JustPearlyThings - NO Guy Wants To Be Just FRIENDS

00:00:00.000 it's true though i mean go up to a guy friend and just be like listen like i need something

00:00:08.300 from you but i don't know like what are you gonna do if i put it on you right now what

00:00:12.300 are you gonna are you gonna tell me no i don't think so exactly he's bending you over

00:00:17.800 literally he's slamming cheeks asap have you guys ever had a guy make it out of the friend

00:00:24.680 zone there's there's been i mean are they really in the friend zone if they're really

00:00:32.140 in the friend zone then i'll be like oh what are you doing but then if they're if it's

00:00:36.660 like a half-hearted friends like a will they won't they it's like you guys had a work husband

00:00:40.920 before okay would you what's that you don't know what a work husband yeah yeah it's like

00:00:46.820 it's like yeah it's like the person you hang out with at work all the time it's like the

00:00:50.800 opposite but you've never done anything yeah like i think that's more i think that's more

00:00:55.340 likely to happen than a friend zone okay would you agree i feel like for girls there's three 1.00

00:01:00.300 categories there's like absolutely yes absolutely no and maybe yeah yeah like it was everything

00:01:08.380 the absolute maybe would be um like like i like like the maybes are like oh he's kind of

00:01:15.320 a cute but there's always a but yeah it's like a but where the yes is like yeah that's

00:01:21.280 what he's talking about where at some way at some point he took a wrong turn and landed

00:01:25.080 in the friend zone so it's like you were going in the right direction when you've done something

00:01:28.580 that didn't quite tick the box so you're a maybe yeah there's a chance one day in under

00:01:33.760 the right circumstances but for now you can chill there i got or i've got better options

00:01:38.440 available right now yeah so i can put you the back burner interesting and guys will wait

00:01:44.560 as well so 100 it's crazy that goes away but i find that quite they're not waiting they're

00:01:50.640 not waiting they're doing their thing yeah it's just they're not opportunistic so it's

00:01:54.560 like it's like cool if if i got a girl i'm serious about like okay i want you and i know

00:02:00.240 you're not going to give it up to me easy i might still be doing all the nice stuff breaking

00:02:03.480 it down little by little i'm still breaking it down i'm breaking it down just chipping 0.97

00:02:07.260 away slowly but i'm still at it cock on shoulders like you know what i'm saying you think men 0.92

00:02:11.740 like that sorry do you think men like um moving from the friend zone to something more 0.91

00:02:17.300 oh it's a proud moment is that more satisfying than like hooking up with somebody you meet

00:02:22.700 at the club 100% because you've got work in it right yeah yeah yeah it's the graph it's

00:02:26.880 like it's like in sales when you've got those deals when you've got them deals that stretch

00:02:31.900 for ages and you fight you close the deal and you close it you're like oh my god i closed

00:02:35.540 the deal it's gas you want to go out on a friday night drink with the boys do you ever

00:02:40.040 i hear some guys say though they'll get like resentful in a way because they're like i waited

00:02:46.160 all that time for that yeah because they built it up in their heads yeah yeah yeah because

00:02:50.760 they wanted to keep grafting it never lives up to your expectations that's why now i probably

00:02:55.580 like the chase more than the outcome i agree with you i like the chase more than the outcome

00:02:59.740 interesting no like like you know when you're seeing someone like let's say work husband

00:03:05.060 hypothetically scenario and it's like a will they like will we won't we that's more exciting

00:03:10.800 than like if we just date straight away and i know okay he's definitely attracted to me he

00:03:15.700 definitely wants to see me as a girlfriend then if it's like i don't know is that why people

00:03:21.140 like cheat what do you mean like if they get comfortable with somebody and then that's why

00:03:25.980 they want to go chase somebody else you've got that now but i think it's the difference

00:03:29.360 between um after sex are you cuddling or are you not what do you mean right but as in uh

00:03:36.540 chase now you've got you've fulfilled a chase uh what comes next are you gonna are you still

00:03:42.020 interested or was it just about the chase if it was just about the chase now he's got

00:03:45.480 what he's won so i think he's gonna bounce i think from the female side um part of the

00:03:51.100 attraction of a guy is mystery it's about trying to understand and find out about this guy so

00:03:55.320 if a guy has a an element of awe a bit of mystery about him he's this fascinating interesting

00:04:00.080 thing that you want to acquire i think in that scenario once you've discovered what that mystery

00:04:04.980 is so i i have sex with him excuse me and then the the error the air of mystery is gone and 0.75

00:04:11.780 you're no longer interested i don't think that's true i feel like if someone's like mysterious

00:04:16.200 or there's like an air of mystery to them i don't feel like hooking up with them one time

00:04:21.480 would mean that like i'm not interested in them anymore maybe that's just my perspective of that

00:04:26.240 from the thrill of the chase perspective because most women like a guy who's mysterious like a guy 0.84

00:04:31.460 who they like it's a hard nut to crack type thing they like to just know that i think a lot of women 1.00

00:04:37.120 like that like i only have access to this man not like in like a possessive way but like he's only

00:04:43.440 showing this side to me i feel like a lot of women appreciate that and i feel like when that is

00:04:47.960 revealed then i guess that a law and excitement yeah that's why when a guy women want a guy that 1.00

00:04:53.020 to be more emotional stuff like that and then he gets when he is and then they get on it then

00:04:57.100 then they get turned off by him um let's do the last clip uh blessing thank you

00:05:02.720 oh yeah this this actually had nothing to do with the topic i just thought this was entertaining

00:05:14.260 wait what yeah this is oh is it quite graphic no no yeah i just was like this is nuts

00:05:25.960 oh man no girls are on smoke you know but that is a bit crazy though which which part of it 1.00

00:05:37.960 right running someone over oh my god please no

00:05:40.600 wait look at that freeze frame wait wait no wait that's an old man with a cane

00:05:50.660 no oh my god turn over two people this is so sad

00:05:56.180 well you might have to replay that though yeah you can do it again i don't know if he died or not

00:06:06.580 does it say in the comments does it say in the description blessing did he die

00:06:10.420 oh he passed away did they run over anyone else

00:06:18.780 oh wow so the other person died too two murders but do you think that is related with the whole

00:06:29.580 situation or do you think she actually has like a mental illness an excuses no because that's not 0.99

00:06:35.540 normal that's like do you tend to happen i mean do you think if the roles were reversed we'd be

00:06:40.220 asking that question if it was a man who ran over a woman because i would say it's like no he would

00:06:45.720 need a really good lawyer to come up with that argument what which argument uh that if he had

00:06:50.520 a mental illness mental problem is that to really you know bring back people to not be uh to be

00:06:58.280 impartial and not be gender bias because it happens like it doesn't matter what we feel it's it's 0.66

00:07:05.240 definitely women unfortunately get away with it a lot more than men does it say what her like 1.00

00:07:10.600 did she get sentence um i don't know if she goes two counts of murder will face the charge so um

00:07:19.160 it says chapman will face one charge of aggravated murder two counts of murder two counts of felonies

00:07:25.720 felon felonious assault one count of attempted murder and one count of endangering chill were the kids in

00:07:31.640 the car oh goodness or maybe the kids were nearby on august 31st chapman allegedly drove her car into the 1.00

00:07:39.240 the father of her child her intended target also and also hit the 58 year old christopher scott who

00:07:45.320 died at the university of cincinnati medical center from his injuries chapman then got out of the car

00:07:51.320 and began physically assaulting the man with whom she had an eight-year-old child um an eight-month-old

00:07:57.320 child that child was inside the vehicle when chapman hit two men according to hayman county prosecutor joe

00:08:04.120 devers while he was in kroger she apparently went through his cell phone and believed that he had

00:08:09.720 an inappropriate relationship with her sister and said deters during a press conference can we look at

00:08:16.520 the source um wcpo.com can we can we oh you can click it yeah you can click a blessing i'm so sad

00:08:27.720 why do women feel justified in doing damn near anything when it comes to a man cheating on them 1.00

00:08:44.360 like for example um wendy williams made a joke about chopping a man's off um on national tv and no one

00:08:51.400 cared um because a girl chopped her um basically a girl chopped her partners like off and um wendy 1.00

00:09:01.160 williams basically and said oh he deserved it but if the roles were reversed like a dude chopped

00:09:07.800 you know our stuff off like it wouldn't be the same

00:09:13.960 women women get uh less time in prison usually as well 1.00

00:09:19.240 yeah when it when it gets to being charged and being uh a similar crime yes uh it's like three

00:09:25.480 times the amount of sentencing for the same crime yeah i think naturally but just because physically

00:09:30.760 we're more vulnerable i mean i don't i don't think we i don't think it should be it's not it's not

00:09:35.000 solicited at all i mean a crime is a crime man or woman whatever but um it's

00:09:43.160 it's physically we're more vulnerable so it's a bit like oh if he's cheated on me like

00:09:53.640 like will i hit him if if i do like so like not me that's not i don't know me personally

00:10:05.320 are you sure you're gonna put your hands on that

00:10:06.600 how are you if you get if you get if your boyfriend cheated on you how would you react

00:10:15.160 i think women we have a upper hand in more um 1.00

00:10:20.360 having creating more mind like emotionally mentally like

00:10:25.000 letting them know using your words so would you be would you be spiteful

00:10:28.360 like no best friend or something no no no that that's like that's like scoring our own own goal

00:10:33.560 like what like there's that's no i would probably do something the worst no do something that would

00:10:39.560 actually let him know yeah you up okay like leave and cut contact men i feel like men they learn through

00:10:45.720 through pain or men learn through absence if someone's got access to me he's realistically he's

00:10:52.840 thinking yeah i know i know i heard this that the other but rather like i'm still chatting to her

00:10:56.920 right now no you need to cut all contacts and that's it you need to put him on time out and that's

00:11:02.440 with your absence is when a guy will really feel like whoa what am i doing like i feel i feel like

00:11:08.760 she's not talking to me she's not talking oh my god like it's real this time she's really pissed off 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023

NO Guy Wants To Be Just FRIENDS

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