In this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, we have our first guest, Mr. Organic. We discuss why you shouldn t get married in the 21st century and why you should never get married at your age.
00:12:25.000You know, real estate agents in Miami, especially Beautiful Women, that comes with something when you do the deal, you know, the guys, they get you too.
00:27:37.000though like baby i'm drunk i'm no i love you though i don't care it's only me it's only me so he cheated on a girl who's uglier than you yeah crazy who's this bitch i got to see this this is funny
00:27:50.000She's chopped, but she ain't that bad.
00:34:48.000I graduated high school and college early.
00:34:51.000But I'm only 21. But I finished high school when I was 16 because I doubled up grades and then I finished college early because I doubled up that too.
00:36:43.000I think we were just not getting along anymore.
00:36:46.000It was a long-term relationship, and things happened, and we did have a breakup of a year where we were living in different countries, and I came to visit and whatnot, and when I finally came to keep having our relationship,
00:37:01.000he had just changed a lot and went down roads I didn't want to go down through, so we broke up.
00:41:39.000And it's also the guys you're picking.
00:41:41.000If you're picking a guy that's way up here with all the success and all these attributes, yeah, it's going to be very difficult for him to be like, I'm just going to throw this all away for this one woman.
00:41:49.000Especially if he worked his whole life together.
00:41:50.000If he's older, past 30, and he grinded to get all the success.
00:41:54.000He's not going to throw in the towel just for one woman right away unless she's super, super, you know, glorious like him.
00:42:19.000Me personally, I don't think all women are just looking for the guy that's ready with the house and the cars and the business and just ready to treat you like a queen.
00:42:27.000I feel like there's some women that are actually wanting to, or maybe not wanting to, but they're okay with growing with a person or working together with a person and getting to the goals together as a team.
00:42:39.000So I don't feel like it's always like, oh, the guy has to have everything ready.
00:42:43.000No, if you show me that you have a plan and you're at my level and you're trying to grow with me, I'm down.
00:42:48.000But you know, it's funny because the end result is still money at the end of the day.
00:42:52.000So he's going to start here but end up there eventually.
00:42:57.000If he's a real ambitious guy, hardworking, believing in himself, putting it all on the line, he's going to get that money eventually and then he's going to recalibrate everything.
00:43:05.000Probably, but if you were the woman that was by his side, I feel like the most logical thing is to keep you there.
00:43:29.000It takes a lot to commit to a relationship fully and in order to trust your partner while you're still focusing on yourself because a lot of people get caught up in relationships.
00:43:38.000Focusing on trying to trust their partner and focusing on what they're doing instead of focusing on themselves and what they can be doing and what they need to be doing today.
00:43:46.000It's nice to have a separate life where you know your partner's not going to cheat, your partner's not going to fuck you over, nothing's going to happen, and you can focus on what you're doing and continue to grow yourself.
00:43:57.000The issue in a lot of modern dating is, like, people are so focused on if their partner is cheating rather than focusing on what can I do to make money?
00:48:37.000And so since it's so easy, then they don't really feel like they have to put in the effort or actually work to be able to have a serious relationship.
00:48:47.000Not only that, I do believe that we are mirrors.
00:49:04.000Seriously, I think that if you're not able to...
00:49:07.000I mean, if you're not able to attract exactly what you think that you want, it's because you're not ready to receive what you say you're ready for.
00:49:16.000Okay, so you gotta become the person to try what you want.
00:52:20.000They could just hook up, do whatever, but they don't want to put in the time and energy to have one person and grow with them, like you were saying, to grow and have a meaningful relationship, you know?
00:52:36.000For a guy, he has to go out and be a legendary individual to even get the respect of women nowadays.
00:52:43.000So if he's not focused on that career, if he's not focused in a gym, he's not focused to be smart and witty and all that, he's not going to be the guy that women want anyway.
00:52:50.000But like, they could do that and I could be alongside too.
00:56:06.000But I mean, it's only four, but I know that the person that I do marry will probably want a big family as well because they're similar in my mindset.
01:00:11.000Yeah, but most girls can handle the truth, you know what I'm saying?
01:00:14.000So if a guy was to tell a girl, hey, I want other girls, and you're like, nah, you're not for me.
01:00:18.000So a guy just want to fuck you, and then he'll tell you, then you break up with him.
01:00:22.000Yeah, but you should, as a man, if you want that real freedom, you've got to let them make that decision, and you'll find the right ones that is okay with it.
01:00:29.000It's enough women that understand that nowadays that's with that.
01:00:32.000And plus, if you've got a lot of women, y 'all all together, and they're bringing money in, too, and you've got your money, man, y 'all living good.
01:05:56.000Y 'all ain't having these conversations.
01:05:57.000That's why I told you guys earlier about picking the right person, having discernment, because she's out here getting laid in, and she don't even know if she's going to have a kid with this guy, and he a damn DJ fucking all in Miami.
01:08:43.000Do you feel in your heart that the life you're living, OnlyFans doing all this, that God's going to see you and be like, I got the perfect man for this girl.
01:09:32.000I don't want to get married until I'm in my 30s so like 10-15 years probably just because like my parents got married early and it didn't work out and I've seen my mom have like Two other marriages, it didn't work out.
01:09:44.000So, like, I'm just trying to wait till I'm settled.
01:09:48.000I'm, like, not, you know, out partying or, like, hanging out with my friends all the time.
01:09:52.000Like, I'll be there for that kid and be there for the husband as well and, like, be in a marriage that, like, should be, like, a household, you know?
01:10:00.000I want to have, like, one or two kids, but if I never have kids, it's not the end of the world because I don't really talk to my family that much.
01:10:05.000I moved away from home and, like, got out of that situation, so I just, like...
01:10:09.000I don't have family for that kid anyways, so it would just be me.
01:10:12.000So I need to have my shit together before I be bringing somebody else in this world with no other family.
01:10:32.000And, like, you also have to commit nine months of your life of just, like, throwing up and feeling like absolute shit and, like, just putting everything to the side.
01:10:44.000So you think, like, in your early age, you just want to live your life, have fun, or you think you're preparing yourself for when you're 30 to have a husband and be a good wife?
01:11:01.000I'm not out there trying to just, like, fuck around.
01:11:03.000Like, I only go if there's a reason to.
01:11:04.000So, like, I'm just preparing myself to have, like, a good life and, like, be wealthy and have a substantial household to give to my kid and have them have their best life.
01:12:03.000Okay, so you think that's gonna bite you in your ass later on when you're 30 and figures out that you used to do OnlyFans, or are you gonna be up front with them?
01:12:09.000No, I would be up front, but, like, I'm not doing anything crazy or anything on there, so it's just, like...
01:12:14.000I'm more of, like, a relationship girl, and so that's how I am with my fans as well.
01:12:17.000So I'm curious, like, why not talk about it if it's not that serious?
01:12:28.000I've always been, I've been a professional dancer since I was three years old.
01:12:31.000I competed around the world for dance, and then I got into fitness at 16 years old, and I played sports my whole life, too.
01:12:37.000So, like, that's my main thing, and that's why, like, I don't really say, like, oh, I'm an OnlyFans girl, because I'm so much more than that, and I have way more to offer and talk about rather than just a lot.
01:12:56.000There's a lot of like bikini shoots or like lingerie shoots that maybe I don't want to post or maybe like are a little bit more explicit or like ones that just like...
01:13:03.000Are sitting there that I can use if people want them.
01:13:07.000Because some people want to get to know a creator a lot more than just what's on social media.
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01:37:41.000And I think also after the first few months, sometimes after those 90 days, maybe the first person you met the first week and what you talked about, it all sounds great, but then 90 days after, it's like, alright, well, it's getting real.
01:38:58.000Even if you are like a guy, if a guy's talking to a few girls or whatever, it's not like he's going to say first date, oh, this is the one I'm going to marry.
01:39:03.000He's not going to, you know, get rid of his options right away.
01:39:09.000Like, even if you have a sexual part, that happens.
01:39:11.000But to be like in a relationship, this is my man, this is my girl, you got to go through the vetting process, ask those serious questions and really watch how they move, you know, between that time.
01:44:56.000I've met a lot of nice guys in Tampa that are more down-to-earth than here, but I feel like everybody I meet here is just not worth dating.
01:45:02.000You don't come here to be down-to-earth.
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01:59:26.000-S-A-R-A- Can she be traveling and shit?
02:04:07.000Because, like, in society, your goal, you know, when you're younger, you think of getting married and having kids and starting a life like that, not like, oh, how much money am I going to get?
02:06:08.000And all that under God and everything.
02:13:03.000My thoughts on the video, I mean, this is his opinion, you know, he ain't, you know, he ain't a big dog, you know, he ain't saying what it is, and I ain't coming for it.
02:13:15.000But I personally, yeah, that marriage, oh my God.
02:27:04.000Yeah, I think it definitely plays a vital role into it, of course, and then women just being so independent, impendent-minded, and they feel like, you know, if it doesn't, you know, work for them, they're out.
02:30:42.000You know, it definitely benefits women.
02:30:43.000And I get why they feel certain ways about wanting that to happen, but it's too much of a risk for a man, especially if you've got success.
02:30:49.000But even if you don't, you know what I mean?
02:30:51.000Like, the risk is so high if you're losing everything.
02:30:53.000People, like, end their lives after that situation, you know?
02:30:56.000Especially this Popeye the Blue and divorce you.
02:36:37.000Well, no, I didn't know we were doing the show until like an hour before I came here.
02:36:40.000Never been on a podcast, but I've seen kind of footage before, so I had an idea.
02:36:43.000Obviously, I think it's different pool of people every time, so it's a little bit different vibe, different questions, different people, right?