JustPearlyThings - Ariana Grande's Divorce PROVES Pearl Right

00:00:00.000 there's another divorce in the media that was really um justified because women have 1.00

00:00:06.960 real reasons for divorce okay we just divorce for good reasons so ariana grande has gotten 1.00

00:00:14.320 divorced now who is ariana grande she is a pop singer that really has been america's sweetheart 0.98

00:00:20.160 of the decade um now this is no hate towards her at all but we kind of see the normal like phases

00:00:27.840 that women go through who did she date in her 20s the bad boy mac miller and i know i know he passed

00:00:34.560 away um so rest in peace but i i can't say he he's like your typical nice stand-up guy right like that

00:00:43.200 he doesn't come across as like the the guy you take home to mom so a couple years ago ariana grande

00:00:50.560 did get married to a real estate developer picture perfect like he just seems like a

00:00:57.040 good stand-up guy and the problem is when women have a crazy ex and then try to settle with and 0.53

00:01:05.680 settle down with a nice more stable guy they miss the drama they they like it they'll never be like

00:01:14.080 satisfied a lot of the time not always but a lot of the time um okay so ariana grande's now

00:01:20.000 estranged husband dalton gomez is devastated by the pair's divorce but hopefully but hopeful they'll

00:01:26.080 reconcile despite the singers wanting to move forward ariana grande's now estranged husband

00:01:32.640 dalton gomez isn't handling their split as well as the singer shocking the woman's over it the man's

00:01:38.720 not it's almost like men take the vows men actually take vows you know what i mean women we just like

00:01:46.240 say things we're like oh i feel one way or the other way whatever okay go go down um all right a

00:01:53.840 separation is not what he wanted he wanted the fairy tale happy ending it's not looking that way

00:01:59.360 though it was recently reported that ariana is looking to move forward another source claimed

00:02:04.640 that dalton still hopes they'll reconcile so this is the guy like you know he just looks like a nice

00:02:10.640 a nice nice guy dalton is really hoping to make things work with ariana despite the rocky patches

00:02:16.400 that they've been through he isn't ready to give up on the marriage he saw himself spending the rest of

00:02:21.120 his life with ariana and will do anything to get past this us weekly also reported that ariana is

00:02:26.800 ready to put her failed marriage behind her and and determined to move forward so we have one guy that 1.00

00:02:34.800 says i'm willing to work this out and the woman says i am not willing to work this up now everyone says

00:02:41.920 i'm the bad guy when i say we should ban divorce because this is crazy it's crazy that women can just like 1.00

00:02:49.200 feel like leaving not really give a good reason and leave when they both took vows to stay together

00:02:56.400 for life an insider claimed that the former couple had amicably decided on divorcing as they felt it

00:03:02.320 was the right move considering their differences as sad as it seems the consensus on both sides is that

00:03:07.760 it is ultimately for the best how i don't think it was a consensus if he said he's hoping to reconcile

00:03:14.800 that's like when women are like it was mutual it was not mutual that usually means it was us

00:03:23.200 it was it was a mutual decision that i brought up pushed forward and left furthermore they also noted

00:03:29.760 that the singer songwriters loved ones are happy that she is taking steps in her personal life to do

00:03:35.040 what is best for her listen to that listen listen they they're happy she's taking steps in her personal

00:03:42.560 life to do what is best for her not everybody else for her and this is the problem even the families

00:03:50.480 enable this because they tell us as women we should do what's best for us not what's best for the family

00:03:56.800 what's best for us you know i'm glad that they didn't have any kids involved like at least if there's no

00:04:02.880 kids it's like all right but it's a me me me me me me me culture where we tell women that they're supposed

00:04:11.280 to put themselves first if anything it would make more sense for men to put themselves first

00:04:16.960 because they have to to take care of their families but women it makes absolutely no sense for us to 1.00

00:04:22.880 put ourselves first so since the shocking news emerged grande has also scrubbed her instagram 1.00

00:04:28.640 clean of any wedding photos as of now she still has the pictures up with gomez and claims the pair are

00:04:34.000 remaining friends despite having called it quits back in january sources revealed to us weekly that

00:04:39.680 claims the pair have been having issues for quite some time ultimately decided to split through the

00:04:45.200 rough path ariana and dalton have been going through some issues for months now the insider had revealed

00:04:50.960 after the song stress was spotted without her ring i can't imagine that there would be any problems with

00:04:56.880 a woman that released a song called god is a woman now i'm i mean and this is the thing like

00:05:03.120 marriage is so much about mindset okay and if you go into marriage with the wrong mindset

00:05:12.000 then it just doesn't work it does not work when we have this egalitarian model god is a woman women 1.00

00:05:19.600 and men are equal it it just it genuinely doesn't work and we could say that oh i don't know what i'm

00:05:26.240 talking about because i've never been married that's what they'll say but it's like water is wet i can see

00:05:31.520 what's in front of me but whenever we have women that have this mindset that they are equal to men 1.00

00:05:36.720 that they are on the same level as their husband it never works in the long run because no country 0.60

00:05:43.840 has two kings imagine if there was a co-king wherever we we both kings have to decide if they go to war

00:05:51.600 no it's not it doesn't work there is always a hierarchy in every society in every civilization and

00:05:58.560 in our relationships and when you believe that we're equal you tell men that we're equal you tell 0.65

00:06:04.240 women that we're equal and that we have the same reasoning and logic skills it does a disservice to 1.00

00:06:10.720 men and to women like a lot of times people will say oh you just hate women i think the message that we

00:06:16.640 send is a disservice to women because it lies to us we can't even have an ideal look obviously this 0.99

00:06:25.840 entire generation no one's been raised to be wives no one's been raised to be husband but it's like

00:06:31.680 how do we learn how to do that if we can't even admit what the goal is right we can't even admit okay

00:06:38.080 we should listen and obey our husband i genuinely think that it is more important to respect your

00:06:44.240 husband than to love him because a relationship can work without love but it cannot work without respect

00:06:50.720 because we see the results of women picking men on our feelings i mean why does india have a 99 0.96

00:06:59.040 percent marriage rate a one percent divorce rate now i i know it's getting more westernized maybe it's

00:07:05.280 going away from that but the point is they have arranged marriages there it is not based off of your

00:07:11.360 feelings it is based off of duty respect um and family and community it's not based off of the way we

00:07:20.080 feel and it's like we can't even go towards fixing this problem because the media and the messaging

00:07:26.800 is we are equal god is a woman it's like this is the messaging we have in our society where we can't

00:07:34.240 even admit like what the goal is in a marriage you know i hope they work it out i really do but i'm not

00:07:40.480 shocked it didn't work out you know if you if you listen to the messaging in her songs it's really just

00:07:46.240 the wrong mindset and it's sad because you really see the fate of singers like this selena gomez of

00:07:52.560 taylor swift now ariana grande that write these love songs where they're always the victim that write 0.63

00:07:58.640 these songs where we should just empower the women and i i don't even think it's conscious they really

00:08:04.000 seem like nice people but the issue is that mindset is toxic and if we don't have men that are calling

00:08:11.040 out this mindset if we don't have women that are saying this is wrong this is out of order then 1.00

00:08:16.400 we're never going to see improvements because we can't even admit what the goal is

JustPearlyThings - July 23, 2023

Ariana Grande's Divorce PROVES Pearl Right

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