00:47:50.000Well, okay, I know you can't say that selling your body makes you successful or sex, but I'm just going to say if you're going to commit the sin, at least, like.
00:49:58.000I dropped out because I lost my college.
00:50:01.000I went to college in Idaho on a track and field running scholarship, and then I lost my scholarship because my body is defunctated and I got a stress fracture in my femoral neck.
00:50:13.000I'm not deformed, but I have a pelvic tilt, and then with the mileage from high school.
00:58:17.000And, you know, I think eventually, one day, if I decide to find someone, It's just one of those consequences I have to face and just, you know, find someone who accepts it.
01:04:30.000And for me, I don't like to fuck around and like everyone that, like people, whenever I've gone on dates, it's just really funny because I'm very flat out honest and I tell them what I do for work.
01:04:39.000And I guess, like, you know, I own up to it.
01:04:42.000I don't care what they think, I guess.
01:05:12.000I feel like some people, they're like totally chill with it at first.
01:05:16.000And then, whenever they, when it comes to the real deal of like being, me like still working, like if I'm dating, like it just, when it comes to the real deal, like it's something very hard to get over, like being able to go online and see the girl that you're seeing, you know, have sex with other people.
01:06:00.000I used to do competitive bodybuilding in the past.
01:06:02.000But going back to that topic, for me, it's like, I can see if someone gets excited and just thinks that I'm a quick, easy hookup, but I don't do that.
01:06:15.000So, you never done a one-hit stand before?
01:10:43.000And that's my best friend, and that's and I'm just saying that's a really dark part of the industry where people it's just there's a lot of negative.
01:13:21.000Well, someone's going to put a picture.
01:13:24.000Someone at Casqual put a picture or something.
01:13:26.000I've seen an epidemic where girls come on camera, OnlyFans girls, and they'll lie about their experiences with guys to, I guess, get more clicks or more views.
01:13:33.000And all in all, the guy that's being talked about, people know who he is.
01:16:04.000But what's the goal for dating for you now?
01:16:06.000Is it to find a man just to have some fun?
01:16:08.000Honestly, I'm not really into like dating right now, I'm focused on myself.
01:16:13.000I've had like bad experiences or whatever, so it's like connecting to other people or like trying to get to talking to other people is like a scary experience.
01:16:21.000Bad experiences, could you go into more detail?
01:18:50.000Like, I've been having a lot of good luck, and guys have been asking me out a lot, and I've been having a lot of fun, and I'm not, you know, taking anybody like serious.
01:20:45.000I think knowing a guy for about a year kind of sets things up into like, okay, you've seen me through my ups and downs, and I hope that this friendship lasts a very long time, and maybe one day we'll get married.
01:21:00.000Oh, so you're like fuck buddies for a year, basically, is what you're saying.
01:23:48.000Like, I talk to some guys, but then deep down, I think to myself, one day I'm going to marry somebody, and I don't want to give the same love that I'm giving to the stranger to my future husband.
01:24:00.000So I'm just kind of like reserving my heart, and I'm trying not to get too much.
01:24:05.000You're just not going to suck their dick with the same veracity.
01:25:04.000Because it's interesting to kind of see the discrepancy between, like, you know, how the road war works versus, like, how you guys view things and how you kind of look at things, but it's fine.
01:25:13.000So for you, you said you were trying to find a way to cater to a guy.
01:25:34.000How did you discover that you have a listening problem?
01:25:37.000Oh, so when I was talking to them for a couple weeks, I realized like every time they would tell me to do something or I just wasn't fucking with it, I just would look at them dumb.
01:26:32.000And then, yeah, just work on my own skills.
01:26:35.000I so get out of the sex industry, yeah, yeah, and then um, uh, uh, continue building my business up, and also just you know, well, the question is that explicitly benefit that, like, benefits you.
01:26:46.000Well, that's that's what I'm saying to like give up that to have a proper business.
01:26:52.000I think it's way number one, way more respectable.
01:26:55.000I still won't fix anything, so that's showing respect to like say, like, hey, I'm gonna choose a proper job, yeah, I have to clock in like 12 hours, but whatever, like, I'm going to take that and work over the quick, easy money.
01:28:06.000So, like, you leaving isn't really going to benefit him.
01:28:09.000I would argue, if anything, it's going to hurt him because at some point it's going to come out whether you tell him the truth and say, hey, I used to do this or you don't.
01:28:16.000And then he finds out through somebody else.
01:28:17.000But the videos are always going to be out there.
01:28:19.000People are always going to say something and.
01:28:31.000Like, that doesn't benefit him at all.
01:28:33.000I still think that stopping all of that type of work is beneficial in the sense of showing respect to my man.
01:28:39.000And I think that's the most important part.
01:28:41.000Not only that, it will take away stress, but like, it's just disrespectful to him.
01:28:45.000And that's what's important based off your question.
01:28:47.000You asked me, what am I going to do to benefit and like cater to having a husband one day?
01:28:52.000And it means sacrificing everything that is not okay towards him.
01:28:55.000And for me and my values, that's that.
01:28:57.000I don't know, you could say that I don't have values due to what I do, but when it comes down to the basis of who I sleep in my bed with for the rest of my life and that I, you know, commit myself to, I think to me that's important.
01:29:41.000So it's like I should also be looking into someone and see, like, okay, if I will devote myself to you, I want to see where you're going to lead us.
01:29:47.000Especially, I want a family one day, which I know that might also be another thing.
01:30:03.000So it seems like, because you mentioned discipline and, you know, these certain things that, like, are very big predictors on someone's future.
01:30:50.000Okay, but how is that success and that respect garnered?
01:30:53.000It literally depends on what he does with it.
01:30:55.000That also comes from like having, excuse me, I'm having a hard time translating right now, but it's not motivation in the word that I'm looking for, but.
01:31:11.000I mean, it's kind of like it's pretty general if you're what is the metric of success for a guy?
01:31:17.000I mean, once again, you're like stereotypic money.
01:31:20.000Well, no, it's not money, it's about the promise of a good life.
01:31:23.000That could be you don't have to be the richest, but you have the right things in life, you know.
01:31:28.000All right, see, this is why I don't like talking to women because you guys don't mean what you say or mean what you say, you guys don't like.
01:31:35.000Mean what you say or say what you mean?
01:32:37.000And I know damn well for you, the amount of money you make, there's no way you're going to fucking give that up for some guy that's a broky making 50K per year or something like that.
01:32:43.000He's going to have to make a significant amount of money for you to actually give up what you're doing right now.
01:34:33.000Yeah, so yeah, you have to crystal ball.
01:34:35.000The guy's attractive, but like, you know that he's gonna become a bum and an alcoholic, and in three to five years, he's gonna be broke, and he's not gonna wanna go to rehab.
01:35:18.000So, like, it's just saying, like, they'll only say the politically correct thing every single time.
01:35:21.000So, just like you said that, like, you know, if you knew that he was going to be a bum and destitute in three to five years and, you know, he had it all, then he becomes an alcoholic and doesn't want to go to rehab, you would not date with him?
01:35:30.000That's exactly how men feel about girls that have like certain pasts.
01:37:31.000It's whoever eventually that I, when I decide that I am in the right stance and I'm doing good and I think that I'm ready to, you know, not embarrass myself with someone that I want to try looking for.
01:37:42.000But you've made enough money to stop now, haven't you?
01:39:02.000So, when it makes a decline, too, if you want to like talk about the whole sex work shit, like you know what I mean?
01:39:07.000What the older you get as a woman, and then my values go down, and then of course, like, sure, there's a whole list if you want to name them, yeah, sure.
01:39:14.000So, so think about that you're making more money, you're getting older, your standard is going up, but your market value is going down.
01:39:22.000So, if anything, it's going to be harder for you to find a guy later on, and you're going to have more content out there, too.
01:39:27.000So, like, yeah, do you not see like kind of how you're burning the candle on both ends, but saying, like, oh.
01:42:15.000You're going to have to, like, change your name, fucking have a fake identity, go off on a farm somewhere, pray to God that that guy doesn't know who you are.
01:42:24.000If you, as a girl, like, if you've done porn or OnlyFans, the only way you're going to be able to find a guy that's, like, worth a damn, that you respect and you like and isn't, like, some faggot cuck, is you're going to have to basically, I don't go, fuck, guys.
01:42:46.000And just, like, how the unrealistic thing of, like, I want the sick blah, blah, blah, that the girls will say, like, it's the same idea, but, like, hopefully I can find that, you know, like, Is it depressing to think that way?
01:42:58.000Yeah, but like I try to learn to learn significantly and get with like a more average guy that will accept that.
01:43:02.000But I don't know, but that's okay if that's what I get from it.
01:43:32.000Like, it's very difficult to, like, date a guy of a certain caliber and then, like, go backwards and deal with something else, especially when you've had more.
01:43:51.000She's been to Sandra Prey before, whatever.
01:43:52.000She can always compare the man that she's with to dudes before.
01:43:55.000This is why women typically, the more partners they have, the more men they've been with, the harder it is for a relationship to last because women always base the guy that they're with off of other men they've been around.
01:44:32.000That would work if women weren't retards, but they are retards and I'll explain why.
01:44:35.000The problem with women is they need this constant emotional turmoil from a man that, like, agitates certain, uh, You know, emotional things.
01:44:44.000So women need to feel like, okay, I got a guy who's like attractive, but at the same time, he keeps me on my toes, but at the same time, he's a nice guy, but at the same time, he's able to, you know, be a gentleman here, but then also be an asshole here, put me on my place here.
01:44:56.000So, in other words, you want a guy that can like kind of do it all.
01:44:58.000And the problem with that is that, like, a leader, yeah.
01:45:15.000And then also, it's like, you know, he's got to have like all these traits.
01:45:18.000Like, he's got to be a bad boy, but at the same time be a nice guy, but then be a gentleman.
01:45:21.000It's like, I call it like being the dark gentleman.
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01:51:53.000Um, right now, I'm really focused on getting my mental health right because right now, no, no man really wants to deal with dealing with past traumas and also the trauma, like the mental strain that I have right now doing this industry.
01:52:07.000And right now, it's like obviously it's not easy.
01:52:35.000I have a rap sheet of, like, shit on the internet that's not going to be, you know, that, that, you know, I sign things that, You know, it's going to be on the internet.
01:52:43.000But for me, in the future, I do want to eventually delete all of my Instagram and go incognito, legally change my name and never.
01:52:52.000Like, legally change my name before I have a kid.
01:52:55.000Did you learn that from what me just said just now?
01:53:00.000Like, I'm looking at what it is, how much to pay a service to delete my Instagram and then legally change my name before I have a kid because I don't want anything to do with that and I won't be public.
01:53:10.000I hope you find somebody that will accept you no matter what.
01:53:41.000I damn sure aren't, and most guys aren't either.
01:53:44.000I feel like there are certain things that you can bring out in a partner that.
01:53:48.000You need to work on, and like, in order to like, it's not like changing them who they are because a relationship won't work whenever you just have someone and you want to change them to fit your, you know, perfectly for you.
01:53:59.000But it's a relationship is in between two people and you work on bettering yourselves for each other.
01:54:07.000But like, let me help you real quick, right?
01:54:55.000Just put my mental health in check because for me, in the past, I have put a lot of my mental health issues on my other partner and that's unfair to them.
01:55:03.000And we just, it's just, you know, bring out the worst in each other.
01:55:06.000And I don't want for someone to be picking up the pieces that I should have been picked up, that should have been picked up.
01:55:11.000Also, when you date someone that does OF, no offense, you guys are kind of like messed up in the head.
01:56:04.000You realize, hey, nigga, we do what we want.
01:56:06.000So I kind of find interesting how, like, all of you guys are either doing absolutely nothing or starting from, like, a negative and working your way towards being, like, at a zero.
01:56:15.000Because, like, you do realize, like, a regular girl that, like, comes from, like, a somewhat sane household that isn't on some bullshit, like, will already be feminine, submissive to a degree and, like, learn how to obey, learn how to cook, not have mental issues, not be in sex work.
01:57:15.000I mean, but I say also with this industry, we do attract a lot of like, because it's such a low frequency, what I believe in energies and frequencies.
01:57:22.000I feel like this industry is very low vibrational.
01:57:25.000And it's like we attract the same type of energy.
01:57:28.000Like I always, I've been caught up in like, where I'm like, holy shit, how, who was that?
01:58:19.000That's why I said you have to learn to live with the consequences.
01:58:21.000That's like what you're going to take the apple and then just be like, well, that's what I'm saying, though.
01:58:25.000Yeah, but the consequences, like, what I'm saying is, like, the consequences, like, I'm not saying that you guys are never going to get married or can't find a guy, but what I'm saying is that the guy's going to be a faggot and you're not going to like him.
01:59:27.000Women that have the highest rate of divorce.
01:59:29.000Yeah, and women overwhelmingly are the ones that aren't happy or whatever.
01:59:32.000And it's because we kind of lie to you guys and tell you guys that you should be happy in a relationship.
01:59:35.000And it's like Disney fairy tales and shit when that's not the reality.
01:59:40.000But, like, and then also the other thing is, like, a lot of you guys are chasing a very certain type of guy.
01:59:45.000And, like, that guy, a lot of you just don't qualify for him or deserve him.
01:59:48.000Like, a lot of you guys, like, oh, I want a man that's, like, you know, like she said, $100,000 plus, six foot tall, good looking, charming.
01:59:55.000But unfortunately, a lot of you guys don't qualify for that, dude, unfortunately.
01:59:59.000I mean, they'll smash you, but that's pretty much it.
02:00:00.000Yeah, they'll have sex with you, but like, are you going to keep them on a retainer long term?
02:00:31.000Either of y'all ever getting one like a dude that's like that you're because you said you want a leader, you want a dominant guy, you want a very I would love to have a girlfriend and boyfriend in one.
02:00:41.000And if it turns into like a fruitful thing, I don't know, it's like a type A personality guy.
02:00:46.000Like, you would want like a I hate this, I don't, I hate the term alpha male, it's fucking gay, but you want that kind of guy.
02:00:51.000The only way you're gonna get one of those guys, like, for you is like you're gonna be like girlfriend number three or four, and like he's gonna have like a main chick that's like probably like a virgin or like doesn't do sexual, and then like another girl, and then like you'll be like the third and you'll be a part of the like as long as I could like.
02:01:05.000Be like also with the woman, I'd be happy with that.
02:03:27.000Right now, it's just because of my own personal issues, not trauma, just issues, like things that I like to reevaluate myself.
02:03:36.000And I'm like, okay, I have too many issues that I'm trying to put on someone.
02:03:39.000Because for a man like that, they have to have, for someone to be a provider, a man has to be straight and not have to be worrying about, oh, what's she going to be breaking down about today?
02:04:15.000It sounds easy, but when you actually get into it and you're not going to be the princess, you're not going to have to go on the trips a lot of the time.
02:04:22.000Like, yo, like, look, bro, it sounds luxurious.
02:04:24.000Yeah, like, because you'll be like the second, third chick, so like, Like when the main chick like bores him or pisses him off, he's gonna hit you up.
02:04:31.000Like, you're gonna be a perpetual side chick.
02:04:33.000No, you mean side, you don't mean like, like a side chick.
02:04:36.000I was thinking more like, no, we're all in the same household.
02:05:19.000Like, and then she's always, like, that's how she's gonna look at it.
02:05:22.000And, like, y'all be able to go on dates and shit, but she's always gonna talk shit about you.
02:05:25.000That's why, that's why the percent is so low.
02:05:28.000You're gonna have to, you're you have to date that girl on the side.
02:05:31.000It has to be one of those relationships where, like, that girl with her man is allowed to date girls and then she brings you in because she actually likes you.
02:05:37.000Then, yeah, there's a chance it could be something, you know?
02:05:40.000If not, or or he or he isolates y'all, like, he don't he don't bring you with her.
02:07:22.000So it's either going to be you'll be treasured by like a guy that you don't respect that's kind of a cuckold weirdo, right?
02:07:28.000Or you'll be with that provider, Chad, but he's going to like treat you as like a side chick or a girl number two, and you won't be the priority.
02:07:36.000You might not get the house and the ring that you want.
02:07:39.000That's what we were basically talking about.
02:07:41.000Like understanding, like, and you know, like.
02:10:31.000I want to make sure you guys all have your piece or whatever.
02:10:33.000But look, I'll give you two credit because, like, when we've had discussion with other girls that, like, do that stuff, Like, you guys are far more reasonable, so I give you guys credit for that.
02:10:40.000At least you guys are aware, like, okay, this I might have to do this.
02:10:43.000We understood what we're doing, you know?
02:17:42.000The only reason why, besides this piercing, the only thing I got pierced on my ears, the only reason why I got this, I felt like it was a smart move.
02:17:50.000Man, you just think it was a dumb move.
02:18:14.000The guys that are worthy of, like, you know, not losers or whatever, they're going to look and they're going to be like, I want a woman that's natural.
02:18:20.000There's, like, black women that are natural are the most attractive by far.
02:18:34.000I don't like, I don't really date black girls, but I'm telling you, like, you could really kill it if you, like, you know, kept a natural look.
02:21:51.000No, but those are my two favorite movies for that.
02:21:55.000I don't trust any girls when they talk about anime or Marvel.
02:22:00.000Because, really, when it comes to this stuff, like, When it comes to like hobby shop stuff, nerdy stuff, I realized that women didn't start taking interest in this shit until social media became a thing.
02:22:13.000Like, I remember having to have my Pokemon cards and my Yu Gi Oh cards hiding them shits because, like, if you did, a girl would laugh at you if you even had them.
02:26:05.000Girls, bro, it's like it's like to be for a dude for you to be on a yacht, you gotta be a millionaire, for a chick, you gotta just exist, bro.
02:26:13.000We just saw 10 different hairstyles, yeah, on 10 different yachts, man.
02:35:23.000We have these talks a lot about, you know, all the girls talk about this type of shit because also, like, you're trying to check your homegirls, like, bitch, you're not gonna get this.
02:36:15.000I mean, clearly, you're like Red Pill.
02:36:19.000Yeah, I mean, but like, what woke you guys up, though?
02:36:21.000Because, like, yeah, semi, but like, not as bad as others.
02:36:24.000Like, what made you guys realize, like, damn, like, you had to have had, like, some kind of epiphany moment where, like, you thought you were going to get something and, like, you didn't get it.
02:36:31.000And it must have, like, I wasn't that.
02:36:32.000It's just more of like, over time, I realized, just like, more of like, just, I'm not living in delusion anymore.
02:36:39.000It's just more of like, that's why I just kind of just want to.
02:36:41.000You thought you were going to get it, and then you're like, that's not going to happen.
02:36:43.000I never thought I was going to get it.
02:38:08.000But after that, I was just like, uh, how did you having a gay boyfriend, like, how did that make you realize, like, damn, I don't qualify for a top tier guy?
02:38:16.000Well, it's because I just realized that this industry just brings out a lot of the bad, and I'm kind of just cooked.
02:38:23.000She thought she had that perfect relationship.
02:38:26.000I did, and then after that, I got beaten up.
02:40:12.000That's just like one in a, you know, there's a lot of people in the industry, but I, I, there are some respectable men out there that I, who?
02:43:24.000The thing is that when you tell a woman, like, that was dumb or shut up or whatever, like, that implies, like, superiority, and that's what women actually, like, find.
02:43:33.000And that's how you feel, or you just think that?
02:43:36.000Do I. How do I. That's how you feel, or do you think that?
02:43:58.000I know, like, it comes off like kind of fucked up or whatever, but like women actually enjoy it when, or they prefer it when you're like very.
02:44:05.000Like straightforward, and you like, like, I don't think women is equals to me.
02:44:08.000Like, I look at women's inferiors, and they like it that way.
02:44:11.000Like, no girl wants to be a guy, like, I'm equal to this guy.
02:46:01.000You have to be, like, a competent individual, but, like, I do truly believe that women say dumb shit all the time and never get told to shut up.
02:46:07.000And they just continue to perpetuate this stupidity.
02:46:09.000And you're telling me it's right to believe, or you just feel like it's just women?
02:46:14.000And the reason why it's a majority of women is because only women can get away with saying stupid shit without being checked over because men want to sleep with them.
02:50:37.000If I'm 16, would you ever really want to give up if, like, let's say this never became successful?
02:50:42.000Like, but you've been going at it for four or five years, you're like, I don't want to give up, like, I really want this, and then, like, the possibility one day kicks off.
02:50:49.000I know that's a stupid, illogical, like, question to throw out there for you to answer, but do you get the principle?
02:50:54.000It's like, I would argue it's not analogous whatsoever.
02:51:14.000I'm just saying, realistically speaking, yeah.
02:51:16.000So, like, for me, the like, it would be like, I'm going to sell drugs, but I'm never going to get caught and I'll eventually be a millionaire and retire from it.
02:51:37.000I don't want necessarily their relationships, but it helps to be around other people who are in committed, long term relationships only with each other.
02:52:49.000Like, handcuffs and stuff, bondage, BDSM.
02:52:53.000Oh, so just for you two, the two things that red pilled you was your guy was like gay and you didn't know it and you thought it would have been future.
02:53:01.000And then for you, it was like you found out, like, your and also my grandparents, it's like, this is forever gonna be there.
03:01:30.000No, more about like when it comes, like, Kind of earlier, how you're saying like you want to be like the 10 and sweeter to like the girls and stuff, but like how you're saying, like, I'm not being an asshole, it's just like how I am because you've already achieved that like high value, what you would say, like, stop being about success and start being about.
03:01:45.000Well, it's because I thought the question was about what you would ask the guy about dating.
03:02:03.000You want to look here, pass it to her?
03:02:06.000Maybe looking at it will jog your memory about what you're trying to really ask.
03:02:10.000So, basically, at what point, when you've achieved like the high status value, would you change how your emotional discipline with women changes?
03:02:21.000Like, from going to like the simp version or like maybe being so lovely, dovey to like, okay, no, I know exactly what type of girl I want and this is it.
03:02:28.000It's not going to change and she has to come this way or it's like nothing else.
03:03:32.000You can care and, like, tender and care for it to a certain point, but, like, you guys, high value women are not important.
03:03:38.000I've never, I've never focused on, well, that's exactly why I've been able to be where I am is, like, I've never focused on chicks like that.
03:03:43.000Though, well, I guess that was my question because, you know, you don't get to chat with many men like that.
03:03:48.000So, my question is, I'm trying to pick out your brain to see at what point in your life did you make the switch and went, okay, no, this is how I'm going to.
03:03:54.000So, I talked about this on a TikTok live one time and then also on, um, I think I did a TikTok, but I'll quickly re summarize.
03:04:15.000Then I ended up working for the government and became an agent with Homeland.
03:04:20.000I was able to take a career down in Laredo, Texas, but that's because I didn't have a serious girlfriend.
03:04:23.000So, I was able to move and do what I needed to do for my career.
03:04:26.000No girl would want to go with me to Laredo, Texas.
03:04:28.000That's the middle of nowhere, like on the border.
03:04:30.000So, like, I didn't take women seriously there.
03:04:32.000And then also, when I was in Laredo, Texas, I knew if I got like with a Mexican girl there and I got like pregnant or whatever, I'd be stuck there for the like forever.
03:04:59.000The problem with being a guy is like, women will absolutely rob you of wealth and like, Like, they'll rob you of wealth, time, and like resources because, like, the pursuit of women in itself is very, um, it costs money and time and resources.
03:05:12.000So, may I ask you a second question about this?
03:05:14.000At what point do you think now that bringing a woman into the image would make sense without costing any of it?
03:05:23.000I'm not asking for girls who do what like we do, but for like these girls on the panel, like, what would she have to be to be at that level?
03:05:28.000I know be the peace, don't be problematic, learn to listen, be a bit obedient, but like, these are the things you.
03:05:34.000Constantly here, and it's like, I could tell you, like, I could tell you anything unique that you guys have personally experienced that, like, you care to share for us women.
03:05:50.000Uh, okay, so you still haven't found the one, then even you, even you struggle to find the one.
03:05:56.000The thing is, is that, like, I'm not looking for the one.
03:05:59.000Oh, okay, okay, that's a very like, so you're still not at that stage yet that you are like, okay, I have everything I want, there's nothing else I want, I'm still six, I'm growing, but like.
03:06:08.000You know, like us getting married, you don't have to marry the girl, but like to finally have someone claimed by your side because you've made it to that level of sex.
03:06:48.000And the problem is that, like, a lot of women don't, unfortunately.
03:06:52.000So, like, this is why so many girls have a difficult time with finding a guy because a lot of girls come in and be like, oh, well, you better impress me.
03:06:58.000You better, like, you know, show me a good life, whatever.
03:07:01.000Like, a lot of girls come into a relationship, like, what can you do for me?
03:07:04.000And what ends up happening, like, when girls do that is, like, you'll get a guy maybe to take you on a few dates.
03:07:08.000You'll get a guy to hook up with you, date you casually here and there.
03:07:11.000But, like, is he going to keep you around?
03:08:12.000I think that's what women need to focus on is like, you need to make it where it's like, you're so much of a fucking asset to this guy where it's like, damn, like, it's got to be like, I don't even like this girl, but I can't get rid of her.
03:08:24.000And then he's going to like come to like you.
03:08:30.000You don't want the guy to not like you.
03:08:31.000What I'm saying, what I'm explaining is that, like, you may add so much goddamn value that even if he doesn't like you, he has to keep you around.
03:10:06.000And you know, lasted long and added value and was like a good girlfriend, and you're like, or was like a good partner, and you're like, damn, she was like a best friend.
03:11:29.000So that's where I would say is like a lot of women fuck up is like, they kind of like, I don't want to, I'm going to go find a guy that's going to treat me better or I think I can do better.
03:11:38.000But the reality is, is like, can he do better though?
03:11:43.000You know, like, look, this is the last thing I'll say for you ladies.
03:11:47.000The pickier you are, the harder it's going to be to find your guy.
03:11:51.000And then when you find him, are you really going to go ahead and be a retard and like, just like, oh yeah, I'm going to act like a princess?
03:11:57.000Like, The picker you are, the less you have to be on his program, not the other way around.
03:12:01.000And that's where so many girls fuck up is they think, I found him, this is my man, and I'm going to act like a bitch.
03:12:06.000And it's like, nah, bro, he's going to replace you with some other girl.
03:12:37.000Yeah, sex is pretty much like a standard.
03:12:39.000Like, dude, like, the problem is that if I could give one fucking tip to women, like, that they could, like, stop being so fucking useless.
03:12:46.000Like, so many girls are useless, dude.
03:12:48.000It's incredible, like, how little value, like, in utility women actually, like, bring to men's.
03:12:52.000Like, a lot of girls, like, I'm just going to show up and I'm pretty.
03:13:22.000I think it's the type of men that you're into.
03:13:25.000Because there's, like, you could be into a guy who got a lot going on for himself, but, like, and he feels like he's bigger than the program.
03:13:33.000No, The bottom line is if you like shoes, who put effort?