JustPearlyThings - August 30, 2023


Based Man DEMOLISHES Body Positivity


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11 minutes

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2,274

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28

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21

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5

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of a father figure in a child s life and how important it is to have a strong male role model in their life. We also discuss the difference between a woman and a man with a single parent home and a two parent home.

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00:00:00.000 Will be brutal. Let me get it for anything else. We got out. What do we forget anything that we need to that?
00:00:06.840 Subtracts from women guys 1.00
00:00:09.620 That we're like don't tell me where you would put it just if you think about career
00:00:13.980 No, I don't care about that people what they do. No, they don't 0.81
00:00:18.780 If she's involved in sex work. Yeah, depending on the career that will take you down 1.00
00:00:25.020 She has social media. Yeah, that's that's a big thing for some 1.00
00:00:30.000 We all say sex work is enough, right? Yeah, please. Thank you
00:00:44.160 Sex work
00:00:46.920 What did you someone else someone else said something? What about two-parent household? I mean, oh, yeah single mother home. Where does that?
00:00:55.160 They grew up in a single home. I mean, don't don't don't don't tell me they may get educated
00:01:00.000 I'd say like a I'd still say like
00:01:04.720 A B or a C because then a mother will really teach you 1.00
00:01:10.480 You say BC. What do you say?
00:01:12.480 Like a BC. Oh, see
00:01:14.160 I'll say say see see
00:01:16.720 C or D because they would carry like trauma and issues
00:01:21.440 I'm stuck between a C and a D I would only say see if they learn from the mistake if they haven't then it's a D
00:01:26.880 We're gonna I think we've had more C
00:01:33.840 Okay, I think this is fairly oh, and she's cheated before yeah, I'm also not loyal
00:01:39.200 Yeah, okay, so if she's cheated before that's enough 0.98
00:01:42.240 F yes, okay anyone say D F 0.69
00:01:45.600 F
00:01:48.560 Okay
00:01:52.560 All right guys, it's your turn
00:01:56.960 All right, so first let's talk about what is your a
00:02:01.600 Give me like what is your a woman fit feminine friendly? 1.00
00:02:05.440 I think it's on look at the list do what you think
00:02:07.760 Just stay well. Yeah, but
00:02:09.760 The thing is though most of the things on there is what we've said during the yeah
00:02:15.440 Is there anything you disagree with on the a list?
00:02:18.400 Were the women hot enough to be an a that we showed you guys? 0.95
00:02:21.680 Yeah, of course. Yeah, I think bigger is respectful. That's huge
00:02:28.320 Yeah, loyalty
00:02:30.320 It's a massive one
00:02:32.320 Relationship with her father. Yeah, that is absolutely foundational
00:02:36.000 I
00:02:38.720 Does she have to love her mom? I was gonna say that's right. Yeah
00:02:42.640 Because the way
00:02:44.640 The hold on the whole kind of relationship with parents thing, right? It's kind of like I think I don't think
00:02:51.760 That's like just their background because this is because if she is still a a woman in herself regardless of her parents
00:02:58.160 Then she's an a woman. I don't think that should bring 1.00
00:03:00.160 I mean, I think
00:03:02.880 But when it comes to parents when it comes to parents, it's about when it comes to parents
00:03:06.720 It's about role models. Ideally, it's does she have a strong masculine father figure that she sees and understands from a young age?
00:03:13.760 Okay, so we
00:03:14.720 So I just want to establish
00:03:16.960 Are we talking about she has a strong male role model?
00:03:20.240 I mean, yeah, we could we could say that more specifically, but in the vast majority of cases it would be a father
00:03:24.640 Yeah, it's kind of like, you know, a guy with a criminal record, you know, could have overcome it
00:03:30.000 Yeah, but he's he's a criminal because of the decisions he's made as opposed to like
00:03:35.600 Masculinity like a guy with no dad in the home is probably gonna be kind of feminine. Yeah. Yeah
00:03:39.920 Oh, and so he probably won't get an a in masculine. He could overcome it, right? That doesn't mean for sure
00:03:44.880 I think that's one thing. I'm like, I'm on the fence. I think so
00:03:48.240 Parents is important. Oh, it's absolutely when I say not important. What I mean is I don't think if if you just met a girl
00:03:53.760 And you're like you found out she didn't have a good relationship with her dad, right?
00:03:57.280 And you immediately mark her down just purely on that. I disagree with that
00:04:00.400 But the thing is telltale signs will begin to show
00:04:05.280 If those telltale signs aren't there
00:04:07.680 Generalizing
00:04:08.640 If those telltale signs aren't there
00:04:11.200 If they're not then I understand obviously there are exceptions, but by and large
00:04:15.040 Because there are plenty of because we know that there are plenty of boys who come up in single parent households and they're very masculine
00:04:21.680 They just don't control it
00:04:23.760 But they don't control it because they don't control their emotions
00:04:27.680 I know, but we would we would say that a man has to be a one to have mass
00:04:31.040 He would have to have masculinity to be a one 0.93
00:04:33.120 Yeah, but part of masculinity is controlling your emotions. So if he is no no, I didn't say emotions
00:04:38.320 I say control his masculinity
00:04:40.080 But you said he he will end up doing criminal activity because he can't control his masculinity
00:04:44.560 But that's really him not being able to control your emotions
00:04:48.080 So would you say so would you say a lot of guys because we just say like a lot of drug dealers or people like the roadman life
00:04:53.600 Would you say they're not masculine?
00:04:54.960 Well, they can't control their emotions
00:04:57.120 Which is a feminine trait 0.99
00:04:58.240 No, I know, but I'm asking you know, I'm not saying that I'm asking would you say that they're not masculine?
00:05:02.880 They're masculine in the sense that they're capable of showing violence
00:05:06.240 But they're not masculine in the sense that they're not capable of controlling their emotions and therefore actions
00:05:10.800 I would even go as far as saying they are not masculine
00:05:13.280 Because just because you you the fact that they can show violence has nothing to do with masculinity
00:05:17.920 It's just
00:05:18.880 But I didn't I'm not the one that I'm
00:05:20.400 No, it's their genetic makeup
00:05:21.600 They have the ability to show
00:05:22.960 Sure, but I'm not I'm not the one I wasn't the one that hits that that sat here and said that because they show violence
00:05:27.040 That makes them masculine 1.00
00:05:27.840 Yeah, I'm just saying but what I'm saying is I would say that a lot of roadmen are not as masculine as they claim to be
00:05:33.040 Wow
00:05:34.080 I think I think
00:05:36.720 What I'm trying to say is we would label masculinity as an a1 characteristic 1.00
00:05:41.040 Right, and what i'm trying to say is how you use that we could talk about stosis and that's a different conversation
00:05:45.920 But like a lot of quote-unquote road men, right?
00:05:48.640 They are very masculine because they dominate the environment that they're in
00:05:51.200 They're the alpha in their environment, right?
00:05:53.760 They're definitely more masculine than the private school kids I went to, right?
00:05:57.200 Because I came from that kind of ilk, but it's how they use it, right?
00:06:00.880 Which is a different conversation
00:06:02.160 Yeah, they're using it in feminine ways, I guess 1.00
00:06:04.160 But yeah
00:06:04.480 I don't think that's masculine 0.98
00:06:06.000 I think what we're conflating the issue because what they are doing is they have the capacity for violence and that's what they used to dominate their environment
00:06:13.440 Not because they are masculine
00:06:15.120 That's true
00:06:15.600 That's true, yeah
00:06:16.400 Okay, but we could say by and large like general mom and dad a
00:06:21.440 Yeah, that's the one I
00:06:22.400 Anything else we should add to the a oh, give me a give me an example of a
00:06:25.920 Submissive
00:06:26.400 Oh, yeah 0.52
00:06:27.040 Oh, yeah, submissive
00:06:27.920 Can I have an example of a chick that you think of immediately when you hear an a? 1.00
00:06:32.320 What's LeBron James's wife? 0.98
00:06:34.440 Yeah
00:06:34.640 Okay
00:06:35.760 That's an example
00:06:36.880 I meant looks-wise
00:06:38.500 LeBron James's wife
00:06:40.340 Yeah, she's
00:06:41.460 To be fair, she's
00:06:42.200 She doesn't even know what she looks like 0.99
00:06:43.600 She's
00:06:44.240 Yeah, that's
00:06:45.120 Yeah, I don't even know what she looks like as well
00:06:46.720 Oh, Megan
00:06:47.120 That's a green flag 0.51
00:06:47.920 All right, so Megan Good
00:06:49.280 Gains 20 pounds
00:06:50.480 What is she now? 0.97
00:06:51.680 You
00:06:52.160 She's still Megan Good
00:06:54.000 But is she uh
00:06:55.200 Like how far does 20 pounds go?
00:06:56.960 I'd say I think she's uh
00:06:59.280 Do you agree with this?
00:07:00.000 I'd say B
00:07:00.560 I would say a lot lower down
00:07:02.160 Like health is wealth
00:07:02.980 Literally
00:07:03.280 How much is 20 pounds?
00:07:04.160 Uh in kilograms
00:07:06.640 Can you have a 20 pound weight loss?
00:07:08.640 Can you have like a couple kilograms?
00:07:10.000 No
00:07:10.400 No
00:07:11.040 We'll show it
00:07:12.000 Yeah, I feel like it's less than 5 kg
00:07:13.600 I don't know
00:07:14.000 It's not that much when you think about it
00:07:16.480 It's not
00:07:17.040 Oh, maybe I was thinking of 20 kilograms
00:07:18.880 Yeah, you definitely have 20 kilograms
00:07:20.480 Oh yeah, you know
00:07:21.200 You're losing a leg and an arm for 20 kilograms
00:07:24.240 Yeah
00:07:25.520 Yeah
00:07:26.000 20 pounds
00:07:27.120 20 pounds
00:07:27.680 How much is that in?
00:07:28.720 How much is that in?
00:07:29.520 He's gonna show you guys a 20 pound weight loss
00:07:31.680 Just so you can kind of see
00:07:33.200 Okay, all right, all right, all right
00:07:35.600 I mean, I see it
00:07:37.200 Show a couple kings
00:07:38.880 I reckon she's still Megan Good
00:07:40.400 Oh, that is
00:07:40.960 That's definitely a clear difference
00:07:42.320 That's a clear difference
00:07:43.040 That's not 20 pounds
00:07:44.080 Just show a couple
00:07:44.880 Because some of them are going to be fake
00:07:46.240 But we can just get a general
00:07:47.360 That's definitely fake
00:07:48.400 Whoa
00:07:49.280 That is not 20 pounds
00:07:50.320 He didn't have abs before
00:07:51.440 Now he's got abs
00:07:52.240 Okay, I think that's about 20 pounds
00:07:54.240 I think that's fair
00:07:55.200 She's got abs in the other one 1.00
00:07:56.640 Yeah, yeah
00:07:57.040 See, it says 122, 140
00:07:58.560 That looks about 140 to me
00:08:00.080 But see, this is what I mean
00:08:00.800 There's so many different factors
00:08:02.000 Okay, so no, no
00:08:02.640 This one, this one
00:08:03.520 This one
00:08:04.000 Does that
00:08:04.720 Like, what does she go from?
00:08:05.760 She ain't gonna go down that much 1.00
00:08:06.880 I'd say
00:08:07.200 I mean
00:08:07.600 I'd agree
00:08:08.640 It looks like she just lost a bit of her kind of belly 0.99
00:08:11.200 Yeah, okay
00:08:12.000 I thought it was more
00:08:12.720 But
00:08:13.200 But I would say
00:08:14.560 I would say
00:08:15.520 A C or D
00:08:17.120 All right
00:08:17.840 That's odd
00:08:18.480 D
00:08:19.600 I think help as well
00:08:20.560 I want all the guys in here
00:08:21.520 I think so
00:08:22.160 I want all the guys in here to raise your hands
00:08:24.320 D
00:08:24.640 Who says it brings you down to a B?
00:08:26.240 Raise your hand
00:08:26.960 Here, stop it
00:08:28.080 Okay
00:08:28.320 Help as well
00:08:28.960 All right, all right
00:08:30.240 So there's one
00:08:30.800 Out of the guys
00:08:31.600 Who says it brings you down to a C?
00:08:33.040 I'll say a C, yeah
00:08:34.000 Okay
00:08:35.760 Uh, who says D?
00:08:40.240 Okay
00:08:40.560 Are you guys not gonna raise your hand?
00:08:42.960 Hey
00:08:43.360 I thought you guys went so hard
00:08:46.000 No, I
00:08:46.560 You didn't say A
00:08:47.920 I think she's still in A 0.97
00:08:49.120 Okay, okay
00:08:50.160 Sorry
00:08:50.560 So Kit says there's no difference
00:08:52.720 Not no difference
00:08:54.000 I just don't think it's qualified for a change category
00:08:57.360 So no difference
00:08:57.920 Okay
00:08:58.720 I really like that answer
00:09:00.320 That's good
00:09:00.880 All right
00:09:02.960 Oh my gosh
00:09:03.760 Guys, listen
00:09:04.960 Who says A?
00:09:05.920 Raise your hand
00:09:07.440 Okay
00:09:07.760 Who says B?
00:09:08.560 Raise your hand
00:09:10.640 Okay
00:09:10.960 Who says C?
00:09:11.760 Raise your hand
00:09:13.040 20 pounds
00:09:14.000 All right
00:09:14.240 So the majority said C
00:09:15.840 Wow
00:09:16.480 Yeah, help as well
00:09:18.160 I'm scared of you guys
00:09:19.760 No, but I think
00:09:20.480 Do you know what?
00:09:21.040 This is so good
00:09:21.920 Because we see how men think 0.86
00:09:23.280 Do you know what it is?
00:09:24.160 I think
00:09:24.480 It's actually terrifying
00:09:25.760 No, but it's true
00:09:26.560 I think it's because
00:09:27.360 Especially if you're a dude
00:09:28.480 And you've put in the work to get fit
00:09:29.920 The absolute last thing you want
00:09:31.440 Is someone who doesn't prioritize health
00:09:33.120 Because health is the foundation of wealth
00:09:34.960 Oh, you're giving me my next vibes
00:09:35.280 Hold on
00:09:35.560 But the thing is though
00:09:36.120 The thing is though
00:09:36.520 It could be your next ex
00:09:37.400 But 20 pounds though
00:09:39.280 I'm getting PTSD
00:09:39.920 She's getting PTSD
00:09:40.880 This is the thing
00:09:41.920 If you'd listen and make a change
00:09:43.720 Maybe you'd be a better benefit
00:09:45.440 No, I understand
00:09:46.160 But hold on
00:09:46.760 But 20
00:09:47.200 We're not talking about
00:09:48.440 Oh, she's slim 1.00
00:09:49.280 Now she's overweight 1.00
00:09:49.920 We're talking about 20 pounds, bro
00:09:51.600 Like she's not
00:09:52.260 She's not changing categories
00:09:54.020 It's like a woman would naturally put that on 1.00
00:09:56.100 For bearing your case
00:09:57.060 I hear that
00:09:57.580 I hear that
00:09:57.960 But also a C is a pass 1.00
00:09:59.460 You have to fuck her in the woman's nature 1.00
00:10:01.120 Because the moment you let that 20 pounds slide 1.00
00:10:03.400 Then she's going to move to 40 pounds 1.00
00:10:04.820 Yeah, obviously
00:10:05.320 Hold on
00:10:05.960 If she's actually
00:10:06.900 If she loses 40 pounds
00:10:08.380 Guys, guys, guys
00:10:09.820 This isn't to argue over
00:10:11.560 All I want is hands
00:10:13.040 Yeah, that's right
00:10:13.820 Okay
00:10:14.060 This isn't
00:10:14.860 This isn't
00:10:15.540 What you like is what you like
00:10:17.100 So
00:10:17.580 All right
00:10:18.320 40 pounds
00:10:19.300 So another 20
00:10:20.400 That'll bring you down
00:10:22.380 So is
00:10:23.200 Does it bring you down
00:10:24.340 Do an F then
00:10:25.520 Can you show a 40 pound weight loss, King?
00:10:28.440 I know that's going to be a lot
00:10:29.840 I know that's going to be a lot
00:10:32.240 Wait, what?
00:10:33.660 40
00:10:33.940 But what if you
00:10:34.600 No, no, no
00:10:37.020 Ladies, ladies 0.99
00:10:38.080 This isn't for us to give our opinion
00:10:39.860 Oh, yeah
00:10:40.660 You see
00:10:41.060 Just ask the men 0.90
00:10:42.080 You see
00:10:42.400 Yeah, you see
00:10:43.740 That's
00:10:44.480 That's 40
00:10:45.440 That's 40 pounds
00:10:46.440 So imagine she goes from the right to the left
00:10:48.540 All right
00:10:51.540 So is she a D now
00:10:52.660 Or an F
00:10:53.360 Probably a D, man
00:10:54.520 A D
00:10:54.940 I would say a D
00:10:55.660 That definitely takes you down the grade
00:10:57.080 All right
00:10:57.740 I'd say C
00:11:00.360 Okay
00:11:01.640 Well, I think the majority
00:11:03.160 Right?
00:11:04.460 All right
00:11:04.820 Raise your hand
00:11:05.620 D
00:11:06.140 Raise your hand
00:11:08.380 D
00:11:08.540 Does anyone say F?
00:11:10.480 No
00:11:10.700 Okay
00:11:11.400 Does anyone say C?
00:11:13.360 Okay
00:11:13.580 It's by himself
00:11:14.600 Yeah
00:11:15.780 All right
00:11:17.100 Just be honest
00:11:17.520 We know
00:11:17.840 Okay
00:11:19.000 So next
00:11:20.180 So I'm just going to assume 60 is an F, right?
00:11:23.040 Yeah
00:11:23.260 That's a U
00:11:24.500 All right
00:11:25.580 All right