00:48:18.000Oh, and then, guys, fnapsuperchat.com if you guys want to go ahead and get involved in the show, sending your questions and chats through there as well.
00:52:33.000After, so my last relationship was a four year relationship.
00:52:36.000And, you know, people eventually show their true colors.
00:52:40.000And it seems the majority of it was all a facade.
00:52:44.000And he was actually a pathological liar.
00:52:47.000So did he come fucking nice first and then turn into something else?
00:52:49.000Yeah, he was a total sweetheart at first, you know, with the love bombing, the cute little things, the love liar, the flowers, all the whatnot.
00:52:59.000And then eventually a different side came out.
00:54:08.000Like, always thinking of stuff, booking like dates, like booking Airbnbs, vacations, all this stuff, and then tried like driving us both off the bridge.
00:54:15.000But what made him switch to that like crazy guy that you're describing now?
00:57:34.000That was my man, but the relationship wasn't that long.
00:57:38.000So it wasn't like, because I'd known that man for four years, but I knew that, I mean, my man for four months, but I knew that girl for four years.
00:57:46.000So I valued our friendship more than I valued.
00:57:50.000Yeah, but who are you going to marry your girl or the man, though?
01:11:36.000Do you think that would actually protect your girl from being taken by somebody else, being a gentleman and being loyal, like you're claiming?
01:11:56.000What would you do to protect your girl from being taken from other men if you were a guy in today's dating marketplace with how competitive it is?
01:13:20.000Like, you said, threaten her, but, like, what would you actually do to, like, get her to make those threats, like, um, Be viable, we can have each other's socials.
01:13:29.000I ain't gonna lie, you can have my social media on your phone, I'll have yours that way.
01:13:34.000So, you would do both ways, you wouldn't just take her social and that's it, hmm?
01:13:38.000No, like, take because then if she's on my ass, bruh, talking about some like, oh, like, how come I like I could have yours, but you can't have mine?
01:17:00.000You heard that saying, Holes of a feather twerk together.
01:17:09.000Um, like she said, I'd probably make sure I'm in good terms with the family.
01:17:13.000Um, I wouldn't want like bad blood, but yeah, probably controlling and make sure I'm in good terms with the family though, because like they might influence like.
01:17:22.000You to leave, like, if the dad doesn't like you, they'll probably be like, like, influence.
01:17:27.000That's kind of like what happened with me.
01:17:28.000Like, I broke up with my ex because my dad was like, Yo, like, what are you doing?
01:17:46.000Like, if he was providing, then I'd be like, Okay, like, whatever, you can tell me what to do, but like, if you're not, wait, hold on, let me get straight, if he's rich.
01:17:54.000You could drive off a bridge and you stay.
01:18:37.000You know, helping them out in any situation that's any problem they might have financially or whatever.
01:18:45.000And I think also it has to do with like jealous.
01:18:48.000Like if you make the girl jealous, I think that'll make her want to stay because then you'll be like, oh, I don't want someone else to have all these benefits.
01:29:03.000Like for a girl that's 25 and below, like if she wants to be taken seriously, I don't commit to girls that are on social media like that.
01:29:09.000And then let her decide what she wants to do.
01:29:12.000You obviously can't tell her you can't have an Instagram, but like I don't commit to girls that are on social media and then let her decide what the fuck she wants to do from that point forward.
01:29:18.000Because at this point, bro, you have to like mitigate risk as a man with these girls.
01:29:22.000Like it's funny how all the girls just gave up though.
01:34:08.000I've been in relationships where it's like, oh, I've asked for money, but they've I've also been okay with paying for something once in a while and stuff.
01:35:31.000If you really have like good intentions with someone, six and three.
01:35:36.000Um, if you really have good intentions with someone and you like genuinely want it to go somewhere, like for me, like I'm kind of more of like the submissive type.
01:35:47.000Like if you tell me, like if you're gonna provide and you do all this and that, like then I'm gonna do what you want.
01:36:59.000Like, I just started doing porn in August.
01:37:02.000For my entire life, like, literally since I was a child in school, I would date.
01:37:06.000People just because I felt bad, like they would ask me to be their girlfriend, I would say yes, and then I would stay in it for a while just because I felt bad telling them no, and then eventually I'd break up with them.
01:37:24.000You gotta like actually want to do it, like at the end of the day, I do it.
01:37:29.000So listen, I'm not saying every woman is soulless, and there are plenty of men that are soulless, but I'm saying pretty much like they could be all soulless.
01:37:37.000All right, so so in my defense, sir, I'm just saying like.
01:37:40.000You have to take care of a man's well being as well when you choose him.
01:37:44.000So put him before you at all times, okay?
01:37:48.000Because he's doing that for you automatically.
01:38:54.000Gigi Williams says, listening to how they describe their exes and how they usually refer to the chat is like the chat is actually striking them all.
01:41:07.000I think they're just traumatized and they don't know how to, they're scared to be good to people because they think something's going to happen.
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01:44:13.000Yeah, to answer your question, bro, just with the whole situation with your job, dude, it really comes down to what you want to do because it seems to me like you want to move to another state, but you don't want to take the pay cut.
01:44:24.00081K, and I think in Idaho would probably go a lot further.
01:44:26.000But it comes down to what you really want to do, bro.
01:44:29.000Tell them to at least meet you halfway or negotiate for the same salary, but tell them, like, obviously, all the value that you had.
01:44:35.000But remember that if you go to Idaho, you said you're a Spanish speaker, you're not going to have as much leverage as you do in California.
01:44:40.000Keep that in mind, too, because you're going to deal with more white people.
01:44:42.000You're not going to have the same leverage that you have in California with your Spanish speaking skills.
01:45:16.000So, ladies, the reason why I'm saying, like, I think men need to control their girls' Instagram is because obviously, like, yeah, I mean, granted, she does do porn, so it's a bit different.
01:45:28.000She's going to have certain things up there that other people, other girls might not go as far.
01:45:31.000But there's regular chicks that have profiles just like this, bro.
01:51:23.000These girls don't even fucking care, bro.
01:51:25.000It's like once they're with a guy, or you know, once a guy messes up, no, I don't care.
01:51:30.000I'm gonna stand and look pretty and let him do all the work.
01:51:33.000So, I think the other thing too is like, I was gonna say this before, like with women, I don't think, like, cause you're saying they're soulless.
01:51:40.000I think there's a reason why they're soulless.
01:51:41.000They have to be soulless because like women are the weaker gender, they can't physically defend themselves or their ideology.
01:51:47.000So they have to acquiesce to the strongest guy that they can, right?
01:57:07.000For example, like if you have like a coworker that's like bringing you food, why, like, why are you having someone bring you food like at work or something?
01:57:28.000Like if, I don't know, like, I kind of like, If I'm in a relationship, like I wouldn't be posting things that are like trying to get attention from other people when I'm in a relationship.
01:58:03.000Like, if it's something that they don't really care about, then you know, like, but if they told me, hey, I don't want that, I'd be like, okay.
02:00:51.000They're gonna say, Oh, we saw your mom's nudes or we saw your mom getting, yeah, well, their moms are getting for free, but not on camera, but on camera.
02:00:59.000Poor them that they didn't take advantage of the.
02:02:08.000But you have to make yourself seem open, though.
02:02:11.000So I think that's like the issue where, and that's why social media presents a problem because it creates the error that you're available at all times.
02:02:20.000And if you don't post your man, how would they know?
02:02:22.000Which most girls don't do, even when they're in a relationship.
02:02:31.000So that's why it's better to just not be on it at all.
02:02:33.000But yeah, I think women don't understand that the threshold for you cheating is easier to reach than a guy because men have to do all the work.
02:02:42.000So all you got to do is make yourself available.
02:02:43.000If you make yourself available, that's cheating in my eyes.
02:03:03.000And then, yeah, if I want to get my girl, my yeah, yeah, just hers only.
02:03:06.000No, like if she gives you yours and she has a private account, you can see her followers.
02:03:09.000Yeah, I don't think it only works if like the guy controls.
02:03:12.000Because here's the thing, bro, like as a dude, girls aren't sliding in your DMs like that, they're just not, unless you're Chris Brown, even if you're famous, like girls are not going to slide in your DMs.
02:06:56.000Like, girls don't naturally want to be promiscuous if, like, there's nothing that they can benefit from it typically, which is financial or whatever.
02:11:16.000Like, just like your show's portrayal of a guy providing another girl an entire lifestyle, that's how he feels with that's how they feel with you having sexual other guys.
02:13:12.000And then the last thing I'll say I see what you're saying.
02:13:14.000You're making the argument look, it doesn't hurt anybody, it's a victimless situation, fine.
02:13:18.000But I do think it's important to understand that for men, right?
02:13:20.000Like, scientifically speaking, mathematically speaking, the higher a woman's partner count, the lower the likelihood of her being able to be a dutiful wife for you.
02:13:29.000As well, there's more studies that show this.
02:13:31.000There's studies that show, like, families to studies that show that, like, the higher a woman's body count, the less likely the marriage lasts.
02:13:37.000I believe there is more to life than being a dutiful wife.
02:13:41.000I mean, the women that go down in history, not the housewives.
02:13:46.000I mean, if they're happy doing that with their lives, that's fine for them, but that's not what I personally aspire to do.
02:14:07.000Why can't I just do whatever I want to do with my life?
02:14:10.000Because to be the best mom ever, that is antithetical to being a revolutionary because the best moms typically aren't written in history books.
02:16:59.000I feel like with men, especially, like if you have status and you have like money, you have like, I want to say resources, you can kind of like just pick any woman on Instagram or like social media and just like send a DM.
02:18:39.000Yeah, women live by the quote, the grass green on the other side, and they always want to explore what it is.
02:18:44.000That's why it's like such a problem when girls have higher body counts or when girls have had more boyfriends, because what ends up happening is they always think the grass green on the other side.
02:19:46.000The line between keeping and attaining are two different things.
02:19:49.000And if you don't believe us, find the hottest girl in your friend group, whether it's Susie or Jackie or Janice, Charlie Drake, and check her DMs.
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02:20:18.000I think it's different for women and men.
02:20:20.000But I would say just for men itself, yeah, men have to change and evolve to become better.
02:20:24.000But women, it's kind of like they change for like a reason.
02:20:27.000Either it's a dire situation where they have to change, so they're forced to change, or it's kind of like, you know, yeah, it's kind of forced to change.
02:23:11.000Was it because they didn't make money?
02:23:12.000Was it because they abused you or beat you?
02:23:14.000Was it because they didn't provide or some shit?
02:23:19.000Like, well, don't worry, we know it was their fault, or they cheated on you first and you got get back.
02:23:23.000No, it was their fault, but just tell us how'd you cheat?
02:23:26.000Um, how I cheated, yeah, because obviously it was their fault, but like, you know, I feel like it wasn't cheating because, like, at that point, like, I was just done, like, I was done with the relationship, so it wasn't what were the inadequate in that made you say I'm looking elsewhere.
02:23:44.000Like, no personality, no brains, like, just gotta go.
02:26:38.000Because they purport themselves to be a certain thing, and she doesn't do the due diligence, and she figures out that they're a loser after the fact, and then she's like, all right, what the fuck am I doing?
02:26:44.000Yeah, I feel like that doesn't have to be explained to them either.
02:26:47.000Like, you don't have to tell the person.
02:26:48.000Like, they will really just, like, no.
02:26:49.000So she justifies it to herself because it's like, they're scammers and liars.
02:26:52.000So she looks at it like, if I go cheat on this nigga, who cares?
02:28:10.000Like we said earlier, thinking that they could do better and that they have a better option when the man in front of them is doing everything that they need done.
02:28:17.000So I think that's kind of like the main thing.
02:28:20.000It looks better, but it's not always better.
02:28:21.000I'll say the biggest mistake is if you guys don't add enough value up front, bro.
02:28:34.000In your situation with your guys, like, what did you, like, did you ever like do anything for them when you came in besides like smash them?
02:28:45.000Like, yeah, like, you know, like, kind of like you were saying, like, you know, I don't mind, like, going out to dinner, like, something like that.
02:28:51.000But it's like, I have to, like, see that, too.
02:28:53.000Like, no, but what did you do for them?
02:40:47.000If you're making a million dollars a year and you're the special, special man, my dream man, making a million dollars a year, have this big house providing.
02:44:44.000The only difference between a guy that has money and a guy that doesn't is the guy that has the money can go get the girl physically versus paying for it on OnlyFans.
02:44:54.000Do you not understand that your entire business is based upon guys not being loyal?
02:44:57.000You make money because guys literally want quantity?
02:45:00.000That's how you're able to make the money that you make?
02:45:02.000Like, your entire profession is based around men not being loyal.
02:45:40.000So, if I tell you like 90% of men, 98% of men are going to cheat if they get the opportunity, then why would you think they're going to get the exception?
02:49:53.000Like, you got to remember, like, you do OnlyFans.
02:49:55.000So, like, your pool of men is, like, limited already.
02:49:59.000Like, we don't care how much money you make.
02:50:00.000I would rather date, I'm telling you right now, guys that make money, we would rather date a girl that works at McDonald's, okay, that's not on the internet, over a girl that's on the internet with 1.5 million followers on OnlyFans.
02:51:50.000She knows what I'm saying is true, bro.
02:51:52.000It's just like it's incredible that like you don't have the ability to like, I just connected the dots for you, like you had a millionaire.
02:51:57.000He didn't want to be with you because you did that, what you did.
02:51:59.000I told you what it is, and you're still like, well, I'm going to find him anyway.
02:53:54.000Yo, if you had scamming, cheating criminal niggas like cheating on you, what the fuck do you think a guy that has legitimate money is gonna do?
03:00:00.000So, like, you know, a guy that makes a million dollars, why is he going to pick you when he can get another girl that doesn't do OnlyFans that looks like you?
03:03:52.000Cam says, a psychologist says men that spoil a woman are most likely to get cheated on because women that crave a good life do not seek emotional intimacy, but she craves financial intimacy.
03:04:04.000Yeah, I feel like that difference is definitely a key, so for sure.
03:07:06.000Okay, ladies, we'll play a game before we close the show.
03:07:08.000Yeah, you don't got to incriminate yourself.
03:07:09.000You might not necessarily be involved in all the comeback data, but you've definitely been hanging with some niggas that be doing some shit.
03:07:18.000Probably hold up, you know, a little bit of drugs here, hold a little bit of drugs there, scam a little bit here, do application over here.
03:12:27.000I got some fresh new insights on kind of like the male perspective.
03:12:32.000What was the most alarming thing that you, or the most important thing you learned, or the most thing that stuck out so much?
03:12:38.000The thing that stuck out the most was honestly hearing like from all the gentlemen that even if you make no money and you're loyal, that you will still get cheated on.
03:13:45.000Okay, what was the most interesting thing for you?
03:13:47.000The fact that I feel I'm usually around just people in my industry because I'm usually just working and they're, you know, more open minded.
03:13:56.000So, what are they more open minded to?
03:17:09.000Because I'm just saying, like, conservative guys are going to be selective on certain things, especially a provider, which is what you're looking for.
03:17:15.000And providers are very hard to come by in today's day and age, as you know, with the economy.
03:17:35.000You're better off than she is then, I guess.
03:17:37.000Because that's the number one thing you're gonna have to deal with.
03:17:39.000If you do any type of sex work as a female, number one thing you're gonna have to contend with is like, he's gonna want other women automatically.
03:17:46.000He's gonna want a girl that doesn't do that type of work.
03:17:49.000He's gonna need something to juxtapose you.
03:17:52.000If you do any type of stripper, OnlyFans, porn, whatever.
03:17:57.000The number one thing, you've got to be okay with him having other girls because he's going to want a girl that's like a stay at home, boring, submissive girl that you guys would say like lame.
03:19:40.000Yeah, I'd rather walk in with a chick that's fucking mid that no one knows than walk in with a girl that's like famous but a porn star because I'll get made fun of for being there with her.