JustPearlyThings - April 22, 2023


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In this episode, we are joined by a very special guest. We talk about his journey in life and how he has dealt with the challenges he has faced in his life and the lessons he has learnt along the way.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Have you ever, like, sought out to learn certain skills for a guy?
00:00:04.940 So, like, cooking, cleaning, I don't know.
00:00:07.120 My ex taught me how to cook.
00:00:08.500 Okay.
00:00:09.400 Jeez.
00:00:09.900 Yeah.
00:00:10.620 Have you ever thought about reconciling?
00:00:12.400 Could you ever?
00:00:14.020 No, I don't.
00:00:16.300 Is he still single?
00:00:18.680 He might be now.
00:00:20.100 I don't want to talk about his business.
00:00:21.380 Oh, okay, okay.
00:00:22.360 Yeah, but, no, I think we're past that.
00:00:24.840 We get on, we get on, but...
00:00:30.000 I can't get into, like, the personal stuff, but there, no, there are certain differences
00:00:35.740 that I can't, it's not by choice.
00:00:41.720 There are certain things that just can't.
00:00:44.500 Okay, what about the guys?
00:00:45.500 Have you ever sought out to learn a certain skill to get women? 0.92
00:00:49.240 Not really.
00:00:50.300 No?
00:00:50.700 No.
00:00:51.020 The women always just came to you. 1.00
00:00:52.740 I think just for me, they fall in place.
00:00:55.340 What?
00:00:56.040 With me, I mean, for me, women fall in place, so they don't need to... 1.00
00:01:00.000 You don't really learn anything.
00:01:02.880 Yeah, but you're all right.
00:01:03.500 Look how tall you are.
00:01:04.380 You're all right.
00:01:04.880 You're all doing something.
00:01:05.180 I was like, six, five.
00:01:06.480 Yeah, you're nice.
00:01:08.000 Dunking on, man.
00:01:08.580 When I was, like, late teens, early 20s now, it's like, all right, cool, like, I need
00:01:13.340 to make sure I've got a job so I have a little bit of money so I can say, okay, let's
00:01:16.560 go to the cinema or something.
00:01:18.860 I need to...
00:01:19.580 I was working out a lot more because it's like, all right, cool, what?
00:01:22.980 No girl don't want no fat guy. 1.00
00:01:24.740 I'm already short, so, like, let me try and work on...
00:01:27.440 There's loads of things I've tried to work on to be...
00:01:30.740 I'm not six foot.
00:01:32.200 I'm not six nothing.
00:01:33.460 I'm not either, but I'm close.
00:01:35.600 But there's loads of things I try to work on to try and be more appealing because I didn't...
00:01:41.800 I feel like, for me personally, it was a lot more to do with my self-image, where I
00:01:46.840 didn't view myself as the most attractive.
00:01:49.200 So, maybe that came across to the women that I was talking to at the time, whereas
00:01:55.440 now, I have a lot more self-confidence, so, like, I can engage in conversation more and
00:02:01.720 be more successful in just having general conversations where I wasn't at that point.
00:02:06.600 And I thought, if I did these things, I would be more successful when it really just should
00:02:10.460 have worked on myself.
00:02:11.140 Did you actively, like, study how to talk to women, how to approach women?
00:02:15.040 No.
00:02:15.580 No, none of that stuff.
00:02:16.600 I don't know if you're a pickup guy.
00:02:17.740 No, no.
00:02:18.980 But I thought if, well, if I have the...
00:02:21.080 Because I was already fine with, like, telling jokes and stuff like that, but it was just
00:02:24.880 like, I felt like if I had the look, if I had the...
00:02:27.580 If I had a Blackberry, if I had, like, the right clothes, if I made sure I always had
00:02:33.360 a haircut.
00:02:33.640 To have a dress.
00:02:34.400 Yeah.
00:02:35.100 Like, other little things, I thought I could make it work, so...
00:02:38.240 Yeah.
00:02:39.140 Yeah, I've definitely sought it out.
00:02:40.360 I think that I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:02:43.800 It's all about self-improvement at the end of the day.
00:02:45.700 Mm-hmm.
00:02:46.180 And, yeah, it's worked to my benefit, man.
00:02:49.380 It's made me on each side of myself.
00:02:51.040 I didn't know.
00:02:51.840 I had, you know, walk around confident, happy within myself.
00:02:56.920 I'm not the...
00:02:57.460 I don't look the ideal way I want to look, but I'm working towards it.
00:03:00.480 And whilst I'm working towards it, I just believe I'm that guy, man, and that's it,
00:03:04.600 you know?
00:03:04.800 I think that's what the main thing is, just confidence.
00:03:10.840 Yeah, man.
00:03:11.200 For men in general, from your confidence, it doesn't matter, because even today, we all
00:03:18.000 came in, didn't know each other, was all sat down, just talking, and everyone was able
00:03:23.160 to get along, whereas if there was any lack, I'm shy as you are.
00:03:26.340 Well, well, well, well, I want it.
00:03:28.840 I think before we came in, that is, as soon as that camera went on, boy.
00:03:32.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:32.820 But I knew, I knew she was going to be able to be there.
00:03:34.700 Oh, even before that, she was, she never really listened to anyone.
00:03:38.180 She was just very much me, me, me, just talked about herself.
00:03:40.740 And that's what's really why she's in a situation she's in there.
00:03:43.060 Yeah, by herself, with a pop-up, no way.
00:03:48.900 Oh, what are they?
00:03:49.720 We're a witness.
00:03:51.660 I was actually going to ask if I needed to make a statement.
00:03:54.960 She's not going to let it go.
00:03:56.740 Wow, okay.
00:03:57.980 Okay, the police are going to come up here.
00:03:59.520 Does everyone know their story?
00:04:01.100 Wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
00:04:04.740 Wait, who do they need statements from?
00:04:07.140 Everybody in the room?
00:04:08.660 Oh, okay.
00:04:09.280 What about if people don't want to stay, should want to talk, don't want to say nothing?
00:04:15.420 I talk to the fans.
00:04:17.080 I guess you could say no, say, I don't know.
00:04:19.040 No, come here.
00:04:20.140 I don't know.
00:04:21.760 I don't, I don't, I don't really deal with the police.
00:04:24.080 I don't know.
00:04:26.040 This is crazy.
00:04:27.140 Yeah, I don't think I've ever.
00:04:28.480 This would have been different, America.
00:04:30.800 America.
00:04:31.800 No, I mean, they'll come, but I actually think they come fast.
00:04:36.100 No, actually, they came pretty fast today.
00:04:37.960 Everyone always says here that they don't come fast.
00:04:40.660 They do come fast.
00:04:41.300 But this was pretty quick, right?
00:04:43.440 Let me call them and let's see in it.
00:04:46.000 Has this happened on the show before?
00:04:47.480 No, I mean, I've kicked people.
00:04:49.340 I think I've kicked either two or three people off.
00:04:52.440 But the police.
00:04:53.620 No, the police.
00:04:54.180 Fresh and fit, yeah.
00:04:55.880 Yeah, this is a first.
00:04:57.900 She actually called the police.
00:04:59.400 Wow.
00:05:00.080 For what, though?
00:05:01.380 For the security guard doing his job?
00:05:03.100 Right, right.
00:05:03.400 When I told you at the start, when I saw the gun, there was an energy and a vibe, and I was like,
00:05:08.220 this show won't be interesting.
00:05:10.240 That's what I knew.
00:05:11.040 I didn't know it was going to get to this level, but.
00:05:12.980 It's crazy.
00:05:13.460 You know?
00:05:15.200 It get a little crazy sometimes.
00:05:17.060 It's crazy.
00:05:17.660 I have a video for us to react to, but I don't know.
00:05:22.520 What?
00:05:24.720 I should have a way to react to the video.
00:05:27.120 Yeah, probably for now.
00:05:28.200 These are loose.
00:05:29.020 But, pal.
00:05:29.420 Yeah, just jump up.
00:05:29.980 I would like to learn how to bake.
00:05:32.160 That is something I would like to.
00:05:33.500 Why school?
00:05:33.940 I can teach you how to make cookies.
00:05:36.200 Would you?
00:05:36.440 From scratch.
00:05:37.260 Yeah, I can.
00:05:37.640 Would you?
00:05:37.660 Can I?
00:05:38.520 Seriously?
00:05:39.140 Yeah, it's great.
00:05:39.620 You would teach me how to bake.
00:05:41.800 Give back my feedback.
00:05:42.540 That's like, I'm not saying I can bake everything, but I do make good cookies.
00:05:46.320 I do.
00:05:46.660 That's on my own.
00:05:46.980 Yeah, I can't even make cookies.
00:05:48.380 Chocolate chip.
00:05:49.280 Chocolate chip.
00:05:49.780 We could do a wife's school episode where I teach something. 0.97
00:05:52.900 Okay.
00:05:53.640 For a change.
00:05:54.680 I usually am the one being taught.
00:05:57.060 Yeah, you can teach me.
00:05:58.160 That'd be cool.
00:05:58.980 I'm curious, guys.
00:06:00.820 Has dating changed?
00:06:02.780 You're in your, you said you're almost 40?
00:06:04.940 No, I am in my 40s.
00:06:05.980 Oh, you are in your 40s.
00:06:06.740 You look younger than that, by the way.
00:06:09.040 Thank you so much.
00:06:10.000 You look amazing.
00:06:11.060 And you're in your 30s?
00:06:12.360 42.
00:06:12.920 Oh, you're 42.
00:06:14.080 What is the difference between dating in your 40s, then in your 30s, and in your 20s?
00:06:18.260 I don't really date.
00:06:19.780 You don't date.
00:06:20.740 She's too busy playing football.
00:06:22.920 Well, it depends.
00:06:23.560 What outcome do you want?
00:06:25.020 It depends what you mean by dating.
00:06:26.420 Okay, I am socially awkward.
00:06:28.940 Yeah, I mean, you're not that awkward.
00:06:31.560 I'm talking to you.
00:06:32.860 Is she that awkward?
00:06:34.800 I don't think so.
00:06:35.620 No, you're not.
00:06:37.060 Oh, the police here, I think.
00:06:39.000 Oh, okay.
00:06:40.620 One at a time.
00:06:41.420 It's live, baby.
00:06:43.360 Line up and give your statements.
00:06:44.660 Okay.
00:06:46.840 Talk to everyone outside.
00:06:48.500 Wow.
00:06:49.780 Yeah.
00:06:51.060 Yeah, no, so what are they doing?
00:06:52.340 No one on my side?
00:06:53.640 But they can come inside.
00:06:55.080 Yeah, just tell them to come.
00:06:56.180 Nah.
00:06:56.620 Obviously, pull up a chair.
00:06:57.480 We've got spare mics.
00:06:58.440 Yeah.
00:07:00.180 Hey, they're sitting next to me, bro.
00:07:01.620 We've got spare mics.
00:07:02.720 Yeah, man.
00:07:03.040 They're sitting here, bruv.
00:07:04.620 One on either side.
00:07:05.700 Nah.
00:07:06.020 There's a space over there.
00:07:07.100 Nah, gee. 0.71
00:07:08.060 I know the ladies like men in uniform. 1.00
00:07:09.880 You don't have to have their faces on the camera.
00:07:11.600 Not those uniforms.
00:07:12.420 I wear a man today.
00:07:15.880 Hey, I strike a good image in my Smith blues.
00:07:20.320 This is real, isn't it?
00:07:21.860 Wow.
00:07:22.440 Wow.
00:07:22.820 What's going on?
00:07:24.260 What?
00:07:24.940 What's happening?
00:07:26.080 What's going on?
00:07:29.280 The super chat's supposed to be going crazy.
00:07:31.380 Trust me.
00:07:31.920 Yeah, I'll read super chats.
00:07:33.320 That's a good idea.
00:07:33.920 Show them some love, man.
00:07:34.720 I was trying to figure out what to do right now.
00:07:36.320 Show them some love out there.
00:07:37.600 So, guys, the police are here.
00:07:40.100 I guess they're taking some sweat.
00:07:44.100 The feds?
00:07:45.220 The feds are here.
00:07:45.860 They're on super chat as well.
00:07:47.700 The feds are on super chat.
00:07:50.040 Oh, okay.
00:07:54.440 From Scotland Yard to Pearl's Yard.
00:07:57.480 Trust.
00:08:00.120 Yeah, so, guys, send super chats.
00:08:03.300 And it's very nice of you guys to send super chats.
00:08:05.960 How sweet of you.
00:08:07.600 All right.
00:08:08.380 Moral for all.
00:08:09.140 All you got to do is play the video back.
00:08:12.700 I know.
00:08:13.380 I should just send them the link.
00:08:14.700 C. Dumbledore.
00:08:15.900 IG was engineered to feed women's addiction to attention and made them worth $1 trillion. 0.98
00:08:21.400 But now the damage is done to women. 1.00
00:08:23.340 It's showing it's lost half of its value.
00:08:26.560 It's made women attentionholics. 1.00
00:08:28.680 You're drunkards.
00:08:29.780 Anthony Baker.
00:08:30.840 Here's $10 for security.
00:08:33.460 The Clue channel.
00:08:34.240 This one's for security.
00:08:35.600 Lou Casely.
00:08:37.600 Shout out to Pearl's security detail.
00:08:41.980 A Scott in Bradley.
00:08:43.460 Men only argue with the women that they love. 0.82
00:08:46.200 If they don't love them, they say screw it.
00:08:49.360 Not worth it.
00:08:50.160 A Scout in Bradley.
00:08:51.180 Pearl.
00:08:51.600 Please explain the wall to them.
00:08:53.620 D.
00:08:53.960 This is a request to mute her mic, please.
00:08:57.640 We did do one more than that.
00:09:00.280 Manny F. 0.52
00:09:02.680 Are you good?
00:09:07.720 Manny F. 0.52
00:09:08.640 Do you agree that if a woman chooses to become anorexic, it's okay because she chooses that lifestyle? 0.99
00:09:14.660 D-A-B-N-X. 1.00
00:09:15.880 I'm 1701.
00:09:17.020 Pearl.
00:09:17.260 Why did you invite that woman? 1.00
00:09:19.680 Sinner man. 0.98
00:09:20.980 Final thought.
00:09:21.780 Compromising between the couple isn't weak.
00:09:23.640 It's when women forget about the compromise because they're used to availability and options to get the attention of belittling men. 1.00
00:09:31.840 Moral for all.
00:09:32.620 I need Jay, oh wait, I read that one already.
00:09:37.380 Or that's from last show.
00:09:38.900 Let me refresh it real quick.
00:09:40.320 Thank you guys for the super chats.
00:09:42.220 Really appreciate it.
00:09:44.120 You know.
00:09:46.700 All right.
00:09:47.300 I think we're done.
00:09:48.160 Security goes hard out here.
00:09:53.320 Stalwart professional.
00:09:54.740 What?
00:09:55.420 Stalwart professional.
00:09:56.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:09:58.440 Might handle that well.
00:09:59.980 Yeah.
00:10:01.660 Wow.
00:10:02.620 Okay.
00:10:04.980 Are they taking statements from Helen now?
00:10:08.040 Oh, okay.
00:10:08.640 So then what are they going to do us all one by one?
00:10:10.560 It was like, we'll stop at her and tell them.
00:10:14.380 Oh?
00:10:16.240 But she's complaining that nothing's happening.
00:10:19.080 That we're in the right.
00:10:20.460 But they have to come up and take some kind of statement.
00:10:23.700 Oh, okay.
00:10:24.400 So they don't have to take all of our statements?
00:10:27.400 That's good.
00:10:28.060 I mean, I don't know.
00:10:29.420 How do you deal with the police here?
00:10:30.840 I don't know how to deal with the police here.
00:10:36.420 Send them the video.
00:10:39.460 Literally.
00:10:40.340 Okay.
00:10:40.700 Well, I'm actually going to.
00:10:42.460 So dating between your 40s and your 20s, any different?
00:10:48.440 Like I said, I don't really date.
00:10:50.140 You don't really date.
00:10:50.960 I don't.
00:10:51.900 I mean, split up with my ex, what, two years ago.
00:10:55.180 Focus on my daughter.
00:10:57.700 And I get approached by...
00:11:00.960 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:11:03.140 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
00:11:07.920 If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below.
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