Casey Redbeard has been in the game for a while, but guys, there s been lies told about the dating game so many times around the world. The best strategy is what's actually working both domestically and abroad, and that's sourcing.
00:02:18.000The North of Brazil is better, but we can talk about more.
00:02:21.000So basically, guys, back in the day, what I did was I figured out very quickly that me being in Miami, where I'm at, I got to acquiesce to the actual environment.
00:02:31.000Now, I figured out cold approaching was cool and all.
00:02:33.000I did that for actually a year and a half.
00:02:35.000I got some results, but it was time-consuming.
00:02:38.000A little bit more nuances there, where I was kind of going to clubs, going to bars, but obviously speaking, cold approaching isn't the best approach all the time.
00:02:47.000However, when I implemented Instagram, added to myself my profile, boosted it up, made it what it is today, it was insane getting a lot of matches.
00:02:55.000Now, someone says to me, oh, fresh, DM 100 girls?
00:02:57.000That's OD. Well, my friend, to save time, that's actually better because going out every single day, cold approaching is cool and all, but numbers and scale-wise, you can't scale that much.
00:03:07.000If I could sit in bed, take a shower, get ready for the day, send some DMs out, I'm done.
00:03:16.000Okay, so that's one of my openers, come to Miami.
00:03:18.000Which is very simple, guys, but a good profile doesn't matter.
00:03:21.000So, my main thing, guys, is that sourcing is going to be one of your best tools to get girls, of course, because guys complain all the time, why don't we get a girl's kiss here or fresh?
00:03:31.000You kind of wish for them to fall in your lap, but it's not going to happen that way.
00:03:34.000So, what have you figured out with dating yourself to get girls and sourcing?
00:03:38.000Yeah, so you hit the nail on the head with a lot of things there.
00:03:42.000Going out and doing cold approach, that should be the base of everything.
00:03:44.000You're not going to learn how to have a strong, masculine frame.
00:03:47.000You're going to be kind of an oofy-doofy around girls.
00:03:49.000We even have a service where we have an online dating virtual assistant.
00:03:51.000But if we get you 100 dates but you're a weirdo in real life, none of that's going to help.
00:03:56.000So there's going to be some basis of lux-maxing or looks-maxing.
00:04:01.000Some basic things that you've got to get handled.
00:04:04.000Otherwise, if you're a fat piece of shit, obviously we're very average looking and we make social media game work.
00:04:09.000But if you're not at least somewhat average looking, it's not going to work.
00:04:14.000Another thing I like that you said is, we talked about cold approach is the basis of it.
00:04:18.000That's where you build your confidence, your core social skills.
00:04:20.000Nothing else works without some basis of understanding of female psychology, some confidence, be able to make good eye contact, keep a strong voice, a strong masculine frame around them.
00:04:29.000But going back to what we said about, so that's like first box you've got to check, right?
00:04:55.000If you're on premium, I'm going to show you my...
00:04:57.000Past dating people that I dated in the past.
00:04:59.000I got some pictures from the past, some catalogs.
00:05:02.000So guys, what I did was I documented my whole journey from coming to America 10 years ago, dating, struggling, living in my car, all that stuff I covered.
00:05:12.000And I have all the files and videos to show you guys behind the scenes.
00:05:17.000But, you know, dating apps to me is not really the best way.
00:05:38.000You want girls that are not being hit up constantly, that are beautiful, that actually are not, I want to say, controlled by the TikTok mentality.
00:05:46.000And I would say this because with Instagram, you can choose who to DM. You know what I'm saying?
00:05:50.000Yeah, a lot of you guys will make a hinge, and if you're not some gorgeous, handsome, top, top, top level guy, they may show you hot girls for the first two or three days, and then put you in a cohort where basically the algorithm has said, he's not a 6'4 Chad, so we're going to show him ugly girls, because this is the only chance he has a matching width, versus a lot of these girls on Instagram, especially we like to find girls with private profiles.
00:06:47.000If that lawyer takes a vacation, You don't make any money on that vacation versus when you have a business that runs in the background, you have passive income, it can continue to generate revenue like a rental property or something.
00:06:56.000You have a rental property that generates passive income.
00:06:59.000Rather than you having to go out and do the work every single night, go to the club, put on a nice outfit, put on your cologne, get all well-groomed up, stay out really late, pressure to drink, stay out late, messing up your circadian rhythm, waking up at...
00:08:28.000So you want to explain to them the process here?
00:08:30.000Yeah, I mean, basically, there's art and science to photography, and you can spend, you know, two years learning it all about fashion, all about posing, all about finding these luxurious environments and where to go, how to do the touch-ups, everything.
00:08:43.000There's a lot to it, or you can just hire an expert to do that, and we have a way.
00:09:50.000Of course, I'm going to bring some celebrity guests here, some friends of mine that are experts in your field of service or careers, and you're going to see an in-depth review of things you can learn on the go, in real time, to better yourself in the future.
00:10:01.000And then again, guys, this is a fresh start for me, because I'm being more open, being more vocal.
00:10:05.000My buddy here, Casey, is here from Brazil, and I can think of a better idea to start with him on my podcast.
00:10:12.000So shout out to you, bro, for coming through.
00:13:02.000She may even send a DM pic or Snapchat pic.
00:13:06.000Premium Snapchat is what they call it.
00:13:07.000And it's like a finesse because you don't see the link for OnlyFans but there's like a secret chat on Snapchat that they send you photos and then people buy the videos.
00:13:17.000Anyhow, there's so many tricks and things going on in the background that you guys don't know that we'll share with you behind the membership because I can't put it on here.
00:13:25.000But, just so you guys understand, the dating game is very, I want to say, dangerous.
00:13:30.000Because you might actually find a good girl, but low-key, she's doing things behind the scenes.
00:13:36.000As you guys have seen, my issues that I've been through, it's crazy, guys.
00:13:40.000I've been through so many girls, so many dating experiences.
00:13:42.000I can tell you what to do and what not to do.
00:13:45.000Most people talk about it, but they've never been through it.
00:13:47.000I've been through it, and so has Casey.
00:13:49.000If you want the most headaches you've ever had in your life, start posting a lot of hot girls on your Instagram.
00:14:43.000And today's episode is about getting things done the right way.
00:14:46.000Now, one thing I do want to mention is that, like, Casey has a background from back in the day with me in Brickell, as roommates, and he's seen my evolution from working at Wix.com all the way to now, and the girls I've dealt with over that period of time.
00:14:59.000Now, he decided to go, actually, overseas to...
00:17:10.000So to his credit, if you don't have a strong masculine frame, if you can't hold eye contact with girls, if you don't understand female psychology, if you don't know how to protect yourself from getting finessed.
00:17:55.000If you go to the right place, there's actually, and I'll talk about this more, you can go to the wrong city.
00:17:59.000The golden rule of being a passport, bro, is don't go to a city or a country where dating isn't any more advantageous than what you had in the U.S. Because at that point, you could just stay there.
00:18:16.000They're more prone to being with a man based on chemistry and actual connection rather than a very transactional relationship like you would see in the United States and especially in Miami, how you're talking about this and that.
00:18:28.000And one thing I'll say too, women are not women.
00:18:32.000Not irritated, but I'm just kind of like, people say like, Oh, well, you know, something like...
00:18:36.000All you've got to do is make out with a girl because when you make out with her, then she's going to get too horny and she's going to want to smash.
00:18:58.000But this is why, you know, having the wisdom of going, you know, so many places and...
00:19:03.000When you have remote income, when you can make money online and go to so many places, you have the luxury and the privilege to, based on if you're a white guy, if you're a black guy, if you resonate more with, you know, Brazilian culture, Mexican culture, whatever language you want to learn, or if you don't want to learn a foreign language, if you want to go to the Philippines, if you like Asian chicks, you can really maximize your value and, like you said, go to where you're appreciated.
00:20:17.000The one asking the questions is in control because questions are going to lead to answers that you have to kind of open up to to respond to and kind of expand on, right?
00:22:32.000And then it's like, she's one of those.
00:22:35.000So listen, guys, it's not that hard, but understand, like, ask questions, lead to more questions, sorry, lead to more answers, then you can kind of pinpoint and lead down your path to what you want to know.
00:22:44.000But again, it's just answer questions, guys, be in general, and then putting it more of like a yes or no question to what you want to hear.
00:22:50.000And obviously smile, laugh about it, don't be like, Travel alone?
00:24:48.000I've never been to Dubai, but the reason why men go to Dubai is because they have an extremely successful business, and if they're in Dubai six months out of the year, they can claim that as their tax haven, their tax home, and effectively it's like zero taxes or low tax rate.
00:26:13.000How weak of a cold approach, how lame and try-hard and self-qualifying would it be for a cold approach?
00:26:18.000Walter, if you walked up to a girl and said, Hey, I know you may not know me, but...
00:26:23.000I'm this big influencer and I have 17 supercars and I've been on a private jet and I did this really big live event where I was on stage in front of 300 people live.
00:27:35.000I didn't know I was talking to a guy who does XYZ, fixes up commercial properties, flies around private, stayed at these nice places, has this amazing network, rooftop lounges, big fun friends, group guys, popping champagne, amazing things.
00:27:48.000She sees that, she's like, that was the guy who talked to me for two minutes before I got in my Uber?
00:27:54.000Now her interest went from like, you presented yourself well in person, but now you just shot through the roof when she sees your online resume.
00:28:01.000To his point, guys, The game has changed so much that, like, you pushing a girl is like her having to scan to see who you are.
00:28:08.000And the fastest that you can do that with, for example, showing your Instagram profile or your actual dating profile itself helps you.
00:28:14.000Now, if you're a nobody, she doesn't know you, then it's like, okay, she might give you a phone number, but, like, there's nothing to it to, like, continue.
00:28:22.000But, if you show DHV by not saying it, but just by, hey, here's my page.
00:29:12.000Just click it, and we can scroll through it, and I'll explain it.
00:29:15.000Just, yeah, click that, any one of them, and just hit the back arrow.
00:29:18.000Okay, so this photo, there's no, like the rappers do with the stack of cash cell phone, and they're like, oh, I'm getting a call, and they're holding like 50k, I don't have that.
00:30:13.000I can't take a girl out to a nice place.
00:30:15.000Or does it portray the exact opposite?
00:30:17.000And another thing too is I don't want to get too off-tangent but a lot of you guys just do what I call the camera roll method which means I gotta make a hinge profile.
00:32:50.000Guys, you don't have to live like a millionaire.
00:32:59.000You can live like a simple guy who's going to nice spots and post that.
00:33:02.000Of course, like you said before, nice outfit, nice photo, be a little edits here and there, and then you're good to go.
00:33:08.000But guys, again, now in the current climate of dating, it is a social media game for the most part, which means you're going to have good pictures.
00:33:16.000Good profile for anything that you do.
00:33:17.000If not, guys, you're going to get left behind.
00:34:08.000This AI shit, you know, social media, knowing who you are, spying on you, his page is curated to show hot white girls that like BBC. Holy shit.
00:35:43.000Again, if I'm to be very generous here, you could say it's a green flag for a girl to post a photo with her man because a lot of hot girls in Miami, even when they have a pretty serious relationship, will not post any guys they're with.
00:37:26.000Like, for example, I bet girls, bro, that are, like, private, with less than a thousand followers, 2K followers, and they be, bro, they be hoeing worse than the ones that are public.
00:39:03.000There's going to be some AI in the future that's going to know every text message you sent, every photo you ever liked, every voicemail you ever sent, all your shopping habits.
00:39:11.000How you talk to friends, what was said in the group chat, and then on Bumble, your AI is going to date her AI and know what photos you share, what girl, what your type is.
00:39:20.000But anyway, that's a tangent, but that's going to be something in the future.
00:39:23.000It's going to get really weird, but I'm going to be on top of it.
00:39:25.000As this digital dating thing evolves, I'm going to be on the cutting edge of it.
00:39:30.000Hey, guys, those are some gems that you can learn from.
00:39:32.000Honestly speaking, guys, there's a lot more we can cover here, but I want to get into traveling abroad now.
00:41:28.000The negatives is that certain cities, certain places...
00:41:31.000The pay-for-play problem can be just as big as it is in here in Miami and stuff.
00:41:36.000This is why you've got to be really, really careful on where you go.
00:41:40.000Tattoos, especially Latin America, if disgusting bumper stickers and scribbles of women who have scarred their collagen feminine skin with a needle and injected ink underneath their skin disgusts you as much as it disgusts me, that can be a problem.
00:41:54.000There are cities where 80% to 90% of the girls, there are cities where 100% of the girls, the young, beautiful girls, have tattoos.
00:42:01.000If you don't know anything about female psychology, having a strong masculine frame, if you're a total oofy-doofy here in the U.S., then that's not going to save you overseas.
00:43:28.000He actually, his whole business now is like offering consultations and how to move to Nairobi, how to buy property there, how to move when you're there.
00:43:36.000Bro, I know two millionaires from here that moved to Africa.
00:43:39.000I'm like, why would they go to Africa?
00:46:06.000If you're annoyed with If I had a business meeting with a client and said, yeah, we're interested in doing a deal on property together or interested in just networking, seeing where we can go, the odds that a man would flake on me would be practically zero.
00:46:20.000When you say, oh, we're going to meet up with XYZ, a guy who can help us with marketing, we're going to get drinks at Moxie's, he's not going to flake.
00:47:21.000So, but because, remember, in Miami, especially where I'm at, it's almost like if, like, okay, She gets offers every single day, every hour.
00:48:40.000And this is why, I'll get off on a quick tangent here.
00:48:43.000You know, Walter, you know, the way you meet girls on, you know, Instagram and what I do.
00:48:49.000None of this, I'm going to say none of this, like, the girls we date, you saw on the reels, but check out my Instagram, and you know the type of girls that he dates.
00:48:55.000They're all, you know, 8, 8.5s in that range that are really, really beautiful.
00:48:59.000You can get lesser quality girls if you're out of shape and stuff, but to get, like, actually attractive girls, especially in the U.S. and probably even in most markets overseas, you have to achieve what I call becoming a universal six.
00:49:12.000If you're a universal, you know, five and a half, six, something like that, like, you're at least in good shape, you're at least well-groomed, you got a hair transplant, you do a skincare thing, you dress well.
00:49:21.000You guys ever be in a group chat with your friends and some guys will post, like, you know, a dark black girl with a fat ass, then the other guy will post, like, a skinny Asian girl, then the next guy will post, like, a very tall Scandinavian chick and someone's guy's like, oh, that black chick is fat, oh, that white girl has no ass, oh, that Asian girl looks like an alien, like, just like the same way that, like, men have, like, very different, you know, tastes in women.
00:49:43.000So if you can be a universal 6 and you're doing a lot of volume on the dating apps and Instagram, to some girls, if you're like a universal 5.5, 6, you're going to be a 7.5 and an 8. For a girl who only likes black guys, I'm probably a 2. Vice versa.
00:49:56.000For a girl who loves ginger beard, blue eyes, that's her archetype, you're probably a 1. You know what I'm saying?
00:50:55.000Most people are home by your computer, just like, rocking off to like, well, pee up is banned in Florida, so whatever you have before you're rocking off to, stop, man.
00:53:42.000It's one of these things that very few people, for ego-based reasons...
00:53:46.000We'll ever admit that they're lacking in.
00:53:48.000Like, no guy will ever admit, like, he's bad in bed or that he can't fight.
00:53:53.000There's something core about your masculine.
00:53:55.000Like, every guy wants to think he's amazing in bed and that he knows how to fight, even though, you know, a lot of people are, you know, suck at both.
00:55:52.000Yeah, like, you know, when I do sales, because you guys can learn more about me and what I do.
00:55:56.000I build a high-status social media presence for men, and then the strategy, once they have that super high-status social media presence, the strategy to then use that for dating or networking.
00:56:27.000I don't know, you know, tens of thousands of dollars, you know, soon to be in the future, hundreds of thousands of dollars that I made from the relationship.
00:56:34.000I've added, you know, value to myself.
00:57:04.000We're going to do a show at least once or twice a week on dating and base topics, for example, truth about dating, what's happening behind the scenes, the real gems, because guys, we all know dating nowadays is tough.
00:57:17.000Add in AI, add in sex robots, add in OnlyFans, add in prawn, it is all geared towards monetizing the dating market.
00:58:34.000Brother, I can tell you right now, I've met billionaires, millionaires, people that have status as a success, and they all say it's networking.
01:00:41.000The further back you go, the more accessible the housing market was, the more easier you could actually like realistically buy a home that wasn't out of reach to the average person.
01:00:51.000But we're just beginning to see the same thing in dating.
01:00:53.000You're seeing more and more tattoos, more and more of the dating market being monetized, OF-seeking, more and more women becoming generally masculinized.
01:01:01.000More and more of just like, you know, poor values and men being seen as garbage and stuff like that.
01:01:05.000So you really need to make this a top priority in your life.
01:01:08.000That doesn't mean you stop hustling at your job.
01:01:10.000That doesn't mean you stop going to the gym.
01:01:20.000And you're maximizing looks, networking, social media, strategy, how you text girls, how you screen for time wasters versus girls that actually want to go out with you.
01:01:30.000So I would say make this a top priority in your life.
01:01:31.000Otherwise, just get a Fleshlight and a Pornhub account and call it quits because that's pretty much your only chance if you're not making this a big focus in your life.