On this episode of the Fresh Air Podcast, we have a special guest, Myron. We talk about how to get over a breakup, how to move on from a break up, and how to deal with the aftermath of a breakup.
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00:12:23.000$8 million getting spent for some bullshit.
00:12:26.000And we also covered, most importantly, the controversy with Trump saying that America's going to take over the Gaza Strip.
00:12:32.000I did like a 20-minute monologue, kind of going through history of how we even got here, starting at World War II, all the way up until February 2025, where we are now, and how we got here.
00:14:36.000All the questions guys are asking themselves because obviously sometimes we don't know what's happening in real time.
00:14:40.000But after finding the answers online and creators, you can see what happens in that moment.
00:14:46.000Now, typically speaking, if a guy breaks up with a girl...
00:14:48.000It's going to be harder for him to actually get into the data market, get back to normal because he's been hurt, because obviously we put our humble integrity first.
00:15:12.000But long story short, guys, if you're a guy that actually wants to get girls and have a girlfriend, you know, you do the work, you become that man.
00:15:18.000Once you get the girlfriend and you break up, you're like, wait, that was work for what?
00:15:22.000And it's because either you fucked up somewhere or she's whole from the very start.
00:15:26.000But nonetheless, guys, once you understand what's happening with a breakup, you can get over it quickly.
00:15:30.000Get back to normal and get back to your training.
00:15:32.000Because, listen, guys, training itself is daily.
00:15:35.000You've got to deal with the dragons out there, deal with fitness training, all that stuff.
00:15:38.000But with the breakup itself, if you can understand how to master it and get over it quickly, it's almost healing.
00:15:43.000So, yeah, we've got three topics to cover today regarding breakup.
00:15:46.000And the video as well will play with Andrew Huberman talking about breakup and why it's important to get over it.
00:15:50.000Also, we're going to have a Zoom call with the Gas Club guys after this.
00:15:54.000So make sure, you know, have your dating questions ready.
00:15:58.000Because definitely, this is something that really plagues guys.
00:16:01.000Because, I mean, here's the thing, bro.
00:16:04.000Like, we live in a world now, right, where, like, for women, they tell women, hey, just get over, find another guy.
00:16:10.000Like, women are far more incentivized to, like, break up relationships, leave you, they have more opportunity to leave you, they have suitors that are hitting them up all the time.
00:16:18.000You know, in the Red Pill, they always say, you know, a woman's phone is like a box of dicks.
00:16:58.000And what ends up happening, guys, is a girl, like, you'll invest all this to get her, to attract her because, let's be honest, a lot of you guys get a girl by the skin of your fucking teeth.
00:17:31.000And then you're sitting there like, oh, what the fuck?
00:17:34.000And this is why guys have such a harder time with breakups is because, number one, we have to invest more to get in the relationship in the fucking first place.
00:17:41.000Number two, we have more skin in the game.
00:17:42.000And then number three, she's able to leave at any time.
00:17:46.000And then number four, let's be honest, a lot of y'all...
00:18:35.000And then you might go ahead and find our channel.
00:18:36.000If you're fucking lucky, which you probably won't because we're fucking shadowbanned and they'd rather show you anus and reach.
00:18:41.000Then you end up with a fat bitch that looks like a fucking opera singer and then they make the song, oh, it's not over until the fat lady sings.
00:18:48.000Well, I'll tell you this, nigga, it definitely is over because she gone.
00:18:52.000You're not going to find a way to get another bitch because they're going to teach you how to be fat losers.
00:18:55.000But anyway, going back to what I was saying, the point is this.
00:18:58.000A lot of guys, after they end their relationship with a girl, or namely after the girl ends their relationship with them, they're in a bad spot and they don't know what to do.
00:19:35.000She went to jail, but like, I want to take her back.
00:19:38.000Like, bro, this is why we did this episode.
00:19:41.000Because we got niggas in here that are in Castle Club, getting beat up by their fucking girl, literally, and like trying to, and saying, oh yeah, let me just take her back.
00:20:47.000Anyhow, any of those hobbies there will cover you in a bad way and depression.
00:20:50.000But what I'm saying is, normally, you find avenues to counteract that.
00:20:54.000For example, the gym itself, which is way better for self-improvement.
00:20:58.000Maybe having your boys around to help you recover after this bullshit.
00:21:01.000Or, you have an activity you can cover as well, like sport or, for example, a hobby.
00:21:05.000But nonetheless, guys, regarding actual things you can do with self-improvement, you've got to be ready for it because a breakup will tear you apart 100%.
00:21:12.000I've been on set a couple times myself, and guys will be like, you're fresh.
00:21:38.000I feel better as well physically and mentally.
00:21:40.000So I can only imagine when you're depressed, how that can help as well.
00:21:44.000And then number two, I would say, other than Jim, is having an outlet to just be alone by yourself, think about things.
00:21:50.000And what I used to do with my dog, I would walk to the park with my dog, just sit down and think about how to make money, how to invest, how to actually move forward in life.
00:21:57.000And that clarity I had just walking alone, just me and my dog.
00:22:00.000It was so much better because, obviously speaking, you might go to parties to join out or get drunk.
00:22:05.000And you can do that as well, but that's not productive, man.
00:22:08.000It just throws you back into the loop.
00:22:09.000And hopefully, if you're actually in this state, you can overcome it by doing these things.
00:22:14.000But again, I always recommend a gym, having a long time by yourself to think about things for why it ended, how you can improve, how you can do better.
00:22:20.000And then, of course, any avenue you can find, sports or anything, to get over that hump as well.
00:22:26.000But you can't make it real if you don't accept to actually get over with other things you can do, pretty much.
00:22:32.000Yeah, you know, most of the time when she breaks up with you, it's your fault, guys.
00:22:37.000Maybe you didn't maintain frame, you were being too meek, you got fat, she lost arousal to you, you got soft, where you didn't assert yourself anymore.
00:23:55.000So when you come in as your guy and you're going to the gym and you're showing resilience and you're showing discipline, that's something she can actually admire.
00:24:02.000And here's a good test to see that you're being influential to your girl.
00:24:05.000Let's say she's not serious about the gym or she works out every now and then.
00:24:28.000Though I dislike working out with girls and I don't fucking do it because I think women are annoying in the gym.
00:24:32.000For you, it might be good because what you're doing is you're inadvertently putting her in a subordinate position behind you where you are the teacher, she's the student, and that automatically creates the hierarchy difference that a lot of you guys need.
00:24:45.000A lot of you guys can't naturally create it, so hey, this is a way to do it without even knowing that you're doing it.
00:24:51.000This is why being in the gym is so critical to your attraction, guys, because it keeps you arousing as well.
00:24:57.000A lot of you guys, let's be honest, triple chin, dirty motherfuckers, fat as fuck, stomach hanging over your fucking beltline, titties hanging, hairy nipples, like, bro, y'all niggas look like shit!
00:25:08.000And then you wonder why girls don't want to fucking talk to you, or why they're disgusted by you.
00:25:12.000You fuck go like this, and then I can see your fucking fat in your thing.
00:25:16.000Or some of you niggas look like you guys got a pack of hot dogs in the back of your head.
00:25:43.000If you want to become a fucking, you know, anus and reach for real and get some anus and some reach, sure, continue to be a fat fuck with hot dogs in the back of your head.
00:25:52.000But if you actually want to get baddies that respect you, that want to be around you, that want to follow you around and say, damn, that's my man.
00:28:01.000So, I get what Maya is saying, especially because, like, when you get a breakup happening to you, you literally have, like, a moment to self-reflect.
00:28:08.000And usually it's because you failed somewhere.
00:28:11.000And actually speaking, in that failure, either you're overweight, you're not the guy that you should be, or you're not self-improving daily.
00:28:17.000So what happens is she's like, you know what?
00:29:57.000See, and this is the problem with academia sometimes, right?
00:30:03.000The problem with academia when it comes to, like, intersexual dynamics is that for you to really get the information you would need, you would need to run unethical fucking tests, bro.
00:30:51.000A lot of the times, and I want to say this before, a lot of times you guys have been in a long-term relationship, your girls made you fatter, softer, weaker.
00:30:59.000Like, you are not going back into the sexual marketplace a killer 9 out of 10 times, right?
00:31:05.000You're going back in as a shell of yourself.
00:31:08.000Especially you guys that are in a long-term relationship because you guys wind up happening is you get in a relationship.
00:31:20.000When she leaves, you're a shell of yourself.
00:31:23.000And if it was long enough, you don't even know how the sexual marketplace is anymore.
00:31:27.000The sexual marketplace today is a lot different than it was even five years ago, Chad.
00:31:32.000So not only are you less attractive from an SMB standpoint, You're not even in a position to actually hit the marketplace in stride because nine out of ten times, the reason why you lost her is the reason that you're going to fail when you go back out in the marketplace.
00:31:50.000Versus for her, since women don't have to have any skills or tangible assets to get men, she just needs to breathe and exist and men are going to talk to her.
00:34:24.000Yo, that's crazy because we know guys, especially, actually, we had guys come to us for coaching that were 50 plus years old that didn't know what to do in data market.
00:34:32.000I'm like, nigga, you're kind of cooked.
00:34:33.000But, like, you could learn again how to get back into it.
00:35:41.000So this is why it's so important to get in the gym.
00:35:43.000And then going back to that clip there with the whole thing, this is why, like I said, sometimes academia can be off because, bro, how are you going to gauge who gets hit harder in relationships?
00:36:37.000In any case, guys, in this case, regarding this actual matter here, I think most guys can say comfortably themselves, listen, if a breakup happens, we suffer way more, and financially as well.
00:36:47.000So, regardless of the fact, men suffer way more than women.
00:36:51.000And also, bro, like, yo, we just keep it real, because, yo, if I take 10 breakups where the woman initiated it, which they initiate most of the breakups, how is she going to be hit harder?
00:37:05.000Also, just from a logical standpoint, if women initiate 70-80% of the breakups, how the fuck are they going to be in more pain if they're the ones initiating it?
00:37:14.000Maybe they might be in pain during their relationship because they're like, damn, I gotta do this.
00:37:30.000They're all looking like a fucking deer in headlights.
00:37:33.000And of course it's going to hit him harder because she already made the decision six fucking months ago when she was going to monkey branch to Chad that she don't want you no more.
00:37:41.000Women make up mentally beforehand and have a guy already in place as a friend.
00:37:47.000Like, look, man, I don't have a problem with Huberman or whatever, but this nigga got caught fucking bitches and literally ran into hiding, bro.
00:39:23.000Nigga, Tiana Trump made a tweet, like, yesterday or some shit, saying, if you're 23 and you got a body count less than 5, you're not living life.
00:40:32.000Then I get a message from a girl that I know and she says that she was a huge start in high school and that she's actually 32, not 29. Wow.
00:40:41.000And she works for, like, some blonde bitch and be selling ass.
00:43:09.000Now, some women will, like Tiana Trump, and then influence a bunch of other hoes to behave that way, but just because she influences other bitches to act like sluts doesn't mean the other sluts will actually admit that they're fucking sluts.
00:43:31.000A lot of Western women are simply fucking whores.
00:43:34.000There's a reason why guys like me, guys like Andrew Tate, Rolo Tomasi, etc.
00:43:39.000There's a reason why the Red Bull blew up.
00:43:40.000It's not some fucking coincidence that a bunch of niggas are dealing with rambunctious, rude, overweight, crassy, shitty, fucking slutty women all over the fucking Western world, and they're tuning in to this type of content.
00:43:54.000Niggas that don't even know English, watch us.
00:44:10.000Otherwise, there wouldn't have been a meteoric rise in Red Pill content so much that the Department of Homeland Security had to write a fucking thesis paper saying, oh my god.
00:44:48.000This content is needed because people like Irish people that are not aware, get married to these women, wipe them up, and we've worse have kids with them.
00:46:44.000Well, you stupid bitches that push this legislation.
00:46:48.000Anytime you put women in government, anytime you give women...
00:46:50.000Legislative power, they always typically tend to lean left.
00:46:55.000They lean left, this LGBT bullshit happens, and the next thing you know, wow, boys are competing in fucking female sports, demolishing them, because women are inferior.
00:47:04.000So then, you need a guy like me to come in and say, damn, this is kind of fucked up.
00:47:07.000Why the fuck do we have little boys competing with little girls?
00:48:25.000I mean, honestly, man, that's what girls use for their advantage, though.
00:48:28.000They'll use sex as a weapon against you, and if you don't comply with their demands, then it's like no sex for you, which just means that you're under her control now.
00:48:35.000But as you guys watch the show, you know that's not what you should do.
00:48:38.000You should do what you want to do and leave.
00:48:39.000So in that case, bro, yeah, it does happen that way, and it's very...
00:48:42.000It's actually a common issue with marriages as well, so...
00:48:48.000I get what you're saying, Jaleel, but the problem is that, like, when you lock yourself away, what happens is you become...
00:49:12.000It's okay to be alone sometimes, but, like...
00:49:15.000That in itself means you don't, I want to say, have a good human interaction with people that you should be having still because it gets out of your shell.
00:49:25.000Because if you're alone too long in that state, which is of depression and, you know, fear and confusion, you may end up doing some dumb stuff to yourself or, you know, in that sense, your actual environment.
00:49:38.000I think you should go out eventually, but just not be there the whole time alone, okay?
00:50:59.000Yeah, I think Andrew means well, but he's not going to tell people what he needs to hear fully, just what sounds good or what's academically okay.
00:51:58.000And, you know, we're in a blessed position where we're able to say what we want to say because we got some really great people behind us, right?
00:52:05.000A lot of people don't have that privilege.
00:54:09.000And eventually what happened was, is after I finished work, go with my boys, had a good time.
00:54:14.000I didn't even think about the chick at all.
00:54:17.000It was like, okay, ex in the past, cool, talking to other girls, meeting with friends.
00:54:22.000So out of that, actually dating other people and in that environment.
00:54:26.000I actually forgot about Shorty, like, deadass.
00:54:29.000So in that sense, guys, like, legit, just being outside with your friends, having a fun time, and engaging with other girls will help you leave that girl behind.
00:54:37.000Because, listen, guys, we all know it's for a reason and a season.
00:54:41.000Listen, your girl may be here today and be gone tomorrow.
00:54:58.000If you can't do that, well, we have thousands of episodes telling you guys how to do it on the channel.
00:55:03.000But again, that's going to be your saving grace and your mental aptitude is having that skill to find other women you can actually talk to and attract.
00:55:11.000If you can't do that, then there's an issue here we need to solve because that's the sourcing issue.
00:55:15.000And at that point, you have a very, I want to say, skewed view because only one woman is in your life and that's all you have.
00:55:26.000I think the other important thing, too, because if we just say, oh yeah, go find other women, that's not going to help a lot of you guys, right?
00:55:33.000You guys need to get out there and just source, right?
00:55:35.000Whether it's getting out at the nightclub, getting out there at day game, getting out there talking to girls in the gym, maybe you like to run, go join a runners club.
00:55:44.000There's many ways to meet women, guys, right?
00:55:46.000In different places based on what you like to do.
00:56:24.000And then ensure that you never do that bullshit again.
00:56:27.000Not for her, but so that you don't become the loser for the next girl.
00:56:31.000Because the reality is, bro, as much as these bitches try to sit there and say, I'm special, I'm different, they all have the same attraction triggers, bro.
00:57:12.000And these girls have the illusion to make us out and make it, like, they try to make it look like they have more options than they really do or, like, they're the ones picking you.
00:57:20.000Bro, half these bitches can't even get a guy that they like to call them back.
00:59:00.000It's having a support system of friends around you that trust, love, and care about you.
00:59:05.000So typically, guys, like the guy said before, Jalil said to stay alone, walk yourself away, have that time alone.
00:59:12.000Understandable, but not the entire time.
00:59:13.000You need a support group that actually loves you, cares about you, because normally with a guy having a breakup, he's going to be sad and not in the best mood.
00:59:22.000And with your brothers, guys, if you know they're active, doing well, or doing a little bit better than you, they'll be like, yo, tune up, bro.
00:59:52.000So, typically speaking with a breakup, guys, you meet a girl, she becomes your only one, your support system, and she leaves you feel lost.
01:00:00.000But, this is why it's important to have brothers.
01:00:20.000That guy's lame, bro, because he just cut off his main friends that had his back no matter what for a chick.
01:00:25.000And I'm like, bro, bro's before hoes because they can leave anyway.
01:00:29.000So actually speaking, it should be the bros first, then shorty, well, Actually, your girl will lose attraction for you if you leave your friends for her.
01:02:58.000There's a reason why dogs are pack animals where they literally follow each other and work with each other towards a common goal and you need a team of guys around you guys.