Andrew Tate Advices Brittany Renner
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Summary
In this episode of The Real Reel Podcast, I sit down with my good friend and social media influencer, to discuss her journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. We talk about what it means to be a woman in today's society, how to deal with the pressures of being a single mom, and how to overcome the shame that comes with it.
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myself I see the world differently through a series of events right so what the fuck comes
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next because that's where I'm confused right because I'm not it's like I did if you don't
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if it's not like gifted to you like even in your situation like your dad provided you a life that
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like so many people would kill for like you know what I mean so that's why it's like it's sucks
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because the reason I hate these conversations is because it's never about like empathy do I
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understand the the the scales and how someone may view for this this that and the third okay but
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moving forward then what so okay so I'm a I'm just gonna like I said make it about myself I'm 30
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single mom I my fucking checkered past is all over Instagram you know what I mean I have people like
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you she's a hoe she's a she's literally known for this okay so what would what would be your advice
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to people like me then but I don't believe in gray area I believe black and white okay well that's
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unfortunate because there's there's gray I just there's gray I do you know what to answer it
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wait I'm gonna answer I mean I just think there's consequences for your decisions and I just think
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like my best advice would be to like lower your standards like that because because I just think
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there's going to be consequences for putting you know promiscuous stuff on the internet okay and you
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probably won't get the type of guy that you could have got at 22 and you know it wasn't meant to be
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then do you know what I'll tell you I would say because I'm 30 and I'm single out of a situation
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that actually is not because I was a hoe and I was doing whatever whatever people can't call me that
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I made a bad decision to be with somebody that hurt me alone I stayed for five years
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I came out super late and do you know what I realized what my what what I learned is that I know now
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that I have to be selective and I have to think if me taking longer to get to that stage is what it
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takes then that's what it takes you accept your future you accept everything with gratitude
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because as long as you're breathing that's the most important thing at least you've got your child
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I am not afraid because I know the quality of woman that I am I know my value regardless of whether I'm
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30 40 50 do you understand so you don't be afraid by other people's time limits and limitations and all
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of these things because it actually doesn't matter and I'll tell you why now that your value goes down
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as you know that's according to you like you know but I'm saying to men and you have to understand
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your buyer I'll tell you why because since mr. Andrew Tate explained something about status I understand very
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well what that actually means and as a woman the quality and the value that I hold for myself is
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actually the kind of value and quality a man will appreciate the status you'll bring to him whether
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or not I'm a virgin because I've worked on myself to be a woman of quality and substance I respect
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myself and I handle myself as such okay and that is the way that you're going to actually overcome all
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of these bad mistakes that you've made because who you are right now actually will make a difference if
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you stick to it and if you mean it and if you've always been that way there's always another another story for
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everybody it doesn't matter you'll be a fight you know I'm just got somebody that's more emotionally
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mature do you know I would say to you what are you about to say because you just started speaking
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I want to say I'm just you said Andrew I want to hear I really because because you've been through
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a lot in your life I like when when she told me that you were going to be on and we were going to
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be on this panel together I started watching a bunch of your videos and it really was like
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there's so much that you have been through which is why you have a well of wisdom right and the
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difference between me and you is that you're glorified for it and I am burned at the stake
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for everything that I've been through and I it's so funny because people have always said that we
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were two sides of the same coin as far as like well if Andrew Tate gets banned Bernie Renner should
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get banned because there's we are all about accountability and fucking truth right yeah okay
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so you've been through a lot I've been through a lot I'm seen as used goods you're seen as a high
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value man so if you're me then then what what's next yeah it's really interesting and it's interesting
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you make the observation and you are correct that's the difference between the masculine and
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the feminine it's kind of it's unfair I guess the world's not fair but that's the difference in the
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masculine the feminine men are respected for going through things and surviving and women are the
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complete opposite they're ashamed for going through things and surviving if you look at women love scars
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on men for a reason he's gone through something he did war wounds yeah the war men don't want a chick
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covered in scars I'll say this right now that a woman the more trauma she goes through the more
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masculine she naturally becomes and if you were to give me my ideal woman I would not want of of
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wanting her to have a hard life and a bunch of trauma I like the idea for having a soft feminine
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life and being a soft person and I can take care of her and protect her whereas as a man to be a good
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man you need to have been through a bunch of trauma because if you haven't been through trauma
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as a man you're a weakling you have to have been through a bunch of shit so the masculine the feminine
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is a very interesting point there as for I don't know I don't know your history I don't know the past
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but we can just talk in general generalizations in regards people like me I guess under the same
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umbrella it doesn't have to be personal I don't know any of it but we'll give generalizations
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one of the main reasons that men are scared of a female with history is is because it makes the
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man insecure and and scared dogs bite so this is why men will snap or get angry quick or they'll bring
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up your if you if you get an argument with him he'll bring up your history that whatever but a lot of it
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is insecurity and it's not insecurity because the man is insecure the woman the women the female
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paradigm and society convinces men any man who says anything you're insecure that it's not
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insecure in that way it's insecure in a very realistic logical way like I was saying earlier
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she's had a lot of life experience let's be honest am I the richest guy she's ever had no am I the most
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famous guy she's ever had no am I the best looking guy she's ever had no like what's keeping her here
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and then part of it comes down to well am I second place could if she could do better would she do
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better like there's a whole bunch of insecurity involved and that's where tiny things like I'm
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talking I know it sounds like dumb shit tiny things about the favorite car brand become more
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important than ever right it's it's your job as a woman regardless of how much sexual history you've
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had or what guy you're with etc it's your job as a woman to make your man feel secure in the fact and
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make him feel like a man like auntie was saying make him feel like the man no matter what he does so
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that he feels like you really truly believe he's the best choice for you on the planet that's your job
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to do now if you've had a checkered past that's perhaps more difficult you need to be more
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tactful with it more tactical about it but you have to achieve the same result you have to do the exact
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same thing right so yeah it's easy for me if I get a 21 year old virgin from some village in
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Slovakia and I'm multi-millionaire Andrew Tate of course it's a very easy she's never had better
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she'll never get better she's never been anywhere boom boom easy one right but like you said the world's
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not so so so idealistic the reality is that people have had relationships etc etc but a man is
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happiest in the relationship when he feels like man in the house and when he truly feels like you
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believe he's the best man that you could possibly ever get and have ever gotten because a man is
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jealous I'll tell you something I used to say this to girls it's like a joke and I used to say
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truth and justice yeah no but I said it's a joke so you cheated on me before I met you
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and she'd be like what do you mean I didn't even know you it's like yeah you fucked that guy before I
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even knew you you cheated on me and they used to laugh whatever but that's how men think that's
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the male mind like I love you and you've been fucked by who but I didn't know you I don't care if you
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knew me you should have waited what do you mean but that's the male mind so he is at competition
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with all of your exes and all of your lifestyle and all the things you've done permanently and it's
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down to you as a woman to sit there and go how do I make him secure in himself and secure in his
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masculinity and make him believe that investing in me is still worthwhile because I still truly value
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him despite the fact that I could do xyz I hope that gives some clarity but that's that's the
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answer you know what I would have said I would have said oh for anybody in that situation come
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off social media and just raise your child so the next the person who meets has got nothing to
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but I never knew you I never knew who you were because I don't I've never heard of you before so
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when I spoke to you by the way people by the way you're saying like what's on us on the internet
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let me just say you're a nicer person than what you sound like like what you perceive to be like
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you were saying oh that people's got oh there she's a whore she's a whore and I've heard I've
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heard the name but I don't know anything about you and I was saying that if you didn't have
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nothing on social media about your checkered past and you met somebody the same way how I met
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you and I converse and I got to know you is the same way that they would as many of you know I
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was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to
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