Fresh & Fit - Mystery Meets FreshandFit

00:01:03.000 And we are live.

00:01:04.000 What's up, guys?

00:01:05.000 Welcome to the Freshman Podcast.

00:01:06.000 We're here with a legend, Mystery, and his wingman, Rob Bexter.

00:01:09.000 Let's get into it.

00:01:10.000 Let's go!

00:02:00.000 Alright, what's up guys?

00:02:01.000 Welcome to the Freshman Podcast.

00:02:03.000 Man, we're back.

00:02:03.000 We have a legend in the house.

00:02:05.000 We're here with Mystery and his wingman, Rob Bexter.

00:02:07.000 Guys, this is an interview two years in the making.

00:02:11.000 This is probably one of the most, I would say, requested, anticipated, and for me, from a personal level, important interview that we've ever done.

00:02:22.000 When you talk about the Red Pill game, You know, female psychology, dating, all this other stuff.

00:02:29.000 It always originates with one name and that name is Mystery.

00:02:32.000 And we got his longtime wingman in the house as well.

00:02:36.000 So, yeah, guys, welcome to the pod.

00:02:38.000 We know who you guys are.

00:02:40.000 I'm not even going to go into announcements because I want to just get right into it.

00:02:43.000 Can you guys introduce yourself to the people for those that don't know who you guys are?

00:02:48.000 Certainly.

00:02:49.000 Mystery in the house.

00:02:51.000 Eric Von Markovic, 52 years old.

00:02:54.000 Can't even tell.

00:02:55.000 I'm from Canada.

00:02:56.000 I'm Canadian, born and raised, guys.

00:02:59.000 Shout out to Canada, man.

00:03:01.000 Shout out also now to my wingman of over 15 years from the UK. This is Bexter.

00:03:09.000 Hi guys.

00:03:10.000 Yeah, we've been gaming all over the world for about 300 bootcamps nearly for about 15 years and I started in 1996 or 1997.

00:03:22.000 So yeah, I'm born to the game.

00:03:26.000 No, that's awesome.

00:03:28.000 So I guess I could start with, so how did you guys get into this?

00:03:33.000 Because you guys have been doing this for a while.

00:03:36.000 Pickup used to be an underground thing that very few people knew about.

00:03:39.000 It was kind of like a cheat code.

00:03:40.000 And it was kind of like a well-kept secret.

00:03:43.000 And you guys blew up with the VH1 reality show, The Pickup Artist.

00:03:48.000 But how did you guys get started in this field before all the fame, before being on TV and everything else like that?

00:03:57.000 Well, for myself, I started in Toronto.

00:04:00.000 I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21, so that's somewhat of a late bloomer.

00:04:06.000 And I caught up since.

00:04:10.000 By the time I got 25 years old or so in Toronto, I found myself having success with women, and I started teaching my friends my secrets.

00:04:23.000 I also wanted to extend myself to meeting other pickup artists that would come and visit me or that I would go and see.

00:04:33.000 And that led to friendships with pickup artists around the world, getting a chance to watch them gain, as well as them getting a chance to learn from me.

00:04:45.000 So what a win-win situation.

00:04:49.000 Bexter, what's your background?

00:04:52.000 A friend, when I was 19, he handed me some tapes to listen to on seduction.

00:04:59.000 And it was all very day game based and NLP based.

00:05:04.000 So six months later, I just thought, I need to learn how to do night game, how to do this in the bars and the clubs and so on.

00:05:11.000 So I just came up with crazy ways of doing things and meeting people.

00:05:17.000 And literally that was it.

00:05:19.000 I ran with it as if it was the only way.

00:05:24.000 Gotcha.

00:05:24.000 So, Mister, you have a book, which I've referenced on this podcast literally hundreds of times probably at this point.

00:05:31.000 We've had, you know, over 1500 videos and I've definitely mentioned it at least once a week at this point.

00:05:37.000 Yeah, you know, it's a legendary book, The Mystery Method.

00:05:41.000 Can you tell us what that book entails and what it covers?

00:05:45.000 Like there's, you know, the Seven Attraction Triggers, The importance of, you know, being a leader of men and all these other things.

00:05:51.000 Can we kind of go give a quick overview of what The Mystery Method is?

00:05:55.000 Certainly.

00:05:57.000 It's The Mystery Method, How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed, is a book that I wrote over 25 years ago.

00:06:06.000 The book has not changed much in the last 25 years.

00:06:11.000 There is It's sound.

00:06:14.000 It's quite solid.

00:06:15.000 Everyone is giving me positive feedback to this day on that book.

00:06:21.000 But I have evolved my training.

00:06:25.000 So while that book is about the structure of a pleasing love story, the structure of a pickup from meeting her to beginning a sexual relationship, what we call courtship, that book is strongly Focused on the structure of pickup.

00:06:44.000 But there are additional keys to proficient pickup.

00:06:49.000 And another key is material.

00:06:52.000 Material to fill in the structure.

00:06:54.000 The material is the stuff we actually say in field, in the nightclub environment, to the groups of people that we interact with.

00:07:03.000 That material is something that you can find If you don't know what to say, for instance, on how to open, I have written a book on openers called Hey Guys.

00:07:15.000 And that's available on my site.

00:07:17.000 We can talk about that later.

00:07:20.000 Things have changed also in that I've written a book called Game Changers.

00:07:25.000 So since that first book, The Mystery Method, both Bexter and I teach...

00:07:35.000 Game-changing ideas.

00:07:38.000 One of the greatest game-changers, while I'm on this topic, that I think you'd find interesting, is...

00:07:45.000 noting that there are two narrative arcs to choose from in a pickup.

00:07:53.000 You can have the woman chase you, which I believe is better, or you can have the man chase the woman. 0.96

00:08:01.000 Having the woman chase the man...

00:08:04.000 Is entirely different from the other way around.

00:08:07.000 And our game, both Bexter and I, are focused on that type of game.

00:08:13.000 If you were to change and focus on that type of game, your game would improve quite dramatically.

00:08:20.000 That's one difference in the game.

00:08:41.000 The new stuff we teach.

00:08:44.000 Well, I teach a top five.

00:08:46.000 Okay.

00:08:47.000 I'm sure there are many.

00:08:48.000 There are maybe 30 of them.

00:08:50.000 Yeah.

00:08:50.000 We can go into, you know, minutia.

00:08:53.000 But the top five to me are, number one, is pre-selection.

00:08:59.000 Yeah, okay.

00:08:59.000 You can save the step of having to get to know, or rather, a woman can save the step of having to get to know you if she sees that you are attractive to other women.

00:09:14.000 If they see you with women, you have what we call pre-selection. 0.95

00:09:19.000 And that is, in my opinion, 80% of attraction.

00:09:25.000 Now, there are additional attraction switches.

00:09:28.000 There's leader of men, protector of loved ones, having a willingness to emote, and showing that you're a successful risk taker.

00:09:38.000 Those are the top five in my book, literally.

00:09:43.000 Guys, in the chat, get your pens and papers out because we're going to be talking about a bunch of stuff like this.

00:09:48.000 So risk taker, leader of men, protector.

00:09:53.000 Protector of loved ones.

00:09:54.000 If she becomes a valued member of your social circle, she too will be protected by you and your social circle.

00:10:02.000 That's quite powerful.

00:10:04.000 Becoming friends with Will Smith and having his resources available.

00:10:10.000 It widens and improves your chances of survival and that's important in life.

00:10:16.000 So risk taker, protector, preselection, leader of men.

00:10:20.000 And then what was the last one again?

00:10:23.000 A willingness to emote.

00:10:25.000 Oh, successful risk taker is the last one.

00:10:27.000 Willingness to emote.

00:10:28.000 Can you explain what willingness to emote is?

00:10:30.000 A willingness to emote is to show a rich range of emotion.

00:10:33.000 Not to just monotone it and be too cool for school or take your smile and it never goes away.

00:10:41.000 I can't trust your expressions.

00:10:44.000 You want to show a rich range of expression and emotion in your storytelling.

00:10:50.000 It's much more captivating.

00:10:52.000 Now, real fast.

00:10:53.000 So, you mentioned, you know, being a risk taker, protector of loved ones, pre-selection, leader of men, willingness to promote, which, you know, kind of, you can say that's like charisma, charm, being animated, being someone that's able to convey a story in an interesting manner.

00:11:07.000 Now, when you, in your book, you talk about approaching sets, which a set is like, you know, multiple women for the audience that might be wondering.

00:11:16.000 Multiple women, maybe there's even some guys in there. 1.00

00:11:19.000 And what you're doing is you're coming in, introducing yourself, and you're telling stories that demonstrate these five things.

00:11:25.000 Attraction triggers that you just mentioned.

00:11:27.000 And you're kind of like humble bragging about it.

00:11:29.000 And people can come to that logical conclusion that you exhibit these traits through the story.

00:11:34.000 But then there were other things you mentioned as well, like pulling them to another venue.

00:11:40.000 Can you kind of go through that process real quick?

00:11:42.000 From opening a set all the way to closing the deal?

00:11:46.000 Oh, if you'd like.

00:11:47.000 That's a set of phases that...

00:11:54.000 Fill the timeline of your pickup.

00:11:58.000 Let's zoom in.

00:11:59.000 Let's discuss the phases.

00:12:02.000 Before we get to the nine linear phases in a successful courtship, let's talk about the three main stages.

00:12:11.000 You see, there's a beginning, middle, and ending phase to each of the three stages.

00:12:16.000 That's why there are nine.

00:12:18.000 Otherwise, there's only three main stages.

00:12:21.000 And I think we can all agree that the stages have to happen in order.

00:12:24.000 First, the first stage is attraction.

00:12:28.000 We have to have traction before the second stage, which is comfort.

00:12:33.000 Building comfort with someone with no attraction leads to let's just be friends.

00:12:38.000 So we want attraction first.

00:12:40.000 But now you can't jump over comfort and compromise or comfort and go straight to the third phase, or stage rather, which is seduction.

00:12:51.000 You must go in order.

00:12:52.000 Attraction, then comfort, then seduction.

00:12:56.000 The idea behind this is scientific in nature.

00:13:01.000 It's backwards rationalized from that which worked.

00:13:05.000 It's logical to trigger attraction first, mutual attraction, so you can demonstrate that you're attracted to her as well, and then move on to comfort, building a growing comfort, familiarity, intimacy, At the very least,

00:13:22.000 connection, which is really the core of comfort, is building connection.

00:13:26.000 Removal of lack of discomfort.

00:13:29.000 Removing discomfort.

00:13:30.000 That's what comfort's about.

00:13:33.000 And the interesting thing is, if you have attraction and comfort, quite likely by then, she'll seduce you.

00:13:41.000 Women are better seducers than men, generally, at least better than me. 1.00

00:13:46.000 So, I like mutual seduction or I would like to be seduced.

00:13:51.000 You have attraction and comfort, you'll get to seduction.

00:13:55.000 Now, what we've done, or what I've done, is I've taken these three main stages, which you cannot all do at once.

00:14:02.000 You can't open in seduction.

00:14:05.000 Or you can try.

00:14:06.000 But if you get a no, how many no's do you have to get until you start learning that it's actually almost offensive to open in seduction?

00:14:15.000 Mm-hmm.

00:14:16.000 So, let's now zoom into the first three phases, which is the beginning, middle, and ending of the attraction stage.

00:14:25.000 The first is A1, the second is A2, the third is A3. I've just named them, so we can talk about them.

00:14:34.000 So we can then, once we learn the objectives of each of these phases, we can Take material, these are the gambits, the words we say, the material we use to convey our personality, and we bolt them into the proper phases.

00:14:52.000 So A1, the objective is simply to open, to initiate a conversation with a group of people you haven't met before.

00:14:59.000 Now, two-thirds of all approach scenarios are the three set, are the group of three people, guys or girls, that's a mixed set.

00:15:07.000 That counts as a three set.

00:15:10.000 So you're going to have to work groups.

00:15:11.000 So focus instead of trying to pick up a girl all by her onesie and you never meet her friends, she never meets your friends, which is quite, you know, odd.

00:15:22.000 It feels uncomfortable, almost damn near creepy.

00:15:25.000 Meeting her friends and then Her friends meeting your friends, and you're getting to know each other that way, that's much more, it gives more potential to a love story in my opinion.

00:15:37.000 Gotcha.

00:15:38.000 Following A1, opening the set using the material of openers, and we have, I've written a book, hey guys, it's a book of openers, 60 plus openers, more than enough to handle a myriad of approach scenarios.

00:15:52.000 Once we've done A1, we've opened successfully, 15 to 30 seconds in is all it takes, we move forward to A2, which is the core of attraction, where I'm going to demonstrate higher value, DHV,

00:16:09.000 demonstrate higher value to her, and elicit, draw out of her, IOIs, and her meaning the woman of interest within that group.

00:16:22.000 Once I have two or three indicators of interest, that's, you know, a pattern is forming that she's demonstrating interest in me, I will then slow it down and say, is there more to you than meets the eye?

00:16:38.000 And get her to qualify me.

00:16:40.000 Now that one gambit, is there more to you than meets the eye?

00:16:43.000 It's just one example of a gambit.

00:16:45.000 There are many qualifiers.

00:16:47.000 But that's one example of a qualifier that Qualifying is so important, by the way, that it is a phase, not just a gambit, not just a game piece.

00:17:00.000 But if you run four or five gambits that are qualifier gambits in the third phase of A3, you will complete the objective of the phase, which is to allow her to feel like you're attracted to her.

00:17:15.000 It's the mere opposite of A2. In A2, You're DHVing and she's IOIing, giving indicators of interest for you showing value.

00:17:26.000 And in A3, the opposite is happening.

00:17:29.000 You're getting her to DHV you so that you can then perhaps positively misinterpret everything as awesome and IOI her for having done so.

00:17:43.000 Make sense?

00:17:44.000 Yes, you're rewarding good behavior.

00:17:46.000 Three phases of pickup, and that completes attraction.

00:17:53.000 Once you've done that, once you've finished qualifying her for 8 to 12 minutes on average, you will move into a lock-in position, a sit-down position, grab yourself a seat with her and her friends if necessary, if not isolating her from her friends, you know,

00:18:08.000 10 minutes in with permission from the peer group.

00:18:11.000 And then you're in comfort.

00:18:13.000 And that's the first phase of comfort is C1. And you're on to the comfort and leading off to seduction over time.

00:18:23.000 There's more to it, but we can definitely have zoomed into the first part, which is pick up.

00:18:29.000 A1, A2, A3, move to C1. Every set, A1, A2, A3, move to C1. A1, open, false time constraint.

00:18:39.000 A2, DHV, neg.

00:18:42.000 Crime her to want to qualify herself. 1.00

00:18:46.000 Then A3, qualify her. 0.87

00:18:48.000 Move the set.

00:18:50.000 Then C1, start building comfort with comfort building gambits.

00:18:55.000 If you do that successfully enough times, you will master the game.

00:19:04.000 Gotcha.

00:19:05.000 Yeah, there you go, guys.

00:19:07.000 And now you see why he's a legend.

00:19:09.000 And everyone that you know that's in this space that's helping guys with getting women typically is following that structure to some degree.

00:19:17.000 This is like the main rubric that a lot of people built their game off of.

00:19:22.000 So just to recap, attraction, comfort, seduction are the three big components.

00:19:28.000 And then within attraction, you break it down to three other levels.

00:19:31.000 You got an A1, which is opening the set, approaching them, saying hello with your opener, whatever it may be, which mine used to be, hey, you're almost as cute as me, haha, right?

00:19:38.000 Break it with kind of a funny situation, like a funny pickup line, right?

00:19:42.000 Then you demonstrate value, not necessarily brag about yourself, but do it through telling stories or whatever, and then She shows indicators of interest.

00:19:51.000 I know there was a bunch that you would put in your book.

00:19:53.000 Touching her hair, if I'm not mistaken, you'd call that preening.

00:19:55.000 Scratching her arm like this.

00:19:58.000 Looking up at you.

00:20:00.000 There was some other IOS you had mentioned in the book.

00:20:03.000 And when she shows this, then you qualify her, and then you try to move the set, get her to follow you, and then have that one-on-one conversation to build comfort.

00:20:11.000 So that's kind of a summary of what he was just saying, guys.

00:20:16.000 What did you say?

00:20:17.000 Oh.

00:20:18.000 I had a question actually, Mister, if you don't mind.

00:20:22.000 So when it comes to game and meeting women, obviously your friends are going to be around you, select friends.

00:20:27.000 How do you choose a good wingman to be your partner?

00:20:29.000 Like Rob, for example.

00:20:32.000 Well, Rob has come from a long distance.

00:20:36.000 He's come from heaven.

00:20:39.000 And he is an angel walking on earth.

00:20:42.000 And we do good works together everywhere we go.

00:20:45.000 We travel city to city, country to country.

00:20:47.000 We've gone around the world many times over.

00:20:51.000 Right, buddy?

00:20:53.000 Yeah.

00:20:54.000 Facebook told us we'd been to about 300 cities together.

00:20:59.000 And that was a while back.

00:21:01.000 And that was a while back.

00:21:03.000 So how do you find a good wing there?

00:21:06.000 Well, in my opinion, a lot of people try to, you know, force it and find a good wingman online.

00:21:12.000 I think you'll find each other where beautiful women are. 1.00

00:21:19.000 You'll find each other.

00:21:21.000 You're going to meet a guy with beautiful women on his arms, and you're gonna have beautiful women on your arms, and the two of you are gonna wink at each other knowing that you guys are living good lives.

00:21:35.000 And that's how you'll meet your next wingman.

00:21:38.000 In field.

00:21:40.000 That's a good point.

00:21:41.000 That's great.

00:21:41.000 Actually, that's kind of like how me and Fresh met, because we both were dealing with the same situation, like with the same types of girls here in Miami, and we instantly bonded over that, because it's very rare to find another guy that knows his way around, you know, women.

00:21:56.000 So when you do find it, you're like, okay.

00:21:58.000 If this guy's here at Women, he clearly knows what he's doing because it's so few guys can actually do it.

00:22:04.000 So that's actually a really good indicator to see if someone knows what they're talking about.

00:22:08.000 Game knows game.

00:22:09.000 Absolutely.

00:22:10.000 Absolutely.

00:22:12.000 So Mystery, we went over the attraction.

00:22:14.000 Can we talk about comfort a little bit?

00:22:16.000 Because I think this is something...

00:22:17.000 That a lot of guys kind of mess up where they build too much comfort and the girlfriend zones them or they don't build enough comfort, they hook up with the girl and then she gets buyer's remorse and she doesn't want to necessarily see you again because you didn't build up the comfort.

00:22:31.000 And I know if I'm not mistaken, please correct me if I'm wrong, the comfort building stage is about seven hours?

00:22:36.000 Seven hours if I'm not mistaken in your book?

00:22:39.000 Well, you know, a general solid game pickup that is not a fool's made pickup where you win chess in four moves and think you're a master when your opponent is merely naive.

00:22:51.000 Playing a solid game is roughly four to ten hours.

00:22:56.000 If you're under four hours, you're compromising her comfort levels.

00:22:59.000 Remember, it's based on her comfort levels.

00:23:02.000 So don't think you're a master because you've vetted her in one hour for her to get buyer's remorse then, right?

00:23:08.000 And unless you have multiple sexual liaisons with her, it's not a sexual relationship.

00:23:16.000 So, in other words, if you have a one-night stand, And you can't be with her again because she chooses not to see you again.

00:23:23.000 To me, that's still an abysmal pickup failure.

00:23:26.000 Okay.

00:23:27.000 Right?

00:23:27.000 Because this is love game.

00:23:29.000 The idea here is to be so lovable that she gives her body to you as a pleasurable experience.

00:23:39.000 As a shared experience.

00:23:42.000 Because she loves you.

00:23:44.000 It's much more powerful than just trying to bet a girl quickly.

00:23:48.000 Yeah.

00:23:48.000 Right?

00:23:49.000 So, four to ten hours is basically, you know, with the average of seven hours, is basically a solid game pickup.

00:23:59.000 And this has been confirmed by dozens upon dozens of pickup artists around the world.

00:24:05.000 So, if you hit the seven hour rule, if you follow that, you shouldn't compromise her comfort too much.

00:24:14.000 Also, don't go too long.

00:24:15.000 If you go past 10 hours, you know, you're accumulating by the minute like a lawyer would.

00:24:20.000 If you go past 10 hours, then you can fall into the let's just be friend zone.

00:24:24.000 Gotcha.

00:24:26.000 So seven hours is a good general rule.

00:24:28.000 If you're only two hours in, don't sexualize it that much yet.

00:24:32.000 You may be in the wrong location anyway.

00:24:34.000 And that brings up comfort.

00:24:37.000 C1, the beginning of comfort.

00:24:39.000 C2, the middle.

00:24:41.000 And C3, the ending.

00:24:44.000 C1 is a part of the attraction location, the C1 location.

00:24:50.000 It is the smoking section where it is quiet, where you can have a chat.

00:24:56.000 It is at your table, not on the dance floor, not by the bar, maybe at the bar even.

00:25:03.000 You can sit down and get intimate with the person, but really at your table you can get intimate with the person if you're there.

00:25:10.000 If you don't have a table and you want to sit at a table, I can tell you how to do that too.

00:25:15.000 Remind me in a moment.

00:25:17.000 C2 is a separate location from the C1 location.

00:25:22.000 See, one location is the comfort location built into the attraction location.

00:25:26.000 It's just so you can build enough comfort to affect a bounce or a time bridge.

00:25:31.000 That is getting her number or contact information and a reason to see each other again.

00:25:36.000 There are two sides to a time bridge.

00:25:38.000 You don't just get her number.

00:25:39.000 You get her number and a reason to see each other again.

00:25:43.000 And then you bridge over the time apart so you can continue gaming with her, right?

00:25:50.000 C1, you just have to build enough comfort to get to C2. C2 is its own comfort building location, like for instance, Mel's Diner on Sunset Boulevard.

00:26:01.000 The neat thing about that place was that it was right underneath Project Hollywood where we lived, and you perhaps heard about Project Hollywood in the book The Game by my good friend Neil Strauss.

00:26:17.000 Think how logical that is when we then bounce to C3, which is my living room.

00:26:23.000 So we would just have to walk up the road from our comfort building eatery to get to C3. Following C3, where you're becoming intimate with her.

00:26:38.000 See, in C2 it's connection, but in C3 it's intimacy.

00:26:42.000 You then move forward to seduction.

00:26:45.000 I would hope mutual seduction, if you've done everything right, she's going to be very receptive.

00:26:54.000 If you take the time, she'll be very receptive.

00:26:59.000 S1 begins, arousal.

00:27:02.000 S2, handling any last-minute resistance issues.

00:27:06.000 Hopefully all of it will be taken care of by the seven-hour rule.

00:27:12.000 It's based on her comfort levels, not yours.

00:27:14.000 The phases are hers, not yours.

00:27:16.000 When you're in A1, she's in A1. When you're in A2, she's in A2, etc.

00:27:21.000 And the last phase is S3, which is...

00:27:26.000 What is that?

00:27:30.000 We know what that is.

00:27:32.000 Sex.

00:27:33.000 Exactly.

00:27:33.000 What about S2? It's beginning a sexual relationship, S3. What was S2? Because I know S1 is arousal.

00:27:41.000 What was S2? S2 is LMR, handling last-minute resistance.

00:27:46.000 Oh, okay.

00:27:46.000 My bad.

00:27:47.000 Yeah, dealing with LMR. Yeah, it's actually, in many ways, maybe it has to be reviewed again, LMR, because you shouldn't be getting LMR. The only reason why you get LMR is because she has some discomfort, and usually it has to do with not knowing you well enough.

00:28:05.000 So one of the greatest...

00:28:07.000 One of the game plans you can have is instead of working a set, we call it working a set, and then isolating your woman of interest and just sitting with her for five hours,

00:28:24.000 I would rather move the set, move the girl and the set to many different locations to create more memories.

00:28:36.000 Like the smoking section, or upstairs to meet my friends, or let's go to the bar to grab my next drink.

00:28:44.000 Let's go check out, if the DJ is someone I know, things to do in the club.

00:28:52.000 But also, you can say, we're going to the next venue.

00:28:56.000 Dexter will be there.

00:28:57.000 Come join.

00:28:59.000 So, another memory is formed.

00:29:03.000 At the end of the night, she'll be in bed with you, wondering, do I really know this guy?

00:29:08.000 And she'll be flooded with memories of interactions that have taken place.

00:29:13.000 So when you meet a group of people, you're going to want to merge that group at some point into other groups, not only for social proof, but to create greater memories for everyone.

00:29:24.000 Because each new person that she meets is another memory.

00:29:28.000 And you get to be the social butterfly and introduce her to others.

00:29:32.000 So it sounds like you're giving her experiences where she's going to remember you as a person giving her that experience.

00:29:40.000 You escalate slowly but surely to the end point over time.

00:29:43.000 Sounds pretty good to me.

00:29:46.000 It's what we call solid game.

00:29:50.000 So, yeah.

00:29:51.000 And guys, you guys just literally got like a whole quick little summary on how this goes.

00:29:55.000 So quick recap for the audience.

00:29:57.000 I even wrote this stuff down.

00:29:58.000 So you got three main components.

00:29:59.000 Attraction, comfort, seduction.

00:30:01.000 In attractions, A1, open.

00:30:02.000 A2, demonstrate higher value, DHV. A3, make the girl qualify for you.

00:30:06.000 Then you move on to comfort.

00:30:08.000 Taking her somewhere else, right?

00:30:10.000 Moving her somewhere.

00:30:11.000 Getting a bit more intimate.

00:30:13.000 C2, separate location.

00:30:14.000 Bounce her out of the club.

00:30:15.000 Maybe go to an eatery, whatever it may be.

00:30:17.000 C3, your house.

00:30:18.000 Then you go into seduction, S1, arousal.

00:30:21.000 Then S2, dealing with last minute resistance, LMR. And then S3, obviously, is closing the deal.

00:30:26.000 So that is kind of the overview that I would say pretty much any guy that's dealing with chicks or is a coach to some degree or whatever, they're typically following this rubric to some degree.

00:30:37.000 Every success story you've ever had, Has gone through those phases.

00:30:44.000 Exactly.

00:30:45.000 You have been successful with those, whether you knew it or not.

00:30:49.000 So it just rings true to a lot of people who go, you know, read the first book that I wrote, The Mystery Method.

00:30:56.000 Again, How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed. 1.00

00:30:59.000 The other books go off into material.

00:31:02.000 They go off into delivery aspects.

00:31:05.000 These are keys, by the way, to proficient pickup.

00:31:10.000 Structure, what we just covered, is one of the keys.

00:31:13.000 Very important.

00:31:14.000 But it's not to diminish the importance of the second key.

00:31:19.000 Material.

00:31:20.000 Material that meets the objectives of each of the phases.

00:31:24.000 So we need openers.

00:31:25.000 We need DHV material.

00:31:27.000 We need NEGs. 0.99

00:31:28.000 We need qualifier questions.

00:31:30.000 We need to know how to move the set.

00:31:32.000 There's several gambits for moving the set.

00:31:34.000 We're going to need comfort-building gambits.

00:31:37.000 These are clever stories and jokes to get laughter in your set because, after all, the best pickup artists in the world have a laugh track.

00:31:50.000 They all have a laugh track in their sets.

00:31:52.000 I've watched them game successfully.

00:31:55.000 Personally, and there's a laugh track in their sets.

00:31:58.000 So that might be a game changer for you.

00:32:00.000 If you're not making them laugh, you might be doing something wrong, son.

00:32:04.000 You may not be smiling on the open.

00:32:06.000 Gotta smile on the open.

00:32:08.000 It increases the chance of success by a good 300%.

00:32:12.000 Gotcha.

00:32:12.000 What other thoughts do we have?

00:32:14.000 Yeah, so, and this structure that we just went over, you broke this down and kind of went over this on the VH1 show, The Pickup Artist.

00:32:24.000 And I remember watching this in high school, taking notes, being like, this is revolutionary stuff.

00:32:30.000 Reading the book, like, wow, right?

00:32:34.000 Because this is stuff that no one talked about back then.

00:32:38.000 Can you tell us about how that show came to be?

00:32:41.000 What was it like being on TV, being on VH1? Because back then there was no internet like that, right?

00:32:46.000 There wasn't social media.

00:32:47.000 So really the only way to be famous is to be on TV and deal with the main TV networks.

00:32:54.000 What was that like and what inspired you to do that show?

00:32:57.000 Okay.

00:32:58.000 Well, in many ways, it was a social experiment.

00:33:03.000 It was an experiment.

00:33:06.000 It wasn't something I was...

00:33:08.000 You know, needing to achieve.

00:33:11.000 But when I get myself focused on a project, I seem to relentlessly attack it over however long it takes to get it complete.

00:33:21.000 I'm that way.

00:33:22.000 I focus.

00:33:24.000 However long it takes.

00:33:26.000 So I did write a one-page treatment that turned into a seven-minute non-airing video that conveyed the essence of the project.

00:33:38.000 And that led to a non-airing pilot episode.

00:33:43.000 And that got us the first season.

00:33:47.000 So, in many ways, you could say I created it.

00:33:50.000 However, I did work with a production team, Three Ball Productions, and they had already produced Beauty and the Geek, so they were so...

00:34:06.000 Bloody professional.

00:34:08.000 They knew what they were doing.

00:34:09.000 You've watched the show.

00:34:11.000 It's a good show.

00:34:12.000 It's a good American reality TV show, The Pickup Artist.

00:34:17.000 If you haven't seen it, look online.

00:34:19.000 You'll find it using your magic keys.

00:34:23.000 Very proud of it.

00:34:25.000 I did something that made my mother proud before she passed away.

00:34:31.000 She got to see the entire show with me once.

00:34:35.000 You know, many years later.

00:34:36.000 Yeah.

00:34:37.000 She got to see it with me and was very proud of what I had achieved.

00:34:41.000 Then we did another non-airing video to introduce the other wing person, in this case a woman named Tara, and that got us season two.

00:34:55.000 Gotcha.

00:34:57.000 So, instead of running a season three, I went to England and raised my daughter, who was, I believe, two years old at the time.

00:35:04.000 So, that was my season three.

00:35:07.000 I made my decision of what was important at that time.

00:35:11.000 Following that, I then started traveling with this joker here, Bexter, and we have traveled the world doing, just like in the TV show, teaching men the glorious art of the cold approach pickup.

00:35:26.000 If you were able to turn back...

00:35:27.000 If you were able to turn back the clock, Mystery, we'll...

00:35:31.000 We're just gonna...

00:35:33.000 Yeah, you're connecting back?

00:35:37.000 Oh, we're back?

00:35:38.000 We're good?

00:35:38.000 Okay, sorry about that, guys.

00:35:40.000 So you did the TV show, and obviously, you know, it was all over television.

00:35:49.000 You basically opened up a door that no one had known about.

00:35:54.000 How did your life change after the show in comparison to prior?

00:36:01.000 Well, I have firmly placed myself as a cultural icon of the 2000s, of the mid-2000s.

00:36:11.000 I agree.

00:36:12.000 And I'm very pleased about that.

00:36:13.000 That's thanks to doing talk shows such as Jimmy Kimmel, Chelsea Lately, Conan O'Brien a couple times.

00:36:21.000 Those did, in fact, change the way people treat me.

00:36:27.000 Come up to me, knowing me, and they know that I'm a social being, so they come with their best foot forward, wanting to meet me and having read my materials.

00:36:38.000 I'm very grateful that people are giving their best selves to me when we meet.

00:36:43.000 We do picture exchanges, Instagram exchanges, getting them back into the fact that we're training around the world, and they could be a part of it.

00:36:55.000 So, if you want to be a part of, for instance, next is Barcelona, go check out AskMystery.com.

00:37:03.000 That's where we begin the process of pulling you into the world Of cold approach pickup and it opens doors.

00:37:13.000 Gotcha.

00:37:14.000 So, mister, I gotta ask this.

00:37:16.000 You know, obviously you mentioned that you were a figure from the 2000s, which, yes, I would definitely agree that you were all over television in the mid-2000s, definitely pioneering something new that no one knew about.

00:37:26.000 But my question is...

00:37:28.000 Obviously, the structure is the same.

00:37:30.000 Attraction, comfort, seduction.

00:37:32.000 But now, in 2024, with the explosion of the internet, social media, dating and meeting women has changed significantly, right?

00:37:43.000 The days of going out and cold approaching, people still do it, but there's a lot of, you know, more and more people are meeting each other online.

00:37:49.000 How would you say you've adapted your game and your structure to the new normal in which we live in a social media world?

00:37:58.000 Well, I think that the social media world is largely an excuse to not getting to the party.

00:38:05.000 You can come up with many excuses why you're not going to get dressed and go to the public gathering and interact with other people in real time, live.

00:38:13.000 You can simply not get to the party.

00:38:16.000 And I'll tell you, no one misses you.

00:38:18.000 They're at the party.

00:38:19.000 The hot women are at the party. 1.00

00:38:21.000 I went to Hollywood.

00:38:23.000 I'm in the UK right now.

00:38:25.000 Right now my children are sleeping upstairs.

00:38:28.000 But two weeks ago, you know, dad being single, I was in Hollywood with Bexter.

00:38:33.000 And after the nightclubs, we'd go up into the Hollywood Hills, to the Hollywood Hills parties.

00:38:38.000 And you don't have to show up if you don't want.

00:38:43.000 Those parties are happening with or without you.

00:38:45.000 But I'm telling you, they're great parties.

00:38:48.000 So you're going to want to play cold approach pickup if you're going to want to draw beautiful women into your life and not have to somehow try to convince yourself that pressing keys is going to lead to sexual adventure.

00:39:03.000 So, do you think cold approach is still the best methodology to acquire leads versus, you know, using dating apps?

00:39:12.000 Because I remember back in the 2000s, like if you had a dating app profile, people laughed at you.

00:39:16.000 But nowadays, it's extremely common.

00:39:20.000 Or Instagram or whatever it may be.

00:39:22.000 Do you think that cold approach is the king of getting leads and sources?

00:39:27.000 Well, there are five levels of gain.

00:39:31.000 Have we talked about those before?

00:39:33.000 Have you heard about the five levels of game?

00:39:35.000 The first level is not opening girls by themselves.

00:39:39.000 You know?

00:39:40.000 Opening a girl by themselves is level zero game. 1.00

00:39:43.000 It's bonus rounds.

00:39:45.000 Level one game is opening a group of people.

00:39:48.000 Level two game is allowing...

00:39:52.000 Adjacent sets to create social proofs so that it's what we call merging.

00:39:56.000 You merge sets.

00:39:57.000 That's a level two game where you can merge sets together and be a part of a crowd around you and entertaining two sets together and letting them mix and merge and mingle and occupy each other so you can isolate your selected interests.

00:40:14.000 Level three game is allowing last night's successes to assist you in this night's successes.

00:40:19.000 That is, bring people to the public gathering with you.

00:40:22.000 Women you've met the night before, the week before.

00:40:25.000 Invite them out.

00:40:26.000 That's level three game.

00:40:27.000 Level four game is letting last month's successes to assist you in this month's successes.

00:40:33.000 That's bringing them out to a barbecue, 2pm on a Sunday.

00:40:38.000 And when that happens, You can only invite the people you've met over the last month and their friends so you get a kick-ass party happen.

00:40:48.000 That's social circle game.

00:40:51.000 And then level five game is something that I've played on VH1 and that is pop game or a celeb game demonstrating higher value and uploading DHVs into people's heads prior to your arrival.

00:41:04.000 And people do that now with Instagram.

00:41:07.000 So that There's a lot of room for play in all of that.

00:41:14.000 That is all a part of cold approach pickup.

00:41:18.000 So to say that some guy looking at swiping pictures one by one, not seeing the face, designing the face that you want, and finding specifically within the database those who look as close to the image as possible,

00:41:39.000 they don't do that.

00:41:40.000 They have you swipe and offend you with girls that clearly are not your type, but the algorithm doesn't know your type, so you just go through.

00:41:52.000 Which guy is going to fare better?

00:41:55.000 The guy who practices his social skills in real-world social gatherings?

00:42:00.000 Or the guy who's swiping, getting a bunch of first dates, only to abysmally fail by never getting a second date?

00:42:08.000 Which skill set do you want to develop?

00:42:12.000 I leave that up to those listening.

00:42:15.000 We do actually call online dating apps minus one level of game.

00:42:20.000 Doesn't mean you can't do it, but it's time consuming.

00:42:26.000 And then we have a level zero as well.

00:42:28.000 Direct game opening the one set.

00:42:32.000 Gotcha.

00:42:32.000 I think building those skills is important because you're right.

00:42:35.000 You go on dating apps.

00:42:36.000 You swipe left all the time.

00:42:38.000 You may not get a match.

00:42:39.000 You meet them in real time in person.

00:42:42.000 But the problem is those skills that you need to actually call approach are needed for the date.

00:42:46.000 And if you can't go on a date successfully, then what's the point?

00:42:48.000 So that's a good take.

00:42:50.000 Precisely.

00:42:50.000 Very, very, very solid idea.

00:42:53.000 Yeah, and the other thing too, which I've always liked about cold approach, is you're kind of able to deal, like let's say you're not the most attractive guy.

00:43:02.000 Well, if you meet her in person and you're charismatic and you're able to tell good stories, you'll be able to make up for that, you know, in person by being charming and charismatic.

00:43:11.000 Which, real quick, mystery, just so the audience can get an idea.

00:43:15.000 Can you take us through maybe what, like a DHV story, like one of the short DHV stories that you would use in field?

00:43:21.000 Maybe one of your openers, it's a DHV story, et cetera, so people can get an idea of how this actually works.

00:43:26.000 Because it's actually a very, people might think, oh my God, this is so complicated, A1, A2, A3. But you actually naturally do this anytime you deal with a woman if you get laid. 0.91

00:43:34.000 Like you actually did all these steps to some degree.

00:43:37.000 Maybe some are more accentuated than others, but if you're closing girls and going on dates and everything, you're doing this.

00:43:42.000 So can you give the people like an example of what it would look like?

00:43:47.000 Ooh, boy.

00:43:49.000 I wish one of you were cuter.

00:43:52.000 Good luck to me.

00:43:56.000 No, I'll show you something that I've been working on.

00:43:58.000 Sure.

00:43:59.000 Quite a lighter gear.

00:44:00.000 I am in the UK right now, but as you can see, I am fiercely Canadian.

00:44:05.000 Yeah.

00:44:07.000 Watch this.

00:44:09.000 Magic.

00:44:10.000 Watching.

00:44:13.000 Watching.

00:44:18.000 I've been working on that.

00:44:22.000 I thought that was fun.

00:44:23.000 Yeah.

00:44:23.000 If that's not fun, then maybe this is more fun.

00:44:28.000 Oh! 0.60

00:44:29.000 Double hand damage.

00:44:30.000 Oh yeah.

00:44:31.000 Wait a second.

00:44:31.000 Oh yeah.

00:44:32.000 Magic is in fact real.

00:44:34.000 Yeah.

00:44:35.000 And I was actually going to show...

00:44:36.000 You just reach up and grab...

00:44:48.000 Yeah, but yes, magic is in fact real.

00:44:52.000 Just a little taste.

00:44:55.000 You can do it at home yourself.

00:44:58.000 There's just a joke involved.

00:45:00.000 All you have to do is this.

00:45:02.000 Get everyone's attention with it.

00:45:04.000 Get everyone's attention with it first.

00:45:07.000 You literally open up a group of girls, if it's a five set, with a lighter. 0.67

00:45:12.000 You open it with a lighter and then do the joke.

00:45:16.000 And they expect magic, and you do that, and you say, it's a miracle.

00:45:20.000 That's it.

00:45:21.000 But it opens the set, and it opens it in a very clever way.

00:45:26.000 It conveys your emotional state.

00:45:29.000 What is my emotional state when I'm joking with people?

00:45:32.000 When I'm, you know, screwing with them?

00:45:35.000 What's happening?

00:45:36.000 I'm conveying that my emotional state is non-threatening, playful, right?

00:45:42.000 And I'm perhaps even in a good state.

00:45:44.000 I'm happy.

00:45:46.000 A smile helps.

00:45:47.000 Yeah.

00:45:48.000 Right?

00:45:49.000 So they'll be non-threatened by your approach.

00:45:52.000 Some men are scary looking.

00:45:54.000 They've got resting bitch face, as they say. 1.00

00:45:58.000 Also known as...

00:46:00.000 Yeah, just bitch face, we'll just call it that. 1.00

00:46:06.000 What else do we call it, Bexter?

00:46:08.000 Resting bastard face.

00:46:10.000 That's good enough, exactly.

00:46:12.000 So if we smile...

00:46:16.000 As a part of our opener, we convey our current emotional state and we don't trigger fear of the approach.

00:46:27.000 They don't fear us.

00:46:28.000 So if you just don't smile, they're going to side on caution.

00:46:32.000 That was the idea I wanted to get at.

00:46:34.000 They're going to side on caution and they're going to feel an adrenaline release.

00:46:37.000 They're going to feel fear and it'll come as social anxiety.

00:46:42.000 And that social anxiety goes away when you just...

00:46:45.000 Screw with them with a lighter.

00:46:47.000 Yeah.

00:46:47.000 And smile.

00:46:49.000 And I'll tell you this.

00:46:50.000 A good example would be Matador.

00:46:52.000 Matador was so pumped up, wasn't he?

00:46:54.000 And he wouldn't smile at the beginning.

00:46:56.000 That's right.

00:46:56.000 Season one of The Pickup Artist, he was big.

00:47:00.000 But season two, he became huge.

00:47:03.000 This is my co-star and wingman.

00:47:07.000 On the Pickup Artist TV show.

00:47:10.000 Anyone who's watched that show will know how big Matador is.

00:47:14.000 And if he doesn't smile, he's carrying what appear to be his arms are guns.

00:47:20.000 So he walks into a room and it's very intimidating.

00:47:23.000 And he had a Hollywood smile.

00:47:27.000 He had a celebrity smile.

00:47:29.000 And that was so charismatic that women were not threatened by him.

00:47:35.000 They were drawn to him.

00:47:37.000 That's a learning lesson.

00:47:39.000 The smile goes a long way.

00:47:42.000 And I find it very interesting.

00:47:44.000 And for the audience, right?

00:47:46.000 You demonstrated so many different things just by doing that, right?

00:47:49.000 So you demonstrate being playful, funny, sense of humor is disarming.

00:47:53.000 Because most guys that approach girls, they're coming on some creepy type stuff, right?

00:47:56.000 So if you're able to do that, it shows social calibration.

00:47:59.000 And then you add to it, and you're like, oh, I was just messing with you guys, but I actually can do magic, which I wanted to talk to you about that as well.

00:48:06.000 You are a magician, very skilled.

00:48:08.000 You've incorporated it into your game.

00:48:10.000 How did you get started with magic and how much does it impact your sets?

00:48:17.000 Attraction magic.

00:48:18.000 I think it impacts my sets a lot because as a magician, I love to perform magic.

00:48:24.000 I perform magic in virtually every set that I approach.

00:48:27.000 I may not open with it.

00:48:29.000 But at some point in my set, they're going to discover that I'm a magician.

00:48:33.000 Even when they ask me the question, one of the autoresponder questions is, what do you do?

00:48:38.000 I say, would you like me to tell you or show you?

00:48:41.000 Much better than saying, I'm a magician.

00:48:45.000 You want to see some magic?

00:48:48.000 It brings it out in the autoresponder question.

00:48:52.000 What's your name?

00:48:53.000 Instead of saying, Eric.

00:48:54.000 I say my stage name is Mystery.

00:48:57.000 My friends call me Mystery.

00:48:58.000 I'm a full-grown man with a nickname.

00:48:59.000 I can't get rid of it.

00:49:00.000 But my real name is Eric.

00:49:02.000 I'm not hiding.

00:49:03.000 Much better than saying, when asked the question, what's your name?

00:49:07.000 Eric.

00:49:08.000 Boring.

00:49:09.000 But the other one is just more interesting to say.

00:49:11.000 Never been heard before.

00:49:12.000 And I'm Mystery.

00:49:13.000 In field.

00:49:14.000 It's a rapport breaker in many ways.

00:49:16.000 So I have that autoresponder handled.

00:49:18.000 Where are you from?

00:49:19.000 Instead of saying Canada, I say, I am from the same place that brought you Justin Bieber.

00:49:26.000 Where am I from?

00:49:28.000 And they say, Canada.

00:49:29.000 And I say, no, hell.

00:49:31.000 Yes, Canada.

00:49:33.000 It's clean.

00:49:35.000 I do the same thing, man.

00:49:37.000 And it's really...

00:49:39.000 And I really want the audience to grasp this because, like, here we're just joking around, right?

00:49:43.000 Like, you know, you're saying this to the girl or whatever, but what guys don't understand is, like, when you do this with women and you're playful like this and you have the wittiness to be able to do this and you're able to, you know, take a very mundane question that 99% of guys answer in a boring fashion and you're able to spice it up and make it interesting,

00:49:59.000 girls don't forget that shit. 1.00

00:50:01.000 No girl's going to forget you coming up with a lighter like this and doing that.

00:50:05.000 That no dude has probably ever done that in their life.

00:50:07.000 And I think that's what's so important about what you teach these guys on how to run pickup.

00:50:13.000 It makes you memorable and stand out.

00:50:16.000 It's unique.

00:50:17.000 At least more unique than how you do it.

00:50:20.000 It's old.

00:50:20.000 It's been done.

00:50:21.000 It's hacked.

00:50:22.000 We need better openers.

00:50:25.000 I got a question for you, Mr.

00:50:26.000 Reed.

00:50:26.000 That's so good.

00:50:27.000 This actually perfectly segues into peacocking. 0.79

00:50:30.000 Can you talk, because I would say you're the person that popularized a lot of these terms, actually.

00:50:36.000 What is peacocking?

00:50:37.000 How can people go about it in today's day and age, and why is it so important?

00:50:43.000 Okay.

00:50:43.000 Well, it's not going away.

00:50:45.000 We'll start there.

00:50:46.000 Peacocking refers to a man wearing outrageous clothing.

00:50:51.000 Not outrageous, just unique clothing.

00:50:55.000 That is maybe a bit cumbersome, like the plume of a peacock's tail.

00:51:03.000 He dresses outlandishly, colourfully, like a peacock, in order to stand out and convey some social status in doing so.

00:51:15.000 Like, for instance, the man who wears a fur coat in the club, or in my case, a faux fur coat.

00:51:22.000 You know?

00:51:22.000 This is unreal.

00:51:24.000 Right?

00:51:26.000 That's peacocking.

00:51:28.000 Peacocking also includes those who wear tattoos.

00:51:32.000 All tattoos are peacocking.

00:51:34.000 Women, there are millions and millions and millions of women on the planet who have tattoos. 1.00

00:51:39.000 They're all peacocking.

00:51:41.000 That's all built in peacocking.

00:51:43.000 This here, I've got gauges, peacocking.

00:51:47.000 I've got this, this is adding to the peacocking.

00:51:51.000 Right?

00:51:52.000 Even this item here that I'm wearing, you know, carrying this thing here, you can see on the back, it's a unique look.

00:52:02.000 It's peacocking.

00:52:04.000 Gotcha.

00:52:05.000 So it's not going away.

00:52:06.000 People who stand out, women do it especially well, and when you go to A mall, you'll see they have so many clothing options, but men have less clothing options.

00:52:18.000 That's why we need to get creative and out.

00:52:22.000 It takes more social savvy because, you know, when I paint my nails black, people are going to say, why do you paint your nails black?

00:52:29.000 Right?

00:52:30.000 So you have to get used to the social, you know, the heightened social What's the word I'm looking for, guys?

00:52:38.000 Social what?

00:52:39.000 Social pressures?

00:52:40.000 Okay, yeah.

00:52:42.000 Pressures is a good enough word.

00:52:44.000 I want to say...

00:52:45.000 For those interactions, yeah.

00:52:47.000 I was going to say, when I watched...

00:52:50.000 It's crazy, I remember this almost, you know, 20 years later.

00:52:54.000 When I watched the show, I remember you would wear, you know, boots that made you taller, the goggles, the hats...

00:53:02.000 The snowboard goggles, etc.

00:53:04.000 And if I'm not mistaken, please correct me if I'm wrong, you generally recommend that every man, when they go out and they're running game, to have at least one piece of peacocking clothing item, whether it's a necklace, maybe jewelry or something like that.

00:53:22.000 Do you think that they should still have one piece or should they have more nowadays to stand out in a very competitive dating marketplace with the internet around and social media?

00:53:28.000 How should men go about peacocking in today's day and age?

00:53:33.000 Well, the idea of wearing one is to say to people, wear at least one interesting item, and it could be a necklace, so that if a woman wants to approach you, you're giving her an open invitation to by her saying, oh, that's really nice.

00:53:45.000 You know, what is that?

00:53:46.000 Where'd you get that?

00:53:48.000 And that is an indicator of interest.

00:53:50.000 So really what you're doing is you're eliciting IOIs by peacocking.

00:53:55.000 Gotcha.

00:53:55.000 So I'll wear fur, faux fur, and anyone else, any girl who wears fur will hug me.

00:54:03.000 It's like the fur club. 0.84

00:54:05.000 Try it.

00:54:06.000 You'll see.

00:54:07.000 It works.

00:54:08.000 We've got lots of footage, infield footage examples of me running around Las Vegas in a fur coat, and while it looks ostentatious, it really drew a crowd.

00:54:25.000 It allowed people to come in, meet me, interact with me, hug me, touch my fur, ask if it's real, and I say it's unreal, or do you know how many polyesters died for this coat?

00:54:39.000 So I have my sound bites that are connected with my peacock gear.

00:54:46.000 And you should have sound bites ready to respond to when they ask you about your necklace.

00:54:50.000 It should be more interesting than, I bought it at the mall.

00:54:53.000 You know?

00:54:55.000 Mall.

00:54:56.000 Mall.

00:54:57.000 Much better than that is needed, right?

00:55:00.000 But even more powerful if you have two girls on your arm and you're peacocked.

00:55:06.000 Yep.

00:55:07.000 Yeah, huge demonstration.

00:55:08.000 Rockstar status.

00:55:09.000 Yep.

00:55:10.000 That's right.

00:55:11.000 And if they're Peacock too and you look like you're, you know, in the same band, even better.

00:55:17.000 I would argue it starts online nowadays with Instagram.

00:55:21.000 So girls peacock in different ways. 1.00

00:55:22.000 No, for you maybe.

00:55:23.000 You didn't get to the party in the Hollywood Hills, did you?

00:55:26.000 You missed out, man.

00:55:27.000 You missed the party.

00:55:29.000 You stayed home, didn't you?

00:55:31.000 I was going to segue.

00:55:32.000 You stayed home.

00:55:32.000 You could have gone to the party.

00:55:33.000 I was going to segue.

00:55:34.000 So Instagram starts the party off for me.

00:55:37.000 The girls come from DMs. 1.00

00:55:39.000 Then we go to the party.

00:55:40.000 Even more girls show up. 0.85

00:55:42.000 And from the very beginning, they saw the lifestyle.

00:55:44.000 Oh, this is fun.

00:55:45.000 This guy's fun.

00:55:45.000 I want to be around him.

00:55:46.000 We meet up at the party.

00:55:48.000 We got more girls to join our party. 1.00

00:55:50.000 And then from there, we have a great time.

00:55:51.000 That's all I see at least.

00:55:53.000 That's level four game.

00:55:54.000 You're playing social circle game.

00:55:56.000 That's great.

00:55:57.000 You know, but let's not be disappointed if you're new to a city and you don't know anyone.

00:56:02.000 And you go to a club and he's got all the girls.

00:56:05.000 That's you.

00:56:06.000 You've got all the girls.

00:56:07.000 And he's got none.

00:56:09.000 And he'll say, oh, how unfair when he didn't do the work.

00:56:13.000 So you've got to start somewhere in a new city.

00:56:16.000 And you start with the three set.

00:56:18.000 You just go to a public gathering, open the first set on the left, build a solid base.

00:56:22.000 And then from there, you can open adjacent sets, work your night, merging sets.

00:56:28.000 As you get to know...

00:56:31.000 Who's potentially single?

00:56:35.000 We have to do that every boot camp.

00:56:37.000 We have to touch down.

00:56:38.000 We go there a day or two before.

00:56:40.000 We do a recce around the area.

00:56:43.000 And then by the end of the long weekend on boot camp, we have our own social circle there.

00:56:49.000 Bam.

00:56:50.000 And we have bittersweet goodbyes.

00:56:52.000 You know, we have to leave the city.

00:56:54.000 We have to go to the next city.

00:56:56.000 And we have to say goodbye to the new girlfriend we've made.

00:56:59.000 It's bittersweet.

00:57:01.000 Damn.

00:57:02.000 Let me ask you this mystery.

00:57:03.000 We talked a bit about indicators of interest, a.k.a.

00:57:06.000 IOIs.

00:57:07.000 What are some of the most common IOIs that guys miss?

00:57:10.000 Because there's so many times where girls are giving guys hints. 0.80

00:57:14.000 Guys might not have their social calibration or skill set to be able to identify these IOIs and make a move or escalate, right?

00:57:20.000 Or they're scared to escalate because they don't see them.

00:57:23.000 What are some common IOIs that guys miss?

00:57:26.000 Well, I think that you don't have to kiss the girl in C1. You don't have to.

00:57:32.000 You can say to her, expect nothing but great conversation in order to get the contact exchange.

00:57:38.000 And then you preserve her comfort so that you can see her on a day two rather than kissing her too soon and she gets buyer's remorse.

00:57:48.000 So it all depends on her whether you're going to kiss her in C1 or in C2 or you're going to again wait until C3 when you're in a private location and that's the first time you're kissing.

00:57:59.000 But you should have some keynote escalation.

00:58:01.000 You can't kiss her if she's uncomfortable holding her hand. 0.94

00:58:05.000 Right?

00:58:06.000 So you have to do an escalation ladder, certainly.

00:58:10.000 What was the question exactly, though?

00:58:13.000 I was just getting a background.

00:58:14.000 Yeah, Iowyes that guys often miss from women and that are a little bit more subtle.

00:58:20.000 We've talked about some common ones like touching her hair, looking up at you, laughing at your jokes, touching you, maybe scratching your arm like this.

00:58:27.000 But what are some other ones that guys often miss?

00:58:32.000 Well, they could be mirroring and matching you as well.

00:58:35.000 Okay, can you explain what mirroring is real fast for the audience?

00:58:38.000 Yeah, when they're literally copying, say they're sitting in front of you, they're copying what you're doing.

00:58:43.000 You fold your arms, they fold your arms.

00:58:45.000 You lean back, they lean back.

00:58:47.000 You cross your legs, they cross their legs. 0.99

00:58:49.000 So you can mirror, match, and then start leading it if you see that they're doing that as well.

00:58:54.000 Gotcha.

00:58:56.000 You can force IOIs as well.

00:58:59.000 How do you go about that?

00:59:01.000 There's many ways, but say that you're the other side of the bar, across a long bar, and you don't want to go round and talk and it's loud and so on.

00:59:12.000 You want to test it first.

00:59:13.000 So one is called the peekaboo.

00:59:16.000 So you just go like that.

00:59:18.000 And then they look.

00:59:19.000 If they mirror and match, then the game is afoot.

00:59:23.000 They're interested.

00:59:24.000 They're playing along, you know.

00:59:25.000 What was funny when you were five is funny again.

00:59:28.000 And...

00:59:30.000 And it just shows a different level of playfulness that you're different.

00:59:34.000 You've caught their eye.

00:59:35.000 Gotcha.

00:59:36.000 And it tells you where they're at with you.

00:59:38.000 Rob...

00:59:39.000 And then you can go straight in.

00:59:41.000 How important is eye contact when it comes to getting the first approach?

00:59:46.000 Well, I think it's good, but we go in without eye contact as well, you know?

00:59:53.000 So either way...

00:59:54.000 We generally go in without...

00:59:59.000 You just approach the set and engage.

01:00:02.000 It's over the shoulder stuff too.

01:00:04.000 Hey guys, quick question.

01:00:05.000 First time they see you, they see your face is with a smile.

01:00:08.000 Hey guys, quick question.

01:00:11.000 And then you stack to any type of opener.

01:00:15.000 You can't get blown out that way, over the shoulder.

01:00:21.000 You just mentioned something there that brought back some memories.

01:00:25.000 So, the over-the-shoulder, right?

01:00:27.000 You were really big, and this is something to this day I still use and I still talk about.

01:00:32.000 If I call the portrait girl, I'm never standing right in front of her.

01:00:36.000 I always have my body bladed as if I'm about to leave.

01:00:39.000 And potentially set up like a false time constraint or whatever.

01:00:41.000 And I learned that from you, actually, Mystery.

01:00:44.000 Can you talk about the importance of...

01:00:47.000 When you approach a girl, you don't want it where you're directly in front of her and might make her feel intimidated, but you also want to kind of let her know that, hey, this interaction isn't going to last long.

01:00:57.000 I think a lot of guys kind of mess this up and they make themselves almost too available where the girl doesn't know if you're going to sit there and try to talk to her for three hours or she doesn't know if you're going to leave.

01:01:06.000 Can you talk about the importance of, like, blading your body a certain way?

01:01:08.000 You just did the over-the-shoulder one real fast.

01:01:10.000 Little subtle things like this, how it makes a big difference?

01:01:12.000 Sure.

01:01:13.000 Sure.

01:01:13.000 I use it maybe 20% of the time in the night.

01:01:17.000 You know, I'll do over the shoulder a couple times in the night, certainly.

01:01:21.000 But it's important to note that what we've just structured here is a hypothetical situation of me approaching a girl.

01:01:29.000 Women of beauty are rarely alone, usually in groups.

01:01:33.000 So if we're going to fantasize repeatedly, instead of fantasizing and practicing and training and preparing for some future event, Where she's alone, we're not going to be meeting girls alone.

01:01:48.000 That's so rare.

01:01:50.000 They're usually with beautiful girls as well.

01:01:54.000 They're usually with guys.

01:01:56.000 Mixed sets, believe it or not, are approachable.

01:02:01.000 They're approachable.

01:02:02.000 They're lucrative.

01:02:04.000 I've gotten girlfriends from mixed sets.

01:02:09.000 You can be given the girl by the guys.

01:02:13.000 They just bow down to you having a connection with her that they didn't have.

01:02:20.000 They can give you the girl if they like you.

01:02:23.000 So you have to win over the entire set.

01:02:26.000 So it's really all about group theory, less about single approach theory, which is what the scenario is constructing.

01:02:35.000 I got a question for you because I think this is something that actually trips a lot of guys up.

01:02:39.000 They'll see a group of girls and a group of guys and they'll be scared to approach.

01:02:43.000 How can someone go about approaching a mixed set without necessarily, I guess... 1.00

01:02:49.000 Because I think what guys are afraid of is getting rejected, potentially getting attacked by the males in a group.

01:02:54.000 They don't know what the social dynamics are, etc.

01:02:56.000 How can someone go about opening up a mixed set? 1.00

01:03:00.000 Well, there's two...

01:03:02.000 Major schools of thought in pickup, it's not just day game and night game.

01:03:07.000 It's single approach theory versus group theory, right?

01:03:12.000 Day game, by the way, usually is single approach theory game, right?

01:03:18.000 There's also two schools of thought.

01:03:21.000 You know, there's the versus of direct and indirect.

01:03:25.000 There's direct game where you are opening in seduction, basically.

01:03:29.000 To me, that's an error.

01:03:32.000 And then there's the far more maneuver, it gives you far greater maneuverability.

01:03:37.000 It's far more powerful, in my opinion, and that's opening indirect.

01:03:43.000 And that's the indirect school of thought.

01:03:46.000 So opening a group of people, if one of the people in the group is the woman of interest's father, for instance, well, then you're going to have to win over the father.

01:03:59.000 For instance, my 17-year-old daughter has a boyfriend, and he's totally won me over.

01:04:06.000 I think it's a wonderful match, a wonderful union.

01:04:10.000 He comes over and hangs out, and he's a part of the family now.

01:04:14.000 So, you know, he didn't just pick her up, he picked me up too.

01:04:19.000 That's group theory.

01:04:21.000 Yeah, the importance of getting...

01:04:23.000 I remember when I used to do a lot of cold approach back in the day and there were guys in the set.

01:04:28.000 What I would do, and I want to get your take on this, I would actually go up to the guys kind of on the side.

01:04:33.000 I'd be like, hey, look, man, that girl in there, that girl right there, she's pretty high. 0.99

01:04:37.000 I just want to make sure I'm not stepping on no toes.

01:04:39.000 Is that your girlfriend or whatever? 0.78

01:04:41.000 And what I've noticed is when you get permission from the guys in the group or you talk to the guy that seems to be the leader of the group and you kind of speak with him first...

01:04:49.000 He'll tell you, oh yeah, no, she's single, man. 0.68

01:04:51.000 Or, oh no, that's my girl, but this one is single. 0.97

01:04:54.000 Since so many guys don't have that social awareness to do that, they'll almost throw you at the girl sometimes because that girl might be cock-blocking someone else or annoying them.

01:05:03.000 So it's amazing how sometimes you're starting a conversation with that guy and being polite and trying to ascertain what's going on.

01:05:09.000 They'll actually help you out a lot of times.

01:05:11.000 That's what I've noticed.

01:05:12.000 Very rarely, they'll say, fuck out of you.

01:05:14.000 I like it.

01:05:15.000 It's got legs.

01:05:17.000 I like it.

01:05:18.000 And it reminds me of, it's a gambit, you know?

01:05:21.000 It's a soundbite that you use, but it's an actual gambit in order to find out the information you're looking for, right?

01:05:29.000 Another gambit is, and one that I am now going to, we talked about earlier that I'm going to give you, is how do you sit at a table that you haven't Bought a bottle at.

01:05:47.000 Here's how.

01:05:49.000 You open a two-set of women. 1.00

01:05:51.000 You win them over.

01:05:52.000 You get into lock and position so that you can lean back and have them join you for a bit.

01:05:57.000 You build enough comfort so you can then say to them, let's go make some friends, which is moving the set.

01:06:05.000 Come on, let's go make some friends.

01:06:06.000 And you walk over to the first bottle, first guy that has a bottle, and you say, hey, these girls wanted to meet you.

01:06:14.000 So you're sitting at his table.

01:06:16.000 He gives your girl a drink. 0.91

01:06:19.000 He gives you a drink.

01:06:20.000 He gives the other girl a drink.

01:06:22.000 He also splits your two set because you can't isolate in a two set.

01:06:25.000 He occupies the obstacle for you.

01:06:28.000 You get your target.

01:06:29.000 He gets the obstacle and everyone's happy.

01:06:33.000 And if he says no, how many tables are in there?

01:06:36.000 You just say, all right, nice meeting you.

01:06:38.000 Have a good one.

01:06:39.000 As he sits alone at his table.

01:06:42.000 Then you go to the next table.

01:06:44.000 It's inevitable that you're going to be sitting at a table with a drink in your hand and the two sets split.

01:06:51.000 Isn't that a good game plan?

01:06:52.000 No, that's actually really clever and really smart.

01:06:56.000 And we always get on a VIP table, that's for sure.

01:06:59.000 Yeah.

01:06:59.000 Yeah, it's amazing how if you walk in with some girls, the doors that open up for you.

01:07:03.000 And I can only imagine if you have three or four...

01:07:07.000 They won't even probably think twice, oh yeah, okay guys, come on in, man, thanks!

01:07:10.000 Mystery, you just exposed how I do clubs for free, basically.

01:07:15.000 I go to clubs with girls and I get in for free and I go to tables for free doing that same exact method pretty much every night.

01:07:21.000 That's fantastic.

01:07:22.000 That's fantastic.

01:07:23.000 And the truth is, everyone's happy.

01:07:25.000 I have a game plan.

01:07:28.000 Who goes and parties with a wing?

01:07:32.000 Myron?

01:07:44.000 I have a good game plan when you have a wingman with you.

01:07:50.000 Instead of the two of you opening a set together, What happens is one guy talks while the other guy shuts up and stands behind the other guy.

01:08:02.000 Right?

01:08:03.000 The first guy.

01:08:03.000 The first guy has his back to the second guy because he's talking to the girls.

01:08:08.000 So the second guy is lowering the first guy's value.

01:08:12.000 Right?

01:08:13.000 And if the first guy can't open the set, the second guy doesn't get a chance to open the set.

01:08:18.000 It's not right.

01:08:20.000 Work your own sets.

01:08:22.000 Separate when you go in.

01:08:24.000 Bexter and I, we separate before we...

01:08:26.000 Sometimes before we even get to the bar, we'll separate.

01:08:30.000 We'll open adjacent sets and then draw them back to each other.

01:08:35.000 Gotcha.

01:08:35.000 So when I get to the point five minutes in, when I say, hey, let me introduce you to a good friend of mine.

01:08:41.000 He's in here.

01:08:42.000 He already has girls with him, so he looks cool.

01:08:45.000 So my value raises...

01:08:47.000 And then vice versa, he does the same thing.

01:08:50.000 So he's got girls, and I've got girls.

01:08:53.000 But what he'll do is he'll big me up to one of the girls.

01:08:58.000 One of the girls he's met.

01:09:00.000 And I'll do the same for one of the girls, you know, the prettiest, generally, or the one that I think is the most compatible with my best buddy.

01:09:09.000 And I'll big him up.

01:09:12.000 So we do accomplishment introductions for each other.

01:09:15.000 And then we mix and merge the sets, and we get our targets.

01:09:20.000 Bam.

01:09:21.000 And I'm assuming that, you know, Bexter has a type, you have a type, and he's kind of looking for that while simultaneously looking for his type at the same time, or do you guys just kind of go, are you guys not as picky with the women, or how does that go?

01:09:36.000 I'm very picky.

01:09:37.000 You're very picky?

01:09:38.000 Okay.

01:09:39.000 Yeah, I think we're extremely picky.

01:09:41.000 Okay.

01:09:42.000 What are guys' requirements?

01:09:45.000 There's lots of criteria going on.

01:09:48.000 You know, what I'm looking for...

01:09:51.000 Let's say love.

01:09:53.000 Yeah, love is good.

01:09:55.000 What I'm looking for is my dream girl.

01:09:59.000 Someone who can become a travel partner with me.

01:10:01.000 I do travel a lot.

01:10:03.000 The lifestyle is fun.

01:10:05.000 On weekends, we go to nightclub events.

01:10:09.000 And it would be nice to have a beautiful woman on my arm to enjoy that lifestyle. 0.99

01:10:16.000 So I'd like a travel partner.

01:10:18.000 I'd like to be a part of a duo.

01:10:20.000 You know?

01:10:21.000 A double act.

01:10:23.000 Gotcha.

01:10:24.000 What about you, Baxter?

01:10:25.000 Well, I want to talk about...

01:10:27.000 We did a whole tour advertising of Mystery is Single...

01:10:34.000 You know, he's going to get a girlfriend.

01:10:37.000 He's single.

01:10:38.000 And it was a big tour.

01:10:39.000 I think it was about eight or ten cities around the world.

01:10:43.000 On the second day, on Saturday, in a queue up to the club, he meets a girl, goes inside, gets two others to sort of fight over him verbally and grab him and kiss him for ownership.

01:10:56.000 And that was his girlfriend for three months.

01:10:58.000 So we had to change the tour marketing.

01:11:00.000 But it was fun while it lasted for one night.

01:11:03.000 Gotcha.

01:11:03.000 Yeah.

01:11:04.000 That's funny.

01:11:04.000 That was a four month relationship.

01:11:06.000 Yeah.

01:11:06.000 Sometimes relationships complete.

01:11:08.000 They don't end.

01:11:09.000 They complete.

01:11:11.000 And that's okay.

01:11:12.000 That's an interesting way to look at it.

01:11:14.000 I like that.

01:11:15.000 Yeah, no, no, for sure.

01:11:17.000 Can you give the people...

01:11:19.000 Because you're real big on telling stories.

01:11:21.000 Obviously, you've got the skill set with magic too, which is fucking, you know, that's literally a deadly weapon right there because very few people know magic and be able to do that in a club in front of girls. 0.90

01:11:33.000 They're going to go crazy.

01:11:34.000 I have a trick.

01:11:35.000 You know what it is in the club?

01:11:36.000 What?

01:11:37.000 Because I'm really black.

01:11:38.000 I just run in a corner, disappear, come back.

01:11:40.000 Hey, I'm here.

01:11:43.000 Go ahead.

01:11:44.000 Okay.

01:11:46.000 Now you got me off my train of thought.

01:11:48.000 Storytelling.

01:11:49.000 Storytelling, yes.

01:11:51.000 Mystery, can you give us an example of a DHV story that you would tell maybe somebody in the audience can kind of tinker with and use it as their own?

01:11:59.000 Oh, to use as their own?

01:12:01.000 Yeah.

01:12:02.000 Well, they could tinker it up, obviously.

01:12:04.000 Touching the Hollywood sign?

01:12:06.000 Yeah, fair, fair.

01:12:08.000 Everything that is...

01:12:10.000 A DHV for me is personalized to me.

01:12:13.000 These are my accomplishments, right?

01:12:16.000 The first time that I met Leo DiCaprio, he said to me, Those were his first words to me.

01:12:24.000 That was a name-drop gambit.

01:12:27.000 It's true, but it's a name-drop gambit.

01:12:29.000 It doesn't work in Hollywood.

01:12:30.000 Don't use it.

01:12:31.000 But everywhere else in the world, people are fascinated by the people you've met.

01:12:36.000 I've met Will Smith.

01:12:38.000 I've met Chris Rock.

01:12:39.000 So that slap heard around the world, felt around the world, was very personal to me.

01:12:47.000 Those are some of my stories.

01:12:49.000 Those are my Hollywood stories.

01:12:50.000 There's quite a few of them.

01:12:52.000 But if you want to make one fit generically, you have to fit it to your city, to your life.

01:13:03.000 I can only give examples of ones that I've done.

01:13:07.000 The Hollywood sign, as Bexter brought up.

01:13:09.000 I once had a girlfriend who, if you're so inclined to rating women from 1 to 10, which I'd never do, she was off the charts beautiful. 0.84

01:13:18.000 She was, in fact, too beautiful.

01:13:20.000 I'll tell you why in a sec.

01:13:21.000 But what we did is we jumped the fence at the Hollywood sign and we climbed up to touch it for good luck.

01:13:27.000 Trust me, it works.

01:13:30.000 She was an actress.

01:13:32.000 I won't tell you who, but you've most likely seen her work.

01:13:36.000 She was... 0.97

01:13:39.000 Too pretty.

01:13:40.000 She was getting B movie roles.

01:13:43.000 And if you look at women who aren't as attractive, but they have personality, you know, like Drew Barrymore, she's just a wonderful, wonderful human being.

01:13:56.000 And we know that.

01:13:58.000 But she's got a departure from, you know, pure, absolute beauty.

01:14:04.000 And that's what makes her unique.

01:14:06.000 So there's beauty in any imperfections, right?

01:14:10.000 And that's something that my girlfriend at the time didn't have.

01:14:14.000 But we went up there and we looked down from the Hollywood sign and we saw the perimeter.

01:14:20.000 We saw the puzzle that is Hollywood for her.

01:14:23.000 And looked down and knew that everyone you're going to have to impress, everyone that you're impressed by in the movie industry is down there.

01:14:34.000 You can see it.

01:14:35.000 And the puzzle becomes much more attainable.

01:14:39.000 It becomes smaller.

01:14:42.000 And so she did really good work.

01:14:46.000 I'm really proud of her.

01:14:48.000 End of Gambit.

01:14:49.000 Where are the DHVs?

01:14:51.000 There's a bunch of them.

01:14:52.000 So you illustrated that you have a girl.

01:14:54.000 You illustrated that you have a girl that's very attractive.

01:14:56.000 You illustrated that you have a girl that's in show business, that's an actress.

01:15:00.000 People have probably seen her movies before.

01:15:02.000 You took her on an adventure.

01:15:05.000 You went ahead, which is risk-taking.

01:15:07.000 You went up and touched the Hollywood sign.

01:15:09.000 You're in Los Angeles, which shows social proof to a degree, especially being with an actress.

01:15:15.000 Pre-selection, because you have a girl. 0.98

01:15:21.000 I think you pretty much touched every attraction trigger besides protecting a loved one because you were bigging her up, speaking well about her.

01:15:32.000 Willingness to emote I would say is probably because you're able to identify with her not getting the role and feeling bad for her for not getting the role because you feel that she earns it.

01:15:40.000 All of the five triggers were shown during the course of that story.

01:15:47.000 And that's one of many.

01:15:49.000 So, if you sequence a series of DHV stories together, you will elicit indicators of interest at some point.

01:15:57.000 When she starts showing those IOIs, when you get two or three of them, start to qualify her.

01:16:03.000 Qualifying is a high-valued male behavior.

01:16:06.000 You only need 80% of attraction to then begin qualifying, where she'll want to qualify. 0.89

01:16:12.000 Whereby the very act of qualifying will get you the rest of the 20% of attraction.

01:16:18.000 It's a high-valued male behavior.

01:16:20.000 Make sense?

01:16:22.000 Yeah.

01:16:22.000 And then you're off into comfort with her where she legitimately likes you for reasons that she's witnessed or has heard from you that she is responding to.

01:16:31.000 She's reacting to the DHVs with IOIs.

01:16:35.000 As David D'Angelo says of Double Your Dating, attraction is not a choice.

01:16:40.000 Mm-hmm.

01:16:43.000 And there's a gambit for everything.

01:16:44.000 There's qualifying gambits.

01:16:47.000 Anything you need, there's a gambit for it.

01:16:51.000 What would you mind before you've approached the set?

01:16:54.000 That's a failure.

01:16:56.000 Not knowing what to say.

01:16:57.000 You'll be much more confident in opening a set if you have an opener.

01:17:04.000 We say to go out of about 30, when you're starting out, 30 text files, gambits, openers, routines, a total of 30.

01:17:13.000 But a good amount would be around 300.

01:17:17.000 300 text files in your head will build a robust pickup system to handle a myriad of approach scenarios.

01:17:23.000 Yes.

01:17:24.000 About 300 text files.

01:17:26.000 Some of them are one-liners.

01:17:28.000 You know, like if I drop something by accident, I'll say, leave it there, it's being punished.

01:17:34.000 Yeah.

01:17:35.000 Right?

01:17:36.000 Or another one is, that's my floor show.

01:17:39.000 Or did you feel that gravity pull?

01:17:41.000 It was like an earthquake.

01:17:42.000 Did you feel that?

01:17:43.000 Just pulled it right on my hand.

01:17:45.000 You okay?

01:17:47.000 So there's three ways of getting around dropping something, for instance.

01:17:51.000 We always have gambits.

01:17:54.000 Some of them are large gambits.

01:17:56.000 It's being gambit-centered, in fact.

01:17:58.000 Having gambits to open.

01:17:59.000 Those are openers, and you can stack openers.

01:18:02.000 They're short stories.

01:18:03.000 They're quick.

01:18:04.000 When a topic doesn't hit, instead of giving up, like a comedian, like a pro-comedian, you know, he doesn't get the laugh, he doesn't get the laugh.

01:18:13.000 An F. He just moves forward to the next one.

01:18:17.000 But it's the amateur that gives up when he doesn't get a laugh.

01:18:21.000 Rather than move on to the next topic and keep the show going, the show must go on.

01:18:27.000 People just shoot themselves in the foot by going in and hoping to get IOIs rather than eliciting them.

01:18:34.000 And what happens when they open and they don't get these IOIs, they get They feel like they're being rejected because, oh, she's not interested in me.

01:18:46.000 You didn't make her interested in you.

01:18:48.000 You weren't interesting.

01:18:50.000 So you have to be interesting in order to get a woman interested in you.

01:18:54.000 It's a lot like a rollercoaster ride.

01:19:01.000 A roller coaster is an attraction, isn't it?

01:19:04.000 It doesn't mean you want to mount it.

01:19:06.000 You just want to take a ride.

01:19:07.000 You just are interested in seeing what's up.

01:19:10.000 It's an attraction.

01:19:12.000 That's what I am.

01:19:13.000 I'm not getting her physically attracted to me.

01:19:17.000 I'm just getting her interested.

01:19:19.000 That level of attraction.

01:19:21.000 We baby step it.

01:19:22.000 You just get them interested in you at first.

01:19:24.000 You become an interesting man in order to do that.

01:19:30.000 Those are some thoughts there.

01:19:32.000 Okay.

01:19:33.000 I had a question.

01:19:34.000 Yeah, go ahead.

01:19:34.000 So you guys are well-traveled, traveling the world, doing different seminars and activities with your students.

01:19:41.000 But let me ask you this.

01:19:42.000 When it comes to countries, what is the best country to pick up women in, in your opinion? 1.00

01:19:50.000 Well, we've got a handful, I would say.

01:19:53.000 Helsinki, Finland.

01:19:56.000 I love Helsinki.

01:19:57.000 The women are beautiful. 1.00

01:19:59.000 The women are intelligent. 1.00

01:20:01.000 The women are educated.

01:20:03.000 The women are beautiful, blue-eyed, generally blonde. 1.00

01:20:10.000 Help me in.

01:20:11.000 Gorgeous women. 0.63

01:20:12.000 I'm there.

01:20:13.000 A mix between Swedish and Russian.

01:20:17.000 An alien beauty.

01:20:19.000 And the entire city of Helsinki comes out on Vapu Festival on that weekend.

01:20:28.000 They come out and they drink copious amounts of Sima which is a champagne that they drink on the streets.

01:20:35.000 Everyone comes out so you get to see all the beauty that that that city is filled with.

01:20:44.000 Very very grateful to have gone out there many times with Bexter.

01:20:48.000 I did have a three-year relationship with a beautiful young lady who was Finnish.

01:20:56.000 So We've gone back many times.

01:21:00.000 We'll go again.

01:21:01.000 Yeah, we always do a boot camp every year there.

01:21:05.000 Actually, you can check out some videos of it.

01:21:09.000 If you put in Mystery Helsinki, you'll find...

01:21:13.000 Hey, count us in there, brother.

01:21:15.000 We will be there.

01:21:16.000 That's a first.

01:21:17.000 I've never heard anyone say Finland.

01:21:18.000 Okay.

01:21:19.000 You said white, blue eyes?

01:21:20.000 Nigga, I'm there.

01:21:21.000 You know, the most beautiful girls in Hollywood are not from Hollywood. 1.00

01:21:28.000 They're from somewhere else. 0.96

01:21:29.000 Where are they from?

01:21:30.000 They're from Europe.

01:21:31.000 You're right, yeah.

01:21:32.000 They're from...

01:21:33.000 They're from Finland, they're from Sweden, they're from Russia.

01:21:36.000 Those are some of the most beautiful women that are in Hollywood. 1.00

01:21:39.000 Or the tourists that you'll find even all the way to Indonesia.

01:21:43.000 If you go to Bali, you're going to find Russian clubs.

01:21:48.000 Entire nights with Russian music and beautiful Russian girls who are on vacation.

01:21:54.000 You know, we're looking for the tourists, generally.

01:21:58.000 When we travel Even to Spain, we're doing a boot camp in Spain next, I'll be focused mostly, you know, respectfully, on the tourists that show up there.

01:22:11.000 Yeah, so anywhere in the world will do, as long as it's a target-rich city, a target-rich venue that we go to.

01:22:21.000 Two cups a night, sometimes free.

01:22:24.000 That's right.

01:22:25.000 We do many venues per weekend.

01:22:29.000 So that we keep it fresh and we keep it busy.

01:22:32.000 Keep it fresh.

01:22:32.000 I like that.

01:22:33.000 Real quick.

01:22:34.000 What about Bexter?

01:22:35.000 What's your favorite place, Bexter?

01:22:36.000 Yeah, Bexter, yeah.

01:22:37.000 For you.

01:22:37.000 So we know Missouri is in Finland.

01:22:39.000 Helsinki as well, Moscow, St.

01:22:41.000 Petersburg, Kiev, Odessa, which is in Ukraine.

01:22:46.000 Anywhere in Scandinavia.

01:22:47.000 Iceland's amazing.

01:22:49.000 Gotcha.

01:22:50.000 What is the worst place for you guys that you dislike the most?

01:22:54.000 In your opinion.

01:22:55.000 For pick-up.

01:22:56.000 I don't want to diss anywhere, really.

01:22:59.000 Keep it real, man.

01:23:00.000 You can say it.

01:23:01.000 America, the UK, whatever you guys think.

01:23:04.000 What do you guys think?

01:23:05.000 What's the worst?

01:23:07.000 What's the worst for your brain?

01:23:08.000 Oh, I know.

01:23:09.000 I'll give one.

01:23:11.000 And I love the city.

01:23:14.000 But the women aren't, you know... 1.00

01:23:17.000 For you.

01:23:19.000 For me.

01:23:22.000 San Francisco.

01:23:25.000 Maybe, you know, I'm going to give the excuse of maybe I've been to the wrong venues.

01:23:30.000 Too many dudes over there, man. 0.93

01:23:32.000 No, you're right.

01:23:33.000 A lot of complaints about SF. I just need to find where the beautiful women are. 1.00

01:23:36.000 Yeah.

01:23:38.000 I've heard from literally a million guys that San Fran is literally one of the worst places for dating for men.

01:23:44.000 There's not enough women. 1.00

01:23:46.000 It's mostly dudes because obviously the tech industry over there is expensive.

01:23:50.000 I've heard many complaints about San Francisco.

01:23:53.000 What about you, Bexter?

01:23:55.000 I think Dublin, and I am part Irish.

01:23:58.000 Oh, okay.

01:23:58.000 Dublin, okay.

01:24:00.000 I'm not a fan of Dublin.

01:24:02.000 Okay.

01:24:03.000 So every guy has a type.

01:24:05.000 Maybe it may be boobs, ass, facial structures, whatever it may be. 0.97

01:24:11.000 Mystery, what is your type?

01:24:13.000 Assertates.

01:24:13.000 Face and personality.

01:24:15.000 Of course she'll have a beautiful body, you know, she'll be fit. 1.00

01:24:21.000 However...

01:24:22.000 Face and personality for me.

01:24:24.000 Wow.

01:24:24.000 You know, a sucker for a beautiful face, and I'm looking for a strong personality who could match mine.

01:24:31.000 Mystery and who in this double act.

01:24:35.000 I'm looking for someone who will travel with me.

01:24:41.000 So...

01:24:42.000 Be a part of it.

01:24:43.000 No ass, no titties, no matter. 0.99

01:24:48.000 Oh, it sounds a little.

01:24:50.000 It depends on the girl, doesn't it?

01:24:53.000 It just depends.

01:24:53.000 Wait, wait, wait.

01:24:54.000 Excuse me, Bexter. 1.00

01:24:55.000 Sorry, sorry.

01:24:55.000 We were talking about titties?

01:24:57.000 Tell me more.

01:24:58.000 Okay, okay, okay, okay.

01:25:00.000 Here we go, here we go.

01:25:01.000 See, I'm an ass guy.

01:25:02.000 I'm black, bro.

01:25:03.000 Madagascar?

01:25:03.000 Hey, let's keep it real.

01:25:06.000 So, hey, you know what?

01:25:07.000 We'll go on mystery.

01:25:08.000 I'll put it to go with the ass.

01:25:10.000 You got to go with the titties.

01:25:11.000 Let's go.

01:25:11.000 What do you guys think about Miami?

01:25:12.000 I'd like to get your guys' take on doing pick-up in Miami.

01:25:16.000 Yeah, I lived there.

01:25:17.000 I lived just outside of South Beach.

01:25:19.000 Really?

01:25:21.000 I lived there for a year with Matador and Love Drop.

01:25:24.000 Love Drop from the book Revelation, Matador from the TV show.

01:25:29.000 And we lived there a year together in a mansion and pulled copious amounts of girls back to where we've had from... 1.00

01:25:38.000 From South Beach.

01:25:39.000 I love South Beach, but it's its own animal, its own game.

01:25:44.000 You know, just like New York is its own game, getting up to those rooftop patio bars, you know, getting in is very different from Las Vegas.

01:25:54.000 That has its own game too, you know, for good or for bad.

01:25:59.000 When were you in Miami?

01:26:00.000 When were you living here?

01:26:03.000 I don't recall.

01:26:04.000 It must be 15 years ago now.

01:26:06.000 Oh, wow.

01:26:07.000 Okay.

01:26:07.000 Yeah, it was after the TV shows.

01:26:11.000 Gotcha.

01:26:11.000 Or during it.

01:26:12.000 During the TV shows and after.

01:26:14.000 I'll tell you this.

01:26:14.000 South Beach has one of the best populations for tourists.

01:26:17.000 Like, that's where they always go, South Beach.

01:26:19.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:26:20.000 Miami's changed a lot, man.

01:26:21.000 When you come back, you'll see it's changed significantly from back then.

01:26:26.000 It's actually becoming a major city now because all the New Yorkers are moving down here in general from the cost of living being too high in New York and everything else like that.

01:26:34.000 I find it's got a very sexual vibe.

01:26:36.000 It's quite friendly and it's got a more sexual vibe there than...

01:26:42.000 Anywhere else I've been in America.

01:26:44.000 Yeah, you definitely can.

01:26:45.000 Yeah, I enjoyed it.

01:26:46.000 I think we got the highest concentration of attractive women here as well, versus other places in the United States. 1.00

01:26:54.000 Well, let's not mince words here.

01:26:57.000 It's Helsinki.

01:26:59.000 Helsinki?

01:27:00.000 Helsinki has the most?

01:27:01.000 Well, I mean in the United States.

01:27:03.000 I've never been to Helsinki, so I can't comment.

01:27:05.000 You guys got to come with us next time, then.

01:27:07.000 Bro, we are down.

01:27:08.000 Yeah, I'm down.

01:27:09.000 I don't know.

01:27:10.000 Marin, are you down?

01:27:10.000 No, no, no.

01:27:11.000 I'm down, man.

01:27:12.000 I like Europe.

01:27:13.000 Europe is, I mean, yeah.

01:27:15.000 We need to explore more.

01:27:16.000 Yeah.

01:27:17.000 Real quick, mystery.

01:27:19.000 Were you able to reconnect with Neil Strauss at all?

01:27:21.000 Yeah.

01:27:22.000 Or no?

01:27:22.000 Oh, we got to read the chats.

01:27:23.000 We forgot.

01:27:25.000 Well, let me tell you, I don't feel like I've disconnected from Neil.

01:27:29.000 However, he's got two children.

01:27:32.000 I've got two children.

01:27:33.000 Mine are in the UK. He's in Malibu right now.

01:27:37.000 So, you know, we don't get to see each other enough.

01:27:40.000 And I was there for 10 days, and we couldn't connect during that time.

01:27:43.000 We were both apologetic about it, and we plan on seeing each other the next time I'm down, which will be in a few months.

01:27:50.000 So I'm definitely, you know, still good friends with him.

01:27:54.000 I love the man.

01:27:55.000 He's a genius.

01:27:56.000 He's a great writer, a gifted writer.

01:27:59.000 And I look up to him.

01:28:01.000 Yeah, I think he does such great work.

01:28:05.000 It humbles me.

01:28:07.000 You know, I've written books too.

01:28:09.000 But his books are, I can easily say it, his books are damn good.

01:28:16.000 The book, the game.

01:28:18.000 Hey, did you hear?

01:28:18.000 It maybe turned into a movie.

01:28:20.000 I heard that years ago with James Franco playing me, but that got scuttled.

01:28:26.000 It was written about in The Hollywood Reporter, though, so, you know, I thought that it was really going to happen.

01:28:31.000 So that's still pending with Neil.

01:28:33.000 Perhaps that will one day come out.

01:28:36.000 One of his books has already turned into a movie, and that is The Dirt, about Motley Crue, on Netflix.

01:28:46.000 Maybe they'll do more.

01:28:47.000 That'd be dope. 0.98

01:28:49.000 Last thing from me before we read the chats.

01:28:52.000 Rob, you met Mystery back in the day, but what told you, like, obviously you know he was with girls, you met him in the game, but what told you, you know what, this guy right here is going to be my partner, we're going to ride out to the sunset, make seminars,

01:29:07.000 make people happy, change their lives.

01:29:09.000 What told you that Mystery was that guy for you?

01:29:12.000 Well, I mean, I was working as a director in a pickup company already in London and Mystery was doing a book tour And I was running VIP clubs all over London as well.

01:29:28.000 So I said, I've got a space for you.

01:29:30.000 And afterwards, everyone could just party in the VIP club.

01:29:34.000 So Mystery came down, met over 100 people, did a free two-hour talk, did photographs, pictures, and then we met a couple of girls, bounced somewhere else, and then somewhere else, and decided to be...

01:29:58.000 We have similar sensibilities, right?

01:30:07.000 We've got commonalities.

01:30:09.000 We both absolutely love women. 1.00

01:30:13.000 Gotcha.

01:30:14.000 There you go.

01:30:15.000 So guys, I'll read the chats real quick.

01:30:16.000 If you guys got questions for these two legends, let me know.

01:30:19.000 Get them in now.

01:30:20.000 And then we'll close out here soon.

01:30:22.000 Camp Two Time says, As a coach, it's insane to me how some parents treat and look at their kids.

01:30:26.000 A lot of these kids' home situations are ridiculous, not from a living condition standpoint.

01:30:30.000 A lot of these kids are immensely fucked up because of what the parents did to them, SMH. Wait, what?

01:30:36.000 Is that from today?

01:30:37.000 That's a random one.

01:30:41.000 Geek to Sheik goes, Mystery is one of the godfathers of the PUARP movement.

01:30:45.000 I remember watching old vids of Mystery Style, Love Drop, Bad Boy, Matador.

01:30:49.000 Such great content and the tactics can still hold up to this day.

01:30:52.000 No, for sure.

01:30:53.000 Where's Matador now, actually?

01:30:55.000 Where's he now, Mystery?

01:30:57.000 Matador.

01:30:58.000 That's a very good question.

01:30:59.000 The truth is, 15 years ago, he dropped me off at the airport and we said, see you on the flip side, as we normally did.

01:31:06.000 I went to Toronto, and I've never spoken to him since.

01:31:10.000 His ex-girlfriend was asking me where he was, so he hasn't been social.

01:31:17.000 There's no social media for him.

01:31:19.000 I did hear through the grapevine, through a friend of a friend, that he had had a child.

01:31:25.000 And that was many years ago, so maybe he's busy.

01:31:29.000 Understood.

01:31:30.000 Alright.

01:31:31.000 Right where Rashad goes, Mystery, I read the game with you and Neil back in 2008 or so.

01:31:35.000 You guys changed my life.

01:31:36.000 I met my wife because of the cube game.

01:31:39.000 You are a fucking legend, man.

01:31:42.000 Thank you.

01:31:43.000 Hey, bro.

01:31:43.000 Thank you.

01:31:46.000 And then anything else?

01:31:46.000 Yeah.

01:31:47.000 Oh, two more?

01:31:48.000 Okay.

01:31:50.000 WFNF love from Canada.

01:31:51.000 Keep the good shit up, y'all.

01:31:53.000 Absolutely, man.

01:31:55.000 Slim Mo Bob goes, boxing gave me a positive regression that regular workouts don't.

01:31:59.000 I'm a truck driver who's on the road and I haven't boxed in a while.

01:32:01.000 Do you think shadow boxing can help me maintain that fighter's regression?

01:32:04.000 Yeah, it definitely can, but you want to be sparring as well.

01:32:07.000 Anything else?

01:32:08.000 No, that's it.

01:32:08.000 Caught up.

01:32:09.000 Real quick.

01:32:09.000 There's an argument, Mystery.

01:32:11.000 You can help me here with this argument, in your opinion.

01:32:14.000 I've been around a lot of celebrities, a lot of artists, and they tell me one place has the baddest girls they've seen. 1.00

01:32:21.000 Now, you said, obviously, Helsinki, but they're saying Toronto.

01:32:27.000 Can you tell me why that is, if possible?

01:32:30.000 Toronto.

01:32:32.000 Bexter and I have...

01:32:33.000 Our last bootcamp, we have just recently, in mid-January, completed a bootcamp in Toronto.

01:32:40.000 Negative 17 degree weather.

01:32:43.000 Damn!

01:32:43.000 God!

01:32:44.000 Ew! 0.98

01:32:45.000 Holy!

01:32:45.000 Guess what?

01:32:46.000 Party's still happening, guys.

01:32:49.000 Don't let the rain, don't let the snow, don't let the hail stop you from getting to the party.

01:32:56.000 It's what we call grind to find.

01:32:59.000 We grind.

01:33:01.000 The grind is logistical.

01:33:03.000 It's getting to the party.

01:33:05.000 It's letting go of all the baggage and excuses to not gain.

01:33:12.000 And that's a part of grinding.

01:33:14.000 So you have to get through the rain to get there.

01:33:17.000 And once you get there, you are in a bubble of love.

01:33:20.000 So 90% is grind to find, and 10% is bubble of love.

01:33:25.000 And some people give up in the grind.

01:33:28.000 They just give up.

01:33:29.000 They don't get to the venue, so they don't even have a chance to face beauty head on and strike her heart.

01:33:38.000 Wow, that's powerful.

01:33:40.000 No, that's...

01:33:42.000 So, Toronto, yes or no for hotties? 0.95

01:33:45.000 Yes?

01:33:46.000 No?

01:33:47.000 Toronto?

01:33:49.000 There's some gems.

01:33:52.000 Rooftop patio bars?

01:33:54.000 Yes.

01:33:56.000 Yes, Toronto has some beautiful women there. 1.00

01:34:01.000 But I'll tell you, generally it's a great city if you go with a girl to that city and you go explore it together, I think you'll have way more fun than going there specifically for pickup.

01:34:12.000 The difference between going to Las Vegas for a weekend versus going to Toronto for a weekend, it's different.

01:34:19.000 You know, and you want to spend more time in Toronto.

01:34:22.000 There's a lot of things to do that are good dating, you know, mutual scenarios that you can do on a date.

01:34:32.000 Alright.

01:34:33.000 Shit.

01:34:34.000 Well, no, this was great, man.

01:34:38.000 Okay, I got one more question.

01:34:40.000 What would you say is the most important component in the Mystery Method that people need to have down-packed?

01:34:50.000 I think the five keys.

01:34:53.000 Okay.

01:34:53.000 If you get the five keys down, the first is structure, which we talked about.

01:34:58.000 The second is material.

01:35:00.000 The third is the delivery of that material.

01:35:03.000 You know, a very important key is the delivery.

01:35:06.000 Tonality.

01:35:07.000 Love that.

01:35:07.000 Right?

01:35:08.000 Tonality, pacing.

01:35:12.000 Pauses, you know, adding pauses to draw people in, to turn it from simply stimulating the set to captivating the set.

01:35:22.000 There's volume and velocity.

01:35:27.000 That's another key.

01:35:29.000 Volume is how many sets you do in a night, and velocity is how much time you waffle between sets.

01:35:35.000 So you want to capture, you know, Use your time wisely and have many sets in a night.

01:35:45.000 If you're a newbie, I would recommend a dozen sets a night.

01:35:48.000 12 sets a night.

01:35:49.000 That's the game.

01:35:51.000 When you read the book, the game, what was the game we were playing?

01:35:54.000 The game was 12 sets a night, son.

01:35:56.000 That's it.

01:35:57.000 12 sets a night.

01:35:59.000 And out of that, we would try to draw as many cool groups.

01:36:03.000 Are they cool?

01:36:05.000 To our after party, which was at Project Hollywood.

01:36:10.000 So that was the game.

01:36:11.000 The game was 12 sets a night, four nights a week.

01:36:14.000 You know, you go out more than you stay home.

01:36:16.000 And that was to develop a skill set.

01:36:19.000 Not just a numbers game to get lots of girls, but rather because some of them had tough times getting girls with the game that they were using, so they had to develop game.

01:36:29.000 And that takes practice.

01:36:31.000 So, you go into a nightclub environment like a dojo, like a practice ground.

01:36:36.000 In order to socialize, get your social skills up to speed for a time in the future when a woman of particular quality comes along, you'll then have the skill set to attract her. 0.63

01:36:51.000 Well, I would definitely like to do a part two in the future.

01:36:54.000 I think we gave you guys just kind of a snippet of, you know, the structure and the game and everything else like that.

01:37:00.000 But I don't want to take up too much of Mystery's time because, guys, he's on UK time.

01:37:03.000 It's very late over there.

01:37:06.000 Mystery, where can the people find you?

01:37:07.000 How can they get in contact with you and Baxter?

01:37:10.000 Please let them know.

01:37:12.000 Well, we're doing a boot camp in Barcelona, end of the month.

01:37:17.000 And if you'd like to train with us live, I think the number one advice I could ever give is seek a mentor.

01:37:23.000 And in this case, seek two, Mystery and Baxter.

01:37:26.000 We'll be in Barcelona end of the month.

01:37:29.000 You can reach me at Instagram.

01:37:33.000 My Instagram handle is AskMystery.

01:37:36.000 And you can find my content.

01:37:39.000 That is, my digital store is filled with pickup-related content.

01:37:45.000 That I think you'd find very helpful in my digital store.

01:37:50.000 It's at askmystery.com.

01:37:55.000 Bam.

01:37:55.000 Guys, he is Mystery.

01:37:56.000 He is Baxter.

01:37:57.000 We had two legends on the pod.

01:37:58.000 Definitely want to do a part two on this where we get even more into the structure and how to do this.

01:38:03.000 But guys, thank you so much for coming on the pod, man.

01:38:05.000 It was literally an honor.

01:38:06.000 I've been waiting to do this interview for a very long time, and I think the audience was definitely, definitely enjoyed it.

01:38:13.000 Got their pens and papers out and learned a lot here.

01:38:15.000 Trust me, Mystery.

01:38:15.000 I think you've read your book like ten times already.

01:38:17.000 He's a true fan of you, bro.

01:38:19.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:38:19.000 Really?

01:38:19.000 No, definitely.

01:38:20.000 Like, bro, you can't say, you can't talk about pickup unless you talk about Mystery.

01:38:24.000 You just can't.

01:38:25.000 So thank you for pioneering a movement, man, and helping guys understand women.

01:38:28.000 Because really, you guys did what a lot of psychologists and psychiatrists can never do, which is crack the code to attraction when it comes to intersexual dynamics between the genders.

01:38:39.000 And you actually solved the mystery.

01:38:42.000 Come on, man.

01:38:44.000 The bad jokes, man.

01:38:46.000 It works, bro.

01:38:46.000 It works.

01:38:47.000 I'm telling you, it works.

01:38:50.000 No, man.

01:38:50.000 Thank you guys so much, man.

01:38:52.000 Guys, don't forget to like the video.

01:38:54.000 Check these guys out.

01:38:56.000 AskMystery.com.

01:38:57.000 Check them out on Instagram.

01:38:58.000 They're going to be in Barcelona at the end of the month.

01:38:59.000 I definitely highly suggest if you want to go ahead and get your cold approach up, these are the originators.

01:39:04.000 Get with these guys.

01:39:06.000 Go out to Spain.

01:39:06.000 Meet some beautiful women alongside them.

01:39:08.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode.

01:39:10.000 Peace.

01:39:13.000 So far away.

01:39:16.000 I just ran.

01:39:17.000 I ran for night and day.

Fresh & Fit - March 06, 2024

Mystery Meets FreshandFit

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