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00:07:30.000And then last but not least, the CEO Network.
00:07:31.000If you want to become a brotherhood, want to become better in life and be successful, hop into that, learn from others, and become good yourself.
00:09:09.000I'm going to have the same message, but I got to stop poking at them.
00:09:12.000You know, you get into it and you start seeing the comments and you start feeling a certain type of way, so you start making videos on purpose to ruffle feathers and shit.
00:09:32.000I read the guidelines and say, okay, I'm going to put my message out, but I'm going to keep it within the realms if I want to keep the platform.
00:09:37.000Yeah, I think you're like one of the few, That's still on there.
00:09:41.000Yeah, one of the few guys on there that's telling guys how the game works on TikTok that hasn't been kicked off yet, bro.
00:11:21.000I just, I wanted to help guys be like, look more player, you know, because I'm not really was the internet type of person.
00:11:27.000So, but I was like, I'm gonna come over here and I'm gonna try to find my crowd, like guys who are more player and I'm gonna help them be better.
00:11:33.000But once I started to get into it, I started to get the message of like, man, you know, this is happening to me.
00:17:02.000A lot of guys don't realize, a lot of guys think that you get a bitch, excuse me, you get a woman and, you know, you get a woman and, you know, you do for her, take her out, do this.
00:17:24.000This is when they feel most feminine, when they taking care of you, when they caring for you, when they nurturing and shit like that.
00:17:29.000And so, you just do this little by little, and the more she becomes invested in you, over time, and she's earning you, if your shit is on point, she left him for a reason.
00:19:40.000I have a massive amount of respect for him.
00:19:41.000Anyone that can come into contrarian spaces and have debates and articulate himself, even though we don't necessarily always agree on everything, I have a massive amount of respect for him.
00:19:51.000I really have nothing bad to say about him.
00:19:54.000This whole situation with his wife, you know, for everyone out there that's like, you know, rejoicing and laughing and saying, yeah, ha, ha, ha, blah, blah, blah.
00:20:02.000Like, bro, that's some shitty behavior, bro.
00:20:32.000And whenever you open the door for her to exercise options or explore other men, at some point, you're opening the door for her to attach to someone else that might be able to have traits that you might not necessarily have.
00:20:44.000Whereas as a man, we don't operate like that.
00:20:55.000I hope him and his wife are able to reconcile this to some degree where it doesn't damage him from a financial perspective as much, especially since he invested a good amount of money into her with platforming her.
00:21:05.000Obviously he's very successful financially.
00:22:40.000And if a woman think you don't care about her, if she think that you don't care about her, you're not going to get her all.
00:22:45.000She's not going to put her all into you.
00:22:47.000Can I mention as well, I don't know what it is, but whenever a girl's not from the U.S. and wants to come to America, I just find a hard time believing that it's actually genuine.
00:23:16.000But again, you see a guy living in the US that you can kind of like, you know, talk to and, you know, chip down a little bit and make your own angle at him.
00:23:25.000You're gonna go for it and then see where it goes.
00:23:27.000And I think that's what happened here.
00:23:29.000They gotta stop falling for this, oh, let's be open shit.
00:23:31.000Cause women don't respect you if they fucking somebody else.
00:23:40.000And I think, you know, for all the guys out there, you know, to learn from this situation, if you got some money, you got some status, et cetera, like, you're the boss, man.
00:23:49.000Like, don't let them sit there and say, I want to be open, and you actually, like, no, because whenever you have a title, you have an image to protect, you got some status, you got some money, et cetera, like, You got something to lose.
00:24:02.000And when women run around and do dumb shit, you can really deal some serious negative consequences for that.
00:24:08.000We spoke earlier, and women can only do what you allow them to do to you.
00:24:12.000So, for example, let's say you're a man of means, and you have status and success, and you have frame, you have boundaries that she's going to follow.
00:24:17.000Versus the opposite, you have money status but no frame, she'll do whatever.
00:24:32.000And I've always said, having money and status, and this is a perfect example of that, having money and status isn't gonna get girls to be on your program if you don't got frame.
00:25:29.000Nowadays, like I said earlier, if you can get yourself up to barely passing, you can get laid easy because they throwing pussy away like nobody's business.
00:25:37.000They don't care about being called no whore.
00:27:30.000Another thing, too, is like, back then, they didn't really require dates like that.
00:27:35.000Like, I didn't go on my first date until I was like 25.
00:27:38.000Like, when I went and paid for it, I was like, I was like 25 when I went on my first date and we was smashing them way before then.
00:27:43.000Like a chick would be cool with you pulling up with some hot wings and sitting in the car on lunch break for 30 minutes and just chopping it up.
00:28:06.000Now, it's just a lot of bullshit now, but it was a lot easier back then as far as, like, dealing with women, but...
00:28:14.000To get laid, it's easy to get laid now.
00:28:16.000I think nowadays, with the advent of social media, Instagram, also as well TikTok, there's so much out there, for example, of what can be done for them.
00:28:28.000You know, Dre, I want to ask you this, because this is something that I've noticed in ridiculous abundance, which actually really worries me.
00:28:35.000And I want to see if you've kind of observed the same thing.
00:28:39.000I've noticed a general increase with discontent for men.
00:28:46.000Like, just general lack of respect for men in general.
00:30:05.000Like when you can't be successful, now when a man can't be successful with women, his success isn't because he can't get laid or get a relationship.
00:30:13.000It's because, I mean, his success is, his disdain comes from him not being able to get laid or get a relationship.
00:30:20.000A woman's ails come from them not being able to Get a guy to like them past sex.
00:30:26.000So when you see women have that disdain, that's pretty much always where it come from.
00:30:30.000You ain't never heard no virgin say that.
00:30:32.000You ain't never heard no woman who's been treated well by her father or by her man ever say no shit like that.
00:30:38.000In fact, you see, there's another side of social media where women be saying, look, I need my man.
00:30:43.000I don't know what the fuck y'all talking about.
00:30:45.000But if you look in the background, you got a solid man that's taking care of her.
00:30:48.000Whenever you see a bitch say something, a woman say something like that, It's just wild because it's like there's no there's like disregard like there's no they don't even give a shit about like looking crazy or whatever like they'll just get on TikTok and talk about how oh this guy ghosted me fuck man or just like the vitriol and the hate like women are just open misandrous and nobody bats an eye bro it's completely and socially acceptable to shit on men not respect men insult men and no one says shit.
00:31:17.000So there's an algo boost on TikTok where if you post Hateful men topics, it boosts you in the algorithm, which is crazy, by the way, but it's true.
00:31:26.000I don't, you know, I don't, I believe that.
00:31:29.000Because I'll tell you this, they get rid of niggas like us.
00:31:32.000Like, if we fight back against the bullshit, like, yo, like, you know, fight back against the bullshit, like, yo, these are the women that you want to stay away from, you know, you identify these 304s, etc.
00:34:58.000Because, you know, obviously people will talk shit, oh, Destiny doesn't go to the gym and he's not tall, blah, blah, blah.
00:35:04.000But, I mean, yo, status makes up for everything.
00:35:06.000I hate to say it, but I've always said it, me and you've had these discussions, if you had to pick one amplifier just to be attractive to women, it would be status, 100%.
00:35:13.000These reggaeton niggas be damn near bisexual, but they be getting more bitches than all of us.
00:35:18.000I thought that was bullshit until I blew up.
00:35:27.000That status shit don't mean nothing until I started to get that type of status.
00:35:58.000I saw in real time, I'm outside at events, at clubs, the guys that got the tables, the guys that were in VIP, the guys that were up there on these elevated platforms, girls would be like, wow, who is that?
00:37:15.000I've always been like, if you're a duck, then, you know, especially if somebody tell you better and you don't listen, then get, you know, get plucked like a duck.
00:37:23.000But I just, the pain that come with that and just seeing it, it's just like...
00:37:38.000Here you just have this kid, don't know any better, got a whole lot of money, got a whole lot of platform, and you bring your fat ass and just take advantage of him.
00:38:28.000He's figuring out if he's at his peak.
00:38:30.000And it's like, whenever I see a drastic difference in knowledge, not just sexual market value, but knowledge of their sexual market value, that's when girls take advantage.
00:38:38.000Whenever there's a disparity and she's more aware than you are, it's a wrap, man.
00:38:41.000And that's why I tell guys, yo, you gotta get 50 lay count.
00:39:44.000You know, oh, bro, you'd be a good Christian man and one woman or, you know, Islam or Judaism, whatever, any of these religions that people practice, you know, they think that the faith is going to save them or save or make the woman like a better woman.
00:41:53.000If all the woman got to do is look pretty and fuck and cook and shit, you got to go out, kill the food, bring the food back, work, deal with all this shit.
00:42:48.000If a woman doesn't help you, if a woman don't have no stake, like I said, it's just easier for her to, you know, but if she's been there with you, building one step, you know, brick by brick, every step of the way, and just because you have yourself together, don't make, don't render a woman useless.
00:43:05.000There's always something for a woman to do.
00:43:06.000So, you know, it's harder for her to wake up and be like, you know what, I'm bored here, you know, I want something new.
00:45:53.000I think for the audience, so that they can kind of put a picture to this, you guys, after the show's done, go ahead and listen to Justin Timberlake, My Love.
00:46:16.000So on one end, to the untrained eye, it's like, oh, this is a simp tale.
00:46:19.000But the reality is what he's really doing is he's giving the girl a dream of a future, of commitment, of being able to do certain things together, right?
00:46:31.000I mean, if you look at it in the sense of, for example, movies and cartoons, when they were younger, they saw Disney movies, they saw movies of romantic stuff as the future of what they could have.
00:46:42.000So you as the man now, give her that vision, I'm going to give you this lifestyle.
00:47:13.000But you gotta have something going on.
00:47:15.000You can't be no dusty dude smoking weed all day playing the game talking about let's build, let's build, let's build.
00:47:24.000You can get away with that for maybe a week, a month, two months, but bro, it ain't gonna last forever.
00:47:31.000They ain't gonna stay around, especially nowadays.
00:47:32.000They not gonna sit around and watch you lollygagging.
00:47:35.000Would you say, because you said women tolerate less nowadays, would you say the internet is a direct influence on why women tolerate far less?
00:47:42.000The 100% influence of why they tolerate less.
00:47:48.000It's not that they've evolved to be these, you know, bigger and better women and shit like that.
00:47:52.000No, it's just you have memes and accounts and shit, just like men are now starting to not tolerate shit because you got guys like us telling them.
00:48:26.000Women read books on this shit a lot of times.
00:48:28.000Guys just started getting into this thing in the past couple years.
00:48:31.000I remember before all of us blew up on the internet, like, bro, the whole pickup community and Red Pill shit, that was like, bro, it was like, nobody know about it.
00:48:39.000They didn't know about none of that shit.
00:49:24.000And then obviously you were right there with us because you were blown up at TikTok right around the same time.
00:49:28.000You know, now guys have this information.
00:49:30.000But if you really look at it, like, So many guys are behind.
00:49:34.000Like, bro, we've only touched a fraction of the male audience.
00:49:37.000And if you don't believe me, look at one of my...
00:49:39.000You wanna know how you know the world is so blue pill?
00:49:43.000If you look at one of my videos on TikTok or some shit like that, I didn't post that hit the algo randomly, you're going to see a bunch of blue pill people.
00:50:33.000But I just didn't, it blow my mind like how many guys just don't, I thought everybody was like me before I started doing this.
00:50:38.000I thought everybody was just like, had a kind of, you know, because again, when you don't have the internet, all you know is your little world.
00:50:45.000You know, your neighborhood or wherever you go.
00:50:47.000So you think that everybody's like you, and it's almost, again, sad to see how many guys are clueless.
00:50:53.000Can you even have conversations or tolerate dudes that are clueless like that?
00:50:58.000Me, personally, I can't even be around Blue Pill dudes no more.
00:51:00.000I can in a sense, but it can't be about that.
00:51:32.000But I wasn't like a bad guy, but I would just be more assertive when I would talk to women.
00:51:37.000This is back in the days when you used the house phone and they picked up the phone and they listening and shit like that.
00:51:41.000You know, so they used to think that like, they used to think that I was just like this horrible person.
00:51:46.000What would you tell them that shocked them?
00:51:48.000Like, just, hey, come over and bring me this.
00:51:50.000Like, oh, I want to see you so bad, because you got to think, before Instagram and social media, women didn't have access to you like that.
00:53:36.000We kind of almost, like, with what we do, like, back then, this was considered, like, violating because you don't, like, the game was not considered to, like, the game, as you say, the game is to be so not told.
00:53:47.000So suckers don't deserve good game, and so, like, if you saw a guy that would sleep, you let him sleep.
00:53:52.000And you had to earn, like, my dad taught me shit like this.
00:53:54.000Like, it wasn't, like, You know, and I had to bump my head and figure it out.
00:53:58.000There wasn't no thing where we could just go to somebody and he'd just tell you everything for $100 and he'd give you an e-book and all this shit.
00:54:31.000And even now, with the emergence of the internet, I'm glad because we've been able to wake up a lot of people and put them on to other creators, whether it's you or Rolo or any of these guys in the space.
00:55:05.000People will play our videos in front of their girlfriend because they don't want to say it, but because they know, people will be like, why do you say that?
00:55:24.000You take the information, you apply it to your life, and you upgrade your woman that way.
00:55:28.000You're not supposed to take my shit and just, hey, look, this is what he said.
00:55:31.000Because whether y'all know it or not, your woman be thinking you got guys up here, got it going on, got all this clout and status and purpose and all this.
00:55:40.000In the back of her mind, she's like, I might as well fuck him.
00:56:14.000Matter of fact, they'll show, you know, they'll show, they'll try to prove a point to their woman, and they'll show them my video, or they'll show them your video, like, look, he said this, so it's, you don't do that.
00:56:24.000You're not supposed to do that, because she looking at you like you're supposed to have your own mind.
00:57:17.000Like, you're supposed to self-improve and let her just benefit from the self-improvement versus she's observing you self-improve and being like, what the fuck?
00:57:29.000Females don't really put as much stake into self-improvement that we do.
00:57:33.000Like, men understand, I must self-improve if I want to get women, if I want to get respect from my peers, if I want to get money, if I want to get status.
00:57:44.000That's why we have so many dumb bimbos out here that are out here getting a rich husband or out on yachts or whatever.
00:57:49.000The whole concept of self-improving and learning game, making money, getting in the gym, etc., Women don't really understand this shit.
00:57:56.000They don't really know it because they don't have to do it.
00:57:58.000So when they observe you taking in content to self-improve, especially when it has to deal with women, they're going to look at you kind of sideways like, wait, you have to learn how to get girls?
00:58:08.000Yeah, bitch, because y'all are not easy.
00:58:10.000But they don't understand this concept because everything in life to them comes easy and they just figure it out because they don't have to work for anything.
00:58:15.000I would argue they do like you improving if it benefits them.
00:58:22.000When you ask me the number one mistake guys make, a lot of times a lot of guys sacrifice their purpose and their dreams to appease their woman.
00:58:41.000And they understand something called security.
00:58:43.000And so your regular self is security to them.
00:58:46.000And so whenever they see you growing and getting in the gym and fucking upgrading and reading and you're walking and a little bit more confidence, that's a security risk.
00:59:44.000It's one thing if you're self-improving maybe in the gym a little bit more or trying to make money or whatever, but what I've noticed is if girls are watching you taking content to be better with women, they kind of look at you crazy.
01:00:10.000They don't understand that everything needs to be deliberate.
01:00:13.000When she comes to your house, it needs to be clean.
01:00:15.000Your toilet better not have no shit stains.
01:00:18.000Put away your crazy medication if you got any.
01:00:21.000They don't understand the process that men have to go through and the trials and tribulations men have to go through to be attractive to even get the date in the first place.
01:00:27.000Because I can't tell you how many times we bring girls on this fucking podcast.
01:00:32.000I had to figure it out, make mistakes, then I got it after the fact.
01:00:35.000So when they see you taking in content, That deals with being attractive to women especially, they're going to look at you crazy because women never have to self-improve to get men.
01:00:45.000So they look at you like you're crazy because you have to self-improve to get women?
01:00:48.000There's a saying, discovery trumps disclosure, which means if they can see you as the man that you need to be without seeing the books in your house or watching the videos, it's respect.
01:00:58.000Versus they see, oh, what's that book?
01:01:00.000Oh, it's the women how to become better.
01:01:41.000So they look at it like, damn, this nigga's learning his value because half the game is understanding your value compared to hers and then making real-time decisions off of that.
01:01:51.000Like that girl Sam, perfect example, right?
01:01:53.000She comes on the show, I tell Neal, what the fuck are you doing?
01:01:56.000This chick is a 304, she using you, blah, blah, blah.
01:02:16.000The guys who are not as aware, like my good friends, they chicks never liked me.
01:02:21.000And it's not because I'm a bad guy and I'm going to just make him cheat on you or none of that shit, but I'm the guy like, don't let her talk to you like that.
01:02:29.000Like, you don't have to deal with that.
01:02:30.000You know, make her fucking do something for you.
01:02:33.000You got this bitch sitting in your house all day, you know, not doing nothing.
01:03:19.000That's like when you know you're doing well, like you care about your friends.
01:03:22.000When your friends' girlfriends are scared for them to be around you or don't like you, then that's a good sign for you that you're a good friend to your bros, of course.
01:03:30.000Hopefully they come around when they learn their lesson, hopefully.
01:06:46.000So whenever you see a guy who's weak, spineless, you know, don't really got no game like that, you look at his woman, she's more than likely a hoe.
01:10:22.000You know, women don't, especially as far as wanting to settle down and have them, women don't start maturing to that point until they start 24, 25, when their brains fully develop.
01:11:04.00035 years old, trying to make six figures a year, have six months saved up, have had sex with 50 girls, be in shape at the gym.
01:11:14.000Once you have game, have frame, etc., once you have these things in place, you can bring in a chick that's 18, 19, 21, whatever the fuck, and reel her in, build her up to the woman.
01:11:23.000Yeah, you're right, but you make a fantastic point.
01:11:26.000A lot of guys, it might be their second girlfriend, third girlfriend.
01:11:29.000I can't tell you, Dre, how many girls have boyfriends at 22, 18, 19, but they're stand-ins.
01:11:36.000They're just there to support them emotionally, like you said.
01:11:40.000And y'all out here, you out here, you know.
01:11:56.000That's why you're just emotional support.
01:11:59.000Remember, whether women, whether we feel like they deserve this shit or not, They're human beings and they want love, care, support, attention, emotional support.
01:12:10.000And, you know, when they're out ripping and running the streets, guys like how I used to be, I ain't got nothing for you.
01:12:17.000But dick and, you know, maybe some top wings or something like that.
01:12:54.000A lot of the times, especially in this society, again, we're talking about America and Western society.
01:13:01.000Women are not socialized and engineered to be wives or girlfriends.
01:13:06.000They're socialized to do a certain thing, even if they're not like feminists.
01:13:10.000They're socialized to go to school and worry about yourself and have fun or put themselves first in shit.
01:13:17.000And so now, nowadays, it's been like that for forever.
01:13:22.000And that's why, like, if you're gonna go with the younger girls, a lot of times I tell guys, go for a younger girl, but a lot of times she's gotta come from a certain culture for it to work, and you gotta be extra on point.
01:13:32.000And, you know, I tell guys this, man, like, you really, you're gonna get a girl that's her sexual market value peak, right?
01:13:39.000She's got to have her head on straight, come from a good family, all this shit's got to be in place, and you got to be on point for it to work.
01:13:45.000You need frame, because again, she's going to want to have her fun and do these things, but with boundaries, okay, my man doesn't like this, I got to...
01:13:52.000You got to be real tight on those girls.
01:14:53.000But, bro, you need time to see who she really is because, bro, she'll tell you over time.
01:14:57.000Yeah, you really gotta have your shit together if you're gonna go for younger girls and try to wipe them up.
01:15:01.000Like, you date them, et cetera, if you think that she's a little bit different than the others and you think that there's potential, then maybe you could try some, but yeah, you gotta have your shit together, bro.
01:15:10.000You gotta have your game together because these younger chicks, and they're a lot, too, a lot of younger chicks, they're not emotionally mature yet.
01:15:16.000We could say, oh, well, some women, older women, but typically younger women are not emotionally mature.
01:15:24.000They're a lot more attention, you know, a lot more attention- They get hella offers, bro.
01:15:29.000If you don't know how to deal with that and how to correct that, if you're not a strong guy that has a program to where she can get on and follow that, you're going to always lose.
01:15:39.000So if you're going to date younger women, have your shit together.
01:15:46.000You know, and I'm really glad that we had King Dre here to talk about this because we tell guys all the time, go for younger women, go for younger women.
01:15:51.000But of course, you need to have, because we just say it, but we already know what needs to be put in place.
01:15:55.000But they might think, oh, okay, go for younger women.
01:15:58.000Meet some random bitch from college, 18 years old, just pledged her sorority.
01:16:03.000Bro, that's probably not a girl that you want to take seriously.
01:16:05.000Go ahead and smash her, whatever it may be, but don't try to wipe up that girl because she's not wife of material.
01:16:09.000So you've got to be able to identify the younger women that are wife of material.
01:16:13.000Then you've got to have the program for them, once they've been identified, to be in the program.
01:16:18.000And then you've got to mold them into how you want.
01:16:19.000And then also, like you said, you've got to be ready for the obstacles that are inevitably going to come in the way.
01:16:47.000It amazes me when I hear women say, oh, you're the first woman, you're the first guy that ever told me no, or that ever told me don't, you know, or to have boundaries.
01:17:19.000By the way, Dre, I see you out here rocking the letter P on your cap because you know you out here pimping my boy W. Fresh, W. Meyer, W. Fresh, W. Moe, W. Dre, L. Chris, W. Bills.
01:17:31.000Y'all saw the YouTube show of Chris Krohn with his wife where he lets her have guy friends and lets her have private little walks with guy friends?
01:17:42.000Found out last week that the most entertaining part of this show was watching all the crybabies in the chat whining about two of the busiest guys in Miami being late to put out the best value for men for free.
01:23:17.000Any more game you got about your dad on your channel, you're saving men and future generations WFNF. We'll have him talk about that here in a second.
01:23:24.000And then Maestro Man, you guys in the chat are talking about women under 25 is the only women under 25 of our thoughts that come on this show.
01:23:30.000There's millions of women in this country, young, mature, and ready for a relationship.
01:23:34.000Well, again, bro, that comes from a certain family that values that stuff.
01:24:15.000You can't point anywhere to any example where the celebrity couple is like, oh, they have an open relationship on both ends and it's work and they're 80 and they're dying together.
01:24:27.000I don't think women are wired to even love two men like that at the same time.
01:24:33.000When you give your woman the permission to...
01:24:36.000Basically, seek out someone better than you because anybody watching this, you're not the tallest, you don't have the most money, you don't got the best game, somebody got a bigger dick than you, somebody got more game than you, somebody can actually meet her needs better than you can, and when you give them the permission slip to go find it,
01:27:40.000As a guy who's done that before, you know, sneaky and not sneaky, typically when women accept that, typically when women accept that, I don't want to say that there's ulterior motives but they kind of almost don't really care about you.
01:28:02.000Now, right, now if they're coming into the gate like that, then cool, but sometimes you can convince a woman to let you step out, right, that may care about you and that love you.
01:28:10.000However, women are very territorial, almost more territorial than men.
01:28:14.000And I have a daughter, so I know, you can see this as, you can see it with little kids, little girls, right?
01:28:20.000You ever see these videos where the dad is hugging on the daughter and the mom come in touch and the fucking daughter freak out and shit?
01:31:44.000And the minute you think about women, on my series of my podcast, The Captain Saver Bro Show, the first episode is called The Evil Nature of Women.
01:31:57.000Women, their evil is on a whole other level.
01:32:00.000And I talk about stuff like this, that when women pay you back, the things that you do to them, the things that you make them feel, they get you back.
01:32:07.000But it's in a way that you can't see it, and when you see it, it's too late.
01:32:10.000You see it, it manifests itself in, you know, women go to...
01:32:15.000When you ever see a woman going to court, cleaning a motherfucker out, and trying to get everything he got, there's like...
01:32:21.000In her mind, she feels like she's been wrong somewhere and she's trying to get some get back.
01:35:33.000Like, when you see these chicks, Cleaning these dudes out and taking them for everything they got and making their lives a living hell through the divorce machine.
01:35:43.000You don't see women like, oh, that's so wrong.
01:35:45.000That's so, like, how could you do that?
01:35:46.000That's us, like, what the fuck is going on?
01:36:54.000And I'll say, like, you know, because this is the dark side of, like, you know, you want to live this player lifestyle, you want to have a man growing, you want to have other women, you're going to have to deal with some backlash to that to some degree, man.
01:37:03.000I mean, you know, especially if you came in and, like, y'all were monogamous and maybe something changed, your values shot up, whatever the fuck it is, and then, you know, man, I want chicks.
01:37:13.000She's not going to be the same woman that you met.
01:37:16.000And she is going to have a little bit of resentment because I want guys to understand that even though for us, sex is just a physical act, women don't look at it like that because I've noticed with females, they don't really have empathy to the male experience.
01:37:27.000And what I mean by that is they don't give a fuck about your problems, but they also don't give a fuck about your successes.
01:37:31.000What I mean by that is if you go out, if you go and you have sex with another girl, you don't have any feeling for her.
01:39:40.000And she know you're going to pick somebody that look better than her, that you may like better, so she's going to want to pick the chick that she feels the safest with.
01:46:55.000You know, I've been seeing this guy for, you know, a few months, and, you know, that's what I'm doing.
01:47:00.000I'm talking about like, I was crushed.
01:47:03.000Because here I am, I don't want to say taking advantage of this woman, but like here I am like having my way.
01:47:07.000And when chicks treat you good like that, you get attached to that shit.
01:47:11.000Like you get attached to the treatment, you get attached to the validation, you get attached to, you know, chick doing whatever for you and giving you the best sex and all of this shit.
01:47:18.000And when they take that away from you, It pains you.
01:48:39.000Last thing for me, because we've got to wrap this up.
01:48:42.000How do you navigate, for example, because obviously we're in the era of simps, where niggas legit will buy or anything, pay for box, all that stuff.
01:48:50.000How do you overcome niggas paying for box when you don't?
01:48:55.000For example, let's say there's 10 baddies out there, right?
01:48:58.000Out of 10, like 8, get paid for a box.
01:49:00.000How do you get the box without paying for it in your own way?
01:49:03.000Because when you don't pay for it, it's genuine.
01:49:07.000And they still want something genuine.
01:49:08.000Like I said, women still want something genuine.
01:49:19.000Like, you know how to say, I just want something real.
01:49:20.000When you pay for it, you don't get that.
01:49:22.000So whether you pay for it or not, it's still going to be a player.
01:49:25.000So every guy right now that's buying pussy and buying women and shopping, taking them shopping, there's a player somewhere that ain't doing none of that.
01:49:33.000And she feels something with him, something real.
01:52:04.000And let's keep it real with the passport bro movement.
01:52:06.000A lot of guys just do it because it's like, bro, fuck it, I'll just go pay for boxes for bad bitches in Columbia or some shit that's cheaper.
01:52:12.000But it's like, to me, I look at it like...
01:52:14.000Bro, it's just so wild to me how many dudes pay for boxing.
01:52:26.000So you're basically renting the cooperation, but when you're paying for it, you're not developing the skills that you need, because ultimately one day we want a family or something.
01:52:37.000We want to be 50 with a companionship.
01:52:39.000But when you cheat your way through life in the game by paying and paying and paying and paying and not getting that experience, what happens?
01:53:14.000A trick to a woman is the same thing as a whore is to us.
01:53:18.000So how we look at a woman who's a whore who will give her value away just freely to any and everybody, they look at your resources like how we look at their purity in their vagina.
01:53:29.000So if you are giving that away, yeah, she gonna take it just like we gonna fuck.
01:53:33.000Just like we gonna fuck the chick that's giving it away, we gonna get our dick sucked, but are we gonna wife her?
01:53:38.000Is she gonna respect you if you just can come off, because she look at you like, How can I be safe with a guy that'll just give his money to it?
01:53:49.000Like, how can I have, like, how can my kids be safe?
01:53:53.000Or how can I have safety if this motherfucker is going to take our money and go trick it off?
01:54:49.000Yeah, I mean, I've always, I hate to use Pokemon, but I've always used the analogy, like if you play Pokemon back, do you play Pokemon back in the day?
01:55:10.000And you basically use rare candies to level up your Pokemon.
01:55:13.000Well, what ends up happening if you use the rare candies to level up your Pokemon, whenever you fight them, they're not as strong.
01:55:18.000But when you go and train and, like, fight the gym leaders and go in the grass and fight random Pokemon, whatever, those Pokemon have way stronger attack, special, defense, etc., than the Pokemon that you give the rare candy to level them up to 100.
01:55:29.000So if you level them up through fighting, What ends up happening is your skill set and awareness and frame of female nature It's not worked.
01:55:46.000And when it's not worked, it's atrophy.
01:55:48.000And then you don't know how to deal with women in real life.
01:55:50.000So then if you do get in a relationship, whatever, and the worst is when you've got money.
01:55:53.000Because then she'll sell you the facade, get married to your dumb ass, tolerate you for a period of time, and then she's going to run away with everything because you never learn the rudimentary skills of, you know, how to get sex when she doesn't feel like it or, you know, well, obviously legally and shit.
01:56:05.000But like, how to arouse her, how to get her attracted to you, how to actually get her to respect you.
01:56:21.000I'm just asking you because most people here in Miami do that shit.
01:56:23.000And once and for all, bro, I wish, I guess, if these niggas, but you can't.
01:56:26.000Yeah, you ain't gonna never, as popular as I am, you ain't gonna find one bitch to say I even bought her a drink and I wasn't fucking already.
01:57:39.000But you look at, like with Tate, there was women in his life that they came to that wasn't like that and they wouldn't fold on them for nothing.
01:57:48.000But look at the women who brought those accusations against them guys.
01:57:58.000You don't see chicks from the countryside and good chicks, you don't see them doing shit like that.
01:58:03.000Look at the shit that's going through with these rappers and from the history of these rappers, these guys getting exposed and guys say this shit like, oh, well I just pay to keep them quiet.
01:58:12.000That bitch don't give They don't care.
01:58:26.000Like, oh, I just pay to keep him quiet and all that shit.
01:58:29.000That's bullshit, because look at the guys who, look at all these rappers and all these celebrities who paid all these hoes to keep quiet and shit.
01:58:37.000They write tell-all books and all types of shit.
01:59:32.000But I don't want to sound like I'm not sensitive to other human beings because I am a human being at the end of the day.
01:59:40.000And despite how dirtbaggish I've been in my life at one point, But then when I think about it, I didn't deserve, back then, I didn't deserve a good woman who treated, I didn't deserve that.
01:59:50.000Like, you know, when I'm in the middle of the run and fucking hoes and, you know, doing this and doing that, I didn't deserve a good woman.
02:00:59.000Of course, you know, if you live in that way, because, you know, I've got a record and all type of shit and been in prison and all type of shit.
02:01:06.000Is that not to say that I don't deserve good things now?
02:01:08.000Because I went to prison in 2006, you know, because I I don't do no shit like that no more.
02:01:15.000So do I always, am I always got to be the underbelly?
02:01:17.000So I can't say that if a woman has had a questionable past that, you know, 10 years later that she don't deserve a family.
02:01:23.000But if she out here dotting it up and fucking different guys and now you don't deserve no good dude because you ain't going to do nothing but damage him.
02:01:29.000And you're going to make the world a shitty place.
02:02:14.000Women who do sex work and women who, like, prostitute their bodies, they see the belly of the beast of men.
02:02:19.000And our brain, the way that our brains work, when we see something, we associate it with all.
02:02:23.000So we see, you know, like when guys that never been outside the house, they watch this podcast, they see these bitches up here, they be like, this is how hoes are.
02:02:33.000If they never really been outside, because that's just the way our brain works.
02:02:36.000So what I'm saying is, when you got a woman who's in the mud like that and they seeing guys like defile their families, they seeing guys steal money from their wives to come trick with them and leave their kids and just get shit on.
02:02:53.000When they seeing that over and over, that's their perspective of men now.
02:02:56.000And so no matter how much they get away from it, they're going to always look at you like them.
02:04:48.000If rappers is coming, rappers and these scammers and shit, these big dope boys, they coming through this shit every single night, tricking.
02:05:00.000A lot of guys that's in the streets, just because these guys that don't know any better think that because guys are in the streets they have some game and all that shit.
02:08:13.000The one who there for you, you better make sure that she on the up and up and she not looking at you with resentment when you do fall because that's when they hit you, when you fall.