watching your podcast until like...
02:28:01.000A few months ago when my fiance showed it to me, I got him way before that because I know how to treat a man, be his peace.
02:28:08.000You know, I don't want to struggle and if he's not happy and I'm yelling at him and bitching at him every day he comes home, what man wants to hear that?
02:28:16.000Like, no, he's going to go find somebody else and then what?
02:28:18.000I'm going to find myself at 30, alone, single, can't find a man because I was too busy worried about my feelings.
02:31:00.000Because our pictures look damn near the motherfucking same.
02:31:03.000Mine is just, I just got a few splits in mine.
02:31:05.000Yeah, okay, but let me explain that stuff.
02:31:07.000Before, no, no, no, I'm just saying, before I got with my fiance, I dressed like a nun, I didn't drink, I didn't swear, I didn't do anything.
02:32:25.000All right, well, hey, if it was his idea and he told you that this is what I want, then hey, as long as the man's the one deciding it, then...
02:33:54.000No, other than that, like, you guys have great questions and I like how you put you guys in, like, uncomfortable opinions and make the girls talk and, like, make them...
02:37:11.000I felt like this was really interesting to see so many people's different point of views, especially about controversial topics as far as racism goes and everything like that.
02:37:26.000It's very interesting to see everyone's different point of views.
02:37:29.000And kind of piggyback off what she said as well, I really pray for this new generation because they're really missing out and honestly, they're Ruining it for themselves for other women for men like I it's almost like I feel sorry for these men that these are the women that they had to choose from you know and Because what she's saying like
02:38:00.000if you guys because here's the thing Men, we're easy to please, right?
02:38:04.000I know some of you guys said that women are easier to please.
02:38:42.000I mean, he can be 80 years old and still have seven children.
02:38:46.000It's so vastly different for women and men.
02:38:50.000And I think the sooner that women understand that, I feel like it's the sooner that they'll really truly be happy instead of thinking that These other things in their life is going to fulfill them.
02:39:01.000And then they look down the line and they're like, man, I wish I had a man, but you can't get one now.
02:39:12.000And I low-key feel like it's only getting worse from here just because of the females that are being promoted with music, like Sexy Red, and no disrespect to her, but it's just a certain image that's being pushed out by a woman of, you know...
02:39:25.000My question is, why is it American women are the ones that's like this?
02:40:23.000Women typically want a guy who's going to be conservative, traditional, a gentleman, have all these traits from a traditional angle but still be arousing at the same time.
02:40:34.000It's very difficult to find these guys that are attractive but at the same time still arousing.
02:40:38.000What I'm saying is that Guys that have these traits a lot of times aren't looking for sex workers.
02:40:42.000Are you okay with the fact that you've pretty much ostracized yourself from that caliber of man for the rest of your life?
02:40:56.000Damn, y'all don't want to let me speak, do y'all?
02:41:00.000I've had multiple men come up to me and say, yo, if I pay everything and get you away from OnlyFans or if I give you another way to make money besides OnlyFans, will you quit it and we grow together?
02:41:43.000You're either A, going to meet him and he's not going to take you seriously, or B, he's never going to come along in the first place because of what you do.
02:41:58.000Well, they'll just string you along, and as long as you stay, that's it, until they meet the real conservative woman that they want.
02:42:04.000That's why a lot of times when these girls that are quote-unquote like hoes, they'll meet these men, and they'll be like, yeah, I was in a relationship with him for four years, but he said he's not ready to get married yet, and then he'll break up with you, and then he'll be like engaged two weeks later to a conservative traditional woman.
02:42:16.000But it's women that are literal doctors and go to school and don't even post on social media, yet they're in that same position.
02:43:25.000Basically, I'm just saying how y'all was just saying I can't get a certain, or if I was dating a certain man for four years and he still doesn't want to get married or whatever, then that's my fault because of the way I portray myself on social media or whatever.
02:43:38.000My thing is, women who have corporate jobs and don't portray themselves on social media like that, Still have the same problem.
02:44:30.000So, if a woman is fucking independent, she hasn't met her man yet or nothing, and she has fucking bills to pay, how the fuck is she supposed to pay them bills if she not working?
02:44:37.000They don't care about you paying your bills.
02:44:38.000They just don't like the, I miss independent, I don't need a nigga to do shit.
02:48:34.000They're saying, they're making the argument to her that you got your own, but you got it in a way which is gonna penalize you later with finding a man which is gonna eventually fulfill you.
02:48:45.000And then when you tell your kids, you know, when your kids, oh yeah, you know, I chose to do OnlyFans instead of getting a respectable job and going to nine to five.
02:50:02.000Regardless of what culture you come from, what religion you come from, whether you're Jewish, Muslim, Christian, hell, even if you're atheists, all men in general have a point of contention with women that have a promiscuous past.
02:52:59.000No, I'm being dead ass because I like a lot of fucking things on the internet right now is just talking about pointless ass shit and comparing BBLs and sucking dick and whatever the fuck.
02:53:09.000And I respect that we actually brought real life problems on this show and everyone voiced their opinion on shit that really fucking matters in this world.
02:53:15.000We're not just talking about how good you are in bed.
02:53:35.000I respect, not her, I respect every woman in this room of how y'all voiced y'all opinion in a respectful way.
02:53:41.000And it wasn't necessarily, it wasn't degrading anybody in any way, but you were just speaking your opinion.
02:53:47.000And I really respect that because I haven't met many females in Miami to Speak on what they want to say, honestly, without sounding in a degrading way.
02:53:57.000Like, especially, you said everything in a very respectful way, and that's just your belief, your preference.
02:54:01.000Well, because it's never my intent to go out and, like, hurt someone's feelings, and that's why I commend you, because, you know, I understand that it must be really hard for you to sit here and, like, he's over there calling you a hoe and all this, but you know what?
02:54:49.000It doesn't matter what people think about you.
02:54:51.000It matters what you think about yourself when you go at home and you sleep in your bed at night and you look in the mirror and you get in the shower.
02:54:56.000If you are happy with your decisions and how you treated people that day and how you are managing your life, that's all that fucking matters.
02:55:02.000It doesn't matter what everyone else is fucking saying.
02:55:04.000That's why I'm not offended by y'all's opinions because I'm...