Ariana Grande's Divorce PROVES Pearl Right
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Summary
Ariana Grande and her now estranged husband, Antonio Gomez, are divorcing. The couple has been going through some issues for quite some time now, and it was recently reported that the pair have been having issues for some months now.
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there's another divorce in the media that was really um justified because women have
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real reasons for divorce okay we just divorce for good reasons so ariana grande has gotten
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divorced now who is ariana grande she is a pop singer that really has been america's sweetheart
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of the decade um now this is no hate towards her at all but we kind of see the normal like phases
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that women go through who did she date in her 20s the bad boy mac miller and i know i know he passed
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away um so rest in peace but i i can't say he he's like your typical nice stand-up guy right like that
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he doesn't come across as like the the guy you take home to mom so a couple years ago ariana grande
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did get married to a real estate developer picture perfect like he just seems like a
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good stand-up guy and the problem is when women have a crazy ex and then try to settle with and
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settle down with a nice more stable guy they miss the drama they they like it they'll never be like
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satisfied a lot of the time not always but a lot of the time um okay so ariana grande's now
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estranged husband dalton gomez is devastated by the pair's divorce but hopefully but hopeful they'll
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reconcile despite the singers wanting to move forward ariana grande's now estranged husband
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dalton gomez isn't handling their split as well as the singer shocking the woman's over it the man's
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not it's almost like men take the vows men actually take vows you know what i mean women we just like
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say things we're like oh i feel one way or the other way whatever okay go go down um all right a
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separation is not what he wanted he wanted the fairy tale happy ending it's not looking that way
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though it was recently reported that ariana is looking to move forward another source claimed
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that dalton still hopes they'll reconcile so this is the guy like you know he just looks like a nice
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a nice nice guy dalton is really hoping to make things work with ariana despite the rocky patches
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that they've been through he isn't ready to give up on the marriage he saw himself spending the rest of
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his life with ariana and will do anything to get past this us weekly also reported that ariana is
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ready to put her failed marriage behind her and and determined to move forward so we have one guy that
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says i'm willing to work this out and the woman says i am not willing to work this up now everyone says
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i'm the bad guy when i say we should ban divorce because this is crazy it's crazy that women can just like
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feel like leaving not really give a good reason and leave when they both took vows to stay together
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for life an insider claimed that the former couple had amicably decided on divorcing as they felt it
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was the right move considering their differences as sad as it seems the consensus on both sides is that
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it is ultimately for the best how i don't think it was a consensus if he said he's hoping to reconcile
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that's like when women are like it was mutual it was not mutual that usually means it was us
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it was it was a mutual decision that i brought up pushed forward and left furthermore they also noted
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that the singer songwriters loved ones are happy that she is taking steps in her personal life to do
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what is best for her listen to that listen listen they they're happy she's taking steps in her personal
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life to do what is best for her not everybody else for her and this is the problem even the families
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enable this because they tell us as women we should do what's best for us not what's best for the family
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what's best for us you know i'm glad that they didn't have any kids involved like at least if there's no
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kids it's like all right but it's a me me me me me me me culture where we tell women that they're supposed
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to put themselves first if anything it would make more sense for men to put themselves first
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because they have to to take care of their families but women it makes absolutely no sense for us to
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put ourselves first so since the shocking news emerged grande has also scrubbed her instagram
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clean of any wedding photos as of now she still has the pictures up with gomez and claims the pair are
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remaining friends despite having called it quits back in january sources revealed to us weekly that
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claims the pair have been having issues for quite some time ultimately decided to split through the
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rough path ariana and dalton have been going through some issues for months now the insider had revealed
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after the song stress was spotted without her ring i can't imagine that there would be any problems with
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a woman that released a song called god is a woman now i'm i mean and this is the thing like
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marriage is so much about mindset okay and if you go into marriage with the wrong mindset
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then it just doesn't work it does not work when we have this egalitarian model god is a woman women
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and men are equal it it just it genuinely doesn't work and we could say that oh i don't know what i'm
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talking about because i've never been married that's what they'll say but it's like water is wet i can see
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what's in front of me but whenever we have women that have this mindset that they are equal to men
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that they are on the same level as their husband it never works in the long run because no country
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has two kings imagine if there was a co-king wherever we we both kings have to decide if they go to war
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no it's not it doesn't work there is always a hierarchy in every society in every civilization and
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in our relationships and when you believe that we're equal you tell men that we're equal you tell
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women that we're equal and that we have the same reasoning and logic skills it does a disservice to
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men and to women like a lot of times people will say oh you just hate women i think the message that we
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send is a disservice to women because it lies to us we can't even have an ideal look obviously this
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entire generation no one's been raised to be wives no one's been raised to be husband but it's like
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how do we learn how to do that if we can't even admit what the goal is right we can't even admit okay
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we should listen and obey our husband i genuinely think that it is more important to respect your
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husband than to love him because a relationship can work without love but it cannot work without respect
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because we see the results of women picking men on our feelings i mean why does india have a 99
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percent marriage rate a one percent divorce rate now i i know it's getting more westernized maybe it's
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going away from that but the point is they have arranged marriages there it is not based off of your
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feelings it is based off of duty respect um and family and community it's not based off of the way we
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feel and it's like we can't even go towards fixing this problem because the media and the messaging
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is we are equal god is a woman it's like this is the messaging we have in our society where we can't
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even admit like what the goal is in a marriage you know i hope they work it out i really do but i'm not
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shocked it didn't work out you know if you if you listen to the messaging in her songs it's really just
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the wrong mindset and it's sad because you really see the fate of singers like this selena gomez of
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taylor swift now ariana grande that write these love songs where they're always the victim that write
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these songs where we should just empower the women and i i don't even think it's conscious they really
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seem like nice people but the issue is that mindset is toxic and if we don't have men that are calling
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out this mindset if we don't have women that are saying this is wrong this is out of order then
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we're never going to see improvements because we can't even admit what the goal is