Fresh & Fit - Guy Paid 10k For 1st Date & Got NO SEX!

00:00:03.000 Let's go!

00:00:14.000 Nobody cares, bro!

00:00:24.000 Get out! 0.98

00:00:34.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:00:36.000 You don't got to put them on in here.

00:00:53.000 Welcome back.

00:00:54.000 What's up, guys?

00:00:54.000 Welcome to the Fresher Podcast, Half the Hours edition.

00:00:56.000 We're here with Mike Sartain and a bunch of girls.

00:00:58.000 Quick announcement before we get into the show.

00:00:59.000 It's actually maybe like one or two.

00:01:01.000 Romo.com slash Fresher Fit, guys.

00:01:02.000 Okay, that's where you can go ahead and find us if, you know, the day comes that we get canceled.

00:01:05.000 Right now, we're in YouTube jail.

00:01:07.000 But we're going to be back on YouTube next week.

00:01:10.000 We are probably going to stream on the Cliffs channel.

00:01:15.000 We'll probably do like one or two streams on Fresher Fit and then, you know, just so we can get it out there.

00:01:19.000 But I'll Probably announce it now.

00:01:20.000 More than likely, we're probably going to do all of our streams on the Fresh Fit Clips channel until September.

00:01:26.000 And don't worry, we'll give you all a reminder.

00:01:27.000 But we'll be back on Monday with YouTube.

00:01:29.000 And then we'll also probably upload some of these podcasts that we did the past two weeks on YouTube as well for you guys.

00:01:35.000 They're probably going to be edited and stuff, but you guys know what time it is.

00:01:38.000 Also, yeah, that's pretty much it.

00:01:41.000 Yes.

00:01:41.000 Yeah.

00:01:42.000 So let's go ahead and, Chris, you had something, right?

00:01:44.000 Yes.

00:01:44.000 Go ahead.

00:01:45.000 Alright, girls. 0.95

00:01:46.000 DM me to RNC Poxon on IG. Make sure your page is not on private.

00:01:50.000 And once again, ladies, gentlemen, we do not send emails out paying you to come onto our show.

00:01:56.000 So please don't.

00:01:57.000 I had about three guys.

00:01:58.000 Scammer, you know?

00:01:59.000 I had about three guys asked me about emails or whatever.

00:02:02.000 We don't do it.

00:02:03.000 So if you're not sure, DM me to RNC Poxon to ask and make sure, okay?

00:02:07.000 Do not give out your banking information.

00:02:10.000 I had three girls already did it. 1.00

00:02:11.000 Give out. 1.00

00:02:12.000 I'm like, stupid. 1.00

00:02:13.000 Like, what are you doing? 1.00

00:02:14.000 I know we look Nigerian, but we're not that.

00:02:18.000 Come on.

00:02:18.000 Do you know the way?

00:02:20.000 Okay, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status. 0.85

00:02:25.000 And if you want to, of course, your body count.

00:02:27.000 We're going to start right here.

00:02:28.000 Welcome back.

00:02:29.000 Hi, I'm Nati.

00:02:30.000 I'm one of the hosts of the Young Hustlers podcast, which is a podcast of enlightening young minds to be successful.

00:02:37.000 And I am single.

00:02:39.000 And I'm currently single.

00:02:41.000 Cool.

00:02:43.000 Come on, man.

00:02:43.000 You gotta go through the...

00:02:44.000 Alright.

00:02:45.000 Alright, what?

00:02:46.000 How old are you?

00:02:47.000 I'm 18.

00:02:48.000 Where are you from?

00:02:50.000 I'm from Miami.

00:02:51.000 Okay.

00:02:51.000 And then you said you run a podcast, right?

00:02:54.000 Yeah, Young Hustlers.

00:02:55.000 Where do you guys broadcast on?

00:02:57.000 YouTube and Instagram.

00:02:59.000 Okay.

00:03:00.000 And you talk about entrepreneurship?

00:03:02.000 Yeah, enlightening young minds to basically be successful in the future.

00:03:06.000 Okay.

00:03:07.000 But aren't you young yourself, though?

00:03:09.000 Yeah.

00:03:10.000 Alright, and then highest education level complete, I'm going to assume it's high school, and then your relationship status is single?

00:03:16.000 And body count?

00:03:31.000 What about you?

00:03:33.000 Name?

00:03:34.000 My name's Anna.

00:03:35.000 How old are you?

00:03:36.000 I'm 24 and I'm an esthetician.

00:03:38.000 Where are you from?

00:03:39.000 Washington State.

00:03:41.000 Okay.

00:03:42.000 And then?

00:03:43.000 And I'm single.

00:03:44.000 Alright, esthetician.

00:03:47.000 Highest education level completed?

00:03:48.000 I have a bachelor's degree.

00:03:51.000 Okay.

00:03:52.000 Where'd you get it from again?

00:03:53.000 UAPB. Okay.

00:03:56.000 Soccer, right?

00:03:57.000 Yes.

00:03:58.000 Oh yeah.

00:03:59.000 I remember.

00:04:01.000 What about you?

00:04:03.000 My name is Daniela.

00:04:04.000 I'm 23 years old.

00:04:06.000 Daniela?

00:04:07.000 Daniela.

00:04:08.000 Daniela, okay.

00:04:09.000 Daniela, yes.

00:04:09.000 I'm 23 and I'm an office coordinator in a staffing company from Colombia and Spain.

00:04:16.000 What passport do you hold?

00:04:18.000 Both.

00:04:20.000 You're a dual citizen.

00:04:21.000 Yes.

00:04:22.000 Where did you go to high school?

00:04:23.000 In Spain and Colombia.

00:04:25.000 You did both?

00:04:26.000 Yes.

00:04:26.000 So you did two years in each one?

00:04:28.000 Like, one year in Spain, one year in Colombia.

00:04:33.000 And then back and forth?

00:04:34.000 Yes.

00:04:35.000 So two years each?

00:04:36.000 Probably, yes.

00:04:37.000 Okay, I'll just put both.

00:04:41.000 And then, what do you do for work again?

00:04:44.000 I'm an office coordinator in a staffing company.

00:04:47.000 Okay.

00:04:48.000 Yes.

00:04:49.000 You say a staffing company.

00:04:51.000 I'm assuming like you basically have a bunch of workers or temp workers and you help them find jobs with...

00:04:57.000 In hotels, yes.

00:04:58.000 Okay.

00:04:59.000 All right.

00:04:59.000 And you do that here in America or back in Colombia or Spain?

00:05:02.000 Here, here.

00:05:02.000 Okay, you do it here.

00:05:03.000 In Miami, yes.

00:05:04.000 Okay.

00:05:05.000 And then what's your highest education level completed?

00:05:07.000 Like marketing and digital business.

00:05:09.000 A bachelor's degree?

00:05:11.000 Kind of.

00:05:12.000 How many years did you go?

00:05:13.000 Like three.

00:05:14.000 In Spain?

00:05:15.000 Yes.

00:05:16.000 Did you graduate?

00:05:18.000 No, because I came to America.

00:05:20.000 Okay, so high school.

00:05:21.000 All right, and then what's your relationship status?

00:05:23.000 I have a boyfriend.

00:05:25.000 Okay.

00:05:26.000 How long have you been together?

00:05:27.000 Like one year.

00:05:28.000 Okay.

00:05:29.000 A question for you.

00:05:30.000 Do you work out?

00:05:32.000 If I work out?

00:05:34.000 Sometimes.

00:05:35.000 Do you go to the gym?

00:05:36.000 Yes.

00:05:36.000 I like to go to the gym.

00:05:39.000 What about you?

00:05:43.000 My name is Monica.

00:05:44.000 I'm a team.

00:05:47.000 How old are you?

00:05:48.000 I'm 18.

00:05:49.000 Where are you from?

00:05:50.000 I was born in Honduras, but I live here since forever.

00:05:54.000 And I don't work, but I live with my boyfriend.

00:05:57.000 Okay, what do you do?

00:05:58.000 Okay, so unemployed.

00:05:59.000 Yeah.

00:06:00.000 All right, and then highest education level, I'm going to assume is high school.

00:06:03.000 You graduated?

00:06:04.000 Mm-hmm.

00:06:05.000 Okay, and then you're in a relationship.

00:06:06.000 How long have I been together?

00:06:07.000 Like two years.

00:06:08.000 Okay.

00:06:08.000 High school sweethearts?

00:06:10.000 Yeah, basically.

00:06:11.000 All right, cool.

00:06:12.000 What about you?

00:06:13.000 Hi, my name is Kinshany.

00:06:15.000 I'm 33.

00:06:16.000 Hey, y'all!

00:06:18.000 Kinshany? 0.77

00:06:19.000 Kinshany? 0.77

00:06:20.000 Yeah.

00:06:20.000 Bless you.

00:06:21.000 Sounds like karate.

00:06:22.000 33?

00:06:23.000 Okay.

00:06:24.000 Where are you originally from?

00:06:26.000 I'm originally from Mississippi.

00:06:27.000 Okay.

00:06:27.000 But I reside in Miami.

00:06:29.000 What part of Mississippi?

00:06:30.000 North Mississippi.

00:06:31.000 It's actually close to Memphis.

00:06:32.000 What's the name of the town?

00:06:34.000 Coldwater.

00:06:34.000 Okay.

00:06:36.000 And what do you do for it?

00:06:38.000 I'm upcoming.

00:06:39.000 I just got licensed not too long ago.

00:06:40.000 I'm a realtor, and I'm also a cosmetic entrepreneur.

00:06:43.000 Okay.

00:06:44.000 I'm assuming you're a realtor here in Florida?

00:06:46.000 Yes, that's correct.

00:06:47.000 Okay.

00:06:47.000 Do you have your realtor license in Mississippi too or not?

00:06:49.000 No, just Florida.

00:06:50.000 Okay.

00:06:51.000 And you said you've been living here for a while, right?

00:06:54.000 Yeah, I've been here for a while.

00:06:56.000 Okay.

00:06:56.000 And highest education level completed?

00:06:58.000 Bachelor's.

00:06:58.000 Okay.

00:06:59.000 And?

00:07:00.000 Interdisciplinary studies, minor community health.

00:07:03.000 Okay.

00:07:03.000 Where'd you get it from?

00:07:04.000 University of Southern Mississippi.

00:07:06.000 That's located in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.

00:07:08.000 Okay, cool.

00:07:09.000 And then, what's your relationship status?

00:07:12.000 Single.

00:07:13.000 And body count?

00:07:14.000 Low.

00:07:15.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

00:07:17.000 I'm curious to know, how many houses have you sold?

00:07:19.000 How many properties have you sold so far?

00:07:21.000 I'm new.

00:07:22.000 I'm still learning.

00:07:23.000 I became one during the pandemic.

00:07:24.000 Oh, you actually meant houses, bro.

00:07:26.000 I thought you were trying to, like, that was the body count question.

00:07:28.000 How many properties have you sold?

00:07:34.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:07:35.000 I thought that's what you're asking.

00:07:37.000 What about you?

00:07:39.000 My name is Camila.

00:07:41.000 I'm 25 years old.

00:07:43.000 I'm married.

00:07:44.000 Where are you originally from?

00:07:45.000 I'm from Colombia.

00:07:47.000 Okay.

00:07:47.000 What part?

00:07:48.000 Medellin.

00:07:48.000 Oh, okay.

00:07:49.000 We just came from there.

00:07:50.000 Awesome.

00:07:51.000 I hope you went there for good reasons.

00:07:54.000 Of course.

00:07:55.000 I wanted to go film.

00:07:56.000 What do you do for work?

00:07:58.000 So, my husband, my brother-in-law, and I open a real estate investing company, multifamily, and it's called Growing Homes.

00:08:05.000 Okay.

00:08:05.000 And we also plant agroforestry, natural food, and those properties.

00:08:09.000 Let me guess, you guys contact owners and say, hey, we'll buy your house cash?

00:08:12.000 No.

00:08:13.000 Okay, what do you guys do specifically then?

00:08:15.000 Multifamily investing.

00:08:17.000 So how do you guys acquire them then?

00:08:19.000 So we have different types of relationships with realtors.

00:08:23.000 We also are doing a lot of ads on Facebook, Instagram.

00:08:27.000 We're building our online presence right now.

00:08:29.000 Okay.

00:08:29.000 But my question is, do you guys buy them?

00:08:32.000 Yeah.

00:08:33.000 Okay, so you buy them.

00:08:34.000 How do you guys get the cash?

00:08:36.000 Do you buy them cash?

00:08:37.000 Do you use leverage of the bank?

00:08:38.000 Yeah, so right now we have eight doors, free and clear.

00:08:41.000 We don't have any debt on those.

00:08:43.000 Okay, so you look for off-market deals and buy them cash.

00:08:46.000 Yes.

00:08:46.000 That's what I said.

00:08:47.000 Oh, well, I just...

00:08:48.000 That's literally what I said earlier.

00:08:49.000 Sorry.

00:08:50.000 Yeah.

00:08:50.000 How do you find the deals?

00:08:52.000 The deals, like I said, it just depends.

00:08:54.000 My husband has been working in real estate for a decade, so he has built really good relationships.

00:08:58.000 They're the people that call you and say you want to sell your house, we'll buy cash.

00:09:01.000 Well, it's not a house.

00:09:03.000 So it's multifamily, so it's buildings.

00:09:06.000 Yeah, yeah, okay.

00:09:07.000 Right.

00:09:07.000 It's residential or is it commercial?

00:09:09.000 It's commercial.

00:09:10.000 Okay, so you guys are buying like five units and up?

00:09:13.000 Yeah.

00:09:13.000 Only.

00:09:13.000 You guys don't do residential?

00:09:14.000 Okay.

00:09:15.000 Okay, same thing about a commercial level.

00:09:16.000 Like the people that call you and say, I'll buy your house cash or I'll buy your apartment, whatever.

00:09:20.000 They do it on a commercial level.

00:09:22.000 Okay.

00:09:22.000 Yeah.

00:09:23.000 Cool. 0.95

00:09:23.000 I hate y'all, man. 0.95

00:09:24.000 You guys keep bothering me. 0.98

00:09:25.000 That's why I know it very well.

00:09:26.000 It's like, they always come, oh, you want to sell your house?

00:09:28.000 No, I don't want to sell my house.

00:09:29.000 Boom.

00:09:29.000 And then you guys do it with commercial.

00:09:31.000 All right.

00:09:31.000 What about you?

00:09:33.000 My name is Albina. 0.99

00:09:34.000 Oh wait, shit, sorry. 0.98

00:09:35.000 What's your highest education level completed? 1.00

00:09:36.000 High school.

00:09:37.000 High school?

00:09:38.000 Cool.

00:09:38.000 And then you said you have a husband, right?

00:09:40.000 How long have you been married?

00:09:41.000 We have been married for three months.

00:09:43.000 Okay.

00:09:44.000 Yeah, we have been together for three years.

00:09:46.000 Okay.

00:09:46.000 Oh, nice.

00:09:47.000 Okay.

00:09:48.000 Is he Colombian too?

00:09:49.000 No.

00:09:49.000 Born and raised in Florida.

00:09:51.000 Okay.

00:09:51.000 All right.

00:09:52.000 What about you?

00:09:54.000 Hi, my name is Albina.

00:09:56.000 I'm 19.

00:09:57.000 I'm from Ukraine.

00:09:59.000 Uh-oh.

00:10:00.000 Oh, yeah.

00:10:01.000 Okay.

00:10:01.000 What do you do for work?

00:10:03.000 Well, I have two businesses.

00:10:06.000 Firstly, I do modeling business, and secondly, I have apartments in Ukraine.

00:10:11.000 Nice.

00:10:12.000 Okay.

00:10:14.000 So, all right.

00:10:15.000 So, you own apartments in Ukraine, so you're a real estate investor in Ukraine, and then you have a modeling business.

00:10:20.000 Yeah, I just possess apartments, yeah.

00:10:22.000 Okay.

00:10:23.000 So, with the modeling business, do you find models and get them jobs, or how does that work?

00:10:27.000 I'm a model.

00:10:29.000 Okay, so you're a freelance model yourself?

00:10:32.000 Yes.

00:10:34.000 Okay, I was a little confused by this.

00:10:36.000 I mean, am I crazy?

00:10:41.000 The way she phrased it, I thought, like, she has a modeling agency and she, like, staffs people.

00:10:45.000 No, bro, it's the chat.

00:10:46.000 Okay, whatever.

00:10:51.000 Okay, so you're a model, basically, is what it is.

00:10:54.000 It's not that you have a modeling business, you are a model.

00:10:57.000 Yes, I'm a freelance model.

00:10:59.000 Okay, alright then.

00:11:00.000 And then you have apartments in Ukraine?

00:11:03.000 Yeah.

00:11:03.000 Okay.

00:11:04.000 Kiev or?

00:11:04.000 Where?

00:11:06.000 Kiev and Odessa.

00:11:08.000 Alright, cool.

00:11:10.000 Do you have all your tenants still in place with the conflict going on?

00:11:13.000 Well, it's safe.

00:11:15.000 It's safe now.

00:11:16.000 Okay, it's good now?

00:11:17.000 They probably fled in the beginning and then...

00:11:17.000 Yeah.

00:11:20.000 Okay, alright.

00:11:21.000 And then what's your highest education level completed?

00:11:23.000 I was studying at university, but I quit it because it's useless.

00:11:29.000 Fair enough.

00:11:31.000 So high school is the highest completed.

00:11:33.000 I just thought about it.

00:11:34.000 What if we went to Ukraine and then we got caught up in a war?

00:11:38.000 We would leave.

00:11:39.000 No, but we can't leave, bro.

00:11:40.000 You became attacked, no?

00:11:43.000 I think it's an American citizen.

00:11:44.000 You can go west and they'll still let you leave.

00:11:46.000 Yeah.

00:11:48.000 But yeah, if you were a Ukrainian national, that's a guy, yeah, you ain't going nowhere.

00:11:53.000 They're gonna put you, they're gonna draft you in the war. 0.99

00:11:56.000 Damn, it's kind of scary. 0.99

00:11:57.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:11:57.000 Okay, and then what's your relationship status? 0.99

00:12:00.000 I have few boyfriends.

00:12:02.000 A few?

00:12:04.000 How many is few?

00:12:07.000 Five.

00:12:09.000 I'm also interested in this story.

00:12:11.000 How do you have five?

00:12:12.000 A lot of the girls on this panel have the same thing, it's just that y'all don't want to admit it.

00:12:19.000 At least she's keeping it a thousand.

00:12:22.000 And how long have you been here in America?

00:12:26.000 Five months.

00:12:27.000 Okay, cool.

00:12:28.000 And then what about you?

00:12:31.000 I'm Kiki.

00:12:33.000 I'm 22.

00:12:35.000 I'm from Washington State, but I live here.

00:12:38.000 And I'm an athlete.

00:12:40.000 I go to school.

00:12:42.000 Okay, full-time student?

00:12:43.000 Yes.

00:12:44.000 And you play soccer too, right?

00:12:46.000 Mm-hmm.

00:12:47.000 Hold on, which one is a better one?

00:12:48.000 Don't do that.

00:12:49.000 You guys did that last time.

00:12:52.000 If I'm not mistaken.

00:12:53.000 I think it was her, right?

00:12:54.000 Yeah, she played D1 and she plays like D2 or D3. It really doesn't matter the level you play.

00:12:58.000 It's how you play.

00:12:59.000 That is true, but she's better.

00:13:01.000 We also play two different positions.

00:13:03.000 Exactly.

00:13:04.000 Doesn't change the fact that one played D1 and the other one plays D2 or D3. Because why would I go to D1 when I get my school paid for and I'm going to graduate debt-free?

00:13:12.000 That's a cop-out.

00:13:14.000 It's not, though.

00:13:15.000 I mean, there's nothing wrong with admitting...

00:13:16.000 It's I'm going to graduate with money in my pocket compared to D1, where I might...

00:13:18.000 I'm messing with you.

00:13:19.000 But I'm just saying, like, you know, some people don't actually know.

00:13:22.000 Like, some people are like, oh, D1, this is that.

00:13:24.000 But, like, at the end of the day, you might graduate and you're in debt, like, a lot.

00:13:30.000 Rather as going to, like, an NAI and you graduate with money in your pocket.

00:13:34.000 Yes.

00:13:36.000 All my school was paid for.

00:13:37.000 It's because of our mom.

00:13:38.000 If she had a full ride at a Division I school, and you got a full ride at a D2 or 3...

00:13:42.000 Technically, women aren't allowed to get full rides, depending on what school you go to. 1.00

00:13:49.000 It's because of our mom.

00:13:51.000 Women absolutely get full rides. 1.00

00:13:53.000 Female sports are way better funded than male sports a lot of times, because they have to be equivalent to how much money they give the male side. 1.00

00:14:00.000 They say that, though.

00:14:01.000 It's a law.

00:14:02.000 They have to do it.

00:14:04.000 That's why if you look at any Division I school, I want you to take a look at the male sports and then look at the female sports.

00:14:09.000 There's going to be 20 times as many female sports. 1.00

00:14:12.000 Versus the men's sports, they're going to typically have whatever their starlight sport is, basketball, football, whatever it is.

00:14:17.000 That's going to be the main thing.

00:14:18.000 That's where most of the money goes into.

00:14:19.000 And then the other sports kind of fall under.

00:14:21.000 But with the female sports, since they have all this money, they're able to fund way more sports. 0.99

00:14:25.000 I mean, this is...

00:14:26.000 I was a Division 1 athlete.

00:14:27.000 That's how I know this.

00:14:28.000 I think it's Title 29 or something like that where you have to equally fund female sports at universities just like men's sports. 0.97

00:14:35.000 Which is why women have way more sports. 1.00

00:14:39.000 She's better.

00:14:40.000 We know the truth.

00:14:44.000 It's okay.

00:14:45.000 I don't have to prove anything.

00:14:48.000 What positions did you play?

00:14:50.000 I play center back or defensive mid.

00:14:52.000 She used to play forward, though.

00:14:54.000 No.

00:14:55.000 And you're a striker.

00:14:57.000 Wingers, maybe.

00:14:58.000 I play defense also.

00:14:59.000 Okay.

00:15:01.000 You play defense right now.

00:15:03.000 Okay!

00:15:04.000 Yeah, they definitely are, man.

00:15:06.000 She impressed.

00:15:06.000 She mad as hell.

00:15:08.000 Alright. 0.57

00:15:09.000 Cool.

00:15:10.000 Is it D2 or D3? It's NAIA. What's NAIA? What's that the equivalent to?

00:15:18.000 It's NAIA. It goes like junior college, NAIA, and then you go D3, D2, D1. That's how it goes.

00:15:29.000 Okay, so it's below D3. It's a whole different conference.

00:15:34.000 It's a whole different conference.

00:15:35.000 So in the chest of D10. What the fuck, bro? 1.00

00:15:38.000 Alright, we'll move on. 1.00

00:15:42.000 So you're in school.

00:15:45.000 What are you majoring in?

00:15:46.000 Psychology.

00:15:47.000 Okay, and then what's your relationship status?

00:15:51.000 Single. 0.99

00:15:52.000 Damn still? 1.00

00:15:53.000 Damn. 1.00

00:15:53.000 Bro, it's been two years. 1.00

00:15:56.000 It's been less than a month.

00:15:58.000 Okay, okay.

00:15:59.000 Alright.

00:16:00.000 Cool.

00:16:02.000 Ladies, I have a question for you.

00:16:04.000 Actually, Mike, introduce yourself real quick.

00:16:05.000 My bad.

00:16:06.000 Hey, what's going on, guys?

00:16:07.000 I'm Michael Sartain, and I live in Las Vegas, and I coach a bunch of dudes, and I say this every single time.

00:16:13.000 One thing I want to say real quick is I want to congratulate my buddy, Rolo Tomasi.

00:16:18.000 Whose daughter got married last night.

00:16:20.000 He was open and public about it.

00:16:22.000 So I want to congratulate him for, you know, living the dream.

00:16:25.000 He's very happy about the whole situation.

00:16:26.000 But that's why he's not here with me in Florida.

00:16:28.000 So congratulations, Rollo.

00:16:33.000 Yes.

00:16:34.000 So ladies, this came up recently.

00:16:36.000 I don't know what your opinion on this.

00:16:37.000 And then give me your take on this as well.

00:16:39.000 What is the most, I want to say, expected thing that guy bought you?

00:16:44.000 And what was it?

00:16:47.000 How much did he actually spend on you?

00:16:49.000 Most expensive and then...

00:16:49.000 You would say.

00:16:51.000 Wait.

00:16:52.000 Most expensive.

00:16:53.000 Oh, most expensive date.

00:16:54.000 Okay, okay.

00:16:55.000 Oh, most expensive date.

00:16:56.000 What's the most expensive first date that you've been on?

00:16:58.000 Yeah.

00:16:59.000 Um...

00:16:59.000 I have to think.

00:17:05.000 Um...

00:17:05.000 Can I just say how much the bill was?

00:17:10.000 Like, $240 something.

00:17:10.000 Sure.

00:17:12.000 Okay.

00:17:13.000 Where'd you go?

00:17:14.000 I don't remember.

00:17:15.000 It was like a high-end restaurant? 0.97

00:17:16.000 Yeah, it was a high-end restaurant, though, but it was like, you know, like the restaurants with like the big old plates, but like the little food, and they're always like, yeah, always like stupid expensive. 0.92

00:17:26.000 Like a French restaurant.

00:17:27.000 Kind of, yeah, basically, but we just spent like a lot of money on like drinks.

00:17:31.000 Like we ordered food, obviously, but the drinks were like $18, $20, like a drink.

00:17:37.000 It was in Washington State?

00:17:43.000 No, it was in Vegas.

00:17:46.000 I stayed at Excalibur and Flamingo one time.

00:17:54.000 But I have a little connection in Vegas.

00:17:57.000 Yeah, that makes a lot more sense.

00:17:59.000 Just hit me up next time.

00:18:00.000 You'll go to a better restaurant.

00:18:01.000 But it won't be $2.40.

00:18:02.000 I'll tell you that right now.

00:18:03.000 What about you?

00:18:04.000 Most expensive first date that you've been on?

00:18:07.000 First date is the key.

00:18:09.000 First date?

00:18:10.000 Yeah, that's expensive.

00:18:11.000 With guys, first date?

00:18:12.000 Yeah.

00:18:15.000 Different things.

00:18:16.000 I mean...

00:18:17.000 Tell us one.

00:18:20.000 Maybe like $10,000?

00:18:24.000 $10,000?

00:18:26.000 Yeah.

00:18:26.000 Like in a rubber band, like just handed you $10,000?

00:18:29.000 Yeah, just hanging out.

00:18:31.000 He just said, here you go, have $10,000.

00:18:33.000 It's first date.

00:18:35.000 First date, $10,000.

00:18:37.000 Did the date cost $10,000 or did he give you $10,000?

00:18:41.000 Well, tickets, hotel, traveling, some expenses, restaurants.

00:18:47.000 Okay, so it was kind of like you guys went on a trip.

00:18:49.000 Gift, yeah.

00:18:50.000 Okay, where'd y'all go?

00:18:52.000 It was in San Francisco.

00:18:54.000 Did he tell you how much it cost or you just figured it out on your own?

00:18:54.000 Okay.

00:18:58.000 Well, it was a problem because I had to pay from my own cart, but he gave me cash.

00:19:04.000 Okay.

00:19:05.000 Oh, so he gave you 10 grand.

00:19:06.000 I see what you're saying.

00:19:07.000 You had to buy it with your own card. 0.90

00:19:08.000 So this guy's a drug dealer.

00:19:08.000 Wait.

00:19:09.000 It's basically...

00:19:10.000 Okay, so it makes sense.

00:19:14.000 So she charged it on her card, but he reimbursed it with cash.

00:19:16.000 Okay.

00:19:17.000 Actually, you got more because you got points, too.

00:19:18.000 So show it to him.

00:19:19.000 Yeah.

00:19:20.000 I'll give you points.

00:19:23.000 In San Francisco.

00:19:24.000 You're not lying, though.

00:19:25.000 What about you?

00:19:26.000 Most expensive first date that you've ever been on?

00:19:30.000 I don't think I've been on a really expensive date.

00:19:32.000 It's like first date.

00:19:34.000 Just name the most.

00:19:35.000 It could be 50 bucks at a restaurant.

00:19:38.000 I mean, the most expensive that you can recall.

00:19:40.000 Yeah, for first date.

00:19:40.000 First date?

00:19:42.000 I don't know.

00:19:43.000 150.

00:19:44.000 Okay.

00:19:44.000 100?

00:19:44.000 Where'd y'all go?

00:19:47.000 I don't know.

00:19:48.000 I'm just trying to think.

00:19:49.000 I don't recall something like, oh, that was expensive.

00:19:53.000 You don't remember if it was dinner or anything like that?

00:19:55.000 Food, drinks.

00:19:56.000 Property?

00:19:59.000 No, not really.

00:20:00.000 Honestly, the most expensive date that I've been on is with my husband.

00:20:03.000 Where did he take you for your first date?

00:20:05.000 We went to here and now in Fort Lauderdale.

00:20:11.000 What is that?

00:20:12.000 It's a restaurant that is called Here and Now.

00:20:16.000 Okay, never been there.

00:20:17.000 I never...

00:20:18.000 Chris?

00:20:18.000 No?

00:20:19.000 No, I mean...

00:20:20.000 Is it like an expensive spot?

00:20:24.000 A three-star, four-star type restaurant?

00:20:24.000 Like what?

00:20:26.000 No, I would say it's a good restaurant, but it's not like fancy restaurant.

00:20:29.000 Here and Now.

00:20:31.000 Okay.

00:20:32.000 I don't know about food?

00:20:32.000 Hold on.

00:20:36.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:20:38.000 I'm confused. 1.00

00:20:39.000 Chris, man.

00:20:41.000 You got it.

00:20:41.000 Chris, man.

00:20:41.000 You got it.

00:20:42.000 All right.

00:20:42.000 What about you?

00:20:44.000 Most expensive first date you've been on.

00:20:46.000 I wouldn't say so much about a date.

00:20:48.000 I'll say it's a gift.

00:20:50.000 He purchased me a car.

00:20:50.000 Okay.

00:20:52.000 Shit. 1.00

00:20:53.000 Wait. 1.00

00:20:53.000 Hold on. 1.00

00:20:54.000 Stop it.

00:20:55.000 Period.

00:20:56.000 What did it get you?

00:20:57.000 He said it was the most expensive, so that was like the most expensive thing a guy's ever done for me.

00:21:01.000 So if you say expensive...

00:21:02.000 Number one, what kind of car?

00:21:03.000 It was a BMW. It was back in 2015.

00:21:03.000 Yes.

00:21:07.000 And what year BMW was it?

00:21:08.000 It was a 3 Series.

00:21:09.000 Okay, which year BMW was in 2015?

00:21:12.000 It was a brand new one?

00:21:13.000 It wasn't the newest, but it wasn't like older.

00:21:17.000 Yeah, it was real.

00:21:18.000 It was nice.

00:21:19.000 Number two, had you slept with this guy before he bought you the car?

00:21:19.000 That's number one.

00:21:22.000 We were in a relationship, love.

00:21:23.000 Okay, all right.

00:21:24.000 Let's get that right.

00:21:26.000 We're smacking morals.

00:21:27.000 You tell us.

00:21:28.000 You tell us.

00:21:29.000 Let's get that right.

00:21:29.000 Go on, queen.

00:21:31.000 I'm trying to get it right.

00:21:32.000 Okay, so this is a relationship.

00:21:34.000 That's a bit different than what we asked.

00:21:36.000 We asked, what's the most expensive first date you've been on?

00:21:38.000 Not the most expensive gift.

00:21:39.000 Okay.

00:21:41.000 The only thing I could just be keeping it real, it was that car.

00:21:43.000 So you paid for your own boob job? 1.00

00:21:45.000 Huh? 0.58

00:21:47.000 Say it again? 0.89

00:21:48.000 You paid for your own boob job? 1.00

00:21:49.000 Of course, I'm a boss, babe. 0.99

00:21:51.000 Okay, so nobody paid for your boob job. 1.00

00:21:52.000 I'm just asking.

00:21:53.000 Okay, there's no trip to Fort Lauderdale.

00:21:53.000 No.

00:21:55.000 I understand that was the most expensive gift that you got, but you're in a relationship with that individual, and I'm assuming, how long were you out together before you got that car?

00:22:03.000 We was together like four years.

00:22:05.000 Okay, so you guys were in a serious relationship.

00:22:08.000 I'm asking, most expensive first date you've been on?

00:22:11.000 I wouldn't say anything.

00:22:13.000 Maybe a high-end restaurant.

00:22:15.000 Something like that.

00:22:16.000 That's what I mean.

00:22:17.000 Do you remember the potential...

00:22:20.000 How much it cost?

00:22:22.000 I would say the bill probably was close to $1,500.

00:22:25.000 It was a nice dinner.

00:22:26.000 Where was this?

00:22:28.000 It was in Miami.

00:22:30.000 I think it was...

00:22:33.000 Poppy Steak?

00:22:35.000 It was Komodo.

00:22:36.000 It was alcohol.

00:22:37.000 Got you $1,500.

00:22:38.000 Hey, I don't know.

00:22:39.000 I just enjoy my stuff, enjoy my time.

00:22:41.000 So if you pay for it, that's all that matters, right?

00:22:43.000 Alright.

00:22:44.000 Okay.

00:22:45.000 $1,500 at Komodo, cool.

00:22:46.000 What about you?

00:22:47.000 Most expensive first date for you?

00:22:49.000 I really haven't been on too many first dates to begin with.

00:22:52.000 Okay.

00:22:53.000 Where did your guy that you met, where did y'all go on your first date?

00:22:56.000 I mean, I have a boyfriend now in life.

00:22:57.000 Your boyfriend, yeah.

00:22:59.000 We always go to places.

00:23:01.000 I feel like the most expensive one, I don't really look at the bill, but that I feel was probably the most expensive was this really, really small restaurant in Coconut Grove.

00:23:12.000 And it was one old French lady just serving up the whole restaurant. 1.00

00:23:16.000 It was small, but it was really cute.

00:23:18.000 Was that your first date or no?

00:23:20.000 No, it wasn't our first date, but we really never went on a first date.

00:23:22.000 We've been on for two years.

00:23:24.000 We were messy at the start.

00:23:26.000 It sounds like they're dating on a budget.

00:23:29.000 I mean...

00:23:30.000 That's a good thing.

00:23:31.000 No?

00:23:32.000 No, that's good.

00:23:34.000 I mean, the place was expensive even though it was just one lady. 1.00

00:23:37.000 I don't really know how much it was.

00:23:38.000 I don't look at it.

00:23:40.000 But, yeah.

00:23:42.000 Imagine going on dates and not having to worry about the bill.

00:23:44.000 That's awesome, isn't it?

00:23:46.000 Alright, what about you?

00:23:47.000 So, my first...

00:23:51.000 It was last year, and I met a guy who invited me to the Grand Cardone Conference.

00:23:59.000 Okay.

00:24:00.000 So it was a really good first date.

00:24:02.000 Okay, so he brought you to the Grand Cardone Conference.

00:24:05.000 Was it VAP? Regular tickets?

00:24:06.000 I don't remember.

00:24:12.000 We went to one.

00:24:17.000 It depends.

00:24:18.000 He has different tiers.

00:24:19.000 I'm going to say somewhere to be safe probably around $5,000 to $10,000 probably is what it cost.

00:24:23.000 I think so.

00:24:24.000 And he brought you in as a guest.

00:24:26.000 And you said this was last year?

00:24:29.000 Yes.

00:24:30.000 What about you?

00:24:32.000 I feel like probably about $200.

00:24:36.000 Okay.

00:24:37.000 Where at?

00:24:38.000 We had gone to this museum and then he took me to Benihana after.

00:24:44.000 And then he got me flowers.

00:24:56.000 Do you think that's more?

00:24:56.000 No.

00:24:57.000 The flowers, Benihana, and a museum?

00:24:59.000 The flowers weren't just regular flowers, though.

00:25:02.000 Yeah, they were, like, colored, but anyways.

00:25:05.000 But the bill at Benihana was, like, $140, something like that, because we got drinks, food, sushi, yeah.

00:25:11.000 And then museum entrance, unless it was, like, one of those free days or something.

00:25:14.000 No, I didn't know it wasn't free.

00:25:15.000 He bought tickets.

00:25:16.000 I just don't know how much.

00:25:17.000 I didn't ask.

00:25:18.000 Nah, he went on Groupon.

00:25:19.000 Groupon.

00:25:20.000 Gotcha, girl.

00:25:21.000 Somewhere between 200 to 300 probably.

00:25:23.000 Okay.

00:25:24.000 And then flowers, you said, right?

00:25:25.000 Yeah.

00:25:26.000 Roses or?

00:25:27.000 Yeah.

00:25:47.000 It was a day we went to Dragonfly.

00:25:53.000 It's in downtown Doral.

00:25:56.000 It's like a...

00:25:56.000 I don't know.

00:25:57.000 It's like a sushi place.

00:26:00.000 Okay.

00:26:00.000 How much do you think it costed?

00:26:02.000 Like...

00:26:02.000 200.

00:26:04.000 Okay.

00:26:05.000 And, uh...

00:26:06.000 See, I want to go...

00:26:07.000 Wait.

00:26:09.000 Are you the girl that beats up her boyfriend? 0.97

00:26:11.000 That's her. 0.88

00:26:12.000 Okay. 0.99

00:26:18.000 Last time she came on, she like hit him or some shit, I remember. 0.99

00:26:29.000 Okay. 0.99

00:26:30.000 One time.

00:26:32.000 Or two.

00:26:33.000 It was once.

00:26:36.000 Yeah.

00:26:37.000 Like, he accidentally, like, I think, uh...

00:26:39.000 I was drunk.

00:26:40.000 Fell on her. 1.00

00:26:40.000 Fell on her on the stairs or some shit. 1.00

00:26:42.000 No, he pushed me. 1.00

00:26:43.000 By mistake.

00:26:44.000 And you hit him, okay.

00:26:46.000 No, but, like, I softly.

00:26:47.000 Like, like, can I demonstrate?

00:26:49.000 Sure, go ahead.

00:26:50.000 Demonstrate on Fresh, please.

00:26:51.000 And feel free to use full force that you use during the incident.

00:26:54.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:26:55.000 Go ahead.

00:26:55.000 Are you okay with that?

00:26:56.000 Yeah, he is.

00:26:57.000 Completely fine.

00:26:58.000 Yeah, he's fine.

00:26:59.000 He's okay, I consent for you.

00:27:03.000 Someone help me, bro!

00:27:05.000 He violated his civil rights.

00:27:06.000 Oh my god.

00:27:07.000 That's a hate crime.

00:27:09.000 For real, man. 1.00

00:27:10.000 Black man's a hate crime. 1.00

00:27:11.000 Now, uh... 1.00

00:27:13.000 I'm gonna ask a different question now.

00:27:13.000 Okay, let me...

00:27:16.000 Now, going back, starting from here, there...

00:27:19.000 Did the person that took you out on the first date succeed in getting sexual?

00:27:22.000 Thank you.

00:27:23.000 That was my next question too.

00:27:25.000 Yes or no?

00:27:26.000 But like sexual after the first date or like sexual in general?

00:27:29.000 You could say answer both.

00:27:32.000 So it could have been either that night or later.

00:27:35.000 Yeah, that night.

00:27:36.000 It was that night?

00:27:36.000 Alright, cool.

00:27:37.000 I just said that.

00:27:38.000 Was it your ex that you hit?

00:27:39.000 Maybe.

00:27:40.000 What about you?

00:27:42.000 No.

00:27:43.000 I'm not sexually attracted to him whatsoever.

00:27:47.000 Y'all never hooked up.

00:27:49.000 Museum, dinner, flowers.

00:27:51.000 She got dried up.

00:27:55.000 And you said your reasoning was you're not attracted to him?

00:27:57.000 Yeah, I'm not sexually attracted to him.

00:28:00.000 Why'd you go on a date?

00:28:01.000 Because he was nice.

00:28:02.000 He wanted to take me out.

00:28:03.000 He had good energy.

00:28:05.000 He said, I'm going to take you out on Friday.

00:28:06.000 Be ready.

00:28:07.000 I said, say less.

00:28:08.000 You wanted to get to know him?

00:28:10.000 Is every guy hearing this?

00:28:11.000 This is so important.

00:28:13.000 And then you said it was your ex, right?

00:28:15.000 This guy?

00:28:15.000 Okay, it was your ex.

00:28:16.000 Alright, cool.

00:28:16.000 So you were attracted to him.

00:28:18.000 Okay, what about you?

00:28:19.000 Did you end up hooking up with that guy that night?

00:28:21.000 And if not, was it later?

00:28:24.000 Yes.

00:28:25.000 Okay, was it that night?

00:28:27.000 Yes.

00:28:28.000 What about you?

00:28:34.000 Well, yeah, it's your boyfriend, right?

00:28:36.000 So that's a yes.

00:28:38.000 What about you?

00:28:39.000 The guy that took you to the Komodo from 1500?

00:28:44.000 No.

00:28:46.000 He was never successful?

00:28:47.000 It was not even that.

00:28:48.000 It's all about chemistry, love, and that just didn't happen.

00:28:51.000 But he was really nice.

00:28:53.000 Guys, two, he was really nice.

00:28:55.000 Everybody at home, listen to this.

00:28:57.000 Two, he was really nice.

00:28:59.000 What was the reason that you didn't...

00:29:01.000 Was there no spark?

00:29:02.000 Was he just not that attractive?

00:29:03.000 What was it?

00:29:04.000 The chemistry just wasn't there.

00:29:07.000 We didn't have that chemistry.

00:29:09.000 You could be nice.

00:29:11.000 We just didn't have the chemistry.

00:29:12.000 His star sign.

00:29:14.000 The energy.

00:29:15.000 It was a quantum field.

00:29:18.000 Can I tell you something about that?

00:29:20.000 About what?

00:29:21.000 You said two expensive dates and they didn't get nothing.

00:29:27.000 So, I think that as a man, you need to vet a woman properly before you spend that much money on her. 0.98

00:29:32.000 Like, you should take her to a much more regular place, you know?

00:29:36.000 And then after that, if something happens, the relationship evolves.

00:29:39.000 Like, go ahead.

00:29:40.000 You know?

00:29:41.000 Okay.

00:29:41.000 That makes sense.

00:29:43.000 What about you?

00:29:44.000 Well, yeah.

00:29:45.000 It was your husband, right?

00:29:46.000 The guy that you're with.

00:29:47.000 Your date.

00:29:48.000 Yeah.

00:29:49.000 So, that first night, no.

00:29:50.000 But, eventually, of course.

00:29:52.000 Okay. 1.00

00:29:53.000 Wait, so, how long did it take for you to fuck him? 1.00

00:29:59.000 Damn, that long? 1.00

00:30:01.000 No. 0.99

00:30:02.000 Probably, like, one week.

00:30:05.000 One week?

00:30:05.000 Okay, okay.

00:30:07.000 Alright. 1.00

00:30:07.000 Damn. 1.00

00:30:08.000 And then, what about you? 0.99

00:30:11.000 When you went, I hope so, 10,000 in San Francisco? 0.99

00:30:13.000 Goddamn. 0.99

00:30:15.000 Well, first of all, he was submissive, so I wasn't closest. 1.00

00:30:21.000 You are hilarious!

00:30:26.000 So you're saying no?

00:30:28.000 You did not hook up with him?

00:30:31.000 Submissive.

00:30:32.000 So that means that it's a special way when I'm in clothes.

00:30:37.000 But, I mean, you should watch some movies maybe to understand what I'm talking about.

00:30:41.000 We know what you're talking about. 0.83

00:30:42.000 Oh, like butt plugs. 0.84

00:30:43.000 So you were like the one in charge? 0.98

00:30:45.000 You were like the dom?

00:30:47.000 Yeah, it wasn't like this. 0.99

00:30:49.000 Like whips and shit? 0.99

00:30:49.000 Was he like your slave? 0.99

00:30:51.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:30:52.000 Damn. 0.99

00:30:54.000 Starting to make sense now. 1.00

00:30:55.000 Yeah.

00:30:56.000 Okay, so no, because that wasn't what I guess he paid for.

00:31:03.000 Okay.

00:31:04.000 Would that be fair to say?

00:31:05.000 What about the other four boyfriends?

00:31:08.000 Did any of them have sex with you on the first date?

00:31:11.000 Not on the first date.

00:31:14.000 It was mostly like continuous dates.

00:31:19.000 Yes.

00:31:20.000 Where did you meet the five boyfriends?

00:31:21.000 Was there a particular website?

00:31:25.000 Instagram.

00:31:26.000 You met all five of them on Instagram.

00:31:27.000 Yes, Instagram and also one I got by recommendation.

00:31:32.000 I have no idea how did he find my phone number, but he found it somehow.

00:31:37.000 What?

00:31:38.000 Oh, that's creepy. 0.99

00:31:40.000 You've stuck a butt plug in all five of them. 0.99

00:31:43.000 Yes. 0.97

00:31:43.000 What? 0.97

00:31:45.000 You stuck a butt plug in all five of them. 0.98

00:31:50.000 No. 0.97

00:31:50.000 Just three of them. 0.97

00:31:52.000 Just one.

00:31:54.000 So you said no because he was a sub.

00:31:58.000 I mean, how does it count? 0.99

00:32:00.000 Yeah, so you didn't have sex with him because he was a sub. 0.83

00:32:03.000 That wasn't what the agreement probably was, right?

00:32:05.000 It counts like intimacy, but it's not.

00:32:09.000 Not that particular form.

00:32:10.000 Okay.

00:32:11.000 All right.

00:32:11.000 And then what about you?

00:32:13.000 Did you end up ever hooking up with the guy that's in Vegas?

00:32:16.000 No.

00:32:17.000 Wait, he didn't score?

00:32:18.000 Nope.

00:32:19.000 I was not feeling it.

00:32:20.000 Okay.

00:32:20.000 Why did you not feel it?

00:32:22.000 He just said some...

00:32:23.000 I don't even remember what he said, but it gave me the ick.

00:32:26.000 And for me, if you get the ick, if I get the ick, you're not coming back from it.

00:32:31.000 Okay, was it like a sexual comment that just, I guess, made you feel a certain way?

00:32:38.000 I want to remember, but I can't.

00:32:40.000 I feel like he did something...

00:32:44.000 Like, I don't know.

00:32:45.000 It was just like an act or something that he tried on me, and it just gave me the egg.

00:32:50.000 Was he attractive enough for you to sleep with him, and had he kept his mouth shut, maybe you would have?

00:32:54.000 Yes.

00:32:55.000 Actually, yes.

00:32:56.000 If he would have done what he did to give me the egg, which I... Let's all listen, gentlemen.

00:33:00.000 Let's all listen.

00:33:01.000 Yeah.

00:33:02.000 I'm sorry.

00:33:02.000 Yeah.

00:33:03.000 If you give me the ick, you just can't come back.

00:33:05.000 Less is more.

00:33:06.000 Like, just be yourself.

00:33:08.000 Yeah, I think he was just trying too hard. 0.76

00:33:09.000 I think he was being himself, and that's what probably fucked him up.

00:33:12.000 Maybe. 0.95

00:33:13.000 Or whatever he wanted from a pickup boot camp.

00:33:16.000 Interesting.

00:33:17.000 Okay.

00:33:18.000 Mike, did you have a question?

00:33:20.000 I did not.

00:33:22.000 That's exactly what I was going to ask.

00:33:23.000 I do want to know, actually, for those of you who did not sleep with a guy on the first date, can you raise your hand real quick?

00:33:29.000 Just those of you who did not?

00:33:30.000 Okay, cool.

00:33:30.000 I'm just curious.

00:33:31.000 The last time you did sleep with a guy, how many dates was it?

00:33:35.000 I don't want to answer that question.

00:33:37.000 There's no dates.

00:33:39.000 On me.

00:33:40.000 No, I'm imagining you're seeing someone now and then the answer is shorter than what the guy you're seeing now is.

00:33:45.000 Yeah.

00:33:45.000 Well, I'm not even seeing him.

00:33:47.000 I just went on a date with him.

00:33:48.000 I picked that one out on the first try.

00:33:49.000 How many dates?

00:33:51.000 It was like a couple.

00:33:53.000 It was a couple.

00:33:54.000 More than a couple.

00:33:55.000 What is a couple?

00:33:57.000 More than a couple.

00:33:58.000 Like, more than two.

00:33:59.000 So three.

00:34:00.000 Like, maybe four.

00:34:03.000 No, so three.

00:34:05.000 Maybe.

00:34:07.000 No, it was overload.

00:34:10.000 You?

00:34:10.000 Repeat the question again for me.

00:34:12.000 Okay, so the last guy you did sleep with, how many dates did you make him wait?

00:34:17.000 Um...

00:34:20.000 It's been a while.

00:34:21.000 Yeah, it's been like two.

00:34:22.000 Two?

00:34:23.000 Two.

00:34:23.000 Two?

00:34:23.000 Who else did not sleep with someone on the first date?

00:34:26.000 How many days?

00:34:27.000 Three, probably.

00:34:28.000 Three?

00:34:29.000 How many?

00:34:30.000 Not days, but I hung out with him like three or four times.

00:34:33.000 And then I let him hit.

00:34:34.000 So this is what I love.

00:34:35.000 So she hung out with him.

00:34:36.000 He didn't spend money.

00:34:38.000 No, no, no.

00:34:38.000 I understand.

00:34:39.000 You're making my point, though.

00:34:40.000 She hung out with him because she was attracted to him.

00:34:42.000 He didn't spend money.

00:34:43.000 They hung out three times.

00:34:45.000 No, he did.

00:34:45.000 He did spend money.

00:34:46.000 Like, just like, we went and got like...

00:34:49.000 Cotton candy.

00:34:50.000 Some wings or something.

00:34:51.000 Yeah, I love wings.

00:34:52.000 So we just went and got wings and stuff and then came back.

00:34:54.000 Yo, isn't that crazy?

00:34:56.000 Wingstop dinner and I get to smash.

00:34:58.000 Thank you.

00:35:00.000 You're spending money and you think this is going to make it easier for you. 0.99

00:35:04.000 Then you're either fucking weird or you're too nice. 0.99

00:35:07.000 And then this guy doesn't spend any money or he buys wings. 0.99

00:35:11.000 They hang out three times.

00:35:12.000 None of them's a date and he smashes.

00:35:14.000 Yep.

00:35:14.000 Remember, guys, just pay attention.

00:35:16.000 Dude, I got good with women because I stopped listening to what women told me they were attracted to and started asking them who they were fucking, and that made all the difference in the world. 1.00

00:35:23.000 And when I started seeing who guys were sleeping with and stopped reading message boards about pickup artists, that made all the difference in the world. 0.52

00:35:29.000 Just pay attention to success, and then all of a sudden you start saying, oh, that's why this didn't happen.

00:35:33.000 That's why this didn't happen.

00:35:34.000 Makes sense.

00:35:35.000 Anybody else I didn't ask?

00:35:36.000 Yeah, how many dates?

00:35:37.000 It wasn't like dates necessarily, more like months.

00:35:41.000 Months?

00:35:41.000 You just hung out with them several times.

00:35:43.000 Yeah, like a lot.

00:35:45.000 But none of them were dates?

00:35:46.000 Where do you spend money?

00:35:47.000 It was like once in a while.

00:35:51.000 Maybe like once every two weeks.

00:35:53.000 And it went on for like a month and a half.

00:35:56.000 Okay.

00:35:57.000 Then you just jumped on him.

00:35:59.000 There we go.

00:36:02.000 Wow.

00:36:03.000 Interesting.

00:36:04.000 We'll hit some of these rants real quick.

00:36:06.000 We got a video, right?

00:36:07.000 Yeah, we got a video here.

00:36:10.000 We got here... 0.96

00:36:13.000 A flying raptor goes, bitches love Benyanas, I know my Santa got some after that succulent hibachi milk. 1.00

00:36:21.000 Fresh The Balls goes, what's the secret you kept from your ex? 0.98

00:36:24.000 Keshawnee is it.

00:36:25.000 Tonight, you're our prize.

00:36:27.000 Oh, okay.

00:36:28.000 Search Fresh The Balls on IG to see what you're about to get into tonight.

00:36:30.000 We like our women informed when we clap cheeks. 0.63

00:36:33.000 Yes, sir!

00:36:33.000 Get them fresh!

00:36:34.000 Yes, sir!

00:36:35.000 Do they have a, uh...

00:36:37.000 That's for the dog! 0.99

00:36:39.000 That's for the dog! 0.99

00:36:40.000 I didn't want to see it, bro. 0.99

00:36:42.000 Why would your balls have their own account, bro? 0.99

00:36:45.000 Get him fresh! 0.99

00:36:45.000 Is that real? 0.99

00:36:46.000 No, it is real. 1.00

00:36:47.000 It is actually your balls that made that. 0.98

00:36:48.000 Jay Ramirez goes, I appreciate the CEO network and pressure building it. 0.99

00:36:51.000 Best brotherhood out there.

00:36:53.000 We get fired at Zoom calls weekly with badass guests like Michael Sartain.

00:36:56.000 Looking good, Michael. 0.99

00:36:56.000 All homo. 0.99

00:36:57.000 What's up, Mo? 1.00

00:36:57.000 Hey, what's up, all homo? 1.00

00:36:58.000 Jay, what up?

00:36:59.000 Blackest Panther goes, Destiny and ladies, if you can't defend a claim, especially one you strongly believe, without looking it up every time it's challenged and you don't know enough about it to be holding such strong claims, okay?

00:37:09.000 Blackest Panda goes, why do women demand monogamy when it's clear they can't handle the terms of agreement? 1.00

00:37:13.000 You give him sex whenever he wants and in exchange he can only have sex with you. 1.00

00:37:16.000 You think women are lazy or selfish? 1.00

00:37:18.000 What? 0.98

00:37:19.000 What? 0.98

00:37:19.000 What the hell? 0.98

00:37:20.000 Do you even have a woman, first of all? 1.00

00:37:23.000 I can't. 0.78

00:37:23.000 First of all, I'm not giving sex to nobody in exchange for nothing. 0.78

00:37:29.000 What he's basically saying is, do all of you want monogamy on the panel?

00:37:33.000 And a relationship.

00:37:35.000 Raise your hand if you do want monogamy from your partner.

00:37:38.000 All of you?

00:37:40.000 Not so much.

00:37:40.000 Ukraine?

00:37:41.000 Ukraine and Ms.

00:37:42.000 Komodo, no.

00:37:43.000 They're okay with politically.

00:37:45.000 Okay, so everyone except for Ms.

00:37:47.000 Ukraine wants monogamy. 0.78

00:37:49.000 What he's basically saying is, you guys want monogamy, right? 0.98

00:37:52.000 So you gotta give him sex whenever he wants in exchange. 0.99

00:37:54.000 He can only have sex with you. 0.99

00:37:56.000 He's saying it's a bad deal, basically. 0.98

00:37:58.000 That's what he's trying to say.

00:38:00.000 It's not whenever he wants, though.

00:38:02.000 It's a mutual agreement.

00:38:03.000 If I don't want to have sex, we're not having sex. 0.71

00:38:06.000 Yeah, so he can't step out of the relationship?

00:38:07.000 No, it's a relationship.

00:38:09.000 You can't force someone to have sex.

00:38:11.000 Your man is working all day.

00:38:17.000 He wants to be relieved from his girlfriend.

00:38:19.000 Paying your bills.

00:38:21.000 And you tell him no.

00:38:22.000 Is it wrong for him to step over?

00:38:23.000 Taking care of you?

00:38:24.000 Yes.

00:38:25.000 It's wrong.

00:38:25.000 That's wrong.

00:38:28.000 Repeat your question again.

00:38:30.000 So you can't please your man?

00:38:31.000 That's crazy.

00:38:32.000 No, that's not that.

00:38:33.000 Because he went to work, I'm supposed to please him when he gets home?

00:38:37.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:38:39.000 How many of you feel, though, if you're in a relationship with a guy, that you are not necessarily obligated to bang him whenever he wants?

00:38:46.000 Whenever he wants, no.

00:38:49.000 Raise your hands if you don't think you're obligated.

00:38:53.000 But I want to explain the point.

00:38:55.000 It's fine.

00:38:56.000 You can say, I mean, it's kind of irrelevant.

00:38:59.000 You just feel as though that you're not obligated, which is cool, fine.

00:39:02.000 No, but the thing in our relationship is there is an emotional side of it.

00:39:05.000 He doesn't get it.

00:39:08.000 Yeah, that's fine.

00:39:09.000 That's your perspective.

00:39:10.000 You're giving your reasoning for why you're not obligated.

00:39:12.000 Cool.

00:39:13.000 Now, my thing is, what if he said, I'm not obligated to pay the bills and be masculine all the time?

00:39:18.000 What would you do?

00:39:19.000 Well, okay.

00:39:20.000 First of all, you have to have a conversation about that.

00:39:22.000 No, no, no.

00:39:24.000 Because I don't want to give him sexual favors whenever he wants. 0.85

00:39:28.000 Yes, so therefore, since you can pick and choose when you want to have sex, you feel like it. 0.98

00:39:32.000 That sounds like prostitution. 1.00

00:39:32.000 What you're paying the bills and I just do it. 1.00

00:39:34.000 Please listen.

00:39:35.000 Okay, okay.

00:39:36.000 If you're going to pick and choose when you want to give him sex, which is the main commodity you bring to the relationship, let's be honest, then he should be able to pick and choose when he gives you his main commodity time, attention, and resources.

00:39:45.000 Myron, are you talking about building a relationship?

00:39:48.000 Yes, in a relationship, yes.

00:39:49.000 But if you're building a relationship, you need to understand as a man, That for a woman, she's connected to her heart.

00:39:54.000 We have emotional needs that you guys can have.

00:39:56.000 I'm connected to my wallet.

00:39:57.000 I don't feel like spending money this month.

00:39:58.000 That's okay.

00:39:59.000 I agree.

00:40:00.000 Okay.

00:40:00.000 See, hold on, hold on.

00:40:01.000 No, no, no. 0.99

00:40:02.000 All I'm doing, ladies, see how ridiculous I fucking sound? 0.99

00:40:04.000 Because you guys want to be able to forfeit your obligation whenever you feel like it. 0.99

00:40:08.000 You know what?

00:40:08.000 I'm going to forfeit my obligation, too.

00:40:10.000 I don't feel like paying the light bill this month.

00:40:11.000 Facts.

00:40:12.000 Because I don't have things to do.

00:40:12.000 I don't feel like paying the mortgage this month.

00:40:14.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:40:15.000 You are invading the house. 0.99

00:40:16.000 I don't feel like fucking protecting you this month. 1.00

00:40:18.000 Fucking. 0.99

00:40:19.000 I'm on my period, guys. 1.00

00:40:20.000 I'm on my period.

00:40:21.000 No, but see how ridiculous you guys sound where you can go ahead and forfeit your responsibility, but I'm supposed to always adhere to my responsibility.

00:40:28.000 What if it's mutual, though?

00:40:32.000 Like, example, if you want to pay the light bill, you don't want to pay the light bill.

00:40:36.000 Yeah.

00:40:37.000 I'll pay the light bill.

00:40:38.000 Cool.

00:40:38.000 Then it's actually equal.

00:40:41.000 Exactly.

00:40:41.000 Because if you want to be able to forfeit your responsibilities as a woman, I should be able to forfeit my responsibilities as a man when I feel like it.

00:40:46.000 I don't feel like paying the light bill.

00:40:47.000 You don't want to give no head?

00:40:48.000 Cool.

00:40:49.000 You don't have to, but I don't feel like paying the light bill.

00:40:50.000 I think that's 100% fair.

00:40:52.000 The problem is when sex is used as welfare.

00:40:54.000 What do you mean by that?

00:40:58.000 If your woman is... 1.00

00:41:00.000 Manipulating you with sex, I don't think that's a healthy relationship.

00:41:03.000 But let's say that just your relationship, like if you're going to have a long-lasting healthy relationship, there's going to be ups and downs like a business, like anything in life, right?

00:41:11.000 So if you're going to have a healthy relationship that is going to last throughout time, there's going to be times that maybe he doesn't feel like it and she feels like it.

00:41:18.000 There's going to be times that she doesn't feel like it.

00:41:20.000 Maybe because she's going through something emotional inside or maybe, you know, life is so complicated.

00:41:26.000 A man's primary duty is not to please this woman sexually, though.

00:41:28.000 Facts.

00:41:30.000 It's not his primary thing, but the Bible says that that's one of the woman's rights. 1.00

00:41:35.000 When she asks for sex, that's one of her rights. 1.00

00:41:38.000 Fresh, can you fact check that one?

00:41:40.000 So I want to say this, first and foremost, it's the wife's duty to please her husband at all times. 0.77

00:41:46.000 Now, what's the point of having a husband if you can't please him?

00:41:48.000 Definitely.

00:41:49.000 So then, let's take a step further to sex itself.

00:41:53.000 If your man has needs, you can fulfill them.

00:41:56.000 What are you doing?

00:41:57.000 Okay.

00:41:58.000 You know, if a woman has needs, but our needs, a woman's and men's needs are completely different. 0.51

00:42:02.000 They're always met, though.

00:42:03.000 I'm paying the bills, taking care of the family.

00:42:05.000 But that's the thing.

00:42:06.000 Those are not the only needs that a woman has. 1.00

00:42:10.000 We have emotional needs.

00:42:10.000 No, but that's the foundation, though.

00:42:13.000 So that's the thing.

00:42:14.000 The thing that a lot of men don't understand is that we have these emotional needs that you guys don't have.

00:42:19.000 So it's really complicated when you're only focusing on the problems and we're not working towards working together.

00:42:26.000 So what you've effectively proven is that women require way more of men than men require of women. 0.98

00:42:30.000 We have emotional needs.

00:42:31.000 We want financial needs.

00:42:32.000 We want protection needs. 0.83

00:42:33.000 We need security needs, etc. 1.00

00:42:34.000 So the man, all he wants back is to fuck. 1.00

00:42:36.000 And you guys are saying, well, I'll do it when I feel like it. 1.00

00:42:38.000 No, but okay. 1.00

00:42:40.000 No, fucking checkmate, bro! 1.00

00:42:44.000 It's a 1,000% checkmate because, look, men don't ask for much. 1.00

00:42:48.000 So if a guy says, I want to fuck, and you have the audacity to say no, fantastic. 1.00

00:42:53.000 You know what? 1.00

00:42:54.000 I don't want to pay the bills.

00:42:54.000 I don't want to protect you.

00:42:55.000 I don't have to lead you anymore.

00:42:57.000 I'm going to pick and choose.

00:42:58.000 Stop interrupting.

00:42:59.000 I'm going to pick and choose when I want to be a man just because you want to pick and choose when you want to be a girlfriend or a wife.

00:43:04.000 Men don't ask for much. 1.00

00:43:05.000 So if all we ask for a lot of times is sex and silence and you don't give the sex, that's 50% of you being useless. 1.00

00:43:11.000 Gone. 1.00

00:43:11.000 But on the other hand, let's say I decide not to fuck you. 1.00

00:43:13.000 I'm still protecting, still providing for you, still giving you some emotional stability. 1.00

00:43:17.000 Women require way more of men than men require of women. 1.00

00:43:20.000 So therefore, everything we require of you has more weight.

00:43:23.000 Do you want to be the leader of your home?

00:43:24.000 That's how it goes.

00:43:25.000 Exactly.

00:43:26.000 Of course.

00:43:26.000 So of course you are the bigger person.

00:43:28.000 You're the one that has the bigger responsibilities and you're the one that has to give the most.

00:43:31.000 Yes, of course.

00:43:32.000 Okay, but what I'm asking for isn't hard, though.

00:43:34.000 Yeah, no, I understand, and I'm agreeing with you in the sense that, of course, a woman and a wife has to fulfill her duties, but at the same time...

00:43:42.000 Alright, you know what?

00:43:42.000 Let me just say it.

00:43:43.000 If a girl isn't having sex with her man, she's fucking useless. 1.00

00:43:47.000 Definitely. 1.00

00:43:47.000 She's useless. 1.00

00:43:47.000 I agree with that, but there's times... 1.00

00:43:49.000 Okay, so why are y'all saying, I do it when I feel like it?

00:43:52.000 I go to work when I don't feel like it.

00:43:54.000 I provide for you when I don't feel like it.

00:43:55.000 I pay life when I don't feel like it. 0.99

00:43:57.000 I go to the gym and maintain this fucking physique when I don't feel like it. 0.99

00:43:59.000 I'm achieving excellence when I don't fucking feel like it. 0.99

00:44:01.000 But why is it women can go ahead and pick and choose when they feel like it? 1.00

00:44:04.000 If I do all this shit to become the fucking guy, and I'm in a relationship with you, and you pick me, and I say, yo, I want some sex, and you're like, I don't know if I feel like it. 1.00

00:44:11.000 Fuck you! 1.00

00:44:12.000 Done! 1.00

00:44:12.000 Get out of here! 1.00

00:44:13.000 You effectively are useless. 1.00

00:44:14.000 That's the equivalent to me. 1.00

00:44:15.000 Someone breaks into the house, I let them beat your ass. 1.00

00:44:18.000 What if I let that happen? 1.00

00:44:19.000 Y'all would leave me, wouldn't you?

00:44:22.000 It's the same thing.

00:44:31.000 The thing is that men and women are not the same. 0.85

00:44:32.000 There's functional equivalence, you understand?

00:44:35.000 I can't go ahead and compare apples to apples.

00:44:37.000 Sorry, I can't compare apples to oranges, so I have to make it apples.

00:44:40.000 I'm giving you the functional equivalent. 0.99

00:44:41.000 If you don't want to fuck me, that's cool. 1.00

00:44:43.000 But don't expect me to protect you when you fucking need me. 1.00

00:44:46.000 I don't like how women go ahead and pick and choose their rules. 1.00

00:44:48.000 So then it's not cool, because you're not okay. 1.00

00:44:50.000 Like, you're sitting here saying that's cool, but then you're like mad because I don't want to fuck you. 0.99

00:44:54.000 I look at it like this. 1.00

00:44:56.000 If your girl doesn't want to fuck you, she's within her prerogative to do so. 1.00

00:44:58.000 That's fine if she's your girl, but you need to kick her to the curb and find another wound. 1.00

00:45:02.000 But why, though? 1.00

00:45:03.000 Because she's useless! 1.00

00:45:05.000 You mean one or two times? 0.98

00:45:11.000 So you mean...

00:45:11.000 I come home from work and I just go outside.

00:45:16.000 Would you agree if it's like...

00:45:18.000 I have a question.

00:45:43.000 So, the thing is, you're talking about relationships if they're just commodities.

00:45:47.000 We're really, really complicated beings.

00:45:50.000 So, for what you said, if it is a couple of times, there might be a fight.

00:45:55.000 Men are complicated.

00:45:56.000 No, all human beings are complicated.

00:45:58.000 We're emotional beings.

00:45:59.000 Men are not complicated.

00:46:00.000 No, we all are complicated.

00:46:02.000 So that's the thing.

00:46:03.000 You cannot say if she doesn't have sex with you, then she doesn't work. 1.00

00:46:07.000 So what do you want? 0.71

00:46:08.000 Do you want a wife or do you want just a girl? 0.96

00:46:11.000 Because your wife is a completely different job. 1.00

00:46:14.000 It's a lot of work.

00:46:16.000 You're being successful.

00:46:17.000 You have a successful podcast, right?

00:46:19.000 That took you a lot of work, right?

00:46:22.000 You guys are missing the whole point of this.

00:46:26.000 Basically, what it boils down to is you are not obligated to fulfill your obligations to your man, essentially, but I'm still required to fulfill my obligation.

00:46:37.000 I'm still supposed to be a protector, a provider, a leader.

00:46:39.000 And as a matter of fact, you would probably leave me if I didn't do these things. 0.97

00:46:42.000 On the other hand, though, you want to be able to have the right to say, I don't feel like fucking and me still being monogamous to you. 0.99

00:46:47.000 I think if a woman wants to pick and choose when she wants to fuck, cool. 1.00

00:46:50.000 I can pick and choose when I want to kick you to the curb. 1.00

00:46:52.000 Because men don't ask for much. 0.99

00:46:55.000 We live in a crazy ass society where women want to go ahead and get all the privileges of chivalry without going ahead and giving the guy a fair deal in return. 1.00

00:47:02.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

00:47:02.000 I tell guys all the time, you're going to want to fuck you no more? 1.00

00:47:04.000 Kick her out the house. 1.00

00:47:05.000 She's no longer your girl. 1.00

00:47:06.000 She's useless. 1.00

00:47:07.000 Because, I'll be honest with y'all, men and women don't have a lot of similar interests. 0.98

00:47:10.000 We don't necessarily align on a lot of our lifestyles and beliefs and experiences. 0.99

00:47:15.000 So if a girl isn't fucking you, she's effectively useless most of the time. 1.00

00:47:18.000 That's what most guys are going to tell you. 0.99

00:47:20.000 That means that you have a better run.

00:47:21.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on, stop the show! 0.97

00:47:23.000 How many of y'all went on a date with a nigga you didn't even like before? 1.00

00:47:26.000 All of you have probably been on a date with a guy that you didn't like.

00:47:28.000 Here's the difference. 0.99

00:47:29.000 That proves my fucking point. 0.99

00:47:31.000 That's what I'm trying to say. 0.99

00:47:32.000 Men must add value to the point that women will go out with dudes they don't even fucking like and hang out with them, but it would never be the other way around. 1.00

00:47:38.000 Niggas don't go out with bitches they're not trying to fuck. 1.00

00:47:40.000 So that proves my point that men absolutely provide value to women even if she doesn't fucking like his ass. 1.00

00:47:45.000 Us on the other hand, we're always going out with an intention. 0.99

00:47:47.000 So if that does not prove...

00:47:59.000 There he goes.

00:48:10.000 Hey, real quick.

00:48:11.000 There we go.

00:48:12.000 Dunk on him.

00:48:13.000 Hey, I have a question for you ladies. 0.94

00:48:14.000 Who here thinks that if a woman decided, let's say you have a brother or a cousin or a nephew, whatever, who decided, I'm not going to have sex with him for like three weeks, who here thinks he should leave her?

00:48:25.000 Who here thinks he should stay?

00:48:27.000 What's the reason why she's not? 0.97

00:48:29.000 For whatever reason, they got in a fight, and she thinks that for the next three weeks, she's just not going to have sex with me. 0.93

00:48:34.000 I mean, if they cheated on her, I wouldn't. 0.95

00:48:38.000 It depends on the reason.

00:48:40.000 I feel like there's a reason, though.

00:48:42.000 There's always a reason.

00:48:43.000 It can't just be like, this, this, that.

00:48:45.000 I feel like it has to be a reason.

00:48:46.000 So you would not tell your brother, nephew, cousin to leave if she's withheld sex for three weeks?

00:48:50.000 I'm curious.

00:48:52.000 Does anybody think he should leave?

00:48:54.000 That's shocking.

00:48:56.000 Terrible advice.

00:48:57.000 It depends on what the reason is.

00:48:58.000 Not only is it terrible advice, the best thing for the relationship would be for him to do what?

00:49:02.000 Anybody know?

00:49:03.000 Anybody know the correct answer?

00:49:04.000 To communicate? 0.89

00:49:05.000 For him to get the fuck up and leave. 0.98

00:49:06.000 That's the correct answer. 1.00

00:49:07.000 I feel like y'all just want to fuck. 1.00

00:49:09.000 It's so much deeper than that. 1.00

00:49:11.000 It's not about that.

00:49:13.000 It's part of that, but for you guys, the validation comes from attention.

00:49:17.000 For us, the validation comes from? 0.94

00:49:19.000 Sex. 0.98

00:49:20.000 Thank you. 0.63

00:49:21.000 And that's the problem.

00:49:21.000 Because for you, when you have kids, you know the baby's yours.

00:49:25.000 We don't know if the baby's ours. 0.88

00:49:26.000 That's why when you guys decide, hey, we're not going to have sex, from our standpoint, we're like, wait, but could she be having sex with someone else? 0.94

00:49:34.000 Right? 0.80

00:49:34.000 That's the issue. 0.80

00:49:35.000 For us, the validation comes from sexual intercourse. 0.97

00:49:37.000 I know it sounds incredibly shallow, but it's not just the sex. 0.91

00:49:40.000 It's that that lets us know that you want to be with us.

00:49:43.000 If you don't have sex with us, there's a chance you might be sleeping with someone else. 1.00

00:49:47.000 But for every relationship I've ever seen, when a woman says, hey, I don't want to have sex with a guy, that to me means she probably doesn't respect him and she doesn't want to validate him. 0.67

00:49:54.000 So for you to say that for three weeks, there is no dude on the planet.

00:49:57.000 Or she just wants to see if he's really serious about her.

00:50:01.000 You're already in a relationship.

00:50:02.000 You've been having sex. 0.81

00:50:03.000 And then there's a three-week period where she decides she does not want to have sex with him. 0.77

00:50:07.000 And you guys are literally telling me that you would tell your brothers and cousins.

00:50:09.000 You didn't say that.

00:50:10.000 You didn't say relationship.

00:50:11.000 You didn't say relationship.

00:50:13.000 And then all of a sudden, for whatever reason, she just gets into a mood and decides for three weeks she doesn't want to have sex with him.

00:50:18.000 Who here would say leave the relationship?

00:50:19.000 That's why I said it depends on if you communicated with your partner or not.

00:50:24.000 Like, you're in a relationship. 0.79

00:50:25.000 Okay, ask her why she's not having sex with you. 1.00

00:50:28.000 She's not feeling it. 0.91

00:50:29.000 Like, why are you not?

00:50:31.000 You had one job. 0.99

00:50:33.000 No one's forcing shit on you. 0.99

00:50:37.000 Why is that our one job? 0.99

00:50:39.000 You know what? 1.00

00:50:41.000 We're made so y'all can fuck us. 1.00

00:50:43.000 That's not what we're all concerned for. 1.00

00:50:46.000 That's our one job in a relationship.

00:50:48.000 I'm talking about oxygen is important.

00:50:50.000 Until you're choking, then oxygen is the most important thing in the world.

00:50:53.000 If you're in a relationship and you're getting some sex, it might not be the most important thing in the world.

00:50:56.000 If you're getting no sex, all of a sudden that thing becomes the top priority.

00:50:59.000 Why is this happening? 0.99

00:51:00.000 It's a huge fucking red light. 0.99

00:51:02.000 That's the point I'm trying to make. 0.99

00:51:03.000 I get what you're saying.

00:51:04.000 It's not everything. 1.00

00:51:05.000 That's not all we want to do is fuck you. 1.00

00:51:07.000 My point is... 0.99

00:51:08.000 That's what he was kind of saying, though.

00:51:11.000 That's what he was making it seem like I'm trying to make the same example from your point of view.

00:51:19.000 If you're not doing that, that is a massive red flag from our standpoint that you don't respect us.

00:51:26.000 But the problem is, you guys are saying, well, all you want is sex. 0.92

00:51:29.000 No, it's not that we want sex. 0.99

00:51:30.000 It's the sign that not having sex with us, the red flag that not having sex with us, it's humongous. 0.91

00:51:37.000 It speaks volume. 0.99

00:51:39.000 You having sex with us speaks a lot, compliance, but you might just really like sex. 0.99

00:51:43.000 You not having sex with us in a relationship, that speaks 50 times more. 0.99

00:51:46.000 Do you understand?

00:51:47.000 Yeah.

00:51:47.000 That's the problem.

00:51:48.000 And for you guys to tell me that you would tell your male relatives that a girl is just withholding sex for three weeks and you shouldn't do it about it? 1.00

00:51:54.000 That is fucking crazy. 1.00

00:51:56.000 Girls are super, super horny and they want to have sex all the time. 1.00

00:52:00.000 You know what I mean? 0.98

00:52:00.000 But then you got those girls that don't really care about it. 0.98

00:52:03.000 I've met girls like that. 1.00

00:52:04.000 I like sex, of course. 0.99

00:52:06.000 I can't speak for y'all, but I like sex. 0.98

00:52:08.000 We know, yeah, we know. 0.99

00:52:09.000 Don't play with me.

00:52:10.000 You don't know.

00:52:11.000 Anyways.

00:52:12.000 But then you got those girls that, like, they don't care about it, you know?

00:52:17.000 Like, it's not their first thing on their mind.

00:52:19.000 Like, okay, like, okay, I can only speak for myself.

00:52:21.000 You wake up, you think about sex.

00:52:23.000 Like, some girls don't think about that. 1.00

00:52:24.000 Some girls are like, oh, my business, this, this, that. 1.00

00:52:26.000 That proves what I've been saying.

00:52:28.000 Men must provide value to the point where women can have the privilege of saying, oh, I'm not that horny all the time. 0.99

00:52:34.000 I don't really want to fuck. 0.99

00:52:35.000 No, the reality is this. 0.99

00:52:36.000 You're not attracted to that guy that much.

00:52:39.000 However, he provides you some other auxiliary benefits.

00:52:41.000 Maybe he makes money.

00:52:42.000 Maybe he gives you security. 1.00

00:52:43.000 Maybe he listens to your bullshit feelings and listens to you talk about yourself. 1.00

00:52:47.000 Bullshit feelings. 1.00

00:52:47.000 Whatever it is. 1.00

00:52:48.000 Bullshit feelings a lot of the times. 1.00

00:52:50.000 So, the thing is, is what I'm trying to say is that men have to offer utility to the point where women have the privilege of saying, oh, I don't have to fuck him, but I get value out of him. 1.00

00:53:00.000 Men don't have that privilege. 1.00

00:53:01.000 When we deal with y'all, if we're not fucking with y'all, if a man is with a woman and he's not fucking her, she's effectively almost useless. 1.00

00:53:10.000 And if you don't, again, once again, ask the guys here, how many of y'all been on a date with a bitch you don't like? 1.00

00:53:15.000 We don't do that shit. 1.00

00:53:16.000 You guys do that shit. 1.00

00:53:18.000 Why? 1.00

00:53:18.000 Because women are able to extract value from men that they don't like. 1.00

00:53:20.000 The thing is this.

00:53:21.000 Y'all don't like me pointing y'all's feet to the fire.

00:53:23.000 You want us to provide value to you while you don't have to provide value to us. 1.00

00:53:27.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

00:53:28.000 I'm over here waking guys up. 1.00

00:53:29.000 If a girl ain't fucking you, you kick her to the curb. 1.00

00:53:31.000 She's effectively useless. 1.00

00:53:32.000 That's why guys sit here in the friend zone.

00:53:34.000 How many of y'all have a dude in the friend zone right now?

00:53:35.000 Every one of y'all probably has a dude in the friend zone.

00:53:37.000 Right? 1.00

00:53:38.000 Fucking... 1.00

00:53:38.000 Now, I don't got no bitches in the friend zone because women are useless most of the time if they're not sucking your dick. 1.00

00:53:43.000 And that's a God-honest truth. 1.00

00:53:45.000 You think men really care about your opinion or what you think or your views on things?

00:53:49.000 No!

00:53:49.000 Some guys do!

00:53:53.000 Some guys do!

00:53:56.000 Some guys are actually interested in the girl's mind and what she's about, not just her, but JJ. Is that what he told you?

00:54:11.000 And then he's not going to, and he's still going to want to do this, this, that, but some guys are attracted to a woman's mind.

00:54:18.000 It's not just about sex.

00:54:20.000 What you were saying about oxygen and validation in relationships.

00:54:24.000 So what is our oxygen in relationships is the emotional validation, right?

00:54:29.000 So they both go hand in hand.

00:54:32.000 Sure, then we're not a good match, and you're withholding sex, and I'm out.

00:54:38.000 It's like why the Jonah Hill thing made no sense to me at all.

00:54:41.000 Jonah Hill said, if these are the things you want, this isn't going to work for us.

00:54:44.000 That wasn't manipulative. 0.99

00:54:45.000 He has the right to fucking leave. 0.99

00:54:46.000 The two of you who said you went on a date with a guy, and he was too nice, and then you didn't have sex with him. 0.99

00:54:52.000 Do you understand from our standpoint, we're looking at this, you want to know how I know you didn't like him?

00:54:56.000 Because you didn't.

00:55:00.000 I totally agree with you.

00:55:04.000 You're twisting my words around.

00:55:06.000 I said he was nice.

00:55:08.000 That's why I went on the date with him. 1.00

00:55:10.000 I didn't say I didn't fuck him because he was nice. 0.99

00:55:13.000 I said I was not sexually attracted to him. 1.00

00:55:15.000 Totally.

00:55:15.000 But my point is you didn't pursue a relationship with him because you didn't like him.

00:55:20.000 And the way you show that, the outer sign of that is you didn't Have sex with him.

00:55:26.000 He showed things that I didn't want in a man that I actually wanted to be with.

00:55:29.000 I agree with you, but I was talking about the two girls who said the thing that was nice.

00:55:31.000 In your situation...

00:55:33.000 I said he was too nice for me.

00:55:34.000 Oh no, he gave me the ick, sorry.

00:55:37.000 That does not disprove the fact that each and every one of you, I guarantee, has been out with a guy that you didn't like that much.

00:55:44.000 You went out with them anyway because maybe you got a free dinner.

00:55:46.000 Maybe you got a cool experience that you might not have been able to do on your own.

00:55:49.000 Maybe you just were bored.

00:55:50.000 The point I'm trying to make is that women go out on frivolous dates with men that they don't like because men offer value regardless.

00:55:56.000 Women, on the other hand, don't. 1.00

00:55:58.000 That's what I'm trying to say. 1.00

00:55:59.000 If y'all ain't fucking, you guys are useless. 1.00

00:56:01.000 And if you don't believe me, let's say all of you guys lost your vaginas tomorrow. 1.00

00:56:04.000 Let's see how you keep a man. 1.00

00:56:06.000 You want to be able to.

00:56:07.000 I mean, yes, I will.

00:56:10.000 It's not always about that.

00:56:12.000 I have a lot to offer just besides sex. 0.69

00:56:17.000 If you really like a guy, you like him a lot, you can go to the park with him, you can go to a friggin' Ferris wheel, He's not going to spend a lot of money. 0.98

00:56:27.000 But, I want to say the short term, you like him in a genuine way, you want to smash him.

00:56:32.000 You do want to. 0.89

00:56:33.000 So on some level, when it's genuine, real desire, you want to smash your guy. 0.79

00:56:37.000 To that point.

00:56:38.000 Hold on, hold on. 1.00

00:56:39.000 If you're a loser of a genre, how would you keep a nigga around? 1.00

00:56:41.000 Let's start here. 0.99

00:56:42.000 My personality is actually very great.

00:56:44.000 I have a lot to me.

00:56:45.000 I'm smart.

00:56:46.000 I'm funny.

00:56:47.000 I can put a lot in to something besides my coochie.

00:56:52.000 But you're not D1. Oh my god.

00:56:56.000 You said you have a personality.

00:56:58.000 What else?

00:56:59.000 I'm funny.

00:57:01.000 Okay.

00:57:01.000 I'm smart.

00:57:02.000 I'm pretty.

00:57:04.000 I mean, pretty, yeah.

00:57:06.000 Okay.

00:57:06.000 But he can't smash, though, so there's a pretty good table.

00:57:08.000 But why is I have to be pretty if he's smashed?

00:57:11.000 Like, I have a lot more than just like... 1.00

00:57:12.000 What would you do if you didn't have a vagina? 1.00

00:57:14.000 How would you keep a guy around? 1.00

00:57:14.000 What would that mouth do? 1.00

00:57:17.000 All you want is vagina. 1.00

00:57:19.000 Why? 1.00

00:57:19.000 Why you talk about this so much? 1.00

00:57:22.000 Okay, so she knows.

00:57:23.000 What about you? 1.00

00:57:24.000 What would you do if you lost your vagina? 1.00

00:57:25.000 How would you keep your husband? 1.00

00:57:27.000 About your act of service.

00:57:28.000 Cook for him.

00:57:30.000 There's a lot of value that we have.

00:57:32.000 So I wanted to say something about your...

00:57:34.000 Okay, I wanted to say something to your point that you said about you don't have to spend a lot of money and the girl really likes you. 0.96

00:57:41.000 She will want to have sex with you, right? 1.00

00:57:43.000 Yeah. 0.98

00:57:43.000 So that's what I was saying about the emotional needs. 0.98

00:57:46.000 So he can be paying for all your bills and whatever it is, but if that emotional connection isn't there, you don't want to have sex with him.

00:57:53.000 So a lot of times I feel like men forget that for us, like, there is a deeper connection that is needed.

00:57:59.000 So what do you want? 0.99

00:58:00.000 Do you want your wife to have sex with you without her enjoying it? 1.00

00:58:03.000 You want your wife to be wet, like... 1.00

00:58:05.000 For lack of a better word, you want her to enjoy it. 0.91

00:58:07.000 You want her to enjoy it with you.

00:58:10.000 And yes, sometimes you might not enjoy it and she do it because she loves you, right?

00:58:13.000 But if she's doing it, even though she doesn't feel it, it's because you're fulfilling her emotional needs.

00:58:18.000 My emotions are really down.

00:58:19.000 I'm not paying the bills this month.

00:58:21.000 But no, you just said it.

00:58:23.000 Sometimes you don't feel it, but I ought to do this for your husband.

00:58:25.000 You're going to do it.

00:58:26.000 And you read the verse, Corinthians.

00:58:28.000 If I feel that I'm loved...

00:58:30.000 Yeah, but once again, I don't feel like I'm loved.

00:58:32.000 I'm not paying the mortgage this month.

00:58:33.000 You're going to do it.

00:58:34.000 I don't feel the love.

00:58:35.000 Because you love your man.

00:58:37.000 Even when you're tired, when you don't feel like doing it.

00:58:39.000 I don't feel the love, man.

00:58:41.000 I don't feel like it, so I'm just not going to pay the bills this month.

00:58:44.000 Can you cover it?

00:58:45.000 Sure.

00:58:46.000 Alright, cool. 1.00

00:58:47.000 You won't pay the bills and she doesn't have a vagina? 1.00

00:58:50.000 Damn, bro. 1.00

00:58:51.000 She is fucked, bro. 1.00

00:58:52.000 That is terrible. 1.00

00:58:54.000 The problem is that whenever women say, I need to feel an emotion and blah, blah, blah. 0.99

00:58:58.000 The issue with that is that emotions change minute to minute based on your period, etc.

00:59:03.000 Women are emotionally erratic. 1.00

00:59:04.000 They're never consistent every single day.

00:59:07.000 Their moods always change.

00:59:08.000 So you're telling me that I need to go ahead and base one of the cornerstones of my happiness, sexual fulfillment, on how you feel?

00:59:14.000 That's crazy to me.

00:59:16.000 Because, guess what?

00:59:17.000 Your security isn't contingent upon how I feel.

00:59:19.000 If someone breaks into the house, no matter how I feel, I gotta protect you. 0.98

00:59:22.000 If we need to go ahead and pay a bill, it doesn't matter how I feel, I gotta fucking pay for it. 0.99

00:59:25.000 If I'm the man and I'm supposed to be the man of the house and the leader, it doesn't matter how the fuck I feel. 0.99

00:59:30.000 I fulfill my duty. 0.98

00:59:31.000 But women, on the other hand, want to feel like they don't have to do their duty. 1.00

00:59:34.000 And that's where I'm saying, I'm calling bullshit on that. 0.98

00:59:36.000 It's not a fair trade. 0.98

00:59:37.000 Why is it that I have to be a man at all times, but you can pick and choose when you want to be my wife? 1.00

00:59:41.000 That's bullshit. 0.99

00:59:42.000 If you're going to play that game, cool. 1.00

00:59:44.000 I'm going to have five other bitches. 1.00

00:59:45.000 That's how we're going to do it. 0.99

00:59:46.000 And I get what you're saying regarding emotional connection and it being something of value. 1.00

00:59:50.000 Fuck emotions! 1.00

00:59:51.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on. 1.00

00:59:52.000 I'll go somewhere with this. 1.00

00:59:54.000 However, that means everything we argue and get upset, you don't want to fuck me. 0.99

00:59:58.000 Which is fucked up because then that means you're contingent upon how you feel, which means it won't happen a lot. 0.99

01:00:03.000 So, is that really beautiful to your husband? 0.98

01:00:05.000 Right.

01:00:05.000 How do you feel about it?

01:00:06.000 So, the relationships are such a big work that you need to have a set of rules, right?

01:00:12.000 So, maybe...

01:00:13.000 And that's really up to each relationship, you know?

01:00:17.000 Like...

01:00:18.000 The thing is, I don't think people that don't have a long-lasting relationship can talk about a long-lasting relationship, right?

01:00:27.000 Because they haven't had it.

01:00:29.000 So how can, for example...

01:00:30.000 Three months?

01:00:31.000 Three years.

01:00:33.000 You just got married.

01:00:33.000 Three months.

01:00:34.000 But we've been together for three years.

01:00:35.000 That's barely anything, man.

01:00:37.000 That's barely.

01:00:37.000 Three months.

01:00:38.000 Three years, right?

01:00:39.000 So in order for me, even though to get to those three months being married and just to get to being married, there was a lot of work that needed to be done.

01:00:48.000 Because we're...

01:00:49.000 It's just...

01:00:50.000 How can we just put things as just black and white?

01:00:56.000 When even you guys, Myron, you're saying that, oh, maybe I'm not feeling like I want to pay the bills today, right?

01:01:01.000 Yeah.

01:01:02.000 So what about you making just...

01:01:05.000 If she's feeling safe and she's feeling that sometimes...

01:01:09.000 You're listening to her constantly and maybe the relationship is not going to be perfect, right?

01:01:14.000 But if overall you're fulfilling your needs and she's fulfilling her needs too, the relationship is a success, right?

01:01:21.000 That's it. 0.76

01:01:22.000 You cannot put things black or white and then she just doesn't have sex with you to kick it to the curb. 1.00

01:01:27.000 If she's using sex as a weapon, definitely get a divorce. 1.00

01:01:29.000 Don't be with her.

01:01:30.000 See, what you're missing, though, is that men are very simple and our needs are typically pretty much black and white.

01:01:35.000 But you keep going back to your needs.

01:01:37.000 I'm telling you, men's needs in general are fairly black and white.

01:01:39.000 We're very simple across different socioeconomic classes, whatever.

01:01:43.000 Men are very simple.

01:01:44.000 You keep looking at things through a female lens. 1.00

01:01:51.000 We should look at it from the male lens because men are the ones giving relationships out. 1.00

01:01:59.000 So it probably behooves you to understand what men want because we have to know what the fuck women want. 1.00

01:02:03.000 You guys make that very apparent in all your music and popular culture. 0.99

01:02:07.000 We know what women want, but we don't necessarily know what men want.

01:02:09.000 And I would argue most women don't care what men want. 1.00

01:02:12.000 I'm telling you, men are very simple.

01:02:13.000 What we want is typically linear.

01:02:14.000 It is black and white.

01:02:15.000 You're the one that's complicating it.

01:02:17.000 I don't know if I feel this way today and blah, blah, blah.

01:02:19.000 I'm saying men don't have that privilege of saying, I don't feel like it.

01:02:23.000 We have to be a man at all times.

01:02:25.000 And you guys want to go ahead and pick and choose when you want to be a dutiful wife. 0.70

01:02:27.000 I'm saying that's cool.

01:02:28.000 I'm not arguing for you guys not being able to exercise things on your prerogative.

01:02:33.000 That's fine. 1.00

01:02:33.000 But what I am saying is that men need to put consequences on that shit. 1.00

01:02:36.000 You don't want to fuck? 1.00

01:02:38.000 Fantastic. 1.00

01:02:38.000 You're effectively single now. 1.00

01:02:39.000 But you're talking about just one time?

01:02:41.000 Can you be more specific with that? 0.99

01:02:44.000 When your girl isn't fucking you, nine out of ten times, it's like a long-term thing. 0.99

01:02:47.000 It's a drought, right? 0.99

01:02:48.000 She just isn't feeling you and she just withholds sex from you or she uses it as a weapon for some type of behavior. 1.00

01:02:53.000 Once a woman weaponizes sex against you, it's a wrap. 1.00

01:02:56.000 It's not.

01:02:56.000 It's disrespect.

01:02:57.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

01:02:58.000 That's what most women do. 1.00

01:02:59.000 They weaponize sex, and I'm just telling guys not to tolerate that shit. 1.00

01:03:02.000 To make it clear, though, once or twice, when it's not back-to-back, it's fine. 1.00

01:03:06.000 Okay, yeah.

01:03:08.000 A long period of time, let's say three weeks.

01:03:14.000 Is the same thing as weaponizing financial support?

01:03:20.000 If you're weaponizing it, and I feel like I can pay the bills today, but not tomorrow, you're all sure...

01:03:25.000 Like, being abusive.

01:03:27.000 But how did it start, though?

01:03:28.000 But how did it start for her, too? 0.93

01:03:30.000 Women typically weaponize sex first. 1.00

01:03:31.000 Yep. 0.98

01:03:32.000 But why?

01:03:34.000 How do you feel?

01:03:35.000 Why?

01:03:35.000 So the thing...

01:03:36.000 So, okay.

01:03:36.000 So you guys been saying...

01:03:38.000 It doesn't matter why.

01:03:39.000 That's like me saying, I don't want to pay the bills.

01:03:40.000 No.

01:03:41.000 It does matter.

01:03:42.000 It does matter.

01:03:43.000 Myron, you bring it up a lot that it is like 70% of divorces are served by women.

01:03:48.000 Yes.

01:03:49.000 Right?

01:03:49.000 Like 80%.

01:03:50.000 Right.

01:03:50.000 Exactly.

01:03:51.000 So did you know that 85% of women initiate counseling?

01:03:57.000 Most people don't go to counseling.

01:03:59.000 Like not even 10% of couples go to counseling.

01:04:01.000 Which is really sad because we haven't been taught as human beings to be in a healthy relationship.

01:04:06.000 Okay.

01:04:07.000 And not only that, going to counseling, they do it in bad faith.

01:04:10.000 They go to counseling because they know that it'll allow them to get a better...

01:04:13.000 Not necessarily.

01:04:13.000 They can say, oh, I need to initiate this divorce because we tried counseling.

01:04:16.000 It didn't work.

01:04:17.000 No.

01:04:18.000 So did you get a mentor maybe for real estate or something like that at any point?

01:04:22.000 Maybe for business or something?

01:04:24.000 No, I pretty much did the real estate myself.

01:04:26.000 Okay, that's great.

01:04:27.000 Kudos to you.

01:04:28.000 But in general, if you can get a mentor in any type of thing, your chances of being successful are going to be higher, right?

01:04:36.000 So that's one of the things that I think, and people don't really talk about it, that people go to counseling when it's too late.

01:04:41.000 And I've been reading, I read a lot about relationships and human biology and the brain and psychology because I really want to have great relationships.

01:04:50.000 Not just with my husband, but with everyone around me.

01:04:53.000 And like you were saying, men are really simple.

01:04:56.000 Actually, no.

01:04:57.000 Like, They get a little moody too.

01:05:01.000 The reasons why we get moody are very, very binary.

01:05:06.000 Like, you can understand.

01:05:07.000 We are hungry.

01:05:08.000 We stubbed our toe.

01:05:09.000 We lost a job. 0.99

01:05:11.000 It is not like I didn't have a random feeling of panic because I was driving home at some point and a fucking song came on. 0.98

01:05:17.000 That's not how it works. 0.97

01:05:18.000 It's not complicated.

01:05:19.000 Do you have an example of how men are complicated?

01:05:22.000 Well, it's just, we all are emotional beings.

01:05:25.000 Yeah, but ours are not difficult to discern.

01:05:29.000 I tell this to every girl that I meet, I'm like, hey, they're like, are you mad at me?

01:05:32.000 I'm like, I will tell you I'm mad at you when I'm mad at you. 0.96

01:05:35.000 You will never, ever have to fucking worry. 0.91

01:05:38.000 I promise you it'll never be a mystery. 0.98

01:05:40.000 Yeah, I will tell you if I'm upset, okay?

01:05:44.000 I don't think, especially alpha men, I don't think that they're complicated at all.

01:05:49.000 Do you think they are?

01:05:51.000 I think certain men to a certain degree.

01:05:52.000 Some of them you could have been, like you said, in a relationship, you said three weeks, right?

01:05:55.000 Yeah, for sure. 0.95

01:05:56.000 And you said, oh, I'll kick you to the curb or something. 0.75

01:05:59.000 I'm not going to pay the bill for three weeks. 0.99

01:06:00.000 You don't want to have sex, right? 0.99

01:06:01.000 I would just be like, hey, let's just not see each other.

01:06:03.000 I'm just using your logic.

01:06:05.000 Because y'all are saying we should be able to withhold sex whenever we want.

01:06:08.000 I'm like, okay, well, I should be able to withhold provisioning whenever I want.

01:06:10.000 Nobody said that.

01:06:12.000 Nobody said that we should be able to withhold sex anytime.

01:06:15.000 Nobody said that.

01:06:15.000 A woman shouldn't have to have sex on your terms.

01:06:18.000 It's a mutual agreement.

01:06:19.000 That's what we said. 1.00

01:06:20.000 Yes, you are under zero obligation to fuck the guy. 1.00

01:06:23.000 It's a mutual agreement. 1.00

01:06:25.000 Like she said, you want your woman to enjoy it or you want her to lay there and not have a good time just because you want to get a nut off. 1.00

01:06:32.000 He said he doesn't enjoy paying bills.

01:06:35.000 Yeah.

01:06:36.000 But he still does it in the first place.

01:06:38.000 Like, bro, like, see, the thing is, again, this is what I always do.

01:06:42.000 I love to use email logic back on them, and then you guys realize how ridiculous it sounds, and then you're like, but wait, no, hold on, blah, blah, blah.

01:06:48.000 I'm just saying, if you have the ability to pick and choose when you want to get laid, which is cool, Fine.

01:06:53.000 I should have the ability to pick and choose when I want to be a man and pay the bills and take care of you.

01:06:57.000 I think what we're saying is that you're making it black or white.

01:06:59.000 I think what we're trying to say is that we're not saying that we don't want to have sex with you at all or whatever like that. 0.71

01:07:06.000 Exactly.

01:07:06.000 Remember, it's life.

01:07:07.000 Things go through things.

01:07:08.000 We have menstruals.

01:07:09.000 People die.

01:07:10.000 You know, we have all of that type of stuff.

01:07:11.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:07:12.000 I'm just kidding.

01:07:36.000 A man's life is way harder than a woman's life. 1.00

01:07:39.000 Way harder.

01:07:39.000 Yeah, but you don't have these emotional, sorry, hormonal cycles going inside of you.

01:07:47.000 You don't know what it is to be differently.

01:08:00.000 You guys have a 24 hour hormonal cycle. 0.99

01:08:05.000 Your balls are not sleeping. 0.98

01:08:10.000 Chris, can you check on that? 0.99

01:08:15.000 They're not sleeping.

01:08:17.000 No.

01:08:18.000 But on the contrary, a woman's hormonal cycle, you know it's 28 days. 0.99

01:08:25.000 I've had to do a lot of internal work for when I have my period or before my period that I feel like I'm going crazy.

01:08:32.000 Oh, for sure.

01:08:33.000 We're talking about three weeks and no actual explanation.

01:08:38.000 You just decided to not have sex with someone.

01:08:40.000 I think it's a horrible warning sign.

01:08:41.000 Now, going back to what you said before, why are men complicated like women? 0.71

01:08:45.000 No, I didn't say that.

01:08:46.000 I didn't say that.

01:08:47.000 Anybody else think men are complicated? 1.00

01:08:49.000 Because if you think men are complicated, you're just fucking a dude who's lying to you. 0.99

01:08:53.000 That's what's going on. 0.99

01:08:54.000 Men are not complicated.

01:08:55.000 What I wanted to say is we're deep human beings.

01:08:58.000 Men or women, we're deep human beings that we go through emotional things that most of us have some kind of emotional trauma because of our parents or because of our environment.

01:09:07.000 I agree.

01:09:07.000 Right?

01:09:08.000 So that's what I mean.

01:09:09.000 Emotional damage!

01:09:11.000 That's cool.

01:09:11.000 That's fine.

01:09:12.000 But men experience way more trauma.

01:09:13.000 Men experience a way harder life than women do. 0.99

01:09:15.000 So if we want to play the sympathy game of who has a harder experience, men absolutely have a harder experience than women, especially in a modern day age. 0.77

01:09:22.000 So you know what?

01:09:23.000 Let me not pay the bills because I'm going through trauma.

01:09:25.000 Yeah.

01:09:31.000 See, here's the thing. 0.98

01:09:32.000 Women lack logically sound skills. 1.00

01:09:35.000 Debating things in logic, right? 0.97

01:09:36.000 I'm just using your same arguments and the functional equivalent back on you and you guys don't know how to respond. 0.94

01:09:40.000 Because you want to be able to hold all the leverage and pick and choose when the guy fucks and all this.

01:09:44.000 I want to go off how I feel, blah, blah, blah. 0.98

01:09:46.000 But if I use your excuse for me not being a man, y'all will look at me like I'm crazy.

01:09:51.000 No, if you're going through trauma, if you have a good woman, she should be able to cover the bills if you can't pay them for some reason.

01:09:59.000 Yeah, it's a relationship.

01:10:00.000 How long is that going to last?

01:10:01.000 How long are you going to be in your feelings?

01:10:04.000 Any human being has a responsibility of getting themselves out of the dark spot.

01:10:13.000 All I'm saying is that every excuse that y'all have It doesn't work because men live harder lives than women, so a nice try. 0.88

01:10:20.000 Men have more burning performance than women, so a nice try. 1.00

01:10:22.000 Men have to bring way more to the table than a woman does, nice try. 1.00

01:10:25.000 Men have to add more value than a woman does to be in a relationship in the first place, nice try. 1.00

01:10:29.000 So all y'all have to do is fuck. 1.00

01:10:30.000 And if you don't do that, you're effectively useless. 1.00

01:10:32.000 But Myron, you cannot talk about, like, completely remove the value of a woman like that.

01:10:37.000 Like, the fact that, yes, I agree 100% that you guys go through harder things.

01:10:42.000 I'm not removing the value.

01:10:43.000 I'm saying your predominant value is based on sexuality.

01:10:45.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:10:46.000 Okay, so if you're just, if you're saying that, if you're saying that, like you're, sorry, I just, I got stuck.

01:10:59.000 Computer lag, freeze.

01:11:08.000 Hilarious.

01:11:09.000 I agree.

01:11:11.000 I agree.

01:11:12.000 I agree.

01:11:12.000 I remember what I was going to say.

01:11:14.000 Go ahead.

01:11:15.000 I agree with the fact that men have harder lives, but you cannot just say like, oh, just because I have a harder life than you, then your trauma is not valid.

01:11:24.000 Like...

01:11:26.000 It doesn't work like that.

01:11:27.000 Your trauma can be valid, but at some point, I've met girls before, I'm like, wow, this girl's great.

01:11:33.000 And then the trauma comes out and it's like, hey, I don't hate you. 0.99

01:11:36.000 You're not a useless person, but we don't need to be in a fucking relationship. 0.99

01:11:39.000 So you go that way and I go this way because I have the freedom to do that. 0.99

01:11:43.000 And there's nothing wrong with it.

01:11:44.000 Again, I'm going back to the Jonah Hill thing.

01:11:45.000 Jonah Hill said, you're doing things I don't like and I don't want to be with you anymore.

01:11:48.000 And everyone was like, how dare you tell this woman to not dress like that? 0.99

01:11:52.000 It was ridiculous. 0.98

01:11:53.000 No, he has the right to do that. 0.98

01:11:54.000 By the way, if the Jonah Hill thing is bad, does that not make every single Muslim man a problem? 1.00

01:12:00.000 Every traditional Muslim man would ask the same thing from his woman.

01:12:02.000 Am I wrong?

01:12:03.000 And I'm saying this as a Christian.

01:12:04.000 I'm saying this as a Christian.

01:12:06.000 Is that not correct?

01:12:07.000 That was always just very confusing to me.

01:12:09.000 That's the problem.

01:12:11.000 We have the right to leave if we want.

01:12:14.000 Does that make sense?

01:12:14.000 You have the right to have your trauma, and I have the right to leave.

01:12:18.000 That's all I'm saying.

01:12:19.000 I agree.

01:12:20.000 That's why communication is key.

01:12:21.000 You keep it honest in the beginning, but a lot of us don't do that.

01:12:24.000 We leave people on.

01:12:25.000 That's why we go down the path that we are, like Myron said.

01:12:29.000 It's easier to leave than to work on it.

01:12:31.000 Women don't want honesty, though. 1.00

01:12:33.000 It hurts.

01:12:34.000 It definitely hurts.

01:12:36.000 I know you're saying communication, but women don't want the truth. 1.00

01:12:39.000 I learn that more and more every day, dude.

01:12:41.000 That's why niggas lie, man. 1.00

01:12:43.000 I can hear every session. 1.00

01:12:45.000 And that's why the shit keep recycling itself. 0.99

01:12:47.000 That right there, everyone's lying to each other. 1.00

01:12:49.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:12:50.000 I think women lie way more than men do, though. 1.00

01:12:54.000 Yeah, facts.

01:12:56.000 You disagree? 0.97

01:12:57.000 You want a date with a nigga that spent $1,300 at Komodo? 1.00

01:12:59.000 And you didn't tell him, I'm not going to fuck you before the date? 1.00

01:13:02.000 Well, it's called giving a person a chance seeing if we have chemistry. 1.00

01:13:05.000 Some girls just ghost and don't give a damn about you. 1.00

01:13:09.000 Was there a chance?

01:13:10.000 Was there a chance before?

01:13:12.000 I didn't know the bill was going to be $1,300.

01:13:16.000 Women lie, men buy. 1.00

01:13:17.000 Literally. 0.99

01:13:23.000 Everything about the female existence is a lie. 1.00

01:13:26.000 Makeup, we don't know when you're on your period, we don't know when you're in heat, we don't know if you're pregnant or not. 1.00

01:13:31.000 Everything about the female mystique is about fucking lying. 1.00

01:13:35.000 Wearing extensions, wearing nails, not showing interest in a guy, going out with guys that you don't give a fuck about because you're trying to get a free dinner or whatever. 1.00

01:13:42.000 Like, everything about the female existence is a lie to a degree. 1.00

01:13:45.000 Women have to be deceptive in a lot of their practices because women are the inferior sex physically. 1.00

01:13:50.000 So what do they have to do? 0.99

01:13:51.000 They have to be the superior sex mentally and cognitively. 0.99

01:13:53.000 So they have to use deception to attract the opposite gender and retain the opposite gender because you guys don't have the strength to beat us physically. 1.00

01:14:00.000 So women can have a lot of guys. 1.00

01:14:01.000 If I took 100 women, I guarantee 90 of them have probably been on dates and finessed a dude out of that date. 1.00

01:14:06.000 However, if I line up 100 dudes, maybe 10 of them have been able to finesse a woman. 0.99

01:14:10.000 Men are not able to connive women to the same degree that women connive men. 0.74

01:14:13.000 And that's because the whole female psyche is centered around deception. 1.00

01:14:17.000 Everything about y'all is deceptive.

01:14:18.000 Makeup, lashes, heels, tight dresses, surgeries, etc.

01:14:22.000 Boobs. 1.00

01:14:23.000 Being on your period.

01:14:24.000 Being in heat.

01:14:24.000 We might not know it.

01:14:25.000 Everything about female psychology is deceptive to a degree. 1.00

01:14:31.000 Going on dates with niggas y'all don't like. 1.00

01:14:32.000 Like, come on, man.

01:14:33.000 Come on, man.

01:14:34.000 So, deception could probably attract somebody, but it's not going to keep in my eye.

01:14:38.000 I don't think you guys care.

01:14:40.000 I think they just want to hit.

01:14:41.000 Ladies, if any of you lied about being on your period, be truthful.

01:14:47.000 At any time, at any You know how I would get them if that ever came up?

01:15:10.000 Yeah.

01:15:11.000 Oh, I'm on my period.

01:15:12.000 I'm like, perfect.

01:15:13.000 I don't stop.

01:15:14.000 I don't stop by red lights.

01:15:15.000 Bro.

01:15:16.000 What?

01:15:17.000 You gonna fuck a girl on her period? 1.00

01:15:19.000 Excuse me? 1.00

01:15:20.000 And then what you're gonna do is she's actually on her period.

01:15:23.000 What are you gonna do?

01:15:23.000 But then, but then, I'm gonna see if you're lying or not.

01:15:25.000 I didn't understand. 1.00

01:15:25.000 Shit. 1.00

01:15:26.000 Because if you're lying, you're gonna be like, okay, well. 1.00

01:15:28.000 So you basically just want her to show you. 0.99

01:15:29.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, shut up. 0.99

01:15:31.000 Show what? 1.00

01:15:32.000 Show what?

01:15:38.000 If she's like, cool with it, then it's like, okay.

01:15:40.000 But if she's not, it's like, oh, well. 0.99

01:15:41.000 Some girls are okay with fucking on their periods. 1.00

01:15:43.000 That's, like... 1.00

01:15:46.000 Would you be okay with a girl showing you that's her on her period? 0.98

01:15:49.000 Again, it's just a statement.

01:15:49.000 No, no, no.

01:15:51.000 She calls her to either fold or to, you know?

01:15:55.000 You said if she's down, then that means, oh, she's on her period. 0.71

01:15:57.000 If she's not down, then she's on her period.

01:16:00.000 But, uh, crush...

01:16:02.000 I'm curious.

01:16:02.000 Why would a girl go on a date when she's on her period?

01:16:15.000 There's so much logic in this world.

01:16:17.000 There's so much logic, bro.

01:16:18.000 This is crazy.

01:16:20.000 I'll tell y'all why.

01:16:21.000 Because it's what I said before.

01:16:23.000 Men have to offer value to women and it doesn't have to be sexual for women to deal with us.

01:16:26.000 But for you guys to offer value, it must be sexual for us to deal with you.

01:16:29.000 That's the difference.

01:16:30.000 That's the difference.

01:16:31.000 Everything about the female psyche is a lot. 1.00

01:16:34.000 Y'all have anything to rebut that?

01:16:35.000 Yeah, so you talk about women, and I've seen some of your videos talking about high body counts and all these things.

01:16:43.000 So just because you're going on a date with somebody and you're just trying to get to know them and vet them for the future, so that it's just implicit that you're going to have sex with them?

01:16:51.000 No, it's not that.

01:16:52.000 I'm saying that women will go out on a date with someone that they don't like and still be able to extract value, but men don't.

01:16:58.000 To use your question, you said, like, you're gonna go on a date on your period.

01:17:02.000 That's what you said just now.

01:17:03.000 I didn't say that.

01:17:05.000 Chris proposed a question, why do women go out on dates with their period?

01:17:08.000 And then I answered it by saying that because men offer utility outside of sex.

01:17:12.000 No, but what if you want to get to know the guy?

01:17:14.000 You're in your period, and so you're not going to go on a date just because you want to get to know the guy?

01:17:17.000 Men offer utility outside of sex. 0.83

01:17:19.000 You want to get to know the guy because women enjoy male attention. 1.00

01:17:23.000 Women are able to extract value from men even when there's no sex involved. 1.00

01:17:26.000 We are not really able to extract value from y'all unless there is sex involved.

01:17:29.000 I mean, I don't know why you guys don't understand this.

01:17:31.000 Because it doesn't make sense.

01:17:32.000 It doesn't.

01:17:33.000 It doesn't make sense.

01:17:34.000 How does it not make sense?

01:17:37.000 I get what you're saying.

01:17:38.000 How does it not make sense?

01:17:40.000 It doesn't.

01:17:42.000 What's your reasoning for it not making sense?

01:17:44.000 Because you're saying that the whole point of going on a date is to have sex at the end of the date.

01:17:50.000 From the male perspective.

01:17:50.000 Okay, from the male perspective, but as a woman, we go out on a date because we're trying to, like she said, we're trying to get to know you.

01:17:57.000 We're not, oh.

01:17:58.000 That's quite literally what I just said.

01:18:01.000 So we can get to know you.

01:18:02.000 Hold on.

01:18:02.000 If you want to be in a relationship, and y'all want, you know what I mean?

01:18:05.000 Did you not hear what I said a second ago?

01:18:07.000 Literally, like, 60 seconds ago, I said, women are able to extract value outside of just sex, attention, etc., which is getting to know the guy, talking to the guy. 0.96

01:18:14.000 That's what I just said.

01:18:15.000 Okay.

01:18:17.000 Are you listening?

01:18:17.000 Yes, I am listening.

01:18:18.000 I don't think you are.

01:18:19.000 Okay.

01:18:19.000 If you were listening, that would have made sense.

01:18:22.000 I wouldn't have to have just repeated myself.

01:18:23.000 But that just comes to show how different we are.

01:18:25.000 Because for the things that make a lot of sense for you, for us that we're women, and you have had a lot of women that disagree with all these things, it just doesn't make any sense because we're different beings.

01:18:33.000 I mean, that's okay.

01:18:34.000 No, no, no, no.

01:18:36.000 It's because women a lot of times lack logic, reasoning, and deductive problem solving skills. 1.00

01:18:41.000 That's the real reason why y'all can't understand what I'm trying to say here.

01:18:43.000 Women lack logic a lot of the times. 1.00

01:18:45.000 Definitely, men are better at that. 0.86

01:18:47.000 Like, 100%.

01:18:48.000 100%.

01:18:49.000 But that's why we are more emotional beings.

01:18:52.000 Like, the reason...

01:18:53.000 That's not a flex.

01:18:54.000 Okay, but don't you think that's crazy?

01:18:56.000 Like, I didn't invent them myself.

01:18:58.000 I came from God, and all of you came from God, right?

01:19:01.000 So there's a reason why.

01:19:04.000 There's a reason why this being created these two beings that are so completely different to join and to be together.

01:19:12.000 Don't you think that's something crazy?

01:19:13.000 Like, you were literally polar opposites, but at the same...

01:19:16.000 Yeah, he's not disagreeing that men and women are different.

01:19:18.000 Why do you think women are more emotional than men, if you were going to guess?

01:19:20.000 Like, from an evolutionary standpoint, why do you think?

01:19:21.000 Because we need to bond with our children.

01:19:23.000 That's exactly right.

01:19:24.000 You need to love your kids to an irrational level.

01:19:29.000 And your men too.

01:19:30.000 Right.

01:19:31.000 But with men, what do we have to do in order to have kids? 1.00

01:19:33.000 We have to compete with other men, which requires logic and reasoning. 0.93

01:19:38.000 So it's not that, like, if you look at IQ tests, men and women actually score about the same average, but men are outside the first standard deviation more often.

01:19:46.000 With women, though, like, it's one of these situations where it's not that you're not smart, it's that you're smart, but you have all these added emotions that go with it. 1.00

01:19:53.000 Why?

01:19:53.000 Because you need an irrational level of, like, craziness to protect your kids, and that's what we want in a good woman.

01:19:59.000 Does that make sense?

01:20:00.000 But for me, I gotta worry about this guy trying to kill my tribe, this guy, I gotta make this money, I gotta...

01:20:05.000 I have this burden of performance to do this.

01:20:06.000 I have to protect these people.

01:20:07.000 So that's the reason why.

01:20:09.000 It's an evolutionary adaptation.

01:20:10.000 That's why we're different.

01:20:11.000 I gave a very logically sound argument for why a lot of you guys are wrong, yet you guys are responding to me with emotion versus being able to back up what you're saying.

01:20:19.000 I mean, this conversation in itself proves that women lack deductive problem-solving and logically sound skills. 1.00

01:20:25.000 Or does it prove that we're just different?

01:20:27.000 It proves that you guys literally don't have rationale and logic.

01:20:30.000 Or does it prove that we're just different?

01:20:32.000 But being different shows that you don't have logic and rationale, which is what I'm trying to say.

01:20:38.000 You're different, but you're different because you don't have logic and rationale.

01:20:42.000 I mean, if you want to look at it that way, I just...

01:20:44.000 Incredible.

01:20:45.000 Incredible.

01:20:45.000 No, no, no.

01:20:47.000 And fuck incredible, man. 1.00

01:20:49.000 But we're different. 1.00

01:20:50.000 Okay, yeah, you're different because you don't have logic or rationale.

01:20:52.000 But wait, no, we're different.

01:20:53.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:20:54.000 No one's arguing that.

01:20:56.000 Okay, we got some more chat to it, man.

01:20:57.000 Yo, man. 1.00

01:20:58.000 You've been saying the same shit all over again. 1.00

01:21:00.000 Yo, man. 1.00

01:21:00.000 Yo. 1.00

01:21:01.000 Thank God, bro.

01:21:03.000 World's coolest nerd.

01:21:08.000 Let's go!

01:21:10.000 Let's go!

01:21:11.000 Yo, man.

01:21:12.000 Thank God that men are in positions of power and leadership, man.

01:21:18.000 Women, bro. 1.00

01:21:19.000 Goddamn, man. 1.00

01:21:20.000 If women were around the world, we would be fucking done. 1.00

01:21:22.000 Could you imagine? 0.99

01:21:23.000 I don't know how I feel about this.

01:21:24.000 I'm going to nuke Russia. 0.99

01:21:28.000 That's the simplest thing to say about a woman. 0.99

01:21:30.000 What was that?

01:21:31.000 That's what?

01:21:32.000 I feel like a lot of people say that, like, oh, women can't be presidents because all of a sudden our emotions will make us nuke a country. 1.00

01:21:38.000 Like, that's not how it works.

01:21:41.000 It's not far-fetched, though.

01:21:42.000 I guess.

01:21:43.000 It's just different type of women. 1.00

01:21:45.000 I feel like y'all are trying to categorize women as one.

01:21:49.000 There's different types of women. 1.00

01:21:51.000 Yeah, but in general, women don't have the same emotional control that men do. 1.00

01:21:55.000 You're saying in general, still generalizing all women in one category.

01:21:59.000 Well, we're talking about women running countries. 1.00

01:22:03.000 Question.

01:22:03.000 That's how the world works.

01:22:04.000 The world works on generalities.

01:22:06.000 Human beings are way more similar than you guys think.

01:22:09.000 Only in this crazy first world American society that we live in do we go ahead and run around and say everyone's special.

01:22:15.000 We are way more alike than y'all actually think.

01:22:19.000 Quick question.

01:22:21.000 You're going on a plane trip to Jamaica, right?

01:22:23.000 Two options for a captain. 0.93

01:22:25.000 A woman on a period or just an average man? 0.92

01:22:28.000 What would you choose?

01:22:30.000 So we're going to Jamaica on a plane, right?

01:22:32.000 Two options for a pilot. 0.76

01:22:33.000 Woman on a period or just the average guy?

01:22:36.000 Why does it matter though?

01:22:36.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:22:38.000 That makes no sense.

01:22:38.000 I wouldn't matter who my pilot is.

01:22:40.000 As long as they can fly the plane and I get to A and B safely, then it doesn't matter who flies it.

01:22:45.000 One doesn't.

01:22:46.000 It doesn't matter if she's on her period and she drives a plane.

01:22:49.000 What is she going to have like a cramp? 0.80

01:22:50.000 She's going to drive.

01:22:55.000 You're about to get a heart transplant.

01:22:58.000 We'll make it simpler.

01:22:59.000 You're about to get a heart transplant.

01:23:00.000 Would you prefer your surgeon to be a man or a woman? 0.72

01:23:03.000 What about you, Mr.

01:23:09.000 Ukraine?

01:23:09.000 Would you prefer a male or a female surgeon if you're going under heart surgery?

01:23:13.000 Oh, wow. 1.00

01:23:14.000 I have seen a lot of talented women and a lot of talented and stupid men either. 1.00

01:23:21.000 So I know that men also can be emotional, especially if they didn't have a girlfriend for a long time. 0.99

01:23:30.000 Like in this case, we have seen recently.

01:23:34.000 Or if they invaded your country.

01:23:36.000 Can we talk about that?

01:23:37.000 My bad.

01:23:37.000 I'm sorry.

01:23:38.000 I'm sorry.

01:23:39.000 I apologize.

01:23:40.000 I apologize.

01:23:41.000 Sorry.

01:23:41.000 Which one do you prefer, the male or the female surgeon?

01:23:43.000 Boss are good.

01:23:44.000 Boss are good.

01:23:45.000 It's like me.

01:23:46.000 She don't care.

01:23:47.000 I don't care.

01:23:48.000 They're trying to make a point on your situation.

01:23:50.000 What about you?

01:23:50.000 What would you prefer?

01:23:51.000 Male or female surgeon? 0.78

01:23:52.000 Same.

01:23:53.000 Either.

01:23:54.000 Either or.

01:23:55.000 As long as they get the job done.

01:23:58.000 As long as they know what they're doing.

01:24:01.000 It doesn't matter if female or male. 0.91

01:24:03.000 It doesn't matter.

01:24:03.000 You say that now, but what is life or death?

01:24:05.000 You were saying that.

01:24:06.000 No, life or death.

01:24:07.000 That question you had, the body count, can we do that one?

01:24:11.000 Okay, so let's go back here real quick.

01:24:15.000 We got 30 minutes, guys, or 35 minutes, because we got to close this thing at 1230.

01:24:19.000 So it was here earlier.

01:24:21.000 Chris, you got it?

01:24:22.000 Chris is pulling it up right now.

01:24:23.000 I mean, here I'm first.

01:24:26.000 What, Chris?

01:24:27.000 I said, uh, here first.

01:24:28.000 Okay.

01:24:28.000 Jay Vanderpool15 says, Myron, Michael, Fresh, what's your thoughts if Joe Rogan interviewed Donald Trump?

01:24:35.000 That'd be amazing.

01:24:36.000 I don't think he'll do it, though.

01:24:37.000 But he'd have to also interview the other candidate.

01:24:40.000 That's the way it works.

01:24:41.000 Like, legally, he's supposed to do that.

01:24:43.000 Now, actually, because he's on Spotify, maybe he doesn't, but that's the way it's supposed to work.

01:24:47.000 If you interview one candidate up for election, you have to interview another one.

01:24:50.000 The other side.

01:24:51.000 That's pretty good.

01:24:52.000 Really?

01:24:53.000 Yeah, I'm pretty sure there's a rule about that.

01:24:54.000 Because I've had that same issue with my podcast where I've had somebody running for state comptroller and I had to get somebody else on there.

01:25:00.000 What?

01:25:00.000 For independent media?

01:25:02.000 Man, I could be wrong.

01:25:04.000 I could be wrong.

01:25:05.000 All right.

01:25:05.000 World's coolest nerd.

01:25:06.000 If a body is $100 and head is $50, who's the richest and poorest on the panel?

01:25:10.000 Okay, ladies. 1.00

01:25:10.000 Which one of you think you're the richest? 1.00

01:25:12.000 Go ahead and raise your hand.

01:25:14.000 Which one of you thinks you're the poorest?

01:25:16.000 Read the thing.

01:25:17.000 Which one of you thinks you're the poorest?

01:25:18.000 The least bodies and the least.

01:25:20.000 You think you're the poorest?

01:25:21.000 Okay, you are 12, so maybe.

01:25:23.000 I don't understand.

01:25:24.000 Anybody else?

01:25:26.000 I'm sorry.

01:25:27.000 Oh, you're 18.

01:25:28.000 Oh, okay.

01:25:29.000 I don't feel as bad.

01:25:31.000 Anybody else?

01:25:32.000 This experiment proves what I said before.

01:25:34.000 Women move by deception. 1.00

01:25:35.000 They don't want you to know their body count.

01:25:36.000 They don't want you to know anything.

01:25:38.000 Are you going to tell your body count?

01:25:39.000 Yeah, what's yours?

01:26:09.000 Fresh is a man of God, thank you very much.

01:26:11.000 Thank you so much.

01:26:11.000 Can I ask a question?

01:26:12.000 Out of you three here on the panel, who would be the richest from that question?

01:26:17.000 Yeah.

01:26:18.000 Yeah, Fresh.

01:26:19.000 They're all men of God.

01:26:20.000 And when it says head, is it like receiving or giving?

01:26:23.000 Because it wasn't specific.

01:26:24.000 True.

01:26:25.000 That's true.

01:26:25.000 It really wasn't specific, so I feel like I can't answer that question.

01:26:29.000 Sorry.

01:26:30.000 I'm a millionaire.

01:26:30.000 Trying to be smart.

01:26:31.000 Wait, who said they'd be a millionaire, but it was head?

01:26:33.000 So raise your hand real quick.

01:26:33.000 I said receiving.

01:26:35.000 Receiving head, you'd be a millionaire?

01:26:36.000 Okay, got it. 1.00

01:26:37.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:26:39.000 God! 1.00

01:26:40.000 Another example of men providing value. 0.70

01:26:44.000 Really quick, you got head and you didn't have sex with a guy.

01:26:49.000 Has that ever happened?

01:26:50.000 That's happened before.

01:26:52.000 You received head and did...

01:26:53.000 Ladies, anyone else, this has happened to you before.

01:26:55.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:27:05.000 You've received fellatio from a man and you did not have sex with him afterwards. 0.99

01:27:08.000 Ladies, anyone else? 1.00

01:27:09.000 Receive head and then you head home.

01:27:11.000 Okay, anybody else?

01:27:13.000 Now, this never happened to you? 0.99

01:27:14.000 A guy goes down on you, you're going to have sex with me. 1.00

01:27:16.000 You're going to have sex with him. 1.00

01:27:19.000 Have you ever had a guy go down on you and have fellatio, oral sex? 1.00

01:27:26.000 And afterwards, you did not have sex with him. 0.99

01:27:30.000 I don't understand the question.

01:27:32.000 I don't understand the question, honestly.

01:27:35.000 Like, have you ever hung out with a guy and he gave you a head?

01:27:38.000 You know what a head is?

01:27:39.000 Like, where he ate you out? 1.00

01:27:41.000 Pussy. 1.00

01:27:41.000 Okay. 1.00

01:27:42.000 And then you didn't poke him after.

01:27:44.000 You've done that?

01:27:45.000 Yes.

01:27:45.000 Yes, there you go.

01:27:46.000 Well, three of you, okay.

01:27:47.000 And then the rest of you- Y'all have it?

01:27:48.000 The rest of you are just lying.

01:27:49.000 Okay, got it.

01:27:50.000 Alright, cool.

01:27:51.000 Yeah, it's okay.

01:27:52.000 What about you?

01:27:53.000 What about you?

01:27:54.000 Have you ever received- Yeah, I don't know how to switch it.

01:27:57.000 Maybe we're in a car or something.

01:27:59.000 If we're in a car or a balcony or something like that, then that's not going to work.

01:28:03.000 But is it because you're already in a relationship?

01:28:05.000 What is the specific question? 1.00

01:28:07.000 You never had sex with a guy, he gave you oral sex, and you never had sex with a guy. 0.99

01:28:11.000 It doesn't matter. 1.00

01:28:13.000 A guy gives you oral sex and then you choose. 1.00

01:28:17.000 It's like, well, you are attractive enough to give me oral sex, but not attractive enough for me to have sex with you. 1.00

01:28:21.000 Has that ever happened? 1.00

01:28:22.000 You two said yes.

01:28:23.000 That was my question.

01:28:25.000 Has that ever happened?

01:28:25.000 No.

01:28:26.000 No, okay.

01:28:27.000 For me, it's equal. 0.97

01:28:29.000 Like, oral sex and casual sex, it's so equal for a woman because she does the same effort she prepares in the same way for every type of date. 0.93

01:28:37.000 Yeah, but it's not the same for a man. 0.99

01:28:41.000 Sorry.

01:28:42.000 What am I saying about disease?

01:28:44.000 Am I not?

01:28:44.000 That's considered a W for them.

01:28:46.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:28:46.000 Okay, we gonna move on.

01:28:47.000 Well, this is my point more.

01:28:49.000 Men provide value way more than women do. 1.00

01:28:51.000 Alright. 1.00

01:28:52.000 Okay, so women do the shit they do and wonder why the entire planet and every major religion has opposed to strict social restrictions on their sovereignty since the dawn of time in every place humans have ever lived. 1.00

01:29:02.000 That is true. 1.00

01:29:04.000 Uh, fuck yo, period. 1.00

01:29:05.000 I'm a crip. 1.00

01:29:05.000 I ain't never been scared of no blood. 1.00

01:29:08.000 Blackest Panther, what do you think is more intimate slash personal, giving a guy a blowjob or giving him access to your womb? 1.00

01:29:13.000 Ooh, that's a very good one. 1.00

01:29:15.000 I would say...

01:29:16.000 So what's worse, giving head or giving up your...

01:29:19.000 No, more intimate.

01:29:19.000 The question is, which one is more intimate and personal?

01:29:22.000 Well, I kind of want to spin a little bit.

01:29:23.000 What's worse?

01:29:25.000 Worst?

01:29:26.000 In your eyes.

01:29:26.000 What does it mean giving him full access to the wall?

01:29:29.000 For example, if you meet a guy, what is more of what I want to say to you? 1.00

01:29:33.000 Giving head or giving your pussy? 1.00

01:29:35.000 Full access is letting him fuck. 1.00

01:29:37.000 Giving head? 1.00

01:29:38.000 Like what's better?

01:29:40.000 No, like... 1.00

01:29:41.000 Would you regret giving him a blowjob or would you regret having sex? 1.00

01:29:47.000 I would regret having sex. 1.00

01:29:50.000 So sex? 0.99

01:29:51.000 Yeah. 0.92

01:29:51.000 Giving full access. 0.92

01:29:53.000 I don't know.

01:29:53.000 They're both like...

01:29:54.000 Yeah.

01:29:55.000 Which is the greater evil for you then?

01:29:58.000 Probably...

01:29:59.000 They're both extremely intimate.

01:30:01.000 Yeah.

01:30:02.000 Especially head. 0.92

01:30:03.000 Head is very intimate.

01:30:04.000 Yeah.

01:30:04.000 Because you're putting your mouth on somebody.

01:30:07.000 So for you is head.

01:30:07.000 Sure.

01:30:07.000 I don't know.

01:30:08.000 It's equal.

01:30:09.000 Sex?

01:30:10.000 Yes. 0.73

01:30:10.000 For you? 0.73

01:30:12.000 Yeah.

01:30:12.000 Full access.

01:30:13.000 Full access?

01:30:14.000 Yeah.

01:30:14.000 Definitely.

01:30:15.000 Access?

01:30:16.000 It's two equal things for me.

01:30:18.000 Yeah.

01:30:19.000 No, but if you had to choose which is a greater evil...

01:30:22.000 Well, first of all, with condom or without condom? 1.00

01:30:27.000 I just gotta ask this shit. 1.00

01:30:33.000 Yo, yo, you're pretty much escort, right? 1.00

01:30:35.000 Are you escort?

01:30:36.000 No.

01:30:36.000 Yeah.

01:30:56.000 If a woman doesn't control the condom, it's a very big problem for everybody, for every woman. 1.00

01:31:05.000 Okay, are you a sugar baby? 0.78

01:31:08.000 I mean, what's the difference between a regular boyfriend and a sugar?

01:31:17.000 Do you have men that give you money Just because. 1.00

01:31:26.000 Wait, shall we get off Twitch?

01:31:28.000 What does it mean just because?

01:31:31.000 Like, you have men that financially support you that you may or may not be having sexual relations with.

01:31:40.000 I had some things when men just send me money just by texting.

01:31:47.000 And I have no idea who are they.

01:31:50.000 And then do you have men that you meet that also pay you?

01:31:53.000 What does it mean pay?

01:31:56.000 I'm not working.

01:31:58.000 Maybe they'll pay you to go out with them for a drink.

01:32:01.000 They'll pay you.

01:32:02.000 You don't have to have sex, but they'll just pay you. 1.00

01:32:04.000 Pay the bill and then pay you money on the side.

01:32:08.000 In general, Ukrainian women, they always require flowers, they require jewelry, they require paying for bills, they require helping her mother, and then she maybe will give you something. 1.00

01:32:23.000 She's an expensive girl.

01:32:26.000 In Russian, either.

01:32:27.000 But sometimes Ukrainian women, they behave in a bad way. 1.00

01:32:32.000 So I honestly do not see the difference, because as for me, If man doesn't take any effort, he just will not get any pleasure.

01:32:44.000 Right, so he has to get effort first.

01:32:46.000 What?

01:32:47.000 He has to get effort first before you give him anything.

01:32:51.000 Of course, everybody gets effort.

01:32:54.000 Like, for me, being like this, like being a girl who just arrived to...

01:32:59.000 So does effort include cash transfer to your hands?

01:33:02.000 Um...

01:33:09.000 You said you have four boyfriends.

01:33:14.000 What does each boyfriend provide you?

01:33:16.000 How about that?

01:33:18.000 What do the boyfriends do for you?

01:33:20.000 Those four guys?

01:33:21.000 Because you said that they got to do something.

01:33:22.000 So what do these four boyfriends do for you?

01:33:24.000 Five.

01:33:29.000 Do they know they're five?

01:33:35.000 Well, I have no idea.

01:33:37.000 I mean, I'm in a public place, so they can easily check it.

01:33:41.000 So what do they do?

01:33:42.000 Tell me what the five boyfriends do.

01:33:44.000 What does one of them do?

01:33:46.000 For me, first of all, I'm trying to move to the US, so I need some help with documents, with businesses.

01:33:58.000 Every advice, every information.

01:34:02.000 Okay, so what's a mentor to you?

01:34:03.000 What's the second one?

01:34:05.000 Information, money...

01:34:08.000 Okay, second guy is money and information.

01:34:10.000 What about the third guy?

01:34:11.000 Spy.

01:34:13.000 They're all equal.

01:34:14.000 So they all provide you information, mentoring and money?

01:34:20.000 Yes.

01:34:21.000 Okay.

01:34:23.000 Hey, Ryan, I changed my prediction. 1.00

01:34:26.000 Rush is going to win this shit. 0.99

01:34:27.000 I'm sorry. 0.99

01:34:28.000 I can't say that.

01:34:28.000 Let me take it away.

01:34:29.000 I can't say that.

01:34:30.000 I apologize.

01:34:30.000 I'm sorry.

01:34:31.000 And here's the thing.

01:34:32.000 At least he's being honest about it because some of you ladies on the panel, come on, man. 0.99

01:34:35.000 Women typically don't exclusively date one guy at a time unless they're trying to take that guy seriously or trying to angle for some type of relationship. 1.00

01:34:41.000 A lot of girls do this where they date non-exclusively. 1.00

01:34:44.000 She's just being honest about it and getting resources in exchange. 0.64

01:34:48.000 Whatever works, man.

01:34:49.000 What was that, huh? 0.74

01:34:50.000 No, Chad's like, she's a bomb villain.

01:34:54.000 She's a bomb villain? 1.00

01:34:56.000 No!

01:35:00.000 Would you ladies agree that most women date non-exclusive have like one or two guys that they're seeing at the same time?

01:35:06.000 Yeah.

01:35:06.000 Yeah?

01:35:07.000 Yeah.

01:35:08.000 What about you?

01:35:09.000 I think if you don't have a boyfriend, you can have multiple.

01:35:11.000 What about you?

01:35:12.000 Yeah, but I don't consider them my boyfriend.

01:35:14.000 We're just dating.

01:35:15.000 Like, we're getting to know each other.

01:35:16.000 They're not your boyfriend, but they're just like...

01:35:17.000 Yeah.

01:35:18.000 You can date multiple people.

01:35:19.000 That's what dating is for. 0.61

01:35:20.000 Okay.

01:35:21.000 What about you?

01:35:23.000 Yes.

01:35:23.000 Yeah.

01:35:24.000 What was the question?

01:35:25.000 The question is, do you think women in general date multiple men non-exclusively at the same time?

01:35:29.000 Maybe some, but I don't think all.

01:35:32.000 Okay.

01:35:33.000 I'll say some, not all.

01:35:35.000 Okay.

01:35:35.000 What about you?

01:35:36.000 Yeah.

01:35:37.000 Same.

01:35:37.000 Well, Ms.

01:35:38.000 Ukraine, we know your thoughts.

01:35:39.000 Yes.

01:35:39.000 Okay.

01:35:40.000 Have you ever been seeing more than one guy at the same time?

01:35:44.000 Like, dating, dating, like, relationships?

01:35:46.000 Seeing, talking to, going on dates, whatever it is.

01:35:49.000 Not your boyfriend, not multiple boyfriends, dating multiple guys.

01:35:52.000 Multiple men at the same time, yes or no?

01:35:53.000 Yes.

01:35:54.000 Alright, cool.

01:35:55.000 Yep.

01:35:56.000 Yes.

01:35:57.000 Never?

01:35:58.000 Stop the cow! 1.00

01:35:59.000 Have you ever been seeing, talking to, and or dating multiple men at the same time?

01:36:04.000 Yes.

01:36:05.000 Probably like two friends.

01:36:07.000 Like that, on that level.

01:36:08.000 You mean like being in a relationship?

01:36:10.000 No, you're dating two guys.

01:36:11.000 Oh, okay.

01:36:11.000 Getting to know them.

01:36:12.000 Oh, just getting to know them.

01:36:13.000 Yeah, okay.

01:36:14.000 I just wanted to specify that.

01:36:15.000 One guy in Jackson and one guy in Tallulah.

01:36:17.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:36:18.000 One guy in Memphis.

01:36:20.000 What about you?

01:36:21.000 So just getting to know them?

01:36:22.000 Yep.

01:36:23.000 Yeah.

01:36:23.000 Going through the courting process or whatever it may be.

01:36:25.000 Yeah.

01:36:26.000 You say corny.

01:36:27.000 No, courting.

01:36:28.000 Oh, okay.

01:36:28.000 And then you must know where she stands.

01:36:30.000 What about you?

01:36:31.000 Yes.

01:36:32.000 Okay.

01:36:33.000 Fair enough.

01:36:33.000 No, guys, listen to this.

01:36:35.000 This is another thing.

01:36:35.000 You're so sure it's just yours.

01:36:38.000 All of you.

01:36:38.000 Dude, let me tell you something.

01:36:39.000 When you guys end up hooking up with a really hot girl, I want you to know that the rest of the world is not happy for you.

01:36:45.000 And there's always some other dude who thinks that's his because she has allowed that to be the case.

01:36:50.000 Every single hot girl you meet, I don't care how much she swears she doesn't have a boyfriend, there is some dude who thinks he still hangs around, orbits, buys her stuff, and that guy right there thinks that that's his. 1.00

01:37:01.000 And I'm telling you, every single time I start dating a girl, there's always like 15 dudes who come out of the woodwork and they're like, wait, I thought it was my turn.

01:37:06.000 Wait, I thought we were going to date.

01:37:07.000 It's always like that.

01:37:08.000 So fellas, just like, listen to this.

01:37:09.000 Every one of them said, I'm dating multiple dudes at the same time.

01:37:12.000 But if you're her best option, you get more priority and you become that mean guy.

01:37:17.000 And maybe she'll let you hit. 0.85

01:37:22.000 Let's have fun with this. 0.99

01:37:23.000 When's the last time you had sex over here? 0.99

01:37:25.000 Oh my god. 0.97

01:37:27.000 Do we have to answer this?

01:37:28.000 Yes.

01:37:28.000 That would be yesterday.

01:37:30.000 No.

01:37:32.000 Monday night.

01:37:35.000 Cool.

01:37:36.000 Wait.

01:37:38.000 When's the last time you smashed Miss Ukraine? 0.98

01:37:42.000 When's the last time you fornicated? 0.81

01:37:45.000 I don't remember. 0.95

01:37:46.000 With no condom.

01:37:49.000 When was the last time you got paid by your boyfriend?

01:37:54.000 Paid by my boyfriend.

01:37:55.000 Yeah, or one of them.

01:37:57.000 On Tuesday.

01:38:02.000 Ms.

01:38:02.000 Ukraine, who brought you that bracelet?

01:38:03.000 What?

01:38:04.000 Who brought you that bracelet?

01:38:05.000 Oh, one Jewish guy. 1.00

01:38:08.000 There we go.

01:38:09.000 What in?

01:38:10.000 What in?

01:38:11.000 I need the belt.

01:38:12.000 Oh, my God.

01:38:14.000 Boys.

01:38:15.000 Okay.

01:38:17.000 What about you when the last time you smashed?

01:38:20.000 Do I have to answer like I'm married? 0.99

01:38:22.000 Yeah, I hope it was like yesterday or some shit. 0.99

01:38:24.000 In honor of Ryan. 0.99

01:38:25.000 Yeah?

01:38:25.000 Wait, no one else.

01:38:27.000 You and Zico are the only ones to touch that belt. 0.92

01:38:30.000 It's in honor.

01:38:31.000 All right, what about you?

01:38:32.000 When's the last time you...

01:38:33.000 It's been about a month.

01:38:35.000 A month?

01:38:36.000 Yeah.

01:38:36.000 Stop the cap.

01:38:37.000 Oh, my God.

01:38:38.000 You don't need the cap.

01:38:39.000 Keep going.

01:38:40.000 Two caps.

01:38:41.000 Yeah.

01:38:42.000 No.

01:38:42.000 Okay.

01:38:43.000 What about you?

01:38:44.000 When's the last time you smashed?

01:38:45.000 We'll have a boyfriend, so, like, today.

01:38:47.000 Okay.

01:38:48.000 Go, girl. 0.85

01:38:49.000 Go, girl. 0.85

01:38:50.000 Sunday morning.

01:38:51.000 Last week?

01:38:53.000 Yes.

01:38:54.000 Wait, and...

01:38:55.000 Can you go to the end first?

01:38:56.000 I have.

01:38:57.000 Can you go to the end first?

01:38:59.000 No.

01:38:59.000 I haven't even answered and you're about to put your cap on already.

01:39:02.000 Oh my gosh, she has three.

01:39:04.000 I would tell you, probably a little over two weeks ago.

01:39:07.000 Probably like two and a half weeks ago.

01:39:09.000 Got the cap!

01:39:10.000 Oh my god!

01:39:12.000 What do you think we cap?

01:39:15.000 What's wrong?

01:39:17.000 And then what about you?

01:39:21.000 When's the last time you saw me?

01:39:23.000 A month and a half ago.

01:39:24.000 I swear!

01:39:26.000 They're not going to believe you regardless.

01:39:28.000 Really? 0.79

01:39:30.000 When was the last time y'all had sex then? 0.93

01:39:33.000 How about you guys go around and answer? 0.50

01:39:35.000 I have a girlfriend, so I'm still making her wait.

01:39:40.000 It'll happen soon.

01:39:40.000 Wait for what?

01:39:41.000 To have sex with me. 1.00

01:39:43.000 You're not the virgin. 1.00

01:39:44.000 You have one body.

01:39:46.000 My girlfriend, yeah, exactly.

01:39:48.000 She's your body? 1.00

01:39:48.000 But you're making her weight? 1.00

01:39:50.000 I make her weight, yeah, for sure. 0.90

01:39:52.000 Is she supposed to leave you? 0.91

01:39:54.000 Is she supposed to leave you because you had her weight? 1.00

01:39:56.000 She can get rid of you! 1.00

01:39:57.000 I'm worth waiting for.

01:39:58.000 I'm worth waiting for.

01:39:59.000 You're waiting for her to leave you.

01:40:01.000 She asks for it every five minutes.

01:40:03.000 So does that give her the right to leave you?

01:40:05.000 I'm worth waiting for.

01:40:06.000 Does that give her the right to go see another man? 0.99

01:40:09.000 No, she does not have.

01:40:11.000 Which one is it?

01:40:12.000 The left.

01:40:19.000 We got about 20 minutes left so what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna turn it over to y'all if you guys have a topic and or question for us here or a disagreement on anything go ahead and shoot so who wants to go first I have a question.

01:40:36.000 Sure, go ahead. 0.99

01:40:38.000 Okay, so all this entire podcast, you were talking about the women and they're useless without a vagina. 1.00

01:40:49.000 I said virtually useless, which means mostly useless. 1.00

01:40:52.000 Not all the way, but mostly. 1.00

01:40:54.000 What happened with the men if they lose their dick? 0.99

01:40:57.000 They can still pay for stuff. 1.00

01:40:58.000 They can still pay for things.

01:40:59.000 They can still get a shotgun.

01:41:03.000 Yeah, that's cool, but again, I said earlier, right?

01:41:06.000 How many of you have been on a date with a guy that you don't like?

01:41:08.000 Almost all of you said yes. 0.99

01:41:10.000 That proves my point, that women are still able to get value from a guy outside a dick. 1.00

01:41:15.000 Okay, but we still need sex. 1.00

01:41:18.000 Okay, but that doesn't change the fact that you're able to still get value from that man without fucking him. 1.00

01:41:28.000 No. 0.99

01:41:28.000 It's the same as the opposite thing. 0.99

01:41:30.000 We still want sex, though. 0.99

01:41:31.000 If you ain't got no dick, you can't please us. 1.00

01:41:33.000 Sexually. 1.00

01:41:34.000 Yeah, but you're still able to get value from that man.

01:41:37.000 That's why their girls have... 1.00

01:41:38.000 Do you have dudes in a friendzone right now?

01:41:40.000 No value. 1.00

01:41:40.000 They don't have no value if they can't fuck you. 1.00

01:41:42.000 Do you have guys in a friendzone right now? 0.99

01:41:44.000 Yes.

01:41:46.000 Yes.

01:41:47.000 Thank you for proving my point.

01:41:51.000 You still don't understand?

01:41:55.000 I understand your point, but for us, it's not really all the bits and all kind of stuff.

01:42:02.000 For us, it's still necessary sex. 0.74

01:42:06.000 And if we want to have a family, what happened in that situation?

01:42:11.000 Okay, then I guess you can choose.

01:42:14.000 But here's the thing. 1.00

01:42:14.000 If you choose to fuck the guy, he'll fuck you. 1.00

01:42:17.000 Well, but you don't have a dick. 1.00

01:42:19.000 Because if we don't have a vagina, we're useless. 1.00

01:42:23.000 But if a man doesn't have a dick... 1.00

01:42:25.000 That man can still protect and provide for you and provision for you. 0.99

01:42:29.000 So he still can add value to you.

01:42:31.000 We just told you we have sexual needs.

01:42:33.000 Women don't have the same strong urges for sexual needs as men do. 1.00

01:42:37.000 Ladies, ladies, ladies. 0.95

01:42:40.000 This isn't up for debate.

01:42:41.000 Men have ten times more testosterone than you guys do. 0.97

01:42:44.000 Men have way more sex drive than you do. 0.86

01:42:47.000 Like, this isn't even up for debate. 1.00

01:42:48.000 The entire pornography industry exists because of Male thirst for sex. 0.94

01:42:53.000 Men pay for porn, not women. 0.97

01:42:54.000 Yeah, but we still have sexual urges. 0.98

01:42:56.000 Totally.

01:43:00.000 Women don't have the same sexual urges that men do. 1.00

01:43:04.000 So therefore, sex is lower on the total pole for women. 1.00

01:43:07.000 Women have the privilege of looking at other things. 1.00

01:43:09.000 Is he cool?

01:43:09.000 Is he confident?

01:43:10.000 Is he ambitious?

01:43:11.000 Can he provide security for me?

01:43:12.000 Is he attractive?

01:43:13.000 Blah, blah, blah. 0.92

01:43:13.000 For men, it's sex first and everything comes after. 0.92

01:43:16.000 Don't you look for other things in a woman? 1.00

01:43:19.000 Looks come first.

01:43:20.000 Yeah, for sure.

01:43:21.000 You need to be attracted to the person.

01:43:22.000 So sexuality comes first. 0.99

01:43:23.000 But for a man, his sexuality doesn't come first.

01:43:25.000 It comes last, I would argue. 0.91

01:43:26.000 But a beautiful woman that's going to have sex with you the whole time, that's not going to keep you, right? 1.00

01:43:33.000 Just because she's beautiful and she has sex with you. 1.00

01:43:36.000 Like, whatever you want. 0.63

01:43:45.000 The argument I'm making is that a woman at least gets the chance.

01:43:48.000 Do you understand?

01:43:49.000 She gets the chance.

01:43:50.000 She gets the opportunity.

01:43:52.000 Men don't get that opportunity unless they become that dude. 0.89

01:43:54.000 Facts.

01:43:56.000 So anyway, does that answer your question, though?

01:43:58.000 Because I don't want to make sure.

01:43:59.000 Okay, that's right, but all that I'm saying is what happened with the girls, because we also have sexual needs. 1.00

01:44:08.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:44:09.000 And I say, like, if you don't have a dick, we can have a dick. 1.00

01:44:16.000 But look, if you get a relationship with a guy, and let's say you guys don't have sex for a bit, you're still going to get some value from that guy. 1.00

01:44:24.000 Do you understand?

01:44:25.000 Not necessary.

01:44:27.000 Really?

01:44:27.000 Well, I do agree with him.

01:44:31.000 Yeah.

01:44:32.000 Like, you're gonna get value from that guy to some degree.

01:44:34.000 Like, women don't have sex as high on the totem pole as we do, in general. 1.00

01:44:38.000 Maybe for you, maybe sex is really important.

01:44:40.000 For most women, it's not that big on the totem pole. 1.00

01:44:45.000 It's important. 0.99

01:44:48.000 If it was that important, we wouldn't be seeing women putting dudes in the fucking friend zone, bro. 0.99

01:44:56.000 Like, stop. 0.99

01:44:57.000 I'm trying to sit here and say, trying to compare sexual urges with men and women.

01:45:00.000 It's not the same.

01:45:01.000 Men have way more sexual urges than women do. 1.00

01:45:04.000 The thing is this. 0.66

01:45:04.000 Y'all have sexual urges for a small percentage of men. 0.66

01:45:07.000 We have sexual urges for a large majority of women. 0.94

01:45:10.000 It's not the same.

01:45:11.000 It's apples and oranges.

01:45:13.000 Okay, that's valid.

01:45:15.000 You don't like the answer I gave, but I'm correct.

01:45:21.000 Anybody else have something?

01:45:23.000 I do.

01:45:26.000 I want to give the other girls a chance. 0.61

01:45:27.000 Somebody has something?

01:45:28.000 Me?

01:45:29.000 Ukraine? 0.98

01:45:31.000 I would like to ask you why some women, they can give you sex anytime you want, and they will give almost nothing from a man. 1.00

01:45:42.000 And other women, they can be picky, they can be mean, and you will still give them money, you will still give them gifts. 1.00

01:45:51.000 It has to do with the status of the man.

01:45:53.000 Even if they look equal, the same age.

01:45:58.000 Because there are psychological things. 1.00

01:46:01.000 Men like to compete and some psychological things are more important than body because men actually can fuck themselves. 1.00

01:46:12.000 Men can fuck with men. 1.00

01:46:16.000 I would say it's a mindset thing. 1.00

01:46:18.000 It's a guy's mindset.

01:46:20.000 I don't understand her question. 0.62

01:46:22.000 She's saying, why would a guy pay a girl money that doesn't have sex with him? 1.00

01:46:28.000 Or, why would he not give her money? 0.93

01:46:32.000 What you said before, why are some guys really nice to girls and they don't get to have sex with them, give them money or whatever, and then some guys are mean to girls and then still do get to have sex with them? 0.87

01:46:42.000 Is that your question?

01:46:43.000 Just to clarify.

01:46:44.000 Was that what you were asking?

01:46:45.000 Now, why is the same guy can be nice and give this girl everything, money, even if she doesn't provide sex?

01:46:56.000 And to another girl, he can be very rude with her.

01:47:00.000 Physical attractiveness and then how often he's had sex with her.

01:47:03.000 He's going to take her for granted.

01:47:05.000 Also, men are going to treat women of different physical attractiveness differently.

01:47:09.000 If they're both equal, they look equal.

01:47:11.000 I don't know.

01:47:11.000 I would have to look at that.

01:47:12.000 It's what he wants, though.

01:47:13.000 Like, his mindset.

01:47:14.000 He might put her in a category of sex only or wifey. 1.00

01:47:16.000 Yeah, that's what he wants.

01:47:18.000 By your actions.

01:47:19.000 It depends, yeah, what the woman provides. 1.00

01:47:21.000 If he feels safe with her.

01:47:22.000 So wife and girlfriend.

01:47:24.000 So what's the difference if they both, like, have China?

01:47:28.000 It's what the man wants.

01:47:29.000 He may want one for just sex, one for actually family.

01:47:32.000 It's what the guy wants.

01:47:33.000 Are you asking what is the fundamental difference between a wife and a girlfriend?

01:47:37.000 Not a wife and a girlfriend. 0.99

01:47:40.000 I'm asking why if almost every woman can provide sex, but not every sex is valuable. 1.00

01:47:52.000 Like, I guess she's saying, like, if the sex isn't good, would it be valid to stay?

01:47:57.000 Like, most men would leave if the sex isn't good.

01:48:00.000 Oh, go find another girl with, like, better... 0.99

01:48:02.000 Exactly.

01:48:03.000 She's saying, why do some men...

01:48:07.000 Give girls money when they don't put out, but then other girls, you are interested because she put out. 1.00

01:48:14.000 I don't know how to answer that question if it's the same guy, but the reason why men do that...

01:48:17.000 That's because she's asking the same guy.

01:48:19.000 I don't know, but the answer to me was it has to do with a man's perceived status, internally and externally.

01:48:25.000 If he has a lot of status, he's not going to pay women to hang out with him.

01:48:29.000 He doesn't have to.

01:48:30.000 If he doesn't have a lot of status, then he is going to.

01:48:32.000 Is this how he perceives himself or how he perceives women?

01:48:35.000 Well, the world's going to tell him and then he's going to see it himself.

01:48:37.000 The world's going to let you know, right?

01:48:40.000 That's why a lot of rich men, they actually have dominatrix. 1.00

01:48:44.000 They do not have sex with them. 0.99

01:48:46.000 They like that this woman is a special woman, that she doesn't give sex to everybody and they're ready to pay crazy money to her without having sex with her. 1.00

01:48:58.000 No, they are not traumatized. 0.99

01:48:58.000 Those men are trauma. 0.99

01:49:00.000 They are very rich.

01:49:02.000 They're very rich and that doesn't mean that they're not traumatized.

01:49:05.000 Everybody can be traumatized.

01:49:06.000 We all are.

01:49:07.000 But at that level, if you look at the psychology background of why a man wants to be dominated like that, it's because he had a sense...

01:49:16.000 He needed to be in control since he was a little child.

01:49:19.000 So in those moments, he loses control because you are in control as a dominatrix.

01:49:24.000 That's a psychological background. 1.00

01:49:25.000 So gay are also ill people. 1.00

01:49:28.000 Gay are normal people. 0.99

01:49:30.000 Lesbians are normal people. 1.00

01:49:31.000 So... 0.83

01:49:33.000 Submissive men. 0.71

01:49:34.000 I mean, that's a fetish at that point. 0.96

01:49:36.000 That would be like a fetish. 0.90

01:49:37.000 Because I think from those guys, they work at like a corporate job or they're like a CEO. So the whole time they're being like catered to.

01:49:44.000 Everyone wants to be on their dick pretty much. 0.99

01:49:46.000 Versus when they come to you, you're like, you're more like the controlling types. 1.00

01:49:50.000 You're actually above them.

01:49:52.000 So they want to submit to you.

01:49:54.000 They lose control.

01:49:55.000 They're going to be a leader.

01:49:57.000 When it comes to you, you're the leader.

01:49:58.000 It's a very simple equation.

01:49:59.000 Just to me.

01:50:00.000 Number one, the men that you're describing are a minority of men.

01:50:02.000 I would argue most men probably don't want to be subs with women.

01:50:05.000 And then the second thing I want to say is that typically this is how it goes.

01:50:08.000 This is the equation.

01:50:09.000 The more attractive the man... 1.00

01:50:12.000 The less likely he's going to tolerate your bullshit. 1.00

01:50:14.000 One more time for the ladies. 1.00

01:50:15.000 The more attractive the man, the less likely he's going to tolerate your bullshit. 1.00

01:50:19.000 So in other words, if you don't give him sex or if you don't comply with what he wants, etc. 1.00

01:50:23.000 He's going to more than likely kick you to the curb and get another girl. 1.00

01:50:26.000 Because men typically behave based on their options. 1.00

01:50:29.000 So if a guy has a lot of other available women that will take him, he will not tolerate your bullshit. 0.99

01:50:33.000 That's typically what it is. 0.99

01:50:34.000 And those are the men that women want. 0.98

01:50:37.000 Not guys that they can walk him around like a dog, etc.

01:50:39.000 Because that guy, even though he might have money...

01:50:42.000 Doesn't have as many options probably.

01:50:43.000 Yeah, he's not a good leader.

01:50:44.000 Can I ask y'all a question?

01:50:45.000 Yeah, go ahead.

01:50:47.000 For the men, I guess, in the chat, whatever.

01:50:51.000 Would you, like, I just want to know, would you prefer, like, because you're talking about if a girl doesn't put out, you know, you'll kick her to the curb, whatever. 0.85

01:50:59.000 Would you rather a girl that you would meet on the first day and she lets you hit compared to a girl that makes you kind of, like, work for it? 1.00

01:51:07.000 Good question.

01:51:08.000 You know what I mean?

01:51:08.000 You know what I'm trying to say?

01:51:09.000 You want to take this one?

01:51:10.000 Who are you asking specifically? 1.00

01:51:13.000 Some guys are like, oh, I want to fuck with her because she don't let anybody just hit. 1.00

01:51:18.000 But then other guys are like, oh, well, no, I want to fuck with her because she'll let... 1.00

01:51:22.000 That's a good question. 0.99

01:51:24.000 And I have one for you guys afterwards, too.

01:51:27.000 I've seen a million answers to this question.

01:51:29.000 Some guys are very much like, well...

01:51:31.000 He's like, I want genuine desire, so she had sex with me on the first date, so okay, I'm fine with it.

01:51:35.000 And some other guys are like, well, she has genuine desire, she had sex with me on the first date, which means she would have sex with anyone on the first date.

01:51:41.000 And so it's a conundrum.

01:51:42.000 I've seen some guys wait for three dates, some guys wait for one.

01:51:45.000 To me, you guys were saying before, a woman's really attractive and bad in bed. 1.00

01:51:50.000 My sexual experience is directly correlated to how hot she is. 1.00

01:51:54.000 It is not how good she is at that.

01:51:56.000 I'm sorry if I'm the only one to say this, but if a woman is insanely hot and just does what I ask, I do not care if she's good in bed. 1.00

01:52:04.000 That is not what I need.

01:52:05.000 My ability to enjoy a woman or two women at the same time is directly proportional to how attractive they are.

01:52:13.000 You say you're Christian?

01:52:14.000 Wait, what's going on?

01:52:15.000 I'm just saying hypothetically.

01:52:19.000 It's like terrible.

01:52:22.000 If she does what I say, she can't really be terrible.

01:52:24.000 So, okay, so as long as she's pretty, this ex is gonna be good? 0.51

01:52:29.000 Yeah.

01:52:30.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:52:31.000 Yeah.

01:52:31.000 Men don't need the same emotional stimuli that women do.

01:52:34.000 And you can teach them.

01:52:34.000 He's probably done all the work anyway.

01:52:35.000 What about you?

01:52:36.000 Yeah.

01:52:38.000 I would just say, because you answered the question one more time, please.

01:52:42.000 Uh, basically, like, do you prefer, like, if you're going out with a woman, like, yeah, she...

01:52:48.000 First night or to wait?

01:52:50.000 Yeah, basically.

01:52:50.000 So, for me, personally speaking, I would say...

01:52:53.000 First night.

01:52:54.000 First night.

01:52:55.000 But not because, like, I'm in a hurry, but because it's gonna happen anyway.

01:52:58.000 But if we can get out of the way, like, who she really is as a person.

01:53:01.000 But do you think, like, she's a type of woman if she lets you hit first night compared to her making you wait and, like, earn it, basically? 0.99

01:53:09.000 So, Mike mentioned it earlier.

01:53:10.000 A lot of guys will say, you know what, first night lay, she's probably easy for everybody.

01:53:14.000 However, I see it as, okay, she's able to say, you know what, this guy's on some level attractive or enough for me to want to smash the first night.

01:53:21.000 And y'all are both grown.

01:53:22.000 Exactly.

01:53:22.000 We're both adults.

01:53:23.000 The connection's there, it happened.

01:53:25.000 Now, I want to see after the fact your actions, how you operate, and I'll just try to see how you are as a person after that.

01:53:31.000 So I don't look at it as bad.

01:53:32.000 So it doesn't matter?

01:53:33.000 No.

01:53:34.000 Okay, so again...

01:53:38.000 To get the full picture, I always say time is on your side when you're a man, right?

01:53:41.000 So, if you hook up with a girl the first night, that doesn't necessarily mean she's a whore, but you need to watch her and see her behaviors after the fact and kind of have more of a body of evidence. 0.99

01:53:49.000 So, because there's girls that will make you wait that are sluts. 1.00

01:53:52.000 Right. 1.00

01:53:52.000 There are girls that will make you have sex with the first time that aren't necessarily whores. 1.00

01:53:58.000 So, it really comes down to... 0.99

01:54:00.000 That's why we tell guys all the time, vet a girl for at least six months to a year. 0.99

01:54:03.000 Her behaviors outside of that first date is going to dictate... 0.71

01:54:07.000 Yeah.

01:54:30.000 So you know what I mean? 0.99

01:54:31.000 Because she'll be like, oh, I don't want to come off as a whore. 1.00

01:54:34.000 I'm a reformed Christian or whatever, but she was a slut in her past. 1.00

01:54:37.000 And she'll go ahead and try to play that game. 1.00

01:54:38.000 Men sell success, women sell purity. 1.00

01:54:40.000 So your job as a man is to figure out if she really is pure.

01:54:43.000 And the only way you can do that is through time.

01:54:45.000 You'll never figure that out on her first date.

01:54:47.000 So it doesn't matter to you?

01:54:52.000 It doesn't matter or not if she has sex with you on the first night. 1.00

01:54:56.000 But I'm not going to lie to the women either. 0.99

01:54:58.000 Understand that there is a considerable amount of men that will look at you and assume you're a whore even if you're not. 0.97

01:55:06.000 So it's really on the girl to figure out, okay, What's this guy's status? 0.97

01:55:10.000 Does he get a lot of women, etc?

01:55:11.000 Guys that get a lot of women understand.

01:55:13.000 They're not going to judge you for a lot of times. 0.95

01:55:14.000 But guys that don't get that many women, and you trust me, you'll fucking know when you talk to him, they might judge you for it. 0.72

01:55:20.000 So it's on the girl to kind of figure out, okay, how I should work here. 0.85

01:55:23.000 One other thing, guys, you remember when you were saying, I'm going out on a date because I'm getting to know the guy?

01:55:27.000 We're getting to know you?

01:55:29.000 Mm-hmm. 1.00

01:55:30.000 After we start having sex with you. 0.98

01:55:33.000 Literally, it's funny because we were just talking about Rolo earlier. 0.98

01:55:35.000 His daughter got married yesterday.

01:55:36.000 He was talking about when he met his wife.

01:55:38.000 When he met his wife, he was not intending on marrying her the first time they met.

01:55:41.000 After a while, he came to the realization, this is the woman I want to be with.

01:55:44.000 So that's how it works for us.

01:55:45.000 For you guys, you're trying to figure it out before we have sex.

01:55:48.000 We don't start trying to figure it out until we have sex.

01:55:51.000 But a lot of people say like...

01:55:55.000 Oh my god, I look.

01:55:57.000 A lot of people say like...

01:56:01.000 Like, they're not gonna marry, or like, they have to see what you're like first in bed before they start taking you seriously, you know what I mean? 0.99

01:56:08.000 I think you're listening to men who just don't really fuck a lot of women. 0.99

01:56:14.000 Like, I just don't really, I couldn't... 0.99

01:56:17.000 Some women have said that. 1.00

01:56:19.000 Some women have said that. 1.00

01:56:21.000 They're not going to take a man seriously unless they know what the dick says. 1.00

01:56:24.000 Did we have someone on here before who waited four months to fuck a guy? 1.00

01:56:27.000 It was terrible. 0.99

01:56:28.000 Who was it who said that?

01:56:29.000 I can't remember who it was.

01:56:30.000 That kind of stuff. 0.95

01:56:31.000 Women will definitely have sex with a dude and be like, this was a good idea. 1.00

01:56:34.000 You're like, well, you waited four months. 0.60

01:56:35.000 You made the guy wait four months and it was all for that.

01:56:37.000 As far as dudes are concerned, I'm sorry.

01:56:39.000 I know ladies can offend a lot of you and I apologize. 0.98

01:56:42.000 Not really, but my enjoyment in sex Is directly proportional to how fucking hot she is. 1.00

01:56:49.000 That's it. 0.99

01:56:50.000 As long as she does what I ask, it doesn't make any difference.

01:56:52.000 She doesn't have to be good in bed. 1.00

01:56:54.000 In fact, she could be a little too good in bed and I might get scared. 0.96

01:56:57.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:56:58.000 Fair enough.

01:56:59.000 Okay, I'll read the rest of these chats, and then we've got to close out here in a bit, guys.

01:57:04.000 And I know, you guys, we've got to put caps on it now because we've got some stuff going on behind the scenes.

01:57:09.000 Why have a sword if you won't get it bloody?

01:57:12.000 Okay. 0.53

01:57:13.000 Ghost of Kiev, Ghost of Kiev.

01:57:15.000 Oh, they're saying, they're calling her the Ghost of Kiev. 1.00

01:57:17.000 You guys are fucking assholes. 1.00

01:57:18.000 Ghost of Ukraine claiming bodies left and right. 1.00

01:57:20.000 Oh! 0.60

01:57:24.000 What do you think of women that choose to date younger men? 0.77

01:57:26.000 Let's say a woman 35 plus and a man 18 to 24.

01:57:29.000 Terrible. 0.98

01:57:29.000 She's immature. 0.98

01:57:31.000 35 and he's 18? 0.52

01:57:33.000 When you see an older chick dating a guy like that, it's coke, man. 0.99

01:57:38.000 What else here?

01:57:40.000 Your great content has motivated me to do more in life.

01:57:43.000 100k a year.

01:57:43.000 Erna recently started classes to get certs in cybersecurity.

01:57:46.000 Opened a drop shipping store and started working out. 1.00

01:57:48.000 Good shit, my friend. 1.00

01:57:49.000 Being proud is unacceptable. 1.00

01:57:50.000 Agent Sartain, you can't fool me with your black t-shirt, sir.

01:57:53.000 The Earth may not be flat, but biological aliens not being able to travel to Earth, stop it, Michael.

01:57:57.000 There we go.

01:57:58.000 Awesome, man.

01:57:58.000 Of course.

01:57:59.000 Any other ladies had anything? 1.00

01:58:01.000 Yeah.

01:58:02.000 Okay, go ahead.

01:58:03.000 So, do you really think that a woman, besides sex, there is not any value?

01:58:08.000 Like, for example, I come today from 10X Ladies. 0.92

01:58:12.000 I was in a...

01:58:12.000 10X Ladies?

01:58:13.000 Yeah, so it's Grant Cardone's wife.

01:58:14.000 Grant Cardone's wife.

01:58:15.000 Elena Cardone's program.

01:58:16.000 Elena Cardone, right.

01:58:17.000 His wife's program, yeah.

01:58:18.000 So, and the thing is, Grant Cardone himself, he says it, and you guys have also Patrick for David here, and they've talked about the importance of their wives in their lives.

01:58:27.000 So, I'm just...

01:58:29.000 Like...

01:58:30.000 The only thing that doesn't sit right with me is when you guys say things like, oh, that's mostly the value of sex.

01:58:37.000 Because she's also going to push you to be the best version of yourself a lot of times.

01:58:41.000 And she's going to have an emotional support.

01:58:43.000 That's what I would say is an accessory benefit.

01:58:46.000 But in general, men always approach women with sexuality first in mind.

01:58:50.000 Right.

01:58:51.000 But do you think that wouldn't it be better to teach men that they should look for women that are going to help them build and grow in their lives? 0.93

01:58:59.000 No, of course.

01:59:00.000 Of course.

01:59:01.000 We always tell guys that that's where the vetting process comes in, where the guy's got to evaluate the woman's ability to provide value outside of sex. 0.99

01:59:08.000 But what I'm saying is that sex is the predominant and main reason men deal with court and marry women in general.

01:59:15.000 Got you.

01:59:16.000 That's what it is.

01:59:19.000 It's just like, I watch your videos, your guys' videos, and when you read the comments, the guys that are watching your videos, they're not getting that message.

01:59:30.000 From what you're just saying, there is a value just depending on the woman.

01:59:34.000 Yes, you lead with sex, but there's another value that might be added.

01:59:38.000 Well, in our daytime shows, we go into more detail about this, vetting a woman, making sure she adds value, etc.

01:59:43.000 But obviously, for the purposes of this conversation, and to simplify it, right, and kind of give you guys... 0.99

01:59:48.000 Because if I talk about how to vet a woman, you guys are going to be like, what the fuck? 0.97

01:59:50.000 This doesn't benefit me or anything like that. 0.99

01:59:52.000 But yeah, I mean, the guy...

01:59:53.000 Obviously, the sexuality is what gets the girl in the door, and then it's her job to stay in the door by not being useless. 1.00

01:59:59.000 Right, keep him. 0.91

02:00:00.000 But yeah.

02:00:02.000 Anything else?

02:00:02.000 Mike, where can they find you, bro?

02:00:04.000 Guys, if you hit me up on Instagram, anywhere, Michael Sartain, especially on Instagram, I will give you access to my free school server.

02:00:10.000 All these recordings are going to be up there.

02:00:13.000 Links to all the things that we do.

02:00:15.000 I'm hosting Babes in Toyland.

02:00:16.000 I'm hosting the biggest bikini competition in the world.

02:00:18.000 I'm hosting a bunch of other stuff.

02:00:19.000 The schedule, my free course is on there.

02:00:21.000 My schedule's on there.

02:00:22.000 All of my Instagram testimonials and my entire book list is on my free school server.

02:00:26.000 If you guys just hit me up on Instagram, I will give you access to that.

02:00:31.000 All ladies' Instagrams are below, guys. 0.83

02:00:32.000 And just so you guys know, we'll be back next week on YouTube.

02:00:35.000 We're going to be starting the daytime show at 6pm from now on, guys.

02:00:38.000 And then the nighttime show at 9pm. 0.99

02:00:40.000 Chris, what the fuck? 0.99

02:00:42.000 I mean, yeah. 0.99

02:00:43.000 We're going to start at 9pm.

02:00:44.000 But either way, we're going to have to cap at 1230, guys.

02:00:46.000 The shows are going to be sooner.

02:00:48.000 And we'll catch you guys next week.

02:00:49.000 We're probably going to stream on Fresh Fit Clips.

02:00:50.000 And that's when we'll be out soon on the Fresh Fit channel.

02:00:52.000 And yeah, guys.

02:00:54.000 Back to normal next week.

02:00:55.000 Yeah, what was that?

02:00:55.000 Back to normal next week.

02:00:56.000 Yeah, back to normal next week, guys. 0.99

02:00:58.000 And yeah, send the girls a dick pic. 1.00

02:00:59.000 I'm sure they'd love it. 0.99

02:01:00.000 Peace.

Fresh & Fit - August 05, 2023

Guy Paid 10k For 1st Date & Got NO SEX!

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