JustPearlyThings - July 15, 2023


Argumentative Woman GETS TRIGGERED By This Fact

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In this episode, I speak to the founder of the Women's Business Academy, Pearly Pankratz, about feminism, feminism in the 21st century and what it means to be a feminist in the modern era. Pearly is a feminist, a businesswoman, an entrepreneur, a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a daughter-in-law. She has been a feminist since the early 20th century and is a pioneer in the field of women's empowerment and sexual liberation.

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00:00:00.000 is a good thing as well as well we should not house but i think my point is if you look at
00:00:04.100 every statistical data point the wives are worse today than they were just because you just because 1.00
00:00:12.360 you don't like the way it sounds like the the fact is the truth women were more the women were 0.99
00:00:17.420 more pure i mean modern like we do most modern women are not feminists they're worse exactly 1.00
00:00:26.420 but here's the thing you might they might not identify as a feminist but most women live 1.00
00:00:31.020 their lives according to feminism because traditional women put family first but you 1.00
00:00:35.320 don't have to be additional women are typically married before the age of 25 because that's the 1.00
00:00:40.660 number one thing they prioritize most women go to college and college teaches you to be a feminist 1.00
00:00:45.680 i'm not saying it's women's fault completely right because we're all told to go to college we're told
00:00:50.020 to do this stuff but it's like when you prioritize having um a career in your most fertile years
00:00:56.660 that's the life of a parentizing a career isn't feminist for example margaret thatcher no it's 1.00
00:01:01.400 not margaret thatcher was not a feminist like you don't isn't the options don't have to be 0.99
00:01:05.820 traditional woman versus feminist it's a misconception i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying
00:01:10.280 i'm saying they might not identify as a feminist but the way they live their life is more feminist
00:01:15.960 because what do you mean by because when i say when i say when i say traditional traditional is
00:01:20.960 putting the family first and family is your first priority so women that are truly true i'm not even 1.00
00:01:26.820 saying i'm i'm not a traditional woman otherwise i'd be married by now so i'm not even i'm not even
00:01:31.620 saying it's me but i'm saying the women i know that are the most feminine the most traditional they
00:01:36.160 are married before 25 they don't really care about college they don't really care about a career
00:01:40.340 and that's their number one priority so a lot of times people get like like like frustrated
00:01:45.940 because they're like women think they're traditional and they're not but why the options 1.00
00:01:50.360 traditional versus feminist you know like because also this is the misconception being an independent 0.69
00:01:55.160 woman doesn't mean being a feminist like a lot of career women because women have took in it 1.00
00:02:00.880 to the next level and not even understanding what it means to be independent so now a lot of these
00:02:07.780 women are saying oh i'm independent i don't need a man yeah they're man hating because feminism is 1.00
00:02:13.280 really about being anti-men like you can be pro men and also be a career focused woman you know
00:02:20.120 what i mean like there's been a lot of married women for example helen girly brown was happily 1.00
00:02:24.840 married and she was one of the founders of sexual liberation a lot of feminists didn't like her 1.00
00:02:29.000 okay so what pearly's trying to say is it's either you're gonna dedicate your life to your family
00:02:35.720 or you're gonna dedicate yourself to a big career no one say you can't both no one's gonna no you
00:02:41.900 can't so basically you can be i i my my business academy i actually train women to do business like 1.00
00:02:49.060 women entrepreneurs and um female leaders yeah the reason why i do it is not for the feminists so 1.00
00:02:55.980 to picture them to be independent but what i'm trying to do is to help them build their self-esteem
00:03:01.060 and give them skills that they can transfer to their children because the way i see it the women 1.00
00:03:06.420 spend the majority of the time at home with their children with the children so in order to build
00:03:11.800 leaders and entrepreneurs out of our children we need to educate our women in that way so that's the 0.91
00:03:18.140 purpose of my business so when i'm teaching these women i'm not teaching them to say right you lot are
00:03:23.420 going to go into your business you're going to be leaders and you don't need no men you're going to
00:03:27.640 lead the world i'm not teaching them that i'm teaching them to grow and be more confident with
00:03:32.960 themselves and become better influencers for their children because as women we are a big influence in
00:03:39.120 society and to our children you know but the the misconception that a lot of these modern day women 1.00
00:03:45.680 have is when they're chatting foolishness like we don't need men in the home we don't need a man 0.96
00:03:50.420 what are you teaching your daughter yes what are you teaching your son so do you want your daughter 0.76
00:03:55.780 to go and get breathed up by go and sleep with any man and have five three different baby dads no 1.00
00:04:00.980 you want to teach your daughter the right way my daughter's father's died a couple days ago
00:04:06.280 i'm not looking to just go and get into a relationship just to have a man around me i'd rather
00:04:11.760 make sure that i do it the right way so i can teach my daughter the right way you know and there
00:04:17.000 is a problem with just sleeping around i'm not going to run up my mileage dating how many men
00:04:21.540 just to go and pleasure myself that what's that going to look like to my child what kind of man
00:04:27.000 would i be introducing into my life yeah you know no like so it's not a case of saying you know there's
00:04:36.200 any to me the traditional way works that's why our grandparents were together for so long you know
00:04:42.480 and this modern day way of living that's why you've got all these single mothers growing up sons on their 1.00
00:04:47.620 own and then their sons are becoming feminine and they can't even deal with your daughter 1.00
00:04:51.680 they can't even deal with your daughter properly or be a man to your grandchild that's why they're
00:04:57.320 breeding these girls and leaving them saying got no man in their home because of these modern day women 1.00
00:05:01.900 uneducated your business sounds amazing but don't you think we can find a balance between
00:05:08.240 the traditional and the modern because there's no need to go back to the 1800s
00:05:12.200 but the point i'm not i'm not i'm not it sounds amazing by the way you've got to prioritise yeah
00:05:17.180 so what pearly's trying to say to you is you've got a choice because i've got a friend here i know
00:05:21.680 one girl i've got to know a couple girls like that and they're actually going up into their 40s 1.00
00:05:25.700 they're deep in their 30s and they haven't got no children and i actually feel a bit like sorry for
00:05:30.420 them they've never really had a serious relationship and my my thing is it's probably because
00:05:35.980 you're not really focused you're not presenting yourself in that way how can you how can you get
00:05:41.200 a husband if you're not letting off that energy if you're in a rave every day if all your friends
00:05:46.100 are single how are you going to get a husband if you're sleeping with everyone what man wants you 0.98
00:05:51.700 like seriously well you said there's a difference in being what's wrong with being a hoe there's a lot 0.98
00:05:57.200 of wrong being a hoe you need to respect yourself to be honest so first and foremost before getting a 1.00
00:06:03.300 man to respect you because a man's going to feel that energy yeah so if you don't respect yourself
00:06:08.040 no one else is going to so there's a lot to do with that and then what you're going to be feeding
00:06:12.280 to your daughter to your son or to your nieces or nephews and this is the problem with modern day
00:06:17.660 women they're not thinking they're not very conscious about what this they're just following trends
00:06:22.520 it's not it's not all but but the but the the point is it's still most most women are not 1.00
00:06:27.900 traditional it's like we can't we can't have a conversation about we cannot we cannot have a
00:06:33.040 conversation about anything unless we can have generalizations and we know that over 50 percent
00:06:38.340 of women i would say are not marriageable if you ask the men they're going to say the same exact thing 0.97
00:06:42.600 it's not up to us to decide who's marriageable it's up to the men 1.00
00:06:46.140 my son yeah and he's 22 and he's so he made a really good point and going back and he was saying
00:06:54.980 to me about um girls his age like he's like that age group he's like mum you can't take them seriously 1.00
00:07:00.940 because he's saying the roles are reversed he said and imagine this is a guy that's 22 like and i think
00:07:06.400 he was about 19 at the time when he told me this and what his point is is that these girls they're
00:07:12.720 actually the ones running down sex and man they're the ones you know the tables have turned now
00:07:17.880 so they're like the boys and again why is that because of these the education that they're getting
00:07:24.500 from these girls from the last generation think about how bad this is four percent of women are 1.00
00:07:31.220 virgins on their wedding days that is a traditional woman she waits till she's married four percent we went 0.99
00:07:36.720 from eighty five percent to four percent i can't think of many modern men who are demanding virginity
00:07:43.040 you know they're not demanding they're not but they're not demanding it because they can't how
00:07:47.340 can they demand it when four percent men adapt to the market there's studies we don't need to have
00:07:51.680 wait wait stop stop there's there's studies there's studies that have said that that sex is a need for
00:07:56.680 men yeah and so if sex is a need they're going to adapt to the market but most men would prefer a virgin
00:08:01.980 for a wife there's four billion men in the world you know this statistically they probably would prefer 1.00
00:08:07.220 it i think because of today's culture i think it's highly unlikely i don't think people are
00:08:11.700 in the past i think people lied no they didn't because the consequences of sex were real before
00:08:17.580 the birth control pill like women were like there was always the men that women wanted and then there's 0.99
00:08:22.440 the men that women needed long term and there's a difference the cat versus dad strategy right the cat 1.00
00:08:26.820 is like the chat in tyrone we call them today in evolutionary psychology it's called the cat or
00:08:30.900 evolution biology and then there's the dad which is the long-term partner right and the problem was
00:08:35.020 the women couldn't be with those chads and tyrones because the risk of pregnancy would just devastate 1.00
00:08:39.600 their life not to say the shame aspect wasn't there because it was like the social consequences of
00:08:44.520 you know a man probably wouldn't marry you if 85 percent of women are virgins he's not picking from 1.00
00:08:49.360 the 15 that are not he's like one body whore right and that's and that's but but but the risk of 0.88
00:08:55.300 pregnancy is like this was so severe and so serious and like if you first of all abortions were
00:09:00.280 illegal so like that wasn't an option and then the reality was that like women had men they probably 1.00
00:09:06.140 were naturally more drawn towards the more masculine etc etc but it's like well that's a
00:09:09.980 dangerous option because he might not commit so you would pick a guy that would commit there was
00:09:13.760 value in the market to commitment that value is gone today and the numbers on it are pretty shocking
00:09:17.860 if you've got one match on tinder as a man you're in the top 50th percentile 50 percent of men never get
00:09:25.040 a match on tinder that's real data if you've got 14 matches on tinder as a man you're 99th percentile
00:09:31.060 yeah so so should we all go back to the 1800s well in some ways that probably wouldn't be a bad thing
00:09:38.180 and in some ways there'll probably be some still you're laughing but it's like not necessarily bad
00:09:41.620 right like look this is romanticizing hey hey i would i would go back to like 400 dc and i would go to
00:09:46.720 like stoicism i'd go to like plato and aurelius and to me like that's a beautiful thing and you can't
00:09:51.400 disagree with that philosophy right that just because it's old doesn't mean it's antiquated
00:09:55.460 and the question is what's more what's more important money or family and back then they
00:10:00.360 had intact families now almost 50 percent of births today are out of wedlock half like this this is the
00:10:08.460 direction feminism has led society so i think we can't look less about feminism and more about the
00:10:13.300 liberalization and commercialization of sex i do agree with you this is a big problem but i'd say this
00:10:17.260 is less about feminism and more to do with people not treating sex as something special
00:10:20.860 a big part but a big part but a big part of a big part of feminism was pushing birth control with 1.00
00:10:25.600 which allowed women to do that birth control was actually invented by men it had very little to 0.97
00:10:30.240 do with no no yes yes it did it was invented in the u.s it was margaret margaret singer was a feminist 0.93
00:10:35.480 i know that's why i had to hold my face i couldn't believe what