Happy Wife Happy Life OR Happy King Happy Kingdom?
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2 hours and 18 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of the Fresh Fit Podcast, we have our first guest on the show, Kimberly Parkson. Kimberly is a 25-year-old college student from the Philippines who is currently in her second year of college and working as a supervisor in a hotel. We talk about how she got her degree, what she does for a living, how she met her boyfriend, and what she's looking for in a significant other. We also talk about her relationship with her boyfriend and how they met and how she ended up here in the United States. We also discuss how she and her boyfriend met and what they do to support each other in their dating life. We are back from the holidays and we are back streaming live on Rumble on YouTube and everywhere else on Twitch. If you want to become successful, network people that are high-sized individuals and become better in life, join a network. CyberBlackFresh is Black Friday Code: CYBERBLACKFIRSTFIT. It's a code that gives you 20% off Black Friday and CyberBlack Friday is a discount code! CHECK IT OUT NOW! CHECK OUT CHECK THEM OUT ON CHECKING CHECKOUT CHECKUP AND EVERYWHERE ELSE ON CHANNEL AND EVERYTHING ELSE! CHEERS! Happy Black Friday! Chances are, you'll get 10% off your Black Friday Box! Cheers! and Cyber Black Friday is the day after Black Friday starts on the 25th! on the 26th of Dec. 31st! CHEVERYONE gets 10% OFF Black Friday on the day of the week! CHEEEEEEEK! CHEEEEEEEEEK!! CHEEEEK!! , CHEEEEEEEEEEEEKEEEEEK we'll see you soon! We'll see y'all! , we'll be back next Monday! CHEEEek, CHEEEEEK!!! After Hours, Chris, Chris and we'll have a great Monday, CHEEEK! ! xOXO, CHEE, CHEEECK OUT! XOXO . FOLLOWING FOOD PODCAST! - CHEECK OUT THE SHOW, CHEEEEEE - CHEEEECK OUT, CHIE DAY - BABY CHEEKE - KEEP YA'LL! & CHEEEEEEEE AND CHEEEEEE
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Guys, we got eight girls on the panel with six new girls, so...
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You better do something, because you fucked up last week, guys.
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Let's see, three and fours have family suit, man.
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So, ladies, RFC Parkson on IG. Make sure you send me a DM, and let's have a great show.
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Ladies, if you don't mind, welcome to the show.
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What's your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and you want to, of course.
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I work as a supervisor in a hotel, and I have a boyfriend.
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Since you've been, I guess, 25 years plus, right?
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I grew up here, but my dad is Mexican and my mom is Peruvian and Italian.
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But you grew up in Miami and went to high school here and everything?
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I grew up technically in Fort Lauderdale and went to high school here.
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I work in marketing for a real estate developer.
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And then what's your highest education level completed?
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A college over in Ohio called Notre Dame College, but it's not the actual university that everybody knows.
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Because the original Notre Dame is in California, right?
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I'm assuming you're pursuing your bachelor's degree in nursing?
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Do you want to drop where you go to school or up to you?
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I am next to Budapest, so this is another city.
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Okay, so do you live in Hungary and work in Switzerland, or do you live in Switzerland and work there as well, or are you just visiting?
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I'm just traveling, I'm working, I just do seasonal jobs, and that's where I travel.
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Okay, so where do you spend most of your time in a year, typically, then?
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Like last year I was most of the time in Switzerland working.
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I came for five weeks, so I just stayed like one week now and I stay four more weeks.
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All right, so, but you're a bartender by trade, right?
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Okay, what's your highest education level completed?
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Okay, did you do it in Hungary or in Switzerland?
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Actually, I started, but I didn't finish, so I went to Cyprus to work with this college, but I didn't really finish it.
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Like, they give you like a bachelor's degree for that?
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I made it in Hungary and after I worked abroad always.
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My dad works in a company, an American company.
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She's working in an office in the same company they work together.
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Fresh will be getting your number after the show.
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Actually, we had the same job, you know, in the same job place.
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And actually, since this time, we are best friends.
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I'm also a waitress and bartender, and I was also living in Switzerland, but actually five years long, and after when I met her, I was just changing my life, and I started more traveling, and actually I changed my life like I was doing a seasonal job after I made a break,
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We just wanted to live our life and getting some experience.
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No, it's like, what can a doctor have a prescription for the people, you know?
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I'm just, can my job doing together with the doctor.
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So in Hungary, it's like, the name is medical massage.
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Like, you can do it together with the doctor because he's prescribed.
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And after this, I can make it with the people together.
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So you work with like a physical therapist and then you...
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It's a little bit similar, but physical therapist is more, it's a higher level, I would say.
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It doesn't matter with old people or young people.
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If you had, for example, some accident, you know, or car accident, I don't know, some issues you have, we can help it with the doctor together.
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So just to get the elephant out of the room, no happy endings.
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And then how long did you have to go to school to get the medical massage degree here?
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Actually, in Hungary, you have to do it for two years.
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But in Switzerland, I wanted to make it also, but I needed to make it for three years.
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So that was also a little bit problem because there you needed more, I don't know, how can I say it?
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And then for you, you said you went to bartender school.
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It was like one year school, but I just finished like in three months because I didn't want to stay there anymore.
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So it was this kind of school I meant like that.
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I teach women how to make money online without using OnlyFans.
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I also help them to recover their self-confidence.
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So I started everything as a fitness coach and now I merge both of the things so we can kind of like make money but also keep our like...
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So we can also make money but also keep our women values and take care of ourselves.
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Alright, so that's the first time I met a coach that teaches women how to not sexualize themselves online and make money in other ways.
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That's my goal because, you know, we're like in the capital of the promiscuity.
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And so I want to change my generation and the one that is coming behind me because today, nowadays, people Women just want to make money, or not even making money, just post themselves almost naked on social media.
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So I want to change and save the woman and our values.
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You need to save strippers, escorts, and OnlyFans girls.
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I studied aviation, and I did aviation business administration, airport management.
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How long did you go to, like, so you're an online coach, but you have aviation.
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I graduated myself from high school when I was 14.
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I started pushing wheelchairs at the airport so I can like kind of get into the aviation somehow.
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And then I found my first job with Avian Airlines, which is the biggest Latin American Airlines.
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I did operations for them for a year and then COVID hits.
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And I started as a fitness coach because I had anemia before and eating disorders.
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So I changed my life by myself, like empirically, right?
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And I started as a fitness, and then, you know...
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Also, the chat is saying that your Instagram is a lie.
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They're saying that it's a bunch of sexualization.
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Yeah, because they're saying, Chris, pull up the Colombian's Instagram.
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Highest level of education is high school, and I work in medical administration dermatology.
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I want to say they've been married for 28 years.
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By the way, I'm from Michigan originally, but I've been in Miami about a decade now.
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Technically it is Sweetwater, but it's right on the border.
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I was in Miami Beach most of the time, so I don't know.
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They've been saying that shit all day show, bro.
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One who pays for everything or you don't have money or who pays for everything if you ask?
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So the question is, who pays for everything if you don't have money?
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Okay, so I think humans are friendly to pay for everything because you're broke or you have to ask them to pay for everything.
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Okay, if you could pick one guy who pays for everything if you don't have money or who pays for everything if you ask.
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So, you have to ask for it, and then it's just given to you, I guess.
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So, one, you have money, but you always have to ask him to pay, or you're broke and he pays for everything.
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You're broke and he pays for everything because you can't pay.
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Or you have money, you can pay for your own stuff, but he always asks you to pay.
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Yeah, I think I'm going to go with the second one.
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Broke and have the guy just pay for everything?
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Or you have your own money, but you have to ask him to pay for things?
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He's paying for everything, but he's doing it because you don't have money.
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You'd be okay with that, having to tell him sometimes.
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I would do the second option because that relationship could end, so I don't want to be broke and not have money.
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I'd rather just have my own money and ask him to get me stuff.
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I would never ask him to pay if he don't want to pay, so then I would choose the first.
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Okay, so no money and he just paid for everything.
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Yeah, my answer would be also the first because I'm also this kind of person I would never ask for paying.
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If you don't want to ask from yourself, then you don't have to if I'm asking.
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The first one just sounds a lot less stressful.
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And then, ladies, have you allowed a one-night stand?
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Alright, so every girl here on the panel has pretty much had a one-night stand before.
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That means, like, having sex with someone and then not talk to them.
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Well, it's a one night stand, which means it only lasts for one night.
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So maybe you got drunk at a party or some shit and you hooked up with somebody.
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Okay, so you two are saying you guys never have?
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And then, how long did a boyfriend wait for sex?
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But they claim they never had a one-night stand.
00:28:12.000
Would you guys do a pod about why men shouldn't fight over hoes?
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Ashley Freedom is the guy that I worked with, got sentenced two days ago for 22 years for stabbing his hoes ex, and he killed his brother.
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I mean, bro, we shouldn't have to tell you to not fight over girls, man.
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Michael goes, would you guys make a pot about why men shouldn't...
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What's the nicest gift you received from a man, and what's the nicest gift you have given to a man?
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What's the nicest gift you've gotten from a guy...
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And what's the nicest gift you've given to a guy?
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It's more like other things, like visas and, um...
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But as for actual tangible gifts, it's kind of sad.
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Yeah, you can't think of a gift of a guy who gave you?
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You had to have gotten a gift that you've gotten before.
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You know, I was married once and he would just buy...
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But we've just helped each other out over the years.
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Okay, what's the nicest gift you've gotten then?
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So, the nicest thing you received was a $10,000 engagement ring.
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Okay, and then what's the nicest thing you've given back in return?
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No, it was just like, I was just thinking figuratively.
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Because I couldn't think of any actual tangible gifts that I've received.
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Oh, you know, I bought him a Burberry swim trunks once during COVID. Okay.
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But then he returned it and just said, like, it was probably, like, not worth the price.
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So he felt like, hey, that's too much for some chunks?
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Is he like someone that's not materialistic, I guess?
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I have so many questions, by the way, but I'll just leave that later.
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Okay, and we're talking nicest gift received from a man romantically.
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Nicest gift you got and then one you gave back.
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I had a man pay for my rent because I was really stressed out when I had first moved to New York City.
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I had gotten the apartment through subletting someone who was like a friend of a friend through Instagram.
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So I pretty much lucked out on housing in New York City.
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And I was like, I don't know, I was just super stressed out.
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I was between jobs and things like that, so I was using money for my savings to pay for rent and things like that.
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I just wanted more space to kind of just like develop on my own.
00:33:56.000
Bro, girls will put themselves in really weird positions, man, for Frito, bro.
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I've just been in Florida my whole life, so I've always kind of wanted to move to New York.
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Nigga said you wanted to get digged down in the chat.
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Nicest, most expensive, or like nicest, most thoughtful?
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So during the pandemic when masks and hand sanitizers and things like that were really hard to find.
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He was living in Ohio at the time and I had sent him and his mom this like really big care package.
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I sent them like masks, gloves, kit for like a movie night, their favorite candies.
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It was all decorated on the inside with like, it was like a Florida themed kind of box.
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Just for what, 12K? Yeah, because it's a women's.
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So, what did you do for him to give you the Rolex?
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Alright, what's the best gift that you gave him, then?
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So one from a finance perspective and then one from maybe a feeling perspective.
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That's actually kind of smart, though, if you think about it.
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Yeah, we go to dates or we do an activity like horse riding.
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The Hermes belt is the last one for his birthday last month.
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I mean, obviously it's not as expensive as a Rolex, but I did my best.
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Is that the most expensive gift that you've gotten?
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What's the nicest gift you gave and the nicest gift you've gotten?
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So I would say I took my friend or ex-boyfriend of a concert of his favorite singer.
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So in Caramel, I don't know, in Hungary it's a famous singer.
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I know it's like we are living in Hungary, you know, it's maybe 100 dollars.
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Now, what's the most expensive gift you've got?
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Actually, our relationship was a little bit complicated, you know, because he was always a little bit borrowing for me money, you know.
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And that's how, when I went to Switzerland to work, that's how it also started.
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I gave him 5,000 dollars and I never saw it again.
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He sent me just, you know, if I could help him because he wanted to start a new business.
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And I was like, yeah, for sure, if you need it.
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If you're believing in somebody, and I actually never thought I would ever see it again.
00:39:18.000
So you gave him a $5,000 loan that he never paid back?
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Yeah, but actually in our whole relationship, it was like, every time if he went somewhere, it's the most of the time I was who was paying.
00:40:08.000
What's the nicest gift you've given and the nicest gift you've received?
00:40:11.000
I also never had luck with guys who were just giving me gifts.
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I was always the one who was giving like cooking for the guy just looking what the small thing what he wants or he likes and just what's the nicest gift you got that you can remember?
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What I got perfume maybe that I could say for $50.
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I'm not saying, like, maybe three hundred dollars.
00:41:15.000
Yeah, he was good looking, but he was also a nice guy, but not like, I don't know.
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He was actually the only relationship that I had, like relationship, because I never really had a serious one.
00:41:29.000
Is that normal where they take care of men over there?
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Actually, I think this is our fault because with Alex and I, with my friend, we are just like two good people, you know?
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So, so many guys just ask me, oh, give me some money, I will give you back.
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And I like this feeling to have to someone, but I always have the wrong ones.
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So, I just, we are very lucky to beat the wrong skies in the world.
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Most expensive gift you've given and most expensive gift you've gotten back?
00:42:15.000
Most expensive gift was probably like some cologne, some shoes.
00:42:36.000
And then what's the most expensive gift you've gotten?
00:42:39.000
I would say a Frenchie, but it got taken back like a week later because we broke up.
00:42:54.000
I don't know, but he took it back anyway, so fuck him.
00:43:28.000
Okay, so he was cheating on you with other girls and you said fuck it.
00:43:39.000
When I'm lonely sometimes, yeah, but I don't really regret it.
00:44:03.000
Most expensive gift you've given and one you've received back?
00:44:06.000
Most expensive I've given was a, I think a Ralph Lauren cologne.
00:44:24.000
Alright, what's the most expensive gift you got then?
00:44:29.000
You gave the Ralph Lauren and then what'd you get?
00:45:17.000
Was it like a boyfriend or just like a sugar daddy?
00:45:33.000
Wait, so you took $500 from a guy that you don't even like?
00:46:08.000
You know how much you can earn in Switzerland if you do a normal job without anything like that?
00:46:16.000
So we earn like 25 francs per hour and we work in a season like 270 hours per month with one day off maximum.
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So if you are there like six months in the season, like in the mountains, in the ski paradise, you earn fucking good money.
00:46:37.000
So in Hungary, like a salary is like maybe $1,000 or not even that.
00:46:45.000
So you learn there to live from this small money.
00:46:49.000
And if we went to Switzerland, we speak also fluently German.
00:47:12.000
But you know how many times we get these questions, and it's just so...
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I paid this ticket to get here to Miami to enjoy life, to get experience, to meet new people.
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And that's why we love to travel all around the world.
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Even the small countries we go, we just get some experience.
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Like, not just partying, just meeting new people.
00:47:47.000
Yeah, because you guys are saying, hey, a thousand bucks, the average person makes it in Hungary.
00:47:52.000
You can live on very little there because it's so cheap.
00:47:54.000
But y'all came to one of the most expensive cities in the world.
00:48:02.000
So that's meaning, can you imagine in this six, seven, or almost eight years, how much money can you actually earn or spend?
00:48:14.000
I think they're tired of spending money on guys at this point.
00:48:28.000
What's expensive gift you got and then gave to your boyfriend?
00:48:57.000
It was 99,000, but I only gave the town payment.
00:49:22.000
Well, just in general, what's the nicest gift you've ever received from a guy?
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I mean, yeah, he purchased another ticket, which is way more.
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So he spent, like, an extra, like, $3,000 or $4,000 to stay.
00:50:13.000
No, we still flew back here on Sunday, but we went to the Saturday concert, so we purchased another ticket that is way more.
00:50:38.000
But she didn't let the people that had a ticket on Friday come in Saturday for free or some shit?
00:51:07.000
Did you go back with your boyfriend for Thanksgiving to his family's house?
00:51:19.000
He doesn't live with his parents, but we didn't talk about it.
00:51:22.000
No, but like go back home and see his family or something.
00:51:34.000
Did you go back to Thanksgiving with your boyfriend, your family?
00:51:38.000
We went to my family's side, but his parents came.
00:51:48.000
So you went to go see your father and then his parents came to meet you guys there?
00:51:55.000
Two years or three years you guys been together?
00:51:59.000
And then you guys have been together for two, right?
00:52:13.000
Okay, so you're down here in Miami while he's in Michigan.
00:52:20.000
Okay, so he was in town and y'all matched on mobile?
00:52:28.000
So he was just here visiting, but you live here because you work here.
00:52:40.000
I can hit the chats again, and then I also have some questions here that I'll ask.
00:52:46.000
He goes, ladies, if you meet a guy on a dating app and go on a date with him and everything goes great, you find him attractive, and you exchange Instagrams later, and you see only 200 followers, he...
00:52:55.000
Only 200 followers, and he follows thousands of girls.
00:52:58.000
Does that change your mind in the way you view him?
00:53:04.000
If you meet a guy, you like him and everything else, he checks all your boxes, but you notice that he only has 200 followers, but he's following a bunch of girls, let's say 1,000, what would that make you think?
00:53:13.000
I think it's too bad because, unfortunately, I do think in numbers a lot of the time.
00:53:17.000
Like, I'm mathematically brained, you know, inclined to think in terms of numbers.
00:53:21.000
Well, until people ask you to identify the most expensive gift you got, then your numbers don't matter anymore.
00:53:28.000
Yeah, so unfortunately it does skew me a little bit.
00:53:31.000
I think, you know, and sometimes I wish I didn't know and that didn't have to be a factor, you know, and it sucks when they follow, like, you see that they're following maybe 600 or 700 people and, like, maybe 80% of them are, like, Instagram models and it makes you kind of feel like, oh.
00:53:49.000
Yeah, it's not like I wouldn't go out with them again, but it's just like, like, there's two components, right?
00:53:52.000
Like, there's A and there's B. A is that he only has 200 followers, and B is that all the people that he follows are Instagram models.
00:54:02.000
It's like, one, you compare yourself to those girls.
00:54:06.000
Like, I think anyone, that would be natural for anyone, you know, to some extent.
00:54:11.000
But, I mean, I'm just speaking the truth here a little bit.
00:54:14.000
It's going to make you think, oh my gosh, how do I measure up?
00:54:19.000
Yeah, I just feel like I think it would be lame.
00:54:27.000
If it's 200 and 200 are following him back, cool.
00:54:34.000
So it would make you change the way you view him?
00:54:45.000
If they don't follow him back, he's just starving for women.
00:54:51.000
Would it affect anything for you or you don't care?
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For example, for me, it's a little bit a red flag if I see it's a guy following too many girls.
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Or just really a lot of people, then I'm thinking this is a little bit, it's crazy.
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In a normal way, you can use your social media, but not in a not normal way.
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I don't know, it's like 2,000 girls following, you know, it's something for sure it's not clear in his mind.
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Assuming you liked him and you thought he was attractive, would it change anything for you?
00:55:22.000
For sure, it would change and I think it's also like a crazy thing.
00:55:25.000
I think he's craving for something that he doesn't get in life and he just follows these girls and he doesn't even know, for me, if a guy follows like 2,000 girls and he had like 300 followers, I feel like he doesn't even know which girl he likes, who he likes.
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He doesn't have an option, like an opinion, sorry, opinion.
00:56:04.000
If I saw he has 200 followers, he's following 2,000 gurus.
00:56:18.000
I'd say, well, there's this verse in my mind that says, the eye is the lamp of the body, right?
00:56:59.000
Girls really do give a shit about your Instagram, man.
00:57:05.000
A lot of you guys be following these random-ass girls, man.
00:57:11.000
Freshershamuta goes, Damn, Chris brought no niggerillas tonight.
00:57:14.000
I honest ratings for these iguanas starting from Fresh.
00:57:55.000
Y'all have anything you want to say back to him?
00:58:05.000
You're watching us from your house, and we're here.
00:58:21.000
If he could show his face, I would say that, but he can't, so.
00:58:26.000
It's probably the guy that you gave 500, that took me 500.
00:58:34.000
Ladies, in honor of the recent holiday, please give one thing you are thankful for.
00:58:38.000
P.S. I say we only give Mo the honor of calling him Media Mo when he's halfway to his goal weight.
00:58:47.000
That's actually a good question because we just passed Thanksgiving and we're on Cyber Monday.
00:58:58.000
Yeah, that's, you know, if I'm not alive, then I got nothing.
00:59:21.000
Alright, so you're thankful for your relationships.
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Which relationship in particular is the most important?
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So is your mom mostly that you're thankful for?
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I'm thankful for my family, for my best friend, she.
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And I'm thankful for my freedom that I live my life how I want and I get experiences from life and I travel.
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And I'm thankful to be here in Miami because it's a big thing for a Hungarian girl.
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No, we were here in the summer and that's why we fell in love with Miami.
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We got an invitation and we were both crying actually in the boat so it's a good topic.
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We were seeing a sunset in Miami and it was the 4th of July and we got an invitation from our Ukrainian DJ friend for a boat party.
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We went with a boat and we just saw the sunset and I was just holding my tears like 20 minutes and I was like watching Alexa and she started to cry and I was starting to cry and everybody was like, why are you crying?
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For you it's not a big thing because you get used to living in the United States and in America.
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But for us it was a big thing and an emotional thing.
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So yeah, I'm thankful for these moments as well.
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Well, I've always said that people in America are fucking spoiled.
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You have to respect like this is really, really good life here.
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It was a small boat with good people and with our friends.
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I don't try to find something where there is nothing.
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So I'm thankful also for her, for my best friend, and actually for our life.
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But I can say also I'm thankful for myself also because everything that we have, we work really hard for it.
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If we weren't until the 7th, then we are for a lifetime, right?
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Did you guys meet bartending at the same place in Switzerland or something?
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She was actually my boss, and she was very picky.
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I'm thankful for God's presence in my life and my family's life.
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Honestly, I'm really thankful for the city I live in.
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I just feel like I look out at the ocean every morning and it's just like a fresh start every day.
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Like, even if I screwed up the day before or the week before, it's like I can start over and every day is fresh.
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I think it's gonna be communicating while they play serve.
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What was something that you did wrong in your last relationship that you could have done better to keep the relationship intact?
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Last thing you did in a relationship that you could have done better to keep it intact.
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What you did wrong in your last relationship, that you could have done better to keep the relationship intact.
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And I think I just need to be more patient, wait it out a little bit.
01:05:33.000
You know, I get way too aggressive and I just get, like, too assertive and I just rush the other person and then it ends up being really toxic.
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Like, instead of trying to define things, just let things kind of flow.
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And, you know, there's always that fear of, like, oh, what if it fades out?
01:05:54.000
But it's like you kind of just have to have peace with that.
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If it's meant to be, I think it won't fade out.
01:06:03.000
Honestly, I know you're gonna say it's cliche or whatever, but honest to God, it was mutual.
01:06:09.000
But one party's gotta initiate it, though, let's be honest.
01:06:14.000
At the end of the day, I was like, alright, this isn't working, and I left, but I mean, it's for the better.
01:06:29.000
I think the ship had sailed at some point, you know?
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Well, we went through some really stressful things together at a very early point in the relationship.
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It was just, um, it's the situational, you know?
01:07:04.000
I've learned after my parents' divorce that you just can't point fingers.
01:07:08.000
I always tried to blame my dad, you know, but always blame the guy.
01:07:11.000
But then you learn as you get older, it's really not any one person's fault.
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This is the relationship I'm referring to, yes.
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How long were you guys together before you got married?
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No, I mean, it was like, we had some usual thing.
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We had our first kid before we were married, and then our second kid we had after being married.
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Well, that's why we stayed for as long as we did.
01:08:42.000
You should have just said that from the beginning.
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You made it more complicated than it needed to be.
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What's something that you did wrong in your last relationship that you could have done better to keep the relationship intact?
01:09:04.000
I just think I was really critical at times, especially because he was younger than me, so there was a lot of experience that I felt like he didn't have that I wanted out of someone, and I just wasn't forgiving when he kind of fell short.
01:09:22.000
Like, if I wanted more date nights and I felt like we needed more time together, like, doing activities, I wouldn't really tell him that.
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I would just, like, feel resentful that he didn't feel the need to plan it.
01:09:57.000
Then you must have been really unbearable then.
01:10:10.000
So I actually started going to church and he did too.
01:10:18.000
So you started shaming him for not being religious?
01:10:20.000
No, he actually was the one who told me I needed to get it together.
01:10:27.000
Okay, and then you took it up and then he stopped going.
01:10:32.000
No, we actually cut off communication after I started going.
01:10:42.000
Yo, I don't know if you've noticed this fresh, but girls are really bad at telling stories.
01:10:47.000
When we ask them questions, like, yo, you gotta ask three or four follow-up questions because they don't explain shit, bro.
01:10:52.000
I don't really think that I fumbled because I want someone who is able to plan things more often.
01:11:04.000
I think I found all of this out about myself during the course of our relationship.
01:11:09.000
And then after we split up and I really thought about it, I had written him a whole apology letter and everything.
01:11:17.000
I mean, he did some pretty awful things, but I did as well.
01:11:31.000
We really gotta pry the question, the answers out of them, man.
01:11:38.000
The video switcher, I don't know what the fuck is going on.
01:11:48.000
The last relationship, it was probably like five years and a half ago.
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I think I had a little bit of masculine energy back then, because I came here to the country like six years and a half ago, and my first boyfriend in Colombia, before I came here, he was physically and verbal abused.
01:12:08.000
So when I came here, I was very independent style, like, oh, I got everything myself.
01:12:14.000
I had three jobs, I had my school, and I was doing fitness competitions and stuff like that.
01:12:22.000
And he didn't help though, because he never helped with anything either.
01:12:30.000
And I was also like getting more proactive in a sense of like, since I was doing like bikini competitions and I tell my story on social media, I was shut out on the biggest magazine in Colombia.
01:12:40.000
So it was like I was growing and growing, and he was like, oh my god.
01:12:44.000
Yeah, he started like, oh, you should keep being a pilot instead of doing X and Y. And I was like, well, you know, I don't think this is going to work.
01:12:55.000
He wasn't doing his part, but he wanted you to do your part.
01:13:04.000
What was the underlying issue for your last relationship?
01:13:07.000
So in my last relationship, can I say also it's like if I was not hearing on my intuitions in my relationship, then I actually I felt something when it's going wrong.
01:13:27.000
Actually, my last relationship was with a narcissistic guy.
01:13:35.000
If somebody met with this kind of guy, I think I don't have to explain.
01:13:42.000
Actually, it's by the start you think you are in the perfect relationship.
01:13:49.000
It's looking like you are in the best relationship.
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And after, when I started to like him and fell in love with him, Then after he started to make me push down to the underground a little bit, like, meaning, for example, just one time we got up and he just was telling me, just like normal,
01:14:13.000
you know, like, hey, babe, I don't like your tattoos.
01:14:16.000
Just meaning it's good, but it's a little bit too much for me, you know.
01:14:19.000
And he was also like, you were looking good with your teeth, but I don't like that, you know.
01:14:28.000
Yeah, and we were actually together since two months.
01:14:31.000
And I was like, before actually, you knew exactly with who we were together.
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And I don't know if you don't like, but I was in this time also not enough self-confidence.
01:14:42.000
So basically, he lost interest in you, you would say?
01:14:50.000
No, because you're saying that he kind of told you indirectly, like, you're not what he wants.
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No, but these kind of guys, you know, they are trying to make you weak.
01:15:04.000
And that's meaning also in this time, in the relationship, you are exactly hanging from this kind of person.
01:15:11.000
For example, he didn't want, if I have a good connection with Alexandra, so if I would stay just alone, I would just be always with him together.
01:15:21.000
And I didn't feel really self-confident in this time.
01:15:25.000
He was always like, he don't like it anymore, how I'm looking, how I am.
01:15:32.000
He just woke up one day and said, I'm going to shit on you.
01:15:43.000
I just got back to the show and I just heard about it.
01:15:47.000
He woke up one day, but shit don't hurt because he didn't want it anymore.
01:15:50.000
Yeah, but you know how it was also I was in this time was a little bit confused because in one time he said it's everything all right and I like how you are and in the second moment he was like telling me no no no I don't like how you are looking I don't know it He was making with me always like this...
01:16:12.000
So I didn't really feel in this time so confident and self-sure.
01:16:17.000
I don't know how I can really explain this time.
01:16:38.000
The Russian women and the Ukrainians know where to find the money.
01:16:46.000
As I don't really have serious relationships, I cannot even say what was my mistake.
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My biggest mistake, I think I choose wrong guys and I give myself too much.
01:17:20.000
I would say I could have worked on my communication skills when things were bothering me.
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Something wrong we did in our last relationship?
01:17:53.000
But overall, I think it came down to I just chose the wrong guy.
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Specific things that didn't just align with the guys.
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I'm curious though, why choose him in the first place if he didn't match up with your values?
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And also, guys do front some sort of image in the beginning, and I think that I was just immature.
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And I think you just have to go through things to learn.
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And when it came down to this guy, I had a lot of feelings for him in the beginning.
01:18:39.000
So now I think I see like an overall perspective.
01:19:09.000
I think I'm like Being like super pushy, like trying to be like the alpha of the relationship.
01:19:25.000
Well, I have this standard before that I want to have a relationship with someone that has a degree.
01:19:34.000
And then this guy does not have, and I'm just trying to push him to go to school.
01:19:42.000
And he actually did, but he didn't finish because he impregnated a girl.
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I can just picture her lecturing, you go, you finish!
01:20:14.000
She's lecturing you like this with the fucking hat on?
01:20:27.000
You feel like you were on a better path than he was, and he was improving, but you were improving.
01:20:31.000
And he didn't want to improve at all, so you were pushing him to improve.
01:20:33.000
Yeah, and because one time he just asked me that, like, don't go back to the States and just stay here and let's make a family.
01:20:44.000
Girls will choose a guy that needs to build up, but he didn't change it for you at all.
01:21:05.000
You're looking at me like I'm crazy for a second.
01:21:19.000
Bro, why do Asian girls hate dating Asian niggas, man?
01:21:24.000
Because I've heard from an Asian woman that they don't really date black men.
01:21:50.000
And, you know, if someone probably different and the same person like him, probably I would.
01:22:14.000
It could be you, it could be a personal friend.
01:22:17.000
What are some reasons women refuse to break up relationships?
01:22:24.000
I'm reluctant to do this, but we'll start with you.
01:22:29.000
Okay, well, I've only really had two long relationships to the point where I told people it was my boyfriend.
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The reason I stayed as long as I did was I almost kind of, I don't know, I felt bad for him.
01:22:47.000
So I stayed longer than I should have, even though I knew we weren't going to last.
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I think so, but he was moping around a little too much.
01:23:14.000
He was trying to find his way here and get a job and stuff, but it just wasn't working out.
01:23:22.000
I mean, you didn't have to give your personal example, but do you think that's a big reason why women in general...
01:23:32.000
I think a lot of the time we care and that we don't want to hurt the other person and we worry that they're gonna be like really depressed.
01:23:41.000
What are some reasons that women keep the relationship going instead of breaking up?
01:23:51.000
I want to say that it's because we fall for potential sometimes, where you stick around and you're hoping that if you love this person more, if you push them to keep going to better themselves, that they will.
01:24:17.000
I agree with her, but to say something different maybe because of what the person means to you and whatever you remember or you feel about the other person or what the other person offers to you.
01:24:31.000
Either what you feel about the other person, like it's a person that is kind, is trying, etc.
01:24:37.000
Or it's something that the person is offering to you.
01:24:40.000
Okay, but can you give us a new, like, what are we talking about?
01:24:42.000
Are we talking about feelings, like attachment?
01:24:52.000
I would say because of the feelings, I would keep going.
01:24:59.000
And I was also a little bit scared because I thought always I would never find again this kind of guys who will understand me and really loves me.
01:25:13.000
I think most of the women are like really more emotional like the guys and I think yeah for me the same the feelings I think and we are hoping like maybe he will change maybe I will give another chance I just don't want to lose him and I don't know maybe we keep it.
01:25:39.000
I feel like people get attached to people and they don't want to build something with somebody else.
01:25:54.000
It could be fear of abandonment or fear of being alone or fear of not being taken care of.
01:26:04.000
It could be fear of so many different things and loss of emotion.
01:26:12.000
What are some general reasons why women refuse to leave relationships?
01:26:21.000
Yeah, like when you miss that someone and you're just scared that one time you're going to miss that and that person is not there anymore.
01:26:31.000
Now, have you ever almost broke up with a guy and you couldn't go through with it?
01:26:52.000
Sorry, I just like, because I'm like trying to figure out which one is the worst.
01:27:02.000
Wait again, what's the question and now I'm confused.
01:27:05.000
Okay, it's, um, have you ever almost broke up with a guy but you couldn't go through with it?
01:27:12.000
Like you're on the brink, like you're gonna go in there and be like, we're done, but then you couldn't do it and something came up.
01:27:23.000
Because I realized that when I was, like, planning to broke up with this guy, I realized that I was just, like, I decided too fast.
01:27:35.000
And then with the conversation that we had, and then I just realized that, no, like, I just need a better communication with this person.
01:27:44.000
And I don't want to lose him just because we did not understand.
01:27:48.000
Well, we were talking at that whatever issue that we were talking.
01:27:53.000
Who do you think was more in the wrong in this situation with the lack of communication?
01:28:01.000
So you actually took accountability and said, I'm the one fucking up here?
01:28:20.000
I wish y'all could see the look on her face, man.
01:28:36.000
I'm on his name in this fucking Cartoon Network show here?
01:29:01.000
I mean, she doesn't want to reveal it, but it's like, bro, it's like Ling Ping.
01:29:11.000
Have you ever almost broke up with a guy, but couldn't go through with it?
01:29:57.000
Isn't it crazy how girls can't even explain why they're attracted to dudes, but we all know why?
01:30:04.000
Yeah, girls say dumb shit like energy and vibes and all this other shit, but it's like...
01:30:08.000
Because the nigga's 6'3 and good looking and probably had a decent job or whatever.
01:30:25.000
More than enough to give you 500 bucks, I guess.
01:30:44.000
Have you ever almost broke up with a guy but couldn't go through with it?
01:30:56.000
What was the reason that you broke up with every guy?
01:31:25.000
So the guy that did cheat on you, he didn't bore you, but the guy that didn't cheat on you, he bored you.
01:31:47.000
It's forgivable, but I don't want that for myself.
01:31:49.000
But I feel like in this generation, if I find one who's good enough and...
01:31:59.000
I'm not going to be like, he checks every single other box, but he cheated on me this one time.
01:32:04.000
Like, that sounds kind of messed up, but if it's, you know, everyone makes mistakes.
01:32:08.000
What if he met all your needs, but you didn't know about his cheating?
01:32:36.000
I mean, in a perfect world, he wouldn't cheat on me, but, you know, like...
01:32:51.000
So guys, if you want to keep her interest, you've got to cheat on her.
01:32:58.000
Yeah, because girls always sit there and say, oh no, cheating, blah, blah, blah, but the guy that didn't cheat on you, that was a nice guy, you left his ass.
01:33:07.000
I didn't like it as much as the one who was a cheater.
01:33:10.000
If he had the same personality and he didn't cheat on me...
01:33:12.000
So why do you think other girls would not like him either?
01:33:15.000
The point is that that personality got him girls.
01:33:21.000
You're one of those toxic girls where you need a guy that fucks other bitches.
01:33:26.000
Yeah, you're one of those girls that gets bored quick, so you need a dude that's kind of an asshole.
01:33:36.000
Have you ever thought about breaking up with a guy, but you stopped right before?
01:33:49.000
No, it's have you ever almost broke up with a guy but you didn't do it.
01:33:53.000
I didn't even have so many breakups in my life but I had like many like I should let go this guy.
01:33:58.000
But I'm really not good at it so it's really hard for me to let go anyone and I don't do it good so I block them.
01:34:09.000
What made you unblock them and talk back to them again?
01:34:12.000
It's a toxic feeling and I wish I could just get rid of this feeling because it's really toxic.
01:34:19.000
Were these guys from Hungary or these are other men that you met in your travels?
01:34:24.000
Yeah, my biggest love was from Hungary, but I had some Ukrainian guy who I was really falling in love with.
01:35:07.000
No, I know that, but I'm saying it wasn't former Soviet Union, right?
01:35:23.000
German and Hungarian and English, and I started to learn actually Russian.
01:35:31.000
Have you ever almost broke up with a guy but couldn't go through with it, and why?
01:35:34.000
Yeah, actually I would say because of the memories, too.
01:35:44.000
He was in my life actually 10 years long, so it was a little big journey for me and big experience with him.
01:36:02.000
Well, I mean, she was lending money out, so I thought...
01:36:28.000
Have you ever almost broke up with a guy but couldn't go through with it?
01:36:33.000
I'll bring up my first relationship when I was in Colombia.
01:36:38.000
So we moved on together and he was physically and verbally abused, abusing.
01:36:44.000
And I felt like that superhero feeling that, oh, one day he will change.
01:36:50.000
He just needs someone to show him that actually he's been loved.
01:37:14.000
I've been close to breaking up with someone and then didn't carry through because I just know that I can be unforgiving.
01:37:20.000
So I just wanted to give more grace just to be more sure that like...
01:37:23.000
Was it because you were thinking it was too rash like it was a dumb reason you were gonna break up with him?
01:37:32.000
Yeah, perhaps I would think about the future and be like, oh my gosh, maybe right now this is too serious, but what about in 10 years?
01:37:47.000
I noticed from your answers, a lot of you girls, you know, in almost every relationship that you guys got into, you saw potential or you were hoping he would change.
01:37:57.000
You know, I've always said that, like, Women get with a guy hoping he's going to change, where men get with a woman hoping she never changes.
01:38:04.000
And then what I always say is that you always want your girl to never change because you're going to continue to love her.
01:38:12.000
We don't get bored of women the same way that you guys get bored of us, but if a guy...
01:38:28.000
Would you guys agree that happy wife, happy life is a lie and it needs to be happy king, happy kingdom?
01:38:42.000
Well, but one party, one gender always has to appreciate the other more than they appreciate them back.
01:38:48.000
Who do you think needs to be the gender that's more appreciated for the relationship to work?
01:38:52.000
I think you have to be equal with appreciation and respect.
01:38:57.000
Yeah, but obviously on some level, one party has to have more.
01:39:03.000
In every single relationship, there's always someone that likes the other one more.
01:39:10.000
For a relationship to work, who do you think needs to be the one that's adored?
01:39:18.000
You cannot say if it's a woman or a man, I think.
01:39:24.000
Who needs to be the one that is, you know, happy wife, happy life, or happy king, happy kingdom?
01:39:34.000
Happy wife, happy life, or happy king, happy kingdom?
01:39:47.000
You know, like, in some cases, yeah, the woman tries harder than the guy, and in some cases the guy tries harder than the guy.
01:39:50.000
In general, for a relationship to work, you know, if I had to line up 100 relationships and 80 of them worked, which arraignment, alignment would you say?
01:40:00.000
I don't know, I feel like these days girls are trying harder for guys.
01:40:08.000
Oh, you mean like top level guys they're trying for?
01:40:12.000
So girls are like a little bit trying a little harder for guys because there's not as many guys out there.
01:40:22.000
I think we're just like more emotional and like we just pursue a little more than the men do.
01:40:26.000
Do you think women cook and clean more or less now?
01:40:37.000
Yeah, I mean things aren't as domestic as they used to be.
01:40:39.000
In what ways are they trying harder in your opinion then?
01:40:47.000
I'm just saying for what it is in the present moment, I still, for whatever reason, I just feel like women...
01:40:52.000
A bunch of girls can talk, oh my gosh, what should I text back?
01:41:06.000
Isn't it amazing how little effort girls put in, and they think it's effort, but then I'm like, that's nothing.
01:41:12.000
That guy has been sweating for minutes trying to respond to her, so he doesn't get left unseen.
01:41:19.000
Okay, so Happy Wife, Happy Life, or Happy King, Happy Kingdom?
01:41:22.000
Which one do you think makes more sense for a relationship to last?
01:41:25.000
Well, I'm asking you, Miss Former Wife, which one?
01:41:28.000
So, I guess I'm saying if I have to pick one, happy king, happy kingdom.
01:41:35.000
Did you do everything in your power to make your former king happy?
01:41:49.000
A girl has to like a guy more in order for the relationship to work, I think.
01:42:06.000
You know, women get pursued at such a high volume so fast that unless you really like the guy, you're gonna leave.
01:42:18.000
So you have to like him that much for it to work.
01:42:22.000
Okay, so you think Happy King, Happy Kingdom is more important.
01:42:28.000
Happy King, Happy Kingdom or Happy Wife Happy Life?
01:42:42.000
Well, if you see it from the perspective that you're saying that a woman can get bored of a man, If a woman, if you're giving everything to a woman, why should I not cook for you?
01:42:58.000
Why should I not take care of you all the time and look out for you?
01:43:00.000
You know, as a woman with my values and what I can do.
01:43:02.000
Well, if you're giving her everything she wants, wouldn't that increase the likelihood of her getting bored?
01:43:10.000
If you get everything you want, okay, for example, let's say you had a kid, right?
01:43:24.000
For example, in my relationship, he really takes care of me and I really take care of him.
01:43:33.000
When he's on meetings, I make sure I give him water.
01:43:39.000
Okay, so you adore him more than he adores you then.
01:43:53.000
And I don't want to sound like an asshole, but you're very lucky with what you got.
01:43:58.000
I don't know if he's watching right now, but I'm just going to be very honest here.
01:44:12.000
He's provided you a certain lifestyle where you can work kind of at your leisure.
01:44:16.000
And you don't have to work if you don't want to.
01:44:19.000
So I think you need to understand, okay, my guy is way more special than I am.
01:44:23.000
I need to honor and treasure this man because there's women that will fight to take this man from me.
01:44:35.000
So be very happy with what you got, because I guarantee you a bunch of girls here on the planet would love to have a guy that is very successful, buys them Rolex watches, and would take care of them.
01:44:44.000
So if you catch a fucking other bitch, I wouldn't leave it for you.
01:44:49.000
Do you think, what's more important for a relationship to last?
01:44:51.000
Happy king, happy kingdom, or happy wife, happy life?
01:44:55.000
I wanted to actually say exactly the same, like she said, because I wanted also to say it's happy wife, happy life.
01:45:06.000
But now you said also it's not like this opinion.
01:45:12.000
No, if you think it's happy life, happy life, that's fine.
01:45:15.000
Give your opinion, but tell me why you think happy life, happy life.
01:45:17.000
I think, you know, I could give really everything for a man if I really can feel his loyalty, faithful, I don't know, if he's really with me, if I can trust in him, you know, it's like, But what about if he wants to be a happy king,
01:45:34.000
he needs to have maybe another chick in the kingdom from the side?
01:45:39.000
For sure I have to handle him like he's a king.
01:45:46.000
Yeah, you're the queen, but that's a concubine.
01:46:00.000
No, but, you know, for me, it's really important.
01:46:07.000
He feels really like a king, and I feel really like a queen, you know.
01:46:17.000
For me, somehow, it's almost the same, you know.
01:46:20.000
One person always has to care more about the other.
01:46:24.000
Yeah, actually this is from what he's a man, so actually he has to be on the stage actually, you know?
01:46:37.000
It's hard to really explain what I want to say.
01:46:39.000
She knows what the truth is, but it doesn't feel right for her to say it.
01:46:43.000
Yeah, because I want also to feel like a queen and he has to handle me also.
01:46:53.000
Happy wife, happy life, or happy king, happy kingdom?
01:47:00.000
Change your mind after listening to the ladies' answers?
01:47:10.000
And I think the woman is really, it's not so, I think the man leaves the relationship or a family easier than a woman, I think.
01:47:16.000
Because if you have, for example, children as well, I don't know.
01:47:33.000
How many men have you broken up with versus how many men have broke up with you in your lifetime?
01:47:39.000
I broke up with a few ones, but I didn't even have serious relationships.
01:47:43.000
Okay, in all your relationships with men, who left?
01:47:47.000
Usually I was attracted to a guy who is not for me, so they never wanted me.
01:47:57.000
No, they left me because I wanted them, but they left me.
01:48:00.000
So I think I wanted them, but they never wanted me back.
01:48:30.000
Happy wife, happy life, or happy king, happy kingdom?
01:48:32.000
I would say happy king, happy kingdom, because...
01:48:39.000
So if I'm being taken care of, and he's happy, and I'm making him happy, then I'm gonna be happy too, because I'm making him happy.
01:48:53.000
So you threw away 18 months because of cheating?
01:49:10.000
Well, how about if that made him happy, though?
01:49:15.000
Okay, I guess happy king, happy kingdom isn't that important to her then.
01:49:26.000
While you're breaking up with him, that's quite literally the definition of your happiness prevails over his.
01:49:50.000
And y'all were in a committed relationship, right?
01:50:03.000
What if I told you every single kingdom is going to have concubines?
01:50:08.000
Okay, that's fair, but I didn't want to be in that kingdom anymore, so I left that kingdom.
01:50:19.000
Okay, you got me there, but we weren't compatible.
01:50:23.000
Like, I'm not going to be miserable in my relationship just because he's what a man should be for me.
01:50:28.000
There you go, putting your happiness over theirs.
01:50:36.000
And I'm like, all right, he was happy fucking other bitches.
01:50:41.000
Wouldn't it be fair to say that as the person that's adoring the other, you have to make sacrifices sometimes for that person's happiness?
01:50:47.000
That's just a sacrifice I'm not willing to make.
01:50:50.000
What if I told you that most men are going to cheat on you anyway?
01:50:54.000
So then why not just take the guy that's the best for it?
01:51:05.000
So she wants to run a guy that's going to cheat that's better.
01:51:09.000
So she didn't want to take his cheating because she didn't like him that much.
01:51:12.000
It was just an excessive amount of cheating that it was too much.
01:51:16.000
I don't want my man to cheat on me at the end of the day, but it's time to cheat.
01:51:24.000
Are you aware that every single good looking guy or has money is gonna fuck other bitches?
01:51:28.000
I'm aware of that, yes, I know, but it was just too many of them.
01:51:33.000
Wait, so tell me, why is a man cheating on you with so many girls?
01:51:42.000
I think he just needs multiple women to make him feel better.
01:51:46.000
Yeah, in a certain way, I think, yeah, he was insecure.
01:51:49.000
Even though he looks good, he's successful, I think he had some insecurity deep down.
01:52:27.000
I'd like to include you in it with other women.
01:52:51.000
Yo, you probably told her a million times, hey, look, baby, I want other women.
01:53:17.000
Okay, happy king, happy kingdom, or happy wife, happy life for you.
01:53:35.000
Because you're saying it has to be the right happiness, but I'm like, wait, isn't he the one that dictates that?
01:53:44.000
Okay, what are the unacceptable happy things for you then?
01:54:17.000
What if I told you most guys want to cheat and that would make them happy to be able to have other women?
01:54:26.000
Okay, so knowing that, wouldn't it behoove you to accept it and understand it and be a better partner for that guy when it comes down the road?
01:54:40.000
Would you agree that most women want a guy that makes more money than them?
01:54:45.000
So, what if I said, hmm, I know most women want a guy that makes money, but you know what?
01:54:55.000
Would you think I'm delusional for believing that?
01:55:01.000
I'm just gonna do what I want and girls are gonna come get me.
01:55:03.000
Even though I know that most women want a guy that makes money and is successful, but I choose not to do that, I'm just gonna play video games.
01:55:15.000
For thinking that a guy is going to have someone...
01:55:35.000
LSD? Even you break you by understands what's going on.
01:56:02.000
So I asked you earlier, most men want to have multiple women.
01:56:07.000
And you know that this is what most men want, correct?
01:56:15.000
Happy king, and then brings back to the conversation, happy king, happy kingdom.
01:56:22.000
Women want a guy that can make more money than them can support them.
01:56:29.000
Let's say I change my mind and I say, you know what?
01:56:31.000
I know women want a guy that's successful, but fuck it.
01:56:34.000
I'm just going to play video games and chill at home, but I still deserve a bad bitch.
01:56:40.000
Oh, because it's in alignment with what you said from the first place for Happy King, Happy Life, correct?
01:56:52.000
That I deserve a bad chick even though I play video games and don't want to do what bad chicks want?
01:56:57.000
So, wouldn't you be delusional knowing that most men want to go ahead and have sex with other women and you're not prepared for that?
01:57:06.000
Well, that question I don't think is valid because I'm not saying I'm not prepared for that.
01:57:19.000
Wouldn't it be fair to say that the fact that you're not willing to accept it means you're not prepared for it?
01:57:25.000
Because I can be ready for something and say, oh, I don't want that.
01:57:30.000
And I'll just say, okay, I'm not going to deal with it.
01:57:35.000
Okay, so that's the same as me saying I'm gonna play video games, but I deserve a bad bitch, even though girls that are very attractive typically want to provide her.
01:57:45.000
You don't see, I just put an analogy there and it's the functional equivalent?
01:57:51.000
I have to give a different situation because men and women are different, but I'm giving you a functional equivalent.
01:58:03.000
Do the rest of the ladies understand my analogy?
01:58:06.000
Like that, you know, I know women want one thing, so if I want them, I should probably do what they want.
01:58:12.000
Just like if a woman wants a guy, they should do what the guy wants to be attractive.
01:58:16.000
But you should just be with different people then.
01:58:19.000
Like if one man desires that in your analogy and the woman desires the other thing in the analogy, they shouldn't be together.
01:58:36.000
Based on experience, like my culture, it's definitely Happy King, Happy Kingdom.
01:58:59.000
So, ladies, we're going to get your last thoughts on the show.
01:59:05.000
Did you guys make an announcement with numbers?
01:59:13.000
Young Films goes, the girl in all pink got bigger melons than your local Sam's Club produce section and looks like a Black Friday version of Nicki Minaj, W. Fresh, W. Myron, W. Fresh.
01:59:36.000
It's the same tune as Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.
01:59:41.000
Alright, ladies, if you travel 180 miles in three hours, what's your average speed?
01:59:50.000
If you travel 180 miles in three hours, what was your average speed?
02:00:27.000
Jacob goes, why should guys respect you if you can't even respect yourself to not do the stupid shit that you do, as in specific pics and videos for all to see?
02:00:43.000
Let's say you have a boyfriend for a year and your boss at your job hits on you.
02:00:47.000
Do you, one, say yes and work up the corporate ladder.
02:00:50.000
Say two, or two, say no, pretend nothing happened.
02:01:02.000
And then, or three, quit your job and tell your man.
02:01:13.000
Flirt back, go up the ladder, say no, pretend nothing happened, or three, quit your job and tell your man.
02:01:18.000
But you stay in that position or you leave your job.
02:01:22.000
I'm gonna think of the worst way of that man flirting at me, so I'm gonna say quit and tell my man.
02:01:41.000
Okay, you have a boss for a year and your boss hits on you at the job.
02:01:46.000
Do you either A, say yes and go up the corporate ladder?
02:01:51.000
Say no and pretend nothing happened but you don't go up the corporate ladder?
02:02:07.000
Any guy that gets what you is gonna need another chick, man.
02:02:15.000
Babe, bro, can you imagine having a conversation with her?
02:03:01.000
But I'm saying nothing because I don't want to lose my job.
02:03:06.000
I would quit my job because I think the boss doesn't respect you.
02:03:10.000
But then you won't be able to travel the world.
02:03:20.000
Yeah, so I think it's no respect if a boss tries to just get me on a date.
02:03:52.000
I don't think I'd really cause much of a scene.
02:04:00.000
Fancy goes, yo, these 304s can't afford a ramen noodle for him?
02:04:06.000
Shorty's name translates to dark-skinned male in Spanish.
02:04:34.000
If you had to choose between a man with $100,000 a year and has a little dick like four inches or a man with $50,000 a year but eight inches or more, who would you choose?
02:04:45.000
$100,000 a year, small dick, or $50,000 but eight inch dick.
02:04:51.000
So who's going to take the guy making $100,000 per year?
02:04:55.000
Okay, you're the only one that wants a small penis?
02:05:01.000
So the rest of y'all want $50,000 a year and a bigger dick?
02:05:16.000
What do you think the average salary is for a man in the United States?
02:05:21.000
Okay, so you would take the $50,000 and the agent's dick over $100,000?
02:05:42.000
Take all the shit off your face and show yourself.
02:05:44.000
You ain't fooling anyone with that bullshit ass disguise.
02:05:49.000
Okay, Katie, after the show, we would like to take you out.
02:05:55.000
I'm going to call you Dial-Up, because goddamn, it takes you a long time to come up with an answer.
02:05:59.000
Katie, after the show, we would like to take you...
02:06:02.000
You're Dial-Up, and you are DSL. DSL. You're a little bit faster than her.
02:06:08.000
Okay, we'd like to take you out for tacos and a new Lambo, then back to the crib for bedroom fun.
02:06:12.000
The big homie is going to push three inches below the belly button when doing missionary on the edge of the bed.
02:06:24.000
You have anything you want to say back to Fresh's genitals?
02:06:32.000
Lombada Functions goes, do any of these women date single fathers and do they prefer them when they themselves are past 30 in the wall zone?
02:06:39.000
I'm thinking they might date because of social proof slash thanks for the time, FNF peeps.
02:06:59.000
You broke that bitch thing, I'm not paying for it.
02:07:03.000
Freshish Samutha goes, Chris, you really brought the cast for the Urban Muppet Show?
02:07:08.000
That chickopotamus gotta stop finessing a double Big Mac and the only sauce she got in her life is the Big Mac sauce.
02:07:14.000
That chick in the middle got a cornbread forehead.
02:07:26.000
Question, have you guys ever been with a black guy before?
02:07:35.000
Both of you have done, so both of you are Knight Riders?
02:07:40.000
So both of you, have you been with a black guy before?
02:07:56.000
It was not the first time for me in Miami with a black guy.
02:08:09.000
W for letting them juicy dogs loose on the pod.
02:08:13.000
I see women's asses tits more than feet nowadays.
02:08:49.000
Any of you guys have anything you want to say back to that guy?
02:09:05.000
That's a symptom of his woman not fulfilling said needs.
02:09:07.000
What would you do if you found out after a multi-year relationship WFNF? Bro, they wouldn't give a fuck, bro.
02:09:13.000
Or they're going to still lose respect for you.
02:09:18.000
What unique benefits does a man get when they decide to marry you versus them remaining your boyfriend?
02:09:38.000
Ladies, would you date a 5'6 man if he was successful and checks all your boxes?
02:09:42.000
Bro, why are you asking for this permission, man?
02:10:00.000
Can someone do a quick little metric system conversion for the Europeans?
02:10:08.000
Neglected her because he couldn't stand her lips for another day.
02:10:47.000
Okay, he's trying to say that you guys met rich guys that paid for your trips.
02:10:53.000
You guys have never had a guy pay for anything?
02:10:56.000
They don't believe because we are looking pretty, we can just be selling our pictures or something like that, right?
02:11:15.000
For example, now we were in Switzerland in a festival I was working.
02:11:19.000
I knew a DJ in Switzerland since eight years I worked in Switzerland and he was always playing in the bars where I was working.
02:11:28.000
I was serving him drinks, okay, I talked to him because I knew him for eight years.
02:11:32.000
And after he started to ask me like, how is it possible that you are traveling so much?
02:11:39.000
And I was in my working shift at like 10 hours and he asked me this and he said he have just only two options.
02:11:49.000
For sure I'm selling my pictures in OnlyFans or somewhere in some page.
02:11:57.000
I would work here in this fucking festival and I just make my own money.
02:12:06.000
If they were doing that, they would work a regular job.
02:12:10.000
Am I stupid to stand there and I have these veins in my feet because of the fucking service?
02:12:20.000
All right, Chris, thank you for your European accent.
02:12:23.000
Whoever divorces for non-legitimate reasons should have to pay child support or alimony.
02:12:26.000
If you leave the family home, you're out and everyone else stays intact.
02:12:36.000
Lord Lightskin goes, in honor of today's PR of 225, bench eight reps for four sets, I'm going to send 360 from our ladies on the panel.
02:12:46.000
Edgemo goes, white dress in the middle getting ran through while Ukrainian boyfriend getting shot through.
02:12:59.000
You said you spoke to him a couple weeks ago, right?
02:13:03.000
They all say men cheat, but they don't understand all men got to eat.
02:13:07.000
Kings flirt with many and don't fall in love with any.
02:13:09.000
If he's a broke peasant, he doesn't deserve a pass, but at least he got that ass.
02:13:12.000
If you don't want to know, shut the fuck up and let it go.
02:13:18.000
A happy woman means a miserable man, but a happy man means her woman is happy by default.
02:13:23.000
Percival goes, since you said a man doesn't show loyalty with sexual fidelity, let's say you wanted to have fun with another girl, there should be some kind of investment time or money.
02:13:32.000
What amount of either or both would you consider a breach of loyalty?
02:13:36.000
I don't know if we have time to answer that one, my friend.
02:13:40.000
Starks goes, shout out to FNF. If it wasn't for y'all, I wouldn't have come to learn Kay was a loser and needed to do better.
02:13:47.000
Got my first client less than 48 hours only from here.
02:13:54.000
As a feminist, I'm convinced all you bitches are autistic.
02:13:59.000
One of these has to be about your sexual past and the only girls guess which are true.
02:14:15.000
It was my first time ever doing anything like this.
02:14:47.000
I love to be here and actually it was also nice to share our experiences with everybody and to hear also from everybody the other experiences.
02:15:05.000
It was a nice experience and I'm thankful for that.
02:15:19.000
Are you going to accept the cheating from the next guy?
02:15:31.000
What are your thoughts, disagreements, last thoughts?
02:15:59.000
I definitely, I think I have selective hearing, but sometimes it's hard for me to process things.
02:16:35.000
I'm basically saying like Filipino for like, yo, don't do me like that.
02:16:45.000
Ray Elliott says, scientists say there's a strong correlation between autism and narcissism.
02:16:50.000
For the Swiss ovary that called her ex a narcotic, if you can't define the word narcissist, you're probably both.
02:17:08.000
How many of you have a picture of yourself as your screensaver on your phone?
02:17:15.000
None of you have a photo of yourself as the phone lock?
02:17:36.000
So she gets to be alone in the picture, but that one's not the one you see at first.
02:17:44.000
But yeah, I've noticed when girls have pictures of themselves as a lock screen, something's wrong.
02:17:54.000
Guys, it's a drive-dead time, so we gotta get...
02:17:59.000
I want to identify who the corporates are, goddammit.
02:18:06.000
Alright guys, we're going to close this thing out.
02:18:11.000
I already made an order for some new shit, so hopefully it comes in soon.
02:18:15.000
Spend a lot of money on it, so we'll see what happens.
02:18:17.000
We'll catch you guys back here on Wednesday for After Hours and Red Pill Wednesday.