On this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, we have our first guest on the show, Alexis. Alexis is a housewife that represents Moms of America and represents the All Female Panel at the past weekend event at Turning Point USA. We talk about the Oneverse 20 debate that is happening this Friday with Uncensored America.
00:16:20.000So I will, yeah, we had a lot of people watching, even though we didn't even hit like front page or whatever, so we're still getting to good numbers.
00:16:26.000So, yeah, that's going to be, don't worry, we're going to still do it, guys.
00:16:29.000This Friday, we're going to be out there debating with Uncensored America.
00:18:24.000One of the things that I was doing there was to bring awareness to a charity that I'm working with with one of my really good friends named Mason Deshaun.
00:18:31.000And his Instagram handle and what I'm here to do today is really bring awareness to him.
00:18:36.000Since this is an all-female panel, he's disqualified for using this platform.
00:18:43.000So I'm kind of doing a little switch and bait over here.
00:21:01.000See, this is, I mean, right, it's like, this is why, like, I can't even look around and have a serious conversation because what I'm talking about is so serious.
00:21:08.000And there's, like, so much silly shit going on.
00:21:10.000So it's just like, you know, we got you.
00:21:15.000Well, me and my husband, we've known each other since we were 14.
00:21:19.000So we would have been married a lot sooner if it wasn't for so many people saying, oh, you know, men shouldn't be getting married so early, but we could have gotten married at 15, you know.
00:21:29.000But the outside world kept pressuring us saying, you got to live, you got to go explore.
00:21:33.000And we just kept coming back to each other.
00:31:11.000Instead of like, so like, whenever I'm a part of a cleaning business, I give go over to profitable like people's houses and I just clean them.
00:31:21.000A lot of the time, like, I'm in, like, shorts and a tank top or something like that.
00:31:24.000Like, I don't ever go beyond my boundaries, if that makes sense.
00:45:56.000All right, so you're from Katie, Texas.
00:45:59.000And you said I was going to ask for work, but I guess would it be cleaning business or while I'm down here in Florida, that's what I do to make money.
00:46:05.000And then while in Texas, I'm a veterinarian.
00:46:08.000I got my CVA in high school, but I'm still going back to school for welding in veterinary.
00:49:27.000And the reason why I say it is because every time I look at the top 10 most dangerous cities in America, Flint and Detroit are always in there.
00:51:14.000I went out in Alabama and then two there and then Iowa and then I went out to California for a medical sales program so I could be more educated in the space I'm in now.
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01:01:18.000But like, so if I'm being honest, I probably wouldn't, in many situations, approach the guy if I think he's, you know, attractive or anything.
01:03:54.000A question for you ladies, because both of you refrain from approaching men, which I, you know, is actually very common with women in your line of work and a nightlife.
01:04:02.000Would you guys say that because you guys work in nightlife and you guys get approached so much by men that it's like, man, I don't need to fucking go up to guys?
01:04:10.000Like if I'm out in the street and I really like somebody and I see them, you know, talking to me, I would maybe go up to them and be myself.
01:04:51.000Nightlife is funny because you could have a girl that works as a bargirl or, for example, a server, and she can approach all night, every night, pretty much.
01:06:25.000I do approach men a lot because I have learned like if you keep letting the same men approach you over and over again, it's the same pieces of shit that keep approaching you, honestly.
01:06:33.000Because the way that you're seen in the world is how those men see you.
01:06:36.000So if you change the way that you're looked at, that's the different men are going to come look at you.
01:12:40.000Like, I'll do the eye contact thing or I'll compliment if I like their outfit or their teeth, if I like their smile, like something like that.
01:20:25.000When you're working in the suits, you know that rule.
01:20:27.000It's like if you spend five minutes on a trick, you got to move on because if they ain't spending money in the first five minutes, you got to move the other one.
01:22:44.000Like, if you're not fucking with me, then I'm not fucking with you, but I'm still going to fuck with you to get on your nerves because you didn't want to fuck with me.
01:23:55.000Girls are very quick to move on and just take the L, unlike men.
01:23:59.000Men will sit there and continue and try to beat a dead horse and get with a girl that's not interested versus like for women, you know, they'll kind of cut their losses early and move on.
01:24:07.000Because we're trying to protect our hearts.
01:25:53.000If you ask for a deposit, you're a scam.
01:25:54.000Most real women who actually work don't ask for a deposit because the deposit, they're going to take their money and leave.
01:25:59.000Now, if you're going for, say, a guy wants to take you home, like away from where you are working to go to another place, you do get money before they leave because that right there proves they're not a cup and also proves that they're going to keep spending money.
01:31:49.000I spent $360,000, and the jeweler kind of fucked me over.
01:31:53.000And it's hard for me to trust people in this basement because I'm such a caring and giving person when somebody tells me that I can gain their trust.
01:34:35.000If I look at you like this, like say you walking this way and I'm walking like this and if I look at you like this, that's me shooting my shot.
01:34:54.000If I look at you like this, like say you walking this way and I'm walking like this and if I look at you like this, that's me shooting my shot.
01:36:36.000So she's chilling a little bit here, but there's some truth there because from the standpoint of her actual glance or whatever, it's so quick because she's thinking, okay, for a guy, you should get it right away.
01:36:47.000But most guys are kind of like in their own world.
01:37:10.000But yeah, no, I think even though it's a funny troll, it is a truth to it because that slight glance that she gave the guy, apparently, piece a lot about how women shoot their shots.
01:37:51.000So, it's kind of interesting because it seems like the consensus at the table is like most of you are not going to approach men, which is fine.
01:37:56.000I think most women don't approach men in general.
01:38:13.000But what I'm asking is, like, you know, would you say like most men aren't handsome enough to approach in that way anyway, or they're not maybe attractive enough?
01:41:11.000I think you'd come more from a salesman angle.
01:41:14.000But like for the rest of you, especially like for the nightlife girls, like you guys, you know, if you have higher standards, you want guys that are a certain caliber.
01:41:24.000So it's like, you know, how could you expect someone that's higher status that has women to approach you when you're the one that has the high standards?
01:41:33.000Like, in other words, their standards aren't as high as yours.
01:44:04.000All I'm saying is, the reason why I'm asking this specifically is because I've noticed a lot of women that have high standards, refuse to approach men.
01:44:25.000Like, girls will say, oh, I want a guy that makes this amount of money or this guy of this status or this guy that has this kind of lifestyle.
01:44:31.000But the problem is that there's way less of him than you.
01:44:34.000So it's like you kind of have to, you got to make amends where it's like, okay, I want a higher status guy.
01:45:36.000So even if, you know, I ended up being with someone who was really rich, I would still want to work just for me.
01:45:43.000And I feel like a lot of girls in Miami expect, you know, to be with this guy who makes six, seven figures and them not do anything or, you know, not contribute just because, oh, I'm a girl and, you know, I have a BBL or I have fake boobs or, oh, yeah, just because like you look good.
01:46:03.000Like, yeah, I don't think you understand what I'm saying here.
01:46:06.000Like, that's cool that you want to work and make your own money.
01:46:08.000What I'm saying is that by you having high standards.
01:46:11.000So like you said, you can't imagine if the guy you meet has like ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies.
01:46:42.000Higher status men are totally cool with being like with an average girl, but like a regular girl is not okay with being with a regular guy most of the time.
01:47:18.000I think she's like not cooked from the perspective of like being a 304, but cooked as in like your expectations are going to be through the roof now.
01:47:26.000Like a guy making 50K per year and working a regular job is probably not going to be enough for you now.
01:49:12.000And it's like, that's the problem is that, like, you know, women will sit there and say, oh, if I feel a certain way, then I'll stick around.
01:49:17.000Yeah, but your feelings are contingent upon so many different factors that are out of his control.
01:49:22.000So a woman's loyalty is predicated on her feeling good in the moment.
01:50:54.000If men really knew and understood how women behave, we would never respect you guys.
01:50:58.000I've always said, this is a very raw saying that I say, but I think you can either respect women or you can look at them as equals, but you can't do both, right?
01:51:13.000Because if you understand them, then there's no way that you can respect them as equals.
01:51:16.000And I think just by me, the nature of understanding women, that you guys are Decepticons by nature, because you guys have to be, I just can't take you guys serious in a lot of different ways.
01:51:25.000And it actually works out better for you because I put all the responsibility on myself when I deal with women.
01:51:29.000I think men need to be the breadwinners.
01:51:31.000Men need to be the leaders because I don't look at women as equal to us whatsoever.
01:51:35.000I think that women are inferior to men in many regards.
01:51:37.000This is why in every biblical text, every Quran text, every, even with the Jews, with the Talmud and everything, they understand that men need to be the leaders.
01:51:46.000So, and every society pretty much that's thrived has always had men as leaders.
01:51:50.000And this isn't for me to be a dickhead and be like, oh yeah, women are fucking retarded and they don't deserve anything.
01:51:54.000But I don't think that anything gets done that's fruitful when women are in leadership roles.
01:52:29.000I want you to be a leader and tell me to shut up when I act crazy.
01:52:32.000Like, if men understood the real raw truths about female nature, see, some of you guys are smiling because you know I'm telling the truth here.
01:52:36.000If men understood this, we would never be able to take you seriously.
01:52:40.000So you guys have to put a facade out so that we can respect you guys as equals.
01:52:44.000But the reality is you don't want to be treated as equals.
01:52:46.000You guys want to be treated as subordinates.
01:52:49.000So this is why it's so interesting to me when I talk to women and you guys say things like, we can build together and all this other stuff.
01:52:55.000But I know in the back of my mind, they don't want to build with you.
01:52:58.000They want you to have it built and then they just move in and make it better.
01:53:20.000There's something called like Bruffwolt's Law in Human and Psychologist Evolution, where the woman only has a relationship with a man as long as there's value being provided by the man.
01:53:28.000Once the man no longer provides value, he's kicked out.
01:53:31.000And this is true in all relationships, obviously.
01:53:33.000But when it comes to men and women, men are held to another standard.
01:56:19.000But again, this is why, like, to me, signal, especially eye contact, like, it has so much power because, I mean, shit, she had a whole man there and did that whole shit.
01:57:56.000He gets these girls like super lavish gifts, like a super, you know, one of those bouquets with real flowers, Hermes, you know, designer stuff.
02:02:00.000I mean, like, what I'm saying is that, remember, ladies, you got to remember that men are the ones that give out the relationships.
02:02:06.000So I'm trying to explain that, like, if you're going to be involved in, like, OnlyFans or stripping or anything else like that, and you have high standards, more than likely, you're going to have to be a side chick to a dude.
02:02:16.000Or like, girlfriend number two, you'll just never be the main.
02:02:19.000Or the other option, this is a darker side, is you're going to have to support a guy.
02:02:24.000Like, like, where you're the breadwinner and you support him.
02:02:26.000We've seen that before, where the guy will sit there and tolerate that and deal with that lifestyle, but you're going to have to support him.
02:02:32.000You're paying all the bills, et cetera.
02:02:35.000Either you're going to be a side chick to a top dude that you find attractive and arousing, but you won't be the main, or you'll be the breadwinner for a man who is going to just swoop off you and still fucking girls.
02:03:17.000So like he looks at it like, okay, for me to make this make sense, I need to have other women and she needs to pay me to basically be here.
02:03:26.000That's a pimp, sweetie, if you didn't know.
02:03:27.000Technically speaking, I guess you could say that if you're going to be, yeah.
02:03:35.000Like, it's like, all right, if I'm going to get with you and you do this line of work that's embarrassing to me and hurts my last name, I'm going to create plausible deniability and be with you, but have other girls so people can't sit there and say, Oh, that's your chick.
02:03:47.000No, man, that's just a chick I'm smashing, even though she's paying his bills and shit.
02:03:50.000Because, like, guys need that plausible deniability if they're going to get with a girl that does that.
02:03:53.000So, Myron, tell us how do we find a man that won't do that to us.
02:03:57.000I don't know the answers to all of this.
02:04:12.000So, one, you support the guy, you're the breadwinner, you do your sex work, he won't bother you, he's gonna probably have other women on the side, and he'll be with you.
02:04:21.000But you're gonna deal with a lower status guy potentially involved in criminal activity, right?
02:04:26.000Can't get a job, can't acclimate to society.
02:04:28.000The second one is you get with a higher status guy, a guy that's attractive that you want to be with, but you're never gonna be the main girl.
02:04:34.000And he might even, if he has a good job or a good reputation, he's gonna probably keep you hidden because your background will fuck up his current situation.
02:05:25.000So those are the three options I've noticed for girls that in that line of work.
02:05:28.000It's either get with an average guy that will value you, but you'll be bored.
02:05:31.000B, get with a higher status guy that will never claim you, that you're aroused by.
02:05:35.000Or C, be with a man that maybe might be attractive and, you know, maybe a bad boy that you like, but you're going to be paying for his life.
02:05:57.000I want to know specifically what you're going to actually tell them.
02:06:00.000Like women who were forced into that work, like they didn't want to do it.
02:06:03.000I will tell them the same thing that the world doesn't owe you understanding, unfortunately.
02:06:09.000Guys are going to write you off for that.
02:06:11.000Some guys might feel bad and sentimental.
02:06:14.000You might be able to win one or two heart strings, but a lot of guys are still going to look at it like the problem is the behaviors and actual actions of the trauma, for example.
02:07:44.000So yes, I did go back into this world because I was practically born into it.
02:07:49.000And going back into it, I've tried to teach myself a way to where I wouldn't be hurt, to where I would do it in a way that I want to, but also teach other women.
02:08:26.000But yeah, normally that's the three boxes, unfortunately, that it is, you know, and I tell girls this, like, hey, this is kind of what it's going to be.
02:08:31.000You might be lucky and still find Prince Charming, but very unlikely, unfortunately.
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02:17:21.000So if they love bomb you had a beginning, how would you know?
02:17:24.000That's the sad part about being a woman.
02:17:27.000Unless you're like a fucking like master genie and you love somebody like that, it's hard to tell because at that point, you're already like in love with the person or you like them so much.
02:17:36.000It's like, I can't see if he's telling truth or not.
02:17:38.000So I guess with more time, you could tell, but it's kind of hard.
02:24:44.000Just make everyone that was from me that I care about respect happy to be able to do what they need to do and don't worry about money itself or having to worry about paying bills because it's taken care of.
02:25:16.000I was asked to ask a thoughtful question, and that's the kind of conversations my colleagues and I have, and I thought we could have a conversation like that here.
02:25:26.000I'm trying to bring awareness back to our Bill of Rights and our Constitution, because I don't think people understand it enough.
02:25:35.000She sounds like she's from the White House.
02:27:59.000I feel like she did put you down a little bit because, I mean, that you're pregnant or whatever, just because, like, you know, you have to, like, put heels on or whatever to make money, whatever.
02:28:13.000And I just feel like the meth, she could have delivered it a little bit better because I feel like you kind of had like a serious face the entire time.
02:28:19.000You don't think she's being nice about her offering that?
02:28:21.000I just feel like you could have, you know, been a little bit like, you know, nicer in your deliverance.
02:28:25.000But in the way, I don't give a fuck, bro.
02:29:52.000I just, I look at Myron because I don't know.
02:29:54.000I'm not afraid until you looked at the fucking camera.
02:29:56.000I look at Myron because he's the host of the show, and it keeps me grounded because what you guys are throwing at me is straight disrespect, and it's hard to talk to them is very disrespectful.
02:30:06.000Yeah, being mean to me doesn't move me.
02:31:18.000It's like I already told you, like, yo, you could just hit up.
02:31:20.000No, because when I approached you, I was asking you some serious questions, and I thought you were like saying, oh, we could talk about it some other time.
02:31:26.000I didn't know it was going to be this.
02:31:29.000I thought the questions I was going to ask you at turning point, which you didn't have time to answer, I thought you were going to be like, well, you know, we are around the same area.
02:31:37.000You can ask me those questions some other time.
02:32:04.000I mean, I love what you guys do individually.
02:32:07.000I thought, you know, you know, what you guys have to say, a lot of it are gems, you know.
02:32:13.000And I thought this would be a good place to, you know, support someone that is doing something really serious about you guys would be interested in.
02:33:05.000Yeah, like you're feeling it as if like I tried to like I literally talked to you for like two minutes and I was like, okay, well, just hit up Chris.