JustPearlyThings - June 28, 2023


97 Year old Grandma DEBUNKS Feminism


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9 minutes

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184.33415

Word count

1,805

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1

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode I talk about the sexual revolution and how it broke the social contract between men and women and how that has changed our society for the better. I also talk about polygamy and why women should have sex before marriage.

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00:00:00.000 right now 80 of all consumer spending is controlled by women right boomer age women 0.55
00:00:06.600 are gonna see they're gonna be the first generation to have a double windfall meaning when their
00:00:11.820 parents die they're probably gonna inherit something and then they're probably gonna
00:00:15.680 outlive their spouse or get divorced so they're gonna get money from the spouse too so boomer
00:00:20.880 age women have massive control over consumer spending in america which is why almost all the 1.00
00:00:27.620 marketing is angled what age is boomer aged women would have been 1948 so like the end of the war 0.98
00:00:35.180 to i believe 1970 okay and then gen x would be like 70 to like 80 so yeah boomer age women post 1.00
00:00:45.260 world war ii born in the late 40s 50s and uh early 60s okay so we have the sexual revolution um
00:00:55.420 now women are leaving the home yeah and then it says pandora's box returned to god goddess 1.00
00:01:04.540 yeah so what we did with sexual liberation was kind of like opening pandora's box if you're familiar
00:01:11.780 with that greek myth or roman myth um of opening pandora's box and letting things out you can't
00:01:18.200 put them back in like you can't put the toothpaste back in the tube so now we've got this liberated
00:01:23.520 culture where women and and the sexual revolution the other big thing i should mention about it is
00:01:29.800 that it broke the contract so i just interviewed my grandma who's 97 on my youtube channel and i was
00:01:36.860 talking to her about what life was like when she was young first i asked her if women like in her 0.71
00:01:42.660 social circles as a teen and in her 20s did women feel oppressed and she said no we never did
00:01:48.000 she was born in 1928 yeah 1928 so this is the 30s and she's like no we we didn't think about it that
00:01:55.900 way at all we never felt depressed and asked her like what was it like courting and trying to get
00:02:02.460 married and and she's explaining it as like yeah all of us girls were hoping to get a nice fella you 1.00
00:02:09.100 know we want someone from a nice family with a good reputation somebody who has a good a good chance of
00:02:15.140 providing you know a good career ahead of him or some kind of you know financial security in his
00:02:20.840 future someone who we share our religious values with and things like that uh now what we have is
00:02:27.600 not like that at all it's like hookup culture it's body counts it's um you know swiping on all the dating
00:02:35.880 apps and things like that i had i had a realization with the the guy i interviewed yesterday where he was
00:02:42.020 saying like when women have security they go for looks yeah so the problem is it's like when we um 1.00
00:02:50.220 when we have a job or we have money we then go for looks well here's the problem women find 80 percent 1.00
00:02:54.480 of men unattractive exactly so then you're all going for the same 20 percent of men right and so then it's
00:03:02.840 going a little bit more back towards polygamy until women hit their like 31 is the average age of first 1.00
00:03:08.320 marriage in the uk then they go back to yeah yeah i think it's like 28 or 20 like the new numbers it's
00:03:14.480 like 28 or 29 now for women and so then then we go back to monogamy but like and then we we go for
00:03:22.880 the security but then it's like the problem is the men and it's not necessarily women's fault because
00:03:29.280 we've all been brainwashed for this but it's like when women are left to our own devices we we don't pick 1.00
00:03:34.260 for security which is like when families were more involved like security would be a bigger
00:03:39.460 pick right right it was very future oriented you're thinking about the quality of life children you're
00:03:47.480 thinking about your grandchildren's futures you're thinking very long term and now the thinking is very
00:03:53.420 short term because we broke the social contract among women so a hundred years ago when men are looking
00:04:01.560 for chaste young people to marry young women to marry who they can have kids with right that's what 0.99
00:04:07.840 they're looking for they're looking for youth chastity um and somebody who's like probably agreeable
00:04:13.580 wants to be a mother things like that it has a good reputation then it incentivized all the women to 1.00
00:04:20.540 mostly remain virgins till they got married not that there weren't some who didn't but it it was like
00:04:26.400 a knock against you right uh i thought it was virgin and it's not like that 20 they said 1920 it was 15
00:04:33.640 percent admitted to premarital sex so i was like even let's just say the women are liars even if we 1.00
00:04:38.580 double it that's still two out of three aren't or are our virgin sorry right exactly right so what
00:04:44.960 happened when in the 60s when they pushed the counterculture sexual revolution if you could just bump
00:04:51.420 that number up a little bit let's say 35 percent of the women are willing to have sex before marriage 1.00
00:04:56.900 well they've ruined it for all the rest of us right because now all the men are just going to go to that
00:05:02.220 35 percent because they it it seemed like a good deal to men i think now men are realizing it wasn't
00:05:08.720 but at the time it was like wait i can just have sex and i don't have to marry her first i don't have 0.52
00:05:13.580 to commit i don't have to provide i don't have to have resources i can just have sex that sounds awesome 0.51
00:05:19.500 well it's bad for most it's just a small percentage of men that get to do that anyway
00:05:23.520 right right the other ones get to pick up the pieces after with the ones that like that's more
00:05:29.340 damaged that's you know like that's been through like that's been passed around by the other guys
00:05:34.360 and then another guy gets her after and the other and that's like when i i learned like we're starting
00:05:40.500 to see a rise in like male virginity yeah everything is kind of going like this it's just getting very
00:05:46.020 skewed and bent in in the wrong direction and i always say there's only there's a reason why
00:05:53.060 feminism never took hold because as we just explained these ideas are very old they've been 0.99
00:05:58.640 around forever but feminism couldn't take hold until we had technology because technology is what 1.00
00:06:03.940 gives women this illusion that they don't need men i just debated a feminist um a twitch streamer gal 1.00
00:06:11.280 uh a month or two ago and i asked her because she said there's no difference between the genders
00:06:16.780 and women can do everything men can do now and even and i said wait a minute you don't think there's
00:06:21.620 hard jobs that only men do you don't think there's like you know the guys who keep the electrical grid 0.99
00:06:27.880 going the guys who do the oil rig drilling drilling all these like difficult labor intensive
00:06:33.100 dangerous jobs that men still only do and she's like yeah women can do them because we have like 1.00
00:06:38.320 tools or whatever it's like this we can do it too um and i asked her okay so do you think we could
00:06:44.300 just have an all-female crew go out in an ice storm and keep the power grid up and she was like yeah why 0.98
00:06:52.040 not like she really didn't think that was a problem and so it's technology like i tell women all the time
00:06:59.220 you get in your car that a man designed and built and that you take it to a man anytime it breaks or it
00:07:04.780 needs maintenance and you drive on the roads that men created and built to your office building that
00:07:10.040 men created and built and you go sit down at your desk at your computer and if your computer has any
00:07:14.560 issues you call the it guy to come and fix your computer like yes you do need men you totally need 0.96
00:07:21.140 men because they built this advanced world that you live in that gives you the illusion that you're
00:07:27.000 independent if we had like some kind of disaster where the power grid went down and we didn't have
00:07:33.420 all these modern things there would be no such thing as feminists every feminist would get on her 1.00
00:07:39.120 knees in front of the closest guy who could provide and protect because we'd be reset back to before
00:07:45.300 technology so it's it's really technology that gives women this illusion that they don't need men 0.99
00:07:50.520 and yeah i get it like you can go about your day and pay your bills and you can make money off your
00:07:56.380 instagram and you can have your career and things like that but we've seen that that doesn't solve
00:08:01.960 the problems and it hasn't made women happier there's something called the paradox of female 1.00
00:08:06.760 happiness where the more liberated women are more miserable they seem to get the more they rely on psych 1.00
00:08:12.300 drugs the more they need therapy the lonelier they report that they are and they're living longer
00:08:17.300 this is the other thing like women are living into their 80s regularly most of us do and you are 0.67
00:08:25.020 building your whole entire life around this very limited portion of time where you have a lot of
00:08:30.940 sexual um power and you're not thinking at all about what you're going to do in your 40s 50s 60s 70s
00:08:37.960 right so these women age out and then it's like oh i guess living in my apartment and ordering 1.00
00:08:44.680 door dash with my cat isn't as awesome as i thought it would be we all know those stories of women who've 1.00
00:08:50.880 hit the wall so it's like not only that but now we're seeing children being raised in homes where
00:08:56.820 no one's ever married uh you have mom's boyfriends coming and going you have dad's girlfriends coming
00:09:03.040 and going um and in those situations the instance of child is far higher than when children are living
00:09:11.020 with both biological parents not only is the instant instance of child abuse higher it's more severe
00:09:17.220 anytime you have a non-biological parent like an adult who's not a bio parent living with children
00:09:22.880 the risk of abuse goes way up and the severity of the abuse goes way up and we never used to have
00:09:29.360 kids on antidepressants adhd meds psych all this kind of stuff it was considered extremely rare prior
00:09:37.720 to 1970 if you look at the old dsms it was extremely rare to have depressed kids and things like that
00:09:44.380 and now it's super common
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