In this episode of After Hours, we discuss the confirmation of Kirsti Noem and Pete Hexeth as the new Homeland Security and Defense Secutors. We also talk about cheating, cheating, and more cheating!
00:09:26.000I did a stream earlier today where I talked about Kristi Noem and Pete Hexeth getting confirmed as Secretary of Homeland Security and Secretary of Defense, and then we went ahead and did it one day for you guys on Noble Gold, and now we are here doing After Arms for You Ninjas, man.
00:09:39.000So, like the video on your way in, guys.
00:09:40.000We actually started earlier than usual, too.
00:14:26.000Yeah, because at that point, like if you're really wanting, like if you're feigning for sex and she's not giving it to you, I think you should just move on.
00:15:49.000Because, you know, if they're in a relationship and not having sex, or like, you know, if I'm in a relationship and not having sex with someone, there might be like an underlying issue that we gotta address, you know, or figure it out.
00:15:58.000And that could take like a month, probably.
00:16:36.000If they're already in a relationship and then something's happening and the girl doesn't want to have sex, it's because there's a problem that she feels some type of way, so...
00:16:44.000Like you said, I feel like there's underlying issues.
00:16:47.000And if that's not resolved within a week, then there's bigger issues.
00:16:51.000And before the man would be allowed to go have sex with another female, I feel like the relationship should just end.
00:16:56.000Because why are we not able to resolve one simple issue over the course of a week?
00:17:07.000Because you guys said two moms, three moms.
00:17:09.000And I'm like, all right, let's be real here.
00:17:11.000If you were the guy, he's like your boyfriend.
00:17:14.000I would think that you actually like him.
00:17:16.000Because this tells me you don't like the guy that much.
00:17:18.000Well, what I'm saying is that I feel like the only reason why a female wouldn't want to have sex with her man is if there's like a problem and she feels some type of way towards him, like some negative feeling.
00:17:42.000- I don't know, I mean, I would never rely on a man to pay my bills, I feel like, I would never be, - Not a cow? - No, I would never be in a situation where if my man said, like, I'm gonna take care of the bills, and then out of nowhere he tells me I'm not gonna do it, then I'm gonna be, like, I don't know if I could curse, but like. - So for a guy, why rely on my girl for sex?
00:18:08.000Because that's a whole different thing of loyalty.
00:18:11.000What I was saying about the bills is that, like, let's say I have a man who tells me he's going to pay my bills.
00:18:15.000At the end of the day, if he tells me he's not going to pay my bills, then I'm going to be straight regardless because I'll never put myself in a situation.
00:19:37.000Would you still deny him sex for a month, like you said, or two months?
00:19:41.000Yes, if I wasn't feeling it, but in most cases I am, so...
00:19:44.000Okay, what if he just decided, you know what, you don't want to give me sex, I'm not going to pay the bills, or he kicks you out the house, what about that?
00:20:34.000I mean, if, like, you know, if there's not a connection there, I think, like, you know, it's always worthwhile to give it some time to work out, like, between people if you really feel something with somebody.
00:21:19.000And then for you ladies that are 50-50, well, to you guys, you look at it like, hey, I'm paying half the bills so I can deny him sex if I feel like it.
00:21:31.000I mean, I just, like I said, I feel like the only reason why a female would deny sex to her man is if she has a problem with something he's doing.
00:21:38.000So I don't think it really has nothing to do with the bills.
00:21:40.000I just feel like if she has a problem to the point where she doesn't want to have sex with her man, then there's obviously a big problem and he should fix that.
00:22:35.000And I don't want to have sex because he's not like paying attention to my feelings or whatever.
00:22:40.000If I notice that he starts doing it, he starts trying to fix the problem, he's, like, putting the effort, then I'm obviously going to want to because I see he's...
00:22:47.000Putting the effort, and I think that's what most girls care about.
00:22:50.000I mean, what problem would you have, though?
00:23:36.000Yeah, but I mean, that's the whole point in communicating, because it's not so much like resolving the problem, but it's at least putting the effort to try to understand me and try to listen.
00:23:44.000I at least try to get where I'm coming from.
00:23:46.000Even if I feel something that's like, I misunderstood something and that's why I'm upset.
00:23:51.000If he at least puts the effort to try to explain to me why I misunderstood or what I, whatever, what I misunderstood or whatever, at least he tries.
00:30:33.000Yeah, so women definitely have more privilege, I think.
00:30:37.000This is coming from my experience going out in NYC and going to a promo table and then seeing, like, dude have to pay, like, $300 to get in, you know?
00:30:45.000And then I'm there with, like, 10 girls.
00:30:46.000girls were all drinking for free from some like well liquor and then dude is paying like 250 bucks for like three drinks you know so i think in that sense like it's kind of lit to be a girl we have some good privileges i'm happy with it how dare you expose the truth okay Do you think many women can be platonic friends?
00:31:10.000Yeah, it has to come from the right, you know, you can't be interested in each other type vibe.
00:31:13.000You have to be aware and honest because if one party is interested in the other and they don't speak about it or they be acting weird, it can make the whole thing really weird.
00:32:50.000I feel like it kind of balances out because I feel like men have more privileges.
00:32:55.000I feel like men have more privileges in the world of like respect and like workplace, but women have more privileges in the world of like kind of fun and kind of like, I forgot, I think it was you who was saying, or no, it was maybe her, that when you go out and like, you know, the girls usually get spoiled and stuff.
00:33:17.000Whose privileges are better in your opinion?
00:33:23.000It depends on your priorities in life because for like, you know, obviously it's more fun for girls who get the privileges when they go out, you know, it's fun.
00:33:31.000But then if you're looking at it from more of a professional perspective inside of things, the men have the better privileges because they get more respect in the workplace.
00:33:58.000Like, I feel like men, all of them know how to do 4X because of their friends and they talk about it, but women don't talk about how to make money.
00:35:52.000I don't even want to use my own anecdotal perspective.
00:35:54.000But, like, what I've noticed with men is, like, the only way you get respect as a man is you have to do something right.
00:35:58.000Whether you go to the gym and you got a great body or you...
00:36:02.000Make a bunch of money in your successful business or you have a hot girlfriend that you got through having some type of a game or something.
00:36:08.000Like with men, you typically have to do something right to get respect versus like for women, I've noticed you guys don't have to do anything right to get respect.
00:36:15.000Well, I feel like that's more of just a perspective thing.
00:36:17.000I feel like you see it that way because you are a man.
00:36:29.000For example, I do jet ski rentals in an island that's all men renting their jet skis.
00:36:34.000And when I was first, like, getting into that, it was hard for me to really find my place because nobody was, like, respecting me or they felt like I couldn't handle business because I'm a female.
00:37:48.000What I've come to realize, I genuinely think that...
00:37:52.000Women have more privileges and rights than men do.
00:37:55.000I think you guys live life in a significantly easier level than men do.
00:37:59.000Because the thing with being a woman is you can get all the benefits and perks of being a lady while simultaneously still being able to be treated like a man if you want.
00:38:06.000If you want to get into business, if you want to be an entrepreneur.
00:38:09.000But you can always kind of be like, oh, well, I'm a lady as well and get the benefit of being a woman.
00:38:13.000So I would argue in 2025, especially with DEI and everything else, affirmative action, Women have way more privilege and rights than men do.
00:38:21.000Like, they've done this on studies where they found, like, if one applies for a job and a man applies for a job, the woman is more likely to get the job.
00:38:34.000I mean, I see what you're saying, like, in your, maybe your niche experience, like, I have a jet ski, men have jet skis, they take the men more serious and they want rent from them versus me.
00:38:41.000But I think that's a very nuanced example where, you know, assuming all things are equal.
00:38:46.000You can get ahead just as much of a guy, if not more.
00:38:49.000Yeah, but what I was saying was that it was just difficult when I was first starting because of the fact that I was a female.
00:39:48.000Give me an example of how you didn't feel as though you were getting the respect you deserve.
00:39:52.000Because I was just trying to integrate myself normal on some cool whatever vibes.
00:39:58.000Any of the men out there, they treat each other like homeboys and stuff.
00:40:01.000I just came in there on some calm shit.
00:40:03.000And just because I wouldn't want to fuck with one of the guys out there, they would go and start all these rumors about me and stuff just because I was the only girl out there.
00:40:11.000They weren't doing that with no other guys.
00:40:13.000No other guys were getting talked shit about.
00:40:14.000No other guys were getting disrespected.
00:50:50.000I think that if you give it a few months, or even a year, no, not a year, just a few months, like to fix it, I think, and she doesn't, I think it's time to step out the door.
00:51:00.000Because if you're willing to keep and maintain that balance of yourself, like keep the income, keep your health and your fitness, I think that...
00:52:55.000Like, because, you know, when a girl and a guy gets together, obviously, both people get more comfortable, so it kind of unlocks another side of them.
00:53:02.000So, you know, more often, you would see the girl, like, looking a little bummy or whatever.
00:53:06.000But I feel like as long as she's still taking care of herself, she's still clean, then if she's wearing bummy clothes or whatever, it doesn't really matter.
00:53:12.000Can you imagine, I play this video game, right?
00:53:32.000I mean, I don't feel like the girl should change completely, but I feel like what I normally see is that just, you know, the girl dresses a little more bummy or she has her hair a little messy.
00:53:42.000That's what I typically see, which I don't feel like that's anything that deep.
00:53:45.000But if she's like a whole different person after, then the guy could just realize like, okay, wait, this is not what I wanted, and he could just not be with her anymore.
00:54:11.000I know that's kind of off-brand, but I really kind of do agree with that.
00:54:15.000I've seen it a lot with different like of my male friends or just even just males in general talking to them that a lot of times typically females will Change a lot when they like they'll become more clingy more obsessive more you mean like up their phone like give me a location I want to know what you're doing at all times every time and I understand it because like you said it is that comfortable aspect But I think there's also a limit to it.
00:54:56.000But if we're going out on a date, that's the time to dress up.
00:54:58.000But also, it goes the other way where if I'm going out somewhere and my man is not with me, why am I looking cute, you know, to go out to, like, the grocery store?
00:55:09.000opinion it just depends like you know in the end of the day that um you know a girl dress up nice when it's time to for her man and like cleans herself up but we are allowed to relax like you know and i think um it would be unfair to like you know come to a man and be like well don't you know sit around without your shirt on don't like be in your shorts in the crib it would be unfair to say that to guys you know and like say oh well my man's wears shorts and doesn't wear a suit all the time like you know it goes both ways yeah but is a man's value attributed to his looks like that though.
00:56:05.000It's like one of the status, but that's fine.
00:56:07.000Some girls like really like guys for looks like I have some friends from college like they really just they want a hot guy They don't care.
00:56:13.000He could be a bum like my ex-roommate she deadass had this dude who did not have a crib Yeah, I like walking around his underwear in my crib like that was crazy.
00:56:20.000Yeah, I understand that but like in general most women I would say like yeah looks do matter to a degree but like a Shocking amount of women especially as they get older are okay with getting with a guy that's less attractive.
01:07:53.000I work in marketing mainly in the cannabis industry.
01:07:56.000So I run social media for a multi-state operator.
01:07:59.000We're in seven states and I freelance in my free time.
01:08:02.000So I just, you know, do with brands, stores.
01:08:04.000I travel to New York, go to a bunch of different stores, fly a drone.
01:08:08.000Cannabis marketing, you said for one or how many brands?
01:08:10.000So I am the social media manager of one brand that's in seven states right now.
01:08:14.000And I also have worked with over 35 stores in the past year in the New York City area and like probably like 20, 30 brands by now.
01:08:22.000How often does your Instagram get taken down for selling cannabis?
01:08:25.000I have been, obviously, like, non-recommendable on many occasions, but I try to, within the best of my ability, stay within Instagram guidelines and just do the best I can.
01:11:59.000Okay, so you're living in Philadelphia your freshman year of college at NYU. This is during the lockdown, so you were able to go to school.
01:12:06.000Online, you're in an uber pool with someone and then that person puts you in touch with their drug dealer and that ends up being your boyfriend?
01:13:37.000Okay, so, alright, so you were in, um, so you were, so you met your boy, that's an interesting way, and then, like, how'd y'all, like, what, you hit him up and said, hey, I need some weed?
01:13:47.000No, so he would post these nice rigs, and I reverse image searched the rig he was taking a dab out of, and it's like a $5,000 rig, so I swiped up, I said, pussy wet.
01:17:58.000We've been friends on Facebook, so we, like, grew up in neighboring towns, so we knew of each other, and we always had each other on Facebook, and then one day, I just hearted that Facebook story, and two years later, here we are.
01:21:06.000He kept watching Pornhub, and I would wake up, and there would be Pornhub on his phone.
01:21:10.000And so I got, I kept telling him, like, I'm right next to you, you don't need to watch.
01:21:13.000I don't care if you watch porn, like, while I'm at work, if I'm dancing or something, and I'm not home at night, like, beat it all you want, I don't care.
01:21:20.000But if I'm asleep next to you, like, there's no reason to beat it.
01:25:18.000If you don't mind sharing, because I'm not going to find out after this by any means possible, but when you do your scenes, do you get cream pies?
01:25:26.000It just depends Yo Of course Of course She's like a real poor star She's on the hub She just said I'm on the hub No.
01:25:43.000Just because it's a cream pie scene doesn't mean I was really cream pie.
01:30:21.000Okay, Burro, 100 bucks, shout out to you, bro.
01:30:23.000He goes, Thotologist, can you ask the ladies if they would rather happily be with a blue-collar guy who makes them second to work and nothing else, or a white-collar guy?
01:30:32.000Who makes them share second place with everything else?
01:30:35.000WFNFW, ladies in the back, El Henny, heavy breathing, Chris.
01:30:53.000I think I know how to phrase this better.
01:30:55.000Would you prefer a blue collar guy where you're the center of his world, but he only makes, let's say, 50k per year?
01:31:02.000Or a guy that's white collar makes 300k per year, but you're maybe like his main girlfriend, but he has other girlfriends and you're not number one.
01:35:28.000If it's because, you know, it has to be the right reason.
01:35:30.000It can't be like, I really am into this girl, I'm trying to, you know, hook up with her.
01:35:33.000I don't want it to be somewhere where he pursues somebody, but, like, I don't care if, like, you know, like, he feels I'm not meeting his needs, like, in a way that I'm not able to or something, like, whatever.
01:35:42.000Like, as long as he's not treating that girl better than me, like...
01:40:52.000So, it was when I was stripping, he would come in, and he would come in and in the club and, like, outside of the club, like, to just, like, do it in his own, like, area.
01:41:00.000But he would come in and he would pay us to kick him as hard as we possibly could in the balls with our stripper heels on.
01:47:38.000Ladies, is it considered racist or protective if a father doesn't let his daughter date black men in order to preserve her value and explain why?
01:47:46.000Okay, I guess we can ask this question.
01:47:47.000Ladies is it go back to it the question again All right, is it considered racist or protective a father does let his daughter date black men we'll start here Mm-hmm.
01:48:04.000Yeah, I feel like that is considered racist because you can't determine if a black man is bad for your daughter just because he's black.
01:50:55.000Charlie and Miguel predicted Bitcoin over 100K. If you niggas bought crypto and we told you, you guys, when was the last time they were here?
01:51:28.000Well, bro, obviously you don't know what to do because you don't know where to buy coins, what to buy or where to sell.
01:51:32.000But if you know these details, you can win that life very big.
01:51:35.000So I think you guys should get in the course because, once again, you can go from pretty much overnight to nothing to something with the right coins.
01:51:41.000October 4th was the last time they were here, right?
01:59:53.000Why is it that when women are applying to college, choosing a career, or even shopping...
01:59:57.000They spend so much time researching, scouting, and do it like their lives depend on it.
02:00:01.000But when it comes to finding a lifelong mate or father of their children that they hope to spend literally the rest of their lives with, they become lazy.
02:00:10.000Okay, so in other words, there was a very long-winded way of saying women will work really hard to get a job but not work really hard to find the man of their dreams.
02:01:32.000Like women don't put a lot of effort into finding and like being, I mean you guys, all you guys have boyfriends pretty much, but like a lot of women would like rather be single and not put in work to find a guy, but they still want a top tier guy.
02:01:43.000That is just saying like they'll go to school, they're pursuing education, they'll do all this work, but they won't put that same level of effort at all to find a man or keep him.
02:01:55.000I think, you know, I don't have a lot of effort left to give after I have to be defending myself, you know, when I'm single from all these dudes approaching me already.
02:02:48.000I feel like a lot of time, guys, they just tell us what we want to hear.
02:02:51.000So we think they're the dream guy, and we think we're getting that, and then you get like five months down the road, and they're not that person at all.
02:03:17.000I feel like when it comes to your future, you basically have complete control.
02:03:21.000It depends on all your decisions that you make, so you do a lot of research to make good decisions and put yourself on the right path, but when it comes to having a man, it's more trial and error.
02:03:32.000If you like someone's vibe, you talk to them, you get to know them, and it's trial and error, really.
02:03:38.000So they're basically winging it, is what you're saying?
02:04:40.000But we're going to be dropping a lot of gems that we can't share on YouTube because obviously it's going to be offline.
02:04:45.000So we can say things in real time, what's happening with the marketplace, with some deals we've got going on, and as well helping you guys with some mindset stuff.
02:04:52.000But again, it's going to be stuff that we can't see on camera, so it's going to be really good.
02:10:00.000You're, like, lit, but you're still...
02:10:02.000Okay, I'm gonna tell him I'm, like, crossfaded, because that's mostly what I do.
02:10:05.000Yeah, but tell him, like, it's not that...
02:10:06.000It's because you actually like him, and you want to see where things go, or where they could go, but what happened when we never got there?
02:17:57.000And then also, before we switch on over, I do want you guys to know that we got this event, February 22nd, man.
02:18:03.000We're going to be doing a free mastermind for you guys.
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02:25:49.000No, no, I just had a couple occasions, but what I will say is that for a guy, you know how guys have fantasy of certain girls with certain lifestyles?
02:25:58.000That's one of them, having a threesome with two girls, of course, and if it can happen sooner than better, then he's happy.
02:26:06.000You get into a relationship for three years, because this guy I talked to for two seconds was like, well, three years into the relationship, I want to start having threesomes on the regular.
02:28:20.000He used to do it and I know he does it on purpose because he used to make these videos in public restrooms and his friends restrooms of him peeing everywhere and make a video and now he does in the bathroom, there's a puddle of pee in the morning and I have to assume that he did on purpose.
02:29:25.000No, but I have a video of the two of the twins wrestling on the floor, and they're fighting each other and shit, hand in the face, but they're 25, bro.
02:30:12.000So, wait, and you work every day, right?
02:30:14.000I work from home, so for me to be able to work, I have to clean up the crib.
02:30:18.000I do content in the cannabis industry, and I'm trying to not make people think that weed smokers are, like, these boring, lazy, dirty-ass people.
02:30:25.000So I'd be cleaning up the crib, though, and trying to make us look good out here.
02:31:49.000Yeah, I mean, I think the reason why your guy is messy, I think your guy just in particular is messy because dudes that smoke pot just tend to not be disciplined.
02:32:32.000There are other people where they use it for, like, a medical reason.
02:32:34.000You know, I think there's a lot more to it.
02:32:37.000You think the pot smoker, you're thinking of somebody living in their parents' basement, but there are elderly people who smoke weed, like, to manage pain, you know, and you can't call them lazy for that.
02:38:26.000I think the only people that have the privilege of smoking weed and getting high every day are women because nobody cares about your guys' productivity.
02:39:28.000You know, I look at, like, life for men is basically going to this party and you're trying to meet these hot girls, but you're in fucking sweatpants and your hair in a bun.
02:40:51.000We don't know your body count, but we can tell by your actions, how high it is, and it's almost like if, like, if we wife you up, we become, like, a part of the cuck society, which we don't want to be a part of.
02:41:12.000He told me that the reason that guys get praise for high body counts is because it's so much harder for a man to get a woman to sleep with him rather than a woman to get a sleep with him.
02:43:54.000Yeah, so you need money to actually get shit done.
02:43:56.000If I'm broke, the dream girl won't respect me.
02:43:58.000I just feel like it's funny because most people would assume women would say money too.
02:44:01.000I just wanted to see the opposite perspective of what you guys would say.
02:44:06.000Well, the thing is that men are never going to lose attraction for you for not being able to provide, right?
02:44:12.000But women will absolutely lose attraction for you for not being able to provide.
02:44:15.000Like, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but statistically speaking, your relationship probably isn't going to last since you're the breadwinner.