Being FAT will kill you
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the dangers of sugar and how it can be passed down to our kids. We also talk about why fat women are more likely to die at a younger age and why fat people are more prone to obesity.
Transcript
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But also, I think the reason that a lot of women are slimmer and why do you think more successful men want women who are slimmer is because it's healthier for them.
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Like their risk for getting, you know, diseases at an older age, their risk for having pregnancy risks are much lower if they're not overweight.
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So why would a man choose a woman if he wants to marry them if they're going to die at 50, if they're going to die at 70, if they're going to have their children's going to have be at risk for birth risk?
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Like when men are looking for wives, they're not looking for women who are going to have risks.
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And we even saw for you how your bad habit passed on to her.
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And that's like if you have a bad habit yourself, you will pass it on to your kids.
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And then it's another problem that your kid, like because I had the same.
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My mom used to feed me like Pop-Tarts and stuff when I was a kid.
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And then she ended up like losing all the weight.
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And she told me like she literally did it for my dad.
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And yeah, I have a sugar addiction to this day.
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So it's like bad habits pass from like the parents to the kids.
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They make healthy Pop-Tarts, but they're really not healthy.
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I went in the complete opposite direction, like total neurosis.
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I got my bachelor's and master's degree in nutrition.
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I helped thousands of people lose weight, regain their health.
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So her choice to gain autonomy through overeating and ill health was almost, you know, well, it was just so, so crazy for me because I was so healthy.
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My whole life until I was like 15, I was like rebelling against her.
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I was like, I'm going to eat all the junk food.
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So I'd go to my friend's house and I'd stuff my face with pizza and then their moms would call her and be like, oh my gosh, is your daughter okay?
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She's eaten like a box of pizza and like my whole box of goldfish.
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And then I'd come home and I would never like her cooking, even though she's the best cook I know.
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But like I wouldn't, I just rebelled my whole life.
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James says there's a difference between fit and thick.
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Puffy, I'm in Las Vegas and I see plenty of women from Africa.
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These plus size influencers are lying to people.
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But basically Lizzo is portraying something that is terrible for young women.
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And then you have thousands of young women saying, oh my gosh, Lizzo is so beautiful.
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And then you have all the fat people looking at Lizzo feeding off of her positivity, her body positivity.
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Nobody really spoke about her weight because she didn't lead with it.
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You know, they did speak about it when she lost the weight.
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They were like, oh, we can't believe you lost the weight.
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Like, you did this for social media and it's like, what?
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Why aren't more people supporting women losing weight?
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It benefits the food industry and the medical industry to have more overweight people.
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Then you have more medications being handed out.
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Then you have more depression, anxiety, suicide.
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No, I mean, honestly, like, one time I was at work and these guys were, like, clowning on women over 200 pounds.
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But they didn't know I was because, like, I don't look.
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And literally, I ended up, like, losing a bunch of weight because I was so embarrassed.
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And it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
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It's, like, the quickest way to lose weight, run a marathon.
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Your risk, like, heart disease, type 2 diabetes.
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And, you know, if you don't start now, you are going to die very, like, slowly but soon.
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No, they weren't like, you're going to die tomorrow.
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But they definitely have a higher risk of cardiovascular disease, which is a number one killer.
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They definitely will develop diabetes type 2 and other diseases that are 100% preventable.
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There was that influencer that just, like, dropped dead the other day because she was obese.
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And, like, she would literally always be eating and doing mukbangs.
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And then they say, like, when obese people go to the doctor and they say to lose weight,
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But I'm like, well, I mean, I'm not a doctor, but you might want to, like, watch for you.
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But even doctors are lying to people now saying, oh, it's okay to eat, like, cheeseburger.
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And it's like, you guys, why are you lying to these people who actually, some people who
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Doctors aren't really even trained in nutrition.
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And the business model isn't set up for them to support their patients.
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And we really need to get smart and get responsible and be clear about what we're putting in our thoughts,
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They said, as an African woman, Zimbabwean, we are curvy.
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There's a big difference between being curvy and overweight.
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And then there's another one that was from interracial marriages or relationships.
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For a black men community, we value bigger women because they make for better sex partners.
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My thin woman felt like she was too pretty to fulfill my sexual requirements.
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So how, did you say, how does a man identify a good woman?
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I would say that a man identifies a good woman if she's, one, healthy and fit.
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And I'd say number two, if she has traditional values, if she believes in being submissive, if she believes in being feminine, she loves.
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And then I think if she wants to cook, if she's okay cleaning, she wants, she's a homemaker.
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She would love to, you know, have children and take care of them and be a housewife.
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And so that's what I think identifies a good woman.
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Well, identifying as a good woman nowadays is a bit difficult.
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However, I would emphasize on the values and the morals of the woman.
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Primarily, her ability to be a good wife, her ability to raise good children, and even her thoughts and the things she has in mind, because she's going to be molding the next generation.
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But, you know, if you have a deep conversation with a person...
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But believe me, throughout time, you can identify.
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If it's, I would say, I would give it like three months, but it can...
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So you think in three months, he can see if she has traditional values?
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So healthy, so he can look, she healthy and fit, cool.
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So ask her to do something and see what she does.
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I mean, if a man tells to a woman, can you please make me a coffee or a meal?
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And she'd say, hell no, I'm not doing this to you.
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Yeah, it's his ability to identify what he values in a woman.
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I mean, that's going to be subjective to an extent.
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So I'm asking, like, what makes someone a good woman and how does he identify that?
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I think what you were saying as well, men do test women.
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I've been tested by men, like, with certain things.
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And then he will know, do you know how to cook?
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I'm just curious how it's going to align with what you guys say from the women and the men.
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Okay, so first he's got to see her for three months.