JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023


Based Man RUTHLESSLY SHUTSDOWN Female Delusion


Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

187.7

Word count

1,877

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

sentences flagged

Hate speech

16

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Summary

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When is the right age for a woman to take marriage off the table? Is there an expiration date for women? And is there ever an age where a woman should consider taking marriage off The Table? We discuss the age at which a woman is too old to get married.

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00:00:00.000 I mean we're talking about the dating market here so we're talking about the
00:00:04.260 general rule of course there are exceptions I mean someone like Rachel you 0.99
00:00:08.280 don't look 40 right truth is most 40 year olds don't look like you so if we're
00:00:12.240 talking the majority I would say 27 28 27 28 expired okay let's go to the men
00:00:23.160 when do women expire for you for a long-term prospects let me just loud and
00:00:28.480 clear women do expire you get to about 30 years old and there's no point in 1.00
00:00:35.080 getting married there's no point in having kids and stuff that oh imagine
00:00:37.900 having a kid at 40 years old and then being 50 with a 10 year old yeah that's
00:00:42.880 kind of crazy so for you over 30 you're kind of over 30 there's no hope in a
00:00:48.340 long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff I'll
00:00:52.420 say over 30 it's just so I have a question what if she's 30 but she looks 0.88
00:00:56.860 like JLo at 30 would you make an exception for me me personally yeah it's a
00:01:01.660 smashing grab of smashing dab you're still it doesn't matter what she looks 0.98
00:01:04.780 like 30 okay what about you I just think it's that the terminology
00:01:11.080 expiration for me is a bit harsh so I don't really want to talk on it on that
00:01:16.480 sense of using that terminology but what I will say is I don't think there's an
00:01:21.860 expiration date it is what it is so your own individuality but I'm asking for
00:01:26.300 you for regarding women yeah so when you you're dating I don't think that if I'm
00:01:30.860 dating somebody and their head screwed on and we're both getting it together then
00:01:35.060 I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration you do you want kids and
00:01:39.720 like a family oh I've got kids okay you've got kids I'm single but I've got
00:01:42.980 kids but I would love to I'm a family man okay and so I could I'm 36 I could see
00:01:47.840 someone that's 40 or so forth I'm not gonna say she's expired okay my mind so
00:01:52.040 40 but what about 50 I don't want to say the word expiration maybe maybe we've got
00:01:57.500 to a point of it's it's coming to your time okay in a respectful way but yeah
00:02:05.180 okay so roughly for you 50 what about 45 that's cool for me 45 and under yeah he
00:02:12.640 doesn't discriminate Sterling what about you so it's the same age that I think
00:02:18.340 women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves and put a lot 1.00
00:02:23.560 more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut her 1.00
00:02:28.140 off and that's 24 24 and what what's the difference like what makes you pick 24
00:02:36.360 typically less indoctrination like less feminism more feminine because they've 1.00
00:02:43.340 got less years in the workforce being in like their masculine energy kind of
00:02:48.280 having that drilled into them all the time yeah the primary reason is a lot more
00:02:53.000 runway for making a family like there's a lot more years on the clock I want a lot
00:02:57.540 of kids want a big family that you can really crank out like one a year she needs 0.99
00:03:01.120 some time off right maybe she's got twins in the family maybe twins run the family 1.00
00:03:05.860 cool we can crank out to everyone wants to buy one get one free if that that's
00:03:11.800 coming out if she's guaranteeing twins we can push that time frame up a little
00:03:14.980 bit the womb needs the rest yeah like you know I want a lot of kids so we're gonna 0.55
00:03:18.820 need some runway and like the younger a woman has kids the older she can actually 1.00
00:03:26.260 keep having kids until the danger becomes when a woman has a first kid in 1.00
00:03:31.360 like the later years of her life that's when you get things like geriatric 0.56
00:03:34.720 pregnancy you have to have c-sections otherwise there's serious dangers there 0.99
00:03:39.460 like my mother she had she had me she's the exception of the rule she had me at
00:03:43.040 like 37 she was worried I was gonna have down syndrome because that's one of the
00:03:47.500 complications of a generic geriatric pregnancy like it's more likely and
00:03:50.560 stuff like that so there's risk for them okay so I want to go through a woman's 1.00
00:03:55.300 life here so under 25 30 30 to 35 35 plus okay so I want to say is there ever an age
00:04:05.260 where a woman should consider you know like take marriage off the table like 1.00
00:04:11.300 marriages you know marriage is no longer for you I don't think the average age of
00:04:16.240 first marriage is 31 in the UK say so at what age would it be easier if a woman 0.99
00:04:23.080 took marriage off the table I don't think women should take marriage off the table 1.00
00:04:27.480 never never
00:04:28.480 I'm gonna I'm gonna want some hands here all right so if a woman is 50 should she 1.00
00:04:41.320 take marriage off the table raise your hand really 50 okay all right 35 should she take marriage off the 1.00
00:04:51.300 table 35 okay then all right so basically the women think marriage is on the table 1.00
00:04:58.140 forever yeah what why would a man marry a woman that's over the age of 35 for
00:05:03.840 what purpose because you've got an attorney
00:05:04.980 what value does a guy get from a woman over the age of 35 companionship if you 0.67
00:05:18.600 was with that individual for a substantial amount of time that's okay if you met
00:05:22.620 somebody randomly it's a bit iffy buddy no no she's you matter 35 plus that's well
00:05:29.100 35 there's no problem with that at all okay 50 odd do you know what for me yeah
00:05:35.400 this is a bit mad car if you meet someone that's 50 year and you like them and you
00:05:40.080 have a connection with them and companionship why would you not want to
00:05:44.460 well what's the purpose of marriage family kids disagree agree you're not gonna get none of that
00:05:51.060 and that's it but what if both partitions don't want that they don't want kids i would say what's
00:05:57.080 the point of marriage zero point i think marriage is different for 50 year olds than it would be for
00:06:01.780 30 year old yeah it's completely i think it's completely different that their mindset of marriage
00:06:06.020 is completely different yeah well i i would say that at that point you know just being a long-term
00:06:10.560 relationship what's the point of marriage that's why i say when does it go off the table because it
00:06:16.200 benefits the women and the women's gonna get something you say never you say never it's never 0.99
00:06:21.360 off the table you guys when did you when should sterling when do you think why i'm like under 25
00:06:27.020 to 30 under 25 is what is the kind of one i would ask to marry me okay above that again like like
00:06:32.300 like i said before i'm i don't see the runway there like the time there's not enough time so you
00:06:38.480 wouldn't marry anybody over 25 i'm gonna go with 25 as well i'd only go with 30 if i've been over
00:06:43.580 for a while but i just met her he's like let me bargain with it you get it okay so all the and
00:06:51.100 you say under 45 yeah 50 is pushing it but like around the 40 mark cool we're good all right so i'm
00:06:57.220 gonna wait i think you should be gone before i'm gone
00:07:00.560 who here thinks women should never take marriage off the table 0.68
00:07:08.260 wow we love selling dreams yeah let them be happy let them go get their little marriage day no you
00:07:17.380 know your chance if you after you're the age of 35 is of getting a ring ladies who wants to know 1.00
00:07:22.300 it's like five percent higher than that oh okay 15 over the age of 35 they get a ring
00:07:31.040 they get married and that's that's the previous generation so i would guess if you're not married
00:07:36.280 after 35 in this generation where marriage is less common it's probably gonna go down i'm gonna say
00:07:40.240 this generation probably never get married i think we're just setting ourselves up for failure at this
00:07:44.420 point at the end of the day if we say we're never taking marriage off the table you're ultimately
00:07:47.920 setting yourself up to fail because i think realistically if you're not actually you know
00:07:52.660 married or engaged by 25 chances are it's probably never gonna happen and if you tell yourself one day
00:07:57.500 it's gonna happen one day it's gonna happen you're constantly living in hope and expectation so then
00:08:02.120 when it doesn't happen and you're on your deathbed and you're not married you're gonna be thinking oh i've
00:08:05.680 not i've not found love but it's like if you put it out your mind if you just say like by the time i'm
00:08:12.080 25 if i'm not married i'm gonna put it out of my mind if it happens great but then if it
00:08:17.900 doesn't at least then you're not gonna be upset that you didn't get it well we've been sold we've
00:08:22.380 been sold a lie that women deserve a husband and that all women are gonna get them when the truth 0.99
00:08:27.260 of the matter is most women most women will not have a happy ending like most if you look at the 0.99
00:08:32.380 stats half of women aren't gonna have kids or a husband out of the half that do have kids um if 1.00
00:08:37.860 they get married so maybe um let's say the other half gets married half will fail so you have one in
00:08:43.580 four women that'll stay married if that and i'd argue it's even lower because you have to count 1.00
00:08:47.760 account for women that had kids and didn't get married there's a big thing here as well like 1.00
00:08:52.400 a big part of why i set that age range so low is because the higher up that ladder you go the more
00:09:00.240 entitlement women tend to have like if you look at that video we watched before there was at least one 1.00
00:09:06.160 of those women in that clip she was like why don't men open doors anymore that's just one little example 1.00
00:09:11.120 you'll see lots of clips like that on tiktok of women who are you know in their 30s not just in that clip
00:09:17.120 but there's this the level of entitlement seems to stack up the longer they have waited for someone
00:09:24.720 to pop the question you think men shouldn't open doors oh you think they absolutely should open 0.94
00:09:29.040 doors 100 no i was gonna say so you feel like women are feel more entitled after 25 yeah because
00:09:34.400 they haven't got what they were promised like like pearl just said there's this level of they've been
00:09:38.800 promised they've been sold this dream their whole life since they were a young girl like you're a
00:09:42.800 princess you're gonna find your prince charming this is gonna happen and it hasn't happened yet
00:09:46.800 hasn't happened yet hasn't happened yet that expectation is building up and up and up
00:09:50.000 and that builds that entitlement along with it