JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


Anthony Anderson Gets WRECKED By The Court System

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Anthony Anderson Alana Stewart
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Length

5 minutes

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169.71

Word count

864

Sentence count

63

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

9

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Anthony Anderson is ordered to pay his ex-wife $20,000 a month in spousal support and he gets to keep both houses. What on earth could she do to deserve that? I mean, she had sex with him for a prolonged period of time and now is rewarded with two houses and $20 a month for breaking up a marriage.

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00:00:00.000 I've been getting into sort of a debate on Twitter that I actually think it's irresponsible
00:00:06.820 to tell men to get married in 2023.
00:00:10.220 I think it's irresponsible.
00:00:12.180 I think if you're going to tell men to get married, you need to warn them of the risk.
00:00:17.800 And the risk is it doesn't matter who you marry.
00:00:20.300 It doesn't matter how great of a man that you are.
00:00:23.960 If a woman feels like leaving, unfortunately, the government and the state will back her up. 0.99
00:00:30.000 And even a good Christian woman who prays can get the wrong group of friends, start watching 1.00
00:00:35.740 the wrong media, or just feel a certain way.
00:00:38.920 And the state will legally allow her to bankrupt you, to take your children, and to falsely
00:00:47.980 accuse you of abuse and rape.
00:00:50.580 And that is the risk for a lot of men.
00:00:53.360 And that is a death sentence to a lot of men.
00:00:56.280 Now, I don't say this because I hate marriage.
00:00:59.400 In fact, I think marriage is a beautiful thing.
00:01:02.820 I think when done correctly, marriage is amazing.
00:01:06.000 It is the building block of society.
00:01:08.800 However, marriage in 2023 is not married.
00:01:12.100 The average marriage is seven years.
00:01:14.560 Women get custody 90% of the time. 0.98
00:01:17.320 Most alimony and child support payments go to women.
00:01:20.720 The majority of women are in debt. 0.75
00:01:23.140 Women make 80% of consumer buying decisions, indicating that women really run the majority 1.00
00:01:30.300 of households.
00:01:30.980 And so what I hear, and what I would call a bit of a cope, is just find a good woman and 0.89
00:01:38.520 marry young.
00:01:39.860 Well, here I have a guy who decided to do just that.
00:01:43.640 Anthony Anderson married his college sweetheart and is now ordered to pay his ex-wife $20,000
00:01:49.260 a month, and she gets to keep both houses.
00:01:53.480 Anthony Anderson will fork over $20,000 every month to his ex-wife, Alvina Stewart, per his
00:02:00.660 divorce judgment.
00:02:01.780 But he could be paying even more, depending on how his career is going.
00:02:06.200 According to the documents obtained by TMZ, Anthony will pay the $20,000 base amount, and
00:02:11.160 that number will go up if his gross annual earnings go over $2 million.
00:02:14.560 If that's the case, he'll pay an additional 20% of his income.
00:02:19.340 In other words, the more Anthony makes, the more he's got to shell out to Alvina. 0.90
00:02:23.560 That's how spousal support works, but he's not walking out of the marriage empty-handed.
00:02:29.760 What did this woman do to deserve $20,000 a month? 1.00
00:02:33.560 I know how hard it is to make that.
00:02:36.040 You guys likely know how hard it is to make that absurd amount of money. 0.77
00:02:39.900 And this woman had sex with him for a prolonged period of time.
00:02:43.380 And now is rewarded with two houses and $20,000 a month for breaking up a marriage.
00:02:50.680 What on earth could she do to deserve that?
00:02:53.340 I don't even think if he cheated that she would deserve that, to be honest.
00:02:59.220 I don't think there's much she could do to deserve it.
00:03:01.360 She could have been a perfect wife for 20 years. 1.00
00:03:03.400 But $20,000 a month is absolutely insane.
00:03:06.700 And he did what a lot of people do.
00:03:08.960 They get married young.
00:03:10.420 Now, again, I think marriage is a beautiful thing.
00:03:12.620 I hope everybody can have a wife and kids.
00:03:15.700 But the truth of the matter is, when women get power, we tend to abuse it. 0.99
00:03:19.100 I see no indication that women are getting less power. 1.00
00:03:21.880 And I see no indication that women will not abuse the power they have. 1.00
00:03:25.960 I ask you the question.
00:03:27.840 If the men between the ages of 50 to 80, a large portion got screwed over in divorce.
00:03:34.520 If the men between 40 to 50, a large portion got screwed over in divorce.
00:03:40.800 If the men under 40 are on track to be screwed over in divorce, what would be different about the next group of men?
00:03:49.200 If there was a school where 10% of the students died, which, mind you, this is death to a lot of men.
00:03:57.880 Many men commit suicide after this situation because their entire community thinks they're an abuser.
00:04:04.140 They are in debt, a lot of them.
00:04:07.380 A lot of them can't afford the child support payments that they have to pay.
00:04:11.340 Many lose their jobs because of the stress.
00:04:13.860 And many of them have kids that hate them because of what the mother has said about them.
00:04:18.840 So at that point, they have no legacy.
00:04:22.100 God knows who's going to be raising the kids.
00:04:24.580 They maybe get to see their kids twice a month.
00:04:28.400 And if you sent someone to a school where 5, 10% of the students died with no warning, that would be pretty irresponsible, right?
00:04:39.220 But yet, we expect men to sign up for marriage, one, with no warning, two, with no backup plan,
00:04:46.920 and three, just expecting everything to turn out okay instead of preparing for the worst.
00:04:52.260 They say, just go find a woman who prays. 1.00
00:04:54.580 And as nice as that sounds, as much as I want to believe that,
00:04:58.320 I see very little evidence that the women that identify as Catholic and Christian
00:05:03.460 are not a woman who prays.