Fresh & Fit - Should Men Open Up To Women? Hood Singer Fights Chris & THIS Happened…

00:03:06.000 And we are live.

00:03:07.000 What's up, guys?

00:03:07.000 Welcome to Fresh Hit Podcast.

00:03:08.000 After our transition, we're joined with, I think, nine girls today?

00:03:10.000 Let's get into it.

00:03:10.000 Nine.

00:03:11.000 Let's go.

00:03:31.000 My money cares, bro.

00:03:32.000 Get out.

00:03:43.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:03:44.000 You don't got to put them on in here.

00:04:02.000 What's up, guys?

00:04:02.000 Welcome to Fresh Fit Podcast After Hours Edition.

00:04:04.000 Quick announcement before we get into the show.

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00:04:23.000 Yeah, we're going to be leaving on Thursday to Vegas.

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00:04:28.000 We'll probably be off the air for about one week to ten days-ish, somewhat like that, maybe two weeks at the most.

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00:04:41.000 And then also check me out on Twitter, guys, unpluggedfidex. 0.98

00:04:43.000 I am shadow banned to fucking hell right now. 0.89

00:04:46.000 But check me out over there. 0.98

00:04:47.000 Let's get to 100k.

00:04:49.000 I was growing quickly, and then obviously I made some comments about certain topics, and of course they're going to go ahead and shadowban me.

00:04:54.000 Look at the last tweet.

00:04:55.000 What?

00:04:56.000 Hey man, let's move forward, bro.

00:04:59.000 Hey, I didn't even post that one.

00:05:00.000 Shout out to my guy, Musa.

00:05:02.000 Oh my god.

00:05:03.000 The tweets are me, the videos are not me.

00:05:05.000 So I got a guy that posts the videos.

00:05:08.000 Ladies, don't read that reason. 1.00

00:05:09.000 Don't read that. 0.98

00:05:10.000 That's fucking funny. 0.97

00:05:12.000 And then check me out by the YouTube channel, guys. 0.99

00:05:14.000 FedReactsMan.

00:05:15.000 I'm in the process right now.

00:05:16.000 Actually, I was right before this show.

00:05:17.000 I was re-uploading the Bonnie and Clyde video.

00:05:20.000 So that will be up there.

00:05:21.000 Last one I did was also the Vince McMahon.

00:05:23.000 If you guys like true crime, I cover everything from Epstein to serial killers to...

00:05:27.000 You know, even civil cases with the Vince McMahon stuff.

00:05:29.000 I cover hip-hop cases, all that stuff.

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00:05:32.000 FedReacts over there.

00:05:34.000 What about you?

00:05:35.000 And guys, I feel like vlogs, man, inspiration, motivation to go to the vlog channel.

00:05:39.000 Recently, we went to a car show on Saturday, actually, Cars and Coffee in Miami.

00:05:42.000 Very good car show, but more importantly, my friend was there, Lambo Raul.

00:05:46.000 He's 25 years old, owns a Bugatti Chevron.

00:05:48.000 All carbon fiber, all spiked out.

00:05:51.000 And it's inspiring me because he's a young kid, man, doing his thing, making money.

00:05:54.000 So I feel like for most people, if you want to have it where you can have your dream car, it's possible.

00:05:59.000 You can just call it a button that works.

00:06:00.000 It's a very good stream.

00:06:01.000 Sorry, vlog, go check it out.

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00:06:05.000 If you guys want to become successful, bring on good mentors, and have a good brotherhood, check out the network.

00:06:10.000 We do Zoom calls every week.

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00:06:15.000 I'll see you guys in there.

00:06:16.000 Wait, Fresh, is that the only thing you did on Saturday night, or Saturday, through the day?

00:06:21.000 He was donating to the church.

00:06:22.000 Wait, what do you mean, bro?

00:06:24.000 No, no, no, you know, just, you weren't walking around a certain place with a...

00:06:37.000 Fresh, thanks again for donating to the church last Saturday.

00:06:41.000 I appreciate that.

00:06:43.000 I got you, bro.

00:06:43.000 Always, man.

00:06:44.000 Man of God.

00:06:45.000 All praise to the most high.

00:06:47.000 Chat, we got nine girls on the panel. 1.00

00:06:52.000 One repeat and eight new girls.

00:06:54.000 So, hey, we're still kicking.

00:06:55.000 We're still doing it strong.

00:06:56.000 Shout out to the ladies for coming through.

00:06:57.000 I mean, they've seen our clips and they still come. 0.96

00:06:59.000 I don't know what the fuck, but other than that, ladies, if you want to come on to Fletcher Fit, Aaron C. Puckson on IG, make sure you come on. 1.00

00:07:07.000 Recently, I've had more girls wanting to come on to our show, so shout out to you, ladies. 1.00

00:07:12.000 Please don't send me paragraphs.

00:07:14.000 Don't have your page on private.

00:07:15.000 I want to see your face.

00:07:16.000 I want to see your body.

00:07:17.000 I want to see what you look like.

00:07:19.000 You know, at the end of the day, man, you're on camera, so don't be like, don't body shame me!

00:07:23.000 I'm like, yes, I will body shame you because it's fresh and fit, niggas, alright? 1.00

00:07:26.000 So, other than that, ladies, have a great show. 1.00

00:07:29.000 And let's support Chris's channel on YouTube as well.

00:07:32.000 Yes, guys, follow my channel on YouTube, my gaming channel.

00:07:35.000 Give me 21K tonight if you can.

00:07:37.000 Right now, I'm at 602.

00:07:39.000 So, yeah, shout out to the merch gang, man.

00:07:42.000 Hopefully you know what he's saying.

00:07:43.000 Alright, ladies! 1.00

00:07:44.000 If you don't mind, you do know what I'm saying, bro.

00:07:46.000 I'll be...

00:07:47.000 Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status. 0.99

00:07:47.000 I'm just kidding, bro. 0.99

00:07:52.000 We're going to start right here.

00:07:55.000 Welcome back.

00:07:56.000 My name's Linda.

00:07:58.000 I turned 26 on Sunday.

00:08:02.000 I'm from Toronto, and I'm an accountant for a non-profit organization called Saint T, and I also have my own small bookkeeping business for small businesses, and I model as well.

00:08:14.000 All right.

00:08:15.000 And also your dating status?

00:08:18.000 Single.

00:08:18.000 Spicy.

00:08:19.000 Anybody count?

00:08:20.000 Education.

00:08:21.000 Oh, I have a bachelor's degree in accounting.

00:08:23.000 No, your body count.

00:08:24.000 I don't care about that.

00:08:27.000 What is it?

00:08:28.000 You actually want me to answer?

00:08:29.000 Yeah, say it.

00:08:31.000 Fifteen.

00:08:32.000 Hundred?

00:08:35.000 Okay.

00:08:36.000 Alright, are your parents still together?

00:08:37.000 No, they're divorced.

00:08:39.000 And then birth control?

00:08:39.000 Okay.

00:08:41.000 I'm not on any birth control.

00:08:43.000 I want all the babies.

00:08:44.000 Oh my goodness, the babies are calling.

00:08:50.000 I mean, I'm 26 times a ticket.

00:08:52.000 Lovely.

00:08:53.000 Fresh?

00:08:54.000 Nigga, what do you say, bro? 1.00

00:08:54.000 What about you? 1.00

00:08:56.000 What about you?

00:08:57.000 My name is Marcella.

00:08:59.000 I'm 30.

00:09:00.000 Wait, 30?

00:09:00.000 Yes.

00:09:01.000 Thank you.

00:09:03.000 Oh, thank you.

00:09:04.000 I'm from Boca Raton.

00:09:06.000 Boca?

00:09:06.000 What?

00:09:08.000 Boca Raton.

00:09:09.000 I work in tech and I... Highest education level?

00:09:13.000 Sorry, oh thank you.

00:09:15.000 In what?

00:09:15.000 Bachelor's.

00:09:17.000 Elementary Education and International Business.

00:09:20.000 Nice.

00:09:21.000 FAU. Alright.

00:09:23.000 Go Owls.

00:09:25.000 Sorry, and what was the other one?

00:09:26.000 Relationship status?

00:09:27.000 Single.

00:09:28.000 Okay.

00:09:29.000 And then, are your parents still together?

00:09:30.000 Yes.

00:09:31.000 Okay.

00:09:31.000 30 years.

00:09:32.000 30 years?

00:09:33.000 And then, are you on birth control?

00:09:33.000 Okay.

00:09:35.000 No.

00:09:36.000 Yo, chat, chill, man.

00:09:36.000 Alright.

00:09:38.000 Alright, damn. 0.99

00:09:39.000 What about you? 0.99

00:09:41.000 My name's Natalia.

00:09:43.000 I'm from Orange County, California.

00:09:45.000 I'm 27.

00:09:46.000 Hey, Natalia.

00:09:47.000 Are you here visiting or are you...

00:09:47.000 Okay.

00:09:49.000 I live here.

00:09:50.000 You live here now?

00:09:51.000 You're from the OC originally?

00:09:51.000 Yeah.

00:09:52.000 Please, can you stop shouting at us?

00:09:54.000 Sorry.

00:09:55.000 Thanks.

00:09:55.000 I'll speak closer.

00:09:56.000 Okay.

00:09:57.000 What do you do for work?

00:09:58.000 I am unemployed.

00:10:00.000 You said unemployed?

00:10:01.000 Yes.

00:10:02.000 Yeah.

00:10:02.000 I guess I'm a stay-at-home girlfriend.

00:10:05.000 Okay.

00:10:06.000 W, okay.

00:10:07.000 Yeah, right.

00:10:08.000 So, hi, is your case level completed?

00:10:11.000 Associates in psychology.

00:10:13.000 Okay.

00:10:14.000 Alright.

00:10:14.000 Yeah.

00:10:15.000 And then relationship status, you said you had a girlfriend, right?

00:10:18.000 Boyfriend.

00:10:19.000 Well, I'm saying you're a girlfriend.

00:10:21.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:10:22.000 How'd you guys meet? 0.59

00:10:24.000 It's a pretty shitty story. 0.80

00:10:26.000 Just a bar. 0.93

00:10:27.000 Yeah, just a bar.

00:10:28.000 Okay.

00:10:29.000 How long have y'all been together?

00:10:31.000 Almost three years.

00:10:32.000 What does he do?

00:10:34.000 He's actually an influencer.

00:10:38.000 He's an influencer, yeah.

00:10:39.000 Oh my god.

00:10:40.000 YouTube, Instagram.

00:10:42.000 He works for Happy Dad, Nelk, the Nelk boys.

00:10:42.000 He's on YouTube?

00:10:46.000 I don't know if you know.

00:10:48.000 He's pretty low-key though, but he's growing.

00:10:52.000 Do we know him?

00:10:53.000 Probably not, but he's more in the behind the scenes, but he works...

00:10:59.000 I don't know.

00:11:00.000 Well, if he's an influencer, that would mean that he's on the camera.

00:11:03.000 I don't want to say his name.

00:11:04.000 Is he behind the scenes or not?

00:11:07.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:11:08.000 I mean, he's, yeah.

00:11:09.000 I'm going to ask Salim. 0.98

00:11:11.000 Is he like the camera guy or some shit? 0.99

00:11:12.000 Yeah, I know Salim. 0.98

00:11:12.000 Salim knows me. 0.98

00:11:13.000 Okay, so yes.

00:11:14.000 You can ask Salim.

00:11:15.000 He'll tell me.

00:11:16.000 Because if it's not Kyle or Stiney, then it's someone behind the scenes.

00:11:20.000 Yeah, he's pretty behind the scenes, honestly.

00:11:22.000 He's kind of the more lovely.

00:11:22.000 So he's not an influencer.

00:11:23.000 He works for them.

00:11:24.000 Wait, question.

00:11:25.000 Because if he was an influencer, he'd be on camera, right?

00:11:28.000 Unless you want to tell us.

00:11:30.000 Not right now.

00:11:33.000 Is he like an audio engineer, camera guy?

00:11:35.000 No, he films whenever they travel for work.

00:11:39.000 He goes with them.

00:11:40.000 So he's a camera guy?

00:11:41.000 No, he's not a camera guy.

00:11:43.000 He's behind the camera.

00:11:45.000 I don't want to say his name right now.

00:11:48.000 No, I'm not saying you have to say his name.

00:11:49.000 No, I'm saying you can say his name.

00:11:51.000 No, you don't have to.

00:11:54.000 If you're going to say influencer, that means he's a public figure and we would know who he is and he's on camera.

00:11:58.000 But you're saying he's behind the scenes, which that's not...

00:12:00.000 I don't think you guys would know him, though.

00:12:02.000 He's still kind of growing.

00:12:03.000 His following is kind of growing.

00:12:06.000 They're saying that's Cousin Jay?

00:12:08.000 No. 0.99

00:12:09.000 No, she's a bad liar, bro. 0.99

00:12:11.000 She said hell no about Cousin Jay. 1.00

00:12:13.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:12:14.000 That's my bro, man. 1.00

00:12:16.000 No offense to him, but I know who he is, too.

00:12:18.000 Okay.

00:12:19.000 Well, I have no clue what you're talking about.

00:12:21.000 It's just weird.

00:12:22.000 Like, if he's an influence, that means he's in front of the camera and people know who he is.

00:12:25.000 Hence, his ability to influence because he has an audience.

00:12:27.000 That's true.

00:12:28.000 If he's behind the scenes, then he's...

00:12:29.000 Okay, his name is Jimmy Gambles.

00:12:31.000 I don't know if you guys...

00:12:32.000 You probably don't know who he is.

00:12:33.000 I have not a clue.

00:12:33.000 I don't know.

00:12:35.000 Okay, you can look him up on Instagram.

00:12:37.000 Either way, show up to him.

00:12:38.000 Okay, cool.

00:12:38.000 He travels with him.

00:12:39.000 It's a question.

00:12:40.000 Did you smash on the first date?

00:12:42.000 Come on.

00:12:43.000 No, no.

00:12:43.000 No, he was...

00:12:44.000 No.

00:12:45.000 Really? 0.52

00:12:45.000 No handjob? 0.52

00:12:46.000 No Christmas.

00:12:52.000 Are your parents still together?

00:12:55.000 Yes.

00:12:56.000 Birth control?

00:13:00.000 No.

00:13:01.000 What about you?

00:13:05.000 My name is Milan.

00:13:06.000 Hey y'all!

00:13:08.000 How old are you?

00:13:09.000 26.

00:13:10.000 Where are you from?

00:13:11.000 New York originally, Harlem.

00:13:13.000 New York in the building?

00:13:14.000 Harlem in the building.

00:13:15.000 Do you live here now or are you just visiting?

00:13:16.000 I just moved to Miami like three months ago.

00:13:19.000 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

00:13:22.000 No, I'm out here on a contract, a recording contract with a multi-platinum artist.

00:13:22.000 Is Don Hill from here?

00:13:27.000 Definitely not for the streets.

00:13:28.000 Let's not get it confused.

00:13:28.000 Okay.

00:13:29.000 So you're a musician?

00:13:31.000 I'm a recording artist.

00:13:32.000 I sing, yeah.

00:13:33.000 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

00:13:35.000 Well, you're on a big platform right now.

00:13:37.000 Could you give us a rendition real quick?

00:13:38.000 Something smooth for the ladies? 0.93

00:13:40.000 A singing?

00:13:41.000 I would love that.

00:13:44.000 So I decided I would try it Because I couldn't fight it I would do it so good I'd have them making me pancakes in the morning Making me pancakes in the morning Okay,

00:14:02.000 yo, hold on real quick.

00:14:03.000 Bills and Moe, tell me, one out of ten, what do you rate at?

00:14:07.000 Like a solid nine.

00:14:08.000 She did it.

00:14:08.000 She went in.

00:14:09.000 You can tell just by the confidence that she's actually a singer, so I'll give it to her.

00:14:13.000 Moe? 1.00

00:14:15.000 Nine.

00:14:16.000 Straight up nine.

00:14:16.000 Thank you, Moe.

00:14:20.000 I usually get shy, but y'all are so homie that I feel good.

00:14:24.000 Wait, you said, are you signed or...

00:14:26.000 No, I'm actually purposely independent.

00:14:28.000 Universal offered me two deals.

00:14:30.000 I'm trying to stay independent.

00:14:31.000 Okay.

00:14:32.000 Maybe after Meg signed her deal, maybe I'll try to flitter around with the labels.

00:14:36.000 But, you know, she had to do that for us to have some rights. 0.89

00:14:40.000 Oh, wow.

00:14:41.000 Who's investing?

00:14:42.000 Meg Thee Stallion has signed her deal.

00:14:44.000 She owns her. 1.00

00:14:45.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:14:45.000 Question for you. 1.00

00:14:46.000 Who you got?

00:14:47.000 Ice Spice or Lotto?

00:14:50.000 Aw, man, why you ask me that?

00:14:52.000 I just left Atlanta for six years, so I've been an avid Lotto fan.

00:14:57.000 And then I'm from Harlem, so Ice Spice.

00:14:59.000 I don't know.

00:15:00.000 No comment.

00:15:01.000 Okay, last one from me.

00:15:02.000 Beautiful women.

00:15:03.000 I got all the beautiful women. 1.00

00:15:04.000 They're both hot.

00:15:05.000 I got you now.

00:15:06.000 Nicki Minaj or Meg Thee Stallion? 1.00

00:15:08.000 Shit. 1.00

00:15:12.000 I like the way Meg handles herself hands down. 1.00

00:15:17.000 My mentor had Beyonce since she was eight years old, so I'm totally on Houston's side.

00:15:22.000 I love Beyonce's character.

00:15:24.000 But Nicki Minaj, I love her.

00:15:26.000 I feel like Meg hit a knob, hit a pin on her, and it made her kind of go crazy. 0.82

00:15:32.000 But I feel like Nicki could have kept her composure a little bit more.

00:15:35.000 I think she was doing really, really well with her new album.

00:15:37.000 She should have never...

00:15:38.000 The devil always works.

00:15:40.000 That's all I can say.

00:15:41.000 But Meg put Tori in jail, though. 1.00

00:15:42.000 That's an L, bro. 0.96

00:15:43.000 It's an L. Yeah, but we don't know what happened, for real.

00:15:45.000 If he really shot her, then you don't think he deserves to be there?

00:15:48.000 He didn't shoot her.

00:15:48.000 Come on.

00:15:50.000 He never said he didn't.

00:15:50.000 I don't know.

00:15:52.000 Well, he in a stitch.

00:15:53.000 Well, he couldn't take the stand.

00:15:55.000 Well, he didn't take the stand.

00:15:56.000 Free Tory, man.

00:15:57.000 Free Tory, man.

00:15:57.000 Yeah, he didn't.

00:15:58.000 He's a great artist.

00:16:00.000 It was her friend that shot her, man.

00:16:00.000 I'll say Free Tory.

00:16:01.000 But if he really shot her, maybe not.

00:16:03.000 It was her friend that shot her, man.

00:16:03.000 I don't know.

00:16:05.000 All the evidence points to her friend shooting her, but that's fine. 1.00

00:16:09.000 But we won't have you comment on that.

00:16:10.000 But you're good at avoiding questions, right?

00:16:11.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:16:13.000 Okay, highest education level completed.

00:16:16.000 Well, I graduated the top of my class, high school.

00:16:19.000 Yeah, but I didn't go to college because I sing, so I went to like a renowned vocal class.

00:16:23.000 Okay.

00:16:24.000 Relationship status?

00:16:26.000 Whatever I want to do.

00:16:27.000 I don't know.

00:16:28.000 So single, I guess?

00:16:30.000 No, definitely not.

00:16:31.000 My ex is begging, so I don't know.

00:16:34.000 Whatever I want to do, if I feel like doing that, if I feel like going back home, if I feel like getting married, just being home.

00:16:39.000 And if I really like you.

00:16:41.000 I would say by definition that means you're single because you can do what you want to do.

00:16:46.000 I wish.

00:16:47.000 You just said you could do whatever you want to do.

00:16:50.000 I didn't say that anybody knew about it.

00:16:52.000 I said I can do whatever I want.

00:16:54.000 So the power's in your hands, basically.

00:16:55.000 Of course.

00:16:56.000 Uh-oh.

00:16:58.000 Okay, so...

00:16:59.000 Just as confusing as y'all, huh?

00:17:04.000 Okay, so why don't you want him, then?

00:17:07.000 Um, okay.

00:17:08.000 So he's a multi-millionaire but very toxic and I don't do toxicity.

00:17:12.000 Is he an artist too?

00:17:13.000 Actually, he used to be.

00:17:15.000 He's in real estate now.

00:17:16.000 He used to be Waka and he used to be signing Gucci.

00:17:19.000 So he used to be an artist.

00:17:21.000 He's not anymore.

00:17:22.000 What's toxic about him?

00:17:24.000 Oh my god, where do we start?

00:17:27.000 Pull up the list.

00:17:28.000 You used to be a rapper?

00:17:28.000 Sure, go ahead.

00:17:29.000 Yeah.

00:17:30.000 Number one.

00:17:31.000 That's what?

00:17:33.000 You know what was so toxic?

00:17:34.000 In the beginning of our relationship, he liked Kevin Samuels.

00:17:38.000 That was like it.

00:17:39.000 That put a real big...

00:17:41.000 Between us, because I'd never seen Kevin Samuels before then.

00:17:41.000 Wait a minute.

00:17:45.000 And once he introduced me to Kevin Samuels, I was like, yeah, so I don't know how I feel about you.

00:17:51.000 So he's toxic because he likes Kevin Samuels.

00:17:53.000 He likes the toxic things about Kevin Samuels.

00:17:56.000 I love that Kevin Samuels speaks highly of women.

00:17:56.000 Such as?

00:18:00.000 I like that he speaks highly...

00:18:02.000 Like, he tells women what they should be doing. 0.98

00:18:05.000 He gives direction.

00:18:06.000 But I don't like the discrimination.

00:18:08.000 I don't like the insults.

00:18:09.000 Like, so it's...

00:18:10.000 But he was more on, like, the insults.

00:18:12.000 If you're over 30, no one's gonna want you. 1.00

00:18:14.000 I mean, he ain't lying.

00:18:15.000 Be with one person. 0.98

00:18:16.000 Obviously, he was a millionaire, so he was a high-valued man, and I didn't give a fuck about that. 0.95

00:18:21.000 So we kind of clashed right there. 0.87

00:18:23.000 Well, that's why you're still single.

00:18:24.000 No, he actively still wants to be with me.

00:18:32.000 It's my choice.

00:18:33.000 To be honest, if we're being honest, I moved to Miami to get away because he wouldn't leave me alone.

00:18:38.000 So you don't want him?

00:18:39.000 Huh?

00:18:40.000 So you don't want him at all?

00:18:41.000 No, I did, but he felt like he can do what he want.

00:18:45.000 He was a very successful man.

00:18:46.000 I feel like he had every right to, and we just was on different pages.

00:18:50.000 I didn't feel that...

00:18:52.000 No, absolutely not.

00:18:52.000 You didn't want that?

00:18:54.000 My parents have been married for almost 35 years, so your money doesn't mean anything to me.

00:18:59.000 And obviously, you try to replace me, you still can't, no matter what they have, so it doesn't mean anything to you either.

00:19:04.000 So are we going to get on the same page, or are we going to keep playing around?

00:19:07.000 So he wanted an open relationship, and you didn't want that?

00:19:09.000 No, he definitely didn't ask for an open relationship.

00:19:12.000 He just wanted to be...

00:19:14.000 I don't even know.

00:19:15.000 It wasn't even about the girls.

00:19:17.000 It was more of his mindset.

00:19:18.000 Like, his words.

00:19:20.000 Like, I want you to do this.

00:19:22.000 I want you to have kids.

00:19:23.000 I want you to...

00:19:23.000 He built me a $40,000 studio, but he doesn't want any of my engineers in the studio.

00:19:28.000 He wants his...

00:19:30.000 But then he never has time for me.

00:19:32.000 So I'm like, well, what are we doing?

00:19:33.000 Like, are you supporting me?

00:19:35.000 I wanted to get my titties done for my birthday.

00:19:36.000 And he said yes.

00:19:37.000 And then he was like, you're going to leave me.

00:19:39.000 You're going to cheat on me.

00:19:40.000 You're going to get famous.

00:19:41.000 And then I was like, I'm good.

00:19:43.000 Does that make sense?

00:19:45.000 It sounds like he's insecure if you ask me.

00:19:45.000 Not really.

00:19:48.000 Because I wasn't insecure.

00:19:50.000 Okay.

00:19:51.000 So the first thing was you didn't like that he watched Kevin Samuels.

00:19:55.000 No, it's just the way he introduced me to him was kind of saying like, oh, I'm a high value man and you da da da.

00:20:01.000 And I'm like, I don't even know what you make.

00:20:03.000 I don't care what you make.

00:20:04.000 We didn't even have that conversation yet.

00:20:06.000 I see you have your own house.

00:20:07.000 I see you have your own car.

00:20:08.000 You look like you take care of yourself.

00:20:10.000 That's all I needed to know.

00:20:13.000 You said he was a multi-millionaire, so you know he makes something.

00:20:16.000 No, I didn't know that.

00:20:16.000 I really didn't know that until way after Kevin Samuels, to be honest.

00:20:20.000 So he's right.

00:20:21.000 About what?

00:20:22.000 What was that, Mo?

00:20:23.000 So does he sponsor your independency?

00:20:27.000 He did.

00:20:29.000 All up until me getting bigger than what he can control.

00:20:32.000 Does that make sense?

00:20:34.000 So you don't think that on some level, he's like, you know what, this is my girl.

00:20:38.000 I want her to win.

00:20:39.000 But obviously, to protect you from certain things, he wants a little bit of control.

00:20:43.000 You know, because obviously the world's crazy out there when it comes to the rap game, industry game.

00:20:47.000 So maybe he's like, you know what, just to protect you, here's the things that you should put in place so that I can make sure you're good.

00:20:52.000 Yes.

00:20:53.000 But then his...

00:20:54.000 We're all pretty women. 1.00

00:20:56.000 Okay, so his ex-girlfriend was fairly successful. 0.94

00:21:00.000 But if you ask me, she looked like a dyke. 1.00

00:21:02.000 Very different from me. 0.91

00:21:03.000 She left him because they had a threesome. 0.90

00:21:06.000 And she had too much fun with her best friend with him.

00:21:11.000 And he tried to make her leave the best friend.

00:21:13.000 And the ex-girlfriend left him because she said he was too controlling.

00:21:18.000 So just to let you know, like...

00:21:20.000 I think that one, he's controlling because even his ex-girlfriend thought so.

00:21:24.000 And then me, I think he used to date a little bit underneath him to make him feel better.

00:21:28.000 And I mean, he picked me.

00:21:30.000 I didn't pick him.

00:21:31.000 So I was, you know, I'm not going to go down because you like to date down.

00:21:36.000 But wait, I do because you just said something that was a little interesting.

00:21:40.000 You said that you feel like he dates down to make himself feel better.

00:21:43.000 Do you feel like you're down and that's why he dated you?

00:21:45.000 Okay, so if we're going to be honest.

00:21:47.000 No, that's a really good question.

00:21:49.000 Can we be honest?

00:21:51.000 So when he met me, and this is where I knew where the disconnect was.

00:21:56.000 When he met me, I was shopping in Publix with my doggy stroller.

00:22:00.000 So you don't know who you're meeting.

00:22:02.000 Touche.

00:22:02.000 I have my doggy stroller.

00:22:03.000 I probably look like, you know, that's like, you know, so he I think he forgot a tomato because he wanted to make tacos and I forgot something in the vegetable section and we kind of ran into each other.

00:22:13.000 So I don't think we knew each other and I don't think we cared.

00:22:15.000 I think it was about like a genuine connection at that moment.

00:22:18.000 But after that, the matrix got involved, whether his way or my way.

00:22:22.000 And then.

00:22:22.000 Here we are now.

00:22:23.000 The Matrix, wow.

00:22:25.000 Yeah, he actually told me, like, you don't understand.

00:22:26.000 I can get whatever I want, whoever I want.

00:22:28.000 Like, I'm living in the Matrix.

00:22:30.000 And I was like, oh, okay, that's nice.

00:22:31.000 We were best friends, so I do understand.

00:22:33.000 But that has nothing to do with me and my standards of what I expect from a relationship.

00:22:38.000 You said it was controlling.

00:22:39.000 What did he do that was like controlling?

00:22:43.000 Everything, even with the studio.

00:22:45.000 I couldn't control...

00:22:46.000 How you build me a studio and then I can't even bring my engineers that I've been working with 10 plus years with to the studio to record me.

00:22:54.000 Maybe his engineers were better?

00:22:57.000 Actually, they were, but he was like so busy.

00:23:00.000 No, because he was working with Gucci, so trust me.

00:23:04.000 But at the same time, if no one is recording, then it doesn't matter who's better or not.

00:23:08.000 If you don't have time, if your engineers don't have time, you're selling real estate, doing everything you're doing, And then it's stuck in your apartment.

00:23:16.000 So I need a key to your apartment to get in whenever I want.

00:23:20.000 He has some stuff going on there, so I couldn't do that.

00:23:22.000 So it's like a lot of control.

00:23:24.000 It's like a dangling thing, which is cool, but I'm not a little girl or a dog.

00:23:28.000 So that wasn't going to work with me.

00:23:30.000 So who's going to fund it now?

00:23:31.000 I do.

00:23:34.000 I have so many questions, but we'll move on.

00:23:37.000 Are your parents still together?

00:23:40.000 They are.

00:23:41.000 35 years.

00:23:42.000 My mom was 17.

00:23:44.000 She's been with one other man when she was like 17 and that's it.

00:23:47.000 Are you on birth control?

00:23:47.000 That's beautiful.

00:23:50.000 No, I'm all natural.

00:23:51.000 Never been on birth control before.

00:23:53.000 What about you?

00:23:55.000 My name is That Girl Luli.

00:23:57.000 I am a motivational speaker, life coach.

00:23:58.000 First name That Girl? 1.00

00:23:59.000 No.

00:24:00.000 Last name Luli?

00:24:01.000 Basically, basically, basically.

00:24:03.000 My real name is Luz Mari.

00:24:04.000 It means light in Spanish.

00:24:05.000 Luli.

00:24:05.000 Okay, how old are you?

00:24:06.000 I am timeless, but I'm 30, I'll tell you guys.

00:24:09.000 Are you 30?

00:24:10.000 Where are you from?

00:24:10.000 Yes.

00:24:11.000 Puerto Rico.

00:24:13.000 Okay.

00:24:14.000 Do you live here at Miami now or do you...

00:24:16.000 No, I was here on vacation, yeah.

00:24:17.000 Okay.

00:24:18.000 What do you do for work?

00:24:19.000 You said motivational speaker?

00:24:20.000 Motivational speaker, life coach, and I'm also an actress.

00:24:23.000 I actually did my first short film where I wrote it, directed it, scripted it, and starred in it.

00:24:26.000 It is speaking on domestic violence from a male's point of view.

00:24:31.000 From a male point of view?

00:24:32.000 Wow.

00:24:32.000 Yeah.

00:24:33.000 I raised my little brother for five years and just seeing that men don't really have a voice. 0.99

00:24:36.000 You know, if I slap the shit out of you, it's like, what did he do? 0.99

00:24:39.000 He must have done something. 1.00

00:24:39.000 He must have cheated. 1.00

00:24:40.000 But if you slap the shit out of me... 1.00

00:24:42.000 It's different, right? 0.99

00:24:45.000 It's super intense.

00:24:46.000 It's rated M for Mature.

00:24:47.000 It's 30 minutes.

00:24:48.000 But it really, I think, is something that is going to change perspective and really help people.

00:24:55.000 Very interesting.

00:24:56.000 I was talking about this a month or two ago.

00:24:59.000 They found that in domestic violence situations, when there's one antagonizer, it's almost always the female to the male.

00:25:06.000 There's higher likelihoods of the woman actually attacking the guy. 0.97

00:25:10.000 But most of the time, both of them beat the shit out of each other.

00:25:12.000 But when it's one way, it's mostly always the female to the male. 0.99

00:25:16.000 Absolutely.

00:25:17.000 It's not as much as the male to the female as people think.

00:25:19.000 Right.

00:25:19.000 And that's what the film kind of covers is like how far is too far?

00:25:24.000 It's not to justify, right?

00:25:25.000 But it's to see that some people can be pushed to their limits.

00:25:28.000 And when a woman's pushed to her limits, it's kind of accepted by society versus if a man's pushed to his limits, now he's aggressive, now he's this, he's that.

00:25:36.000 And, you know, I don't want to give it away because it really is a good watch.

00:25:39.000 And the link is in my Instagram.

00:25:41.000 But at the end of it...

00:25:43.000 What's the name of it?

00:25:45.000 Microscopic.

00:25:46.000 Yeah, it's on YouTube.

00:25:46.000 What platform is it on?

00:25:48.000 Yeah, it's on YouTube.

00:25:50.000 What, I guess, do you have kids?

00:25:53.000 So my little brother, my mom passed away five years ago.

00:25:53.000 No.

00:25:56.000 When she passed, he was 13.

00:25:58.000 And I decided to, you know, step up and take him.

00:26:00.000 Because if not, he would have ended up in like Ohio or Puerto Rico or, you know, my family.

00:26:04.000 And I couldn't leave him.

00:26:05.000 That's my baby.

00:26:07.000 That's very good of you.

00:26:08.000 Thank you.

00:26:09.000 I appreciate that.

00:26:10.000 Yeah.

00:26:10.000 Thank you.

00:26:11.000 It's been a rough journey, but at the same time, I wouldn't be the woman I am today if it wasn't for that.

00:26:17.000 How old is he?

00:26:18.000 He's 19 now, so I put him through high school and he's in college now.

00:26:22.000 Shout out to Louie.

00:26:23.000 I love you, baby.

00:26:25.000 And I'm so proud of him.

00:26:26.000 He's such a good kid.

00:26:27.000 He has a girlfriend he's been with now for almost two years.

00:26:29.000 I put him on game.

00:26:30.000 I try to express to him that women are the prize, but so aren't men.

00:26:34.000 And the reason that we are a prize is because of the man, if that makes sense.

00:26:39.000 You're not somebody only because of that, but if he sees that in you, It's because of him.

00:26:44.000 That's a reflection of you if he's seeing that in you.

00:26:47.000 Like, you attracted that energy because you are that.

00:26:49.000 So, you know, I just, me showing him that and the way he treats his girlfriend and the way she treats him, it's just, it's beautiful.

00:26:56.000 Okay.

00:26:57.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:27:00.000 So I have three different licenses.

00:27:03.000 I do aesthetics, dental, and laser technician as well.

00:27:08.000 But right now, I'm fully committed into my streaming on TikTok.

00:27:11.000 I was just at the TikTok Live Fest, so I was very honored to be there.

00:27:14.000 I do it professionally.

00:27:15.000 I have my own studio.

00:27:16.000 I do motivational speaking on there, life coaching, comedy, ASMR, all that good stuff. 1.00

00:27:21.000 You came in full package, goddamn. 0.99

00:27:23.000 Okay, relationship status? 1.00

00:27:26.000 Single and celibate.

00:27:27.000 Single and celibate.

00:27:28.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

00:27:29.000 No cap, baby.

00:27:31.000 How long you been celibate?

00:27:33.000 She a little dusty.

00:27:35.000 She got some cobwebs in there.

00:27:36.000 Come on, bro.

00:27:37.000 You're Puerto Rican.

00:27:38.000 Baby, do you know how hard it is?

00:27:39.000 It's hard.

00:27:40.000 Ain't no way.

00:27:41.000 How long you been?

00:27:42.000 It's hard.

00:27:43.000 You're Puerto Rican.

00:27:43.000 It's hard.

00:27:45.000 I know you guys.

00:27:46.000 How about your mouth, though?

00:27:47.000 Your mouth celibate?

00:27:48.000 Yes, baby.

00:27:49.000 Yes, it is.

00:27:50.000 Yes, it is.

00:27:51.000 Come on, man.

00:27:51.000 It's your celibate.

00:27:52.000 No, because you want to know something?

00:27:54.000 I mean, she has a nice seat, though.

00:27:56.000 Thank you.

00:27:57.000 You want to know something?

00:27:58.000 I truly believe in love.

00:27:59.000 I feel like the reason why I'm on my platform and that it's growing is because I do truly believe that I'm going to have a husband and I'm going to cater to him and love him.

00:28:07.000 But you're 30, so how much long you got to wait?

00:28:09.000 But guess what, puppy?

00:28:10.000 The reason I'm 30 and single is because I gave up five years of my life to take care of my little brother.

00:28:14.000 I mean, don't punish the guy.

00:28:17.000 But I had to because think about it, right?

00:28:19.000 It was like, if a guy wants to go out with me on a Wednesday, he's not really understanding that I got to bring my brother to school the next day.

00:28:25.000 I have certain responsibilities.

00:28:27.000 He's looking at me like, no, what do you mean?

00:28:28.000 You're single.

00:28:29.000 You don't have kids.

00:28:30.000 And my brother, in that moment, he had to come first.

00:28:33.000 No, but now I'm saying now.

00:28:34.000 Oh, but now it's just like, I just, he just left the nest.

00:28:37.000 You know what I mean?

00:28:38.000 So I'm like, okay, like all day.

00:28:39.000 So then get to work.

00:28:40.000 Ah!

00:28:47.000 So you said you've been celibate.

00:28:49.000 When's the last time you had sex then?

00:28:51.000 If you're celibate.

00:28:54.000 Don't cap.

00:28:55.000 No, I'm being serious.

00:28:56.000 It's been now almost three months because I was with somebody who I really fell for type of thing.

00:29:02.000 Before that, it was almost a year.

00:29:05.000 But it was something where I felt like we've known each other since we were kids and it was very electrifying.

00:29:11.000 It was very beautiful.

00:29:12.000 Why'd you break up?

00:29:14.000 If you want me to be honest, I think we were both scared.

00:29:17.000 Nah, he smashed and dashed, bro.

00:29:19.000 Huh?

00:29:19.000 He smashed and dashed.

00:29:21.000 No, no, it wasn't like that.

00:29:23.000 Really?

00:29:23.000 No, it wasn't like that.

00:29:24.000 And the reason why I'm saying it is because...

00:29:24.000 It wasn't.

00:29:26.000 You broke up with him or he broke up with you?

00:29:27.000 I did.

00:29:28.000 And the reason why it was because we dishrooms, we did a spiritual trip, and, like, I'm a shaman, so shout out to the most high.

00:29:35.000 Hey, listen, you can...

00:29:35.000 And...

00:29:37.000 Mario!

00:29:38.000 Mario!

00:29:45.000 I'm a shaman.

00:29:48.000 I'm so serious.

00:29:50.000 I take people on spiritual trips.

00:29:50.000 I'm a shaman.

00:29:52.000 I help them heal.

00:29:53.000 I help them with their trauma.

00:29:55.000 I think a lot of women and men alike, we can get into situations or do certain things because of the fact that we've been hurt or somebody did something to us when we were younger.

00:30:05.000 And That's where I'm at with it, that it's like, you don't have to go that route.

00:30:09.000 You don't have to do certain things.

00:30:11.000 Listen, I'll tell you this.

00:30:11.000 I love that we need that.

00:30:12.000 You're the third person to tell me that they did shrooms with their partner and they broke up, literally.

00:30:16.000 I don't know why, but that's just weird.

00:30:17.000 No, because, papi, here's the thing, right?

00:30:19.000 When you...

00:30:19.000 Oh, papi, oh.

00:30:21.000 I say it a lot.

00:30:22.000 It's a term of endearment.

00:30:24.000 But, like, what it is, is, right, when you do shrooms, If you are not ready to face yourself, it could be the most scariest thing in the world, right?

00:30:33.000 But if you're ready to see you, and then you're having the trip with somebody, you can see everything.

00:30:39.000 And I wasn't necessarily scared of his flaws or his darkness, but I know that in order for us, because I believe, listen, I'm going to be real, I love that man.

00:30:47.000 I love him, but I truly believe that in order for me to be his wife, I have things that I have to control.

00:30:53.000 Like, I like being a submissive.

00:30:54.000 I want to be quiet.

00:30:56.000 I want to rub your feet.

00:30:57.000 I want to rub your head.

00:30:57.000 I want to love you and cater to you.

00:30:59.000 But he's not that man for you.

00:31:01.000 It's not that he's...

00:31:02.000 Not right now.

00:31:03.000 Not right now.

00:31:04.000 There you go.

00:31:04.000 Not right now.

00:31:05.000 But I do believe that he is an amazing man.

00:31:08.000 So you're telling me it took shrooms to figure out?

00:31:10.000 Come on, bro!

00:31:11.000 Come on, bro!

00:31:13.000 But you know why?

00:31:13.000 Because it's different if you're a great man and you have all these things going for you, but you have this darkness within you that you're not ready to face, like childhood and things like that.

00:31:22.000 A lot of men, when they finally really realize that they don't have to deal with all that, they become their highest version, and that's when they can really be and provide.

00:31:30.000 Is it darkness?

00:31:32.000 Oh, so...

00:31:32.000 Was he black?

00:31:35.000 No, but we, you know, we don't come from much.

00:31:38.000 Like, I grew up in the projects.

00:31:38.000 You know what I mean?

00:31:39.000 Like, I didn't...

00:31:40.000 Oh, okay.

00:31:41.000 So, that's a long way to say he was broke.

00:31:43.000 So, you broke up with him.

00:31:44.000 No, actually, he's very successful.

00:31:45.000 No, no, no.

00:31:45.000 He's very successful, man.

00:31:46.000 Well, I'm talking about when we grew up.

00:31:47.000 Like, I've known him since I was, like, eight years old.

00:31:49.000 Well, no.

00:31:49.000 Okay.

00:31:50.000 All right.

00:31:51.000 That was a great intro.

00:31:52.000 Okay.

00:31:53.000 Are your parents still together?

00:31:54.000 My mom passed away, yeah.

00:31:54.000 You said your mom...

00:31:55.000 So, my dad is actually remarried now.

00:31:57.000 Okay.

00:31:58.000 But they were together before that?

00:31:59.000 Yes.

00:32:00.000 Yes.

00:32:00.000 And then birth control?

00:32:00.000 Okay.

00:32:02.000 No need.

00:32:03.000 Alright, body count?

00:32:06.000 Crickets.

00:32:08.000 No, my dad watches your podcast.

00:32:10.000 That's weird.

00:32:11.000 I told him not to even watch my short film because it's rated M. Like, that's weird.

00:32:14.000 Pobre.

00:32:16.000 You gotta put the R in there.

00:32:18.000 Pobre.

00:32:19.000 Okay, what about you?

00:32:21.000 What's your name?

00:32:22.000 Hey, y'all!

00:32:23.000 Hey, I'm Jasmine Hayes.

00:32:26.000 How old are you, Jasmine?

00:32:26.000 Okay.

00:32:27.000 I'm 32.

00:32:29.000 Okay.

00:32:30.000 Where are you from?

00:32:31.000 I'm originally from Indiana.

00:32:33.000 Oh wow.

00:32:34.000 What part of Indiana are you from?

00:32:35.000 South Bend.

00:32:36.000 Okay.

00:32:37.000 I live in West Palm Beach, Florida now.

00:32:39.000 Okay.

00:32:40.000 What do you do for work?

00:32:41.000 I am an OnlyFans model.

00:32:43.000 Wait, at 32?

00:32:44.000 Yeah.

00:32:45.000 Shout out to you.

00:32:46.000 Okay.

00:32:47.000 Highest education level completed?

00:32:50.000 One year of college.

00:32:51.000 Just one year.

00:32:52.000 Okay.

00:32:52.000 So high school completed though.

00:32:54.000 Yeah.

00:32:54.000 And then relationship status?

00:32:56.000 I am dating someone.

00:32:59.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:33:00.000 At a club.

00:33:02.000 Which club?

00:33:03.000 UT. At Club Lived.

00:33:07.000 Okay.

00:33:07.000 That's not bad.

00:33:09.000 Love in the club.

00:33:10.000 Is it exclusive or no?

00:33:12.000 Keep it a bean.

00:33:14.000 It is exclusive.

00:33:15.000 For you or for him?

00:33:17.000 For both of us.

00:33:18.000 How do you know?

00:33:20.000 I don't.

00:33:21.000 I don't.

00:33:22.000 I've been dating him for five years now.

00:33:25.000 And you don't know if it's exclusive?

00:33:40.000 So, okay, so is he your boyfriend or not?

00:33:43.000 Because you kind of phrased it as, like, you guys are just seeing each other, but...

00:33:47.000 He is considered my boyfriend.

00:33:47.000 We're...

00:33:50.000 I do apologize.

00:33:51.000 He's my boyfriend.

00:33:52.000 Yes.

00:33:52.000 He is?

00:33:53.000 Okay.

00:33:54.000 Does he...

00:33:54.000 Yes.

00:33:55.000 But would he...

00:33:55.000 Like, if we asked him, would he say that you...

00:33:57.000 Would he claim you as his girl?

00:33:58.000 Of course.

00:33:59.000 Not.

00:34:00.000 He would!

00:34:01.000 He would.

00:34:03.000 Oh, yeah?

00:34:03.000 Shout out to Jimmy.

00:34:05.000 Wait, the same Jimmy that she's dating?

00:34:13.000 And what does Jimmy do for a living?

00:34:16.000 Since y'all been together for five years?

00:34:20.000 I don't know if I could say.

00:34:22.000 He's a CFO. Okay.

00:34:26.000 But I can't tell you for the company and stuff.

00:34:29.000 He's a professional.

00:34:30.000 Shout out to him.

00:34:31.000 And you guys have been seeing each other for five years and no engagement, no nothing, no ring?

00:34:35.000 Nope.

00:34:36.000 Wait, is he white?

00:34:38.000 Yes.

00:34:39.000 Okay.

00:34:40.000 No, no, because I don't get into details here, but obviously speaking, it makes sense.

00:34:40.000 What does that have to do?

00:34:47.000 Oh, because he's white? 0.63

00:34:48.000 Yeah.

00:34:49.000 He's probably like, you know what? 1.00

00:34:50.000 Alright, it's my little black bitch over here. 1.00

00:34:52.000 Go up in America! 1.00

00:34:54.000 Go up in America!

00:34:57.000 Bring it to the table! 0.99

00:34:58.000 Get up!

00:34:59.000 Mom and Dad!

00:35:00.000 Why can't it be?

00:35:00.000 Look away!

00:35:04.000 I understand.

00:35:05.000 I'm just saying how it looks.

00:35:06.000 I'm just not ready.

00:35:07.000 I'm just not ready for marriage.

00:35:09.000 What are you not ready for?

00:35:10.000 A man to love you, cater you, be with you.

00:35:13.000 I'm not ready.

00:35:15.000 You know what it is? 0.83

00:35:17.000 He ain't that nigga. 1.00

00:35:18.000 That's what it is. 1.00

00:35:20.000 He's a wigger. 1.00

00:35:22.000 What? 0.99

00:35:23.000 How about he doesn't watch this?

00:35:27.000 He is probably watching this.

00:35:29.000 Does Jimmy manage your OnlyFans?

00:35:29.000 I love you.

00:35:31.000 No, he does not.

00:35:33.000 He knows about it, right?

00:35:34.000 Oh, yes.

00:35:35.000 Oh, yes.

00:35:37.000 He's white, bro.

00:35:38.000 You think that might be a part of the reason why he's not committed, maybe?

00:35:43.000 Especially since he has a corporate job?

00:35:45.000 No, I don't think so.

00:35:46.000 You don't think so?

00:35:47.000 Okay.

00:35:47.000 No.

00:35:48.000 Alright, so you guys met at Live five years ago.

00:35:50.000 Cool.

00:35:51.000 Are your parents together?

00:35:53.000 I am adopted, so no.

00:35:56.000 My mom raised me single.

00:35:59.000 Birth control?

00:36:00.000 No.

00:36:01.000 Okay.

00:36:02.000 What about you?

00:36:04.000 Hi, my name's Aisha.

00:36:06.000 Sorry, Aisha? 0.89

00:36:07.000 Aisha.

00:36:08.000 Aisha, okay.

00:36:09.000 I'm 20.

00:36:09.000 How old are you?

00:36:10.000 Where are you from?

00:36:11.000 I'm from Chicago, but I came to Miami for school, so I go to the University of Miami.

00:36:17.000 Okay.

00:36:18.000 All right.

00:36:19.000 What are you, I'm guessing, full-time student?

00:36:22.000 Okay.

00:36:22.000 Yeah.

00:36:23.000 What are you majoring in?

00:36:24.000 I am double majoring in finance and health management.

00:36:28.000 Okay.

00:36:29.000 You said UM? Yeah.

00:36:30.000 Okay.

00:36:31.000 Relative status?

00:36:33.000 Single.

00:36:34.000 Okay.

00:36:36.000 And parents are together?

00:36:37.000 Yeah, of course.

00:36:38.000 Okay.

00:36:39.000 Of course.

00:36:40.000 Of course.

00:36:41.000 No, never.

00:36:43.000 What's your background?

00:36:44.000 I am Indian.

00:36:47.000 How did I know?

00:36:48.000 Pairs together?

00:36:50.000 Yeah.

00:36:51.000 Statistics show it all.

00:36:53.000 Are you Muslim or what are you?

00:36:54.000 Yeah, I'm Muslim.

00:36:55.000 You are?

00:36:56.000 Ram, hair ain't covered.

00:37:01.000 What's your ethnic background?

00:37:02.000 Thank you for reminding me.

00:37:03.000 I'm Indian.

00:37:04.000 No, I know yours.

00:37:04.000 You.

00:37:05.000 I'm African American.

00:37:07.000 Okay.

00:37:08.000 As far as I know, I haven't...

00:37:10.000 You're Puerto Rican.

00:37:11.000 What are you?

00:37:12.000 My mom is all Puerto Rican. 0.98

00:37:13.000 My dad is black.

00:37:14.000 Okay.

00:37:15.000 Dad is all Puerto... 1.00

00:37:17.000 My dad is black.

00:37:18.000 My mom is Puerto Rican. 0.60

00:37:19.000 And then what about you?

00:37:19.000 Okay.

00:37:20.000 My mom's Mexican and then my dad's American.

00:37:24.000 Caucasian or... 0.97

00:37:26.000 He's like a mutt. 0.97

00:37:26.000 I don't know. 0.97

00:37:27.000 He's like white, Spanish. 0.98

00:37:30.000 He's like fourth generation.

00:37:31.000 I have no idea.

00:37:33.000 Okay.

00:37:34.000 What's your dog?

00:37:35.000 You should talk to him.

00:37:36.000 He's a mutt.

00:37:37.000 I know.

00:37:37.000 He's like Native American.

00:37:38.000 He's a dog.

00:37:39.000 I know.

00:37:40.000 All right.

00:37:40.000 Okay.

00:37:41.000 What about you, Marcel?

00:37:43.000 What's your ethnic background?

00:37:44.000 I'm Middle Eastern and Latina or Hispanic.

00:37:47.000 What country from the Middle East specifically?

00:37:48.000 Palestinian, Syrian.

00:37:49.000 Okay, welcome.

00:37:51.000 Who's Palestinian, your mom or your dad?

00:37:53.000 So my mom's side of the family, but they moved from Palestine to Honduras.

00:37:58.000 So then there's the Latina.

00:38:00.000 When did they leave?

00:38:02.000 My grandma moved there, so like, I'm not really sure too much on the details, but yeah.

00:38:08.000 Not like recently, like maybe a hundred years ago. 0.97

00:38:12.000 Oh shit, BC? No. 0.99

00:38:15.000 I'm just kidding.

00:38:16.000 Probably right around 1948 for certain reasons.

00:38:19.000 Yeah.

00:38:20.000 Around that time?

00:38:21.000 Yeah.

00:38:22.000 And then they moved to Honduras and then I grew up with more of a mixed background.

00:38:27.000 So Hispanic and... 0.85

00:38:28.000 Alright, but your family is Honduran pretty much?

00:38:31.000 Yeah, but Arabic.

00:38:32.000 Do you speak Arabic?

00:38:34.000 A few words, but no.

00:38:36.000 But I relate more with both.

00:38:39.000 Because they still kept the customs and everything like that.

00:38:41.000 Did they cross the ocean?

00:38:44.000 Yeah.

00:38:45.000 Are they Muslim or not?

00:38:49.000 Yeah, Christian.

00:38:49.000 Christian?

00:38:51.000 Okay.

00:38:52.000 And then you just Caucasian, I guess? 0.92

00:38:54.000 Yeah, Canadian.

00:38:56.000 Canadian.

00:38:58.000 Came from Scotland, so the colonizers, you know.

00:39:02.000 All right.

00:39:03.000 And then, all right, so we got you.

00:39:05.000 It's cold over there, eh?

00:39:06.000 Yeah, it is, eh?

00:39:06.000 Okay.

00:39:08.000 What about you?

00:39:09.000 I'm Caitlin.

00:39:10.000 I am 28 for a few more days.

00:39:13.000 With a C or with an I? With a K and no I. Okay.

00:39:16.000 The phonetically correct way to spell my name.

00:39:18.000 K-A-T. Excuse you. 0.99

00:39:20.000 Okay.

00:39:21.000 With an E or L-Y-N? E-L-Y-N. Okay. 0.99

00:39:24.000 Get it right, Myron.

00:39:25.000 Okay.

00:39:26.000 How old are you?

00:39:27.000 28.

00:39:28.000 Where are you from?

00:39:29.000 A separate from Chicago. 1.00

00:39:31.000 Oh shit. 1.00

00:39:32.000 What suburb of Chicago? 1.00

00:39:33.000 Oswego.

00:39:34.000 It's real small.

00:39:35.000 What's it called?

00:39:36.000 Oswego.

00:39:37.000 Yeah.

00:39:37.000 As we go.

00:39:39.000 Did you guys come together?

00:39:39.000 As we go home.

00:39:41.000 No.

00:39:42.000 No?

00:39:42.000 Okay.

00:39:44.000 All right.

00:39:45.000 What do you do for work?

00:39:46.000 I work in tech.

00:39:47.000 Okay.

00:39:49.000 Are you guys friends?

00:39:50.000 Yes.

00:39:50.000 Okay.

00:39:51.000 BFFs.

00:39:51.000 Because you both are in tech.

00:39:52.000 Okay.

00:39:53.000 You guys, do you live here in Miami now or are you just visiting?

00:39:55.000 Boca.

00:39:56.000 Yeah, we live in Boca.

00:39:57.000 Boca's far, man.

00:39:57.000 Boca as well.

00:39:58.000 It's like 45 minutes.

00:39:59.000 Everyone acts like you're driving to South America.

00:40:01.000 I used to work there.

00:40:04.000 Yo, from Pines, Yamato Road is far.

00:40:06.000 I live off Yamato. 1.00

00:40:07.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:40:08.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:40:08.000 That's awesome. 1.00

00:40:09.000 It's not far.

00:40:10.000 Wait, you work in tech?

00:40:11.000 I work in tech.

00:40:13.000 The building, Yamato Road.

00:40:15.000 No, but the company's actually based out of Chicago.

00:40:17.000 It's not here.

00:40:18.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:40:19.000 I used to work at AT&T. It's not that it's that far.

00:40:21.000 It's a pain to get up there.

00:40:23.000 That's why.

00:40:24.000 Because you got to take 95, then you got to switch to the turnpike.

00:40:27.000 It's like...

00:40:28.000 Not the turnpike.

00:40:29.000 That's west.

00:40:31.000 No.

00:40:31.000 Is Boca on 95?

00:40:32.000 Yeah, you can take Boca.

00:40:34.000 I take 95, yeah.

00:40:35.000 Well, 95 is even worse, bro.

00:40:38.000 But you know what's funny?

00:40:39.000 I didn't know about tolls several years ago.

00:40:41.000 So I'm driving up to Boca every day back and forth.

00:40:43.000 I'm like, okay, cool.

00:40:43.000 This is faster.

00:40:44.000 Going through a toll lane.

00:40:46.000 I get a letter in the mail.

00:40:48.000 I'll put out that bill.

00:40:50.000 500 bucks.

00:40:51.000 Mind you, I'm going to make a $7,000 an hour.

00:40:53.000 I've got to screw it over, but hey, it's what it is, man.

00:40:55.000 Yeah, but yeah, 95 is the worst.

00:40:55.000 Oh, man.

00:40:56.000 But anyway, especially since with the population explosion here in Florida.

00:41:00.000 Okay, so you said you're in tech.

00:41:01.000 Relationship status?

00:41:02.000 I filed a single this year.

00:41:06.000 Okay.

00:41:07.000 That's a funny way to say it.

00:41:07.000 Technically, you would file a single even if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend.

00:41:11.000 Yeah, I'm single.

00:41:12.000 So you are single, okay.

00:41:14.000 Literally and tax-wise, fantastic.

00:41:16.000 All right, parents still together?

00:41:18.000 No.

00:41:19.000 Divorced?

00:41:20.000 Divorced.

00:41:21.000 Okay.

00:41:21.000 Birth control?

00:41:22.000 Never.

00:41:23.000 Okay.

00:41:24.000 And then what's your...

00:41:26.000 Oh, background?

00:41:27.000 Greek and Italian.

00:41:27.000 Like racial background?

00:41:29.000 Okay.

00:41:30.000 Like, are your parents like both from there?

00:41:32.000 Like, are they first generation?

00:41:34.000 They're first generation, both of them.

00:41:35.000 So they both immigrated here?

00:41:36.000 Or no, no, no, no, no.

00:41:37.000 Their parents, your grandparents immigrated here?

00:41:39.000 Yes, my grandparents.

00:41:40.000 Okay.

00:41:41.000 All right.

00:41:41.000 Greek and Italian.

00:41:42.000 And they're back in Chicago, I'm guessing?

00:41:43.000 No, all here.

00:41:44.000 Oh, they moved?

00:41:45.000 My immediate family's all down here.

00:41:46.000 Okay.

00:41:47.000 They were together when we moved.

00:41:47.000 All right.

00:41:49.000 Okay. 1.00

00:41:50.000 Well, Illinois sucks. 0.99

00:41:51.000 Mine will do that for you. 0.99

00:41:52.000 What about you?

00:41:53.000 What's your name?

00:41:54.000 Hi, my name is Melissa.

00:41:56.000 Melissa?

00:41:57.000 Okay, how old are you?

00:41:57.000 I'm 28.

00:41:59.000 Where are you from?

00:41:59.000 I'm from Bolivia.

00:42:01.000 Bolivia?

00:42:02.000 Okay, it's different.

00:42:03.000 Okay.

00:42:04.000 What do you do for work?

00:42:05.000 So, I'm a full-time nanny and also I work as a server.

00:42:09.000 Okay.

00:42:10.000 Yeah, I just moved to Miami like a month ago.

00:42:13.000 Okay.

00:42:13.000 You nanny make money, bro.

00:42:14.000 They make money, bro.

00:42:16.000 You work for like, are you like an au pair?

00:42:18.000 No, I choose to be an au pair, but now I'm a full-time nanny because my au pair program ended.

00:42:24.000 Okay, alright.

00:42:26.000 And then, highest education level completed?

00:42:28.000 I have a bachelor degree in business administration and I have a postgraduate degree in education.

00:42:34.000 Was this back in Bolivia?

00:42:34.000 Okay.

00:42:36.000 Yes, all of that in Bolivia.

00:42:37.000 Okay.

00:42:38.000 Are your parents still together?

00:42:40.000 Yes, kind of.

00:42:41.000 I mean, they got divorced and they got together again.

00:42:44.000 What about you?

00:42:47.000 Are you single in a relationship?

00:42:49.000 Right now I'm single.

00:42:51.000 Okay.

00:42:51.000 You left a guy in Bolivia?

00:42:53.000 No, not really.

00:42:54.000 I mean, I left Bolivia four years ago.

00:42:58.000 Four years ago, but you said...

00:42:59.000 Yes, I was living in Virginia the last four years.

00:43:01.000 I just moved here.

00:43:03.000 Okay, so were you a nanny in Virginia?

00:43:05.000 Yes, I was a nun in Virginia.

00:43:06.000 For like one family?

00:43:07.000 Yes.

00:43:08.000 Okay, let me guess, a rich family?

00:43:10.000 Oh yeah, they were super rich, like they were millionaires, and I just love to take care of the kids, and I just love that.

00:43:16.000 Did the kids get older?

00:43:17.000 Oh yeah, yeah, like when I started, I mean, I had, the mom was pregnant, the baby was just two weeks old when I started working, and so the baby there was.

00:43:37.000 Yeah, I was gonna say, it was probably tough to leave, right?

00:43:43.000 Yeah, it was so hard to leave because they were my family here.

00:43:47.000 Do you still talk to them?

00:43:48.000 Yes, and then they are going to come to Tampa in March, and they invited me to go, so they got my tickets.

00:43:54.000 Oh, nice.

00:43:56.000 Nice.

00:43:56.000 That's really nice.

00:43:57.000 Yeah, that's the thing that kind of sucks when you're an au pair.

00:44:00.000 You raise the kids, basically, and then they go to school and stuff. 0.92

00:44:03.000 They don't really need you like that.

00:44:04.000 Yeah.

00:44:05.000 Alright, so you got a new family now, right?

00:44:07.000 Here in Florida, I'm guessing?

00:44:08.000 Yes.

00:44:09.000 Alright, I think we got all the intros.

00:44:12.000 That was quite a long intro.

00:44:13.000 That was a longer one.

00:44:14.000 Good job, ladies! 1.00

00:44:15.000 Especially you two!

00:44:17.000 Okay, so where are we at here?

00:44:20.000 So I'll read some of these chats, and then I got actually a question for the ladies. 0.95

00:44:24.000 Okay, we got JBS goes, ladies, and guys, from this point forward, we're going to read 50 and up.

00:44:29.000 The ones that came in before, I'll read them, but then we're going to read 50 and up from this point forward, because we already got 18,000 yelling here plus.

00:44:36.000 Okay, ladies, have you ever cheated before in a relationship? 1.00

00:44:39.000 If not, have you done anything that looking back on it was definitely inappropriate while you were in a relationship?

00:44:47.000 Okay.

00:44:47.000 You want to go around with that one?

00:44:49.000 Yeah, real quick.

00:44:49.000 Alright.

00:44:51.000 Ms.

00:44:51.000 Bolivia.

00:44:52.000 Yeah?

00:44:52.000 You ever cheated on your boyfriend?

00:44:54.000 Or done anything crazy that would have prompted?

00:44:56.000 No, I never cheated.

00:44:58.000 I've been cheated, but I never did it myself.

00:45:02.000 How'd you find out?

00:45:03.000 I mean, it was pretty obvious because he was going after my friends.

00:45:12.000 Spicy.

00:45:14.000 Like I said, I want two Bolivians, not one. 1.00

00:45:17.000 What about you?

00:45:18.000 No, never.

00:45:19.000 Never cheated?

00:45:20.000 Or anything that might be deemed as inappropriate?

00:45:22.000 It would give me too much anxiety.

00:45:23.000 Even going to like the nightclub or something like that.

00:45:25.000 No.

00:45:26.000 So you're in tech.

00:45:26.000 I can't do it.

00:45:27.000 What about iMessage?

00:45:29.000 What about iMessage?

00:45:32.000 Text messages?

00:45:33.000 No.

00:45:33.000 Okay.

00:45:35.000 Spyware?

00:45:36.000 No spyware.

00:45:37.000 Alright.

00:45:38.000 What about you?

00:45:40.000 Well, I've never been in a relationship, so I don't think I could possibly ever cheat.

00:45:46.000 Ever?

00:45:46.000 Good answer.

00:45:47.000 Ever.

00:45:48.000 No.

00:45:48.000 Never ever?

00:45:49.000 I would never cheat on anyone if I decided to commit to them, 100%.

00:45:54.000 What made you not want to commit at all right now?

00:45:58.000 To school?

00:45:59.000 Not school.

00:46:00.000 Is it your culture?

00:46:01.000 I would say it's my morals.

00:46:03.000 I just haven't found the right person, and so I don't want to give- Are you a virgin?

00:46:08.000 Yeah, but I don't want to talk about that.

00:46:12.000 Yeah, but anyways, no relationship.

00:46:16.000 You ain't a virgin, man.

00:46:17.000 That's fine, though.

00:46:18.000 I know you don't want your parents to hear you.

00:46:20.000 Haram!

00:46:21.000 She's saying he's a virgin because she's on air, but come on, man.

00:46:24.000 Well, if you are, you can charge a high price.

00:46:29.000 Hey, hey, I was just talking about my morals.

00:46:31.000 Let me explain.

00:46:32.000 Let me explain.

00:46:33.000 There's some investor that would pay millions of dollars for a virgin. 1.00

00:46:38.000 Millions.

00:46:39.000 Yeah, and I would never do that because I know one day I'm going to marry a dude and that's just, I think that's disrespectful to him and my future husband one day.

00:46:48.000 No, he's going to become your husband.

00:46:49.000 Oh, no.

00:46:50.000 Okay.

00:46:51.000 If you're paying to get with me, you're not going to be my husband.

00:46:56.000 No.

00:46:57.000 I like that.

00:46:57.000 No.

00:46:58.000 Tell him, sister.

00:46:59.000 F your money.

00:47:00.000 All right, what about you?

00:47:02.000 I have, yes.

00:47:03.000 I have cheated.

00:47:05.000 Come again?

00:47:06.000 On the CFO? Oh, no.

00:47:08.000 This was in high school.

00:47:09.000 Dr.

00:47:10.000 Okay.

00:47:10.000 Cal.

00:47:11.000 What made you want to cheat on that guy? 1.00

00:47:11.000 This was in high school. 1.00

00:47:14.000 He was black, and the other one was black. 0.94

00:47:14.000 He was black, huh? 0.94

00:47:18.000 He was mulatto. 1.00

00:47:19.000 I don't know.

00:47:20.000 I was young.

00:47:21.000 Have fun?

00:47:21.000 I just wanted...

00:47:22.000 Yeah, I wanted to have fun.

00:47:24.000 And the guy I cheated on with, you know, he wasn't really an athlete, and I really liked athletes.

00:47:31.000 At least you're honest.

00:47:32.000 I wanted the D1, the hottest guy.

00:47:34.000 You wanted the D? Yeah.

00:47:36.000 Oui.

00:47:36.000 Okay.

00:47:37.000 So I did cheat.

00:47:38.000 Got it.

00:47:39.000 Lovely.

00:47:40.000 What about you?

00:47:41.000 I've never cheated.

00:47:42.000 But I will say that there was a relationship when I was really young that now I understand where he meant because he was older than me.

00:47:49.000 Like I was like probably like 19, 20 and he was like 25.

00:47:54.000 And he I was so sheltered when I was younger that when I did go out with my friends and stuff, he'd be like, oh, but like, I don't want you to do this.

00:48:01.000 I don't want you to do that.

00:48:02.000 And I thought at the time, it was controlling or something.

00:48:06.000 But now looking back, it was super inappropriate.

00:48:09.000 I wasn't doing anything bad, but I wouldn't go out now if I was with someone.

00:48:15.000 Or if he said what he said, then he said what he said.

00:48:17.000 If you can tell me what to do, you can tell me what to do.

00:48:20.000 I regret doing it.

00:48:20.000 Yeah.

00:48:22.000 Interesting.

00:48:23.000 Oh yeah, no, for sure.

00:48:24.000 I just, I don't like hurting people.

00:48:25.000 Like, I'm really sensitive and, you know, I feel like if I was to hurt someone like that, then I could potentially be stopping someone's husband from finding their wife because now I scarred him and now he's not going to believe in love.

00:48:35.000 You know what I mean?

00:48:36.000 That's so beautiful.

00:48:37.000 That's so thoughtful.

00:48:41.000 I love love.

00:48:42.000 I told you guys.

00:48:43.000 I love love.

00:48:43.000 I'm so sensitive.

00:48:44.000 I love that.

00:48:45.000 Took 30 years though.

00:48:45.000 Me too.

00:48:46.000 Hey, you know.

00:48:47.000 We're going to move on.

00:48:48.000 Took 30 years.

00:48:49.000 What about you?

00:48:50.000 No, I've never cheated on anyone, but I remember my ex and I was on a break, and I think it was because he did something wrong, and then me and my ex-boyfriend before that, which they couldn't stand each other, kind of like got back together, but we were like- You were messing with the ops?

00:49:08.000 Come on, bruh.

00:49:09.000 Listen, no, wait.

00:49:10.000 My boyfriend at the time thought he was.

00:49:13.000 He was doing a lot, but then the other one was, too. 1.00

00:49:17.000 You can't make this shit up, man. 0.99

00:49:18.000 They didn't like each other. 1.00

00:49:19.000 That's the ops, though.

00:49:20.000 I'm from New York City.

00:49:21.000 Anything can happen.

00:49:23.000 Man!

00:49:24.000 But no, I didn't cheat, but I did.

00:49:26.000 Me and my ex-boyfriend hooked up, and oh my god, my other boyfriend was like crying.

00:49:31.000 So like anything that even if he did cheat on me, it would have been with somebody who didn't have any meaning.

00:49:36.000 So me and him hooking back up was like...

00:49:39.000 A death blow.

00:49:41.000 Yeah, but that was the last time that ever happened again, so I'm sure he learned his lesson.

00:49:44.000 Period.

00:49:44.000 And I'm not a cheater.

00:49:45.000 Oh, he took you back after that?

00:49:46.000 Of course he did.

00:49:47.000 I didn't do anything wrong.

00:49:48.000 He did something wrong.

00:49:49.000 We broke up.

00:49:51.000 And that's what happened. 0.94

00:49:53.000 Yeah, who was this nigga, man? 1.00

00:49:55.000 Actually, his name is Michael Hunter, my ex.

00:49:58.000 He's a three-time Olympian.

00:50:00.000 First and last name.

00:50:01.000 And he's a professional boxer right now.

00:50:03.000 And that's not the same one that I was with in Atlanta.

00:50:07.000 One was my first boyfriend, the other one was my second.

00:50:11.000 Wait, wasn't he a rapper?

00:50:13.000 No, that was the second one in Atlanta.

00:50:15.000 Oh, so your current guy that wants you back is Michael Hunter?

00:50:18.000 Atlanta.

00:50:19.000 No.

00:50:20.000 Don't say that as a name right now.

00:50:22.000 Someone that apparently worked with Guacca and Gucci.

00:50:25.000 That's what she said.

00:50:26.000 No, it was his friend.

00:50:27.000 He was a rapper first, right?

00:50:28.000 Yeah, but not the one now.

00:50:31.000 My first, remind you, I'm in the entertainment industry.

00:50:35.000 So the first guy that I've dated at 16, 17, that was a boxer.

00:50:35.000 Yes, yes, yes.

00:50:40.000 And now when I moved to Atlanta, and I didn't date anyone.

00:50:43.000 Y'all went to high school together or something?

00:50:44.000 No, I graduated high school at 16 because I had management in LA. Period.

00:50:48.000 And then when I moved there, that's when we had met.

00:50:50.000 Okay.

00:50:51.000 Alright, so she flexing her exes. 1.00

00:50:52.000 Got it.

00:50:53.000 Oh no, I asked her though.

00:50:55.000 Maybe that's why I don't care about that stuff.

00:50:58.000 Okay.

00:50:58.000 Lovely.

00:50:59.000 Alright.

00:50:59.000 Interesting.

00:51:00.000 What about you?

00:51:01.000 Yeah, I did cheat on me.

00:51:03.000 You cheated?

00:51:03.000 No way!

00:51:04.000 You cheated?

00:51:04.000 You're so quiet!

00:51:06.000 Just like my mother.

00:51:07.000 Those are the ones that they would say are the bad ones, the quiet ones.

00:51:10.000 Maybe the worst, man.

00:51:11.000 I was with him for six years.

00:51:11.000 Tell me.

00:51:14.000 He got boring.

00:51:16.000 Life was bored.

00:51:18.000 He just, I just wanted to, I don't know, he had unhealthy habits and I just want...

00:51:22.000 To get away.

00:51:23.000 I just want to date somebody who has a good father figure for my future kids and he didn't have that.

00:51:28.000 And my current boyfriend has all of that.

00:51:31.000 So do you cheat on the ex with the new guy now?

00:51:35.000 Oh wow!

00:51:35.000 Yes.

00:51:37.000 But hold on.

00:51:38.000 Wouldn't it make sense to just leave?

00:51:40.000 Like just leave first and then do what you gotta do?

00:51:42.000 Well, I was going through a lot at the time, and my ex was helping me financially.

00:51:48.000 That's not fair, man.

00:51:49.000 That's messed up.

00:51:49.000 But he was getting really overweight, and he just had unhealthy habits, and I just don't find that attractive.

00:51:55.000 And if I have kids, I want my kids to look up to their father, and I just don't agree with unhealthy.

00:52:00.000 Did you tell him, babe, you're getting out of shape?

00:52:04.000 I did.

00:52:05.000 And what did he say?

00:52:08.000 He was no longer the man that you were with in the first place.

00:52:13.000 Exactly.

00:52:15.000 So my ex is all of what I want now for a father.

00:52:18.000 Why do you get fat?

00:52:22.000 Because I think his parents...

00:52:23.000 I think it just also has to do with who you're...

00:52:25.000 His parents are pretty overweight.

00:52:27.000 It's just like...

00:52:27.000 I don't know.

00:52:28.000 I don't know.

00:52:29.000 I have no idea.

00:52:30.000 I wish I could tell you.

00:52:33.000 I have a question for you.

00:52:35.000 Do you feel like the person that you're with now is at some point maybe not going to fully commit or feel some type of way because you cheated on someone with him?

00:52:44.000 Do you think that sits on the back of his head?

00:52:46.000 No, because he's everything I want.

00:52:58.000 Yeah, like what if he got fat?

00:53:01.000 Bye!

00:53:03.000 I think if he would have second-guessed it, he would have second-guessed it in the beginning.

00:53:07.000 He made his choice.

00:53:08.000 He probably didn't care.

00:53:09.000 Did he know, though?

00:53:10.000 You told him, oh, I have a boyfriend?

00:53:12.000 Wait, I'm...

00:53:13.000 Hold on, okay.

00:53:17.000 Respond to her.

00:53:18.000 She's saying, what if your current boyfriend said, you know what?

00:53:20.000 You cheated on me with your other... 1.00

00:53:22.000 Sorry, you know, with me with your ex, so obviously it might happen to me as well.

00:53:26.000 What's your response to that?

00:53:29.000 That's a hard one.

00:53:32.000 I don't know.

00:53:34.000 I didn't want kids with my last ex.

00:53:36.000 It was really obvious.

00:53:38.000 It's really bad, but my last ex, he really wanted kids with me, and I was like, yeah, I don't think I'll have kids with you, but my current ex, I'm willing to have kids tomorrow.

00:53:47.000 I don't know.

00:53:47.000 It's just like, I'm willing to marry him tomorrow.

00:53:51.000 To be fair, your current boyfriend fits all your boxes.

00:53:51.000 I don't know.

00:53:56.000 So you would look at him as like your prize, I would say.

00:54:00.000 But your ex-boyfriend was kind of like just a placeholder.

00:54:04.000 Exactly.

00:54:04.000 I was going through a lot at home, like family issues, and he was just helping me out.

00:54:09.000 It was a hard time.

00:54:11.000 Fellas, you heard it here first, man. 1.00

00:54:12.000 Don't get fat, man.

00:54:14.000 Don't lose frame.

00:54:16.000 My current boyfriend, no, he's everything I wanted.

00:54:18.000 Does your current boyfriend want kids with you?

00:54:20.000 Yeah, but he's, like, building, so I just want him to build, and I think it'll be better once he's, like, in another year, hopefully.

00:54:20.000 Yeah.

00:54:29.000 Yeah, don't tell him that you did that, though.

00:54:32.000 I think as women, though, we have to be more open to getting criticized as well, because this kind of goes back to, like, earlier when I was saying, like, for a woman, it's cool, but not for a man.

00:54:40.000 Well, because, like...

00:54:41.000 I'm just being real, right? 0.99

00:54:42.000 Like, God forbid a man told you I'm leaving you because you're fat. 1.00

00:54:46.000 He's gonna get destroyed. 0.99

00:54:47.000 Like, by society, by everybody.

00:54:49.000 Like, no, you have to be there for that woman.

00:54:51.000 She had your kids, blah, blah. 0.99

00:54:52.000 How come it's fair for us to say something like that?

00:54:54.000 And I'm not saying what you're saying is wrong, because I agree.

00:54:56.000 I think that, like, you should be healthy and you should want a certain lifestyle, but...

00:54:59.000 You said you do motivational speaking and, like, life coaching.

00:55:02.000 Do you coach mostly women?

00:55:03.000 No, both.

00:55:04.000 Both?

00:55:05.000 It's 50-50?

00:55:06.000 No, I would say I have more men on my platform.

00:55:08.000 It's more men? 0.94

00:55:09.000 Okay.

00:55:10.000 Because I talk about things a lot of girls don't want to hear.

00:55:13.000 I was going to say, it's criticism.

00:55:13.000 Okay.

00:55:15.000 Do you get a lot of headaches when you give women criticism?

00:55:20.000 I do.

00:55:20.000 I do because they argue a lot with what I'm saying about, you know, the submissive thing for sure.

00:55:26.000 We actually had a conversation about this earlier when I was saying as a submissive, you get whatever you want.

00:55:30.000 When you do what you do and you treat, you know, him as like the person, as the leader, it's just you get everything without having to ask for it, honestly.

00:55:39.000 Like when I'm with someone, I never ask for anything and it just happens because I act appropriately.

00:55:43.000 So what's the biggest thing that they give you pushback on?

00:55:46.000 Is it being submissive whenever you talk to women? 0.99

00:55:48.000 It's being submissive, and it's also about the choices.

00:55:52.000 They don't like being told what to do, but for me, it's like, if I chose you to lead me, I believe that you're going to lead me to the right place and not into an abyss.

00:56:00.000 For example, even my little brother, if he tells me he feels uncomfortable, he doesn't want me to go somewhere because he has a bad feeling or whatever, I listen to him.

00:56:07.000 He's 19, and he's been telling me that since he was 14 or whatever.

00:56:10.000 Okay.

00:56:12.000 That's the biggest thing, though, is that women don't want to be told what to do, or they're like, oh, I want to go out with my friends. 1.00

00:56:16.000 And it's like, if you're committed and you're going out with five single girls, you know you're going to get hit on all night.

00:56:20.000 There's going to be nothing but men around you.

00:56:21.000 Like, you should be able to stay home and sit down.

00:56:23.000 Question.

00:56:23.000 Miss a few.

00:56:24.000 What if a little bro told you, don't be celibate no more?

00:56:27.000 What would you do?

00:56:27.000 If my little brother told me that, I'd ask him why that was, like, what was his motivation behind it?

00:56:32.000 He said, somebody just told him, listen, sis, let it loose.

00:56:32.000 He had a vision.

00:56:37.000 I'd bring him to the hospital because I felt like he would never talk to me like that.

00:56:41.000 I'd be like, are you okay?

00:56:43.000 You have a fever.

00:56:44.000 I don't believe that my brother would say something like that to me.

00:56:47.000 Now I do remember my brother telling me like, you have to go have fun and date and be free.

00:56:52.000 But no, not that one.

00:56:54.000 Anything else?

00:56:56.000 So it has to align.

00:56:57.000 Yeah, that's my line for sure.

00:56:58.000 It has to align with what you want to.

00:57:00.000 Yeah.

00:57:00.000 Got it.

00:57:01.000 Alright, what about you?

00:57:02.000 No.

00:57:03.000 You ever cheated?

00:57:04.000 No, never cheated.

00:57:06.000 Did you ever do anything bad at all with your ex?

00:57:08.000 No.

00:57:09.000 No?

00:57:10.000 You didn't nag him or anything or tell him, hey man, bring home the bacon.

00:57:10.000 Mm-mm.

00:57:15.000 Wait, what?

00:57:16.000 Like, bring home the money or something, I don't know.

00:57:18.000 No, no, I was good.

00:57:21.000 But no, I wouldn't, I just, I don't, I haven't had an opportunity to do cheating, yeah.

00:57:30.000 I just don't think about it.

00:57:33.000 I just don't do it.

00:57:34.000 That makes sense.

00:57:37.000 I've never cheated.

00:57:40.000 A little smirk in the background.

00:57:43.000 I'm super submissive when I have a man.

00:57:46.000 If we go out, it's with my man.

00:57:51.000 I'm going to hit my question here and then we'll read the rest of the chats after.

00:57:58.000 What was that, Moe?

00:58:01.000 Yeah, I know.

00:58:01.000 Okay.

00:58:02.000 So, ladies, do you think men should show vulnerability?

00:58:06.000 This is a three-part question.

00:58:07.000 Do you think men should show vulnerability to A, women, B, their girlfriend, and then C, their wife?

00:58:12.000 So, yes or no, and then why?

00:58:15.000 So, we'll start here.

00:58:16.000 Don't worry.

00:58:17.000 I'm going to repeat it every time.

00:58:17.000 Thank you.

00:58:18.000 Do you think men should show vulnerability to women, to their girlfriend, or to their wife?

00:58:25.000 Three-part question.

00:58:26.000 Yes or no, and then why?

00:58:27.000 Aka emotions.

00:58:28.000 Yeah.

00:58:29.000 Show vulnerability and be emotional.

00:58:30.000 We'll start here.

00:58:31.000 We'll start here, yeah.

00:58:32.000 I would probably say no to women, but yes to girlfriend and wife, just because I don't like my man to be accessible to other women, and I think when they start showing emotions and stuff like that, it gives women ideas like, oh, I can move in there or something. 0.99

00:58:47.000 It gives women motive, I guess, I don't know. 0.99

00:58:51.000 Motive for what?

00:58:52.000 To try and get with them.

00:58:53.000 An overly friendly man or someone who's going to open up to another woman is giving them an opportunity to Okay, so you said you think yes to you as the girlfriend and yes to the wife.

00:59:04.000 Why?

00:59:04.000 Yeah.

00:59:05.000 Because once you're committed with them, then I think they should show you their emotions and who they are.

00:59:11.000 And like she said, their darkness.

00:59:13.000 And I don't think that's something that everybody should get.

00:59:16.000 I think it's something that your partner should get.

00:59:18.000 Interesting.

00:59:19.000 What about you?

00:59:20.000 Do you think men should show vulnerability and emotion to women, their girlfriend, and their wife?

00:59:27.000 Or their wife.

00:59:31.000 I think they should just...

00:59:33.000 To women? 0.65

00:59:34.000 Yeah.

00:59:35.000 To everyone.

00:59:36.000 Just be yourself.

00:59:37.000 Okay.

00:59:37.000 To everyone?

00:59:37.000 I think that if you're...

00:59:37.000 Yeah.

00:59:39.000 Oh, sorry.

00:59:40.000 Thank you.

00:59:41.000 If you're always your most authentic self, I think that will...

00:59:45.000 Just like attract what you need to attract.

00:59:48.000 But yeah, I don't think it's wrong with, I don't think there's anything wrong with being vulnerable as a man.

00:59:54.000 Or just like being, I don't know, just being emotional.

00:59:59.000 I don't think so.

01:00:01.000 I hope that, yeah.

01:00:01.000 Okay.

01:00:02.000 No, that's fine.

01:00:03.000 What about you?

01:00:04.000 I'm sorry, I'm confused.

01:00:06.000 Do you think men should be open and show vulnerability to women?

01:00:11.000 For example, being emotional, crying, that type of thing.

01:00:14.000 Definitely not.

01:00:15.000 Okay.

01:00:15.000 No?

01:00:16.000 What about to their girlfriend?

01:00:18.000 No.

01:00:19.000 Okay.

01:00:19.000 I think women are attracted to men who know what they want.

01:00:19.000 No?

01:00:23.000 So you say no on all fronts, okay.

01:00:24.000 Definitely, yeah. 1.00

01:00:25.000 Okay, so keep that shit to yourself. 1.00

01:00:28.000 Yeah, there's nothing more attractive than a man who already has his life. 1.00

01:00:31.000 Figure it out.

01:00:32.000 Figure it out, exactly, yeah.

01:00:34.000 Okay.

01:00:35.000 What about you?

01:00:35.000 Interesting.

01:00:37.000 All right.

01:00:38.000 I think that this is kind of weird because let's not forget that men are human beings.

01:00:43.000 So you don't want to say, don't show this, don't do that, because that's how we have all these issues, even with cheating and this and that.

01:00:49.000 Because it's like, if you say, oh, I don't want to hear this side of you.

01:00:52.000 I don't want to see this.

01:00:52.000 And it's like, well, this is who I am.

01:00:54.000 Just like you're man or woman, all human beings have the same emotions.

01:00:58.000 I kind of agree with you here.

01:01:01.000 I feel like...

01:01:03.000 You don't want to tell everyone your feelings, but I think being your authentic self will be able to put you in a category to where you can say, okay, this is a person I can open up to.

01:01:03.000 Merch.

01:01:13.000 This is a person that I can't.

01:01:15.000 I do believe that your wife and your girlfriend, wife first, but girlfriend is where you want to be the most open to.

01:01:23.000 So to women in general, is it a yes or no?

01:01:25.000 I think that men should respect all women just because you were raised by a woman, even if it wasn't your mom, your auntie, your grandma.

01:01:34.000 I think that all men should have respect for women, but vulnerability is different.

01:01:39.000 So I don't think all men have to be vulnerable to every woman, but I think at least respect and acknowledgement for you being a woman, I think yes.

01:01:49.000 But just because you're giving a woman respect doesn't mean you have to tell them your deepest, darkest secrets.

01:01:56.000 And then you said for a girlfriend and wife, yes.

01:01:56.000 Okay.

01:01:59.000 Absolutely.

01:02:00.000 They have to know who you're dealing with.

01:02:01.000 You don't want to have to...

01:02:02.000 If you're a man and you have to hide your deepest, darkest selves from the person you're with, you're probably going to cheat, hands down.

01:02:10.000 You're going to.

01:02:11.000 Because it's going to be somebody you don't have to hide that with.

01:02:13.000 The reason why he says for infidelity reasons.

01:02:15.000 No, no, no.

01:02:16.000 Just because in general, we're human beings.

01:02:19.000 I want to get to know who you are.

01:02:21.000 Technology and all this stuff has made us this and that.

01:02:24.000 And we're female or bi or straight.

01:02:26.000 We're human, just like animals.

01:02:27.000 So everyone needs comfort and love.

01:02:29.000 So you think a man opening up to his girl and being vulnerable is for the betterment of the relationship?

01:02:34.000 Absolutely.

01:02:35.000 I do.

01:02:37.000 That's funny.

01:02:38.000 What about you?

01:02:39.000 What do you think?

01:02:40.000 Should men open up and be vulnerable to women, their girlfriend or their wife? 0.62

01:02:44.000 So I agree with the respect thing, for sure.

01:02:47.000 I think it's beautiful and it's very attractive when a man can respect all women, even if it's something where he's telling her, no, I don't want you, I just want this.

01:02:55.000 So I agree with that.

01:02:58.000 I don't agree with showing vulnerability to all women because there's really women out there that have no good intention with men.

01:03:03.000 But I will say that girlfriend-wise, I also don't believe unless you know that's your wife.

01:03:10.000 So girlfriend knows well. 1.00

01:03:12.000 Yeah, no.

01:03:12.000 Girlfriend, no.

01:03:13.000 Until you believe that she's really your wife, like, you're going to propose. 0.85

01:03:15.000 I think that there should be an openness, but not a vulnerability.

01:03:19.000 And the reason why is because a lot of times...

01:03:21.000 With a girlfriend or for the wife specifically?

01:03:22.000 With a girlfriend.

01:03:23.000 Okay.

01:03:23.000 Yeah, with a girlfriend.

01:03:24.000 Because what happens in that relationship is if you don't really know if that's your person, that could be used against you.

01:03:30.000 And I have...

01:03:32.000 I have friends that have told me, that have been like, I said this to this woman, and I was open, honest, I cried, I did whatever, and as soon as she could, she jabbed them with it, you know?

01:03:44.000 So, and now that, yeah, and exactly, now they feel like all women are the same, and, you know, I believe that if she's your wife, and you chose her, it's like I said earlier, you attracted that, you believe that she's really gonna hold you down regardless of anything, so... 0.81

01:03:58.000 So you think for the wife, yes?

01:04:00.000 For the wife, yes. 0.99

01:04:01.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that as the wife, the stakes are higher and she could use it against you and really fuck you up if she's your wife? 1.00

01:04:07.000 Absolutely. 0.99

01:04:08.000 It's toxic?

01:04:10.000 Yeah.

01:04:11.000 Hold on, so you don't do that?

01:04:13.000 No.

01:04:13.000 See, so that's why another reason why I'm...

01:04:16.000 You said it earlier.

01:04:19.000 You said, oh, I'm in control.

01:04:21.000 My man wants me back.

01:04:22.000 He's begging on his knees for me back.

01:04:24.000 No, no, no, no.

01:04:25.000 That's why you have to be careful.

01:04:28.000 This is three years of me being an A1 hold it down and you kind of just being like...

01:04:36.000 I want things my way.

01:04:38.000 Just my way.

01:04:39.000 And then I am.

01:04:39.000 Not thinking about...

01:04:40.000 So we're both Puerto Rican.

01:04:42.000 So we are taught to be submissive, but for the right person.

01:04:45.000 So I don't mind being submissive.

01:04:46.000 But now when everything is your way and you don't care about me because I'm also a princess and do princess treatment.

01:04:52.000 So where's the fine line between that?

01:04:54.000 So...

01:04:55.000 There you go.

01:04:56.000 We both are the prize.

01:04:57.000 If we both believe we're the prize, I can move forward with you.

01:05:00.000 If I think I'm too much, then I'm probably not going to be able to be with the man that I like because the kind of men that I like, they are also, they hold their own.

01:05:09.000 So, I don't know.

01:05:10.000 But the one thing that, like, I don't know because I know there's, obviously, it's deeper and you guys definitely went through some stuff, right?

01:05:17.000 But It doesn't make sense to say you're submissive, but then at the same time, it's like, the things that you had mentioned earlier about the control, I think he's just protecting you.

01:05:28.000 Like, I know that sounds crazy, but for you to still be around.

01:05:30.000 Now when you say that I'm living the matrix and I can have whatever woman I want because I have money, and no, because that doesn't mean...

01:05:37.000 But you're also not leaving, though.

01:05:39.000 You, you're saying that you...

01:05:40.000 Come on! 0.61

01:05:40.000 Girl, I'm going... 0.61

01:05:41.000 You said you've been celibate for seven months.

01:05:43.000 I've been celibate for a year and two months.

01:05:44.000 No, but mommy... 1.00

01:05:45.000 I know, but what I'm saying is...

01:05:45.000 From him.

01:05:46.000 I haven't had sex with anybody else.

01:05:48.000 I haven't had... 0.97

01:05:49.000 So do you see I haven't had sex?

01:05:50.000 I didn't go back to him, but I also didn't run to another relationship.

01:05:54.000 No, but that's not what I said, baby.

01:05:55.000 What I'm saying is that you said that you don't know if you would go back to him, but everything that you're saying makes it seem like that's not the guy for you.

01:06:01.000 No, no.

01:06:02.000 All right, so...

01:06:03.000 No, but at the end of the day, we all grow.

01:06:05.000 So we're at the point where if he wanted to change...

01:06:09.000 Then you say yes.

01:06:10.000 Of course, because we love each other, but if he's not the type, even God can't force nobody to do what they want to do.

01:06:17.000 So if I want him to be like, yes, he's a good person, but he has to live by rules that he feels are above him right now because of his financial status, and that's where we are.

01:06:29.000 So fair to say that you're waiting.

01:06:30.000 Who?

01:06:31.000 Girl, no. 0.99

01:06:32.000 I don't wait on you.

01:06:35.000 When he asked me to come back, I said no.

01:06:38.000 So I don't think I'm waiting on anything.

01:06:40.000 But do I still love him?

01:06:41.000 Am I giving him, like, if he decides to change and we're on different spaces of life, we don't talk anymore.

01:06:48.000 So it's not like we talk and we were to have a conversation and he was to say, like, we talked in October and he said, like, hey, like, I, you know, I love you and I realized that maybe after 35 men mature more and I said, I love that you're coming to this realization.

01:07:03.000 But to me, that doesn't mean anything because the man that I want will be already there.

01:07:08.000 You would probably be raised by a woman, a sister, an aunt that makes you be able to recognize.

01:07:13.000 For me, I don't like that he can't recognize me.

01:07:16.000 Like, I don't like that.

01:07:17.000 If it takes 10 years for you to recognize, no.

01:07:20.000 But it doesn't mean he's a bad person.

01:07:22.000 It doesn't mean that I hate him.

01:07:24.000 Am I waiting on him?

01:07:25.000 Absolutely not.

01:07:26.000 But if something, if God brought us back together, do I believe that he can get there?

01:07:30.000 That's why I was dealing with him.

01:07:30.000 Yes.

01:07:31.000 But right now... 1.00

01:07:33.000 Money is a bitch, so that's only a good thing I can say. 1.00

01:07:37.000 I am... 1.00

01:07:38.000 I asked so many questions, but...

01:07:38.000 What?

01:07:40.000 Nah, I mean, go ahead.

01:07:42.000 So, let me ask you this. 0.98

01:07:43.000 His approach, him telling you I'm a high-value man, I can get bitches. 1.00

01:07:47.000 No, literally. 0.99

01:07:47.000 Literally. 0.99

01:07:48.000 Kevin Samuels, high-value man.

01:07:49.000 What if his approach was different?

01:07:50.000 Like, you know what?

01:07:51.000 He didn't say it, he just did it.

01:07:53.000 Would that change anything?

01:07:54.000 For example, so you know what, babe?

01:07:55.000 We got this.

01:07:56.000 We're going through this together, but I'm going to lead the castle.

01:07:59.000 Follow my lead.

01:08:00.000 I got you.

01:08:01.000 Don't stress.

01:08:02.000 You know what?

01:08:02.000 Don't stress.

01:08:03.000 She said that it seems like I'm waiting.

01:08:05.000 I think it's because of our honesty.

01:08:06.000 No.

01:08:07.000 I like that he was very honest because then I knew where to put you.

01:08:10.000 So then you could leave.

01:08:11.000 No.

01:08:12.000 Yeah.

01:08:12.000 So see?

01:08:13.000 So we were...

01:08:14.000 No, really.

01:08:15.000 So we were like... 0.65

01:08:16.000 That's what niggas like. 1.00

01:08:17.000 But every person has the entitlement to say...

01:08:20.000 If he's a man and he says, I have money so I believe I can do this, that's your choice.

01:08:24.000 But do I want to deal with that?

01:08:26.000 No.

01:08:26.000 So we weren't arch enemies, but it was like...

01:08:29.000 That's not for me.

01:08:31.000 And what you want, I think you deserve to get what you want.

01:08:34.000 I know a lot of men who...

01:08:34.000 Let's just boil this down.

01:08:35.000 He had other women and you didn't like that. 0.98

01:08:38.000 That's what it comes down to.

01:08:39.000 No, he didn't have any other women.

01:08:41.000 How do you know?

01:08:41.000 His whole thing was...

01:08:42.000 I think we broke up and he started dating a flight attendant and he told her, I love somebody else and...

01:08:48.000 He kind of kicked her to the curb. 0.96

01:08:50.000 But I honestly think it was because...

01:08:52.000 And I think that's what bothered me.

01:08:54.000 I think it was because I didn't give him what he wanted.

01:08:56.000 I knew that's why he wanted me more.

01:08:57.000 And that didn't...

01:08:58.000 I want a man who like...

01:09:00.000 No, but I'm saying it seems to me as though you don't like the fact that he...

01:09:04.000 Whether he acted on it or not, but he could have other girls.

01:09:07.000 You don't like that.

01:09:08.000 Um, I didn't know.

01:09:09.000 I didn't like the fact that he might have thought that that could have been like something that could have determined whether he had other girls or not.

01:09:15.000 Does that make sense?

01:09:16.000 No.

01:09:17.000 Yeah, I don't like to say, oh, because I have money, but then you don't want to leave.

01:09:21.000 You have all these other girls and you don't want me to go anywhere.

01:09:23.000 That means you're like indecisive.

01:09:25.000 Like she said, I like a man who knows what they want.

01:09:28.000 That means you're still confused.

01:09:30.000 No, no, no.

01:09:30.000 He wants both.

01:09:31.000 Yeah.

01:09:32.000 He wants both.

01:09:33.000 She said who?

01:09:34.000 Well, that's a no-go for me, even if that was the case.

01:09:37.000 You can't have both.

01:09:37.000 It's either me or the highway.

01:09:38.000 Yeah, it's me or me.

01:09:39.000 And then he didn't even, like, put anybody.

01:09:41.000 It's not like he was dating anyone.

01:09:42.000 It was just, like, more of a control thing.

01:09:44.000 Like, him himself, if I'm being 100% honest, didn't like how vulnerable.

01:09:49.000 Like, his dad used to abuse him, so I don't think he was ever vulnerable with a woman.

01:09:53.000 So I broke that down. 1.00

01:09:54.000 See, you're just telling us his shit, too. 1.00

01:09:56.000 I know, right? 1.00

01:09:56.000 That's a weapon. 1.00

01:09:58.000 No.

01:09:58.000 He told you that confidently.

01:10:00.000 No, I mean, we're being honest because just how she had a conversation, we're being honest.

01:10:05.000 You're being honest.

01:10:05.000 She's not here.

01:10:06.000 This is like 20K people here?

01:10:08.000 Yeah, but I didn't say his name or anything like that.

01:10:11.000 So nobody knows who he is but me and my family.

01:10:14.000 No, they're going to find out right now.

01:10:15.000 I guarantee you they're going to find out.

01:10:16.000 The chat is going to find out.

01:10:17.000 Rumble, YouTube, they're going to find out.

01:10:19.000 Podcast.

01:10:20.000 No, and let's not get this twisted.

01:10:23.000 Just because I'm saying his situation, I'm saying that because I'm being honest.

01:10:27.000 I think that's what we don't do.

01:10:29.000 Yes, if a parent was abusive, he has issues in his relationship.

01:10:33.000 I'm not telling his business.

01:10:34.000 I'm being honest.

01:10:35.000 I'm not saying anything about him.

01:10:38.000 I'm just saying, yes, that made it hard for him to be able to love me.

01:10:42.000 If both his parents were abusive, and that was something I could not take responsibility of.

01:10:47.000 As much as I love you, as much as I understand you, I cannot...

01:10:50.000 I can't fix it.

01:10:51.000 I can't bring myself, again, down because you have...

01:10:55.000 So I love you, but if you don't want to change and you are having a hard time changing...

01:11:00.000 But he's in therapy now, and I think that I've made him...

01:11:03.000 No, I think...

01:11:04.000 Yes, because before he thought because he had money, he didn't need therapy, and I had to explain to him...

01:11:08.000 That has nothing to do with that.

01:11:10.000 So now he's become, I think, the best man that he could have become, whether it's with me or not.

01:11:16.000 And I wish him the best.

01:11:17.000 Whether I'm the girl that's for him or not.

01:11:19.000 When you really love somebody, that's what you care about.

01:11:22.000 It's him being his highest self and being whoever's for him.

01:11:25.000 And I think that was real love.

01:11:26.000 So people could say whatever they want.

01:11:28.000 Using the chest that you gave him PTSD. I didn't give him no PTSD. I gave him healing.

01:11:36.000 Okay.

01:11:36.000 Alright, what about you, Miss West Palm Beach?

01:11:39.000 Should men be vulnerable to women, to their girlfriend, and to their wife?

01:11:44.000 Yes or no, and why?

01:11:45.000 I think all.

01:11:47.000 All?

01:11:47.000 Okay, why?

01:11:48.000 From experience.

01:11:52.000 For me, it's a turn-on if you're vulnerable to me.

01:11:55.000 Really?

01:11:56.000 Because I feel like I want to see...

01:11:58.000 I'm sure there's guys vulnerable to you in your OFDMs, right?

01:12:00.000 Oh, yeah. 1.00

01:12:01.000 Why don't you fuck them, then? 1.00

01:12:04.000 Oh, I guess it wasn't that much I'll turn on. 1.00

01:12:08.000 No comment.

01:12:09.000 But, yeah, so I think it's for all.

01:12:12.000 You know, I just think I like it.

01:12:15.000 It's my thing.

01:12:16.000 I like it.

01:12:17.000 Okay.

01:12:17.000 Cry to me.

01:12:18.000 Please talk to me.

01:12:19.000 I'll get on my knees for you.

01:12:21.000 Does that turn you on, though?

01:12:23.000 Huh?

01:12:23.000 Does that turn you on, though?

01:12:26.000 I'm crying in front of you.

01:12:27.000 I'm on my knees.

01:12:28.000 Well, yeah.

01:12:30.000 I mean, it depends on what it is. 0.54

01:12:35.000 The white man! 0.71

01:12:36.000 Just kidding. 0.73

01:12:37.000 Hey, I like white men. 0.95

01:12:40.000 I'm sorry.

01:12:40.000 That's fine.

01:12:41.000 Interesting.

01:12:42.000 Okay.

01:12:42.000 What about you?

01:12:44.000 I would say, personally, not to all women.

01:12:47.000 Only because I think that...

01:12:49.000 So to who?

01:12:50.000 Definitely to girlfriends and wives. 0.80

01:12:53.000 Only because I think that knowing vulnerabilities will allow for a deeper connection.

01:13:00.000 And if I know your vulnerability, we can work on it together and kind of build off of it.

01:13:06.000 All right.

01:13:06.000 Okay, interesting.

01:13:08.000 What about you?

01:13:09.000 I think no to all women, definitely to girlfriend and wife. 1.00

01:13:13.000 I feel like as a man, if you're uncomfortable with vulnerability, it says a lot about your masculinity.

01:13:20.000 How so?

01:13:20.000 Because I don't think you're comfortable in your masculinity if you can't be vulnerable.

01:13:24.000 Yeah.

01:13:24.000 Interesting.

01:13:25.000 True.

01:13:26.000 Thanks.

01:13:26.000 Isn't a component of masculinity the ability to control your emotions though?

01:13:31.000 Isn't that one of the biggest distinguishing differences between men and women?

01:13:34.000 Definitely, but I feel like it's more geared toward anger.

01:13:36.000 You should be able to control your anger, but why are we controlling if I feel sad?

01:13:40.000 Because it can cause you to be angry now. 1.00

01:13:43.000 I thought masculine and feminine was if you have a penis or a vagina. 1.00

01:13:45.000 I didn't know that had anything to do with who you are as a human. 0.98

01:13:47.000 No, it's an energy.

01:13:49.000 Those are things that we put on ourselves and I think that's the problem now.

01:13:53.000 That's why no one is happy now.

01:13:54.000 No, I think the problem is that people don't accept that there is roles.

01:13:56.000 I think that's the problem.

01:13:58.000 Like, it's true.

01:13:58.000 There is a masculine and there is a feminine.

01:14:00.000 Now, you as a feminine can be tapped in. 1.00

01:14:02.000 Yeah, but you can't tell somebody because you're masculine, you can't cry.

01:14:05.000 No, but here's the thing.

01:14:06.000 That's what I'm talking about.

01:14:08.000 It's not about the crying for masculine.

01:14:10.000 It's not about that, guys.

01:14:11.000 It's not about that.

01:14:12.000 It's about the fact that if you're telling a man to be fully vulnerable, right, you don't know what that sadness can bring out of him, right?

01:14:18.000 So if he doesn't know how to control that, you will care if he's putting his hands on you because he went from being sad to having rage. 1.00

01:14:23.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

01:14:24.000 Yeah, but no, it's a difference from being sad and abusing somebody. 1.00

01:14:28.000 You are a human being, and you're smart, and you know the difference.

01:14:31.000 If you don't know the difference, then we can't even talk.

01:14:33.000 But you just said that the guy that you're with doesn't know the difference because he has issues with being vulnerable because he's been abused.

01:14:38.000 So that's what I'm trying to say is that when you're...

01:14:41.000 No, that's human.

01:14:42.000 That's what you said.

01:14:44.000 Wait.

01:14:48.000 That's what you said.

01:14:49.000 No.

01:14:50.000 So see, what you're saying is just how you said vulnerability means if he gets angry and hits you.

01:14:55.000 No.

01:14:56.000 Vulnerability and abuse is It's two different things.

01:14:58.000 Abuse is an issue that you have, and you probably need to be in jail.

01:15:01.000 Vulnerability is a human emotion.

01:15:02.000 Now, toxicity is when you think one is the other.

01:15:05.000 And to be honest, there's a lot of households who think vulnerability means being toxic and abusive, and that's the issue.

01:15:11.000 Or weak. 1.00

01:15:12.000 You're a sucker. 1.00

01:15:13.000 You're not supposed to cry. 1.00

01:15:14.000 What we're saying is that it can lead to something more if he doesn't have control.

01:15:18.000 That's how the whole conversation started.

01:15:20.000 But that doesn't mean therapy.

01:15:21.000 That doesn't mean that you need to be vulnerable with your girlfriend.

01:15:23.000 No, what we were saying is that a masculine needs to control his emotions in order to be vulnerable. 0.99

01:15:29.000 Because if not, there's just no way that if a man has been through shit and he hasn't actually dealt with it, and you want to push it out of him, you're going to see some shit you don't want to see. 0.98

01:15:38.000 No, but I'm not pushing it. 0.98

01:15:39.000 I think the right woman...

01:15:41.000 We are, as women, we do.

01:15:42.000 Baby, talk to me.

01:15:43.000 What's wrong?

01:15:43.000 Because he's quiet for three hours.

01:15:44.000 He don't want to talk to you right now.

01:15:46.000 Because he was probably taught as a child.

01:15:48.000 No, men.

01:15:48.000 Listen, me...

01:15:49.000 No, me raising...

01:15:51.000 That's not true.

01:15:52.000 That's not true. 0.92

01:15:53.000 No bullshit. 0.83

01:15:54.000 It's not true. 0.97

01:15:55.000 Can we ding something real quick?

01:15:56.000 Because, listen, I'm going to tell you right now, me raising my little brother, I can tell...

01:16:00.000 I'm so serious.

01:16:00.000 Me raising my little brother and having him at 13 years old already showing signs of what a grown man does.

01:16:06.000 Nothing came to him.

01:16:07.000 Nothing.

01:16:07.000 It's just how they wired.

01:16:09.000 They're not always talkative.

01:16:10.000 They need their space. 1.00

01:16:11.000 They don't always want you in their fucking face. 1.00

01:16:13.000 And if you are going to be in their face, why are you nagging about why he's been quiet? 1.00

01:16:16.000 Rub that man's feet while he's quiet.

01:16:18.000 Sit on his lap while he plays his game. 1.00

01:16:19.000 A lot of girls complain about shit. 1.00

01:16:22.000 Men cheat on women who do that shit all the time. 1.00

01:16:24.000 So that's not it. 1.00

01:16:25.000 No.

01:16:26.000 That's not it.

01:16:26.000 Yes, they do.

01:16:27.000 And my mom is Puerto Rican, and my mom did everything for my father.

01:16:30.000 My dad was black.

01:16:31.000 And yes, because in Puerto Rican households, we think that that's the issue. 0.78

01:16:34.000 You do this, you do that, and the man is going to...

01:16:36.000 No, absolutely not.

01:16:37.000 They still will cheat.

01:16:38.000 I think that being open, human...

01:16:41.000 Human to human.

01:16:42.000 This is what I've been through and this hurt me.

01:16:46.000 Baby, I understand that.

01:16:48.000 I'm sorry that that hurt you.

01:16:49.000 Now we're in our relationship.

01:16:51.000 Forget what your parents did to you.

01:16:52.000 Now we can build something new.

01:16:54.000 I think that's vulnerability.

01:16:55.000 I think that's abuse.

01:16:56.000 But we all come out as children vulnerable.

01:16:58.000 Do we not?

01:16:59.000 We cry.

01:17:00.000 You know what I mean?

01:17:00.000 Even my son, little boy.

01:17:02.000 Period.

01:17:03.000 He cries.

01:17:04.000 He shows up.

01:17:05.000 Which is the point that we're taught that you cannot express these things.

01:17:09.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:17:11.000 Who else is the mom at the table? 1.00

01:17:12.000 Just out of curiosity.

01:17:13.000 Only one?

01:17:14.000 Only one girl's a mom here? 1.00

01:17:15.000 Okay.

01:17:17.000 But here's the thing, and I only am going to say this, baby, because you said it earlier and you felt comfortable, so I don't want you to feel that I'm calling you out. 0.94

01:17:23.000 But that's a perfect example earlier when she was saying that she was with somebody because she was going through shit in her life. 0.83

01:17:30.000 So this is the same difference. 0.98

01:17:31.000 It's like, why would a man be vulnerable without knowing that you're really going to be his wife when you could potentially be vulnerable?

01:17:36.000 Excuse me.

01:17:37.000 Using him.

01:17:38.000 You feel me?

01:17:38.000 But how do you get to being vulnerable with a girlfriend and getting a wife?

01:17:41.000 Because you don't get from one stage to another just like that.

01:17:44.000 You have to be vulnerable with a girlfriend that you trust enough.

01:17:47.000 Yeah, but not to provide for a woman that doesn't want him other than just to be provided for. 0.53

01:17:50.000 But that sounds like it's the other person's problem if they're using your vulnerability against you.

01:17:54.000 Yeah.

01:17:55.000 I believe so, too.

01:17:57.000 I feel like...

01:17:58.000 I used to ignore vulnerable...

01:18:01.000 Part of a man, and I used to just ignore it, and it haunted me.

01:18:05.000 If you keep ignoring a man, it haunts you.

01:18:09.000 I'm 32 years old.

01:18:10.000 It haunts you.

01:18:11.000 It does.

01:18:12.000 I don't care what anybody...

01:18:13.000 I don't feel like anyone should be ignored, man or woman, you're still human.

01:18:17.000 If I feel like you're upset, I'm sorry.

01:18:18.000 I'm not going to ignore you or anybody.

01:18:20.000 Well, that's the way you're not married, so...

01:18:21.000 Is that different from being...

01:18:23.000 Erin, are you married?

01:18:24.000 Okay.

01:18:25.000 Thank you.

01:18:26.000 Okay.

01:18:28.000 That was a very good conversation.

01:18:31.000 Okay, so you're saying no to vulnerability to random girls, or women in general, but you're saying girlfriend and wife, right?

01:18:36.000 Okay, for you.

01:18:37.000 Yeah, I'm interested to see what you're saying.

01:18:38.000 And then what about you?

01:18:39.000 What do you think?

01:18:39.000 Because you're not from America.

01:18:40.000 Okay, so I think Bolivia.

01:18:44.000 What I think is that men should do whatever they want to do.

01:18:49.000 I mean, if you want to show up with a little bit, it's okay if you don't want to do it.

01:18:53.000 But personally...

01:18:54.000 Wait, hold on.

01:18:55.000 We can't understand.

01:18:57.000 Say that again?

01:18:57.000 You said the man should do whatever he wants and then what?

01:18:59.000 Yeah, if they want to show their emotions, they should do it.

01:19:02.000 If they don't want to do it...

01:19:03.000 But in general, should they?

01:19:04.000 Should they be vulnerable and be emotional with their...

01:19:06.000 I cannot talk in general, but for me, what I'm looking for in a man is don't show your emotions.

01:19:12.000 Don't show.

01:19:13.000 Yes.

01:19:14.000 Be a man, machismo.

01:19:15.000 Yes.

01:19:15.000 Si!

01:19:19.000 You mentioned, real quick, just out of curiosity, because you had mentioned, you said your father cheated on your mom?

01:19:25.000 Yeah.

01:19:26.000 But they're still together 35 years later?

01:19:28.000 Mm-hmm.

01:19:30.000 Well, that says something.

01:19:31.000 You want to know why?

01:19:32.000 Because my dad and my mom were 17 and 19 when they went together.

01:19:35.000 So that's also how I know that when you're in a real relationship, you go through it.

01:19:40.000 It doesn't even matter if you're in a perfect with you, with the love of your life, you go through it.

01:19:43.000 Whatever it might be, you guys are going to have to chip down the things that you went through with your parents.

01:19:47.000 What does your father do?

01:19:48.000 Well, my father has a business degree and then he's in the medical field because my mom got it.

01:19:53.000 Is he a doctor?

01:19:54.000 Does he sell pharmaceuticals?

01:19:55.000 No, he handles all the surgery equipment.

01:19:59.000 Okay.

01:20:00.000 My mom is a director.

01:20:01.000 My dad just wanted to be around my mom.

01:20:03.000 Yeah, even though he cheated.

01:20:04.000 He follows her everywhere.

01:20:06.000 Okay.

01:20:07.000 No, it's just interesting that, like, you know, your father cheated on your mom, but they still made it work.

01:20:13.000 But you don't want to make it work with this guy because he had other women.

01:20:15.000 No, but it was never...

01:20:16.000 No, so see, that's the thing.

01:20:17.000 It was never cheating.

01:20:19.000 Women never was in the mix. 1.00

01:20:21.000 As much as he might have said something and I disagree with it, it was more of his mentality.

01:20:27.000 That he could get other women.

01:20:28.000 You didn't like that?

01:20:29.000 No, to be honest, I didn't even want a man to talk like that. 0.99

01:20:33.000 If you're not a man who knows the difference between a slut and a real woman, that's an issue for me. 0.99

01:20:38.000 That's an issue for me. 0.99

01:20:39.000 I didn't like that he threw it in your face.

01:20:40.000 No, I didn't like that he didn't know the difference yet.

01:20:43.000 I will admit, him telling you in that way is kind of too much of a, hey, look at me, this is what I am, versus just taking action, I think it would be better than to sing it to your face.

01:20:52.000 I didn't share it, so he was urban, he grew up, he was born in Mexico.

01:20:58.000 No, no, no, so he was born in Mexico.

01:21:01.000 He was born in Mexico, but grew up in Atlanta.

01:21:03.000 So I think the language barrier, the race barrier was there.

01:21:09.000 And his thing, the way he's...

01:21:10.000 Spanish is his first language.

01:21:12.000 He'll say something in English just how he would be meant to say it.

01:21:15.000 Like, he would just say it.

01:21:16.000 And it would be like, well, you're not sugarcoating it.

01:21:19.000 And he didn't know how to sugarcoat it.

01:21:21.000 So it would just be like, yeah.

01:21:23.000 This is what it is! 0.99

01:21:24.000 Yo, she's doctoring this nigga like her. 1.00

01:21:27.000 To be honest, I don't care because he made me go on Kevin Samuels. 0.98

01:21:31.000 And I did it.

01:21:33.000 And whatever I talked about was very vulnerable on Kevin Samuels.

01:21:36.000 Yes, I was.

01:21:38.000 On the 305 Girls or something like that.

01:21:39.000 And he made me.

01:21:40.000 We had a bet.

01:21:41.000 And he told me because that's how we were going.

01:21:43.000 Okay, got it.

01:21:45.000 Wait, did he school you?

01:21:47.000 Yeah, he did.

01:21:48.000 Who, him?

01:21:49.000 Kevin?

01:21:50.000 No, no, no.

01:21:51.000 Actually, we got cut off because he tried to and it wasn't working because what he was basically telling me is like, because y'all not married together.

01:21:58.000 And the thing is that, no, it's not 1970 no more.

01:22:00.000 That's not how relationships are.

01:22:02.000 I remember now.

01:22:03.000 Real quick, guys.

01:22:04.000 We got a video to play.

01:22:06.000 Before that.

01:22:07.000 This is the last day of the crypto course.

01:22:10.000 Get a crypto mindset course, man. 1.00

01:22:11.000 Stop being a fucking brokey, guys. 1.00

01:22:12.000 If you guys had taken action before, you would have been able to get Ethereum at like $1300, $1400. 0.99

01:22:17.000 You would have been able to get Bitcoin at like $15K. Now it's at like almost $40,000.

01:22:21.000 The last time I checked, Ethereum was at like $2300, guys.

01:22:24.000 So get on the course, man.

01:22:24.000 Take action.

01:22:25.000 We got 145 people in there, man.

01:22:27.000 Go ahead.

01:22:27.000 Let's get it up.

01:22:27.000 Let's get as many of you guys in there so that you guys can go ahead and get some goddamn money.

01:22:30.000 First Zoom call is going to be this Friday at 10 p.m. 0.98

01:22:33.000 Eastern Standard Time.

01:22:33.000 Get in there with Charlie and Miguel.

01:22:35.000 I showed you guys my crypto portfolio.

01:22:37.000 It's a six-figure crypto portfolio offer.

01:22:38.000 Just going off what they tell me to buy.

01:22:40.000 So don't be a brokey, man. 1.00

01:22:41.000 Get in there.

01:22:42.000 Guys, the biggest lesson here is to know when to buy, know when to sell.

01:22:44.000 If you can do that, you can win the game 100%.

01:22:46.000 Absolutely.

01:22:47.000 Real quick, Rumble.

01:22:49.000 Yes.

01:22:49.000 Guys, so we got a video to play here where you can get the ladies' reactions here.

01:22:53.000 So come on over to Rumble, guys.

01:22:54.000 So we got most of the girls here at the table, only two girls. 1.00

01:22:58.000 Think that men should control their emotions.

01:23:01.000 The rest of the girls pretty much think you should be open with your girlfriend or wife, at least, as far as showing vulnerability.

01:23:08.000 So we've got a video to play.

01:23:09.000 Come on over to Rumble right now, guys.

01:23:11.000 We're going to finish off the show over there.

01:23:12.000 Come on over.

01:23:13.000 We've got a video to react to.

01:23:13.000 Rest in peace as well to Kevin Samuels, by the way.

01:23:16.000 Yes, absolutely.

01:23:17.000 I'm a PhD.

01:23:19.000 Okay, come on over, guys.

01:23:21.000 We're switching over to Rumble only.

01:23:22.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh at Fit Ninjas.

01:23:24.000 Let us know when we're over there.

01:23:25.000 Okay.

01:23:26.000 We good?

01:23:27.000 No.

01:23:27.000 Almost.

01:23:28.000 Thank you.

01:23:29.000 But yeah, we got a video to play.

01:23:31.000 Oh, yeah.

01:23:32.000 So, the video we're going to play, guys, it's actually going viral right now.

01:23:35.000 A bunch of you guys have sent me this video.

01:23:36.000 It's from Shaquille O'Neal, as you guys know.

01:23:39.000 I said W. NBA player.

01:23:41.000 No, W. No, W. Obviously, Hall of Famer.

01:23:45.000 Gonna go down in the history books.

01:23:47.000 It's probably one of the most dominant centers of all times.

01:23:49.000 Arguable in the top five.

01:23:51.000 But yeah, he's made some comments recently that it's kind of funny. 1.00

01:23:55.000 It's going viral all over the place because the rest of the world is blue-pilled as fuck. 0.99

01:23:58.000 But you guys are gonna see here. 0.98

01:23:59.000 And we're gonna get the Lady Six on it. 1.00

01:24:00.000 So let's play the clip real fast.

01:24:02.000 And where do you say this, Mo?

01:24:04.000 Did he say this on a podcast?

01:24:06.000 Yes.

01:24:08.000 Actually, if I remember correctly, that was your talking point.

01:24:12.000 We'll see you here in a second, man.

01:24:14.000 These niggas be watching us. 1.00

01:24:15.000 I'm telling y'all, man.

01:24:15.000 Literally.

01:24:16.000 Alright, let's go ahead.

01:24:17.000 What is this from?

01:24:18.000 Big Podcast?

01:24:19.000 Never heard of it.

01:24:21.000 Alright, let's run the clip here.

01:24:23.000 You open up to a woman?

01:24:25.000 Yeah.

01:24:25.000 Never.

01:24:26.000 No.

01:24:26.000 Never.

01:24:27.000 When's the last time you think you've opened up to a woman?

01:24:29.000 We don't.

01:24:31.000 Your whole life?

01:24:32.000 Bro, I'm telling you.

01:24:33.000 Man, got players like, I can, me and him related.

01:24:37.000 Yeah.

01:24:37.000 It's our first time meeting, but I did.

01:24:38.000 Yeah, I can tell you guys, there's some connection here.

01:24:40.000 Oh, no.

01:24:41.000 They're going to tell you you can't.

01:24:42.000 Because you know why?

01:24:43.000 But it's a trap.

01:24:44.000 Because you know why? 1.00

01:24:45.000 I'm trapped, like a motherfucker. 1.00

01:24:46.000 No, I'm going to tell you why. 1.00

01:24:48.000 Because once you do, whenever something go down, they're going to throw it back in your face.

01:24:53.000 That's why.

01:24:55.000 That's why.

01:24:55.000 So you can't ever.

01:24:56.000 That's why you cry because your dad left.

01:24:58.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:25:00.000 Okay, that's true.

01:25:02.000 I never threw anything personal or hurtful back in anybody.

01:25:05.000 Me either.

01:25:07.000 I think that's the character.

01:25:09.000 Don't worry.

01:25:11.000 I will come back so you guys can each give your take on that.

01:25:13.000 We'll start here with Ms. 0.98

01:25:14.000 Bolivia since she ended last.

01:25:15.000 What are your thoughts on that?

01:25:16.000 Is he right?

01:25:17.000 Is he wrong?

01:25:20.000 Well, I don't think he's right or wrong.

01:25:22.000 It's just some women will do that but know everybody. 1.00

01:25:25.000 In your opinion.

01:25:26.000 Okay, I wouldn't do that.

01:25:28.000 I would never do that.

01:25:29.000 I'm very traditional.

01:25:31.000 But they're not opening up to you, so you wouldn't have to worry about that.

01:25:33.000 Yeah, exactly.

01:25:34.000 I'm very traditional.

01:25:35.000 Many in my family, they are like, you know, controlling them.

01:25:39.000 And I don't want you guys to, you know, share my opinion.

01:25:43.000 I just want to respect it.

01:25:44.000 I understand not everybody thinks like me.

01:25:46.000 She's being nice.

01:25:46.000 We love what you're saying.

01:25:47.000 I love it.

01:25:48.000 Thank you.

01:25:50.000 I'm very chill.

01:25:51.000 I'm very nice.

01:25:52.000 I never get trouble.

01:25:53.000 Wait, hold on.

01:25:53.000 You're very traditional?

01:25:55.000 Your IG is not.

01:25:57.000 That's all I gotta say, bro.

01:25:59.000 Exposed! 0.99

01:25:59.000 Your IG is crazy, bro. 0.99

01:26:01.000 Really? 0.94

01:26:01.000 Yeah, bro. 0.94

01:26:02.000 It's crazy, man.

01:26:02.000 What should we put on there, huh?

01:26:03.000 Yeah, it's crazy, bro.

01:26:05.000 She low-key, bro.

01:26:06.000 She low-key. 1.00

01:26:07.000 Damn. 1.00

01:26:07.000 What's on there, Chris? 1.00

01:26:09.000 No, there's nothing there.

01:26:10.000 Oh! 0.60

01:26:11.000 Oh! 0.60

01:26:12.000 Weba!

01:26:12.000 Oh!

01:26:14.000 What?

01:26:17.000 She came in with a t-shirt.

01:26:20.000 She's not traditional.

01:26:22.000 They don't even traditionally do anything.

01:26:26.000 She in the snow?

01:26:27.000 She in the water?

01:26:29.000 She in a bus?

01:26:30.000 She in a bus?

01:26:33.000 That's hilarious!

01:26:35.000 I just award for a very rich family, so everything is my cost family.

01:26:41.000 Girl, you don't have to explain. 0.97

01:26:42.000 Men are not explaining themselves about being whores, so you don't have to explain anything. 0.96

01:26:47.000 Tell them you post what you want to post. 0.98

01:26:51.000 Coconuts too?

01:26:52.000 Oh hell no! 0.59

01:26:52.000 She in Barbados? 0.59

01:26:54.000 I don't want that, bro.

01:26:56.000 She in Barbados, bro?

01:26:57.000 Okay, thank you for that.

01:27:03.000 Stop it! 0.99

01:27:03.000 I got you. 0.99

01:27:04.000 Stop it now! 0.99

01:27:05.000 We got your point.

01:27:08.000 Was Shaq correct in his opinion?

01:27:14.000 What do you think?

01:27:16.000 I don't think so, no.

01:27:17.000 Because if you're throwing it back in your man's face, you're probably doing it to your girlfriend's faces too, so something's wrong with you.

01:27:23.000 But let's be honest here.

01:27:25.000 When we get emotional, they get upset, they may love you, but you know what?

01:27:29.000 You're pissing me off today, buddy.

01:27:31.000 I'm going to tell you what it is. 0.78

01:27:32.000 And they throw it in your face.

01:27:34.000 It may not be warranted, or it may not be what you want to do, but things happen, you get upset.

01:27:41.000 I mean, yeah, but does that mean you just don't open up to anyone ever because you're scared that it's going to be thrown back in your face?

01:27:49.000 But again, why would I open up if it's going to be a possibility that could happen to me as a man?

01:27:54.000 Isn't it the same vice versa though with a girl? 0.95

01:27:56.000 Yeah.

01:27:57.000 I mean, it could happen, but let's be honest here.

01:28:00.000 Most men that open up to their woman is seen as like a taboo because this happens all the time.

01:28:05.000 So...

01:28:07.000 So you disagree with Shaq's take then?

01:28:09.000 Yeah.

01:28:09.000 Okay, I disagree.

01:28:10.000 What about you?

01:28:12.000 I would say I do disagree in a sense.

01:28:14.000 Why?

01:28:16.000 Only because I feel like...

01:28:19.000 Actually, I take that back.

01:28:21.000 I do kind of agree because you made a good point that in the heat of an argument, there's always a possibility if a woman just speaks her mind very irrationally maybe. 0.86

01:28:31.000 Yeah.

01:28:31.000 That she says something that she probably regrets.

01:28:34.000 So there is a chance.

01:28:35.000 But when I think about it, that's what a relationship is.

01:28:39.000 It's going to happen.

01:28:41.000 So it's, yeah.

01:28:43.000 It doesn't mean that a man shouldn't open up, though, in a sense.

01:28:49.000 Because it's just a relationship and it's, I don't know.

01:28:51.000 Yeah.

01:28:53.000 Thank you.

01:28:53.000 That's my take.

01:28:54.000 Alright, what do you think?

01:28:55.000 Agree?

01:28:55.000 Disagree?

01:28:56.000 I agree.

01:28:57.000 I agree.

01:28:58.000 So that contradicts...

01:28:59.000 Okay.

01:29:00.000 I know.

01:29:02.000 But I've done it before, so I'm like... 1.00

01:29:04.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:29:05.000 You know. 1.00

01:29:05.000 It's the heat of the moment. 1.00

01:29:07.000 If that happens, it does happen, but I mean...

01:29:10.000 Alright.

01:29:11.000 Well, being honest at least.

01:29:12.000 What about you?

01:29:12.000 Do you agree or disagree?

01:29:14.000 I agree when he says women, but I still stand by what I said about wife. 0.99

01:29:19.000 And then when it comes to the girlfriend, like I said, I said no until he really knows that that's going to be his wife.

01:29:25.000 And I still believe that real vulnerability should come once you make that full commitment.

01:29:30.000 And then also to kind of go back to what I was saying earlier, this is why...

01:29:37.000 Vulnerability in a man who's not healed can turn into something bad because you guys all were like, well, I mean, he could throw it back in my face.

01:29:44.000 That's a man who's unhealed and who's being vulnerable, who's being, like, sad or upset or whatever, and then jabbing you.

01:29:50.000 So that's what I'm telling you.

01:29:51.000 Like, you can't want something from a man and not really know him and know what he's gone through, and then something bad could happen.

01:29:59.000 It could get sticky.

01:30:02.000 So I agree with Shaq.

01:30:03.000 Okay, so you think it should be reserved for only your wife to open up?

01:30:08.000 Yeah, and I think at that point you have to really know.

01:30:10.000 Like, for example, if you're going to marry someone but you do have, like, an open relationship or something where, like, he's successful and he wants multiple women, I don't think he should be vulnerable with any of them because he might have more than one wife.

01:30:20.000 He might have whatever.

01:30:21.000 It could get messy.

01:30:22.000 Like, now one feels like she's more important than the other because he pillow-talks her and not the other one. 0.99

01:30:27.000 So at that point, you just got to stay ten toes and not tell nobody shit. 0.92

01:30:30.000 But if you're going to really be serious with one person and put in the time and everything, like...

01:30:34.000 Actual dedication because to be honest even me as a woman I'm not vulnerable unless I know that's gonna be my husband you know what I mean and like I haven't gotten there yet other than what I said about the dude earlier where I felt like that could be somebody that I could really be with committed so would you would you say that in a marriage a woman values security probably at the highest level because now you're married to that person Absolutely,

01:30:56.000 as well as protection.

01:30:57.000 Okay.

01:30:58.000 So, if you value security and protection at an even higher level at marriage, wouldn't it be counterproductive for you to open up vulnerability-wise when you're the one that's tasked with protecting and securing her?

01:31:09.000 Because you're showing weakness.

01:31:11.000 But that woman depends on you to provide her security at an even higher level now because you guys are now married. 1.00

01:31:16.000 So, if someone is looking to you for security and strength at the highest level because now you guys are married, wouldn't it be counterproductive to open up and be vulnerable?

01:31:24.000 I don't believe so.

01:31:25.000 And the reason why is because if my husband did that for me, and it was something that I really needed him to do that for, I would actually see him as stronger.

01:31:34.000 Because that took a lot, you know?

01:31:36.000 That's a good point, but what if she thinks opposite? 0.99

01:31:39.000 Oh, no, my nigga's weak. 0.98

01:31:41.000 I don't like that. 0.99

01:31:41.000 That's not her husband. 0.99

01:31:42.000 It's my husband we talking about.

01:31:43.000 I wouldn't look at him like that.

01:31:45.000 But you have a good example, but she might not.

01:31:47.000 So I'm going to assume that if I open up to you, it could be either way.

01:31:51.000 But then I jeopardize my relationship because I don't know what's going to happen.

01:31:54.000 And then also, you got to look at, like, women overwhelmingly initiate divorces and breakups. 0.99

01:32:00.000 And on top of that, I could lose half my money, lose my alimony, lose my kids, have to pay child support, and I'm the one that's tasked with securing you.

01:32:07.000 So like, why would I put all of that up for risk and be vulnerable to you when you might not take it the right way?

01:32:13.000 Well, I think a lot of the women who initiate these divorces and things like that, in my personal opinion, it's kind of obvious from the beginning. 0.99

01:32:21.000 Like, yeah, she has good qualities and good traits, but there's things that she's asking for.

01:32:24.000 She wants that at some point, if you don't have it, she probably won't stick around. 0.56

01:32:28.000 But can you agree as well?

01:32:29.000 Women fall in love and they fall out of love. 1.00

01:32:32.000 So then they love you at the beginning, but let's say you get fat, you know, you tend to be not as productive as you used to be.

01:32:38.000 She falls out of love.

01:32:40.000 And women get bored in relationships way faster than men do. 1.00

01:32:43.000 So you might not really know at the beginning because she might love you all the way, but it might change.

01:32:46.000 I think if a woman falls out of love with you, she never loved you to begin with.

01:32:49.000 I think, to be 100% honest, because I think love is, real love is like forever.

01:32:54.000 Like, even if that person, it wasn't to work out.

01:32:57.000 So you think it's unconditional?

01:32:58.000 My love is unconditional.

01:33:00.000 You're single.

01:33:01.000 So, hold on, hold on.

01:33:02.000 But listen, you want to know why?

01:33:04.000 I got you.

01:33:04.000 Why, why?

01:33:05.000 You want to know why?

01:33:05.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:33:06.000 You're a man that you love.

01:33:07.000 What if it hits you?

01:33:08.000 Are you going to stay?

01:33:10.000 And say, oh, it's unconditional.

01:33:11.000 Here's the thing.

01:33:13.000 So...

01:33:13.000 Remember, you made a minute.

01:33:14.000 I know.

01:33:15.000 I know.

01:33:16.000 And here's the thing.

01:33:17.000 Here's the thing.

01:33:17.000 And this is like...

01:33:18.000 I hope I can say this online and it's not going to sound crazy because I don't...

01:33:22.000 Well, because I don't condone violence, right?

01:33:24.000 Don't say it.

01:33:25.000 I know what you want to say.

01:33:27.000 What do you mean?

01:33:30.000 No, I'm not going to justify it.

01:33:31.000 What I was going to say is, again, if I'm putting myself in a position where I'm with someone who might have some sort of issue or might have whatever, but I want to work through that, like, I'm not talking about full-blown abuse.

01:33:43.000 I'm not talking about, you know, getting, like, super hit or anything like that.

01:33:46.000 But...

01:33:47.000 If you're doing something crazy and you're putting your hands on him, if you're wilding out and he slams you real quick, why are you now going to be like, hey, oh my God, what do you do to me? 0.99

01:33:55.000 I'm going to sit my pretty ass down. 0.99

01:33:56.000 And I'm going to be like, I just did some shit to get this man out of character. 0.99

01:33:59.000 Let me give him some space. 0.98

01:34:02.000 You know?

01:34:03.000 That's why I said it's a sticky thing to say.

01:34:05.000 But I'm just being honest.

01:34:06.000 If I'm married and I have children, I'm not saying I'll put up with everything, but I don't think I would leave if he cheated.

01:34:13.000 I don't think I would leave right away.

01:34:15.000 You feel me?

01:34:15.000 Because I'm...

01:34:17.000 Where I'm at in life, I don't attract that kind of energy.

01:34:20.000 You know what I mean?

01:34:20.000 Like, men don't treat me that way.

01:34:22.000 Where's your last ex?

01:34:24.000 Where is he?

01:34:25.000 Yeah.

01:34:26.000 I mean, we stopped talking.

01:34:27.000 It was, like, right when my mom passed away, so I kind of wanted to leave that, like, in the back end of things, because it was too painful for me to continue to bring somebody who saw me go through so much after we broke up.

01:34:37.000 He was the one.

01:34:38.000 I don't know.

01:34:38.000 No, no, no.

01:34:39.000 He wasn't the one.

01:34:40.000 Not the recent ex.

01:34:41.000 I'm talking about the one from five years ago.

01:34:42.000 I consider him my actual ex.

01:34:44.000 See, I like what you're saying, but you didn't answer the question.

01:34:46.000 You know why?

01:34:47.000 Because ultimately...

01:34:48.000 Well, because I don't want to say that I'm condoning something, but yes, I would say.

01:34:51.000 I would say.

01:34:52.000 Because it's not about...

01:34:53.000 Like I said, I'm not talking full-blown abuse, but sometimes people get out of character and they do things that they regret.

01:34:59.000 And if I love this man and I'm serious and I brought him out of character, I got to sit with that and reflect on me.

01:35:05.000 Right.

01:35:05.000 You know?

01:35:06.000 Like I said, there's a limit.

01:35:08.000 You're moving it because you're saying if you get him out of character, what if you don't do anything?

01:35:12.000 Oh no, that's different.

01:35:13.000 He gets drunk.

01:35:14.000 He says, you know what?

01:35:15.000 I messed up in life.

01:35:16.000 I hate my life now.

01:35:17.000 I want to change.

01:35:18.000 He just changes randomly.

01:35:19.000 Are you going to say it?

01:35:20.000 Yeah, no, no.

01:35:21.000 Unconditional love still?

01:35:22.000 But that's what I'm saying.

01:35:23.000 I can unconditionally love.

01:35:25.000 If you're going to, like I said, that's abuse now because you're bringing alcohol into it.

01:35:28.000 You're bringing things that are like...

01:35:29.000 Unconditional then.

01:35:30.000 No, it is.

01:35:31.000 But that's not...

01:35:32.000 Come on.

01:35:33.000 That has to be like...

01:35:33.000 There's a limit.

01:35:34.000 Remember earlier we were talking about boundaries?

01:35:35.000 That's crazy.

01:35:36.000 Unconditional love is unconditional.

01:35:38.000 Exactly.

01:35:38.000 But do I have to stay to unconditionally love him?

01:35:41.000 Can I love him forever and not stay?

01:35:42.000 But you're leaving.

01:35:43.000 So there's a condition.

01:35:44.000 See, that's the whole point here.

01:35:46.000 Listen.

01:35:47.000 But leave it doesn't mean you don't love somebody.

01:35:49.000 No, you got it.

01:35:50.000 You got it.

01:35:51.000 You got it.

01:35:51.000 You right then.

01:35:52.000 I guess I have a little condition.

01:35:53.000 Oh, that's our question.

01:35:55.000 What about you?

01:35:58.000 Do you agree with Shaq?

01:36:00.000 No.

01:36:01.000 You don't?

01:36:02.000 Why not?

01:36:02.000 So I know a little bit of Shaq's history in dating and he doesn't have a successful relationship.

01:36:08.000 I think me seeing my parents, literally, I'm not saying this or that.

01:36:12.000 I think me seeing two human beings meet at 17 and 19.

01:36:16.000 Create a family.

01:36:17.000 My parents were young, so I went through everything with them.

01:36:20.000 And I can say the reason why my parents are still together, the reason why both my grandparents were still together, is because of accepting each other's flaws and all.

01:36:29.000 Literally.

01:36:30.000 So you said Shaq, you disagree with Shaq because you said it's his own personal relationships?

01:36:36.000 No, what I'm saying is that...

01:36:37.000 It makes sense.

01:36:38.000 He hasn't had like a successful relationship and that makes sense.

01:36:42.000 I think if a man feels that way, one, that's fair. 0.88

01:36:45.000 So you can't, no one is right or wrong for not.

01:36:47.000 That means he's never had that kind of love before.

01:36:50.000 I believe so.

01:36:50.000 I believe that means that he hasn't met the one.

01:36:52.000 Because when you meet the one, they allow you to be yourself, human to human.

01:36:56.000 It doesn't even matter whether you're my boyfriend, my girlfriend, my wife, my husband.

01:36:59.000 Who are you?

01:37:00.000 And I want you to feel comfortable enough.

01:37:03.000 I think that's why they say we should be friends before anything.

01:37:06.000 And that's what I believe.

01:37:07.000 So I believe if you're married to somebody, how do you get past the best friend stage?

01:37:12.000 How do you get past the friend stage?

01:37:13.000 So if it's your friend or your best friend, you should be able to be vulnerable with them.

01:37:16.000 Not completely vulnerable to where you're telling them everything, but at least to where I can get to know you, you can get to know me.

01:37:22.000 What hurts you?

01:37:22.000 What triggers you?

01:37:23.000 Because that's how I can know what not to bring up, what not to say.

01:37:27.000 And if the person really loves you, they're not going to do that.

01:37:30.000 Because the first thing you said was Shaq doesn't have successful relationships before.

01:37:35.000 I don't think that he...

01:37:36.000 Yeah, I know about like a few of them that he...

01:37:39.000 Would it be that it wasn't successful?

01:37:41.000 Maybe he got rid of the girl or what was it?

01:37:44.000 Why was it not successful?

01:37:45.000 Well, Shaq cheated a lot.

01:37:48.000 Yeah, so no, I'm not saying that, but if you're cheating and then you don't want to be vulnerable with somebody, why are you in a relationship?

01:37:54.000 That means you're having someone fulfill your needs, which is okay if that's what you want as a man, but you can't get mad when you don't have a successful relationship like my ex if that's how you want to carry yourself because that doesn't bring a successful relationship.

01:38:06.000 I never judged him, my ex, or nothing, but I'm letting him know I know that that's not the way to a successful relationship.

01:38:13.000 And if you want me to submit, I have to trust you.

01:38:15.000 And if I know you're going on an unsuccessful path, why would I submit to you?

01:38:19.000 You're going to lead me to the abyss of hell and we're going to be there together.

01:38:23.000 And then, of course, you're going to lead me because you're going to lead me for a woman who has boundaries and standards. 1.00

01:38:29.000 Wait a minute.

01:38:30.000 You said earlier, your parents, right, are still together.

01:38:36.000 Now, back in their day, I mean, they're probably still young.

01:38:40.000 Wait, who were your parents?

01:38:41.000 50, 51, I don't know.

01:38:43.000 Well, let's say your mom stayed with your dad, right?

01:38:46.000 Why?

01:38:47.000 Because she understands duty, probably, right?

01:38:50.000 She understands that even though my husband cheated on me, it's about family.

01:38:54.000 No, so maybe this is why my mom came out of a very toxic house home. 1.00

01:39:03.000 And I'm a recording artist, number one, so I don't mind sharing things and I will never hurt anybody that I love.

01:39:09.000 But my mom came from an alcoholic family and I don't think she was taught.

01:39:15.000 So when she met my father, she was very unemotional to love.

01:39:18.000 She was unemotional to everything.

01:39:20.000 But she was sexually assaulted as a young kid, and she had five daughters, so she did not want to leave my dad.

01:39:26.000 And I believe that, God above all, I believe that that led her to not leaving him, but it ended up her being able to work with him.

01:39:35.000 Now, it could be any reason that you stay with a person.

01:39:38.000 Okay, let's look outside of your family.

01:39:41.000 There's grandparents and parents that are still together, and a guy cheated.

01:39:46.000 Why are they still there?

01:39:47.000 It's because they don't understand.

01:39:49.000 Dude is very important.

01:39:50.000 So I get it.

01:39:50.000 She had a really bad past and a lot of trauma, but she understands what it is to be with somebody long-term.

01:39:57.000 Nowadays, what happens?

01:39:58.000 You meet somebody, you get bored, they get fat.

01:40:01.000 Yeah, we don't stick things out anymore at all.

01:40:04.000 You know why?

01:40:05.000 There's an option.

01:40:05.000 You know what?

01:40:06.000 You don't do what I want, I'm going to leave.

01:40:08.000 But that art of staying for somebody for duty is gone.

01:40:11.000 But that's why we're all 30 and single.

01:40:14.000 Because when younger back in the days, it was like, no, it was standard.

01:40:19.000 So those standards to kind of want to be in a relationship, you have to be in a family that kind of kept you from just leaving because you can.

01:40:28.000 We leave now because you feel like you can.

01:40:31.000 But that's not true because...

01:40:33.000 But hold on, you mentioned earlier the one.

01:40:35.000 There is no one.

01:40:36.000 It's who you choose to be with.

01:40:37.000 Because by default, people change.

01:40:39.000 Yeah, but see, the one could be, I chose the one.

01:40:42.000 It doesn't mean like the one that's the only person.

01:40:43.000 I don't believe in that.

01:40:44.000 I believe in the one that you choose to be with.

01:40:46.000 My parents stuck together because they chose to stick together with each other.

01:40:50.000 They decided jointly that, you know what?

01:40:52.000 You're the one for me.

01:40:54.000 I'm the one for you.

01:40:55.000 And let's make it work.

01:40:57.000 I'm just saying it's a choice.

01:40:59.000 And if you want to leave somebody because they cheated, that's a choice you're making.

01:41:04.000 But in reality speaking, let's be honest here, men are going to do what they do regardless.

01:41:09.000 So you leave him because he cheated.

01:41:11.000 I mean, why? 0.97

01:41:12.000 See, that's why my mom is a goat. 1.00

01:41:13.000 I don't know. 0.71

01:41:15.000 She understood that, and I didn't understand that.

01:41:17.000 But I think my mom understood, okay, I have five daughters, and like I said, that's why her fear, her standards kept her from just going out and doing whatever because she wanted to, because there was more.

01:41:27.000 But even better, you're in the industry.

01:41:29.000 Gucci man, right?

01:41:32.000 You understand how things work.

01:41:34.000 They're from down south.

01:41:35.000 I'm from New York.

01:41:36.000 I don't know.

01:41:37.000 But hold on.

01:41:38.000 Successful guy.

01:41:39.000 I'm not saying he does anything, but let's be honest here.

01:41:41.000 He's in the industry.

01:41:42.000 Things are going to happen.

01:41:43.000 But she's staying there.

01:41:44.000 Why is she staying there? 0.93

01:41:45.000 She understands I made a choice.

01:41:47.000 He's the one for me.

01:41:48.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:41:49.000 It's a choice, is what I'm trying to say here.

01:41:50.000 I believe so, yes.

01:41:51.000 And whatever it is, everybody has a...

01:41:53.000 Everybody has a boundary.

01:41:55.000 My mom taught me that from younger.

01:41:56.000 So my mom explained this to me with my dad.

01:42:00.000 Her dad was an alcoholic and he was abusive.

01:42:02.000 So my mom taught me because of course she has four daughters so we want to know why you're staying around.

01:42:06.000 My mom said everybody has limits.

01:42:08.000 You have hard hearts and something to say absolutely not.

01:42:13.000 So she said what my father, what she wanted to do is she didn't want to be with someone who was abusive and she didn't want to be with an alcoholic.

01:42:19.000 So personally, that's something that she didn't mind.

01:42:22.000 Like the lady used to call my mom's house. 1.00

01:42:24.000 My mom used to be like, I have a house. 0.97

01:42:26.000 I have a car.

01:42:27.000 I don't care about that woman. 1.00

01:42:28.000 But that was my mom's view. 0.98

01:42:31.000 So, you know, would that work for me?

01:42:33.000 Maybe not.

01:42:34.000 But do I learn from my mom?

01:42:35.000 Absolutely.

01:42:36.000 Alright.

01:42:37.000 Okay.

01:42:38.000 What, Chris?

01:42:39.000 No, because she's... 1.00

01:42:40.000 I don't know. 0.99

01:42:41.000 I feel like I'm on MTV or some shit. 0.88

01:42:43.000 No, I get what she's saying, though. 0.95

01:42:45.000 Hopefully there's a change here.

01:42:48.000 Okay, what about you?

01:42:50.000 Do you disagree with Shaq's statement or no?

01:42:53.000 I'm so lost, so Shaq. 0.98

01:42:55.000 He said don't open up because you're going to throw it to your face.

01:42:57.000 Don't be vulnerable, women. 1.00

01:42:58.000 Don't do it.

01:43:00.000 Yeah, I agree with him.

01:43:02.000 I think women are very emotional and men are very logical. 0.88

01:43:06.000 And I respectfully disagree with you.

01:43:08.000 I mean, my dad...

01:43:09.000 That's okay.

01:43:10.000 I mean, my mom's been a stay-at-home mom for like over 20 years and I was raised with that.

01:43:16.000 And I think...

01:43:17.000 I don't know, my dad's busted his ass off, and I've never really seen my dad been vulnerable or emotional.

01:43:25.000 He's just, he gets it done for the family.

01:43:28.000 Like, that's it.

01:43:29.000 I just, I don't know.

01:43:31.000 And I love, I think my dad's definitely the prize, and my mom's just stuck around for the family, and that's that.

01:43:36.000 No offense, but would you disagree with me?

01:43:39.000 I haven't lived...

01:43:41.000 It's hard for me to relate to your life, but...

01:43:45.000 Yeah, it's hard for me to relate to you.

01:43:47.000 I don't know.

01:43:48.000 I'm just saying...

01:43:50.000 Oh, no, so it's hard for you to relate.

01:43:51.000 You don't disagree, but it's hard for you to relate.

01:43:53.000 That's too different.

01:43:53.000 Yeah, I'm just saying, like, based on shock, like, I don't know, like, based on my dad.

01:43:57.000 Like, I agree, like, my dad's definitely just...

01:44:00.000 She disagrees that men shouldn't open up.

01:44:02.000 Because you're saying men should open up.

01:44:03.000 I'm not used to a man opening up because my dad's just very logical. 0.99

01:44:06.000 He gets shit done. 0.98

01:44:07.000 My mom's very emotional. 0.99

01:44:11.000 My mom's extremely emotional, so I don't expect him to open up.

01:44:15.000 I also think to each his own.

01:44:16.000 We all from birth was born a whole bunch of different ways.

01:44:20.000 It's 17 years that no one can account for.

01:44:22.000 You can't tell two people to act the same.

01:44:24.000 But hold on.

01:44:24.000 You're using the excuse of your past trauma to determine your future actions.

01:44:29.000 Can we agree that it's your choice ultimately?

01:44:31.000 What do you mean, mine?

01:44:33.000 Because I didn't...

01:44:33.000 In general, because you always say, for example, he had trauma, you had trauma, your mom had trauma.

01:44:38.000 Yeah, but it's a choice you make.

01:44:39.000 You can overcome that and make a choice for yourself.

01:44:42.000 No, I already chose for myself.

01:44:43.000 I'm talking about my parents.

01:44:44.000 That has nothing to do with me.

01:44:45.000 Me, I decided to wait until I grew up.

01:44:49.000 I think us in America, we make everything about relationships and we don't really make things about learning ourselves.

01:44:55.000 I think that's why when people, when they said unconditional love, it's hard to say unconditional love because the person doesn't even know themselves.

01:45:01.000 So how are you going to tell somebody to unconditionally love me and I don't even know myself?

01:45:05.000 I think that as time, I think that's why even though a lot of us are pushing 30 and single, I think the world is different.

01:45:12.000 I think we're taught to know each other.

01:45:15.000 And I think that when you get to know yourself, then you can choose who to be with.

01:45:19.000 This works for me.

01:45:20.000 This doesn't work for me.

01:45:21.000 But if you're like, okay, I like you and you like me, let's just be together.

01:45:24.000 And you don't even know, like, even though I like you and I'm, you're fine.

01:45:28.000 I'm attracted to you.

01:45:29.000 It takes time.

01:45:29.000 But yeah, I don't know your household.

01:45:32.000 I don't know what you were raised.

01:45:34.000 I don't know your values.

01:45:35.000 I don't know if what you've been through is what I've been through.

01:45:38.000 So you might think this way because that's how she was born and I was born different.

01:45:43.000 So that's why I told her, please don't feel bad because I know that how I was raised, I know for sure was not how everyone else was raised.

01:45:50.000 I was not expecting that.

01:45:51.000 What about you?

01:45:53.000 Did you have something of that?

01:45:55.000 Okay, but you agree with Shaq on the not showing vulnerability thing.

01:45:57.000 I mean, I don't think life's that complicated.

01:45:59.000 I think that...

01:46:00.000 To each their own.

01:46:02.000 Respectfully, though.

01:46:03.000 I mean, I just think...

01:46:04.000 Because my childhood was complicated.

01:46:05.000 Yeah.

01:46:06.000 I don't think life's that complicated.

01:46:07.000 I mean, I think it's just...

01:46:08.000 Well, I don't know.

01:46:10.000 She's saying...

01:46:10.000 Well, we're two different cultures.

01:46:12.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:46:13.000 Can you guys let her speak, please?

01:46:15.000 Go ahead.

01:46:16.000 You were trying to say...

01:46:16.000 Go ahead.

01:46:17.000 I don't know.

01:46:18.000 I don't think life's that complicated.

01:46:19.000 I think, like, as women, we're just like...

01:46:22.000 I don't know.

01:46:24.000 Personally, me, I'm just worried about getting to the age where my eggs run out.

01:46:28.000 I just want to have kids ASAP, and I want to be a mom. 0.99

01:46:30.000 Damn, she wants kids, man. 1.00

01:46:31.000 Yeah, I definitely want kids. 1.00

01:46:33.000 I want kids.

01:46:34.000 Yeah.

01:46:34.000 I don't know.

01:46:35.000 Your man better be watching.

01:46:36.000 She's a little different in my minority communities. 0.86

01:46:40.000 I'm so sorry.

01:46:41.000 I don't really want to find myself or anything.

01:46:42.000 I'm being honest.

01:46:44.000 It's not an excuse, but it's honestly.

01:46:45.000 It's not an excuse, man.

01:46:46.000 Stop saying that now.

01:46:47.000 What?

01:46:47.000 No.

01:46:48.000 I have a question for you.

01:46:49.000 Do you think that your parents' dynamic has had to do with why you view things the way that you do?

01:46:56.000 Absolutely.

01:46:56.000 That's why I just said I can't accept somebody to agree.

01:46:59.000 But my parents' dynamic is what's supposed to dictate.

01:47:02.000 No, it's not.

01:47:02.000 No, but it's supposed to have an influence.

01:47:05.000 Yeah, but no, no, no, no.

01:47:06.000 Since you were born, the person that you learned from is your parents.

01:47:10.000 But you just said, as an adult, you make a choice for yourself.

01:47:15.000 Exactly, because I've been, yes.

01:47:16.000 But from birth to 17, 18, rightfully so, we are not allowed to make our decisions. 0.99

01:47:23.000 So if you were born with a mom that was a whore, and she was just You can play the music. 1.00

01:47:28.000 And that's what you learned. 0.99

01:47:30.000 Yes, you can make a decision because that doesn't resonate with you.

01:47:32.000 You can say, I don't want to do that with myself.

01:47:35.000 But if you're used to it, yes, it has some influence on you.

01:47:38.000 Duh! 1.00

01:47:39.000 If you spend five years in a relationship, you're influenced by that person.

01:47:42.000 They say you start talking like that person.

01:47:44.000 So why wouldn't your 17 years of growth have anything to do?

01:47:48.000 Of course you can make...

01:47:49.000 My parents were 17 and 19.

01:47:51.000 I don't have any kids yet.

01:47:52.000 On purpose, because I wanted to get to know myself.

01:47:55.000 I've seen what happened when you don't know yourself and you're in a relationship and you're together.

01:47:59.000 And my parents had to get to know themselves through each other.

01:48:03.000 And I didn't want to do that.

01:48:05.000 But I think your mom knows herself, though.

01:48:07.000 Like you said earlier, your mom chose.

01:48:09.000 My mom learned herself.

01:48:10.000 She was not the woman that she was growing up that she is now.

01:48:13.000 But she's still accepted now.

01:48:14.000 And then actually, to be honest, after talking to her daughters, like me and my sisters telling her, Mom, you don't have to accept that.

01:48:20.000 We actually taught my mom and we helped her.

01:48:22.000 Poison!

01:48:23.000 And both.

01:48:24.000 No, but no, but my father loves her now because now he's not cheating on her.

01:48:28.000 Before my mom was Puerto Rican, she thought if I fold your clothes and I do everything and I fix your toes, that you're not going to cheat on me. 0.91

01:48:34.000 No, my father wanted someone to hold him accountable.

01:48:38.000 My father's like 53, something like that.

01:48:41.000 Okay, we got you.

01:48:42.000 What about you, Ms.

01:48:43.000 Boca?

01:48:44.000 Thank you.

01:48:46.000 I would say...

01:48:47.000 Okay, I would say there's...

01:48:49.000 Yeah, okay.

01:48:50.000 So I would say three different things.

01:48:53.000 Like, for example, if we're just talking about Shaq, Shaq comes... 1.00

01:48:57.000 I mean, he's entitled to his own opinion, right?

01:48:59.000 Everyone is.

01:49:00.000 But he also comes, like...

01:49:03.000 I feel like in the fame-wise, and when you're in that light, you have to be more cautious about your feelings and about sharing things, unfortunately, because not everyone is good.

01:49:14.000 So I do think that his opinion is just different from mine.

01:49:21.000 And that's it.

01:49:21.000 I feel like he can say that because he lives in a light also that's very...

01:49:27.000 Yeah, everyone can hear and see everything and know everything.

01:49:29.000 Celebrity status?

01:49:30.000 Yeah, you know what I mean?

01:49:31.000 So then that happens.

01:49:32.000 But then, you know, I think it's...

01:49:35.000 I also go back to if you are having someone be vulnerable in front of you and then throwing it back on them, there's some internal issues with you because if you can't control that and be mature, then you need to reevaluate your life because that's just toxic.

01:49:56.000 If you're throwing things out and I'm throwing things out, then why are we in a relationship?

01:50:00.000 But it could happen.

01:50:01.000 Are you calling women toxic? 0.67

01:50:03.000 You know, like, everyone's toxic.

01:50:05.000 I don't think everyone's toxic.

01:50:10.000 No, I meant, like, everyone can be toxic, right?

01:50:13.000 But I don't think, like, they can be toxic.

01:50:16.000 Depends on your point of view, I think.

01:50:17.000 Yeah, it depends on your point of view.

01:50:18.000 But if that's the case, everyone can be a killer.

01:50:22.000 Wait, so did you agree or disagree with Shaq?

01:50:27.000 Sorry.

01:50:28.000 Okay, so there was like three parts to it.

01:50:31.000 I would just...

01:50:31.000 Just summarize it.

01:50:32.000 Yeah, I would say disagree, but also because...

01:50:36.000 His status.

01:50:36.000 Just his status, right?

01:50:37.000 Celebrity.

01:50:38.000 Like, he's a celebrity status, so he has to be a bit more quiet, and maybe he was taught to be more reservative and cautious.

01:50:44.000 But, you know, good for him if he wants to, like, not show his feelings.

01:50:47.000 Hopefully he finds whatever he's looking for, but for...

01:50:50.000 I don't...

01:50:51.000 Yeah.

01:50:52.000 Yeah.

01:50:52.000 I think it's okay to show.

01:50:54.000 But then I also mentioned that if you're throwing out vulnerable things that someone shared with you, there's an issue.

01:51:01.000 Like, there's like, why are you doing that?

01:51:03.000 Like, why are you doing that?

01:51:05.000 I'm sharing something personal with you.

01:51:07.000 Why are you using it as an attack?

01:51:08.000 There's an issue.

01:51:09.000 You need to, like, figure out why you do that.

01:51:10.000 Which is why we're even having a conversation about vulnerability.

01:51:13.000 Who's at fault?

01:51:13.000 The person that shared the information or the person that went ahead and decided to take that information and use it against them?

01:51:18.000 You know...

01:51:18.000 Who's at fault?

01:51:19.000 Okay, so this is a tricky question because if that person doesn't know they're at fault, then they're going to continue to do that.

01:51:24.000 And if the person they're with maybe doesn't recognize that, then...

01:51:28.000 You know, it's like, I think if that makes sense, like, you can be doing something and you're not aware of it.

01:51:37.000 Maybe, you know, maybe it could be you work through a conversation.

01:51:41.000 If that person does it, be like, hey, like, I told you that in confidence.

01:51:44.000 Now you're throwing at me.

01:51:45.000 That's like, what are you doing?

01:51:46.000 Like, that's not nice.

01:51:48.000 You know, you communicate and talk about it.

01:51:50.000 So if people could do that, wouldn't it be fair to say that that advice is preventative?

01:51:56.000 Sorry, can you repeat that?

01:51:57.000 Because you're saying there's people out there that are capable and will use it against you, right?

01:52:00.000 Yeah, I've heard of the things.

01:52:03.000 But you're saying you disagree even though this advice is preventative to that.

01:52:06.000 I don't understand.

01:52:07.000 I'm sorry.

01:52:09.000 He's saying the advice from Shaq helps prevent that from happening.

01:52:13.000 That's a big problem.

01:52:15.000 By not sharing yourself?

01:52:15.000 Yeah, but why are you going to live your life with not being your authentic self?

01:52:19.000 I think that's the issue here.

01:52:21.000 I do think this is the biggest issue.

01:52:24.000 A lot of people suppress themselves.

01:52:26.000 Yeah, the biggest.

01:52:27.000 I don't know.

01:52:28.000 Whatever.

01:52:29.000 But...

01:52:30.000 So you still disagree even though it's preventive advice?

01:52:33.000 Yeah, sure.

01:52:33.000 But everyone's entitled to live their life the way that they want.

01:52:36.000 So if you want to like never share your feelings, okay, don't go share your feelings.

01:52:39.000 But, you know, if you do, like maybe beautiful things can come from it.

01:52:43.000 But it's just like your perspective of...

01:52:45.000 But we're just talking about Shaq and what he said, right?

01:52:47.000 And what he says could be just very because he's in the spotlight.

01:52:51.000 And he's entitled to that, you know?

01:52:52.000 If he doesn't want to...

01:52:53.000 Tell someone something, it's on TMZ the next day.

01:52:55.000 He's different.

01:52:56.000 I don't think we can use him as like a marker.

01:52:59.000 Yeah.

01:52:59.000 But we're saying, do you think his advice is good for the general public to apply?

01:53:03.000 Well, he's successful.

01:53:05.000 I mean, I think we should take advice from someone who's that successful.

01:53:08.000 But not in relationships.

01:53:10.000 Every time you get in your car, you can get in a car accident.

01:53:13.000 So it's like, why not ever get in my car because I think I can get in a car accident?

01:53:18.000 But aside from Shaq being a celebrity, it could still be a liability for a man who's super successful unless he brings you to a work event.

01:53:25.000 And now you were mad at him before that and you know something and then you make a scene.

01:53:29.000 It's like...

01:53:30.000 That is still liability.

01:53:32.000 That's still an issue that whether you're a celebrity or not, a man can face.

01:53:36.000 I think what Shaq was trying to do was give advice for a man to become as successful as he is, regardless if it's in a relationship or not.

01:53:42.000 I think it's helped him because he could have definitely suffered with the women that he's been involved with.

01:53:47.000 But I think it's toxic because he's in the spotlight.

01:53:49.000 So that has to be very specific to men that are in the spotlight.

01:53:52.000 No, because there's men that are very successful that women just gravitate towards because they are who they are. 0.53

01:53:56.000 They smell good.

01:53:57.000 They look good.

01:53:57.000 They got money.

01:53:58.000 They got the car.

01:53:59.000 They got the energy.

01:54:00.000 And, like, it doesn't matter if he's on TV. Like, it's like, let's say you go, like, I'm not sure if you're single, but let's say you were single and you go somewhere, like, upscale.

01:54:08.000 You're going to scan the room.

01:54:10.000 As women, that's what we do. 1.00

01:54:11.000 You scan the room.

01:54:12.000 She made a good point.

01:54:13.000 Most women are going to want the guy's status. 1.00

01:54:14.000 You know what I mean?

01:54:15.000 So, by default, talk to your guys, get all the women. 0.99

01:54:18.000 Yeah.

01:54:18.000 And regardless whether you're famous or not, like I know men that are like my mentor, for example, he's a wonderful man.

01:54:24.000 He's been in my life for like four or five years.

01:54:26.000 He's married.

01:54:27.000 He's happily married.

01:54:28.000 He loves his wife.

01:54:29.000 But when we do projects together and we're out and like the women just watch him just because of his energy and the way he carries himself.

01:54:35.000 So we all want, you know, the top providers, whatever.

01:54:38.000 But that's like what one percent of men.

01:54:40.000 Exactly.

01:54:41.000 Exactly.

01:54:42.000 So, again, how can that, what he said, be applied to the general?

01:54:46.000 Because most of the other guys are invisible to you.

01:54:48.000 So by default, you're looking for those guys.

01:54:49.000 And a lot of men don't want to be.

01:54:51.000 A lot of people don't want to be successful.

01:54:52.000 There's a lot of people who are okay being who they are.

01:54:55.000 That's true.

01:54:55.000 Yeah, and it's a lot of women who don't want to be with a top, high-value man either.

01:54:59.000 Yeah.

01:55:00.000 But I think a lot of those women aren't happy eventually. 1.00

01:55:02.000 The women that I know that aren't with... 1.00

01:55:05.000 I'm not saying that you have to be with a 1%er, right? 1.00

01:55:06.000 But if there's things within him that she wished...

01:55:09.000 She's like, I want to change him.

01:55:11.000 I wish he was better.

01:55:12.000 I wish he had more motivation.

01:55:13.000 Why not just get with someone who's already there?

01:55:15.000 Like, you can help the person or whatever, but if they have the ambition and they want it is one thing.

01:55:20.000 But if that man doesn't want it, why are you trying to change it?

01:55:23.000 I can be the first to tell you I've been with men who are successful.

01:55:26.000 And yeah, that might not be the issue.

01:55:28.000 I don't have to worry about finances.

01:55:29.000 I don't have to worry about money.

01:55:30.000 But there's a lot of other issues that come along with it.

01:55:33.000 That another woman with a regular guy, like when I was younger in high school, I was with my ex. 0.58

01:55:38.000 Girls used to be like, oh, you're dating him. 1.00

01:55:40.000 You're so lucky.

01:55:41.000 And I used to be like, no, because I have to deal with this, this, this, and this.

01:55:44.000 Who hurt you, man?

01:55:45.000 But that's what I'm saying about people trying to change people.

01:55:47.000 Well, I was with a three-time Olympian.

01:55:49.000 He was just a growing man.

01:55:50.000 I feel like exceptional man, though, they come with exceptional problems.

01:55:55.000 I always tell myself that.

01:55:57.000 That's a very good point.

01:55:57.000 Real quick, what about you?

01:55:59.000 Thoughts on Shaq's statement here?

01:56:00.000 Disagree or agree?

01:56:02.000 I don't really agree, especially after we kind of had that conversation.

01:56:04.000 You were like, girls can throw it in your face. 1.00

01:56:06.000 I'm actually not a vulnerable person because I've had it thrown in my face so much by men.

01:56:10.000 And I also want to say that I think vulnerability and a lack of control over your emotions are two different things.

01:56:16.000 It's almost like we're grouping emotional and vulnerability as the same thing.

01:56:20.000 What did they throw in your face?

01:56:22.000 What did they throw in your face?

01:56:23.000 Oh, like an argument.

01:56:24.000 It's like, oh, why don't you fix the problems with your dad before you come at me about what I'm doing? 1.00

01:56:27.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:56:28.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:56:30.000 Like...

01:56:34.000 Okay, what did you start the argument with?

01:56:37.000 Because you said, before you come at me, XYZ. So you started the argument?

01:56:40.000 They told her.

01:56:42.000 Yeah, like, if we were in an argument about whatever, like, my ex was cheating on me ridiculously, like, whatever.

01:56:47.000 So if I was like, why are you liking these girls' pictures or whatever, he'd be like, why don't you fix whatever you got going on with your dad?

01:56:54.000 No, I have a place to fix your daddy issues before you come at me. 1.00

01:56:57.000 Hold on.

01:56:58.000 Did you make more than those guys?

01:56:59.000 That's the guy she was supporting, I think.

01:57:01.000 I have a question for you.

01:57:04.000 What if the thing that's happening, honestly, what if, like, let's say a man says, okay, I have...

01:57:13.000 A problem controlling my emotions when something makes me uncomfortable, and we're having an uncomfortable situation, and then literally they're doing what they express.

01:57:23.000 Now, if you say, well, hey, now you're doing what you told me, so it's not throwing it in the person's face, but it's kind of like, hey, you remember when you told me that you had this problem?

01:57:32.000 Like, all right, example, my ex would say sorry all the time, sorry.

01:57:35.000 We get into an argument, and he would do the same thing that he would say sorry to.

01:57:39.000 So I would say, so why when...

01:57:41.000 After we're arguing, you're sorry, but while we're in the argument, I'm the worst person in the world.

01:57:46.000 So how do you...

01:57:47.000 Like, is it a problem?

01:57:48.000 Is it toxic?

01:57:48.000 I get what you're saying.

01:57:49.000 And for him, I take it as him throwing it in my face because I don't think I have issues with my dad.

01:57:56.000 Like, me...

01:57:56.000 I haven't spoke to my dad in a very long time, and maybe people think of that as an issue, but I... Don't have hate towards my dad.

01:58:04.000 I just know that he has work to do.

01:58:06.000 He needs things that he needs to fix before he's able back into my life.

01:58:09.000 So for him to be throwing that in my face when I don't...

01:58:13.000 Like, I don't talk about my dad.

01:58:15.000 I don't move.

01:58:16.000 So it's him throwing it in my face.

01:58:18.000 And again, like they were saying, I was providing for this man, so it was really just his insecurities.

01:58:21.000 He was just attacking me because...

01:58:24.000 It's your choice of men.

01:58:25.000 But I think that's also...

01:58:27.000 And you were probably...

01:58:29.000 Because here's the thing.

01:58:30.000 Because... 0.98

01:58:31.000 We're not stupid, man. 1.00

01:58:32.000 When women are in provider situation with a man, they become insufferable. 1.00

01:58:35.000 You guys become bitchy, annoying. 0.98

01:58:37.000 You have a real level of discontent with the individual. 0.99

01:58:42.000 You're always nagging him. 0.93

01:58:43.000 You're annoying as hell. 0.88

01:58:44.000 You might not know this, but that's what happens when women get in their mask and they're providing for the guy. 1.00

01:58:48.000 So you were accusing him of liking pictures or whatever.

01:58:50.000 He probably got fed up with you, got annoyed, and then he threw that comment.

01:58:52.000 Which I'm not saying that that was appropriate.

01:58:55.000 But what if he said like, hey, you're having a problem talking to me right now.

01:58:58.000 This is the same issue that you go through with your father.

01:59:01.000 Would that be an issue?

01:59:02.000 If he's genuinely pointing out like, hey, you're uncomfortable.

01:59:05.000 Bro, there's nothing to talk about.

01:59:07.000 The relationship, she was providing for a bum. 1.00

01:59:09.000 I was going to say, the dynamic was already out from the beginning.

01:59:14.000 You're right, because there are a lot of issues there.

01:59:15.000 Because when women are providing for men, they become terrible people. 1.00

01:59:17.000 She probably was being bitchy and annoying. 1.00

01:59:19.000 I'm calling him out on cheating, but that's not the issue I had with my father.

01:59:21.000 My father was very physically abusive, so him throwing that back, it's not the same thing.

01:59:26.000 I was just talking in general, like anyone.

01:59:28.000 If you say, okay, bringing it up is toxic, but if you say, hey, this is the same thing, you said that you have an issue with.

01:59:35.000 It's a relationship that was doomed to begin with in the beginning.

01:59:38.000 Can I just make one little point?

01:59:39.000 Anytime a woman's in a breadwinner position providing for a guy and he doesn't work and she's paying all the bills, she's going to become crabby and annoying and resentful. 1.00

01:59:46.000 It is what it is.

01:59:47.000 Women are not meant to provide for men. 1.00

01:59:48.000 As a man being in opposition, he's going to act all in different ways. 1.00

01:59:51.000 Yeah, he's going to be feminine and just do that dumb shit that he did. 1.00

01:59:53.000 Like, oh, that's why you don't talk to your dad. 1.00

01:59:55.000 Dumb shit like that. 1.00

01:59:56.000 Because she's being annoying. 1.00

01:59:58.000 Which, rightfully so, she's paying all the bills. 1.00

02:00:01.000 Well, and he's not being faithful.

02:00:03.000 I think that's a rightful...

02:00:04.000 Because he doesn't feel...

02:00:05.000 For example, in that position, he can't be a man for himself.

02:00:09.000 He's being vulnerable.

02:00:10.000 He's going to act out in ways to punish him because he's taking responsibility for his actions.

02:00:13.000 That's what we're trying to say.

02:00:15.000 No, and any time he opened up to me about anything, I was totally okay with vulnerability.

02:00:19.000 I think lack of emotions is different than vulnerability.

02:00:22.000 Vulnerability is being open to your weaknesses, where being emotional is acting out.

02:00:26.000 Okay, I got a question for the girls.

02:00:28.000 Alright, so we have three scenarios here, okay?

02:00:31.000 And I want you to pick the scenario that's the most attractive to you, alright?

02:00:34.000 So please pay attention.

02:00:36.000 Three different scenarios.

02:00:37.000 Number one, your man gets fired from his job, he cries, gives up for a little bit, but you support him for six months and he gets up on his feet, right?

02:00:47.000 That's scenario one.

02:00:48.000 Scenario two, he gets fired, He cries to you.

02:00:53.000 You get very involved in helping him find a job, and he gets one.

02:00:57.000 And he gets back on his feet. 0.93

02:00:59.000 Or scenario number three, which is your man got fired from his job, didn't say a fucking word about it, got another job, and made ends meet anyway. 0.90

02:01:09.000 And you never knew about it, and you found out after the fact that he found another job and done all this behind your back.

02:01:14.000 What's the most attractive of the three scenarios?

02:01:16.000 One more time for you guys.

02:01:16.000 Hold on.

02:01:18.000 Scenario one, gets fired, cries, gives up for a period of time, and then you support him for six months before he gets on his feet.

02:01:25.000 Scenario two, gets fired, cries about a little bit, shows some vulnerability, and then you get heavily involved in helping him find another job, and he gets back on his feet.

02:01:34.000 Or scenario number one, or three in this case, is...

02:01:38.000 He loses his job, has the problem, you don't find out about it, he secretly finds another job, makes ends meet anyway, and you find out after the fact, months later, that he had gotten fired from that job and he took care of it and didn't say a word about it.

02:01:49.000 What's the most attractive scenario here?

02:01:51.000 We'll start here.

02:01:55.000 On point, yeah.

02:01:56.000 On point.

02:01:57.000 Every time.

02:01:57.000 Well, I think it's, to me, I think it's obvious.

02:02:00.000 Obviously, the most attractive would be if he just hustled it out and did it himself.

02:02:03.000 However, I don't think the other two options are unattractive either.

02:02:07.000 If we're going by what's most attractive, though, definitely the last one.

02:02:09.000 Alright, what about you?

02:02:12.000 Um...

02:02:13.000 Definitely not the last one.

02:02:14.000 Oh, sorry.

02:02:15.000 Definitely not the last one.

02:02:16.000 Where he figured it out and just handled it without saying anything?

02:02:19.000 Yeah, because that just, for me, is kind of like...

02:02:22.000 When you're in a relationship, it's communication and I want to know that kind of stuff.

02:02:26.000 And if you're not communicating, I just, that's like weird energy.

02:02:30.000 So which one is it then?

02:02:30.000 So I would say, okay, so the first, yeah, I would say between the two, the first two, because you don't necessarily need to- Which one is it?

02:02:41.000 One you support her for six months, the other one is you get super involved in helping to find another job.

02:02:44.000 You can do both.

02:02:46.000 Absolutely, because you don't have to devote yourself to doing it, but you do want your man to...

02:02:50.000 So which one is the more attractive one?

02:02:52.000 Were you supportive for six months or the one where you actively help him find a job because he couldn't do it himself?

02:02:59.000 I would say both, but if you really want me to pick one, like, I wouldn't mind helping or just kind of, like, figuring it out as a team.

02:03:05.000 But, you know, it is good to see, you know, someone...

02:03:10.000 So option two for you?

02:03:11.000 I'm in between, no.

02:03:12.000 One and two together.

02:03:13.000 Okay.

02:03:13.000 What about you?

02:03:15.000 I think the last one.

02:03:17.000 I think a man's job is simply to just... 1.00

02:03:19.000 Figure it out?

02:03:20.000 Provide.

02:03:22.000 Yeah.

02:03:22.000 Okay.

02:03:23.000 What about you?

02:03:23.000 Which one is the most attractive of the three?

02:03:26.000 So I do think that it's attractive to just figure things out on yourself, by yourself.

02:03:33.000 Providing...

02:03:33.000 Alright, so I do believe in helping, but I think each person, bare minimum, should provide for themselves.

02:03:40.000 So I'm not providing for a man, but I'll be there and I'll be supportive through the six months.

02:03:44.000 So it's option one?

02:03:45.000 I think between option one and number three.

02:03:49.000 The last one I described.

02:03:50.000 Okay, what about you?

02:03:52.000 Which one is the most attractive of the three?

02:03:53.000 For me, it would be number three because I would feel like he actually cares about not putting extra stress on me.

02:03:59.000 My goal in life is to take care of my children, homeschool them, all of that, and stay home.

02:04:04.000 So if I'm already investing all this time in the kids and they need me, me doing that for you, I'm going to not be there for them.

02:04:11.000 What about you?

02:04:12.000 Definitely number three.

02:04:13.000 Okay.

02:04:14.000 What about you?

02:04:14.000 I actually think number two, only because I think that...

02:04:18.000 You're getting heavily involved in helping him find the job because he can't do it on his own?

02:04:21.000 Yeah.

02:04:22.000 Only because I think that, especially if we're married, I think that...

02:04:26.000 You'd want that stress?

02:04:28.000 I think it'll create...

02:04:31.000 It'll build our relationship even more.

02:04:33.000 You think so?

02:04:33.000 Yeah.

02:04:34.000 You think it'll build it or hurt it?

02:04:35.000 I think it'll build it.

02:04:36.000 And it depends on how you handle stress, too.

02:04:38.000 Especially if we're married.

02:04:39.000 I wouldn't mind that.

02:04:40.000 I would take...

02:04:41.000 But I would say I would be hesitant if we had kids.

02:04:46.000 If you're able to let it flow and accept that maybe you're feeling this way, we gotta do it together like a team.

02:04:52.000 And I think that at the end, our relationship would come out to be stronger.

02:04:55.000 Yeah, you become stronger. 1.00

02:04:56.000 But imagine if your man looked at you and literally was like, I don't know what we're gonna do, we're fucked. 1.00

02:05:01.000 That shit's scary. 1.00

02:05:03.000 That shit's scary, and especially if you're not... 1.00

02:05:05.000 A lot of the women want to be provided for and aren't the ones who are highly signed. 1.00

02:05:09.000 In that scenario, you become the man, though.

02:05:11.000 You know that, right?

02:05:12.000 Yeah.

02:05:13.000 Well, I'm helping him.

02:05:14.000 I'm just helping him find a job.

02:05:16.000 It's not like I'm financially...

02:05:16.000 Yeah, but you're the problem solver.

02:05:17.000 You're being masculine now.

02:05:18.000 Yeah.

02:05:18.000 But what happens if someone gets crippled or something too?

02:05:21.000 So you want option two.

02:05:22.000 You don't want him to figure it out.

02:05:23.000 You want to be involved in helping him find a job and take on that stress of helping him find a job.

02:05:27.000 It's just helping him find the job.

02:05:28.000 It's not like I'm doing the job for him. 0.90

02:05:30.000 Okay, but in that meantime, where he doesn't have a job, are you going to step up and pay bills and shit? 0.95

02:05:35.000 If I have to. 0.98

02:05:36.000 She said if I have to.

02:05:38.000 If I have to.

02:05:39.000 Thank you.

02:05:40.000 Come again.

02:05:40.000 Alright, what about you?

02:05:42.000 The third option.

02:05:44.000 Figure it out on his own?

02:05:45.000 Okay, what about you?

02:05:47.000 For me, it has to be the last one too.

02:05:49.000 Figure it out on his own?

02:05:51.000 Okay.

02:05:51.000 So, I just find it interesting how, you know, when it's a situation where you're dependent upon this man, you guys all went for the option where he just figures it out on his own and gets it done and not necessarily opening up to you.

02:06:03.000 Because, here's the thing.

02:06:05.000 I agree with Shaq 100%, where you guys are saying, oh no, open up to me or whatever, but I don't think a man should ever open up to a woman because women are terrible people when they have leverage and when they think that they can have one up on you. 1.00

02:06:17.000 And I think a man's job, right, as a masculine individual is to control your emotions because they might come out in a raw form that a woman's not prepared to deal with. 0.98

02:06:24.000 I think masculine problems are to be dealt with masculine figures, which is you, your guy friends, etc.

02:06:30.000 I don't think men should ever defer to women when they're in a situation like that because women are not security providers. 0.99

02:06:35.000 You even said to yourself, well, I'll help them and stuff, but that's for a period of time.

02:06:38.000 And that's because women are not naturally providers. 1.00

02:06:40.000 They don't want to go sit there and provide for a man long term. 1.00

02:06:42.000 And if they do, they end up in a really fucked up relationship like she did. 0.70

02:06:46.000 So my thing is I look at it as if I'm supposed to be the leader, I'm supposed to be the dominant one, I'm the one that's responsible for protecting and providing for you, it's my job to make sure that you're secure. 0.98

02:06:55.000 And a big part of you being secure is me being secure in myself to handle shit and not bringing problems to your front door and having you deal with my masculine problems.

02:07:02.000 It puts you in a very uncomfortable situation, especially if we have kids or we have a family or whatever. 0.96

02:07:07.000 I'm responsible for that.

02:07:08.000 So if I'm sitting here bringing my problems to you when it's not, quite frankly, your problem, It could cause issues.

02:07:13.000 And I think a big problem why so many relationships fail is because men aren't providers.

02:07:18.000 They're not protectors.

02:07:18.000 And they think that it's okay to open up to their women.

02:07:21.000 But this is some new age faggotry that makes men soft. 1.00

02:07:25.000 And I don't think men are men because they think it's okay to open up to women. 0.99

02:07:27.000 I don't think it's okay to open up to women because women are emotional. 1.00

02:07:30.000 And since you guys are emotional, you might not be able to deal with our problems the same way that we deal with ours.

02:07:35.000 And I think, on a man, it's your job to not be emotional in front of your girl, at least, and control your emotions.

02:07:40.000 Wow.

02:07:40.000 Ladies, do you know what place has the most emotional men on planet Earth?

02:07:45.000 America.

02:07:47.000 Wait.

02:07:48.000 I'm going to say it again.

02:07:49.000 Do you know what places in America, or for example, the world, have the most emotional men?

02:07:57.000 Anybody know?

02:07:58.000 In America?

02:07:58.000 Maybe like Latin America.

02:07:59.000 No, I don't know.

02:08:00.000 Prison. 1.00

02:08:01.000 Because those guys said, you know what, fuck it. 1.00

02:08:03.000 Emotions, I'm going to let it out. 1.00

02:08:14.000 Some guys, you know, will scream when they get angry.

02:08:17.000 Some guys will, you know, cry uncontrollably.

02:08:19.000 Some guys will punch walls.

02:08:20.000 Some guys will enact violence.

02:08:21.000 You never know.

02:08:22.000 So vulnerability is just emotions?

02:08:25.000 Because I view vulnerability like opening up to someone, not necessarily crying or getting angry.

02:08:30.000 Emotional intelligence is not the same thing as being vulnerable.

02:08:34.000 But you guys don't get it, that when you're opening up and you're vulnerable, emotions are raw.

02:08:38.000 A lot of times, they might show the rear its ugly head in a way where they might not be able to control it.

02:08:44.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:08:44.000 It's better to just control them and deal with them as a man.

02:08:48.000 Or if you are going to open up, open up to other men that will understand your struggles.

02:08:52.000 I do agree with that.

02:08:53.000 Women don't understand the masculine experience. 1.00

02:08:55.000 And the reason why you guys don't understand the masculine experience is because you guys are women, and that's fine.

02:08:58.000 But men have a way harder life than women do, especially in 2024 than women do. 0.99

02:09:03.000 So you guys are not going to understand the pressures that we go through and the problems that we have to deal with.

02:09:07.000 So I don't think it really benefits me to tell you my problems because all it's going to do is make you lose assurity in me.

02:09:13.000 It's going to make you lose confidence in me.

02:09:15.000 It's going to make you stressed out because now, oh, I don't know what I'm going to do. 0.99

02:09:18.000 What the fuck? 0.99

02:09:19.000 I'm so... 1.00

02:09:19.000 Responsible for this family, and I'm telling you, I don't know what I'm gonna do. 1.00

02:09:22.000 Women are hardwired to be attracted to men that have their shit together and are leaders and are dominant. 0.96

02:09:27.000 There's a reason why women look for men who are taller, stronger, make more money, confident, ambitious. 0.99

02:09:33.000 These are all security features.

02:09:34.000 Right?

02:09:35.000 Women look for security value, men look for attraction value, right? 0.99

02:09:37.000 We want replication value, you guys want survival value.

02:09:39.000 So if I display traits that show that I'm not capable of allowing us to survive being unsure, not being able to provide, being weak, being feeble, not being able to be decisive in my decision making, etc.

02:09:49.000 These are all turn offs to most women. 0.96

02:09:51.000 Now, and I know some of you guys are sitting here saying, well no, I won't get turned off, I'll have more attraction for you. 1.00

02:09:56.000 That's a bunch of fucking bullshit. 1.00

02:09:58.000 And what I've realized is this. 1.00

02:10:01.000 Women are never really honest about what they're attracted to because the things that women are attracted to are kind of fucked up. 1.00

02:10:07.000 You want a guy that's better than you in every degree. 0.98

02:10:09.000 And for you to sit there as a female and say, well, I want a guy that makes more money than me, is stronger than me, is able to make better decisions than I am, is better than me in every way. 1.00

02:10:16.000 That kind of makes you look like shit as a female to be honest about what you're really attracted and aroused by. 0.99

02:10:20.000 So women have to say dumb shit like, open up to me, I love vulnerability. 1.00

02:10:24.000 Like she said earlier. 1.00

02:10:25.000 Because it's politically correct to sit there and say, men are emotional too and they should be able to open up.

02:10:29.000 But the reality is women are not attracted to these things. 1.00

02:10:31.000 They might say that they're attracted to them, but once it rears its ugly head, you're like, ew, what the fuck? 1.00

02:10:36.000 Like, you know, because women will sit there and say, I like a dad bod until you fucking get a guy with a dad bod and then you cheat on him. 1.00

02:10:41.000 Right? 1.00

02:10:42.000 Or they'll sit there and say, I'll support you even though you're broke and then they'll do it for a few months and they're like, man, fuck this shit. 1.00

02:10:46.000 This is annoying. 1.00

02:10:47.000 Like, women will sit there and say they like certain things but then once they see these things come in and they're man, it's a fucking problem. 1.00

02:10:53.000 Can I say something? 0.99

02:10:54.000 Whether it is what I like or not, it's really hard to meet a man that has spent his whole life holding in his emotions because of all of those things.

02:11:05.000 I'm not saying it's right or wrong, what I want, yes.

02:11:08.000 But it's really, really hard to meet another human being that they say, because I was a man, I was not able to show.

02:11:15.000 And then, so that's why I think when it comes to the wife, maybe that is where you open up to because it's like, okay, now we're locked in.

02:11:21.000 No, but see, I'm so sorry.

02:11:25.000 My mom was not toxic, so my mom didn't throw anything, even things that she should have thrown in his face. 0.94

02:11:32.000 With the divorce rates as high as they are, and the way women are nowadays, it is definitely not a good idea to open up to your wife. 1.00

02:11:38.000 I think men should open up to other men, to their buddies, not to girls, not to women at all.

02:11:44.000 Because women are not, again, like I said before, they're not equipped to handle masculine problems. 1.00

02:11:48.000 So what happens when you're a woman, and this is my husband, and my husband is a ball of... 1.00

02:11:52.000 He's a ball of issues because he opens up to his friends, but he doesn't open up to me.

02:11:56.000 So now I'm dealing with an emotionally...

02:11:58.000 Because that's what you're saying is creating an emotionally blocked person.

02:12:01.000 Are you going to solve his problems?

02:12:01.000 You ain't going to solve his problems?

02:12:02.000 No, I didn't.

02:12:03.000 All right, so...

02:12:03.000 We're not going to tell you what you can't solve.

02:12:05.000 So do I think...

02:12:06.000 So back to our question, I don't think that me getting involved, helping you find a job like your mother is different.

02:12:14.000 But you saying, hey, I... I'm going through this in between, and you know what?

02:12:19.000 I feel sad because I can't really provide for you right now.

02:12:22.000 And then that opens up the door for the woman to say, you know what? 1.00

02:12:25.000 I understand that.

02:12:26.000 So I just think it's a fine line.

02:12:28.000 I'm not saying either or is wrong, but I can tell you, even to meet a successful man who's completely financially stable and emotionally a wreck is no better than meeting a man who's...

02:12:39.000 Financially for it.

02:12:40.000 Look, again, you just said earlier you preferred the guy just handle the problem and get it done.

02:12:44.000 No, no, no.

02:12:45.000 I said, first of all, me, I said two.

02:12:46.000 I said, would it probably be more attractive, but would that create a healthy relationship?

02:12:51.000 Maybe, maybe not.

02:12:53.000 It depends on individuals. 1.00

02:12:54.000 Fuck the maybes, bro. 1.00

02:12:54.000 Some women don't want that. 1.00

02:12:56.000 Some women, it is maybes because some women don't want that. 1.00

02:12:59.000 Fuck what they want, man. 1.00

02:13:00.000 You're burying me. 1.00

02:13:01.000 I don't fuck the fuck they want, man. 1.00

02:13:03.000 Most of the girls at the table preferred the last option because that's a man's job is to just figure shit out and get it done. 1.00

02:13:09.000 Yeah. 0.95

02:13:09.000 Now, you said that and you said, oh, well, I'll help him and stuff. 0.95

02:13:11.000 But yeah, for how long?

02:13:12.000 Every girl is different.

02:13:13.000 Some girls might support you for a month. 1.00

02:13:15.000 Some girls might support you for six months. 1.00

02:13:16.000 Some girls might support you for a year. 1.00

02:13:18.000 No, I didn't mean financial.

02:13:18.000 I said absolutely no financial help.

02:13:20.000 I said I will emotionally help.

02:13:22.000 What do you say then?

02:13:24.000 See, that's what I'm trying to say.

02:13:26.000 How does that help you emotionally help?

02:13:29.000 For men, we're about solutions.

02:13:31.000 This is the difference between men and women. 0.99

02:13:33.000 When men have a problem, they typically are looking for a solution. 0.99

02:13:36.000 When women have a problem, you guys are looking for sympathy.

02:13:39.000 I can't provide you with another job, because that's really the solution, is you getting another job.

02:13:44.000 Even if I help you for six months, And if you can't do that, then it's pointless for me to even tell you if you can't help me.

02:13:52.000 That's what I'm trying to explain to you is that when women have problems and they talk to each other, they just want to be heard. 0.97

02:13:57.000 When men have problems, a lot of times, if we talk to each other, we're trying to find a fucking solution. 0.98

02:14:00.000 No, I believe that. 0.90

02:14:01.000 So, since we are different in how we vent our problems, where men are looking for solutions, women are just looking to be heard, it doesn't benefit me to go to a person, my female, Who won't be able to help me a lot?

02:14:12.000 I'd be better off going to my guys who would be able to probably give me some practical advice, understand, sympathize, and then I keep my masculinity intact on my woman, show her that I'm a strong leader. 0.98

02:14:22.000 She don't need to see me behind the scenes crying and sobbing and not knowing what the fuck I'm going to do. 0.99

02:14:26.000 I could reserve that for my guy friends because she doesn't have to deal with my fucking problems. 0.99

02:14:29.000 She won't be able to help me with my problems anyway. 0.99

02:14:31.000 But it's different when you're a woman and you've experienced a hurt man like that.

02:14:35.000 It's easy to say that as a man because I agree with you.

02:14:40.000 They're venting to their friends.

02:14:41.000 They don't need to vent to you.

02:14:42.000 But why would I want my man to go through six months of hell and I don't know nothing about it because he wants to be a strong man.

02:14:49.000 Personally, personally, that's not it for me.

02:14:52.000 Well, personally, you're so single.

02:14:53.000 So, yeah, keep it like that, man.

02:14:54.000 No, but choice, though.

02:14:56.000 No, but you're also single and you're not married either.

02:14:59.000 Hey, I'm happy.

02:15:00.000 I'm happy too.

02:15:01.000 I'm very happy.

02:15:02.000 And I have choices and my pick of the litter.

02:15:04.000 This society is not the same as when my parents were married.

02:15:11.000 Stop for two seconds.

02:15:12.000 You mentioned a man going through six months of hell of etc.

02:15:16.000 A man's experience, men must suffer. 1.00

02:15:18.000 Women don't. 1.00

02:15:18.000 Men are built on trauma and overcoming it. 1.00

02:15:20.000 Who said women don't suffer? 1.00

02:15:21.000 We have our periods.

02:15:22.000 We give birth.

02:15:23.000 That's suffering.

02:15:24.000 Okay.

02:15:24.000 It's to each his own.

02:15:25.000 I'm talking about real suffering.

02:15:26.000 I'm talking about suffering as in where it's not a choice.

02:15:29.000 You have to go out there and get it.

02:15:30.000 He's not wrong. 0.53

02:15:32.000 Men must suffer. 0.98

02:15:33.000 Men must endure to become a man. 1.00

02:15:35.000 There's a rite of passage for becoming a man, right?

02:15:38.000 Women value experience. 1.00

02:15:39.000 Men value inexperience. 1.00

02:15:41.000 So we don't want a girl that's all traumatized and fucked up, right? 1.00

02:15:43.000 Because she ends up being a whore a lot of the times. 1.00

02:15:45.000 Women, on the other hand, want a man that's been through some trauma and been able to overcome it and get on the other side better. 0.99

02:15:50.000 So you're saying, oh, well, I want my man to know if he's been going through hell for six months. 0.99

02:15:54.000 What you don't realize is he probably went through hell to be in a position to even be attracted to you in the fucking first place. 0.99

02:15:59.000 So my thing is, hold on. 0.99

02:16:00.000 The male experience and the female experience is completely different.

02:16:03.000 And women have zero idea of the male experience. 0.99

02:16:05.000 And I'm telling you, men must suffer. 0.52

02:16:05.000 That's not true. 0.52

02:16:06.000 I know so many women who go through so many things right now. 0.99

02:16:09.000 But you know why?

02:16:10.000 Because men are not providing. 0.99

02:16:11.000 They're not doing the things to make women not have to suffer anymore. 0.98

02:16:14.000 But that's not a choice.

02:16:14.000 Nor do they want to.

02:16:16.000 They made a choice.

02:16:16.000 So now women are working for...

02:16:18.000 And as women, we fought for freedom.

02:16:21.000 Totally.

02:16:21.000 We fought to vote, but that still proves that a man suffers more.

02:16:26.000 Do you not understand that what I'm trying to explain to you is that we don't give a fuck about a woman's suffering? 0.63

02:16:34.000 A woman's suffering doesn't make her more attractive, but a man's suffering does, because you're able to overcome it and adapt. 0.96

02:16:39.000 Women want men that are resourceful and able to do obstacles. 0.89

02:16:43.000 I think to each his own, because I don't agree with anything you're saying.

02:16:45.000 And that's to each his own.

02:16:47.000 Okay, hold on, hold on.

02:16:48.000 Why do men value virgins?

02:16:51.000 Since the beginning of time, in every different culture, in every single culture, every demographic of religion, why do men value women that are chaste and virgins? 0.69

02:17:00.000 I think because they haven't been touched by another man.

02:17:02.000 Okay.

02:17:03.000 So lack of experience, right?

02:17:05.000 Mm-hmm.

02:17:05.000 Okay.

02:17:06.000 That's what men value.

02:17:07.000 Less trauma.

02:17:09.000 Less trauma.

02:17:09.000 That's what we value.

02:17:11.000 So if a woman is going through suffering and trauma and all this shit, we don't like that. 1.00

02:17:15.000 We don't want a girl like that. 1.00

02:17:17.000 Well then that's true.

02:17:18.000 Might as well get a plastic doll because your mama has been through years of suffering. 1.00

02:17:23.000 Whether you know about it or not.

02:17:25.000 It doesn't matter, but it's a woman. 1.00

02:17:27.000 Your mom is a woman. 0.99

02:17:28.000 So women go through a lot of traumas. 1.00

02:17:30.000 I think that we shouldn't be speaking.

02:17:32.000 I think men should be men and go through what they go through, and women should be women.

02:17:37.000 I don't think one is less or better than the other or more.

02:17:41.000 Now, back in the days, I do think men... 0.93

02:17:43.000 You're missing the biggest point that I'm making here, which is...

02:17:47.000 Trauma and resilient men are attractive.

02:17:49.000 Men that are able to overcome. 0.99

02:17:51.000 We don't give a shit about a woman's trauma because it doesn't make us more attracted to a girl that's been through a bunch of shit. 0.99

02:17:55.000 That's what I'm trying to explain to you. 0.99

02:17:57.000 So, as the man, right?

02:17:59.000 If my girl comes to me and says, I got fired from my job. 1.00

02:18:01.000 Oh my God, fuck. 1.00

02:18:02.000 Like, it's okay. 1.00

02:18:03.000 Don't worry about it.

02:18:04.000 I got it. 0.98

02:18:04.000 It don't fucking matter. 0.98

02:18:06.000 Like, men don't give a shit about a woman's vulnerability. 1.00

02:18:08.000 We don't care if you cry or you're emotional or you're erratic, whatever. 0.99

02:18:10.000 We understand that's a female. 1.00

02:18:12.000 But as a man, if I come to you crying, I got fired from my job.

02:18:14.000 I don't know what I'm going to do.

02:18:15.000 That's a problem.

02:18:17.000 We're not the same.

02:18:19.000 There's a reason why you even admit it yourself.

02:18:20.000 I'm not going to support a man. 0.98

02:18:21.000 Yeah, you're damn right you're not.

02:18:23.000 But a man will support you.

02:18:24.000 But you know why?

02:18:25.000 Even your own relationships.

02:18:27.000 Every guy that you've been with on paper is superior to you.

02:18:29.000 That's true.

02:18:30.000 The Olympic athlete, the musician, etc.

02:18:32.000 They're all way better than you.

02:18:33.000 But why did they pick you? 0.99

02:18:34.000 Because they don't give a fuck about your drama. 0.98

02:18:35.000 No, but that's not true though. 0.99

02:18:36.000 Stop.

02:18:37.000 Stop.

02:18:38.000 The point I'm trying to make is even the men that you align yourself with are superior to in every single way.

02:18:43.000 And you pick them and that's fine.

02:18:44.000 Oh, actually they picked me, so no.

02:18:46.000 Bruh.

02:18:47.000 Look.

02:18:48.000 I picked my man to disappear. 1.00

02:18:50.000 He fucked your ass. 1.00

02:18:50.000 It's a difference, man. 1.00

02:18:51.000 Yeah, but he swung me out and I said, okay, so yes, knowing what situation I was in.

02:18:57.000 So you made a choice.

02:18:58.000 Yes, I made a choice.

02:18:59.000 All I'm trying to explain to you is...

02:19:01.000 And half the time I didn't know what he was superior or not or what he did, so I didn't know.

02:19:03.000 All I'm trying to explain to you is...

02:19:05.000 You knew, man.

02:19:05.000 All the men that you were with overcame and went through trauma to become the men that they were.

02:19:11.000 One was an Olympic athlete, another one was a multimillionaire musician, etc., real estate investor, but they didn't give a shit about what you bring to the table, did they? 0.98

02:19:17.000 They probably don't. 0.94

02:19:18.000 Matter of fact, one of them funded you to get to a position where you can rise up as well.

02:19:22.000 No, he didn't.

02:19:23.000 You said $40,000 in the studio!

02:19:25.000 That I wasn't able to use, so who was he funding?

02:19:27.000 His ego or me?

02:19:29.000 No, because my engineers, the people who I work with, that I've been working with for the past 10 years, know because if I'm working on something, I need the people who I've been working with.

02:19:39.000 You can't just choose to do that.

02:19:41.000 Oh, I'm going to do this and then forget about everything that you've been working with.

02:19:44.000 Now you're saying That's not what he said.

02:19:46.000 What he said was that he's been above and beyond to go for you.

02:19:49.000 One of the things that you guys said right now that doesn't really make sense to me is earlier you said that the reason why women suffer is because men aren't providing and aren't doing whatever.

02:20:00.000 That proves right there that a man suffers more because he has to do double the work. 0.59

02:20:03.000 No, what I'm saying is that men are just not the only one.

02:20:07.000 I feel like, personally, the dynamic is a little off.

02:20:10.000 That's all I'm saying.

02:20:11.000 That I feel like it's not the same because back in the day, yes, a woman was meant to stay home, take care of the kids, and yes, you guys did rightfully suffer more. 0.85

02:20:21.000 That's not true because how many single women are there that they have kids, the father left, and now they still have to provide and take care of their kids. 1.00

02:20:29.000 So now they have to do both.

02:20:30.000 So no, they don't.

02:20:31.000 Yeah, it was But it doesn't matter.

02:20:33.000 That's not true, though, because you don't know who someone is.

02:20:36.000 Yeah, but that's true.

02:20:37.000 Then you shouldn't be having a child with them or laying up with them if you feel that way.

02:20:40.000 But that's why life happens, though.

02:20:41.000 You have to be.

02:20:41.000 Yeah, but that's not right.

02:20:42.000 Life happens because you don't have too many choices.

02:20:45.000 Women don't take accountability, bro. 1.00

02:20:47.000 You chose to lay up with that man, and he wasn't shit. 1.00

02:20:49.000 And now you're stuck with a kid and you're single, bro. 0.99

02:20:52.000 All the men in this room, you're in a successful relationship.

02:20:58.000 You guys are equal.

02:20:59.000 She gets pregnant and you get scared. 0.99

02:21:01.000 You're going to tell me that that man in that situation getting scared, a little nervous, doesn't mean that he's not going to provide, but that little bit of uncomfortability doesn't make a woman uncomfortable.

02:21:11.000 So if I choose to leave you or to still be with you because you're scared, because you don't know what the future, you don't No!

02:21:18.000 That's why I said that we put everything as men and women, but human beings is when you face an animal, when you're faced with something that you're uncertain of, you don't know.

02:21:26.000 We're not the same.

02:21:28.000 We're not the same.

02:21:29.000 You keep saying human beings, like, yeah, when it comes down to, like, the whole we bleed and we have...

02:21:33.000 Hold on, let me make a point real quick.

02:21:34.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:21:35.000 No, but you are trying to make us fused.

02:21:38.000 It becomes one when you have a marriage.

02:21:39.000 Let me finish, babe.

02:21:40.000 Let me finish.

02:21:41.000 Everybody lets you talk.

02:21:42.000 Let me talk.

02:21:43.000 Listen, I'm just being real.

02:21:45.000 At the end of the day, you become one when you are married and you have your partner.

02:21:48.000 That's what makes you whole. 0.98

02:21:49.000 But aside from that, we are not the fucking same. 0.96

02:21:53.000 We're not. 0.99

02:21:54.000 Literally, women, when they have sex, we release a certain chemical that makes us fall in love. 0.99

02:21:59.000 Men aren't like that, bro. 1.00

02:22:00.000 He has to love you before he fucks you. 1.00

02:22:01.000 So what I'm saying is that Every person is entitled to their person. 0.99

02:22:04.000 No, God made anger.

02:22:07.000 He made sadness.

02:22:10.000 He made happiness.

02:22:12.000 That is for every person.

02:22:13.000 It doesn't matter whether you're a human being, whether you're a man or a woman, every human being.

02:22:18.000 What point are you arguing right now?

02:22:19.000 Hold on, what point are you arguing right now?

02:22:21.000 Because she said that I said we're the same.

02:22:23.000 What I'm saying is not that we're the same.

02:22:25.000 I said every human has a right to be a human.

02:22:27.000 Agreed.

02:22:27.000 That's it.

02:22:28.000 I didn't say that many.

02:22:29.000 Of course men and women are different. 1.00

02:22:30.000 One has a penis, one has a vagina. 1.00

02:22:32.000 One inserts, one takes. 1.00

02:22:33.000 I definitely believe that.

02:22:34.000 In context, what happens when you express yourself to women?

02:22:37.000 I'll give you an example.

02:22:39.000 A man that's vulnerable, goes to school with other women, He likes a girl.

02:22:45.000 She says to him, Jimmy, you're cool.

02:22:48.000 Let's just be friends.

02:22:49.000 He says to her, look, I love you so much.

02:22:52.000 I like you a lot.

02:22:53.000 No, Jimmy, we're just friends.

02:22:55.000 Goes to class, back to school, goes on.

02:22:58.000 Jimmy sees her with somebody else.

02:23:01.000 Jimmy gets mad.

02:23:02.000 What was Jimmy?

02:23:03.000 Vulnerable in the first place.

02:23:05.000 Jimmy says, you know what? 1.00

02:23:06.000 Fuck this shit. 1.00

02:23:06.000 I hate my life. 1.00

02:23:08.000 Goes home, picks up his father's gun, goes out of school, shoots it up. 0.78

02:23:13.000 What was Jimmy?

02:23:15.000 Vulnerable.

02:23:16.000 Jimmy wasn't able to control his emotions.

02:23:19.000 Emotional intelligence and vulnerability is two different things.

02:23:22.000 Being vulnerable leads to what?

02:23:24.000 Emotion.

02:23:24.000 So it's tied together regardless.

02:23:25.000 Yeah.

02:23:26.000 Yeah, but can I say something, though?

02:23:27.000 I think we put all these boxes.

02:23:29.000 If someone hurts my feelings, that don't give me the right to go and shoot up a school.

02:23:33.000 Like, that's the difference.

02:23:34.000 We're not saying it's okay.

02:23:35.000 We're just saying it can lead to that.

02:23:36.000 Yes, but then that means, you know what that means?

02:23:38.000 That there's a bigger issue than being vulnerable.

02:23:41.000 That issue is not vulnerability.

02:23:42.000 That is psychotic.

02:23:43.000 That's emotionally intelligent.

02:23:45.000 But you cannot predict Of course, but that's why when people do things wrong like that, they go to jail.

02:23:51.000 Do you think that the jail cares about emotions or vulnerability?

02:23:54.000 No, they say that you have the right to make the decision.

02:23:57.000 No, I didn't say that.

02:23:59.000 I agree with that.

02:24:00.000 Let's stick to the topic at hand.

02:24:01.000 All I'm simply saying is that men shouldn't open up to their girl because the reason why men shouldn't open up is because men are supposed to be the leaders and as a leader, it is your job where you are responsible for yourself and your woman in providing security.

02:24:13.000 If I can't Create that aura of security, then the woman is not going to feel secure, and she's probably going to want to leave the relationship because women are hardwired to look for security in men. 1.00

02:24:23.000 I agree with that.

02:24:25.000 I regret what I said before.

02:24:27.000 I agree with you guys.

02:24:29.000 What are you saying?

02:24:30.000 I believe if that was the way to work, then we would have a lot more unhealthy relationships, and we don't.

02:24:34.000 What was that you said?

02:24:35.000 I said I don't disagree with you, but if I think that was the golden ticket, I think there would be a lot more healthy relationships, and to be honest, it's not because...

02:24:44.000 Every person is different. 0.82

02:24:46.000 No, I'm saying the reason why relationships are fucked up is because men act more like women and open up to women. 0.98

02:24:51.000 I do believe that right now. 0.98

02:24:52.000 I think it's education, too.

02:24:53.000 And the way that you're raised, it's just a lot of different factors.

02:24:57.000 You can't just group everyone and everybody's all together.

02:25:01.000 It doesn't make sense.

02:25:02.000 If we're talking about right now, today, we're not in the olden days, right?

02:25:07.000 We have to be realistic with today's times.

02:25:09.000 We can't think like...

02:25:11.000 With the old school mentality anymore.

02:25:14.000 I understand where you're coming from, right?

02:25:16.000 I can see both sides, but you just can't.

02:25:21.000 I don't know.

02:25:21.000 You can't.

02:25:22.000 It doesn't make sense to me.

02:25:24.000 Okay, let me ask you this.

02:25:25.000 Do you want a guy that's stronger than you and taller than you?

02:25:29.000 You know what I want?

02:25:30.000 I want a guy that loves me and takes care of me.

02:25:31.000 Tell the truth.

02:25:32.000 Come on, man.

02:25:33.000 That is the truth.

02:25:34.000 That is the truth.

02:25:35.000 Excuse me.

02:25:36.000 You can't tell me what the truth is.

02:25:38.000 Hold on.

02:25:39.000 Listen, I go to brunch.

02:25:40.000 This is the problem with females. 1.00

02:25:43.000 You guys assume attraction, but you guys don't want to divulge what made you attracted to the man in the first place because it might make you look a certain way.

02:25:50.000 I'll tell you.

02:25:51.000 Because you're saying, I just want a man that loves me or I'm going to love him back.

02:25:54.000 And respects me and that cares for me, that has good values.

02:25:57.000 What if he had no teeth?

02:26:03.000 There's plenty of men that have these traits, but they have to have certain prerequisites first for you to give them a chance.

02:26:10.000 But that's not like, I'm not gonna talk to everyone and give everyone my energy.

02:26:15.000 So you're picky.

02:26:15.000 No, it's not that I'm picky.

02:26:17.000 I know my worth.

02:26:18.000 And it's not that the person that has bad teeth or things like that.

02:26:22.000 I'm sorry, there's a lot of people that maybe have...

02:26:25.000 Who's coughing and laughing?

02:26:26.000 I'm sorry.

02:26:27.000 Come on, chill, man.

02:26:28.000 Because you care about physicality and you can just say it.

02:26:31.000 I think everything is to each their own.

02:26:33.000 I think that's why there's so many conflict because I think it's just to each their own.

02:26:37.000 Everybody has an application of a guy.

02:26:38.000 If somebody was more masculine, she might not. 0.99

02:26:41.000 Everyone wants it.

02:26:42.000 Everyone's superficial and everyone's shallow because as soon as I said no teeth, you were like...

02:26:45.000 No, but you didn't let me speak.

02:26:46.000 You kind of just jumped, but that's not true.

02:26:47.000 You're kind of jumping to conclusions, though.

02:26:50.000 But it's not, for me, like your teeth or whatever you look.

02:26:53.000 Like some, you know, people go in love.

02:26:55.000 It's not about that, though.

02:26:56.000 It's not about looks.

02:26:57.000 It's not what's on the outside.

02:26:58.000 It's what's on the inside.

02:26:59.000 But let's acknowledge that everybody has a right to be attracted to what they're attracted to.

02:27:03.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

02:27:04.000 And it doesn't mean that they're It doesn't mean that they're superficial, doesn't mean I don't like teeth, but at the end of the day, looks fade away.

02:27:11.000 It's not about looks, Chet.

02:27:13.000 No, but it's the truth.

02:27:14.000 Looks literally fade away, right?

02:27:16.000 And you want to be able to have that connection with someone for love, because literally, I want to grow old with someone, that's the truth.

02:27:21.000 I'm not, at the end of the day, he's gonna- But you're gonna have standards, though, first, right?

02:27:24.000 Yes.

02:27:24.000 Before you fall in love with them, you're gonna have standards, correct?

02:27:26.000 But, okay.

02:27:28.000 Okay, so, all right, so you're gonna have standards on them.

02:27:30.000 Let's talk about those standards.

02:27:31.000 Okay.

02:27:32.000 Do you want them taller than you, preferably?

02:27:36.000 No, I guess we're talking in this situation, right?

02:27:39.000 Okay, so it's not a deal breaker.

02:27:42.000 Okay, do you want him to earn more than you, or at least equal?

02:27:45.000 Yeah.

02:27:45.000 Okay, would you prefer for him to be a breadwinner or not?

02:27:49.000 Bread?

02:27:49.000 I just like I guess like I don't I don't know I don't like what like I'm not understanding your question we're trying to go.

02:27:57.000 What you want in a man? 0.93

02:27:58.000 I mean do you want him to be a predominant earner and you can and you just maybe like he pays the majority of the bills?

02:28:05.000 I mean, I think it could be equal, but I mean, I think that like the society thinks that like men have to pay for everything.

02:28:12.000 Do you want a guy that's going to be a gentleman like open doors for you and pay for dates and shit like that? 0.99

02:28:16.000 Yeah, but I kind of feel like we're going off track with the question. 0.77

02:28:18.000 No, we're not.

02:28:18.000 I'm bringing it back somewhere.

02:28:20.000 You're bringing it back to like my standards.

02:28:21.000 You're trying to say about my standards that have certain things, right?

02:28:24.000 Yeah.

02:28:24.000 But okay, I understand that, but it doesn't mean I'm going to close the door on everybody.

02:28:27.000 But I'm also not going to talk to the world because I don't have time to do that, right?

02:28:31.000 You just contradicting yourself.

02:28:32.000 No, but I see what you're saying on me trying to contradict myself in saying that, right?

02:28:35.000 I understand what you're saying.

02:28:37.000 But it's not necessarily like judging a book by its cover.

02:28:40.000 Like, that's just not...

02:28:41.000 Everyone does that.

02:28:42.000 But like, wait, everybody does.

02:28:43.000 But maybe I don't.

02:28:44.000 Okay, but like, I don't...

02:28:46.000 Don't let anybody make you feel bad for choosing what you want or what you don't want.

02:28:49.000 But that's what I'm saying.

02:28:49.000 There's nothing wrong with admitting that that's the first thing you see.

02:28:52.000 But you're just saying you're not superficially dating.

02:28:53.000 It is superficial because if I say I only like goth men, then I'm being superficial to only goth men.

02:28:57.000 Why don't y'all understand what that means?

02:28:58.000 It's okay.

02:28:59.000 No, no.

02:28:59.000 Everybody has the choice to choose what they like or what they don't like.

02:29:03.000 If you like a man with long hair, it doesn't mean that should be beneficial.

02:29:06.000 I don't know if you guys are catching this, but you're saying a bunch of word salad so that you don't come off as discriminatory.

02:29:10.000 That's what I hear.

02:29:11.000 That's what the thing is, because I'm listening very closely to you.

02:29:13.000 On one end, you're saying, I don't give my time to everyone, but at the same time, I'll give a chance to a bunch of people.

02:29:17.000 But if I gave my time to everyone, I'm not going to be able to do anything.

02:29:19.000 So by definition, that means you discriminate against people.

02:29:21.000 No, it's not that.

02:29:22.000 That means you have standards.

02:29:22.000 That means you have so much I want to do with my life.

02:29:24.000 No, stop.

02:29:24.000 No.

02:29:25.000 Excuse me, it's not about that.

02:29:26.000 I have a lot.

02:29:27.000 So you don't have standards.

02:29:28.000 No, it's not that I don't have standards.

02:29:30.000 Can I answer that?

02:29:31.000 I think what you're saying is right because I think as women we don't really know.

02:29:35.000 Stop, stop, stop.

02:29:37.000 This is what I'm trying to say.

02:29:38.000 You've been contradicting yourself.

02:29:39.000 People right here, even in the chat right now, we got 23,000 people.

02:29:42.000 You don't make sense.

02:29:43.000 Because at one end, you're saying, oh, I have standards.

02:29:45.000 I don't give everyone my time.

02:29:46.000 But then on the other hand, like, yeah, I can love someone just if they love me back.

02:29:50.000 But that doesn't make sense.

02:29:50.000 I don't think women realize how many things, like you were saying, dictate that you have a strong hand.

02:29:56.000 Relax, man, relax.

02:29:57.000 You've talked enough.

02:29:58.000 What I'm trying to say here is that you don't make sense, okay?

02:30:02.000 On one end you're saying, oh, well, it's not the 1800s anymore.

02:30:06.000 Things have changed.

02:30:08.000 But the thing is that female attraction standards have not really changed that much.

02:30:11.000 You can sit there and say, I'm a modern woman now and we're equal, etc.

02:30:15.000 But it's not that.

02:30:15.000 But you're not hardwired to want an equal.

02:30:17.000 But you're taking it that way and I can't control the way that you're taking it.

02:30:20.000 The way that I'm going to live about my life and I'm just going to...

02:30:24.000 Bless you.

02:30:24.000 That stuff doesn't dictate that.

02:30:26.000 I, like, know what I want.

02:30:27.000 You don't know what you want because you can't even describe it.

02:30:30.000 You don't know what I want.

02:30:31.000 You don't make sense.

02:30:33.000 With all due respect, you make zero sense.

02:30:36.000 I've been trying to ask you, well, give us the standards. 0.97

02:30:38.000 And then you give us, like, monotonous, ridiculous, intangible. 0.88

02:30:42.000 Because here's the thing. 0.81

02:30:43.000 I see what you're trying to do here.

02:30:44.000 You don't want to come off as discriminatory.

02:30:45.000 That's not true.

02:30:46.000 But at the same time, you want to show that you have standards.

02:30:49.000 That's why you're giving a bunch of word salad. 0.58

02:30:51.000 You're not able to literally tell us what it is that you want.

02:30:54.000 Because the reality is this.

02:30:56.000 You don't want to say the uncomfortable truth that you want a guy that's better than you in every degree.

02:30:59.000 This is what all women want. 1.00

02:31:00.000 It's biology.

02:31:01.000 Women want men that are superior to them in every way. 1.00

02:31:03.000 But you don't want to say that because it comes off as fucked up and shallow. 0.99

02:31:06.000 No, I never said that. 0.98

02:31:06.000 You kind of just put that in my... 0.98

02:31:07.000 I never said that, though.

02:31:08.000 I'm just...

02:31:09.000 I'm allowed... 0.97

02:31:10.000 Put that in your mouth? 0.92

02:31:10.000 But... 0.92

02:31:11.000 I'm sorry?

02:31:12.000 No.

02:31:13.000 Go ahead.

02:31:14.000 Talk.

02:31:16.000 Yeah, no.

02:31:17.000 I think you're kind of twisting it, but that's okay.

02:31:18.000 I'm not twisting it.

02:31:20.000 I'm telling you what women in general want. 1.00

02:31:23.000 Right.

02:31:23.000 And you're trying to show that you're different.

02:31:25.000 That's not true.

02:31:26.000 I'm not trying to show anything.

02:31:26.000 I'm just being myself.

02:31:29.000 I'm sorry that I view it like that.

02:31:31.000 And I understand that maybe people have prerequisites of People that they want and they check off the list, but like I'm not gonna track that.

02:31:39.000 Like either too.

02:31:40.000 What are you saying?

02:31:42.000 Before you interrupt me so I talk too much, can I say what I was gonna say?

02:31:45.000 I think what you're saying is that...

02:31:47.000 Please thank you.

02:31:49.000 What I think what he's saying is that...

02:31:52.000 Yo, who show are you on?

02:31:54.000 No, I'm showing what I'm saying.

02:31:56.000 I'm agreeing with you.

02:31:56.000 Can you listen to me?

02:31:57.000 No, no, [...

02:31:59.000 Like, yo, let her finish her point, man. 0.98

02:32:01.000 Like, goddamn, let her talk. 1.00

02:32:02.000 No, no, no. 1.00

02:32:02.000 We're talking the whole show. 1.00

02:32:04.000 No, she had finished talking.

02:32:05.000 Yes, yes, yes.

02:32:06.000 Yeah.

02:32:06.000 She can talk.

02:32:07.000 I'm done.

02:32:08.000 Bro, bro, bro.

02:32:15.000 I think you want to comment on what I said so that you don't want me to like I think I said something that maybe you want to keep going but I was done talking and all I was saying was that I think women I think what you said in the beginning was important I think that we say we want a strong man we want this we want that but we don't know what makes that man strong I think what he's saying is that this is what Huh?

02:32:40.000 I see why you single, man.

02:32:41.000 Who?

02:32:41.000 I'm not single.

02:32:42.000 Yeah, because you talk over niggas, man. 1.00

02:32:44.000 Like, it's our podcast.

02:32:45.000 I wasn't talking to him.

02:32:47.000 I was talking to her.

02:32:48.000 It doesn't matter.

02:32:49.000 You don't disrespect women.

02:32:50.000 It doesn't matter.

02:32:51.000 It doesn't matter.

02:32:52.000 You don't disrespect me.

02:32:54.000 No.

02:32:54.000 It doesn't matter.

02:32:56.000 Well, then you shouldn't have been biting people.

02:32:59.000 Because I have a platform, too.

02:33:01.000 You don't disrespect me like that.

02:33:02.000 Because I wasn't being...

02:33:03.000 I was agreeing with him, bro.

02:33:04.000 I was trying to...

02:33:07.000 I was saying that there was a misunderstanding.

02:33:09.000 I think what we want, we don't know.

02:33:11.000 Here's the problem. 0.82

02:33:11.000 When you talk, we shut up. 0.82

02:33:13.000 When you talk, you talk over us.

02:33:14.000 No, I wasn't talking over him.

02:33:15.000 She was talking.

02:33:16.000 She finished talking, and I replied back to what she was saying.

02:33:19.000 And the only reason why I said that...

02:33:21.000 Again.

02:33:22.000 I told you to stop.

02:33:23.000 You're on the platform.

02:33:24.000 We're being respectful.

02:33:25.000 So when we talk, we learn to talk.

02:33:27.000 I'm sorry, but him saying you talked enough, it doesn't matter what platform you're disrespecting me now.

02:33:32.000 So neither do I. I don't care either.

02:33:33.000 Because you're disrespecting me.

02:33:34.000 No, I don't.

02:33:35.000 I've been told you that.

02:33:37.000 Because you're being disrespectful.

02:33:38.000 All I was trying to say is that he's right.

02:33:41.000 I don't think we as women, when we say we want this, we want that.

02:33:44.000 I don't think we understand what it creates.

02:33:46.000 I think that's why he was right, is because we say we want a strong man, we want this, but in order to be that, you kind of do have to show, not show emotions and be unvulnerable.

02:33:56.000 I was just trying to say, I think that as women, that's the issue. 0.99

02:34:00.000 We don't understand them and they don't understand us.

02:34:03.000 That's it.

02:34:03.000 But I'm about to head out of here because I don't care about this.

02:34:06.000 Alright, fucking leave, man. 0.99

02:34:07.000 Thank God, bro. 1.00

02:34:09.000 Holy shit, dude. 0.99

02:34:10.000 Yo, KS to not disconnect. 0.99

02:34:13.000 Why do you disagree and disagree?

02:34:17.000 Why do you have to get so much?

02:34:18.000 I remember why, actually.

02:34:19.000 Come on, leave, man. 0.89

02:34:24.000 She's the only one talking.

02:34:25.000 She's the only one talking.

02:34:26.000 She's the only one talking.

02:34:37.000 If you want to leave, you can leave.

02:34:39.000 You can go.

02:34:39.000 I ain't stopping you.

02:34:40.000 We ain't stopping you.

02:34:41.000 You can go.

02:34:42.000 But I don't understand. 1.00

02:34:44.000 No, you said you don't get fucked. 0.99

02:34:46.000 No, no, no. 1.00

02:34:47.000 I said he was disrespectful.

02:34:49.000 So I didn't care.

02:34:51.000 Let's go, man.

02:34:52.000 Are you trying to leave, man?

02:34:54.000 Oh, man, that's I don't care.

02:34:56.000 But it still doesn't mean that you're right.

02:34:57.000 It doesn't mean that you're disrespectful.

02:34:59.000 You're talking about putting it in her mouth.

02:35:00.000 You put it in your mouth. 0.93

02:35:01.000 You put it in your mouth. 1.00

02:35:02.000 You don't talk to a woman like that. 1.00

02:35:04.000 You don't talk to a woman and that's the thing. 1.00

02:35:06.000 Men need to respect women, but men need to respect women as well.

02:35:14.000 This is what they're like.

02:35:15.000 You're not married. 1.00

02:35:16.000 You're barely successful off of talking shit. 1.00

02:35:18.000 I don't want to be married to you, man. 1.00

02:35:21.000 First of all, you don't even have enough money to be married to me.

02:35:23.000 You don't even look cute.

02:35:24.000 You need to go to the gym.

02:35:25.000 You need to live some way, and then maybe we can talk.

02:35:28.000 And you're so single, man.

02:35:31.000 I'm not, though.

02:35:33.000 If it makes you feel better, you don't know me. 1.00

02:35:36.000 If it makes you feel better, if it makes you feel better, and I don't want to know you, bitch, you can never fuck me. 1.00

02:35:42.000 You're too fat. 1.00

02:35:43.000 Your stomach can't even fit over your dick. 1.00

02:35:44.000 I'm so sorry. 1.00

02:35:47.000 You're a bitch. 1.00

02:35:48.000 You're a bitch. 1.00

02:35:49.000 You're a bitch. 1.00

02:35:50.000 You're a bitch. 1.00

02:35:51.000 You're a bitch. 1.00

02:35:51.000 I hope y'all are watching this because he's a bitch. 1.00

02:35:53.000 And I'm not emotional at all. 1.00

02:35:57.000 If that's what you get, you're a bitch. 1.00

02:35:59.000 And you're a zero. 1.00

02:36:01.000 You can't even look over your dick. 1.00

02:36:01.000 Look over your dick, bro. 1.00

02:36:02.000 Your stomach can't even look over your dick. 1.00

02:36:05.000 Now what? 1.00

02:36:06.000 Now what?

02:36:07.000 Now what?

02:36:08.000 Erin, you're not even cute. 0.99

02:36:09.000 Go to the dentist and get your gap fixed.

02:36:12.000 Go to the dentist and get your gap fixed.

02:36:13.000 You can't even talk to me.

02:36:15.000 You can't even talk to me.

02:36:16.000 See, this was not supposed to be like this.

02:36:18.000 I've seen you guys going at it.

02:36:21.000 There's nothing wrong with that.

02:36:21.000 I can lose weight.

02:36:24.000 But your ass, bro, you are 30. 1.00

02:36:25.000 No, I'm not 30, baby. 1.00

02:36:28.000 I'm going to be 26 in May, and I'm good.

02:36:32.000 I'm good.

02:36:33.000 Anything that you say is not going to bother me because I know me.

02:36:36.000 You having to do that to a woman says a lot about you, Erin.

02:36:40.000 You need you.

02:36:41.000 Yeah, exactly.

02:36:42.000 And that's why you live your life off of doing this.

02:36:45.000 That's why I said I didn't care because I was honestly here to give you my opinion.

02:36:49.000 It doesn't even matter.

02:37:05.000 I think you said you were going to get up and leave so let's just make that happen.

02:37:13.000 The disrespect is unnecessary, and I don't feel any type of way, because like she said, I wasn't saying anything back.

02:37:18.000 Just go up and leave.

02:37:19.000 Just please get up and leave.

02:37:20.000 Just please get up and leave. 0.99

02:37:21.000 Cameron's still a bitch, and he always looks at me. 1.00

02:37:23.000 Okay, that's fine. 1.00

02:37:24.000 You feel like you have to talk to him?

02:37:27.000 Because of a platform?

02:37:30.000 Excellent sibling, quietly, please.

02:37:32.000 We'll escort you out.

02:37:34.000 We got more room now.

02:37:36.000 Holy, thanks.

02:37:38.000 They can't even talk properly. 1.00

02:37:42.000 Goddamn! 1.00

02:37:44.000 Ow! 1.00

02:37:46.000 Did I hurt you?

02:37:47.000 I'm sorry.

02:37:48.000 No, that was my fault.

02:37:50.000 Somebody rolled over a toe or something?

02:37:52.000 I did. 1.00

02:37:53.000 Damn. 1.00

02:37:53.000 Damn, man. 1.00

02:37:54.000 Accountability. 1.00

02:37:54.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:37:55.000 That's good.

02:37:56.000 Okay.

02:37:56.000 All right.

02:37:57.000 Wow!

02:37:57.000 Very interesting.

02:37:59.000 3-3-3.

02:38:00.000 Yo, no offense, bro.

02:38:01.000 You should take up a lot of show, man. 0.99

02:38:03.000 I was trying to be nice, but damn, bro. 0.99

02:38:05.000 At the end of the day, man, she was talking the whole time. 1.00

02:38:07.000 I'm like, what the fuck is going on, man? 0.99

02:38:08.000 Yeah, Chow's getting annoyed too, bro. 0.99

02:38:10.000 She's butting in? 0.94

02:38:11.000 Chow's getting annoyed as hell. 0.70

02:38:12.000 Like, when they're talking, bro.

02:38:12.000 Niggas are just saying, yap, yap, yap.

02:38:14.000 Oh, my God.

02:38:16.000 Yapisha.

02:38:16.000 Thank you.

02:38:17.000 Yapisha.

02:38:20.000 Bro, I don't want to say it. 0.78

02:38:24.000 Black girls? 1.00

02:38:26.000 She's Puerto Rican. 0.99

02:38:29.000 It's funny because Aaron actually called her out before the show.

02:38:33.000 Yeah, he did. 0.98

02:38:34.000 He said the black girls always get aggressive and she licked at them sideways. 1.00

02:38:39.000 Bro, like, at the end of the day, I called her out. 0.99

02:38:41.000 I'm like, yo, bro, black girls all get aggressive. 1.00

02:38:43.000 And then she was like, bro, she was huffing and puffing, man. 0.89

02:38:47.000 I just think at the end of the day, like, and baby, I know you're going to watch this when you go home and see it again. 0.99

02:38:51.000 That was emotional as fuck. 0.99

02:38:53.000 You kept saying it wasn't emotional, but that was emotional as fuck. 1.00

02:38:56.000 And then on top of that, I stand 10 toes, leave the first time. 0.99

02:38:58.000 She called out multiple times.

02:39:01.000 Her man was this and that.

02:39:02.000 You just out of your man to us.

02:39:04.000 Oh, you don't throw it in his face.

02:39:06.000 Yeah, you do.

02:39:07.000 I guarantee you'll do it at home.

02:39:08.000 And niggas in the chat. 1.00

02:39:09.000 Yo, Chris Lost.

02:39:10.000 Listen, I'm on Hennessy.

02:39:11.000 It's fine, man.

02:39:11.000 Girls be loud, man.

02:39:13.000 I don't give a fuck, man. 1.00

02:39:13.000 Hey, listen. 1.00

02:39:14.000 That's crazy.

02:39:15.000 I have some improvements.

02:39:16.000 I don't know what it is, but at the end of the day, man, she's still single, man.

02:39:19.000 She has no... 1.00

02:39:19.000 Come on, man. 1.00

02:39:20.000 She starts struggling, man.

02:39:21.000 I think you guys are taking it far, though.

02:39:23.000 Like, I'm not trying to be...

02:39:24.000 I'm talking right here.

02:39:25.000 You're going disrespectful now.

02:39:26.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:39:27.000 Shh.

02:39:27.000 Nah, she's doing the most, babe.

02:39:29.000 She's doing the most.

02:39:30.000 No, I'm not.

02:39:30.000 That's crazy.

02:39:31.000 This is somebody's house.

02:39:31.000 They told us for- No, not you.

02:39:33.000 I'm just saying, but it is offensive.

02:39:35.000 You have to like- You gotta learn.

02:39:37.000 You gotta have thick skin, baby.

02:39:38.000 They knew before.

02:39:39.000 Everybody knew before you got on this podcast. 1.00

02:39:40.000 What the fuck is up? 0.99

02:39:41.000 You have to like wake up and like realize it. 1.00

02:39:43.000 You guys are triggering it, right?

02:39:45.000 No, she's triggering.

02:39:47.000 The reason that your podcast is so popular is because you're able to do controversial things and say things, right?

02:39:52.000 People are going, no, it is, but because you're triggering people's Those emotions, though.

02:39:56.000 They're getting triggered against me.

02:39:59.000 Take accountability.

02:40:02.000 Why come here?

02:40:03.000 I came here and I studied you guys.

02:40:06.000 I'm also a TikTok streamer, and I see the bad comments, and that's how I make my money.

02:40:12.000 You have to ignore that.

02:40:13.000 It's a controversial kind of thing.

02:40:15.000 If you get offensive, you're not supposed to.

02:40:18.000 The thing is that nobody can trigger you unless you are triggered.

02:40:23.000 Let me be honest.

02:40:24.000 But you don't have to accept us being disrespected in some of the things.

02:40:28.000 I'm just being realistic.

02:40:29.000 Some of the things, regardless of the situation, weren't said in a very respectful manner.

02:40:34.000 Maybe could have said maybe just a little bit differently.

02:40:36.000 But if we're talking as professionals...

02:40:38.000 But why should they have to talk to us?

02:40:43.000 Everybody, hold on.

02:40:48.000 For two seconds.

02:40:49.000 Doesn't matter.

02:40:49.000 You gotta understand also that we got a show to run.

02:40:51.000 She took quite a bit of air time.

02:40:52.000 Okay.

02:40:53.000 And me and you were having a discussion.

02:40:54.000 She kept interjecting, trying to explain what you were trying to say, but not really.

02:40:58.000 Or trying to get her two cents on it. 1.00

02:41:00.000 And it's like, hey, look, man, it wasn't on you.

02:41:02.000 You've been talking too much.

02:41:03.000 And that's what she got mad about was because we told her, yo.

02:41:05.000 And we told her multiple times, yo, be quiet.

02:41:07.000 Because we're trying to have a discussion over here.

02:41:09.000 And then we didn't interrupt her when she was speaking at the end of the day.

02:41:11.000 At all.

02:41:11.000 Our job is to make sure that we run the show a certain way and give people air time or whatever.

02:41:16.000 And all I'm trying to do is get to the bottom of what you actually like because you're extremely ambiguous about it and you can't even describe it.

02:41:21.000 Because on one end you're saying, well I don't want, it's not 1800s anymore, blah blah blah, I'm different.

02:41:26.000 But then in reality, most women want guys that have traditional values.

02:41:31.000 Even though you're trying to say that tradition still doesn't exist or women aren't attracted to it, but they are. 1.00

02:41:35.000 And Chad, I won't lie, she was funny as fuck, but she was so single as fuck, man. 1.00

02:41:40.000 So, I mean, my thing is, like, you can't even describe what you like. 0.99

02:41:43.000 Like, you can't even say it.

02:41:45.000 Please don't be ambiguous.

02:41:47.000 What do you want in a guy, then?

02:41:49.000 Okay, if you're just asking what I want...

02:41:52.000 Come on, man.

02:41:53.000 I want someone who's, like, obviously educated.

02:41:56.000 Someone I can have...

02:41:57.000 Oh, sorry, thank you.

02:41:59.000 Someone I can have conversation with.

02:42:05.000 I would say, yeah, you know, I want someone that I can have conversation with that maybe has the same moral values as me, has the same faith as me.

02:42:13.000 Maybe it would be even cool if we had the same type of career so we can have conversation about that.

02:42:19.000 You know, but...

02:42:22.000 I would say, you know, there's different aspects.

02:42:24.000 I don't know.

02:42:25.000 Maybe go to the beach together, walk on the sand, hold hands, jump in the water.

02:42:29.000 Are you being sarcastic?

02:42:30.000 No, I'm serious.

02:42:31.000 Okay, sure.

02:42:32.000 Like, if he's adventurous, no problem.

02:42:34.000 But I also travel the world quite often, so I would like someone who's able to have that flexible lifestyle as well.

02:42:41.000 You travel the world?

02:42:42.000 I've been to 67 countries.

02:42:45.000 Almost alone.

02:42:48.000 By sea or by air?

02:42:49.000 Air.

02:42:51.000 That's awesome.

02:42:53.000 It's really exciting.

02:42:54.000 I think that also helps you when you're able to See different cultures and be immersed in different ways.

02:43:03.000 It helps you have a lot more open mind towards different things and areas of life.

02:43:08.000 I really believe that.

02:43:09.000 Remember, the whole conversation started with men should open up to women, right?

02:43:13.000 And my argument for why men should open up to women is because men are looked at as the leader.

02:43:17.000 They're supposed to be the dominant, more aggressive provider slash provide security.

02:43:22.000 Me opening up to you quite literally demonstrates a lack of security. 0.97

02:43:27.000 Because I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. 0.99

02:43:29.000 So I'm crying to you like, I don't know, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

02:43:31.000 So I'm pretty much showing chinks in my armor. 0.90

02:43:33.000 And I think as a man, you should never show chinks in your armor. 1.00

02:43:35.000 There's a reason why women say, I want my knight in shining armor. 1.00

02:43:38.000 Like, there's reasons to that.

02:43:39.000 Women want to be saved by a man who's strong, masculine, and dominant. 0.97

02:43:42.000 By me being vulnerable with you, I effectively destroy that image.

02:43:46.000 Okay, but like your option C, right?

02:43:48.000 The one that you just don't, you kind of just like have the man do whatever he wants.

02:43:51.000 I think that like, what about the aspect, okay, like if he goes and handles it by himself, I kind of feel like, how come, like, it's kind of like hidden.

02:44:01.000 Like, I want to know what my husband, yeah, like, you don't feel like we can chat?

02:44:05.000 Like, okay, maybe you're going through that stress, great.

02:44:07.000 You know, I hope it, like, I hope it comes good from it, but I don't know.

02:44:11.000 I would kind of feel like...

02:44:13.000 I want my husband to be fully honest with me, and I'm able to control my...

02:44:20.000 I can understand where if he was crying all the time, then I'm just like, what the heck?

02:44:25.000 That's my point. 0.73

02:44:26.000 But why would I even get into a relationship with a crybaby? 0.97

02:44:28.000 That's my point. 0.91

02:44:29.000 But I wouldn't get into...

02:44:30.000 How do you know...

02:44:31.000 He gave you a scenario.

02:44:32.000 Remember, he said third option.

02:44:34.000 Yeah, but the third option, like, I feel like I'm being lied to.

02:44:36.000 If you're kind of going and getting a job, not communicating that, like, what if we're, you know, like, your finances are together.

02:44:42.000 You want to know those kind of things.

02:44:43.000 Remember, he told you, listen, babe, this happened.

02:44:45.000 I fixed it.

02:44:46.000 We're good to go.

02:44:46.000 Oh, okay, good.

02:44:47.000 No problem.

02:44:48.000 But just so you know, I solved it.

02:44:49.000 We don't have to give you a headache.

02:44:51.000 Thank you.

02:44:52.000 Yeah, but it's like, you know, but I wouldn't mind if the person got vulnerable because that's just life.

02:44:58.000 Like, sometimes, you know, but I understand that you don't mind.

02:45:01.000 But a lot of women will. 1.00

02:45:03.000 So it's better to just handle it based off of the probability of what's going to happen, right?

02:45:08.000 Like, just because it's possible that you're going to accept, you know...

02:45:12.000 Me being emotional.

02:45:14.000 Doesn't mean that the next girl won't.

02:45:15.000 Majority of the women here at the table said they would prefer to just get it solved and don't involve me.

02:45:20.000 So if I know that most women are like that, why the hell am I gonna open myself up to liability? 0.69

02:45:25.000 I guess it's just like, I don't know, like when you're dating, you're able to kind of like have that emotional intelligence and maybe kind of...

02:45:33.000 Do you find emotional intelligence, please? 1.00

02:45:35.000 Because women like to use this stupid ass term all the time. 1.00

02:45:37.000 But it's the truth. 1.00

02:45:38.000 You're able to understand...

02:45:39.000 What is emotional intelligence?

02:45:40.000 Like I would say emotional intelligence, you're able to understand like, like just behaviors, the way that maybe they're moving, the way that like they're expressing themselves, but you're able to like understand maybe like...

02:45:54.000 I don't know.

02:45:54.000 You're looking at someone, you're able to maybe...

02:45:57.000 I don't know.

02:45:58.000 So by your own definition, wouldn't the highest level of emotional intelligence be understanding that women are emotional and erratic and a lot of the times my job is to provide security for them, so for me to show this vulnerability that might affect that image that I'm supposed to provide and might fuck up the relationship?

02:46:12.000 Wouldn't that be a higher level of emotional intelligence because I could see the chess move coming before it comes?

02:46:16.000 That it probably isn't in my best interest from a probability standpoint to open up to her.

02:46:20.000 You might accept it, but seven of the girls here don't.

02:46:23.000 From a probability standpoint, okay.

02:46:24.000 Okay, no problem.

02:46:25.000 So then that's emotional intelligence.

02:46:27.000 The very term you just used.

02:46:29.000 Okay, I see what you're saying.

02:46:30.000 But you're able to take, but not everyone's emotionally intelligent.

02:46:34.000 Bruh.

02:46:35.000 Do you think everybody's emotionally intelligent?

02:46:37.000 That's not true.

02:46:38.000 I would say, as a man...

02:46:40.000 But that's not...

02:46:41.000 There's not...

02:46:42.000 I've met a lot of not emotionally intelligent men. 0.93

02:46:45.000 And I'm just like, what the heck? 0.94

02:46:46.000 Yeah, we know. 0.75

02:46:47.000 Sitting there crying, right?

02:46:49.000 And opening up to your girl, I would argue, is emotionally unintelligent.

02:46:53.000 Because women don't respond favorably to emotional men a lot of the time. 0.94

02:46:56.000 Thank you.

02:46:56.000 Just because you can tolerate it doesn't mean that a majority of women won't.

02:46:59.000 Okay.

02:47:00.000 Right.

02:47:00.000 So then, shouldn't we move off of...

02:47:02.000 The probability versus the possibility?

02:47:04.000 I think you should move off of however you feel.

02:47:07.000 That's the problem.

02:47:07.000 But why is it the problem though?

02:47:09.000 Stop, stop, stop, stop.

02:47:10.000 And that right there is the quintessential difference between men and women. 0.98

02:47:14.000 You guys get the privilege of being able to move off.

02:47:16.000 How I feel.

02:47:17.000 We can't do that. 0.97

02:47:19.000 I don't feel like fucking working. 0.98

02:47:21.000 I don't feel like going to the gym. 0.99

02:47:22.000 I don't feel like going out and making money, but I have to fucking do it because it's my masculine duty. 0.97

02:47:27.000 Women, on the other hand, get the privilege of, I don't want to work. 1.00

02:47:30.000 Cool.

02:47:30.000 Find a man that will take care of you.

02:47:31.000 I don't want to go to the gym.

02:47:33.000 It's okay.

02:47:34.000 Love your curves, girl. 0.98

02:47:35.000 Women have the privilege of doing whatever the fuck they feel like and not necessarily deal with consequences. 1.00

02:47:39.000 Men, on the other hand, we must strive to get excellent. 0.99

02:47:42.000 And if we don't, we're going to deal with consequences for being losers.

02:47:45.000 There's consequences for being mediocre as a woman, but there's no consequence for me being mediocre as a female.

02:47:51.000 So we can't move off how we feel like you guys can.

02:47:53.000 We can't.

02:47:54.000 We simply can't.

02:47:55.000 There is a burden of performance on men, but there is no burden of performance on women.

02:47:59.000 If a woman wants to go to school and be successful, cool. 1.00

02:48:01.000 We're going to applaud her for it.

02:48:02.000 But if she wants to be a stay-at-home mom, we'll applaud her for that too.

02:48:05.000 But that's the difference.

02:48:05.000 We can't go off how we feel.

02:48:07.000 You get that privilege.

02:48:09.000 And this is what I'm trying to say when I say women have zero idea about the masculine experience. 0.87

02:48:12.000 We can't go off how we feel.

02:48:14.000 We have to go off of what's real and what we must do.

02:48:16.000 We must go out there and accomplish.

02:48:18.000 Otherwise, no one respects us and gives a fucks about us.

02:48:20.000 Well said.

02:48:21.000 But y'all know, Erin.

02:48:21.000 Y'all can go out on how you feel, and you'll be okay.

02:48:25.000 And just to, like, make a little point, I feel like sometimes when, like, earlier you had said you were like, but I don't want a crybaby.

02:48:32.000 Like, you'll tolerate it, but it is going to eventually run you dry. 0.99

02:48:35.000 I want to marry a crybaby. 0.99

02:48:36.000 I would want another crybaby before that. 0.99

02:48:38.000 But listen to what I said, though.

02:48:39.000 But you're not going to know until you ask for this vulnerability.

02:48:42.000 So what I'm saying...

02:48:42.000 Hold on, let me finish what I'm saying.

02:48:44.000 What I'm saying is...

02:48:45.000 Most women that say they want that, eventually they get tired of it. 1.00

02:48:50.000 Like the scenario that he said earlier about the six months of you taking care of him, if that man cried to you every single day for six months, you would be so turned off.

02:48:58.000 So it's like, we have to be honest about these things that it's just not something that is productive for just whoever, whenever.

02:49:06.000 So you have to really know who you're dealing with and he has to know who he's dealing with you because you're probably going to leave him.

02:49:10.000 I want to know if he's a crybaby or not.

02:49:12.000 How are you going to know that?

02:49:14.000 Because he's going to be, like, just be his most authentic self with me.

02:49:17.000 Not in the beginning, right?

02:49:19.000 But anyone I'm going to date, I'm talking about me, it doesn't, you know, for me, when I'm dating, I want that person to be their most authentic self so I can fall in love with that, right?

02:49:26.000 If they happen to be more emotional, then okay, you know, but it's just, it's just, I don't know, that's how I view it.

02:49:33.000 You said you want a man to not lie to you about his emotions and come to you, and you're like, but I don't want to cry, baby.

02:49:37.000 But there's a difference.

02:49:40.000 I'm talking about if I go into a relationship and stay in a committed one, I don't want to cry, baby.

02:49:44.000 But I'm going to know that before I commit to him.

02:49:47.000 Why would I marry someone?

02:49:49.000 It's a lifetime long period. 0.95

02:49:52.000 Your IG is crazy right now.

02:49:55.000 Yours. 0.95

02:49:56.000 Bill, show up, man.

02:49:57.000 Okay.

02:49:58.000 Alright, so what man would want to commit to that? 1.00

02:50:02.000 Damn, she's bad. 0.99

02:50:03.000 I mean, hey, hey, hey, listen, man. 1.00

02:50:05.000 Some guys... 1.00

02:50:05.000 Damn! 1.00

02:50:08.000 Girl! 1.00

02:50:08.000 Come on, man. 1.00

02:50:09.000 Come on, man.

02:50:11.000 And the issue?

02:50:13.000 Wait a minute.

02:50:14.000 Don't go to my Instagram.

02:50:17.000 All right, Bill's gonna score on more.

02:50:20.000 And then you have a...

02:50:21.000 Global Food Queen.

02:50:23.000 Ooh, you're so gorgeous.

02:50:26.000 And the issue?

02:50:27.000 Right.

02:50:27.000 What's the issue?

02:50:29.000 The issue is...

02:50:31.000 Yeah, but tell me what the issue is.

02:50:33.000 I'm creatively expressing myself however I would like, so what's the issue?

02:50:36.000 But that...

02:50:37.000 You don't know everything about me, so you're just... 1.00

02:50:40.000 You're expressing your ass. 1.00

02:50:40.000 But who cares? 1.00

02:50:42.000 And I don't...

02:50:43.000 Like, I'm just doing whatever I want with my life.

02:50:45.000 But the thing is...

02:50:46.000 Your husband cares.

02:50:48.000 What?

02:50:48.000 You don't have O.S.? No, it's not that my husband cares.

02:50:51.000 It's the people that I attract and already attract in my life.

02:50:53.000 I already found them.

02:50:54.000 But that's the truth.

02:50:55.000 So, notice, right?

02:50:57.000 He just saw your page.

02:50:58.000 What did he do?

02:50:59.000 Assume about you.

02:51:00.000 Yeah, I don't care that he assumes.

02:51:01.000 Like, okay, like, no problem that you're...

02:51:03.000 But it doesn't affect me.

02:51:04.000 Like, I move on with my life and I continue with my journey.

02:51:07.000 But, you know, like, I don't, like, sit, like, okay, now he's making fun of me or he's saying this about me.

02:51:12.000 Okay, cool.

02:51:12.000 Like, good for you.

02:51:14.000 I move on with my life.

02:51:15.000 Like, you know, like...

02:51:16.000 I mean, he's not making fun of you.

02:51:18.000 But I can understand your perspective of a man.

02:51:20.000 You see a woman posting like that, okay, they're gonna be like, oh my gosh, this or that, because you're a man, but that's okay. 0.97

02:51:25.000 Because you said earlier, right, that you want your partner to be their most authentic self all the time.

02:51:30.000 That's a lie.

02:51:31.000 Yes, I do.

02:51:31.000 Human beings in general are not gonna ever be fully authentic.

02:51:34.000 They won't be.

02:51:35.000 And I would argue that women are even less authentic than men are a lot of the times. 0.82

02:51:38.000 But we're all on a journey.

02:51:39.000 Yeah, but...

02:51:40.000 You want something that you're not even giving yourself, being your most authentic self.

02:51:44.000 Are you going to be your most authentic self?

02:51:46.000 No.

02:51:46.000 Women wear makeup.

02:51:47.000 Women wear makeup. 1.00

02:51:49.000 Your photos are heavily edited, clearly.

02:51:51.000 No offense.

02:51:52.000 But the reality is human beings are never fully authentic.

02:51:55.000 You're always going to have things that you're going to keep from your partner.

02:51:58.000 It is what it is.

02:51:58.000 It's just a matter of who are you willing to compromise with the most with the little bit of authenticity that they give you.

02:52:04.000 Okay.

02:52:05.000 So, it's just not a real thing.

02:52:07.000 Like, you're kind of speaking in ideals, but the reality is you're not going to get that.

02:52:10.000 And I would argue you're probably less authentic than your partner would be.

02:52:13.000 But that's not true.

02:52:13.000 I've already gotten it.

02:52:15.000 Where's that man now that was so authentic with you?

02:52:17.000 You know what?

02:52:18.000 I can't speak about that online, but that's the truth.

02:52:21.000 It's not even together.

02:52:22.000 It's like a life journey.

02:52:23.000 But these are all your opinions.

02:52:26.000 Are y'all together or not?

02:52:27.000 It doesn't matter.

02:52:34.000 It's a yes or no.

02:52:38.000 I mean, are you guys together or not?

02:52:40.000 I mean, you said you were single earlier.

02:52:44.000 In spirit?

02:52:45.000 No, listen, at the end of the day, I'm not gonna share my relationship stuff online, single or not single.

02:52:54.000 I'm not gonna share those details.

02:52:56.000 The point I'm trying to make, simply put, is that you're not gonna get this authenticity that you're talking about.

02:53:00.000 It's just not real.

02:53:01.000 It doesn't happen.

02:53:01.000 And you're not even authentic with girls.

02:53:11.000 I'm being honest with you.

02:53:19.000 I'm being 100% honest with you.

02:53:22.000 You're saying, I want my most authentic partner.

02:53:24.000 You don't look like your photos, so you're not even off the head.

02:53:26.000 I'm sorry, you're not understanding the point though.

02:53:28.000 That looks like her. 0.98

02:53:29.000 I'm sorry, you're not understanding the point, and for you to sit here and degrade...

02:53:33.000 I'm not degrading you, I'm not.

02:53:34.000 No, I don't care about your truth or no truth.

02:53:38.000 It is the objective truth.

02:53:39.000 Okay, but you're being disrespectful now, because we're not even talking about that topic.

02:53:44.000 We are.

02:53:44.000 I'm not out here online.

02:53:45.000 We're talking about authenticity.

02:53:47.000 But it's not even authentic.

02:53:49.000 I'm literally just being myself.

02:53:51.000 And you're not, like, I don't know.

02:53:52.000 Oh my gosh.

02:53:54.000 Did you not earlier say that you want to...

02:53:56.000 Did you not earlier say that I want my partner to be authentic?

02:53:59.000 And I'm saying, well, you're not even authentic.

02:54:00.000 But you're not even...

02:54:01.000 But you're kind of just, like, taking what you're seeing and running with it.

02:54:06.000 You put it out there.

02:54:08.000 But I'm living my life for me, not for you and your opinion.

02:54:11.000 Go, Queen. 0.99

02:54:11.000 You literally said, I want an authentic partner. 0.99

02:54:14.000 Okay, great, but I do.

02:54:16.000 But you're not authentic.

02:54:17.000 But you're not understanding.

02:54:18.000 So you're demanding something that you're not even are.

02:54:20.000 But you're defining my authenticity.

02:54:22.000 You're defining that for me, and you're running with that.

02:54:25.000 What does authentic mean?

02:54:27.000 You're allowed to do and post whatever you want.

02:54:29.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:54:30.000 You don't look like your photos.

02:54:32.000 That's an objective fact.

02:54:33.000 No, it's not.

02:54:34.000 So that lacks authenticity.

02:54:35.000 Do I look like my photos?

02:54:37.000 That's not what we're looking at.

02:54:38.000 But I'm saying, like, you objectively do not look like your photos.

02:54:41.000 I literally thought that was someone else on the thing.

02:54:44.000 So I'm just saying, if you're gonna sit there and say, alright, Amanda's gonna be authentic and tell me what it is and be emotionally intelligent.

02:54:50.000 And I'm like, we're not even being authentic.

02:54:53.000 You're not even being authentic, man. 0.99

02:54:54.000 But we're not talking about on that ass, like, at all. 0.99

02:54:57.000 We're talking about emotions. 0.99

02:54:58.000 We're not talking about physical looks.

02:55:01.000 So you can pick and choose what often to see in your partner?

02:55:03.000 Yeah, like, it's crazy, bro.

02:55:04.000 No, you're just...

02:55:05.000 That's what you just said.

02:55:06.000 No, I'm not saying that.

02:55:07.000 You're kind of just twisting what I'm saying and kind of running with whatever you want.

02:55:11.000 Okay, go ahead.

02:55:12.000 Go ahead.

02:55:12.000 So what is it then?

02:55:13.000 I don't understand your question. 1.00

02:55:15.000 So, stupid. 1.00

02:55:18.000 We're going to move on. 1.00

02:55:19.000 Ew.

02:55:20.000 What an ugly tag.

02:55:21.000 What? 1.00

02:55:22.000 It's so rude to call someone stupid. 1.00

02:55:24.000 It's not nice. 1.00

02:55:25.000 Stupid. 1.00

02:55:25.000 I don't say that. 1.00

02:55:26.000 Oh, I don't...

02:55:27.000 That thing. 1.00

02:55:29.000 Stupid! 1.00

02:55:30.000 Look, Chris, relax, man. 1.00

02:55:32.000 All I'm saying is, I just find it interesting that you're saying, I want my partner to be authentic with me, be emotional with me, blah, blah, blah, right?

02:55:40.000 But you yourself...

02:55:41.000 I've heard you already multiple times. 0.97

02:55:43.000 I'm not stupid, right? 0.96

02:55:45.000 So I've heard you repeat that multiple times. 0.98

02:55:46.000 Well, I've had to repeat questions to you multiple times because you don't get it.

02:55:49.000 Okay, so, because maybe I can't hear you correctly because these headphones aren't, like, so good on my ears.

02:55:53.000 But that's the truth.

02:55:55.000 We personally tune those headphones.

02:55:56.000 I know they're loud and clear.

02:55:57.000 Okay, But maybe you don't know about...

02:55:58.000 Like, I don't know.

02:55:59.000 But now I've heard you multiple times and you can stop.

02:56:02.000 Stop with what?

02:56:03.000 Yeah, stop, Marge. 1.00

02:56:04.000 Calling out your contradiction.

02:56:05.000 I mean, like...

02:56:06.000 No, I'm not.

02:56:06.000 We're not talking about that, though.

02:56:07.000 We're talking about men's emotions and being authentic with that.

02:56:10.000 We're not talking about looks.

02:56:12.000 And I'm saying...

02:56:12.000 You're kind of taking it a different way.

02:56:13.000 You're not authentic.

02:56:14.000 You demand authenticity from him, but you're not authentic.

02:56:17.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

02:56:17.000 But you're not...

02:56:18.000 It's a completely different topic and we can move on.

02:56:20.000 No, it's not, Marge.

02:56:21.000 We can move on.

02:56:21.000 I don't want to talk to Marge.

02:56:22.000 He's telling you how I'm not going to perceive you.

02:56:24.000 I don't care how men perceive me.

02:56:26.000 I am who I am, and I'm okay.

02:56:28.000 But you said you want a husband, so you do care how men perceive you.

02:56:30.000 I don't know, actually, if I want a husband, either.

02:56:31.000 I'm, like, okay with just being myself.

02:56:33.000 But you said you want kids.

02:56:34.000 I never said that either.

02:56:36.000 So, okay.

02:56:36.000 So then do you, baby?

02:56:37.000 Like, I don't.

02:56:38.000 I'm literally doing me, and if that happens, that's just, like, God's will.

02:56:41.000 But, like, I'm not thinking about any of those reasons.

02:56:44.000 That's the truth.

02:56:45.000 That's just who I am as a, like, a person.

02:56:47.000 Like, if I have kids, okay.

02:56:49.000 If I adopt, even more amazing.

02:56:51.000 There's children in this world that need, like, a mother, and maybe I don't mind. 0.99

02:56:54.000 But also, like, I can, I never know in life, I can maybe convert to being, like, a nun, or maybe someone who doesn't even want to get married.

02:57:02.000 A nun? 0.93

02:57:02.000 Yeah, but anything can happen in life. 0.93

02:57:04.000 A nun? 0.93

02:57:05.000 Yeah.

02:57:05.000 A nun?

02:57:06.000 It doesn't matter.

02:57:07.000 It does matter.

02:57:09.000 No, it doesn't.

02:57:09.000 You're getting married tonight.

02:57:24.000 You guys are really, like, out of control.

02:57:29.000 No, we just talked about nobody can trigger you unless you get triggered.

02:57:33.000 This is a podcast. 1.00

02:57:34.000 We're just talking shit. 1.00

02:57:35.000 All of us are. 1.00

02:57:36.000 I hate them, man. 0.94

02:57:38.000 I'll change topics.

02:57:38.000 We should change the topic.

02:57:41.000 Do you like seafood?

02:57:43.000 Depends.

02:57:44.000 I like seafood.

02:57:46.000 It's a setup.

02:57:48.000 I'm just changing the topic.

02:57:49.000 We should change the topic.

02:57:51.000 Do you like the beach?

02:57:53.000 No, it's a setup.

02:57:56.000 I feel like at the beach, I could be myself very authentic.

02:58:01.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:58:02.000 I can be my true and I feel like, at the same time, you know, running in the water.

02:58:13.000 What?

02:58:14.000 Fresh.

02:58:15.000 Fresh.

02:58:16.000 What? 0.89

02:58:24.000 The heck is crazy, bro. 0.94

02:58:26.000 What's going on, bro? 0.95

02:58:29.000 No, yo.

02:58:29.000 Mario won't tell him, man.

02:58:31.000 No, I mean...

02:58:32.000 Wait, what's going on?

02:58:33.000 Nothing.

02:58:34.000 Look, man. 0.99

02:58:35.000 We can move on, but like I said before, it's just interesting how she gets called out, and instantly it's like, oh, what the fuck? 0.99

02:58:41.000 No, that's okay. 0.99

02:58:42.000 You know, you're entitled to your opinion, but it's not going to affect me. 1.00

02:58:45.000 You can be like a jerk. 1.00

02:58:46.000 I'm sorry, that's what I feel you're being. 1.00

02:58:48.000 I'm entitled to say that. 0.86

02:58:50.000 I'm not being a jerk. 0.98

02:58:50.000 But that's okay. 0.98

02:58:50.000 This is your show. 0.98

02:58:51.000 You just don't make sense.

02:58:51.000 That's okay.

02:58:52.000 It's okay if I don't make sense, though.

02:58:53.000 We can agree to disagree and still be, like, friends, if you would like.

02:58:57.000 I respect your opinion.

02:58:58.000 I literally almost didn't come on here because, I'm going to be honest, people didn't say nice things, right?

02:59:02.000 But I'm here today, like, challenging myself, doing something different.

02:59:06.000 And, like, you don't have to be, like, so, like, mean.

02:59:08.000 And, like, I was told that, like, people needed to come here because people don't want to come because they're scared.

02:59:13.000 Like, so I don't think that you should continue to treat people this way because it's just not nice.

02:59:17.000 And we can be a little bit more mindful and nice.

02:59:19.000 But that's okay.

02:59:20.000 You can run your show however you would like.

02:59:22.000 It's not about being mean, it's just about being honest.

02:59:26.000 That's fine for you to be honest, but you can stop and move on.

02:59:31.000 You don't have to continue.

02:59:32.000 I can say mean things about you, but I'm holding my tongue in.

02:59:34.000 Why would I do that?

02:59:37.000 That doesn't make sense to do as a person.

02:59:40.000 It's the truth.

02:59:41.000 I'm not a bully.

02:59:43.000 She hasn't really spoke.

02:59:46.000 It makes sense to say the truth.

02:59:48.000 If not, how are we supposed to grow as individuals?

02:59:50.000 Criticism is necessary.

02:59:53.000 So, I mean, I think that if someone isn't...

02:59:56.000 Able to come on the show and take hard criticism.

03:00:00.000 They're not willing to grow as a person.

03:00:02.000 Okay, but I said okay and moved on.

03:00:02.000 I don't really care to keep talking about it.

03:00:05.000 And you guys keep continuing.

03:00:06.000 Now you're just like, don't know when to stop.

03:00:08.000 Because you keep talking, that's why. 0.93

03:00:09.000 Okay, so I'll shut up. 0.56

03:00:10.000 So move on to the next topic.

03:00:13.000 Under the sea.

03:00:14.000 It's so easy, bro.

03:00:15.000 Under the sea.

03:00:17.000 But that's true.

03:00:20.000 What's true?

03:00:21.000 No, you guys like the fire too because it makes your show better.

03:00:27.000 Who's going to watch a boring show?

03:00:29.000 You just said that you could be a nun.

03:00:34.000 That's kind of hilarious.

03:00:37.000 Okay, that's fine.

03:00:38.000 You can think it's hilarious.

03:00:41.000 I didn't say that. 0.99

03:00:44.000 You got your titties out on Instagram and you said I could be a nun. 0.99

03:00:47.000 I'm sorry, but Jesus wasn't a nun. 0.99

03:00:51.000 Don't bring God into this.

03:00:55.000 Don't bring God into this.

03:00:56.000 Please don't.

03:00:57.000 I don't even care.

03:00:58.000 That's so wild that you just said that.

03:01:00.000 Yeshua was the purest of beings if we talk about...

03:01:04.000 I don't even want to bring it there, but the point is that...

03:01:06.000 I already did chats.

03:01:07.000 That's tripping. 0.95

03:01:09.000 If she is not cute, put her on mute because women are kind of like rocks. 1.00

03:01:15.000 We skip the flat ones and leave the big ones. 1.00

03:01:17.000 What the fuck? 0.99

03:01:19.000 That, uh, date... 1.00

03:01:21.000 What?

03:01:22.000 What did I say?

03:01:22.000 Date your boy?

03:01:23.000 Harami's welcome to FNF where you will get roasted. 0.99

03:01:26.000 She's leaving? 1.00

03:01:27.000 No, I just...

03:01:28.000 Bathroom? 1.00

03:01:31.000 Damn, man. 1.00

03:01:32.000 Y'all hurt her feelings, man. 1.00

03:01:33.000 What did I do?

03:01:36.000 First, you said under the scene.

03:01:38.000 That's a song, bro.

03:01:40.000 Relax, bro.

03:01:41.000 All right.

03:01:42.000 Haramis, welcome to FNF where you get roasted. 1.00

03:01:43.000 Please respect the chipmunks tonight, Myron Fresh and Theodore.

03:01:47.000 You will be called a pole. 1.00

03:01:49.000 Shout out to the chip...

03:01:50.000 What?

03:01:51.000 The chipats.

03:01:52.000 Angie and Icy.

03:01:53.000 Question, though, would you consider being a stay-at-home wife? 0.76

03:01:56.000 Raise your hand.

03:01:57.000 That's a consideration for you.

03:01:58.000 If you stay at home, wife. 1.00

03:02:00.000 Oh, yeah.

03:02:00.000 Okay.

03:02:01.000 Absolutely.

03:02:02.000 Yes, please.

03:02:03.000 Okay.

03:02:04.000 Vegeta's hairline.

03:02:05.000 Sub FNF. Daughters of Eve who destroyed Adam. 0.73

03:02:09.000 What's your credit score?

03:02:10.000 No cap.

03:02:10.000 Oh, my God.

03:02:11.000 Hold on.

03:02:12.000 What's your credit score?

03:02:13.000 I think it's like seven, seven, seven something.

03:02:16.000 Stop the cat! 1.00

03:02:17.000 She just came here, bro.

03:02:19.000 She just got here.

03:02:21.000 What about you?

03:02:24.000 What's the question?

03:02:25.000 A little over 800. 0.99

03:02:27.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:02:28.000 I believe her, bro. 1.00

03:02:29.000 I do.

03:02:29.000 She's intact.

03:02:31.000 My parents opened a credit card for me when I was like...

03:02:34.000 That's where it's at.

03:02:36.000 My parents love you so much.

03:02:37.000 Big girl left. 1.00

03:02:38.000 That's amazing.

03:02:39.000 Oh, she left?

03:02:39.000 Big girl left, yeah.

03:02:40.000 Y'all hurt her feelings, man.

03:02:42.000 No.

03:02:43.000 I was hurt her feelings. 1.00

03:02:44.000 Damn. 1.00

03:02:44.000 Y'all diggers made the big girl leave, man. 1.00

03:02:46.000 Listen, bro.

03:02:47.000 She ran out of here. 0.99

03:02:47.000 I ain't never seen a big person move that fast, though. 0.99

03:02:49.000 I'll tell you that.

03:02:50.000 She was gone.

03:02:51.000 It's not necessary.

03:02:52.000 She turned to Goku.

03:02:54.000 Well, am I lying?

03:03:00.000 She's huge!

03:03:02.000 Well, to be fair...

03:03:03.000 Bro! 0.96

03:03:06.000 Nigga! 1.00

03:03:07.000 We wish you're the best!

03:03:10.000 So, when I bring Gus on the panel, right, and then all of a sudden...

03:03:13.000 She gone.

03:03:15.000 Oh, she gone too.

03:03:16.000 She gone as well.

03:03:17.000 Left her friend, yeah.

03:03:18.000 They're gonna cry on the ride back up to Boca together.

03:03:21.000 Okay, look.

03:03:23.000 I mean, Chad. 1.00

03:03:24.000 Damn. 1.00

03:03:24.000 When I bring girls on, I don't know what the fuck they look like. 1.00

03:03:27.000 Bro, when I saw it on Instagram, I was like, what the fuck? 1.00

03:03:30.000 Is that you? 1.00

03:03:30.000 What's that? 1.00

03:03:32.000 She said, O's?

03:03:33.000 Who?

03:03:36.000 Yo, these girls be catfishing, man. 1.00

03:03:39.000 Come on, Chad, man.

03:03:42.000 She ain't moved down fast in years.

03:03:45.000 Hey, man.

03:03:46.000 All right.

03:03:46.000 Hey, man.

03:03:47.000 Under the sea.

03:03:48.000 Yo.

03:03:50.000 Niggas put whale emojis in the chat. 1.00

03:03:53.000 Niggas stop free-willing! 1.00

03:03:54.000 Niggas stop free-willing! 1.00

03:03:57.000 Niggas stop free-willing! 1.00

03:03:58.000 Niggas stop free-willing! 1.00

03:04:05.000 Before I got the invitation, I knew who you guys were.

03:04:07.000 I knew how you handled yourselves.

03:04:09.000 I'm ready for the heat.

03:04:09.000 I was ready.

03:04:10.000 I was like, come on.

03:04:11.000 I know she was ready.

03:04:13.000 I was ready.

03:04:14.000 I agree with 100% of what you guys said.

03:04:17.000 I was ready for all of you.

03:04:19.000 Talk about me.

03:04:20.000 I've been here three times now.

03:04:22.000 Oh yeah, you already know.

03:04:24.000 I'll tell you this, you might make a gym membership now.

03:04:26.000 Oh! 0.60

03:04:28.000 Wait, wait, wait.

03:04:29.000 So, I had one girl, right?

03:04:31.000 I coughed fat like months ago, right?

03:04:33.000 And she's like, you know, Chris, because you, like, you inspired me to lose weight.

03:04:36.000 Like, okay.

03:04:37.000 See?

03:04:38.000 There you go.

03:04:38.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:04:39.000 And that's motivation.

03:04:41.000 We don't tell women the truth enough, man. 1.00

03:04:43.000 And she'll live longer.

03:04:44.000 And that's what I'm saying, though.

03:04:45.000 That's how you grow.

03:04:46.000 Like, if no one's going to say it to you, what are you going to do? 0.80

03:04:48.000 Live a sad life where you're just fat and unhealthy? 0.97

03:04:52.000 Like, I'm sorry. 0.98

03:04:53.000 I'm being honest.

03:04:54.000 It's true.

03:04:54.000 No, it's true.

03:04:55.000 Look at her past photos.

03:04:56.000 She was skinny. 0.99

03:04:57.000 They start eating food.

03:05:00.000 Seafood.

03:05:00.000 And then, uh, yeah.

03:05:01.000 That's why you brought those seafood.

03:05:03.000 Well, another reason.

03:05:05.000 Okay.

03:05:05.000 No, but, like, I'm not even trying to be rude.

03:05:07.000 Me and her are the same age.

03:05:08.000 So, like, taking care of yourself really does matter.

03:05:10.000 I get told that at the 24 all the time.

03:05:12.000 So then why did you tell her when she walked on the panel?

03:05:14.000 No, because, like, what I'm saying is she didn't let me.

03:05:16.000 I was about to start going.

03:05:18.000 No, no, no, no, no.

03:05:18.000 Say it, say it.

03:05:19.000 I was going to say what I had to say when she was here, but what I'm saying is...

03:05:22.000 No, no, no, that's why I kept telling her.

03:05:24.000 I was on her back.

03:05:25.000 I was on her back.

03:05:26.000 No, no, it's fine. 0.99

03:05:27.000 But what I, what my biggest thing is that I want to tell like the world is as a woman, we, that, that whole like, oh, love yourself like in any way, shape or form is toxic as fuck. 0.96

03:05:36.000 Like you, you shouldn't love your, like, yeah, your journey, but know that you have to be better. 0.96

03:05:41.000 Period.

03:05:42.000 Like, if you're 100 pounds overweight, you are 100.

03:05:44.000 My mentor, like I said earlier, when we started working together, like, I've always been a petite girl.

03:05:48.000 I got, like, maybe like 10, 15 pounds, just a little more, but you can tell, right?

03:05:53.000 And he was like, Luli, no.

03:05:54.000 He was like, this is not what you want.

03:05:56.000 This is for your career, right?

03:05:57.000 And I'm over here thinking, like, what do you mean it's a little thick?

03:06:00.000 You know what?

03:06:00.000 No.

03:06:01.000 Because now I feel the best that I've ever been.

03:06:03.000 I'm in the best shape of my life.

03:06:04.000 Listen, next time, tell out your face.

03:06:07.000 Oh, bring her back. 0.99

03:06:08.000 Oh, she gone.

03:06:09.000 Yeah, she... 1.00

03:06:09.000 Going to the seat. 1.00

03:06:10.000 So then bring me back, and I'll tell another one.

03:06:12.000 Okay.

03:06:13.000 All right.

03:06:14.000 Okay.

03:06:15.000 We'll adjust that.

03:06:16.000 That's what I came for.

03:06:16.000 Nigel.

03:06:36.000 Hold on, nigga. 1.00

03:06:38.000 Hold on, bro. 0.96

03:06:39.000 What?

03:06:39.000 Nigel.

03:06:41.000 If you're following God, bro, you can't follow a man at the same time, bro. 0.95

03:06:45.000 Follow God, bro.

03:06:46.000 Okay. 1.00

03:06:47.000 Girl on the top right in the white, hold this L because you fucked up. 1.00

03:06:50.000 The guy that you left is rarer than you. 1.00

03:06:52.000 Oh, okay.

03:06:53.000 Okay.

03:06:53.000 And you will never get somebody like that again.

03:06:55.000 That ship has sailed and now you've been ran through and smell like the bottom of the boat.

03:06:59.000 The artist that left. 1.00

03:07:00.000 Goddamn. 1.00

03:07:00.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:07:01.000 Okay. 1.00

03:07:02.000 The girl... 0.93

03:07:02.000 Yeah, I know. 0.93

03:07:02.000 He's talking about... 0.93

03:07:03.000 She was with the Olympian or whatever.

03:07:05.000 Miss talk a lot.

03:07:06.000 Bro... 0.99

03:07:08.000 Man, I guarantee if we called her ex, the Mexican guy that she's talking about, he'd probably be like, man, I don't fucking want her back, bro. 1.00

03:07:14.000 Don't be capping about that shit, man. 1.00

03:07:16.000 They'd be lying, saying like, oh, he want me back! 1.00

03:07:18.000 Shut up. 0.97

03:07:18.000 Who's the artist under Gucci that she's talking about? 0.97

03:07:20.000 I don't know who it is.

03:07:22.000 Yeah, they're gonna know.

03:07:23.000 Okay, the girl in the middle that got sexually... 1.00

03:07:25.000 What?

03:07:25.000 Hold on one second.

03:07:26.000 What the fuck? 1.00

03:07:27.000 Okay, that's gonna... 1.00

03:07:27.000 Yeah, hold on, hold on. 1.00

03:07:28.000 TV coming back on.

03:07:29.000 All right.

03:07:30.000 Girl in the...

03:07:31.000 Girl in the middle that got sexually assaulted when she was a child and had a lot of trauma.

03:07:35.000 Anytime girls say they are spiritual, it means they became hoes after being hurt. 1.00

03:07:39.000 The more she talked...

03:07:41.000 The more she talked...

03:07:42.000 What?

03:07:44.000 The worse she got... 0.79

03:07:45.000 Okay. 0.99

03:07:46.000 The black girl with the sing ghetto. 0.98

03:07:48.000 Okay. 1.00

03:07:48.000 I was going to shoot my shot at the one... 1.00

03:07:51.000 Hold on one second. 0.96

03:07:51.000 What's that, guys? 0.96

03:07:53.000 Yeah, sorry, guys.

03:07:53.000 The TV's acting fucking crazy right now.

03:07:54.000 Well, this is $5. 0.97

03:07:55.000 Let's not do that anyways.

03:07:57.000 No!

03:07:58.000 Okay.

03:07:59.000 Mina Moves. 0.96

03:07:59.000 Mina Moves, guys. 0.96

03:08:00.000 Ladies, there's a thought. 0.99

03:08:02.000 Instead of OnlyFans, you have one fan, and he makes you his wife and protects and provides for you.

03:08:06.000 Okay, that's true.

03:08:06.000 Okay, Mina.

03:08:08.000 Shout out to you, bro.

03:08:09.000 Mina Moves. 0.96

03:08:10.000 Mina Moves. 0.96

03:08:11.000 And then it goes, Bills, we might need you to start reading some of these.

03:08:14.000 I don't know why it's acting up now.

03:08:15.000 Okay, Cobalt Strike. 0.91

03:08:17.000 Holy crap, never tell the girl with the white shirt and show the pads a secret or your real name. 0.97

03:08:21.000 See? 0.99

03:08:22.000 I'm telling you, bro.

03:08:23.000 Yeah, that's the vulnerability right there for you.

03:08:24.000 That's wild.

03:08:25.000 Perfect example. 0.98

03:08:25.000 She gave all that info on that nigga, man. 0.98

03:08:27.000 Wow. 0.98

03:08:27.000 Yeah, that's true. 0.98

03:08:28.000 That's perfect conversations.

03:08:29.000 Mo Bibby, hey FNF, love you guys.

03:08:31.000 Puerto Rican girl is the perfect example of an intelligent female on the show. 1.00

03:08:34.000 Keep shutting them 30, oh, three or fours up with facts.

03:08:37.000 You should bring her on more.

03:08:38.000 Okay?

03:08:39.000 And then we got Cam two times, or no?

03:08:41.000 No, no, no, we got Rumble Rants.

03:08:42.000 Rumble Rants?

03:08:43.000 Yep.

03:08:43.000 Show it's a rumble.

03:08:44.000 First thing first.

03:08:45.000 Oh, okay.

03:08:45.000 Because it was picking up, right?

03:08:46.000 Okay.

03:08:47.000 I decided to support her.

03:08:48.000 Welcome to you, my friend.

03:08:48.000 Shout out to you, bro.

03:08:49.000 We got here.

03:08:50.000 Hit me up if you need to castle the whale.

03:08:52.000 I'm a fork. 1.00

03:08:52.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:08:56.000 Nigga said move the big girl. 1.00

03:08:57.000 Okay.

03:08:58.000 Mo, listen.

03:08:59.000 Chat, $20 is enough from here.

03:09:03.000 I'll be giving a discount when you say like 50 and up.

03:09:05.000 Oh, okay.

03:09:06.000 Ladies, give yourself a rating if you are logically comparing yourself to the other girls on the panel. 1.00

03:09:10.000 Look at the other ladies on the panel. 1.00

03:09:11.000 Rate yourself logically, not by feelings.

03:09:12.000 Basically, give yourself a humble 1 to 10 rank.

03:09:14.000 Bro, yeah, we could do the name three countries, bro, but yo, I hate having girls rank themselves, bro, because they always say 10. 1.00

03:09:22.000 No, I don't believe in 10s.

03:09:23.000 I don't think anybody in the world is a 10 because there's always room for improvement.

03:09:26.000 If you believe you're a 10, you're just so big-headed.

03:09:28.000 You need to see the other panels.

03:09:30.000 Three countries.

03:09:31.000 We'll start here.

03:09:39.000 You can't say Bolivia, America or Canada.

03:09:44.000 Okay, so I'm going to say Italy, Spain, and Mexico.

03:09:49.000 Okay, good job.

03:09:50.000 What about you?

03:09:51.000 India, Pakistan, and Nepal.

03:09:54.000 Okay. 1.00

03:09:56.000 Damn it. 1.00

03:09:56.000 Not India, though. 1.00

03:09:57.000 Not India. 0.99

03:09:57.000 You're from India. 0.99

03:09:58.000 Yeah.

03:09:58.000 Name one more.

03:09:59.000 One more.

03:10:00.000 Oh, another one?

03:10:01.000 Yeah, one more.

03:10:02.000 Afghanistan.

03:10:03.000 All right.

03:10:04.000 Of course.

03:10:06.000 Of course. 0.99

03:10:08.000 She was saying damn as if she was going to say Afghanistan. 0.99

03:10:10.000 Okay. 0.99

03:10:12.000 Come on, man.

03:10:13.000 Africa.

03:10:15.000 Okay.

03:10:16.000 Two more.

03:10:18.000 Belgium.

03:10:19.000 Okay.

03:10:21.000 Where do you want to travel to?

03:10:23.000 One more.

03:10:24.000 I would like to go to, let's say, Colombia?

03:10:30.000 Okay, cool.

03:10:32.000 Africa's not a country. 0.98

03:10:33.000 Yeah, that's a continent.

03:10:36.000 I'm sorry. 1.00

03:10:37.000 You're stupid. 1.00

03:10:38.000 What about you? 1.00

03:10:40.000 Geography was not my chance, but let's see.

03:10:44.000 Indonesia?

03:10:45.000 Three countries.

03:10:46.000 Alright, okay.

03:10:47.000 Two more, you got this.

03:10:50.000 He said, you got this.

03:10:51.000 Lock in, lock in.

03:10:53.000 I know, that's why I'm like, I'm there with it, I'm there with it. 0.85

03:10:55.000 You're Hispanic, man.

03:10:56.000 I know.

03:10:58.000 Argentina.

03:11:00.000 Alright, okay.

03:11:01.000 And...

03:11:02.000 Peru.

03:11:05.000 That was close.

03:11:06.000 What about you?

03:11:08.000 Australia, Brazil, and China.

03:11:10.000 All right.

03:11:11.000 Okay.

03:11:11.000 What about you?

03:11:12.000 Let's go.

03:11:13.000 Russia, Japan, Iceland.

03:11:16.000 There we go.

03:11:16.000 All right.

03:11:17.000 Okay, good job.

03:11:17.000 All right, cool.

03:11:19.000 Where are we at here?

03:11:20.000 I know. 0.99

03:11:21.000 I fucked up. 0.99

03:11:22.000 304 and XMR looking like she's going to do a rain dance. 1.00

03:11:25.000 L Section 8 behavior from the 304 is me tooth for icy side tooth.

03:11:29.000 Okay.

03:11:31.000 Linda, you sitting next to us must mean you want the same treatment as 1829 girls before you. 1.00

03:11:37.000 Tacos, then crib for bedroom fun.

03:11:39.000 Don't get it twisted.

03:11:39.000 We don't discriminate.

03:11:41.000 We regulate every shade of ass from snow bunnies to senorita bonitas to Asian baddies to sexy black queens. 1.00

03:11:46.000 Hopefully, if we play our cards right, we could clap your cheeks and leave you like the girl in the photos. 1.00

03:11:52.000 Are you down? 1.00

03:11:53.000 What the fuck, bro? 1.00

03:11:55.000 What is that picture? 1.00

03:11:57.000 I can't put it full.

03:12:01.000 That's weird, man.

03:12:03.000 Jimmy Gambles is the bottom from the Nelk Boys and she's lying about getting a deal from Universal. 1.00

03:12:10.000 Okay, Jimmy Gambles is the bottom from the Nelk Boys? 0.99

03:12:13.000 Yeah, he's my boyfriend.

03:12:15.000 So they're probably saying he's like the bottom of their...

03:12:18.000 He's just jealous.

03:12:20.000 She was very honest about he's still working hard.

03:12:22.000 And then what was the other one?

03:12:23.000 They said the chick is lying about a deal from Universal. 0.99

03:12:26.000 That was the musician chick. 1.00

03:12:30.000 Ladies, if you had to fuck one girl and one guy in the room, who would you fuck? 1.00

03:12:34.000 Don't move it on, man. 1.00

03:12:35.000 That ain't me, man.

03:12:38.000 Wait, Myron, what you doing in Castle Club?

03:12:40.000 Yeah, that's not me.

03:12:41.000 I noticed the difference in opinion between Myron and Fresh when it comes to valiance.

03:12:45.000 This was highlighted during the Gonzalo Lear episode where Myron said he'd rather die a martyr and Fresh said he'd rather stay alive for his family.

03:12:50.000 I recognize this again after our show and Fresh was telling Suniko he's fighting a fight he cannot win.

03:12:55.000 Okay.

03:12:55.000 Well said.

03:12:56.000 Okay.

03:12:57.000 Name another producer that's also a niggler for... 1.00

03:12:59.000 That's what I thought.

03:13:03.000 W. Chris, L304 pedal.

03:13:04.000 Alright, Chris is a king.

03:13:07.000 He actually used to be Chris is a bum, but he changed it to Chris is a king. 0.79

03:13:13.000 Oh, wow.

03:13:20.000 Second glove from Chris.

03:13:21.000 Can you straighten your back, please?

03:13:23.000 Your posture is annoying the fuck out of me and I can't take it anymore.

03:13:25.000 Thank you for understanding.

03:13:27.000 No, it says from Mara, not Chris.

03:13:33.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:13:33.000 It was the tech girl that left with her Pfeffrin.

03:13:36.000 Donna Marco, though.

03:13:37.000 Donna Marco.

03:13:37.000 It's a recording artist, ma'am.

03:13:40.000 You keep oversharing everyone's business on the podcast that you're not going to have any material left for your songs.

03:13:46.000 Donna Marco.

03:13:47.000 Yo, sorry, uh, three of the glitches is gone right now, man.

03:13:52.000 It's what it is, man.

03:13:53.000 What?

03:13:54.000 Hey, listen.

03:13:55.000 Hey, I'm lit, man.

03:13:56.000 He's in the chat right now.

03:13:57.000 Okay, they said Ayesha capped about being a virgin.

03:13:59.000 She got at least eight bodies.

03:14:01.000 Biggest thought in Illinois.

03:14:02.000 Wait, what?

03:14:04.000 That's from Hina Shazad.

03:14:05.000 Do you have anything you want to say back to him?

03:14:07.000 Who's Ayesha? 0.98

03:14:08.000 Miss India.

03:14:09.000 Yeah, that's me.

03:14:10.000 Yeah, they said that you got at least eight bodies.

03:14:12.000 They said you capped.

03:14:13.000 At least.

03:14:13.000 That's what they said is capped.

03:14:15.000 Yo, that's minor, though.

03:14:16.000 Alright, is it two then?

03:14:17.000 No.

03:14:18.000 Is it one?

03:14:18.000 It's one.

03:14:19.000 No.

03:14:19.000 Come on, man.

03:14:20.000 Come on.

03:14:20.000 No, no capped.

03:14:21.000 Ayesha, man.

03:14:21.000 You're...

03:14:47.000 It's overnight!

03:14:51.000 I'm anorexic! 0.52

03:14:55.000 Yeah, Mo isn't a badass. 1.00

03:14:59.000 And Bill isn't a nigga, man. 1.00

03:15:03.000 And Myra is short! 1.00

03:15:04.000 Yeah, short king!

03:15:06.000 Yeah, you go, king!

03:15:07.000 Yeah, and you're white, like you said. 0.85

03:15:08.000 I'm white, yeah, yeah.

03:15:09.000 Should we put it on a polygraph?

03:15:10.000 Do we got time?

03:15:11.000 Probably not, right?

03:15:12.000 No, we all got time.

03:15:13.000 You're lucky, man.

03:15:15.000 You're lucky that Nigler is ready here.

03:15:18.000 Okay, for the ladies, have you ever rejected a man's advances and proceeded to watch all of his Instagram stories?

03:15:22.000 If so, why?

03:15:23.000 Actually, this is a very good question.

03:15:25.000 Yeah, have you ever rejected a guy but then watched all his stories?

03:15:28.000 Because it happens all the time.

03:15:28.000 You guys want to know what happens.

03:15:29.000 Has anyone ever done this?

03:15:30.000 So, in your opinion, why does this happen or have you done it yourself?

03:15:33.000 Where you kind of said no to a guy, watching all his stories on Instagram.

03:15:36.000 What does that mean for, you know, that, I want to say, dynamic?

03:15:40.000 What does that mean?

03:15:41.000 So, a girl, like, I want to say, send no to a guy, right, and is watching your stories all the time.

03:15:55.000 What does that mean?

03:15:55.000 Because you're bored?

03:15:56.000 Okay.

03:15:57.000 Oh, like, all the time.

03:15:58.000 Yeah.

03:15:58.000 I don't know.

03:15:59.000 I've never done that.

03:16:00.000 Someone that I'm saying no to, I'm not going to be watching.

03:16:02.000 So maybe she's bored.

03:16:03.000 Yeah.

03:16:04.000 Okay.

03:16:04.000 What about you?

03:16:06.000 Same.

03:16:07.000 I've never done that.

03:16:08.000 Never done it?

03:16:08.000 Okay.

03:16:09.000 Who has done it?

03:16:10.000 Okay.

03:16:10.000 Why do you watch all their stories then?

03:16:13.000 I like staying updated in a sense.

03:16:16.000 Knowing what's going on in their life.

03:16:19.000 But why?

03:16:20.000 So he got a girl that doesn't play games. 1.00

03:16:21.000 Then what?

03:16:22.000 Then what do you do?

03:16:23.000 Wait.

03:16:23.000 I'm sorry.

03:16:23.000 What?

03:16:24.000 Let's say he gets a new girl that isn't playing games. 0.99

03:16:26.000 Then what do you do?

03:16:27.000 Then I... Oh, then I probably...

03:16:28.000 Did you stop?

03:16:29.000 Yeah, then I stopped.

03:16:30.000 That's interesting.

03:16:30.000 But you rejected him, though.

03:16:31.000 Yeah, I know.

03:16:32.000 But it's like, you gotta keep your options open, in a sense.

03:16:36.000 Like, just stay...

03:16:37.000 Okay.

03:16:38.000 What about you?

03:16:40.000 Who's done that to reject him and then keep watching stories?

03:16:43.000 So, I've never done it, but I think that a lot of women, they'll reject a guy, and then they'll see, like, how good of a guy is, or, like, they'll see that he's living his best life, and they're like, damn, he really didn't want me that much.

03:16:54.000 Like, you know what I mean?

03:16:55.000 But...

03:16:56.000 That's on them.

03:16:57.000 Like, I feel like that's a fumble.

03:16:58.000 You know what I mean?

03:16:58.000 If you have a guy that is interested in you and then you cut him off or whatever and then you're on his back.

03:17:02.000 Who do you think fumbles more relationships, men or women in general? 0.99

03:17:05.000 Women. 0.81

03:17:05.000 What do you think? 0.81

03:17:07.000 So, I've done it before, and I think it's for, you know, I keep thinking what would have been, what would have happened, you know, the possibility.

03:17:15.000 So why'd you say no then?

03:17:17.000 I don't know.

03:17:18.000 Sometimes I like, I'm just not sure about something.

03:17:22.000 If I'm not sure, don't do it.

03:17:23.000 It's a question.

03:17:24.000 If he DM'd you, would you respond and go out with him after?

03:17:28.000 Yeah, it can happen.

03:17:30.000 It could happen.

03:17:31.000 I mean, if I keep seeing him, I don't know, sometimes I'm not interested in someone and then they just look back and then they move on and then I just, like, regret it.

03:17:41.000 It has happened to me.

03:17:42.000 It's not something like, you know, I'm happy about it, but...

03:17:51.000 Yeah, I definitely think girls fumble relationships a lot, like you were saying. 1.00

03:17:54.000 Like the girl with the wife, for example, she had an athlete, Olympian athlete, she had the guy who was a musician, whatever.

03:17:59.000 Super fumble.

03:18:01.000 And she thinks like, oh, I could get another guy or whatever, but what she doesn't realize is like every dude that you get with at that level is going to have other women.

03:18:08.000 I was going to warn her about that, but I was like, whatever, man.

03:18:11.000 And that was also rare that she got that many.

03:18:13.000 Like, you know what I mean?

03:18:14.000 Like, that many great guys and that she still...

03:18:16.000 Because women, what happens with women is they want damn near to make them perfect. 1.00

03:18:20.000 Like, so they fumble every little thing.

03:18:21.000 They're like, no, I'm leaving, I'm leaving.

03:18:22.000 I've seen men stick it through.

03:18:24.000 Like, you know what I mean?

03:18:24.000 If he's serious, he'll stick it through.

03:18:26.000 So...

03:18:27.000 Yeah, man.

03:18:28.000 To answer that question earlier regarding Instagram, so more often than not, a girl watching stories is kind of like saying, okay, is he actually a guy I want to go out with?

03:18:36.000 So she's like, you know what?

03:18:37.000 I said not at the very beginning, but sometimes it's like, let me just watch the stories and see how he is.

03:18:41.000 But generally speaking, though, if she said no to you, it's probably no for good.

03:18:44.000 Yeah.

03:18:45.000 And then they might try to come back, bro.

03:18:46.000 And I mean, it's up to y'all, but I usually tell them no. 0.96

03:18:49.000 Or I make them feel like, I'm like, why the fuck are you contacting me now? 0.99

03:18:52.000 Like, I'll make them feel like shit for that. 0.99

03:18:53.000 Like, why are you contacting me now? 0.99

03:18:54.000 But then the power's in your hands.

03:18:55.000 Oh, I just wanted to see! 1.00

03:18:56.000 Like, fuck you, bitch. 1.00

03:18:57.000 Like, yo, like, bro. 1.00

03:18:59.000 Honestly.

03:19:00.000 Hold on.

03:19:01.000 Because, you know what?

03:19:01.000 I look at it like this.

03:19:03.000 No, I know. 1.00

03:19:03.000 You don't give a fuck. 1.00

03:19:04.000 But for me, I'll look at it like, yo, you know what, man? 1.00

03:19:06.000 Nah. 1.00

03:19:07.000 So you don't do this dumb shit again, you need to feel the burn. 1.00

03:19:10.000 Why the fuck are you contacting me? 1.00

03:19:11.000 And I'll be an asshole about it, too. 1.00

03:19:12.000 Like, why the fuck are you messaging me? 1.00

03:19:14.000 Or sometimes I'll be like, who's this? 0.99

03:19:16.000 Because I'm like, oh, hey.

03:19:17.000 And I'm like, who's this? 0.99

03:19:18.000 Oh, it's X, Y, Z. I'll be like, why the fuck are you contacting me? 0.99

03:19:20.000 Just straight like that. 1.00

03:19:20.000 And they'll be like, Uh, uh, I just thought I would because girls think it's okay to just come back in after they reject you and it's like, nah, man, fuck out of here, bro. 1.00

03:19:28.000 So I see it as... 1.00

03:19:29.000 So appreciate the next nigga, man, because... 1.00

03:19:31.000 So I see it as the opposite. 0.61

03:19:32.000 I'm thinking, alright, she's talking to a dude.

03:19:35.000 She might have a boyfriend. 0.78

03:19:36.000 She might have somebody she's talking to, you know, for a period of time.

03:19:38.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:19:38.000 So I'm new to the situation.

03:19:40.000 Now, granted, doesn't mean I'm going to take it serious, but I'll wait my turn.

03:19:43.000 You know, I'm going to play it cool, do what I got to do.

03:19:46.000 Everyone's different.

03:19:46.000 And then, you feel me, finesse it.

03:19:48.000 But again...

03:19:49.000 It depends on the girl too.

03:19:50.000 It depends on the girl too.

03:19:52.000 So it's like, alright, it's my turn next.

03:19:53.000 I'm talking about like thoughts. 1.00

03:19:55.000 Like, I know this bitch is a hoe. 1.00

03:19:56.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

03:19:57.000 You want to come back now? 0.99

03:19:58.000 You know, I'll make her feel like shit about it. 1.00

03:20:00.000 It depends on the chick. 1.00

03:20:01.000 And I'm going to be honest with you.

03:20:03.000 In your scenario, yes, I agree.

03:20:05.000 But if a girl rejects you and then you take her back, she's not going to respect you.

03:20:11.000 If she already rejected you, and then you guys get together, eventually she's going to be like, oh, I got him wrapped around my finger.

03:20:18.000 Whatever I do, he's not taking me back.

03:20:19.000 No, no, but you're misunderstanding.

03:20:20.000 Now she's come back to me.

03:20:21.000 I have the power.

03:20:22.000 So I'm a dog girl, and they can move on. 1.00

03:20:24.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:20:24.000 So I'm in control. 1.00

03:20:25.000 Spicy.

03:20:26.000 We don't like those girls. 1.00

03:20:28.000 Okay, okay.

03:20:29.000 I thought you were going to take her seriously.

03:20:30.000 No, sweetheart.

03:20:31.000 No, no, no, no.

03:20:32.000 I hear you now.

03:20:33.000 Hell no. 1.00

03:20:34.000 She goes in a sex-only category if she does dumb shit like that, bro. 1.00

03:20:37.000 You gotta punish girls for doing dumb shit like that. 1.00

03:20:39.000 Because it's true. 1.00

03:20:40.000 Women fumble relationships all the time. 1.00

03:20:42.000 They'll be with a guy that was fucking fantastic, but he was too nice. 1.00

03:20:45.000 He was boring. 0.97

03:20:46.000 He didn't make enough money, blah, blah, blah, but he treated her well. 0.96

03:20:49.000 Girls fuck up relationships all the time because they think that there's something better on the other side. 1.00

03:20:53.000 She even admitted, oh, well, I got my options, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

03:20:55.000 But what she don't realize is every dude that you get with that's at that level that makes that kind of money is going to fuck other bitches. 1.00

03:21:00.000 And then they wonder, why am I single? 1.00

03:21:02.000 You're from the bag.

03:21:04.000 Not only that, man. 1.00

03:21:05.000 She should be happy niggas even take her shit. 1.00

03:21:06.000 Bro, she wasn't attractive at all, man. 1.00

03:21:08.000 Like, keeping a thousand.

03:21:09.000 Fake hair. 0.99

03:21:10.000 Eyebrows all fucked up. 1.00

03:21:11.000 Out of shape. 0.99

03:21:12.000 Whatever, man.

03:21:13.000 Hey, man.

03:21:13.000 It's Puerto Rican.

03:21:14.000 These girls are crazy, bro. 1.00

03:21:15.000 Annoying, bro. 1.00

03:21:16.000 Niggas that annoying. 1.00

03:21:17.000 Bro.

03:21:18.000 Okay.

03:21:19.000 Man, never mind.

03:21:21.000 Just keep going.

03:21:21.000 Don't say it.

03:21:23.000 Just like, bro. 1.00

03:21:24.000 Like, what the fuck, man? 1.00

03:21:25.000 These girls be crazy, bro. 1.00

03:21:27.000 What else we got here? 1.00

03:21:29.000 Yo, that fat bitch was built like a house of mirrors. 1.00

03:21:31.000 Oh my god. 1.00

03:21:32.000 Oh, bro. 0.96

03:21:33.000 Nigga, that one photo? 1.00

03:21:34.000 She had that one headshot? 0.91

03:21:37.000 I was like, yo, that's not you!

03:21:39.000 That was 10 years ago.

03:21:41.000 You see that?

03:21:41.000 Yo, that was not you.

03:21:42.000 That was one of the girls. 0.99

03:21:43.000 It was literally like 50 pounds.

03:21:45.000 Oh, Chris, why do you bring girls to the panel? 1.00

03:21:47.000 I watch your IG. Yo, it's tough, bro.

03:21:51.000 You never know.

03:21:52.000 It's tough to vet, man.

03:21:53.000 Yo, imagine you're going on a date with her. 1.00

03:21:54.000 You're like, oh, she bad as fuck, nigga! 1.00

03:21:56.000 Let's go! 1.00

03:21:57.000 Bob is like, yo, shorty's a fat fish. 1.00

03:22:00.000 What the fuck? 1.00

03:22:00.000 Oh, man. 1.00

03:22:01.000 Sorry, I didn't mean that.

03:22:02.000 Yeah, man.

03:22:03.000 All right. 1.00

03:22:04.000 Blob, you said that fresh and fair are out of control, bitch. 1.00

03:22:06.000 The only thing out of control here is your diet. 1.00

03:22:07.000 Oh, bro.

03:22:09.000 Yo. 1.00

03:22:10.000 Yo, that would have been funny if you heard that while she was like, what the fuck? 0.99

03:22:12.000 Loved the credit card on some entry is not a bad thing. 0.99

03:22:14.000 Yo.

03:22:14.000 Nah, bro.

03:22:15.000 Don't show that.

03:22:16.000 Nigga blocked it out? 1.00

03:22:17.000 Yeah, don't show that.

03:22:18.000 Okay.

03:22:19.000 Girls, when I told her about take out your shades because it's not the beach, bro, she got triggered, right, girls?

03:22:27.000 Oh, she had a shade?

03:22:28.000 Yeah, she did.

03:22:29.000 She wanted to do the podcast with shades on?

03:22:31.000 Yeah, bro, she got triggered, bro.

03:22:32.000 I don't like how you said that to me.

03:22:33.000 Yeah, bro.

03:22:34.000 Yo, what was there, man?

03:22:35.000 And he told her, he was like, if you can't handle that.

03:22:37.000 I told her, man. 1.00

03:22:39.000 If she can't handle that shit, bro, she is going to be gone. 1.00

03:22:43.000 You definitely warned her. 1.00

03:22:44.000 Come on, man.

03:22:45.000 Come on, man.

03:22:46.000 Sit down, man.

03:22:47.000 My bad, Fresh.

03:22:48.000 What I was trying to say was that I follow God, only I worship Him, but I want to also listen to my own teachings, you know, because I highly respect Him, and that's what I'm trying to say.

03:22:55.000 No, I get it, bro.

03:22:55.000 No, dude, you can't do both, bro.

03:22:58.000 Because this is a worldly view.

03:22:59.000 That's a Christian... 1.00

03:23:02.000 Biblical view.

03:23:02.000 You can't do both, bro.

03:23:03.000 Either choose one or the other.

03:23:05.000 It's not going to be...

03:23:05.000 And I tell you guys all the time, be religious if you want, man.

03:23:08.000 I just don't want you guys to get forced into it.

03:23:09.000 Like, do it because you want.

03:23:11.000 Alright, what else do we got?

03:23:12.000 Cool.

03:23:13.000 That's it.

03:23:13.000 Oh, for the ladies, have you ever...

03:23:15.000 No, we read that one.

03:23:15.000 We read that one, yeah.

03:23:16.000 I think we're good.

03:23:17.000 I think we're good.

03:23:17.000 Alright, ladies, last thoughts.

03:23:19.000 Alright.

03:23:19.000 How was the show?

03:23:20.000 How was the show for you?

03:23:21.000 Last thoughts, comments.

03:23:24.000 No, well, thank you guys for having me.

03:23:26.000 It was fun.

03:23:27.000 It was something different.

03:23:28.000 I never done something like this before.

03:23:30.000 So, you know, it's cool.

03:23:31.000 And I'm meeting new people since I'm new in the city.

03:23:34.000 Thank you for coming, by the way.

03:23:35.000 You're very based.

03:23:36.000 Thank you.

03:23:37.000 What about you?

03:23:38.000 I had a great time.

03:23:40.000 It was nice discussing different, like, controversial topics that definitely opened my mind in certain aspects.

03:23:46.000 And then, of course, meeting you guys and having us.

03:23:49.000 Thank you, guys.

03:23:50.000 It was a great time.

03:23:50.000 Question for you.

03:23:51.000 Your parents...

03:23:52.000 I think it might be like a white guy.

03:23:54.000 Oh, that's...

03:23:56.000 A Chinese guy? 0.96

03:23:57.000 I will say, yeah.

03:23:57.000 Indian only, right?

03:23:58.000 Indian only.

03:23:59.000 Yeah, my parents were arranged marriage. 0.96

03:24:02.000 You gotta be a doctor or an engineer or some shit like that too, probably, right?

03:24:05.000 They actually want me to get an arranged marriage. 0.87

03:24:08.000 That's really prominent.

03:24:10.000 They sent you up with a barakat back in India or what?

03:24:12.000 They tried, but I actually moved to Miami for school.

03:24:17.000 I'm paying tuition myself too.

03:24:20.000 So me getting my own education is kind of creating that distance from them because I don't want them to have that control over me.

03:24:26.000 So you don't want an arranged marriage?

03:24:28.000 No, I don't.

03:24:53.000 Yes, I am a virgin.

03:24:55.000 You know what?

03:24:55.000 I'm sober.

03:24:58.000 Yo, I've been sober for six months, man.

03:25:01.000 Yo, Abdul get the rocks. 0.99

03:25:03.000 Okay.

03:25:04.000 What about you?

03:25:05.000 It was wonderful.

03:25:06.000 Thank you for having me.

03:25:09.000 Yeah, it was great.

03:25:12.000 Are you wifey material? 0.99

03:25:13.000 I am.

03:25:14.000 Chris, pull it up real quick, man.

03:25:16.000 No, no, [...]

03:25:31.000 no, [...

03:25:45.000 What the?

03:25:45.000 Lotion.

03:25:46.000 Lotion?

03:25:47.000 Is it Twitter?

03:25:47.000 That is.

03:25:48.000 Yes.

03:25:49.000 On your Instagram?

03:25:51.000 No, what?

03:25:52.000 I could kind of pull it up on the screen.

03:25:54.000 I do not have nothing like that.

03:25:56.000 I do not have nothing like that.

03:25:59.000 We'll be the first to be banned on Rumble.

03:26:02.000 No, there's nothing like that on my Instagram.

03:26:05.000 I'm actually...

03:26:08.000 Not on your IG, but I mean...

03:26:10.000 Chris, don't put it on the screen, man.

03:26:12.000 I love my phone!

03:26:14.000 Don't put it on the screen.

03:26:15.000 Yeah, but chat niggas, man. 1.00

03:26:17.000 I'm wifey material. 0.97

03:26:18.000 No, you're not, bro.

03:26:19.000 You are...

03:26:20.000 I'm not.

03:26:23.000 I love my phone!

03:26:25.000 Get the rocks, man.

03:26:27.000 Okay.

03:26:27.000 That was a lotion advertisement.

03:26:28.000 Guys, look at yourself, man.

03:26:29.000 Lotion, man.

03:26:31.000 Alright, what about you?

03:26:33.000 Well, thank you for having me.

03:26:36.000 I appreciate it.

03:26:37.000 I feel like I manifested this because I would watch you guys' videos and I'm like, I just want to go.

03:26:41.000 Oh, get on?

03:26:42.000 Yeah, like we get on here one time for the one time.

03:26:44.000 But it's definitely very motivating because like I tell you guys, I do my streaming.

03:26:47.000 I also have my own podcast as well.

03:26:49.000 So being here and seeing like how big you guys have gotten and kind of following the story from the beginning, I'm going home a different person.

03:26:55.000 So I'm grateful and thank you guys for more motivation.

03:26:59.000 All right.

03:26:59.000 So you're a good sport.

03:27:00.000 What is the time limit for you to smash some guy that you actually know?

03:27:04.000 I'm sorry, Papi, I didn't hear the first half off.

03:27:06.000 Hey, hey, listen, I'm late.

03:27:08.000 So, what is the time limit for you to smash on?

03:27:15.000 Papi!

03:27:16.000 What is the time limit?

03:27:19.000 Hey, listen, first, you're a host, man.

03:27:22.000 Relax.

03:27:22.000 No, no, no, I understand.

03:27:24.000 I'm doing way better than you, nigga. 1.00

03:27:25.000 I mean, if I'm being honest, I have waited even a really long time because of the guy. 0.95

03:27:30.000 Three months?

03:27:30.000 No, no, no.

03:27:31.000 Longer than that.

03:27:32.000 Like, there was a guy that I was with him for like six, seven months, and he was like, I think he had his stuff going on.

03:27:38.000 So it was like, I would try to be like, hey, I think I'm ready.

03:27:42.000 And he's like...

03:27:44.000 Alright, so here's my advice, right? 1.00

03:27:46.000 What the fuck? 0.99

03:27:48.000 It was like this! 1.00

03:27:49.000 That nigga was gay! 1.00

03:27:51.000 That nigga was gay as fuck! 1.00

03:27:52.000 You know all this, right? 1.00

03:27:54.000 Just smash the guy at 30, man. 0.99

03:27:56.000 Just make it happen, alright? 0.99

03:27:57.000 Puppy, you're lit.

03:27:58.000 I don't know what you're saying.

03:28:00.000 You know what I'm saying!

03:28:02.000 No, I really...

03:28:02.000 Okay, one more time.

03:28:03.000 Smash a guy at 30, okay?

03:28:06.000 Smash a guy at 30? 0.93

03:28:07.000 Like, 30 days? 0.87

03:28:08.000 No, you're 30 years old.

03:28:10.000 Oh, yeah, what about it?

03:28:11.000 I'm not smashing. 0.95

03:28:11.000 I'm not gonna just have sex. 0.95

03:28:12.000 I love love. 0.50

03:28:13.000 I really wanna be with somebody like... 1.00

03:28:15.000 Bro, dick, man. 1.00

03:28:16.000 Just fuck him. 1.00

03:28:16.000 Have a good time. 1.00

03:28:17.000 You know why?

03:28:18.000 Because...

03:28:19.000 When you get a man to just do that for you, a lot of the times, like, I want to be explored head to toe.

03:28:25.000 Like, I want you to know me.

03:28:27.000 Yeah, like, I want to be with a man who's really gonna know what to do with my body and with me. 1.00

03:28:30.000 Pussy and mouth. 1.00

03:28:31.000 No, that's not true. 1.00

03:28:32.000 Yeah, you'd be surprised.

03:28:34.000 I'm just being honest.

03:28:35.000 Like I said, with that guy, with that relationship, when it came down to it, he could never get it up.

03:28:39.000 He could never get it up. 1.00

03:28:40.000 So it's like, I don't want to be in a position where I might get five-minute dick or I might get somebody who doesn't know how to eat pussy. 1.00

03:28:46.000 Like, no. 1.00

03:28:47.000 I'd rather wait and tempt you and tease you and all that.

03:28:50.000 And you do it for me?

03:28:51.000 Yeah, because then it's more intense.

03:28:53.000 Like, when you get me, when you get me, you're going to really get me.

03:28:56.000 No, but...

03:28:56.000 Not like a tease that has me, but like...

03:28:58.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

03:29:01.000 This shit's been 100%, 100%. 1.00

03:29:04.000 This shit's been like crazy as fuck! 1.00

03:29:07.000 Yo, yo. 1.00

03:29:08.000 Shout out to her, man. 0.56

03:29:10.000 Hey, yo.

03:29:12.000 Okay. 0.96

03:29:14.000 Don't worry about this, nigga, man. 1.00

03:29:15.000 Henny meter's at 100%. 0.69

03:29:16.000 What about you, Miss Future?

03:29:19.000 Well, stay-at-home girlfriend right now, but...

03:29:21.000 I had a really good time.

03:29:23.000 I'm a big red pill content girl.

03:29:24.000 Oh, okay.

03:29:25.000 I can tell.

03:29:26.000 Sweet.

03:29:27.000 I'm kind of a little shy, but yeah.

03:29:29.000 You're shy?

03:29:30.000 Yeah.

03:29:31.000 Yeah, I had a good time, though.

03:29:33.000 Thanks for having me.

03:29:33.000 Thank you for coming.

03:29:34.000 Last but not least.

03:29:35.000 You know, the favorite.

03:29:36.000 I've been here three times.

03:29:38.000 Wait, three times?

03:29:39.000 Yeah.

03:29:41.000 Three times.

03:29:43.000 So I love you guys, obviously, and I think that...

03:29:45.000 Oh, love? 0.98

03:29:47.000 Damn, let me live! 0.99

03:29:51.000 Yeah, I love coming on, so... 1.00

03:29:53.000 Oh, coming on?

03:29:57.000 I mean, come on, man.

03:29:59.000 Okay.

03:30:00.000 All right.

03:30:01.000 Fantastic.

03:30:01.000 W Show?

03:30:02.000 Yeah.

03:30:03.000 And then one last one?

03:30:04.000 Oh, last one.

03:30:04.000 Oh, you just got a new one?

03:30:05.000 All right.

03:30:07.000 Last one.

03:30:07.000 I'll read this thing, guys.

03:30:09.000 Is it on Rumble?

03:30:11.000 Yeah.

03:30:12.000 Castle Club.

03:30:13.000 Bro, it's YouTube.

03:30:14.000 It's Rumble, man. 0.96

03:30:15.000 Why are you cropping, nigga? 1.00

03:30:17.000 Ladies, how do you feel about high-interest loans? 1.00

03:30:18.000 That's why he's cropping, Mario.

03:30:19.000 Yeah, why'd you crop it, bro?

03:30:20.000 It's Rumble, though. 1.00

03:30:21.000 Nigga Mo's a faggot, man. 1.00

03:30:23.000 Come on, man. 1.00

03:30:23.000 You should've just left it. 1.00

03:30:24.000 Okay.

03:30:25.000 And then Hayden goes, you could fit two chicks in her one spot. 1.00

03:30:29.000 You know who I'm referring to.

03:30:30.000 Oh, okay.

03:30:31.000 And a cigarette chick is not making it out the hood. 1.00

03:30:33.000 Y'all lying to this poor girl. 1.00

03:30:34.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:30:35.000 Okay, goddamn. 1.00

03:30:36.000 Really fucking cool, you guys, to bring on 50 Cent. 1.00

03:30:39.000 Looks like... 0.98

03:30:40.000 It looks fire in the green top in the corner.

03:30:57.000 Just like Anthony Mackie said that one time on The Williams Show, you make a daddy a sandwich, let's go.

03:31:02.000 Alright.

03:31:02.000 This panel just yapping endless.

03:31:04.000 A la mayo.

03:31:05.000 Okay?

03:31:05.000 And then make sure to subscribe, Purple.

03:31:07.000 Thank you, Jacob.

03:31:07.000 Yeah, thanks, Jacob.

03:31:08.000 Purple.

03:31:09.000 Yeah.

03:31:09.000 Cool.

03:31:10.000 Guys, we'll be back on Wednesday.

03:31:11.000 Our last show before Vegas.

03:31:12.000 Oh, last one here?

03:31:13.000 Peter?

03:31:15.000 TV just went out. 0.99

03:31:16.000 God damn it, man. 0.99

03:31:17.000 I don't know. 1.00

03:31:17.000 I gotta fucking switch this HDMI splitter, man. 1.00

03:31:19.000 Peter Kong bought the course and was wondering if I only started to bank when I was 30. 0.99

03:31:26.000 Can I still invest with no money?

03:31:28.000 Is that to the bros?

03:31:32.000 That's literally what I... Bought the course and was wondering if I... Nah, bro.

03:31:36.000 You need money to buy crypto, bro.

03:31:37.000 You need money.

03:31:39.000 Go on, man.

03:31:40.000 I mean, you can use someone else's money and buy the crypto and then go ahead and split profits, but yo, you need money, man.

03:31:45.000 You need money.

03:31:45.000 Or learn the information, have your friend invest, and then you guys work it out together.

03:31:49.000 Yeah.

03:31:50.000 So, shout out to you, Peter Kong.

03:31:51.000 He trolling, though.

03:31:51.000 He gotta be trolling.

03:31:52.000 He donated 50 bucks.

03:31:53.000 He got money.

03:31:54.000 Alright, guys.

03:31:54.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Wednesday, 7 p.m.

03:31:57.000 We'll have a Womanizer Wednesday for y'all, and then we'll have a nighttime show, and then we're gonna be out on Thursday to Vegas. 0.99

03:32:02.000 We'll be gone for a bit, so it'll be our last show for a bit.

03:32:04.000 Later, guys.

03:32:04.000 Peace.

03:32:07.000 So far away.

03:32:10.000 I just ran.

03:32:12.000 I ran all night and day.

Fresh & Fit - February 06, 2024

Should Men Open Up To Women? Hood Singer Fights Chris & THIS Happened…

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