JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023


Based Woman DESTROYS The Wage Gap


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10 minutes

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2,056

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14

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In this episode, we talk about feminism, cheating, men cheating and sex education. We are joined by a special guest, my brother, who shares his story of cheating on his younger sister and how he dealt with it.

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00:00:00.000 also men they take more risky jobs and they have more strength and things like this so
00:00:04.400 they their jobs that they operate every day they suffer like more risk than women if you take a 0.99
00:00:10.320 look at the drivers and things like this and like i think we need to find like the balance and many
00:00:16.080 things i think there is a feminism that it gives a lot of advantages to women so in the beginning 1.00
00:00:20.960 they came with this propaganda but now it's becoming like way too far i take a lot of actions
00:00:26.560 and i say a lot of things to protect my brothers and i have my brother and i have a lot of male
00:00:30.560 friends and many things there is like a feminism that they open their mouth they do something 1.00
00:00:36.400 you know but it's very much for example i've been to places where women were really looking for needs
00:00:41.120 and things like this i didn't see any feminists there holding their babies or listen to them 1.00
00:00:46.400 when they are being raped or things like this so it's easy to say oh i'm a feminist and you know
00:00:51.040 talking about rights when you're like in a very privileged area but i haven't seen them really
00:00:56.000 going to do that dirty job because i've been there and they were not there so it's a lot very
00:01:01.920 hypocritical like what's going on and they don't come to the wnba games too they want the equal pay
00:01:08.080 in sports and i've been waiting for them in the stands i've been playing for 16 years they never come
00:01:14.320 i've been waiting i think and also it's about profit when it comes like to sports and things
00:01:18.800 like this if you see like a football most men watching so they're gonna give more money right
00:01:24.480 and i'm a mother as well like we get paid much more than the guys
00:01:31.040 it happens
00:01:34.640 i've been 15 years getting paid like girls get paid well more than us
00:01:39.120 why aren't you marching the streets go march where are the
00:01:41.680 feminists i was by myself i was marching by myself
00:01:46.400 wine it's just whining about the pay when we have a lot of privilege in society 0.99
00:01:50.480 you know who earns the most most out of all the like different groups apparently it's married men 0.97
00:01:57.040 that out and single men single women and married men you know women love rich men
00:02:03.600 but what's that to do with the quote that i've just made you know what do you know there was a
00:02:08.400 stat the other day on tinder so tinder released some stats again right it's 66 percent of people that
00:02:13.760 are on tinder are in a relationship wow how did they find that out oh they got their way
00:02:19.600 so all right back to cheating if you ever cheated this model i i haven't cheated but i've been cheated
00:02:29.840 you've been cheating a lot huh you've been cheated yeah and my brother knew and the girl has the same
00:02:35.040 as name as me so she was called barbara and my brother knew he was there and he didn't tell me
00:02:40.480 and there's what yeah that's one different no i think he paid your brother yeah he's a good guy
00:02:47.600 it's all right but also like i think guys have more like this brotherhood no no no it's just brother
00:02:55.360 he should have told tell me yes if someone was cheating on my sister i'll go mental but men 0.99
00:03:01.760 i think they watch more their backs on each other i just need to reiterate the rules i know we get
00:03:06.400 carried away in conversation but please if someone is speaking can we all just let them speak
00:03:10.480 thank you yeah so i think men has more like this brotherhood and it just not reflect just on this
00:03:16.160 but i think like girls should watch more their back on each other and then girls they compete a 1.00
00:03:21.120 lot and things like this and i see men like having like a true brotherhood you know so i think that's
00:03:27.840 also part of like feminism i'm a model i get criticized by other girls because i wear makeup because 1.00
00:03:33.600 this because that you know and first of all feminism is about like giving freedom if the girl wants to do 1.00
00:03:38.880 okay you know so i think nowadays it uh they are fighting against oppression and they were oppressing
00:03:44.720 yeah i do agree with you know it happens a lot yeah so also we as women has to stand up and you know 0.86
00:03:50.720 many feminists like if they go to a lot of extremes they're just being puppet of a system who is profiting 1.00
00:03:57.120 behind of that who is leading that who is feeding that who started this you know so i i i think this is
00:04:05.440 going like way too far so anyways so i i haven't cheated but one thing is that when i felt attracted
00:04:18.320 by someone else i realized that there was something wrong with my relationship and and then i took as an
00:04:24.080 alert and then i how did you catch him cheating uh first like people talk it was a small small town
00:04:31.440 yeah it was what they said what they say to you um first people in the party they saw it and they
00:04:39.360 just said like okay he kissed this girl where was you oh sorry to interrupt but if you saw if someone
00:04:45.920 saw it in a party and you were it was like a prom in brazil so they were invited like for another
00:04:50.640 male friends of them because my brother was all in the same group and i wasn't invited yeah oh he didn't
00:04:56.000 invite you no because actually it's selected so you can't bring like a plus one or something like
00:05:01.440 this i'll kick off okay so so you found they told you and then you confronted him did did you stay
00:05:08.560 after uh no no he started to say like no that's not true and i was like and i'm very realistic if
00:05:14.400 someone cheated on me i don't even feel angry or anything because it reflects why you're gonna suffer
00:05:19.440 or go crazy or try revenge for someone who doesn't want you that's very you know what so i don't even
00:05:24.960 waste my energy you know i'll be if someone cheated on me and i find out of course you're gonna be
00:05:29.920 sad but i'm gonna be the first one to say like you never never slept with him again after that with
00:05:34.640 who the the boyfriend ah this one yeah no no no and i was very young at the time did you ever speak to him
00:05:41.120 again yeah yeah okay still friends not friends but we are from a small town we have friends in common
00:05:47.840 you know just be okay and you've never cheated no no i'm you're you said you're a model right yeah is
00:05:54.240 is cheating common um amongst models because i'd imagine you're among probably like the most
00:05:59.440 beautiful women like top 10 20 of beauty right like right right i'm just curious how common is it
00:06:07.520 for models to cheat i think people in the industry and media in general no just models
00:06:14.880 what's the reputation of models i'm just curious yeah it can be it can be bad and also like if you see
00:06:21.680 on the media if you see any girl scored or something but they won't say like she's a
00:06:26.560 scored or something else they say they say image no they say a model no they say anyone like this
00:06:33.120 this case like with neymar now with the football it was a model is it is it is it common for for um
00:06:42.720 models to get like offered money for sex is that common i think yeah it happens it happens yeah it 0.99
00:06:49.760 does happen so it does happen my i i do modeling as well i and as well as other things um a lot of
00:06:56.960 models get invited on like image trips image trips and like vacations and stuff like that and um from
00:07:04.160 first-hand experience um you go and you you do some work out there but also there are people that are
00:07:10.960 probably sort of wealthy people i don't know why they're there because they're not part of the
00:07:15.600 modeling thing or maybe they are behind the scenes and there's the the not the worst but the weirdest
00:07:22.000 experience i ever had was um we had about five models five escorts and and then five like actual i
00:07:29.120 don't know what they were but they were definitely down for whatever and then and so what would happen
00:07:34.480 is throughout the trip um you would do the the shoots in the day or whatever and then in the evening
00:07:39.680 you'd go for dinner you'd hang out whatever and the the guys on their trip would try with the models
00:07:44.400 first if it didn't work they'd go to the next if it didn't work it's like it's a great normal tactic
00:07:50.320 but that's but that's and these trips were specifically like formulated like that it's
00:07:54.320 very were the guys were they married or no um i think a couple of them were and and some of them not
00:07:59.520 but where are their wives not on the trip because it's a work trip right that's it's like yeah yeah 1.00
00:08:06.080 so so that's yeah that's that's and and in your experience um are the men that proposition the
00:08:13.360 escorts models whatever they typically married or are they typically single i think mostly single
00:08:21.040 i think single because they go more out like in this social things and also it happens here a lot
00:08:26.480 in london so i just imagine if i was a rich guy and i wanted to cheat i feel like an escort would be
00:08:30.800 because they gotta sign them you don't you don't have you don't have any like yeah it's a business
00:08:34.400 transaction rather than you don't get no girls on instagram you're like oh my god and you know what
00:08:39.040 i saw one guy saying that sometimes it's cheaper to pay for uh scored girl and it's guaranteed that 0.97
00:08:44.880 you're gonna have that in the of the night yeah sometimes taking a girl and having to invest in
00:08:49.360 these these and that so they just go straight away you know what type of women have offered to pay you 1.00
00:08:53.680 for sex oh me older ones older yeah like how old typically like when i was like i was on a family
00:08:59.600 trip i think yeah yeah yeah back in the day back in the day i was like 16 probably um yeah so that's
00:09:08.400 when it started happening like there's this woman she's with her family and she started like messaging
00:09:13.840 my we're not messing ringing the hotel phone line when my family were out and she had family and stuff
00:09:19.840 and it happened i didn't realize what was happening and after it was about maybe four or five years
00:09:25.200 after that i kept in contact with her like she kept calling and texting and stuff so it's always old
00:09:30.320 no i didn't do it i never did i just i like the kick from it though i've got a kick from it
00:09:34.160 do you know what i mean and as i got older 18 19 i i i don't know i've done some some funny stuff
00:09:40.560 you know i've done some funny stuff yeah and i'm proud to talk about it because like there's always it
00:09:46.960 was like unsociable women that wanted a bit of companionship and i i was like i consider myself
00:09:52.720 a bit intelligent do you know what i mean so like just being able to speak to someone that was older
00:09:56.720 than me for a bit of companionship and yeah it was always older women were they were they typically 1.00
00:10:02.160 married or single they were single they just worked hard they just didn't know how to socialize
00:10:06.320 oh so they were like rich rich single women rich single women right and did you ever i was modeling
00:10:12.160 doing all the big campaigns i'll go to the novikovs and the yeah did you ever did you ever do it maybe