NO Guy Wants To Be Just FRIENDS
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Summary
In this episode, the lads talk about sex in the friend zone, cheating, chasing and chasing someone else. We also discuss the difference between sex after sex and sex before sex and after sex, and how to get out of the "friend zone".
Transcript
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it's true though i mean go up to a guy friend and just be like listen like i need something
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from you but i don't know like what are you gonna do if i put it on you right now what
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are you gonna are you gonna tell me no i don't think so exactly he's bending you over
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literally he's slamming cheeks asap have you guys ever had a guy make it out of the friend
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zone there's there's been i mean are they really in the friend zone if they're really
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in the friend zone then i'll be like oh what are you doing but then if they're if it's
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like a half-hearted friends like a will they won't they it's like you guys had a work husband
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before okay would you what's that you don't know what a work husband yeah yeah it's like
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it's like yeah it's like the person you hang out with at work all the time it's like the
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opposite but you've never done anything yeah like i think that's more i think that's more
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likely to happen than a friend zone okay would you agree i feel like for girls there's three
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categories there's like absolutely yes absolutely no and maybe yeah yeah like it was everything
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the absolute maybe would be um like like i like like the maybes are like oh he's kind of
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a cute but there's always a but yeah it's like a but where the yes is like yeah that's
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what he's talking about where at some way at some point he took a wrong turn and landed
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in the friend zone so it's like you were going in the right direction when you've done something
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that didn't quite tick the box so you're a maybe yeah there's a chance one day in under
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the right circumstances but for now you can chill there i got or i've got better options
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available right now yeah so i can put you the back burner interesting and guys will wait
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as well so 100 it's crazy that goes away but i find that quite they're not waiting they're
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not waiting they're doing their thing yeah it's just they're not opportunistic so it's
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like it's like cool if if i got a girl i'm serious about like okay i want you and i know
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you're not going to give it up to me easy i might still be doing all the nice stuff breaking
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it down little by little i'm still breaking it down i'm breaking it down just chipping
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away slowly but i'm still at it cock on shoulders like you know what i'm saying you think men
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like that sorry do you think men like um moving from the friend zone to something more
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oh it's a proud moment is that more satisfying than like hooking up with somebody you meet
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at the club 100% because you've got work in it right yeah yeah yeah it's the graph it's
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like it's like in sales when you've got those deals when you've got them deals that stretch
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for ages and you fight you close the deal and you close it you're like oh my god i closed
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the deal it's gas you want to go out on a friday night drink with the boys do you ever
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i hear some guys say though they'll get like resentful in a way because they're like i waited
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all that time for that yeah because they built it up in their heads yeah yeah yeah because
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they wanted to keep grafting it never lives up to your expectations that's why now i probably
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like the chase more than the outcome i agree with you i like the chase more than the outcome
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interesting no like like you know when you're seeing someone like let's say work husband
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hypothetically scenario and it's like a will they like will we won't we that's more exciting
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than like if we just date straight away and i know okay he's definitely attracted to me he
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definitely wants to see me as a girlfriend then if it's like i don't know is that why people
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like cheat what do you mean like if they get comfortable with somebody and then that's why
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they want to go chase somebody else you've got that now but i think it's the difference
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between um after sex are you cuddling or are you not what do you mean right but as in uh
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chase now you've got you've fulfilled a chase uh what comes next are you gonna are you still
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interested or was it just about the chase if it was just about the chase now he's got
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what he's won so i think he's gonna bounce i think from the female side um part of the
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attraction of a guy is mystery it's about trying to understand and find out about this guy so
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if a guy has a an element of awe a bit of mystery about him he's this fascinating interesting
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thing that you want to acquire i think in that scenario once you've discovered what that mystery
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is so i i have sex with him excuse me and then the the error the air of mystery is gone and
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you're no longer interested i don't think that's true i feel like if someone's like mysterious
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or there's like an air of mystery to them i don't feel like hooking up with them one time
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would mean that like i'm not interested in them anymore maybe that's just my perspective of that
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from the thrill of the chase perspective because most women like a guy who's mysterious like a guy
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who they like it's a hard nut to crack type thing they like to just know that i think a lot of women
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like that like i only have access to this man not like in like a possessive way but like he's only
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showing this side to me i feel like a lot of women appreciate that and i feel like when that is
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revealed then i guess that a law and excitement yeah that's why when a guy women want a guy that
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to be more emotional stuff like that and then he gets when he is and then they get on it then
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then they get turned off by him um let's do the last clip uh blessing thank you
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oh yeah this this actually had nothing to do with the topic i just thought this was entertaining
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wait what yeah this is oh is it quite graphic no no yeah i just was like this is nuts
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oh man no girls are on smoke you know but that is a bit crazy though which which part of it
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wait look at that freeze frame wait wait no wait that's an old man with a cane
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no oh my god turn over two people this is so sad
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well you might have to replay that though yeah you can do it again i don't know if he died or not
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does it say in the comments does it say in the description blessing did he die
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oh he passed away did they run over anyone else
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oh wow so the other person died too two murders but do you think that is related with the whole
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situation or do you think she actually has like a mental illness an excuses no because that's not
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normal that's like do you tend to happen i mean do you think if the roles were reversed we'd be
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asking that question if it was a man who ran over a woman because i would say it's like no he would
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need a really good lawyer to come up with that argument what which argument uh that if he had
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a mental illness mental problem is that to really you know bring back people to not be uh to be
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impartial and not be gender bias because it happens like it doesn't matter what we feel it's it's
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definitely women unfortunately get away with it a lot more than men does it say what her like
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did she get sentence um i don't know if she goes two counts of murder will face the charge so um
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it says chapman will face one charge of aggravated murder two counts of murder two counts of felonies
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felon felonious assault one count of attempted murder and one count of endangering chill were the kids in
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the car oh goodness or maybe the kids were nearby on august 31st chapman allegedly drove her car into the
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the father of her child her intended target also and also hit the 58 year old christopher scott who
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died at the university of cincinnati medical center from his injuries chapman then got out of the car
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and began physically assaulting the man with whom she had an eight-year-old child um an eight-month-old
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child that child was inside the vehicle when chapman hit two men according to hayman county prosecutor joe
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devers while he was in kroger she apparently went through his cell phone and believed that he had
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an inappropriate relationship with her sister and said deters during a press conference can we look at
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the source um wcpo.com can we can we oh you can click it yeah you can click a blessing i'm so sad
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why do women feel justified in doing damn near anything when it comes to a man cheating on them
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like for example um wendy williams made a joke about chopping a man's off um on national tv and no one
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cared um because a girl chopped her um basically a girl chopped her partners like off and um wendy
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williams basically and said oh he deserved it but if the roles were reversed like a dude chopped
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you know our stuff off like it wouldn't be the same
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women women get uh less time in prison usually as well
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yeah when it when it gets to being charged and being uh a similar crime yes uh it's like three
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times the amount of sentencing for the same crime yeah i think naturally but just because physically
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we're more vulnerable i mean i don't i don't think we i don't think it should be it's not it's not
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solicited at all i mean a crime is a crime man or woman whatever but um it's
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it's physically we're more vulnerable so it's a bit like oh if he's cheated on me like
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like will i hit him if if i do like so like not me that's not i don't know me personally
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are you sure you're gonna put your hands on that
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how are you if you get if you get if your boyfriend cheated on you how would you react
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having creating more mind like emotionally mentally like
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letting them know using your words so would you be would you be spiteful
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like no best friend or something no no no that that's like that's like scoring our own own goal
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like what like there's that's no i would probably do something the worst no do something that would
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actually let him know yeah you up okay like leave and cut contact men i feel like men they learn through
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through pain or men learn through absence if someone's got access to me he's realistically he's
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thinking yeah i know i know i heard this that the other but rather like i'm still chatting to her
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right now no you need to cut all contacts and that's it you need to put him on time out and that's
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with your absence is when a guy will really feel like whoa what am i doing like i feel i feel like
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she's not talking to me she's not talking oh my god like it's real this time she's really pissed off
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