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00:28:43.000But we're going to give you guys a pause of what it's like.
00:34:48.000But I let people find me on Instagram, then I'll leave them on Delivered, and if they just so happen to see me in person, then I'll be like, okay, like, let me see what he's about.
00:34:58.000But it usually doesn't get that far with me because...
00:35:01.000I feel like, I don't know, I'm just tired of being lusted over, to be honest.
00:35:05.000It's a lot of, like, their intentions aren't as pure as I would hope for them to be.
00:36:36.000But, like, a lot of women complain that they don't get approached when they're at...
00:36:39.000Grocery store or at a coffee shop or something like that like guys don't approach them and actually like try they might who in Hollywood right whistle that doesn't count I mean as an actually walk up to you.
00:36:52.000Whatever like do you still get those kinds of approaches?
00:36:54.000Yeah, I get those kinds of approaches Yeah, that's what I'm talking about when they like come up to you try to start like a cute conversation or talk about the muffins and How often does that happen to you when you're going about your daily life does happen often?
00:42:12.000Whether you withhold your comment or you lie about it, women typically lie to each other about their beauty because you guys kind of, oh, my God, my feelings.
00:42:19.000But the thing is that no matter how ugly you are as a woman, you could probably find a guy that will date you.
00:42:24.000As a man, however, if you're a loser, it's going to be very hard for you to find a woman that will date you.
00:42:28.000So with men, you have to be honest with them or else you're not going to get results.
00:42:31.000So I want to get your ladies' takes on some of these profiles, what the vibe it gives you, I guess, speaking womanese.
00:43:38.000And just so you guys know, right now we do have a link in Cast Club if you guys want to get into Cast Club Premium where we're going to be doing stuff like this for y'all.
00:43:45.000Behind the paywall, we're going to tell you guys what you need to actually do.
00:43:47.000But I want you guys to see real-time women looking at your profile and criticizing it, what comes to mind.
00:45:03.000All right, so you said ugly, hairline fucked up, strange pose, and he has kids, which I don't know how you came to that conclusion, but interesting.
00:47:54.000I think he's just too old for me like he looks like he got his shit together so good for him but just not my type too old Okay, guys, again, it may seem crazy with the photos and editing and getting the right pauses,
00:48:11.000but women will tell you a lot from one photo About yourself, and they say, you know what?
00:48:28.000It is a learning lesson, because now you know where you need to start, because, dude, most guys don't know what it is, and they say, oh, maybe she'll respond to my DM. But no, bro, she'll just want to give you a chance, bro, at all.
00:48:38.000So this is a very good starting point for him, at least, to start.
00:51:46.000So they literally, like, they're saying you give off autistic vibes, Jehovah Witness, nerd, boring, looks like your girl cheated on you, which is a way of them saying that you're a feminine man.
00:53:20.000I agree with you, ladies, actually, that said you wouldn't respond because, me personally speaking, I have an iPhone, and if you're sending me green bubbles, I think you're either a scammer or trying to hide something.
00:53:33.000As a woman dating a guy, it's almost like an unheard of barrier that you have an iPhone, sorry, an Android, and it's like, okay, this Android that you're texting me from, It's kind of shady.
00:54:01.000Not awkward situations where they can tell that you look like a weirdo.
00:54:05.000They're literally saying, yeah, he looks like he's on the autistic spectrum.
00:54:08.000This is how women look at your guys' profiles.
00:54:10.000And sometimes you guys need to hear it from the ladies themselves that your pictures fucking suck, your profile's awkward, you give off strange vibes, and they don't want to fucking take it seriously.
00:54:18.000And also, they will never tell you this in person.
00:54:33.000We've been telling these niggas this shit for years.
00:54:36.000Idea and thought process where you know what we've seen girls response to Android text messages and it's like it's an L so we told audience listen get an iPhone for dating because it's better it's more accessible and it's not a weird vibe when you send a girl a text and it's true so yeah no but this is great that you guys are saying this and we didn't prepare y'all beforehand but everyone that showed their Instagram so far listen this is not a dig at you this is just you understand where you're at in the data marketplace Yo,
00:59:10.000It depends if he has his own business.
00:59:14.000Yeah, if she didn't say that, they would have said less, bro.
00:59:16.000No, my cousin is a truck driver, so I know that they don't work for a little money, especially if you've got your own truck and stuff like that.
00:59:25.000I don't think a majority of women know.
00:59:27.000But at the end of the day, I'm not dating anybody for money.
00:59:30.000I mean, yeah, your career matters, but if you're not attractive, too, I'm not about to be dating you and playing in your face.
01:02:17.000Yeah, and unless women are kind of involved in that work or have someone close to them that is aware, like she did with the truck driving, they're not going to really know the ins and outs of it, and they're going to go with the more official title.
01:03:28.000I want to call into the next show and show not hating but bummed out on some topics that Fresh was 100% right about when he went at Sneeko that applies to the FNF platform.
01:07:26.000No, we do, but also girls who live in Miami, no matter where they come from, even if they're American, white American, they still kind of expect that.
01:15:01.000So I pay for Castle Club yearly for no reason.
01:15:03.000The point to Access Castle Club is to access premium content like trading and dating, but now you are putting a premium content on the premium content we purchased?
01:15:11.000Yeah, this dude is definitely misunderstanding.
01:15:12.000You're still getting all the information, Zoom calls from us, all the content.
01:15:16.000We're just saying if you want actually detailed and hands-on work with dating, stocks, and as well, crypto, we got you guys for the premium.
01:15:25.000You can still stay regular, but if you want more access to detailed help, we got you guys.
01:15:53.000Jay down like America, God bless Russia, and long live Putin, a true fucking Chad who protects Christianity and traditionalism, so the women in his society don't become degenerate whores like this.
01:22:39.000Now, because you gave different metrics of what he's looking for, are you saying that regardless of the metric, it's going to be easy or hard, or does it vary depending on what he's looking for?
01:22:50.000So if he's looking to just fuck, do you think it's easy?
01:25:20.000I think it's easier for guys to find somebody who's willing, you know, online rather than it being in person because I've, me personally...
01:25:32.000So you think it's actually easier for them to be online?
01:26:03.000I went through, I had a boyfriend at the time, and he texted probably like 40 girls, picking them up and said, I didn't know, obviously, I would have left.
01:26:12.000But one of them, or a couple of them, will reply.
01:26:15.000Like, if they have nothing going on...
01:27:08.000Yeah, you can portray yourself to be somebody on Instagram that you're not in real life, and you have a higher chance of getting a girl who's...
01:27:14.000And he was messaging these girls on Instagram?
01:27:57.000But what I'm saying is, even if you display that, and you're really not like that in real life, but you're making yourself seem to be like that on Instagram, girls are going to come to you on that level, regardless of who they are.
01:31:11.000Because I was telling him how easy dating is with dating apps.
01:31:18.000And he was telling me that it's incredibly difficult.
01:31:21.000And I was like, Pete, you must be doing something wrong.
01:31:24.000And he gave me permission to create an account for him and just run the account.
01:31:29.000I've been a virtual boy for three days, and I've never felt this bad about myself.
01:31:34.000I feel like a freaking loser trying to get these girls to like me, and I'm starting to hate women because I'm like, when I say I, I mean Pete, because that's the account I'm using.
01:31:44.000Pete's about a six, but I'm so desperate.
01:31:47.000I'm liking the twos and the threes, and even they won't like me back, Pete, which is a six.
01:31:53.000So what level of delusion has entered women's heads?
01:32:37.000So, I mean, if she's being selective with who she's DMing instead of somebody that's just going and texting any and every girl just to get a nut or just to talk to somebody, it's going to be different.
01:32:49.000If you're trying to talk to females who...
01:32:53.000Seeing like they have standards and are beautiful and stuff like that nine times out of ten if you're a six and your name's Pete like you're not gonna pull that much, but I mean So I guess get the bag one two four is better Unfortunately.
01:33:45.000He displayed an above-average lifestyle despite being an average looking guy that had an average body and you were able to overlook that because he displayed a certain lifestyle No, it was more so he didn't even really display.
01:34:49.000I think it probably was hard because us as women we don't know how to like talk to other women so like we're gonna come out come off as lame like what is he talking about like you know some women they like ugly men so shut up fresh I'm not...
01:42:00.000That's what I said in the beginning of the podcast too.
01:42:02.000Ladies, ladies, a lot of you guys, when I asked this question earlier, a lot of you guys looked at it like, hey, guys can use dating apps to easily get sex from women.
01:42:10.000What if I told you guys that a majority of guys are celibate and can't get laid?
01:42:23.000What if I told y'all that a majority of men actually struggle with attracting women, retaining women, getting their attention, going on dates, and getting laid?
01:43:11.000I mean, you said earlier when we asked you, guys will tell you compliments all the time and you just say thank you, but does that lead to sex?
01:43:55.000Because the thing is, with females, You guys all tend to think that you're very special and you're different and you have different perspectives on men and you guys are all...
01:47:23.000But yeah, I mean, while he pulls up the chat, I don't think women understand how hard it is for guys to even get a date or talk to girls in general.
01:47:32.000Because most women are dismissive of most men.
01:54:58.000What policies do you agree with where you would vote for him?
01:55:03.000You know, I'm not very well versed in politics, so it's really hard for me to tell you exactly what policies, but I will tell you that I like that he does not want to raise taxes.
01:55:16.000But isn't that like kind of like a chief argument that you made before as to why you didn't like Russia was because like representation of the people is limited and the president is like, well, the prime minister in this case is a dictator?
01:57:59.000That, you know, sued her for defamation and sexual assault and all this other stuff.
01:58:03.000She won in a civil case, but the jury even found it, and this is a civil case, so it's only 51% versus 49%, preponderance of the evidence versus beyond a reasonable doubt in a criminal case.
01:58:12.000They didn't find them guilty, or sorry, in this case, liable of grape.
01:58:16.000It was the defamation and potentially sexual assault, but it wasn't grape.
01:58:21.000I know, but you even hear just the way he talks about women in general.
01:58:24.000It doesn't make it hard to assume that he would do something like that.
01:59:20.000I don't want to sound like an asshole, but this is precisely why I don't think women should have the right to vote.
01:59:25.000I don't think you guys should have the right to vote.
01:59:26.000That's why we didn't have the right to vote.
01:59:28.000Yeah, that's why we didn't in the first place.
01:59:30.000Because I don't want to sound like an asshole, but for those of you that gave your voting stances or why you're voting, you guys gave preposterous reasons as to why you're voting for one individual or not against the other.
01:59:59.000Because if you guys notice, for the girls that did say that they were going to vote or whatever, you guys all made emotional arguments that aren't true based on what you feel.
02:00:07.000Like you literally said, one of your arguments was my gut feeling.
02:02:57.000That is precisely why none of you should vote.
02:02:59.000So the Selective Service system is something in the United States where once you're 18 years old as a man, you have to put yourself into it and you can be drafted to war.
02:03:17.000So, since men have skin in the game, and we can be sent to war based on the leader of the country, the President of the United States, who's the Commander-in-Chief, head of the military, I don't think women should have the privilege of voting when they don't have skin in the game.
02:03:29.000Now, if a woman has military service, completed successfully, maybe some government service, whatever, she has skin in the game, you should be able to vote.
02:03:36.000But I think a majority of women shouldn't be able to vote.
02:03:38.000Now, go to your question with misinformed.
02:03:40.000Are there men that are misinformed and women?
02:03:43.000There's idiotic men that don't know what the fuck they're talking about, and there's idiotic women that don't know what the fuck they're talking about.
02:03:48.000However, I would argue that a larger percentage of women vote on emotion and certain single issues that aren't necessarily as important.
02:08:12.000Anytime you're saying my gut feeling to pick a candidate that's going to run the country and you're not looking at policy or looking at feelings...
02:09:12.000But I'm saying in the event you had to.
02:09:14.000But I'm telling you I don't have enough information so I'm not going to sit up on this podcast and say something that I like don't know enough information about and look stupid.
02:09:21.000Well with the information that they've already given us who would you vote for?
02:14:48.000Guys, this exercise is supposed to show how much women don't want to tell the truth to each other?
02:14:54.000No, okay, what I will say, because I'm not going to tell you to, like, get no outside of you thing fixed, but I would say your eyebrows is, like, a little too, they're not too close, but I know you got some nice eyebrows.
02:15:07.000I got nice eyebrows, too, and I got a unibrow, so I can talk shit.
02:15:11.000But it's not really shit talking, but they is a little close, that's all.
02:15:50.000IG is the biggest dating platform realistically, and all of you dumb bimbos denied the ones presented to you earlier on the show, and that's the average man.
02:16:49.000They can only go so far, though, I feel like.
02:16:51.000Okay, so this is something that I've noticed about women, right?
02:16:54.000So this is what I've noticed about women, because you actually mentioned this when you made your argument about men being able to be on dating apps and still be successful because they have good communication.
02:17:02.000What I've noticed about women is that you guys tend to look at the finish line, oh yeah, we're dating, we're seeing each other now, or he has good conversational skills or whatever, but you guys don't understand that the dude had to do something in the first place to even be able to get the conversation.
02:17:16.000There's plenty of guys that are great conversationalists that are homeless downstairs right now by 7-Eleven, but none of y'all are gonna talk to him.
02:18:57.000A lot of female nowadays is not going to be there when a nigga's on his low.
02:19:01.000Are you missing the point where he was introduced to you by a friend and he had a business, though he might have not been where he needs to be with said business, he was introduced to you in an attractive manner, which allowed you to even give him the chance to communicate.
02:20:55.000I think you're missing my main bottom line here of what I'm trying to say Do you watch one?
02:21:05.000Anytime a woman deals with a man, or interacts with a man, or gets into a situation with said man, the man had to have some kind of hook point to bring her in.
02:21:15.000Whether it's status, it's his looks, maybe a mutual friend that spoke of him highly, etc.
02:21:20.000There has to be a hook point for said man to get the girl.
02:21:23.000Now, if the guy's ugly, as you claim, and he wasn't that attractive, and he was fat, something must have been done for you to overlook these glaring...
02:23:34.000Find men that want to protect and provide for you that are higher quality guys that are family oriented and not pieces of shit guys trying to have sex.
02:23:42.000Yes, I have dated some guys that are not pieces of shit.
02:23:50.000Well, for the first two years of the p-word, so 2020 to 2022, I didn't date at all because it was kind of awkward and it was the lockdowns and everything.
02:24:00.000And then I found a boyfriend and we dated for a little over a year and then we broke up and I'm single again.
02:26:06.000But I don't think that if I meet a guy and his red flag is a girl having OnlyFans at 80 point of her life that he's actually gonna be like, okay, so what did you do?
02:26:38.000You know, I could have been doing, like, no nudity and just do lingerie and bikinis, and if a guy doesn't want to date somebody who has been an OnlyFans or has OnlyFans currently, then he just would skip it, and he wouldn't go into details, oh, what'd you do there?
02:26:56.000You don't think he would drag you on, date you for a bit, sell you a dream a bit, get some sex, have some fun, and then eventually leave at some point?
02:27:02.000I think that could happen to any woman, whether she's on OnlyFans or not.
02:27:05.000But do you think that it would be more common and the likelihood would go up had you had OnlyFans that that could happen to you?
02:27:13.000I think that if a guy just wants to have fun and have sex, he wouldn't have it for like a long period of time.
02:27:20.000He would have it for a couple months, maybe a couple weeks, couple nights.
02:28:48.000See girls will say like I don't want to pick on you or whatever but like y'all will say dumb shit like oh don't judge her or whatever but as soon as you guys get in a heated confrontation with that girl you always attack their sexuality you attack their promiscuity you say they're a slut the biggest insult that y'all have isn't that oh you're a manly ass bitch no y'all will be like you fucking hoe that's what you guys say So I find interesting where you're saying,
02:29:09.000don't judge, but when she pissed you off, first thing you did was attack her profession.
02:29:39.000That makes half the money that you do.
02:29:41.000Yes, even if he makes less than half the money that I do.
02:29:43.000Because, you know, it's good to be realistic in life.
02:29:46.000And I think the more realistic and self-aware you are of your situation and who you are and how you move through life, the happier you will be.
02:33:45.000If a man has a bunch of options, he's attractive, he's tall, other women want him, other men want to be like him, etc., Do you really think he's going to go for a woman that's a sex worker over a woman that doesn't do that and they look identical?
02:34:27.000When I speak, I speak with a purpose, not just to say something.
02:34:30.000I'm telling you, men that have options, again, men that have options that are attractive, that women desire, don't commit to sex workers in general.
02:35:37.000And then as I was responding to it, you felt the need to come in and just say things.
02:35:42.000And you kept saying, just saying, by the way.
02:35:44.000Like, it's just other people, you keep talking about one category of men.
02:35:48.000You keep average men that don't take this type of woman, like, talk about everybody.
02:35:53.000No, but he's not talking about average men.
02:35:54.000Now he's talking about men who have options, who are, you know, who have their pick up the litter, who can go out and choose whoever they want to.
02:36:02.000The men that commit to sex workers, I'll say this one more time.
02:36:04.000That's still, that you're still stepping away from everybody.
02:37:01.000But if somebody like say a sex worker want to take somebody serious, for example, Then he's saying if a sex worker is going to take somebody serious, it's not going to be a desirable guy.
02:39:55.000Because I'm gonna be very blunt about this men don't really care about your guys opinions If it was up to me, I'd put you guys under the three-fifth clause.
02:40:06.000Which means, like, y'all voices really don't matter at all.
02:40:12.000As you guys have noticed throughout the course of this discussion, I've had to kind of reiterate certain things or explain it in a certain way or kind of dumb it down or water down my arguments so that women can understand because you guys interpret everything I say through emotion versus logic and reasoning.
02:40:24.000Only one girl here has actually understood what I've been saying a bunch of the times, right?
02:40:28.000And it's very annoying and grueling that I have to speak in a different way when I talk to women.
02:40:36.000So, men have just come to learn, hey, We're going to tolerate this for a bit till we get laid and then at some point we want sex silence and sandwiches.
02:40:45.000Because the reason, and I don't say this to insult you guys, I say this to say this, a man's experience versus a woman's experience are vastly different.
02:40:52.000When you're a 10 year old little girl and I'm a 10 year old little boy, we go through a completely different existence between puberty to adulthood.
02:41:40.000She just said a whole bunch of nonsense and kept saying, I'm just saying.
02:41:45.000Brought no fruitful argument to the discussion.
02:41:48.000She was literally talking to talk, to respond, and made no sense.
02:41:53.000You could also argue that the woman that he's going to choose is going to have a lot of value to bring to him or his business, and she's irreplaceable in that sense because she's giving him a lot of value.
02:42:39.000So have you ever thought that maybe my behavior is the reason why the relationship didn't work out because I like to talk over people and I think that my opinion matters and, you know, I got to just get my say in even though I'm not saying anything because I'm just saying.
02:48:07.000But I'm not finna have no nigga cheat in my face.
02:48:10.000So you'd rather them cheat behind your back and come with an STD back to your house?
02:48:13.000I'd rather find out about it and then we go resolve it like that, but I'm not finna pick no nigga that's finna be like, hey, we finna get married, I'm finna still cheat on your ass, but it's okay.
02:48:22.000I would be more cool with it, like how your mom, like, she didn't know he was cheating on her.
02:48:27.000She didn't know, but she still found out.
02:49:18.000All right, but what I was just saying what she had found out if she knew off bat That's what I'm saying.
02:49:23.000It's more easier to stay with him in the event that she found out I'm not saying this I'm not saying if I had a husband I'm not gonna leave him if he cheat on me because we're married we locked in but I'm not gonna settle down with no man that I know he's cheating on me off bat like before we're married I'm gonna be cheating on you I'd rather find out and come to a conclusion.
02:49:46.000I'm not gonna pick nobody that's cheating on me.