JustPearlyThings - June 24, 2023


All Modern Women LIVE In This DELUSION


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Length

7 minutes

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214.20018

Word count

1,610

Sentence count

117

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Misogyny

10

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10

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In this episode, we talk about how women lie about their body count and why they do it. We also talk about why women lie and how to catch them out on their lies. We hope you enjoy this episode and leave us a rating and review!

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00:00:00.000 Why do you guys think all of the guys had higher answers than the women 0.91
00:00:03.600 for what they thought the average body count is?
00:00:08.600 Well, they just said that they won't believe us, right?
00:00:13.420 If we say any number.
00:00:14.820 So I guess, do you know what?
00:00:15.740 What happens at A&E is when you walk in and you say that,
00:00:20.320 I don't know, you've been throwing up because you're too drunk.
00:00:22.940 They'll ask you how many drinks have you had.
00:00:24.840 And if you say three, they're going to say,
00:00:27.020 okay, so you've had nine drinks.
00:00:28.480 They're not going to say that to your face,
00:00:29.840 but they're going to assume that you've had far more drinks than you're saying
00:00:35.580 because you could be lying because you could be scared.
00:00:38.000 So I think it's the same type of thing here where if we'll say,
00:00:41.380 okay, 15, so they're going to be like, okay, yeah, that's fine.
00:00:43.640 It's fine type of thing.
00:00:45.560 But why do they think that?
00:00:48.840 Why do you think that?
00:00:50.000 Why do you think the men think we're lying?
00:00:52.320 Or like women are lying? 1.00
00:00:53.420 Guys, why do you think we're lying?
00:00:55.140 Experience, I would say.
00:00:56.820 Yeah, but what do you mean?
00:00:57.680 I'm so confused.
00:00:58.320 How did you find out these girls are lying about their body count? 1.00
00:01:00.760 Like what made you know?
00:01:01.800 You can see through their actions.
00:01:03.800 What's an example of when you actually were like, oh, that.
00:01:05.980 Because when you lie, the only thing you can keep that lie going with is more lies.
00:01:09.940 And eventually you start noticing holes in the story.
00:01:13.740 Because she'll be like, I dated this guy.
00:01:15.200 She'll be like, I dated this guy for three months.
00:01:17.340 And then you're like, then I was single for this whole time.
00:01:19.360 And then later she's like, oh, yeah, I went here with this guy on vacation.
00:01:22.120 And like during that gap period where she was supposed to be single. 0.97
00:01:25.720 Like where you're going on vacations with a guy.
00:01:28.000 Okay, so you put the dots together.
00:01:29.520 I don't even try to put the dots together.
00:01:31.340 But I'm just human.
00:01:32.840 And I'm just like, wait a minute.
00:01:34.100 Because if you're dating a girl, you listen to what she says, right? 0.99
00:01:37.240 Right.
00:01:37.700 Because if you're not, you're just fucking her and leaving.
00:01:40.340 Right?
00:01:40.460 So if you're actually dating a girl, you care about her to a degree.
00:01:43.160 So you listen to what she says.
00:01:44.540 And then with your general listening skills, you're going to start noticing inconsistencies in her story.
00:01:49.000 And you're like, okay, either she's dumb or there are some lies happening here.
00:01:54.760 So with every single person that's told you their body count, that's happened.
00:01:57.540 Like you've ended up catching them out on a lie.
00:01:59.940 Well, there's other things as well.
00:02:01.520 Like general mannerisms around men.
00:02:05.320 There's a certain level of comfort that you don't want your girl to have around certain guys and stuff like that.
00:02:12.040 Do you know what I'm saying? You want your girl to be still a little bit more modest and demure.
00:02:16.640 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:02:17.220 So she knows she has a certain level of respect for herself.
00:02:20.180 That level of respect is transferable.
00:02:23.760 So when a woman has that much respect for herself, it transfers on to you and to the other people that she's around.
00:02:30.200 When she's a little bit too anxious to get into a conversation with a certain man and stuff like that.
00:02:34.300 Not saying, hey, when men are talking, women shouldn't be there and stuff like that. 1.00
00:02:38.380 But do you know what I'm saying? There's a certain familiarity and comfortableness that you just don't want someone that's supposed to be your wife to have.
00:02:47.680 So does that equate to body count?
00:02:49.360 Yeah, because she's obviously used to dealing with mandem and being familiar with her.
00:02:54.560 When she knows the bouncer, when she knows the bouncer, that's the way I'm saying.
00:02:57.980 Stop that.
00:02:59.860 But I don't think that really equates to body count.
00:03:02.820 For example, I'm a very friendly person.
00:03:05.180 I'm very comfortable.
00:03:06.240 It's not necessarily friendly.
00:03:08.060 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:08.640 It's not necessarily friendly.
00:03:10.620 Everybody wants to date someone that's friendly.
00:03:12.720 Nobody wants to date a wolf or all them things there.
00:03:15.240 But do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:15.820 When it's a kind of vibe like, hey, hey, do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:19.380 You're a little bit too comfortable chilling with the mandem.
00:03:23.800 Yeah, or when she starts doing certain things in bed, you're like, wait a minute.
00:03:27.440 Where did you lie?
00:03:28.680 This is, you know, because when you sleep with a girl who doesn't have a high body count, you sleep with a girl who does, the performance is totally different.
00:03:37.800 The one guy that she was with could have just taught her.
00:03:40.080 He could have, but like there's, yeah, it could be that.
00:03:45.200 But also, you know, it could also be that she has a lot of experience.
00:03:49.080 And more women now, let's be honest, I would say, I would bet my life that the majority of women are lying about their body counts. 1.00
00:03:56.460 500.
00:03:56.960 For sure.
00:03:57.880 To answer your question then, I feel like the reason why men probably think that our body counts are higher.
00:04:03.160 I don't know what the word is.
00:04:04.560 I don't think it's an insecurity, but I think it's like men just have this little, like this little burning hatred.
00:04:11.700 Well, here's the fact, I'm not a lie.
00:04:13.120 Men do have fragile egos.
00:04:15.620 That's the word.
00:04:16.520 Our egos are very fragile.
00:04:17.740 Did you say they have a hatred for women?
00:04:19.620 No, he's got the right word, ego.
00:04:21.220 It's like this kind of like ego, like, I don't know, like, you, you, you, because.
00:04:25.880 I think women have bigger egos than men. 1.00
00:04:28.080 Do you think?
00:04:28.800 Yeah, you can criticize a man and he'll take it and improve, or women will just bitch and moan. 1.00
00:04:34.080 Well.
00:04:34.320 Like if you tell a guy you're fat, he'll work out.
00:04:37.840 If you tell a woman you're fat, she'll whine and make a whole movement called body positivity. 1.00
00:04:42.620 Exactly.
00:04:44.200 Just start a blog.
00:04:44.960 If I can say something.
00:04:46.720 So I think it's kind of men are very intuitive in a sense where they will subconsciously look at your actions.
00:04:55.440 The way you carry yourself as a woman can tell them a lot about you.
00:05:00.400 So the way you speak, the way you present yourself to the world, the way you dress, and I'm not talking about, oh, you can't wear this or whatever.
00:05:08.700 It's just how you walk, how you talk, your mannerisms, your, your, you know, your hand gestures, your, how you're trying to, you know, how you articulate yourself to the world.
00:05:19.740 How you are with his friends, how you are with people that are serving you at the restaurant, how you are with your family or on the phone or genuinely how you behave as a woman can tell men a lot about you as a person.
00:05:34.260 And, you know, how, how many men possibly could have slept with, you know, are you extremely extroverted and, and loud and, you know, upbeat.
00:05:42.980 And, you know, you, you, you open your mouth to everyone and you're, you're very, you know, just the extroverted that could possibly mean that you're, you know, more likely to be partying, maybe, maybe sleeper with more people.
00:05:54.380 I think we got two options here.
00:05:56.520 Okay.
00:05:56.760 This is why I think there's some confusion because the men are like, you guys are sleeping around with this many people and the women are like, no, we're not.
00:06:03.920 It's less.
00:06:05.020 Either the men are lying about sleeping us or the women are lying about who they're sleeping with. 0.99
00:06:10.300 Well, I mean, it would make sense for women to lie about her body count. 1.00
00:06:15.700 Cause I think deep down they know, like, they all know.
00:06:18.260 Yeah.
00:06:18.540 Cause it's, you know, what's interesting is it is an insecurity, but it's a biological insecurity.
00:06:23.720 It's like, it's a valid, it's not even an insecurity.
00:06:26.280 I don't think it's an insecurity.
00:06:27.000 I don't think it's an insecurity.
00:06:28.380 It's a bad investment.
00:06:29.560 It's like, if you had somebody who showed up to your place and they had a resume and they're like, I worked here for three months.
00:06:35.020 I worked here for one month here.
00:06:36.700 I worked for two weeks.
00:06:37.540 This guy, I worked for this guy for one night.
00:06:39.440 But, you know, you look at this resume, you're like, I don't know if this is going to be.
00:06:44.060 So imagine, I couldn't keep a job.
00:06:47.020 Well, I mean, I think it's an insecurity in the sense that insecurity is always inversely proportional to value.
00:06:52.480 And men obviously value purity.
00:06:54.420 And you know what I mean?
00:06:55.440 So it's not, it's like, it's like if you haven't eaten in about six, seven hours, you're going to get very insecure about where your next meal is coming from.
00:07:01.140 It's like that kind of biological insecurity that makes sense that you absolutely should be insecure about.
00:07:05.400 And nowadays, too, like modern women, they'll, anytime a guy has a preference, you'll be like, oh, he's just insecure. 0.99
00:07:11.200 He can't handle, you know, my high body count.
00:07:13.660 He can't handle my insufferable personality, you know?
00:07:17.120 It's like saying.
00:07:17.580 Like that girl the other night who was like arguing and being really nasty. 1.00
00:07:20.760 And she was saying she was a virgin on the show.
00:07:22.600 Oh my gosh.
00:07:23.080 You are not acting like a virgin.
00:07:24.520 Yeah, it's like saying a woman can't handle a guy who's a loser.
00:07:28.940 Oh my gosh.
00:07:29.360 No, that's, oh my gosh, that was crazy.