JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


Monkey branching from a woman’s perspective

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
What Women SHOULD BRING In A RELATIONSHIP Aunty Jenny Got Tired Of Her BS

Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

176.42

Word count

2,003

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this episode we talk about why women move on from their exes and why men don t understand why they do the same. We also talk about the importance of communication and how important it is to be able to communicate better with your partner.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 people meet each other is online so of course it's going to influence dating because like as
00:00:07.100 as women when we when we get a certain type of guy if we don't marry someone on that level 1.00
00:00:15.140 level we will feel like we settled yeah and and so that's that's what something the manosphere
00:00:22.120 they call it an alpha widow alpha widow yeah so basically okay have you ever seen girls they 0.95
00:00:30.620 always have that one x that they can't get over yeah they could date the next guy the next guy they
00:00:35.540 could date like the nicest guy in the world he might have more going for him but they can't get
00:00:41.180 that last guy out of their head yeah that's an alpha widow basically that girl sees that guy as 1.00
00:00:46.420 the best that she can do okay and anything past him like she she can't get in her head better
00:00:53.800 and what what better it is is it differs from girl to girl but that guy had something that she can't
00:00:59.840 replace because and i want to say rollo says it's because and tell me if i'm butchering this in the
00:01:06.460 chat but back in the the tribal days um the basically the men would fight and the winner would take the
00:01:15.260 girl so you would only get with the best guy because like if not he would get killed and you 1.00
00:01:22.260 would get the best guy basically yeah don't dears do that now what don't dears do that i don't know
00:01:29.920 dears do that like the males fight over the female whoever wins the fight against the female i know lions 0.99
00:01:34.960 i know lions will go into a pride and um kill the males kill all the meld or kill all the cubs or 0.97
00:01:42.620 children that that meld had with any of the females and then start his own crazy yeah but that's why 0.51
00:01:48.880 women move on this is something men don't really understand because when when a guy and you guys
00:01:55.400 can tell me if i'm wrong on this but from what i understand if a guy like loves a girl there's
00:01:59.700 always going to be a part of him even if they break up they will always like love her in some way
00:02:03.360 yeah yeah yeah and he'll we call it have love for her yeah yeah but but women we're we're gone 1.00
00:02:11.320 three months at least before we left the relationship mentally like and so men will be like what she's a 0.98
00:02:18.840 new boyfriend already yeah and we're like we mentally broke up with you three months ago did
00:02:23.380 you not see the signs did you not the answer is no
00:02:28.020 read my mind read my mind no i didn't see no signs
00:02:34.100 and they're like i thought we were good i thought it was good i mean we went out the other day yeah
00:02:41.180 if i asked you you were good and you said you were good
00:02:43.060 but doesn't that go into the because i have to talk with my girlfriend all the time it's like
00:02:54.340 shouldn't that go into you how is it my fault that i can't read your your mind how is it my
00:03:01.040 fault that you can't verbalize what you want from me and now i have to go through reading cues
00:03:07.320 and and figuring i'm not i'm not sherlock holmes right i didn't get in this relationship to be
00:03:13.460 detective i'm not training to be a detective i don't work in the police force i don't know my
00:03:19.340 family are detective so why do i have to be one in order to understand because think about it when
00:03:24.760 your partner in with your exes when he's upset you know because you can just tell he will either act
00:03:31.280 really angry and then be like i'm not in the mood or you can just tell the vibe change
00:03:36.860 but with a girl if her vibe changes and i call her out on a vibe change how many guys in the room 0.99
00:03:42.160 how many times has that started an argument that i've noticed that you're angry
00:03:45.400 me noticing that you're upset has got you upset why
00:03:51.900 but i also have to notice that you're upset but when i do notice that you're upset you get more upset
00:04:00.260 it's the catch-22 yeah i think yeah that's that's the right one it's a catch-22 with
00:04:05.600 girls like i don't know man i don't know how yeah i don't know either i don't know
00:04:11.460 do you complicate it to understand we don't even understand it that's part of the red that's part of
00:04:17.760 the red pill too is understanding that we're crazy yeah yeah because we're chemically different
00:04:23.800 every single day and so we kind of a guy that's constantly like reacting to the girl it makes us
00:04:31.720 mad because we're like you don't see that we're crazy like no because we look to you guys for for
00:04:36.780 guidance and like to decipher you know what i mean and so a guy that's constantly like what's wrong
00:04:42.600 are you okay no no no i'm like let me you know let me chill for it first it doesn't make sense
00:04:49.500 but the girls understand yeah and it's always and it always like complaining about communication 1.00
00:04:55.640 yeah yeah true
00:04:57.180 we don't know what we want so it's the best thing not to call it out and just to modify your behavior
00:05:06.740 if they don't call it out they still get upset yeah call it out they didn't see that they were upset
00:05:15.020 at that moment like how can you not see that i'm upset i'm not talking to you i'm sitting over
00:05:20.600 here my face is pouting but you don't call it out it's like well last time i called it out you got
00:05:25.840 upset and it's just like the best advice that i've heard and i hate i hate that this is good advice 0.71
00:05:32.220 but to treat women like children so if they're having a temper tantrum i would be so bad
00:05:38.060 to ignore it what happens when a child's having a temper tantrum what happens when you give them
00:05:46.740 more attention yeah they keep going what happens with yeah with my dog what happens when we go in
00:05:53.080 there and like yeah yeah she barks even more yeah and what happens when you leave her alone
00:05:59.700 she stops she calms down at some point you have to stop yeah i'm not i'm not saying this and i like
00:06:06.520 i keep seeing in the chat that i keep i keep seeing in the chat that we're making
00:06:12.060 we're making excuses for like we're using history to excuse bad behavior and guys i'm not excusing bad
00:06:21.040 behavior i'm just explaining it so you don't shoot the messenger here to understand the future you have
00:06:26.740 to understand the past yeah um so i feel like i feel like ellie knew i was talking yeah
00:06:32.860 um okay so that but that kind of ties into body count and so now we hear this we hear slut shaming
00:06:43.800 right and this is why like older women give younger women such bad advice so this is this is a red pill 1.00
00:06:51.480 moment what is your chance of a happy marriage as a virgin and they i want to say they measured
00:06:58.340 this by they either surveyed them or it's like the length of the marriage so i think it i wish i
00:07:04.200 could remember off the top of my head um oh it's it's having a marriage of five years or more what is
00:07:10.780 your chance of that as a virgin if you get married what do you think wait say that one more time okay 1.00
00:07:16.360 if you're a virgin when you get married what is your chance of 10 years later having a happy marriage
00:07:21.920 i feel like it's it's really low because whoever's the like the i did this is just like a thought
00:07:29.880 though okay if somebody think like they're a virgin and they only slept with one person i feel like
00:07:36.020 they're gonna want to venture out because they've only experienced one person the entire time that's
00:07:42.660 not necessarily for everybody but i would just think they would want to that happens sometimes
00:07:47.340 yeah um from my knowledge if the woman is a virgin i would say the marriage would last longer 1.00
00:07:56.640 because of what i know about the body count yeah from women to men and if the man's a virgin i think
00:08:04.520 that the marriage won't last as long okay what about the both if they're both versions i guess
00:08:12.240 should be fine i guess it would last i think it would last all depends on like their upbringing i
00:08:20.200 think if they were like in a sense brought up in the church i think it will last because they're both
00:08:24.660 virgins got married all that good jazz but i think if they're i don't say not i think it'll be a little
00:08:31.200 bit different okay what about you yeah i believe that if a woman would be virgin i guess it would last
00:08:37.400 longer okay so if the the percentage of a woman having a happy marriage is 80 as a virgin oh and i 0.62
00:08:47.200 will say the highest percentage is when they're both virgins so i know that i know that manosphere
00:08:51.540 doesn't like to acknowledge this but but if a girl's had more than five partners it drops down to 30 1.00
00:09:00.360 where men it increases a little bit at like nine or seven to nine partners their their marital
00:09:09.640 happiness goes up like the guys it remains a lot more stagnant throughout like they sleep with more
00:09:16.400 people it doesn't really change their marital happiness i think that goes into the whole you
00:09:20.640 know when guys have sex they're not emotionally tied into the sex so um if a guy's uh getting his body
00:09:29.920 count up and he in his head knows that i'm not taking any of these girls seriously like when he
00:09:35.940 does meet a girl that he wants to take seriously there will be that you know extra effort 100 so so
00:09:41.860 so then it will be you know it would make sense if it lasts longer and the guy's body count as well i'm
00:09:47.740 not going to disclose my body count but it's all right and it's up there right yeah but like like i said
00:09:54.500 i'm retired but i'm retired for a reason because you find someone that you find someone that you
00:09:58.240 well i think men learn a little bit more about female like they know how to deal with girls 1.00
00:10:04.560 better when they sleep with more people i i do think there's a level of purity you really can't
00:10:10.500 get back and i i do think like the ideal is a virgin but we're also in a world where most women aren't
00:10:17.100 virgins so yeah um the i will say one thing actually um when i was like when i had my first
00:10:28.140 first partner like i didn't know anything different um so like the idea of like wanting to venture out
00:10:34.320 was never something that i wanted to do because i knew no better this was all i knew it was only when
00:10:40.000 moving on to the second part it was like oh okay this is different okay and then moving from there
00:10:46.500 it was like okay now i understand how things differ but like the first person you're with you're like
00:10:53.100 you don't really know any better so everything's the norm well i think that's why the highest rate
00:10:58.840 of marriage is between two virgins but because you know there's a level of innocence you really can't
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