23 Year Old Based Woman Red Pills Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the controversial topic of whether or not birth control should be used in the modern era. Is it a good or bad thing for women to be on birth control? Is there a link between birth control and divorce rates? Is it bad for women? And is it a bad thing to have children later in life?
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grandma my grandma old lady sweet lady she had nine kids my dad had 13 my mom and i got a lot
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big family right and you know she's getting older right and i asked her um like grandma why do you
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think like the divorce rate spiked so much because the divorce rate really went um up in the 60s
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right and i was like grandma like why like why is that like what happened you were you were around
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right she looks at me she says birth control made him do it oh wow oh okay she doesn't know
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shit about stats but if you look at the birth control rate and the divorce rate they're the same
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so what are you saying that the birth control does something to the women kind of thing no i think
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women just wanted to sleep around oh yeah lovely i mean birth control has shown to have a difference
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in your yeah because i've heard about attractiveness what basically is it's just what you're attracted
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to at the time when you're hormonal yeah i heard that i've heard stories i mean there's stories
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some really interesting research i'm very scientific i i studied science as a degree some really
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interesting research on it have you but it still doesn't give to a reason for difference have you
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heard about women who get married to a dude when they're on birth control and they come off yeah
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again that's not a materialistic thing though at least at least it's just it's it's something a
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bit deeper though in it do you know why that is that because when she's on the birth control she's
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looking for a certain type of dude it's a completely different hormonal imbalance in the body
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so when you come off the birth control is it different hormone balances is it basically when
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she's on birth control she's looking for a more of a dad kind of character then she comes off it she's
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looking for it's personal preference it's naturally what she would have been attracted to
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i thought you were right because i thought it was because doesn't when you're on birth control like
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the body tricks you into thinking yeah yeah and you're looking for those aspects like a strong man
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man with good selective genes good and i thought you wanted the resources because you already got
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that that's the you when you feel like you're pregnant you want that security but then when you
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come off it it's just fucking go wild in it i mean that's the issue though isn't it they come off it
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and they're like they go on so they want they're more they're more up for yeah yeah anything because
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there's an idea there's i don't know if you guys agree with this or not but there's an idea in the
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men's online you know advice space that basically women look for two different things they look for
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the dads and they look for the cats so they look for the guys who are more like the provider guys
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more he's a nice guy he's dependable he's solid he's got a good pension pension planning place you know all that
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stuff and then you've got the sexy the sexy dude over here who maybe hasn't got any of that stuff
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but he's ripped and he's like devil may care and he's like you know he's that kind of and and
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there's this idea that women look for those two things so what it sounds like you're saying is
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that on the birth control they go for the first and then they come to birth control they're like
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right where's chad yeah where's the poor boy do you think these days men wants kids more than
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woman wants kids no i don't know i think it's i i think today's society though it's not more about
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what the man or woman wants it's more about what's being pushed on you yeah so a lot of people are
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thinking i don't want too many children because the financial aspects of it or i don't want too
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many children because the environmental aspects of it or it's just personal preference or they waited
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too long yeah exactly and there's a huge amount of evidence now saying if you're into your 40s and
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you're having a child you increase the risk of them having severe yeah a lot of problem abnormalities
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having down syndrome and as much as those children they thrive in life but it's not fair to push that
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on them knowing you're you're going into your 40s and you're having a child me i i don't i don't agree
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with it it's not fair when she was 45 no it's not everyone it's not everyone but the science the
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science supports it saying once you reach a certain point you increase that risk of something
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like that happening or stillbirths or having a child that has fear fetal fatal abnormalities which
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then into their very very young years end up dying so i think that's a lot of the things that now
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because we have the research backing up people are going well it's too late and i don't want to i
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don't want to force that on a child which is fair which is fair too late with both sides man and
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woman i think it's both works both ways what age is it over for a woman what age is it like it's
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you're not going to be a wife well it's really but it depends are you saying it's about kids let's
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let's talk about okay let me i'm just going to clarify a little bit we're not going to talk about
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the exceptions i know somebody yeah there's always going to be exceptions right there's always going to
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be so i heard a lady gave birth at 60 but knowing knowing knowing that men today are more hesitant
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to get married right and half of they're predicting half of women in our age group aren't even going to
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be married they're you know 50 of us in the room never married no kids that's what they're predicting
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okay at what age is it would you say over you know probably no one's gonna marry you no one's if no
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one's if no one's tried to marry if no one's tried to marry you yet you're probably never going to
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get it oh what age what do you think um as a woman um what age would you say when you're a spinster
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like no offense like for late 45 late 40s 45 late 40 over okay kind of yeah when do you think it's
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over oh yeah i'd say probably 45 and over yeah same 45 same yeah 40 i want to come back to you 45
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i think because a lot of people because people who are getting married tend to want families
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isn't it so they're gonna look at them and go what if i might love you but i yeah but in
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traditional aspects marriage is to support a family and they might look at it and go we're
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most likely not going to have a child so i mean if i'm not religious is there any point in getting
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married at this point that's what i said i didn't say relationship no marriage all right try what do
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you think what age uh 27 27 oh no that was such a precise number i knew that i knew that would
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trigger that i knew that would trigger everyone i just like the preciseness 27 um in all seriously
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if we're talking about having kids though as well like not just are we talking marriage and kids
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this is just personally i feel like most guys over a certain age they'll get in a long-term
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relationship with a girl but why get married if there's no kids yeah no true true so at what age
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is it would you say as a guy you're like couldn't start a family with her you can have everything
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but if you don't have kids so if she if you had a girl you really liked right and you were thinking
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of someone you wanted to start a family with but you said you know what too old i mean to be honest
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i think it's going to be like mid-30s probably yeah yeah realistically because of the things you're
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talking about as well because you start to think getting much older than that you start to think well
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you know would everything be be okay you know um yeah because if you think about it what do women's
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peak fertility years really it's sort of it's like 22 23 right yeah yeah yeah just under 25 i think
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once you start reaching 30 that's when it starts 90 90 getting quite dangerous yeah 90 of your eggs
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they're gone by 30 yeah wow that's why marriage used to be so much younger that's why people used
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to get married a lot younger but now now a lot of people don't want to have children so they get
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married a lot later because it's yeah i mean it's a different if it's just if it's just marriage for
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like companionship then to be fair people could get married older you know like you might meet
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somebody you know in the nursing home and you're just like all right on the deathbed
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i noticed are you engaged i saw the i see the me no i always get asked this no this is um on the
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right hand not on the left hand no okay no everyone always asks me that no not yet soon maybe hopefully
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hopefully we pray um okay next question next question all right because i feel like i was
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given so much flack for this are you a good wife if you get married and then you gain 100 pounds is
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that good wife i'm just i'm just asking am i off base i mean was there a reason for that like did
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someone pass away it doesn't matter the reason i mean you're not a bad wife for gaining 100 pounds
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whatever for a reason so like okay let me let me just say so i lost my job and refused to work as
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a husband but i did it for a reason am i a good husband you know i lost my job but i was depressed
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i mean things like that happen it can be on benefit i didn't say i didn't say it doesn't happen i didn't
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say you couldn't work through it i just said good good means like a student good a b student right
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that's good i don't know i kind of need specifics because like gaining weight and being depressed
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obviously you can gain weight as a girl because you're depressed yeah okay just comfy
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so so you know i got married i'm in love and then i said you know what i'm just gonna eat crispy
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creams every day if you're not willing to look out for your own health though yeah yeah i i think
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no i don't i don't think it is so my question good wife or bad wife
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see i don't think it's i don't think it's quite as straightforward but in