JustPearlyThings - This FEMININE Lady Said The Unbelievable..

00:00:00.000 let's go around what are your personal standards yeah so what would you expect from a woman and 1.00

00:00:06.380 then what would you guys expect from a man like minimum requirements to date them well i'd say

00:00:10.680 right now i can't expect much um but i'm you know in the process as i said i'm young and uh i do

00:00:18.320 plan on you know making six figures eventually i got the six foot down unlock and i think i'm

00:00:23.420 pretty cute so eventually i'll have the standards set in place but right now i'm focused on on my

00:00:28.540 career but i do have you know anticipations for my standards such as um you know submission like

00:00:35.680 um and just peace of mind someone who can offer me peace of mind you know someone that's not always

00:00:42.680 in my ear like you did this wrong i don't want that you know like if i'm if i'm willing to provide

00:00:48.720 right um and be the breadwinner then um if she wants to work fine but obviously the the common 0.99

00:00:58.300 thing is that prefer she stays home yes but if she does want to work she does want to work right 1.00

00:01:06.200 everyone says you need a you need the masculine trait to work right um especially in a career so

00:01:12.060 but like once she gets home she drops that masculinity at the door because i'm not i'm not competing in my

00:01:19.380 own household i gotta compete with other men out in the world they look at me six foot tattoos beard

00:01:24.160 and then they just like assume i'm top dog and then competition time i don't know if that's more

00:01:30.360 of a you thing so like because i'm a you but uh yeah it's certainly what i'm experiencing right now

00:01:37.580 so i definitely do not want to have that in the household that i'm paying for yeah tell them

00:01:42.860 tell them king yeah let's go yeah i agree i think for me my woman must offer peace man

00:01:50.760 because i know how much i work i know how much when i come home i want her that my household to be 0.72

00:01:56.400 my safe space to be you know peaceful and relaxed and also i think the most number one thing is she's

00:02:03.380 got to be she's got to be feminine she has to be able to submit um she has to be family orientated 0.99

00:02:09.840 because i don't have kids yet but that's that's the main goal i want to have kids i want her to be 0.99

00:02:14.040 a family-based person um preach yeah is that how your girl is now yeah yeah yeah yeah she's like that

00:02:22.080 when's that one's the wedding smile we're working on it so don't put me under pressure

00:02:27.140 so um i do want in my terms i do want a a man who respects me i want a masculine man so

00:02:38.980 exactly what you guys are saying a man who has great achievements he has a path he's ready to

00:02:46.440 work on himself to make himself better and he also respects me and someone that i will feel proud of and

00:02:53.860 i would want to nurture give him the love and support as you said as a woman and be his his number

00:03:00.980 one fan i want to be his home i want to be the person that he can come to me where everyone else

00:03:06.420 he'll be a bit on guard and he will feel comfortable to just drop it a little bit because

00:03:11.660 i am his home so what what does he have to have because you're kind of describing what you want to

00:03:16.340 be for him but the question was like what what does he have to be in order to get that so for me it's

00:03:22.420 rather than the do you have a height requirement no no he can be short at five foot i dated a man

00:03:28.660 that was shorter than me before for two years okay okay i'm i'm not i will say this i'm not very

00:03:33.380 normal but for me i have learned the value of the true value of a person isn't their exterior it's

00:03:42.600 it's their insides it's their personalities it's whether they fit me so for example one of the

00:03:47.340 things because i did a personality test of jordan peterson's okay and one of the things he looks at

00:03:52.040 there's agreeableness and one of my criterias i want for my man is i want him to be less agreeable

00:03:58.760 than me why because i am quite agreeable and i'm always worrying that maybe i might step on someone's

00:04:06.920 toes but someone who's less agreeable is not going to be as easily uh you know like offended so i like

00:04:13.360 that i don't have to feel you know like can i tell you are you going to get offended so for example

00:04:19.160 that's so you want to do so okay this is like kind of broad so i just i want to be a little bit

00:04:24.300 more specific so you want someone disagreeable what else so what some more disagreeable does he have

00:04:29.740 to have an income income requirement i would like him to be um from a skill set knowledge income level

00:04:38.280 equal to me okay which is roughly well i um i earn around three thousand a month so maybe something

00:04:45.220 like that okay um is there anything else so you want roughly like at your income or more would you

00:04:51.780 ever submit to a guy that makes less than you

00:04:53.780 yes because it's not about the now people are changing no no he's staying at that it's not build

00:05:01.180 a man so he's no no no it's not i'm not saying that i'm trying to build him but this is the thing

00:05:07.360 like just because a man may not be as good now doesn't mean he isn't later it's about it's about

00:05:11.840 realizing no but i'm saying like a lot of times like girls we we try to build a man like we go to

00:05:16.680 build a bear but but guys like like typically no no no no but i'm saying i'm saying like when you

00:05:23.000 said it's not about the now it's about the later that's implying that you're you would want him to

00:05:27.220 his income to increase but i'm saying like most guys kind of are where they're at especially like

00:05:33.300 you said you're 34 so if a guy's 35 like 35 like i'd imagine you want roughly your age or older

00:05:40.080 so so maybe for me that's the thing like so for me i honestly all i'm gonna say is i've realized

00:05:49.360 that the physical shell of things

00:05:51.860 they're not as important as peace and the the person that's inside does that come with age though

00:05:59.880 did you realize that 100 this is and this is the thing like this is something i've learned

00:06:05.100 this is something that i internalized i had to go i was single for i've been single still single for a

00:06:11.300 long time because guess what i needed to work on myself like if i'm broken and i'm not in the right

00:06:16.480 frame of mind i'm gonna end up damaging another person i don't want that if i'm not ready then i'm

00:06:21.320 gonna work on myself and to be honest like yes i'll be it's difficult to give you a figure but

00:06:27.820 the people with the six figures who are getting all these girls and driving lambos i don't want 1.00

00:06:32.840 them either is monogamy a requirement for you for me yes okay do you feel like that's a fair deal for

00:06:39.520 a guy um because he's not getting you for your best years that depends on what the man wants so i'm

00:06:47.540 saying like long term like i'm and this is going for like me too none of us are virgins anymore

00:06:52.680 so i think like men value purity and youth right and they're not getting that anymore so do you think

00:06:58.600 it's a fair deal for men when they're not getting that to be monogamous to us to comprise on their

00:07:03.080 mating strategy when we don't fulfill theirs because we're not virgins anymore because i feel like when

00:07:08.560 you talk about something and saying that that's the only reason you have value i think that's wrong

00:07:13.500 it's not it's that it's not i'm not saying that's the only reason you have value i'm talking about

00:07:17.980 your value in the dating market and like like results are harsh the world's harsh and like the

00:07:23.720 truth is modern women are less pure than they've ever been and we're older than we've ever been so 1.00

00:07:28.380 i'm asking do you think that's a fair deal for men when they have to be more and more less

00:07:32.420 if a man is going to look at me and say that the only value i come i can bring to the table

00:07:38.600 is because of my no i didn't say the only value so i'm not saying that's the only value like you seem

00:07:44.260 like a smart girl i know you have more than just that but i'm saying in the dating market like this

00:07:48.040 is what it starts with and it's harsh but it's reality but we're sorry i'm just i'm but you're

00:07:54.140 saying we're going with age and we're going with well it's like men men value purity and youth so they

00:08:00.160 like young virgins that's the that's the ideal just like our ideal is like rich men right but i'm

00:08:06.800 saying now in today's day and age like women have higher standards than ever but bring less to the 1.00

00:08:11.300 table than ever we're older we've slept with more people and we have less loyalty because we're the

00:08:16.280 ones leaving them so is it a fair deal yeah so i'm saying do you think that's a fair deal for men

00:08:21.820 i think it generally depends on the person i'm sorry i can't answer that question

00:08:27.100 okay go ahead what are your requirements for a guy uh that he's aware of the the traditional gender roles

00:08:35.160 okay and i have to like and i expect that and he expects that from me and reciprocity and i think

00:08:40.560 respect is and i can't i don't expect him to sort of respect me just like that because i'm a woman

00:08:44.240 i think he needs to get to know me and um the relationship has to be reciprocal and i i'm 28

00:08:51.140 and i don't i actually want him to be polygynous really yeah what they're gonna they're gonna fall

00:08:58.860 in love with you in the chat the reason why and um i could speak so much about this they're calling

00:09:07.220 you an indian queen right now oh my god go on go on the reason why is because i'm the biggest

00:09:14.560 introvert i know i'm like i need my solitude and i i hate saying that because people are like oh god

00:09:21.080 you know she's so up but i really like i get drained so me coming today i was like i really need

00:09:25.340 to prepare myself yeah yeah um because i i get drained with interaction and i'm i if i love my

00:09:30.280 husband and i need to get over the fact that i don't need to be clinged on to him because that's 0.98

00:09:34.260 unrealistic um but if i love my husband i want him to be taken care of and and if i don't have to

00:09:39.520 worry about that yeah that's great wow and that's as simple as i can put it how are you how are you

00:09:45.040 single what's like no no no i'm not oh okay sorry guys sorry i forgot i thought you said you were

00:09:51.400 no but yeah i mean i know that there there is so much that could be said about religion yeah

00:09:56.360 hard eyes hard at indian synth indian woman i was like the chat's gonna love her oh no sorry i've got

00:10:02.380 i've got a question um are you in a polygynous relationship uh i'm with somebody who is open

00:10:10.840 to that and and and hey that's great for me would you want multiple wives or would you just want like 1.00

00:10:16.780 he could step out whenever he wants the thing is i i i would that he would they would have to be

00:10:21.940 wives okay because you know because then i'll because i would lose respect for him because then 1.00

00:10:28.860 i'm like then you know you guys are using each other and no yeah so if we can actually marry them 1.00

00:10:34.020 and you know then like if there's children out there accidentally you know i want my children to

00:10:38.100 have you know honorable half siblings not like just some you know some straight child do you have to be

00:10:44.320 the main though do you have to be no i don't care if i'm two i just you know i'm so over it like

00:10:49.840 you know and and guess what it's very freeing yeah it's very freeing is that um are you are you from

00:10:55.960 india or like like or is that is that common in india or no is that like no i don't know i haven't

00:11:01.260 seen it like well yeah actually yes it is it is okay but not as common but it does happen

00:11:06.620 that answer your question another question they have in the chat is what age do you see women

00:11:12.560 divorced men typically what age yeah say around 40s i've seen a lot of that really 40s i thought

00:11:21.980 it'd be like 30 yeah yeah actually yeah 30s yeah late 30s 40s because oh you know what i bet it is

00:11:32.140 you could still maybe move on in 30s to 40s but if you're in your 50s like what's no that's i actually

00:11:38.120 dealt with somebody who's the white the ex-wife is 38 and she's like i can see the window so i'm 0.51

00:11:45.080 gonna take it yeah yeah no well good luck to her for this so it's like their hypergamy would you say 1.00

00:11:50.240 yeah yeah okay i'm gonna take a second to read super chats that's they're like he's the luckiest

00:11:56.780 man alive and we've got a unicorn here yeah no i don't think i've ever had a girl i don't feel

00:12:02.700 heard that have we had a girl on the show ish that said she was open to that no no i've had

00:12:09.880 like 20 people a week the last episode in the building it happens yeah for real episode 69

00:12:18.000 yeah yeah hell yeah ish i saw you writing earlier when he was talking yeah i was taking notes i had

00:12:25.800 to like who was talking i need to learn some things you know i'm saying yeah as many of you

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JustPearlyThings - April 07, 2023

This FEMININE Lady Said The Unbelievable..

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