Abortion Activist Gets SCHOOLED
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss condom use, abortion, and the role of fathers in sex and sex education. We also discuss whether or not condoms should be worn by men and women, and why men should wear them.
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but the point that i was making was that choice that they have is not as simple as i'm just going
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to have an abortion because that's their body okay but it's not that but it wasn't it wasn't
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there are mental ramifications for doing that i agree physical ramifications so she may just be
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like i'm i can't do it but what i'm saying is it's a layer of choices so the girl could get an iud
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she could also be on the listen so she could also wait so she could get an iud she could also be on
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the pill she could also get a plan b she could also require that the men she sleeps with wear a
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condom yeah exactly and and and she and if and if that doesn't work out she can get an abortion so
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there are five layers that she can pick where the men only have one and the condom can get stolen or
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it can break so the women have five layers of protection the men have one therefore there is
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more responsibility on the women if you get pregnant that was a choice and it wasn't just one choice it
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was five choices but also women who have a lot of girls will have sex with a man who they know
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doesn't want to be a dad and still keep the child which is fair enough because they know they're
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going to get money bro but if you don't want to be a dad should you not be like i'm going to wear
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a condom but this is what i'm saying but that's why he just said it was fair enough choices that you
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just listed but that's why i said all of them have really hormonal effects on a woman and a condom
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the coil doesn't you're 100 right but i know a lot of girls that say oh i don't i don't like
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when men wear condoms i have a question for the men i have a question for the men what percentage
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of girls make you wear condoms um i make myself wear them okay okay but if it wasn't if it wasn't
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up to you let's say let's say a lot of women okay no let's say let's say it was 100 up to the woman
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okay what percent of women make you wear condoms i'm gonna be real yeah most of them like they don't
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say nothing to me like i just draw for it they don't say nothing to me they're happy to just
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do whatever so they'll do whatever you say what percent of girls i don't even know to be honest
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um i don't know to be honest you know i wouldn't say i don't think this guy's not chopping
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bro i think the numbers maybe what 20 20 of girls if it falls on the streets okay okay okay
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hypothetically okay what about you guys 10 10 percent i think i was in five five yeah bro you know that
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it's about 10 10 10 i say it's about one okay okay i need you to wear yeah so so the highest the
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highest percentage we have right here is 20 and these are these are five guys it's one in five
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yeah one that's not a high number so should they not be taking accountability for if they're going
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to reproduce but the whole the whole point the whole point is that a man can make a choice okay
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he he could be super careful like drake was and he could still get the condom stolen i'm saying women
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have five layers of choices they can make i hear that and the point is that women don't face consequences
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for bad decisions for example they can steal the condom and that's not illegal yeah yeah but yeah if you
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put a hole in a condom yeah yeah there's whole reddit threads of girls trying to get pregnant by
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their boyfriends yeah and so if we go back to the homosexual like how many of that is taking place
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to you actually just looking after your penis and putting on a condom if you do not want okay but what
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if what if if she if she pokes holes in the condom and what but also there's certain women that said to
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me there's certain girls that have said to me they don't like condoms they're not like
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but if i didn't want to have a child with her then i would be like i am not sleeping with you
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yeah you should be taking that's a woman talking right that's a woman talking a man is
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guys guys and if you're gonna be a father hold up guys hold on no but i'm saying so if we have five
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layers of account how can you not say it's more on the women when i just listed five layers of
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accountability the man can do one it could break right and then he has no control over anything
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yeah and then it would go on to the woman right but i'm saying it's how can you not say it's more
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on the women when i just listed five different ways i didn't i didn't go into more on i said it's both
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people have a responsibility when you're having sex that after this if a pregnancy occurs and a baby
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comes along that you are accountable for bringing up that child i would say i would say it's like 80 90
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percent on the woman because she has five layers of accountability the dude has one and we and we
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control we control access to sex men control access to relationships we we get to pick who goes inside
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of us so if you're not picking good men like i don't feel bad for you if you end up a single mom but then
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that could be the same for the guy though so if you're left of a baby mother that is now taking all
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of your money should you not have been accountable for not but i do feel bad for them because i don't think
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that's fair i think you should face the consequences of your actions most men want to take care of
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their kids but also the problem with your stance is the fact that even if i want the child i can't
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keep it if i don't want it i can't opt out of paying for it yeah and so either way you lose
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because the child was because the equal level of accountability would be if women control access
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to sex it'd be like if you get pregnant it's your fault the equal accountability for a man would be
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if you pick the wrong woman and she does a madness you have to take accountability that you pick
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the wrong one and many people do like oh finesse a nigga and then oh can i say that on here
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yeah finesse a nigga take the bag and then run off like women are celebrated for doing that done
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big facts that's what i'm saying you think women are celebrating but here's the thing i don't think
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it's equal because men face consequences women don't they don't because the consequences would be
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having to raise their child on your own but most of the time they're getting financial help
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and that's what she's saying they're still like my man said about the glass ceiling and then um
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the cushion bro they've always got a cushion that i'm saying the same way they're not out on the
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street sleeping yeah like they're not there not getting no money they'll get money from the state
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or they get money for the dad or both you know like that time okay sorry time energy put into raising
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the child you're going on like raising another human being made that choice that's the whole point
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is that not the responsibility he said there was no ramifications for that but now you're saying
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that you get all like oh but i have to put on my time and they get custody and they also get custody
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which is another point where they're not held accountable 79 percent of the time people have
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ramifications for the act except for my way greater so you're saying that the financial strain
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on a man is more so than a woman bringing up another human being because it's not just you
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bringing up the human being you're taking his finances for your own finances yeah and his kid
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and his kid and his kid because he doesn't get custody the majority of the time there are men who
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have committed suicide because they're so frustrated with the justice system because it's not most of
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the time though no 80 of the time the woman gets custody no no that is most of the time they still
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have access to their children it's not most of the time i've had this is common i've had
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i've had multiple men come on this podcast and on the show where they said the mother of my child
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wouldn't let me see my child for the first year after we broke up because she was being spiteful
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100 that's a comment that's happened to someone close to me brother he has to email his baby mom
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to see his daughter you know email you know i'm saying and women don't face consequences for doing
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that i think if you're if you're keeping your kid from the father of his of their children and he's not
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abusive there's nothing wrong with it like no they're not in danger you should face jail time
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because you're putting your kid at risk i don't know about jail time but i agree with you
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there was a woman in america who took her son to japan for two years the dad didn't see him
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then she comes back to america first divorce and he still has to pay child support and because he
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hasn't spent time with the child for two years he now has to pay the full the full world in the time
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that she was away and and there's a there's a i got a kid who was 15 he got pregnant by a 35 year
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old when he turned 18 he had to pay child support wow wow hey it's mad you know i think even sarah
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garvey he's a baby mom made him pay to see his kid one time yeah i've heard of his story yeah and he's
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still not like he's hectic sometimes it's not like i don't have family members that have gone through
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that and are going through that this is common it is but then there's also the other side of there's
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lots of people who are effectively co-parenting and the money that they're getting in is very
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small and it isn't enough to actually bring up a child there's that too
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that's probably because between the two of them they ain't got money but then boy if you're broke
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now i have kids but i think also when you when you the initial question was about you know if i'm
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start earning a lot of money if i start earning a lot of money should um how much i'm paying be
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increased because of it so let's say if i'm if i'm a millionaire and she's on a hundred thousand
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something should i start paying more because of it i don't think that should be the case no i think
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it should be on the individual parent the father or the mother i am going to contribute to my child
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because i want the best for them but what if i'm still paying for school fees but then i still have
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to pay for um 50 to the woman if they're married they're two different things though you're talking
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about alimony and you're talking about child support they're very different true so i i don't agree
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with alimony in any way shape or form if you get into a relationship with somebody and you two
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separate it should be that if the person was earning more than you man or woman you go your
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separate ways because the relationship is done child support is about rearing the child that's
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very different you should have an obligation because you want your child if it's about rearing
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the child why do the majority of the fees go to the state for for child support when they go to
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court they make money off of it i i don't know that in the uk i'm not sure i don't think that's
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happened actually i don't i don't know about the uk uk that doesn't happen it means tested are you
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sure usually it's not money you have to look up on your ipad but the whole thing's mad everyone's
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talking about what's best for the child what's best for the child you keep you keep your ass in
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the house and you stay together like yeah do you know what i mean because the point is yeah if
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you're talking about what's best for the child yeah if 80 of women are leaving just stay in it
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like you hear this argument with a lot of women now these days saying oh yeah like
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our grandparents yeah they stayed in the house and they weren't happy and that yeah but you had
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a better upbringing because you had two parents in the house you had two incomes do you know i mean
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even if gandard was out there doing the mad thing bruv like you still got you still have food on your
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plate because they realized the grass wasn't always green on the other side that's right it's
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even just that sometimes how do you know that well the women were more accountable but no it's not it's
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not the women faced consequences yeah exactly because they didn't they couldn't fall back on what they
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can fall back on what they know that's when you see the divorce rate increase when there's no