Should Men EVER Accept The Friendzone Debate?
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1 hour and 54 minutes
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Summary
This week, we have 8 new girls in the house. We debate Christianity vs. Islam, and we introduce a new segment called "Fresh PrintCLCL" where we get to hear from all the Freshmen who submitted their opinions and thoughts on the show. We also talk about the new girls, and how they are doing well so far. We also have a special guest on the podcast this week, Chris, who is a Twitch streamer and streamer, and Twitch Streamer, who has a new show called "Thrive" where he gives his thoughts on current events and current events in the world, and gives his opinion on them. We end the episode with some stories from the past week of the show and talk about what we are looking forward to in the future of Freshman. Thank you for listening to Fresh Air! Fresh Air is a production of the Freshman Podcast. Freshman is a podcast about college basketball and college athletes from the University of North Carolina. Fresh Air has been around since 2004 and is the longest running college basketball show in the history of the College Game Show Network. Freshman has been a staple of the college basketball community. The Freshman podcast is hosted by Freshman, hosted by Chris, Chad, Dan, Ishan, and Jayd, and Ishan. . FreshFresh Air is not your average college basketball podcast. Fresh Fresh air is a place where we talk about all things basketball and other things going on in the college game and life outside of college sports. Fresh air, and everything else going on the college scene. Stay tuned into the world of college basketball, food, and more! Fresh air. -Fresh air is the place to get to know your host, Fresh air and more. "Fresh air" - Fresh air - Chris, Chris and Isan, the Freshie, the host of Fresh out here and much more. Fresh, Fresh out! - The Freshie , the host, is your host and host of this episode of Fresh air! . . . Fresh, the guest of the week! and we are live in this episode! , we are not your host of the podcast. , and we will be in this week's episode. and so much more, so stay tuned for the next episode, coming soon, coming in next week's Fresh air edition of Fresh Air, coming next week.
Transcript
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Welcome to the Fresh Air Podcast after our edition.
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Welcome to the Freshman Podcast after our audition.
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Number one, we just had a great debate literally just last show.
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Honestly, bro, they both made great arguments because, like, I mean, they do what they always do.
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Both of them were like, I gotta go back and watch it.
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I was so busy officiating and, like, taking notes and shit like that.
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And impartial, because obviously it's a heated topic whenever you talk about religion and stuff.
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Because you let them talk, and then Islam as well, so it was fair.
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That's where you find us, because you guys know that we are banned on someplace.
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Yo, Chad, we got eight new girls on the panel, man.
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This week, I'll let you know that my IG's down.
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Yeah, well, my current one is still up, but I don't want girls sending me DMs over there.
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No, because some girl wanted to be your girlfriend.
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He don't post nothing on Twitter anyway, but, you know, you guys can go follow him there.
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Like, me on Thrive and I'm like on X and I'm doing my political shit.
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These dudes are like trying to post pictures of their lifestyle.
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I'm like, nigga, this is not a whole Instagram.
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Alright, he got a new IG. Let's show it real quick.
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Yeah, because everyone thought it was fake, but it really is his Instagram.
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Yeah, this is fresh to Instagram, guys, so go ahead and, you know, check him out there.
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I guess that girl that hit up Chris, you could hit him up here.
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I mean, I'll try to get my account back, the main one, but we'll see what happens.
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The guy that took our accounts down, he got arrested by the FBI, so fuck that asshole.
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We got busted by the feds, so hopefully we'll get our shot back.
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Anyway, ladies, if you don't mind, welcome to the show.
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Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
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I moved back here in Miami and I was first, because I was living last year here.
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There's something happened with my home that I stay home.
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Actually, I was trying to go into TV. Actually, on Monday, I went to Telemundo Center.
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Yes, I have two agencies for actress and modeling.
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So you have an agency for actresses and what was the other one?
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Okay, so you have like a bunch of girls that they can come to you and you get them.
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Yeah, they call to the girl house, if you have a talent, especially if you have talent.
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What's the highest education for you completed?
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My career, I didn't graduate, but my career is a graphic designer.
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Well, you know, right now I'm single, but never alone.
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I mean, actually, I'm my ex that he's pretending to come in my life, but I'm taking my time, you know?
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Like, he's watching my stories and everything, and you know when they want to come back, because they're watching your stories.
00:11:09.000
My gynecologist in Texas, he gave me treatment for three months, so I must take it.
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All right, we might need to clean up on the aisle.
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It would have been funnier if you said no English or something.
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I do lashes, eyebrows, makeup, lip blush tattoo.
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Do you live in Miami now or are you just visiting?
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You know, there was someone else that was an architect.
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In Colombia, you get an architecture degree, you come here, you have to go to more school?
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I mean, most countries, they don't respect, so...
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And then, go ahead for us, your favorite question.
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I got to ask this because I haven't had somebody on in retail, like in the marketing side.
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So it's a lot of online social media marketing.
00:15:03.000
So are brick and mortar stores going to be a thing of the past?
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I predict in 10 to 20 years, we're not going to have stores anymore in malls.
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I think it's going to be a lot of e-com, but you know.
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They're just going to be flicking on TikTok the whole time.
00:15:57.000
Oh, you mean from like, if you could stunt here, you could go over there and really kill it is what you're trying to say.
00:16:03.000
I went to Airbnb, you get some, invite some girls over, it's a wrap.
00:16:06.000
Okay, so like, you, you, uh, the smoke and mirrors goes further over there.
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You ain't gonna talk about all that dumb nigga shit.
00:17:03.000
You tried to be an asshole because she knew some other shit before the stream that you guys would...
00:17:41.000
Why are you guys so proud that my parents love each other?
00:17:48.000
When you said Peru, I was like, yeah, they're probably together.
00:17:54.000
Okay, so yes for you, and then birth control for you?
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Great, they speak the same Spanish and everything.
00:18:31.000
I'm Z Is it the letter Z or Z-E-E? Is that your government?
00:19:03.000
Did I tell you the story that I went to go pick up a prisoner that one time?
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It was my last arrest when I was still working for the feds.
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We brought him in for Turks and Caicos, Customs and Border Protection.
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And then we brought him to the Air Force Base and I took him because he was a Canadian, foreign national.
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We got him extradited and that's where I went to go pick him up and then we took him to the jail.
00:19:31.000
I remember because Homestead was so goddamn far.
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I was like, who the fuck drives all the way down here?
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It took me like an hour to get down there, bro.
00:19:48.000
Yeah, they're building stuff, but bro, it's still the bonies though, man.
00:19:51.000
I mean, you're probably the only black girl there probably.
00:20:17.000
They got some big ass farm down there that I forget.
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Call me in if it was watermelon, I'll be there.
00:20:28.000
And for the audience that's wondering, that's like 45 minutes.
00:20:31.000
Well, it's 30 minutes if there's no traffic, but if there's traffic, most of the time, it's going to take you like an hour.
00:20:37.000
Yeah, it's like the last place before you hit the keys.
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In the afternoon, it's like an hour and a half.
00:21:10.000
That's the first time somebody actually said, fuck that, I do hair.
00:21:14.000
It just went into what they do and they said, fuck it, man.
00:21:23.000
Yeah, I do eyebrow tint, lashes, and sell wigs.
00:21:36.000
What's the difference between an esthetician and a cosmetologist?
00:21:46.000
Actually, people take cosmetology classes and esthetician so it can, you know...
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They teach you everything, how to do a wax, how to do...
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Okay, what's the difference then between cosmetology and esthetician?
00:22:09.000
We use, like, body wash, we just wash our face with that shit.
00:22:33.000
Why do, like, broke black dudes always use iris spray?
00:22:52.000
Okay, so cosmetology is hair, esthetician is skin.
00:22:56.000
Because I would figure aesthetics, it's like the complete package.
00:23:28.000
Alright, so you're a hairdresser and what was the other thing you do?
00:23:35.000
She sells all those 50 black girls in Homestead?
00:23:51.000
I was only going to say them too, but I didn't know that was a wig.
00:23:55.000
See, that's scary because you don't know until after.
00:24:51.000
Highest education, did you go to cosmetology school, I'm assuming?
00:25:11.000
If you're working in a shop, like that's when it's like really like you have to show your license, have it on the wall and shit like that.
00:25:20.000
Yeah, the state they're walking that motherfucker.
00:25:28.000
No, the health department will walk into your shop.
00:26:00.000
Chris, we're trying to get over the racist allegations, man.
00:27:16.000
Like, how is she beating me to all the racist jokes?
00:28:52.000
Was it like a suburb or another area of Sarasota?
00:28:56.000
I was actually living in Bradenton when this happened.
00:29:13.000
We'll ask you about that story here in a second.
00:29:15.000
I'm an esthetician and I'm currently in school for real estate.
00:29:25.000
Um, I have my high school diploma and I went to trade school.
00:29:43.000
You didn't get the, if ain't right, now they look all fucked up.
00:29:45.000
Because you know if Alabama's, if they don't get it right, and they prick you the wrong way, it'll leave a scar forever.
00:29:53.000
Yeah, if you get someone that don't know what they're doing, and you got sensitive skin, you got light skin, and they prick you the wrong way, it'll leave a fucking...
00:30:20.000
Bro, this guy, why are you trying to start trouble, man?
00:30:24.000
All right, so you said high school esthetician and philopotamus.
00:30:34.000
Yeah, if you don't like any of them or what, bro.
00:30:36.000
No, I actually kind of blew up off a video, so I've actually been working for myself ever since.
00:30:45.000
No, I don't do TikTok, but I posted it on Facebook, and then...
00:30:53.000
I'm on T4L. Y'all heard of the Cucumber Challenge?
00:31:38.000
If this is what I think it is, how'd you get away with this on Facebook?
00:32:29.000
So honestly, I am single, but I tell people I'm in a relationship because I am still dealing with my ex and I'm not Okay, how's your guys meet?
00:32:54.000
No, we met through Instagram, but I wanted the D. See?
00:32:59.000
Okay, so we sent the original DM. He saw our video.
00:33:03.000
He had been chasing me for like two years, so...
00:33:13.000
He did move from New York to Miami to be with me after that.
00:33:33.000
So I moved to, actually, I live in Pompano, but I moved a year ago.
00:33:47.000
And for those that are wondering, Pompano is a neighborhood about 45 minutes from here.
00:34:06.000
But there are still some very terrible parts of it, but it is getting better.
00:34:18.000
There was also a big immigration facility there too.
00:34:36.000
Okay, so single, but interl- and how long y'all been together?
00:35:58.000
Oh, well, we can show it to them and then, but YouTube can't.
00:36:03.000
The TV in the background can be shown a little bit.
00:36:14.000
So what made me go viral is because Bootsy actually shared my video.
00:36:36.000
That's crazy because somebody actually just asked me if my oldest was, but no.
00:36:45.000
Well, if she answered the question, they definitely smashed.
00:36:48.000
You said Nicholas with an S? Yeah, that's funny.
00:36:57.000
I was making jokes about you pricking them the wrong way with the blood.
00:36:59.000
But what was the real reason that they chased you out of Sarasota or Bradenton?
00:37:08.000
I was targeted by some, actually somebody I didn't even know.
00:37:12.000
And I didn't find out that they were going to unalive me until the dude I was dealing with at the time, that that happened, because they took his stuff to.
00:37:29.000
No, no, no, but I'm saying he got robbed by them first?
00:37:44.000
So I ended up going to Orlando to go link with a Fashion Nova brand ambassador.
00:37:58.000
They were watching me, watched me leave, everything.
00:38:07.000
Oh, so they watched you go to Orlando and they knew you weren't home.
00:38:19.000
So now you're in Orlando, doing, I don't know, hanging out, going to Disney World.
00:38:29.000
I didn't even realize until I took my shoes off by the front door and put them to the side and seen the wall dust on top of my cable box.
00:38:41.000
Yeah, the first thing that I ran to was my safe, because it had my dude's money at the time.
00:38:47.000
So I'm like, that's the only thing I was worried about, because he's a Gemini, I'm a Gemini, and I know how we get about our bread.
00:39:11.000
So, okay, so it was 14K. All right, and then what?
00:39:18.000
All of my, like, all my designer, anything that was, like, worth money, they took everything.
00:39:23.000
The only room that they did not touch was my kids' room, but they did go grocery shopping in my kitchen.
00:39:32.000
There was a trail of snacks from my kitchen through.
00:40:21.000
So real quick, let me invite, so okay, this is, tell the audience real fast.
00:40:26.000
Guys, if you're a drug dealer, you are automatically going to be a victim of robberies all the time because they know that you're never going to call the police every time you get robbed.
00:40:33.000
Even if they steal your, let's say they don't steal any of your drugs, they just steal cash.
00:40:37.000
They're still not gonna go to the police because they all know that you shouldn't be having that kind of lump currency.
00:40:47.000
There's people that literally have a business where they don't sell drugs, they just go rob drug dealers.
00:40:56.000
We used to go after them all the time when I was in the government.
00:41:04.000
So, okay, I got to ask this because this is the government side of me.
00:41:13.000
Yeah, because if y'all come and get me, I can't tell y'all nothing.
00:41:22.000
All right, but he wasn't a weed dealer, though.
00:41:31.000
But I mean, I estimate he's got to be doing at least ounces or like half kilos to have that kind of money, but that's fine.
00:42:06.000
How long were you in Atlanta before you came here?
00:42:20.000
I was there for the Republican National Convention.
00:42:30.000
It's just like, I don't know, maybe it was because it was that weekend or whatever, but it's like a very boring city.
00:42:37.000
Honestly, everybody from Milwaukee just goes to Chicago because it's like a two-hour drive.
00:42:43.000
But it is the Bucks games there, or they have little festivals on Water Street.
00:42:58.000
I was like, yo, if the RNC wasn't here, this place wouldn't be shit.
00:43:05.000
Because I did notice, like, it was fairly diverse.
00:43:16.000
I just took a lip filler class and I have a clothing brand called Blanco Mars.
00:43:27.000
Bro, why does every girl come here to do real estate, bro?
00:43:37.000
You didn't go to, like, cosmetology school or anything like that?
00:43:40.000
No, I just took, like, classes from people that I felt mastered it.
00:44:11.000
I definitely grew up with a father figure, just not my pops.
00:44:29.000
I'm ready to follow my career right now, but...
00:44:35.000
You said your mom is white and then your dad is black.
00:44:37.000
Is he, like, Jamaican or just, like, African American?
00:45:05.000
I'm like two hours north, like right on the Canadian border.
00:45:16.000
Yeah, like, my parents' house is five minutes from the border, and I've accidentally driven into Canada before.
00:45:30.000
Does CBSA even care if you accidentally drive into Canada?
00:45:34.000
I mean, I went through the border, and I'm like, hey, I have to go that way.
00:45:37.000
I didn't mean to come this way, and I made a U-turn into Canada.
00:45:41.000
Yeah, I had to go all the way through the border.
00:45:43.000
In America, they're like, now you've got to come in and see if we've got warrants.
00:45:48.000
Okay, but you're from Linden, Washington, right on the border.
00:45:55.000
So I moved here from, like, northern Florida about a year ago.
00:45:58.000
Oh, where in northern Florida were you before that?
00:46:04.000
Bro, she's from all the areas where Ted Bundy used to kill people.
00:46:09.000
Yeah, he started in Washington State and then worked his way down into Oregon and I think he ended up getting caught in Tallahassee.
00:46:19.000
Yeah, he went on like a killing spree in all these different states and he ended in Florida.
00:46:37.000
We got a lot of fat people here in South Florida.
00:46:46.000
We're on YouTube, so I can't say exactly what I want to say.
00:46:53.000
So, what is, do you think, the biggest problem down here in South Florida with obesity?
00:47:00.000
I guess it depends on where you're at, because each area in Miami is like its own little country at this point.
00:47:08.000
Because you've got a little Haiti, a little Havana.
00:47:12.000
So what would you say, I guess, is the overall biggest issue?
00:47:22.000
People don't know what they're eating, for the most part.
00:47:36.000
Oh, just be closer to the mic so they can hear.
00:47:38.000
Washington's, I guess, a little bit skinnier, so it just depends on where you're at.
00:47:41.000
Vancouver's a very fit city, so that makes sense on the border.
00:47:47.000
So I have my bachelor's in nutrition, but I'm almost done with my master's as well.
00:48:00.000
Yeah, that's why he killed his girls, was in Florida State.
00:48:13.000
How he got caught is he went in there and killed like four girls.
00:48:20.000
And they were able to go ahead and get a forensic orthodontist.
00:48:25.000
And he testified that the teeth marks were his.
00:48:28.000
So they went in and took molds of his teeth and that's how they were able to identify that it was him that was there.
00:48:40.000
And it was the first televised murder case in American history.
00:48:47.000
And he was facing death penalty and everything.
00:48:48.000
He obviously lost because, nigga, what are you doing?
00:48:50.000
But yeah, that's how they caught him was the orthodontist, the forensic orthodontist.
00:48:56.000
I think it was Florida State, but I'm not mistaken.
00:49:04.000
So you could say it bit him in the ass later on.
00:49:31.000
No, I mean, I want to work with, like, athletes.
00:50:22.000
All right, and then last but not least, welcome.
00:50:33.000
I am 21 and I am an assistant manager at a school.
00:50:47.000
Do y'all just throw them in the water and say, fend for yourself, nigga?
00:51:00.000
We're the soft version of a survival school, yes.
00:51:03.000
Okay, so assistant manager at a swim school for kids.
00:51:11.000
Well, I work in the Gables, so we have a lot of Europeans, a lot of Argentinians.
00:51:37.000
Do they sink like a rock when you throw them in the water?
00:52:22.000
Okay, and then you're, but where do you like, like, where are you from here in Miami?
00:52:27.000
And, well, I grew up in Venezuela until I was 13.
00:52:38.000
That's where, uh, Melly killed, uh, his buddies.
00:52:45.000
Yeah, that's where he killed his, uh, friends at.
00:52:47.000
Uh, he shot them right there in, like, in the middle of nowhere.
00:52:57.000
I honestly think they got him dead to rights on that case.
00:53:00.000
I mean, the state is fucking up with the evidence and shit like that, arguing their case, but the evidence is solid.
00:53:07.000
He lied to the police saying there was a drive-by when the bullet- From inside the car?
00:53:14.000
It's like, bro, you didn't get shot in a drive-by.
00:53:26.000
The shots came from in the car, and the other thing that gives away is that, like, if you look at, like, the wounds, like, it was very obvious that they got shot point-blank range, yeah, because there was stipeling on the skin, which means burn marks, which is indicative of, like, execution style.
00:54:08.000
One thing you did wrong and one thing you did wrong.
00:54:11.000
Okay, so name one thing he did wrong in the relationship and then one thing you did wrong in the relationship.
00:54:35.000
Let me guess, your dad liked Maduro and your mom didn't?
00:55:01.000
So this guy, you lost your virginity to this guy?
00:55:03.000
It was my first serious relationship in high school.
00:55:19.000
That was never his priority, so it was never going to work out.
00:55:27.000
He was working, but he was also putting his family first, which I understand.
00:56:08.000
We cut the after hours down a bit, so you got to enjoy it a little bit, man.
00:56:27.000
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00:57:42.000
You guys say about reading the ad like a fat nigga.
00:57:51.000
I just like having Mo read the ad so I can just look at them just cooking the whole time.
00:58:05.000
We'll read some of these chats and then we'll get into the first question here.
00:58:11.000
I just dropped the recap video on my Instagram.
00:58:22.000
Yeah, I hope Anis will show this part, but they won't.
00:58:26.000
They took the parts where the guys are on top because we're doing a dance-off, and they'll show the girls at home.
00:58:33.000
I purposely said when we were doing that dance, I was like, yo, all the girls get off the dance floor.
00:58:38.000
So, of course, it's going to look like that, and these idiots will go ahead and pick that part.
00:59:15.000
BigTingsAguan says, not going to lie, Miss Washington State is very attractive, but unfortunately Miami may have gotten to her.
00:59:27.000
And see how her mindset is to shut up my niggas.
00:59:59.000
JK, W to all y'all looking forward to coming back.
01:00:27.000
Fuck no, I ain't spending $600 on my hair like that.
01:00:32.000
This is my wig line, one of the wigs I sell, and I will sell this for $400.
01:00:39.000
The girl who did my hair today said the same thing.
01:00:48.000
So there's actually another wig that I'm going back to get.
01:01:14.000
But like I said, we're not actually together anymore.
01:01:22.000
Would you prefer to be an average man main chick or a rich man side chick?
01:01:33.000
Well, we should describe what the average man is for them first.
01:01:40.000
Alright, so 5'7", 5'8", making about $40K per year.
01:01:45.000
That's fine, as long as we can be out and about together.
01:01:50.000
And average looking, like he's not guapo, like none of that.
01:02:08.000
I'd rather be the main chick there than the side chick.
01:02:19.000
I mean, it doesn't really matter to me, that sort of thing.
01:02:44.000
She must have got robbed, too, one time and said, fuck this.
01:02:47.000
I don't even deal with men that would put me in that position.
01:02:53.000
Have you ever dated a drug dealer over again after that?
01:02:59.000
When I was younger, like high school, like I said, I like businessmen now.
01:03:08.000
Yeah, no, I'd rather be the main, and I'm going to tell you why.
01:03:12.000
I'd rather be with a broke man who treats me like everything in the world, rather a rich man who treats me like I'm just a piece of property or You've been with a couple rich niggas before, right?
01:03:27.000
So you just didn't like that lifestyle of being a side chick and him having all these other women?
01:03:41.000
So I would rather be with a broke man who treats me like a queen, treats me like a princess, puts me first priority, top priority.
01:03:49.000
Like the dudes that told you you were the main, but they were having sex with other girls?
01:03:58.000
Oh, they told you I'm going to have other women.
01:03:59.000
No, no, they were honest, but I was always the main, right?
01:04:15.000
So they told you, you're the only one, I love you, they sold you the dream, and then they had other women.
01:04:20.000
But the other girls knew about you, so they wouldn't get in trouble.
01:04:24.000
It's like, okay, so you know how you can pop up?
01:04:39.000
You guys had to deal with them behind closed doors.
01:05:01.000
I'm going to cry in a Rolls Royce, not a Nissan.
01:05:07.000
Yeah, but when you surround yourself around niggas that got money, they gon' have you in that mindset.
01:05:14.000
They gon' put you in that money mindset, but money ain't everything.
01:05:17.000
Yeah, but if I'm with a nigga that, I'm laying down with a nigga that's, he don't have that hustle mindset, he don't have that drive.
01:05:26.000
I'd rather be with a nigga that motivates me to get up.
01:05:36.000
I got to get up before this nigga be like, this bitch is a bum.
01:05:39.000
But if you a solid female and you got it and your man don't, and you really love that man, you're going to put that man in a winning position.
01:05:47.000
Well, I don't need a man to motivate me, but yeah, I want a nigga in my corner, like, to motivate me.
01:05:57.000
Do you always want the burden of making money yourself?
01:05:59.000
Like, for example, let's say you meet a guy that can take care of you.
01:06:02.000
What'd you want not to say to making money yourself?
01:06:04.000
He took care of me and my kids while I went to school.
01:06:07.000
Okay, but long-term, wouldn't you want long-term?
01:06:11.000
So then, why are you saying boss, babe, like, do what you should shit yourself, like, to her?
01:06:16.000
I'm saying that if I had a bum who was not in a winning position, I'm a boss myself.
01:06:28.000
It's like you're taking care of another kid if you ask me.
01:06:43.000
Fuck Listen, a man can only be strong for so long because at the end of the day, if a man falls, what can you do for him as this female?
01:06:54.000
He's up, he's up for years, years, years, and years.
01:06:56.000
You're stacking your bread, stacking your bread, stacking your bread.
01:07:01.000
If that man ain't teaching through the years, we've been fucking with each other.
01:07:10.000
If a nigga fuck with you, he gonna give you knowledge.
01:07:12.000
So it's just like, if I've been fucking with this nigga for more than two, three years and he ain't spit no game to me, show me how to network, market, do this, do that, I don't have no business fucking with you.
01:07:22.000
Yeah, I want a nigga that's gonna teach me, not just pass the money.
01:07:27.000
So therefore, if he do fall, bitch, I'm right there.
01:07:30.000
And I know this nigga, he did this, that, that, trust me.
01:07:33.000
I'm curious, how long would you take care of your man before he came back to light prominence?
01:07:59.000
Well, she wasn't the one that was making that argument.
01:08:13.000
Side girl with the average guy making 40k per year, 5'7", average guy, not charming or anything, or charismatic or super attractive, just a regular dude, right?
01:08:21.000
Watches anime every now and then and plays video games.
01:08:25.000
Or successful, attractive guy that's a multi-millionaire, but you're going to be the side girl.
01:08:34.000
Okay, that means you've got to work and no vacations.
01:08:49.000
That's why you see that, okay, my English is not the best, but I try to explain myself.
01:08:59.000
That's why I think Colombians are still together for a long time.
01:09:16.000
It's about to build something together, some strong, you know?
01:09:30.000
We tell the guys, hey, you want to go find a woman in Colombia?
01:09:46.000
You send money back or you go back and visit her.
01:09:59.000
The guy chasing you on Instagram right now, he average guy?
01:10:03.000
No, I mean, the real thing is that I want to be together with that guy that I love, you know?
01:10:09.000
Even though he's broke, and if I'm with him, I'm gonna support him, you know?
01:10:22.000
When you have a true love, you are in the ups and the downs.
01:10:30.000
No, I can say it in English, but the thing is that it's a bond.
01:10:37.000
Well, most of the expanders too, so he's the resident translator.
01:10:55.000
All right, let me hit the topic, then I can read the chats after.
01:10:58.000
Ladies, do you have or have you ever had a close guy friend?
01:11:14.000
Do you have or have you ever had a close guy friend?
01:12:15.000
Okay, then for you guys it's just no-no because you never had one in the first place.
01:12:21.000
We'll start here with you and then work our way this way.
01:12:28.000
He was my best friend but he was in love with me.
01:12:58.000
When I moved, I moved to Canada, and he told me that.
01:13:05.000
But you cannot recognize the behavior you knew when you were close to him?
01:13:09.000
I was too sweet with him, and he was like that with me.
01:13:13.000
He was the only guy that could go to my room when, like, in my house.
01:13:31.000
And now he's married, he's good with his wife and everything.
01:13:57.000
But I go to him for guy advice and stuff, so I feel like he knows I'm not interested.
01:14:11.000
And I got a question for you two ladies after this.
01:14:13.000
Mo, good question, by the way, that you came up with this.
01:14:26.000
Like, I don't want to wear short shorts around him.
01:14:37.000
Yeah, he'll do little stuff like that or whatever, but yeah, he's my friend.
01:14:50.000
So if he asks me, but he's very, you know, men are very prideful.
01:14:55.000
So he's never asked you for money or anything ever?
01:15:14.000
Other than that, you think he keeps the platonic on his side, I guess?
01:15:22.000
What's your relationship like with your guy best friend?
01:15:50.000
If she was looking at me, she would've known I was talking to her.
01:16:01.000
So yeah, what was the relationship like with your guy friend?
01:16:11.000
He was there through a lot of stuff that I went through.
01:16:19.000
It was late at night when that happened, so he wasn't aware.
01:16:21.000
No, I don't mean it like that, but was he your support system after and shit?
01:16:30.000
Hey, if you're going to make these comments, unmute your mic, motherfucker.
01:16:37.000
Okay, what ended it then, if you guys were so close?
01:16:39.000
So when I left my hometown and moved down here, I brought him with me.
01:17:06.000
He moved in with us, but they got real close, and then he started meeting a lot of, not like that, not like that.
01:17:13.000
No, no, no, no, no, no, because I'm already seeing what's happening to play here.
01:17:17.000
He started pointing them out with other bitches.
01:17:21.000
They started making money together and he felt like he owed my dude loyalty because he was putting him on and putting money in his pocket.
01:17:29.000
So I ended up texting him something one day and he screenshot it and sent it to my dude at the time.
01:17:41.000
But he was my best friend, like, for nine years.
01:17:44.000
Yeah, but, like, what did he send that, like, made it...
01:17:50.000
It wasn't, like, it wasn't nothing disrespectful to my relationship at all.
01:17:53.000
It was just, like, me venting about a situation that was going on, and I felt like, you know, him and my dude at the time were deadass wrong.
01:18:07.000
Out of loyalty to him, he was like, bro, this is not my shit.
01:18:18.000
Because he was getting money with him, so he kind of...
01:18:20.000
He was like, yeah, like, you know, this is what she said, this time and the third.
01:18:25.000
Yeah, but it had something to do with both of them.
01:18:30.000
It really didn't have nothing to do with my dude.
01:18:31.000
It was really him, but my ex was brought up in it.
01:18:35.000
So he was like, oh yeah, screenshot this, send it to him.
01:18:44.000
So actually, he's back in the same position he was in when, yeah, before he moved down here.
01:19:03.000
Alright, so y'all are not cool no more and he's not cool with him either because of that situation.
01:19:11.000
What's the relationship like with your guy friend?
01:19:19.000
He's like a rapper, but when I used to live in Atlanta, we used to go out to eat all the time.
01:19:29.000
But he did try to talk to me, but I put him in his place.
01:19:39.000
Like, he'd just be flirting and stuff, but you know how you have to redirect the person?
01:19:44.000
Like, yeah, you really have to do that because sometimes guys don't understand.
01:19:55.000
So he tried, failed, and y'all are just friends.
01:20:00.000
Well, did your guy ever make a pass at you or no?
01:20:31.000
You know a girl who really don't fuck with you when she's brutally honest?
01:20:35.000
Like, says shit about herself that don't make herself look...
01:20:42.000
That's when you know you're in the friend zone for real.
01:20:47.000
Yeah, it's better that she said that anyway, right?
01:20:48.000
You're like, oh, you know, I'll stay in the friend zone in this case.
01:20:52.000
Um, so actually I did date him first and then we became friends.
01:21:00.000
So wait, did you, were you guys, you said you dated first, then you became friends after.
01:21:03.000
Yeah, so we dated first and then we became friends.
01:21:15.000
So he was supposed to come home and meet my parents, and I freaked out and I broke up with him.
01:21:20.000
And then we had this weird on-again, off-again relationship for a while, and then it got to the point where it was just like...
01:21:26.000
Well, you were embarrassed to lend him Washington or something like that?
01:21:39.000
I mean, yeah, but, like, the relationship just evolved and we're, like, strictly platonic now.
01:21:47.000
Wait, y'all together for a year and he was gonna meet your parents and you said no?
01:21:51.000
Yeah, like the plaintiff was bought and everything, and then like a week beforehand, I'm like, hey, I don't want you to meet my parents.
01:21:59.000
And y'all had been together for a year at that point.
01:22:22.000
Because you guys are together for a year, right?
01:22:25.000
Most girls would be salivating for a dude to meet their parents after a year.
01:22:35.000
I already know in my mind what it was, but you can tell the people.
01:22:38.000
Probably because my previous relationship before that was a lot of bad blood.
01:22:59.000
So the previous person that met my parents, after we broke up, my parents were like, yeah, we didn't like him.
01:23:06.000
And I was worried that same thing was going to happen.
01:23:09.000
So I was like, I can't do this anymore kind of thing.
01:23:18.000
Was he your first pick, the guy that you didn't want to make to your appearance?
01:23:22.000
Was he your first pick, like, I love this guy, he's the one for me, or he's kind of like...
01:23:28.000
He was like, well, actually, I'm divorced, so...
01:23:38.000
Wait, you married the first guy or the second guy?
01:23:43.000
Okay, but non-parent dude, was he your ex-husband or no?
01:23:52.000
Okay, so how long were you with your ex-husband for?
01:23:55.000
We started dating in 2015 and then we divorced in 2019.
01:24:06.000
So you guys, total relationship was four or five years?
01:24:09.000
Okay, so you guys, how long until you got married?
01:24:15.000
And then this guy, how soon after you divorced your husband or separated from him did you get with this new guy?
01:24:40.000
Was your husband your type, your ideal type, and it just didn't work out from a look standpoint, maybe from a personality standpoint, and then this guy was maybe the polar opposite?
01:24:49.000
And then you kind of were like, you know what, let me try something different.
01:24:53.000
The new guy was like more my type physically than my husband.
01:24:57.000
Okay, so the second guy was actually more physically attractive?
01:25:00.000
Okay, but was the husband more attractive cognitively?
01:25:04.000
Like you were just more aroused by his personality?
01:25:09.000
He honestly made the same amount, so it had nothing to do with money at all.
01:25:13.000
But the first guy that you married probably felt safer, more security with him.
01:25:19.000
Second guy was more attractive, but let's be honest, more pussy probably.
01:25:37.000
You know, it's funny because, like, I literally thought all that in my head.
01:25:39.000
It was like, So, he was like, okay, all right, fair enough.
01:25:43.000
So, the ex-husband, you still talk to him and you guys are still friends?
01:25:48.000
Oh, the dude that you didn't let meet your parents?
01:25:53.000
Like, he had my dog for six months when I was moving.
01:25:56.000
Like, he didn't get mad about not meeting your parents after being with you for a year?
01:26:25.000
So you guys never had sex after the parent escapade?
01:26:36.000
Okay, we were living together, so it's kind of hard to date someone when you're living with them.
01:26:40.000
You guys were living together, and you told me you can't see my parents?
01:26:44.000
You guys were living together and you told him you can't see my parents?
01:26:50.000
Hey, nigga, you can't come see my Johnny Appleseed crib up in Washington.
01:26:54.000
I know you're handsome and all, but you a bitch.
01:27:00.000
Okay, so you guys are still friends to this day?
01:27:46.000
It's just like, physically, I feel like we vibe really well, so...
01:28:14.000
But that's fine because this next question is actually for you ladies.
01:28:17.000
Do you believe men and women can be friends for you two since you guys don't have guy friends?
01:28:31.000
Yes, I just, I don't think I've had, in the last few years, like, a close guy friend that would...
01:28:40.000
Yeah, I've gotten with, but I think that guys and girls can be friends.
01:28:46.000
Not, like, with someone that, like, not to be super-duper close with.
01:28:57.000
Mo, you want to give the background on this video real quick, and, uh...
01:29:00.000
Yes, this is a funny skit of a daily life of what it means to be in the friend zone.
01:29:05.000
And ladies, we're gonna watch the video and I want you guys to like check if you've done this to your guy friend before.
01:29:11.000
Keep it real for all the girls that have had a guy friend before.
01:29:13.000
Even you guys that might have maybe even had a slight guy friend for a little bit.
01:29:17.000
I have a take on girls that don't have guy friends.
01:29:23.000
Do you think it's better before or after the video?
01:29:26.000
Alright ladies, please pay attention and I want you to know if you've done this to a guy before in the friend zone.
01:29:32.000
In the life of being friend-zoned, the first thing I do is pick up my best friend from last night's sleepover.
01:29:41.000
She then tells me every detail about last night.
01:29:51.000
It's only a matter of time before she sees me as a romantic option.
01:30:02.000
Oh, I'm letting these guys have their way with me and they can't even text me back.
01:30:11.000
You know, sometimes the treasure you're looking for is buried in your own backyard.
01:30:18.000
Around 4 p.m., Kristen breadcrumbs me with some light physical affection to keep me hooked for a few more months.
01:30:28.000
While I wait in the car for her to get done having fun, I help do some of her work so she can get ahead for the next day.
01:30:39.000
I drop the two of them off at Chad's penthouse.
01:30:41.000
I wave goodbye and get ready to do the same thing again tomorrow.
01:30:48.000
So how many of you guys have been in that situation before where the guy tells you, you tell him you're...
01:30:54.000
Well, a couple of you guys already admitted to this, so...
01:30:56.000
Alright, so what have you done before with your guy friend before?
01:31:00.000
Have you told him stuff about your dating and ask him questions?
01:31:06.000
Damn, you actually make up late while you get drunk?
01:31:32.000
You know, just to get like a guy's perspective.
01:31:37.000
He never took you out for food and shit like that?
01:31:57.000
Spectated outside while you're having sex with someone else?
01:32:04.000
Okay, spectated, like, waiting for you outside while you're maybe meeting a guy or hooking up with a guy or something like that?
01:32:10.000
Did you ever buy a table at a club and then you met a guy you're flirting with at his table?
01:32:17.000
You ever give up your number at a table that he had?
01:32:25.000
We were all friends so we could get a table for like the group.
01:32:38.000
He ain't going to be like, ain't you got a nigga?
01:32:50.000
Okay, if you don't mind, can we call him right now and ask him?
01:32:54.000
Because, honestly, I feel like he likes you, but he don't want to say it.
01:32:58.000
I talk to him about, like, everything, literally.
01:33:03.000
What if you tell him, like, listen, I'm drunk, I don't know why we never got together, like...
01:33:11.000
No, but we're saying, we think that he will fuck if you give him the opportunity.
01:34:07.000
So I'm thinking is, because you gotta be very direct here, but indirectly in a cool way.
01:34:12.000
So what I would say is, what I would say is, listen, I'm lit right now, I'm kinda drunk, I'm not gonna lie, I've been feeling for so long, Okay, let's go.
01:34:28.000
You can't, like, fuck it up and laugh and all this other shit.
01:34:35.000
But I'm saying, like, you gotta play along until you get the reaction.
01:34:38.000
Like, don't fuck it up until you get the reaction.
01:35:15.000
I'm off this drink, and I just been wondering, like, why we ain't never, like, talk?
01:35:29.000
I'm talking about, like, why we ain't never do nothing.
01:35:53.000
Hadn't to prove that we can actually be friends.
01:36:13.000
To be fair, he didn't want to come across as like, Falling into it, but I don't know.
01:36:25.000
It was a person, late night, at the club, maybe?
01:36:36.000
So my theory is, right, that, like, guys are normally friends with girls that are hot.
01:36:40.000
If you're hot, you look good, if your friend played a part to smash later on, or hope to smash later on.
01:36:48.000
First of all, she got stories on the podcast, so he's watching her Instagram right now.
01:37:10.000
Plus, she's messing with us fuck, so it takes a while for a dude to get hard over that shit.
01:37:41.000
Anybody want to call that guy friend to add to this?
01:37:48.000
Have you participated in any of the events here, whether it be like having them buy you food, them taking you to a club, chauffeur, complaining about your problems, all of it?
01:37:58.000
Every time that me and the girls went to the club, he was the male that went to the club.
01:38:08.000
He would get in for free just because he brought y'all?
01:38:16.000
So everything in there that he's done it for you?
01:38:21.000
Every time my baby daddy broke my phone, he bought me a new phone.
01:38:23.000
When my baby daddy jumped on me, he moved me in with him and his baby mama.
01:38:34.000
He's my sister's blood cousin, and he's like 50-something years old.
01:39:07.000
Me and my sister have the same mom, different dads.
01:39:22.000
I would argue that's like a first cousin for her.
01:39:25.000
Yeah, he's family, because I grew up around her dad's side of the family.
01:39:29.000
Man, I wouldn't count that as a guy best friend, then.
01:39:32.000
We didn't know that he was related to her until like two years into our friendship, and we met in like 2015.
01:39:42.000
I think he did in the beginning until we found out that he was pretty much like family.
01:39:45.000
You never heard of uncle slash cousin relationships?
01:39:49.000
Oh, I didn't know we were family, but it's too late now.
01:40:17.000
Okay, so he was trying to make a pass at you in the beginning, I guess, until he found out.
01:40:24.000
Did things completely change once he found out you guys were first cousins?
01:40:30.000
He never really acted on his impulses of trying me.
01:40:35.000
He was always very respectful of our friendship.
01:40:37.000
But I mean, they become even more respectful after that shit.
01:40:41.000
No, I mean, like, after he found out first cousin, like, Yeah, I'm like little sister.
01:40:45.000
He tells people all the time, like, I would never try her.
01:40:52.000
So, when a girl's going through, like, down times, she's, like, going through some bullshit, they have a friend to transition from the bad times to good times.
01:40:58.000
So, she might not have a man, per se, but she has a friend taking care of her on the side.
01:41:15.000
Oh, yeah, he was, you know, Christmas, Valentine's Day, birthdays.
01:41:18.000
I would think after the fucking, I find out that's your cousin, there's a rap, like, at that.
01:41:25.000
Back in my hometown, they definitely don't, because, yeah, cousins make dozens back over there.
01:41:34.000
Bitches are underage, niggas still doing that shit.
01:41:37.000
Back in Sarasota, Brady's saying, cousins make dozens, cause baby.
01:41:40.000
Imagine if your girlfriend was your cousin and you just now found out.
01:41:58.000
I'm from the Northeast, so for us, we make fun of, like, hillbillies, like, for hooking up with each other and shit, so it's different.
01:42:03.000
Like, where I'm from, like, that's, like, we make fun of Southerners for that shit.
01:42:07.000
So, to me, it's, like, a completely foreign concept, but I could see...
01:42:11.000
Yeah, like, down South, okay, whatever, because we literally make fun of people for that.
01:42:20.000
Did you do any of the things in the video there?
01:42:26.000
You said you're a rapper, so he's definitely taking you to the club.
01:42:53.000
So you dropped the music video making fun of Aiden Ross?
01:42:58.000
That said Playboi Carti made a music video where he took a shot at Aiden Ross for the two million shit.
01:43:26.000
He just stole that money from Aiden and kicking all that bullshit.
01:43:36.000
We want to hear you talk because he never does interviews.
01:43:49.000
You didn't make that guy do all that shit before?
01:43:53.000
Well, we are hooking up, so I would assume, yeah, all that shit.
01:43:55.000
So, I had lost my keys in Myrtle Beach, and he drove all the way from Virginia.
01:44:02.000
He drove from Virginia to Myrtle Beach to give me my car keys.
01:44:08.000
Bitch, I should've been broken into and I'll pay for it afterwards.
01:44:16.000
He was like, Virginia, Virginia to South Carolina, bring me my car keys.
01:44:20.000
You know how long it takes you to drive through North Carolina?
01:44:24.000
I would argue Virginia and North Carolina are like the worst states to drive through on Interstate 95.
01:44:31.000
Wait, but why did you make him drive that far, though?
01:44:38.000
I was going to say, no, I was stranded in South Carolina.
01:44:47.000
That's why he brought my keys to South Carolina.
01:44:51.000
So I lost my car keys in South Carolina, and the only way I was getting home is if he brought me my car keys.
01:45:00.000
Well, I was bartending at a bike rally, and I just happened to lose them.
01:45:07.000
And they did find them after I had left, so they mailed my keys back.
01:45:17.000
No, I had dropped them, and, like, somebody returned them to the bar that I was working at, but I was already gone by the time they returned them.
01:45:28.000
I was like maybe like three or four days afterwards.
01:45:34.000
No, because I was already home when I got my keys back.
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That's L. I hope you give him some like fire dome or something for that.
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I mean, like, I gave him a hug, but I don't really count it as anything.
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He literally got nothing from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to think of something from having me my keys.
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I'm trying to Back and forth is at least like six to eight hours.
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I think it was like a it was around a six hour drive.
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You better go drive from all the way over there.
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She wouldn't make the ex-husband do that, though.
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Do you think guys like that will eventually, finally get the girl?
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In your situation, do you think guys that play the game will eventually finally get the girl?
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No, and I feel like they become, like, they want revenge from that later on.
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Yeah, because they're gonna spend all this time, like, they trying to be strategic and plan and plan and do stuff, but it's just not happening.
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So I feel like they start, want to get revenge or something.
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So you don't think you kind of, like, enabling this would be a bad thing?
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Do you think a guy will eventually finally get the girl?
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Eventually, depending on the man, the consistency.
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Because nine times out of ten, when you chase a girl for so long and then you get with them, it's like you realize she's aggravating itself.
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It's like having a daddy's little princess, for real, for real.
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Do you think the guy will finally get the girl?
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If he pursues long enough, do you think he'll eventually get the girl?
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Right then and there like if you don't tell a bitch how he feel I just feel like it's pointless like you're a pussy and Bitch you need to go with somebody that deserves you because I don't you don't deserve me Because why you don't tell me how you feel or how you don't tell the bitch how you feel I don't understand men who have alterative motives That's why I don't like and that's what most men who want to be a best friend have is an alterative motive All right,
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Will they finally get the girl, in your opinion?
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I just don't think it'll work out in the long run.
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Do you think the guy will finally get the girl if he pursues long enough?
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It's fine, just say it into the mic and the audience can hear it too.
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Did you explain it right, Miss American Columbiana?
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No, I'm asking, like, why is it worth it for them to pursue when they're friends all of them?
01:51:51.000
Do you think a guy can ever make it out and get the girl, finally get the girl?
01:52:01.000
Because if that girl doesn't like the man, it's not going to work.
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Even if he give it many gifts and good dates and everything.
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If you don't like it, you're ugly, you don't like it, okay.
01:52:17.000
Damn, is that every girl said no, it's not worth it?
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All right, so guys, we're going to switch on over to Castle Club here.
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I want to give my take on it, you know, so we're going to switch on over to Castle Club.
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Hey, we got to keep the lights on, as you guys know.
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You know, some people are going to be a chore, bro.
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I gave y'all niggas a free debate for three plus hours, so come on over to Castle Club.
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Come support the squad, because I want to get real with the ladies here real quick and give my perspective on this whole friend zone thing.
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And then we're going to answer some questions from the girls, because I think the girls have some good questions here.