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00:25:21.000Welcome to the Fresh Hit Podcast, man.
00:25:22.000It is Wednesday, which means we're going to be covering dating, guys.
00:25:24.000As you guys know, we've pivoted away and we've done a bunch of different things, whether it's geopolitics, self-improvement, real estate investing, cryptocurrency.
00:25:31.000Yeah, what's going on in the news, etc.
00:25:33.000We cover everything on this podcast, but today we're going to bring it back to the grassroots of how we started, which is helping you guys do better with the ladies.
00:25:40.000Don't forget that we've been doing, you know, this, the podcast started as a dating podcast and then we obviously expanded because we realized, wait, hold on one second.
00:25:52.000No wonder you're struggling with women.
00:25:54.000So we had to kind of turn it more into a self-improvement podcast because your dating is going to suffer unless you improve all areas of your life.
00:26:00.000So that's kind of why we've expanded to make you a more competent and well-rounded individual altogether.
00:26:06.000But we're bringing it back to the grassroots for today's episode.
00:26:39.000I've known Fresh and Fit since before Fresh and Fit even existed.
00:26:42.000I met them the same day that they met each other.
00:26:45.000And like my good friends, Fresh and Fit, I also do...
00:26:49.000Dating and red pill content, specifically a lot more dating content, and I'm quickly earning this reputation online as the honest dating coach, so to speak.
00:26:58.000There's some good people in the niche, there's some snake oil salesmen in the niche that give everybody a bad name, but most of my YouTube comments will be something like, finally somebody telling it how it is, finally somebody who hasn't sugar-coated, etc.
00:27:09.000And to kind of demonstrate that for you, I'll say things that I'm Not financially incentivized to say as a dating coach, but I want to keep it 100% real, 100% raw for you guys and not hold back.
00:27:19.000So two quick, uncomfortable truths just to kind of back up my claim as the honest dating coach.
00:27:23.000Number one, if you're not at least a 6 out of 10 in America, looks, height, muscle mass, charisma, money, game, understanding of female psychology, all that rolled into one.
00:27:33.000If you're not at least a 6 out of 10, you're cooked, bro.
00:27:36.000Your only options are to date a mid-chick.
00:27:42.000Your only options are to date mid-chicks or date foreign women in the U.S. or date foreign women abroad, which we'll talk a lot about more on that, so we'll get to that in a second.
00:27:53.000Once a girl is really beautiful, 7.5, 8, 8.5 and above...
00:28:01.000Ultimately, at the end of the day, 9 out of 10 of them anyway, of these truly beautiful girls, they're only going to be with a guy that's financially supporting them.
00:28:07.000So if you're not earning at least $15K in the U.S. or abroad anywhere from, let's say, I don't know, $6K to $7K, $9K, something like that.
00:28:53.000We're going to talk about how it's changed.
00:28:54.000And despite being in a terrible situation, how men can still win and succeed even despite these, let's say, less than ideal conditions for men in 2024.
00:29:17.000I kind of want the audience to get a glimpse of one of our conversations that we have behind closed doors so they can kind of see how analytical we are with the dating market.
00:29:25.000What do you think was the cause root of the problem that led to the environment that we have today?
00:30:51.000Instagram, Bumble, Hinge, she's, you know, guys in Dubai, celebrities, athletes, things like that.
00:30:59.000And because they're getting this constant validation, their standards are just absolutely comically, like, it's actually quite funny how high their standards are.
00:31:08.000So it'd be those two things, the general hatred that they're taught from feminism, and just the bombardment of free, easy validation from social media and dating apps.
00:31:16.000I would say that's one of the two reasons why modern dating is so messed up.
00:32:22.000I'm not your little sister's passport bro that, you know, went south to Mexico or took a little trip to Medellin where all the other people go.
00:32:30.000And sorry, the question was, what's the biggest difference between...
00:32:33.000How have these two factors that have affected dating in the West, feminism, etc., how have they impacted the countries that are not Western abroad?
00:32:52.000Everybody follows in America's footsteps with literally everything, all the cultural movements, all the, let's say, medical movements and the medical rules, if you get what I'm trying to insinuate at.
00:33:02.000So America sets the standard in a lot of things.
00:33:07.000Feminism goes towards more what I would call the, I don't know, acceptable levels of, yeah, women are more than just baby factories that are just the slave of the man and can never have an opinion that, yeah, women should have the right to speak up.
00:33:20.000Women should have, you know, if they, you know, want to work.
00:33:23.000I don't necessarily think it's a great idea for women to have, you know, a hardcore, you know, grueling nine to five, but whatever, you know.
00:33:29.000That's more the feminism overseas is that, yeah, if the woman wants to work, but it doesn't go into this thing of like, Women should be more masculine and dominate over the man.
00:33:37.000And all men are trash and, you know, this generalized hatred of men.
00:33:44.000This is kind of like, there's an expression, a high tide raises all boats.
00:33:48.000So some people think that, and this is a common misconception with passport bros, that, oh, the second you go overseas and you're a 5'11", average-looking white guy with blue eyes, they all line up for you.
00:34:00.000Not the beautiful girls that I'll show in a second to kind of like show receipts, not to brag or anything, but I guess to show some type of authority and convince you why you should listen to me.
00:34:10.000But yeah, I mean, they're not taught to hate men.
00:34:15.000And they're also a lot more, a lot less superficial.
00:34:18.000And they are just more open to dating a guy where the chemistry and the connection is good, charisma, things like that.
00:34:29.000But I will say, you know, there's one thing that is universal, which is the money, unfortunately.
00:34:35.000In most places, there may be some exceptions.
00:34:38.000I've been to like 25 countries, maybe 75 cities.
00:34:41.000But at the end of the day, from what I've seen...
00:34:44.000All the truly beautiful girls, the ones that I go after, they are monetizing their looks.
00:34:49.000So it's not like you get a passport and they all line up for you and they're all perfect and all well-behaved and they never cheat and any guy has a chance.
00:35:05.000Would you say, in the United States, right, it's tough to just kind of get the girl on a date.
00:35:09.000You know, we know the flake rate, right, is ridiculous, right?
00:35:12.000This is the big reason why so many guys struggle in the United States is because women flake, they have too many options, you know, there's this delusional sense of perceived status that's higher than the man every single time, almost like a girl.
00:35:41.000So it also depends on the city, right?
00:35:43.000So I have this thing, so let me back up here.
00:35:46.000The golden rule of being a passport bro, the number one rule you do not disobey if you're a passport bro, is you do not go to another country where dating wouldn't be any easier than it is in your home country.
00:35:56.000So I've never been to Paris, France, but I have a good friend that I made recently who's French, you know, another westernized country.
00:36:01.000He says it's the same thing, you know, the women all want a guy who's, you know, six foot five and, you know, you know, Blue Eyes.
00:37:30.000When you're going overseas a lot of the time, even if you're not, you know, objectively like a hunky, attractive guy like I'm certainly not, you can also be what I call niche hot or niche attractive.
00:37:41.000So if you go to a place like the typical thing is like black guy in the Nordic countries or white guy in Southeast Asia.
00:37:51.000Yeah, so it depends on the city a lot as well, but overall things are much, much easier no matter where you go, but I prefer going to smaller towns.
00:38:05.000I won't say anything, I'll kind of gatekeep the city so it doesn't get too positive.
00:38:08.000There's a city, so Sao Paulo is difficult, Rio de Janeiro is difficult.
00:38:12.000There's a city that I won't say right now, I'll gatekeep this for a bit, but...
00:38:16.000It is like, you know in Pac-Man, how like the ghosts are all chasing you and you're weak and frail and you can't touch the ghosts, but then you get the power pellet and you like level up and it's like, oh shit, the script is flipped and now you're eating the ghosts and now the ghosts, you know, chase or run away from you and now you got the power and now the ball's in your court.
00:38:34.000It's like your Pac-Man that ate the power pellet.
00:38:36.000Let me ask you this, Casey, because you were mentioning different things when you go foreign.
00:38:41.000So when you're in America, right, you're dealing with girls that are flaky, they're time wasters, they just want attention, they might not even meet up on a date, etc., they're trying to finesse.
00:38:49.000Would it be fair to say that when you're foreign, America you're filtering out time wasters and flakers, and foreign you're filtering out working girls, so to speak, from regular chicks?
00:40:11.000The guy's paying for the date, the guy's picking her up, and she saved a shitload of time by just using the app for about 10 seconds to get the match versus the guy's got it.
00:40:20.000I mean, dude, Myron, we have you a full-time online dating virtual assistant.
00:40:24.000Even you, 6'3", muscular, defined physique, celebrity, even you don't have the time to swipe.
00:42:31.000Let's make this one quick, the short version.
00:42:34.000So xenophobia, racism, whatever you want to call it.
00:42:36.000Colombia traditionally has been a very closed-off country, especially the city of Medellin.
00:42:40.000They don't like even people from other cities, let alone gringos.
00:42:43.000And let's be real, they're very jealous.
00:42:44.000We're taller, we're better looking, we're more masculine, we're more intelligent, we make money in dollars.
00:42:48.000So yeah, it's very off-putting to see these superior human beings just come into your city and buy all the best property, take all the best girls.
00:42:55.000And then some gringo murdered this Colombiana that was cheating on him, Wow.
00:43:35.000Mansion parties, but they didn't like that.
00:43:37.000They didn't like seeing an average white guy, you know, a balding ginger, you know, taking all the hottest girls and kind of, you know, running in the whole fucking city, being the coolest kid in the city and doing all these parties.
00:43:55.000He's just there to, you know, pimp out the girls.
00:43:57.000There were rumors from everything I was selling drugs there to that, you know, even a few underage girls at one point attended my parties, etc.
00:45:28.000Why are you running through all these girls on your Instagram?
00:45:30.000You post nothing but girls and Latina booty shake, you know, booty shake and this and that.
00:45:34.000And it's like that's kind of how you meet your wifeys.
00:45:37.000You've got to screen a lot of candidates.
00:45:38.000You've got to go out with a lot of girls.
00:45:40.000That and then just, yeah, very low IQ city.
00:45:41.000I don't need to go somewhere where I'm treated like a black guy in 1920s where everyone looks down upon you for being a gringo or everyone assumes you're a sex trafficker where all the top girls...
00:45:53.000Like, people go to Mady and say, I don't know why this guy had a problem.
00:46:09.000There's a girl that came on the show, and then months later, she gets really drugged up on this drug called Tusi, this pink, like, cocaine-type drug, and she crashes into two people and kills them.
00:46:26.000Because, obviously, you're in these countries where it's extremely prevalent, and a lot of guys, password bros, just pay for a box, get her over with, etc.
00:46:33.000Can you kind of go through your experience as to why guys shouldn't go down that road?
00:47:55.000But listen, yeah, it just ruins your swagger around girls.
00:47:58.000Ultimately, the most fulfilling thing, I don't care how much of a young 21, high testosterone playboy you think you are, you're ultimately going to want love in a relationship.
00:48:05.000Even Myron, the most cold red pill guy in the world, I think?
00:48:30.000I don't know, completely under your frame and you take care of her.
00:48:47.000You know, you got to get the skill set first so that you can identify these women like you were describing before.
00:48:52.000But yeah, I mean, you know, every guy at some point, you're going to want, you know, one or two or three main girls, depending on where you stand, your religious beliefs, how you feel about things, your morality.
00:49:00.000But yeah, man, I mean, you always need at least one main chick.
00:49:18.000Why we are where we are today in the dating world, in modern society, in the West especially.
00:49:24.000Then we talked about one of the ways to kind of combat that, which is, you know, going abroad, your sexual market value increases, etc., But for some of you guys, you might not necessarily want to leave the United States.
00:50:03.000You did a hair transplant like me, smart move.
00:50:05.000But the point is, besides me just kind of making jokes on you, it proves that if you've got a good system in place, you can absolutely still crush it and make things work despite having maybe a lower sexual market value in a competitive place in the West.
00:51:03.000And he sees them come in line by line, day by day.
00:51:07.000And at the beginning, I had a massive cold approach.
00:51:11.000And I got some results, but it wasn't effective because, obviously speaking, you're outside, you're just cold approaching, and it's a numbers game.
00:51:17.000But if you can build a system you can do for yourself online with good photos, good bios, and good actual metadata for your actual system, then you're good to go.
00:51:26.000So Casey, brought in true, how do we start from A to Z and some of your results from students that you've taught in the past?
00:51:52.000If you failed in the past with dating apps, you know, we already talked about the women have...
00:51:56.000It's incredibly high standards that they're very masculine and if you've ever thought like you know dating apps only really work for the top you know five to ten percent of guys you're absolutely fucking right they do dating apps only work they are rigged against you okay and you have never been one of those five to ten top percent of guys that could actually get it on the dating apps and like I said if you're not at least a six um There's not much you can do,
00:52:20.000but if you do get a six, you can become niche hot.
00:53:05.000You know, you could look at an iPhone and kind of figure it out and just play with it and learn how to use, you know, at least 80-90% of the features without ever looking up a tutorial.
00:53:13.000Online dating is looking at the cockpit of an airplane.
00:53:16.000It is completely and fundamentally different.
00:53:18.000There is no way you're just going to look at the cockpit of an airplane without going to aviation school.
00:53:50.000So I'm going to show what happens when you use the generic camera roll method versus when every single photo you take was intentionally planned.
00:55:00.000If you look at a girl's camera roll, it's actually literally like just a million pictures of themselves in the same exact position, and they just pick the best one.
00:58:05.000He would teach you things like looks and money are very little factors, and it's only game and charisma and stuff like that, and cold approaches king.
00:58:13.000There was a time when that was more or less true.
00:58:15.000Looks and money always mattered a lot, but...
00:58:21.000Now I notice about, you know, 20, 2018, that girls are more standoffish, feminism, you know, more bitchy and stuff.
00:58:26.000So I said, okay, I got to get this digital dating thing handled.
00:58:28.000And right around that time, a website called Photofeeler came out.
00:59:33.000And the same thing, like 8.8 or almost the same score, again, two days later with a different panel of women.
00:59:38.000And I purchased more votes to get more, you know, statistic data.
00:59:41.000And I was like, can I really just, you know, can people just change their attractiveness based on the angle, the lighting, the fashion, the setting, what they're doing in a photo?
00:59:50.000That much, maybe some light touching up, some light Photoshop or FaceApp stuff, which we'll talk about in a second.
01:00:55.000Yeah, Myron, Fresh, you answered this question.
01:00:57.000How many times you're on an Instagram, a dating app profile, Tinder follow-up, you're swiping, oh baby, oh yeah, okay, looking good, alright, looking good, okay.
01:01:05.000Oh shit, you get to laugh, oh my god, that's what you look like without makeup or that's what your body looks like?
01:01:10.000We used to do reviews with girls in the studio to guys' profiles, right?
01:01:20.000Just one photo they would see would change into your whole view of the person.
01:01:23.000I think it's very important because you touched on something here that I really want to get out to the guys out there because men don't understand this.
01:01:29.000When men look at women, we're looking to qualify them.
01:02:39.000So photos say a lot without saying too much indirectly, but I would just say photos are definitely going to dictate for you if you're successful, good lifestyle, or, for example, take care of yourself in general.
01:04:14.000There's no way a girl's going to be thinking this guy's going to show up on a date, and then this guy shows up, and she's like, it's a totally different person.
01:04:21.000But these subtle differences, they rate a lot higher in photography.
01:04:25.000This photo might rate a 4.5, and this photo might get a 7.
01:05:20.000I certainly think there's massive room for improvement.
01:05:23.000But again, and like, look at this one right here too, right?
01:05:27.000There's no way a girl's going to be looking at me on a dating app, kind of drooling over my ripped physique in this body.
01:05:33.000And then we go on a date, we're drinking wine, we're at some fancy Italian restaurant, she's totally in my frame, I'm being charismatic, interesting, she's hanging on all my stories, she's laughing at all my jokes, I take her back to my place, dim the lights, throw my shirt off, and then she's expecting this body...
01:05:50.000But then this body comes out, and she's like, oh no, sir.
01:07:17.000For every one thing you might fix, they're going to fix like 10.
01:07:20.000So look, guys, this is kind of the world that we're in now where we're in a...
01:07:25.000Superficial world where your pictures do matter a lot nowadays guys it's kind of like your business card especially on your Instagram profile so like look we're not telling you guys to like majorly edit your stuff but we are telling you you have to touch some things up to really maximize your your sex appeal and then just remember the quality of the photo itself of you is one thing but you also want to be in cool environments and display certain lifestyle as well it's not just like you looking good and editing it it's also like the way the photos are taken which is important as well Because you wouldn't even get a chance with some of your
01:08:30.000Living in the US, do what Myron did, do the reverse passport bro method and date women that kept their feminine good values, but they just happen to live in the US now.
01:08:39.000And the problem is when you just like, and let's say the guy that's posted, this is actually a somewhat attractive guy.
01:08:44.000He's probably not, but assuming he is, you're going to go out with a photographer that's just going to get some photos of you like...
01:10:39.000And there's even an empty seat right here where the person, the girl might go, oh, well, whoever was sitting here probably took the photo and that could be another guy.
01:10:48.000So he wasn't even sitting next to her.
01:10:49.000And just to add more to what you're saying, Casey, it's important that you don't be too involved with them because then girls are going to assume you're a player and or you have a girlfriend.
01:10:55.000So you want to create some level of plausible deniability that you have the social proof to be around beautiful women, but you might not necessarily be hooking up with or, you know, dating them.
01:11:05.000He's at the table, not touching, kissing girls, but they know by default he's around them, so he's probably going to get some play, but he's not pushing it in their face.
01:11:13.000Because if you go full-on Dale Bilzerian and you've got girls on yachts, 50 girls on yachts, etc., some girls are going to find that attractive, but you will also turn off a lot.
01:11:29.000And whoever, like, said, I hired a photographer and I got some professional photos from some fuckboy guy on Yelp.com who does portrait photography, graduation photos, bro.
01:11:41.000Your photographer did not put you at a table with four beautiful chicks and two or three other cool well-dressed dudes.
01:11:51.000Would a weird, antisocial, broke guy who's not fun or not pleasant to be around be at this table with all these beautiful girls and these cool guys?
01:12:20.000You can't see it, but I have a clip-on LED light right here, so I'm covering up the light.
01:12:24.000I won't take it off right now because I want the light on me, but I roll out with a clip-on LED phone light to get the good lighting in here.
01:14:33.000If you're not at least a 6 out of 10, um, You've got to go to a really easy dating market like Philippines, Southeast Asia, some really small remote town in Mexico, Colombia, Brazil, where no other foreigners are at, and go way far out to have some success.
01:14:50.000Because, yes, in order to get success, for the most part, I can't help really, really...
01:15:11.000Women care more about looks now than ever fucking before, which is why so many of you guys fail, because most of you guys end up being...
01:15:17.000Average looking and your photos are average looking so therefore you don't stand out therefore that is why we have a whole generation of guys that are struggling with women so one way to combat that is you take good pictures you edit them to a degree depending on you know how you how you want to do it or you don't have to edit them at all so pull up my photos real quick Bills I'll show you guys some of the photos that I actually did this photo shoot with Casey.
01:15:38.000Casey instructed me where we're going to take the photos, the time of day, outfits, etc.
01:15:43.000I'm going to show you guys non-edited photos, what they look like.
01:18:24.000Once you do the foundational work, now we can prop you up to a position where we can increase your sexual market value significantly off of good photos, etc.
01:18:30.000And then if you want that 10% edge, just like Casey's talking where you touch up things here and there, nothing wrong with that.
01:18:36.000Now, it's up to you guys how much you want to touch it up.
01:18:38.000Obviously, some people will be a little bit more overt with it than others, but the point we're trying to get to here is you need to get to a good baseline.
01:18:45.000That six that Casey's talking about, you need to get either there or very close to it, and then we can do these other things to enhance and get you over that barrier, because you do have to hit a threshold, guys, where you're at least at a position where a woman will look at you as a viable candidate.
01:18:58.000A lot of you guys aren't even viable fucking candidates.
01:19:29.000And I also think it's very important for the audience to understand that, like you said before with the analogy you gave, women do have a 50 mile head start on you guys.
01:19:47.000Average chicks take great photos, right?
01:19:50.000Whereas a majority of men, average dudes, take horrible photos.
01:19:53.000The top 1-5% of guys understand how to properly take photos with good lighting, good editing, etc.
01:19:59.000And this is why so many guys do bad on dating apps.
01:20:01.000This is why so many guys do bad on Instagram, etc.
01:20:04.000You need good pictures, guys, because that is going to be your business card when you're out there Trying to, you know, get out in the marketplace because nowadays you have to scale your dating and use the internet as well.
01:20:17.000I'm not telling you guys not to do cold approach and use these other sourcing methods.
01:20:25.000But you always need that business card so when she does want to remember you or she forgets who you are, etc., she's able to go back to your Instagram.
01:20:48.000You need multiple points of contact, right?
01:20:50.000Maybe you met her the first time, introduced yourself, cool, then you guys DM each other a little bit on Instagram, conversation fizzles out, you re-approach it again like a week or two later, you guys are talking again, then you guys might run into each other somewhere, if you're like in a small town or whatever.
01:21:03.000There's multiple points of contact and then your Instagram allows you to facilitate said contact.
01:21:13.000And you might not know this, but you asking her on that date is going to come off a lot better because she saw you two days ago at a really cool restaurant.
01:21:20.000Or hanging out with friends or doing a cool activity.
01:21:21.000So now she's more inclined to say yes to the date or whatever.
01:21:25.000So these things all fucking matter, guys.
01:21:27.000It is a totality of the circumstances of building a profile, building an aura, creating the vibe that a lot of these fucking girls talk about.
01:22:21.000And look, even if you're a short, not best-looking guy, if you're in the gym, getting in more shape, if you're actually getting results of lifestyle, they can see it, look at you a chance.
01:22:55.000I'll keep talking on a few things and maybe we'll make them announce the new offer in a second.
01:22:59.000The quick things that I wanted to show real quick is something that fresh, well, all for the guys who are still doubting the looks, that they're still not quite good looking enough.
01:23:21.000Again, I understand it's not going to play choppy at the right frame rate when I'm screen sharing, but it's me giving a speech to a room full of people.
01:23:30.000And there's like, what, I don't know, let's say 250, 300 people-ish in the crowd.
01:23:36.000And I'm not saying this is replicatable for everybody, but I'm just saying it's these status things that are very attractive to women beyond just your looks.
01:23:45.000And another huge epiphany that I had is, and every guy can relate to this, is when you're in the group chat with your buddy, and they're posting, you know, these chicks, and this guy's like, oh my god, look at this IG model.
01:24:36.000It's going to be hard for us to help you if you can't, you know, Luke's Max, workout, white and teeth.
01:24:41.000Hair transplant, tiny cosmetic surgery, whatever you've got to do, to get to at least a six.
01:24:45.000But once you get to a six, it becomes a volume game at that point.
01:24:48.000We can maybe talk about some systems with online dating virtual assistants, people who swipe on your behalf, people who track down girls on Instagram for you.
01:24:55.000In the future, we're going to launch an AI software that will swipe and find girls for you.
01:25:10.000Just to finish this, yeah, like, women do this, too.
01:25:14.000So if you can just be niche-hot, fulfill some niche, like you're the witty, sarcastic white boy, or you're the, you know, sensitive musician-type guy, whatever it is, any guy can kind of be niche-hot.
01:25:25.000And if you're just, you know, across the board of six, to girls that are your type, like, for example, for girls, most of the girls I date say, yeah, I only really have a fetish for, like, pale white guys with beards, you know, gingers with blue eyes.
01:26:03.000A niche look gets you so much value because girls that have a niche look, for example, if you're a black guy that is maybe in the gym, that's a look for some girls.
01:26:13.000Or maybe your lifestyle-wise is showing that you have status or social proof and you're black.
01:27:50.000Okay, so first of all, the bio is blank.
01:27:53.000A bio should generally talk about how the fuck you make money, what your career is, and some interesting facts about you.
01:28:01.000So for mine, it's like, I think I just say digital marketer, or sometimes I say event host, party planner, depending on which account it is.
01:30:20.000You're an artist or something like that?
01:30:23.000But look, look, Casey, A to Z break down his page, what he can improve on, and let's move on to the next person because this is most people's Instagram and some are even worse than this.
01:34:13.000Digital noise or grain or pixelation or blurriness, whatever you want to call it, the brain doesn't say, oh, he's probably a good-looking guy, but it's just so pixelated.
01:34:23.000No, if you're not really sharp in focus and it's at a good resolution, then that ugliness of the pixelization of low quality, you subconsciously project that onto the subject.
01:34:35.000So you will look ugly when there's pixelation.
01:36:55.000So if you want to open yourself up to multi-racial women, you want to open yourself up to Caucasian girls, you want to open yourself up to Asian girls, whatever it may be.
01:37:03.000Unless they really have some fucking jungle fever, most women don't like dreads.
01:37:15.000But you really have to make sure that your photos are on point because you have what I call a niche look.
01:37:19.000When you have a niche look, you're going to be extremely appealing to certain demographics of women, but you're going to be extremely unappealing to other demographics of women.
01:37:37.000Whenever you have what I would consider a committed look, whether it's dreads or whether it's having the rockstar look or it's having, you know, a rapper look or whatever, you have to commit to that look 100% because you're only going to go ahead and attract a certain demographic of women.
01:37:52.000And it depends what type of women are you trying to look for, right?
01:37:55.000If you want white girls, I'll tell you right now, man, these dreads, they might hurt you a little bit.
01:39:13.000500 gigabytes to a terabyte of you throwing five to one penthouse parties, walking around the party, making out with multiple girls, choosing what girl you want.
01:40:11.000Even people calling me bald, like, I got a hair transplant.
01:40:15.000It's just, but it's very short and I have like weird kind of top-down lighting here, but I'm also going to get another little touch-up, but like, I don't know.
01:40:24.000People will say whatever they want to say, but we need to figure out, for the audience that wants to learn and change their whole dating game, how do they get started?
01:40:33.000What's the next move for them to start?
01:40:47.000And we're going to be hosting bi-weekly Zoom calls where Casey is going to coach you guys and we're going to improve your profile, teach you guys how to properly DM women, how to source women, how to basically get yourself.
01:40:59.000Do you want to talk real quick on like the sourcing method on Instagram that you use as far as like how to kind of get yourself out there, which you guys have done it with me quite a bit, but if you could kind of explain to people giving them a bird's eye view because we talked about the photos, but now let's talk about actually sourcing the girls.
01:41:15.000Yeah, so if you guys ever had the suspicion where dating apps are so unfair, there's these weird algorithms I got to compete with, and it only works for, you know, these top, you know, five, six percent of guys and no more, and they're just, they're really, really tough.
01:41:53.000Instagram is the best dating app ever.
01:41:55.000So when a girl's currently on a dating app, she's getting bombarded left and right.
01:41:58.000We've even seen funny Tinder experiments on YouTube where the guy will make a legit, you know, two out of ten profiles, you know, some fat, grotesque chick.
01:42:05.000And she's even got a rude profile, and she's still being bombarded with validation.
01:42:37.000But if you can hit up girls on Instagram in general, even girls with a public profile, I wouldn't hit up a girl with a blue check and 50k followers, but even a smallish Instagram profile.
01:42:48.000Or, you know, heaven forbid a girl with a private profile.
01:43:48.000You ever guys get on TikTok or Instagram reels and there's kind of like a one-man skit where he's like, you know, doing the skit for both people.
01:44:39.000But in the future, there's going to be something really cool come out where we're going to have a technology that will scrape a large list of Instagram women in your area.
01:44:53.000To use face recognition and rate them and eliminate all the garbage.
01:44:57.000Eliminate the men, the super ugly chicks, the photos where no face was detected.
01:45:04.000And it won't be 100%, but you could basically pull up a list of, I don't know, XYZ number of girls, you know, hot girls.
01:45:12.000The EA won't be perfect, but most of them will be attractive that live in Miami, Cincinnati, Rio de Janeiro, wherever you are.
01:45:18.000And remember we talked about, you know, being niche hot, how, you know, it's very hot to be, some of you guys are, you know, hot to all girls overall, but, you know, it's better to be like, kind of like niche hot.
01:45:27.000It becomes a volume game at that point.
01:45:29.000To make an analogy to marketing, cold email, for you guys that don't know what it is, cold email is when you email a business that says, hey, I know you do YouTube and I can make shorts, I can turn your long form YouTube videos and publish them into shorts and you'll get a lot of growth on TikTok and I have to do that.
01:45:48.00099 out of 100 guys are going to ignore you, but you send 100 cold emails a day, 500, 1000.
01:45:53.000So many successful businesses have been scaled 100% on cold emails.
01:45:59.000And I realized I had an epiphany moment when, okay, cool.
01:46:03.000I'm a 6 out of 10 objectively, but I'm niche hot to maybe 3, 4, 5, 10% of girls.
01:46:08.000But if I can message or contact a lot of girls, eventually I'm going to hit some of the girls that I'm niche hot to.
01:46:17.000And I can automate the whole thing either with a software or an online dating virtual assistant, which is a service I do for my own.
01:46:22.000I don't really like to do that service.
01:46:24.000It's like a VIP service for really elite clients only.
01:46:27.000You can message me about it, but I don't even know if I want to take on someone like that.
01:46:31.000But yeah, the sourcing on Instagram is the greatest thing since sliced bread because all the things that you get to use video, you get to find girls that aren't active on dating apps and just overall have less guys coming at them.
01:46:42.000And I mean, let Fresh be the best testimonial.
01:46:46.000I mean, what, like 75 to 80% of the girls you've dated in the last few years have been from IG, right?
01:47:09.000And, you know, in some cases, I'm in it because I am in certain places where me being black lifestyle wise, they're seeing like the vibe, so to speak.
01:47:20.000And it looks like I'll get the chance at least, right?
01:47:23.000I'll get a chance to go on a date with this woman, and with my personality, you know, my charm, so to speak, it's a win-win for me, no matter what.
01:47:30.000But the most important thing is that I get the chance.
01:47:33.000I'm there getting the interaction because they see the profile, they say, okay, this guy's worth responding to, and I get to choose.
01:47:41.000I can DM 20 girls, two in Vegas, two in Miami, two in Texas.
01:47:47.000Shit, I'm traveling to San Diego tomorrow.
01:48:03.000And what Casey did was he put this actually in a program, step by step, through videos and receipts so you can see, okay guys, complete the system.
01:48:12.000Once it's set up, you just maintain it and you get leads constantly.
01:48:16.000And the biggest thing that we're going to do now, guys, is we're going to add to you guys...
01:48:20.000Stock trading, we're gonna add as well dating, and as well crypto, all in Castle Club Premium, all in one shop.
01:48:28.000Noble, real quick, run them through what's happening now with Castle Club and the expansion for Castle Club for all our members.
01:48:34.000Yeah guys, so I have two exciting announcements for you guys.
01:48:39.000The first announcement is we got a new Discord for you guys.
01:49:58.000And then next week we'll be introducing a Master of Markets, Run It Up 858.
01:50:02.000So you'll get introduced to him and he'll be teaching you guys stocks.
01:50:06.000So we're going to get your dating handled, your money handled with crypto and stocks, and get your Instagrams up and really help you guys improve in many different ways.
01:50:14.000And we'll be doing these Zoom calls about once a week.
01:50:18.000And then to join Castle Club Premium, we have a link in the description to WAP. When you sign up to WAP, make sure you use the same email as Castle Club because we need to match it to approve you for the waitlist.
01:51:33.000But for this dating stuff and for the stocks and the crypto stuff, this is going to be at Castle Club Premium, but you guys are still going to have access to us with the Zoom calls.
01:51:39.000And you're also going to have access to the city groups, et cetera, at the regular Castle Club.
01:51:44.000It's just that we're going to move everything over to Discord and not be on Telegram anymore.
01:51:50.000So all the groups are going to move over to Discord, guys, because on Discord, it's just a way better user face.
01:51:56.000We're able to kind of see everybody there.
01:51:57.000So from a management perspective and also from a user perspective, it's going to be a lot easier for you guys, too.
01:52:30.000Yeah, so I won't get too far into this because this might be above a lot of people's heads, but what we're going to do with the main goal of this program is, and I do teach some general cold approach stuff, confidence building, voice, eye contact, how to have a strong masculine frame.
01:52:44.000There's stuff in there, but the main focus is this, right?
01:53:06.000I call it the high status profile, the things where you're very attractive, right?
01:53:09.000You're well dressed, you're in the proper environments, you're tapishing a little bit, cheating a little bit to make yourself more attractive, getting physique shots, all that stuff, all that cool lifestyle stuff.
01:53:52.000So you got to put this profile until like, let's say you're, I don't know, a big, tall, hairy guy with tattoos and you're chubby, but you also got a lot of muscle mass, but you got kind of this pug, ugly, mean face.
01:54:06.000That's not attractive to most girls, but some girl is going to be like, he looks dangerous.
01:54:20.000Build a very high status, very attractive profile, and then use some type of automation where either a virtual assistant or in the future AI is putting that profile in front of as many women as possible.
01:54:32.000And then, I won't get into this, but...
01:54:34.000A brutally ruthless and effective, like a full copy and paste text messaging system to screen out the vast majority of girls that are there to just flirt and waste your time but not go on a date.
01:54:45.000Quickly identify the girls that are not time wasters.
01:54:48.000Get them on a video call and make beautiful babies with them happen from there.
01:54:54.000And I just want to be clear about this, guys.
01:54:56.000So if you're in Castle Club already, you're going to continue to get what you've got.
01:55:10.000Zoom calls on crypto, stock trading, and this Instagram mentorship, which is gonna be live training, which you guys holding your hands through this, et cetera.
01:55:21.000As well as the crypto stuff, et cetera.
01:55:23.000So basically every week, Cash Club Premium is gonna have a particular dedicated Zoom call to whether it'll be maybe the first week will be crypto, second week will be Instagram and dating, then next week will be stocks, then the week after that will be Instagram and dating again and using dating apps, et cetera.
01:55:38.000And we'll rate your profiles, kind of like what we did here, but we'll go into way more detail to put you up with photographers, all that stuff.
01:56:11.000We're literally gonna take your hand and hold it through the entire process, and you can stay in as long as you need to, to really kinda, until you understand this stuff.
01:56:17.000We will be the training wheels for you guys, and this is for the guys that kinda wanna do this from a more serious perspective.
01:58:30.000They don't have the belief that this would actually work for them, or they're just super critical about, you know, you'll never get more vitriol or hate online from when you become a dating coach.
01:58:38.000But just to wrap up and make it, you know, really quick and obvious, I mean, look at me.
01:58:42.000Did you guys see the receipts, all the beautiful women that we showed at the beginning here?
01:58:46.000I'll show them again real quick as I just, you know, wrap this up real quick.
01:59:06.000Oh, and by the way, I used to do this in the U.S. too.
01:59:09.000I used to, you know, pick up girls in the U.S. And for anyone saying, these are hookers, these are actresses, I picked up Girls Live with, you know, Walter and Fresh.
01:59:17.000I picked up Girls Live with Austin Hallman.
02:00:09.000It does really actually make me feel good to help out the few guys that And guys, you might be able to get the hang of this in a month, bro.
02:00:34.000If you're already in Cal's Club, fine, no worries.
02:00:37.000But if you want to upgrade it and you want to kind of get your hand held with dating stuff, us going through your profile, et cetera, giving you a more tailored approach, That's how we do it.
02:00:45.000I think for $100, everything total is a pretty good price, especially with all the coaching that you get.
02:00:50.000So, you know, like I said, it's a premium service for the guys that are really serious about it.
02:00:54.000And if you don't want to do it, totally cool, man.
02:00:56.000Just, you know, stay at regular house club and you're still going to get the same stuff that you've been getting.
02:01:00.000Nothing is going to be taken from you guys.
02:01:02.000We're just going to be moving the Telegram chats into Discord because it's going to be a lot easier to use, more effective.
02:01:07.000And we can do the group speak, the group chat, like the group conversations, which is pretty cool on Discord.
02:01:15.000Oh, and then the link, guys, is in Castle Club right now.
02:01:18.000The Castle Club Premium, the link is in there, and it's also in the chat as well.
02:01:23.000And yeah, man, like I said before, you guys have been asking for DMs on demand.
02:01:26.000We got something way better, cheaper, more affordable, more tailored approach.
02:01:30.000I understand it's not for everybody, but a lot of you guys have been asking for the DMs on demand stuff.
02:01:35.000So this is going to be an updated version that's going to be recurring where you're constantly getting new information, new updates, new strategies.
02:02:03.000We literally have a photography service that will offer to you guys as well if you want to work with Casey directly and take a photo shoot like I did.
02:02:11.000It's really a premium, tailored service to help the guys out there that want more help or want a more structured approach to what they're doing and have a little bit of extra spend money that they're willing to invest in themselves.
02:08:26.000Funnels as you as you can get to bring leads in like we're not telling you not to cold approach, but like I don't know how why when we explain one technique you guys assume that we're disqualifying others.
02:08:35.000Yeah, also your type of girl may not even be in your city and To me, it's like I want what I want Fucking, if I wanna go to Colombia, Brazil.
02:08:44.000Yeah bro, you don't wanna leverage social media, that's cool, that's on you.
02:08:46.000That's fine, but like, there's other people that definitely should do it.
02:08:52.000Casey, do you have something you wanna say back to that before we?
02:08:54.000I was just gonna say, yeah, basically this thing is like, okay, so if you have this notion that men being so obsessed with their looks, and what angle, and what expression, and what pose should I make, and how am I gonna touch it up, and do I look prettier this way, and how should I smile as a little bit femme, a little bit gay?
02:09:17.000I think it's weird to check my cell phone 200 times a day, but we all do it.
02:09:30.000It's going to be weird to merge with the machines and put an AI chip in your head at some point, but we're going to have to do it.
02:09:35.000You can adapt or die, and day game, cold approach is the purest form of game.
02:09:39.000It's the love of my life, but the ROI on it for your time can be really shit.
02:09:43.000If you're only going for super quality girls, you could be trolling the malls and the streets for a really long time before you find girls.
02:11:45.000Well, the last Super Chat, yeah, we explained exactly how to do the photos in the course, or you can just take a photo shoot with us, which, yeah, future shows we can go more in-depth of, like, but it's the big shortcut.
02:11:55.000It's not cheap, but if you're like, I don't want to watch a course and go through all these modules, learn it to myself, bro, we'll just do all the photos for you.
02:12:14.000And like I said before, guys, just so you guys know, quick recap, Cal's Club is going to stay the same.
02:12:19.000We're going to be switching the chats over to Discord.
02:12:21.000So if you're already in Cal's Club, don't worry.
02:12:22.000You will stay and get everything that you've already been getting.
02:12:25.000We're adding on a premium service where you will get access to Casey, get access to Fresh, helping with your dating profile, helping with your texting, etc., where they're going to hold your hand on Zoom calls twice per month.
02:12:34.000Also, we're throwing on top of that I'm a stock expert to help you guys one week with crypto and then another week with stocks.
02:12:41.000So four weeks in the month, a typical month can go like this.
02:12:45.000First week, dating and Instagram and dating apps, etc., texting, all that.
02:12:50.000Next week will be Miguel from Dollar Cost Crypto.
02:12:54.000Next week after that, I'll be dating again with Fresh and Casey.
02:12:59.000That's how a typical month might look.
02:13:01.000So every week you'll have something to look forward to on some type of coaching where we hold your hand throughout the process.
02:13:05.000And then for the people that are in the regular Cats Club, don't worry, you'll have access to everything, discords, and we'll still do our Zoom calls with you guys, the general ones where we just answer open Q&A. So nothing changes, guys.
02:13:15.000This is just for the guys that want a little bit more, want a more hands-on approach with someone like Casey who's really good at what he fucking does.
02:13:21.000I mean, he runs my dating stuff for me.