In this episode, we discuss how to know if a girl is for the streets and how to maneuver in the dating game. She's for the Streets is a term used to describe a girl who is willing and able to pick and choose who she wants to go out with. In this episode of the show, we cover how to figure out if a woman is a She-For-the-Strukes.
00:04:49.000This is another episode of A Fresh Start.
00:04:52.000But today we're going to cover how to know she's for the streets because a lot of times we're in the streets but we don't want to go for the streets.
00:05:42.000Listen, guys, real quick, just so you understand, I just started a new Streamlabs as well, so if you guys want to donate to the show, it's going to be ifrestart.tv down in the right-hand corner, or left-hand corner, depending on where you're looking at, to donate to the show and get your input as well.
00:05:55.000But we're going to cover today a couple topics regarding no issues for the streets or not.
00:06:01.000Let's go back to why this is happening right now, where girls are kind of like...
00:06:05.000Picking and choosing even more so about guys because back in the day it was a lot easier, you know, but nowadays it's almost like if like competition is so fierce and so like pocketed that only a couple guys get the actual leverage to, you know, have fun in the dating market.
00:06:19.000In any case though guys, I've been on the streets for a while, as you guys know.
00:06:22.000I've seen it all from good girls, OnlyFans girls, you could call it strippers, whatever you want to talk about, I've seen them all alike.
00:07:22.000We'll do a bigger breakdown on Fresh and Fit itself, but we'll cover some right now that I've seen personally in my life that have helped me.
00:09:02.000If you're a guy that is not the best-looking guy possible, you can use Instagram to kind of segue into a more likable stance.
00:09:09.000But obviously speaking, you want girls that are going to like you for you?
00:09:12.000What I mean with that is that they like you off-rip, meaning that at the very beginning, it's not so much like you've got to kind of push them towards.
00:09:19.000You can use more like, oh, I like this guy.
00:09:52.000Dating apps itself, I would say for most guys, is out of here.
00:09:54.000That's kind of like a nuance where you've got to be good-looking at least, and even then, guys, it's tough because competition is fierce.
00:10:01.000I know guys that use dating apps, bro, and legit, their matches, compared to some guys, their matches is night and day.
00:10:09.000They get 100 matches, they get maybe one or two, and then the two flake or frip, so it's kind of like a dead end.
00:10:14.000Instagram, however, you can change the game.
00:10:16.000Like I said before, guys, the power is in your hands with the followers.
00:10:20.000Of course, The posts, how you're seen.
00:10:23.000Remember, you can create your own avatar on Instagram, but I would say this just to be careful, though.
00:10:27.000You should be living that in real life.
00:10:29.000Don't pretend to have a Lamborghini, a Ferrari, all that stuff.
00:10:31.000That's kind of OD if you don't have one.
00:10:32.000You want to have a lifestyle where you actually live, either with sports, gym, maybe you're into art, whatever that may be.
00:10:40.000Showcase it in a cool, fun way where people can see that and say, oh, he's passionate about something, his purpose, versus like, this posting on a Lamborghini is not yours.
00:10:51.000Alright, now, let's talk about TikTok, right?
00:10:54.000So, uh, I've been in some scenarios where, like, you know, I've been on dates, I've been with certain girls, and I just wonder, like, what's going on here, man?
00:11:05.000Like, because, because typically speaking, you got girls on Instagram, right?
00:12:09.000I'll find this video real quick for you guys showcasing this.
00:12:12.000But yeah, I think guys that like, honestly speaking, nowadays, Ghost of the Clock is like her own personal diary of her bad dating experiences.
00:12:21.000Maybe, for example, her exes, what she's been through.
00:12:24.000Because she's telling the world her issues, and I don't know why she's doing it, but it just works that way.
00:12:42.000I feel like that's the secret weapon where, like, if you have to hear TikTok, you can kind of see, like, a lot of what's happening behind the scenes.
00:12:49.000Because if not, guys, you're going to have an issue because what you see up front is normally pure or purity being sold to you.
00:12:57.000It's not really the truth that they're hiding behind the scenes.
00:13:36.000I want to show you an example, but I feel like if I show you an example, I'll get in trouble because I actually know this girl.
00:13:42.000So I'm going to show you a random example that I don't know because that's going to be more better in my situation because holy bro, that's going to be tough.
00:13:49.000Shout out to Chase for stopping to the channel.
00:13:51.000Guys, by the way, we hit recently on my YouTube channel 2,000 plus subs.
00:13:57.000I am so happy for you guys for supporting me, man, on this journey.
00:15:03.000You're going to take at face value what she's bringing to you, but you should always question what's happened in the past.
00:15:09.000Not because you're worried, but because you want to be cautious about how you maneuver with said woman.
00:15:15.000Now, guys, if you're eating food, if you're doing something that's involving food, be careful because this is a bit triggering, so to speak.
00:15:25.000I don't want you to throw out your food, but it's disgusting a little bit.
00:15:28.000But these are girls telling people their actual...
00:15:34.000Experiences with dating on TikTok, which I don't know why that's popular, but it gets used, I guess.
00:15:39.000Anyhow, let's partake in this real quick.
00:16:16.000But, you hit her up, send her a text, invite her on a date, maybe even FaceTime, maybe even take her to, like, you know, favorite spot, have a good vibe, you're chilling.
00:16:26.000What you don't know is that, like, she has a condition.
00:16:31.000A condition that probably you should know about at some point.
00:16:35.000Actually, you should know about instantly.
00:16:37.000Let's play a clip so you guys can understand what's happening here in real time.
00:17:23.000But in my hindbrain, I'm like, let me see all the socials of this girl to make sure that I'm dealing with a rational human being that doesn't have Issues.
00:17:33.000Because then I'm going to have to buy some tissues for the pain.
00:17:36.000Anyhow, so this chick right here looks normal.
00:17:39.000But this is why I said, guys, you need to understand.
00:18:39.000But I did want to mention it only because me having herpes is a big deal to my bullies.
00:18:45.000And when I say bullies, I mean even my family members.
00:18:49.000somehow everybody just knows that I see this is why guys like you know before you go to buy a car right you ask for the car VIN number to do the car fax make sure there's no accidents no issues no diseases And then all of a sudden, you look at this car facts.
00:19:28.000However, I'm not going to say girls are cars, but this is kind of a similar comparison where, like, you need the whole facts, man.
00:19:36.000Nowadays, guys, if you don't have the whole facts, what happens is you kind of end up in an issue where you have Exhibit A in front of you, which is her, but you don't know the history of her.
00:19:53.000And as a result, you end up getting a faulty product that has issues that, quite frankly, don't go away.
00:19:59.000Like, some Ferraris, bro, no offense to Ferrari, they have issues with electrical that never go away, and I'm like, bro, I ain't buying this damn car, that's an issue.
00:20:07.000But, with her, you go marry her, wife her up, bro, before you know it, you've got the same issue.
00:20:12.000Hence, whatever H1, HSV1. The point is that, guys, right now, Most girls are not going to tell you what it is.
00:20:20.000They're just going to say, hey, yeah, I'm available at this time.
00:20:39.000So, again, guys, I'm going to say this again.
00:20:42.000Meet a chick for the first time, chat up on her TikTok and her ex, her Twitter.
00:20:47.000It's going to tell you a lot about her, what she's into, her wild side, and of course, her dark secrets on TikTok, which I don't know why girls share the information like this, but it's incredible to me to do with a straight face.
00:21:18.000It's like this hidden, oh, everybody knows I have herpes.
00:21:20.000Like, oh, it's so gross because the stripper, the sex worker has herpes.
00:21:24.000Like, guys, actually, I got herpes when I was a kid, I'm pretty sure.
00:21:28.000I'm pretty sure I never actually had a cold sore.
00:21:31.000The only, and the ironic thing is, is that the only reason I know I have herpes is because I, so I am really paranoid and, or actually not paranoid, I care a lot about my sexual health.
00:21:42.000So I get tested very, very, very often.
00:22:57.000This is kind of shit that, like, if you don't know, you don't know.
00:23:01.000So I know some white guys in Philardo, some guys here in Miami that don't know shit about girls, bro, and they be getting finessed time and time again.
00:23:08.000Actually, they'll wife a chick up like this.
00:23:10.000They'll be like, oh, this is my chick, bro.
00:24:25.000This girl came on the podcast actually.
00:24:27.000She was on the podcast and we went out together with other people of course back in the day.
00:24:33.000I remember vividly what happened here.
00:24:35.000It was a night I won't say her name because I obviously don't want to put her out there like that.
00:24:39.000My buddy knows who she is but that night a rapper was there with us and let's just say things transpired and it got freaky.
00:24:50.000And when I said dogged out To take a doctor out for weeks on end.
00:24:54.000And then throw her back to the streets.
00:24:57.000Which, it can happen to any girl, but the problem with this girl is that, like, at her current setup, with her current setup, what she was doing, and then we found out after about her, like, it was bad because she continues on that path of, like, other rappers too.
00:25:13.000Because once she gets hits, that lifestyle is kind of like, you know, green than you as a girl sometimes.
00:26:45.000Nothing to their name, just maybe tall, maybe good looking, maybe could smash, but ain't got shit going on.
00:26:51.000Or, they got money, but they're fucking douchebags, and they're like arrogant assholes that don't know how to talk to anybody, and it's almost like, who do you choose?
00:27:00.000Obviously, the middle guys are like guys that work a regular job, doing pretty well, medium income, and they can be good for girls, but obviously girls are more focused on the top tier status guys, which, you know.
00:27:12.000They learn after a while what happens.
00:27:13.000But nonetheless, nobody is safe in the current day in the market.
00:27:17.000Girls are guys because both parties are fucked.
00:27:20.000Like, you can see our show without the worries, bro.
00:27:51.000So, I think it's important before you, obviously, have fun, enjoy the moment, experience, take her out, but when you wife her up, bro, that's a whole different story.
00:28:02.000That's like, you're taking someone's old, beat-up car that has 100K miles on it.
00:30:38.000So, remember I mentioned TikTok, but as well, X. X is a whole different story because X is like the platform where you know it's bad, but you don't leave your look for it because it's like, well, I like X unless I'm on there all the time.
00:30:54.000But low-key, that's the secret weapon That a lot of people don't see to find out if someone's for the streets.
00:31:01.000So let's go through this real quick on my ex.
00:32:54.000Mind you, there are 18-year-old girls on there, right?
00:32:57.000And they'll meet guys that are 40 +, 35 +, to well in life, and that's their first encounter with a guy of that stature.
00:33:07.000So then when they meet you, after the plane trips, the private jets, the Ferraris, the Lambos, the dinners, you work at friggin', I don't know, Target, or you work at damn, uh, at the bank, you're not making that kind of money.
00:33:23.000You might be doing well for yourself, but the comparison is vastly different.
00:33:30.000She meets you, she's like, huh, good looking guy, but last time I checked, he didn't buy me a Rolex, he didn't buy me a Van Cleef, he didn't buy me nothing.
00:33:42.000I'll use him for attention and emotional support, and that's about it.
00:33:47.000Now, typically speaking, guys, on trigger sites, you may see girls down there that maybe, Going through your school?
00:33:54.000Could it even be your sister or your mom?
00:34:32.000Anyhow, so what I'm saying is instantly you can see in real time how bad this can be with these behind-the-scenes stuff that you don't know about.
00:34:41.000Because imagine you wife up one of these chicks.
00:34:45.000I know a guy, actually, that was on the trigger site same time as us.
00:35:42.000We got a pre-meetup for CC, Castle Club members, 11 to 1, and then a whole full convention almost, pretty much, with speakers, ourselves, From 2 to like, I think like 7 p.m.
00:35:54.000And then an after party with the yachts, food, and girls.
00:36:52.000But yeah, that's going to be exciting.
00:36:53.000Alright, so we're talking about X right now and how to know that she's for the streets.
00:36:57.000So with X, guys, you're seeing the worst or the best of somebody because they're going to show you what they can't really post on other platforms because X is more free speech.
00:40:33.000For this purpose, this is more going to be like an actual Example, I don't know her like that, but this is a good example of what happens when you meet a chick for the first time, right?
00:40:46.000Pixel Pixie, I don't know who the fuck this is, but let's go.
00:40:48.000You meet her out in public, maybe at a restaurant, maybe at a bar, chill it.
00:40:53.000You get her phone number, you text her, hey, you seem pretty cool, want to check out on a date, and from there, you go ahead and check her out.
00:41:01.000You might even smash, have a cool time with her, and then, you vibe on her, It's three months down the line.
00:41:09.000You didn't do the whole facts about her Twitter, that you're her ex, her TikTok.
00:41:47.000Typically with ex, bro, you're going to see shit that isn't safe for any platform.
00:41:55.000So when a girl has ex, usually it's to promote her services or her OnlyFans or her simps.
00:42:05.000So either way, She's going to promote what she can on here that's, you know, this type of content.
00:42:12.000So by default, to meet a chick for the first time, you need to check everything because if you don't check everything, bro, you wouldn't know what she's about.
00:42:18.000And to be honest, in your social media age, why not?
00:42:52.000I was going to understand how to maneuver in real time.
00:42:54.000If you don't know how to maneuver in real time, you get finessed, you get taken advantage of, and then before you know it, you're out of the game.
00:46:01.000Snapchat is one of the hidden gems as well that girls use to kind of sell themselves, sell to dudes, and usually when I ask, when I'm out with somebody or I'm going on a date, and I happen to see their Snapchat, because they might bring it up randomly, it's like, you know, you can see the numbers, how many times people send those snaps?
00:46:27.000If it's a high number, like I remember this chick had like over 10,000 snap stories in like posts, and I'm like, what is wrong with you?
00:46:38.000I know people win more than that, by the way, but like, that's a lot of snaps, bro.
00:49:24.000Technically speaking, guys, it's the same shit.
00:49:26.000Honestly, man, I think it's a finesse because you don't really know that much because people don't really talk about it, but that's just as bad as OnlyFans if you're looking at it as a bad thing because that's going to have a lot of people trying to buy videos.
00:49:38.000Yo, I never forget, I was with this one chick, bro, and she was like, let's make a sex tape.
00:50:29.000So, uh, we covered a bunch of things here.
00:50:32.000Now, this is the meat and bones of the actual Chief for the Streets episode.
00:50:37.000This right here, guys, is shit that, like, if you don't know anything about dating, you've never been in the scene, let's say even if you're an advanced guy, You may not even know this because you're not really in this scene.
00:50:49.000I know a lot of creators are, like, on the line talking about, like, oh, bro, I'm 50 years old, bro.
00:51:09.000A lot of these hoes be hoeing for real.
00:51:12.000This is the part here, bro, where, like, Most guys don't understand.
00:51:19.000So you know the saying, it's just your turn?
00:51:22.000Like, it's just your turn to experience this person because it's for a reason, for a season, and then it's deuces.
00:51:30.000It's because, usually speaking, when you meet somebody for the first time, you don't understand their mindset, how they really think, what they're about.
00:51:40.000They just tell you what you kind of want to hear or what sounds good to them.
00:51:45.000So typically speaking, I've been privy to law information where I'm hanging around with certain girls that I'm cool with.
00:51:56.000Either from friends or from doing events.
00:54:18.000So what happens is, they come to a city like Miami, and they end up being a good person, good individual, with some morals, and then they lose it.
00:54:29.000Because either they got opportunities offered to them, they got money, and I kid you not, this is very scary, but I have a friend.
00:54:48.000So, I got a friend that is gung-ho on smashing girls, right?
00:54:57.000That's like his hobby to do because this nigga's successful as fuck, doesn't care, has infinite money, doesn't get shit about nothing, right?
00:55:05.000He'll hit up girls on Instagram, send him a DM, and offer to pay them.
00:55:09.000And I kid you not, guys, like, you'd be surprised.
00:55:12.000It's wives, girls that are models, girls that are, like, baddies, girls that are, like, girls that you would, like, oh, my God, like, I can't wait to smash.
00:57:03.000Because they may not respond to you because they think you can't pay or support their lifestyle.
00:57:07.000But the point is that, like, there's a whole economy of girls that get paid that you would never even think get paid on Instagram to smash, get flown out, all this shit.
00:57:16.000And the problem is, is if you don't understand this economy of social media, how it's working right now, how people are just, like, being paid to, like, do shit, you may end up wifeing one of these girls.
00:57:28.000And, uh, it's funny because my boys here in Miami, we have, like, a group chat where we, like, talk about this shit and, like, We know a lot of them here in Miami especially or Vegas or New York.
00:59:01.000So I think the economy, Of dating has changed so much so that, like, if you want to actually have a chance in a dating game and succeed, you got to weed out all this bullshit, bro, which is fucking annoying.
00:59:16.000I think, for the average guy, you're kind of cooked, bro, honestly.
00:59:23.000I know this is kind of dumb and gloom, but, like, this is the real deal because the shit I see on a day-to-day basis, you might say, oh, bro, I'm in a...
01:00:43.000But his DMs are full of girls that come to go see him, whatever, to go talk to him.
01:00:48.000So it's like, to me, you really don't know anything.
01:00:54.000And yes, it's scary, bro, because you might wife out one of these chicks, bro.
01:00:59.000And as a friend to you guys in the chat, man, like, This is me telling you guys what it is because honestly, guys, if you don't understand this foundational truth about dating where the market's cooked, you're going to go into it thinking, oh, I can handle this.
01:01:15.000I can find a girl that I think is good and just marry her and wife her up and give her kids and then she'll be happily ever after.
01:01:25.000It's a little bit more of an issue because there's so many variables happening nowadays with social media.
01:01:31.000Ease of access, money being thrown at people, morales being gone, OnlyFans, TikTok.
01:01:37.000It's almost like if you're fighting a battle that you can't possibly hope to conquer, easily at least.
01:01:43.000You can maneuver, but quite frankly, guys, it's not easy to do.
01:01:49.000And I would argue most guys are going to fail horribly every single time because they don't have game, they don't have money, they don't have success.
01:03:57.000Obviously, if your guy is 20 years old or in your 20s, you're grinding.
01:04:00.000Hopefully, you're grinding to provide the future, to more income, more assets, more investments, better for yourself as well in the gym.
01:04:08.000So you're thriving to do better, right?
01:04:10.000The problem here is that she's staying in a nutshell.
01:04:13.000I mean, he kind of put it in a more sensitive way, but he's basically saying to her current monologue, saying like, okay, you want a guy that's going to have no time at all for you, Not care.
01:04:29.000Typically speaking, that is what they want, but not what they say.
01:04:37.000So as a result, let's say you're the average guy, he's a girl, you're going to do the most.
01:04:42.000Treat her extremely nice, maybe be overly nice because you don't want to rock the boat, or lose her, and you're going to put up with a lot of bullshit because you're like, oh, well, I think that she's the prize, so I'm going to make sure that I do Isn't it possible to, you know, make this work?
01:05:01.000She's thinking, ah, this guy's too nice, too soft, not manly enough, and I'm going to use and abuse him when I feel like.
01:05:51.000So I think this is almost like a foreshadowing of the future of what's happening currently because, guys, nowadays you've got to be a certain way with women, and if you're not, you're nowadays you've got to be a certain way with women, and And the thing is, they have several options.
01:06:18.000How do you become the guy that's actually going to be worth his weight in gold?
01:06:21.000How do you become the guy that's the price for women?
01:06:24.000Well, obviously we cover it in the podcast, of course, me and Myron on Fresh and Fit, but this is the kind of things that if you are not careful of or you don't know, you're going to walk into a room blindsided by what's happening and you end up either being divorced, going broke, or wasting your money on a girl that wasn't even worth it.
01:07:26.000Possible trigger sites in your area just to check and see.
01:07:29.000Then, of course, all these things together help, but taking her outside as well to commonplace areas where she may be known so you can see what's happening in real time as well helps to as well.
01:07:42.000But guys, you need the whole facts, man.
01:07:43.000No matter who you are, where you are, nobody's safe.
01:07:46.000I don't care if you're the guy with the most game, most player shit.
01:07:55.000We all can be affected by this, no matter who you are.
01:07:58.000Even more so, the average guy that doesn't understand or live in his lifestyle or understand what's happening in real time, you're going to be in a casualty because, obviously speaking, you don't know.
01:08:08.000So, and guys, please, stop with this virgin shit, man.