JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


Andrew Tate SCHOOLED This Modern Woman


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

228.56825

Word count

2,053

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

sentences flagged

Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how to deal with a man who doesn t give a fuck about you and how to get the best out of a man so you can get the most out of him. We also talk about why it s so important to have autonomy in a relationship.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 to do that's fine but it gets to a point it gets to a point where you have to sit and analyze the
00:00:05.240 scenario you're in and try and realize and pick your battles and i'm telling you you may not
00:00:10.300 realize it but a man does a whole bunch of shit for you that you don't know he's watching the 0.64
00:00:16.260 shows you want to watch he's listening to you talk gossip about the girls at work he's fucking 0.98
00:00:21.020 going yeah i like that dress that dress he doesn't give a fuck about any of it he's doing it for you 0.82
00:00:25.840 but the second is back the other way you have some fucking issue with autonomy listen yeah he's 0.93
00:00:32.840 right because women talk nonsense for a long time yeah babe you're right yeah babe can't believe she 1.00
00:00:39.420 did that it's true babe oh yeah that show is good yeah babe yeah it's true you become upset i agree
00:00:44.280 men do a lot but women do a lot too as much as my if my man caters to me i will do anything to make 1.00
00:00:51.100 him happy if he says oh babe i want to i like this meal i will i will make sure i can cook it
00:00:56.620 for him because guess what he actually cares about what i want as well you can't just have a one-way
00:01:01.720 relationship i'm just saying i'm just commenting i'm just saying if i was a woman and i had to make
00:01:08.460 a man as attracted to me as possible my goal would be to give that man status and make him feel good 0.99
00:01:13.360 about himself and i'd be very very careful talking too much about life experiences or opposing views not
00:01:18.340 because he's out to oppress me not because he's an evil horrible person but because he's trying to
00:01:23.280 find somebody with a similar life view he's trying to find somebody he can show the world to trying
00:01:28.380 to find somebody he can feel like he can teach things to that's how you get the best out of a
00:01:32.520 man i'll tell you how you get the best out of a man that's why i got clementine no no no but if you
00:01:36.800 go into a man's room when he's playing video games and he's playing video games and you say all you do is
00:01:40.860 play video games and you nag him he'll play video games if you walk in there and go you know what
00:01:44.560 you're so smart i've seen you do so many amazing things and you said so many amazing things why do you
00:01:48.260 waste your time playing video games you could show me so much now you're gonna get him off the
00:01:52.920 fucking console yeah but it's an e i know it's an ego play i know your old girls are like why should 0.95
00:01:58.180 i have to do that there's a lot because he tells you look pretty in the morning because you win
00:02:02.640 it's because in the end you win you talk about why should i have to do that well why should you
00:02:07.940 have to work hard in the gym to get six back because you win that's the game if you it's actually
00:02:13.180 men are so simple we are so simple and the truth is women know it this is what's amazing women
00:02:18.420 pretend they're confused you're not confused you know you're just egos are in the way and society's
00:02:23.280 telling you something else and you just fucking refuse to be agreeable nice people 0.98
00:02:28.600 so i have a question for the girls so imagine you're dating a guy okay and it's your birthday
00:02:42.700 and for your birthday he gets you let's say a 500 gift okay and you're you're happy right it's very
00:02:48.840 it's thoughtful it's specific to you then you found out last year you got his ex-girlfriend an entire
00:02:56.140 birthday party how does that make you feel he she he went to he did the most he he rented out the
00:03:02.400 nicest hotel in london he got her everything she wanted the year before i mean i care you don't
00:03:08.480 care at all i don't really care as long as he's he's making me happy okay we're different we're
00:03:15.440 different people too it's a different relationship and maybe like you know he he bought her flowers
00:03:20.920 every day 365 days a year and he didn't do that for me it's like well if that's what makes
00:03:25.480 her happy he's going to do it makes her happy i mean i get i get the angle what you're saying
00:03:28.960 is like oh she did you know he did all that for her why am i not good enough but the second you
00:03:33.880 compare yourself you lose yeah yeah and i i agree but i'm just saying that's how men look at like
00:03:40.880 your past is like basically like you've given it for free so okay so here's my question to that
00:03:46.220 because all right i love like everything we're talking about okay so to all the viewers out there
00:03:51.260 including myself right you live life there's gray area you live and you fucking learn right 0.92
00:03:59.220 so where the fuck do we go from here so do i play the shame game where everybody walks away a fucking 0.99
00:04:04.560 loser because i can do that i beat myself up my entire life for every decision i've ever made
00:04:08.800 right it got me nowhere so i value myself i see the world differently through a series of events
00:04:14.740 right so what the fuck comes next because because that's where i'm confused right because i'm not 0.81
00:04:19.920 it's like i did if you don't if it's not like gifted to you like even in your situation like
00:04:25.480 your dad provided you a life that like so many people would kill for like you know what i mean
00:04:30.420 so that's why it's like it's sucks because the reason i hate these conversations is because it's never
00:04:38.240 about like empathy do i understand the the the scales and how someone may view for this this that
00:04:44.920 and the third okay but moving forward then what so okay so i'm a i'm just gonna like i said make it
00:04:50.500 about myself i'm 30 single mom i my fucking checkered past is all over instagram you know what i mean i have 0.91
00:04:59.820 people like you she's a hoe she's a she's literally known for this okay so what would what would be your 0.99
00:05:05.360 advice to people like me then but i don't believe in gray area i believe black and white okay well
00:05:09.420 that's unfortunate because there's gray i don't believe i'll tell you what there's gray i just
00:05:13.520 there's gray and i do you know what to answer it wait i'm gonna answer i mean i just think there's
00:05:17.660 consequences for your decisions and i just think like my best advice would be to like lower your
00:05:22.660 standards like that because because i just think there's going to be consequences for putting
00:05:28.180 you know promiscuous stuff on the internet okay and you probably won't get the type of guy that you
00:05:33.800 could have got at 22. do you know what it wasn't meant to be then do you know what i'll tell you
00:05:38.180 i would say because i'm 30 and i'm single out of a situation that actually is not because i was a
00:05:43.420 hoe and i was doing whatever whatever people can't call me that i made it by decision to be with somebody
00:05:47.300 that hurt me alone i stayed for five years i came out super late and do you know what i realized what
00:05:52.160 my what what i learned is that i know now that i have to be selective and i have to think if me taking
00:05:57.680 longer to get to that stage is what it takes then that's what it takes you accept your future you accept
00:06:02.240 everything with gratitude because as long as you're breathing that's the most important thing
00:06:05.380 at least you've got your child i am not afraid because i know the quality of woman that i am
00:06:09.660 i know my value regardless of whether i'm 30 40 50 do you understand so you don't be afraid by other
00:06:15.120 people's time limits and limitations and all of these things because it actually doesn't matter and i'll
00:06:19.480 tell you why now that your value goes down as you know that's according to you like no but i'm saying
00:06:23.800 to men and you have to understand i'll tell you why i'll tell you why because since mr andrew tate
00:06:28.580 to explain something about status i understand very well what that actually means and as a woman
00:06:33.140 the quality and the value that i hold for myself is actually the kind of value and quality that a man
00:06:37.680 will appreciate the status it will bring to him whether or not i'm a virgin because i've worked on
00:06:42.060 myself to be a woman of quality and substance i respect myself and i handle myself as such okay
00:06:47.020 and that is the way that you're going to actually overcome all of these bad mistakes that you've made
00:06:51.060 because who you are right now actually will make a difference if you stick to it and if you mean it
00:06:55.700 and if you've always been that way there's always another another story for everybody it doesn't
00:07:00.480 matter you'll be a fan you know i'm just got somebody that's more emotionally mature do you
00:07:03.400 know what i would say to you what are you about to say andrew because you just started speaking
00:07:06.920 i want to say andrew she said andrew i want to hear i really because because you've been through a lot
00:07:12.500 in your life i like when when she told me that you were going to be on and we were going to be on
00:07:15.900 this panel together i started watching a bunch of your videos and it really was like there's so much
00:07:20.700 that you have been through which is why you have a well of wisdom right and the difference between
00:07:26.180 me and you is that you're glorified for it and i am burned at the stake for everything that i've been
00:07:31.220 through and i it's so funny because people have always said that we were two sides of the same coin
00:07:35.780 as far as like well if andrew tate gets banned bernie renner should get banned because there's
00:07:39.040 we are all about accountability and fucking truth right yeah okay so you've been through a lot i've been 0.83
00:07:45.660 through a lot i'm seen as used goods you're seen as a high value man so if you're me then then
00:07:50.620 what what's next yeah it's really interesting and it's interesting you make the observation
00:07:54.280 and you are correct that's the difference between the masculine and the feminine it's kind of
00:07:57.780 it's unfair i guess the world's not fair but that's the difference between the masculine the feminine men
00:08:02.020 are respected for going through things and surviving and women are the complete opposite they're ashamed 1.00
00:08:07.020 for going through things and surviving if you look at women love scars on men for a reason he's gone
00:08:11.480 through something he did war wounds yeah the war men don't want a chick covered in scars i'll say this 1.00
00:08:16.240 right now that a woman the more trauma she goes through the more masculine she naturally becomes 0.99
00:08:22.460 and if you were to give me my ideal woman i would not want of i've wanted her to have a hard life and 0.99
00:08:26.680 a bunch of trauma i like the idea of her having a soft feminine life and being a soft person and i can 0.99
00:08:31.400 take care of her and protect her whereas as a man to be a good man you need to have been through a bunch
00:08:36.320 of trauma because if you haven't been through trauma as a man you're a weakling you have to have been
00:08:39.680 through a bunch of shit so the masculine the feminine is a very interesting point as many of you know i was
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