JustPearlyThings - Abortion Activist Gets SCHOOLED

00:00:00.000 but the point that i was making was that choice that they have is not as simple as i'm just going

00:00:05.960 to have an abortion because that's their body okay but it's not that but it wasn't it wasn't 0.97

00:00:10.080 there are mental ramifications for doing that i agree physical ramifications so she may just be 0.62

00:00:14.680 like i'm i can't do it but what i'm saying is it's a layer of choices so the girl could get an iud

00:00:19.500 she could also be on the listen so she could also wait so she could get an iud she could also be on

00:00:26.720 the pill she could also get a plan b she could also require that the men she sleeps with wear a 1.00

00:00:33.300 condom yeah exactly and and and she and if and if that doesn't work out she can get an abortion so 1.00

00:00:39.260 there are five layers that she can pick where the men only have one and the condom can get stolen or 0.99

00:00:45.520 it can break so the women have five layers of protection the men have one therefore there is 1.00

00:00:51.540 more responsibility on the women if you get pregnant that was a choice and it wasn't just one choice it

00:00:56.320 was five choices but also women who have a lot of girls will have sex with a man who they know 1.00

00:01:00.720 doesn't want to be a dad and still keep the child which is fair enough because they know they're 0.77

00:01:04.520 going to get money bro but if you don't want to be a dad should you not be like i'm going to wear

00:01:08.940 a condom but this is what i'm saying but that's why he just said it was fair enough choices that you 0.71

00:01:12.020 just listed but that's why i said all of them have really hormonal effects on a woman and a condom

00:01:18.040 doesn't so for the man to just put on a condom

00:01:21.360 the coil doesn't you're 100 right but i know a lot of girls that say oh i don't i don't like 0.91

00:01:26.440 when men wear condoms i have a question for the men i have a question for the men what percentage

00:01:30.480 of girls make you wear condoms um i make myself wear them okay okay but if it wasn't if it wasn't 0.98

00:01:36.960 up to you let's say let's say a lot of women okay no let's say let's say it was 100 up to the woman 1.00

00:01:41.800 okay what percent of women make you wear condoms i'm gonna be real yeah most of them like they don't 1.00

00:01:46.940 say nothing to me like i just draw for it they don't say nothing to me they're happy to just

00:01:50.600 do whatever so they'll do whatever you say what percent of girls i don't even know to be honest 1.00

00:01:55.600 um i don't know to be honest you know i wouldn't say i don't think this guy's not chopping

00:02:03.260 bro i think the numbers maybe what 20 20 of girls if it falls on the streets okay okay okay

00:02:18.920 hypothetically okay what about you guys 10 10 percent i think i was in five five yeah bro you know that

00:02:26.320 it's about 10 10 10 i say it's about one okay okay i need you to wear yeah so so the highest the

00:02:34.300 highest percentage we have right here is 20 and these are these are five guys it's one in five

00:02:39.940 yeah one that's not a high number so should they not be taking accountability for if they're going

00:02:45.440 to reproduce but the whole the whole point the whole point is that a man can make a choice okay

00:02:53.580 he he could be super careful like drake was and he could still get the condom stolen i'm saying women 1.00

00:02:59.040 have five layers of choices they can make i hear that and the point is that women don't face consequences 1.00

00:03:04.580 for bad decisions for example they can steal the condom and that's not illegal yeah yeah but yeah if you

00:03:10.840 put a hole in a condom yeah yeah there's whole reddit threads of girls trying to get pregnant by 1.00

00:03:16.920 their boyfriends yeah and so if we go back to the homosexual like how many of that is taking place 0.99

00:03:25.760 to you actually just looking after your penis and putting on a condom if you do not want okay but what 0.97

00:03:31.160 if what if if she if she pokes holes in the condom and what but also there's certain women that said to 1.00

00:03:37.140 me there's certain girls that have said to me they don't like condoms they're not like 0.95

00:03:40.680 but if i didn't want to have a child with her then i would be like i am not sleeping with you 1.00

00:03:46.320 yeah you should be taking that's a woman talking right that's a woman talking a man is 0.63

00:03:52.120 guys guys and if you're gonna be a father hold up guys hold on no but i'm saying so if we have five

00:03:59.900 layers of account how can you not say it's more on the women when i just listed five layers of 0.98

00:04:04.100 accountability the man can do one it could break right and then he has no control over anything

00:04:09.560 yeah and then it would go on to the woman right but i'm saying it's how can you not say it's more

00:04:13.340 on the women when i just listed five different ways i didn't i didn't go into more on i said it's both

00:04:18.840 people have a responsibility when you're having sex that after this if a pregnancy occurs and a baby 0.96

00:04:24.980 comes along that you are accountable for bringing up that child i would say i would say it's like 80 90

00:04:30.140 percent on the woman because she has five layers of accountability the dude has one and we and we 1.00

00:04:35.600 control we control access to sex men control access to relationships we we get to pick who goes inside

00:04:42.160 of us so if you're not picking good men like i don't feel bad for you if you end up a single mom but then 0.97

00:04:46.240 that could be the same for the guy though so if you're left of a baby mother that is now taking all

00:04:50.240 of your money should you not have been accountable for not but i do feel bad for them because i don't think

00:04:57.180 that's fair i think you should face the consequences of your actions most men want to take care of

00:05:03.200 their kids but also the problem with your stance is the fact that even if i want the child i can't

00:05:08.920 keep it if i don't want it i can't opt out of paying for it yeah and so either way you lose

00:05:14.120 because the child was because the equal level of accountability would be if women control access 1.00

00:05:19.100 to sex it'd be like if you get pregnant it's your fault the equal accountability for a man would be 0.92

00:05:22.960 if you pick the wrong woman and she does a madness you have to take accountability that you pick 0.96

00:05:27.020 the wrong one and many people do like oh finesse a nigga and then oh can i say that on here 0.94

00:05:30.880 yeah finesse a nigga take the bag and then run off like women are celebrated for doing that done 1.00

00:05:37.400 big facts that's what i'm saying you think women are celebrating but here's the thing i don't think

00:05:44.740 it's equal because men face consequences women don't they don't because the consequences would be

00:05:50.140 having to raise their child on your own but most of the time they're getting financial help

00:05:53.300 and that's what she's saying they're still like my man said about the glass ceiling and then um

00:05:57.720 the cushion bro they've always got a cushion that i'm saying the same way they're not out on the

00:06:01.980 street sleeping yeah like they're not there not getting no money they'll get money from the state

00:06:06.180 or they get money for the dad or both you know like that time okay sorry time energy put into raising

00:06:13.080 the child you're going on like raising another human being made that choice that's the whole point

00:06:17.540 is that not the responsibility he said there was no ramifications for that but now you're saying

00:06:23.220 that you get all like oh but i have to put on my time and they get custody and they also get custody

00:06:28.140 which is another point where they're not held accountable 79 percent of the time people have

00:06:32.260 ramifications for the act except for my way greater so you're saying that the financial strain

00:06:37.940 on a man is more so than a woman bringing up another human being because it's not just you 0.59

00:06:43.020 bringing up the human being you're taking his finances for your own finances yeah and his kid

00:06:47.680 and his kid and his kid because he doesn't get custody the majority of the time there are men who

00:06:51.960 have committed suicide because they're so frustrated with the justice system because it's not most of

00:06:56.040 the time though no 80 of the time the woman gets custody no no that is most of the time they still

00:07:00.900 have access to their children it's not most of the time i've had this is common i've had

00:07:05.520 i've had multiple men come on this podcast and on the show where they said the mother of my child

00:07:10.640 wouldn't let me see my child for the first year after we broke up because she was being spiteful 1.00

00:07:14.800 100 that's a comment that's happened to someone close to me brother he has to email his baby mom

00:07:21.200 to see his daughter you know email you know i'm saying and women don't face consequences for doing 1.00

00:07:25.640 that i think if you're if you're keeping your kid from the father of his of their children and he's not

00:07:30.180 abusive there's nothing wrong with it like no they're not in danger you should face jail time

00:07:34.340 because you're putting your kid at risk i don't know about jail time but i agree with you

00:07:38.400 there was a woman in america who took her son to japan for two years the dad didn't see him

00:07:42.260 then she comes back to america first divorce and he still has to pay child support and because he

00:07:47.200 hasn't spent time with the child for two years he now has to pay the full the full world in the time

00:07:51.600 that she was away and and there's a there's a i got a kid who was 15 he got pregnant by a 35 year

00:07:56.700 old when he turned 18 he had to pay child support wow wow hey it's mad you know i think even sarah

00:08:03.760 garvey he's a baby mom made him pay to see his kid one time yeah i've heard of his story yeah and he's

00:08:09.760 still not like he's hectic sometimes it's not like i don't have family members that have gone through

00:08:13.760 that and are going through that this is common it is but then there's also the other side of there's

00:08:19.340 lots of people who are effectively co-parenting and the money that they're getting in is very

00:08:25.380 small and it isn't enough to actually bring up a child there's that too

00:08:28.540 that's probably because between the two of them they ain't got money but then boy if you're broke

00:08:32.260 now i have kids but i think also when you when you the initial question was about you know if i'm

00:08:36.000 start earning a lot of money if i start earning a lot of money should um how much i'm paying be

00:08:42.680 increased because of it so let's say if i'm if i'm a millionaire and she's on a hundred thousand 1.00

00:08:46.860 something should i start paying more because of it i don't think that should be the case no i think

00:08:52.680 it should be on the individual parent the father or the mother i am going to contribute to my child

00:08:58.640 because i want the best for them but what if i'm still paying for school fees but then i still have

00:09:03.060 to pay for um 50 to the woman if they're married they're two different things though you're talking

00:09:09.300 about alimony and you're talking about child support they're very different true so i i don't agree

00:09:14.040 with alimony in any way shape or form if you get into a relationship with somebody and you two

00:09:18.360 separate it should be that if the person was earning more than you man or woman you go your

00:09:22.960 separate ways because the relationship is done child support is about rearing the child that's

00:09:27.860 very different you should have an obligation because you want your child if it's about rearing

00:09:31.860 the child why do the majority of the fees go to the state for for child support when they go to

00:09:38.260 court they make money off of it i i don't know that in the uk i'm not sure i don't think that's

00:09:43.660 happened actually i don't i don't know about the uk uk that doesn't happen it means tested are you

00:09:48.700 sure usually it's not money you have to look up on your ipad but the whole thing's mad everyone's 0.98

00:09:53.020 talking about what's best for the child what's best for the child you keep you keep your ass in 0.96

00:09:56.780 the house and you stay together like yeah do you know what i mean because the point is yeah if 0.99

00:10:00.940 you're talking about what's best for the child yeah if 80 of women are leaving just stay in it 1.00

00:10:04.480 like you hear this argument with a lot of women now these days saying oh yeah like

00:10:08.140 our grandparents yeah they stayed in the house and they weren't happy and that yeah but you had

00:10:12.320 a better upbringing because you had two parents in the house you had two incomes do you know i mean

00:10:17.160 even if gandard was out there doing the mad thing bruv like you still got you still have food on your

00:10:21.160 plate because they realized the grass wasn't always green on the other side that's right it's

00:10:24.120 even just that sometimes how do you know that well the women were more accountable but no it's not it's

00:10:28.440 not the women faced consequences yeah exactly because they didn't they couldn't fall back on what they 1.00

00:10:32.800 can fall back on what they know that's when you see the divorce rate increase when there's no

00:10:36.220 fault divorce

JustPearlyThings - June 06, 2023

Abortion Activist Gets SCHOOLED

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