Based Man DEMOLISHES Body Positivity
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the importance of a father figure in a child s life and how important it is to have a strong male role model in their life. We also discuss the difference between a woman and a man with a single parent home and a two parent home.
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Will be brutal. Let me get it for anything else. We got out. What do we forget anything that we need to that?
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That we're like don't tell me where you would put it just if you think about career
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No, I don't care about that people what they do. No, they don't
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If she's involved in sex work. Yeah, depending on the career that will take you down
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She has social media. Yeah, that's that's a big thing for some
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We all say sex work is enough, right? Yeah, please. Thank you
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What did you someone else someone else said something? What about two-parent household? I mean, oh, yeah single mother home. Where does that?
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They grew up in a single home. I mean, don't don't don't don't tell me they may get educated
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A B or a C because then a mother will really teach you
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C or D because they would carry like trauma and issues
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I'm stuck between a C and a D I would only say see if they learn from the mistake if they haven't then it's a D
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Okay, I think this is fairly oh, and she's cheated before yeah, I'm also not loyal
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Yeah, okay, so if she's cheated before that's enough
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All right, so first let's talk about what is your a
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Give me like what is your a woman fit feminine friendly?
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I think it's on look at the list do what you think
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The thing is though most of the things on there is what we've said during the yeah
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Is there anything you disagree with on the a list?
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Were the women hot enough to be an a that we showed you guys?
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Yeah, of course. Yeah, I think bigger is respectful. That's huge
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Relationship with her father. Yeah, that is absolutely foundational
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Does she have to love her mom? I was gonna say that's right. Yeah
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The hold on the whole kind of relationship with parents thing, right? It's kind of like I think I don't think
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That's like just their background because this is because if she is still a a woman in herself regardless of her parents
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Then she's an a woman. I don't think that should bring
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But when it comes to parents when it comes to parents, it's about when it comes to parents
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It's about role models. Ideally, it's does she have a strong masculine father figure that she sees and understands from a young age?
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Are we talking about she has a strong male role model?
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I mean, yeah, we could we could say that more specifically, but in the vast majority of cases it would be a father
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Yeah, it's kind of like, you know, a guy with a criminal record, you know, could have overcome it
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Yeah, but he's he's a criminal because of the decisions he's made as opposed to like
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Masculinity like a guy with no dad in the home is probably gonna be kind of feminine. Yeah. Yeah
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Oh, and so he probably won't get an a in masculine. He could overcome it, right? That doesn't mean for sure
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I think that's one thing. I'm like, I'm on the fence. I think so
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Parents is important. Oh, it's absolutely when I say not important. What I mean is I don't think if if you just met a girl
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And you're like you found out she didn't have a good relationship with her dad, right?
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And you immediately mark her down just purely on that. I disagree with that
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But the thing is telltale signs will begin to show
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If they're not then I understand obviously there are exceptions, but by and large
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Because there are plenty of because we know that there are plenty of boys who come up in single parent households and they're very masculine
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But they don't control it because they don't control their emotions
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I know, but we would we would say that a man has to be a one to have mass
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Yeah, but part of masculinity is controlling your emotions. So if he is no no, I didn't say emotions
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But you said he he will end up doing criminal activity because he can't control his masculinity
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But that's really him not being able to control your emotions
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So would you say so would you say a lot of guys because we just say like a lot of drug dealers or people like the roadman life
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No, I know, but I'm asking you know, I'm not saying that I'm asking would you say that they're not masculine?
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They're masculine in the sense that they're capable of showing violence
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But they're not masculine in the sense that they're not capable of controlling their emotions and therefore actions
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I would even go as far as saying they are not masculine
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Because just because you you the fact that they can show violence has nothing to do with masculinity
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Sure, but I'm not I'm not the one I wasn't the one that hits that that sat here and said that because they show violence
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Yeah, I'm just saying but what I'm saying is I would say that a lot of roadmen are not as masculine as they claim to be
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What I'm trying to say is we would label masculinity as an a1 characteristic
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Right, and what i'm trying to say is how you use that we could talk about stosis and that's a different conversation
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But like a lot of quote-unquote road men, right?
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They are very masculine because they dominate the environment that they're in
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They're definitely more masculine than the private school kids I went to, right?
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Because I came from that kind of ilk, but it's how they use it, right?
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Yeah, they're using it in feminine ways, I guess
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I think what we're conflating the issue because what they are doing is they have the capacity for violence and that's what they used to dominate their environment
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Okay, but we could say by and large like general mom and dad a
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Anything else we should add to the a oh, give me a give me an example of a
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Can I have an example of a chick that you think of immediately when you hear an a?
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Yeah, I don't even know what she looks like as well
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You're losing a leg and an arm for 20 kilograms
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He's gonna show you guys a 20 pound weight loss
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It looks like she just lost a bit of her kind of belly
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I want all the guys in here to raise your hands
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I just don't think it's qualified for a change category
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Because the moment you let that 20 pounds slide