Fresh & Fit - Girl's Ex Calls Into Show & EXPOSES Her LIES!

00:00:01.000 So we're going to go ahead and just give you guys a quick summary.

00:00:01.000 Welcome.

00:00:05.000 What ended up happening.

00:00:05.000 Actually, this is a rare, not El Chris.

00:00:07.000 It's not Chris's fault, guys, or Moe's fault.

00:00:09.000 What ended up happening is there was a bug.

00:00:11.000 It got sent to the wrong stream on our Rumble account, but we're back up live now on the proper channel.

00:00:15.000 If I'm not mistaken, give me thumbs up in the back, guys, if we're good.

00:00:18.000 We should be.

00:00:19.000 We should be.

00:00:20.000 We should be.

00:00:20.000 We're fine.

00:00:21.000 Yeah, cool.

00:00:21.000 So, real quick, I'll go ahead and just tell y'all, the girls on the panel, and summarize real quick.

00:00:26.000 We've got Leah, 19, from Spain, works at a kosher factory, or a kosher bakery.

00:00:31.000 High school, highest education level completed and single.

00:00:34.000 And then we've got Francesca, 23, New York City, former teacher, esthetician, and model.

00:00:38.000 High school, single.

00:00:40.000 Katya, 30, from Russia, fitness instructor slash scripper from 11, bachelor's degree in engineering.

00:00:48.000 And single.

00:00:49.000 And then we got Rosa, who's 30 years old from Providence, Rhode Island. 0.98

00:00:52.000 Rapper, associate's degree in customer service.

00:00:55.000 Single, 10 years of HR. Then we got IC28, Miami, Florida.

00:00:58.000 Obviously works for a small local radio station.

00:01:01.000 High school education completed, highest completed.

00:01:04.000 And then single.

00:01:05.000 Then we have Nadia.

00:01:07.000 What was your age again?

00:01:08.000 30.

00:01:09.000 30 what?

00:01:10.000 30?

00:01:10.000 35.

00:01:11.000 35.

00:01:13.000 I said 35, but I'm 32.

00:01:15.000 32.

00:01:15.000 Okay.

00:01:16.000 32 years old, Miami, Florida.

00:01:18.000 Entrepreneur, runs a med spa, credit repair, bachelor's degree in business from University of Miami and in a relationship for two years.

00:01:25.000 Yes, and we had an excellent question by Troy, if you don't mind one more time.

00:01:28.000 Take us through it, Troy.

00:01:30.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:01:30.000 So I just wanted to ask the girls on the panel, what is the most important?

00:01:33.000 And what I'm talking about here is initial attraction.

00:01:35.000 Okay, so when you first meet the guy, what is the most important?

00:01:38.000 Is it looks?

00:01:39.000 Is it money?

00:01:40.000 Is it status?

00:01:42.000 Or is it riz?

00:01:43.000 Or is it a combination thereof?

00:01:46.000 And let's start here this time.

00:01:49.000 I feel like it's a combination of mostly all, to be honest.

00:01:54.000 Like, yeah, you don't want to judge a book by its cover, but at the end of the day, you're going to go based off what you see first.

00:02:02.000 You're not going to be like, oh, I think he's a good guy.

00:02:04.000 No, you're going to be like, oh, he looks good.

00:02:06.000 Let me approach him.

00:02:07.000 Or, oh, I think he has money.

00:02:09.000 Let me approach him.

00:02:10.000 I guess first encounter, what's the thing that stands out the most for you?

00:02:14.000 Number one thing for you, mostly.

00:02:16.000 That stands out to me?

00:02:18.000 The personality of a guy.

00:02:20.000 But you don't know that.

00:02:23.000 You don't know that, so you go for the looks.

00:02:25.000 How do you see personality?

00:02:27.000 Exactly.

00:02:28.000 Got it.

00:02:31.000 Looks for her.

00:02:31.000 What about you?

00:02:33.000 Smile.

00:02:34.000 I like your smile.

00:02:35.000 You attract me with a good smile.

00:02:37.000 That's look.

00:02:38.000 And then when I have a conversation with you, if you piss me off, then you're not it.

00:02:42.000 New York!

00:02:47.000 Okay, so it looks as well against the smile, the first thing.

00:02:51.000 For you?

00:02:52.000 Okay, at the beginning I said that if the guy accepting himself, but then the girl said like, oh, but you don't know, like at the beginning.

00:02:59.000 So I guess the look as well, because the only one we can see is the look.

00:03:03.000 And the rest we can guess, but the only thing we can know for sure is how he looks.

00:03:09.000 And I guess, yeah, like lips or...

00:03:11.000 Can I just put in a devil's advocate here?

00:03:13.000 Maybe just to, you know, the remaining girls to answer. 0.99

00:03:16.000 Because, like, you're saying about looks, but, right, the guy comes over to you and he talks to you, right?

00:03:22.000 He's going to say some stuff.

00:03:23.000 You know, say it's in the club.

00:03:23.000 He comes over to you and starts talking to you.

00:03:24.000 Okay.

00:03:25.000 So there's a little bit more to go on there.

00:03:28.000 Okay.

00:03:28.000 Because you can say, yeah, he's a hot guy, but also, like, what's he saying?

00:03:31.000 How's he saying it?

00:03:32.000 What's the vibe?

00:03:33.000 Okay, then I can repeat the same that I... It is looks.

00:03:36.000 No.

00:03:38.000 If the guy is accepting himself, he's accepting the way he's looking, the money he's making, and that's okay with me.

00:03:46.000 If he's okay, if he's happy with how he is, that's sexy for me.

00:03:51.000 That's attractive.

00:03:53.000 But how do you know when you first meet him, if he's happy with himself?

00:03:56.000 I can feel it.

00:03:57.000 You're going to talk in a certain way.

00:03:59.000 Even though, let's say, if you don't make that much money, you're going to talk like if you're saying, like, sorry.

00:04:05.000 Or like, oh, I'm going to make it soon.

00:04:07.000 I'm going to be the best, blah, blah, blah.

00:04:09.000 But so it's mean that you don't have anything to show me right now.

00:04:13.000 Even though, like, oh, maybe I have tons of cats and I'm helping cats and it's going to be attractive because you're into that.

00:04:20.000 You said if a guy's coming up to you in a club or something like that. 1.00

00:04:24.000 If you're coming up to me in a club, one, if your breath is hot, get the fuck away from me. 1.00

00:04:29.000 But if I look at you and you're like, oh, okay, are you buying me a drink? 0.99

00:04:34.000 Let me test your waters. 0.99

00:04:35.000 Let me see if you like to treat your ladies or are you a bum? 1.00

00:04:39.000 If you tell me, oh yeah, what do you want? 0.96

00:04:40.000 Now I know I can vibe with you.

00:04:42.000 If you ask me, oh yeah, you buying us a drink?

00:04:44.000 What?

00:04:45.000 Us?

00:04:46.000 Us don't exist.

00:04:48.000 That was an old school line that people used to use.

00:04:49.000 They'd go up to the girl and they'd say, instead of saying, I'll buy you a drink, because they were told, don't be too submissive, they'd turn it around and say, are you buying me a drink?

00:04:58.000 Is that what you're talking about?

00:04:59.000 No.

00:04:59.000 You'd be like, no, no.

00:05:01.000 You came up to me.

00:05:03.000 Are you buying me a drink?

00:05:04.000 I didn't go to you, babe.

00:05:07.000 So it's a combination of looks and money, basically.

00:05:09.000 You can't be broke.

00:05:11.000 I'm sorry.

00:05:12.000 I got it, so you gotta have it.

00:05:13.000 I can say broke.

00:05:16.000 If he's young and okay-looking or good-looking and he's accepting himself, then we can make money together.

00:05:25.000 We can make it together, baby.

00:05:28.000 Now we see why you're single.

00:05:31.000 She's Russian, bro.

00:05:32.000 I was married, though, with the same guy twice.

00:05:35.000 You married to the same guy twice? 1.00

00:05:37.000 Yeah.

00:05:38.000 Do you know the statistic for that?

00:05:39.000 I was looking at some marriages these days. 0.81

00:05:41.000 It's like 6%, I think, of people that...

00:05:43.000 Oh my gosh, my story's crazy.

00:05:46.000 But yeah, so it doesn't...

00:05:47.000 At the beginning, he wasn't that rich.

00:05:50.000 Then he became rich.

00:05:51.000 Then he married him again.

00:05:54.000 I changed.

00:05:56.000 No, actually I married him the second time when he wasn't as rich as when I first met him.

00:06:03.000 No, no, no.

00:06:04.000 When we divorced.

00:06:05.000 Oh, okay. 0.99

00:06:06.000 There must have been some dark triad shit going on there. 0.99

00:06:09.000 He must have had that like... 0.98

00:06:10.000 It sounds like this was a very sort of like...

00:06:12.000 He must have been like one of those broody sort of bad boy kind of... 0.99

00:06:16.000 Yeah.

00:06:16.000 Oh my God!

00:06:18.000 So no bad boys anymore.

00:06:20.000 That's why I'm like, okay, no, no, no.

00:06:21.000 Oh, no more bad boys for me.

00:06:23.000 I'm past that anymore.

00:06:25.000 No, no, no.

00:06:26.000 So you're just looking for a nice, reliable...

00:06:29.000 Okay.

00:06:30.000 All right.

00:06:30.000 Any nice guys out there?

00:06:32.000 She's available.

00:06:32.000 Hi.

00:06:33.000 What about you?

00:06:38.000 For me, it's the energy.

00:06:40.000 Energy is everything to me.

00:06:42.000 And if they can make me laugh...

00:06:43.000 No, for real.

00:06:46.000 There's a difference.

00:06:52.000 If you have energy, but the way you carry yourself, the confidence is everything.

00:06:57.000 Someone who's underway of being healed or healing themselves or working on themselves, they will come across very differently, their energy and everything about them.

00:07:09.000 So again, I want you to break down what energy is.

00:07:12.000 How does someone give you that energy? 0.92

00:07:14.000 Energy is, if you make something move in me, you know what I'm saying, that I didn't know I could massively feel, then damn, that energy is different. 0.91

00:07:23.000 I need to know more. 0.95

00:07:24.000 You need the energy.

00:07:25.000 There you go.

00:07:26.000 I think she tried to say it's like connection, probably.

00:07:29.000 Like, the guy's supposed to feel her energy and her vibe.

00:07:31.000 Mi amor, it's that energy where everything comes.

00:07:34.000 Again, they speak to you.

00:07:36.000 That same intention.

00:07:37.000 They have more intention.

00:07:39.000 That intention is there more.

00:07:40.000 But you mean sexual intention?

00:07:43.000 I could be, you know what I'm saying?

00:07:44.000 It depends, it depends.

00:07:45.000 But no, more so, again, just, you know, we're so used to this regular...

00:07:50.000 Dominance, dominance. 0.78

00:07:51.000 Right, it's more so of...

00:07:52.000 You pay attention to details.

00:07:53.000 Yeah, it's different.

00:07:55.000 The point is, you're feeling something different.

00:07:57.000 That's point blank.

00:07:58.000 Everyone has a different take on your energy phrase.

00:08:01.000 I'm just going to say myself, which means how the guy makes you feel.

00:08:04.000 Yeah, of course.

00:08:05.000 Pretty much.

00:08:05.000 Yeah, of course.

00:08:06.000 To break it out.

00:08:07.000 Thank you.

00:08:10.000 Women don't even know what they want. 1.00

00:08:14.000 I mean, a combination of just looks and knowing how to talk and not being a weirdo.

00:08:24.000 Not being a weirdo, I think, that puts you in the top 5% now, doesn't it, really?

00:08:29.000 I mean, yeah, but it's just how you come and try to talk to me.

00:08:34.000 Okay, yeah, yeah.

00:08:37.000 Because you could be attractive and the next thing you know, it's like, you say the wrong thing.

00:08:41.000 I'm a high value man.

00:08:43.000 I see.

00:08:46.000 What is one thing I can tell you to turn you off completely?

00:08:49.000 What I just said.

00:08:51.000 Okay.

00:08:53.000 I guess the common thing you guys just say normally.

00:08:55.000 Is that what they say to you?

00:08:56.000 High value man?

00:08:58.000 Wait, don't ask me about my body count.

00:09:00.000 Like, don't do that.

00:09:01.000 That's just weird.

00:09:02.000 Okay.

00:09:03.000 What do you ask me that for?

00:09:04.000 What's your body count?

00:09:06.000 Why would somebody ask that?

00:09:07.000 Why would somebody ask that early on in a...

00:09:09.000 Why would somebody ask that at all?

00:09:11.000 We just came into the podcast, right?

00:09:13.000 And what he said, what's your name, your age, and your body count?

00:09:16.000 Oh, I... Right, in this context, that's different though.

00:09:19.000 I meant in a...

00:09:20.000 No, um, my...

00:09:21.000 Okay, so the guys my age are very, like, immature.

00:09:24.000 Yeah.

00:09:24.000 So that would be, like, the first thing to ever say to you.

00:09:26.000 I'd never...

00:09:26.000 I don't...

00:09:27.000 I'd never fucking get that. 0.93

00:09:28.000 I explained that to my mom and she's like, why do you hang around that? 0.97

00:09:31.000 It's not me.

00:09:31.000 It's everybody.

00:09:32.000 I would never ask.

00:09:33.000 I just don't get that, man.

00:09:35.000 Well...

00:09:35.000 When we say we're trolling, by the way, we don't want you to...

00:09:37.000 I mean, if you answer, it's up to you, but yeah.

00:09:39.000 I guess in the context of dating itself, that would be kind of weird.

00:09:42.000 Yeah.

00:09:43.000 That is weird.

00:09:44.000 I don't want to know.

00:09:46.000 Okay.

00:09:48.000 I'm going to say it's their aura.

00:09:50.000 Oh.

00:09:50.000 It's their aura.

00:09:51.000 Energy again!

00:09:53.000 Stop playing.

00:09:55.000 Y'all haven't experienced it.

00:09:58.000 That's why y'all hanging on it.

00:10:00.000 You could go literally this close so everybody could hear you.

00:10:04.000 It is their aura.

00:10:07.000 Their aura is very important.

00:10:10.000 Not the looks, not the money, because you can have a fine man and a man with a lot of wealth, but how does he treat people?

00:10:19.000 Has he healed himself?

00:10:22.000 What triggered him?

00:10:24.000 If you're in tune with yourself, you can pick up on people's aura.

00:10:30.000 So to play devil's advocate, if there's a homeless bloke but you feel like he's healed himself, are you going to go there?

00:10:35.000 Okay, now you're...

00:10:36.000 No, if the person healed himself, he's not going to be a bomb.

00:10:39.000 Exactly.

00:10:41.000 He's already on low vibration.

00:10:43.000 I have a question.

00:10:44.000 A high vibrational man who has a really great aura is going to have a lot of going for himself.

00:10:49.000 Who in here has the best aura to you?

00:10:54.000 Man-wise?

00:10:55.000 You.

00:10:56.000 Why?

00:10:58.000 Why?

00:10:58.000 Because he was easy going.

00:11:00.000 He was chill.

00:11:02.000 You know what's funny?

00:11:02.000 I know what you're saying, but the word orisone is kind of wawa.

00:11:06.000 It just means the guy that knows who he is as a person is cool, complex, and a humble wawa.

00:11:10.000 That's what it really is.

00:11:11.000 A humble guy that's cool.

00:11:13.000 Can I just make a point here? 0.84

00:11:15.000 Because there's some people in the chat, so stop the cap and all this sort of stuff, when they're talking about energy and stuff, I think that they're fucking right. 0.82

00:11:22.000 They're right. 0.64

00:11:23.000 What they're saying, they're trying to express it, and maybe they're not expressing it in a way that makes sense to men, because men are very logical and very linear.

00:11:30.000 But what they're basically all saying...

00:11:32.000 Is that they want to feel that vibe when they meet the guy.

00:11:35.000 Now, because I do dating coaching, right?

00:11:36.000 So I've taught guys.

00:11:37.000 I've taught very rich guys.

00:11:39.000 I've taught very good-looking guys.

00:11:41.000 You know, an accommodation of the two. 0.98

00:11:43.000 And they're not getting any fucking results out there. 0.94

00:11:46.000 They're not getting the results they want in the dating market. 0.98

00:11:48.000 Well, why is that? 1.00

00:11:49.000 Well, usually it's because they're kind of boring fuckers, to be honest. 1.00

00:11:52.000 That's what it comes down to. 1.00

00:11:55.000 And they don't know how to talk to women, but they don't know how to be... 1.00

00:12:01.000 Charismatic and sort of, and kind of polarizing. 0.99

00:12:04.000 You've got to bring some fucking energy and some like energy into it. 0.97

00:12:07.000 Like your guy, was he, you know, was it like a bit of a boy? 0.99

00:12:09.000 No more.

00:12:10.000 No more.

00:12:10.000 I like boring.

00:12:11.000 Now I want a boring.

00:12:13.000 Don't bring energy.

00:12:14.000 You're 30, aren't you?

00:12:16.000 Yeah, you're 30.

00:12:16.000 He's right on the clock.

00:12:19.000 I want romance.

00:12:20.000 I want all that.

00:12:21.000 I want to feel different.

00:12:22.000 No, of course it's good to have a romance.

00:12:24.000 Yeah, of course.

00:12:25.000 But like, it's okay if it's not going to be like so perfect.

00:12:28.000 It's not going to be like a macho man.

00:12:29.000 It could be more simple.

00:12:31.000 That's fine.

00:12:31.000 I'll take it.

00:12:33.000 Well, I think people's standards change.

00:12:38.000 I think women's requirements change over time, don't they? 1.00

00:12:42.000 Absolutely.

00:12:42.000 Especially with Instagram.

00:12:43.000 Yeah, definitely.

00:12:45.000 So that could be another question, actually.

00:12:46.000 And vice versa, for sure.

00:12:47.000 Yeah.

00:12:48.000 On both ends.

00:12:49.000 Yeah.

00:12:49.000 Experience will change everything.

00:12:51.000 Yeah, because when you guys were younger, did you have different...

00:12:56.000 Well, obviously there's various ages here, but you've got different expectations or requirements for the guys that you're with than you have now.

00:13:02.000 Yeah, of course.

00:13:03.000 I was just saying that.

00:13:04.000 It's different in ages.

00:13:05.000 I know you guys are looking for something totally different than what I'm looking for.

00:13:08.000 I ain't looking here to be...

00:13:10.000 I'm trying to have fun.

00:13:11.000 Y'all looking for love.

00:13:21.000 You're 23?

00:13:23.000 Correct.

00:13:23.000 And you were with the guy for four years.

00:13:24.000 It's quite a long time, isn't it?

00:13:26.000 But no, you have fun.

00:13:27.000 I am.

00:13:28.000 You enjoy yourself.

00:13:29.000 You figure out things you like.

00:13:30.000 And you know what's funny?

00:13:31.000 That she looking for fun, she probably going to find a lot faster than all we are.

00:13:35.000 Exactly.

00:13:36.000 Because you know what happens?

00:13:37.000 Because as the women get older... 1.00

00:13:40.000 Facts.

00:13:40.000 But it's because she's not looking for it.

00:13:42.000 That's why.

00:13:43.000 No, it's also because as women get older, they start to put higher requirements on letting a guy through. 1.00

00:13:49.000 So it suddenly starts to become... 0.97

00:13:50.000 Whereas when you're young, it's just like, yeah, it's fun and I'll fucking, you know, whatever at the party. 0.94

00:13:55.000 We'll have a good time. 0.76

00:13:56.000 As you get older, it starts to be all these different requirements.

00:13:58.000 Like, okay, so, you know...

00:13:59.000 It's bills.

00:14:01.000 Yeah, what bills are you going to pay for me or are you going to help me?

00:14:04.000 Do you think you have a better chance of finding your dream man when you're younger or older?

00:14:08.000 We'll start here and then work our way.

00:14:12.000 I feel older.

00:14:14.000 What's that age?

00:14:17.000 30?

00:14:20.000 Yeah, around 28 to 30.

00:14:25.000 No!

00:14:26.000 All right.

00:14:27.000 What about you?

00:14:27.000 Do you think you have a better chance of finding your man at older or younger?

00:14:34.000 And what's the age?

00:14:35.000 So I'm not trying to find anything, but I feel like I would be ready to settle down by like 25, 26.

00:14:41.000 But the question is, do you think a woman has a better chance of finding a man when she's younger or older?

00:14:45.000 And then what is that age?

00:14:46.000 In between.

00:14:47.000 25, 26.

00:14:48.000 So whatever you want to call that age, 25, 26.

00:14:51.000 Okay.

00:14:51.000 Middle age?

00:14:52.000 Whatever.

00:14:53.000 Is that middle age?

00:14:55.000 No.

00:14:56.000 No.

00:14:56.000 30 is middle age.

00:14:57.000 What about you?

00:14:57.000 Okay, I hate to say that, but it's probably when the girl younger, of course, she has more chances to find the dream man.

00:15:03.000 Besides that, she probably doesn't know what exactly her dream, but she may be going to be lucky enough to...

00:15:10.000 How old should she be?

00:15:10.000 What do you think?

00:15:12.000 25.

00:15:13.000 I mean, for me, younger is like 25, 26.

00:15:18.000 What about you?

00:15:22.000 But it's always a chance.

00:15:23.000 I don't feel like there's an age.

00:15:25.000 Well, the question is, do you think you have a higher likelihood of finding your dream man when you're older or younger?

00:15:30.000 And what is that age?

00:15:31.000 I shall say older.

00:15:32.000 You know what you want.

00:15:33.000 You've experienced life a little bit more. 1.00

00:15:35.000 Dicks. 0.96

00:15:36.000 Okay.

00:15:36.000 And what is that age group that you think would be?

00:15:39.000 What is that age?

00:15:40.000 I say 30s.

00:15:42.000 30s.

00:15:42.000 Okay.

00:15:43.000 After all the energy.

00:15:44.000 What about you?

00:15:45.000 I would say around like from your 20s to 25s, you'll find somebody.

00:15:50.000 Well, if you dedicate to finding somebody.

00:15:53.000 So younger, you think?

00:15:54.000 Yeah.

00:15:54.000 All right.

00:15:55.000 And what about you?

00:15:56.000 I think that we'll find our dream man, just like you said right now.

00:16:00.000 I agree with you 100%.

00:16:01.000 When the time is right.

00:16:03.000 Divine time.

00:16:04.000 Divine time.

00:16:05.000 You can't put a time on that, which is funny.

00:16:08.000 But I think that when you're young, you don't know what you want.

00:16:11.000 You see a fine-ass man with a whole lot of money, and you think that's what you want.

00:16:16.000 But then when you get with him, his insecurities are ugly.

00:16:19.000 He treats you very disrespectfully because he feels superior to you.

00:16:24.000 So, no.

00:16:25.000 Okay, the question was...

00:16:26.000 I think that when you mature, when a woman matures her mind, which is probably in her mid-twenties, early thirties... 1.00

00:16:35.000 Do you think the likelihood of her finding her dream man is in her mid-twenties?

00:16:37.000 Mid-twenties, early thirties, when she knows for sure what she wants, you know, what she's experienced, when she's already experienced all those ugly frogs.

00:16:46.000 Okay.

00:16:47.000 Do you think that it's...

00:16:48.000 Because you mentioned before that the man being superior is a problem, you think?

00:16:51.000 Yeah.

00:16:51.000 A little bit because...

00:16:53.000 Why so?

00:16:53.000 Why can't we be equal?

00:16:55.000 If money wasn't a problem, if I can provide just as much as you can, why do you feel superior to me?

00:17:02.000 Well, let me ask you this.

00:17:03.000 Do you want a man that's taller than you?

00:17:05.000 Do I want a man that's what? 1.00

00:17:07.000 Ideally, would you prefer a man that was taller than you?

00:17:10.000 Yeah.

00:17:11.000 Would you prefer a man that's stronger than you physically?

00:17:15.000 Oh man, here we go.

00:17:17.000 He's setting me up.

00:17:18.000 What would Jesus say?

00:17:20.000 Yes, I do.

00:17:21.000 Would you prefer a man that can lead you?

00:17:23.000 Absolutely.

00:17:25.000 Would you prefer a man that's more competent and more intelligent than yourself?

00:17:28.000 I just said that.

00:17:30.000 Uh-huh.

00:17:30.000 I can't disagree.

00:17:31.000 Doesn't sound anything equal there to me.

00:17:33.000 Ouch.

00:17:34.000 But what if I am strong?

00:17:36.000 You're not.

00:17:38.000 Okay. 0.99

00:17:39.000 Women are inferior to men physically. 1.00

00:17:41.000 No, but wait. 0.99

00:17:42.000 They say I'm yelling, but I'm going to say, I have to say, but the men can't have a kid.

00:17:47.000 So, let's say, okay, you're stronger, but the first...

00:17:50.000 I have a portal that brings life.

00:17:52.000 Exactly.

00:17:53.000 We get kids from the men.

00:17:54.000 Okay, but that doesn't...

00:17:55.000 Again, that means that we are not equal.

00:17:59.000 Yeah, we're not.

00:18:00.000 We're not.

00:18:00.000 But don't...

00:18:01.000 You just said a second ago that we...

00:18:02.000 Okay, alright.

00:18:04.000 Got him!

00:18:05.000 Got me.

00:18:06.000 I'll think about what I... I'll think about my words.

00:18:09.000 Yes, please.

00:18:10.000 It's not even that.

00:18:11.000 I'm not even doing that to try to trip you up or make you look crazy.

00:18:14.000 It's just that I think we give women the privilege of saying things without thinking before they speak and or checking them on what they say when it doesn't make sense. 0.88

00:18:21.000 I'll be honest. 0.99

00:18:21.000 A lot of you guys said a bunch of bullshit a second ago. 0.99

00:18:23.000 I agree. 1.00

00:18:24.000 Energy, aura, the vibes, blah, blah, blah.

00:18:27.000 But when we ask you guys, please define that.

00:18:29.000 None of you can actually come to a concrete reason or why you are looking for that.

00:18:33.000 The reality is this.

00:18:35.000 I think?

00:18:54.000 You know, explicitly say what you really want. 1.00

00:18:56.000 You say dumb shit like the vibe or the aura. 0.99

00:18:58.000 No, you need a guy that can tell you this is how it is. 1.00

00:19:00.000 This is what we're going to do.

00:19:01.000 I made the plans already.

00:19:02.000 Wear this.

00:19:03.000 Don't do that, etc.

00:19:05.000 Men speak English, not womanese like you guys are speaking about. 0.98

00:19:09.000 So we have to actually go ahead and tell guys exactly what it is.

00:19:12.000 Yeah, I mean, the most attractive thing that a guy can have is dominance. 0.93

00:19:16.000 Aside from looks and aside from, you know, height and all that shit. 0.65

00:19:19.000 Basically, personal qualities-wise, it's dominance. 0.58

00:19:22.000 But it's the ability to temper that dominance with charm and humour and charisma as well.

00:19:27.000 And that's when you're thinking about the James Bond character.

00:19:29.000 When you're thinking about the Daniel Craig, you know, kind of James Bond.

00:19:32.000 It's that kind of vibe, isn't it?

00:19:34.000 That's what you need. 0.82

00:19:34.000 And that's what most guys find so fucking difficult to attain. 0.82

00:19:38.000 It's not fucking hard. 0.96

00:19:39.000 They want to experience, for example, fun, a little bit of drama, a little bit of like, you know what, I'm the guy leading you in this scenario. 0.97

00:19:45.000 And at the same time, having some games and some love. 0.53

00:19:48.000 Well, sex. 0.53

00:19:51.000 That's what I meant by love. 0.53

00:19:52.000 Troy, next question.

00:19:53.000 Do you have it for the ladies?

00:19:55.000 What is the most unattractive thing that a guy can do when he takes you out on a date?

00:20:01.000 I like that one.

00:20:02.000 Be insecure.

00:20:03.000 We can start here and then work our way.

00:20:04.000 Oh my god.

00:20:05.000 Be insecure.

00:20:06.000 I had a gentleman.

00:20:10.000 He was fine.

00:20:11.000 He had money.

00:20:12.000 But this man and I could not go on dates together, especially in public, because if I were to turn and look at someone else, it's...

00:20:19.000 Oh my god.

00:20:20.000 But were you having sex though? 0.96

00:20:23.000 You were hooking up, right? 0.98

00:20:24.000 With the insecure gentleman?

00:20:27.000 Yeah, he was my boyfriend.

00:20:28.000 Fine, okay, okay.

00:20:29.000 Real quick, you said that you couldn't look at other men.

00:20:33.000 Would he tell you, hey, stop doing that?

00:20:36.000 Or how would he go about telling you about it?

00:20:39.000 It's a wrap.

00:20:40.000 The date is over.

00:20:41.000 We're packing it up.

00:20:42.000 I suppose what I meant really was initial dates.

00:20:46.000 Not so much as a boyfriend. 0.96

00:20:48.000 If some guy you meet on a fucking dating app or whatever, you go on a date, what is the most unattractive thing in that situation? 0.97

00:20:55.000 Just as advice for the audience, for people who are trying to get their date game on point. 0.99

00:20:59.000 Um, let's see here.

00:21:03.000 I see being too touchy.

00:21:05.000 Yeah.

00:21:05.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:21:06.000 Let her answer this.

00:21:09.000 We'll get to you in a sec.

00:21:12.000 Okay.

00:21:13.000 Let's just put it like this.

00:21:15.000 Nothing will piss me off unless you have bad breath.

00:21:19.000 Like, I'll listen to you, we'll vibe or whatever.

00:21:21.000 We may not go on a second date, but I'm gonna be cordial.

00:21:26.000 Make sure your breath is nice and clean.

00:21:28.000 So, you don't tell them?

00:21:29.000 Would I tell him?

00:21:30.000 Yeah, I'd pass on a Tic Tac.

00:21:34.000 But that's different to...

00:21:39.000 What would disqualify him for a second date then?

00:21:43.000 What would he do that would disqualify him from you seeing him again?

00:21:47.000 What would I disqualify him?

00:21:50.000 Other than hygiene?

00:21:51.000 Other than hygiene?

00:21:52.000 I guess.

00:21:53.000 Okay, if he is...

00:21:57.000 Spending too much time on his phone.

00:21:58.000 Like, you didn't wrap it up earlier, you know what I mean?

00:22:00.000 We're getting to know each other.

00:22:02.000 Don't pull out your cell phone.

00:22:04.000 Cause I'm not gonna do it.

00:22:05.000 Okay.

00:22:07.000 I see.

00:22:08.000 I haven't been on a date in a long time.

00:22:14.000 I'm guessing just how you speak to me, how you address to me, certain mannerisms, like if you're not polite, especially to the people who are serving us or anything like that.

00:22:26.000 That's an important point, isn't it?

00:22:28.000 That gets brought up a lot. 0.99

00:22:29.000 It shows me how you are social proof-wise, if you're capable of being in any type of room and talking to somebody, or are you just a rude-ass nigga? 1.00

00:22:38.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:22:39.000 Yeah.

00:22:39.000 How you treat your mom, servers, people around you.

00:22:42.000 That's what I was gonna say.

00:22:43.000 You know that how they talk to their mom on the phone.

00:22:47.000 It's like, I got Sunday dinners I like that.

00:22:52.000 A family man.

00:22:53.000 And for you?

00:22:55.000 For me, it would be the lack of attention.

00:22:57.000 It's like spam and looking around and I want eye contact.

00:23:02.000 Like, we feel something, you know?

00:23:03.000 Like, we're here to connect.

00:23:06.000 You know what works really well, Troy?

00:23:08.000 Active listening.

00:23:09.000 Yeah, that's what plays with that.

00:23:11.000 I'm focused on her.

00:23:12.000 She gets all my attention.

00:23:13.000 I'm listening to what she's saying.

00:23:14.000 Not to respond, but to actually give a response to, I guess, get more answers.

00:23:18.000 Absolutely.

00:23:18.000 No, we work with this guy.

00:23:20.000 We work with this guy.

00:23:20.000 Wow.

00:23:24.000 We work with this guy, a conversation expert.

00:23:27.000 He's done postgraduate degrees in communication skills and stuff like that.

00:23:31.000 You know Chris Voss, the terrorist negotiation guy?

00:23:35.000 He's taken some of his techniques, some of his conversational techniques, like how can we apply this in social situations?

00:23:40.000 And what he always talks about is exactly what he talks about, empathetic listening. 0.95

00:23:44.000 So when you're on the date, it's like really getting to know her, but not just in a fucking superficial way.

00:23:49.000 Not just like, oh, so you're at the club on Friday, and oh, so how do you get into central Miami usually? 0.98

00:23:54.000 You know, it's like really getting into what are her hopes, what are her dreams, what are her fucking passions? 0.91

00:23:59.000 You know, really getting under the surface. 0.93

00:24:00.000 But I would argue, and I don't know if you guys agree, you also need to couple that with some flirtation as well.

00:24:06.000 Absolutely.

00:24:06.000 So you're getting to know her, It's a Mario game.

00:24:17.000 We're leveling up.

00:24:18.000 Exactly.

00:24:24.000 Yeah, I agree.

00:24:25.000 She knows.

00:24:26.000 She's Russian, so it's going to be like, oh, he's got to take me on 15.

00:24:31.000 No, no, no.

00:24:32.000 I completely agree.

00:24:33.000 It's a bad listener.

00:24:35.000 Even if he pretends like he listens, but if there is no connection, you're very good at it.

00:24:41.000 Thank you.

00:24:42.000 I'll take that.

00:24:43.000 You're always like, at least make it seem like, but you're good.

00:24:46.000 Okay, fine.

00:24:48.000 At least you're good at making it seem that you're a good listener.

00:24:51.000 Yeah, so, yeah, bad listener because this is really important for many women. 1.00

00:24:55.000 Okay.

00:24:56.000 And then for you? 0.98

00:24:57.000 I don't like a nigga that woke on his tippy toes. 1.00

00:25:09.000 I'm not gonna lie, my dead ass went home. 1.00

00:25:20.000 I'm not understanding. 1.00

00:25:21.000 I met him on Instagram.

00:25:22.000 So he's like, hey, I'm going to take you out.

00:25:23.000 I said, okay, where are we going?

00:25:24.000 It was down the back of my house.

00:25:26.000 So he's like, okay, you don't have to pick me up.

00:25:28.000 I'm going to meet you there.

00:25:29.000 So I got there and I see him.

00:25:31.000 I'm literally clowning him on the phone with my friend. 0.97

00:25:34.000 Like, look at this nigga walking on his tippy toes. 1.00

00:25:36.000 Oh, are you behind me? 0.94

00:25:39.000 I said, no, no.

00:25:40.000 Yes, he's literally on his tippy toes.

00:25:44.000 Yes.

00:25:45.000 Like a Barbie?

00:25:46.000 Yes!

00:25:47.000 Like you were wearing heels.

00:25:48.000 No heels.

00:25:49.000 I'm sorry.

00:25:50.000 Not wearing heels.

00:25:50.000 Not like a Barbie.

00:25:52.000 Hell man!

00:25:53.000 Hell man!

00:25:54.000 So, he was wearing high heels?

00:25:56.000 No, he was wearing regular Jordans.

00:26:01.000 Why was he walking on his tippy toes in particular?

00:26:07.000 I can't ask.

00:26:08.000 He was short.

00:26:10.000 She's like, I didn't stick around for that.

00:26:13.000 I'm 5'6", so like 5'5".

00:26:15.000 Okay.

00:26:16.000 That's fine.

00:26:24.000 And another thing I don't like when like, okay, it's my first date.

00:26:27.000 First date, do not rub your leg on me.

00:26:30.000 You know what's funny?

00:26:35.000 If she liked him, it wouldn't matter.

00:26:36.000 But she don't like him like that. 0.94

00:26:37.000 Mate, if he was six foot five, Chad, you'd have been like, oh, I fucking love the way he was walking around on tippy toes. 0.95

00:26:42.000 I fucking love the way he was like... 0.97

00:26:44.000 It was so cute, the way he was doing that tippy toes thing. 0.99

00:26:50.000 You do it right.

00:26:53.000 That's pretty funny though.

00:26:54.000 And for you?

00:26:56.000 And for me, no.

00:26:58.000 You just have to have interest.

00:27:00.000 It's the lack of interest.

00:27:02.000 If you're not really interested in what I'm talking to you or what I'm telling you.

00:27:06.000 Yeah, so...

00:27:08.000 Or when I'm just anything.

00:27:10.000 If you're not looking at me, you're not like checking me out.

00:27:13.000 You're not like, I don't know.

00:27:15.000 Yeah, like, I want you, you know, like, I had a tiger.

00:27:23.000 So how would you know that he's not giving you that attention, you would say?

00:27:28.000 A guy that he's just on his phone.

00:27:30.000 Crickets.

00:27:31.000 Exactly.

00:27:32.000 He's on his phone.

00:27:33.000 You're like trying to talk to him and he just gives you them simple answers and he doesn't even ask you nothing back.

00:27:40.000 It's just like, boy, I'm wasting my time.

00:27:43.000 Goodbye.

00:27:43.000 That's a big part when they don't ask questions back or try to get to know.

00:27:48.000 Try to make the conversation keep going.

00:27:50.000 This interview is over.

00:27:52.000 Why don't you ask me and you?

00:27:54.000 Because I'm here.

00:27:55.000 And you and yourself.

00:27:56.000 I'm here.

00:27:57.000 But she said two really key things there, two really interesting things, which is bringing that eye of the tiger, like you said, like that strong eye contact and also that sort of sexual intent.

00:28:06.000 And I think bringing those things out on the date is really important because if you're not bringing those things out on the date, you could be having a nice conversation.

00:28:12.000 Do you know what I mean? 0.96

00:28:13.000 And you're talking about this and that and your 401k and your fucking office job and whatever. 0.96

00:28:17.000 But if there's nothing underlying it, if there's no intent, then what is there for her to... 0.96

00:28:23.000 Why is she going to be into that? 1.00

00:28:24.000 Exactly.

00:28:25.000 Right.

00:28:26.000 If there's no, like, oh, we should go somewhere, like, oh, we should go camping, or, oh, we should go do this.

00:28:33.000 I told somebody, I was like, listen, let's go out for an ice cream.

00:28:42.000 You know, let's go out for an ice cream day or something.

00:28:44.000 Like, you know, a little different, simple, again, intimate, but you can get to know the person a little deeper.

00:28:49.000 I like my niggas to take me out the state. 0.85

00:28:51.000 Take me out the country.

00:28:53.000 I'm going to go away.

00:28:54.000 Take me to Jamaica or something.

00:28:56.000 I don't know.

00:28:56.000 Yeah, Shorty just want to have some fun, man.

00:29:03.000 But something she also said as well is guys who make it all about them, right?

00:29:10.000 It's all about me, me, me.

00:29:11.000 I did this, I, I. Yeah, that's where we ever tried to throw away.

00:29:16.000 Good for you.

00:29:18.000 Like, if you sit up there and talk about all your accomplishments, it's kind of like...

00:29:22.000 Or a guy saying, oh, I need money.

00:29:25.000 I need to look for some money.

00:29:26.000 Oh, no, like this.

00:29:28.000 Oh, no, like that.

00:29:28.000 That broke energy, like, stop.

00:29:31.000 Well, I don't know who's doing that.

00:29:32.000 But as Mario was saying, you as a guy are the employer.

00:29:36.000 She's the employee. 0.99

00:29:37.000 You answer questions to see if she gets a job with you.

00:29:39.000 Pretty much.

00:29:41.000 All right.

00:29:42.000 Troy, what was your next one?

00:29:44.000 What is the thing that will give you the ick?

00:29:48.000 You know, what is the thing that will turn you off a guy if you've been dating him for, you know, a few weeks, a month, a couple of months or whatever? 0.98

00:29:54.000 What is it that's going to make you turn off from that guy and be like, fuck this dude, I don't want to see him anymore? 0.73

00:29:58.000 So this is after... 0.99

00:29:59.000 We'll start here, right?

00:30:00.000 Yeah, this is after...

00:30:02.000 She kind of already answered this, but yeah, we can start here and they'll work our way.

00:30:06.000 So you're dating him now, a little more serious.

00:30:09.000 What could turn you off, I guess, like all the way?

00:30:11.000 Completely.

00:30:11.000 They want to know all the secrets.

00:30:15.000 There's a thing, there's a thing, there's a thing.

00:30:17.000 We're just like, give it to them.

00:30:18.000 They're trying to get the code.

00:30:19.000 That's what we're here for.

00:30:20.000 But there's a thing in the men's sort of dating advice space called the light switch effect.

00:30:25.000 And they say that women can turn off very quickly. 0.65

00:30:27.000 You know, like one day she's like, oh, baby, I'm into you.

00:30:30.000 And then the next day, I'm not happy.

00:30:31.000 And then that's it.

00:30:32.000 You're done.

00:30:33.000 So what is it that causes that?

00:30:36.000 Literally, if you're disloyal, if I go through your phone or something like that... 0.99

00:30:41.000 That's where you're fucking up at. 0.99

00:30:42.000 You're not supposed to be fucking through your phone. 0.99

00:30:43.000 I don't do that. 1.00

00:30:44.000 I don't do that.

00:30:45.000 But if you have a girl calling you at three in the morning while we sleep, it's like, that's an issue.

00:30:50.000 That's my auntie. 1.00

00:30:59.000 I like to go through the phone.

00:31:06.000 I can't lose no more weight.

00:31:08.000 You can take mine and I take yours. 0.72

00:31:10.000 Yeah, what's the problem?

00:31:11.000 If we're together, if you're loyal, we're in a relationship.

00:31:13.000 That isn't supposed to be an issue.

00:31:15.000 What if it's...

00:31:17.000 Not that serious of a relationship yet.

00:31:19.000 You guys have been, like, hooking up for a little while.

00:31:21.000 Like, surely at that point, you shouldn't be going through the phone.

00:31:25.000 Do you know what I mean?

00:31:26.000 And plus, you got to set the stage at the beginning.

00:31:28.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:31:28.000 You don't want to set that whole, yeah, use my phone now.

00:31:31.000 You can go through my underwear, but I can go through your phone.

00:31:35.000 That's two different things.

00:31:35.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:31:36.000 Well, you don't pay for the man's bill to be going through the phone.

00:31:39.000 Yeah.

00:31:40.000 But what if I do, though?

00:31:54.000 We know what you're actually saying.

00:31:57.000 So for you, it's a girl calls you.

00:31:59.000 Is that what it was?

00:32:00.000 Huh?

00:32:01.000 Yes.

00:32:02.000 If a girl is calling you...

00:32:04.000 Another woman contacts him?

00:32:05.000 Yes.

00:32:06.000 Like, there's loyalty.

00:32:07.000 I don't...

00:32:07.000 That's a turn off.

00:32:08.000 Like, I would simply just leave you.

00:32:10.000 Oh, okay.

00:32:10.000 That's cool, cool.

00:32:11.000 You want her right? 0.95

00:32:11.000 Just for a girl contacting him. 0.95

00:32:14.000 Yes.

00:32:15.000 No, like, no, like, on some disrespectful, like, oh, hey, baby, like, how are you?

00:32:21.000 And stuff like that.

00:32:22.000 But can he actually control that, though?

00:32:24.000 If another woman contacts him?

00:32:26.000 If there's messages that go back, that he's going back and forth for her.

00:32:30.000 So there's a conversation.

00:32:32.000 Exactly, yes.

00:32:32.000 That's not what you said before.

00:32:34.000 If he's leading her, yes.

00:32:36.000 But would you like to date a man with no sexual experience?

00:32:40.000 No, tampoco así, like, no.

00:32:43.000 Or who is not good with women?

00:32:44.000 Not like that.

00:32:45.000 Huh?

00:32:46.000 That he's not good with women?

00:32:47.000 You wouldn't want to date a guy that was not good with women? 0.98

00:32:51.000 I just wouldn't want a guy that has a lot of women around him when he's with me. 0.99

00:32:56.000 That's it.

00:32:59.000 Interesting.

00:33:01.000 So basically, a woman contacts him and he entertains it.

00:33:06.000 Okay.

00:33:07.000 What about you?

00:33:09.000 Insecurity.

00:33:11.000 Like, if I'm going outside...

00:33:11.000 You find that specifically.

00:33:13.000 If I'm going outside and I'm wearing this...

00:33:15.000 Okay.

00:33:16.000 And you see...

00:33:17.000 But I'm covered.

00:33:17.000 But you see me.

00:33:18.000 Barely.

00:33:19.000 And you tell me to change... 1.00

00:33:20.000 Shut up. 0.99

00:33:20.000 If you tell me to change, it's just like, what do I got to change for? 0.99

00:33:24.000 You know I'm coming right back to you.

00:33:25.000 So it's just like, what's the problem?

00:33:27.000 What's the issue?

00:33:29.000 Another thing.

00:33:30.000 If you tell me to stop posting because I'm posting too much and niggas is on my... 1.00

00:33:34.000 I had a boyfriend like that.

00:33:36.000 What do you mean? 1.00

00:33:37.000 Instagram is for pictures and that's what the fuck I'm going to do. 0.98

00:33:39.000 Post pictures. 0.95

00:33:40.000 I'm confused.

00:33:41.000 Yo! 1.00

00:33:42.000 So, insecurity.

00:33:43.000 I don't like insecurity.

00:33:44.000 The force is strong with this one.

00:33:46.000 Holy!

00:33:48.000 You just got to be secure.

00:33:49.000 That's all right. 1.00

00:33:50.000 Goddamn! 1.00

00:33:51.000 You can't. 1.00

00:33:52.000 All right.

00:33:54.000 What about you?

00:33:55.000 What is it?

00:33:55.000 I don't understand what kind of relationship we have.

00:33:58.000 Because I don't have that big experience.

00:34:01.000 I don't have that many boyfriends in the past.

00:34:04.000 So are we already intimate together or what's going on?

00:34:07.000 Intimate, but you're seeing each other consistently.

00:34:10.000 Yeah, but not super serious.

00:34:12.000 No, if we intimate, it's super serious.

00:34:15.000 What do I mean?

00:34:17.000 A sneaky link is not super serious.

00:34:32.000 If we're just more like a friend, let's say we like each other, blah blah blah, but we're not really intimate.

00:34:38.000 Deep connection and stuff.

00:34:40.000 Then, of course, I'm not going to check his phone.

00:34:41.000 And it's one thing.

00:34:43.000 But if we are more, like, into each other, then it's...

00:34:46.000 For me, it's more serious than three things men supposed to do.

00:34:50.000 Protection, as I said, listener and leader.

00:34:54.000 If he doesn't do one of them, it's turn up.

00:34:57.000 Like, I can give him chances, like, wait for that.

00:35:00.000 Maybe he's going to figure out.

00:35:01.000 I understand.

00:35:02.000 American guys... 0.85

00:35:04.000 Not as smart as the Russian woman, but the guys like they're very smart in some point. 1.00

00:35:15.000 Like, let's say, like, I don't know, like trades or some stocks or I don't know, engineering, engineering.

00:35:21.000 Okay.

00:35:22.000 Yeah.

00:35:22.000 And actually get a job in engineering.

00:35:23.000 Yeah, true.

00:35:24.000 I agree 100%.

00:35:26.000 The guy's very good in engineering as well.

00:35:28.000 I give you like the first place here.

00:35:30.000 But in the relationship general and in like, I don't know, in many things, I think sometimes women can be wiser, let's say, not smarter. 0.96

00:35:38.000 Okay, so you're saying if he doesn't lead, if he doesn't, what was the other one?

00:35:44.000 Protect or listening.

00:35:46.000 Okay.

00:35:47.000 But wouldn't you...

00:35:49.000 Okay.

00:35:50.000 That's fine.

00:35:51.000 Does that suffice for your answer?

00:35:52.000 Because I guess for her, she's looking at it a little bit further down the line.

00:35:56.000 Yeah.

00:35:57.000 Okay.

00:35:57.000 Yeah.

00:35:57.000 No, that's fair enough.

00:35:58.000 That's fair enough.

00:35:58.000 All right.

00:35:59.000 Lead, protect, and what was the last one?

00:36:00.000 I'm sorry.

00:36:00.000 Listen?

00:36:01.000 Listen.

00:36:01.000 Okay.

00:36:02.000 Like, it's also about the money.

00:36:05.000 Like, here's the guy's like, oh, even Zorka said, like, my money, my money.

00:36:08.000 And you're like, blah, blah, blah.

00:36:10.000 I give you a credit card.

00:36:11.000 What do you mean?

00:36:11.000 If I'm with you, if we're, again, it's more, yeah, it's more deeper connection, but whatever.

00:36:17.000 Okay.

00:36:18.000 What about you?

00:36:19.000 What's an instantly ruin or relationship that you got with a guy in the early stages?

00:36:24.000 Definitely the jealousy.

00:36:25.000 Jealousy?

00:36:26.000 Yeah.

00:36:27.000 Period.

00:36:28.000 Simple.

00:36:28.000 Can you simple jealousy in what way?

00:36:31.000 Jealousy in, again, guys, the way you act.

00:36:35.000 Just things that they feel that they can control or that they want to control at first.

00:36:41.000 I feel.

00:36:42.000 So let's say an example would be.

00:36:44.000 Of controlling, yeah.

00:36:45.000 We're talking or something like that.

00:36:47.000 And you want to go with your friends to the club.

00:36:49.000 And I say to you, babe, you know what?

00:36:50.000 At this point, I think you're just still home with me.

00:36:53.000 It's a little bit crazy.

00:36:54.000 I don't like that type of energy.

00:36:55.000 What are you going to say?

00:36:56.000 I mean, Dan, you're coming.

00:36:57.000 I mean, really calm.

00:36:58.000 I'm going to ask you, hey, why are you thinking?

00:37:00.000 What's up?

00:37:01.000 You know, I got an event.

00:37:02.000 I'm an artist.

00:37:03.000 After all, if you feel like that, do you want to come with me?

00:37:06.000 Yeah.

00:37:07.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:37:08.000 Okay, but what if I just don't want my girl to be out there like that?

00:37:10.000 I mean, you got to have a solid reason.

00:37:12.000 You can't just tell me no.

00:37:15.000 Yes.

00:37:15.000 Yeah, I mean, you got to explain what your thought is behind that intention.

00:37:20.000 You feel me?

00:37:20.000 Is it the intention that you don't want me to go out just because you feel a thing?

00:37:24.000 Or is it really the intention you really feel something and you really don't want me to go out?

00:37:29.000 That's different.

00:37:30.000 You feel me?

00:37:31.000 I always wonder, because if a guy is going to be your leader and he tells us something out of respect, hey, I don't like this, why question it?

00:37:38.000 Bobby, I'm going to be home.

00:37:42.000 At the beginning, that's the point.

00:37:49.000 You're supposed to keep that momentum.

00:37:50.000 You're supposed to keep that leadership, right?

00:37:52.000 But along the way, nothing's perfect, of course.

00:37:56.000 Things, we get disappointed, right?

00:37:57.000 When women get disappointed, things get shaky. 1.00

00:38:01.000 No, Bobby, you should stay home. 1.00

00:38:02.000 If you find a man, what the fuck you need to go outside? 1.00

00:38:05.000 It's not even that. 0.99

00:38:07.000 It's more so in general, right?

00:38:08.000 Because then you're accustomed to them once and it's like that's an expectation.

00:38:13.000 So again, if it's a day you really feel a way and you're telling me your gut feeling, baby, I'm going to follow that.

00:38:18.000 That's your gut feeling.

00:38:19.000 I'm very big on my intuition.

00:38:21.000 But now, if it's, I got to figure out your intentions correct.

00:38:25.000 That's it.

00:38:25.000 So one night, gut feeling, yes.

00:38:28.000 The rest of the night's no.

00:38:29.000 Absolutely.

00:38:30.000 Well, I have a question.

00:38:31.000 What if it's going to be the opposite?

00:38:32.000 He wants to go outside and you want to stay home with him.

00:38:37.000 Will it work the same way?

00:38:38.000 He's going to like, no, I'm going to go.

00:38:40.000 Again, yeah, make your life a moving prayer, right?

00:38:42.000 I have that status.

00:38:43.000 So it's like you got to treat people.

00:38:44.000 I'm going to treat him how I want to be treated at the end of the day.

00:38:47.000 So if that's how I want to be treated and I want things to carry, yeah.

00:38:52.000 Make your life a moving prayer.

00:38:53.000 I have to trust you. 0.99

00:38:54.000 If not, what the fuck is the point of all this? 0.99

00:38:57.000 Straight up. 0.99

00:38:58.000 Could we just say that?

00:38:59.000 Make your life a moving prayer.

00:39:00.000 Yeah, make your life a moving prayer.

00:39:02.000 For sure.

00:39:03.000 Practice what you preach.

00:39:04.000 That's beautiful.

00:39:05.000 Okay.

00:39:05.000 So you want him to treat you the way you want to be treated?

00:39:08.000 Yeah, we treat...

00:39:09.000 Yeah, of course.

00:39:10.000 And you're going to treat him the same way?

00:39:12.000 Why not?

00:39:13.000 Stop the cat! 1.00

00:39:14.000 Interesting. 1.00

00:39:15.000 No, why is that a fucking cat? 0.99

00:39:17.000 I want to... 0.99

00:39:17.000 And especially when, again, I'm in a different level of life. 0.99

00:39:22.000 And you said you want the man to lead too, right?

00:39:24.000 We can both lead, I feel like.

00:39:26.000 Why can't we both lead?

00:39:28.000 He can take that lead, first place, whatever.

00:39:30.000 By the end of the day, I'm a visionary.

00:39:32.000 Also, we both bring a lot of things to the table that we can use and work together.

00:39:35.000 You do understand if one person leads, that means someone else has to follow.

00:39:38.000 Whatever.

00:39:39.000 Hold my hand.

00:39:40.000 Number one.

00:39:40.000 Together.

00:39:41.000 But one person has to lead the relationship.

00:39:44.000 Then that's cool.

00:39:45.000 So who does it need to be?

00:39:46.000 I don't know.

00:39:47.000 I guess who's...

00:39:48.000 Me!

00:39:49.000 Can make it happen.

00:39:50.000 Who can make it happen?

00:39:51.000 Because you don't know.

00:39:53.000 So who do you...

00:39:54.000 Okay, for a relationship to actually work...

00:39:56.000 Definitely the guy, of course.

00:39:58.000 Said the thing, but I feel like since we're educators and we're nurturers, it's like we're gonna set the tone, I feel.

00:40:06.000 Really?

00:40:06.000 Yeah.

00:40:07.000 Again, I want you to, I want things to go this, oh hey babe, this and that, but at the end of the day, they want our opinion.

00:40:15.000 They want the way we think.

00:40:17.000 Oh, we want to learn what you're thinking.

00:40:19.000 Tell us straight up.

00:40:20.000 Yeah, but who makes the final decision though?

00:40:22.000 We both do, because without me finalizing that, too, then again, no.

00:40:26.000 Excuse me?

00:40:27.000 Yeah.

00:40:28.000 Hey, baby, what are you thinking?

00:40:30.000 Yeah, you're thinking about it, though, in a way of very basic in what's going on now.

00:40:36.000 I want something different.

00:40:37.000 This is what I want to remember.

00:40:38.000 How many people run the United States, the most powerful country in the world?

00:40:42.000 That's what's up.

00:40:43.000 How many people run it?

00:40:45.000 How many people run it? 1.00

00:40:46.000 I hate you. 0.98

00:40:47.000 One in a team. 0.99

00:40:48.000 How many people run a successful company?

00:40:51.000 Many.

00:40:52.000 It takes many.

00:40:53.000 But who's the final decision maker?

00:40:54.000 Cool.

00:40:55.000 But to get to that, there's always a higher up.

00:40:58.000 Yeah, so you do understand that anything that is actually worth a damn, typically there's one final decision maker.

00:41:04.000 I agree with you on that, but again, what I want you to agree with is in the part of this also, the other opinion has to matter.

00:41:12.000 She tries to say that you're supposed to make your decision bigger.

00:41:16.000 Together in her needs.

00:41:17.000 No, not at all.

00:41:18.000 Our needs.

00:41:18.000 But sometimes women don't know what they need.

00:41:23.000 And that's cool.

00:41:24.000 But again, that's what I'm saying. 1.00

00:41:25.000 Take the fucking lead. 0.99

00:41:26.000 But I'm also going to tell you my opinion and what I think and then we can figure it out from there. 0.99

00:41:33.000 It's a compromise.

00:41:35.000 No.

00:41:36.000 Is a man responsible for protecting you?

00:41:38.000 Yes.

00:41:40.000 Yeah.

00:41:40.000 Yes.

00:41:41.000 So if he is responsible for protecting you, right?

00:41:44.000 As my man, yes.

00:41:45.000 Okay.

00:41:46.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that he has a degree of authority over you too?

00:42:00.000 If I am charged with protecting you and putting my life on the line to protect you, by default, that means I have a degree of authority over you because I'm responsible for protecting you.

00:42:12.000 Responsibility without authority is slavery.

00:42:15.000 The problem is that women want the guy to protect them and put their neck on the line for someone who's not going to listen to them. 1.00

00:42:21.000 That's foolish. 0.99

00:42:22.000 That's slavery. 0.99

00:42:23.000 If I am tasked with protecting you, then you need to listen to what I say. 1.00

00:42:27.000 If I tell you, sit your ass inside the house, you sit in the fucking house. 1.00

00:42:29.000 I'm not going to sit there and explain myself to a female why you need to sit in the house. 1.00

00:42:33.000 Hold on, let me continue.

00:42:34.000 Right? 1.00

00:42:35.000 Because women, quite frankly, don't know shit about how the real world works. 1.00

00:42:38.000 Women typically aren't the victims of violence, like men are. 1.00

00:42:42.000 Women don't understand the craziness that men are capable of. 1.00

00:42:46.000 And a lot of the times, I'm not going to sit here and explain to you, hey, I don't want you going to the club on XYZ night because XYZ. This is what it is.

00:42:54.000 You expect me to protect for you, provide for you, lead you? 1.00

00:42:56.000 Then follow what the fuck I said and sit your ass inside the house. 1.00

00:42:59.000 I think it's crazy to me. 1.00

00:43:00.000 Women expect men... 1.00

00:43:02.000 To sit there and protect them, but they will not listen to that same man who was tasked with protecting them.

00:43:06.000 But you gotta build that.

00:43:08.000 I feel like it depends on deliverance and tone. 0.95

00:43:11.000 You can tell me to sit the fuck down and whatever the hell you want, but it's about how you say it. 0.99

00:43:16.000 Because I can listen to my man. 0.99

00:43:17.000 My man gonna tell me what to do.

00:43:18.000 Okay, cool.

00:43:19.000 I'm gonna sit down. 1.00

00:43:20.000 But bitch, sit the fuck. 1.00

00:43:21.000 Wait. 1.00

00:43:22.000 Hold on.

00:43:26.000 You can make a woman feel very submissive or you can make a woman feel gangster.

00:43:36.000 So what you doing? 0.98

00:43:37.000 You gonna make me feel horny or you gonna make me feel tight? 0.91

00:43:40.000 What are you doing? 0.82

00:43:41.000 Exactly.

00:43:41.000 Except you.

00:43:42.000 I could sit down, ain't about nothing.

00:43:43.000 I could listen to you.

00:43:44.000 But watch how you speak to me.

00:43:46.000 You know what's interesting? 1.00

00:43:47.000 Women like you love it even more when they say, shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:43:50.000 I do. 1.00

00:43:50.000 So you just contradicted yourself. 1.00

00:43:53.000 I do.

00:43:54.000 I'm toxic as fuck. 1.00

00:43:55.000 I'ma tell you that. 1.00

00:43:59.000 So what you just said literally doesn't work for a woman like you because a woman like you... 1.00

00:44:03.000 Here's the thing.

00:44:04.000 I've noticed you're fairly a masculine female, which means you need an even more masculine man. 1.00

00:44:08.000 So a guy needs to damn near come to... 1.00

00:44:10.000 I don't want to say physically attack you, but he needs to tell you, shut the fuck up and sit inside. 0.99

00:44:14.000 And you need to understand that there's that threat of potential consequence from him behaving that way. 0.99

00:44:19.000 But isn't that kind of crazy that it raises masculinity up to that level?

00:44:23.000 So my thing is this.

00:44:25.000 I tell guys, look, you're the leader.

00:44:26.000 Don't sit there and let women, you know, bully them. 1.00

00:44:29.000 Because you were saying something as well where you don't like, you think it's insecure.

00:44:33.000 You don't like insecurity when a guy tells you to change or Instagram posts.

00:44:36.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that he's probably telling you that for some logically sound reason?

00:44:40.000 Hey, I don't want a bunch of thirsty, strange, creepy individuals hitting on my girl and putting her in a situation.

00:44:47.000 Because you got to remember too, Who's responsible for protecting you?

00:44:50.000 That same man.

00:44:51.000 Okay.

00:44:51.000 But on my behalf, I'm speaking on my relationship, right?

00:44:53.000 I never had a person to protect me as you speak, right?

00:44:57.000 So I've used to insecure men.

00:44:59.000 So that's what I'm speaking on.

00:45:00.000 I'm used to defending myself.

00:45:02.000 You were single when you were doing this.

00:45:03.000 Doing what?

00:45:04.000 Like posting on Instagram and doing all this stuff.

00:45:07.000 No, I was not.

00:45:08.000 You were talking with the guy.

00:45:09.000 I was in a relationship for four years.

00:45:11.000 Okay.

00:45:11.000 But wouldn't it be cool to say that if you're in a relationship with a guy and he says these things...

00:45:16.000 It's not really insecurity?

00:45:17.000 Okay, no, not technically, because I know he was insecure.

00:45:20.000 He told me himself, right?

00:45:21.000 I don't mean to, but literally, so...

00:45:24.000 So he told you...

00:45:25.000 It's not even sugar-coated.

00:45:29.000 I'm insecure.

00:45:30.000 You're not going to the club. 0.99

00:45:32.000 Nah, that nigga took a perk, whatever the fuck, and on the side, he was like, I'm not gonna lie, babe, I'm deadass insecure. 0.99

00:45:36.000 Like, I'm jealous over you. 1.00

00:45:37.000 I don't want no nigga looking at you. 1.00

00:45:39.000 Respectfully, he told me that. 0.75

00:45:41.000 So it's like, okay, cool.

00:45:42.000 I respect that, but I cannot have you around me.

00:45:45.000 I'm outside.

00:45:45.000 I'm pretty.

00:45:46.000 I would argue that that is actually brave, not insecure.

00:45:49.000 Because if he was really insecure, he wouldn't have told you anything and let you do what you wanted to do.

00:45:54.000 That's why I had to pop a perk to tell you the truth.

00:45:56.000 That was a very uncomfortable situation for him to be in.

00:46:00.000 Most men can be honest with women.

00:46:01.000 But you can be honest with me, though.

00:46:02.000 Do you think it's insecure because he's afraid that some other dude's going to take you?

00:46:11.000 Yeah.

00:46:11.000 And therefore, he should be more secure in himself.

00:46:14.000 And that's my thing.

00:46:14.000 If you know I'm coming right back to you, why be insecure that somebody might take me or you might have a...

00:46:20.000 Because you never know what can happen.

00:46:22.000 I understand that, but don't feel that way.

00:46:22.000 There's a lot of situations.

00:46:24.000 There's a lot of men that are stronger than you.

00:46:26.000 And that's insecurity.

00:46:26.000 They can pull you into a car or a van.

00:46:28.000 That's insecurity. 1.00

00:46:28.000 Because I go outside as a better bitch than me. 1.00

00:46:30.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:46:31.000 My nigga can probably see her.

00:46:32.000 But I know you're coming back to me.

00:46:34.000 You get what I'm saying?

00:46:34.000 Like, I'm not here.

00:46:35.000 I'm not about to be like, oh, yeah, my man knows home.

00:46:37.000 It's home.

00:46:37.000 No, I ain't none of that.

00:46:38.000 But I'm saying, no, you're going to come back to me. 0.97

00:46:40.000 We fucking, all right, back. 0.98

00:46:41.000 Cool. 0.98

00:46:41.000 Next day. 0.98

00:46:43.000 Really?

00:46:43.000 Yo, this is scary, bro.

00:46:45.000 I'm serious.

00:46:46.000 May I say that if the guy take responsibility for me, if he following my needs, my wants first, let's say, if he think about me, then it's okay.

00:46:57.000 I'm going to listen. 0.99

00:46:58.000 But if he going to say, shut the fuck or whatever... 1.00

00:47:00.000 Just because his ego, just because he wants to be like, oh, I'm a leader without even having anything like behind that, then it's bullshit. 1.00

00:47:08.000 That's what probably girls saying. 1.00

00:47:10.000 But if the guy following, like he take my interest first, then it's okay.

00:47:15.000 I understand.

00:47:15.000 He's saying, do not go to the club because it's in my best interest.

00:47:20.000 There's a problem here, right?

00:47:21.000 Which is that women crave attention. 1.00

00:47:24.000 So the keys to the kingdom, really, the gold of the realm is attention, right, for women. 1.00

00:47:30.000 So they want to get the attention, but they also want to play on both sides because they also want to say that the guy who knows full well that she wants to get this attention and that attention maybe could lead somewhere else under certain circumstances.

00:47:42.000 She wants to say it's insecure for that guy to say, I don't want you to go to the club.

00:47:47.000 Right?

00:47:48.000 But she also would like the attention that she would get from going to the club.

00:47:52.000 So it's kind of like you're being a little bit disingenuous in a way because you know full well that you're going to go to the club.

00:47:59.000 You're going to get these guys hitting on you and blah, blah, blah.

00:48:01.000 And you might choose to exercise your hypergamy in that situation.

00:48:05.000 So there's some justification for the guy to be insecure.

00:48:08.000 Or not insecure, it's just that he's into you.

00:48:10.000 Not justification, because you should never be justified for being secure.

00:48:14.000 Be secure.

00:48:14.000 Know who you are.

00:48:15.000 I agree, I agree.

00:48:17.000 You can know who you are, but you can't control somebody's actions at the end of the day.

00:48:22.000 So if you're my female and I'm a man or whatever the case might be, I don't want you out there even Having a choice of option, you know what I mean?

00:48:31.000 And that's where I say you picked the wrong woman. 1.00

00:48:35.000 Same thing with you, because if you pick a man and he has a whole bunch of options, you're going to feel like you're getting dogged out, that you're out here getting dragged out.

00:48:42.000 I can't do no rap.

00:48:43.000 But you understand it's the same type of context, though, because you're giving that choice of option.

00:48:52.000 WIC. But the point is, right, even the most secure dude in the world, even the most high-value fucking man in the world, most secure, most jacked, tallest, most money, all of that bullshit, whatever, right, even that guy doesn't really want his girl going to the club and having other dudes hitting on her. 0.95

00:49:10.000 Do you know what I mean? 0.99

00:49:11.000 Now, you could say, well, he should be just so alpha that he just doesn't give a fuck and he's completely zen to it. 0.98

00:49:16.000 But that's not really the reality of it. 0.98

00:49:18.000 There's always going to be, because men are very jealous, there's always going to be that peripheral jealousy.

00:49:21.000 So I think it's a little bit disingenuous to be sort of tarring men with this brush of, oh, you're insecure.

00:49:26.000 It's not necessarily, it's just natural male instinct, isn't it, for protection.

00:49:29.000 Actually, you should be worried if he doesn't care about you going out.

00:49:32.000 Exactly.

00:49:32.000 If he cares about you, any lick of care at all.

00:49:35.000 Anything at all?

00:49:36.000 He said, you know what? 0.99

00:49:36.000 Damn. 0.99

00:49:36.000 I like this girl. 0.99

00:49:38.000 He should be inside because I care about you.

00:49:39.000 If he doesn't care anything about you, go do what you want.

00:49:41.000 I don't care.

00:49:42.000 No, but like every night, I mean, yeah.

00:49:45.000 Okay, question.

00:49:48.000 Wouldn't you prefer to go with your man rather than without your man?

00:49:51.000 I'm sorry?

00:49:52.000 Would you prefer to go with your man or without your man?

00:49:54.000 I'd rather go with my man. 0.99

00:49:56.000 I don't want to pay shit. 0.99

00:49:58.000 You don't pay shit regardless. 0.99

00:50:00.000 But the point is, if he's going with you, then it's even better. 0.96

00:50:02.000 Exactly.

00:50:05.000 The question, if I'm not mistaken, going back, was what is the biggest thing that will turn you off in a somewhat relationship with a guy, right?

00:50:12.000 Yeah.

00:50:13.000 Okay.

00:50:14.000 Go ahead, Icy.

00:50:17.000 I would say communication.

00:50:19.000 I'm not really so much of a headache.

00:50:22.000 Stop the cow! 1.00

00:50:26.000 No, I'm not.

00:50:27.000 Because I'm not sitting here annoying.

00:50:30.000 I'm not texting him 24-7.

00:50:31.000 I'm not calling 24-7. 0.99

00:50:33.000 I'm not one of those annoying bitches. 1.00

00:50:35.000 Anyways, continuing on. 0.98

00:50:36.000 It's just more or less communication.

00:50:39.000 If I'm hitting you up, especially if I'm adding value to your business or anything like that, If you don't respond within, I would say, that day, that's more or less where I start being like, alright, this is not worth my energy, this is not worth my time, you got 24 hours, if not.

00:50:53.000 And it could just be something simple, you know what I mean?

00:50:55.000 I don't ask for much, you know what I mean?

00:50:59.000 It's just communication. 1.00

00:51:01.000 If you don't have that and you just, fuck it, I'm not getting nowhere because you don't want to give me sex. 1.00

00:51:06.000 What about you? 1.00

00:51:11.000 You said already, being insecure, right?

00:51:16.000 You want to finish that story off?

00:51:18.000 Absolutely.

00:51:19.000 Carry yourself with confidence.

00:51:22.000 If I'm with you, if I've given you my time of day, if I've allowed you into my space, Continue what you were doing before.

00:51:31.000 Why?

00:51:32.000 So, question.

00:51:33.000 You said that you were like looking at other guys and your ex didn't like that?

00:51:36.000 That's true, yeah.

00:51:37.000 Can you give us an example of that real fast?

00:51:40.000 I won't forget it, okay?

00:51:42.000 I'm gonna share the last day that I had enough.

00:51:44.000 Okay.

00:51:45.000 We were at a restaurant and a couple walked in and just because I turned around, just because I saw motion, you know, I'm a human.

00:51:53.000 I turned my neck.

00:51:54.000 Oh my god.

00:51:55.000 It was over.

00:51:57.000 It was over.

00:51:57.000 I was looking at the man.

00:51:59.000 I wanted the man.

00:52:00.000 What was his sign?

00:52:03.000 Scorpio.

00:52:04.000 Oh yeah.

00:52:05.000 I have a question.

00:52:08.000 When you're out with a guy, y'all don't just seem to need to just put your head down and just only pay attention to the person you're with.

00:52:14.000 Facts!

00:52:15.000 No, no, no.

00:52:15.000 I'm literally...

00:52:16.000 Wait, question.

00:52:21.000 It's not because someone...

00:52:23.000 It's not put your head down, but it's more or less like when you're on a date with somebody.

00:52:27.000 I naturally do this.

00:52:28.000 I don't know about you guys.

00:52:29.000 I'm in my own little world in a day.

00:52:31.000 It's more or less if I walk into a spot, my head is down, I'm making sure I'm watching where I'm stepping at, but I'm not trying to make eye contact with nobody.

00:52:40.000 Then I sit down, eye contact's on the person, nobody else.

00:52:44.000 So I'm genuinely asking, do you guys do this?

00:52:47.000 They pushed me.

00:52:48.000 They were walking by.

00:52:50.000 Where did they push me?

00:52:52.000 You said motion, motion.

00:52:53.000 You said you felt motion.

00:52:55.000 I felt motion, exactly.

00:52:59.000 He had my attention, sis.

00:53:01.000 Stop it.

00:53:01.000 He had my attention.

00:53:02.000 Get some help.

00:53:04.000 So anyway, so this couple walks in, you look at the man.

00:53:07.000 What did your boyfriend say at the time?

00:53:09.000 He got pissed off.

00:53:10.000 What did he say, specifically?

00:53:11.000 He didn't even say nothing.

00:53:13.000 He just asked for the check, and his look said it all.

00:53:17.000 You know?

00:53:18.000 You finished eating?

00:53:20.000 No.

00:53:20.000 The food just came.

00:53:22.000 It was over.

00:53:23.000 Did he just pay for the check and get up and leave?

00:53:26.000 Yeah.

00:53:28.000 No, we walked together.

00:53:30.000 Of course he didn't leave me.

00:53:31.000 He told you to get up or you followed him?

00:53:32.000 No.

00:53:33.000 You know it's a wrap.

00:53:34.000 Hello, can I get the check?

00:53:36.000 Pay for it.

00:53:36.000 Okay.

00:53:37.000 It's time to go.

00:53:39.000 So you didn't stay.

00:53:40.000 You left with him.

00:53:42.000 We left together.

00:53:43.000 Did he say anything to you?

00:53:45.000 Boy, that ride was so silent.

00:53:47.000 He was getting ready to take me to the sugarcane field to drop me off.

00:53:52.000 Did he break up with you after that?

00:53:54.000 Did he try?

00:53:54.000 No.

00:53:55.000 He didn't break up with me.

00:53:56.000 I had to let him go.

00:53:58.000 You let him go?

00:53:59.000 I had to.

00:53:59.000 She said he tried.

00:54:01.000 So you wouldn't leave him when you tried to break up with me.

00:54:03.000 I did!

00:54:05.000 I was the one that broke up with him.

00:54:07.000 Okay.

00:54:07.000 That was that day.

00:54:08.000 Do you think it's appropriate for a woman that's in a relationship with a guy to look at another dude? 0.99

00:54:12.000 It's not appropriate, but in this instant, guys, it was something that was not intentional, okay?

00:54:19.000 I wasn't looking at the guy because I was attracted to him.

00:54:22.000 You said it a second ago.

00:54:23.000 No, I did not.

00:54:24.000 It was just a person walking by.

00:54:27.000 Yes, Mara, she did.

00:54:28.000 Okay.

00:54:28.000 What's your background?

00:54:29.000 When did she say that?

00:54:30.000 What's my background?

00:54:31.000 I don't remember her saying she wanted the guy that walked behind her.

00:54:34.000 They're putting words in my mouth.

00:54:38.000 I would say that you said that he said that you wanted the guy.

00:54:45.000 That came out of his mouth.

00:54:48.000 Was the guy hot?

00:54:51.000 It was an old man.

00:54:54.000 Come on, man.

00:54:55.000 Was he a sugar daddy?

00:54:57.000 Kind of, sort of.

00:55:01.000 What's your background?

00:55:02.000 What's my background?

00:55:03.000 Puerto Rican.

00:55:04.000 Okay, so...

00:55:05.000 What's up?

00:55:06.000 You know what's funny?

00:55:07.000 What?

00:55:08.000 It's because if you know your man who's a type of way about something, why do it?

00:55:12.000 It's like, you know...

00:55:13.000 Oh, guys, it wasn't like that, though.

00:55:16.000 But if you respect your man, you know what?

00:55:19.000 He doesn't like these things that I'm doing right now.

00:55:21.000 Don't do it.

00:55:22.000 Absolutely.

00:55:22.000 I agree.

00:55:23.000 It's emotion. 1.00

00:55:24.000 Fuck that nigga. 1.00

00:55:24.000 All right. 1.00

00:55:25.000 What's up, babe?

00:55:26.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:55:26.000 Because you know time of this.

00:55:27.000 Oh, my God.

00:55:28.000 I'm just saying...

00:55:41.000 No, he was young.

00:55:45.000 How old was he?

00:55:46.000 He was 30.

00:55:48.000 And you were 30 at the same time?

00:55:51.000 I was like 29.

00:55:53.000 29.

00:55:54.000 Okay.

00:55:55.000 Do you think...

00:55:56.000 So you looked at the guy and then he broke up with you.

00:55:59.000 You know, it's interesting because guys typically don't act like that off of just one instance.

00:56:04.000 I would be willing to bet that this probably happened on multiple occasions and he got tired of it.

00:56:09.000 You're funny.

00:56:11.000 Yes, I do.

00:56:12.000 I swear to God. 0.84

00:56:14.000 I don't know what it is with Puerto Rican chicks, bro. 1.00

00:56:16.000 You touch them, they get pregnant. 1.00

00:56:17.000 What the fuck's going on, nigga? 1.00

00:56:19.000 Wait, what? 1.00

00:56:20.000 What did you say?

00:56:21.000 He's saying I'm fertile.

00:56:22.000 I don't know what it is.

00:56:23.000 Men typically don't behave like that.

00:56:25.000 There was a pattern of behavior that probably led him to act that way. 0.99

00:56:29.000 You had probably fucked up a few times, and then that was the end of it. 1.00

00:56:32.000 Well, you say fucked up. 1.00

00:56:33.000 She's smiling, too, because she knows I'm right on point. 0.99

00:56:37.000 Myron, you guys will be best friends.

00:56:38.000 You guys will get along so well.

00:56:40.000 It could also be that he lost respect for her.

00:56:43.000 Because, sorry, that she lost respect for him.

00:56:45.000 Because when women do these things, when they start to do these micro little, you know, disrespectful things, it tends to be that they've lost respect for the dude. 0.99

00:56:45.000 Yeah, 100%. 0.99

00:56:54.000 And once the respect has gone, you're fucked. 1.00

00:56:55.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:56:56.000 Yeah, it's true.

00:56:57.000 Once they start going against what you're saying.

00:56:59.000 She don't like him that much.

00:57:00.000 Because if she did, she'll be like this.

00:57:02.000 Yeah.

00:57:03.000 Oh my God, that's exactly what he said.

00:57:03.000 Focus.

00:57:05.000 That's what I was saying.

00:57:06.000 You don't like him that much.

00:57:07.000 That's what I brought up.

00:57:09.000 That's what I said.

00:57:09.000 My boyfriend...

00:57:10.000 She was tolerating him because he had money.

00:57:12.000 That's what it was.

00:57:13.000 Hey, hey, hey, let's not go there.

00:57:14.000 Don't do me like that.

00:57:15.000 You don't want to be exposed this way.

00:57:17.000 Yeah, I mean, it's just like, bro.

00:57:18.000 I see.

00:57:19.000 I see.

00:57:19.000 Come on.

00:57:20.000 I see.

00:57:21.000 I see.

00:57:23.000 Women stick together. 1.00

00:57:24.000 Was he your baby daddy?

00:57:28.000 No, he wasn't.

00:57:29.000 There you go.

00:57:30.000 It was not.

00:57:31.000 Don't do that.

00:57:32.000 Don't do that.

00:57:35.000 Listen.

00:57:36.000 Typical situation.

00:57:38.000 Just saying.

00:57:39.000 Yeah, I think if anything, because you said he was insecure because you did that, I think that's very secure for him to just get up and say, I'm not going to tell her this disrespect anymore and end the date right then and there.

00:57:48.000 Listen.

00:57:49.000 Okay.

00:57:49.000 Listen.

00:57:49.000 You guys are doing...

00:57:50.000 You guys are being extremists right now.

00:57:53.000 You guys are doing a little too much right now.

00:57:55.000 We're being extremists.

00:57:56.000 Okay, yeah.

00:57:56.000 We're being extremists.

00:57:57.000 Go ahead.

00:57:58.000 Because this was...

00:57:59.000 My intentions were not this... 1.00

00:58:02.000 God damn, this man looked good as fuck. 1.00

00:58:05.000 Damn! 1.00

00:58:07.000 It wasn't like that. 0.99

00:58:08.000 It was just like...

00:58:09.000 Oh, so you did say...

00:58:12.000 You know, that's what it was.

00:58:13.000 Why did he interpret it?

00:58:15.000 I mean, look, we're only hearing your side of the story.

00:58:16.000 Why did he interpret it like that?

00:58:18.000 Do you know what I mean?

00:58:18.000 Y'all help me figure that out.

00:58:20.000 Because why?

00:58:22.000 You probably displayed a pattern of behaviors that were treacherous that may display some type of infidelity and he had a problem with that.

00:58:30.000 What kind of man would you label him as?

00:58:32.000 And that was the straw that broke the camel's back and that's why he ended it.

00:58:35.000 I guarantee it was a bunch of different behaviors in tandem together that pissed him off and that's why he did that.

00:58:42.000 To be fair, if it was an older man, regardless of the facts, like you said earlier, the things you did before that caused him to act that way in the moment.

00:58:50.000 And I can tell that you're also a fairly masculine woman. 0.64

00:58:52.000 You probably talk back to him.

00:58:53.000 You're probably like, no, probably disagreeable, etc. 1.00

00:58:56.000 And all these things like climb up and he's just going to be like, fuck this shit. 1.00

00:59:00.000 No. 1.00

00:59:01.000 I actually want a man to lead.

00:59:03.000 When I'm always making decisions, when my brain's always brain-wrestling, always thinking, making decisions.

00:59:08.000 It's tough.

00:59:08.000 It is.

00:59:09.000 It's hard.

00:59:09.000 So please allow a man who is very confident in himself, who has gained or achieved a lot of his own personal goals, go on and decide for me.

00:59:19.000 I will be quiet.

00:59:20.000 I will be respectful.

00:59:22.000 So let's add these two together.

00:59:23.000 Lost respect, multiple acts of infidelity in a way of maybe progressing to that point, and we get what you did, basically.

00:59:34.000 Am I wrong?

00:59:35.000 Am I right?

00:59:36.000 So I'm adding what you said, which is, for example, lost respect, and then two, multiple acts of you doing that.

00:59:44.000 The bottom line is lack of respect. 0.99

00:59:45.000 If you look at a guy that kills his wife or does some crazy shit to his girlfriend or whatever. 1.00

00:59:50.000 Hold on. 1.00

00:59:51.000 Hold on.

00:59:51.000 Hear me out.

00:59:52.000 The root cause of it nine out of ten times is always a lack of respect.

00:59:56.000 Men will kill for a lack of respect.

00:59:59.000 Are you saying that's okay?

01:00:01.000 Where did I say it was okay?

01:00:02.000 No, I was asking because you said it as like, no, that's normal.

01:00:05.000 We advocate don't ever hit women, touch women at all.

01:00:07.000 Okay.

01:00:08.000 So he never said that.

01:00:09.000 Nowhere did I say it was okay.

01:00:10.000 I never said you said that.

01:00:11.000 I'm asking.

01:00:12.000 Well, I mean, I didn't say it.

01:00:14.000 So therefore, what is the point of asking the questions?

01:00:17.000 Continue.

01:00:17.000 She's so serious.

01:00:18.000 So anyway, what I said was the bottom line is men kill women a lot of times for lack of respect, right?

01:00:24.000 Whether he kills a cheating wife or a girlfriend or attack somebody, typically violence is enacted when they feel disrespected.

01:00:29.000 So what I'm saying is that him behaving that way was probably a culmination of multiple instances of disrespect, which is why he did that.

01:00:37.000 Because men don't ask for much from women.

01:00:38.000 However, women require a lot of men. 1.00

01:00:40.000 So if a guy doesn't even get respect...

01:00:43.000 They get pretty pissed off.

01:00:44.000 So let me ask you a question, because you guys, believe it or not, believe it or not, yeah, oh my god, very similar.

01:00:51.000 Like, I'm pretty sure you guys are on his favorites, like, on YouTube and stuff.

01:00:55.000 I'm pretty sure he follows you guys.

01:00:57.000 But...

01:00:57.000 Sure.

01:00:59.000 Help me out here.

01:01:00.000 Help me out here.

01:01:02.000 Is that something, as a man, okay, and you're out on a date with a lady friend, Do you require her to...

01:01:12.000 Do you find it an insult if her eyes just go the other way for one second?

01:01:19.000 Yes.

01:01:20.000 I mean, it's disrespectful, yeah.

01:01:22.000 It's pretty disrespectful.

01:01:23.000 How would you feel if you're a man looking at every hot girl left and right when you were sitting under?

01:01:28.000 Guys, but it wasn't like that.

01:01:29.000 I understand where you're coming from, but I promise you this is innocent.

01:01:33.000 Wow.

01:01:35.000 Every other time.

01:01:37.000 Every other time.

01:01:38.000 This is like one of those Agatha Christie stories.

01:01:40.000 It's all the clues running up.

01:01:43.000 She's saying that she just momentarily glanced at this dude.

01:01:46.000 Okay, fine.

01:01:47.000 Whatever, fine.

01:01:47.000 If that may be the case, that's fine.

01:01:49.000 But it does seem like maybe there was a bit of a pattern.

01:01:51.000 But the general point about lack of respect, I think, is very key.

01:01:55.000 Because, guys...

01:01:57.000 One of the reasons why guys get so fucking mad about lack of respect is because they know inside they've lost it. 0.99

01:02:04.000 They know they've lost the fucking frame. 0.99

01:02:06.000 And that's why they get so fucking angry. 1.00

01:02:09.000 Because on some level they think, I've fucked this up. 0.98

01:02:12.000 And they kind of have, to be honest, because we have to fucking level up and we have to be the ones who hold that dominant frame at all times. 0.97

01:02:18.000 Yeah. 0.76

01:02:19.000 The thing is, ladies, is that everything about women is, you know, mystique, right? 1.00

01:02:25.000 We call it the feminine mystique, right?

01:02:26.000 We talk about this.

01:02:28.000 We don't know when you guys have your periods.

01:02:30.000 We don't know if you guys are interested.

01:02:31.000 We don't know when you guys are ovulating.

01:02:32.000 Everything about female nature typically is concealing, right? 1.00

01:02:36.000 Not showing interest, etc.

01:02:38.000 So when a girl overtly looks at another male, that is a huge form of disrespect because women don't typically show interest. 1.00

01:02:45.000 And men know this subconsciously, right?

01:02:48.000 If a girl compliments a guy, it's rare.

01:02:50.000 We're not used to it.

01:02:54.000 That's true.

01:02:55.000 Women typically don't show interest in men. 1.00

01:02:57.000 You know what I mean?

01:02:57.000 So if a woman shows interest in another man in front of you, that's one of the biggest forms of disrespect because men know how rare that is.

01:03:05.000 So for her to overtly do it in front of you is a huge sign of disrespect.

01:03:08.000 And really, the guy at that point, the guy should leave at that point.

01:03:11.000 And the guy should end the relationship at that point.

01:03:13.000 Oh, Lord, have mercy, guys.

01:03:15.000 Again.

01:03:16.000 I'm not necessarily you.

01:03:20.000 We're just using your stuff as an example to speak more of a general point.

01:03:24.000 You get it?

01:03:25.000 Now, I have no complaints about this man because he actually was really good, except for this part right here where he just had very low tolerance for this disrespect.

01:03:35.000 But my question to you guys...

01:03:37.000 Do you regret losing him?

01:03:39.000 Do I regret losing him?

01:03:41.000 Be honest.

01:03:42.000 Yes.

01:03:44.000 You had to think about that.

01:03:46.000 Yes, you did.

01:03:47.000 You know you miss him. 0.95

01:03:54.000 I don't miss him because he had a really ugly attitude. 0.99

01:03:56.000 He had this really ugly attitude. 0.97

01:03:58.000 But you miss him. 0.95

01:04:00.000 I really don't miss him.

01:04:02.000 She got a boyfriend.

01:04:06.000 My question is...

01:04:08.000 If, again, the woman just looked innocently, how can we fix this? 0.59

01:04:12.000 Because I didn't get to fix it.

01:04:15.000 I didn't think I was wrong.

01:04:16.000 I was like, go ahead.

01:04:18.000 Like I said before, it wasn't just an innocent look.

01:04:20.000 I guarantee you did a whole bunch of other things that pissed them off prior, and that was a straw that broke the camel's back.

01:04:27.000 And you know you did, too.

01:04:29.000 Yeah.

01:04:30.000 I can tell from the way that you're looking at me.

01:04:48.000 I'll be honest with y'all.

01:04:50.000 We ask you guys a bunch of questions that we already know the answer to.

01:04:52.000 Y'all really can't fool us.

01:04:53.000 We know women better than they know themselves. 1.00

01:04:55.000 That's why you guys say dumb shit like the vibe and aura. 1.00

01:04:57.000 We're able to decode that womanese because we've spoken to enough of you guys from different ages, different countries, different backgrounds. 0.99

01:05:03.000 And yeah, I mean, I just know when men behave a certain way, nine out of ten times is because of something the woman did in response because men are very simple and And it's very difficult to agitate men. 0.99

01:05:14.000 So if you got him agitated off of just looking at a man, I know for a fact you did a bunch of shit beforehand and pissed him off. 0.81

01:05:20.000 But it could be something he's dealing with too. 0.97

01:05:22.000 It is.

01:05:23.000 Mommy issues.

01:05:24.000 Let her come out. 0.99

01:05:25.000 That boy had mommy issues.

01:05:27.000 He had...

01:05:28.000 Explain mommy issues.

01:05:30.000 I want to know what that is for you.

01:05:31.000 Okay, he had a really bad relationship with his mom.

01:05:34.000 Bad relationship.

01:05:35.000 Really bad relationship.

01:05:36.000 So how is that?

01:05:37.000 His mom...

01:05:39.000 Because for some reason, he felt like when he saw a little bit of flaw in a woman, it reminded him of his mom and how she failed as a woman and it just got ugly. 0.97

01:05:51.000 So no, I don't miss him.

01:05:59.000 Back then, yes, but you gotta understand and you guys gotta side with us women that, you know, you learn a person gradually when experiences present themselves.

01:06:09.000 When situations Come about.

01:06:13.000 So you want our pity because you chose the wrong person and you stayed?

01:06:17.000 No, I left.

01:06:18.000 Why did you leave in the end?

01:06:20.000 Because that was the final straw.

01:06:21.000 I swear to God.

01:06:23.000 What you perceived as his insecurity.

01:06:24.000 Yeah, that was crazy.

01:06:26.000 Taking me to the sugar game fields?

01:06:28.000 Yeah, boy.

01:06:31.000 Explain that.

01:06:32.000 What do you mean?

01:06:33.000 He was trying to take me to the sugarcane fields in Pahokee, Florida.

01:06:38.000 Belgrade, Florida.

01:06:39.000 Do you guys know what that is?

01:06:40.000 I don't know, but let me tell you something.

01:06:51.000 He was trying to drop me off there, but listen to me.

01:06:58.000 Let me tell you how it worked out though.

01:07:05.000 When we got there, right? 1.00

01:07:06.000 And his dumb ass got out the car. 1.00

01:07:09.000 Okay. 1.00

01:07:09.000 He got out the car and he started talking crap. 1.00

01:07:12.000 Okay. 0.99

01:07:12.000 And, um, he starts walking and I knew he was trying to leave me. 0.99

01:07:17.000 What was he calling you when he was talking crap? 0.96

01:07:18.000 He was just saying, I can't believe you. 0.98

01:07:20.000 I love you.

01:07:21.000 He wasn't calling out my name or nothing like that.

01:07:24.000 But I knew he was getting ready to leave me.

01:07:26.000 And when he turned his back right quick, I got hopped in that driver's seat so fast. 1.00

01:07:32.000 I shut the door and I hauled ass on his ass. 1.00

01:07:36.000 So you left him? 1.00

01:07:37.000 I sure did.

01:07:38.000 So you left him in the field?

01:07:40.000 I sure as hell did.

01:07:41.000 With all his chains on, all his money on, I had the Glock in the car, I had the Mercedes, and I drove off.

01:07:48.000 He had to call somebody to come get him because...

01:07:50.000 It wasn't going to be me.

01:07:51.000 Did you give him back his car?

01:07:53.000 I eventually did, yes.

01:07:55.000 This just shows that one instance was not the cause of that.

01:08:00.000 It was a culmination of things added up to what you did.

01:08:03.000 Because, dude, what right-minded person is going to drive to the sugarcane fields for one glass of the old man?

01:08:09.000 Come on, bruv.

01:08:18.000 If I want to be doing Nadia, I would not be involved with somebody. 1.00

01:08:22.000 A nigga's not just going to be like, I'm going to drop this bitch to the sugar cane just because. 1.00

01:08:26.000 Ladies, I want your opinion. 1.00

01:08:27.000 Is that from one instance or from multiple occasions happening that he did that?

01:08:31.000 What do you think?

01:08:33.000 Multiple occasions?

01:08:35.000 What do you think?

01:08:35.000 Same.

01:08:36.000 What do you think?

01:08:37.000 Same.

01:08:37.000 What do you think?

01:08:39.000 Even they know!

01:08:40.000 Even they know.

01:08:41.000 Your cap! 0.94

01:08:43.000 Ladies, he was really crazy. 1.00

01:08:45.000 No, no, you were really crazy. 1.00

01:08:47.000 No, I'm not. 0.98

01:08:47.000 Be honest. 0.98

01:08:48.000 I promise you.

01:08:49.000 Yo, do you work out?

01:08:51.000 That's a random question.

01:08:52.000 No, no, because how's your waist trainer?

01:08:55.000 I ain't got no, no.

01:08:57.000 You don't? 1.00

01:08:57.000 What are you talking about, crazy ass? 1.00

01:09:01.000 I bet you're paying attention to details. 1.00

01:09:05.000 That you pay attention to.

01:09:14.000 What's the point of that?

01:09:16.000 Do you want to ask something else, Troy?

01:09:18.000 Do you want to ask the girls?

01:09:20.000 Right, there's this idea about masculinity that...

01:09:23.000 So testosterone levels have dropped dramatically in the West, in the USA, and in the UK, Canada, and so on, over the last 10, 15, 20 years, right?

01:09:32.000 Do you think guys are less masculine in general?

01:09:36.000 And how does that make you feel about modern men?

01:09:39.000 Okay.

01:09:39.000 Real quick.

01:09:40.000 I got to hit the rumble rants.

01:09:41.000 I forgot about that.

01:09:41.000 Yes.

01:09:42.000 I'll read them real quick.

01:09:43.000 Hold that question for one second.

01:09:45.000 All right, Chris, let's pull these up.

01:09:46.000 And guys, thank you so much for the support.

01:09:48.000 All right.

01:09:49.000 Zepper two goes.

01:09:50.000 Last thoughts?

01:09:50.000 Yes, my friend.

01:09:51.000 National Security Agency goes, ladies, is it true that y'all only wash your hair once a week and instead just put your hair in a bum? 0.56

01:09:58.000 Slash use dry shampoo?

01:09:59.000 If not, how often do you wash your hair with soap and water?

01:10:03.000 You don't wash your hair with soap and water?

01:10:05.000 I just wash my hair.

01:10:08.000 And then leave in conditioner.

01:10:10.000 Anybody wear a weave?

01:10:11.000 I mean, I wear a wig, so I don't wash my hair probably like a month later.

01:10:16.000 That's different.

01:10:18.000 I'm a badass.

01:10:20.000 I'm watching my hair, not my hair.

01:10:22.000 2021.

01:10:23.000 Rather watch reruns of your show than 20 minutes of that whatever BS podcast.

01:10:27.000 You guys are the fire.

01:10:27.000 Keep up the good work.

01:10:28.000 Appreciate it, man.

01:10:30.000 We'll be back on YouTube soon.

01:10:31.000 Don't worry.

01:10:32.000 You can never build a kingdom with a woman who still craves attention from the whole village. 1.00

01:10:35.000 I agree.

01:10:36.000 I agree.

01:10:40.000 What do you mean?

01:10:44.000 You want to say that earlier?

01:10:46.000 I want to go to the club.

01:10:47.000 I want to go to the club.

01:10:49.000 I want to go to the club.

01:10:51.000 I know I'm young, but I'm going to leave it settled down.

01:10:56.000 That's the first time I see Mark confused.

01:10:58.000 I want to do what I want to do.

01:11:03.000 If I go out and he tells me, no, I need an explanation.

01:11:08.000 Jealousy.

01:11:09.000 Y'all are a cat, bro.

01:11:15.000 She's 30, so who cares? 0.93

01:11:18.000 She's 30, man.

01:11:19.000 She went outside for 10 plus years.

01:11:23.000 Yeah, she wants to stay home now.

01:11:25.000 I know.

01:11:27.000 I'm 20 years old.

01:11:28.000 You couldn't tell her nothing.

01:11:30.000 Stay inside.

01:11:33.000 I'm going out.

01:11:35.000 Mother Russia. 0.62

01:11:36.000 Mother Russia. 0.62

01:11:37.000 Maybe the woman gets better with the age, so just don't get that one. 1.00

01:11:41.000 No one couldn't even keep her inside. 0.64

01:11:50.000 But to be honest, my ex-husband actually been complaining about me going to the club for work.

01:11:55.000 But why I did that?

01:11:56.000 Because at the beginning, I was staying at home.

01:11:59.000 But then when I see that there is no responsibility, there is no like, you know, he doesn't think about me first.

01:12:04.000 Then I start going and making my money back.

01:12:08.000 I would say if he told you not to go to the club, he's definitely thinking about you first.

01:12:11.000 Was he, I want to say, a lifestyle that you wanted?

01:12:16.000 Was he giving you the house?

01:12:17.000 At the beginning, when we first get married, I've been home, wife, I stay home.

01:12:23.000 I cook, I clean.

01:12:28.000 But then I realized that there is nothing for me.

01:12:31.000 There is just men using me.

01:12:33.000 No, no, no.

01:12:34.000 Hold on.

01:12:34.000 Did he pay the bills for you?

01:12:37.000 I move into his house.

01:12:39.000 What are you worried about?

01:12:41.000 No, no, no.

01:12:42.000 Okay, but...

01:12:43.000 Okay, that's how it happened, like, tomorrow or in...

01:12:47.000 Okay.

01:12:48.000 Thank you.

01:12:49.000 As soon as he, let's say, lose his interest or I do something wrong, he can just kick me out of the house.

01:12:55.000 So...

01:12:55.000 But did he kick you out?

01:12:56.000 Yeah, eventually he did.

01:12:58.000 No.

01:12:58.000 After you went to club or before?

01:13:00.000 No.

01:13:00.000 Okay.

01:13:01.000 Before the club, we started having complications.

01:13:03.000 Like he's being aggressive.

01:13:05.000 And he explained that- Why was he being aggressive?

01:13:08.000 Okay.

01:13:08.000 He said that I'm losing respect or whatever.

01:13:10.000 Maybe.

01:13:10.000 I don't know.

01:13:11.000 I don't remember.

01:13:11.000 It was a couple of years ago.

01:13:12.000 Now she doesn't remember.

01:13:13.000 No, no, no.

01:13:14.000 This was in America.

01:13:15.000 This is in the- Yeah, United States.

01:13:17.000 Okay.

01:13:17.000 What he's saying?

01:13:19.000 I don't know.

01:13:19.000 I didn't love him enough.

01:13:21.000 You know what?

01:13:22.000 He can say whatever.

01:13:23.000 It's not the truth.

01:13:24.000 It's just miscommunication.

01:13:26.000 Why was he saying that?

01:13:26.000 I get it.

01:13:27.000 You were being ungrateful.

01:13:28.000 And then he got mad at you because you were going to...

01:13:30.000 No, man. 1.00

01:13:31.000 I was grateful as fuck. 0.99

01:13:33.000 I swear. 0.99

01:13:33.000 I don't make it up. 0.99

01:13:35.000 I literally...

01:13:36.000 Was he an American dude?

01:13:38.000 Say again?

01:13:38.000 Is he American?

01:13:39.000 Yeah, he's Cuban.

01:13:48.000 If we pull them aside and ask them, yo, what happened?

01:13:51.000 She probably was being ungrateful, disrespectful, annoying, giving him a hard time, etc. 1.00

01:13:56.000 So that's when he told her, yo, Get the fuck out the house, bruh. 1.00

01:13:59.000 Or she's saying, I'm gonna go to the club now. 0.99

01:14:01.000 Or some shit like that. 0.98

01:14:02.000 No, no, no. 0.99

01:14:02.000 It was a little more complicated. 0.99

01:14:04.000 Wait, I'll tell you what happened.

01:14:05.000 So he'd been constantly in the computer.

01:14:08.000 I understand he's a great trading and it was respectful.

01:14:10.000 I tried to, you know, stay away from him and blah, blah, blah.

01:14:13.000 But he don't give me attention at all.

01:14:16.000 Maybe?

01:14:16.000 Oh, here we go.

01:14:17.000 Now we can't.

01:14:18.000 No, Fredo, Fredo, I go to the club.

01:14:19.000 Come on, Fredo.

01:14:26.000 She was just annoying. 1.00

01:14:30.000 She didn't work. 0.99

01:14:35.000 She stayed in the house all day.

01:14:36.000 She got bored.

01:14:36.000 She wanted attention.

01:14:37.000 Maybe she came here from Russia.

01:14:39.000 She didn't have friends like that.

01:14:40.000 So he was like her only like real social situation, but he's always on the computer working.

01:14:44.000 So she gave him a hard ass time and he got annoyed. 1.00

01:14:46.000 He was like, yo, what the fuck? 1.00

01:14:47.000 But he doesn't want me to have a friend. 0.99

01:14:48.000 And as you said, I'm supposed to stay at home.

01:14:50.000 I get it.

01:14:54.000 We need a segment where the guy calls in and tells us the full story.

01:14:57.000 Can you call him right now?

01:15:01.000 Uh, uh, I have no my phone.

01:15:18.000 Listen, man.

01:15:19.000 I went back to him after that, but then it goes back.

01:15:23.000 This is what we're going to do.

01:15:24.000 You're going to call him and then you're going to pass me the phone.

01:15:27.000 And then I'm going to ask the question because I don't want you to bullshit it because I'm going to say exactly what you said.

01:15:32.000 Then I'm going to say, is that true?

01:15:33.000 And tell us the real reason you kicked her out.

01:15:36.000 As a day trader, you need immense focus in a room, locked, no noise.

01:15:41.000 She was annoying him.

01:15:42.000 That's straight up what it was.

01:15:43.000 No, no, no.

01:15:43.000 Wait, I explained one thing because it's important.

01:15:45.000 No, no, no.

01:15:45.000 At the first time, I laughed.

01:15:47.000 At the first time I laughed and he was upset.

01:15:49.000 That's why he divorced me.

01:15:51.000 But the second time, I called police because he was aggressive and he did bad things.

01:15:55.000 That's why.

01:15:59.000 Did he go to jail because of that?

01:16:01.000 No, I called his lawyer because I didn't know, guys.

01:16:06.000 This is my...

01:16:06.000 Okay, so in my country, if I call police, they're going to say, hey, guys, don't do that anymore.

01:16:12.000 And they leave.

01:16:14.000 Yes, they took him.

01:16:16.000 I didn't know that they're going to take him.

01:16:18.000 Did he touch you?

01:16:20.000 Physically?

01:16:22.000 Be honest.

01:16:23.000 To police, I said no, but...

01:16:26.000 Not like he's beating me, but you know, like whatever, like something like that.

01:16:30.000 You, she probably pushed him. 0.89

01:16:31.000 I'm aggressive too.

01:16:34.000 There's more red flags.

01:16:35.000 She was whooping on him and he pushed her off. 0.98

01:16:37.000 There's more red flags in his story.

01:16:39.000 But I became that.

01:16:40.000 I became that once I lived with him the whole year.

01:16:43.000 I haven't been like that.

01:16:44.000 There's more red flags in his story than the Chinese comedies parade, isn't there?

01:16:49.000 To be French, you might as well be Chinese. 0.96

01:16:51.000 Exactly.

01:16:53.000 No.

01:16:54.000 Okay.

01:16:54.000 Call Fredo, man.

01:16:56.000 That nigga needs to be free. 1.00

01:16:57.000 Free Fredo. 0.98

01:16:59.000 Free Fredo in the chat.

01:17:00.000 Free Fredo. 0.85

01:17:01.000 That nigga did no wrong. 1.00

01:17:03.000 But I already said everything.

01:17:05.000 There is nothing to say about that. 0.91

01:17:07.000 What the hell? 0.89

01:17:10.000 This is crazy. 1.00

01:17:13.000 This is fucking crazy. 0.99

01:17:16.000 We're going to put hashtag FreeFredo on the chat. 0.99

01:17:19.000 He has a new relationship right now.

01:17:22.000 Whatever.

01:17:23.000 But not Fredo, Alfred.

01:17:24.000 He's calling himself.

01:17:26.000 Oh, he's calling?

01:17:27.000 Oh my God!

01:17:30.000 Fredo's watching!

01:17:31.000 Yay, Fredo!

01:17:32.000 Hey, what's up, man?

01:17:36.000 How are you?

01:17:38.000 Hey, so, uh, yo, you're on the Fresher Fit Podcast live.

01:17:41.000 I just want to let you know and everybody can hear you.

01:17:42.000 All right, sweet.

01:17:43.000 So your girl's trying to sit here and say that you kicked her out the house while your ex-wife called two times. 1.00

01:17:48.000 She's trying to say that you kicked her out the house or that you were a jerk or whatever it may be. 0.98

01:17:54.000 Give us the real reason what went down and why you were annoyed by her, why you guys ended up... 0.99

01:17:59.000 As a day trader.

01:17:59.000 Yeah, as a day trader.

01:18:04.000 Man, she's not easy, man.

01:18:10.000 She's a wrestler. 1.00

01:18:11.000 She's trying to paint you as a crazy guy on here. 0.78

01:18:13.000 But Fredo, I just go to the club. 0.89

01:18:16.000 She's a wrestler. 1.00

01:18:18.000 Oh no, I already knew that, bro, that you ain't put your hands on her. 0.99

01:18:20.000 Yeah, I never put my hands on her.

01:18:22.000 I was let go free and clear.

01:18:24.000 All that got settled out.

01:18:26.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:18:26.000 Did she hit you first and you kind of had to get her off you?

01:18:30.000 She She even said that. 0.75

01:18:34.000 Mother Russia! 0.88

01:18:34.000 I haven't been like that at the beginning. 0.88

01:18:36.000 He taught me to do that.

01:18:38.000 Like, I teach from him.

01:18:39.000 I learn from you.

01:18:40.000 Now it's his fault that you hit him.

01:18:41.000 Okay.

01:18:42.000 You know the vibes.

01:18:44.000 Right.

01:18:49.000 Question, brother.

01:18:50.000 What caused you to be more demanding?

01:18:54.000 Because she said she wanted to go work at the club after a while, but what caused her to want to go work at the club if you're paying all her bills? 0.80

01:19:01.000 What caused that?

01:19:02.000 She said the club is her first love.

01:19:10.000 She's so broke.

01:19:11.000 You're paying the bills, taking care of her, and she wants to go work at the club still? 1.00

01:19:14.000 That's amazing.

01:19:15.000 I bet.

01:19:17.000 Not to be a victim in this show, but I had a lot of patience with it.

01:19:21.000 I had a lot of patience.

01:19:23.000 And it got to the point where she just was dating other men.

01:19:26.000 That's not true.

01:19:27.000 That's not true.

01:19:29.000 That's not true. 1.00

01:19:32.000 She wouldn't fuck them. 1.00

01:19:33.000 I have no doubt she wouldn't fuck them. 1.00

01:19:38.000 Oh, she was tricking! 1.00

01:19:40.000 She was pimpin'! 1.00

01:19:43.000 Oh my God!

01:19:45.000 That was not the whole story from Mother Russia.

01:19:48.000 Yeah.

01:19:49.000 That wasn't.

01:19:50.000 I know, I know.

01:19:50.000 I'm telling you, it's going to be deceiving, but...

01:19:53.000 Oh no, we knew, bro.

01:19:55.000 We just want to hear your side.

01:19:56.000 Girls always lie about the man's side. 1.00

01:19:58.000 They put the guy as the bad guy, blah, blah, blah.

01:20:02.000 Hey, just ask her this.

01:20:03.000 How many times did I break up with her?

01:20:06.000 Probably just one time, and that's why we ain't together.

01:20:08.000 But she broke up with me so many times.

01:20:10.000 And I know the game.

01:20:11.000 I know how it is.

01:20:12.000 You know, I'm patient.

01:20:13.000 You know, she's a woman. 1.00

01:20:14.000 I know where she's at mentally, but it gets to the point where it's, you know, you're dating other guys.

01:20:21.000 I didn't date him.

01:20:24.000 Hey! 0.99

01:20:26.000 My friend gave me a ride and, like, just...

01:20:39.000 Yeah!

01:20:45.000 I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to play the same game.

01:20:48.000 Eventually, that's it.

01:20:49.000 I can't stay loyal in that regard because at the end of the day, I'm here at home.

01:20:55.000 I'm trying to make some money and she's out there. 0.98

01:20:58.000 Yeah, we don't live together because, first of all, we had to sleep in different bedrooms.

01:21:03.000 It's impossible to sleep with her in the same room.

01:21:05.000 Why?

01:21:07.000 She had her own room.

01:21:09.000 What?

01:21:10.000 You know, you couldn't make even a peep of noise because then if she would wake up... 1.00

01:21:15.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:21:17.000 Sis! 1.00

01:21:18.000 So Fredo...

01:21:19.000 I have a day trader, right?

01:21:21.000 She was paying all the bills.

01:21:22.000 He's like 6'4".

01:21:24.000 And Fredo, I have friends that day trade too as well, right?

01:21:28.000 You need focus.

01:21:29.000 You need to be in a room locked in.

01:21:30.000 Make those trades happen because it's very, very stressful.

01:21:32.000 He just gambled.

01:21:35.000 She said that you were a gambler.

01:21:39.000 You know how the markets are.

01:21:41.000 Yeah, he was a gambler.

01:21:42.000 Exactly.

01:21:44.000 No, a trader and a gambler are two different things.

01:21:46.000 You just said it.

01:21:47.000 But he was a gambler.

01:21:48.000 No, he's saying you know how the markets are.

01:21:49.000 So it's almost like a gambler, but he's not a gambler.

01:21:51.000 He's a trader.

01:21:55.000 He said he doesn't need the money, he just loves numbers.

01:22:01.000 Do you guys see how the brothers stick together, though?

01:22:05.000 No, no, we have to because y'all be lying.

01:22:06.000 And the girls stick together. 0.69

01:22:08.000 I caught her in a couple of L's real quick and the thing is that he was providing everything, taking care of her, etc. 1.00

01:22:15.000 And she's like, oh, but he was an asshole. 1.00

01:22:18.000 He asked her, too. 1.00

01:22:18.000 He's like, hey, tell me if I'm wrong. 1.00

01:22:20.000 I'm just glad you're...

01:22:21.000 Wait, who did it first?

01:22:21.000 Who are you, bro?

01:22:23.000 Him, I never cheat.

01:22:24.000 I still don't sleep with anybody.

01:22:25.000 Yeah, going out on dates is cheating.

01:22:27.000 No, I don't go on a date.

01:22:28.000 I've never been on a date.

01:22:29.000 Except in bags, it's cheating.

01:22:30.000 No, I don't go on a date.

01:22:32.000 Never.

01:22:33.000 Sometimes I'll grab her phone and I'll see the guy texting her as I had her phone in my hand.

01:22:38.000 Wow!

01:22:39.000 Text another guy.

01:22:40.000 That's cheating.

01:22:41.000 And look at her, she got this mark too.

01:22:42.000 But you just said that, is it okay?

01:22:44.000 That's not true.

01:22:45.000 The guy could text me, so what can I do?

01:22:47.000 Why do you have another dude's number?

01:22:48.000 Yeah, have your phone number.

01:22:50.000 From the before, we've been separated for like a year.

01:22:54.000 I'm gonna let you get the last question.

01:22:55.000 Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

01:22:57.000 Ask you this real quick.

01:22:58.000 How about the dude that dropped her off in the Benz right in front of her building while I was inside waiting for her?

01:23:18.000 Get a better girl, man. 0.98

01:23:22.000 You got a lot of money.

01:23:25.000 We already got another one!

01:23:46.000 Guys, I think we found a new segment on the show.

01:23:49.000 Go ahead, grab it, grab it.

01:23:50.000 Basically, we call to verify the truth of the story.

01:23:54.000 Boyfriend, boyfriend, and we say the full story.

01:23:56.000 That's crazy!

01:23:57.000 That's amazing.

01:23:59.000 No, guys, it depends how you see that.

01:24:00.000 First of all, I never cheat on him.

01:24:02.000 I still don't.

01:24:03.000 I've been in love.

01:24:04.000 Too late, too late.

01:24:06.000 No, seriously, my heart broken.

01:24:09.000 And he said, like, I've been dating.

01:24:10.000 I never date.

01:24:11.000 There's nothing, like, to be fun about.

01:24:13.000 He's already dating another girl.

01:24:15.000 Well, I've been, like, all this time I tried to build relationship back up.

01:24:19.000 I never cheat on him.

01:24:20.000 I can say, like, whatever.

01:24:22.000 All my girlfriends know.

01:24:23.000 I never even kiss anybody.

01:24:24.000 I never...

01:24:25.000 What about the guy who drops you off in the bend?

01:24:27.000 Okay, so we leave separated.

01:24:29.000 I see people, not only girlfriends, we leave separated.

01:24:32.000 I work in a club.

01:24:34.000 Excuse me.

01:24:35.000 I never, like, he said something about shopping.

01:24:37.000 I'm buying myself things.

01:24:39.000 Whatever he's thinking, it's in him.

01:24:41.000 Like he said, like, yeah.

01:24:42.000 One day, no, one day he's...

01:24:44.000 One day he's...

01:24:49.000 It's just the same guy.

01:24:50.000 He's a good friend of mine.

01:24:52.000 I'm literally showing him my girlfriends.

01:24:54.000 Maybe he can find the relationship. 0.99

01:24:56.000 He wants to smash you, though. 0.98

01:24:58.000 That friend wants to smash you, I guarantee you. 0.96

01:25:01.000 No, that's okay.

01:25:02.000 Many guys want to smash me, so what can I do?

01:25:05.000 Should I talk to people at all?

01:25:07.000 When we leave separated?

01:25:09.000 When we are separated.

01:25:11.000 But you guys are married, right?

01:25:13.000 Technically.

01:25:14.000 We need your passport back.

01:25:17.000 No, but come on.

01:25:20.000 I understand what he's saying.

01:25:22.000 Putin is angry.

01:25:26.000 Come on, you. 0.98

01:25:27.000 Get it?

01:25:28.000 Okay.

01:25:28.000 Oh my god, Chris.

01:25:29.000 Friday needs to get a nice Ukrainian girl. 1.00

01:25:33.000 What he did, guys.

01:25:37.000 What he did, he slept with me and he slept with her at the same time.

01:25:40.000 So then he still seems...

01:25:43.000 I've been at the house and he bought many small bouquets, like roses, and he put it in one because I see the bags and I call him out and he said, no, no, no, I want artists. 0.97

01:25:56.000 He bullshit me all the time. 0.99

01:25:58.000 He lies so much. 1.00

01:26:00.000 She was a Ukrainian woman? 0.97

01:26:02.000 I don't know.

01:26:03.000 Ask him.

01:26:04.000 You're friends.

01:26:05.000 You're friends.

01:26:06.000 You're friends.

01:26:08.000 They became best friends.

01:26:10.000 And another thing that we were living like I slept yeah I slept in another room like we had whatever we want.

01:26:16.000 He's like 6'4".

01:26:17.000 It's really hard to sleep with him.

01:26:19.000 No he's pretty big guy like and it's hard to sleep with the same bed with him.

01:26:23.000 He's like you know like pushing me and like stuff.

01:26:25.000 That's where you get extra old bed. 0.99

01:26:27.000 All I hear is wah-wah-wah.

01:26:30.000 You know what I hear?

01:26:31.000 I'm grateful.

01:26:32.000 I was grateful, guys.

01:26:34.000 He took my car.

01:26:35.000 He sold it.

01:26:36.000 Like, no, trust me.

01:26:38.000 I don't say that I'm perfect.

01:26:40.000 Yeah, that's true.

01:26:41.000 But he's pretty cruel.

01:26:43.000 Wow.

01:26:44.000 Your brother.

01:26:45.000 That's your all's brother, though.

01:26:46.000 That's your friend.

01:26:47.000 Ain't that your friend?

01:26:48.000 That's your best friend, y'all.

01:26:49.000 Ain't that your friend?

01:26:50.000 Listen, I'm not gonna lie, guys.

01:26:52.000 We found gold.

01:26:53.000 This is a great segment.

01:26:54.000 She tells a story.

01:26:56.000 Guy calls in.

01:26:57.000 Other half of the story.

01:26:58.000 Yeah, for real, man.

01:26:59.000 We're about to start calling exes.

01:27:00.000 Yeah, bro, for real.

01:27:02.000 You need to get this story.

01:27:02.000 You need to speak to this lady's ex as well.

01:27:04.000 Yeah, you want to call him?

01:27:06.000 Yeah.

01:27:09.000 I guarantee your story is way worse than hers.

01:27:12.000 What's his name?

01:27:14.000 Scorpio.

01:27:15.000 No, it is not Jamal.

01:27:17.000 Scorpio is a white guy.

01:27:18.000 It was a white guy?

01:27:19.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:27:20.000 And you know she disrespect the fuck out of him. 1.00

01:27:22.000 He walks all over that nigga. 1.00

01:27:23.000 Damn! 1.00

01:27:24.000 He's never been a Puerto Rican ever again after you. 1.00

01:27:27.000 He's well.

01:27:28.000 Becky, right now as we speak.

01:27:30.000 She's so much more peaceful.

01:27:32.000 Thank God.

01:27:45.000 Do you really think so?

01:27:47.000 Yeah, they do.

01:27:48.000 We'll talk after.

01:27:50.000 Not me, of course.

01:27:52.000 Okay.

01:27:55.000 Putin is... 1.00

01:27:55.000 Damn. 1.00

01:27:56.000 Putin? 1.00

01:27:57.000 Well, he's alive, nigga. 1.00

01:28:00.000 Oh, not coffin, but like chair. 0.88

01:28:01.000 Alright.

01:28:02.000 Okay.

01:28:03.000 Cancel.

01:28:04.000 Fresh.

01:28:04.000 In his chair.

01:28:06.000 Sorry, guys.

01:28:07.000 First, let's watch the news, okay?

01:28:08.000 All right, what do you say?

01:28:09.000 Oh, wait, okay.

01:28:10.000 Tell the rapper not to quit her day job. 1.00

01:28:12.000 Her rapping is ass. 1.00

01:28:13.000 She rapped like B-Rad from Malibu's Most Wanted. 1.00

01:28:15.000 Man, you're such a hater.

01:28:18.000 All right, hold on, hold on.

01:28:21.000 You know what?

01:28:22.000 Since you're so good, go ahead and diss Waylo317 right now.

01:28:24.000 Go ahead, go ahead.

01:28:26.000 Let me just stick to the facts.

01:28:28.000 I never go back as a rap.

01:28:30.000 Baby, you got me this for me.

01:28:33.000 Make it rain and make it worthy.

01:28:35.000 Cause niggas are wasting, they got me. 1.00

01:28:38.000 But really, you ain't never had me. 0.99

01:28:40.000 I'm hotter than a nigga for real. 1.00

01:28:42.000 I don't play that shit and that's real. 1.00

01:28:44.000 Keep it a stack, man. 1.00

01:28:45.000 Keep it real.

01:28:46.000 Cause I know what I want and that's real.

01:28:49.000 Baby, don't sleep on me.

01:28:52.000 I always keep the bag on me.

01:28:55.000 Let me not spill.

01:28:57.000 Let me not spill.

01:29:19.000 We'll take them $20 in the vets, baby. 0.99

01:29:26.000 That's a good, ain't it?

01:29:27.000 Take that, Willow.

01:29:34.000 Allegedly.

01:29:39.000 It's comedy, guys.

01:29:42.000 It's comedy.

01:29:44.000 It's a toy gun.

01:29:47.000 Okay.

01:29:48.000 Moving on smartly.

01:29:49.000 We have here Demetra Denma says, Hey Fresh, I'm a fan of your vlog channel, but I know I can elevate the editing of your videos.

01:29:56.000 How about I edit three of your Columbia vlogs for free and you can let me know what you think.

01:30:00.000 I'm not included.

01:30:01.000 Cool.

01:30:02.000 Just send me a DM on Freshman CEO. Just put like a vlog editor.

01:30:06.000 Unofficial Landy says...

01:30:08.000 Yo! 1.00

01:30:09.000 Use that wallet.

01:30:11.000 Not to quit her day job. 1.00

01:30:12.000 That shit was straight trash. 1.00

01:30:15.000 Y'all are horrible. 1.00

01:30:16.000 That's why I got Sony deals. 1.00

01:30:19.000 You fucking gleams. 1.00

01:30:20.000 Lanes. 1.00

01:30:21.000 Tell them.

01:30:22.000 With or without boyfriends, want the Jason Love experience?

01:30:25.000 Fresh Guarantees, two things.

01:30:26.000 Oh my God.

01:30:27.000 Yes, sir!

01:30:28.000 Your back will be blown out.

01:30:29.000 Your Poonani will return to normal after three days pre-BBC. Yes, sir!

01:30:51.000 What's your results?

01:30:53.000 And if it's negative, awesome, let's do something.

01:30:55.000 If not...

01:30:56.000 What made you think that he had STDs?

01:30:58.000 No, I was just... 0.99

01:31:00.000 Well, technically it was Fresh's balls. 0.97

01:31:02.000 Yeah, so that's messed up, man. 0.98

01:31:05.000 Yo, Fresh. 0.99

01:31:05.000 We just gonna talk about his balls like that? 0.99

01:31:08.000 Sorry, not sorry. 0.99

01:31:11.000 He's a man of God.

01:31:13.000 Man of God.

01:31:14.000 Okay.

01:31:14.000 Yeah, there you go.

01:31:14.000 Fresh's a man of God.

01:31:15.000 Thank you very much.

01:31:17.000 Cam two times goes, unpopular opinion.

01:31:19.000 I blame Neo for exciting men into wanting independent women and being soft and inspiring women to be misindependent with his songs.

01:31:26.000 P.S. I love his songs in R&B. I mean, but you gotta remember, bro, unless the girl's from like... 1.00

01:31:33.000 The early 2000s and shit. 0.99

01:31:34.000 That shit's a bit boober, isn't it? 1.00

01:31:36.000 Yeah, bro. 1.00

01:31:37.000 These younger girls don't even know who Neo is. 0.96

01:31:39.000 Stop it.

01:31:41.000 Wasn't Neo caught up being a player?

01:31:44.000 Well, you're older, so you would know.

01:31:46.000 No offense.

01:31:47.000 But these younger girls, they're not going to know.

01:31:49.000 I'm younger, but I know who Neo is now.

01:31:51.000 Alright, name three songs from Neo right now.

01:32:11.000 Okay, but I didn't say that.

01:32:12.000 I can't think like I am, but I smoke a lot.

01:32:21.000 Shame on New York, man.

01:32:23.000 Cam's sister, Myron Fresh, will y'all ever do a show with y'all shirts off?

01:32:27.000 Yes!

01:32:28.000 Let's do it right now.

01:32:30.000 I'll do it right now.

01:32:31.000 Why not?

01:32:32.000 Give me three months, then I'll do it. 1.00

01:32:35.000 Right now, I'm not doing that shit. 0.99

01:32:37.000 Myron, you look good right now, though. 1.00

01:32:41.000 Oh! 0.60

01:32:42.000 Wait, don't you have a man?

01:32:44.000 Oh! 0.60

01:32:50.000 That don't matter, bro.

01:32:53.000 I've been together for two years.

01:32:55.000 I'm not going to fuck that up.

01:32:57.000 I'm giving you a compliment to safety.

01:32:59.000 You look nice.

01:33:01.000 I appreciate that.

01:33:01.000 Thank you.

01:33:02.000 That don't matter.

01:33:05.000 Yeah, fresh.

01:33:07.000 You got this. 0.98

01:33:08.000 What the hell? 0.95

01:33:17.000 That is true. 0.97

01:33:20.000 Is that right?

01:33:22.000 Did you forget about Jesus' first wife?

01:33:28.000 Lilith?

01:33:29.000 That's not true.

01:33:30.000 That is not canon.

01:33:32.000 That's actually blasphemy.

01:33:33.000 Is that what it is?

01:33:35.000 Who was Lilith?

01:33:37.000 The devil's...

01:33:38.000 No, you mean the first Adam wife? 0.76

01:33:40.000 Yeah.

01:33:41.000 She was.

01:33:42.000 She doesn't want to surrender.

01:33:45.000 She doesn't want to listening.

01:33:46.000 And that's why.

01:33:47.000 Yeah.

01:33:47.000 I mean, that is a story, but it's not canon.

01:33:49.000 But if it was going to be true, it is going to be the devil's like, sorry, not.

01:33:53.000 Yeah, definitely.

01:33:54.000 She was.

01:33:55.000 For him, yeah.

01:33:56.000 And then, guys, from this point forward, because we got, like, I think 25,000 y'all watching, we'll go 20 and up for the Rumble rants, but I'll read the rest of the ones that came through.

01:34:04.000 So, any ladies with or without boyfriends want the Jason Love experience? 0.99

01:34:07.000 Fresh guarantees two things.

01:34:08.000 Once again, your back will be blown out, and two, your Panani will return to normal after three days pre-BBC. Thanks, Fresh Balls.

01:34:15.000 You're really adamant about that.

01:34:16.000 Fresh Balls.

01:34:16.000 Angelo Dunlao goes, ladies, top three preferences for your future husband and what three reasons should he choose you?

01:34:23.000 That's actually a pretty damn good question.

01:34:25.000 Let me go ahead and get through the rest of these rents.

01:34:28.000 Save that one real quick, Chris.

01:34:30.000 Wealth the barber goes, detox the name.

01:34:39.000 That's our official DJ as well.

01:34:42.000 When we hit one million on Freshman Clips, he will be there.

01:34:45.000 I'm crying.

01:34:46.000 Why they said Franny like they know me.

01:34:49.000 The one more party?

01:34:50.000 He's going to be there.

01:34:53.000 We're going to do it again.

01:34:54.000 We're going to do it again.

01:34:55.000 We're going to get that big yap again for y'all when we hit one million on the Clips channel.

01:34:59.000 Let's do this.

01:35:02.000 Detox.

01:35:03.000 Detox.

01:35:08.000 If you get 500k on Rumble, let's do a party as well. 0.99

01:35:12.000 Oh, damn. 0.99

01:35:12.000 How about that? 0.99

01:35:13.000 It's a vibe.

01:35:14.000 It might not be as big as one mil, but it'll be lit. 0.63

01:35:16.000 Okay, we'll get another big ass y'all for y'all, man. 0.99

01:35:18.000 There you go. 0.94

01:35:19.000 It'll be a great time.

01:35:21.000 It costs a lot of money to do that party.

01:35:23.000 We'll do it for y'all, man. 1.00

01:35:24.000 Fuck it. 1.00

01:35:24.000 We'll do it for you guys. 1.00

01:35:26.000 It's like, what, like 70k?

01:35:27.000 It's a lot, bro.

01:35:28.000 It's a lot, but we love you guys.

01:35:29.000 We'll do it.

01:35:30.000 Body count matters, Franny. 0.99

01:35:32.000 Yeah. 0.98

01:35:33.000 She and her husband had texted the guy that he was the best sex and left her sore. 1.00

01:35:37.000 It's online. 0.93

01:35:38.000 New hoes compare men. 1.00

01:35:39.000 Wide vagina energy. 1.00

01:35:41.000 I'm not going to lie. 0.98

01:35:42.000 You had me there, but you lost me.

01:35:44.000 All right.

01:35:46.000 Natalya in my booty.

01:35:48.000 Okay. 0.93

01:35:51.000 Nut all in my booty.

01:35:53.000 Okay.

01:35:53.000 Respect to Walter.

01:35:55.000 Average looking with stutter and limited vocabulary, but still pulling.

01:35:55.000 Being out of shape.

01:35:58.000 We got hope with a little bit of clout and money.

01:36:00.000 Thank you, brother.

01:36:01.000 Showing us the way.

01:36:01.000 Who's Walter?

01:36:02.000 Who's Walter?

01:36:05.000 Two girls over for Myra look like she hit Ninjas? 1.00

01:36:11.000 Niggas, niggas. 1.00

01:36:12.000 Oh, she does. 0.99

01:36:16.000 These grannies need the cobwebs knocked off right off the plastic protector on their sofa. 1.00

01:36:21.000 They'll send you a check for $12 on your birthday if you do it right.

01:36:24.000 Okay.

01:36:24.000 Wow.

01:36:27.000 Shlana goes, good to know that Russian spent her youth energy freaky sex years on that bad boy. 1.00

01:36:33.000 She's now ready to offer leftovers to the next available simp white knight. 1.00

01:36:36.000 Do you have anything you want to say back, Kamrad?

01:36:38.000 To be honest, I don't really understand.

01:36:41.000 It's good to know that the Russians spent years on the bad boy. 1.00

01:36:47.000 And now he's sleeping with another girl while he's sleeping with me.

01:36:50.000 And you guys all support that.

01:36:52.000 Good job. 1.00

01:36:53.000 Wait, we're not the ones telling you to go fuck him. 1.00

01:36:58.000 You support him while he will be intimate with me and with her. 1.00

01:37:04.000 You're still together?

01:37:05.000 No way, no, but he was like that.

01:37:06.000 Not right now. 0.99

01:37:07.000 Alright, yeah, we'll kill Twitch. 0.99

01:37:09.000 We're gonna kill Twitch tomorrow, guys. 0.99

01:37:12.000 We're gonna kill Twitch tomorrow, Facebook. 0.98

01:37:15.000 Oh, you gotta get in Twitch jail, too. 0.98

01:37:20.000 Okay, come on over, ninjas. 0.97

01:37:22.000 Okay. 1.00

01:37:23.000 Sorry, she's blaming us for fucking her ex. 1.00

01:37:25.000 That makes sense. 1.00

01:37:27.000 That's all you, nigga. 1.00

01:37:28.000 What are you talking about? 1.00

01:37:29.000 You just said, I'm still fucking him and it's your fault. 1.00

01:37:31.000 No, no, no. 1.00

01:37:32.000 When you support that behavior that while we've been together, he sleep with me and with that girl.

01:37:38.000 And of course, now he find the girl and he blaming me by seeing other guys.

01:37:41.000 When they're together, we supported...

01:37:44.000 How long ago was that?

01:37:45.000 A month.

01:37:46.000 I got a question, though.

01:37:47.000 A month?

01:37:48.000 Wait, so he was watching our podcast?

01:37:50.000 Yeah.

01:37:52.000 He was watching our podcast.

01:38:00.000 He was just playing 515, jumping in the Mercedes-Benz's.

01:38:05.000 She owns a Mercedes-Benz, so let's make a chick bend over. 1.00

01:38:10.000 If Mike Shorty is out here in niggas cars to get in drops home, bruh. 1.00

01:38:14.000 He must be on fucking bitches. 1.00

01:38:16.000 If you're going to be in another dude's Mercedes-Benz, he's going to make another bitch bend over. 1.00

01:38:22.000 Guys, I'm not America and you don't know that. 0.99

01:38:27.000 Okay, comrade.

01:38:32.000 Fresh, why a dog in my girl's DMs? 1.00

01:38:36.000 He gets played, bro. 1.00

01:38:37.000 Wait, did you DM bitches from your dog? 1.00

01:38:39.000 No, no, that's him! 1.00

01:38:41.000 That's him!

01:38:42.000 Wait, who?

01:38:43.000 Huh?

01:38:44.000 That's not me.

01:38:44.000 I'm just kidding.

01:38:45.000 You know, Fresh actually has a random account that's like Fresh's dog and he'd be like doing his own thing.

01:38:54.000 It's not me.

01:39:01.000 I lost my login to that account, so I don't know who's doing that because it's not me.

01:39:04.000 If someone's doing it.

01:39:12.000 Bender the offender goes, I think it's funny that women will make a high value man pay for a date since the high value man is more rare than a woman. 1.00

01:39:17.000 He is giving his time to someone who may not be worthy.

01:39:21.000 True.

01:39:21.000 No.

01:39:22.000 I love the spoil.

01:39:23.000 What does HVM mean?

01:39:25.000 You know the problem with that message?

01:39:28.000 He's right from the perspective of this show, but what it fails to understand is that women don't see it like that. 0.80

01:39:33.000 Women's not going to be going, hmm, yes, this is a high-value man, and therefore he's more rare than me. 0.98

01:39:37.000 Like, she's not going to fucking see it like that. 0.99

01:39:38.000 She's just like, let me see the fucking cash. 1.00

01:39:40.000 Most of them think that they're special and that they're equal to you, even if you're actually superior to them. 0.99

01:39:45.000 Can I ask you a question?

01:39:46.000 Guys, you don't pay because to simp.

01:39:49.000 You pay to lead the date and you dictate the terms.

01:39:52.000 That's why you pay.

01:39:53.000 And actually, you go where you want to go, so it doesn't matter.

01:39:56.000 Never let a woman pay, bro. 1.00

01:39:57.000 You pay because you handle your shit. 1.00

01:39:59.000 You're just fucking right. 1.00

01:40:00.000 Of course I'm going to pay for the fucking date because I'm not a fucking broke-ass type one. 0.99

01:40:05.000 You had something that you wanted to say before? 0.99

01:40:08.000 Yes, I do.

01:40:10.000 I want to ask you, what is your definition of a high-valued woman? 0.99

01:40:15.000 There's no such thing.

01:40:16.000 There's no such thing.

01:40:17.000 He just told you he's the leader.

01:40:17.000 What?

01:40:22.000 He's the leader.

01:40:23.000 So what's your idea?

01:40:24.000 You're a woman.

01:40:26.000 This is what it is.

01:40:27.000 There's no such thing as a high-value woman on her own. 1.00

01:40:31.000 A woman doesn't become a high-value woman unless she has a high-value man that claims her. 1.00

01:40:35.000 So I wouldn't be of value if I didn't have a man claiming me?

01:40:39.000 You need a high value man claiming you. 1.00

01:40:42.000 As his girl.

01:40:43.000 Because women attain the status of the man that they're with. 1.00

01:40:46.000 No one cares about a woman's status on her own. 1.00

01:40:48.000 It only matters when you're with a man that's of value.

01:40:51.000 Hillary Clinton.

01:40:52.000 Bill Clinton.

01:40:53.000 There you go.

01:40:55.000 You know what I mean?

01:40:56.000 So that's what it is.

01:40:57.000 Because here's the thing.

01:40:58.000 The reason why there's no such thing as a high-value woman is because all women have value. 1.00

01:41:02.000 Because as soon as a girl turns 18, bam, she's on the market, she has value. 1.00

01:41:06.000 So since all of you have value...

01:41:08.000 What's value to you?

01:41:10.000 The ability to attract the opposite gender fairly easily.

01:41:14.000 But, I mean, in that sense, it tends to be younger women at their fertile peak who have the most value, if you're looking at it in that sense.

01:41:22.000 Your prime years.

01:41:23.000 Exactly.

01:41:24.000 So that will be the equivalent.

01:41:26.000 If you think of... 0.52

01:41:27.000 And this is why you get these fucking big arguments, don't you, about a guy in his 30s who's wealthy, you know, reaches his peak, whereas actually... 0.93

01:41:36.000 Really, probably a woman in her 20s. 1.00

01:41:38.000 Really, to be honest, is at the peak.

01:41:42.000 Okay, so where are we at here?

01:41:45.000 Last chat?

01:41:46.000 Last one.

01:41:47.000 And that's a controversial take, but I genuinely don't think that there's such a thing as a high-value woman on her own. 0.99

01:41:55.000 Ladies, if you're of a lower socioeconomic status than your man, I want you to remember this analogy.

01:42:01.000 The peasant does not tell the king how to run his kingdom.

01:42:04.000 Yeah.

01:42:07.000 Ayo, this segment, we're afraid of fire, exposing the lies.

01:42:09.000 Hey, man.

01:42:11.000 That is a new segment on the show.

01:42:12.000 How am I lie?

01:42:15.000 I don't understand.

01:42:16.000 No, no, you left out certain points.

01:42:19.000 But there is more behind that.

01:42:21.000 Like, I can tell the whole stories and then I could be, I don't want to be a victim, but I didn't do anything wrong.

01:42:27.000 But you can address, you can picture, like, you know, my English, first of all, the culture is different.

01:42:33.000 And of course, you know what to say, but in the reality, I'm pretty innocent in this case.

01:42:38.000 Yeah, maybe like whatever.

01:42:39.000 You can say, yeah, she left, but so what?

01:42:41.000 All my friends have good cars and stuff.

01:42:44.000 Male friends.

01:42:45.000 No, I mean, girlfriends, I don't really like...

01:42:48.000 But there were clearly guy friends involved here.

01:42:50.000 Yeah.

01:42:51.000 He did say a guy dropped you off.

01:42:53.000 I leave separated with him.

01:42:55.000 He kicked me out of the house.

01:42:57.000 I pay my bills.

01:42:58.000 He said we're not together, that we are blah, blah, blah.

01:43:01.000 And I mean...

01:43:02.000 Why did he kick you out, though?

01:43:04.000 Because he...

01:43:05.000 Because I called police.

01:43:07.000 No, he said that you said...

01:43:08.000 So you got him arrested.

01:43:09.000 Guys, I couldn't do nothing else.

01:43:11.000 He said things...

01:43:12.000 I don't want to say that, but he said in certain things that I was like, you know...

01:43:17.000 And we know that he didn't put his hands on you.

01:43:18.000 He said...

01:43:19.000 Do you really think that only, like, abuse can be only if he put his hands on you?

01:43:23.000 Oh, wow.

01:43:23.000 It's emotional then.

01:43:25.000 Oh, wow.

01:43:25.000 Wow.

01:43:26.000 That's dangerous.

01:43:26.000 This is dangerous.

01:43:27.000 Okay, I don't say that...

01:43:29.000 He went to jail for no reason.

01:43:30.000 No, no, no, he wasn't in jail.

01:43:31.000 He was there just one day and I go around...

01:43:33.000 He was in jail!

01:43:35.000 Guys, I didn't want to go to the jail.

01:43:37.000 I just didn't know what to do.

01:43:38.000 I have no parents here.

01:43:40.000 I have no friends here.

01:43:41.000 You called the police.

01:43:44.000 Guys, where am I supposed to call?

01:43:46.000 No, I called police to help me.

01:43:48.000 I have no mother, I have no father, I have no friends.

01:43:51.000 She's not from here, so the Lord in Russia are probably from America. 0.74

01:43:54.000 I have no friends.

01:43:55.000 I'm going to I live with my husband.

01:43:57.000 But didn't you just say right now that you have girlfriends that have...

01:44:00.000 Nice cars.

01:44:01.000 Later, when I left, of course, it's like a year later.

01:44:05.000 Okay, but I do want to say this because this highlighted to me when he said it.

01:44:11.000 He said that you told him that The club is your first love.

01:44:15.000 Yes.

01:44:16.000 What do you mean by that?

01:44:17.000 No, I know that came out of your mouth because I've had somebody tell me that back in the past.

01:44:22.000 So can you explain that?

01:44:24.000 That's a very specific club.

01:44:25.000 I tell you that, like, I didn't work the whole year. 0.97

01:44:28.000 Once I see that I don't feel secure with this man, that he doesn't listen, that he doesn't give a fuck, that all he's doing, like, he's watching me if I'm good enough for him. 0.97

01:44:37.000 I don't feel myself, like, loved. 0.89

01:44:39.000 No, he maybe loved me in his case, but I don't feel like I can make the kids with this But if he makes money,

01:44:55.000 how do you not feel secure?

01:44:56.000 I'm not understanding that part.

01:44:58.000 Were you just trying to get attention out of him and then he wasn't reciprocating attention from you?

01:45:04.000 What is it?

01:45:05.000 Girl, I understand.

01:45:06.000 My years, as you all say, like, the girls, as old as it gets, it's not getting better, right?

01:45:10.000 And I don't feel like...

01:45:12.000 At that time, I had no papers, right?

01:45:14.000 I'm in a foreign country.

01:45:16.000 All my hopes was in him.

01:45:18.000 Trust me, I was like...

01:45:19.000 So he sold you a dream?

01:45:21.000 Yeah.

01:45:22.000 Okay.

01:45:22.000 No, he didn't.

01:45:23.000 Did he know you stripping or he knew you after stripping?

01:45:28.000 I tell you that, that I was dancing.

01:45:30.000 And he knew you before you was dancing?

01:45:32.000 He loved me because of that.

01:45:34.000 It's not really stripping.

01:45:37.000 We've been dating once and he didn't really like, like whatever, he liked me but not as much.

01:45:41.000 But then he see me once in a club and then he's like, oh, give me your number.

01:45:45.000 I said, you had my number, but he blocked me.

01:45:47.000 Anyway, and then, no, literally he loved me because I was in a club, I guess.

01:45:52.000 This is so toxic.

01:45:52.000 This story is so dysfunctional, isn't it?

01:45:55.000 You made the right decision.

01:45:59.000 Let's watch it right now.

01:46:01.000 Bro, there's a bunch of air right now.

01:46:02.000 Yo, man.

01:46:04.000 This is a true mommy love story.

01:46:06.000 Yeah, and I don't know if you noticed, I don't have to be a victim, but then she goes into how he did everything wrong and everything else.

01:46:11.000 No, but he said the same.

01:46:12.000 He doesn't want to be a victim either. 0.99

01:46:14.000 I mean, I would say, you know, it seems to me like you did more shit to him than he did to you. 0.99

01:46:19.000 Not true. 0.99

01:46:21.000 The first year I didn't and I just know who he is, but I loved him.

01:46:25.000 So what can I do?

01:46:26.000 I'm supposed to play by the rules, you know, and he he put it.

01:46:29.000 He said it like, trust me, like I'm from Russia.

01:46:32.000 The man always first in Russia.

01:46:34.000 It's not like he I wasn't raised here and I'm a little bit different.

01:46:37.000 And it's like they say, don't wake up.

01:46:40.000 His new name is Fredo Bang.

01:46:41.000 Shout out to you, bro.

01:46:42.000 Fredo Bang!

01:46:43.000 Fredo Bang in the building.

01:46:45.000 Abdul get the rocks.

01:46:49.000 Let's do questions, comments, and last thoughts on the show.

01:46:53.000 So we'll start here.

01:46:54.000 Any questions or comments for us on the panel or last thoughts on the show?

01:46:57.000 Oh wait, no.

01:46:58.000 We did have one more question that was pretty good.

01:47:00.000 Oh yeah, that one question.

01:47:02.000 Masculinity. 1.00

01:47:04.000 Oh shit, and the masculinity one too. 1.00

01:47:07.000 Well, We made a promise to the girls. 1.00

01:47:09.000 So keep that in mind.

01:47:11.000 We will fly through these then.

01:47:13.000 Chris, pull up the...

01:47:16.000 Actually, no, Troy, you had it first.

01:47:18.000 Go ahead, hit your question on masculinity. 0.98

01:47:19.000 The question was, testosterone has fallen in the West and across the world over the last 15-20 years.

01:47:25.000 Do you think men are less masculine today?

01:47:27.000 And if so, how does that make you feel about modern men?

01:47:31.000 We can start here and then work our way.

01:47:34.000 I believe, yes, men are more feminine now.

01:47:39.000 They're more sensitive with things like...

01:47:44.000 I don't know.

01:47:45.000 Anything you do, anything...

01:47:47.000 Men look for attention, too. 0.88

01:47:49.000 I'm not even going to lie.

01:47:50.000 Like, yeah, women look for attention, but men do, too. 1.00

01:47:54.000 Like, men still are going to want to have... 0.98

01:47:57.000 They're going to bitch at you, for example. 1.00

01:47:59.000 You go out, they're going to bitch at you, and that's them getting your attention because, oh, you're going out, you know? 1.00

01:48:04.000 So they're always going to...

01:48:07.000 But do you think that makes men less attractive?

01:48:10.000 I don't like that.

01:48:11.000 I like me, a masculine man that could put him and me together.

01:48:18.000 The only problem with this is, I feel like they're framing a masculine man as a guy who doesn't care if they go to the club and make a hoe of themselves. 0.99

01:48:26.000 No, no, no.

01:48:27.000 Do you know what I'm saying?

01:48:28.000 It's like that's the framing of it.

01:48:30.000 That's the example I'm giving.

01:48:33.000 I agree with the overall context that guys need to be more masculine, but I'm not sure that Are you paying attention?

01:48:43.000 Sorry, go ahead. 0.99

01:48:44.000 I agree with the overall, you know, analysis that men need to be more masculine, but I'm not sure that framing guys, he's pissed off because you want to go to the club and like fucking, you know, shake your booty. 0.99

01:48:54.000 That is making him feminine. 0.97

01:48:56.000 I'm not sure that is a...

01:48:57.000 No, it's showing their insecurities.

01:49:00.000 That's feminine to me.

01:49:02.000 Like, I don't know.

01:49:03.000 A guy showing his insecurities is feminine to me.

01:49:06.000 I have a question.

01:49:06.000 I don't like that.

01:49:07.000 You like to argue?

01:49:08.000 You like to argue?

01:49:09.000 Sometimes.

01:49:11.000 That's a little feminine. 0.98

01:49:14.000 Alright, I just feel like You shouldn't be going back and forth or bickering with a female. 0.99

01:49:21.000 You get what I'm saying?

01:49:22.000 Females bickering. 1.00

01:49:23.000 We do the bickering.

01:49:24.000 We do the back and forth. 1.00

01:49:25.000 We do the bitch shit, the catty shit, the... 1.00

01:49:27.000 Oh, you mean do I like to argue with women? 1.00

01:49:30.000 As a male? 1.00

01:49:30.000 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

01:49:31.000 Do I like to argue with women? 1.00

01:49:33.000 Is that what you mean?

01:49:34.000 No, no, of course I don't.

01:49:34.000 You're a female.

01:49:35.000 Like, you're a lady. 1.00

01:49:36.000 Do you like to argue with her?

01:49:38.000 No, of course I don't.

01:49:39.000 Oh, but...

01:49:41.000 You debt it, right?

01:49:42.000 You say, I'm not going to lie, we're not going to argue right now.

01:49:44.000 I told you what it is, and that's that.

01:49:46.000 That's what I don't like.

01:49:47.000 And that's what I feel like men are becoming now.

01:49:49.000 Everything has to be a bicker back and forth.

01:49:51.000 No, you're a man.

01:49:52.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:49:52.000 Say what you got to say, and that's that.

01:49:54.000 Just like he said, right? 1.00

01:49:55.000 Shut the fuck up and stay in the crib. 1.00

01:49:56.000 Okay, cool. 1.00

01:49:57.000 That's it.

01:49:58.000 Stand on it.

01:49:59.000 Don't go like, oh, no.

01:50:00.000 Oh, no, baby, you shouldn't go to my class because there's going to be someone's guys.

01:50:07.000 But you just said that you had an issue with that.

01:50:09.000 I said, I don't like that. 1.00

01:50:11.000 You just wanted to tell you, shut the fuck up and sin aside. 1.00

01:50:12.000 That's what you want. 1.00

01:50:13.000 I just don't like that sassy shit. 1.00

01:50:15.000 Like, I'm not masculine, but, like, I'm alpha. 1.00

01:50:18.000 I'm very alpha.

01:50:18.000 I know what I want.

01:50:19.000 Here we go.

01:50:21.000 So, I don't gotta say that.

01:50:22.000 Y'all know exactly.

01:50:22.000 But I'm saying, though, like, I want a man that could double that, like...

01:50:26.000 No. 0.99

01:50:26.000 Girl, shut up. 0.99

01:50:27.000 Stop talking. 1.00

01:50:28.000 Like, I'm not... 0.99

01:50:28.000 I don't want the nigga that's going to keep going. 0.99

01:50:30.000 I don't want this shit out of you, but I'm saying I don't want nobody to keep going back. 1.00

01:50:35.000 I got it. 0.99

01:50:36.000 Like, time up.

01:50:40.000 Like, come on, babe.

01:50:41.000 Time up. 0.99

01:50:41.000 Like, you're fucking up. 0.99

01:50:43.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait. 0.99

01:50:43.000 So, so, so, so question New York. 0.99

01:50:45.000 Do you really hit niggas? 1.00

01:50:46.000 I do.

01:50:47.000 Yeah, really.

01:50:48.000 And do they hit you back or no?

01:50:50.000 They do. 1.00

01:50:51.000 Oh no, not no hardcore shit. 0.99

01:50:56.000 A nigga never punched me in my face or nothing like that. 1.00

01:50:59.000 I'll slap you. 1.00

01:51:01.000 I'll fight. 1.00

01:51:02.000 I like a nigga that's A nigga. 1.00

01:51:12.000 Like, you're in your body. 1.00

01:51:13.000 Be a man.

01:51:13.000 You're a man.

01:51:14.000 Yeah, but you know what?

01:51:16.000 I won't lie, because I have family from New York, the Bronx BX. Just a hood, ain't it? 0.94

01:51:19.000 Yeah, I mean, girls like you are very annoying with Papa Don. 1.00

01:51:22.000 Like, we'll fuck you, and we'll tune you out. 1.00

01:51:25.000 But, you know, after, like, you know, the first week or two, like, it's great sex, but goddamn you. 1.00

01:51:29.000 That's why me and you won't work. 1.00

01:51:31.000 Hey, hey, hey, hey, listen, thank God.

01:51:33.000 Hey, thank God, because my ears right now, I'm just tuning you out right now.

01:51:37.000 That's you, babe.

01:51:38.000 Yeah, we won't work, but. 0.95

01:51:39.000 Chris, you have talked about sex.

01:51:40.000 She's like, I'm not sassy, so why would you want to be sassy?

01:51:53.000 The question was, masculinity, is it dying in men?

01:52:04.000 Yeah, and is that making men less attractive overall?

01:52:06.000 I think it's a little bit changing.

01:52:09.000 Just the masculine now, it's not the same as before, but it's still masculine.

01:52:13.000 Yeah, okay.

01:52:14.000 I still think there's a framing problem here.

01:52:17.000 Because if you imagine whatever ultimate alpha male figure that you would have from history, like Alexander the Great or Genghis Khan or something, his masculinity is intact, right?

01:52:29.000 His masculinity is unimpeachable.

01:52:31.000 If his girl was going to the club... 1.00

01:52:34.000 And he complained about it.

01:52:35.000 You wouldn't then say, oh, he's feminine because his girl's going to the club. 1.00

01:52:38.000 It's just something that would never have been in question at that point.

01:52:41.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:52:41.000 I don't think it undermines the dude's masculinity.

01:52:44.000 I just think that...

01:52:45.000 I think that...

01:52:48.000 Modern society has enabled, obviously, women like to go to the club, but they also love attention. 1.00

01:52:52.000 So I think you guys want to milk the attention, but you also then want to sort of almost blame the guys for it by saying, oh, but these guys are so fucking feminine, they can't handle it. 0.98

01:53:01.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.98

01:53:02.000 Now I think that.

01:53:02.000 Now I think because they're so sassy, we start to just blame them.

01:53:06.000 Like, oh, it's because of them that we're acting this way now.

01:53:09.000 Do you think that you act...

01:53:10.000 More that way because of the way the men are.

01:53:13.000 I act more masculine because of how men are. 0.92

01:53:17.000 That's interesting.

01:53:18.000 Why are you going to buy me a drink?

01:53:19.000 I will buy you a drink.

01:53:21.000 Don't ask me to buy you a drink.

01:53:23.000 Are you a girl?

01:53:23.000 I do that.

01:53:26.000 That's female-like. 1.00

01:53:28.000 Why are you asking me to buy you a drink?

01:53:32.000 That's female-like. 1.00

01:53:34.000 Interesting.

01:53:37.000 I feel like they still have their masculinity.

01:53:41.000 It's just I feel like they try to adapt to what's What about Dominican Republic, though?

01:53:46.000 That's still pretty...

01:53:47.000 I mean, I moved when I was six years old to the US, but they are very strong-rooted.

01:53:57.000 Yeah.

01:53:59.000 Again, I don't think it has died.

01:54:02.000 Their masculinity is more of they try to adapt to what's happening now and, I don't know, carry themselves.

01:54:09.000 I feel way to be more hip or more...

01:54:13.000 I don't know.

01:54:14.000 Try to remember that women's... 1.00

01:54:17.000 In some cultures, I think masculinity is still very prevalent, you know, like in probably Russia, probably Cuba as well, probably fucking Fredo, the fucking Cuban drug lord, you know, sort of like... 0.99

01:54:27.000 And some of the Latin countries, I think masculinity is still very, very, very prevalent. 0.98

01:54:32.000 But I think in the West, it's compromised.

01:54:35.000 Yeah, I agree.

01:54:36.000 I agree with that for sure.

01:54:39.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that it's compromised in the United States because women are more masculine here? 1.00

01:54:43.000 Well, they're saying it's for the men's fault.

01:54:44.000 We have to...

01:54:48.000 Five years ago, women were not like this. 1.00

01:54:51.000 Yes or no?

01:54:53.000 We weren't born like this.

01:54:56.000 We weren't born masculine like this. 0.83

01:54:58.000 We were born soft, innocent.

01:55:03.000 We're getting to peak ratchet now.

01:55:05.000 Yeah.

01:55:07.000 What was the next question?

01:55:10.000 Well, what I honestly believe that killed masculinity in a sense is the past 10 years where they have access to internet, they have access to things that they could do in solitude,

01:55:26.000 for example, porn.

01:55:27.000 Guys could see it How many girls that they can, so they become desensitized to like actually trying to talk to women. 0.95

01:55:34.000 A lot of men nowadays, they're like, how can I say they're more in the house than they are working, than being outside, actually providing, being the protecting source.

01:55:44.000 So, it's a very small, small, like, percentage of men that actually go out there, get the money, be that strong man.

01:55:51.000 They're fit. 1.00

01:55:52.000 They're, like, on their shit. 1.00

01:55:53.000 And then it divides the rest because everybody else is just a broke-ass nigga trying to make it, so... 1.00

01:55:59.000 Okay. 0.99

01:56:00.000 What about you?

01:56:01.000 That was good.

01:56:02.000 I believe that masculinity...

01:56:04.000 Why do you put it away?

01:56:05.000 It's to the mic.

01:56:07.000 Just leave it there.

01:56:08.000 Don't even touch the mic.

01:56:10.000 It's movable.

01:56:11.000 She could put it close.

01:56:12.000 She'd keep putting it away.

01:56:13.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:56:14.000 Put it close and don't even touch it.

01:56:15.000 Listen!

01:56:17.000 I feel masculinity is at an all-time low right now.

01:56:21.000 And it's primarily because, like you said, I see the internet.

01:56:26.000 So we have men teaching men how to go from simps to pimps.

01:56:32.000 Is that right?

01:56:33.000 Come on! 0.61

01:56:35.000 So we have men that are basking into their femininity. 0.99

01:56:39.000 We have men that are stealing our own terms.

01:56:44.000 And it is...

01:56:49.000 I don't think what you're saying. 0.99

01:56:51.000 What they do, they actually help men to become more masculine versus the ones that are watching from home that are fat, that can't get no bitches, that can't even go outside and socialize with girls. 1.00

01:57:02.000 So they come and watch this show to get pointers to become a better man. 0.97

01:57:06.000 So let me ask you this.

01:57:07.000 So then what is the definition?

01:57:08.000 What is the meaning behind from simps to pimps?

01:57:11.000 What's so wrong about a man being a gentleman?

01:57:14.000 Wow, there's a difference between being a simp and being a gentleman. 0.52

01:57:17.000 Please educate me on that.

01:57:19.000 A simp is someone who is obsequious is the word. 1.00

01:57:23.000 A simp is somebody who is submissive, who puts himself underneath the woman and pedestalizes the woman. 0.97

01:57:31.000 A gentleman is somebody who can own his masculinity and treat a woman well. 0.99

01:57:36.000 He's classy in the way that he behaves, but he doesn't take any shit. 0.99

01:57:39.000 And I think there's a big difference between the two. 1.00

01:57:41.000 I think a simp is pussy whipped and a gentleman knows who he is. 1.00

01:57:45.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:57:45.000 And who he has. 0.99

01:57:46.000 And not only that, him being a gentleman is contingent on the female's behavior.

01:57:50.000 Exactly.

01:57:50.000 As soon as she fucks up or looks at a dude at a restaurant, the gentleman in this ends.

01:57:54.000 And also, you don't want to hate yourself because if that man was going to do whatever you want, you don't want him. 0.98

01:57:59.000 Yep.

01:58:00.000 You don't want the nice guy.

01:58:01.000 Nobody wants the nice guy. 1.00

01:58:02.000 Simp stands for sucker idolizing mediocre pussy. 1.00

01:58:05.000 So I don't think anyone wants a simp. 1.00

01:58:07.000 Perfect.

01:58:07.000 Is that what it stands for?

01:58:09.000 Yeah.

01:58:10.000 Does that answer your question about sims to pimps?

01:58:14.000 Mm-hmm.

01:58:15.000 Okay.

01:58:16.000 Cool.

01:58:16.000 Women don't want sims, as much as you guys try to say that.

01:58:19.000 And I love how she tried to conflate a simp and a gentleman. 0.96

01:58:21.000 They're not the same at all.

01:58:23.000 Yeah, that's why I need a clarification.

01:58:24.000 She needed education.

01:58:26.000 Yeah.

01:58:27.000 They're not the same.

01:58:27.000 I want a gentleman.

01:58:29.000 Not somebody that'll let me run all over them.

01:58:30.000 You tell them what to do and they do it.

01:58:32.000 Chivalry and being a gentleman is contingent upon your behavior.

01:58:34.000 The problem is that most women, I'll be honest, don't deserve a gentleman or chivalry at all. 0.99

01:58:38.000 Because most women aren't shit and a lot of them aren't ladies. 1.00

01:58:42.000 So why am I going to go ahead and give a woman chivalry when she's not even acting like a lady? 1.00

01:58:46.000 Yep.

01:58:47.000 I agree.

01:58:47.000 So what...

01:58:49.000 She hits niggas? 1.00

01:58:50.000 Yeah.

01:58:51.000 So again, back to you, Myron, because everybody's looking at you.

01:58:55.000 What do you mean?

01:58:57.000 What's the question?

01:59:00.000 The question is, back down to this, because we have been looking at, you know, different women and their backgrounds, and they've explained themselves to you and their relationship status.

01:59:13.000 And the gentleman on the podcast, the viewers, they've been agreeing with everything that we're not.

01:59:21.000 You know, like, these girls are She used a man. 1.00

01:59:26.000 This girl was looking at so many men.

01:59:29.000 So my question to you is what would give us an advice to make us better women? 0.91

01:59:37.000 Stop being a ho. 1.00

01:59:39.000 I wouldn't you agree that a hoe would be you giving up your goods? 1.00

01:59:44.000 You can't be a hoe if you're not exchanging sexual energy. 1.00

01:59:50.000 You're giving up your energy, your attention to one guy who walked in the fucking restaurant. 1.00

01:59:57.000 Don't steal his car. 0.99

02:00:10.000 Those are a couple answers.

02:00:11.000 I mean, you want mine?

02:00:14.000 Yeah, she's looking for your validation right now, Myron.

02:00:16.000 I would just say I think the biggest thing is that women need to be coachable. 1.00

02:00:22.000 I think a lot of women aren't coachable. 1.00

02:00:24.000 They don't follow a man's lead.

02:00:25.000 They think most women don't respect most men is what I couldn't realize in 2023 and beyond.

02:00:30.000 And yeah, women just need to be coachable. 1.00

02:00:33.000 If you're coachable, that handles most of the problems because then the guy could be a man. 0.98

02:00:36.000 You fall into your feminine. 0.69

02:00:37.000 He's in his masculine. 0.58

02:00:38.000 He's a leader.

02:00:39.000 But again, you obviously have to pick the right guy to be your coach as well.

02:00:39.000 He leads you.

02:00:42.000 Absolutely. 0.99

02:00:43.000 But that's where a lot of women fuck up is because they picked the wrong guy. 1.00

02:00:46.000 Yeah. 0.98

02:00:47.000 I agree with that.

02:00:48.000 But where's the right guys?

02:00:51.000 And how do you know it's the right guy?

02:00:52.000 Not at Club 11.

02:01:04.000 Because you were young, there's nothing wrong with that.

02:01:07.000 Yeah, but I was not a good candidate to be there to meet or whatever.

02:01:12.000 I'm just there.

02:01:12.000 And here's the thing, I never once talked to dancers when I was there.

02:01:15.000 Okay, fine, but where we can find a good guy?

02:01:18.000 I mean...

02:01:19.000 Right here.

02:01:21.000 Yes, sir!

02:01:21.000 Here's the thing.

02:01:22.000 There's probably a bunch of them already that are trying to talk to you, but you ignore them.

02:01:26.000 Don't you have a boyfriend?

02:01:27.000 I did.

02:01:29.000 I did.

02:01:30.000 I ignored them all.

02:01:31.000 And they all got married.

02:01:32.000 I did that.

02:01:33.000 Yeah, because the thing is, is that I guarantee a nice guy's come across you or that, you know, show an interest, but you ignore them.

02:01:39.000 That's just proving their point, though.

02:01:40.000 You just ignore them because... 1.00

02:01:41.000 Hey, shit! 1.00

02:01:42.000 Yeah! 1.00

02:01:43.000 You said he was two years in a relationship and you over here talking about some Byron.

02:01:46.000 They said, Byron.

02:01:47.000 Byron, baby!

02:01:48.000 Everybody glorifies him.

02:01:50.000 They glorify him.

02:01:51.000 They look up to him.

02:01:53.000 I don't mean it literally. 0.99

02:01:55.000 But fucking girls, how about we all in a podcast? 1.00

02:01:59.000 What she said in the beginning in her relationship status, what she said? 0.99

02:02:03.000 Happily in love.

02:02:04.000 In love.

02:02:05.000 Not happily in love.

02:02:07.000 This is my love.

02:02:10.000 Stop, stop, stop, stop.

02:02:12.000 Stop the club.

02:02:14.000 Stop the club.

02:02:16.000 No, this is...

02:02:22.000 You're turning it around and we want to know because the viewers are looking up to them.

02:02:27.000 So they're also looking for women that they look up to.

02:02:31.000 So what is that woman? 1.00

02:02:32.000 Who is she? 0.99

02:02:33.000 What are her attributes?

02:02:35.000 That's what I'm trying to get to.

02:02:37.000 Because I look at what is passing by me, because I'm making sure of the safetiness around me.

02:02:44.000 I take back my...

02:02:44.000 You know what?

02:02:45.000 That good aura that I gave you earlier.

02:02:48.000 Give me back that good aura.

02:02:51.000 You know what's funny?

02:02:52.000 You know what's funny?

02:02:53.000 I get in with the aura, and I get in a one, two...

02:02:56.000 Motion, you know, I'm a human.

02:02:58.000 Nah.

02:02:59.000 This is from before, Chris? 0.99

02:03:00.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:03:01.000 I saw motion, you know, I'm a human. 1.00

02:03:04.000 I turned my neck.

02:03:05.000 Oh my god.

02:03:06.000 It was over.

02:03:08.000 It was over.

02:03:09.000 I was looking at the man.

02:03:10.000 I wanted the man.

02:03:11.000 What was the sign?

02:03:12.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:03:14.000 And I wanted the man.

02:03:16.000 I wanted the man.

02:03:18.000 I wanted the man.

02:03:19.000 I wanted the man.

02:03:20.000 Oh yeah!

02:03:30.000 What was the sign?

02:03:35.000 What do you have to say?

02:03:51.000 Thank you so much for having me.

02:03:53.000 I love this show.

02:03:54.000 I love everybody.

02:03:55.000 What are you going to say with evidence?

02:03:58.000 What evidence?

02:03:59.000 What evidence?

02:04:01.000 What evidence?

02:04:02.000 This show never happened.

02:04:04.000 If your man's watching, you're single now.

02:04:06.000 Oh yeah.

02:04:08.000 Thank you.

02:04:10.000 The show was great.

02:04:11.000 The show was amazing.

02:04:12.000 I appreciate everybody.

02:04:14.000 Also, I appreciate the ladies who came out.

02:04:16.000 Ladies, if you want to get on the Fresh and Fit podcast, DM me.

02:04:19.000 I will get you on the show.

02:04:21.000 Also, guys, tune into locals so that way you can always see the behind-the-scenes content and then experience what we do before the show.

02:04:28.000 And what is your Instagram so they can DM you?

02:04:30.000 The link is in the description.

02:04:33.000 She's so ICTV. Can we hit that question real quick?

02:04:37.000 One last one.

02:04:39.000 Let me explain something to the audience.

02:04:42.000 Don't put this on me, bro.

02:04:44.000 So, you can't have girls waiting for three hours and then do a show. 1.00

02:04:48.000 So, respectfully, before it started, we'll do two hours max for the girls to go home after. 0.71

02:04:52.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:04:59.000 Ladies, top three preferences for your future husband and what three reasons should he choose you? 0.97

02:05:04.000 So top three preferences, we could start.

02:05:06.000 Top three preferences?

02:05:07.000 What do I mean by preferences?

02:05:09.000 Like what you like the most?

02:05:10.000 What do I like?

02:05:11.000 Oh, okay, okay, okay. 1.00

02:05:12.000 You stupid. 1.00

02:05:15.000 First of all, I was trying to translate that in Spanish. 1.00

02:05:21.000 You can start here since she needs to translate it in straight. 1.00

02:05:29.000 What about you?

02:05:30.000 What three preferences you want in my guy?

02:05:34.000 Okay, three preferences that I want in my guy after everything that I've been doing.

02:05:47.000 You know, I'm with you.

02:05:50.000 What was the sign?

02:05:52.000 What was the sign?

02:05:52.000 The man and...

02:05:53.000 What was the sign?

02:05:55.000 The man and...

02:05:56.000 What was the sign?

02:05:59.000 Let's just continue on.

02:06:01.000 Because we do got to respect...

02:06:02.000 Fresh is right.

02:06:03.000 We did tell the girl...

02:06:04.000 We did say that.

02:06:06.000 So we want to get them home.

02:06:07.000 They were waiting for...

02:06:08.000 Unless you want to wait.

02:06:09.000 You cool with that?

02:06:09.000 Another hour or two.

02:06:10.000 No.

02:06:11.000 Another hour or two for what?

02:06:12.000 I miss my club appearance.

02:06:14.000 Exactly.

02:06:15.000 She want to stay next tomorrow for another hour.

02:06:17.000 Let's do it.

02:06:17.000 Another hour?

02:06:19.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:06:21.000 Let's just get through this question and then last thoughts.

02:06:25.000 Okay.

02:06:25.000 Hold on.

02:06:26.000 All right, go ahead.

02:06:27.000 So top three, preferences, and then top three, what do you bring back?

02:06:31.000 Keep the question up on the screen, please, Chris.

02:06:32.000 Okay, my top three preferences in a man are his personality, his ambition, and is he goal-oriented, you know?

02:06:43.000 All those two kind of the same.

02:06:45.000 Yeah, ambition and goals are the same.

02:06:48.000 That is the same.

02:06:50.000 Okay, so then let's go ahead and take three reasons why he's choosing you.

02:06:56.000 Because I actually will pour back into him.

02:07:03.000 Okay, I will.

02:07:04.000 I will.

02:07:04.000 I will invest in his business.

02:07:06.000 You mean pull off on him?

02:07:17.000 Yeah, so you said you're pouring to him and what else?

02:07:21.000 Yes, I would help invest in his business.

02:07:26.000 I would nurture him. 0.54

02:07:29.000 Yeah, don't give any fucks up because I will give you a reflection of you. 0.98

02:07:34.000 Okay, anything else besides being a mirror? 0.97

02:07:37.000 So, pour back, be a mirror.

02:07:39.000 What else?

02:07:39.000 Nurturing and loving.

02:07:41.000 That's who I am.

02:07:42.000 And look at other men.

02:07:43.000 Stop it.

02:07:45.000 I want her to be single so bad. 0.82

02:07:48.000 What about three reasons he should choose?

02:07:51.000 That was her three reasons of why they should choose her.

02:07:53.000 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.

02:07:54.000 Yeah, all right.

02:07:55.000 I see.

02:07:55.000 Three preferences in your future husband and what three reasons should he choose you?

02:07:59.000 Actually, no, you'll go last because you're going to give good answers.

02:08:02.000 What about you, Ms.

02:08:03.000 Providence?

02:08:04.000 Top three preferences.

02:08:07.000 Top three preferences.

02:08:16.000 No, let's see.

02:08:17.000 Top three preferences.

02:08:19.000 Driven, hard worker, family man.

02:08:22.000 What he get out of me, I'll be your muse.

02:08:24.000 Again, his muse, inspiration.

02:08:28.000 Again, his muse.

02:08:30.000 Yes, that's what I said.

02:08:31.000 Interesting.

02:08:31.000 Am I saying it wrong?

02:08:33.000 No, no, no.

02:08:34.000 That's a word that goes on use that much, so.

02:08:37.000 Okay, so anyways, I'll be his muse, as well as...

02:08:42.000 I know you guys took the words out of my mom.

02:08:46.000 So yeah, I'll be his muse, as well as I'm very passionate, so, you know, we can achieve anything.

02:08:53.000 So I'll be your cheerleader for sure, you feel me?

02:08:56.000 We gonna win, baby.

02:08:59.000 And then also, you know...

02:09:00.000 Even if he tells you to stay home and cheerlead from there?

02:09:03.000 Again, you gotta build that.

02:09:04.000 You can't just initiate that energy like that.

02:09:08.000 I feel like you get to that point, and then I'm like, nah, my baby.

02:09:12.000 But he's driven into a hard worker, though.

02:09:14.000 Right, okay, at that point, cool.

02:09:16.000 But that's what I'm saying.

02:09:16.000 Like, it depends where along the lines of when we're talking, we get to that point.

02:09:21.000 I'm not gonna do that from the beginning of the stage.

02:09:25.000 He's gotta be driven into a hard worker from the beginning.

02:09:28.000 Those are qualities I want, right?

02:09:30.000 Hard worker.

02:09:31.000 But what if he wants you to stay inside as a quality back?

02:09:36.000 It all got to make sense.

02:09:38.000 It does.

02:09:39.000 I don't care.

02:09:40.000 It got to make sense.

02:09:42.000 Listen, my manager is driven, hardworking.

02:09:45.000 You going to humble with his goals?

02:09:46.000 Listen.

02:09:48.000 Listen.

02:09:50.000 Listen, you guys want to think about...

02:09:52.000 Anyway.

02:09:53.000 She said what she said.

02:09:54.000 The point is, I said what I said.

02:09:55.000 That's what I want.

02:09:56.000 And I'm a great cook.

02:09:57.000 So I'll take care of you and feed you.

02:09:58.000 You feel me?

02:09:59.000 That's right, man.

02:10:00.000 She's a great cook, man. 1.00

02:10:01.000 She said what she said.

02:10:02.000 Oh, this a hood, ain't it?

02:10:04.000 That's it.

02:10:05.000 Chris, this a hood, ain't it?

02:10:06.000 This is where you start rapping. 1.00

02:10:08.000 Nah, fucking yeah. 0.99

02:10:12.000 But yeah, that's that. 1.00

02:10:13.000 It is what it is.

02:10:15.000 Okay.

02:10:15.000 Yeah, I want a wiper.

02:10:17.000 Oh, wow.

02:10:17.000 Yeah, that'd be, that'd be, that's not a fair trade.

02:10:20.000 Hey.

02:10:20.000 All right.

02:10:21.000 Moving on, I guess.

02:10:22.000 Just kidding.

02:10:24.000 I'm going to say.

02:10:24.000 Yeah, he's kidding.

02:10:26.000 Stay in the house! 0.51

02:10:27.000 No!

02:10:29.000 I've been a whole wife, so I've been to none that.

02:10:33.000 Okay.

02:10:34.000 You've been what?

02:10:35.000 I said I'm divorced, so I've been to none that. 0.99

02:10:38.000 Oh, that shit changed, right? 0.99

02:10:42.000 No. 1.00

02:10:42.000 Who initiated the divorce? 1.00

02:10:43.000 You or him?

02:10:44.000 I did.

02:10:45.000 I guess he didn't give you the energy that you wanted?

02:10:48.000 No, not at all.

02:10:49.000 Was he driven and a hard worker?

02:10:53.000 He was.

02:10:55.000 But that's not...

02:10:57.000 I mean, as I stated earlier, a lot of things take into play, you know?

02:11:02.000 It takes a lot of different things.

02:11:03.000 Don't just take one thing.

02:11:04.000 A boom.

02:11:05.000 Now we're happy forever.

02:11:06.000 It takes a lot.

02:11:07.000 Oh, chat saying call Nick?

02:11:08.000 What?

02:11:09.000 Who's Nick? 0.99

02:11:11.000 Who the fuck is Nick? 0.99

02:11:13.000 Call Nick. 1.00

02:11:14.000 There's somebody.

02:11:15.000 I don't know who Nick is.

02:11:16.000 Why'd you leave him then?

02:11:20.000 He didn't treat my son on his own.

02:11:23.000 And my son passed away a year ago.

02:11:25.000 So he didn't treat his last years.

02:11:28.000 He didn't treat him.

02:11:29.000 I feel, you know, I'm still trying to heal from that, but he didn't treat him.

02:11:34.000 I'm sorry.

02:11:34.000 Very good.

02:11:35.000 You know what I'm saying?

02:11:35.000 In that aspect.

02:11:36.000 So, yeah, I, yeah.

02:11:39.000 Yeah.

02:11:40.000 It's deeper than that for me.

02:11:42.000 To me personally, I thought the love of my life, I want to grow with this person.

02:11:47.000 I'm not going to marry someone just to marry.

02:11:50.000 But unfortunately, things happen in life and that is what it is.

02:11:53.000 That's right.

02:11:54.000 Yeah, that's definitely sad.

02:11:56.000 You're doing your thing.

02:11:59.000 She can't dress very nice and you're good to her and I can't dress very nice and you're bad to me.

02:12:05.000 What are you talking about? 1.00

02:12:06.000 So, first of all, don't be an asshole. 1.00

02:12:10.000 Second of all, I think be connected. 1.00

02:12:18.000 Connected to what?

02:12:20.000 Connected to me.

02:12:21.000 Connected to money.

02:12:22.000 Are you Wi-Fi?

02:12:25.000 Kind of.

02:12:28.000 So in my case, I think I'm not mercantile.

02:12:33.000 I take you as it is.

02:12:34.000 Whatever we have, we're going to work with that.

02:12:38.000 I think I'm pretty.

02:12:39.000 And I'm going to stay home if you're going to tell me.

02:12:43.000 If you're going to tell me, I'm going to stay at home.

02:12:45.000 Well, I think last time you proved that wrong because you went to a club.

02:12:50.000 No, again, as I said, if the man following first my interests, then I'm going to do what you say. 0.99

02:12:57.000 If you follow just your interests and you're an asshole to me and you're just no bitch because I said so, no, I'm not going to follow you. 1.00

02:13:04.000 Then I annex your territory. 1.00

02:13:07.000 And actually, you know what I think?

02:13:09.000 My ex-husband grandfather said, just go back home and stay with your wife.

02:13:14.000 Okay, it's happening.

02:13:15.000 But no, he'd kick me out, okay?

02:13:17.000 Don't be surprised.

02:13:18.000 And then I have another guy friends and girlfriends and whatever.

02:13:28.000 Russia's down right now.

02:13:30.000 I'm not in Russia.

02:13:30.000 It's okay.

02:13:32.000 We don't claim you.

02:13:35.000 Actually, it's a good country.

02:13:36.000 Just right now, yeah, it's down by the news, but it's fine.

02:13:40.000 We don't claim you anymore.

02:13:42.000 Yeah.

02:13:43.000 Alright, what about you?

02:13:45.000 Top three preferences and what do you bring back?

02:13:47.000 You gotta be good at bed.

02:13:47.000 You gotta be confident.

02:13:48.000 Wait, wait.

02:13:49.000 She didn't even say what she brings back to the table.

02:13:50.000 She just said what she wanted.

02:13:51.000 I said.

02:13:52.000 I think she did.

02:13:52.000 You just didn't pay attention.

02:13:54.000 She did.

02:13:55.000 You have that listener.

02:14:10.000 You said your first love was the club.

02:14:24.000 You don't even know. 1.00

02:14:25.000 I mean, man, when did somebody treat you like a motherfucker, you can say many things. 1.00

02:14:29.000 I don't say what he said. 1.00

02:14:30.000 He's gonna say that he's gonna put a bullet in my head if I'm gonna do this. 0.93

02:14:34.000 You know, like, we said many things. 0.92

02:14:36.000 I would not bring it up.

02:14:38.000 I don't know.

02:14:38.000 Fredo!

02:14:40.000 Fredo!

02:14:41.000 Fredo!

02:14:42.000 Fredo!

02:14:43.000 Fredo!

02:14:44.000 Fredo!

02:14:45.000 Fredo!

02:14:51.000 Fredo!

02:14:54.000 I said that.

02:14:55.000 You did.

02:14:55.000 No.

02:14:56.000 I mean, if you like him so much... 1.00

02:14:59.000 She said his dick, not hers, his. 1.00

02:15:01.000 I don't know. 1.00

02:15:01.000 She has an accent. 1.00

02:15:01.000 I don't fucking know. 1.00

02:15:02.000 Yo. 0.99

02:15:04.000 She was married too, doing all that, bro.

02:15:05.000 Get the rocks.

02:15:06.000 All right.

02:15:08.000 Man, if you're married, it doesn't mean anything.

02:15:09.000 You have to be a husband.

02:15:11.000 Just be a husband, then I'm going to be a wife.

02:15:13.000 Easy as it is. 1.00

02:15:14.000 If you're not a good husband, if you're a motherfucker, if you're bad to me, what do you want to... 1.00

02:15:19.000 What do you expect? 1.00

02:15:20.000 Yeah.

02:15:21.000 All right.

02:15:21.000 Tell it to the rocks.

02:15:22.000 All right.

02:15:24.000 Okay.

02:15:25.000 Go ahead.

02:15:26.000 Oh, you got to be good in bed.

02:15:26.000 Me?

02:15:30.000 You got to be confident.

02:15:31.000 And I'm not going to say you got to be a mama's boy, but you got to be like in tune with your family because I like a family man.

02:15:36.000 Family man.

02:15:37.000 And I'm a family person, so that's why I'm asking for a family laid back.

02:15:42.000 I could bring not necessarily everything you're bringing to the table, but I could match your energy.

02:15:47.000 And I'm loyal.

02:15:49.000 I'm loyal.

02:15:51.000 You'll be a dude back, okay.

02:15:53.000 Alright now!

02:15:55.000 And then what do you bring back in return for all that?

02:16:09.000 I match.

02:16:11.000 I have the same.

02:16:12.000 Everything I want, I have.

02:16:13.000 Oh, so you're a mirror.

02:16:15.000 Yo.

02:16:15.000 Exactly.

02:16:16.000 That was easy.

02:16:18.000 A dirty mirror.

02:16:19.000 Dirty mirror. 0.99

02:16:20.000 Don't say it like that.

02:16:21.000 It's the person I got.

02:16:23.000 Hell yeah! 0.95

02:16:23.000 Okay? 0.95

02:16:24.000 Huh?

02:16:25.000 Huh?

02:16:25.000 What did you say?

02:16:26.000 Huh?

02:16:26.000 The thing?

02:16:27.000 What?

02:16:28.000 Huh?

02:16:31.000 Oh, wow.

02:16:33.000 Whoa! 0.71

02:16:34.000 What the...

02:16:35.000 She keeps saying STD to you, man.

02:16:37.000 I don't know why she keeps saying STD to you, man.

02:16:38.000 It's because of the super chat.

02:16:38.000 I don't know why she keeps saying STD to you, man.

02:16:41.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:16:43.000 This is just...

02:16:45.000 Can I see that question again?

02:16:48.000 To be honest, guys, I really, I'm really happy.

02:16:50.000 Even though you don't, you dislike me back, but I'm really happy that I bring it up.

02:16:53.000 At least I make...

02:16:54.000 Why don't we dislike you? 0.65

02:16:55.000 Yeah.

02:16:56.000 It look like so.

02:16:57.000 Yeah, you're being mean.

02:16:59.000 You're not supporting me, let's say, in this situation, but either way, like...

02:17:04.000 I mean, we support the truth.

02:17:06.000 What's the truth, man?

02:17:08.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:17:09.000 Phoenix17 says, so Russian, wait a second.

02:17:12.000 You called the police on Fredo for emotional abuse.

02:17:15.000 So how should we...

02:17:16.000 That was easy.

02:17:17.000 I don't know.

02:17:18.000 Do you really want me to bring it up, everything?

02:17:20.000 No, no, no.

02:17:21.000 Yeah, I can't believe for a reason, trust me.

02:17:24.000 Listen, you've had your chance.

02:17:26.000 Okay, he break many things.

02:17:28.000 He threw everything in the middle of the living room.

02:17:30.000 He said a lot of things, like he threw up next to my door.

02:17:34.000 He threw up?

02:17:35.000 That's your bro, though.

02:17:37.000 That's your bro, though. 0.99

02:17:38.000 That's your nigga, though. 1.00

02:17:41.000 Hold his hair. 0.99

02:17:42.000 Hold his hair, man.

02:17:45.000 That's your bro, though.

02:17:47.000 That's your bro, though.

02:17:48.000 That's your bro, though.

02:17:50.000 I don't say anything.

02:17:51.000 He's maybe a good guy.

02:17:52.000 And, you know, we have an argument.

02:17:54.000 I bring all this dirty underwear here, but it's kind of interesting, but whatever.

02:17:58.000 You know what's funny?

02:17:59.000 This is a mind of love story.

02:18:00.000 Cuban divorce.

02:18:01.000 Literally, Cuban divorce.

02:18:02.000 Yeah, exactly.

02:18:03.000 But you're not, you know, like, you're against me.

02:18:05.000 But I literally, I never cheated on him.

02:18:08.000 I never, yeah, maybe like, you know.

02:18:10.000 But he was a choice.

02:18:14.000 I'm not like you, you know?

02:18:16.000 Like, I'm not like for the- Wait!

02:18:21.000 Wait!

02:18:23.000 What do you mean you're not like me?

02:18:26.000 I've never married twice!

02:18:28.000 I'm not gonna- I'm not gonna fight, you know?

02:18:31.000 Like, I mean physically- No, I mean- I'm playing and I go, oh that's what you mean.

02:18:34.000 So what I try to say is that when the guys 6-4 try to like, you know, like I tell you, even if it's not physical, I'm not from here.

02:18:43.000 For me it's a lot.

02:18:44.000 No, I know what you mean.

02:18:45.000 And eventually I'm gonna start protecting myself.

02:18:47.000 This is all.

02:18:48.000 And how I can protect myself?

02:18:50.000 No.

02:18:50.000 Fight with him?

02:18:50.000 I mean, just shut the fuck up.

02:19:04.000 And he's yelling at you, then shut the fuck up. 1.00

02:19:07.000 And then leave. 1.00

02:19:08.000 Where am I supposed to go?

02:19:10.000 I'm very dependent.

02:19:11.000 Eventually I did that.

02:19:13.000 Eventually, after you call the cops.

02:19:16.000 Because why am I supposed to go at night?

02:19:18.000 Guys, it's six in the morning.

02:19:19.000 Like, where am I supposed to go?

02:19:20.000 Shelter?

02:19:21.000 And go where?

02:19:22.000 No, I didn't know that Baliz...

02:19:25.000 I didn't know that Baliz was gonna take him.

02:19:27.000 I thought...

02:19:28.000 Okay, I thought it was gonna be like a third person.

02:19:31.000 They're gonna come and say, guys, Don't do that.

02:19:33.000 Are we gonna stay calm?

02:19:34.000 And that's it.

02:19:35.000 That's what I thought it's going to be.

02:19:36.000 Russian laws are probably different.

02:19:37.000 Yes, yes.

02:19:38.000 I didn't know they're gonna take you.

02:19:40.000 In Haiti, they come and warn you. 0.94

02:19:42.000 In Haiti, they will come to you and be like, yo, stop playing. 1.00

02:19:45.000 The second time they come around, they might, you know, whatever.

02:19:48.000 I didn't want to do him bad.

02:19:50.000 I just want this old just go down. 0.98

02:19:52.000 Put him in jail.

02:19:54.000 Guys, I didn't know they're gonna stop.

02:19:56.000 I already said I didn't know they're gonna But maybe sometimes it's good, you know, to chill him up.

02:20:05.000 What's the problem?

02:20:07.000 I put him in gulag.

02:20:14.000 I put him in gulag for 17 years.

02:20:19.000 Gulag, one day!

02:20:30.000 I would say probably now after you did that to him he probably feels resentment towards you ever since then so like Therefore, from that point on, 0.99

02:20:45.000 the relationship now, everything is kind of like a get back because you fucked him over in that sense right there. 0.99

02:20:51.000 How about he fucked me over as well? 0.96

02:20:53.000 But guys don't see it that way when they ask for the simple things, especially if he wanted you in the house and then you chose to be outside and be in the clubs after he cheated or anything like that. 0.99

02:21:04.000 At that point, you just disrespected him.

02:21:05.000 Once he asked me to leave the house, that's when I start working again.

02:21:08.000 How am I supposed to pay my bills?

02:21:10.000 No, you're right.

02:21:10.000 You're completely right.

02:21:11.000 I'm not knocking you on that.

02:21:12.000 I'm just saying, like, you know, I like how other people would say, too, like, you know, you could have picked a better job.

02:21:19.000 I can't!

02:21:20.000 It seems like there's so much into this, like, we're trying to finish, so I ain't even gonna hold you.

02:21:25.000 No, for real.

02:21:26.000 I love that guy, so I'm happy.

02:21:28.000 I'm happy that I bring you up.

02:21:31.000 This is my house!

02:21:34.000 No, I actually leave the whole month without him, so...

02:21:41.000 Let's say we go to a party and I tell you we should leave because a fight's about to break out and you tell me no.

02:21:47.000 If they start shooting, can I please leave you for dead?

02:21:53.000 Amigo, explain to me why I should run for my life.

02:21:56.000 Yeah, please tell me.

02:21:57.000 I got a rap career.

02:21:59.000 This will be good for you.

02:22:02.000 That's for you.

02:22:04.000 That's for you.

02:22:05.000 Anybody else? 1.00

02:22:07.000 Wait, shit. 1.00

02:22:08.000 I think that's one. 1.00

02:22:09.000 That's it.

02:22:10.000 Oh yeah, she was the last one.

02:22:12.000 To the girl next to Myron.

02:22:14.000 To the girl next to Myron, my girlfriend likes your outfit.

02:22:17.000 Could I trouble you to show it off again by standing up and giving us a twirl?

02:22:20.000 Just to control it, bro.

02:22:21.000 Oh, thank you. 0.94

02:22:22.000 I got it at sex. 0.93

02:22:23.000 It's Versace. 0.94

02:22:24.000 Period.

02:22:26.000 Me!

02:22:26.000 Period.

02:22:27.000 Nigga. 1.00

02:22:28.000 He said I had a waist trainer on.

02:22:55.000 If you don't have a ring, you're single.

02:23:09.000 So guys, we did make a promise to the girls that we'd get that out of here.

02:23:13.000 It's not fresh trying to go to the club.

02:23:17.000 We did actually make them that promise.

02:23:18.000 So real quick, we get the last thoughts for the girls on the show and then we'll go around.

02:23:22.000 What are your last thoughts if you have any?

02:23:25.000 I had fun.

02:23:26.000 I had a great time.

02:23:27.000 I loved the...

02:23:31.000 I love everybody's opinion.

02:23:31.000 Paella.

02:23:34.000 I love that everybody... 1.00

02:23:36.000 He's stupid! 1.00

02:23:37.000 Okay, done. 1.00

02:23:38.000 Sorry, my fingers slipped.

02:23:39.000 I didn't mean to do that.

02:23:40.000 Continue on.

02:23:43.000 Oh, Mara, you heard her feelings?

02:23:44.000 I heard her feelings?

02:23:47.000 Are you a feminist? 1.00

02:23:49.000 Yes.

02:23:49.000 You heard everybody's feelings.

02:23:51.000 He's an anti-feminist.

02:23:51.000 No, wait.

02:23:53.000 Anti-feminist.

02:23:54.000 No, no, no.

02:23:55.000 I'm a huge feminist. 1.00

02:23:57.000 Anti.

02:23:57.000 No, I'm feminist, man.

02:23:59.000 How?

02:23:59.000 You didn't support us not one time.

02:24:01.000 What is feminism? 1.00

02:24:03.000 Anyways, I appreciate it.

02:24:03.000 Oh.

02:24:05.000 Thank you so much.

02:24:07.000 You support females.

02:24:09.000 You was not supporting us not one time.

02:24:10.000 You was really on the guys team.

02:24:13.000 Yes or no?

02:24:13.000 Okay, define feminism real quick so we know that we have the same.

02:24:16.000 I particularly cannot define that to you.

02:24:19.000 The dictionary word, I can't. 1.00

02:24:20.000 Stupid. 1.00

02:24:21.000 Fuck it, call me that. 1.00

02:24:22.000 I'm not going to define that, but I'm saying supporting females, you weren't supporting us. 1.00

02:24:28.000 That's what I'm trying to get to you at.

02:24:30.000 Emotionally.

02:24:31.000 Is someone lying to you supporting you?

02:24:34.000 I'm sorry?

02:24:35.000 He didn't hurt my feelings, but I'm saying to her, she's a little hurt.

02:24:41.000 You were being mean to her like she said.

02:24:43.000 Is someone telling you the truth supporting you or lying to you?

02:24:46.000 If somebody is telling you the truth, are they supporting you?

02:24:51.000 How do you know it's true?

02:24:52.000 Exactly.

02:24:54.000 I'm saying, in general, if someone tells you the truth of your situation...

02:24:58.000 They love you and they want the best for you.

02:24:59.000 Exactly.

02:25:00.000 Correct.

02:25:00.000 I'm going to leave it there.

02:25:01.000 Okay.

02:25:01.000 So, I mean, I'm still shocked.

02:25:03.000 Like, okay.

02:25:04.000 She said, I'm anti-feminist. 0.97

02:25:05.000 And I said, please define feminism. 1.00

02:25:07.000 And you couldn't define it.

02:25:08.000 I mean, I did.

02:25:09.000 I did.

02:25:10.000 I said, supporting females. 0.94

02:25:11.000 And that was enough for you.

02:25:11.000 Asked me to define it more.

02:25:12.000 I said, I cannot do that.

02:25:13.000 I explained it to you already.

02:25:14.000 I said, supporting females. 0.94

02:25:16.000 You did not do that.

02:25:18.000 That's what I'm trying to explain.

02:25:19.000 All right.

02:25:19.000 Feminism.

02:25:20.000 Go ahead.

02:25:20.000 Okay.

02:25:21.000 Since you don't have the definition.

02:25:22.000 Go ahead.

02:25:22.000 Explain it.

02:25:23.000 Is the fight for equal rights between the two genders.

02:25:26.000 For women.

02:25:26.000 No, equality between men and women for rights and privileges in society.

02:25:30.000 Okay.

02:25:31.000 So, I think women should have the same rights as men.

02:25:33.000 Of course.

02:25:34.000 But we don't though, because it's a double standard.

02:25:37.000 I think women have more rights and privileges than men do. 1.00

02:25:41.000 Because women have all the same rights that men do while still enjoying female privileges that only women can get and men can't get. 1.00

02:25:46.000 I think women have more advantages than men in 2023 and women live an easier life than men. 0.96

02:25:50.000 Give me two examples.

02:25:52.000 What do you mean?

02:25:53.000 Of advantages that women have more than male. 0.99

02:25:55.000 Okay, well, women can go ahead and get an abortion and have 100% unilateral control. 1.00

02:26:01.000 Hold on.

02:26:01.000 Women have 100% control of who's born and who's not.

02:26:04.000 Even if the man wants the kid to be born, he has no say in it.

02:26:06.000 Wait, but technically, didn't they just change the law?

02:26:09.000 I don't really know clearly.

02:26:10.000 I'm literally just asking.

02:26:11.000 Did they not just change the law?

02:26:15.000 You can just cross the state line and go somewhere where abortion is allowed. 0.99

02:26:18.000 So women have 100% control of who's not. 1.00

02:26:19.000 So it really does not matter at this point.

02:26:21.000 Men have no paternity rights. 0.95

02:26:23.000 But the thing is though, a man still had the right to say a female cannot have an abortion whether she was raped or not.

02:26:29.000 No, she was getting an abortion with that. 1.00

02:26:31.000 And Rave's making only about 2-3% of overall.

02:26:34.000 That's a minority.

02:26:35.000 The point is that if a woman is pregnant and the father wants to have the child and the woman says no, he has no rights. 0.84

02:26:43.000 So that's one thing that women have. 1.00

02:26:45.000 Number two, women don't have to join selective service yet they get all the same voting rights as men. 0.99

02:26:51.000 Do you know what selective service is?

02:26:53.000 No, I don't.

02:26:53.000 Explain it.

02:26:54.000 That's a female privilege. 1.00

02:26:55.000 You have to be a year right in the army or something like that.

02:26:58.000 No, you have to sign up for the military at 18 years old in the United States.

02:27:00.000 I figured that's what it was, but I wanted to know specifically what it meant.

02:27:03.000 So those are just a couple examples.

02:27:05.000 I mean, women are able to go ahead and get affirmative action given to them. 1.00

02:27:09.000 Women are able to get jobs that they're not necessarily qualified just because they're female because of matching quotas and wanting to get women more into a workforce. 1.00

02:27:16.000 Women have more advantage than men do while simultaneously still being able to be treated like a lady, which is an inherent advantage. 1.00

02:27:21.000 I mean, I would argue women have more rights or privileges than men do. 1.00

02:27:26.000 I agree to disagree, but that's, you know.

02:27:28.000 What do you disagree with specifically?

02:27:30.000 Because I don't believe that necessarily.

02:27:32.000 Like, I don't feel like...

02:27:33.000 What makes you not believe it?

02:27:35.000 Everything I just stated was a fact.

02:27:36.000 Yeah.

02:27:37.000 It was a fact.

02:27:38.000 To yours, like, okay. 1.00

02:27:41.000 Stupid! 1.00

02:27:41.000 It's actual statistics. 1.00

02:27:42.000 You are aware that a fact is a fact regardless of whether you believe it or not.

02:27:45.000 Correct, you didn't say an opinion.

02:27:45.000 You said a fact.

02:27:46.000 Exactly.

02:27:47.000 That's why I stopped myself from talking.

02:27:48.000 Thank you.

02:27:49.000 Is there anything else you disagree with?

02:27:51.000 Nope.

02:27:51.000 Go ahead.

02:27:52.000 I don't want to stay on this topic no more.

02:27:54.000 Exactly.

02:27:56.000 That's okay.

02:28:03.000 I can add something, but we are at the beginning, like the basic thing, but we are less strong, we're less smart, we're less, like many things, we're less.

02:28:14.000 That's why maybe we have a little bit more rides.

02:28:16.000 That's why you guys opened the door for us, because we're not as strong as you are.

02:28:21.000 I don't understand.

02:28:23.000 So what are you trying to say?

02:28:24.000 She's saying us having chivalry is because most women are not capable of being on our level, basically. 1.00

02:28:31.000 Yeah, but women, here's the thing, women get the chivalry and they get all the same rights and privileges as men and others that men don't get. 1.00

02:28:37.000 So women have everything. 1.00

02:28:38.000 They get the best of both worlds.

02:28:39.000 And more.

02:28:40.000 OK, OK, fine.

02:28:41.000 But we still not get something like, by the way, we're born like we're not as smart as you are.

02:28:46.000 We're not as this and that your guys like that.

02:28:49.000 What could be smart?

02:28:50.000 Yeah, some of us, but like majority, like like general.

02:28:53.000 Come on.

02:28:54.000 As you said, you guys.

02:28:56.000 Actually, actually, on average, women have higher IQs than men do.

02:28:59.000 Yeah.

02:29:00.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:29:00.000 But then you are running all the guys running this show and we are like the stupid one, you know. 1.00

02:29:04.000 Well, that's because... 0.99

02:29:06.000 Have you seen the opposite of any show?

02:29:08.000 When the girls are smart and making fun of the guys? 1.00

02:29:10.000 I don't even know.

02:29:11.000 Well, I mean, it's a free country, isn't it?

02:29:13.000 It's a free world.

02:29:14.000 Any woman can set up that show. 1.00

02:29:15.000 Yeah, but we can't, but we don't because it's like nature.

02:29:19.000 We're not as smart as you are.

02:29:20.000 Girls try. 0.85

02:29:21.000 It's just they're not consistent.

02:29:23.000 They don't stay disciplined.

02:29:24.000 They're not like the men that sit here that are driven to do this.

02:29:29.000 Because our nature...

02:29:30.000 No, check me out.

02:29:30.000 That's why it's dominated by men.

02:29:33.000 A lot of things are dominated by men because we're just too fucking lazy to do the extra work. 0.99

02:29:37.000 We're not lazy. 0.99

02:29:37.000 We are meant to be mothers. 0.99

02:29:39.000 Start that shit up. 1.00

02:29:40.000 We're meant to be at the house. 1.00

02:29:42.000 What does that mean?

02:29:43.000 Does that mean I need to work hard?

02:29:46.000 I need to work hard in the house.

02:29:47.000 Don't you think that the girl who stay in the house work hard on her kids, on the house, and her husband? 0.95

02:29:52.000 Yes.

02:29:52.000 Yes, but not as much as a man who's out there working.

02:29:56.000 She made money.

02:29:57.000 No, no, no. 0.98

02:29:59.000 No, nigga, what do you mean? 1.00

02:30:00.000 Are you a mom? 1.00

02:30:01.000 Yes, I'm a fucking mom. 1.00

02:30:02.000 Are you a stay-at-home mom? 1.00

02:30:03.000 Yes, I am.

02:30:04.000 So you're really going to give these niggas credit and tell me that being a mom is less difficult? 1.00

02:30:10.000 Bitch, you're in the house. 1.00

02:30:11.000 You're in the house. 1.00

02:30:12.000 You have to educate your kids.

02:30:14.000 You're in the house.

02:30:15.000 You're in the house.

02:30:16.000 Educate them in the house.

02:30:18.000 It doesn't matter. 1.00

02:30:19.000 The nigga has to go outside and make shit happen. 1.00

02:30:20.000 You're in the house. 1.00

02:30:21.000 You got your shit together. 1.00

02:30:22.000 I get what she's saying. 1.00

02:30:23.000 I think it has to go out in the field. 1.00

02:30:25.000 Shut up. 1.00

02:30:26.000 Okay. 1.00

02:30:26.000 We're out of here. 1.00

02:30:27.000 Being a mom and raising children, and doing laundry, and cooking, and taking shit. 1.00

02:30:35.000 It ain't raising shit, but these niggas don't do it. 1.00

02:30:37.000 They don't give these niggas the fucking credit that we really want to have. 1.00

02:30:41.000 They pay your bills though. 0.99

02:30:41.000 They pay your bills though for you to be able to do it. 0.99

02:30:44.000 I'll teach all these people how to pay their fucking bills right. 0.99

02:30:56.000 If you're a stay at home mom, how are you getting money? 1.00

02:31:01.000 If you're a stay at home mom how are you getting money?

02:31:14.000 Hell no, I run businesses, and my businesses are on automation.

02:31:19.000 Okay, quick question.

02:31:19.000 How did you start that business?

02:31:20.000 With the nigga helping you, yes or no? 1.00

02:31:22.000 Fuck no! 1.00

02:31:22.000 Ain't no nigga behind you. 1.00

02:31:25.000 I did everything by my motherfucking self. 1.00

02:31:27.000 Ain't no nigga behind shit. 1.00

02:31:29.000 I do. 1.00

02:31:30.000 And I ain't never had to pop pussy. 0.99

02:31:32.000 I ain't never had to do it. 1.00

02:31:33.000 You're the only fan. 0.98

02:31:33.000 I got all this shit out of my life. 0.98

02:31:35.000 I put my fucking books. 1.00

02:31:36.000 I put my fucking head into the fucking books. 1.00

02:31:38.000 I learned how to fucking pay my bills without fucking Let's go down. 1.00

02:31:48.000 Let's notch it down. 1.00

02:31:49.000 Let's go back to the topic at hand.

02:31:51.000 At the end of the day, I believe me personally, I see.

02:31:55.000 I don't know about you.

02:31:56.000 And then I don't know about you guys.

02:31:57.000 I personally believe being in the household, doing your costly duties is not the same being compared to a man that's already working. 0.99

02:32:06.000 So you definitely ain't being a mom full-time because a mom full-time... 1.00

02:32:10.000 Are you doing laundry?

02:32:12.000 But these niggas being outside, they're doing more than us? 1.00

02:32:18.000 They working.

02:32:21.000 You got a nigga that's making a hundred K, please. 1.00

02:32:23.000 I'm making a hundred K! You're just an independent woman, bro. 1.00

02:32:28.000 You don't understand that.

02:32:28.000 I don't want to be independent, but I know what you're trying to say.

02:32:32.000 This is what feminism do to everybody. 1.00

02:32:34.000 This is exactly what feminism do. 1.00

02:32:37.000 How much is you making?

02:32:39.000 How much is you making?

02:32:40.000 I see, for real.

02:32:41.000 But she didn't ask you how much you making.

02:32:42.000 Because y'all are giving it.

02:32:44.000 No, she's not giving nobody credit.

02:32:45.000 She's saying Guys,

02:33:01.000 guys, guys, okay.

02:33:03.000 Ow, my ears.

02:33:04.000 This is my ears hurt.

02:33:05.000 Sorry.

02:33:06.000 I think what Icy was trying to say is that women are lazier when it comes to resource creation is what she means. 1.00

02:33:11.000 Resource creation.

02:33:12.000 I definitely am not lazy.

02:33:15.000 The women I'm around are definitely not lazy. 1.00

02:33:18.000 You gotta understand.

02:33:19.000 Hold on, look.

02:33:20.000 You need to get out of your emotions for two seconds and listen.

02:33:23.000 What she's saying is that women... 1.00

02:33:27.000 Yeah.

02:33:35.000 Yeah.

02:33:49.000 For example, I'll give you an example.

02:33:51.000 You being an entrepreneur making a lot of money doesn't necessarily impact your dating ability.

02:33:56.000 But a man being an entrepreneur making a lot of money absolutely impacts his dating ability.

02:33:59.000 I'm being a trapper.

02:34:00.000 She's not going to be around 24-7.

02:34:03.000 I'm not dating no trappers.

02:34:05.000 Also, you take care of your kids.

02:34:07.000 We're not talking about...

02:34:09.000 I'll tell you this though.

02:34:09.000 You got a strong aura.

02:34:11.000 What?

02:34:13.000 So that's basically what she's saying is that, like, women aren't as hard working when it comes to making money and getting out there. 0.99

02:34:18.000 Just because you do it doesn't necessarily mean that it's representative of other females.

02:34:22.000 Most women would prefer to stay inside and not necessarily have to be the breadwinner. 1.00

02:34:26.000 I agree to that.

02:34:27.000 Okay, so that's what she's saying.

02:34:28.000 That's exactly what I was saying when you were just arguing with me.

02:34:31.000 I agree.

02:34:32.000 Hardcore!

02:34:35.000 I'm just going to say, I agree to Byron, but you're just getting out.

02:34:38.000 It's because she loves me.

02:34:39.000 I love you!

02:34:41.000 I love you!

02:34:51.000 Are you Puerto Rican?

02:34:52.000 Yes, I'm Puerto Rican.

02:34:53.000 That makes so much sense.

02:34:56.000 Somebody was trying to say something over here?

02:35:00.000 I think that we're not supposed to compete with a man at the entrepreneurship, same as the man can compete with us as being a mother or like single father or whatever.

02:35:12.000 We also...

02:35:13.000 We always...

02:35:14.000 Like, we've been made for raising kids, stay at home.

02:35:17.000 Like, okay, we can do roles different.

02:35:19.000 We can go work.

02:35:20.000 We can be successful.

02:35:22.000 But the same as we cannot compete with a guy in the work world, the guy cannot compete with us in the same, in the inside, in like, I don't know, kids.

02:35:33.000 The reason why is because it's very simple.

02:35:35.000 I mean, human beings are put on earth to mate, right?

02:35:38.000 Meaning having sex and have children. 0.92

02:35:39.000 A woman's ability to mate Does not does not is not contingent upon her success and her income But a man's ability to make is contingent upon a status and income Yeah, men are just more incentivized to work hard because we can't fuck unless we become a somebody women can fuck with being a nobody Okay, but simple you can't say that woman more lazy because she's staying home and men more productive because she going out We just have a different role and you know I hear what I said I said women are lazy when it comes to resource creation, 1.00

02:36:05.000 okay?

02:36:06.000 That's it. 0.99

02:36:07.000 Nadia, you said that you do not have to stand on a nigga. 1.00

02:36:10.000 You don't need a man to be behind you or nothing.

02:36:12.000 But you was madly in love for two years.

02:36:14.000 Or are you still not?

02:36:15.000 Girl, she like Myra now.

02:36:17.000 No!

02:36:19.000 Myra!

02:36:21.000 Myra!

02:36:22.000 Myra!

02:36:24.000 Myra!

02:36:26.000 Can you guys stop screaming, please?

02:36:27.000 I'll tell you this. 0.96

02:36:29.000 Puerto Ricans have one weakness. 0.98

02:36:30.000 You know what it is? 0.93

02:36:31.000 Myra!

02:36:32.000 Maybe you.

02:36:33.000 Bigger, better big.

02:36:34.000 Ha! 0.89

02:36:47.000 So thank you for inviting me.

02:36:53.000 I still enjoy even though it was intense, but I like that.

02:36:59.000 Anyway, I like bad attention too.

02:37:01.000 It's still attention.

02:37:03.000 I have not enough attention.

02:37:06.000 What can I do?

02:37:06.000 I'm the worst lady.

02:37:09.000 Fredo!

02:37:12.000 Fredo!

02:37:13.000 Fredo!

02:37:14.000 Fredo!

02:37:15.000 Fredo!

02:37:16.000 Fredo!

02:37:17.000 Fredo!

02:37:18.000 No, guys, I bring him up.

02:37:19.000 He's a very smart guy.

02:37:20.000 I'm happy you like him because it's my choice too.

02:37:22.000 But now, next time I bring it up, maybe you're going to like him more.

02:37:27.000 Let's see.

02:37:28.000 Thank you for having me.

02:37:32.000 Thank you, Detox, for inviting me as well.

02:37:35.000 No, that was interesting.

02:37:37.000 Thank you.

02:37:38.000 Could she summarize in a wrap?

02:37:42.000 Let's wrap this up.

02:37:44.000 The chick is up.

02:37:46.000 What about you, ICU? What are your last thoughts and everything?

02:37:52.000 We talk about women, bro.

02:37:53.000 Click the link in the description.

02:37:55.000 Click the She's Still ICTV one.

02:37:58.000 Go ahead and also tune in to Locals.

02:38:00.000 Please subscribe to Locals.

02:38:02.000 Let's get that live chat going. 0.98

02:38:03.000 You know how I like my chat talking shit, so let's get it. 0.99

02:38:06.000 If you want to come on the show, just DM her because Chris is bumming. 0.99

02:38:09.000 You don't check his DMs.

02:38:10.000 I mean, he's just going to send you to me anyways.

02:38:12.000 Hi!

02:38:13.000 I do.

02:38:14.000 Yeah.

02:38:14.000 Girl messaged me today.

02:38:15.000 I want to come on.

02:38:16.000 Message this guy.

02:38:17.000 What?

02:38:17.000 I messaged you?

02:38:18.000 No, no, no.

02:38:19.000 I brought Mara's cat, bro.

02:38:20.000 I'm always on my phone, so just send them to me, Mara.

02:38:23.000 You too much.

02:38:24.000 I'm going to send them to Icy.

02:38:25.000 No, no, no, no.

02:38:26.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:38:27.000 Send them to me.

02:38:28.000 That's cat, bro.

02:38:30.000 You want to say?

02:38:31.000 I just got to say that's correct.

02:38:32.000 Yeah.

02:38:33.000 Don't make me pull up my phone right now. 1.00

02:38:36.000 Fuck that. 1.00

02:38:38.000 Chris be sleeping, bro. 1.00

02:38:39.000 The whole entire day, bro.

02:38:41.000 I be up.

02:38:42.000 I be up from 8 in the morning till now.

02:38:46.000 It's too midday, bro.

02:38:47.000 So, do you want to check the timestamps?

02:38:49.000 Wait, I want to say my goodbye.

02:38:52.000 I see.

02:38:54.000 Do you want to check your time times? 0.69

02:38:56.000 Nigga, from 4 to 9 p.m., you still wasn't up, bro. 1.00

02:38:59.000 Like, what is that?

02:39:01.000 Nigga... 1.00

02:39:02.000 4 to 9?

02:39:03.000 That's what Myra just showed me.

02:39:05.000 From 4 to 9.

02:39:06.000 She literally said at 9-11.

02:39:08.000 Oh, he never answered me.

02:39:10.000 Funny things.

02:39:11.000 You know what's bad with the girls that messaged us, bro. 1.00

02:39:14.000 All right.

02:39:14.000 Anyway, okay.

02:39:15.000 Let's just go ahead.

02:39:16.000 Your go.

02:39:17.000 Well, thank you guys for having me.

02:39:19.000 I appreciate everybody's feedback.

02:39:22.000 And if y'all want to learn how to pay your bills the right way, okay, if you want to learn how to become free and get out of being a 14th Amendment citizen, learn your consumer rights and your birthrights.

02:39:35.000 That's an unorthodox way.

02:39:37.000 That's me!

02:39:38.000 That's because that's what we are.

02:39:40.000 Under the 14th Amendment, we're still all slaves, so...

02:39:45.000 Okay.

02:39:45.000 Nadia is my coach.

02:39:46.000 At least you are aware.

02:39:48.000 Alright.

02:39:49.000 It's an interesting way to phrase it.

02:39:51.000 And W, Chris, for the awesome panel, by the way.

02:39:54.000 Hey, hey, hey, wait, wait, wait.

02:39:55.000 Sorry.

02:39:55.000 Listen, niggas.

02:39:56.000 Here we go.

02:39:57.000 Awesome. 0.99

02:39:58.000 I bring this shit over, what, what, three years? 0.99

02:40:00.000 Almost three years, all right? 1.00

02:40:01.000 So...

02:40:02.000 Angie, how much you gave him a drink?

02:40:03.000 Yes.

02:40:03.000 No, no, no.

02:40:04.000 Barely, barely.

02:40:05.000 Hey, listen.

02:40:06.000 Barely. 1.00

02:40:06.000 I drank because today's panel was, like, fucking crazy as fuck. 1.00

02:40:11.000 At the end of the day... 1.00

02:40:12.000 I would say he had three drinks.

02:40:14.000 He sound like three drinks.

02:40:15.000 Only three?

02:40:16.000 Right now he sound like he on three.

02:40:17.000 I mean, listen.

02:40:18.000 Only three?

02:40:19.000 At the end of the day, shout out to the chat, shout out to the panel, shout out to the girls for coming on to the show.

02:40:24.000 Thank God for no fights.

02:40:26.000 And yeah, I mean, let's do it.

02:40:28.000 That'd be Chris Johnson.

02:40:33.000 Where can they find me?

02:40:35.000 They can find me in the bar afterwards.

02:40:50.000 Fredo!

02:40:52.000 So basically, thanks for having me on, guys.

02:40:54.000 Awesome as always. 0.94

02:40:55.000 Fucking great panel. 0.97

02:40:56.000 What is the final conclusion of all of this? 0.99

02:40:58.000 Don't steal someone's car.

02:40:59.000 Don't steal their gun.

02:41:01.000 Don't fall in love with the club. 1.00

02:41:03.000 Oh, shit! 1.00

02:41:05.000 Etc. 1.00

02:41:06.000 Yeah, find me at RealTroyFrancis.

02:41:08.000 Go tiptoe.

02:41:10.000 Go tiptoe.

02:41:11.000 Exactly.

02:41:11.000 Find me at Real Troy Francis on YouTube, on Instagram, and on Twitter.

02:41:17.000 And come to Columbia, because me and James Tusk are going to be doing a boot camp in Columbia later in the year.

02:41:21.000 It's going to be no holds barred, shadow side, four days of debauchery, okay? 0.98

02:41:25.000 We're all going to get jacked up on a train, and we're just going to go out there and just go fucking nuts, basically. 0.92

02:41:30.000 So you need to reclaim your masculinity, so drop me a message, Troy, at Real Troy Francis on that. 0.75

02:41:35.000 All those links are below, guys.

02:41:36.000 Go check them out, man.

02:41:37.000 One of the best dating coaches in the world.

02:41:38.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Friday.

02:41:42.000 Either do a call-in show or have a special guest, and then we'll have an after-hours for y'all.

02:41:45.000 All of these Instagrams are below. 0.99

02:41:46.000 Go ahead and send them a dick pic. 1.00

02:41:47.000 I'm sure they'd love that. 1.00

02:41:49.000 I ran, I ran so far away.

02:41:56.000 I just ran, I ran all night and day.

02:42:01.000 I ran away.

Fresh & Fit - July 27, 2023

Girl's Ex Calls Into Show & EXPOSES Her LIES!

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