In this episode, we have a panel of 4 ladies come on the show to talk about how old they are and what they do for a living. How old is too old to be a millionaire? How old are you supposed to be? What is your age? What are you doing with your life? What do you do with your money? What does your body count say about your age and how old do you need to be to be considered a woman in today's society? How old should you be if you are a woman and you are still a millionaire at the age of 34? We want to know your age so we can know where you stand in the pecking order of women in the world. If you have a question or would like to ask us a question, tweet us and we ll get right to it! Timestamps: 1:00:00 - Who are you going to be the oldest person in the room? 2:30 - Who is the oldest woman? 3:15 - What is the youngest? 4:20 - Is your age 35 or 35? 5:40 - Are you a woman or a man? 6:00- How old you should be? 7:15- What are your dating age? 8:20- Are you married? 9:30- Is your date older than you? 10:40- What's your date? 11:00 12:00s - How old? 15:30s? 16:20s 17:30's? 18:40s 19:30 s? 21:30 22: How old can you be a woman be a billionaire? 25:30? 26:30 is your date night? 27:40 28:40? 29:30 Is your number? 31:00? 32:30 Does your age matter? 30:30 Are you single? 33:00 Is your dating? 35:00 or 36:00 ? 34:00/35? 36: Is it important to you're a woman? 35:30/36? 37:00+? 39:00 / 35:40/37? 41:00 + 39:20? 45:00 Or do you want to date someone younger? 44:30 / 36:30 + 40?
00:02:44.000Like I said, if we're going to have an adult conversation here, we need to know everyone's age, where everyone stands, so we can have a good conversation.
00:05:32.000Okay, so what happened was I dated a tech nerd and it didn't go so well because he didn't have feelings and he was absolutely like, you know, no feelings and I got a baby.
00:09:15.000But it's funny, you said, you were like, oh, he's white.
00:09:19.000A black dude commented on one of my things right before I came in here, and he was like, man, I don't look at petite women, but this picture made me stop.
00:13:26.000He's the man of the house, so he can decide on certain things, but I own the house, so I have to- Yeah, she wears a pants in a relationship.
00:16:03.000At the end of the day, with the Beyonce and Jay-Z, they say that women have better relationships when they're way hotter than their guys, so I love that.
00:16:11.000And then speaking of, you guys had a really muscular, buff celebrity on your show in Miami, who is my ex, a famous boxer, and he's the biggest narcissist cat person ever.
00:16:22.000Everything he said on the show was a lie.
00:17:48.000I don't know, I have good vagina, so, and a cute face, so no one minds looking me in the face and saying, So, my least favorite, CJ actually talked about this on her podcast.
00:18:01.000When, like, a guy has your legs above, like, on his shoulders...
00:32:50.000We step up to the plate and if at the end of the day I make enough money, if my man is sick or out or have cancer, I'm going to lower the bills down.
00:34:54.000Guys think they're too good because they want to belong to, I'm man, feed me sperm.
00:35:01.000Like at the end of the day, there's more to you than that.
00:35:03.000I know billionaires and celebrities that have addiction problems because they feel lonely with a lot of money and a lot of bitches because there's something that they're missing.
00:35:13.000No, they just tell you that so they can leave the room.
00:37:27.000If I meet someone and start talking to them and we're working towards our relationship, they know right off the bat from being my friend that I am friendly with these people and if they're not okay with that from our friendship when we first meet, then we're obviously not going to evolve to the next stage of dating.
00:37:41.000I can hang out with them all together in a room and they can see how I am.
00:37:47.000Again, if the other person is still interested in me, I understand it can be uncomfortable, but no one pushes anything on me.
00:37:52.000How would you feel if your man had a bunch of girls or just friends?
00:38:02.000If I feel like you're a good person and you're going to be honest and truthful, I trust you.
00:38:07.000But if you cross it, which some people do, then that's when you have the conversation of, you know, I don't really want you to talk to this person or whatever.
00:38:15.000But I'm okay with them being friends or ex-girlfriends if they are nice people and if they're not crossing boundaries.
00:46:28.000Because the thing is, the girls come on and sometimes they hurt the quiet of the show and it's like, bro, we're not going to tolerate that.
00:53:37.000Has it made it harder for you as someone that's a higher earner as a female to find someone since you can actually speak to it?
00:53:42.000No, because I feel like women are so sensitive and feminine that we just, from my personal experience, I've dated guys who have money, I've dated guys who have $4 and no car, and I do go for the personality, and how could I get along with them?
00:54:57.000Even if they're not the most attractive person, if you're good vibes, good energy, and you guys really click, it makes them that much more attractive.
00:55:04.000But if you meet a really hot guy and he's just such a douche, just flunting his shit and just whatever, you're so unattractive.
00:55:16.000You said you left your guy before that had money because he cheated on you.
00:55:20.000Would it be fair to say that at the caliber of guys that you're going to be looking at, since you make a lot of money, they're all going to cheat anyway?
00:55:33.000I give people the benefit of the doubt, but it is really hard in our day and age to find someone who is going to be faithful and not having a wandering eye, especially with social media.
00:55:41.000Since social media has been out, everyone's like, you're replaceable.
00:55:44.000Everyone is replaceable because I can just DM this person.
00:55:47.000I can go see what this person in buttfuck Egypt is doing because you're being a bitch.
00:55:51.000So it is hard to believe that anyone is actually going to be faithful.
00:55:54.000Wait, are you speaking from the male perspective or the female perspective of being replaceable?
00:56:59.000When you were 25, right, you had higher value back then and a guy cheated on you.
00:57:04.000So you think now at 30 years old, where you make more money now, you're more successful, you have higher status now, which means you need a guy at the same level, if not better.
00:57:11.000You don't think he's going to cheat on you too when your values actually went down as you've aged?
00:57:28.000I want to have my own shit because if someone is treating me horribly and You know, they control my life because they have the funds, they have the home, they have the car, everything's in their name.
00:57:38.000The day they wake up and cheat on you or hate you or rude to you, like, you just have to take it and be like, well, I have nowhere to go and I have nothing going for me.
00:57:56.000No, that they're going to cheat anyway, and the traits that you mentioned that you have aren't necessarily redeeming factors to men in general.
00:59:09.000For saying pretty much the same thing, is that women have become the men that they want to marry today.
00:59:14.000And that really kind of relates to this question.
00:59:16.000It's like, the number one, I'll say it again here, the number one thing that I get when we're on these shows, or when I have women in private ask me these things, they say, Rolo, I can't find a man.
00:59:26.000I've done everything I was supposed to do.
00:59:33.000Some of you here make a million dollars.
00:59:36.000Why can't I find a guy who is my equal?
00:59:38.000Why can't I not find a guy, which in equal means like above that you just asked her the question is like, do you want a guy who's better than you essentially?
00:59:45.000And the problem is, is like most women who are beautiful and they make a lot of money and they raise their status, they have a real tough time finding a guy Because that guy will never measure up to her status because of what you just said, which is, I need a failsafe.
01:00:03.000I need to know that if a guy cheats on me or leaves me, I have something else going.
01:00:07.000Whether it's my Instagram page or it's my business or whatever else, because they're afraid to get with a guy who might leave for the secretary, who might leave for the trophy wife.
01:00:19.000And so there's this really, I think, catch-22 that we give women today, like socially right now, When we say, do all these things, be a boss babe, be an alpha female, and then yet you get to 30 years old and suddenly guys aren't as forthcoming, at least in the long term.
01:00:35.000They want to have sex with you for sure, but they don't want to get involved with a woman who has all this status and all of this money, and it's not because they have little dick energy and it's not because they have fragile egos, it's because you Women don't see them as a viable candidate for a long-term relationship.
01:00:51.000That's why you're in the position that you're in right now, ladies.
01:00:55.000And I hate fucking explaining this every goddamn show, but it has to be spilled out and God knows how many different terms for you guys.
01:01:01.000That's why you're frustrated right now.
01:02:45.000Yeah, but that's why I think they're so intimidated.
01:02:47.000They get more intimidated because the cocktail waitresses are around so many rich men and you're attractive and guys come to the clubs and are like, why is there no hot girls?
01:02:53.000All the hot girls are cocktail waitresses.
01:02:56.000And I think, yes, the men, I think, get...
01:02:59.000Kind of insecure about it, and then they project on you.
01:03:24.000Two, one, men are not, they're being told by Grant Cardone and several other people, don't go to college.
01:03:29.000The college is a fucking waste of time.
01:03:31.000They're being told to be entrepreneurs, invest in realty.
01:03:32.000But if I want to be an entrepreneur or become a tradesman or something like that, I don't have to get a college degree to become a plumber.
01:03:37.000And that's something like if you have Justin Waller on here and you ask him, do I want a master's degree or a really good worker?
01:03:42.000I'm gonna take the worker and I'm gonna pay him more.
01:04:09.000But then they also have less life experience and then you don't get along with them as well.
01:04:13.000Like, oh, it's fun and cool and they're young and less baggage, but at the same time, because there's less baggage, they are a little bit more inexperienced.
01:04:20.000And if you are older, you can't get along with them.
01:04:23.000Do you think men are attracted to women with experience?
01:05:03.000For example, Dan, who likes to date younger girls because he's attracted to younger girls, he's like, I can't date them for a long time because I have nothing in common with them and nothing to talk about because they're so young, but I'm attracted to them.
01:05:12.000But it doesn't go far because they don't have any life experience.
01:05:42.000Most girls are useless because they've never had to be useful.
01:05:44.000If you come into a man's life that has everything, you need to figure out how to provide something to him that everybody else hasn't been able to provide.
01:05:50.000But most girls lack critical thinking skills, like some of the ladies we kicked off the panel earlier.
01:05:54.000Because girls are not necessarily independent thinkers.
01:05:57.000They think, I'm going to be pretty, I'm going to come in, and I'm just going to get this guy.
01:06:00.000When I asked you guys earlier, what do you bring to the table?
01:06:02.000All the things that you guys mentioned are easily replaceable by a 21-year-old girl.
01:06:07.000So how are you going to keep a guy around that has options?
01:06:09.000We asked you guys that question for a purpose.
01:06:11.000Most women provide the same things over and over again, and if they don't provide those same things over, they provide, oh, I have money and status, as if men care about that.
01:06:52.000But then there's girls who live in Bizarro World and get literally everything they ever wanted and they don't give a fuck what the guy wants.
01:06:57.000They get everything they want and then whenever the guy is over, they don't give a fuck.
01:07:32.000She was dating a guy who had a bunch of money and he slipped up once and she was able to hold him to that standard that now he's still paying her like a $1,500 allowance or like 15 grand or something.
01:07:59.000Look, men that you guys actually like that have options that you're attracted to, aroused by, and respect, they don't negotiate with women.
01:08:08.000I'm not saying she was necessarily attracted to him.
01:10:19.000Yeah, you're attractive and everything, but there's another version of you that's 10 years younger with less baggage, less experience, and that a guy might find attractive.
01:10:28.000And you said something earlier that guys that are with cocktail waitresses or girls that are in a nightlife scene or whatever, they might be insecure because the girl's around successful men or whatever, right?
01:11:28.000If I have a woman, I don't want her around other men in a nightlife scene where I know their dicks are hard and they're drinking alcohol and they're trying to sleep with my girl.
01:11:35.000And you're trying to get a good tip out of them, so you're kind of flirty and whatever.
01:11:39.000Yeah, so that's behavior that is conducive to cheating, which men don't like.
01:11:43.000But it's funny how men's standards are always shamed and labeled insecure, toxic, small dick energy like this dumb hoe said earlier.
01:11:49.000But what women want, women want a successful guy that's strong, that makes money, whatever.
01:11:53.000But we don't shame women for their preferences.
01:12:04.000I personally know that I've dated someone who is like, I don't feel comfortable with you around these people because it does make me feel like, you know, what if they're better looking?
01:12:13.000What if they can provide more for you than I can?
01:12:15.000But I understand what you're saying, though.
01:12:19.000He just didn't want to tell you to your face that the root cause is that it's disrespectful and I don't want my woman around other men.
01:13:48.000Because if you're presenting yourself in a sexual way in a social place, people are obviously going to hit on you.
01:13:57.000By the way, you'll be proud of me here.
01:13:59.000We used your question about would you give up Instagram for the right guy.
01:14:03.000You guys have used that question on your show before.
01:14:06.000I put a little different twist on it last week because damn near every girl is never going to give up their Instagram.
01:14:11.000And then the first thing they say is, well, I would not be with a guy who asked me to give up my Instagram because he would be insecure and that would be a problem in our relationship.
01:14:20.000So I would never get with a guy who it would occur to him to ask me to give up my OnlyFans, give up my Instagram, whatever, any of my social media.
01:14:27.000So my next question was what I just asked.
01:14:29.000I said, I'm not saying that's the wrong question, but I think it needs a little refinement.
01:14:35.000What you need to ask is, would it occur to you to want to delete your OnlyFans, delete your Instagram, delete all of that so that you are not advertising yourself?
01:14:45.000Because right now, when we look at men's mating strategy and we look at women's mating strategy, women are the advertisers and men are the ones who are the salesmen.
01:15:28.000Am I a ride or a girl enough to want to give up my social media and stop advertising?
01:15:36.000Because what happens is when a man and a woman get together, we expect that man to stop selling himself.
01:15:42.000But yet, at the same time, that woman still has the right to advertise herself on Instagram or on OnlyFans or whatever else.
01:15:49.000So she's constantly advertising, and the guy's expected to stop selling himself, and so it becomes a very lopsided situation.
01:15:57.000So what I've been asking is, would it be a thought in your head that if you were with a guy that was your ideal guy, Would it occur to you to want to stop OnlyFans or stop Instagram or whatever?
01:17:33.000I think that the thing that women lack a lot of is, I guess, if certain men aren't making them feel safe, I guess, yeah, comfortable, safe, that's usually the terms that women use, but the right kind of man that knows how to treat you is going to make you feel very soft and very submissive,
01:17:53.000and You're not going to want to do anything that's going to make him feel those ways.
01:17:56.000So you're not going to want to broadcast yourself out there and make other men think that you are still available to them.
01:18:02.000And I feel like that's the basis of what you gentlemen are talking about.
01:19:14.000But it's something that I wanted to word it in a different way, but it is.
01:19:20.000You're looking for the word authority.
01:19:22.000The man is the authority of the household.
01:19:26.000Men are superior to women in almost every regard which is why they're put in the authority position and why they're responsible for everything because men are superior to women in most of the tangible things that actually matter in civilization.
01:19:40.000No, I agree to a certain extent, but I think from back in the day how things have been evolving, like women are coming into power too because we're getting more comfortable, we have more, people are, women are evolving, I guess.
01:19:53.000Men are, yes, men are superior because, yes, you're right, men own most of the businesses, men own most of everything and are presidents and everything, but women are also becoming more independent and coming forward, but again, we're Taught from a young age that the man is the head of the household and usually he is.
01:20:09.000What if the man doesn't make as much money and he doesn't provide for you?
01:20:12.000What if he doesn't offer you those things but he's a good partner in so many other ways?
01:20:16.000If he doesn't provide those things, it's not going to work is my point.
01:20:19.000I think whoever the breadwinner is, is like the superior one.
01:21:01.000Anyway, going back to what I was saying, the reason why men are superior, like, the thing is this, if you, women dominate college attendance right now, right?
01:24:23.000Again, if I felt safe and I felt like this person was going to treat me well and be good to me, because why would I fuck off something that makes me money, something that makes me happy, if the relationship isn't stable?
01:24:34.000If we're getting engaged, we're getting married, and everything's going great, and he has my back, and we have a The reason I ask is because just a few minutes ago you were saying that you needed an insurance policy.
01:24:46.000You wanted to make sure that you're very successful so if some guy does fuck off that you're gonna have your own.
01:24:50.000That's not the only way I would make money though.
01:24:52.000So that's not my only source of income.
01:24:54.000I have many sources of income and that's not my main source of income.
01:24:57.000So does the fear of being alone drive you to always be independent you would say?
01:26:29.000They want someone to be a good mother.
01:26:30.000Most men who look at a woman, when you look at them, like, are you going to be a good partner for me to lean on when something's wrong with my business or my life?
01:27:05.000See, in my head, the men in my life have always been like, I appreciate your work ethic and how well grounded you are and how driven you are to do things.
01:27:29.000Maybe you're in your late 20s, early 30s.
01:27:31.000The things men will say to have sexual intercourse with you with no intention of being in a relationship You guys have ever experienced that?
01:27:55.000But even when they're believable, do you understand?
01:27:58.000So what happens is, just think, maybe not just you, but from a societal level, all these women who are like, I fucked the power forward, therefore the NBA power forward is the baseline for the man that I deserve from that point forward.
01:28:10.000Maybe not just you, but in general, some other girls that are like this.
01:28:14.000And then what happens from that point is, now every other guy who does not meet that standard, there's just this little switch in their head.
01:28:20.000They're like, well, he makes less money than me and he's not six foot eight.
01:28:23.000And there's all these other problems, and we just become, some women become delusional, for lack of a better term, for the idea of what it is that they can get.
01:28:33.000Because what they can fuck and what they can keep are two different things, but because the dudes will say fucking Anything to have sex with you.
01:28:41.000You start to conflate these two things, and then that's where you end up with massive...
01:28:45.000You have friends that are bottle servers, and they just keep going after one bad dude after another.
01:28:50.000You've probably seen it over and over, and you can't figure it out.
01:29:05.000The guy will say anything to appease your ego.
01:29:08.000So if you're a successful woman that makes a lot of money, he'll tell you, oh, it's so awesome that you're successful and make money, but he's going to say whatever to fuck.
01:29:19.000Yeah, all bets are off until you say I do.
01:29:21.000What I wanted to say earlier is one of my friends actually sent me a voice message earlier in the week saying, I think I met my dream girl.
01:29:32.000She's like 5'2", she's blonde, she's this and that and all these things, and she has no social media.
01:31:13.000Just like if I met you at a club and you didn't like the way I looked or whatever, or maybe I was dressed poorly, you would assume, I'm not giving this guy a chance.
01:31:22.000You have to outwardly reject men and tell them I'm not interested.
01:31:24.000Men will silently reject you and think, whore, I'm not going to take her seriously.
01:31:28.000Even if you paid for your own trips or your own private jets.
01:31:31.000And here's the other thing, going back to what he says.
01:31:33.000So now let's say they have the preconceived notion because they saw the private jet or they saw the multiple trips to Saint Tropez or whatever.
01:31:41.000And then when they approach you, the man who is trying to be in a relationship with you and the man who is just trying to have sex with you, it's hard to tell the difference.
01:32:11.000Do you understand the point I'm trying to make, though?
01:32:14.000The guys who are really good on job interviews, the ones who keep getting fired because they keep going to the first interview and over again.
01:32:21.000The guy who's a really great guy, he's going to be fucking terrible.
01:32:25.000And I use him for example Because this dude has run through half my friends.
01:32:48.000It's just one of these situations where this shit keeps happening, right?
01:32:52.000And so now what happens is the woman starts thinking, because I had sex with Leonardo DiCaprio, this is what I should expect from this point forward.
01:32:59.000And this delusional mindset then goes later, and you see it over and over again with these ladies where they start thinking, because I fucked this guy and we'll just give him a 9.8, this is what I'm going to end up marrying, and it doesn't work out that way.
01:33:40.000So for example, right now, bro, like, think about it.
01:33:43.000If you can't tell who's going to be husband or who's going to be like a fuck buddy, for example, look at the effort.
01:33:48.000So for example, if most guys are out there, right, telling you the same thing, telling you whatever you want to hear, look at the effort behind what they're saying.
01:33:53.000If the actions match the words, then it might be true, but if not...
01:33:56.000But if they have a lot of money, it can look like a fucking ton of effort and it's not a lot of effort.
01:34:01.000And that's the issue that ends up happening.
01:34:04.000And I'm not trying to say this to say men are right or women are right or men are wrong or whatever.
01:34:08.000My point is that the issue that I see often is what he says, what you guys said before about the cheating.
01:34:58.000I slept with one celebrity, and he's like a wholesome, good guy, 15 years sober, and strictly because I was like, I don't know anyone who's touched this man, and like, he's, wow.
01:37:13.000And the problem is that most girls are disqualified before the job even starts.
01:37:16.000Yeah, I'll just add to your point as well.
01:37:18.000I would say, number one, I'm going to cut off all my exes and any guys I've talked to for you.
01:37:22.000Number two is, I'm going to make sure I don't know what you want right now, but I'm going to figure it out and do that for you all the time.
01:37:28.000And number three is, I know that you're concerned about me being the only one for you, so any distractions, I'm going to keep away.
01:38:27.000Yeah, like Masha said, I shouldn't have to tell you.
01:38:29.000So why the fuck should I have to tell you to stop acting like a hoe, going to the club, keeping your scrum up, dressing like a whore, etc.?
01:38:34.000It's crazy to me how women expect men to just get it, do what they're supposed to do, adhere to their masculine burning performance.
01:40:42.000Because, again, from our historical past, we are the ones who had to walk the perimeter in the middle of the night and make sure that the other tribes don't come and kill us.
01:40:54.000When we have testosterone, no one has to teach us that.
01:40:56.000But I feel like common sense, you have to have each other's back.
01:40:59.000Like, yeah, I shouldn't be fighting grown men, but I had an incident with an ex-boyfriend who got jumped by four guys because he was defending one of my friends, and he can only do so many things.
01:41:09.000So I came up and I started punching the other guy in the back of the head because...
01:41:13.000There's four on one and there's no one else around.
01:41:40.000And I'm like, that's crazy to me because if something happened where there was danger prevalent, the guy would have to be able to sacrifice himself for you.
01:41:48.000And he's not going to ask you, oh, do you think I should go ahead and defend us, babe?
01:42:41.000I can't say which one of the ex-husbands.
01:42:43.000But what they're trying to say is that even those men that don't say that they don't want you to do those things, they don't want you to do those things.
01:43:02.000He was just like, bro, look at my woman.
01:43:04.000But being raised, I know Masha can attest to this, being raised by a woman, a full, feminine, soft woman, You will understand what men like and do not like.
01:43:17.000You can look at your man's face and be able to tell how he feels.
01:43:31.000If you go back a hundred years and you watch the way that women are treated by men, like men are putting their suit jackets on the fucking corner for women to walk over puddles, that's because they are so loyal to those men.
01:43:44.000It's like, you're my man, you're my man.
01:43:46.000You go on a few dates, you're being courted by a guy.
01:44:54.000You have to understand from a mindset of when you have someone to take care of that there are integral things that you have to teach them.
01:45:03.000Nobody else is going to teach them that.
01:45:05.000There are so many things that I did in spite of my parents, whereas if they taught me about things instead of accusing me of doing things, I probably would have done things differently.
01:45:26.000I came home with a shit ton of money in my wallet because I was doing some not good things, but my mom immediately thought I was being a prostitute.
01:46:20.000And what you were saying before, as far as guys putting their suit jacket on the floor, on the ground for a woman to walk over a puddle, yeah, that used to be the thing because chivalry used to be a thing.
01:46:28.000But nowadays, since women are equal and they're independent and they're strong...
01:47:09.000Nice guys get punished for being nice to women, is our point.
01:47:12.000The only way I see that works is if the guy likes that guy to a higher level where, you know what, he's so my type of guy, whatever he does is gospel.
01:47:20.000You know, I was going to say, because she brought up something as well.
01:47:23.000Now, remember this time, I think we were riding around in the Lambo that one time, and we were talking, and I said one of the most important things, of course, it's the first thing in my book, which is genuine desire.
01:51:22.000You've got to have a good resume, some skill sets, you've got to come and dress properly, you've got to convey yourself properly, you've got to speak properly, etc., to the interviewer or whatever, because every other chick is applying for the same law firm.
01:51:33.000But the problem is that women think, I'm special!
01:51:37.000They're gonna come to the law firm dressed in their pajamas, say the same stupid shit that every other girl does.
01:52:18.000No, because remember it was men were with each other and they would just use women to have children and then they would get rid of them.
01:52:23.000No, listen, hold on, before we go any further, there is no period in anthropology where men were with each other and used women to breathe.
01:52:35.000What does that have to do with applying for a prestigious law firm?
01:53:22.000I know some girls, obviously I grew up hearing, like, oh, if you do X, Y, and Z, and you're whatever, do all these things, like, no man's gonna want you.
01:53:30.000And then I see girls who are just full-blown prostitutes, escorts, whatever, get married to someone pretty successful, get all these nice things, and I'm like, What the fuck?
01:55:30.000Yo, this panel is the queens of bring it up.
01:55:33.000Random stuff that has nothing to do with the conversation.
01:55:35.000Mike, you had a point you were making.
01:55:37.000We have a shit ton of supers, but go ahead.
01:55:39.000Okay, so going back to what we may think is a high-status man, a high-status man, one of the things that I found is when I was 23 and I was interested in 23-year-olds, they wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire, right?
01:56:18.000When we were 23, when I go home, the question is, when are you going to settle down?
01:56:24.000When are you going to go have a girlfriend?
01:56:26.000And the thing is, when you were 23 and I was interested in you when you were 23, you weren't interested in settling down.
01:56:31.000You passed me over for Brock the bartender.
01:56:33.000And so that's essentially what's happened is like, now we're at a place where we can be selected.
01:56:38.000And so these high status men, it's not that you guys aren't great.
01:56:42.000It's that there's another one that we can go choose from and that's the problem.
01:56:45.000Women are not as special as they think they are.
01:56:46.000There's a younger, hotter version of you that has less baggage that isn't a hoe that's more feminine and submissive and unfortunately the traits that make women attractive are common.
01:56:54.000The traits that make men attractive are not common.
01:56:57.000So women are easily replaceable for a higher status guy.
01:57:00.000I think a lot of young girls are now like even hoier than like the older girls though.
01:57:04.000Like I've seen some shit on TikTok, like 18 year olds, 20 year olds posting like, there's a body count TikTok trend right now.
01:57:10.000And it's like per letter, they X off how many guys up with.
01:57:13.000Like this girl's not even 21 and it's like 45 people.
02:01:38.000Hey, would you rather be the side chick for a high-value man and never get the main category, or would you rather be the main girl for an average beta male?
02:04:09.000I mean, his value was high, but just, again, I was 25 years old, and I was like, that's not what I want.
02:04:13.000I don't want to be treated like this, and this is what I want, and I'm going to move forward with my life and see if I want to revisit that.
02:04:19.000I have the option, but I prefer not to have that.
02:04:22.000But now you know that men are going to cheat regardless, so...
02:04:24.000I mean, I had an ex-boyfriend who I know would never cheat.
02:04:27.000LOL. He's literally a child of God, and he always wanted to get married and have kids and stuff.
02:04:32.000But he's boring, which is why you're not with him now.
02:08:24.000You know, actually, I have a bone to pick with you.
02:08:27.000You were under one of Michael's comments that, oh, Supergirls, you know, they don't get demolished on Fresh and Fit under one of Michael's videos when I did a podcast with Michael.
02:08:39.000No, I think the comment had something to do with the fact...
02:14:24.000Yeah, what were you doing if you were dating with a guy?
02:14:26.000I have seen so many women give up so much vagina for this fucking scam right here.
02:14:31.000Probably more than anything else right now is the dude who bought a bunch of followers a blue checkmark and has the word crypto or fucking has the word fucking binary stocks.
02:15:58.000So we got a super chat from Nicholas Lewis.
02:16:00.000Why does it seem that there's all these women who think they deserve top-tier guys, yet most are never willing to just enjoy the basic guy?
02:16:08.000Most of these women aren't top-tier in personality.
02:17:57.000I can look at a girl's age, how much money she earns, her social status, where she lives, how she carries herself, and I already know what type of time she's on when it comes to men.
02:18:13.000I dated a man who drove my car and literally his debit card got declined at Jack in the Box and then I cried about him for six months.
02:22:01.000I just wanted to make sure I wrote that.
02:22:03.000Is there something wrong for me to tell my girl not to wear makeup, not dress a certain way, or not have male friends?
02:22:11.000Shout out to Myron and Fresh all the way from Columbia.
02:22:13.000Alright, well we already know our answer, so let's go ahead and ask the girls that.
02:22:16.000Do you think it's inappropriate for a guy to tell his girl to say it again one more time, not wear makeup, not dress inappropriately, and what else?
02:22:23.000And hang out with, or have male friends.
02:23:12.000I think it's everything is up for discussion and it's fair to say hey I don't like that you wear that much makeup or when you go out or whatever it is or I don't like how you dress but if it's something that's if you're saying like oh don't wear don't wear something slutty and I'm wearing something like this like this isn't this is literally a long sleeve shirt you know and the male friends thing again just depends because are you not gonna have your girlfriends?
02:27:12.000Well, I can tell you from being a guy who moved here 10 years ago as a loser, the thing that made women like me so much was that I was around so many other women.
02:27:52.000Like, for example, if you're at a nightclub with your girls and you meet a guy that's cute, you're gonna go to the bathroom with your girls.
02:28:19.000You were saying the question was, do you think it's acceptable for the guy to tell his girl, hey, no makeup, don't want you to have your guy friends, and what was the last one?
02:29:36.000But he doesn't want her to talk to him at all.
02:29:39.000That's fine, but that's kind of difficult in my position considering Michael is a very good friend of mine and I've helped him out with his company a little bit.
02:29:53.000What would you give it up if you got a guy and he checked all the boxes and said, I don't want you keeping your guy friends around?
02:30:54.000Sometimes I just say like a cute little thing being like, oh, thank you for being my fan because I'm like, like I said, I'm not a big social media nut.
02:32:22.000Do you think a guy will actually get girls by touching grass?
02:32:25.000No, but I think that getting exposure to therapy and going outside and not being on your fucking computers and your phones and meeting women, that's how it should be.
02:32:36.000And the whole reason you're even having this podcast is because Women are doing what they're doing because social media and all this shit is fucking happening.
02:32:45.000When my dad met my mom, he met her at a bar and had me and my brother, you know?
02:39:45.000Since it is easy for women to get sex, it is also easier for you to cheat and the requirement for you to cheat is easier to break as a woman.
02:39:52.000If you put yourself in a position where other guys are going to want to hit on you and or have sex with you, that is pretty much cheating because women don't go up and approach men.
02:43:09.000No guy is really ever going to accept his girl smashing another dude unless he's like an open cuckold and girls don't like those guys anyway.
02:43:16.000Rest in peace, Nanny, because he hung himself in the closet.
02:43:54.000My parting thoughts are, for the ladies and the guys who are listening, the thing is, when women say the things like, oh, I want to go get that bag and all these things, if I had a daughter or a niece that was like that, I'd be proud of her.
02:44:06.000But at the same time, I also recognize those things don't make her more attractive.
02:44:09.000And I think that is the part where a lot of us miss those things.
02:44:13.000We do these things, oh, I make a lot of money.
02:44:16.000A female might say, I make a lot of money, or I'm bringing him guidance, or all these kind of things, or I have this worldly experience.
02:44:24.000And the thing is, while I can appreciate that a woman would have those things, it doesn't make her more attractive.
02:44:29.000And that confusion right there is where we end up with a girl on Oprah being like, I have two master's degrees and I teach all these children, Lord, where's my man?
02:44:40.000It's like that second master's degree does not make our penis harder.
02:44:42.000And that part is just so difficult for so many women to understand.
02:44:46.000And again, the reason why is because there's a lot of dudes out there that will lie to you and just be like, hey, I'll do anything to smash.
02:44:52.000And then you'll believe, well, this is what I should be doing to have a relationship or I can have a relationship with this guy who's a celebrity and that's the problem.
02:44:58.000Here, I'll make it easier because women have a very difficult time understanding something unless you make them feel something first.
02:45:03.000Ladies, let's say I went on a date with you and I told you, yo, I got an extensive Louis Vuitton sneaker collection.
02:45:25.000Okay, that's exactly how men feel about your careers.
02:45:27.000So I just refuse to be a loser, and if I like myself, at least I'll be happy.
02:45:32.000So I just refuse to just not do anything with my life.
02:45:35.000At least if I'm happy with the things that I'm doing, even if something doesn't work out for me and I don't end up with someone in the right time frame, at least I like myself that I've put in the work and contributed, and I'm happy.
02:45:48.000I'm going to play Cheetos and play video games and do a bunch of things that don't make me more attractive to women because it makes me happy.
02:45:53.000And if I don't find a girl, it's their fault, not mine.
02:45:55.000And I bet someone will still be like, that's my man.
02:47:11.000But I will say this, I did learn one thing, especially from you too, which is the importance of teaching your kids.
02:47:18.000And they are going to be the products of what you put into them as a parent of a daughter myself.
02:47:23.000I completely can relate, and that's one thing we don't really talk about too much on the shows that we do, is really the importance of good parenting for the next generation as well.
02:47:33.000So teach your girls right, teach your boys right.
02:47:37.000Daddies love your daughters because if you love your daughters, then they will understand how men think.
02:49:03.000If you're a fat, ugly girl and you got clout, life sucks because you want all this type of guys, but none of them want you back because you're ugly.
02:50:03.000It's Michael Sartain Podcast on TikTok.
02:50:05.000And I also, if you guys are ever interested in how I'm able to put together some of these podcasts and network with all these people, I have the Men of Action Performance Coaching Program if you guys want to check that out.