JustPearlyThings - May 05, 2023


23 Year Old 304 REVEALS Her Body Count


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In this episode, we talk about virginity and how important it is in today's day and age. Do you think it matters? How many times have you slept with someone else? Have you ever lost your virginity? Are you a virgin or are you a reborn-again virgin? Do you feel like losing your virginity is more important than your body count?

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00:00:00.000 Today's topic, we are talking about virginity.
00:00:04.540 It seems like that's, you know, disappeared nowadays when it comes to women.
00:00:09.220 However, we are going to get these young ladies' opinions on it.
00:00:13.720 So to start, guys, I actually want to start with what do you think the average body count is for, let's say, a 22-year-old in today's day and age?
00:00:26.200 Um, maybe like between 10 and 20.
00:00:32.100 Wow, 10 and 20?
00:00:33.420 I think so, yeah.
00:00:35.100 Wow, okay. What do you think?
00:00:36.900 I'm going to say about 7.
00:00:38.120 7?
00:00:39.520 I reckon 10 is 20 as well.
00:00:41.640 10 to 20 for a 22-year-old.
00:00:44.800 Well, it depends on relationships as well because if you've been in a long-term relationship, then it's going to be lower than someone else who's always been single.
00:00:51.280 Do you guys know your friends' body counts? Do they tell you?
00:00:53.980 I feel like you have, but I actually can't remember.
00:00:56.740 I don't think it's a big thing that matters.
00:00:59.040 I feel like you should just, yeah, yeah, of course.
00:01:01.860 Do you know, like, your close friends, like, do they tell you how many people they've slept with or?
00:01:06.700 I don't think body count matters.
00:01:08.860 Uh, I don't even know what yours is, do I?
00:01:13.520 I think when you're younger, it's something that you probably talk about more, but as you get older, you're an adult.
00:01:18.680 How old are you? 20?
00:01:20.160 24.
00:01:20.940 Yeah, 24. You're still young.
00:01:22.320 Oh, I feel old, though.
00:01:24.820 Um, but, so, in general, people don't know.
00:01:28.640 Not really, I don't think it's a thing that people really talk about nowadays.
00:01:32.320 It's a personal thing, isn't it?
00:01:33.660 So, how did you guys guess the average? Is that, like, based off of you guys'?
00:01:36.780 Yeah.
00:01:37.500 Oh, okay.
00:01:38.000 No, it's just a random guess.
00:01:39.760 Okay, you said body count doesn't matter. Why?
00:01:44.080 I just feel like, if you want to, if you want to fuck, fuck.
00:01:47.580 But, personally, I feel like being in a relationship and losing your virginity is so much more better.
00:01:54.100 Well, why is it better if it doesn't matter, if body count, wouldn't it just be the same?
00:02:00.320 Because body count doesn't matter?
00:02:01.400 I think the first time you want it to be special, because it's the unknown, and it's such, like, a big thing, isn't it?
00:02:06.080 When you haven't had sex before.
00:02:08.000 But I think, once you've had it, you realize, not that it doesn't mean anything, I don't mean anything like that, but it's common.
00:02:14.860 And everyone does it. Do you know what I mean?
00:02:16.280 Was losing you guys' virginity special, or no?
00:02:19.600 I was drunk.
00:02:20.880 Yeah, you were drunk.
00:02:21.500 That's what I can't remember.
00:02:22.300 Oh, boy.
00:02:25.780 Special? Was it special, first time?
00:02:27.600 Who said I lost it?
00:02:28.940 Oh.
00:02:30.780 You know, are you a virgin?
00:02:34.500 Shut up, Courtney. 1.00
00:02:36.120 I mean, I definitely am at this point, but...
00:02:39.260 Because it's been so long, you're, like, a reborn-again virgin.
00:02:42.580 Oh, yeah, yeah.
00:02:43.020 But not a 100% celibate.
00:02:44.300 But not a real virgin.
00:02:47.080 No, not a real virgin.
00:02:48.840 Okay.
00:02:49.640 But why don't you think it matters?
00:02:51.520 I just don't feel like it matters.
00:02:53.180 Like, everyone has different sexual desires.
00:02:55.140 Everyone, you know, everyone's more sexual than other people.
00:02:58.760 And if you want to, if you're horny, go and do it.
00:03:02.040 I think it doesn't matter to men, but it matters to women. 1.00
00:03:04.640 Yeah.
00:03:05.220 Yeah.
00:03:05.960 Really?
00:03:06.800 Yeah.
00:03:07.380 What do you mean?
00:03:08.440 I don't think men's body count matters. 1.00
00:03:10.800 Men's does it, but women's does. 1.00
00:03:12.360 Yeah.
00:03:12.560 So if a man came up to you and was like, yeah, I've slept with, like, 247 girls, you wouldn't feel anything at all.
00:03:21.380 You'll just be like, it's calm, as if you slept with five.
00:03:24.400 All right, this is how I would think about it.
00:03:27.120 240, if he told me that.
00:03:28.320 I'd be like, well, I'm probably not special enough to make this man slow down, so I'd probably pass.
00:03:34.640 So it does, it does affect you, it does affect you?
00:03:37.360 No, wait, wait, let me finish.
00:03:38.500 But it's not the same, because I'm not repulsed by it.
00:03:40.820 I'm not disgusted by it.
00:03:41.800 Like, I don't really care.
00:03:43.300 Like, I don't really care what a guy's past is.
00:03:44.860 But I just think of, like, on a balance of probabilities, if a dude slept with 200 bitches, well, I'm going to be the special one that makes him stuff. 1.00
00:03:52.180 Yeah.
00:03:52.500 Yeah, but it's not that, Poe, it's not that.
00:03:54.940 If he loves you, then of course he'll be the special one.
00:03:57.180 Yeah, and, you know, that's great.
00:03:59.060 I just think, like, the odds aren't in my favor.
00:04:01.320 Yeah, but it's not that.
00:04:02.240 Like, 200 and me, you know?
00:04:03.980 Poe, it's not that, it's not that, it's not that.
00:04:06.120 Yeah.
00:04:06.500 Let's say you fuck, like, 240 skits hoes in his past. 1.00
00:04:11.280 You come along, you're a good girl.
00:04:12.920 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:13.940 You're a good girl.
00:04:14.040 You're a good girl.
00:04:14.400 You're a good girl.
00:04:14.940 You make his day better, he comes home to you.
00:04:18.300 Yeah.
00:04:18.820 He's like, oh, I'm waiting for Poe at home.
00:04:20.560 He's not going to care, he's going to want you.
00:04:21.960 Okay, there's.
00:04:22.600 It's just experience.
00:04:23.280 Yeah, you know, that's true.
00:04:24.840 You know, miracles happen, but, you know.
00:04:28.680 No, I would just think, like, out of 200 girls, there had to be some good girls in there.
00:04:33.100 And he probably just doesn't want to settle down.
00:04:34.700 That's how I would look at it.
00:04:35.980 But it's not like men, because men are repulsed by it.
00:04:38.480 Like, do you want a girl that's loved with 200 dudes?
00:04:40.960 I mean, like, you know, I agree with you.
00:04:44.120 I feel like it actually doesn't matter when they're with you.
00:04:46.940 It's like whatever happens in the future.
00:04:48.420 Like, but at the same time.
00:04:50.980 Wifey, 200 bodies. 1.00
00:04:52.120 If my wife told me, I was like, yeah.
00:04:53.660 These two guys hit first, and now she's on your arm.
00:04:56.840 I would be like, no, fuck that.
00:04:58.840 I'm not going to lie to you.
00:04:59.620 Right, right.
00:05:00.220 I'd be like that.
00:05:00.980 But it's not good.
00:05:02.180 It doesn't mean it's good to be like that.
00:05:03.660 But it's just, I think, the society we live in, you know, it's not good to have a big number, I presume.
00:05:11.120 So.
00:05:11.320 I think that's sad, though, that it's like that society now.
00:05:13.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:14.420 Why should numbers matter?
00:05:16.020 Why should you care about what people think all the time?
00:05:18.840 And that evolves around everything in the world we live in.
00:05:20.780 Well, I think your past behavior dictates your future behavior.
00:05:25.080 So it's like, if you're sleeping around for 10 years, what are the chances that you stop?
00:05:29.240 And it's the same thing with, like, the guy that slept with 200.
00:05:31.860 I would think, well, what are the odds he stops?
00:05:34.360 True.
00:05:34.960 But isn't that like, you know.
00:05:37.060 I could hope, you know, after you.
00:05:38.260 Okay, what do you think the average body count is for a 22-year-old?
00:05:48.480 Now?
00:05:49.120 Yeah.
00:05:49.800 Now, I would say at least about 15 to 17.
00:05:55.920 I'll go about that.
00:05:56.220 15 to 17.
00:05:57.200 I'd say if you're about 22, you probably slept with about just under 20 people.
00:06:01.840 Maybe.
00:06:02.580 Unless you haven't been in a relationship that's like three, four years.
00:06:05.380 Um, and you've been single and you've just been kind of dating.
00:06:09.960 I think so.
00:06:10.920 I think so.
00:06:11.740 But, you know, it's, it depends.
00:06:13.900 It depends on the person.
00:06:14.980 Okay.
00:06:15.320 What do you think?
00:06:16.180 I can't lie.
00:06:17.500 If the guy's a nerd, he's probably slept with like, what, 10 people in his life.
00:06:21.920 Like 22, did you say?
00:06:23.060 Yeah.
00:06:23.420 Yeah.
00:06:23.680 22, a girl.
00:06:24.740 Sorry.
00:06:25.320 Or a girl. 0.68
00:06:25.740 Yeah, for a girl.
00:06:26.420 Oh, for a girl, 22.
00:06:27.500 Yeah.
00:06:28.060 It depends on how many relationships she's been in.
00:06:30.020 Like, let's say she's been in a, like, three relationship.
00:06:32.560 I would assume my body count's three.
00:06:33.980 But it depends on the girl.
00:06:35.880 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:06:36.380 They might close to you.
00:06:38.060 They might.
00:06:39.260 Move it close.
00:06:40.060 Can you not hear me, bro?
00:06:40.740 Yeah.
00:06:41.040 We can't hear you properly.
00:06:41.820 Oh, cool.
00:06:42.560 Let's say, let's say the girl is like, serious.
00:06:46.180 Bro, I'm spooking, bro.
00:06:47.580 He's talking, bro.
00:06:48.480 Move it up.
00:06:50.100 Move it up.
00:06:51.060 Yeah.
00:06:51.580 There you go.
00:06:52.240 There you go.
00:06:53.800 Anyway, if the girl is like, serious about her relationships.
00:06:57.160 And she lost it to a guy that she's in a relationship with.
00:07:00.180 Don't understand, like, if she's had, like, three relationships, four relationships.
00:07:03.740 I would assume, like, three, four.
00:07:05.220 But most girls, they get into a relationship. 1.00
00:07:07.120 Yeah, I say the average chick. 0.92
00:07:08.780 The average chick? 0.99
00:07:09.480 Yeah, 22.
00:07:12.400 I would say five.
00:07:13.920 Five.
00:07:14.520 That's low.
00:07:15.660 Average girl, five. 0.76
00:07:16.920 That's low.
00:07:17.760 At 22, bro.
00:07:19.200 That's low.
00:07:19.880 That's low.
00:07:20.540 You feel that's low?
00:07:21.040 Yeah, man.
00:07:22.040 With the life that we live in now, though, Birkin, just think about that. 1.00
00:07:25.840 That's not realistic.
00:07:27.080 A lot of girls lose their fidgety. 0.99
00:07:28.520 I'm saying five.
00:07:30.380 That's what I'm saying, five.
00:07:31.600 Jonathan?
00:07:32.320 Is that from personal, like, experience, though?
00:07:34.520 Or just what you're saying?
00:07:36.060 I'm saying the average should be five, and it is five.
00:07:38.700 Jonathan?
00:07:39.500 Because you're the boss, man.
00:07:41.780 Okay, what about you?
00:07:43.160 You said at 22?
00:07:44.180 Yeah, 22.
00:07:45.100 I think at least 20 plus.
00:07:46.240 I think once a girl hits the club, her number skyrockets. 1.00
00:07:48.740 Okay, so question for the girls. 0.82
00:07:53.880 Have you ever lied about your body count?
00:07:57.720 No, actually.
00:07:58.860 Never?
00:07:59.220 You've always told the truth?
00:08:00.220 Yeah.
00:08:00.580 Has a guy ever asked you?
00:08:02.860 Um, I think it's come up in conversation, but no one that I'm actually seeing.
00:08:07.520 No, actually, that's a lie.
00:08:08.360 Yeah, they have asked me.
00:08:09.320 But it's not like, it wouldn't be the first question.
00:08:12.020 Okay.
00:08:12.380 Maybe like a couple months in.
00:08:13.460 And you told them the truth?
00:08:15.080 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:15.600 Okay.
00:08:16.000 What about you?
00:08:17.680 Yes.
00:08:18.560 You have lied?
00:08:19.380 Yeah.
00:08:19.660 What did you tell them it was?
00:08:24.360 We did not speak on that.
00:08:26.040 But, um, let's just say I said it was five.
00:08:29.460 But, so if body count doesn't matter, why'd you lie?
00:08:33.120 Because at the time, my ex was quite judgy, and I thought he would break up with me.
00:08:39.280 If he found out how many people.
00:08:41.240 Right.
00:08:41.740 Did he believe you?
00:08:43.240 No, I told him at the end.
00:08:44.960 Oh, you told him at the end.
00:08:46.120 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:46.660 Did he stay with you or no?
00:08:48.280 Yeah.
00:08:48.900 Okay, so he did accept it.
00:08:50.160 Yeah.
00:08:51.260 Yeah, I felt disappointed.
00:08:52.940 He was disappointed.
00:08:53.780 Yeah.
00:08:55.120 Well.
00:08:56.000 It is what it is.
00:08:58.160 Okay, what about you?
00:08:59.480 So, back in the day, I did actually used to lie, I can't lie, but now I'm very open about
00:09:05.140 it.
00:09:05.460 I don't care what people think about me.
00:09:07.660 I'm very expressive, but I have lied in the past about my body count, but I'm not ashamed
00:09:12.500 about it.
00:09:12.860 What did you say it was?
00:09:15.040 Like, 10, 20.
00:09:16.800 10, 20?
00:09:17.780 Yeah.
00:09:18.200 And will you say what it is?
00:09:20.360 You seem open to saying it, if you want.
00:09:22.340 Yeah, I'll say it.
00:09:23.040 It's probably over 100.
00:09:24.900 You're saying it over 100?
00:09:25.760 No way.
00:09:26.400 So, it's what?
00:09:27.800 Maybe or 80, I don't know.
00:09:29.620 Wow.
00:09:29.960 Good girl.
00:09:30.560 I don't care.
00:09:31.240 Good looking girl, do you know what I mean? 0.99
00:09:32.480 I'm just wondering, how do you go through that and, like, how?
00:09:35.820 How do you meet 100 men you want to sleep with?
00:09:38.760 I just enjoy life.
00:09:40.480 Like, I go through a lot of experiences.
00:09:42.220 I go on holiday.
00:09:43.420 I do all these things, and I'm just thinking, why should I care about what people think?
00:09:48.120 You're just jealous.
00:09:49.340 You're living.
00:09:50.040 Because, yeah, you're not living my life.
00:09:53.400 Tell him again.
00:09:54.180 Well, because it ruins your future, you know.
00:09:56.080 You're here for a fun time, not a long time.
00:09:57.860 Yeah, exactly.
00:09:59.360 We all die at some point in our life.
00:10:01.500 Yeah, but that's not a way to think about it, bro.
00:10:03.940 What?
00:10:04.320 I'll be real, because.
00:10:04.980 If you're horny, go for it.
00:10:06.080 Like, 100 plus, like, let's say you meet a girl with 100 plus.
00:10:09.880 That wouldn't bother me.
00:10:10.400 Would you judge me?
00:10:11.000 That wouldn't bother you.
00:10:11.560 No.
00:10:12.620 All right, cool.
00:10:13.020 100 plus is, like, stretching out, I can't lie.
00:10:15.900 Do you understand?
00:10:16.560 No, I think if she wants to have fun, she can have fun. 0.94
00:10:19.000 Let her do what she wants to do. 0.94
00:10:20.060 Have you ever caught an STD from that?
00:10:23.060 I have ones, yeah.
00:10:24.260 But that's normal.
00:10:25.540 Like, you would.
00:10:26.600 Out of all them people, of course you would.
00:10:28.440 Yeah, I'd imagine.
00:10:28.620 And I own that.
00:10:29.200 I'm not going to lie.
00:10:30.200 Right.
00:10:30.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:31.140 What's the point?
00:10:31.900 I'm going to be honest, of course.
00:10:33.080 No, I appreciate you being honest, but I'm just thinking, like, that's 100.
00:10:37.900 How?
00:10:38.640 But there's so many people out there that have got that body count, but they won't own
00:10:42.940 up to it.
00:10:43.900 I know plenty of people out there with that amount.
00:10:47.020 Yeah.
00:10:47.120 How common do you think it is?
00:10:48.780 I think it is.
00:10:49.360 How many men and girls have slept with that many people? 1.00
00:10:51.220 Probably over 60 to 70, I reckon.
00:10:55.880 There's a lot out there, but they just won't own up to it.
00:10:59.820 You're just experienced.
00:11:00.940 That's even better.
00:11:02.060 Exactly.
00:11:02.860 I don't care what people think, and that's why I'm in the place I am now, because I don't
00:11:07.240 care.
00:11:08.140 But don't you think that you should care about what the man you want thinks?
00:11:11.200 Yeah, but I'm not in that right headspace right now to care what that man thinks, because
00:11:16.580 I'm enjoying my life.
00:11:17.840 So you're focused on yourself?
00:11:19.040 Yeah, very focused.
00:11:20.260 So when do you think you'll be ready to focus on the man?
00:11:23.640 Maybe when I'm like 30.
00:11:25.540 How old are you now?
00:11:26.300 I'm 24 now.
00:11:27.560 So that's six years.
00:11:28.700 That's six years for me to enjoy my life.
00:11:30.720 You've got to understand the way you're living now.
00:11:32.060 I'm not judging you.
00:11:32.640 I'm not judging you.
00:11:33.260 No, of course.
00:11:33.640 You're living your life.
00:11:34.380 So you said 100.
00:11:35.620 Not judging you.
00:11:37.200 A lot of people judge me every day.
00:11:38.540 You said like 100 plus on average, right?
00:11:40.900 Mm-hmm.
00:11:41.500 All right.
00:11:41.840 So you tell me in six years, what would that be?
00:11:45.180 Yeah, but what?
00:11:46.020 Yeah, but...
00:11:46.340 When did you lose your virginity?
00:11:47.800 I'm just like calculating this per year.
00:11:49.520 I think 16.
00:11:50.720 So 16.
00:11:51.440 You said you're 24?
00:11:52.900 It sounds really bad me saying that.
00:11:54.380 That's just average.
00:11:55.280 I'm not saying it was literally over 100, but like there has been a lot of, yeah.
00:12:00.720 It's been an estimate and I have had a lot of experiences and I will never regret how
00:12:05.180 I am as a person and how open I am about it as well.
00:12:08.240 What's the most people you've slept with in like a week?
00:12:12.480 Probably only three or four, I think.
00:12:15.660 What do you mean only three?
00:12:16.540 That's fine.
00:12:17.840 But it's your holiday.
00:12:18.740 I'm sorry.
00:12:19.400 I don't mean...
00:12:19.960 I just...
00:12:20.320 No, it's fine.
00:12:20.900 This is so crazy to me.
00:12:21.940 And I know people probably looking at me online and thinking, oh, what a slag.
00:12:26.060 But people do this as a living as well.
00:12:28.980 You've got to remember that.
00:12:30.400 Like, just enjoy your life and be who you are as a person.
00:12:34.660 And if you like having sex all the time, then go and do it and be open about what you do.
00:12:39.500 Would it bother you if like the consequence of that would be not being able to get married
00:12:42.920 later?
00:12:45.680 Yes and I.
00:12:46.800 Because I do want to be married one day.
00:12:48.500 I want to have children.
00:12:49.360 So you have to think about what the man wants.
00:12:52.180 Yeah, but I'm a very selfish person.
00:12:54.800 I want to enjoy my own life.
00:12:56.320 And I don't think about things in the future.
00:12:58.300 I just think about the moment I'm in right now.
00:13:01.180 But I understand where you're coming from in that concept.
00:13:03.080 I understand that.
00:13:03.120 But I think that the goal for every woman is to get married and have children and create 0.99
00:13:06.700 a family one day, right?
00:13:07.740 Yeah.
00:13:08.040 So I understand that you're living your life.
00:13:10.240 You're enjoying yourself 100%.
00:13:11.760 I agree with that.
00:13:12.820 You should 100% do that.
00:13:14.380 But I also think that you should think about what the man that you want is going to think
00:13:18.200 about a woman that has such a high body.
00:13:20.380 But what if he was the same as me though?
00:13:22.740 It's not the same.
00:13:24.160 Like we just spoke about that earlier about a man having 200.
00:13:27.040 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:13:29.660 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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