JustPearlyThings - Based Woman UNLEASHES This Fact On Pearl's Show

00:00:00.000 so what do you think do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife i'm going to be 1.00

00:00:04.040 controversial and saying not really don't want to be a wife no i only want i would only get married

00:00:10.580 if it was something that the other person felt really strongly about but to me if you're in a

00:00:17.040 relationship and you're that committed to that person what what is a marriage going to do like

00:00:21.900 what is that commitment saying to other people exactly and if i'm not committed to someone that

00:00:28.780 i feel like i should be married to them unless i believe in the religious beliefs behind it

00:00:34.100 i just don't see it as being a bigger progression in the commitment i should be committed regardless

00:00:40.440 okay and there shouldn't be something on paper to state that i have to be that way

00:00:44.000 it should just be a mutual agreement that you're both just a few and committed and committed and

00:00:49.880 nothing's going to change about that so personally it's not something that i like

00:00:54.720 will ever try to force down someone or something that i really want but if they feel very passionately

00:00:59.860 about it and i feel like it's the right time i'm okay with that okay it's just something i don't

00:01:06.120 feel like what do you what do you think makes a good wife 1.00

00:01:08.720 so in all honesty i think just being there as the other half like i know you discussed about it

00:01:22.620 just complete them basically yeah i know you discussed it as being like you know a woman has

00:01:27.580 a role in a relationship but i'm actually bisexual so to me it could work either way okay and to me i

00:01:33.480 feel like 50 50 is where that kind of stuff needs to fall into place 50 50 on everything because not

00:01:39.920 necessarily it give and take okay so if you have to look at the person's attributes what they give to

00:01:46.580 a relationship and break it down that way i don't think it's a one size fits all i don't think

00:01:51.420 everyone can say right you're gonna do this you're gonna do that because you're the man 0.97

00:01:56.460 that man could be shit he could be really bad at it he could be he could be amazing at it yeah perfect 0.98

00:02:02.620 let them work to their strengths i think that's what works in a relationship when you let the other 1.00

00:02:06.540 person work to their strengths working together yeah sure but i think there are some things that

00:02:11.420 regardless whether you're traditional or not there are some things that naturally a man might be better 1.00

00:02:17.020 at a woman might be better at we're very different biologically so there's always going to be things

00:02:21.260 that a man's going to be slightly better at than a woman unless they're you're an anomaly and you're 0.99

00:02:26.140 going to be 10 times stronger than a man that's unlikely so i i think yeah give or take i think

00:02:32.140 everything has to be looked at retrospectively and it has to be broken down about each person's

00:02:36.700 attributes and what they can give to the situation so what do you think makes a woman a good way 0.99

00:02:41.580 like what's just specific because this is just a bit broad so i'm just trying to yeah yeah kind of

00:02:46.540 reign it in no fair enough um so being able to provide in a sense that you can provide emotionally

00:02:55.420 whether you can provide financially is irrelevant if the other person can provide financially

00:02:59.420 perfect you then need to make up for the other gaps so as a wife you might need to be able to kick 1.00

00:03:05.580 be able to look after children or be able to look after the man or the man be able to look after you

00:03:10.540 and you be receiving to that because i think a lot of women nowadays look at a relationship and think

00:03:17.260 the man should have to do everything but that makes a lot of men very not a lot of men but 0.72

00:03:25.420 nowadays it makes them quite intimidated and then they get nervous and then they think oh what if i

00:03:30.780 can't do that you have to be receptive to what they want to do if they want to buy food for you let

00:03:35.260 them if they want to take you out on a date and they want to pay for everything okay but i'm asking what

00:03:39.340 does she have to do she she has to be receptive to it receive what else does she have to do um

00:03:47.100 again see because it's something that i personally you don't don't yeah it's something that i wouldn't

00:03:52.780 really have values on so i don't really think what i'm going to say is going to give you much

00:03:58.060 much information to be honest okay no worries all right so question do you want to be a husband

00:04:02.700 do i want to be a husband um i am not enthusiastic about it with the way that marriage is with with

00:04:10.780 laws and just with the way the culture is in general um and i've been that way for a long time

00:04:16.700 i mean like as it was my parents divorced when i was a kid so i never really had a great argument uh you

00:04:22.380 know great example for sort of marriage and and that kind of thing anyway and obviously as time's gone

00:04:28.300 on you know we've seen what's happened in terms of the way that society is here in the usa and canada

00:04:33.180 and australia you know those western countries it's it's it's not a good deal to be honest it's

00:04:38.620 never been something that i've been particularly keen on i've become less keen on the idea as i've

00:04:42.700 gone on really now in a sense i agree with what you said because i think long-term relationship fine

00:04:48.540 commitment fine do you want to put a ring on it probably not you know there'd have to be a very good

00:04:53.580 reason for doing it or do it somewhere else like do it over in um maybe one of the latin you know

00:04:59.260 latin american countries or something like that okay and um out of what did you hear who would i

00:05:04.860 marry out of them no no i was gonna say what what did you hear today was there anything you heard

00:05:12.380 that you thought yes that would make a good way i think a lot of the women were a bit light on 0.98

00:05:19.100 specifics to to be honest you know there's a lot of stuff yeah support and blah blah blah but there's

00:05:23.260 there's there's a lot there wasn't much specifics in terms of what what is the woman actually going 1.00

00:05:27.420 to bring to the table so um i would say that but i mean i i think really you want somebody who is

00:05:37.660 going to support you who's going to be easy to be around you know um and i think marriage worked

00:05:44.620 pretty well back in the day when things were more traditional to be honest and i think now we've come

00:05:49.980 away from that it just doesn't work as well you know and um we're seeing that and you know as we

00:05:55.580 know the majority of divorces are caused by women you know 70 of divorces are initiated by women so 0.96

00:06:01.340 it's women who are which is why modern women are shitty wives thank you exactly exactly but that's 1.00

00:06:06.700 but that's another reason another reason i'm not keen to go into it because for guys it's a bit of a 0.98

00:06:10.860 bad deal because you know the women are very keen to get married you know women will try to push the 1.00

00:06:17.260 agenda of like oh you know where are we are we going to get engaged are we moving in together

00:06:20.540 we're going to get married but then they get fed up you know 10 10 15 years like down the line

00:06:25.420 and they initiate divorce and then the guy's screwed so but why is she fed up why is she fed up 1.00

00:06:31.580 all right well i think i mean there's going to be many different reasons for that and we could go

00:06:35.980 into lots of different examples but i think a lot of it is that they lose the this you know the

00:06:40.540 butterflies go and it's inevitably going to go over a longer period of time because we all know you have

00:06:45.580 that honeymoon period and then you know it gets yeah then it gets it gets a bit boring and the

00:06:50.300 problem with that is that if you're then putting that into a legal contract where one of the parties

00:06:54.220 can just say i'll sod that and walk out that's a dangerous ground i think no like i've got i don't

00:06:59.900 know like i've just got a thought like obviously you said women leave in a marriage of course which i

00:07:08.460 understand but i'm 21 like i know i'm still young but i feel like there's a specific time period to

00:07:16.060 have kids and to marry and settle down and i feel like i don't know like this little pressure because

00:07:24.700 if i put myself in a guy's perspective or shoes like i'm not bearing a child and that changes your

00:07:33.100 body it does yeah it changes yeah we are of course we have the biological clock yeah we're all aware

00:07:38.060 of it as women so yeah it's harder for us i think that's why probably why we want to lock it down so

00:07:43.500 oh yeah yeah sure sure yeah yeah and like with women leaving again this is such a broad subject so

00:07:50.300 i'm not i'm not on about just cheating by the way yeah um but yeah one-off it's like i get and understand

00:07:57.580 why men do like cheat yeah and leave and go for younger women well one out of it it's actually not

00:08:05.020 such a broad thing though well men don't typically leave for younger women they don't even leave no

00:08:09.740 they're just gonna cheat and stay they want to cheat but women cheat in their own way i mean i think 1.00

00:08:15.020 personally i think that sex is to to men as attention is to women so i think women need attention 0.98

00:08:22.220 like like men need sex but women are never expected to close off their social media yeah yeah but men 1.00

00:08:28.700 are expected to stop having sex with other girls how is that fair but women can post ass pics on their 1.00

00:08:33.500 instagram nobody can touch it nobody can touch it yeah but it's like advertising i mean i was even 0.99

00:08:42.940 looking at okay okay i don't know about the selena hayley whatever i don't i don't care what i was

00:08:58.220 looking at was her instagram i was like she's married to a world famous pop star yeah and i know

00:09:03.340 she's a model right but he's a world fair point but he's he's got groupies yeah and he's also very

00:09:09.100 religious apparently so i don't know what's going on so it's like you're married to a world famous pop

00:09:15.340 star and you still got look at look at the booty one look at it yeah look at that yeah okay and the

00:09:23.580 funny thing is he comments on it as well so it's bizarre as long as he's okay with it he's like oh my

00:09:29.100 god yeah but would she be okay with it if he was to be commenting under somebody else's post no would she

00:09:35.420 be okay with it but i think it works one of two ways like you can't you can't take one side just

00:09:40.940 because one's a female and then yeah back the other side like true pick your own battles all all the 0.93

00:09:47.180 same but don't don't come at the man for cheating if she's gonna put it out there as if she's gonna cheat 0.66

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JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023

Based Woman UNLEASHES This Fact On Pearl's Show

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