00:40:14.000Shout to you guys, shout to the girls, and guys, it's Halloween, so yeah, I mean, we could easily cancel the show, but we made sure the show happened.1.00
00:40:22.000With her, you know, his girls came in and, you know, instead of being three or fours out in the streets, there are three or fours in the podcast.
00:40:28.000So, that being said, shout out to the girls.
00:40:31.000I'm making fun of you, but it's all good.0.84
00:57:22.000I know he's being, you know, right now, but it's what you say it hurts the audience's ears when you girls are yapping like, like, skilled uh, children, okay?
00:57:31.000Like, all I hear is, and it hurts my ears.
01:04:14.000Took long to them to get on, so I'm being nice.
01:04:16.000I'm being a nice guy waiting on what day in security.
01:04:19.000So, long story short, he finally got on a yacht on the third trolley over there, and people were leaving the yacht because I think something was happening.
01:04:26.000It was like some drama, a beef, but it was still lit, and she couldn't get on.
01:04:30.000So, she got mad that she couldn't get back.
01:11:53.000As long as we're at eye level, we can make it work.
01:11:55.000Okay, so with 80K a year, 5'8 probably, 5'9, and threesomes, I think you have a chance, you know, securing a guy that you would, you know, I would say.
01:14:46.000So, just so you know what this is, this is a calculator made from one of our supporters that gives you the details from the Census Bureau and, of course, Stats Online to give you the ideal man possible to find.
01:17:52.000You're gonna wear hijab and cover yourself and all that.0.99
01:17:55.000I mean, if that's what he wants, and he's a good man, and I'm in love with him, and it makes sense, and I can dive into the religion, and it's something that I can with.0.99
01:18:02.000Yeah, okay, wow, doesn't want to be haram.0.66
01:18:06.000All right, uh, politics wise, Democrat, Republican, he cannot be a Republican.
01:20:44.000So let's say, based on the odds that you have and you're 37 with three kids, are you okay that if you ultimately come to have no man and then end up dying on, are you okay with that?
01:21:15.000Most people live a life that never experiences that.
01:21:20.000Never sees what it is to love somebody when you're sick, love somebody when you're broke, love somebody when you got it, love somebody when your family's acting up, when you're dealing with problems with your friends and your career changes.1.00
01:21:34.000So if after him, right, I live the rest of my life alone and Ain't nothing but ain't shit niggas coming my way.1.00
01:22:36.000And I'm sure, like, once again, I'm not saying you're a bad woman or anything, but, you know, like, you can't have a video game and then all of a sudden it's like, oh, I'm trying to race.0.97
01:22:45.000You know, like, it's already been done.0.65
01:23:49.000And I get to see them then go and live the life that I wanted to live before it was cut short by people that decided to take my husband's life away.
01:24:03.000But unfortunately, in this economy and the way that Donald Trump has fucked us in the ass, it's other things I got to do to make sure my kids eat and live comfortably.0.99
01:24:36.000When you think of a stripper, you're putting me in a category based off of everything that you've seen and you've experienced through your life, right?
01:24:44.000Now, it's not my job to convince you of that because I don't give a fuck.0.97
01:24:47.000But a person that wants to actually get to know me and court me, which are plenty, and they meet my standards and they get to know me and they say, you know what?0.97
01:24:57.000You're not actually really this person, this job that you do.
01:25:23.000But what you're saying is that we're going to get to know each other, and in casual conversation upon us meeting each other, I'm going to start indulging in this information.
01:25:42.000And then there's others that are going to be so engulfed in my personality and knowing my story and knowing who I am as a person before that title that they're not going to put me in that box.
01:26:04.000I think that Chris is what he's trying to say straight up is like, as a woman, like, yes, you're going to ask, like, okay, he's going to see pasta stripping and everything, but like, I feel like women to a man is more of an accessory and.
01:26:16.000It's supposed to be at the representation of the woman that he has beside him as well.
01:26:43.000They want somebody who's going to be more effective.
01:26:44.000Except I'm not really talking about what I'm providing, I'm talking about what I do for a living.
01:26:48.000And, um, as far as me being accessory, baby, I'm not a goopsie belt.
01:26:52.000So a man that gets with me and a man that starts to come, it's not because I'm a good conversationalist and it's not because I'm going to tickle him out of his underwear laughing and giggling at me, right?0.99
01:27:02.000Um, he, a person that actually sits down to have a conversation with me and sees the things that I've done throughout my life and the things that I've accomplished as a woman, the stripping shit going to fall real low at the waistline.0.93
01:27:14.000Now, the, the stripping is something that I've done in the last few months because the economy has gotten real bad.0.98
01:27:20.000And I've had to do a few little things, you know what I'm saying, to make sure that my kids eat and they don't miss a beat.0.92
01:27:26.000A real man that knows who the fuck he is and knows what he wants and is confident within himself, he's not going because of what mommy and daddy are going to think or what his religious beliefs are or what his homies are going to say if they know that their girl used to work at Booby Trap.0.98
01:27:48.000And it's not going to define our relationship moving forward.
01:27:51.000I think men are a lot more simpler than that.
01:27:52.000I think that you're thinking a little bit to in depth of.0.98
01:27:55.000In depth of it, I feel like men are like they just want a woman that's more low key, do this, like you know, suck certain men, but those are not the good ones.0.95
01:28:03.000But I think that's a person, and I know you don't know that because you're only 20 years old.0.94
01:28:06.000So, if you're 37, you're gonna know that those are not the good ones.0.99
01:28:10.000Those are men, those are men that want you to sit in, be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, having a baby, not doing shit with yourself.0.99
01:28:26.000That's not me, Christy and Titan Queen.
01:28:30.000I just feel like men who work the whole lives and, you know, work very hard, and, you know, I feel like that they're going to want to settle for a woman who has that value to herself.
01:28:39.000Like, I don't think it's necessarily like, frankly, like, it doesn't matter if, like, you have to make them laugh or whatever, because men don't find women funny, anyways.
01:28:45.000But, um, I just think that, like, he's going to look at you and, like, the man that you want that's going to want to propose to you is going to take care of you and, like, that you can submit to him and everything is not going to choose you because of your lifestyle.
01:29:39.000Watching movies your whole life and thinking that because you've seen surgeons perform surgery on Grey's Anatomy for the last three years, you know how to do a ton of things.
01:32:16.000I don't care what anybody does to get anything as long as you're not harming somebody.
01:32:20.000You know what they say when they say bullying builds.0.86
01:32:22.000Character, like it is true because at the end of the day, like not everything in life is correct, and I just can't really stand for stripping because I just feel like that is just like a very sub level of human life that you go in because regular girls won't ever deal with that.0.87
01:32:36.000Like, if you stay a good woman, if something unfortunate, of course, I can have that.0.96
01:32:44.000Um, sorry for him passing and for the kids, God bless him as well.0.99
01:32:48.000But, um, all I have to say is like, there could have been more money if you kept yourself a good woman, you'd have a better chance of finding a great guy or somebody to.0.98
01:33:31.000I think that that's a very privileged way to look at life.
01:33:34.000I think that not everybody is afforded the opportunity to be able to say, Hey, I cannot do that.
01:33:40.000Hey, you know, sometimes you have three kids that you need to be able to feed.
01:33:44.000At the end of the day, life has ups and downs and that does come with life experience.
01:33:48.000That does come with years of being on this earth.
01:33:51.000At the end of the day, this is everybody's first time being on this earth and everybody is just trying their best.0.93
01:33:56.000And if that means being able to strip to feed your kids and you would rather do that as opposed to stay a good woman and let them starve, that doesn't necessarily equal.0.66
01:34:04.000Great grandmother took her seven kids without having to show her body.0.67
01:34:07.000And that was also a different time, just like you said.
01:34:10.000That was also a different time, just like you said.1.00
01:34:12.000We were talking the same shit, bro.0.99
01:34:14.000Like, like you said, with the great grandmother.1.00
01:34:16.000Hold on, wait a minute, because I'm talking.
01:34:19.000Hold on, wait a minute, because I'm talking.
01:34:21.000That was a different time, just like you said, right?
01:34:23.000You said it was a different time with her.
01:34:32.000I don't know why, like, it doesn't bother me.1.00
01:34:36.000I mean, I didn't even know coming on here it was going to be all the hoes.1.00
01:34:39.000This and who holds that because if that's what this is really about, it's about belittling women or like trying to humble women that share their living.1.00
01:38:33.000Like, so that being said, if you were an esthetician or you were in some other major profession, if a man came on your life and he wouldn't say, Oh, no, you should stop as a tissue.
01:38:57.000It's just probably not the guys that you want to marry.
01:39:02.000Listen, guys, Right now, I'm actually legally married, and I don't even want to say that on the podcast because there's certain things I can't talk about.
01:39:09.000Wait, But it's like, trust me, it's never a lot of men that want to marry women.
01:40:10.000I've lived the life I've lived and I've had the experiences that I've had that lead me to the opinions that I have on the topics that we're speaking on.
01:40:17.000Just like you guys have lived your life, you've lived your experiences, and that's why you have the perspective that you have on the topic that we're talking on.
01:40:25.000It doesn't mean that you're right and I'm wrong.
01:41:37.000Not to pick on her, but if your daughter was in her situation, being a stripper and going through all this stuff, would you want her to be in that scenario?0.84
01:44:19.000But when we're having the topics, you know, we speak in general, okay, and facts and data, okay?
01:44:25.000That's why we're number one for a reason.0.98
01:44:26.000So, celebrities watch us, family members watch us, and if we were saying some dumb shit or wrong shit, people will say we've been canceled a long time ago, all right?0.99
01:44:38.000Just take your feelings out of it, try to do it.
01:44:40.000I told you guys before the show, hey, listen, you know, facts, not emotions.0.99
01:44:44.000And it's fine because, at the end of the day, like I've seen, I've hired, recruit girls, I'm the only nigga in the world that does this shit.0.99
01:47:25.000You guys are going to go party now after this and have some fun.
01:47:28.000But I want to know from you guys, for example, if you were a man today, dating in a current climate, and you saw yourself, well, you saw a woman dressed like yourself, would you date them on Y?
01:51:18.000So, if you're a man and let's say it's Halloween, which is which it is today, you go outside, you see women dressed like you know, I think a lot of girls cuffed up out there, sexy.0.72
01:51:26.000Oh my god, so many, but they're with their boyfriend, right?0.85
01:51:31.000I would assume they were young, so probably not.
01:51:32.000Okay, and you, no, now there's a video we could play here as well, uh, from a good friend of ours, and uh, he goes through Halloween, it's a test you can play.
01:51:42.000So, fellas, watch this video in detail, do the test yourself, and see if you could pass the test.
01:54:23.000I think I got to follow up on that.1.00
01:54:24.000Like, if I were in the little box that y'all live in and I was like, oh my God, girls can't do this and that, I would be like, but the bitch just left to the Lorax.1.00
01:54:33.000Or the back dress that has the toaster and shit.1.00
01:54:36.000Like, yeah, I'll fuck with you, girl.1.00
01:54:39.000There was a girl dressed as Quinkly from Lilo and Stitch.1.00
01:57:29.000I mean, at the end of the day, like, yeah, it's completely true what he's saying in the video.0.56
01:57:33.000That's why you need to look for a woman like that.
01:57:34.000And I don't think that being a closed minded Christian is a thing.
01:57:38.000I don't think being religious is closed minded at all.
01:57:41.000I think it's the definite way of life.0.80
01:57:43.000And I feel like why, you know, ruin your chances in this life and mess up your chances for the eternal life just for you to be a heathen while you're on earth right now.
01:57:52.000Isn't that why he died on the cross for our sins?
01:57:54.000Yeah, but that's why you have to live every day trying not to sin.
01:57:57.000We're all sinners and we all act as a choice every day, but it's a choice.
01:58:20.000So, my question for the two that said no, genuinely, if you were going to a Halloween party, your friend, you're having a girls' night, and all the girls are dressed as Right?
01:58:33.000Let's just all say that we're all going out just as dinosaurs.
02:00:51.000Be the wife, you know, cook for him, clean for him, and just live that beautiful life somewhere in, I don't know, the countryside, you know.
02:04:10.000What I'm saying is, There's no need for you to make yourself sound holier than thou or higher than anybody else at this table because you chose a certain path and we chose this path.
02:04:20.000I think that there's only one path and that's the way.
02:04:22.000And that's why you're a closed minded person in my opinion.
02:04:25.000I think God is the truth and God is the only truth.
02:04:28.000Even Jezebel was invited to the table.
02:04:31.000But at the same time, there's a difference because it's like, like I said, going back to the sinning thing, if you're actively sinning and how fast you're sinning.
02:04:37.000And we all said that God knows your heart.
02:04:48.000You know, you guys, everybody has their own story.
02:04:50.000It's the same thing with, for example, people who grow up in the hood and then they think that they have to act like Hawaiians and everything.
02:04:55.000To me, I feel like God gives you all the tools on your plate to act and live a certain way and try to be the best.
02:06:25.000And me saying to somebody that they view the world in black and white, not that their world is black and white, that the way they view things is right and wrong.
02:06:33.000That's what I mean when I say black and white.
02:07:15.000Because I can name you a bunch of strippers that have gotten married and lived great lives with men that respect them and value her at a time.0.97
02:07:28.000And it's a fact because we have statistics that we have people who actually take statistics on women's lives.
02:07:33.000I actually want to answer this question.0.99
02:07:36.000Um, The question was Do you think that the two girls have a better chance of finding a man and being happy in life over the four of you?1.00
02:11:05.000No, no, no, but the point is that, like, us being married doesn't benefit us, it benefits you guys.
02:11:10.000Yeah, so us being married doesn't benefit us at all, right?
02:11:13.000No, of course, unless you want to talk about childbearing, that's that's one thing, right?
02:11:16.000But in essence, us being single and being successful is way better for us.
02:11:20.000I thought I was like on a new and hate podcast, I didn't know that I was like going to meet with my uncles and grandfathers in the old testament.
02:11:27.000Oh, yeah, but you're 37, so I'm understanding why at 38 you think it's okay to be out here starting and bopping.1.00
02:12:56.000What's wrong with being a pick me?0.93
02:12:57.000It's one thing to want to be with somebody for the right reasons, but for you to completely disregard yourself as a woman where you can hold yourself in a relationship just because you want to be the right one for a man to marry, you're losing yourself, your identity.0.75
02:13:16.000To be married, this is what we can touch on this.
02:13:19.000Before we hold on, I'm gonna tell her what she said, I'm gonna answer it.
02:14:40.000This is my fact that I'm trying to tell you based off what I've seen so far of working here for two years.
02:14:45.000I've always kind of been the same way since I started working here, but obviously I've gotten a little bit more into it after seeing a lot of the things that they say come true.
02:14:53.000And I think that a lot of your points are just a lot of it's very emotional.
02:16:15.000And things are different than how I actually viewed life as 20.
02:16:18.000So at the end of the day, you know, to be able to understand that when you're having these conversations, you're able to respect the fact that she is 20.
02:17:19.000No, scientifically, it doesn't mean dick because at the end of the day, I'm 20 years old and I can understand the fact that stripping is wrong, showing my tits is wrong, being a whore is wrong, being in a marriage.0.99
02:17:28.000That doesn't mean anything about my age.0.99
02:17:29.000My frontal lobe is way more developed.
02:17:31.000I can promise you that because I'm a child.
02:24:29.000So I just, Left it alone, but what if you took it professionally?
02:24:32.000Like, you just, you know what I mean?0.99
02:24:33.000Like, yeah, you sell your body, but like, you're it's a profession, no, you gotta do all the extra shit.0.97
02:24:37.000And even if you did, carry yourself in like a certain way.0.96
02:24:39.000Trying to go face, I, I, anybody, I agree, like, whatever somebody does to make money is what somebody does to make money.0.99
02:24:47.000But when I was in the strip club, I can't say, like, I told myself, okay, I don't want to be, I seen older people in there, you know what I'm saying?
02:24:55.000And I was like, man, I don't want to be married, right?0.87
02:25:00.000Mary, so, so, so, no, like, they wasn't married in that.
02:25:10.000In the ship club, there was a married.0.65
02:25:17.000No, I don't know anybody that was a shipper that was married.0.99
02:25:30.000No, no, Three now, I'll say this when I was there, I'd be sober watching everything yes, how women operate, how men get full of the money, how they simp,0.93
02:25:46.000how they pretty much like use, like, what the no, no, no You know, the work that they're doing, yeah, and they rely on like a lot of substances to maintain that level of composure while doing their work, and it ends up becoming like a drug because you end up doing that as a habit.0.95
02:26:16.000So, you start doing drugs, whatever it is, Coke, Tuskegee, whatever.
02:26:42.000So, I think it's very easy for us to look at dancers, strippers, people who operate in nightlife.
02:26:51.000And for us to judge them and say, I would never do that, right?
02:26:54.000You look at somebody who works at McDonald's and be like, I would never do that.
02:26:57.000But the thing that we forget is that a lot of times it is related back to trauma.
02:27:02.000A lot of times it's related back to abuse.
02:27:04.000A lot of times it is related back to not having enough money to survive, not being able to take care of your kids, not being able to take care of your dying mother.
02:27:11.000And the thing that we forget is that trauma alters the brain and it allows us to be able to become comfortable with the things that we would have never been comfortable with.
02:27:22.000In our younger childhood, because now we need to make it a norm to be able to continue going in life.
02:27:28.000All right, so here's the harsh truth, right?
02:27:31.000And like, I'm gonna say it again, and the only time, and if you take it how it is, it is what it is.0.98
02:27:37.000Guys don't care about your fucking past, all right?0.98
02:27:40.000Like, well, I think guys care about your past.0.99
02:27:42.000All right, so, sorry, my mouth's on me.
02:27:50.000So if you're like, oh, I've been this, I've done that, guys care about your past 100%.
02:27:54.000Do they also care about your past trauma?0.98
02:27:56.000No, wait, wait, wait, fresh, like, I'm lit, it's speak clearly, all right, so, anyways, listen, and you girls care about a man's future, all right, so if man was a bum in the past or he's like broke as fuck,0.98
02:28:14.000you but like pull shit out, oh yeah, you know what, I'm gonna help him up, I'm gonna build him up, his ambition and whatever, right, so you care about this nigga's future, you will never care about his past, if this nigga fucked 10 girls in the past, you don't care, you'd be in the same, put your hand down.0.99
02:28:28.000You've been in the same section with Drake or niggas, right?1.00
02:28:32.000That you know that fuck your homegirls, whatever, right?1.00
02:28:35.000But guys, you don't see us in a fucking like, oh, yo, yo, yo, you know, she was a hoe, I want to wife her and shit.1.00
02:28:52.000No, I'm saying if you care about our past, how do you differentiate between the past trauma versus the stuff that you actually do care about?
02:28:59.000I don't want to hear your trauma, sorry.
02:31:15.000Because they don't have a second option, you know, to be a good.
02:31:18.000I don't think, I don't think, no, it's very easy for women.0.76
02:31:20.000All you have to do is be a good woman, find a good man, and you're set for life.0.93
02:31:23.000To be honest, guys have to fucking work every single day and make sure that they can build an empire, make sure they're financially stable, make sure that they look good, have to develop how to talk to a woman.0.98
02:31:33.000For us, we don't need to learn how to talk to a man.0.97
02:31:35.000We've had multiple men come up to us, talk to us, get at us for no reason, just because of our looks and what we have.
02:31:40.000But for men, they have to actually try in those things.
02:31:42.000So I feel like, in terms of you saying, oh, but what if the men want for my trauma?0.99
02:31:46.000No, nobody gives a fuck about your trauma.0.98
02:32:40.000I've seen U.S. military veterans seeing combat, their own friends blown into pieces, but they're not going to go to their woman and be like, no, I can't work and I'm going to be a cuck because.
02:33:09.000Okay, so now are we differentiating trauma?0.97
02:33:11.000I just don't give a fuck about it in total, to be honest.
02:33:14.000So, if we're not differentiating trauma, so trauma affects the brain because it affects the levels of hormones in your brain to be able to cope with it.0.96
02:33:42.000It chemically alters the brain, right?
02:33:44.000So if we say that we don't care about the trauma, then that also means that we don't care about the trauma in men, which also means that we don't care about the trauma in our war veterans.
02:33:54.000Who have seen men and women blown to pieces straight in front of them, and we have clinically diagnosed them PTSD because we do care about that trauma.
02:35:00.000My question is Do we think out of the 8 billion people on this earth, knowing how the world is today, do we think that we're going to find anybody with zero trauma?
02:35:13.000Like she just said earlier, which is a very wise thing she said.
02:35:16.000That trauma is a trauma before you meet somebody.
02:35:19.000Because if you meet somebody and it's still there, for example, sorry to say this for a rumble, I'm going to say it.
02:35:23.000If you were raped as a child, if you were molested, that's trauma.
02:35:26.000And when you meet somebody that's going to be a partner, that's because if you don't deal with it, then that's their burden now.
02:36:17.000And for a man to be a leader in a relationship, he has to be able to know.
02:36:21.000Who it is that he's leading, and if we're gonna say that at the end of the day we're not going to take trauma into account, then that means that you can't be a full leader.1.00
02:36:37.000Nah, I didn't say we didn't understand the trauma, we take it into account.1.00
02:36:43.000We don't want to deal with it because dealing with it is a whole different matter.
02:36:46.000My point is that, like, yes, you can have trauma as a woman, things happen to you, you know what I'm saying, you're good looking, and a man, yeah, weird, yeah, men as well.
02:37:20.000And to bring it up and to keep it live when you date somebody?0.99
02:37:24.000It only hurts the person that you're dating because that's fucked up.0.98
02:37:26.000I'm never saying that you should not handle your trauma before you get into a relationship.0.98
02:37:32.000At the end of the day, you should take yourself and put yourself in therapy to be able to handle your trauma before you get into a relationship.
02:37:39.000But to be able to say that the person that you love is not going to look at the trauma and be able to operate around it, I don't feel like that's right.
02:41:25.000God forbid, let's say that it happens.
02:41:27.000Would you expect for your husband to be able to understand that and operate around it?1.00
02:41:32.000Are we saying that it should be fuck that shit?1.00
02:41:34.000I'm understanding that I'm putting myself in a position that might be harder for me in the future, relationship wise, because obviously I'm picking a more masculine profession to be in.1.00
02:42:05.000I'm like 0.001% that you're talking about.
02:42:08.000Talking about your trauma, like whatever, but the question is if it does happen, do you want your husband to be able to accommodate around it?
02:42:27.000Like, I'm not gonna be his problem, you know, like I'm not gonna take so to be able to love and be in a marriage does not mean through the worst, is that what you're saying?
02:42:38.000I mean, if you're not going to be his father.
02:42:40.000If he's getting cancer, yes, biblically, he's through sickness.
02:42:42.000So trauma is just like getting cancer.
02:43:28.000But in all reality, you deal with that shit, whether it's the gym, mental fortitude, whatever you gotta do to figure that shit out, right?1.00
02:44:41.000Like, if a guy wants to take a girl who's emotionally cooked, if a guy wants to take a girl who's emotionally and mentally cooked, then that's on him.0.80
02:44:47.000That's what he's looking for, and if that's what we're looking for, then choose the cuck that's gonna do it.1.00
02:44:51.000What if on your wedding day you find out your man got in the ass?1.00
02:44:56.000So, are we taking trauma into account?1.00
02:45:57.000So she's saying basically, so you're saying basically that the frontal lobe that you're saying about her not being developed is nonsense because it's been debunked.
02:46:04.000Google doesn't always tell the truth, it doesn't have to be Google.
02:46:22.000I said you should be able to get into therapy and deal with it yourself, but that does not mean that in a relationship we do not take accommodations.
02:46:31.000You were saying we should deal with your trauma.
02:46:33.000I said that we should not deal with your trauma.
02:46:34.000No, I said that in a relationship we sacrifice for those that we love.
02:46:39.000And if that means taking accommodations for the trauma that we have, then that does not mean at the end of the day, if we love somebody, we sacrifice for those that we love.
02:46:48.000And if you tell me that it bothers me that X, Y, and Z happens, I love you.
02:46:53.000And so I'm going to accommodate around it.
03:00:14.000So, um, so 12 13 to 14, let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man.
03:00:27.000For God shall bring every work into judgment with every, with ever at 244.
03:00:35.000So, so basically, what he's saying is when you're stripping, when you're doing work of the devil, basically, that's not what you should be doing, even though it pays the bills, it doesn't.
03:00:47.000Give you eternal life, which is important as men and women of today.