John Bolton - June 02, 2015


Fady Phalestin safety


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

151.50182

Word Count

918

Sentence Count

98

Misogynist Sentences

7


Summary

In this episode, I speak with a father whose daughter was found face down in the water after a trip to the pool with his family. He talks about what happened and what his family did to save the day.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 The incident that we're talking about here, tell me a little bit about this.
00:00:15.480 Did this happen on the very first day?
00:00:17.360 Actually the first few hours.
00:00:19.360 We went to the pool, there was some cartoon characters there, Tubi Ambino.
00:00:23.720 They love it.
00:00:24.720 My kids love Tubi Ambino.
00:00:27.080 So they took some photos, then my wife jumped into the pool.
00:00:32.400 I decided to ease myself, take the steps, take the other end of the pool, get to the pool.
00:00:39.840 This when I heard screaming.
00:00:43.020 Someone was screaming and just, what's going on?
00:00:46.520 So initially what did you think?
00:00:48.740 Did you initially think about your children and your daughter Ellaria?
00:00:52.080 How old is she by the way?
00:00:53.080 She would be three on July.
00:00:55.420 So she's only two and a half, just going on three at this point.
00:00:58.740 Yeah.
00:00:59.740 And did you think about your children immediately?
00:01:01.740 No.
00:01:02.740 For all honesty, no.
00:01:03.740 Because I know Ellaria and Eliana, my other kid.
00:01:08.180 They are very careful.
00:01:10.180 What happened?
00:01:11.420 When did you notice that there's something wrong?
00:01:13.740 So I heard that screaming, then I went to see what's going on and I found my wife was screaming.
00:01:21.060 I have no idea how I went from the other end of the pool to the other end, but I found myself there.
00:01:30.060 I found her pulling up, uh, Ellaria, what's going on?
00:01:37.380 Out of the pool.
00:01:38.380 Out of the pool.
00:01:39.380 So later I learned what happened.
00:01:42.380 So basically she jumped in and she noticed that Ellaria is not around.
00:01:49.380 She started asking some of our friends who were, who were, uh, by the pool, where is Ellaria?
00:01:55.700 No one knows.
00:01:56.700 So she tried actually to jump out of the pool to look for her, uh, thinking that she might
00:02:02.620 have followed 2B and B, you know, the cartoon's characters.
00:02:05.700 So, thank God she couldn't, thank God she couldn't go out.
00:02:10.980 So she decided to go to the corner so she, so she may get...
00:02:14.580 Out of the pool.
00:02:15.580 Out of the pool.
00:02:16.580 Out of the pool.
00:02:17.580 And her way to the corner, she found Ellaria floating.
00:02:21.180 Face down in the water.
00:02:24.740 So your wife takes Ellaria out of the pool and hands her to you?
00:02:28.260 No.
00:02:29.260 She handed it to one of our friends up.
00:02:31.320 So he, when he started to do, uh, kind of mouth-to-mouth to her, she was, she was blue.
00:02:38.200 Wow.
00:02:39.200 She was lifeless, blue, no pulse.
00:02:42.200 He, he opened her mouth to do mouth-to-mouth.
00:02:47.960 She opened her eyes, stared, and there was no pulse.
00:02:53.280 That time I was just beside him.
00:02:55.680 We thought that she's gone.
00:02:57.080 We thought that we lost her.
00:02:59.640 I carried her.
00:03:01.480 I did not know, I did not know what to do.
00:03:04.400 So I carried her, facing out, trying to squeeze her abdominal, running with her to the reception.
00:03:13.520 Trying, trying, trying.
00:03:14.520 She was lifeless.
00:03:15.520 She was...
00:03:16.520 It felt like I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm holding a...
00:03:18.520 A rag doll?
00:03:19.520 A doll.
00:03:20.520 A lifeless doll.
00:03:21.520 Try it.
00:03:22.520 Ellaria, be with me.
00:03:24.520 Ellaria, you can make it.
00:03:25.520 You can...
00:03:26.520 Nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing.
00:03:28.440 So we reached to the reception.
00:03:31.440 I put her at the couch.
00:03:34.200 Then, then, uh, thank God we, there was a Canadian nurse on the same, on the same trip.
00:03:43.280 She was at the reception.
00:03:44.560 She took over the scene.
00:03:45.680 I did not know what she did.
00:03:47.560 I did not know what she did.
00:03:50.560 But she made her to pop out some water.
00:03:54.320 This is when she started to breathe again and there was some pulse back.
00:03:58.560 So after all this happened, she ended up spending how much time in the hospital on your vacation?
00:04:03.560 Two days.
00:04:04.560 What did you learn from this?
00:04:07.560 I mean, obviously, you, you have the best in mind for your children all the time.
00:04:11.560 What I learned, no matter what, around water we need to be careful.
00:04:15.560 No matter how good you are, how good of a swimmer you are, how good, you know, how shallow it is.
00:04:23.560 And does Ellaria remember any of this and how is she doing now?
00:04:27.560 Actually, she's, she's doing, she's doing good.
00:04:29.560 So, actually, this happened Thursday and Friday.
00:04:32.560 Saturday morning she was in the pool.
00:04:34.560 Well, we're really happy to know that she's doing all right.
00:04:39.560 Yeah.
00:04:40.560 And tragedy was averted in this situation.
00:04:41.560 Yeah.
00:04:42.560 Any advice for people who have small children?
00:04:44.560 Yes.
00:04:45.560 Watch them like a hook.
00:04:47.560 Second thing, that floating devices need to be there always.
00:04:51.560 They need to wear it always.
00:04:53.560 We are heading to the summer season.
00:04:56.560 And all, most of us goes, you know, goes to the pools or vacation with, on the ocean,
00:05:03.560 the sea, whatever it is, or lakes.
00:05:07.560 Be careful, no matter what.
00:05:10.560 Some, some of us even use their boats and go to the lakes.
00:05:13.560 You know, adult or minor, please put your life jacket on.
00:05:19.560 It's, you know, it won't be cool if any, if, if we had lost any one of our families.
00:05:29.560 You know, life jacket is essential.
00:05:33.560 No matter how good of a swimmer you are.
00:05:36.560 Well, thanks for telling your story and we hope people learn from this.
00:05:39.560 We're so happy your family came back safe and sound.
00:05:41.560 Thank you.
00:05:42.560 You know, I'm very happy people.
00:05:43.560 Thank you.
00:05:45.560 By viewing.
00:05:46.560 And at the meeting you're going to be hosting in the queue.
00:05:47.560 So, folks, I'll give you one poll.
00:05:48.560 Thank you, Mitch.
00:05:52.560 Don't worry.
00:05:53.560 Well, I'm Louis.
00:05:55.560 Hit this in line.
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