JustPearlyThings - December 25, 2022


Andrew Tate Exposes This Truth about Men


Episode Stats

Length

18 minutes

Words per Minute

247.68024

Word Count

4,600

Sentence Count

441

Misogynist Sentences

42

Hate Speech Sentences

35


Summary

In this episode, we have a very special guest on the podcast, my good friend and co-host of the podcast who is a man of many talents. He is a writer, a speaker, a podcaster, a comedian, and in this episode we talk about a topic that has been on everyone s mind for a while now, and it's time for him to speak on it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I'm too busy jumping in, I already asked, but you're not too busy jumping in and being, women.
00:00:04.180 He's patient.
00:00:05.420 He's ready to get married.
00:00:06.380 Now you can all shut up and let him answer, innit?
00:00:08.200 I'll answer, yeah.
00:00:09.280 So to go back to one of my earlier points, firstly, to make it clear in the disagreement, I agree with, of course, thank everyone knows who I agree with.
00:00:17.000 But I do, because you know what it is, though?
00:00:19.520 You know what's actually funny?
00:00:21.220 The things that she's saying are common knowledge 20, 30 years ago.
00:00:26.240 This is how the world functioned.
00:00:28.020 This is how the whole world functioned.
00:00:29.360 The things I say that somehow people believe are controversial are exactly the way the world functioned in, like, the 90s, the 80s, the 70s.
00:00:37.260 All of the entire period of human history, men had a role of masculinity, women had a role of femininity, we worked as a team.
00:00:44.520 Now the world's come along and they've destroyed and broken everything.
00:00:47.560 And there's this new progressive think and this new generation of women who seem to believe that if we completely fuck it all up, it's going to end up better.
00:00:54.760 And my argument to that is, listen, we went from walking around in fields and small nomadic groups to building cities to building the pyramids to going to the moon.
00:01:02.440 We managed to go from a few thousand to billions of people, populate the entire planet, build canals, build skyscrapers, cities.
00:01:09.060 All of this was done based on the back of man being a man, woman being a woman, working together as a family.
00:01:14.960 And now it's destroyed.
00:01:16.120 Now they're going to come along and fuck it up.
00:01:18.480 If it's not broke, don't fix it.
00:01:19.600 It's destroyed.
00:01:20.200 It's been destroyed.
00:01:21.120 Man has destroyed Earth.
00:01:22.340 What are you talking about?
00:01:23.020 It's been bad decisions from powerful men that got men to go to wars and from women to lose husbands.
00:01:28.960 Men built Earth.
00:01:30.160 Men make decisions for war.
00:01:32.100 Men kill men.
00:01:33.280 Please listen to me.
00:01:34.420 Men built the Earth.
00:01:36.160 I'm not saying men are perfect, but the entire world that you're existing under was built by men.
00:01:41.080 All of it.
00:01:41.820 And the point I'm making is now we're entering a world of new think.
00:01:45.800 And the problem with new think is it's not tested.
00:01:47.980 I don't give a shit what anyone's opinion is.
00:01:49.740 What I can state as a matter of fact is we had 5,000 years of history that tells us how the world works with X and Y together.
00:01:57.140 We're now entering a new paradigm.
00:01:59.060 There's no 5,000 years of history.
00:02:00.620 So whatever you believe about how it's going to work or it's going to be better or worse, whatever, that's just you guessing.
00:02:05.560 Everyone is guessing, right?
00:02:07.140 So we're entering a brand new paradigm and everything's completely fucked up.
00:02:10.260 The point you were making earlier, which is a fantastic one about if I pick a woman who's advertising, et cetera, et cetera.
00:02:15.920 Men always, please keep this in mind, especially if you're a female.
00:02:19.080 People always say, you know, the number of emails I get from girls will say you don't give enough girl game.
00:02:22.500 I'll give you girl game right now.
00:02:23.940 Your man wants status.
00:02:25.820 That's what he wants.
00:02:27.060 You need to find a way to make him look good to the world and to his friends.
00:02:31.760 So how do you do that?
00:02:32.560 I'll tell you.
00:02:33.140 One of the ways a man can get status is to get the girl that no one can get.
00:02:36.460 That's a very simple way, right?
00:02:38.160 I said not ready to mingle.
00:02:39.400 I did right.
00:02:40.060 Okay.
00:02:40.260 No, but this is the truth, right?
00:02:41.600 If I date a girl and she's perfect in every way, head to toe, and then I'd say, I've met this girl.
00:02:48.160 Yeah, she's this.
00:02:48.680 She's this.
00:02:49.020 Oh, yeah.
00:02:49.260 I took her for a date.
00:02:50.260 Even if you didn't fuck her.
00:02:51.160 If you fuck her, no, no, I just went for a date.
00:02:52.760 So you went, the attraction goes from this to zero.
00:02:56.980 Done.
00:02:57.580 And it may not for some men because some men haven't got choices, but men like me who genuinely have unlimited options.
00:03:02.640 We want complete exclusivity.
00:03:05.140 That's what we're looking for because that gives status.
00:03:07.880 That's what we're looking for.
00:03:08.780 So you have to be very careful as a female with all of your actions, all of your interactions with your boyfriend or when you're looking for a boyfriend, et cetera, and say, am I going to make my man look better by doing X or look worse?
00:03:18.680 Simple things.
00:03:19.560 I've had endless arguments about girls' nights out, right?
00:03:22.280 Oh, you're insecure.
00:03:23.520 It's nothing about insecure.
00:03:24.720 I don't give a fuck if no man talks to you all night long.
00:03:28.300 I don't care if you're going out and you're going to an all-girl club.
00:03:30.860 I don't care.
00:03:31.340 I know that when my boys say, oh, all the girls are going out, and I say, not my girl, she stays home.
00:03:37.420 I look good.
00:03:38.580 That's it.
00:03:39.260 She stays home.
00:03:40.180 She doesn't go out.
00:03:40.780 She doesn't want to go out without me.
00:03:43.700 That's status.
00:03:44.460 It's not about the night out.
00:03:45.560 It's about the status of being the man in the house.
00:03:48.320 That's what a man wants.
00:03:49.300 He wants respect.
00:03:49.980 He wants to be the man of the house.
00:03:51.120 I say she stays home.
00:03:52.280 She stays home.
00:03:53.080 Big G.
00:03:53.600 Boom, boom.
00:03:54.060 That's what we want.
00:03:54.700 Can I ask you something?
00:03:55.500 What about what does the woman want in your eyes?
00:03:58.220 What do you think?
00:03:58.740 And what's the gaming gift for the boys?
00:04:00.100 I'm going to tell you, but before that, I need another Clementine, and I need to give half to our friend here because she just rolled her eyes at me.
00:04:05.080 And I'm perspicacious.
00:04:06.240 I know it's everything.
00:04:06.880 She doesn't realize that I'm a ninja.
00:04:08.260 I detect these things.
00:04:09.160 Even when I'm looking directly ahead, I can detect it.
00:04:11.180 So I'm going to give her some of my Clementine, and she's going to feel better.
00:04:14.780 So I'm going to get a Clementine for you.
00:04:16.040 Would you like some Clementine, my dear?
00:04:17.080 I'm sure.
00:04:17.940 You want some Clementine?
00:04:18.480 I just, I think for me, it's like, I asked you a question.
00:04:20.900 Yeah, I would love some.
00:04:21.880 You want some Clementine?
00:04:22.640 Yeah.
00:04:23.040 We're going to hook it up.
00:04:23.780 Okay.
00:04:24.180 Clementine's coming.
00:04:25.080 All right.
00:04:25.440 Go on.
00:04:25.780 Continue.
00:04:26.480 Okay.
00:04:27.060 Well, no, I mean, I just feel like this is definitely a different conversation for me because I'm very open-minded.
00:04:34.480 I love hearing different perspective.
00:04:35.840 And I do feel like this is a newer idea.
00:04:40.140 Like you said, within the last 30, 40 years, this is a new concept.
00:04:43.000 We don't know how it's going to end.
00:04:44.620 I just know from, like, my experience, other women that I've met as well, it's like the reason for even, like, relationships, why they're not lasting is because people don't want to put up with the disrespect.
00:04:56.140 And, like, even when you were talking about, like, oh, it's okay for me to cheat but not for you, my thing is, is, like, why not have transparency and have it be polygamous, polyamorous, whatever works for you?
00:05:06.340 That's, like, to me, where it loses me with the traditional stuff.
00:05:09.500 I get it.
00:05:09.820 It's like, why can't we have transparency if I sign up for that?
00:05:12.260 Cool.
00:05:12.820 So how does it, no, no man, no man in a million years, let's all be realistic, right?
00:05:16.460 No man in a million years is going to meet a girl he likes and go, I want to be polyamorous.
00:05:19.840 Like, come on, that's gay.
00:05:20.640 Let's cut this bullshit.
00:05:21.680 So let's be realistic.
00:05:22.980 How does a man show love to a woman?
00:05:25.080 Tell me.
00:05:25.780 Exclusivity.
00:05:26.460 Wrong.
00:05:27.600 Time, resources, and something else.
00:05:29.320 Time, resources.
00:05:30.240 So that's a good way to start.
00:05:32.060 So sexual exclusivity is how a female shows primarily that she's interested in a man.
00:05:37.220 He's the only man who has sexual access to me because I can get pregnant, and this man is the only man who can do it.
00:05:41.400 That's how it's done.
00:05:42.640 A man, yes, I'm not saying all men can cheat.
00:05:45.000 I'm not saying all men should cheat.
00:05:46.000 I'm not saying that.
00:05:46.560 I'm saying that if I truly love a woman, she won't sit there and go, he shows me his love because he doesn't fuck anyone else.
00:05:52.320 She'll sit there and go, he shows me his love because my bills are paid.
00:05:55.180 I'm in a Bentley.
00:05:56.160 I fly private.
00:05:57.120 I go to Dubai anytime I want.
00:05:59.040 I have a Chanel bag.
00:05:59.940 And I'm not talking about just money.
00:06:01.560 I'm talking about resource and a lifestyle as a whole.
00:06:03.800 This is not just me.
00:06:04.660 This is the world and most of the world today.
00:06:06.360 If you go to Moscow and you find a big G, a rich guy, right?
00:06:09.680 He has his wife.
00:06:10.600 She's pushing a Bentley.
00:06:11.580 She has the kids.
00:06:12.100 She's living in a mansion, whatever.
00:06:13.060 When he goes to the club with his boys, you think he ain't with 19-year-old strippers?
00:06:15.440 Of course he fucking is.
00:06:16.240 Can I ask you?
00:06:16.540 But she's just like, whatever.
00:06:17.900 Don't care.
00:06:18.560 I'm the one who has the money.
00:06:19.500 Don't give a shit.
00:06:20.280 So you have to sit there.
00:06:21.760 And to a point, you have to sit and analyze the difference.
00:06:24.560 When you're saying disrespect, if you're going to go through life as a woman and say, I only care about the sexual exclusivity of my man, then what you're going to end up doing is having a bunch of failed relationships and fucking loads of dudes.
00:06:34.680 There has to get a point where you go, you know what?
00:06:36.620 This guy ticks so many boxes.
00:06:38.880 Once a year, twice a year, he's out with his boys, does some dumb shit.
00:06:42.140 I'm just going to pretend I didn't notice because my bills are paid.
00:06:44.380 I'm looked after.
00:06:45.520 I can tell he cares about me.
00:06:47.060 If I have a problem, he's going to fix it.
00:06:48.960 He ticks so many.
00:06:49.800 That's the smart female move.
00:06:51.620 As opposed to go, I don't care how good he is to me.
00:06:53.820 He fucked that bitch once.
00:06:54.860 So I'm going to leave and I'm going to get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another bitch anyway.
00:06:58.080 And then I'll get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another bitch.
00:07:00.140 And the cycle of dumb shit.
00:07:01.400 I have a question.
00:07:06.420 Is there ever cheating that's too far?
00:07:09.080 So if a guy cheats on a girl, is there ever a point where she...
00:07:12.360 Yeah, there's a lot of cheating.
00:07:13.160 There's completely a lot of cheating that's too far.
00:07:14.520 If he knocks up another girl, would you say that's too far?
00:07:16.720 All right.
00:07:17.080 All right.
00:07:17.360 So first things first, I'm a man of my word.
00:07:19.240 I don't want anyone to think I'm a liar.
00:07:21.040 So here's your Clementine.
00:07:23.260 Thank you.
00:07:23.900 And he peeled it.
00:07:24.780 I'm a gentleman.
00:07:25.540 I'm a gentleman.
00:07:26.680 Right.
00:07:27.000 So obviously, I'm not saying blatantly disrespect your woman, right?
00:07:31.200 She's your woman.
00:07:31.980 She's your queen.
00:07:32.560 She's the most important thing in the world to you.
00:07:34.460 She needs to be treated in a way that she feels that, right?
00:07:38.440 But it's unfortunate because I keep tying back to this baseline point.
00:07:42.460 But the reason I keep going back to this baseline point is to try and explain to everybody at home how simple the world can be if you go back to the baselines of it.
00:07:48.580 Why do men cheat?
00:07:50.140 Most women don't know.
00:07:51.320 You'll see them all the time.
00:07:52.420 Why do men cheat?
00:07:53.000 Oh, because men are just stupid.
00:07:54.620 And why do men fuck girls uglier than their main chick?
00:07:57.060 Why do men do all this stuff?
00:07:58.140 Do you know why?
00:07:59.020 I'll tell you why.
00:07:59.900 Let's go back to the first thing I've been saying this whole time.
00:08:01.940 Status.
00:08:02.880 Yeah, that's my chick.
00:08:03.960 She's home.
00:08:04.940 Took this one home.
00:08:05.940 Yeah, I got that one.
00:08:06.720 She's chasing me.
00:08:07.400 Status.
00:08:07.940 Status.
00:08:08.580 Status.
00:08:09.100 But it's stupid to females.
00:08:10.880 I get it.
00:08:11.620 But that's the male world because sexual access is an easy indicator of status.
00:08:16.360 So that's one of the reasons they do it, right?
00:08:18.260 So you have to go back into the baseline of why men even cheat in the first place.
00:08:20.760 I'm telling you, if you're a woman, the smartest thing you can do is look after your man.
00:08:24.220 Make him not want to cheat.
00:08:25.220 Be perfect.
00:08:26.240 But there's going to be a time across a 20-year marriage you might just need to be a little bit blind.
00:08:31.100 A little bit.
00:08:31.960 Just a tiny bit.
00:08:32.840 Just don't look at his phone.
00:08:33.980 And you'll be cool.
00:08:35.000 You'll be cool.
00:08:35.900 Just make sure the bills are paid.
00:08:37.100 He does his job as a man.
00:08:38.040 What if you can pay your own bills, though?
00:08:39.820 But this is it.
00:08:40.660 We'll talk about that in a second.
00:08:41.560 But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmo.
00:08:43.840 I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up, lock you down, and go cheat on you.
00:08:46.680 I'm not saying that.
00:08:47.540 I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough of his other jobs.
00:08:49.620 As for you saying what if you can pay your own bills, then what's the reality you face?
00:08:53.300 Just like I described earlier.
00:08:54.760 I'm going to decide that the thing that I prioritize above everything, above his resource, above the amount he cares for me.
00:09:00.040 You'll see men cheat on a woman and then cry his eyes out trying to get that woman back.
00:09:03.340 He still loves you.
00:09:04.280 It's not the same as if you cheated.
00:09:05.580 He loves you with all his heart.
00:09:06.460 He'd die for you.
00:09:07.240 He'd take a bullet for you.
00:09:07.940 And he'd still fuck that bitch.
00:09:08.800 It's a different game for men, right?
00:09:11.720 So you're sitting there going, well, I'm going to prioritize his sexual exclusivity over all of his other attributes.
00:09:17.880 You're just going to end up having endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes.
00:09:22.480 And then what's going to happen is your psychology is going to break.
00:09:25.520 Because females don't like to accept the fact that if you sleep with enough men and you get rid of the stigma around a new dick, your instant answer is constantly new dick.
00:09:33.100 Ah, he didn't text me today.
00:09:34.100 Fuck it.
00:09:34.440 Someone else.
00:09:35.060 Ah, he was rude to me.
00:09:36.000 Fuck it.
00:09:36.280 I'll cheat.
00:09:36.860 Ah, he was this.
00:09:37.480 I was going to get a new boyfriend.
00:09:38.520 And then you end up just jumping on cock all day and you're fucking done.
00:09:42.140 You need to.
00:09:42.760 The reality is you have to come to a point where you get a guy and he ticks the boxes.
00:09:45.660 You're like, you know what?
00:09:46.380 I'm wifey.
00:09:47.220 I've got the Bentley.
00:09:48.180 He does whatever he does.
00:09:49.340 But my bills are paid.
00:09:50.400 That's it.
00:09:50.860 When would you say it's too far?
00:09:54.520 I'm just curious if there's a line.
00:09:57.080 Like if he spends money on another girl.
00:09:59.500 If he, like when does it.
00:10:00.520 Okay, that's a good question.
00:10:01.260 Another second question.
00:10:02.380 Do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks?
00:10:04.540 Very good question.
00:10:05.760 And this is a long and in-depth answer, but it's a good question.
00:10:08.600 Let me peel my Clementine.
00:10:09.800 But no, but it's a good question.
00:10:11.440 Where is too far?
00:10:12.000 I think publicly disrespecting is too far.
00:10:14.400 So like you'll, you'll notice.
00:10:15.860 Let's take the Moscow G, all right?
00:10:17.040 Let's take an oligarch, a billionaire from Moscow.
00:10:18.820 He has his wife.
00:10:20.000 He has the girls he's in the club with.
00:10:21.580 The girls he's in the club with wouldn't fucking dare message his wife.
00:10:25.280 They wouldn't dare step out of line.
00:10:27.240 Like they know their place, right?
00:10:28.580 So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place, that's one way of doing it.
00:10:31.060 Spending money on a girl, certainly, yeah, because men show love primarily through our
00:10:35.560 hard work, not just through our resource, but through our hard work.
00:10:39.080 If you take a man who's not particularly rich, he shows his wife love by getting up every
00:10:42.620 day, going to work nine to five, working his ass off and paying those bills.
00:10:46.480 That's how he shows love.
00:10:47.640 That's why he does it for his wife and his children.
00:10:50.060 Most men are out here working bullshit jobs, carrying trash.
00:10:52.860 They're doing that to show love.
00:10:54.600 So giving money, yeah, that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex.
00:10:59.240 Let me give you all an example.
00:11:00.840 I don't know if you all know my history, but I used to run a webcam business a long time
00:11:03.380 ago.
00:11:03.580 Don't want to talk about it, blah, blah, blah.
00:11:04.880 But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online and talk to guys and they had laptops,
00:11:08.380 right?
00:11:08.940 This is a long time ago.
00:11:10.320 And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls, I'd say, this man who is sitting
00:11:16.120 in and logging in every night and sending you money every day and telling you he's obsessed
00:11:20.340 with you from the other side of the world and missing out on time with his family to sit
00:11:23.880 here and talk to you and send you money.
00:11:25.800 That is more cheating than if he just went out and banged something.
00:11:28.320 If he went out and banged something and came home, then done.
00:11:31.320 But he's sitting here giving you his time, his money, his affection.
00:11:35.340 That's cheating for a man, for a man to sit there and give money and time away, right?
00:11:39.140 So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity.
00:11:41.940 Yes, that's for females.
00:11:42.960 That's how females show their love to men.
00:11:44.500 It's not how high status, at least, males show their love to females.
00:11:48.280 And anyone who wants to disagree with me, call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever
00:11:50.900 bullshit.
00:11:51.560 Look at a history book.
00:11:53.100 Every king, every sultan, every conqueror, every emperor, every knight, all of them.
00:11:57.280 All of them had maidens, wives, all of them.
00:12:00.480 That's history.
00:12:01.280 What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat?
00:12:04.160 It's not about even being allowed to cheat.
00:12:06.320 I'm not even saying that.
00:12:07.040 And it also depends on the partner you're with.
00:12:08.540 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women.
00:12:11.180 I'm not saying that.
00:12:11.920 That's what you're doing, man.
00:12:12.740 No, but I'm not.
00:12:13.460 No, no, no.
00:12:14.040 Let him explain.
00:12:15.020 Let him land.
00:12:15.620 Let him land.
00:12:16.020 It's about to come.
00:12:16.960 Now, sister, let him land.
00:12:18.440 No, but I'm not.
00:12:19.240 I'm not.
00:12:19.800 What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human
00:12:24.620 dynamics.
00:12:25.580 And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat
00:12:29.920 on her if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?
00:12:34.340 In the olden days, it was different.
00:12:35.960 The world was a different place.
00:12:37.960 It was a completely different place.
00:12:38.860 And it was better.
00:12:40.020 Now it's all fucked up.
00:12:41.380 It's fucked up on every level.
00:12:42.980 And men, especially the high status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become
00:12:47.540 high status.
00:12:48.480 They've been through so much shit to get where they are.
00:12:50.900 It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.
00:12:54.280 And he climbs to the top of the mountain.
00:12:55.700 And the second he's in the candy store, after one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no,
00:12:59.760 no more candy.
00:13:00.800 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain.
00:13:02.600 I just got rich.
00:13:03.540 I just went through X, Y, Z.
00:13:05.440 I finally got here.
00:13:06.700 I'm finally in the candy store.
00:13:07.860 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?
00:13:09.620 Okay.
00:13:09.860 What man's going to agree with that?
00:13:11.160 Can I ask you a question?
00:13:11.400 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning?
00:13:15.960 Absolutely.
00:13:16.600 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.
00:13:18.240 Oh, sorry.
00:13:18.620 Sexual loyalty.
00:13:19.540 That's what I meant.
00:13:20.140 Sexual exclusivity is different.
00:13:22.880 Men, sorry.
00:13:23.540 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males.
00:13:29.140 Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality.
00:13:31.100 It's true.
00:13:31.840 I'm telling you, you can get a man.
00:13:34.240 He can go on a holiday.
00:13:36.600 He can fuck some stripper.
00:13:37.640 He can come home.
00:13:38.380 And you can lie detector test him.
00:13:39.860 Do you love your wife?
00:13:40.620 Would you die for your wife?
00:13:41.760 Would you take a bullet for your wife?
00:13:43.240 He'll pass the lie detector test.
00:13:44.960 He loves her with all his heart.
00:13:46.080 He'd do anything for her.
00:13:47.640 It's just pussy.
00:13:48.740 It's not a big deal.
00:13:49.740 It's different.
00:13:50.380 I feel like, I guess my question would be then is like, how do you view sex?
00:13:54.360 Because I like sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification.
00:13:58.100 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.
00:14:00.380 I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself.
00:14:03.540 So I never had a man that valued me.
00:14:05.460 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys and guys, you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.
00:14:09.900 But I feel like there, I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex and how they move around in the world.
00:14:16.100 But it's like, sex is a sacred thing, no matter a male or female is doing it.
00:14:20.880 So that's why for me, like my biggest, like the hardest for me to understand is like, this is such a sacred thing.
00:14:28.020 And it's just being, it's like taking a piss for a guy.
00:14:30.600 Can I just say something?
00:14:32.000 You sure you weren't making love to somebody who was having sex?
00:14:34.960 I'm sorry?
00:14:35.620 You weren't, you sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex?
00:14:40.020 A and T, that's a nice, that's the question there.
00:14:42.360 No, that's what it sounds like to me.
00:14:44.720 It sounds like as women, they make love to men that are just having sex.
00:14:51.400 Right.
00:14:52.620 That's the difference.
00:14:53.600 That's not the point.
00:14:54.240 But my thing is, okay, not all the time.
00:14:56.840 So I think when men hear that though, it's like, if it was sacred to you, you would have waited until you were married.
00:15:01.640 But it's like, I go, right.
00:15:03.080 No, I get, I get that.
00:15:04.120 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.
00:15:07.540 So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense.
00:15:11.680 And now we're approaching an era that like, we don't know what's going to happen, but there's gray area.
00:15:15.880 You've had sex.
00:15:16.620 I've had sex.
00:15:17.220 She's had sex.
00:15:17.860 We've had sex with different guys.
00:15:19.060 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.
00:15:20.560 We're used goods.
00:15:21.140 I understand status is a big part of that.
00:15:22.820 I understand that sex is viewed differently, but I feel like you should not.
00:15:26.840 If you're, if you're looking at face value, I can understand why you would be judged from your past.
00:15:31.320 But if, if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done.
00:15:34.780 But that's the thing.
00:15:35.920 Like men do though.
00:15:37.600 That's the thing.
00:15:38.380 Like, like a virgin is more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men.
00:15:44.260 Like it just is what it is.
00:15:45.660 There's a limit.
00:15:46.280 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin.
00:15:49.360 A modern man needs a partner, somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of today.
00:15:53.060 But I'm saying the men with the most, the men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure in general.
00:15:59.220 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.
00:16:00.940 But that's the thing.
00:16:01.560 The reality is, the reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live in today, that need a partner.
00:16:07.580 So it's time for those masses of men to start respecting women for the role they can play in their lives.
00:16:11.980 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.
00:16:14.860 Do you know what it is?
00:16:15.420 But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people now complain about, the misogynistic world.
00:16:21.400 That's what it is.
00:16:22.260 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated.
00:16:25.520 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure?
00:16:27.880 It's not that it's, but it's not, that's not the problem.
00:16:30.240 The problem is now, listen, the maths is very simple.
00:16:33.140 You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity and it makes so much sense because it is true.
00:16:38.720 Right. And then you have men that are in these situations where just average working an average job and they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these.
00:16:49.000 Yes, they can. And that's what he said.
00:16:50.560 He did say that. Yes, they can.
00:16:52.220 A nine to five man can do it.
00:16:53.700 But then again, but wait, wait, this is the thing.
00:16:56.720 What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to understand the person that we're speaking to.
00:17:01.180 And I'm very glad that you clarified everything that you mean.
00:17:03.660 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.
00:17:05.180 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically demand for certain things from a woman.
00:17:10.960 So the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her because he's a top G.
00:17:16.660 It's the same way men are going to have to compromise and stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that.
00:17:22.080 You just didn't get none of what you were saying.
00:17:24.860 I made my point. That was the whole point.
00:17:26.720 What point?
00:17:27.620 Well, duh, because you just quoted him.
00:17:29.460 You just said about his thing and you didn't know.
00:17:31.060 Not only did I get clout, I made my point.
00:17:33.420 I said the average man does not have what he takes to demand for a virgin or more.
00:17:38.760 Hang on a minute.
00:17:39.720 He already said that.
00:17:40.780 He already said that.
00:17:41.340 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page and so what.
00:17:45.080 Do you know what it is, right?
00:17:45.700 Is that too many women, they see regular guys and they feel they're settling.
00:17:49.120 You're not settling.
00:17:50.260 You're getting what you deserve.
00:17:51.560 But you can't be asking for a virgin though.
00:17:53.560 You're not settling.
00:17:54.380 But the difference is men know this.
00:17:56.980 Like most average men aren't demanding.
00:17:58.560 The average men, the average men, the average men, they won't be a virgin.
00:18:01.300 They were kind of.
00:18:02.200 But the difference is the difference.
00:18:03.320 But that's what's enough of us saying.
00:18:04.200 Wait, wait, wait.
00:18:04.700 The difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.
00:18:07.520 They know they don't deserve an 8.
00:18:08.760 They know they don't even deserve a 7.
00:18:10.320 And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that's just ugly.
00:18:14.080 Like most men in history haven't even reproduced.
00:18:17.720 And so it's like.
00:18:18.180 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:18:21.780 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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