This FEMININE Lady Said The Unbelievable..
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what we look for in a woman, a man and a partner. We discuss our personal standards and what we are looking for from a partner and how we would like to be looked at in a relationship.
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let's go around what are your personal standards yeah so what would you expect from a woman and
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then what would you guys expect from a man like minimum requirements to date them well i'd say
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right now i can't expect much um but i'm you know in the process as i said i'm young and uh i do
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plan on you know making six figures eventually i got the six foot down unlock and i think i'm
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pretty cute so eventually i'll have the standards set in place but right now i'm focused on on my
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career but i do have you know anticipations for my standards such as um you know submission like
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um and just peace of mind someone who can offer me peace of mind you know someone that's not always
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in my ear like you did this wrong i don't want that you know like if i'm if i'm willing to provide
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right um and be the breadwinner then um if she wants to work fine but obviously the the common
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thing is that prefer she stays home yes but if she does want to work she does want to work right
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everyone says you need a you need the masculine trait to work right um especially in a career so
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but like once she gets home she drops that masculinity at the door because i'm not i'm not competing in my
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own household i gotta compete with other men out in the world they look at me six foot tattoos beard
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and then they just like assume i'm top dog and then competition time i don't know if that's more
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of a you thing so like because i'm a you but uh yeah it's certainly what i'm experiencing right now
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so i definitely do not want to have that in the household that i'm paying for yeah tell them
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tell them king yeah let's go yeah i agree i think for me my woman must offer peace man
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because i know how much i work i know how much when i come home i want her that my household to be
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my safe space to be you know peaceful and relaxed and also i think the most number one thing is she's
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got to be she's got to be feminine she has to be able to submit um she has to be family orientated
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because i don't have kids yet but that's that's the main goal i want to have kids i want her to be
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a family-based person um preach yeah is that how your girl is now yeah yeah yeah yeah she's like that
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when's that one's the wedding smile we're working on it so don't put me under pressure
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so um i do want in my terms i do want a a man who respects me i want a masculine man so
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exactly what you guys are saying a man who has great achievements he has a path he's ready to
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work on himself to make himself better and he also respects me and someone that i will feel proud of and
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i would want to nurture give him the love and support as you said as a woman and be his his number
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one fan i want to be his home i want to be the person that he can come to me where everyone else
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he'll be a bit on guard and he will feel comfortable to just drop it a little bit because
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i am his home so what what does he have to have because you're kind of describing what you want to
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be for him but the question was like what what does he have to be in order to get that so for me it's
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rather than the do you have a height requirement no no he can be short at five foot i dated a man
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that was shorter than me before for two years okay okay i'm i'm not i will say this i'm not very
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normal but for me i have learned the value of the true value of a person isn't their exterior it's
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it's their insides it's their personalities it's whether they fit me so for example one of the
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things because i did a personality test of jordan peterson's okay and one of the things he looks at
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there's agreeableness and one of my criterias i want for my man is i want him to be less agreeable
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than me why because i am quite agreeable and i'm always worrying that maybe i might step on someone's
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toes but someone who's less agreeable is not going to be as easily uh you know like offended so i like
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that i don't have to feel you know like can i tell you are you going to get offended so for example
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that's so you want to do so okay this is like kind of broad so i just i want to be a little bit
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more specific so you want someone disagreeable what else so what some more disagreeable does he have
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to have an income income requirement i would like him to be um from a skill set knowledge income level
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equal to me okay which is roughly well i um i earn around three thousand a month so maybe something
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like that okay um is there anything else so you want roughly like at your income or more would you
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yes because it's not about the now people are changing no no he's staying at that it's not build
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a man so he's no no no it's not i'm not saying that i'm trying to build him but this is the thing
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like just because a man may not be as good now doesn't mean he isn't later it's about it's about
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realizing no but i'm saying like a lot of times like girls we we try to build a man like we go to
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build a bear but but guys like like typically no no no no but i'm saying i'm saying like when you
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said it's not about the now it's about the later that's implying that you're you would want him to
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his income to increase but i'm saying like most guys kind of are where they're at especially like
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you said you're 34 so if a guy's 35 like 35 like i'd imagine you want roughly your age or older
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so so maybe for me that's the thing like so for me i honestly all i'm gonna say is i've realized
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they're not as important as peace and the the person that's inside does that come with age though
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did you realize that 100 this is and this is the thing like this is something i've learned
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this is something that i internalized i had to go i was single for i've been single still single for a
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long time because guess what i needed to work on myself like if i'm broken and i'm not in the right
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frame of mind i'm gonna end up damaging another person i don't want that if i'm not ready then i'm
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gonna work on myself and to be honest like yes i'll be it's difficult to give you a figure but
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the people with the six figures who are getting all these girls and driving lambos i don't want
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them either is monogamy a requirement for you for me yes okay do you feel like that's a fair deal for
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a guy um because he's not getting you for your best years that depends on what the man wants so i'm
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saying like long term like i'm and this is going for like me too none of us are virgins anymore
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so i think like men value purity and youth right and they're not getting that anymore so do you think
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it's a fair deal for men when they're not getting that to be monogamous to us to comprise on their
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mating strategy when we don't fulfill theirs because we're not virgins anymore because i feel like when
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you talk about something and saying that that's the only reason you have value i think that's wrong
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it's not it's that it's not i'm not saying that's the only reason you have value i'm talking about
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your value in the dating market and like like results are harsh the world's harsh and like the
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truth is modern women are less pure than they've ever been and we're older than we've ever been so
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i'm asking do you think that's a fair deal for men when they have to be more and more less
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if a man is going to look at me and say that the only value i come i can bring to the table
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is because of my no i didn't say the only value so i'm not saying that's the only value like you seem
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like a smart girl i know you have more than just that but i'm saying in the dating market like this
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is what it starts with and it's harsh but it's reality but we're sorry i'm just i'm but you're
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saying we're going with age and we're going with well it's like men men value purity and youth so they
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like young virgins that's the that's the ideal just like our ideal is like rich men right but i'm
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saying now in today's day and age like women have higher standards than ever but bring less to the
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table than ever we're older we've slept with more people and we have less loyalty because we're the
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ones leaving them so is it a fair deal yeah so i'm saying do you think that's a fair deal for men
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i think it generally depends on the person i'm sorry i can't answer that question
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okay go ahead what are your requirements for a guy uh that he's aware of the the traditional gender roles
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okay and i have to like and i expect that and he expects that from me and reciprocity and i think
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respect is and i can't i don't expect him to sort of respect me just like that because i'm a woman
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i think he needs to get to know me and um the relationship has to be reciprocal and i i'm 28
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and i don't i actually want him to be polygynous really yeah what they're gonna they're gonna fall
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in love with you in the chat the reason why and um i could speak so much about this they're calling
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you an indian queen right now oh my god go on go on the reason why is because i'm the biggest
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introvert i know i'm like i need my solitude and i i hate saying that because people are like oh god
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you know she's so up but i really like i get drained so me coming today i was like i really need
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to prepare myself yeah yeah um because i i get drained with interaction and i'm i if i love my
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husband and i need to get over the fact that i don't need to be clinged on to him because that's
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unrealistic um but if i love my husband i want him to be taken care of and and if i don't have to
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worry about that yeah that's great wow and that's as simple as i can put it how are you how are you
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single what's like no no no i'm not oh okay sorry guys sorry i forgot i thought you said you were
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no but yeah i mean i know that there there is so much that could be said about religion yeah
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hard eyes hard at indian synth indian woman i was like the chat's gonna love her oh no sorry i've got
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i've got a question um are you in a polygynous relationship uh i'm with somebody who is open
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to that and and and hey that's great for me would you want multiple wives or would you just want like
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he could step out whenever he wants the thing is i i i would that he would they would have to be
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wives okay because you know because then i'll because i would lose respect for him because then
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i'm like then you know you guys are using each other and no yeah so if we can actually marry them
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and you know then like if there's children out there accidentally you know i want my children to
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have you know honorable half siblings not like just some you know some straight child do you have to be
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the main though do you have to be no i don't care if i'm two i just you know i'm so over it like
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you know and and guess what it's very freeing yeah it's very freeing is that um are you are you from
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india or like like or is that is that common in india or no is that like no i don't know i haven't
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seen it like well yeah actually yes it is it is okay but not as common but it does happen
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that answer your question another question they have in the chat is what age do you see women
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divorced men typically what age yeah say around 40s i've seen a lot of that really 40s i thought
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it'd be like 30 yeah yeah actually yeah 30s yeah late 30s 40s because oh you know what i bet it is
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you could still maybe move on in 30s to 40s but if you're in your 50s like what's no that's i actually
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dealt with somebody who's the white the ex-wife is 38 and she's like i can see the window so i'm
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gonna take it yeah yeah no well good luck to her for this so it's like their hypergamy would you say
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yeah yeah okay i'm gonna take a second to read super chats that's they're like he's the luckiest
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man alive and we've got a unicorn here yeah no i don't think i've ever had a girl i don't feel
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heard that have we had a girl on the show ish that said she was open to that no no i've had
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like 20 people a week the last episode in the building it happens yeah for real episode 69
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yeah yeah hell yeah ish i saw you writing earlier when he was talking yeah i was taking notes i had
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to like who was talking i need to learn some things you know i'm saying yeah as many of you
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know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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