In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. Cheaters are everywhere, so how do you deal with them? How do you handle them? What would you do if you found out that your partner was cheating? How would you handle it?
00:29:11.000So damn it, I think I know what I'm doing.
00:29:13.000And plus, the vet situation I do, I vet them thoroughly before I consider you mine and we're going to be out in the open and all that shit.
00:29:20.000It's going to be years before I'll be like, this is my girl.
00:30:14.000So you're saying that in the long run, that things you're gonna have girls come into it and then work?
00:30:19.000I just always felt like as like a woman with another woman, it's like a lot more calm.
00:30:24.000Like, you know, a guy has to be the alpha male in a situation, so it's like you can't have two of that, but you could have a guy and then have other girls with them as like that girl on the icing on the top of the cake type concept.
00:31:30.000But I don't really last longer in relationships because of that.
00:31:33.000But at the same time, there's nearly nothing you can do to prevent being cheated on, but level yourself up because you can do things to increase the odds of you being cheated on.
00:31:42.000I can't really say you can do much to decrease it when you're in a relationship, but you can be that dude.
00:32:04.000If you have a woman invest into the situation, invest into you, invest into the household, invest into a business, don't you think she's less likely to cheat because she's invested?
00:32:14.000I feel like women cheat when they ain't got to do nothing because it's like they don't lose nothing.
00:32:18.000But if you require from a woman, she's invested.
00:32:21.000If she get caught cheating, she gonna lose that investment.
00:32:23.000But these dudes don't require nothing from these women.
00:32:26.000That's why they so easy and quick to cheat because it don't matter.
00:32:28.000But if you make a consequence, and she's invested, she's like, I'm going to lose all this time and investment if I cheat, so I might not.
00:32:35.000Don't you think it's better to just make a woman require from a woman and make her invest?
00:32:51.000So, you're trying to get this billion with these regular ass flowers and shit, bitch.
00:32:55.000So, Goody's asking, just from a standpoint of relationship, if you're going to have that going on and he demands you to help him, for example, with his business or help with chores, would that help you to stop cheating?
00:34:14.000If a man, if you were investing with a man and you had to invest time, energy, money with that man, it would make you think twice before cheating because you got an investment and you'll lose that investment versus if you didn't have no investment with that man.
00:34:27.000Well, if I'm investing this for a reason, so I probably wouldn't, my first thought wouldn't be to cheat, especially if I'm investing time and money into this person.
00:34:54.000Well, if you're thinking about cheating, you're already exited from the relationship.
00:34:57.000In my opinion, you have a lot of women that when they cheat, they claim there's a reason.
00:35:00.000There was something that he did or she didn't want to do that.
00:35:02.000It's kind of like the blame game on a lot of stuff.
00:35:04.000If you're already thinking that, you should already exit yourself because then you're just going to hurt the person that you supposedly care about.
00:35:08.000If you're already like thinking, if you're already like, oh, what about this person?
00:47:13.000Here's the question, though, is if a girl makes millions off of the other guys on like OF and stuff, do you consider that made by the men or do you consider that made by the woman that's taking it from the men?
00:49:03.000Like, I mean, I've kind of gotten to the point where, like, I could walk away from it now, but there wouldn't be a point to walk away from it, if that makes sense.
00:49:31.000The reason I wouldn't, though, is because, and this, again, I'm only saying this because I know he's not watching this, is because that, like, if someone, like, if I'm talking to him completely across the country, I've never called him, like, I've never talked to him, like, in front of my face.
00:51:35.000Listen, you're dealing with a super nigga.
00:51:37.000Ain't too many of me ever been made and ever will be made again.
00:51:39.000Let's the asteroid hit this bitch and reconfigure some of my DNA, get in the asteroid, and take it out like Jurassic Park and make some more motherfuckers.
00:51:46.000So, like, once a woman understands I am the man of her dreams, she's going to do whatever to make my dreams come true.
00:52:29.000As far as a woman that was actually with me for a minute, I ain't going to count it up and I ain't going to tell it on this recorded live right here.
00:52:36.000But in one day, a woman and gay got $250,000.
00:52:38.000A dude who won some money at the casino.
01:00:11.000Well, she's not worth much, but the problem is because He could have bought a girl that was younger, but this nigga chose someone that was around his age.
01:02:54.000You got to try to, you know, you got to trick a little bit for your girl, buy her some gifts, do all the extra shit because you're not fucked up at that point.
01:03:01.000From your experience, what should this guy do, in your opinion?
01:20:07.000There's anything you can do I'm just talking about you Just damn ass damn Even if you're at every number of something like that That's the funny story I just missed it You know what, man?
01:20:16.000It's public Yeah, you already saw it Hey, you see me You already saw it Hey, you ain't done Tell me, I'm done I think it's all very funny What the fuck?
01:20:30.000I don't know Stop, stop, stop Stop, stop Let it disappear Look how quick he is Look how he disappeared Behind the curtain Behind the curtain Come on now.
01:22:07.000Like, I was actually sad because I had a content day at my house literally like two days ago and I had a bunch of hot girls there and none of them got naked in the hot tub.
01:24:40.000No, I mean, I guess if you've been married for like 10-something years, if you wanted to put it on like your red and ring finger, that makes sense because y'all got the history.
01:24:47.000But just as of right now, there's no need.
01:24:49.000And I feel like a woman might lose respect for you.
01:24:51.000Same thing, like they said, tricking can't buy respect.
01:24:53.000I feel like when you do shit like this, they subconsciously will lose attraction to you.
01:24:57.000So I just fear that, so I wouldn't do it.
01:25:54.000I just, every time I've gotten with someone, it's been so like interlock.
01:25:58.000Like, as they were talking about earlier, like investing in someone that it's just like when I was like, hey, like, this isn't, this isn't going to, you know, proceed forward.
01:26:06.000They, like, there's four guys that have killed themselves because of me.
01:28:01.000Like the one that I was open with, he and I were together for years and years and years off and on, but like, just depending on where geographically I was.
01:29:30.000They get so mentally like what was the main complaint that they have for people?
01:29:34.000I would say it was just really like the last one, the last one, which was the craziest one, the fourth one, was that he said to me that if I was going to leave him, that I would never be with someone else.
01:29:44.000And I was like, you kind of need to calm down.
01:29:46.000Like I was trying to break up with him for literally like eight months.
01:29:49.000Like over and over again, he kept finding me.
01:29:51.000One time he like kept, it's a whole story.
01:29:53.000But one time he basically like drugged me and I woke up in like a different state, which is another story.
01:30:29.000Yeah, because I was like, what are you doing?
01:30:31.000Like, I'm just going to be like, thank you for coming back.
01:30:35.000Like, the fuck, like, there was another part of the story I can't say, but there was another person I had to go after, but it was another story.
01:36:40.000I don't follow any public relationships of any sort, but I would say it's probably a, you get some of this, the other person gets some of this.
01:36:47.000Like, it's a use-use situation, probably.
01:40:33.000When you go to a meal, you can't get her to pay for nothing.
01:40:36.000And this woman's paying for the entire rent for an extended period of time, man.
01:40:40.000That woman you with just don't like you like that.
01:40:41.000Get you a woman that like you enough to pay your rent.
01:40:43.000I'm not saying you got to make her pay the rent, but get one that like you enough that's willing to do it because she a decent looking woman.
01:41:38.000No, I was going to ask that, like, wouldn't it make you less attracted to a woman if she was, you know, just paying for everything, giving you a child, marrying you and everything?
01:41:51.000If you're looking at from the point of view of being a man and leading a household, yes, it does seem like it's kind of like contradictory because as a man, you should be leading everything.
01:42:00.000However, nowadays, I feel like men would love a girl that would take care of certain things.
01:42:09.000If a guy has all his money and a girl wants to contribute, it's kind of like, all right, cool.
01:42:14.000She's down for the cause, she's down for me.
01:42:16.000Versus, if he's doing everything, you don't really know where her real loyalty is at.
01:42:21.000Cause she can pretend Oh yeah whatever But actually spending money On a man Means that she loves you Or likes you That means a lot If you love a guy, money's like, oh, you know what?
01:42:33.000Like, if you're thinking about the princess from Dubai, right in French Montana, would you say because she has billions and he doesn't, that he's looking at her less attractive because she could provide more for him?
01:42:45.000Yeah, because I feel like a lot of men also say like, oh, like, I feel like the same.
01:42:50.000Like, what we were talking on Fresh and Fit podcast, you know, that if the woman has, you know, is the leader or the one that provides everything, that it just doesn't work out.
01:43:00.000So that's why I was asking that question.
01:43:26.000If I got nine out of ten attributes above the money, I'm still the leader of this motherfucking house.
01:43:31.000And once again, you have to be that type of guy.
01:43:33.000Now, if you just a goojamal and you ain't got all your attributes up and she got the money, it's over with for you.
01:43:38.000But you that nigga and you just ain't got your money up, you still running a house, especially slanging that motherfucking iron in that bitch.
01:44:20.000But I do think, like, most men, they should look for something like this because we trash, you know, like the women that are looking for the money and shit.
01:44:27.000But the caveat of that, it goes back to what I say, as a man, we got to make sure that we put ourselves in a position where they don't want a chief.
01:45:04.000Legendary rapper Nicki Minaj just reported to the FBI CIA rep Paul Luna that Kendrick Lamar affiliate McWap of TDE allegedly threatened her life.
01:45:12.000This comes after Nikki went to X to expose Jay-Z, Scissa, and the entire music industry.
01:45:17.000MacWap said, Nikki, relax before you get put in a blender like your boy did.
01:45:22.000They're claiming Nikki Minaj alleges that that's referring to Tori Lane, who was stabbed up in prison.
01:45:27.000Rep Luna responded saying that she will be speaking to Nicki Minaj about the threats and the veil is opening.
01:46:10.000But obviously, you know more about this than most of us here.
01:46:13.000Yeah, I feel like, you know, it's going to lead to a lot of reveals, especially with the Tori Lane's case, because they're contacting, well, Nicki Minaj is contacting Rep Luna specifically, who's working on the Tori Lane's case.
01:46:25.000And she's kind of like a mediator with hip-hop in politics right now.
01:46:29.000I know that they're about to be exposing the bots.
01:46:31.000That's a big thing that's getting exposed about Scissor with her bots and how thick that entire industry is.
01:46:36.000But the main problem is it's just Jay-Z.
01:46:38.000Because Nicki Minaj believes Jay-Z is sending shots from the very top to get people like TDE, SZA, et cetera, to try to slander Nikki.
01:46:45.000Can we mention the bots in the industry?
01:47:36.000On top of that, streaming is making so much money off these artists and with these bottom situations because the labels are paying the streaming services, right?
01:47:43.000Because the streaming services pay them, right?
01:47:45.000And they pay the artists goddamn one point, I mean, 0.000001 cent.
01:47:50.000So they need this operation to go to feed these people this money.