On this episode of the Freshman Podcast, we have a special guest on the show, my friend Donovan Sharpe. Donovan is a writer, podcaster, and podcaster who has been in the game for a long time. He is also the President of the CME, the Conference of Masculine Excellence. In this episode, we talk about how the dating game has changed over the years, what it s like being single in your 30s, and what it's like to be a millennial in the 21st century. We also talk about the Red Pill and how it s changed dating in general. Don't miss it! Don't forget to subscribe on your favorite streaming platform so you never miss an episode. CastClub is where we upload all of our episodes and other interviews that you can't find anywhere else anymore. CastClub.tv is where you get access to all of the latest CastClub content, including all of CastClub's episodes, and other CastClub related content. . Thank you CastClub for sponsoring this episode and for supporting the show. Don t forget to Like, Subscribe, Share, and Subscribe to our other shows: , and Subscribe to CastClub on Podchaser.tv and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Subscribe on iTunes and leave us a review on your preferred streaming platform. Thank you so we can keep spreading the word out there about this podcast. We love you guys! Cheers, EJ & Mo! - EJ and Mo! - The EJ Podcast. - Don t Tell a Friend about this Podcast! - Don't Tell Me About This Episode: <3 - - Ronna & Mo & CastClub Podcasts - Dont Tell Me What's Up? - BCC - CHEERS! - - Thank Me! - Rola & Co. - Cheers! - TTSR! - EZY! - PODCAST CHEER! - Thank You! - BECAUSE I'm Gonna Do It! - SONGS! - CHECK OUT THE EPISODE: - GIVE IT OUT! - CRY WITH A FRIENDS! - GAVY'S BABY MURDER? - GOT A RATE IT'S DOG? CHEESE! - ENJOYING IT? - PRAISE ME? - FAST FOLLOWED?
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00:05:55.000Hey look man, I'm very very fortunate that you guys are making the mistakes Yeah, I've been out of the game, Jesus Christ, for almost 10 years, man.
00:06:19.000And the things that you guys have to deal with on a daily basis, I'm being dead serious.
00:06:24.000I can't imagine being single in my 30s in America.
00:06:38.000Yeah, things have changed significantly.
00:06:42.000I know you're in a long-term relationship now, but Instagram wasn't as big of a factor as it is now in dating apps and stuff when you were in the game, so it's changed a lot significantly.
00:07:11.000So what I'm starting to see is I'm starting to see—because, of course, we all find the red pill because of sexual frustration, heartbreak, or both.
00:07:18.000And in the beginning, it was like, girls this, girls that— Which was correct.
00:07:23.000But now what we're starting to see in terms of red pill content creation, we're actually starting to see the downsides that comes with guys.
00:07:31.000Now guys have a false sense of abundance.
00:07:36.000Instagram models are running around all over the place.
00:07:39.000You guys have Instagram models and OnlyFans girls on here just about every night.
00:07:42.000And so guys think that that's the norm.
00:07:44.000And so guys think to themselves, well, I'm going to marry or date a 9 or a 10 who's a virgin.
00:09:08.000I would say for girls, they have too many feet in the door.
00:09:10.000For the women, the guys, they're not able to get their foot in the door in the first place.
00:09:14.000I just think, from a girl's point of view, like, if I was, like, me just being hypothetical here, if I'm gonna be a girl in today's lifestyle, in today's environment, it's not because, like, I have to bend my knee to, like, actually get a guy that I want.
00:09:35.000So you either become a stripper, OnlyFans girl, or hopefully if you're raised right, you get under a guy that has success and is going to take care of you.
00:09:42.000But even then, it's like a slippery slope because you never know what's going to happen.
00:10:00.000And if you're in Miami or Vegas or pick a city in the USA, if a girl is highly attractive, there is a pretty good possibility that she's probably a sex worker.
00:10:58.000And this is why more and more young, attractive girls are turning to sex work because they don't have any skills other than the way they look.
00:11:04.000And surprise, surprise, it's something they're literally born with.
00:11:07.000How many sex workers do you know, other than published porn stars, actually work out in the gym?
00:11:24.000So, yeah, Mo, we'll just do the back and forth if we need to.
00:11:27.000Yeah, I would say, going back to what you were saying, so I did an IRL stream, right, on Friday, and I was on the streets debating some of these girls.
00:12:06.000If you're going to include O.F. If you're going to include maybe being a dancer on the side.
00:12:10.000If you're going to include a girl that's like, you know, doing some quid pro quo, whatever the crap.
00:12:16.000Like, I would say easily one in five to seven.
00:12:20.000So I would say between 10 to 20% of girls out there are involved in some type of work or some type of situation where they're getting money off of their sexuality.
00:16:05.000Men who are successful with women, especially on a short-term basis, we're probably a little bit more jaded than the incels of the world because the incels don't know what they're missing, right?
00:16:17.000They can imagine all they want to, but us, we know the process.
00:16:20.000We know dealing with fucking crazy bitches.
00:16:39.000What have you learned, I want to say, or how's your mindset changed from, for example, the typical Red Bull mindset to what have you learned from experience?
00:16:51.000I think the difference between right now, this day, and March 14th of 2014, when I wrote my first article for Return of Kings, is I think I'm a little bit more retrospective now.
00:17:07.000Because back when I found the red pill, I was 32 years old, and I turn 47 next month.
00:19:25.000So we got Chief Raka says, Maren, the chief here, bear with me because I want to see if this is true.
00:19:29.000So when it comes to some of the good old Hollywood movies that we love, the protagonist is working for a specific agency undercover, Johnny Utah, Point Break, Brian O'Connor, Fast and Furious.
00:19:39.000Is it true that they have to keep on the law when it comes to the local city police or other agencies to not blow their cover in certain cases?
00:19:48.000Okay, so what he's talking about is Johnny Utah was an undercover cop in Point Break, and Brian O'Connor was the undercover cop in the first Fast and Furious.
00:19:57.000So Vin Diesel's character, Dominic Toretto, they were into stealing cars, Grand Theft Auto.
00:20:02.000Brian O'Connor, which was, what's his name, the guy that just died, Paul Walker's character...
00:20:21.000But, yeah, so what he's asking you is, when you're undercover, do you have to keep it on the low with other agencies that might not be aware that you're undercover?
00:23:01.000Just, you know, other streams of income, but yeah.
00:23:03.000Very much looking forward to making the move.
00:23:06.000The reason I like Reno in particular is because it has 355 days of sunshine a year, which means I can ride my bike every day to finally lose this baby.
00:23:17.000But yeah, I'm very, very much looking forward to it.
00:27:22.000We're going to be sailing on Lake Tahoe.
00:27:26.000we're going to be horseback riding um i might even set up yeah it's going to be it's going to be a lot of fun and i mean don't get me wrong there's definitely value in in in getting education from men who know the things that you want to you know who want to know but there's something to be said about almost almost like a male bonding experience to share an adventure together i think that creates that cohesiveness so i wanted this see me to be a little bit different and i think Wow.
00:27:50.000I think that this might be the way I do it every year.
00:27:53.000I might alternate every once in a while, but I gotta tell you, man, this is the very...
00:27:57.000Don't get me wrong, I've loved all the CMEs, but this is the CME that I'm actually looking forward to doing because I'm not gonna lose six figures on this one.
00:28:21.000If you want to do events, guys, you have to understand you're going to take some losses early.
00:28:28.000There's a thing called proof of concept.
00:28:31.000And the very first CME was the toughest because it was new.
00:28:34.000People didn't really know what it was about.
00:28:36.000But now that three have come and gone, I now have proof of concept.
00:28:40.000So I now have a little bit more credibility with the CME. But my advice to guys who want to get into the event space...
00:28:48.000If you don't listen to my first piece of advice when I'm telling you not to do it, if you're dumb enough to do this like me, you've got to have deep pockets.
00:28:56.000If you want to throw an event, guys, you've got to have at least $100,000 in your bank account.
00:31:13.000Oh my god, I can't live in Vegas, man.
00:31:15.000That's the reason I left Vegas, because if I had stayed in Vegas, I would either be dead, in prison, or have three baby mamas, or all three.
00:33:01.000Where do these allegations come from, man?
00:33:03.000You've been in the game for almost 10 years now and you've been giving guys all kinds of advice.
00:33:06.000Now you help guys a lot more with if they're in a relationship, how to navigate a long-term relationship, which we can actually segue into that perfectly.
00:33:13.000Well, before you do, hold that thought.
00:33:15.000This is the other side of the red pill I was talking about.
00:33:18.000Guys, women don't hate on us anymore unless they're fucking crazy bitches talking about men should go to jail if they cheat.
00:34:03.000I just wish you had some fucking hot ass white girl wannabe trad snow bunny on here talking about fresh fuck me within 10 minutes and blah blah.
00:37:06.000Well, can you tell them how you did it and how you put yourself in a situation where you're in a protected place where a lot of guys, like, fuck themselves up and get married?
00:38:18.000But if your responses to her misbehaviors are consistent with what you told her that you're not going to deal with, at that point, things are going to work out a little bit better for you.
00:38:29.000So you didn't get the state involved, which I think is fantastic, because this is something that I wish more guys would do.
00:38:37.000Because there's guys here right now probably that are in a serious relationship with a girl, and they want to take it to the next level, but they're scared because they're like, damn, well, I don't have the money to pay for a prenuptial agreement, or I don't have the ability to hire lawyers to make sure that I protect my assets.
00:38:48.000How should they go about it, not getting the state involved?
00:39:15.000Okay, I need another $1,000 to keep the car.
00:39:16.000Do you think I'm going to pay you that $1,000?
00:39:19.000No, because I've already fulfilled the requirements to own what I wanted.
00:39:24.000When you ask a girl to be your girlfriend or wife, whatever the case may be, what you're doing is you're effectively telling her, quite literally, that she has done everything she needs to do to acquire your tiers, like Coach Greg Adams says.
00:39:38.000He says, meet your time, energy, attention, and resources.
00:39:42.000your girlfriend and then you turn around and say oh by the way you can't go to the club well guess what player she's gonna look at you like you're fucking stupid because you didn't mention that you didn't mention that she was already going to the club but you asked her to be your girlfriend anyway so she assumes in her mind correctly that the things that i have done are okay he's gonna be good with that so you have to wait for her to angle first if she doesn't that means she doesn't like you as much it's funny because they'll say oh you got with a bad bitch it's So, bad bitch problems.
00:46:19.000But if you're drinking, when you drink every day for like the better part of two months, at some point, you're going to start to teeter on the edge to where you have a problem.
00:48:01.000But yeah, so, okay, going back to the, real quick with Devin.
00:48:07.000So, you typically, you know, people say all the time, you know, don't cohabitate with a woman.
00:48:12.000You do it though, and you've been able to successfully do it.
00:48:14.000You've been doing it for a very long time, you've worked with her.
00:48:17.000Can you give us some, like, things that you've put in, where if people are actually gonna go down that road of living with a girl and cohabitating, how they can, I guess, how to protect themselves and make it work, yeah.
00:48:40.000I'll tell you this, and due respect, if you are going to live with a woman, and I do not recommend it, I do not recommend it, if you are going to live with a woman, she has to want to live with you as much as Daisy wanted you to get her an apartment.
00:50:24.000Make sure you have make sure you have cameras recording everything all around, because you guys know women like to make false accusations.
00:50:31.000If your woman knows that everything is being recorded, then she's going to be far less likely to call the cops and, you know, tell them some dumb shit.
00:50:38.000So those are the first steps that I always tell guys.
00:50:41.000Make sure she angles for commitment first, number one.
00:50:43.000Number two, make sure everything is in your name.
00:50:45.000Number three, make sure you are doing this in a state that does not recognize Kamala.
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00:55:18.000If I were an attractive woman, I would be a fucking bitch too.
00:55:21.000I'm not going to lie to you because I'm fucking crazy as it is.
00:55:25.000So when you're dealing with super attractive women, you just have to understand that they're used to getting their way literally all the time.
00:56:25.000Okay, well then what are you worried about?
00:56:27.000The difference between a low-risk woman and a high-risk woman, a low-risk woman will not put herself in positions to cheat.
00:56:35.000A high-risk woman will put herself in positions to cheat, which is why I say all the time I don't commit to women who go to bars and clubs and all the rest of that.
00:56:43.000And so what you're going to have to understand when you're dealing with super attractive girls, just like Myron said, it's a whole other set of problems.
00:57:25.000Just understand that closing the deal is going to be very, very difficult.
00:57:28.000She's always going to have dudes getting at her.
00:57:30.000And, especially in this day and age here in 2024, if she's really attractive, just like we were talking about there, she probably has a sponsor of seven.
00:57:37.000And Instagram has fucked up the game for a lot of you guys with these girls, man.
00:57:41.000Like, I hate to say it, like, you used to be like, you might have a better chance with them before, but like, with social media now?
00:57:46.000Like, dude, they're in the clouds, dude.
00:58:25.000Nobody's saying fuck with ones, twos, threes, or fours.
00:58:28.000Look, if you're looking for a fuck buddy who's going to give you pre-selection to help you get other hot girls, yeah, 8s, 9s, and 10s all day.
00:58:34.000If you're looking for a relationship, yeah, it needs to be 5s and 6s.
00:58:38.000Maybe the occasional 7s, but when you get into the 7s, 8s, 9s, and 10s, you start getting into the sex worker category.
00:58:44.000So I've seen billionaires and people that I know that, for example, on my network, right?
00:59:13.000Probably someone who makes high five figures to low six figures that she sort of finessed into doing that.
00:59:20.000But yes, when an average woman, a five or six, gets with a man in demand, yeah, all of a sudden she'll start to pay a little bit more attention to the way she looks.
00:59:30.000If her boobs start to get a little bit droopy, yeah.
00:59:38.000But yeah, rich guys have, they'll commit to fives and sixes and just, you know, just like Jay-Z said, oh, long, long time ago, he said A to a D cup, all that stuff.