Aunty Jenny Got Tired Of Her BS
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the age difference between men and women when it comes to sexual grooming. What does it mean and why does it matter what age a woman is when she becomes a groomer? What is the difference between a child groomer and a child molester? And what is the role of a modern woman in this situation?
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at that age I don't I don't sort of say I don't know what I was doing yeah but again I feel like
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I was in a vulnerable position and I got taken advantage of you you you were unwilling to make
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wise decisions at that age up to 17 or whatever the situation ended a year ago you throughout
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that whole time you've been you were incapable of making great decisions yeah I do agree so what
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that does not need is more coddling that needs tough love yeah can I just say something right
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she was um she was working huh oh she was working I you were old enough to work I have been in uni
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um I'm old enough to work yes but I have recently left jobs no I don't mean that situation I mean
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when everybody's talking about the age when they got together all I heard was they met at work yeah
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I was working a legal job cashing hand from 15 years old that's what I'm trying to say so
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all right then if I go to a workplace if you and me are going to work right and I see you at work
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I'm obviously going to think you're an adult because you're working I'm not making excuses
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unless you told him I am 15 years old I did tell him and he told me you look 21 and you're mature for
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your age does I excuse it I don't think it does no I don't say an excuse just because I'm working
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it doesn't excuse it I'm not saying it excuses it no but that's I'm not saying it excuses it and
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this is what I mean about you modern people they always want you to be soft soft soft and when you're
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trying to find out what happens they always want to blame the men I'm not blaming men because you're
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not letting me finish saying what I'm saying you were there working illegally right so the first thing
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the guy could have seen was that you're under eight that you're of age because you're working
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so for a start whatever your background was you know you can work from the age of 15 16 as long as
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you have a national national insurance number and your parents permission
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and your parents permission and your parents permission so therefore quote the whole law
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it doesn't matter and your parents permission to work on the age you need your parents did you
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have your parents permission yes I did right so you had your parents permission to work so why
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couldn't you have parents permission if your parents gave you permission to work
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why couldn't you go to your parents say this guy's talking to me and I'm underage
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So he's out there without any subsequent, anything to do with you.
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So if he got any other charges out there, it's not from what he's done to you.
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So you can't go out there and say, oh, I took him to court and I, oh, I could have gone to court and I didn't press charges.
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Because if somebody does something and you press charges, if you don't press charges, don't talk about the man.
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Don't talk about him on social media because people are going to be out there.
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Do you know how many people commit crimes and do not go to prison for it?
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And those are the people that should be talking about it.
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Then when they commit crimes, if somebody commits a crime against you and you don't want to report it, shut up about it.
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If somebody's abusing you and you know that the police are going to stop you and you decide to sit there and you don't want to say nothing.
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Because you could have done something about it.
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You could have done something about it rather than be a snitch.
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So you don't want to be a snitch, but you want to sit there and be an abused person.
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No, I don't want to sit there and be an abused person.
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It's like you trying to turn around to me and say, right, I shouldn't tell people.
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I shouldn't tell people I got hit by a bus and I got brain damaged because it's a bad thing to say.
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It's a little bit different than that because it's three sides to every story.
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If he would describe the situation, do you think he would describe himself as a groomer?
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Yeah, but that's the story that she's telling us based off of things that she's recounting it.
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See, he might then say, well, I didn't know she was working on a spot.
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And I thought you had to be 18 years old to work on a spot.
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Just because it's legal doesn't mean it's moral.
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The whole point is we're going off of what she says.
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And he doesn't have a platform to talk about it.
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But the thing is, if you file a police report and you show us a police report, it's different.
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And they're always with him for multiple years.
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But to me, if someone's hitting me in the face, I'm getting the fuck out of there.
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You don't know, though, unless you're in a situation.
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There's a lot of other fucking shit that goes on.
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But, and so then, and so then, I asked, did you file a police report?
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And so then, we're going to a point where she can say, he did this, this, and this.
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And wait, I don't, I don't, you might have evidence.
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And so, the point is that many men get accused of crimes they did not commit.
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And when there is no evidence and no police report, I don't know your personal situation,
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but it's weird to me that you were there for multiple years, and you didn't press charges,
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and you just continued to stay and get hit, because if someone hits me in the face, I'm
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So, me personally, I wasn't there for multiple years.
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No, I'm saying he was grooming me from 15 to about, I was 17 years old.
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And then that's when things started getting further on.
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Sorry, no, I know what you're saying is, again, it reiterates my point before why I got upset
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about the list, because some women turn around and say, I've been abused.
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And the actual victims not want to report it, because you feel like you're doing something
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And especially if you've got someone in the back of your ear saying, don't report me.
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Like, you love this person, and this person is telling you all sorts.
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So, if you're not going to report it, then why would you go around telling everybody?
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If you're going to report it on a podcast for everyone to listen to, why don't you report it
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What's the police going to do, apart from put him on the sex offenders list and give
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Protect my grandchildren and his cousin and her sister and everybody, all the other females
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That's what you're doing when you report something like that.
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You're thinking about the whole, everybody around you and everybody around him.
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Once you let an offender go, you're leaving it for him to abuse everybody else.
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