JustPearlyThings - May 03, 2023


Aunty Jenny Made The Top G Laugh


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9 minutes

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251.695

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2,413

Sentence count

214

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Misogyny

58

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40

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In this episode, we discuss the biggest problem facing men today, and the problem with women today. We discuss the differences between being a man and a woman, and why women are more self-accountable than men.

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00:00:00.000 Okay, so my first question is
00:00:02.260 what is the number one problem facing men today
00:00:05.440 and what is the number one problem facing women today? 1.00
00:00:08.980 I'm going to say something.
00:00:09.980 Come on, ladies and gentlemen.
00:00:10.960 You're going to educate me.
00:00:12.220 The number one problem with men 0.98
00:00:16.300 is that they don't tell women the truth 1.00
00:00:17.580 and the number one problem with women 0.99
00:00:18.660 is that they can't handle the truth.
00:00:20.340 Simple.
00:00:21.960 That's a good paradigm to start from
00:00:23.980 because it's actually very interesting you say that.
00:00:25.640 A lot of women say, 1.00
00:00:26.340 I just want a man who's honest
00:00:27.440 and then the second you're honest,
00:00:28.500 she's like, what?
00:00:29.560 You did what?
00:00:30.440 It's like, well, then don't ask me for honesty.
00:00:31.960 Of course I fucking lie.
00:00:33.140 Thank you.
00:00:33.680 So that's a good point.
00:00:35.360 I agree with that one.
00:00:36.400 I don't think it's the biggest problem,
00:00:37.780 but it certainly is a problem in relationships today.
00:00:39.940 That is a problem.
00:00:40.600 The biggest problem with men today
00:00:41.880 is that I think the world is becoming hyper-competitive.
00:00:45.620 Most men are not aware and understanding 1.00
00:00:47.840 of how quickly there's going to be a genuine shift
00:00:50.300 in between those who have things
00:00:51.980 and those who do not have things.
00:00:53.540 Not just finances, but also female status, everything else. 0.98
00:00:56.740 And it's a status game, right?
00:00:57.960 And it's becoming harder and harder for men to play.
00:01:00.780 And that's all women's fault, of course. 1.00
00:01:04.080 No, but it is because women choose the winners, right? 1.00
00:01:06.140 Women choose who the high-status males are. 1.00
00:01:08.160 So women pretend to give a shit about men. 1.00
00:01:10.720 Of course they don't.
00:01:11.560 They give a shit about themselves.
00:01:12.720 And a woman, if you ask her what she wants from a man, 1.00
00:01:19.020 she's like, I don't want much.
00:01:20.080 I just want to find a nice man who's a millionaire
00:01:22.180 and six foot tall and funny and charismatic
00:01:24.080 and interesting and spontaneous and looks after me
00:01:26.180 and doesn't cheat.
00:01:27.220 And it's funny and good-looking and strong.
00:01:29.380 I don't want much.
00:01:30.240 Like, they name all this shit that most dudes
00:01:32.080 are never going to have.
00:01:33.240 And it's becoming harder and harder.
00:01:34.420 And you end up with people, top Gs,
00:01:36.640 who own everything on the planet
00:01:37.600 they could ever possibly wish for.
00:01:38.960 And then you've got other guys who have nothing.
00:01:40.500 And there's this large divide.
00:01:41.840 There's no longer any middle ground.
00:01:43.620 You have dudes who can't get any pussy. 1.00
00:01:45.000 And then you've got dudes who are just blocking girls 0.93
00:01:46.520 left, right, and center.
00:01:47.600 And that's what the problem with being a man is today.
00:01:50.100 What about the women?
00:01:51.440 What about them?
00:01:52.220 Should I say the problem with women? 1.00
00:01:53.540 I would say...
00:01:53.740 I'll tell you.
00:01:54.360 Well, everybody's got a chance to talk.
00:01:56.820 I'm going to shut up and have my Clementine. 1.00
00:01:58.140 No, I want to know.
00:01:58.940 I want to know.
00:01:59.340 I want to learn from you, sir.
00:02:00.640 You want to learn from me?
00:02:01.220 Well, I wanted to answer.
00:02:02.960 I feel like it goes for both.
00:02:04.100 It's not just one or the other.
00:02:05.160 I feel like it's self-accountability.
00:02:08.960 They're not accountable for themselves.
00:02:09.900 I agree with you there.
00:02:10.980 Why just women, though? 1.00
00:02:12.260 What about men?
00:02:13.220 It's both.
00:02:13.560 Yeah, it's definitely both.
00:02:14.740 It is both.
00:02:15.700 You're right.
00:02:16.420 But society punishes men for not being self-accountable.
00:02:19.580 But society does not punish women for not being self-accountable.
00:02:21.700 I'll give you an example.
00:02:22.400 If you're a man and you're arrogant and you think you're something when you're not,
00:02:24.840 trust me, society will teach you very quickly that you don't matter when you don't get laid
00:02:28.440 and you stay a fucking brokey. 1.00
00:02:30.100 If you're a chick and think you're something when you're not,
00:02:31.740 you can run around with your ego, still get dates, still get laid,
00:02:34.120 still have a fairly sensible social life.
00:02:37.060 If society as a whole doesn't come along and slap you in the face with realizations,
00:02:40.920 if you're a man and you think you're something you're not,
00:02:43.340 it is a ticking time bomb until society teaches you a lesson.
00:02:46.520 That's the difference.
00:02:47.540 This is why men in general are more self-accountable because the men who are not self-accountable 0.99
00:02:51.440 get fucked up. 0.98
00:02:52.560 So those who are successful are very self-accountable people.
00:02:56.060 They look at themselves and go,
00:02:57.060 okay, the only way I'm going to get and progress further,
00:02:59.040 the reason she left me, the only way I'm going to do better, make more money,
00:03:01.260 et cetera, et cetera, is I have to change.
00:03:02.980 Most women don't want to do that. 1.00
00:03:04.100 They don't sit and think I have to change.
00:03:05.400 They think, oh, he left me because it's him and I lost my job because my boss
00:03:09.520 and this is this because of this.
00:03:11.380 No, you women don't look in the mirror and change a fucking thing. 1.00
00:03:14.020 Ever.
00:03:14.620 No, because don't forget what you're forgetting right nowadays.
00:03:16.920 They can't change it because it's all about body positivity. 0.82
00:03:20.120 Are you saying?
00:03:20.500 Like I look sexy at a size 28.
00:03:23.800 Are you saying Lizzo's not a 10?
00:03:25.120 Are you guys trying to get me canceled?
00:03:28.860 See, I'm not going to, I don't agree with what you just said
00:03:31.560 because 90% of cosmetic surgery is by women.
00:03:36.780 Women are trying to change as much as possible. 1.00
00:03:39.880 Men don't want to change.
00:03:41.120 They're not accountable for themselves.
00:03:42.680 They think that because they're a man, you're going to be attracted to them.
00:03:46.300 No.
00:03:46.960 Like you can, you can't be fat.
00:03:48.800 You stay at home.
00:03:50.080 You're just playing video games and you expect a woman to want to fuck you. 1.00
00:03:52.720 No, she's not going to want to fuck you. 1.00
00:03:53.980 Yeah, but then she won't.
00:03:55.080 This is the point.
00:03:55.900 And then she won't and society will teach them a lesson.
00:03:58.680 They might be able to pull off a little blag with a girl for a year or so, 0.91
00:04:01.560 but in general, they're going to end up lonely.
00:04:02.980 In general, they're going to struggle to find partners.
00:04:04.420 I agree with you with the cosmetic surgery thing.
00:04:06.740 Women are happy to change their appearance and change how they look, 1.00
00:04:09.160 but they're not happy to change how they act.
00:04:11.560 Most of them, they're not happy to change.
00:04:13.160 No, they're not.
00:04:13.820 The women are changing what the men don't care about. 1.00
00:04:16.260 The men don't care about the big old lips. 1.00
00:04:18.220 Yes, they do.
00:04:19.100 No, the women are doing that for themselves because the men don't care about it. 1.00
00:04:23.140 The men would rather a woman change her stinking attitude 1.00
00:04:26.000 than put on all that makeup and hair and everything.
00:04:29.100 That's what the men want.
00:04:30.100 But the women will go out there like, oh, I'm going to change this. 1.00
00:04:32.260 I'm going to change that.
00:04:33.120 If you look at a man and the man said, yeah, he's fat.
00:04:35.380 The man will most well, if he's feeling bad about himself,
00:04:37.320 he wants to make sense.
00:04:37.900 He'll go and hit the gym.
00:04:39.040 What's the woman going to do? 1.00
00:04:39.840 Go and do it.
00:04:40.260 Get her BBL. 0.97
00:04:41.180 Get her lips done. 0.95
00:04:42.240 Put on her makeup.
00:04:42.960 Put on her hair. 0.55
00:04:43.780 And say the big old fat person that she is and say, oh, it's body positivity. 1.00
00:04:47.520 The men don't even want that. 1.00
00:04:48.460 And the women are not getting all this cosmetic surgery for the men.
00:04:52.100 They're getting it for themselves.
00:04:53.600 You've got to turn around.
00:04:54.540 What man wants a woman that's going to turn around, 1.00
00:04:56.540 go and have an operation and can't sit on a plane
00:04:58.180 because her ass has been injected or been interfered with? 1.00
00:05:00.660 She's got to lie there on her stomach. 0.99
00:05:01.860 Do you think the men want that? 0.83
00:05:02.820 Or wake up in the morning before you've got to hit the house.
00:05:05.140 She's got to put on.
00:05:05.920 I'm sure I worried about some of the men because they must go out with a woman. 1.00
00:05:09.620 And then when they wake up in the morning, they think, who the hell is she?
00:05:12.540 The scars, the scars.
00:05:13.100 By the time you take everything off, women need to change their attitudes 1.00
00:05:16.500 before they change their makeup.
00:05:17.840 I'm sure that even more than that, change your attitude
00:05:21.140 because women have got there and they want to change this, 1.00
00:05:23.840 they want to change that, all the things that don't count.
00:05:26.220 If you learn to, the same way how women can go out there 1.00
00:05:28.000 and learn to put makeup on, learn to cook.
00:05:29.680 Learn to wash by hand.
00:05:31.140 Learn to please a man. 0.96
00:05:31.820 That is so outdated, girl.
00:05:32.360 That's what you need to do.
00:05:33.220 That's outdated, girl.
00:05:34.200 She's that girl.
00:05:35.020 That's outdated.
00:05:35.740 She's right.
00:05:36.200 For who?
00:05:37.200 I'm saying it's like we had literally just talked about this off camera
00:05:40.240 when you guys came here from the airport.
00:05:41.700 When we were talking about, oh, what's the value system
00:05:44.560 or the point system for a woman who cooks versus a woman who can suck good dick 1.00
00:05:48.980 and fuck well?
00:05:49.820 But you can cook and suck dick as well. 1.00
00:05:51.100 No, but what I'm saying is that Pearl, you can correct me if I'm wrong,
00:05:54.280 but quoting her was that when she interviewed people on the street
00:05:57.980 that there was more points given to something like a sexual return
00:06:01.700 as opposed to, oh, wash dishes by hand.
00:06:04.020 There's a dishwasher.
00:06:04.860 Why cook?
00:06:05.500 We can eat out.
00:06:06.020 There's a chef.
00:06:06.560 People don't give a fuck about that.
00:06:08.080 That's what they think.
00:06:08.820 But we literally just talked about this yesterday.
00:06:11.420 No, it was, okay, I did a street interview and I asked the guys,
00:06:14.060 would you rather have a girl that gave good head or a good cook? 1.00
00:06:17.700 And most guys-
00:06:18.100 They want this.
00:06:19.540 But I think that's more-
00:06:20.900 For the quick satisfaction.
00:06:22.120 But I think that's more for like a one-night stand versus long term.
00:06:23.860 But what I'm trying to say is that if you, all the women out there 0.99
00:06:26.620 and they're talking about, well, some of the women want to be settled down, 1.00
00:06:29.360 they want a man, right? 1.00
00:06:31.000 And you've got to think what the man wants.
00:06:32.580 The man is interested in that.
00:06:33.980 Look at, when you're doing street interviews, you're doing single people.
00:06:39.220 Look at the people there that are happily married and ask them what they do.
00:06:42.600 Because all the things that the women out there are doing, 1.00
00:06:44.640 you can be a housewife, you can be going out,
00:06:46.820 you can suck head just as good as any old tramp on the street. 1.00
00:06:49.660 And keep your man.
00:06:50.720 And have a man.
00:06:51.840 And I can say that because I'm 32 years in Canton.
00:06:54.340 Auntie, you can't say attraction is not important, though.
00:06:57.760 You can't say attraction is not important, though.
00:06:59.560 It is important.
00:07:00.380 Initially.
00:07:01.840 Initially, exactly.
00:07:03.400 A man is not going to find you attractive and then think,
00:07:06.400 oh, because you can cook well.
00:07:08.820 He's got a chef.
00:07:09.680 Especially a man that's got money.
00:07:11.700 Okay, let's ask Andrew.
00:07:13.360 Andrew, would you be with a girl that's five out of ten because she can cook? 1.00
00:07:19.660 That ain't what I said.
00:07:20.300 Well, firstly, that's not what she said, to be fair.
00:07:22.480 And secondly, I'd be with a ten out of ten who can cook because I'm top cheap.
00:07:25.580 But to make the point, I think what you have to understand is what men are looking for in a relationship.
00:07:31.300 So you did the street interview, and you're asking single people, probably young people,
00:07:35.880 probably idiots who know they're on camera talking shit about good head, all this garbage. 0.91
00:07:38.800 That's bullshit.
00:07:39.760 What men are interested in, in life, not just in their relationship, but in their life as a whole, is status.
00:07:44.340 I don't think most people understand, especially women, how competitive the male world is and how competitive it is for status.
00:07:49.220 This is why men do everything they do. 0.78
00:07:51.520 Men buy the faster car not to drive any faster because of status.
00:07:54.420 That's why we want a bigger house. 0.96
00:07:55.420 We don't give a shit where we live.
00:07:56.380 It's because of status.
00:07:56.940 That's why we want to go to the gym and get big and strong because of status.
00:07:59.600 Everything we do is about status.
00:08:00.700 That's why we want the better job.
00:08:01.600 That's why we want more money.
00:08:02.560 That's why we want to be respected.
00:08:03.900 So what's the number one thing we want our female to give us? 1.00
00:08:05.820 Status.
00:08:06.460 That's what we want.
00:08:07.140 So she can give us status by being beautiful. 1.00
00:08:08.560 That's one thing she can do.
00:08:09.840 But another thing she can do is if I turn up home and I come home with my boys and she says,
00:08:13.180 I'll cook you all a steak.
00:08:14.820 That's status.
00:08:15.920 That's all my boys going, Ross, you've just been out all night and she's here and she's going to cook for all of us
00:08:20.000 and she'll clean up and tidy up. 0.99
00:08:21.620 That's the kind of girl a man's not going to want to lose because it makes him look good.
00:08:25.060 That's what I want.
00:08:26.480 Status.
00:08:27.300 Suck a dick, blah, blah, blah. 0.99
00:08:28.520 Listen, dick can only be sucked in so many ways.
00:08:30.420 I mean, let's be serious about this.
00:08:33.400 You had the GartGart 3000.
00:08:34.620 No, no, no.
00:08:35.800 This is actually a serious point, right?
00:08:37.460 This is a very serious point because the Western world has collapsed in real time and it's a failed society.
00:08:41.280 And one of the reasons it's a failed society is because of the over-sexualization, especially of females as a whole. 1.00
00:08:45.720 If a woman comes up to me and goes, I'll be the best sex you ever had, I am fucking revolted. 0.99
00:08:50.180 I don't want the best sex I've ever had.
00:08:51.780 I want you to be pure and a virgin.
00:08:53.140 You shouldn't know what sex is. 0.57
00:08:54.180 Cook my fucking dinner.
00:08:55.280 Shut up. 0.95
00:08:55.920 Don't come and talk to me about fucking sucking dick. 0.87
00:08:57.920 It's vile.
00:08:58.780 It's disgusting.
00:08:59.660 I don't want to hear that shit.
00:09:00.560 Can I say something?
00:09:01.160 I don't want to hear that shit.
00:09:02.380 What I want is a woman who makes me look good. 1.00
00:09:04.320 No woman who's running around talking about sucking dick can make me look good. 1.00
00:09:07.600 So I lose interest completely and utterly.
00:09:09.180 And that's the truth.
00:09:09.840 So what she's saying is completely correct.
00:09:12.460 These are old school things, but it's not about the act.
00:09:14.800 Yes, you can order food.
00:09:15.680 Of course.
00:09:16.180 It's about the status that comes with it.
00:09:18.300 That's what it's about.
00:09:19.060 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:09:25.560 this platform.
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