JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Alpha Male DESTROYED Feminist With FACTS


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Length

9 minutes

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196.79779

Word count

1,856

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

12

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a woman in the modern era and how we should all be valuing people based off of a skin deep evaluation of a potential partner. We also discuss the difference between a woman who is well-traveled and a woman that is not.

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00:00:00.000 I don't understand what is that in your 20s is that new to like I'm just saying
00:00:03.780 typically I don't I don't think men typically want women that have spent 1.00
00:00:07.020 their 20s focusing on themselves and then say at 30 oh I'm ready well I think
00:00:11.640 that's a problem because you should be with somebody that is career driven and
00:00:15.000 has something outside of the home otherwise why should they be that why
00:00:19.560 should they be why should they ask you as a man I'm obviously not a man what is
00:00:26.760 it that meant value in a women clearly it's very different but my idea my
00:00:31.080 thought process is I want to be able to have traveled be open-minded because if
00:00:36.600 you're traditional men I'm assuming you want to have a family want to have kids
00:00:39.360 don't you want to be with a woman that is worldly educated well-traveled could 0.98
00:00:44.520 bring something to the table rather than somebody that has absolutely no idea
00:00:49.200 about anything in life and really can't contribute anything outside of just being
00:00:52.740 a woman no that's a simple answer isn't it yeah on one key point there the idea
00:01:03.480 of being well-traveled is a giant red flag for most women because typically when a 1.00
00:01:10.240 woman if you if I look at a woman's Instagram page and I see pictures of her 1.00
00:01:13.380 on a private jet on a yacht in multiple different fancy locations she's a
00:01:17.640 Mykonos here she's in Paris she's in Dubai she's in New York my immediate
00:01:21.840 assumption is this woman is a hoe yeah prostitute you have already 1.00
00:01:25.140 automatically it's not front of prostitute just just a woman traveling 1.00
00:01:31.300 everywhere are going and living a luxurious lifestyle I'm assuming that I
00:01:34.600 came all over Europe I mean the example I just gave is always clearly a woman
00:01:39.480 who's been flown out by a man probably because it's different cities probably
00:01:44.900 different exactly he's trying to tell you what he wants and you're trying to tell
00:01:48.500 them that's not I don't want to guys most girls that travel around from city to city they're 1.00
00:01:58.820 sleeping around so it's like if it walks like a duck quacks like a duck how is he
00:02:02.300 supposed to know that it's not a duck especially when women lie then you have a 1.00
00:02:05.600 conversation with the person that's why I wasn't neglect no wasn't saying that what
00:02:09.800 he's saying was wrong my question was why have you automatically assumed that
00:02:13.400 that is the case because it's there's a very judgmental attitude it's literally
00:02:21.500 just patent recognition if I see a guy okay if I'm going on a date with a guy
00:02:27.420 yeah and he walks like a bum talks like a bomb he doesn't seem to have a job if I 0.98
00:02:34.180 judgmental for thinking this man might be a bum and then he says you know what I'm a
00:02:38.540 millionaire babe and I'm just like you know I don't think you believe with you
00:02:45.560 going and pairing up with this man if he's got something else to him he's got
00:02:49.840 beautiful characteristics if he's got something in his spirit that you're like
00:02:52.940 oh my gosh he's amazing what if you added value to him I am just I'm not like I
00:03:01.260 come from a hard-working family like a word German okay
00:03:07.780 ambition but but it's like no that's just wouldn't work with my family so if
00:03:16.120 he's a bum now and that's okay too but I think that you know no job not even like 1.00
00:03:22.360 sorry as our individuals go on like we've all got our different things that we
00:03:26.980 look for right like if you look for in a woman someone to have that clean slate 1.00
00:03:31.960 somebody that's gonna be at home raise the kids that's okay a lot of my male
00:03:36.180 friends of which I have so many who are like family to me they're like my
00:03:39.900 brothers like honestly like my brother's like these people are people I love so
00:03:48.900 much and their opinions on all of this this whole movement is that you're only
00:03:55.560 valuing people based off of real skin deep stuff which is really sad for
00:04:00.060 humanity but that's what everyone's selling yeah but women based men off 1.00
00:04:03.780 skin deep like you saying just as a hypothetical right you saying oh I need
00:04:12.780 to I need to date a woman who has been flown out to all corners of the earth by a 1.00
00:04:17.440 bunch of different men it's like me saying to you you have to date a guy
00:04:19.860 who's five foot one you have to but we are just no choice about this you have
00:04:23.520 to date a guy who's five foot one irrespective of anything else it isn't
00:04:26.340 the whole point of this conversation about modern day yes women and my
00:04:30.840 theory is is like if we were still back in the day when my mom was going out and
00:04:35.760 doing everything and I could stay at home that's a lovely different story
00:04:39.480 that's not the case why do you think why do you think that's not the case of it
00:04:42.120 now generalize because I've never met a man never there said I'm happy for you to do
00:04:48.660 that I will take the lead here and I will provide everything and you can stay at
00:04:51.900 home and that just means you can't get the guys that do that it's usually based
00:04:58.540 off it's based off of women's choices now because there's plenty of men that 0.88
00:05:02.640 choices and status as well in your environment there's plenty of men that
00:05:07.680 want to provide for their girls there's plenty of guys that want to do it I'm
00:05:10.860 not saying that they're on I'm just saying in I I live in London you live in
00:05:15.300 London yeah that's I've not come across that it's not typical you might be
00:05:20.340 fishing in the wrong pond then okay maybe but again if we're if the whole
00:05:23.460 conversation has been generalized that's the generalized thing about modern day
00:05:27.060 date and so I understand when she's saying as in my 20s I've had to go out
00:05:31.740 and work my ass off because I've never been able to rely on a man 18 19 20 21 did 0.92
00:05:37.900 you ever try to date an older guy like 35 about 30 35 40 no no okay it would have
00:05:45.580 been an option for you 18 to 22 if you if you I could I could never date anybody
00:05:51.580 like you having family like things that you can't date a bum my mom might let me 1.00
00:05:56.200 date a 40 year old at 18 that's my family okay let's do 22 22 to 35 I still think no
00:06:03.040 no but that's all based on background and culture but I'm saying the whole the
00:06:09.100 whole point is most women young attractive in shape women which is all 1.00
00:06:13.060 choices have the option to stay at home if they go for the right type of guy but a
00:06:17.620 lot of times when we're young we're not going for the husbands like it's but I
00:06:21.700 did I'm me I'm so thankful for my mentality because I did I was a 19 dating a 30
00:06:30.040 year old man and it made sense because when I was I was already committed from
00:06:34.960 young I was ready to make I was already in that mindset already and loads of my
00:06:38.800 lost basically most of my friends because of that decision so I had to choose
00:06:42.580 between being a committed 19 year old wife material or be a young 19 year old girl
00:06:49.960 and going out basically the week that I met my son's dad it was he was that and that
00:06:57.760 week someone I just came back from like a vacation with like a guy that obviously
00:07:02.120 I met we were seeing each other and stuff so that week I met my son's dad and I
00:07:06.400 went with my son's dad and he might not have firstly asked me to go to Dubai with
00:07:12.620 him or this with him but I chose already this is the kind of guy that I need I
00:07:16.660 don't need the guy that wants to buy me Chanel drive me in a Range Rover all
00:07:20.020 them stuff because I know I could just already tell it's so good to be true
00:07:23.440 you're selling something I'm buying something I'm selling something so it's
00:07:26.940 just it's not even it didn't even start off right but so then I just kind of cut
00:07:31.240 him off and went with my son's dad he wasn't my son's dad at the time but all my
00:07:35.820 friends I lost a lot of friends they were laughing at me like oh my god you're so
00:07:38.500 young you need to go out this guy I don't think they're real friends that's
00:07:41.380 that's what I'm getting to they were telling me like oh you we need to go out
00:07:44.560 why are you stuck in the house playing why laughing at me and I was so
00:07:48.400 embarrassed but at that point it still didn't I was just strong you know what I don't
00:07:52.300 think that they weren't laughing at you because they they were looking down on
00:07:55.720 you they were laughing at you because they were jealous of your ass 1.00
00:07:57.460 can I tell you the end of the story you were love I don't even know the story I'm gonna I'm gonna assume
00:08:01.760 that's why that's why I'm so proud to say this that I chose him and yeah everyone's
00:08:07.520 just like looking at us odd like why are you guys so in love in the relationship
00:08:10.860 you've left all your friends now you we create we started creating our own world
00:08:14.500 and empire from then on even though we weren't perfect on the right places but it was
00:08:18.060 the right time that's why I always say to people everything is the time frame it's not
00:08:21.820 after you traveled it's not after you've done it it's the right time but the friends that
00:08:25.700 were laughing at me that didn't go out with every single time they were left with them
00:08:31.140 men that had Range Rovers and stuff with like a kid or two here they don't know where the dad
00:08:35.700 is here they're not acknowledging their kids although me and my sons that we had ups and
00:08:40.280 down he never he never left my side he never left my son's dad my son's side so now I'm laughing
00:08:45.900 at them I'm like the time that you could have spent focusing on the right guys you focus on
00:08:50.560 your lifestyle well and look at the lifestyle it gave you and the whole point is we all
00:08:54.960 have choices we might have been given the wrong information and made bad choices based on the
00:08:58.960 information we had at the time and you can't change it now but it's like at the end of the
00:09:03.100 the day every all know right from me any young attractive woman has the option to get married 1.00
00:09:07.500 all know right from me any time and I thought I lot of just don't know right from me any time I