Based Man RUTHLESSLY SHUTSDOWN Female Delusion
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Summary
When is the right age for a woman to take marriage off the table? Is there an expiration date for women? And is there ever an age where a woman should consider taking marriage off The Table? We discuss the age at which a woman is too old to get married.
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I mean we're talking about the dating market here so we're talking about the
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general rule of course there are exceptions I mean someone like Rachel you
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don't look 40 right truth is most 40 year olds don't look like you so if we're
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talking the majority I would say 27 28 27 28 expired okay let's go to the men
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when do women expire for you for a long-term prospects let me just loud and
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clear women do expire you get to about 30 years old and there's no point in
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getting married there's no point in having kids and stuff that oh imagine
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having a kid at 40 years old and then being 50 with a 10 year old yeah that's
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kind of crazy so for you over 30 you're kind of over 30 there's no hope in a
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long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff I'll
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say over 30 it's just so I have a question what if she's 30 but she looks
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like JLo at 30 would you make an exception for me me personally yeah it's a
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smashing grab of smashing dab you're still it doesn't matter what she looks
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like 30 okay what about you I just think it's that the terminology
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expiration for me is a bit harsh so I don't really want to talk on it on that
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sense of using that terminology but what I will say is I don't think there's an
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expiration date it is what it is so your own individuality but I'm asking for
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you for regarding women yeah so when you you're dating I don't think that if I'm
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dating somebody and their head screwed on and we're both getting it together then
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I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration you do you want kids and
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like a family oh I've got kids okay you've got kids I'm single but I've got
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kids but I would love to I'm a family man okay and so I could I'm 36 I could see
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someone that's 40 or so forth I'm not gonna say she's expired okay my mind so
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40 but what about 50 I don't want to say the word expiration maybe maybe we've got
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to a point of it's it's coming to your time okay in a respectful way but yeah
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okay so roughly for you 50 what about 45 that's cool for me 45 and under yeah he
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doesn't discriminate Sterling what about you so it's the same age that I think
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women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves and put a lot
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more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut her
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off and that's 24 24 and what what's the difference like what makes you pick 24
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typically less indoctrination like less feminism more feminine because they've
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got less years in the workforce being in like their masculine energy kind of
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having that drilled into them all the time yeah the primary reason is a lot more
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runway for making a family like there's a lot more years on the clock I want a lot
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of kids want a big family that you can really crank out like one a year she needs
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some time off right maybe she's got twins in the family maybe twins run the family
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cool we can crank out to everyone wants to buy one get one free if that that's
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coming out if she's guaranteeing twins we can push that time frame up a little
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bit the womb needs the rest yeah like you know I want a lot of kids so we're gonna
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need some runway and like the younger a woman has kids the older she can actually
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keep having kids until the danger becomes when a woman has a first kid in
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like the later years of her life that's when you get things like geriatric
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pregnancy you have to have c-sections otherwise there's serious dangers there
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like my mother she had she had me she's the exception of the rule she had me at
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like 37 she was worried I was gonna have down syndrome because that's one of the
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complications of a generic geriatric pregnancy like it's more likely and
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stuff like that so there's risk for them okay so I want to go through a woman's
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life here so under 25 30 30 to 35 35 plus okay so I want to say is there ever an age
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where a woman should consider you know like take marriage off the table like
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marriages you know marriage is no longer for you I don't think the average age of
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first marriage is 31 in the UK say so at what age would it be easier if a woman
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took marriage off the table I don't think women should take marriage off the table
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I'm gonna I'm gonna want some hands here all right so if a woman is 50 should she
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take marriage off the table raise your hand really 50 okay all right 35 should she take marriage off the
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table 35 okay then all right so basically the women think marriage is on the table
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forever yeah what why would a man marry a woman that's over the age of 35 for
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what value does a guy get from a woman over the age of 35 companionship if you
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was with that individual for a substantial amount of time that's okay if you met
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somebody randomly it's a bit iffy buddy no no she's you matter 35 plus that's well
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35 there's no problem with that at all okay 50 odd do you know what for me yeah
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this is a bit mad car if you meet someone that's 50 year and you like them and you
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have a connection with them and companionship why would you not want to
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well what's the purpose of marriage family kids disagree agree you're not gonna get none of that
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and that's it but what if both partitions don't want that they don't want kids i would say what's
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the point of marriage zero point i think marriage is different for 50 year olds than it would be for
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30 year old yeah it's completely i think it's completely different that their mindset of marriage
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is completely different yeah well i i would say that at that point you know just being a long-term
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relationship what's the point of marriage that's why i say when does it go off the table because it
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benefits the women and the women's gonna get something you say never you say never it's never
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off the table you guys when did you when should sterling when do you think why i'm like under 25
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to 30 under 25 is what is the kind of one i would ask to marry me okay above that again like like
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like i said before i'm i don't see the runway there like the time there's not enough time so you
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wouldn't marry anybody over 25 i'm gonna go with 25 as well i'd only go with 30 if i've been over
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for a while but i just met her he's like let me bargain with it you get it okay so all the and
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you say under 45 yeah 50 is pushing it but like around the 40 mark cool we're good all right so i'm
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gonna wait i think you should be gone before i'm gone
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who here thinks women should never take marriage off the table
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wow we love selling dreams yeah let them be happy let them go get their little marriage day no you
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know your chance if you after you're the age of 35 is of getting a ring ladies who wants to know
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it's like five percent higher than that oh okay 15 over the age of 35 they get a ring
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they get married and that's that's the previous generation so i would guess if you're not married
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after 35 in this generation where marriage is less common it's probably gonna go down i'm gonna say
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this generation probably never get married i think we're just setting ourselves up for failure at this
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point at the end of the day if we say we're never taking marriage off the table you're ultimately
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setting yourself up to fail because i think realistically if you're not actually you know
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married or engaged by 25 chances are it's probably never gonna happen and if you tell yourself one day
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it's gonna happen one day it's gonna happen you're constantly living in hope and expectation so then
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when it doesn't happen and you're on your deathbed and you're not married you're gonna be thinking oh i've
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not i've not found love but it's like if you put it out your mind if you just say like by the time i'm
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25 if i'm not married i'm gonna put it out of my mind if it happens great but then if it
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doesn't at least then you're not gonna be upset that you didn't get it well we've been sold we've
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been sold a lie that women deserve a husband and that all women are gonna get them when the truth
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of the matter is most women most women will not have a happy ending like most if you look at the
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stats half of women aren't gonna have kids or a husband out of the half that do have kids um if
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they get married so maybe um let's say the other half gets married half will fail so you have one in
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four women that'll stay married if that and i'd argue it's even lower because you have to count
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account for women that had kids and didn't get married there's a big thing here as well like
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a big part of why i set that age range so low is because the higher up that ladder you go the more
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entitlement women tend to have like if you look at that video we watched before there was at least one
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of those women in that clip she was like why don't men open doors anymore that's just one little example
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you'll see lots of clips like that on tiktok of women who are you know in their 30s not just in that clip
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but there's this the level of entitlement seems to stack up the longer they have waited for someone
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to pop the question you think men shouldn't open doors oh you think they absolutely should open
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doors 100 no i was gonna say so you feel like women are feel more entitled after 25 yeah because
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they haven't got what they were promised like like pearl just said there's this level of they've been
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promised they've been sold this dream their whole life since they were a young girl like you're a
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princess you're gonna find your prince charming this is gonna happen and it hasn't happened yet
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hasn't happened yet hasn't happened yet that expectation is building up and up and up