JustPearlyThings - What Women SHOULD BRING In A RELATIONSHIP

00:00:00.000 you know so yeah what do you guys think that you need to bring to the table in order to be

00:00:05.680 a long-term 20-year girlfriend or wife and is there a difference um i think

00:00:17.440 stability if you know you're stable within yourself mentally financially

00:00:23.600 every lee then then i feel like that's all that matters and likewise for the man if he's stable

00:00:31.360 enough to be in a relationship and to accommodate that financially mentally physically whatever way

00:00:36.400 emotionally then that's that's what so do you mean when you say stability like financially stable

00:00:43.680 yeah as a girl you should be financially stable okay don't don't just depend everything on the man

00:00:48.880 you know don't expect because when you expect things you could let get let get let down so

00:00:55.280 i agree with that okay yeah go ahead definitely in a relationship um you also need to have your own

00:01:00.720 funds behind you you can't rely on a man because then what happens if that man leaves then if you're

00:01:04.720 left with nothing men don't leave not typically they always come back that's true no no fun fact 0.91

00:01:12.720 one percent of the time do you think that women divorce or that men divorce women i think a lot 0.99

00:01:17.520 of the time it is women that leave thousand percent what percent of the time do you think women leave

00:01:22.320 maybe like 80 percent of the time yeah that's true i think they're just when they're 70 to 80

00:01:28.640 yeah and what percent if you're college educated there's only a 10 chance you're going to get left

00:01:33.120 yeah i do think as well like a stable stable relationship you know bringing stuff to the table

00:01:38.720 i think you need to just like have have your priorities in check you know again like be stable

00:01:44.480 financially physically um you should be in shape be healthy in shape yeah so fat people shouldn't

00:01:50.720 find love of course they should they should most definitely most definitely so so so you don't

00:01:59.840 have to be in shape you shouldn't you don't have to be in shape but at the end of the day health is

00:02:05.360 wealth you know if someone is like really severely overweight and there's people that are two severely

00:02:09.680 overweight people when they're in love and like they don't they don't do anything about their

00:02:14.000 health how long are they going to live for oh my god my dad told me not to date fat people because

00:02:25.440 he said you have to take care of them later oh my goodness they're gonna have health issues look 0.99

00:02:30.080 at you're gonna live from 50 to 90 you want to be yeah you're gonna be yeah obesity is like a serious

00:02:36.880 issue so you should be in shape you should bring that to it's okay that's okay i'm just i'm trying

00:02:43.040 i'm trying to write down a list and i'm just trying to pin you down yeah i think you should

00:02:46.320 look after yourself i think you know like it's important to care for yourself and look after

00:02:50.800 yourself you know a lot of the time like when people are like really severely overweight and

00:02:54.800 like obese and stuff it's because they're not looking after themselves okay so it's harsh like

00:03:00.640 you can call me fat phobic yeah but like yeah we hate we hate fat phobia here yeah we don't stand

00:03:09.600 for fat phobia at all yeah like i'm not against fat people at the same time like i'm afraid of i'm

00:03:17.920 afraid of fat people really yeah i'm scared of them i'm fat phobic what i'm afraid of them

00:03:23.920 i'm terrified yeah i'm like transphobic too i'm all the phobics i didn't even know that existed

00:03:40.000 i did not know that existed yeah yeah i'm terrified if you call someone fat they'll literally be like

00:03:47.200 it's not no it's not like i think the whole body positivity movement is really important but at the

00:03:52.720 same time if you're severely overweight people like it's your health at the end of the day normalizes

00:03:58.560 obesity i think it does i think it does and it's not it's not a good thing because your lifespan is

00:04:04.560 going to be shortened because you you don't look after yourself some people are overweight because of

00:04:09.120 health conditions and like certain medications stuff but that is a very small minority of people

00:04:14.640 so um back to the we need stability and in shape anything else financial stability

00:04:20.160 stability i think stability also mentally is really important obviously you can go through

00:04:26.400 blips of your mental health like during a relationship and your partner should support

00:04:29.920 you and vice versa but um yeah to be in like a healthy relationship i think like your mental

00:04:36.000 health is something that you need to prioritize um anything what should women bring to the table 1.00

00:04:42.240 um what should women bring to the table themselves because every woman is different so you should 1.00

00:04:52.000 not in general in general yeah in general what she means it's like your true self your true self of who you

00:04:59.920 really are exactly in general that's true but if you're a loser yeah what is your definition of a loser

00:05:05.520 coming back to what i'm about to say do not compare me to the next woman or the woman coming

00:05:10.640 after me because i am different there's only one you yeah there's only one yeah so i should be

00:05:14.320 bringing myself and what i have to offer throughout my 22 years okay so what do you have to

00:05:18.880 offer from your 22 years that's a lot we're gonna be here all day so we'll come back to that

00:05:22.240 okay just give me three cool three things knowledge wisdom and understanding period done

00:05:39.920 okay okay um go ahead you know what same here like i said i bring a lot table but i'm gonna be a bit

00:05:52.960 more specific freakiness is very important okay a freakiness all right i would say but yeah no i'm

00:06:01.120 we're actually being serious obviously yeah i'm serious about that but i'm actually being serious

00:06:05.840 um it would be um my mindset i think i've got a really like good elevated type of mindset and i

00:06:13.840 think that what do you what do you mean by elevate no elevate it means a lot of kids no no no no no

00:06:18.880 as in like motivation like my energy that i'm quite i have like a good drive and a motivation i'm quite

00:06:24.480 positive optimistic so the people around me and in my circle can feed off my energy and they can all

00:06:29.680 win in life that's what i'm okay so you have you have high energy and you're driven that's what i mean by

00:06:34.960 like okay that's what you should okay yeah so i'm just i'm trying to write this down okay yeah

00:06:39.440 it's really anything else i would say um i'm good at everything

00:06:48.800 women of many talents

00:06:57.920 okay can we can we name one okay um

00:07:00.960 um oh obviously we all know i can sing dance act sing dance act um um i'm smart as well i'm good

00:07:09.360 at balancing stuff not balance up in my head i mean multitasking yeah multitasking i can balance a lot

00:07:14.800 i can't do that like i can that book yeah like okay for example i'll take example for a long time

00:07:21.120 obviously when i was i was 19 so obviously last year i just finished sixth form but throughout my

00:07:26.720 i started doing music when i was like 16 actually that's such a reason i was 16 17 18 but throughout

00:07:32.240 that process i was still in full-time education so it was hard to obviously balance like i'll do like

00:07:36.720 a sold out show with like and have like my manager and like see biz there and then i have to be dragged

00:07:42.160 onto like the table and being told it was hard balancing what all i wanted to do was fly so again

00:07:46.640 balancing is important and i still got the grades i might by end of it so it's awesome yes okay

00:07:52.240 so we'll give you okay okay so i'm just going to read back to what what you guys said if there's

00:07:59.680 anything you think that there should be added just let me know okay uh being financially stable

00:08:05.200 in shape mentally stable um i wrote themselves like knowing yourself i think that was what i wrote

00:08:11.520 okay knowledge oh oh that was you you bring yourself okay knowledge wisdom understanding freakiness um

00:08:19.040 um driven high energy singing dancing acting and multitasking no no it's like your individual

00:08:26.960 talents and it's also you need to be securing yourself as well you need to love yourself that's

00:08:31.520 the most important thing security self-love that's the most self-love okay yeah okay can i add something um

00:08:40.160 this is just my personal opinion by the way i feel like having a source like my my source is god

00:08:46.960 my source is spirituality my source is my intuition so as long as you have a source then that would

00:08:53.520 yeah add to oh no she means she means like a belief like a belief like a common belief like

00:09:02.320 believing in guidance yeah yeah yeah yeah like religion yes that's true not necessarily religion

00:09:08.320 not religion not religion not religion not religion not religion spirituality i believe in god though

00:09:17.360 not religion okay okay so stability financial stability in shape mentally stable bringing yourself um

00:09:25.600 knowledge wisdom understanding freakiness driven high energy singing dancing acting multitasking

00:09:31.040 spirituality as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023

What Women SHOULD BRING In A RELATIONSHIP

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