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00:24:44.000Anything you want to say to the podcast?
00:24:47.000I'm not reading their comments because I don't want to get offended.
00:24:50.000Oh yes, I want to explain to the podcast that I am very sorry for acting out of pocket and disrespecting Fresh and disrespecting the podcast and the whole company because I was acting out of pocket because I drank too much and I was acting like a little girl because I was drunk and I... I was acting really irresponsible.
00:27:36.000No, it's not his Oh Oh, man Alright, uh You play that daddy And security Okay He's security, literally Yeah, he is security In fact He's provided security And he provided the security You know what I'm saying Alright So we talk about on the show Don't let single moms
00:28:04.000And not because they're bad people, it's because if you got no kids yourself, it's kind of a lose for the guy.
00:41:21.000To be fair, when you do IT, you're thinking like, okay, it's going to be a certain way when you get to the job market, but it's not what you think it is.
00:41:26.000It kind of just puts you there, you've got to learn code on your own, and it's kind of like you copy and paste.
00:41:31.000It's not what you really think about in textbook type.
00:43:40.000So long story short, my roommate, her sister moved back to New York and she posted something on Instagram stating that she was having a room for rent.
00:43:52.000So when I saw it, it was barely seconds that she posted and I was like, I'll apply.
00:43:57.000Next thing you know, I moved to Miami a month later.
00:44:00.000What made you say I got to get out of California?
00:44:02.000I was just so over it after living there all my life.
00:44:05.000There was nothing really left there for me.
00:44:07.000Besides my family, I mean, I do miss them, but I just needed something different.
00:47:03.000I found out my issue, you know what I mean?
00:47:05.000So, like, we got into it, and I, like, walked to my house, and I took my stripper pole apart, and I carried it on my shoulder, you know?
00:47:12.000It was a bunch of people asking me where I was going, but I was kind of mad, so I kind of snapped on them, but I knocked on the door.
00:47:17.000I told his mom, I told his bald-haired ass to come outside, and he came outside, just started popping him in his knees with the stripper pole, you know?
00:47:45.000Because, actually, even though we stayed two blocks away, we were still basically in separate cities.
00:47:49.000I was in a lot of here and he stayed in a lot of their lakes.
00:47:51.000So, me being smart, as I did, I went to my house and the police basically told him, like, I'm not in the same, you know, city, so they can't do nothing.
00:54:48.000Because we got the same friend group in college Yeah Nigga, you've seen her ass before Have you not seen her ass before?
00:54:55.000I've seen her ass before So the nigga you know Not the audience It's been 10 years, man Grab these sags and shit You do it for the show It's the first time in 10 years I've seen her I mean, come on, man I mean, does she do squats?
00:55:10.000Oh, about that Kegels, maybe That's like vagina shit Oh, my God You actually have it You put it in the middle here You can even do your arms.
00:55:21.000I know what keegels are, but I was just laughing.
00:59:41.000Well, okay, I'll try to keep it short.
00:59:42.000He didn't feel like I was on the same page with him, even though my intuition knew that he was fucking around with this girl that he fucked around in high school where they used to smoke a bunch of fucking, like, not smoke, but used to do cocaine.
01:05:16.000It would be my mom because she worked as hard as she could then she had to deal with me and then my sister and coming home and cleaning the house tired as hell and making food.
01:07:54.000I picked my mom because she was very hard on me, and I feel like the way she was hard on me brought me to where I'm at right now, going to college, being the first graduate, all that.
01:11:08.000Ladies, you guys have pretty much played into what we've always established on this show, which is like, typically the girls follow what the girl before her said.
01:12:36.000Ladies, name a female celebrity you would consider a 10 based on looks only, then rate yourself to that celebrity using a wooden test scale.
01:36:34.000And then Kamala, what I don't like about...
01:36:37.000She said something that I forgot what she said, but I didn't like what she said one time, and then I'm like, yeah, I don't want to vote for her.
01:42:12.000Ladies, what do you guys think about this?
01:42:14.000I don't think women should be allowed to vote, to be honest with y'all.
01:42:17.000And this experiment actually just proves my point.
01:42:20.000I don't think women should be allowed to vote because when asked about why are you voting for certain candidates, you guys can't even articulate why or you're wrong about it.
01:44:30.000Like we just vote just to vote because we finally got the right at one point.
01:44:34.000And I may sound hypocritical for this because I am a female, but that's my opinion.
01:44:39.000Us females just do it because, you know, as she said, she only likes Kamala because of the way she speaks, because she sounds more intelligent.
01:44:51.000But in reality, for Trump, right, he keeps us safe, you feel me?
01:44:55.000He has connections with multiple countries, whatever the case may be, and, you know, keeps it safe in his hands.
01:45:04.000Like I said, I think people should vote only if they're educated, as y'all said, and I think they should only speak on it publicly if you're educated about it.
01:51:44.000I was like, well, Trump's going to end it right away.
01:51:45.000She's like, well, they'll all die in vain.
01:51:47.000I was like, well, sometimes you just got to take the L and just have peace.
01:51:51.000And she was like, no, we need to continue fighting.
01:51:54.000And I'm like, that's easy for you to say when your dumb ass is here in the United States and you've been here for two years while the men had to stay back.
01:56:08.000When you sign that paperwork and you get in the system of what you get into as a male, if they tell you get out there in that one, you tell them no.
01:56:40.000But the point I'm trying to make is, I'll be fucking damned.
01:56:43.000If I'm going to allow someone who doesn't know what the hell it is that could put someone into office that could send somebody to war like me or somebody else.
01:57:57.000So if I went around and I voted for someone to put someone in office that tells you guys what to do with your bodies, you guys will fucking flip out.
01:58:03.000So if I come in and I say, I don't think y'all should vote because you guys go ahead and put people into office where I could go to war and die, you guys flip out.
01:59:40.000Oh, I don't have to know what's like the services, but I find it ludicrous that they can go ahead and put someone in charge that can literally send us to war.
02:00:05.000What do you think is a good reason for a man to reject a woman, or what do you think makes a woman a bad girlfriend candidate for a man?
02:00:13.000So again, what do you think is a good reason for a man to reject a woman, or what do you think makes a woman a bad girlfriend candidate for a man?
02:00:26.000Well, I think that if the person is very selfish and self-centered, then anything that comes out of a heart that is just always seeking its own, it's just not going to be good to have a relationship with that person.
02:00:42.000And you can observe the behaviors that that person has.
02:00:45.000If they're always just trying to look for their own benefit, If you're gonna be with somebody, you have to think of that person first.
02:00:56.000That's why you are in a relationship with that person.
02:00:58.000So just observing the behaviors and if you can tell that the person is selfish, then that's like a trait that's very...
02:02:10.000You got girls here that I got an IQ of 67 trying to argue with me about some shit that they don't even know because they want to just argue to argue.
02:02:16.000And it's made me realize that we don't tell women the truth enough.
02:02:19.000We need to go back to telling people that they're fat, they're stupid, they're inept, they're not good at what they do, they think they know what they're doing, but they really don't.
02:03:13.000Well, I mean, there's a multitude of things that go into someone being stupid.
02:03:18.000Not having common sense, lacking critical thinking skills, not understanding hierarchy, not understanding when someone more intelligent than them is speaking that they should probably shut up and listen and be like, damn, okay, let me sit that in and listen to understand versus listening to respond.
02:03:31.000Like, just things like this in general, which I've noticed that a majority of women just lack the ability to do so.
02:03:37.000And I think this is why so many women stay in this perpetual state of stupiditude, is because y'all don't want to learn from people that are smarter than you, because you guys need to have this need.
02:03:45.000You have this need to be right, which is something I've noticed with women.
02:03:49.000After interviewing almost 4,000 of you guys, it's incredible, because you said, not all women are the same!
02:03:54.000Y'all are very fucking similar, I'll tell you that.
02:03:57.000There's a very fucking similar, it's interesting to me, because it's like, you're trying to have a discussion, clearly someone's superior than you in a topic, and it's like, oh, I'm going to argue my point.
02:04:07.000Bro, did you not, 30 minutes ago, you couldn't name three countries.
02:04:11.000It's like, what the fuck is going on here, man?
02:04:15.000So it's like, look, I think for guys nowadays, competition should be A level where it's like, okay, can I... Is this girl at least willing to be inquisitive and be, like, somewhat smart?
02:04:27.000Because this girl's stupid and she's gonna argue with you for her stupid points.
02:04:51.000Honestly, I really feel like a reason that men should reject women most of the time is, like, a female that don't know what they want to do with their self.
02:04:59.000Like, not now, but, like, what do you see yourself in the future?
02:05:32.000if y'all do something bad you try to get your get back or lick back or something instead of communicating i think that's a bad girl mentality i don't really mess with stuff like that if you can't sit and have a conversation about what it is and got to go out and do something i don't respect that that's fair all right um trudeau says uh ladies how many times have you been in love That's a good one.
02:05:55.000And also, ladies, I just want to also put this out there.
02:05:58.000If anyone feels offended and wants to leave, you're free to leave at any time.
02:06:00.000But I'm not going to hold back because I think this is an epidemic problem of stupidity in women.
02:06:05.000So, I'm here to tell you guys the truth.
02:06:25.000I just want to say that, like, the point that he is trying to make is that a lot of times we think that the feeling that we get when we are convicted, when like, you know, because there's always things that everybody needs to improve on, right?
02:06:43.000But it's our daily choice to choose to ignore What we know that we need to improve on, right?
02:06:49.000And maybe sometimes everything around us is telling you to not look at the thing that we need to improve on, right?
02:06:54.000And then when the truth is revealed to us and we know the things that we need to improve on, it's still our choice to keep living in delusion or keep walking in that truth.
02:07:08.000But when we realize all of the things that we don't know and we stay with that feeling, that discomfort, and we push into that discomfort, then we get to grow.
02:07:16.000Because it's not about anything that already happened.
02:07:20.000Everything has already been done up until now, right?
02:07:24.000But every day that we wake up, we get to choose to be in that discomfort so we can learn and grow.
02:07:29.000Because every day that we wake up, we get to choose who we are going to be for that day.
02:07:35.000So, like now, whatever you guys are taking from this, like, it's just to wake up tomorrow and do something different.
02:07:42.000With whatever you got convicted with, or maybe like, oh, I don't know this, or like this, it's not for you to be offended, but to look at it and be like, oh, like...
02:07:51.000Thank you, because I know what I can improve on, right?
02:07:53.000Because always seeking to be better and to know more truth, right?
02:13:44.000I think you could take it where he's saying, listen, you may not like what I'm saying, but in reality speaking, someone's going to say it in their head, just not to your face.
02:14:01.000There's reality in between there, though.
02:14:04.000You can be positive, but if it's still reality, then you gotta be honest with yourself.
02:14:08.000No, you have some days where you'll be like, oh, I don't look my best, or I don't dress my best, or I don't have this, or I don't have that.
02:23:57.000But what ends up happening is you become the boss bitch, you become a bitch, the boss doesn't want to make you his bitch, and then now you're a single bitch.
02:27:02.000According to research, these are the least attractive hobbies for men according to women.
02:27:07.000Which of these hobbies according to ladies are unattractive to y'all and why so?
02:27:11.000So it has collecting figurines, magic tricks, online trolling, gambling, building model trains, taxidermy, comic book collecting, and bird watching.
02:27:20.000So least attractive hobbies for men according to women.
02:27:23.000Oh, so playing video games is number one?
02:29:23.000Alright, ladies, would you prefer to be a concubine for a king, which means he has probably like, you know, 10 to 50 other women that he has sex with?
02:32:12.000The way you phrased the question, the way you phrased it, and the way you inquired about it, it was very clear you didn't know what it was at all.
02:33:17.000No, I think it's pretty evident at this point.
02:33:19.000I think anyone that's watching this objectively through a somewhat logically sound lens will be like, damn, she's not as smart as she thinks she is.
02:33:28.000I mean, regardless, I'm 18, I still got a lot to learn, and that's why I come here, because I've learned a lot from you guys.
02:33:33.000Yes, you're very naive, is the point I'm trying to make.
02:33:35.000See, what I've noticed with girls, I say, oh, I'll be with a peasant and be poor.
02:33:42.000And I don't want to steal the thunder from the room, but the reality is most girls would rather share a guy that has money than be broke with a guy that's going to be faithful.
02:39:16.000This was meant to be so I could be done with it.
02:39:18.000A 50-50 because it's like, it depends on what I'm actually taking you through.
02:39:22.000Like, if I'm taking you through some shit that you can't recover from, then, yeah, you might need that $100 to get your ass somewhere else.
02:40:26.000And I just feel like both of you are looking for your identity and your validation from things that are never going to give it, because a human being is never going to give you validation.
02:40:35.000He's never going to give you identity.
02:40:37.000Everything in the world is always changing, so if you attach your identity to something of the world, it's going to break at some point.
02:40:44.000It's going to be over at some point, which is why I have my identity in Jesus and His truth, because it doesn't change regardless of what I do or what anything happens in the world.
02:40:53.000and that's why he is my everything but I think that if you guys start looking for your identity and to get love from an actual source that you can get love from then you can make different choices for you but and then you are also paying him because you still need that love and regardless of your occupation and it's not just about money obviously because that's also why you are paying him You know because you still need that love and you know that it makes it more difficult for you to be in a relationship and receive
02:41:23.000that based on the occupation that you're making.
02:41:25.000So obviously like now you can tell that money is not all that there is because you're paying these men to love you because the occupation that you're having is not giving you Like it's not creating a safe environment for you.
02:41:37.000So it's also like, you know, to evaluate the choices that you're making to know that there's something greater for you, you know, and obviously like your father in heaven has a purpose for you and he sees you as valuable, not like humans.
02:41:52.000You know, humans always are judging, condemning.
02:41:57.000But yeah, there's like a higher purpose for you and if you kind of like look more inward and you you know you get to see yourself how he sees you then like everything can change for you you know and you can get out of that situation and financial fulfillment because it doesn't matter how much money you get with this occupation like you already know that it's not enough.
02:42:45.000Now, granted, though, you yourself, you know what you are, you know what your actions are, how you make him upset, and if that's your deal with him, cool.
02:43:28.000I've met many women that come on the show that make six figures a month, multi-millionaires, extremely successful.
02:43:34.000Maybe they're only fans, maybe they're bottle girls, maybe they're dancers, maybe they do some type of work where they're able to use their sexuality to make quite a bit of money.
02:43:45.000And what's up happening is they meet a guy that might not make the same amount of money as them, but he's attractive to a degree.
02:43:51.000And he knows, damn, this girl comes with a profession that's going to embarrass me and hurt my image.
02:44:05.000I've seen this with so many famous OnlyFans girls where they have to pay the whole tax to their boyfriend.
02:44:10.000And what ends up happening a lot of times is they get an asymmetrical relationship where the guy provides virtually nothing besides some dick and boyfriend energy and she provides the money and she's looking for that affection.
02:44:22.000Because she can't find it from a healthy, dominant, masculine man because healthy, dominant, masculine men...
02:44:34.000But they don't wipe up girls that are promiscuous.
02:44:37.000They don't want to wipe up girls in some professions because I don't think women understand how your profession is destructive to his profession.
02:46:18.000Okay, I took you a while to come up with that.
02:46:20.000But do you see my point that His successful movie career has been eclipsed by a dumb bald bitch saying, we had an entanglement.
02:46:31.000What I'm trying to prove here is that a woman's background can destroy her man's future.
02:46:36.000Her past can destroy everything he's trying to build and anything in the future.
02:46:40.000Will Smith now is reduced to a cuck at a red table crying his wife fucking some young dude.
02:46:46.000So I think for you to know, and any woman that's involved in a certain work, understand that not only will it be harder for you to find a guy and have him take you seriously, he also might try to fucking use you and tax you because he looks at it like, you're a slut.
02:47:01.000So, I'm going to go ahead and get the most out of you that I can.
02:47:05.000He tells you it's because of your behavior, which you might have some bad behavior.
02:47:35.000I think all girls need to know that if guys know that you're promiscuous or you have a certain past, they're going to treat you accordingly and mitigate risk.
02:47:48.000And sometimes that means they're gonna charge you money.
02:48:25.000Well, at least now you realize what it was.
02:48:27.000Girls, when you're with a guy and he actually gives a fuck about you, he's gonna find a way to make more money and take care of you, bro.
02:48:32.000Like, I don't know why, like, no offense, but like, a lot of you...
02:48:35.000I'll give you guys some fucking wisdom, because you guys are stupid.
02:48:37.000When a man is with a woman that he actually cares about, yeah, fucking listen to what I'm going to say, because I hurt your feelings, but I need to listen.
02:48:43.000When you're with a guy, he actually gives a fuck about you, he don't want you working.
02:48:48.000He doesn't want you working, he doesn't want you out there in the fucking club, he doesn't want- Don't dance.
02:48:51.000Once he starts telling you shit, once he starts giving you orders, hey, you're gonna do this, you're gonna wear this, I need you to do that, Menti gives a fuck about you.
02:49:22.000So he starts putting rules on you, he doesn't give a fuck about you.
02:49:25.000And then, if you're still working, and you're with him, he don't give a fuck about you that much.
02:49:31.000Also, if you question his effort in totality, for example, not paying the bills, not being present, not helping with stuff or in a house, it's because he doesn't care anymore.
02:49:44.000And here's the thing, he probably liked you at first, but then maybe you were too naggy, you were annoying, you did some shit, and he was like, man, fuck this.
02:49:50.000See, the problem is, they're hoping that that guy is going to change.
02:49:52.000They're hoping, you know what, maybe if I'm nicer, if I do more for this guy, he's going to change one day.
02:49:56.000You know, but the reality is, his mind is already set.
02:49:58.000He puts you in the category, sex only, and that's what it is.
02:51:34.000Seven times seven is four to nine. Eight.
02:51:35.000Seven times seven is four to nine. Seven times seven is four to nine. Seven times seven is four to nine. Seven times seven is four to nine.
02:52:02.000I'm going to say some females have abortions because some females physically, like, think about it.
02:52:07.000Some girls that I have ran into that I know that had abortions is because they wouldn't want to bring a baby into this world, this atmosphere, or probably don't have nothing going for themselves.
02:52:16.000And they don't want to bring their child into something like that.
02:52:18.000Or some women that went through trauma.
02:52:54.000ArmyBet says, women complain for the same rights and privileges as men, and they proceeded to go back to being the same threat force that they were before.
02:53:00.000It's like slaves putting chains back on and working the fields.
02:53:03.000So you're saying you guys wanted rights, and now you end up being hoes.
02:53:07.000That's basically like a nigga getting out the streets and then going to get a 9 to 5 and then turning back and going to the streets.
02:53:13.000What's your purpose of going back to the streets?
02:54:58.000Liptonomi says, Big W from Verona, Italia.
02:55:01.000For those who believe in science, you can say that they were invented by Claudio Ptolomeo in 160 AD. He believed that the Earth was the center of the universe and that sun and planets with chaotic moves already debunked from science.
02:55:16.000And the last one here is Sam Campbell says...
02:55:20.000Ladies, we're at my AG. Scombo underscore.
03:00:05.000Which is fine, but I'm doing that to demonstrate to the men here that you guys hold men to a way higher standard than you hold yourselves, is my point.
03:00:14.000Guys, by the way, I'll say this at the right end when you're finished, though.
03:05:36.000With Western Fit, you get real-time feedback from multi-millionaires that people, that majority of women, want in real-time, and despise people not agreeing with them.
03:06:11.000Well, just hearing Myron talk and just, you know, realizing sometimes how hard it is for us to hear the truth, but like I said, to press in into that discomfort and to grow, you know, despite all of the feelings, just being able to take what he said and apply it to you so the next day you can make better choices.
03:09:56.000Because I have 100% responsibility for your kid, but I don't have the authority to raise the child that I want because that child has a father.
03:10:04.000So a man coming in and taking on your child, he's basically cucking himself.
03:10:13.000It requires, I mean, that's a lot of self-sacrifice.
03:10:15.000I mean, I understand that he has kids too, but I'd argue his kids are less of a burden than your kids are because he's still expected to provide for you.
03:10:22.000Actually, it provides 100% because you're a stay-at-home mom.
03:10:27.000So he has way more skin in the game than you do.
03:10:31.000Obviously, you stay at home and you take care of his kids as well, and there's an emotional connection or whatever.
03:10:35.000But he has a financial connection and an emotional connection to your kid.
03:10:39.000So if you were to leave him, it would suck that he loses you and he loses your daughter or son, whatever it may be.
03:10:45.000So I think women that are single moms that have a guy, you guys should really appreciate that dude, because he's taking a huge fucking liability on.
03:10:51.000I mean, I never said that I didn't appreciate him.
03:13:54.000- Bro, he's stepping on your future. - That's a lie. - I love y'all. - He's stepping on your future, bro. - She's fresh.
03:14:02.000Well, y'all had pulled a dude profile up.
03:14:03.000She was like, "Her dude look like Nardo Wick." - She does, he does. - Nardo Wick not cute. - Yes, he is. - I'm sorry. - I'm not. - Respect me. - Respect me. - I wasn't even talking to her, bro. - You got that one.
03:17:59.000Men in polls asked if they prefer women to wear natural hair or a wig almost always say they prefer women with natural hair, and you guys are arguing with me about this.
03:25:19.000So the thing about marriage for a guy is that he wants to have the security of having a woman at home because obviously he wants to have kids with somebody that he cares about that he respects and has his best needs.
03:25:34.000That's an extreme, but I'm just saying that the girl that's going to have his kids is going to be the one that's going to get the house, you know, the car, all that stuff.
03:25:41.000Wait, out of curiosity, do you think you're going to find a man that's going to be totally monogamous to you?
03:26:50.000Like, not like, you know, openly dog you out in front of everybody, but like, if he takes care of you, takes care of the bills and shit, bro, if he fucks another bitch, is it really not bad?